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How to make better resolutions

Need accountability, support Lansing and her friends have the right idea about making successful resolutions, according to Steve Siebold, author of 177 Mental Toughness Secrets of the World Class, who also works with Fortune 500 management teams, entrepreneurs, athletes and other achievers in reaching their goals. “One of the biggest problems with keep-

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By Carol Sorgen Several years ago, Nancy Menefee Jackson made a New Year’s resolution to “get a handle” on her family’s finances. “It turned out to be a shock,” said the 57-year-old communications manager who lives in Perry Hall. “We owe THAT much?” That sobering realization, however, led Jackson and her husband to start following a budget, significantly pay down their debt, and become savvier about their financial situation. The success of that resolution led to yet another one. No more “time-stacking.” That is, “No more running from one event to another to another,” Jackson said. “If we have three things on one day, choose one. I can’t always manage it, but it has made my life much saner.” Phyllis Lansing is also a fan of making New Year’s resolutions. Every New Year’s Eve, Lansing and an informal group of other residents at the Charlestown retirement community meet to write down their resolutions. They then follow up with each other to see if they were able to accomplish them. “There usually are quite a few resolutions to lose so many pounds, exercise more, read more books, etc.,” said Lansing, 81. Last New Year’s Eve, she took a look at her largest closet and made a resolution to reorganize it. “New Year’s Day I had a burst of energy and tackled that closet,” she said. “By evening it was done, and so was I, but I had met one of my resolutions! Maybe it is a good idea to include a resolution that is doable in a day. It felt so good.” Lansing has been more consistent about making resolutions since she has been part of the group at Charlestown. “We report our successes, and find understanding and support for the ones we don’t accomplish,” she said.

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This time of year, many people reflect on ways to improve their lives. The act of making a New Year’s resolution helped Nancy Menefee Jackson put her finances in order. Psychologists say resolutions with specific goals — and ways to monitor progress — are more likely to be kept.

ing a resolution is that most people have no means of accountability or a support system in place,” he said. “Go after your goals with a partner who really makes you push yourself. Even better, find someone who has already achieved what you are setting out after and have them coach you.” New York advice columnist April Masini (“Ask April”) believes that making New Year’s resolutions is a great way to give structure to our lives. “It’s so easy to let life slip by and live in the day-to-day flow,” she said. “By making a New Year’s resolution, you give yourself the opportunity to slow down and look at what you’ve done and where you are — and where you want to be.

“Making a resolution is the way you can put yourself back on track, or on track for a new adventure or goal. You can resolve to finish a degree, have a better relationship with a neighbor or a daughter-in-law, or [as Phyllis Lansing did] clean out a closet.”

Some eschew resolutions Not everyone is a fan of New Year’s resolutions. Baltimore City resident Andrew Der said, “I never make them. If they are needed, then there is no reason to start at [any particular] moment on the calendar.” Or, as fellow Baltimore City resident Laura Dorn Foxworth said, “There is no time like the present.” See RESOLUTIONS, page 7

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