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VOL.32, NO.4
Keeping calm in turbulent times
APRIL 2020
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By Margaret Foster A racing heart, sweaty palms, an incessant urge to check the latest news. It’s normal to feel anxious during the current coronavirus pandemic. Our lives have been disrupted; businesses are shuttered; the stock market has tanked; and no one knows when life will return to normal. “The collective world is developing an anxiety disorder over this [pandemic], and we have to be careful that we don’t normalize what regularly would be clinical anxiety,” said Dr. Joanna Kaplan, director of the Washington Anxiety Center of Capitol Hill. About a quarter of Kaplan’s patients are over age 50, and she has treated people as old as 92 for various anxiety disorders, such as fear of falling and agoraphobia. “Just because we’re socially distancing doesn’t mean we’re socially isolating,” Kaplan added. In our new age of anxiety, what do local psychology experts recommend for managing fear and worry and staying connected?
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Acknowledge your emotions First, accept your anxious feelings, suggested Jelena Kecmanovic, adjunct professor at Georgetown University and head of the Arlington/D.C. Behavior Therapy Institute in Arlington, Virginia. “These negative emotions are going to show up more these days. These are objectively stressful times,” Kecmanovic said. If you try to push your feelings away with distractions such as Netflix, ice cream or alcohol, it can make matters worse. Carl Jung pointed out this paradox in his famous quote, “What you resist, persists.” It helps to acknowledge our fear, anger or confusion. Learn to feel those emotions
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Telemedicine in action: Arlington psychologist Jelena Kecmanovic now provides therapy to all her patients by video. With the help of such technology, local therapists and nonprofits are helping people manage anxiety during these challenging times.
and their effect on our bodies, and eventually they will pass. “If we don’t fight with [negative] emotions or engage with them, they won’t stay long,” Kecmanovic said. “It’s about allowing them to pass.” She suggests sitting quietly and sensing
your breath and heartbeat. Take note if your jaw is clenched or you have a lump in your throat. Consider the feelings with a gentle curiosity, and notice if they change or ebb. See ANXIETY, page 9
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