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CORRESPONDENT CHILD BRIDES AT RISK
UGANDA FILLING THE
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BEAUTY FOR ASHES PAGE 12
Saving Baby Girls SAVED: Mothers like Pandeswari, seen here with her daughter, has defied cultural traditions which don’t value girls.
TEAR Fund’s programmes are fighting for the lives of girls who are being killed because they are seen as an economic burden. Story and photos by Jayaseelan Enos
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he 21st century has witnessed a great rise in development around the world. Communications and scientific research are developing at a rapid pace. Gender equality is becoming common in many places, and girls are achieving heights once thought impossible. However, even as the world is moving toward progress, the ageold social evil of female infanticide still shows its ugly face in developing
instrument of God to reduce the prevalence of female infanticide and foeticide through adequate postnatal care and effective child development, say staff. Female infanticide is the intentional killing of girl babies. Even in modern India, parents long for boys rather than girls. As a result, they adopt different methods to get rid of baby girls soon after they are born. The dowry system is behind the deaths. The bride’s family pay a huge sum of money or property when a female
We can’t take care of these two children. If you want to save the children, please help us; otherwise we don’t mind killing them. countries such as India. In Chellampatty, Madurai, TEAR Fund’s Compassion Child Survival Programme is addressing this issue. The prevalence of female infanticide there is heartbreaking. No efforts to curb this social evil had succeeded until the project began to tackle the issue. The intervention of TEAR Fund’s Compassion’s Child Survival Programmes is becoming a powerful
child is married. For poor families, the birth of a girl is seen as the beginning of financial downfall and extreme poverty. As soon as a girl is born, the parents start saving the large sum required to be spent on her as she grows up. During puberty, a great feast is traditionally held at huge cost. The event is to declare that the girl is ready for marriage. When giving her in marriage, a large sum is given as a dowry. The dowry is often
beyond what the family can afford. In order to get their daughter married, parents are often forced to borrow the amount demanded, and they can spend the rest of their lives repaying the loan. The cost of a daughter isn’t over with marriage. During the eighth month of their daughter’s pregnancy, they hold a grand event. The first delivery expenses are paid by them. They buy gold ornaments to put on their new grandchild. They pay for an ear-piercing ceremony, to which all friends and relatives are invited. Nearly 50,000 ($NZ 1,285) to 100,000 INR ($NZ 2,568) would be spent on average. The girl’s family also pay the funeral expenses for deaths in her husband’s family. Through the programme, several steps were taken to address the issue which resulted in the rate of female infanticide coming down. Staff identified pregnant mothers and began counselling them. They were encouraged to accept the birth of a girl. Awareness classes also address issues such as family planning, child birth, abortion and child marriage. Beyond advocacy for the babies, there are numerous occasions where staff have intervened and saved the life of a girl. A woman named Pandeswari gave birth to twin girls, Ramaye and Lakshmi. Pandeswari had a daughter already,
so the birth of twin girls disappointed them. Although determining a baby’s gender before birth is illegal in India, it is still secretly done. The moment parents find out they are having a girl, the child is often aborted. In this case, the family members wanted to abort the girl twins. Staff urged the parents to reconsider and the girls were born safely. One day, Pandeswari’s mother-in-law came to a meeting at the project with her newborn granddaughters, and she laid them on the floor. One baby weighed 750gms and other weighed 1kg. She said, “We can’t take care of these two children. If you want to save the children, please help us; otherwise we don’t mind killing them.” The Child Survival Programme intervened and both girls were enrolled in the programme. Had it not been for TEAR Fund’s Compassion Child Survival Programme, girls like Ramaye and Lakshmi would not be alive today. Through the generosity of supporters, the Compassion Child Survival Programmes are helping to stamp out this social evil.
You can help save young lives like those of Ramaye and Lakshmi by supporting A TEAR Fund Compassion Child Survival Programme.
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