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Fridays 2820 W Cary St, Richmond, VA 23221 (Cartwheels and Coffee) Saturdays 3100 Grove Ave, Richmond, VA 23221 ENB Languages 4 Kidz programs are specifically designed to introduce 3 to 6 year olds to languages through theme-based lessons. We also offer French-Spanish-Italian for 7-13 year olds.

Our unique approach to teaching language aims for children to acquire language naturally as well as foster their innate curiosities for learning about the multicultural World in which they live.

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Portraits With Distinction Class of 2014 70 proofs or more 5 changes of clothes outdoor studio, many extras NO sitting fees!

Address: 9000 Quioccasin Rd Richmond, VA 23229 Phone: (804) 754-2800 E-mail: info@castonstudio.com Web: www.castonstudio.com

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Now is your chance to train the traditional way in the Ving Tsun system. This is the 300 year old Shaolin Martial Art made famous by Bruce Lee. Bully Proof Your Child - Learn Self Defense Improve Fitness & Get in Shape 8904 W. Broad St. (Gold’s Gym Plaza) Call now and mention this ad to receive a free intro class.

346-3478 - VAkungfu.com

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(804) 441-4882

Fridays 2820 W Cary St, Richmond, VA 23221 (Cartwheels and Coffee) Saturdays 3100 Grove Ave, Richmond, VA 23221 ENB Languages 4 Kidz programs are specifically designed to introduce 3 to 6 year olds to languages through theme-based lessons. We also offer French-Spanish-Italian for 7-13 year olds.

Our unique approach to teaching language aims for children to acquire language naturally as well as foster their innate curiosities for learning about the multicultural World in which they live.

Adina Silvestri, EdD, LPC Licensed Professional Counselor 

  

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www.HCAVirginia.com • 804-320 DOCS

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To Advertise here and on www.richmondparents.com call Mark Fetter 804.673.5215 WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u MAY 2015

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features 6 Get Involved

The American Red Cross celebrates its birthday this month by offering you a chance to gie blood and help out your community. We have a roundup of donation sites around metro Richmond.

Two great parks, one amazing deal Packages from $50/Person Per night There’s no better way to do family fun, thrilling rides and chilling slides. Vacation packages include park admission, lodging and select dining. Book today.

Based on a family of four with a three-night stay in a standard room. Prices and packages are subject to availability and change without notice. While supplies last. Sesame Street® and associated characters, trademarks and design elements are owned and licensed by Sesame Workshop. © 2015 Sesame Workshop. All Rights Reserved. © 2015 SeaWorld Parks & Entertainment, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

6 Great Kids

Young scholars have their day as Chesterfield County names its students of the year.

10 Growing Up Online

It’s hard to tell fact from fiction online, even when you’re an adult. How do you help a kid determine what’s bogus and what’s real? Carolyn Jabs has some advice.

12 Go Green

Container gardening can be good for what ails On the cover: Brandon Farbstein is just 15, but the Deep Run High School freshman has already compiled a resume that would put most adults to shame. A congenital condition has left him the height of the average 6 year old, but Brandon lives large.

Page 15. Photo and story by Stuart DuBreuil.

you, or your landscape. Master Gardener Lela Martin has your guide to getting started.

17 Let’s Go!

Festivals, art openings, tours, plays and perfor mances are among the entertainment options this month in the Richmond area.

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Publisher: Mark E. Fetter Editor: Tharon Giddens Art Director: Jennifer G. Sutton Contributing Writers: Chris Miller, Lela Martin, Carolyn Jabs

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features 6 Get Involved

The American Red Cross celebrates its birthday this month by offering you a chance to gie blood and help out your community. We have a roundup of donation sites around metro Richmond.

Two great parks, one amazing deal Packages from $50/Person Per night There’s no better way to do family fun, thrilling rides and chilling slides. Vacation packages include park admission, lodging and select dining. Book today.

Based on a family of four with a three-night stay in a standard room. Prices and packages are subject to availability and change without notice. While supplies last. Sesame Street® and associated characters, trademarks and design elements are owned and licensed by Sesame Workshop. © 2015 Sesame Workshop. All Rights Reserved. © 2015 SeaWorld Parks & Entertainment, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

6 Great Kids

Young scholars have their day as Chesterfield County names its students of the year.

10 Growing Up Online

It’s hard to tell fact from fiction online, even when you’re an adult. How do you help a kid determine what’s bogus and what’s real? Carolyn Jabs has some advice.

12 Go Green

Container gardening can be good for what ails On the cover: Brandon Farbstein is just 15, but the Deep Run High School freshman has already compiled a resume that would put most adults to shame. A congenital condition has left him the height of the average 6 year old, but Brandon lives large.

Page 15. Photo and story by Stuart DuBreuil.

you, or your landscape. Master Gardener Lela Martin has your guide to getting started.

17 Let’s Go!

Festivals, art openings, tours, plays and perfor mances are among the entertainment options this month in the Richmond area.

Editorial Mission: Richmond Parents Monthly is dedicated to providing parents and professionals with the best information and resources available to enhance all aspects of parenting and family life. It is also an avenue to facilitate a shared sense of community among parents by providing useful information, support and a forum for dialogue on issues that are important to all parents and families.

Volume 25, No. 5, MAY 2015

Publisher: Mark E. Fetter Editor: Tharon Giddens Art Director: Jennifer G. Sutton Contributing Writers: Chris Miller, Lela Martin, Carolyn Jabs

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GREAT KIDS

Meet Chesterfield County’s Students of the Year

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hesterfield County Public Schools has honored 126 of its charges as 2015 Students of the Year.

There are two honorees from each of the school system’s 63 schools, according to a release. Honored students include the following: Elementary school students Luis Balcarcel and Landon Golden, Bellwood; Darius Richards and Katherine Carranza, Bensley; Daniel dePaz Escobar and Maleah Stevens, Beulah; Farrah Abrams and Wesley DeJarnette, Bon Air; Geovani Ramirez Reyes and Katherine Del Cid, Chalkey; Dreveon Fisher and Lydia Weeks, Marguerite Christian; Madelynn Eads and Damon Kincheloe; Clover Hill; Aleigh Puckett and Gabriela De La Rosa, Crenshaw; Madalyn Cross and Jenifer Zhandira, Crestwood; Israel Browne and Grace Staneart, Curtis; Hugo Morales and Isaiah Lucero, Davis; Jacob Haywood and Madison Mozingo, Ecoff; Katherine Watson and Vinata Kondragunta, Enon; Christian Smith and Madison Keppler, Ettrick; Emma Carter and Kaitlin Brown, Evergreen; Nicholas Johnson and Niki Patel, Falling Creek; Joselyn Schenk and Ainsley Laine, Gates; Gavin Caterino and Sarah Jane Greger, Gordon; Jessie Roberts and Ashley Griles; Grange Hall; Jonah Brooks and Blake Ta, Greenfield; Mariana Martinez Valadez and Jayden Lewis, Harrowgate; Samant Parker and Edward Rodriguez, Hening Lakeyce Farris and Sophia Fuentes, Hopkins Road.

Also, Rylee Andes and Hassan Mohammad; Jacobs Road; Isabella Simerville and Maya Taylor; Matoaca; Lillian Harris and William

France, Providence; Trinity Jones and Camille Crook, Reams Road; Anna Jane Reed and Virginia Warren, Robious; Christopher Carter Jr. and Eisley Goldman, Salem Church; Olivia Acome and Benjamin Keeys, Elizabeth Scott; Timothy Dobyns and Faith Parker, Alberta Smith; Jahan Hassan and Jaden Cumpston, Spring Run; Jane Lively and Tanner Fleck, Swift Creek; Cassie Grizzard and Caden Raymond, Watkins; Lauren Schmidt and Lillian Davis, Bettie Weaver; Samantha Schappert and Farris Moore II, Wells; Charlotte Barnette and Melanie Lloyd, Winterpock; and Hailey Garrison and Taylor Rolfe, Woolridge;.

Middle school honorees are: Yelena Fleming and Karli Woodcock, Bailey Bridge; Rachel Dishman and Kristyn Watkins, Carver; Malvika Choudhari and Hunter Zoller, Elizabeth Davis; Tae’Sean Burt and Tiara Alston, Falling Creek; Erick Sandoval and Taylor Lamb, Manchester; Nia Covington and Chance Blackham, Matoaca; Jack Carris and Russell Graviet Jr., Midlothian; Allison Zermeno and Peyton Hamlett, Providence; Joshua Raugh and Katherine Morris, Robious; Shayla Harris and Paola Henriquez, Salem Church; William Rice and Brian Wieder, Swift Creek; and Mackenzie Burleson and Dylan Kurtze, Tomahawk Creek.

High school honorees are: Rayshard Ashby and Kenneth Williams III, Byrd; Amber Harper and Erwin Karincic, Career and Tech Center, Courthouse; Bryan Sanchez and ShaQasha McClinton, Hull Career and Tech Center; Lester Reed Jr. and Vanessa Cartagena Clemente, Chesterfield Community, Amelia Fern Nell and Krystyna Cios, Clover Hill; Skyler Zunk and Jared Burns, Clover Hill; Jerry Chan and Abigail Sloan, Thomas Dale; Benjamin Caracciolo and India Hawkins, James River; Elizabeth Hutton and Vivian Tran, Manchester; Sarah Patton and Joseph Cheatham, Matoaca; Majd Aboul Hosn and Hien Vo, Meadowbrook; Stuart Powell and Akash Raje, Midlothian; and Kristen Walker and Megan Walker, Monacan.

6 u RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u MAY 2015

Celebrate World Red Cross Day by Giving Blood

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ou can give the gift of life this month by donating blood.

Donors of all blood types – especially those with types O negative, A negative and B negative – are needed to help ensure blood is available for patients this spring, according to The American Red Cross.

To make an appointment to give blood, download the Red Cross Blood Donor App, visit redcrossblood.org or call (800) RED CROSS (1-800-733-2767).

All blood types are needed to ensure a reliable supply for patients. A blood donor card or driver’s license or two other forms of identification are required at check-in. Individuals who are 17 years of age (16 with parental consent in some states), weigh at least 110 pounds and are in generally good health may be eligible to donate blood. High school students and other donors 18 years of age and younger also have to meet certain height and weight requirements.

Those who are unable to give blood can support blood donations and invite others to make a lifesaving donation by creating a SleevesUp virtual blood drive at redcrossblood. org/SleevesUp.

Here’s a list of some upcoming blood donation opportunities in the Richmond area: • 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. May 3, Three Chopt Presbyterian Church, 9315 Three Chopt Road • 2 p.m. to 7 p.m. May 5, Dinwiddie Middle Schoo., 11608 Courthouse Road • 3 p.m. to 7 pm. May 5, Geth-

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semane Church of Christ, 5146 Mechanicsville Turnpike 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. May 6, St. Christopher’s School-Luck Leadership Center, 711 St. Christopher’s Road 12:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. May 6, Petersburg Train Station, 103 River St. 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. May 8, Brusters, 11731 Sherbert Lane, Chester 9:45 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. May 8, Bon Secours St. Francis Medical Center, 13710 St. Francis Blvd.

Last year, about 3.1 million volunteer blood donors rolled up a sleeve to help the Red Cross meet the needs of patients at approximately 2,600 hospitals nationwide.

May 8 is World Red Cross and Red Crescent Day, the birthday of International Red Cross and Red Crescent Movement founder, Henry Dunant. World Red Cross and Red Crescent Day recognizes the local and global impact of the Red Cross mission. For more than 130 years, the American Red Cross has been helping people, including those in need of blood transfusions, in communities across the U.S. It is the only blood services organization that also provides disaster relief, services for active and veteran military personnel and their families, and health and safety training.

When your child is finding it hard to cope, we are here to help.

Perform with a truly World-Class Choir locally and abroad!

Boys and Girls Ages 8-18 who love to sing and want to learn with a diverse and dedicated group of musicians Enrollment Information Session, Tuesday May 12th at 7:00pm.

There’s a choir for you! Call (804) 201-1894 for details.

Join us at the GRCC 18th Annual Spring Concert, Sunday June 7th, at 4:00pm Holy Comforter Episcopal Church 4819 Monument Ave. RVA 23230 Hope Armstrong Erb, Artistic Director Anne Williford, Executive Director Associate Music Directors: Pete Curry & Crystal Jonkman

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Grace and Holy Trinity Episcopal Church 8 N. Laurel Street (next to the Landmark Theater) grcchoir.org • grcchoir@gmail.com

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If your child is showing signs of extreme distress, come to us. Our team of behavioral healthcare specialists provides acute care when your child is feeling overwhelmed. With our newly renovated facility and programs that meet the needs of adolescents, we’re here to give young people and their families the tools needed to get through the tough times. We provide free assessments 24/7, at the region’s only freestanding psychiatric facility. And, our evidence-based program is tailored to treat patients dealing with a wide range of emotional issues.

At Poplar Springs Hospital no emergency room visit, or referral, is needed.

For more information visit poplarsprings.com, or call 804-733-6874 or 866-546-2229.

RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u MAY 2015 u 7

GET INVOLVED

GREAT KIDS

Meet Chesterfield County’s Students of the Year

C

hesterfield County Public Schools has honored 126 of its charges as 2015 Students of the Year.

There are two honorees from each of the school system’s 63 schools, according to a release. Honored students include the following: Elementary school students Luis Balcarcel and Landon Golden, Bellwood; Darius Richards and Katherine Carranza, Bensley; Daniel dePaz Escobar and Maleah Stevens, Beulah; Farrah Abrams and Wesley DeJarnette, Bon Air; Geovani Ramirez Reyes and Katherine Del Cid, Chalkey; Dreveon Fisher and Lydia Weeks, Marguerite Christian; Madelynn Eads and Damon Kincheloe; Clover Hill; Aleigh Puckett and Gabriela De La Rosa, Crenshaw; Madalyn Cross and Jenifer Zhandira, Crestwood; Israel Browne and Grace Staneart, Curtis; Hugo Morales and Isaiah Lucero, Davis; Jacob Haywood and Madison Mozingo, Ecoff; Katherine Watson and Vinata Kondragunta, Enon; Christian Smith and Madison Keppler, Ettrick; Emma Carter and Kaitlin Brown, Evergreen; Nicholas Johnson and Niki Patel, Falling Creek; Joselyn Schenk and Ainsley Laine, Gates; Gavin Caterino and Sarah Jane Greger, Gordon; Jessie Roberts and Ashley Griles; Grange Hall; Jonah Brooks and Blake Ta, Greenfield; Mariana Martinez Valadez and Jayden Lewis, Harrowgate; Samant Parker and Edward Rodriguez, Hening Lakeyce Farris and Sophia Fuentes, Hopkins Road.

Also, Rylee Andes and Hassan Mohammad; Jacobs Road; Isabella Simerville and Maya Taylor; Matoaca; Lillian Harris and William

France, Providence; Trinity Jones and Camille Crook, Reams Road; Anna Jane Reed and Virginia Warren, Robious; Christopher Carter Jr. and Eisley Goldman, Salem Church; Olivia Acome and Benjamin Keeys, Elizabeth Scott; Timothy Dobyns and Faith Parker, Alberta Smith; Jahan Hassan and Jaden Cumpston, Spring Run; Jane Lively and Tanner Fleck, Swift Creek; Cassie Grizzard and Caden Raymond, Watkins; Lauren Schmidt and Lillian Davis, Bettie Weaver; Samantha Schappert and Farris Moore II, Wells; Charlotte Barnette and Melanie Lloyd, Winterpock; and Hailey Garrison and Taylor Rolfe, Woolridge;.

Middle school honorees are: Yelena Fleming and Karli Woodcock, Bailey Bridge; Rachel Dishman and Kristyn Watkins, Carver; Malvika Choudhari and Hunter Zoller, Elizabeth Davis; Tae’Sean Burt and Tiara Alston, Falling Creek; Erick Sandoval and Taylor Lamb, Manchester; Nia Covington and Chance Blackham, Matoaca; Jack Carris and Russell Graviet Jr., Midlothian; Allison Zermeno and Peyton Hamlett, Providence; Joshua Raugh and Katherine Morris, Robious; Shayla Harris and Paola Henriquez, Salem Church; William Rice and Brian Wieder, Swift Creek; and Mackenzie Burleson and Dylan Kurtze, Tomahawk Creek.

High school honorees are: Rayshard Ashby and Kenneth Williams III, Byrd; Amber Harper and Erwin Karincic, Career and Tech Center, Courthouse; Bryan Sanchez and ShaQasha McClinton, Hull Career and Tech Center; Lester Reed Jr. and Vanessa Cartagena Clemente, Chesterfield Community, Amelia Fern Nell and Krystyna Cios, Clover Hill; Skyler Zunk and Jared Burns, Clover Hill; Jerry Chan and Abigail Sloan, Thomas Dale; Benjamin Caracciolo and India Hawkins, James River; Elizabeth Hutton and Vivian Tran, Manchester; Sarah Patton and Joseph Cheatham, Matoaca; Majd Aboul Hosn and Hien Vo, Meadowbrook; Stuart Powell and Akash Raje, Midlothian; and Kristen Walker and Megan Walker, Monacan.

6 u RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u MAY 2015

Celebrate World Red Cross Day by Giving Blood

Y

ou can give the gift of life this month by donating blood.

Donors of all blood types – especially those with types O negative, A negative and B negative – are needed to help ensure blood is available for patients this spring, according to The American Red Cross.

To make an appointment to give blood, download the Red Cross Blood Donor App, visit redcrossblood.org or call (800) RED CROSS (1-800-733-2767).

All blood types are needed to ensure a reliable supply for patients. A blood donor card or driver’s license or two other forms of identification are required at check-in. Individuals who are 17 years of age (16 with parental consent in some states), weigh at least 110 pounds and are in generally good health may be eligible to donate blood. High school students and other donors 18 years of age and younger also have to meet certain height and weight requirements.

Those who are unable to give blood can support blood donations and invite others to make a lifesaving donation by creating a SleevesUp virtual blood drive at redcrossblood. org/SleevesUp.

Here’s a list of some upcoming blood donation opportunities in the Richmond area: • 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. May 3, Three Chopt Presbyterian Church, 9315 Three Chopt Road • 2 p.m. to 7 p.m. May 5, Dinwiddie Middle Schoo., 11608 Courthouse Road • 3 p.m. to 7 pm. May 5, Geth-

•

• • •

semane Church of Christ, 5146 Mechanicsville Turnpike 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. May 6, St. Christopher’s School-Luck Leadership Center, 711 St. Christopher’s Road 12:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. May 6, Petersburg Train Station, 103 River St. 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. May 8, Brusters, 11731 Sherbert Lane, Chester 9:45 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. May 8, Bon Secours St. Francis Medical Center, 13710 St. Francis Blvd.

Last year, about 3.1 million volunteer blood donors rolled up a sleeve to help the Red Cross meet the needs of patients at approximately 2,600 hospitals nationwide.

May 8 is World Red Cross and Red Crescent Day, the birthday of International Red Cross and Red Crescent Movement founder, Henry Dunant. World Red Cross and Red Crescent Day recognizes the local and global impact of the Red Cross mission. For more than 130 years, the American Red Cross has been helping people, including those in need of blood transfusions, in communities across the U.S. It is the only blood services organization that also provides disaster relief, services for active and veteran military personnel and their families, and health and safety training.

When your child is finding it hard to cope, we are here to help.

Perform with a truly World-Class Choir locally and abroad!

Boys and Girls Ages 8-18 who love to sing and want to learn with a diverse and dedicated group of musicians Enrollment Information Session, Tuesday May 12th at 7:00pm.

There’s a choir for you! Call (804) 201-1894 for details.

Join us at the GRCC 18th Annual Spring Concert, Sunday June 7th, at 4:00pm Holy Comforter Episcopal Church 4819 Monument Ave. RVA 23230 Hope Armstrong Erb, Artistic Director Anne Williford, Executive Director Associate Music Directors: Pete Curry & Crystal Jonkman

WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM

Grace and Holy Trinity Episcopal Church 8 N. Laurel Street (next to the Landmark Theater) grcchoir.org • grcchoir@gmail.com

WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM

If your child is showing signs of extreme distress, come to us. Our team of behavioral healthcare specialists provides acute care when your child is feeling overwhelmed. With our newly renovated facility and programs that meet the needs of adolescents, we’re here to give young people and their families the tools needed to get through the tough times. We provide free assessments 24/7, at the region’s only freestanding psychiatric facility. And, our evidence-based program is tailored to treat patients dealing with a wide range of emotional issues.

At Poplar Springs Hospital no emergency room visit, or referral, is needed.

For more information visit poplarsprings.com, or call 804-733-6874 or 866-546-2229.

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Hot prices for clothing, toys & equipment await.

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GROWING UP ONLINE

BY CAROLYN JABS

T

he ability to distinguish between reliable and bogus information is a crucial skill in the 21st century. It seemed search engines might help people to zero in on accurate, well-researched information, but social media has made it easy to share “news” that has no basis in fact.

The proliferation of fake news has accelerated because of websites that exploit the pay-perflick feature of online advertising. Nothing gets more clicks than an outrageous or too-good-to-betrue headline. When people share such stories without thinking, they ricochet around cyberspace, encouraging people to mourn celebrities who aren’t dead, worry about risks that aren’t real and feel outrage over things that never happened. The problem has become so serious that Google is reportedly investigating ways to rank its results to factor in accuracy as well as popularity.

Now that nearly a third of Americans get their news from Facebook according to the Pew Research Center, that company is also making efforts to stem the tide of fake

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Recognizing Fake News sites make fun of the news in order to expose foolish policies and corrupt behavior. The Onion, for example, is famous for its satire but not everyone gets the joke. A website called literally unbelievable shares posts from gullible people who have posted an Onion story as though it were true. Since satire can be a difficult concept for kids, teach your child to check websites for disclaimers. Lightly Braised Turnip, for example, says simply, “The LBT retains the right to invent facts for its own financial health.” When you can’t find a clear statement about what the website does, do a search that includes the name of the site and the word satire, hoax or fake.

Who wrote and published the story? Some of the most notorious fake news sites include World News Daily Report, The Daily Currant, National Report, The Daily Currant, Empire News, and The News Examiner. Despite their newsy names, these sites regularly fabricate stories simply because they will earn more money if they can get peonews. To report something problemple to click and share. In contrast, atic, users can click the downward legitimate news organizations make arrow in the upper right corner of a distinction between news, editothe post. Select “Report problem”. rial opinion and advertising. ProSelect “I don’t think this belongs on fessional journalists take pride in Facebook.” Choose the option that their work, so stories will have a byexplains why the story shouldn’t be line and often it will be possible to shared. contact the reporter. To help your

Success of this tactic depends upon people being able to child understand some of what jourrecognize fake news when they see nalists do to get to the bottom of a it. Parents can help their children by story, check out the informative vidroutinely talking about news and en- eos at thenewsliteracyproject.org/ couraging kids to ask the following learn-channel. Among other things, questions, especially about stories there’s a fascinating explanation of that seem true because they’ve ap- how editors confirm the reliability of a photograph. peared so often in social media.

Has the story been confirmed by other news or Why was the story writganizations?

Stories that are true ten? Even elementary age children will quickly show up on websites for can think about why someone is tellmajor news organizations.

To find ing them something. Are they trying out whether a story has been picked to be helpful? Are they self-serving? up by other news outlets, check a Are they joking? Are they lying? news aggregator like Google news.

Help children understand that journalists and scientists are trying to (news.google.com). Kids can also help people understand things bet- make use of websites that specialter. They may get things wrong, but ize in uncovering hoaxes. Snopes. most do objective research and pres- com debunks urban legends and false stories. Factcheck.org invesent findings fairly.

Is it a Joke? Many web- tigates the reliability of statements

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by politicians. The Washington Post does weekly column about what was fake on the Internet. Hoax-Slayer. com and Thatsnonsense.com also try to keep people informed about the latest viral foolishness.

What’s the source? As kids get older, they need to know how to evaluate sources so they can put their faith in people who deserve it. A media literacy program developed by professors at Stony Brook University uses the memorable acronym I’M VAIN to help students judge the reliability of news sources.

• I – Independent. A source that • • • •

tries to be objective is better than a source that is trying to sell a product or an idea.

M – Multiple. A story is more reliable when it’s confirmed by multiple sources rather than a single person.

V - Verify. Sources that can back up a story with facts are preferable to sources that simply have opinions.

AI – Authoritative and Informed. A story is more reliable if it comes from an expert who has the respect of peers.

N – Named. Sources that are willing to go on the record are better than anonymous sources.

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Of course, adults know that Information is never perfect. New facts are always coming to light, and people can have legitimate differences about how to interpret facts. Still, helping kids recognize blatantly fake news means that, at the very least, they won’t be misled or embarrassed by sharing something foolish. Better yet, they will become adults who are able to form opinions and make decisions, confident that they are based on the most reliable information they can find.

Carolyn Jabs, M.A., raised three computer savvy kids including one with special needs. She has been writing Growing up Online for ten years and is working on a book about constructive responses to conflict. Visit www.growing-up-online. com to read other columns. @ Copyright, 2015, Carolyn Jabs. All rights reserved

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RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u MAY 2015 u 11

GROWING UP ONLINE

BY CAROLYN JABS

T

he ability to distinguish between reliable and bogus information is a crucial skill in the 21st century. It seemed search engines might help people to zero in on accurate, well-researched information, but social media has made it easy to share “news” that has no basis in fact.

The proliferation of fake news has accelerated because of websites that exploit the pay-perflick feature of online advertising. Nothing gets more clicks than an outrageous or too-good-to-betrue headline. When people share such stories without thinking, they ricochet around cyberspace, encouraging people to mourn celebrities who aren’t dead, worry about risks that aren’t real and feel outrage over things that never happened. The problem has become so serious that Google is reportedly investigating ways to rank its results to factor in accuracy as well as popularity.

Now that nearly a third of Americans get their news from Facebook according to the Pew Research Center, that company is also making efforts to stem the tide of fake

No Power? No Problem...

Recognizing Fake News sites make fun of the news in order to expose foolish policies and corrupt behavior. The Onion, for example, is famous for its satire but not everyone gets the joke. A website called literally unbelievable shares posts from gullible people who have posted an Onion story as though it were true. Since satire can be a difficult concept for kids, teach your child to check websites for disclaimers. Lightly Braised Turnip, for example, says simply, “The LBT retains the right to invent facts for its own financial health.” When you can’t find a clear statement about what the website does, do a search that includes the name of the site and the word satire, hoax or fake.

Who wrote and published the story? Some of the most notorious fake news sites include World News Daily Report, The Daily Currant, National Report, The Daily Currant, Empire News, and The News Examiner. Despite their newsy names, these sites regularly fabricate stories simply because they will earn more money if they can get peonews. To report something problemple to click and share. In contrast, atic, users can click the downward legitimate news organizations make arrow in the upper right corner of a distinction between news, editothe post. Select “Report problem”. rial opinion and advertising. ProSelect “I don’t think this belongs on fessional journalists take pride in Facebook.” Choose the option that their work, so stories will have a byexplains why the story shouldn’t be line and often it will be possible to shared. contact the reporter. To help your

Success of this tactic depends upon people being able to child understand some of what jourrecognize fake news when they see nalists do to get to the bottom of a it. Parents can help their children by story, check out the informative vidroutinely talking about news and en- eos at thenewsliteracyproject.org/ couraging kids to ask the following learn-channel. Among other things, questions, especially about stories there’s a fascinating explanation of that seem true because they’ve ap- how editors confirm the reliability of a photograph. peared so often in social media.

Has the story been confirmed by other news or Why was the story writganizations?

Stories that are true ten? Even elementary age children will quickly show up on websites for can think about why someone is tellmajor news organizations.

To find ing them something. Are they trying out whether a story has been picked to be helpful? Are they self-serving? up by other news outlets, check a Are they joking? Are they lying? news aggregator like Google news.

Help children understand that journalists and scientists are trying to (news.google.com). Kids can also help people understand things bet- make use of websites that specialter. They may get things wrong, but ize in uncovering hoaxes. Snopes. most do objective research and pres- com debunks urban legends and false stories. Factcheck.org invesent findings fairly.

Is it a Joke? Many web- tigates the reliability of statements

10 u RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u APRIL 2015

by politicians. The Washington Post does weekly column about what was fake on the Internet. Hoax-Slayer. com and Thatsnonsense.com also try to keep people informed about the latest viral foolishness.

What’s the source? As kids get older, they need to know how to evaluate sources so they can put their faith in people who deserve it. A media literacy program developed by professors at Stony Brook University uses the memorable acronym I’M VAIN to help students judge the reliability of news sources.

• I – Independent. A source that • • • •

tries to be objective is better than a source that is trying to sell a product or an idea.

M – Multiple. A story is more reliable when it’s confirmed by multiple sources rather than a single person.

V - Verify. Sources that can back up a story with facts are preferable to sources that simply have opinions.

AI – Authoritative and Informed. A story is more reliable if it comes from an expert who has the respect of peers.

N – Named. Sources that are willing to go on the record are better than anonymous sources.

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Of course, adults know that Information is never perfect. New facts are always coming to light, and people can have legitimate differences about how to interpret facts. Still, helping kids recognize blatantly fake news means that, at the very least, they won’t be misled or embarrassed by sharing something foolish. Better yet, they will become adults who are able to form opinions and make decisions, confident that they are based on the most reliable information they can find.

Carolyn Jabs, M.A., raised three computer savvy kids including one with special needs. She has been writing Growing up Online for ten years and is working on a book about constructive responses to conflict. Visit www.growing-up-online. com to read other columns. @ Copyright, 2015, Carolyn Jabs. All rights reserved

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By LELA MARTIN

The Uncontainable Joy of Container Gardening

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lthough it may not be a cureall for your woes, container gardening can be the solution to many problems (poor soil, bad back, neighborhood restrictions, small garden, etc.). In fact, container gardening can be a joyful experience! Most plants can be grown in containers -- vegetables, herbs, shrubs, small trees, and, of course, flowers. Container gardening offers the opportunity to make numerous

creative decisions, and most of them will work out well.

Location Decision

First, select the location for your container: on the patio, near an entrance, in a windowbox, hanging from a hook. Consider why you’re including a container in your yard.

What is its function? Is it to create a focal point, mark an entrance, or soften a hardscape?

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Container Choice N e x t , choose an appropriate clean container.

Repurpose an existing container or select something new. The traditional cast iron urn (or traditional-looking lighter weight alternative) is a formal option.

Terra cotta pots are conventional but less formal. Jardinières, which are Mediterranean-inspired, are broad at the top tapering to a smaller, nippedin shape at the bottom (called “ A n d u z e ” shape. Troughs are rectangular planters that can range from long and low to high and wide. Be creative! Use a bentwood chair that has lost its caning, a tipped wheelbarrow, or old boots for the shabby chic look.

Go with a modern planter for a sleek contemporary design.

Clay and metal pots dry out quickly in the summer heat, while glazed ceramic and plastic do not. Consider hiding an inexpensive plastic pot within a ceramic cache pot. Ceramic pots for year-round use outside should be high-fired varieties that can withstand freezing temperatures. Punching drain holes on the sides of the pot (near the bottom) and raising the pot off the ground by an inch (on pot feet or in a planter saucer) will allay

drainage problems and allow air circulation. Placing a pot on casters is a good idea, allowing for drainage and easy positioning. Larger containers will typically keep plants happier.

There should be enough room in the planter for at least 3 inches of soil or more under the root balls and for the final soil level to be about 2–3 inches from the top edge to allow for efficient watering. Some newer-style containers are self-watering (meaning they have built-in water reservoirs).

Plant Selection

Perhaps the biggest pleasure comes in selecting the plants to include. Find photos online or visit your garden center to be inspired.

The rule to remember is that the light and water requirements of all the plants should be compatible and that the container’s location should work for those needs. There are really no other rules, but some guidelines may be helpful. You are basically designing a floral arrangement with roots. An easy formula is to include a thriller (something tall to provide height) a spiller (a trailing plant), and fillers to provide the lush, full, appearance. You also could fill your container with a single plant, or apply the Rule of Thirds. Following this proportion makes your finished composition aesthetically pleasing.

Either the container is 1/3 the overall height with the plants twice as high as the container, or the plants are 1/3 the overall height with the container 2/3. Artistic gardeners often choose odd numbers of plants to create a symmetrical balance. Experiment with several flowering plants to one interesting foliage plant, for example.

Consider color -- you can go for a soothing and elegant monochromatic scheme (all shades of pink), dramatic complementary colors (orange with purple, for example), or analogous colors (those beside each other on the color wheel). Think about warm colors (red, orange, tangerine, apricot, terra cotta) which are very attractive when viewed from afar. Cool colors (blue, purple, orchid) work well when close to you.

Brown and green serve as neutrals

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in a landscape. You could use no flowering plants and select a variety of attractive foliage plants (coleus, rex begonia, caladium, polka dot plant, hosta).

Experiment with different textures. Grasses have narrow, fine leaves but dusty miller has very sculpted leaves that are fuzzy. Contrasts create visual interest.

On the other hand, a long horizontal planter, such as a window box, becomes united by the use of repetition.

For instance, all pink begonias with regularly spaced cascading ivy would create a very pleasing effect. At the garden center, grab a cart or wagon (or the container itself) and fill it with the plants you like before you get to the cash register. How you arrange your plants depends on how you will be looking at the pot. If you will be looking at it from all sides, the classic approach is to place tall plants in the center and then surround them with shorter mounding plants and finally finish off with trailing plants along the edges. If your container will be viewed from the front only, locate the thrillers at the back and work forward with fillers and then spillers.

Care Essentials

Media: Fill the container with new good quality potting mix.

For small containers (less than 14 inches in diameter), replace all the

tilizer (14-14-14 or similar blend) is easy. Mixed into the soil at planting time or scratched into the soil surface, this product will fertilize your plants all season. Another way to fertilize containers is to use all-purpose liquid fertilizers. These products are mixed with water according to label instructions and then applied during normal watering every two weeks.

Other: Additional care consists of pinching, deadheading, and

and vinca don’t require deadheading. Remove any dead or diseased leaves or plants.

Lela Martin is a Master Gardener with the Virginia Cooperative Extension in Chesterfield County.

Plant Suggestions

Thrillers: Cordyline, (Dracaena) spike, canna, ornamental grass, small Japanese maple tree, dwarf variety of crapemyrtle, “Sky Pencil” holly, boxwood, gardenia, any other small shrub

soil. Larger pots need the top12 inches of old soil replaced. Choose a potting soil or soil-less media with high quality ingredients such as vermiculite, perlite, sphagnum peat moss, pine bark, and/or compost. Fresh media should be used each spring. Remember that what is in the container will nourish your plants. The addition of packaged pasteurized potting soil to the soil-less mix at a ratio of one part soil to three parts mix will give the soil more weight and allow better water retention.

Soil from the garden is never recommended, however.

Water: After planting, water thoroughly.

This allows the potting media to get in and around the root balls of the plants and eliminate air pockets. Make sure water drains out of the hole in the bottom of the pot. During the summer, proper watering is essential. There is no substitute for observing the plant and using your finger to test the moisture of the soil. Plants in containers dry out much more quickly than plants in the ground. Fertilizer: Because container plants need frequent watering, existing nutrients are washed away with every watering. The addition of time-release fer-

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Spillers: cascading petunia, Calibrachoa, ivy, vinca, Bacopa, ivy geranium, sweet potato vine, creeping Jenny, Lamium, asparagus fern, Plumbago, thyme, Asian jasmine, Scaveola Fillers: geranium, begonia, petunia, lantana, New Guinea impatiens, sedum, yarrow, succulents, other annuals or perennials

Resources

general cleanup. Pinching refers to the removal of the growing tip of a plant. When plants get too tall or leggy, remove the top of the plant to develop a bushier habit. Some flowers need deadheading to remove spent blossoms. However, “self-cleaning” plants such as petunias, begonias,

“Successful Container Gardens: How to Select, Plant and Maintain” (includes “recipes” or “blueprints” with photos and plant selections): http://urbanext.illinois. edu/containergardening/default. cfm “Outdoor Container Gardening with Flowering and Foliage Plants”: https://njaes.rutgers.edu/pubs/fs1215/ Janet Heltzel, Owner of the Garden Place in Midlothian

RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u MAY 2015 u 13

GARDENING

By LELA MARTIN

The Uncontainable Joy of Container Gardening

A

lthough it may not be a cureall for your woes, container gardening can be the solution to many problems (poor soil, bad back, neighborhood restrictions, small garden, etc.). In fact, container gardening can be a joyful experience! Most plants can be grown in containers -- vegetables, herbs, shrubs, small trees, and, of course, flowers. Container gardening offers the opportunity to make numerous

creative decisions, and most of them will work out well.

Location Decision

First, select the location for your container: on the patio, near an entrance, in a windowbox, hanging from a hook. Consider why you’re including a container in your yard.

What is its function? Is it to create a focal point, mark an entrance, or soften a hardscape?

12 u RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u MAY 2015

Container Choice N e x t , choose an appropriate clean container.

Repurpose an existing container or select something new. The traditional cast iron urn (or traditional-looking lighter weight alternative) is a formal option.

Terra cotta pots are conventional but less formal. Jardinières, which are Mediterranean-inspired, are broad at the top tapering to a smaller, nippedin shape at the bottom (called “ A n d u z e ” shape. Troughs are rectangular planters that can range from long and low to high and wide. Be creative! Use a bentwood chair that has lost its caning, a tipped wheelbarrow, or old boots for the shabby chic look.

Go with a modern planter for a sleek contemporary design.

Clay and metal pots dry out quickly in the summer heat, while glazed ceramic and plastic do not. Consider hiding an inexpensive plastic pot within a ceramic cache pot. Ceramic pots for year-round use outside should be high-fired varieties that can withstand freezing temperatures. Punching drain holes on the sides of the pot (near the bottom) and raising the pot off the ground by an inch (on pot feet or in a planter saucer) will allay

drainage problems and allow air circulation. Placing a pot on casters is a good idea, allowing for drainage and easy positioning. Larger containers will typically keep plants happier.

There should be enough room in the planter for at least 3 inches of soil or more under the root balls and for the final soil level to be about 2–3 inches from the top edge to allow for efficient watering. Some newer-style containers are self-watering (meaning they have built-in water reservoirs).

Plant Selection

Perhaps the biggest pleasure comes in selecting the plants to include. Find photos online or visit your garden center to be inspired.

The rule to remember is that the light and water requirements of all the plants should be compatible and that the container’s location should work for those needs. There are really no other rules, but some guidelines may be helpful. You are basically designing a floral arrangement with roots. An easy formula is to include a thriller (something tall to provide height) a spiller (a trailing plant), and fillers to provide the lush, full, appearance. You also could fill your container with a single plant, or apply the Rule of Thirds. Following this proportion makes your finished composition aesthetically pleasing.

Either the container is 1/3 the overall height with the plants twice as high as the container, or the plants are 1/3 the overall height with the container 2/3. Artistic gardeners often choose odd numbers of plants to create a symmetrical balance. Experiment with several flowering plants to one interesting foliage plant, for example.

Consider color -- you can go for a soothing and elegant monochromatic scheme (all shades of pink), dramatic complementary colors (orange with purple, for example), or analogous colors (those beside each other on the color wheel). Think about warm colors (red, orange, tangerine, apricot, terra cotta) which are very attractive when viewed from afar. Cool colors (blue, purple, orchid) work well when close to you.

Brown and green serve as neutrals

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in a landscape. You could use no flowering plants and select a variety of attractive foliage plants (coleus, rex begonia, caladium, polka dot plant, hosta).

Experiment with different textures. Grasses have narrow, fine leaves but dusty miller has very sculpted leaves that are fuzzy. Contrasts create visual interest.

On the other hand, a long horizontal planter, such as a window box, becomes united by the use of repetition.

For instance, all pink begonias with regularly spaced cascading ivy would create a very pleasing effect. At the garden center, grab a cart or wagon (or the container itself) and fill it with the plants you like before you get to the cash register. How you arrange your plants depends on how you will be looking at the pot. If you will be looking at it from all sides, the classic approach is to place tall plants in the center and then surround them with shorter mounding plants and finally finish off with trailing plants along the edges. If your container will be viewed from the front only, locate the thrillers at the back and work forward with fillers and then spillers.

Care Essentials

Media: Fill the container with new good quality potting mix.

For small containers (less than 14 inches in diameter), replace all the

tilizer (14-14-14 or similar blend) is easy. Mixed into the soil at planting time or scratched into the soil surface, this product will fertilize your plants all season. Another way to fertilize containers is to use all-purpose liquid fertilizers. These products are mixed with water according to label instructions and then applied during normal watering every two weeks.

Other: Additional care consists of pinching, deadheading, and

and vinca don’t require deadheading. Remove any dead or diseased leaves or plants.

Lela Martin is a Master Gardener with the Virginia Cooperative Extension in Chesterfield County.

Plant Suggestions

Thrillers: Cordyline, (Dracaena) spike, canna, ornamental grass, small Japanese maple tree, dwarf variety of crapemyrtle, “Sky Pencil” holly, boxwood, gardenia, any other small shrub

soil. Larger pots need the top12 inches of old soil replaced. Choose a potting soil or soil-less media with high quality ingredients such as vermiculite, perlite, sphagnum peat moss, pine bark, and/or compost. Fresh media should be used each spring. Remember that what is in the container will nourish your plants. The addition of packaged pasteurized potting soil to the soil-less mix at a ratio of one part soil to three parts mix will give the soil more weight and allow better water retention.

Soil from the garden is never recommended, however.

Water: After planting, water thoroughly.

This allows the potting media to get in and around the root balls of the plants and eliminate air pockets. Make sure water drains out of the hole in the bottom of the pot. During the summer, proper watering is essential. There is no substitute for observing the plant and using your finger to test the moisture of the soil. Plants in containers dry out much more quickly than plants in the ground. Fertilizer: Because container plants need frequent watering, existing nutrients are washed away with every watering. The addition of time-release fer-

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Spillers: cascading petunia, Calibrachoa, ivy, vinca, Bacopa, ivy geranium, sweet potato vine, creeping Jenny, Lamium, asparagus fern, Plumbago, thyme, Asian jasmine, Scaveola Fillers: geranium, begonia, petunia, lantana, New Guinea impatiens, sedum, yarrow, succulents, other annuals or perennials

Resources

general cleanup. Pinching refers to the removal of the growing tip of a plant. When plants get too tall or leggy, remove the top of the plant to develop a bushier habit. Some flowers need deadheading to remove spent blossoms. However, “self-cleaning” plants such as petunias, begonias,

“Successful Container Gardens: How to Select, Plant and Maintain” (includes “recipes” or “blueprints” with photos and plant selections): http://urbanext.illinois. edu/containergardening/default. cfm “Outdoor Container Gardening with Flowering and Foliage Plants”: https://njaes.rutgers.edu/pubs/fs1215/ Janet Heltzel, Owner of the Garden Place in Midlothian

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randon Farbstein is a remarkable young man. Diagnosed at age 2 with metatropic dysplasia (a rare form of dwarfism), the 15-year-old never lets his condition define who he is.

In fact, the Deep Run High School freshman has amassed an impressive resume as an actor, and has recently added motivational speaker to his growing list of accomplishments.

He’s talked before local civic groups and pitched his way into speaking in April at TEDx RVA, convincing the producer that he had something important to say.

The TEDx RVA talk was a breakthrough moment for Brandon.

The Glen Allen teen has played an array of roles in productions for the School of the Performing Arts in the Richmond Community, but this was different. This time, he was sharing his personal story with a live audience.

He found that he could open up and be himself, and the audience loved him for it.

After Brandon’s TED talk, the host asked his parents, Sylvia and Steve Farbstein, what they had

learned in the process of raising an amazing kid like Brandon.

His father replied: “...

Good things come in small packages. ..The reality is Brandon has been an old soul since 1, talking in full sentences, and so don’t look at the person, look inside of him, and see the beauty that’s there.”

Brandon has had more than his share of challenges.

He’s 3 foot 8 inches tall, about the size of the average 6 year old boy. His genetic condition can be fatal, but Brandon expresses gratitude that he has been diagnosed with a mild to moderate form, which so far has not been life threatening.

He has had two operations on his legs so far, at age 4 and 8, to straighten out his bones. He suffers from arthritis, which will get progressively worse, and he is frequently in pain. Otherwise, he’s in relatively good health, but since his condition is so rare (only 100 known cases), no one knows what problems he may encounter. Those with more severe cases can develop extreme curvature of the spine, causing suffocation and eventual death.

Brandon credits his family with providing him with the physical and emotional support he needs.

They also encourage him to think big, and figure out for himself how he can reach his goals.

Brandon’s mom, Sylvia, tells the story of the family going to New York City for spring vacation. It was Easter Sunday, and Brandon wanted to see the Broadway play, “Finding Neverland”.

They managed to get tickets,

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but the theaters are old and have no elevators or accommodations for the handicapped. Brandon went to the box office and asked to see the house manager. He expressed his concerns about getting to his seat safely, without getting trampled by others who might not see him. He also needed a place to store his mobility device.

The manager allowed them to enter the theater early, then found a place to store Brandon’s device.

The teen told the man that he was a local actor in Richmond, and asked if they could get a backstage tour. They got the tour, and were first in line to meet and get autographs from all the actors.

Brandon got to talk with all the actors and he spent a long time with the female lead, who he told about his upcoming TEDx talk. She was amazed that he was doing this.

She told him that she was once offered a chance to do a TEDx talk but had turned it down because she was too nervous to go out and be herself.

Sylvia says of her son, “[the actress] was so in awe that this 15 year old had the guts to be so vulnerable in front of an audience. So he connected with her. It just shows that you don’t have to be scared or intimidated or insecure about going after what you believe in.”

Walking any distance is painful for Brandon, but he didn’t want to spend his days riding around in a wheelchair or scooter as a doctor had suggested. So, Brandon asked his parents if he could get a Segway.

They were fine with the idea, so long as he figured out a way to raise the money.

He did.

Brandon created a Facebook campaign, “Help Brad Move”. With his mom’s help, they made and sold orange RVA magnets. He was able to raise almost $5,000. It was still not enough for a Segway, but his mom was able to find a less expensive, but similar device.

He had enough money to buy two. One conveniently breaks down and fits in a bag for travel.

Brandon believes that technology, including social media, can be a great tool to enable people, but he’s also seen the downside when bullies get online and post hurtful

messages, targeting those who are different. He has been the target of such bullying.

“Technology gives me the opportunity to share my story, but it also allows others to anonymously hurt me, while hiding behind a screen”, he said at TEDx RVA, “None of us can allow ourselves to be paralyzed by hate in the world. I want this talk to be a catalyst to propel us forward to use technology for good.”

Brandon wants to give back and inspire others to embrace themselves as they are, by looking beyond exterior appearances, and seeing the real person inside.

“Don’t allow your perceptions to dictate your life,” he said.

Another quote he is fond of is, “Change how you see, see how you change”, from fashion photographer Nick Guidotti, who is trying to redefine what we call beautiful through his website positiveexposure.org . Brandon is a contributor to his blog.

He also wants to pursue a career in journalism and news broadcasting. He is already a morning news anchorman at his high school’s student television station.

When asked what is most important to him in his life at this time, Brandon said, “Being able to share my story and the ability to inspire others is huge. It’s quite a driving force in my life. It’s given me the opportunity to open myself up to the world and help others, and I definitely think that’s what I was put on the earth for, to be the change.”

BRANDON FARBSTEIN

AGE: 15 SCHOOL: Deep Run High School GRADE: FRESHMAN FAMILY: Parents Sylvia and Steve Far stein, and sister Brooke, 18 SEE BRANDON: Check out Brandon’s TEDx RVA talk at http://livestream.com/tedx/ rva/videos/83442847 Advance the video to 1:49 on the timeline to see Brandon

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randon Farbstein is a remarkable young man. Diagnosed at age 2 with metatropic dysplasia (a rare form of dwarfism), the 15-year-old never lets his condition define who he is.

In fact, the Deep Run High School freshman has amassed an impressive resume as an actor, and has recently added motivational speaker to his growing list of accomplishments.

He’s talked before local civic groups and pitched his way into speaking in April at TEDx RVA, convincing the producer that he had something important to say.

The TEDx RVA talk was a breakthrough moment for Brandon.

The Glen Allen teen has played an array of roles in productions for the School of the Performing Arts in the Richmond Community, but this was different. This time, he was sharing his personal story with a live audience.

He found that he could open up and be himself, and the audience loved him for it.

After Brandon’s TED talk, the host asked his parents, Sylvia and Steve Farbstein, what they had

learned in the process of raising an amazing kid like Brandon.

His father replied: “...

Good things come in small packages. ..The reality is Brandon has been an old soul since 1, talking in full sentences, and so don’t look at the person, look inside of him, and see the beauty that’s there.”

Brandon has had more than his share of challenges.

He’s 3 foot 8 inches tall, about the size of the average 6 year old boy. His genetic condition can be fatal, but Brandon expresses gratitude that he has been diagnosed with a mild to moderate form, which so far has not been life threatening.

He has had two operations on his legs so far, at age 4 and 8, to straighten out his bones. He suffers from arthritis, which will get progressively worse, and he is frequently in pain. Otherwise, he’s in relatively good health, but since his condition is so rare (only 100 known cases), no one knows what problems he may encounter. Those with more severe cases can develop extreme curvature of the spine, causing suffocation and eventual death.

Brandon credits his family with providing him with the physical and emotional support he needs.

They also encourage him to think big, and figure out for himself how he can reach his goals.

Brandon’s mom, Sylvia, tells the story of the family going to New York City for spring vacation. It was Easter Sunday, and Brandon wanted to see the Broadway play, “Finding Neverland”.

They managed to get tickets,

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but the theaters are old and have no elevators or accommodations for the handicapped. Brandon went to the box office and asked to see the house manager. He expressed his concerns about getting to his seat safely, without getting trampled by others who might not see him. He also needed a place to store his mobility device.

The manager allowed them to enter the theater early, then found a place to store Brandon’s device.

The teen told the man that he was a local actor in Richmond, and asked if they could get a backstage tour. They got the tour, and were first in line to meet and get autographs from all the actors.

Brandon got to talk with all the actors and he spent a long time with the female lead, who he told about his upcoming TEDx talk. She was amazed that he was doing this.

She told him that she was once offered a chance to do a TEDx talk but had turned it down because she was too nervous to go out and be herself.

Sylvia says of her son, “[the actress] was so in awe that this 15 year old had the guts to be so vulnerable in front of an audience. So he connected with her. It just shows that you don’t have to be scared or intimidated or insecure about going after what you believe in.”

Walking any distance is painful for Brandon, but he didn’t want to spend his days riding around in a wheelchair or scooter as a doctor had suggested. So, Brandon asked his parents if he could get a Segway.

They were fine with the idea, so long as he figured out a way to raise the money.

He did.

Brandon created a Facebook campaign, “Help Brad Move”. With his mom’s help, they made and sold orange RVA magnets. He was able to raise almost $5,000. It was still not enough for a Segway, but his mom was able to find a less expensive, but similar device.

He had enough money to buy two. One conveniently breaks down and fits in a bag for travel.

Brandon believes that technology, including social media, can be a great tool to enable people, but he’s also seen the downside when bullies get online and post hurtful

messages, targeting those who are different. He has been the target of such bullying.

“Technology gives me the opportunity to share my story, but it also allows others to anonymously hurt me, while hiding behind a screen”, he said at TEDx RVA, “None of us can allow ourselves to be paralyzed by hate in the world. I want this talk to be a catalyst to propel us forward to use technology for good.”

Brandon wants to give back and inspire others to embrace themselves as they are, by looking beyond exterior appearances, and seeing the real person inside.

“Don’t allow your perceptions to dictate your life,” he said.

Another quote he is fond of is, “Change how you see, see how you change”, from fashion photographer Nick Guidotti, who is trying to redefine what we call beautiful through his website positiveexposure.org . Brandon is a contributor to his blog.

He also wants to pursue a career in journalism and news broadcasting. He is already a morning news anchorman at his high school’s student television station.

When asked what is most important to him in his life at this time, Brandon said, “Being able to share my story and the ability to inspire others is huge. It’s quite a driving force in my life. It’s given me the opportunity to open myself up to the world and help others, and I definitely think that’s what I was put on the earth for, to be the change.”

BRANDON FARBSTEIN

AGE: 15 SCHOOL: Deep Run High School GRADE: FRESHMAN FAMILY: Parents Sylvia and Steve Far stein, and sister Brooke, 18 SEE BRANDON: Check out Brandon’s TEDx RVA talk at http://livestream.com/tedx/ rva/videos/83442847 Advance the video to 1:49 on the timeline to see Brandon

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MAY 1 AN EVENING OF JAZZ: Desiree Roots Trio performs at 7 p.m. at The Cultural Arts Center at Glen Allen, 2880 Mountain Road; all-ages, family-friendly show; $15 in advance, $18 at door, with wine, beer, beverages and catered dinner available to purchase at concert; www.artsglenallen.com, or call (804) 261-2787

MAY 10 HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!

THROUGH MAY 11 “NINA” AND “PINTA” REPLICAS DOCKED IN RICHMOND: Replicas of two of the three ships in Christopher Columbus’s 15th century journey to the New World will be available for tour at Rocketts Landing, 4708 Old Main St.; ships on display until their departure early on May 11; ‘Nina’ was built by hand, without power tools; The “Pinta” is a larger version of the archetypal caravel; walk-aboard, self-guided tour; $8 for adults, $7 for seniors,$6 for students age 5 – 16, free to ages 4 and younger; 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. each day, no reservations required; for teachers or organizations wishing to schedule a 30-minute guided tour with a crew member, call (787) 672-2152, or email columfnd1492@gmail.com; group tours must have at least 15 members and costs $5 per person; see website www.ninapinta.org

MAY 14

SENIOR PARTY AND WELLNESS FAIR: 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., Eastern Henrico Recreation Center; for ages 50 and older; Henrico Division of Recreation and Parks and Senior Connections event includes health screenings, vendors, carnival games, entertainment, and music; for information, email to sne02@henrico.us

MAY 14 HIGHLIGHTS OF HOLLYWOOD CEMETERY WALKING TOUR: 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m.; meet at Cherry and Albermarle streets; learn about cemetery history, landscape design and architecture, symbols on graves and famous folks who are buried here; $15, cash or check, charges accepted in advance; sponsored by Valentine Richmond History Center; thevalentine.org

MAY 15 PAGE BOND GALLERY: Opening reception 6 pm. To 8 p.m. for Ever-changing: New Paintings by Robin Braun, Floats: Acrylic Sculpture by Christian Haub and More Adventures in Structure and Light: Paintings

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This work by Kailee Cross is part of the exhibit Painting the Enchanted Garden, on display through June 21, at the Edgar Allan Poe Museum, 1914 E. Main St.

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MAY 6

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Valid Through December 30, 2015

It’s Your Time to Celebrate

MAY 1 UPTOWN GALLERY ARTS OPENINGS: Featured artists Susie Melton and Ellen Wakefield and guest artist Peggy Moore works in the exhibit “This Beautiful Country” and works by Sally Lawson and Lori Wilson in the Frable Gallery exhibit “An Inspired Life”; opening reception 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. at the gallery, 1305 W. Main St.; (804) 353-8343

MAYOR’S SENIOR SPRING PROM: 7 p.m., fun-filled romantic evening in the Altria Theatre Ballroom; dress in elegant attire; soul music by Glennroy & Company, refreshments and drinks served, specialty drinks and coffee available for purchase; $12; altriatheater.com

MAY 8 RICHMOND JAZZ BAND: Mother’s Day concert, 7-9 p.m. Regency Square, lower level, 1420 N. Parham Road; complementary refreshments; shopregencysqmall. com

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Our spectacular 19-story glass atrium welcomes you with sweeping views of the Potomac River. Luxurious spa treatments, delicious dining, unique shopping and fun recreation options provide everything you need for a joyous occasion.

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Book your getaway today!

GaylordNational.com or call (301) 965-4000 (refer to promo code ZJL) OTHER LOCATIONS Valid through December 30, 2015. Limited number of rooms available for this promotion. Offer does not apply to groups of 10 or more rooms. Offer cannot be combined with any other promotion. Limit One (1) $100 resort credit per night. See website for complete terms and conditions.

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“Two Girls Whispering”, a graphite drawing by Peggy Moore, is featured in an exhibit at the Uptown Gallery, 1305 W. Main St.

CAP2CAP BIKE RIDE: Bicycle event loop ride between Richmond and Williamsburg, with starts in either city; distanes include quarter, half and full century rides, and a 15-mile fun ride (Williamsburg start only); virginiacapitaltrail.org

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MAY 1 AN EVENING OF JAZZ: Desiree Roots Trio performs at 7 p.m. at The Cultural Arts Center at Glen Allen, 2880 Mountain Road; all-ages, family-friendly show; $15 in advance, $18 at door, with wine, beer, beverages and catered dinner available to purchase at concert; www.artsglenallen.com, or call (804) 261-2787

MAY 10 HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!

THROUGH MAY 11 “NINA” AND “PINTA” REPLICAS DOCKED IN RICHMOND: Replicas of two of the three ships in Christopher Columbus’s 15th century journey to the New World will be available for tour at Rocketts Landing, 4708 Old Main St.; ships on display until their departure early on May 11; ‘Nina’ was built by hand, without power tools; The “Pinta” is a larger version of the archetypal caravel; walk-aboard, self-guided tour; $8 for adults, $7 for seniors,$6 for students age 5 – 16, free to ages 4 and younger; 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. each day, no reservations required; for teachers or organizations wishing to schedule a 30-minute guided tour with a crew member, call (787) 672-2152, or email columfnd1492@gmail.com; group tours must have at least 15 members and costs $5 per person; see website www.ninapinta.org

MAY 14

SENIOR PARTY AND WELLNESS FAIR: 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., Eastern Henrico Recreation Center; for ages 50 and older; Henrico Division of Recreation and Parks and Senior Connections event includes health screenings, vendors, carnival games, entertainment, and music; for information, email to sne02@henrico.us

MAY 14 HIGHLIGHTS OF HOLLYWOOD CEMETERY WALKING TOUR: 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m.; meet at Cherry and Albermarle streets; learn about cemetery history, landscape design and architecture, symbols on graves and famous folks who are buried here; $15, cash or check, charges accepted in advance; sponsored by Valentine Richmond History Center; thevalentine.org

MAY 15 PAGE BOND GALLERY: Opening reception 6 pm. To 8 p.m. for Ever-changing: New Paintings by Robin Braun, Floats: Acrylic Sculpture by Christian Haub and More Adventures in Structure and Light: Paintings

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Let’s Go! May 2015 Ludke, and Dwight M. Paulett;(804)6485523,poemuseumorg.

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THE SNYDER FAMILY BAND: All-ages, family-friendly performance by family band that performs an array of styles, including bluegrass and newgrass, Southern rock, Texas swing and blues; 7 p.m., The Cultural Arts Center at Glen Allen, 2880 Mountain Road; allages, family-friendly show; $25; www.artsglenallen.com, or call (804) 261-2787

by Ruby Palmer; exhibition through June 12; 1625 W. Main St.; 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. TuesdaySaturday through May 22, then 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday-Saturday May 23 through Sept.

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River Road, Midlothian; American Cancer Society Relay for Life event; http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR?fr_id=65198&pg=entry

MAY 16

VELOCITY DRIVING: Richmond International Raceway Complex; chance to get behind the wheel of supercars including Nissan GTR, Lamborghini Gallardo, Audi R8, Maserati GranTurismo S, BMW M6, Porsche 911 Turbo, Aston Martin DB9, and Chevrolet Corvette C7 Stingray for 2, 4, or 7 laps around a professionally-designed autocross racetrack with a focus on speed, and exploring what these amazing machines are all about; drive with an instructor in the passenger seat giving you pointers on how to get the most out of your experience; $250 and up; 8 a.m. each day; velocitydriving.com

BARK IN THE PARK: 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Deep Run Park; Henrico Recreation and Parks and Henrico Humane Society event for furry family members and their humans; expo of local vendors, dog contests, music, children’s activities; free, but $25 registration fee for 2K Dog Walk ($10 for ages 6-12 and free for dogs and humans 5 and younger);l proceeds benefit Henrico Humane Society; to register for the dog walk, see henricohumane. org; for information, call (804) 652-3411.

BUGS BUNNY AT THE SYMPHONY II: 6 p.m., Altria Theatre, Richmond Symphony event features classic Looney Tunes on the big screen accompanied by the symphony; $25 to $60; altriatheatere.com

MAY 16-17 RELAY FOR LIFE OF CHESTERFIELD: 7 p.m. May 16 to 7 a.m. May 17; James River High School, 3780 James

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MAY 18 WWE MONDAY NIGHT RAW: 7:30 p.m., Richmond Coliseum United States Champion John Cena, Roman Reigns and Randy Orton vs. WWE World Heavyweight Champion Seth Rollins, Big Show and Rusev; $15 to $100; richmondcoliseum.net

MAY 25

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SANDSTON MEMORIAL DAY PARADE: 1:30 p.m., Williamsburg Road; America Legion Posts 242 and 144 are hosting the seventh annual event; theme is honoring veterans of Korean War; memorial service at Seven Pines National Cemetery at noon; www.ehba.us/parade or mur12@henrico.us

MAY 30 COMMUNITY DAY: 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., Our Lady of Hope Health Center, 13700 N. Gayton Road; food and fun for the family, cookout, activities, artisans; ourladyofhope. com BEER, BOURBON BBQ FESTIVAL: Richmond Raceway Complex; 2 p.m. to 6 p.m., 60 beers, 40 bourbons and mounds of barbecue to sample, music all day; $25 designated driver, $35 to taste, and VIP tickets available; www.drinkrelax.com

ONGOING PAINTING THE ENCHANTED GARDEN: Exhibition through June 21 at the Edgar Allan Poe Museum, 1914 E. Main St.; works of museum garden by David Bromley, Clarise Carnahan, Kailee Cross, Bill Dompke, Kim Hall, Linda Hollett, Chris

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Entries for the June calendar are due May 9; send items to calendar@richmondpublishing.com.

THE SNYDER FAMILY BAND: All-ages, family-friendly performance by family band that performs an array of styles, including bluegrass and newgrass, Southern rock, Texas swing and blues; 7 p.m., The Cultural Arts Center at Glen Allen, 2880 Mountain Road; allages, family-friendly show; $25; www.artsglenallen.com, or call (804) 261-2787

by Ruby Palmer; exhibition through June 12; 1625 W. Main St.; 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. TuesdaySaturday through May 22, then 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday-Saturday May 23 through Sept.

8, and by appointment; pagebondgallery.com and (804) 359-3633

River Road, Midlothian; American Cancer Society Relay for Life event; http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR?fr_id=65198&pg=entry

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VELOCITY DRIVING: Richmond International Raceway Complex; chance to get behind the wheel of supercars including Nissan GTR, Lamborghini Gallardo, Audi R8, Maserati GranTurismo S, BMW M6, Porsche 911 Turbo, Aston Martin DB9, and Chevrolet Corvette C7 Stingray for 2, 4, or 7 laps around a professionally-designed autocross racetrack with a focus on speed, and exploring what these amazing machines are all about; drive with an instructor in the passenger seat giving you pointers on how to get the most out of your experience; $250 and up; 8 a.m. each day; velocitydriving.com

BARK IN THE PARK: 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Deep Run Park; Henrico Recreation and Parks and Henrico Humane Society event for furry family members and their humans; expo of local vendors, dog contests, music, children’s activities; free, but $25 registration fee for 2K Dog Walk ($10 for ages 6-12 and free for dogs and humans 5 and younger);l proceeds benefit Henrico Humane Society; to register for the dog walk, see henricohumane. org; for information, call (804) 652-3411.

BUGS BUNNY AT THE SYMPHONY II: 6 p.m., Altria Theatre, Richmond Symphony event features classic Looney Tunes on the big screen accompanied by the symphony; $25 to $60; altriatheatere.com

MAY 16-17 RELAY FOR LIFE OF CHESTERFIELD: 7 p.m. May 16 to 7 a.m. May 17; James River High School, 3780 James

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MAY 18 WWE MONDAY NIGHT RAW: 7:30 p.m., Richmond Coliseum United States Champion John Cena, Roman Reigns and Randy Orton vs. WWE World Heavyweight Champion Seth Rollins, Big Show and Rusev; $15 to $100; richmondcoliseum.net

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SANDSTON MEMORIAL DAY PARADE: 1:30 p.m., Williamsburg Road; America Legion Posts 242 and 144 are hosting the seventh annual event; theme is honoring veterans of Korean War; memorial service at Seven Pines National Cemetery at noon; www.ehba.us/parade or mur12@henrico.us

MAY 30 COMMUNITY DAY: 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., Our Lady of Hope Health Center, 13700 N. Gayton Road; food and fun for the family, cookout, activities, artisans; ourladyofhope. com BEER, BOURBON BBQ FESTIVAL: Richmond Raceway Complex; 2 p.m. to 6 p.m., 60 beers, 40 bourbons and mounds of barbecue to sample, music all day; $25 designated driver, $35 to taste, and VIP tickets available; www.drinkrelax.com

ONGOING PAINTING THE ENCHANTED GARDEN: Exhibition through June 21 at the Edgar Allan Poe Museum, 1914 E. Main St.; works of museum garden by David Bromley, Clarise Carnahan, Kailee Cross, Bill Dompke, Kim Hall, Linda Hollett, Chris

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