Ask a Sex Therapist: What Exactly Happens During Sex Therapy

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Ask a Sex Therapist: What Exactly Happens During Sex Therapy Are you wondering what a sex therapist does? What happens in sex therapy? Is sex therapy an embarrassing thing to do, or is it something to be proud of? The idea of going for sex therapy may leave you cringeing. It conjures images of stiff old ladies in white coats. Even perhaps worse, clinical sexual services. It can feel like an embarrassing admission of total inadequacy. However, in reality this can’t be further from the truth. I am a sex therapist and I can tell you most of my clients are cool. People that, if you met, you would think, wow, this guy is awesome. They are people who are looking deeply into themselves. Indeed, they want to learn to understand how they work. They want to improve themselves. To be the best version of themselves possible. Looking at your sexuality is the toughest thing to address. The most difficult place to look at, but also the most rewarding. By addressing your sexuality you find a good relationship with it. Through this you develop a good relationship with yourself. Then you are able to improve yourself in the deepest way.


Who Can Benefit From A Sex Therapist? Sex is probably about as deep as we get within ourselves. Yet our society is characterised by a lack of healthy conversation about sex. Most sexual conversation is awkward. Discussion about techniques is limited. Our collective attitude to sex is harmful. By refusing to talk about it, we create an arena where misinformation flourishes. In this environment, sexual confusion and problems are inevitable. After all, anything we want to be good at, we need to talk about. Imagine if you decided to go surfing. Forget the teacher, you say. I am not going to watch any YouTube videos either. Neither will I ask any advice of locals. So you grab the board and run into the ocean… Well, I think you can see where I am going. People would say you were completely irresponsible. Yet this is exactly how we approach sex. Then we wonder in amazement when things go wrong. Sure, sex is the most natural thing. Yet still, it’s important to talk about. Not just avoidantly or crudely, but really to get into the details of it. This is especially the case given that the main sources of information are completely misleading.


What Exactly Is Sex Therapy There are actually many types of sex therapists. Some are of course based around modern western psychology. They will look at psychological factors that are affecting sexuality. These includie upbringing and past sexual experiences. Other sex therapists will use different models to understand human sexuality. Some of the most popular include Tantra and Taoist sexology. These are oriental traditions that include a detailed understanding of human sexuality. It is easy to see why they are so popular. They are models that look at human sexuality logically. By this I mean, they are devoid of the guilt and shame that western sexology is steeped with. Sex is not seen as a necessary evil or pleasure as something to limit. They embrace it as a life giving force of health even spirituality.


Taoist And Tantric Sex Therapy Tantra came to the West originally when the British colonised India. It later became popular by gurus such as Osho who made millions teaching Westerners about Tantric Sex. Taoist sexology has been made famous through the Taoist Grandmaster Mantak Chia. He teaches the ancient and intricate Taoist practices of sexual transmutation. He taught the most intricate philosophy of orgasms imaginable. Also, he popularised the much misunderstood concept that men should not ejaculate. Another increasingly poular form of sex therapy involves bodywork. This includes sexological bodywork and tantric massage or tantric therapy, as well as Taoist Massage like Karsai Nei Tsang. This is not to be confused with “tantric massage” which is a popular sexual service but not therapeutic. Online sex therapy is also of course a possibility. It has inevitably become popular during lockdown. It gives you a chance to speak about your most intimate exeperiences in the comfort of your own home.


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