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Your kids don’t treasure your treasures? By Carol Sorgen When Shelley Shannon remarried recently, she went from a five-bedroom house to a two-bedroom furnished condo in Baltimore City. “We’re still trying to fit the few things I brought in,” said Shannon, who either sold or gave away 85 percent of her belongings. “If they aren’t important for this lifetime, they aren’t important,” she said. “When you really want something — and I really love my husband and wanted to be with him — it’s easy to part with the past and look forward to the future.” The first thing Shannon did when it
Quarry Lake at Greenspring. “They’re asking themselves, ‘Would you rather have this ring or $20,000?’” According to the Mayflower 2018 Mover Insights Study, approximately half of millennials surveyed aren’t keeping family
came to downsizing (increasingly known these days as rightsizing) was ask her family and friends what they wanted. What many people like Shannon these days are finding out, however, is that their family and friends don’t especially want any of their “stuff.”
“A lot of kids — and kids can range from millennials all the way up to baby boomers — would rather have money in the bank or to spend on an experience,” said Ron Samuelson, CEO of the family-owned Samuelson’s Diamonds & Estate Buyers in
So your daughter isn’t interested in your collection of cat figurines, and your son has no room for the dining room table you inherited from your mother. Now what? If you’re working on streamlining all the stuff you’ve collected over the years, you have a number of options. Go to Google and enter your location and the various types of venues that might be of help — from consignment stores to auction houses — and you will find a number of leads to pursue.
Selling your things
As you downsize, either to declutter generally or to enable a move to a new home, you may find your children and grandchildren don’t want your china, furniture or collectibles. Instead, determine if you might be able to sell or donate the items so others may benefit.
heirlooms to pass down to their children. And their parents don’t particularly want their parents’ stuff either. “Adults from all generations are emSee STUFF, page B-3
Paring down your possessions
Fewer things, more experiences
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Without the use of any preliminary drawings, Friedheim works with steel — bending, folding, hammering, grinding, filing, bolting and welding pieces together to assemble otherworldly creatures, human figures, and even functional objects such as furniture and barbecues. Friedheim gets some of his best material from the scrap heap, so each creation is an improbable association of rebar (ridged steel rods), sheet steel, repurposed machine parts, and other found objects, such as bent nails. “I like building something large out of
PHOTO COURTESY OF DAVID FRIEDHEIM
From an assemblage of parts
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Transforming steel into art By Carol Berkower It has been 12 years since the metal sculptor David Aaron Friedheim returned to Baltimore from San Francisco with his wife, ceramic artist Trisha Kyner, and on this day he is in a reflective mood. “I wake up not knowing whether I’ve been an incredible success or an abject failure,” said the 59-year-old New York native and alumnus of Maryland Institute College of Art. “How could I not even know?” In contrast to the angst suggested by his words, however, Friedheim’s bemused expression seemed to acknowledge the absurdity of the question. The son of a painter and a classical musician, he has a long resume of building artwork on commission for private and public clients, and has exhibited his sculptures in many solo and group shows throughout the country. Friedheim’s sculptures are the first things visitors notice outside the former mom-andpop grocery store in Gwynns Falls where he and Kyner live and create. His brightly painted figures strike a whimsical note among the two-story brick rowhouses and modest wood-frame homes in this residential working-class neighborhood, and passing drivers regularly pull over for a closer look. On the concrete sidewalk that runs the length of the brick building, a five-foot-tall steel man gazes primly over his shoulder. A bent steel rod forms the outline of the man’s head. An eye, a nostril and a pursed mouth occupy one hemisphere, fixing the man’s gaze to his left, while a tightly curled tube inside the other hemisphere suggests a whirring brain.
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If you have gently worn clothing with higher-end labels, or furniture that’s in good condition, you may be able to sell it at a consignment store. These stores continually mark down the price of unsold items over time until they go. Keep in mind: They pay you only if and when your stuff sells, keeping a portion of the sale price as their commission. Sometimes, if an item doesn’t sell in a fixed period of time, they’ll donate it or you can retrieve it. Auction houses will sell valuable furniture, jewelry, books and other items if they feel there will be a market for them. Check www.liveauctioneers.com/auctioneer/directory for a listing of more than 4,000 auction houses across the country. Another option is selling online. You can post your items on eBay, and either sell to the highest bidder or set a fixed price with its “Buy It Now” feature. See www.ebay.com. A number of bookstores will buy indemand books and even pay for shipping, but be prepared not to make a lot of money. Enter the ISBN number of a
book into Book Scouter (https:// bookscouter.com), and the site searches 35 book buyback vendors for the best offer.
Donating your items If you itemize your taxes (although fewer people will find that financially advantageous this year), you can deduct the fair market value of all goods you donate. To determine fair market value, use thrift store prices, a used-car guide, or other appropriate reference for used items. Some online tax preparation programs will suggest values for the most common donated items. To claim a tax deduction, you must complete a form if your total donations are worth $500 or more, and must have a recent appraisal of any donated items you claim are worth $5,000 or more. You can search a listing of a number of organizations accepting donations at www.thethriftshopper.com. While Goodwill and Salvation Army take some furniture, donations may be more welcome at nonprofits specifically geared to take them. Habitat for Humanity has several ReStore locations that accept donations of furniture, household goods and building materials. See www.habitat.org/restores/donate-goods to find one near you. In the Washington area, a Wider Circle is seeking furniture donations. In addition to providing furniture to those who can’t afford it, the nonprofit organization provides a variety of other services to those in need of stable housing. See http://awidercircle.org/get-involved. — Barbara Ruben
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ARTS & STYLE Metal sculptor David Aaron Friedheim poses with a part of his bent steel triptych named “Dragon.” Other pieces, which frequently incorporate found objects as well as a variety of metals and parts, range from a giant bright yellow frog (which resides in his backyard), to towering steel monsters, to gold-painted figures just a foot high.
an accumulation of smaller parts,” he said, adding that he is intrigued by “grotesque imagery” and its use in the decorative arts. “Many of my images originate in wooden furniture, ceramic plates, illuminated manuscripts, and various forms of wall coverings. I believe that creativity is often found in nooks and corners,” he added. In Friedheim’s artist’s statement for the Maryland State Arts Council, he notes that he wants to make sculptures that require little explanation yet inspire contemplation, capture the viewer’s interest, and provide enjoyment. His studio, which he likens to the inside
of his mind — “it’s where I think with my hands as well as my eyes” — is occupied by metalworking tools and materials. And his sculptures, which range in size from towering steel monsters to gold-painted figures barely a foot high, are crammed together on a high shelf by the dozens. Friedheim’s artistic vision has evolved through the years. Standing sculptures gave way to two-dimensional pieces sprouting on his walls or arched over a doorway, then to flat animalistic figures he refers to as “steel drawings.” See SCULPTOR, page 21
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