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Why Men Need Receive Foreplay and How to Do It
Foreplay is essential. The focus is often on the need to arouse the woman, and indeed this is essential. However, the need of men to experience foreplay. In particular, they need to receive sensual touch, is often overlooked. Men need gentle and erotic touch. Indeed, we lack a culture of giving foreplay to men. This has left them tense, emotionally volatile and riddled with sexual problems. It is well known that men enter sex with much more powerful energy than women. This is mistakenly thought to mean that men are ready for sex straight away. Insufficient foreplay for men has the obvious effect that he rushes through sex and it’s all over too quickly.
Foreplay and Men’s Mental Health
However, on a deepper level, the process of slowing down to experience sex has an important role to play in men’s mental health. If men continuously enter into sex adrenalised and rushing, the part of themselves that indeed is and needs tenderness is not nourished. Men often have stressful but little capacity or opportunity to process their emotions. It’s something that our culture does not cultivate, and this has a dire effect on the psychology of men, also resulting in high levels of criminal violence. Tender foreplay and receiving gentle touch gives the man the opportunity, not just to relax but to release his emotions and stresses. He may not talk about it, and that’s OK. However, the process of simply feeling loved and held is extremely healing.
Insufficient Foreplay for the Man Effects Female Pleasure Too This has a knock on effect for the pleasure of the woman, not just because of the length of the sex session, but also because of the adrenalised style of rushed sex is really not the best way to give a woman an orgasm. However, as women, we need to slow our man down and come onto the same level with him. One of the biggest sadnesses I hear from my male clients is that they may never experience sensual touch. This effects men on a deep level, meaning that it effects their ability to connect and be intimate as well as their mental health. It’s time to move past the old cultural norms of men as giver and women as passive receiver. This serves no one. Men naturally come into sex too fast and women slow. The purpose of foreplay is to bring us together into harmony, man slowly awakening the woman and woman relaxing the man so he can come into his own.
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It can be a challenge to start to give our man his sensual touch. It is important to be aware that we may be resisting it out of a lack of knowledge of what to do. Don’t let a loack of confidence overcome you. Let it be fun, playful and exploratory. Everyone is different so we all need to learn. Play with different types of touch, especially trying very gentle and slow touch which often is not used. Your man may also resist receiving. That is because familiarity equals liking and so if he is not used to it, he may find it scary. You need to be confident and yet playful, and invite him to lie down. You could suggest a blindfold as this amplifies sensations. This is not mutual touch. This is truly his chance to let go and relax and truly to receive. It’s a magical place which will transform his experience of sensuality and give you a new experience too when you next receive. When trying a new thing, it’s essential to do it playfully and flirtaciously. That is the energy which keeps your sex life alive and juicy. So remember that the most important thing is to have fun. Experimentation and
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