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When a DNA test surprises you
Tracking down the facts What Gordon eventually learned from contacting his other close matches was that his biological father had been a sperm donor while a medical student at Johns Hopkins, and Gordon was the result of an artificial insemination because of infertility issues. Since learning this on Sept. 24 — “I’ll never forget the date!” he said — Gordon has found that his biological father eventually moved to Texas, married and had four sons, all of whom are also now physicians. Gordon has been in touch with one of his half-brothers, who welcomed him warmly. They look forward to meeting. There is also a half-sister Gordon has spoken to but not yet met, and his sister has found a half-brother as well. “It’s been a real revelation,” said Gor-
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By Carol Sorgen “I always felt like I didn’t fit in with my family,” said Steve Gordon, who sometimes wondered why he didn’t look like his sister. But after all, not all siblings look alike, so he didn’t dwell on it. But when his sister took a DNA test last year to find out where their ancestors had come from, she was intrigued to find out that it showed only a 50 percent European Jewish background. “We were raised in a Jewish family so we assumed it would be a higher percentage,” said Gordon. So he decided to take the test as well to compare findings. Gordon found out that he and his sister shared the same Jewish ethnicity, but that he also had a strong Scottish/Irish/English component that his sister did not share. The bottom line was that Gordon and his sister were not full siblings. “When I found out that we had different fathers, I felt like I was living in the Twilight Zone,” said Gordon, who is 70 and lives in Baltimore City. He and his sister both used AncestryDNA, one of several online DNA testing companies. For around $100, the company analyzes the DNA in a sample of your saliva and matches the results to those from more than 10 million others who have taken the test to locate those likely related to you. The report may also indicate which region(s) of the world your ancestors most likely came from, their ethnicities, and an approximate time table of migrations.
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After taking a DNA test, Steve Gordon discovered at the age of 70 that he and his sister had different fathers. As DNA tests become more inexpensive and popular, people increasingly find that a lifetime of identity can be turned on its head. DNA testing companies now train their customer service employees to help deal with the possible emotional fallout of these discoveries.
don, who finally now knows where his green eyes and fair complexion come from. While such information can rock one’s foundation, Gordon doesn’t see it that way. “It’s nice to have new relatives,” he said, though admitting that it took a while to get over the shock and the new reality of what his background is. His advice to others is to go into DNA testing with an open mind. “Don’t be surprised if something turns up that you weren’t expecting,” he said. “Be prepared for anything.”
Parentage revealed Well-known author Dani Shapiro had a similar surprise when she took her DNA
test. The author of the newly released book, Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love, writes in Time magazine that when her husband asked if she wanted to take a DNA test, her initial response was, pretty much, why bother? “I could easily have said no,” she writes. “I wasn’t curious about my ancestry. I knew where I came from — Eastern European Ashkenazi Jews on both my parents’ sides. “Instead, I said yes. Why not? It seemed like a game, like those personality tests people often take online. “The results, when I received them a few See DNA TESTS, page 12
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