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By Margaret Foster When baseball great B.J. Surhoff’s son Mason was a year old, B.J. and his wife, Polly, started to notice that something was off. Mason didn’t seem to hear well and wasn’t as engaged as his brothers. “He was developing just as quickly, if not quicker. And then he wasn’t,” B.J., now 57, remembered. So he took his son to a neurologist, who diagnosed Mason with “classic autism.” B.J. and Polly felt lost. “We had no idea what it was,” Polly said. “We had no idea what to do.” This was in the early 1990s, when there was less awareness of autism. “At that point, we didn’t have the luxury of having the internet,” B.J. said in an interview with the Beacon. By a stroke of luck, Polly found an autism specialist at the couple’s alma mater, UNC-Chapel Hill, and flew therapists up to Wisconsin, where the family lived while B.J. played for the Milwaukee Brewers. Mason started an in-home therapy program 40 hours a week, which the Surhoffs paid for out-of-pocket. “It was a game changer,” Polly said. “If we didn’t have the [financial] resources, none of this would have happened, and it shouldn’t be like that.” The Surhoffs’ quest to find help for their son led them to Baltimore — home of the Kennedy-Krieger Institute and its cutting-edge programs for children with developmental disabilities. Their journey also led the couple and fellow parents of autistic children to start a nonprofit, Pathfinders for Autism, which celebrated its 20th anniversary last year. Based in Hunt Valley, Pathfinders for Autism helps families with autistic kids

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Former Oriole B.J. Surhoff and his wife, Polly, are the parents of four grown children, one of whom has autism. They co-founded Pathfinders for Autism 20 years ago and remain active in the nonprofit, which provides support for families and education for police and other first responders.

find the help they need — from basic information to special training. “There was not one particular moment when we said we needed to start Pathfinders. It kind of evolved over time. We started more of a support group of parents,” Polly explained. “These kids deserve more, and so do the families.”

Maryland’s high autism rate Autism spectrum disorder affects 1 out of 54 American children on average, most often boys. It usually appears before age three. If a child doesn’t speak, doesn’t make eye contact, lacks social skills or makes

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