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What retirees (should) want
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By Margaret Foster Since he was 24 years old, author and aging expert Dr. Ken Dychtwald has studied the psychology of retirement. Now 70, he has given presentations on his research into the subject of aging to more than one million people over the years. Yet the renowned gerontologist is in no hurry to retire himself from the company he started 40 years ago. “The irony of the fact that I’m not terribly interested in retirement [personally] is not lost on me,” Dychtwald, CEO and Founder of Age Wave, said in an interview with the Beacon. “Over the decades I’ve been studying retirees, and what I’ve found is about half the retired population are bored out of their wits….If you retire at 65, you might have 20 or 30 years in front of you. That’s a long time.” This spring, Dychtwald published his 17th book, What Retirees Want: A Holistic View of Life’s Third Age, with researcher Robert Morison. The book, which includes not only charts and graphs but personal stories, is the culmination of years of research on the topic of aging and is intended to be a retirement guidebook of sorts. Dychtwald will be speaking about the book and its major takeaways as the keynote speaker of the 2020 Virtual 50+Expo, presented by the Howard County Beacon in partnership with the Howard County Office on Aging and Independence.
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A road map to retirement
Ken Dychtwald has studied the psychology of aging for more than four decades. In his 17th book, published this year, he and co-author Robert Morison reveal their research on retirement, or “life’s third age.” Dychtwald will be the keynote speaker at this year’s Virtual 50+Expo, which runs Nov. 1 to Jan. 31, 2021.
Dychtwald points out that when people retire — unlike when they enroll in college or start a new job — “There’s no orientation. There’s no workshop. In fact, that’s one of the reasons we wanted to write this book,” Dychtwald said. “Because there has never really been a roadmap.” To begin to sketch a map, Edward Jones Company and Age Wave released a new study in August on the “four pillars of the new retirement” — health, family, finances and purpose. Already, the study has received 1.5 billion media impressions. All four pillars are key ingredients for living well in retirement, which may seem obvious. But there are issues acquiring each of them, researchers found. For example, even though it’s “never
too late” to improve your health, many retirees don’t follow through on their wellmeaning intentions. The study also found that the biggest health fear of retirees is not cancer or even COVID, but rather dementia, over which we may have less control. Family relationships can play a major role in well-being, but forging positive social connections doesn’t require blood relatives. And as much as we want to be able to rely on family should it come to that, at the same time most of us don’t want to be a burden on them. The newfound “time affluence” that comes with retirement leaves many floundering to find a meaningful way to spend it. Despite what TV tries to teach us, older
adults want to feel useful more than youthful. The study, which Dychtwald considers a “capstone project,” was based on 9,000 interviews and nine months of research on retirement done last year. But once the pandemic hit, they returned to the interviewees to update their findings. What they found was that “Older people are more resilient…This is horrific, what’s going on [with COVID-19], but there’s some perspective” among older adults from their decades of life experience. “What our study revealed is that we want to think of older people as more vulnerable, more fragile…but older people were more See DYCHTWALD, page 18
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