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Acknowledge your emotions First, accept your anxious feelings, suggested Jelena Kecmanovic, adjunct professor at Georgetown University and head of the Arlington/D.C. Behavior Therapy Institute in Arlington, Virginia. “These negative emotions are going to show up more these days. These are objectively stressful times,” Kecmanovic said. If you try to push your feelings away with distractions such as Netflix, ice cream or alcohol, it can make matters worse. Carl Jung pointed out this paradox in his famous quote, “What you resist, persists.” It helps to acknowledge our fear, anger or confusion. Learn to feel those emotions and their effect on our bodies, and eventually they will pass. “If we don’t fight with [negative] emotions or engage with them, they won’t stay long,” Kecmanovic said. “It’s about allowing them to pass.” She suggests sitting quietly and sensing your breath and heartbeat. Take note if your jaw is clenched or you have a lump in your throat.
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Keeping calm in turbulent times By Margaret Foster A racing heart, sweaty palms, an incessant urge to check the latest news. It’s normal to feel anxious during the current coronavirus pandemic. Our lives have been disrupted; businesses are shuttered; the stock market has tanked; and no one knows when life will return to normal. But there are silver linings to the cloud, according to Indrani Mookerjee, licensed social worker at IME Behavioral Health in Columbia. “This situation has brought us closer because we’re all in this together,” she said. In our new age of anxiety, what do area psychology experts recommend for managing fear and worry and staying connected?
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ARTS & STYLE Therapists like Indrani Mookerjee of Columbia’s IME Behavioral Health, LLC can help people manage anxiety during the pandemic. Medicare now covers telehealth visits over the phone or computer, so you can have therapy and other medical appointments from your home.
Consider the feelings with a gentle curiosity, and notice if they change or ebb. Most likely, she assures her patients, they will fade in a short time.
even with the “stay at home” order in Maryland. Pick up the phone and call a friend. “Physical distancing doesn’t mean social distance. There are things you can do to continue the connection,” Mookerjee said.
Stay in touch with others Next, don’t eschew all social contact,
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