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A touching new profession
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By Robert Friedman Annie Hopson of Ellicott City worked as a certified massage therapist for over 20 years. But she noticed that some clients seemed to yearn for something more. “In my massage practice, I encountered people who were touch hungry,” she said. “They would have been better served by being held rather than kneaded” — but in a platonic way. And then Hopson discovered the growing field of professional cuddling, defined by its practitioners as non-sexual touching for therapeutic purposes. It includes such things as hand-holding, hugging, stroking hair and spooning. Cuddling is “the latest thing in wellness beyond yoga and meditation,” according to a recent article in The New York Times. Trained professionals, who call themselves “cuddlists,” make house calls, but also meet with clients on a one-on-one basis in home studios, on park benches, in movie theaters, etc. There are also cuddling cafes and parties, including in nearby Washington, D.C., where strangers get together for group hugs. Cuddle shops have opened in California and Portland, Ore. The fast-growing discipline, Hopson said, is “much more rewarding and different and important than I [originally] thought it was.” The 55-year-old single mother of two teenagers added, “I’m a ‘cuddlist’ because I know the magic of platonic touching.” Some 400 professional cuddlers, including Hopson, have gotten their training through the website Cuddlist.com, where they learn the philosophy and hands-on practice of their new profession. The website also connects clients to providers. Adam Lippin, the website co-founder
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ARTS & STYLE Professional “cuddlist” Annie Hopson hugs Tanith Roberts. Hopson, who spent decades as a massage therapist, has recently moved into the growing field of cuddling, satisfying her clients’ need for platonic human touch and conversation about feelings.
who got Hopson interested in the practice, has noted that “most clients are under some level of duress — anxiety, stress, loss or need.”
For all ages Hopson said that most of her clients are between 35 and 50 years of age, but about
one-third are over 50. She is, in fact, looking to find more older clients, possibly through senior centers. Cuddlist.com, says that medical researchers have confirmed that touch and physical interaction with caregivers is a See CUDDLING, page 12
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