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April Showers Bring … Weeds ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS ABOUT WEED CONTROL IN YOUR LAWN
Parents’ First Choice For 25 Years!
by Lela Martin
From the Editor
contents APRIL 2016
6
by Greg Weatherford
C
ollege acceptance letters arrived recently -- the old adage of fat envelopes meaning good news and slim ones meaning bad. At many houses with graduating high-school seniors, there were strong feelings as these letters arrived. Some joy, lots of satisfaction, a fair amount of heartbreak. Some got their first choices, others their backups, some their fallbacks. Some, I’m sure, got nothing. So many choices made by so many people, with such dramatic results. It happens millions of times a year, but when it happens to you it is always one of a kind. There’s a powerful reason to go beyond high school. People with college degrees make more money than people without them. They say they are happier with their lives. They even live longer on average. The fact is, workplaces have changed. It’s not easy to get a job that pays decently without some sort of training beyond a high-school diploma. So for most of our kids, no matter what educational level their parents may have attained, a degree or a certificate of technical expertise will be essential for them to live the lives we want for them. All that is to say that it means more than ever. And it all comes down to those acceptance letters. For many of our sons and daughters this will be the biggest single decision of their lives, a dividing line that will define who they will become, who their friends will be, their professors and their experiences -- good or bad. It’s a big deal. Here’s hoping for good news for you and yours. May all your acceptance letters be fat.
Gardening
Answers to your questions about weed control in your lawn.
10
The Dad Days of Summer
14
Growing Up Online
16
Let’s Go!
Summertime parenting wisdom for dad.
Straight talk about online harrassment.
What to do and where to go.
On the Cover: Malia Jacobson.
T
his article addresses the treatment of weeds in cool-season fescue, the type of turfgrass most common in the Richmond area. For information on maintaining warm-season grasses, refer to Clemson Cooperative Extension Publication HGIC 2010 entitled “Managing Weeds in Warm Season Lawns.”
What is a weed?
A weed can be defined as a plant out of place. Since most people prefer uniformity in a lawn, even anoth-
er type of turf grass could be considered a weed. In cool-season fescue lawns, Bermuda grass, which I call “wiregrass” when I’m not using harsher language, is a weed. However, many golf courses (as well as my neighbors) plant Bermuda grass. Weeds can deprive desirable grass of sunlight, nutrients, and moisture. Some, especially those that are invasive or poisonous, are more serious pests than others.
What are the different types of
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weeds?
A key to success in reducing weeds in your yard is knowing what kind of weeds you have and their lifecycles. Weeds can be classified as annual or perennial. An annual weed completes its lifecycle within a twelve-month period. Summer annuals, such as goosegrass or crabgrass, germinate in the spring, grow through the summer, set seed, and die at the onset of cold weather. Winter annuals, such as chickweed, henbit, purple deadnettle, or annual
bluegrass (aka Poa annua), germinate in the fall, grow through the winter, set seed, and die as temperatures rise in early summer. Perennials grow for two or more years and are more difficult to control. They typically reproduce from tubers, bulbs, rhizomes, or stolons, though some also produce seed. Examples are dallisgrass, wild garlic, nutsedge, white clover, and plantains. Weeds can also be typed as either grassy or broadleaf. Broadleaf weeds emerge from seed with two leaves (continued on page 8)
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April Showers Bring … Weeds ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS ABOUT WEED CONTROL IN YOUR LAWN
Parents’ First Choice For 25 Years!
by Lela Martin
From the Editor
contents APRIL 2016
6
by Greg Weatherford
C
ollege acceptance letters arrived recently -- the old adage of fat envelopes meaning good news and slim ones meaning bad. At many houses with graduating high-school seniors, there were strong feelings as these letters arrived. Some joy, lots of satisfaction, a fair amount of heartbreak. Some got their first choices, others their backups, some their fallbacks. Some, I’m sure, got nothing. So many choices made by so many people, with such dramatic results. It happens millions of times a year, but when it happens to you it is always one of a kind. There’s a powerful reason to go beyond high school. People with college degrees make more money than people without them. They say they are happier with their lives. They even live longer on average. The fact is, workplaces have changed. It’s not easy to get a job that pays decently without some sort of training beyond a high-school diploma. So for most of our kids, no matter what educational level their parents may have attained, a degree or a certificate of technical expertise will be essential for them to live the lives we want for them. All that is to say that it means more than ever. And it all comes down to those acceptance letters. For many of our sons and daughters this will be the biggest single decision of their lives, a dividing line that will define who they will become, who their friends will be, their professors and their experiences -- good or bad. It’s a big deal. Here’s hoping for good news for you and yours. May all your acceptance letters be fat.
Gardening
Answers to your questions about weed control in your lawn.
10
The Dad Days of Summer
14
Growing Up Online
16
Let’s Go!
Summertime parenting wisdom for dad.
Straight talk about online harrassment.
What to do and where to go.
On the Cover: Malia Jacobson.
T
his article addresses the treatment of weeds in cool-season fescue, the type of turfgrass most common in the Richmond area. For information on maintaining warm-season grasses, refer to Clemson Cooperative Extension Publication HGIC 2010 entitled “Managing Weeds in Warm Season Lawns.”
What is a weed?
A weed can be defined as a plant out of place. Since most people prefer uniformity in a lawn, even anoth-
er type of turf grass could be considered a weed. In cool-season fescue lawns, Bermuda grass, which I call “wiregrass” when I’m not using harsher language, is a weed. However, many golf courses (as well as my neighbors) plant Bermuda grass. Weeds can deprive desirable grass of sunlight, nutrients, and moisture. Some, especially those that are invasive or poisonous, are more serious pests than others.
What are the different types of
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weeds?
A key to success in reducing weeds in your yard is knowing what kind of weeds you have and their lifecycles. Weeds can be classified as annual or perennial. An annual weed completes its lifecycle within a twelve-month period. Summer annuals, such as goosegrass or crabgrass, germinate in the spring, grow through the summer, set seed, and die at the onset of cold weather. Winter annuals, such as chickweed, henbit, purple deadnettle, or annual
bluegrass (aka Poa annua), germinate in the fall, grow through the winter, set seed, and die as temperatures rise in early summer. Perennials grow for two or more years and are more difficult to control. They typically reproduce from tubers, bulbs, rhizomes, or stolons, though some also produce seed. Examples are dallisgrass, wild garlic, nutsedge, white clover, and plantains. Weeds can also be typed as either grassy or broadleaf. Broadleaf weeds emerge from seed with two leaves (continued on page 8)
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Founder/Publisher: Mark E. Fetter mfetter@richmondpublishing.com Editor: Greg Weatherford rpmeditor@richmondpublishing.com Art Director: Jennifer Sutton jsutton@richmondpublishing.com Contributing Writers: Lela Martin, Carolyn Jabs, Greg Weatherford
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Editorial Mission: Richmond Parents Monthly is dedicated to providing parents and professionals with the best information and resources available to enhance all aspects of parenting and family life. It is also an avenue to facilitate a shared sense of community among parents by providing useful information, support and a forum for dialogue on issues that are important to all parents and families. Richmond Parents Monthly is published 12 times a year and distributed free of charge. The advertising deadline is the 10th of each month for the upcoming issue. Richmond Parents Monthly welcomes reader comments and submissions; however, the publication is not responsible for unsolicited materials. All materials received become the property of the publisher and will not be returned. We reserve the right to edit any material used for publication. The entire content of Richmond Parents Monthly is ©2015. No portion may be reproduced in whole or in part by any means without the express written consent of the publisher. The views and opinions expressed by writers and columnists do not necessarily represent those of Richmond Parents Monthly or its staff.
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Every month, an average of 75,000 readers enjoy Richmond Parents Monthly which is distributed in over 425 locations throughout the metro area. These locations include all CVS stores, McDonald’s, Kroger stores, medical centers, retail outlets, museums, and bookstores as well as many public libraries. Richmond Parents Monthly is regularly advertised on television. This creates a demand for the magazine and increases visibility and reader recall. Richmond Parents Monthly is also represented at numerous community events throughout the year.
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“April Showers Bring...Weeds” continued from page 6 lands have floating seeds that can be spread in flowing water. Animals can help spread weeds. Some weed seeds pass through the digestive tracts of birds and mammals. Many weeds have seeds or seedpods that
affect your ability to grow healthy turfgrass. Focus on the things you can control such as mowing and irrigation now. Then provide the right nutrients and lawn renovation (if necessary) in the fall. Remember that
Why worry about how you deal with lawn weeds?
Although frustration may lead you to say “just nuke them,” you really want to use the best management practices in spring weed control to promote a healthy, thick lawn while protecting our environment.
When do you treat weeds?
How are weed seeds spread?
Most weeds produce abundant seeds, which can be spread in many ways. For example, dandelions have a fluffy umbrella structure, so they can be dispersed by the wind. The seeds of plants that live in wet-
Lela Martin is a Master Gardener with the Chesterfield County office of the Virginia Cooperative Extension. cling to fur by sticky hairs, hooks, or barbs. Humans also play a part in weed seed dispersal unintentionally. People have deliberately introduced plant species as crops or as ornamentals. Some of those introduced plants become aggressive and are later regarded as weeds. Mowers and other lawn equipment, such as aerators, catch seeds or plant parts underneath. You may be sowing weeds, since grass seed often contains a percentage of weed seeds.
Why does your lawn have weeds?
In the ideal situation, 70% of weed control should come from dense turf, according to Shawn Askew of the VCE. In general, weeds are opportunistic and come in where the turfgrass is weak. Keep your mower blade high in the spring and summer (2½ - 3½ inches), which allows the turfgrass to block the sun from reaching small weeds. Make sure that your lawn receives one inch of water per week. Ensure that the soil is an optimum pH and has the nutrients that necessary for fescue. The Virginia Cooperative Extension recommends fertilizing in the fall; however, you can have an inexpensive soil test done at any time. Contact your local extension office to get a soil test kit. Conditions such as poor drainage, compaction, and shade also
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once a weed dies (either naturally or by herbicide control), it leaves an opening in the turf for the next season’s weed seed to germinate!
What herbicide should you use in your lawn?
Once you determine the type of weed and the proper time of application, you can select the appropriate herbicide. Because we recommend fertilization in the fall, don’t buy “weed and feed” from the big box stores for application this spring. Use a product containing herbicide only rather than a combination fertilizer/herbicide. The most effective crabgrass preemergents are those in which each granule contains all of the active ingredients. Studies of organic herbicides have shown that while organic postemergents may be effective on broadleaf weeds; they must be applied regularly for best results. Clemson Cooperative Extension Publication HGIC 2009 lists the active ingredients and brand names of suggested products; however, Master Gardeners cannot recommend one product over another.
How do you apply herbicides?
Always read package directions. Pay special attention to scheduling; temperature; wind drift; and proximity to edibles, pets, and children.
Resources “Managing Weeds in Fescue Lawns” by Joey Williamson and Chuck Burgess, Clemson Cooperative Extension, Publication HGIC 2309: http://www. clemson.edu/extension/hgic/ pests/weeds/hgic2309.html “Managing Weeds in Warm Season Lawns” by Joey Williamson and Chuck Burgess, Clemson Cooperative Extension, Publication HGIC 2310: http://www.clemson.edu/ extension/hgic/pests/weeds/ hgic2310.html “Podcast: Spring Postemergent Lawn Weed Control” by Michael Goatley, Virginia Cooperative Extension: http:// www.ext.vt.edu/topics/lawngarden/turfgrass/turfandgardentips/tips/spring-postemergent-Lawn-weed-cont.html “Weed Identification Guide” by Michael Flessner, Virginia Cooperative Extension: http:// oak.ppws.vt.edu/~flessner/ weedguide/
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RI 1015 Log # 411
Perennial weeds such as dandelion, clover, and plantains can be controlled in the spring with appropriately selected and timed herbicide applications. Pre-emergent herbicides “pre”vent weed seeds from germinating. Your goal is to apply the pre-emergent as close to the weed’s germination time as possible. Typically, spring pre-emergent herbicides should be applied when air temperatures reach 65 - 70° F for four consecutive days. One rule of thumb is to spread pre-emergent herbicide for crabgrass when 100% of the forsythia is blooming in your neighborhood. To control crabgrass in many yards, a second application 2½ months after the first (usually around Memorial Day) may be needed. Many winter annual weeds are at the end of their life cycles now and will die as the temperatures warm. Using a post-emergent herbicide now may provide some control, but because the plants are mature, it will not be very effective. A better plan is to control winter annual broadleaf weeds in the fall (either with preor early post- products). The only method to chemically control annual bluegrass in lawns is by pre- applications in early fall. Post-emergent herbicides are usually most effective on tender, small weeds. Remember: Do not use a preemergent herbicide if you are planting grass seed as it will prevent desirable grass from germinating.
Wear appropriate protective clothing and gear. Most herbicides are granular, but some are applied as a liquid spray. Most granular herbicides require rainfall or irrigation to activate them. With preemergent herbicides, your goal is to establish a barrier in the soil to prevent germination. Postemergent weed controls travel inside plants into their root systems, killing weeds after they’ve already started growing above the ground.
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that grow to have a large surface with netlike veins. Many, like dandelion or white clover, have showy flowers. Grassy weeds can be either grass-like or true grasses. The leaf blades are longer than they are wide and have parallel veins. Examples are crabgrass, dallisgrass, and annual bluegrass. Your local extension office can aid in weed identification; the Virginia Cooperative Extension (VCE) “Weed Identification Guide” provides an online tool for local weed identification as do other online sites.
WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM
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“April Showers Bring...Weeds” continued from page 6 lands have floating seeds that can be spread in flowing water. Animals can help spread weeds. Some weed seeds pass through the digestive tracts of birds and mammals. Many weeds have seeds or seedpods that
affect your ability to grow healthy turfgrass. Focus on the things you can control such as mowing and irrigation now. Then provide the right nutrients and lawn renovation (if necessary) in the fall. Remember that
Why worry about how you deal with lawn weeds?
Although frustration may lead you to say “just nuke them,” you really want to use the best management practices in spring weed control to promote a healthy, thick lawn while protecting our environment.
When do you treat weeds?
How are weed seeds spread?
Most weeds produce abundant seeds, which can be spread in many ways. For example, dandelions have a fluffy umbrella structure, so they can be dispersed by the wind. The seeds of plants that live in wet-
Lela Martin is a Master Gardener with the Chesterfield County office of the Virginia Cooperative Extension. cling to fur by sticky hairs, hooks, or barbs. Humans also play a part in weed seed dispersal unintentionally. People have deliberately introduced plant species as crops or as ornamentals. Some of those introduced plants become aggressive and are later regarded as weeds. Mowers and other lawn equipment, such as aerators, catch seeds or plant parts underneath. You may be sowing weeds, since grass seed often contains a percentage of weed seeds.
Why does your lawn have weeds?
In the ideal situation, 70% of weed control should come from dense turf, according to Shawn Askew of the VCE. In general, weeds are opportunistic and come in where the turfgrass is weak. Keep your mower blade high in the spring and summer (2½ - 3½ inches), which allows the turfgrass to block the sun from reaching small weeds. Make sure that your lawn receives one inch of water per week. Ensure that the soil is an optimum pH and has the nutrients that necessary for fescue. The Virginia Cooperative Extension recommends fertilizing in the fall; however, you can have an inexpensive soil test done at any time. Contact your local extension office to get a soil test kit. Conditions such as poor drainage, compaction, and shade also
8 u RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u APRIL 2016
once a weed dies (either naturally or by herbicide control), it leaves an opening in the turf for the next season’s weed seed to germinate!
What herbicide should you use in your lawn?
Once you determine the type of weed and the proper time of application, you can select the appropriate herbicide. Because we recommend fertilization in the fall, don’t buy “weed and feed” from the big box stores for application this spring. Use a product containing herbicide only rather than a combination fertilizer/herbicide. The most effective crabgrass preemergents are those in which each granule contains all of the active ingredients. Studies of organic herbicides have shown that while organic postemergents may be effective on broadleaf weeds; they must be applied regularly for best results. Clemson Cooperative Extension Publication HGIC 2009 lists the active ingredients and brand names of suggested products; however, Master Gardeners cannot recommend one product over another.
How do you apply herbicides?
Always read package directions. Pay special attention to scheduling; temperature; wind drift; and proximity to edibles, pets, and children.
Resources “Managing Weeds in Fescue Lawns” by Joey Williamson and Chuck Burgess, Clemson Cooperative Extension, Publication HGIC 2309: http://www. clemson.edu/extension/hgic/ pests/weeds/hgic2309.html “Managing Weeds in Warm Season Lawns” by Joey Williamson and Chuck Burgess, Clemson Cooperative Extension, Publication HGIC 2310: http://www.clemson.edu/ extension/hgic/pests/weeds/ hgic2310.html “Podcast: Spring Postemergent Lawn Weed Control” by Michael Goatley, Virginia Cooperative Extension: http:// www.ext.vt.edu/topics/lawngarden/turfgrass/turfandgardentips/tips/spring-postemergent-Lawn-weed-cont.html “Weed Identification Guide” by Michael Flessner, Virginia Cooperative Extension: http:// oak.ppws.vt.edu/~flessner/ weedguide/
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RI 1015 Log # 411
Perennial weeds such as dandelion, clover, and plantains can be controlled in the spring with appropriately selected and timed herbicide applications. Pre-emergent herbicides “pre”vent weed seeds from germinating. Your goal is to apply the pre-emergent as close to the weed’s germination time as possible. Typically, spring pre-emergent herbicides should be applied when air temperatures reach 65 - 70° F for four consecutive days. One rule of thumb is to spread pre-emergent herbicide for crabgrass when 100% of the forsythia is blooming in your neighborhood. To control crabgrass in many yards, a second application 2½ months after the first (usually around Memorial Day) may be needed. Many winter annual weeds are at the end of their life cycles now and will die as the temperatures warm. Using a post-emergent herbicide now may provide some control, but because the plants are mature, it will not be very effective. A better plan is to control winter annual broadleaf weeds in the fall (either with preor early post- products). The only method to chemically control annual bluegrass in lawns is by pre- applications in early fall. Post-emergent herbicides are usually most effective on tender, small weeds. Remember: Do not use a preemergent herbicide if you are planting grass seed as it will prevent desirable grass from germinating.
Wear appropriate protective clothing and gear. Most herbicides are granular, but some are applied as a liquid spray. Most granular herbicides require rainfall or irrigation to activate them. With preemergent herbicides, your goal is to establish a barrier in the soil to prevent germination. Postemergent weed controls travel inside plants into their root systems, killing weeds after they’ve already started growing above the ground.
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that grow to have a large surface with netlike veins. Many, like dandelion or white clover, have showy flowers. Grassy weeds can be either grass-like or true grasses. The leaf blades are longer than they are wide and have parallel veins. Examples are crabgrass, dallisgrass, and annual bluegrass. Your local extension office can aid in weed identification; the Virginia Cooperative Extension (VCE) “Weed Identification Guide” provides an online tool for local weed identification as do other online sites.
WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM
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The Dad Days of Summer SUMMERTIME PARENTING WISDOM FROM DAD by Malia Jacobson
“The Dad Days of Summer” continued from page 10 watch, the kids have rediscovered the joy of their own backyard. The older two catch butterflies and study spiders and the toddler digs happily in the sandbox. Everybody’s happy, and we save gas and hassle. Dad for the win. Lesson: Park the car; sometimes the best days are lazy ones spent at to home.
Screen scene
The American Academy of Pediatrics is OK with up to two hours per day of screen time for kids over two. In other words: some daily television and iPad time is doctor-sanctioned. Yet I feel myself tense up when the kids start a second episode of Wild Kratts on Netflix. It’s summer, I say automatically. Get outside! Play! Of course, outdoor play is invaluable, and our kids get plenty. But indoor time has value too, as a respite from the elements and a chance to unwind and slow down for a moment or two. My husband balances backyard and park time with an indoor quiet time after lunch, during which the kids curl up with books or (gasp!) catch a show. They appreciate the break,
and I appreciate the cute photos of my offspring curled up together, giggling at a funny cat video on YouTube. Outside, the kids tend to run in different directions; indoors, they pile on the living room rug, huddled together with limbs intertwined. These summer memories are priceless, and they wouldn’t happen without a little well-chosen screen time. Lesson: Balance outdoor time with quiet indoor moments for summer magic.
ing all manners of frozen treats, and they were disgruntled. So the next time the tinny tunes appeared on our street, my wise husband dug into his wallet and peeled off a few bills for the kids. He shot me a look that said, “They’re only kids once.” And he was right. Summertime is made to savor, and seeing the kids thrill to new-to-them nostalgia is part of the joy. Even if it leads to an inevitable sugar coma. Lesson: Childhood is short. Let them get ice cream.
All hail the music truck!
Thanks to my husband’s more laid-back, in-the-moment parenting style, our summers are more relaxed, less rushed, and decidedly sweeter. It’s a balance I wouldn’t trade for all the music trucks in the world.
For half a decade, whenever the ice-cream truck’s warbling notes drifted into our neighborhood, I’d quickly say “Hey, it’s the music truck!” and hold my breath, hoping nobody would start digging through my purse for a dollar. My kids bought it, and enjoyed the jangling, jaunty notes without begging for overpriced ice cream treats. But by last summer, the ruse was wearing thin; my brood had connected the “music truck’s” arrival on our street with the neighbor kids obtain-
Malia Jacobson is a nationally published journalist and mom of three.
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uring the summer, I’m one lucky gal—my teacher husband is at home most days, so we swap childcare duties and work time as needed. This means that after months of mom-centric care, our three kids get to adjust to their patriarch’s parenting style. It’s distinctly different from mine: he instructs less, plays more, and isn’t nearly as productive. Which, as it turns out, is a good thing. While my own juggle-it-all parenting style works for me, I’m definitely learning a thing or three from him. Here are a few pieces of daddy parenting wisdom, courtesy of my better half.
Put your feet up
Keeping up with our active children, currently 9, 6 and 3, is no easy feat. Most days, it’s downright exhausting. Instead of complaining about how tiring it is (like I would do), my spousal unit does something more practical: he takes a break when he needs one. He doesn’t neglect the kids, but he does zone out in front of ESPN for 10 minutes when he needs a breather. And get this: the kids survive. They usually take a cue from him and slow down too, snuggling up to him on the sofa or grabbing a book and reading in their room. The result is a happier, less harried par-
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ent and kids who appreciate the importance of a well-deserved break. Lesson: Good parenting doesn’t mean running yourself ragged. Let kids see you take a breather now and then.
dirty dishes in the sink, but the kids are happy and centered. Lesson: All kids really want is undivided attention. They come first; chores can wait.
The joy of single-tasking
Home sweet home
On my days with the kids, I’m a multi-tasking whiz. Often, I’ll start the laundry while they eat breakfast, fold clothes while they play, answer emails while their pasta boils, and wipe down the counters while they eat lunch. On my husband’s days with the kids, he specializes in single-tasking: he just spends time with them. At the day’s end, there may be unfolded laundry on the floor and
Like loads of other work-at-home and stay-at-home moms, my days with the kids are rarely spent at home. I go a little stir-crazy starting at my four walls, so I plan activities and playdates to get us out of the house. This also lets me squeeze in errands so I can feel marginally productive (see above re: multitasking). But my spouse doesn’t share my affinity for the carpool lane. Under his
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The Dad Days of Summer SUMMERTIME PARENTING WISDOM FROM DAD by Malia Jacobson
“The Dad Days of Summer” continued from page 10 watch, the kids have rediscovered the joy of their own backyard. The older two catch butterflies and study spiders and the toddler digs happily in the sandbox. Everybody’s happy, and we save gas and hassle. Dad for the win. Lesson: Park the car; sometimes the best days are lazy ones spent at to home.
Screen scene
The American Academy of Pediatrics is OK with up to two hours per day of screen time for kids over two. In other words: some daily television and iPad time is doctor-sanctioned. Yet I feel myself tense up when the kids start a second episode of Wild Kratts on Netflix. It’s summer, I say automatically. Get outside! Play! Of course, outdoor play is invaluable, and our kids get plenty. But indoor time has value too, as a respite from the elements and a chance to unwind and slow down for a moment or two. My husband balances backyard and park time with an indoor quiet time after lunch, during which the kids curl up with books or (gasp!) catch a show. They appreciate the break,
and I appreciate the cute photos of my offspring curled up together, giggling at a funny cat video on YouTube. Outside, the kids tend to run in different directions; indoors, they pile on the living room rug, huddled together with limbs intertwined. These summer memories are priceless, and they wouldn’t happen without a little well-chosen screen time. Lesson: Balance outdoor time with quiet indoor moments for summer magic.
ing all manners of frozen treats, and they were disgruntled. So the next time the tinny tunes appeared on our street, my wise husband dug into his wallet and peeled off a few bills for the kids. He shot me a look that said, “They’re only kids once.” And he was right. Summertime is made to savor, and seeing the kids thrill to new-to-them nostalgia is part of the joy. Even if it leads to an inevitable sugar coma. Lesson: Childhood is short. Let them get ice cream.
All hail the music truck!
Thanks to my husband’s more laid-back, in-the-moment parenting style, our summers are more relaxed, less rushed, and decidedly sweeter. It’s a balance I wouldn’t trade for all the music trucks in the world.
For half a decade, whenever the ice-cream truck’s warbling notes drifted into our neighborhood, I’d quickly say “Hey, it’s the music truck!” and hold my breath, hoping nobody would start digging through my purse for a dollar. My kids bought it, and enjoyed the jangling, jaunty notes without begging for overpriced ice cream treats. But by last summer, the ruse was wearing thin; my brood had connected the “music truck’s” arrival on our street with the neighbor kids obtain-
Malia Jacobson is a nationally published journalist and mom of three.
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uring the summer, I’m one lucky gal—my teacher husband is at home most days, so we swap childcare duties and work time as needed. This means that after months of mom-centric care, our three kids get to adjust to their patriarch’s parenting style. It’s distinctly different from mine: he instructs less, plays more, and isn’t nearly as productive. Which, as it turns out, is a good thing. While my own juggle-it-all parenting style works for me, I’m definitely learning a thing or three from him. Here are a few pieces of daddy parenting wisdom, courtesy of my better half.
Put your feet up
Keeping up with our active children, currently 9, 6 and 3, is no easy feat. Most days, it’s downright exhausting. Instead of complaining about how tiring it is (like I would do), my spousal unit does something more practical: he takes a break when he needs one. He doesn’t neglect the kids, but he does zone out in front of ESPN for 10 minutes when he needs a breather. And get this: the kids survive. They usually take a cue from him and slow down too, snuggling up to him on the sofa or grabbing a book and reading in their room. The result is a happier, less harried par-
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ent and kids who appreciate the importance of a well-deserved break. Lesson: Good parenting doesn’t mean running yourself ragged. Let kids see you take a breather now and then.
dirty dishes in the sink, but the kids are happy and centered. Lesson: All kids really want is undivided attention. They come first; chores can wait.
The joy of single-tasking
Home sweet home
On my days with the kids, I’m a multi-tasking whiz. Often, I’ll start the laundry while they eat breakfast, fold clothes while they play, answer emails while their pasta boils, and wipe down the counters while they eat lunch. On my husband’s days with the kids, he specializes in single-tasking: he just spends time with them. At the day’s end, there may be unfolded laundry on the floor and
Like loads of other work-at-home and stay-at-home moms, my days with the kids are rarely spent at home. I go a little stir-crazy starting at my four walls, so I plan activities and playdates to get us out of the house. This also lets me squeeze in errands so I can feel marginally productive (see above re: multitasking). But my spouse doesn’t share my affinity for the carpool lane. Under his
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arents don’t want to think about it, so kids are often unprepared. Cyberbullying may seem like something that happens to other people, but the statistics say otherwise. A study from the Pew Research Center found that, among adults, 40 percent have experienced online harassment and 73 percent have witnessed it. (The sad facts are summarized at onlineharassmentdata.org) For teens, the numbers are a little lower, though researchers note that many adolescents don’t report incidents of cyberbullying for the same reason they don’t talk about offline harassment: They feel intimidated and humiliated. They assume nothing can be done. And they worry talking to adults will make the problem worse. That’s why parents need to be proactive. The hard fact is that most children will eventually encounter people who use the Internet to intimidate, harass and threaten others. The best way to fortify kids is to talk — in advance — about what cyberbullying is, how to prevent it and what can be done when it happens. Here’s some of what your child needs to know: Recognize it when you see it. Cyberbullying comes in many forms. The mildest is mean comments, name-calling and shaming. Painful as this may be for the target, it’s not dangerous. Learning to shake off mean and ignorant comments is a life skill. To give kids perspective, talk about the American tradition of free speech. Even nasty, misinformed people have a right to their opinions.
That doesn’t mean your child should give them time or attention. Other forms of harassment are more serious, especially if they continue day after day. These include threats of personal harm including rape, spreading lies that damage a person’s reputation, posting personal information including cell phone numbers or sexual photos and techno attacks such as taking control of a social media account. Help your child distinguish between unpleasantness and risk. Be proactive. The best way to deal with any problem is to avoid it. Raise your child with the assumption that people will be kind to each other. Model that way of living in your home, and help your child find friends who respect and appreciate each other. Online, help your child build a community where people treat each other well. Point your child toward the helpful Social Media Safety Guides produced by Heartmob (iheartmob.org/safety_guide). There are separate guides with straightforward explanations of privacy tools for Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, Tumblr and YouTube. Report — sometimes. Experts give contradictory advice about how to respond to cyberbullies. Some recommend ignoring the behavior because most bullies are looking for reaction and attention. This is especially true online where anyone can say anything to anyone. Others recommend telling the bully to stop. That is also easier—and somewhat safer—online where it’s possible to send a private message that may appeal to the other person’s sense of fair play.
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Threats of abuse or harm should be documented by saving messages or capturing screen shots. Notify local police or the FBI with the understanding that they may be ineffective because laws lag behind technology in many states. The Cyberbullying Research Center maintains a comprehensive library of materials about cyberbullying including a complete list of regulations in every state (cyberbullying.org/ cyberbullying-laws). Internet services are also inconsistent in how they define and respond to harassment. Twitter, for example, recently started a Trust and Safety Council “to ensure that people feel safe expressing themselves on Twitter” — and was immediately slammed for restricting free speech. This is a good topic for dinner table discussion before a problem arises. If you were running a social media site, what limits would you put on what people can post? How should someone decide whether to ignore, confront or report a cyberbully? Get creative. Because bullies can’t always be avoided and authorities can’t always be effective, a growing number of people are taking creative steps to make the Internet — or at least corners of it — safer for everyone. Kids who know about these efforts are less likely to feel hopeless about bullying if it happens to them or they witness it. They may still feel shock, shame and even fear, but they will also know that they have allies and role models who have figured out effective ways to respond. A Thin Line provides detailed information about online harassment and encourages kids to share steps they’ve taken to assert their digital rights. The site, developed by MTV, also has a For Grownups Section that lists helpful resources (athinline. org/pages/parents-and-educators)
BeStrong Emoji are little symbols,
distributed by Vodaphone, that allow kids to encourage people who are being harassed. (vodafone.com/ content/parents.html ) We Heart It is a social media app that limits harassment by allowing users to “heart” but not comment on content uploaded by others. (weheartit.com) StompOutBullying runs a free, confidential chat line for teens over 13. Trained volunteers provide support to young people who are distressed about online harassment. (stompoutbullying.org) The Speech Project details all the ways young women can be harassed online. The tools and resources section provides up-to-date information about what girls and young women can do to protect and defend themselves. StopIt is a software platform that allows people within a community to anonymously send screenshots of material that is offensive or abusive. Schools that use the app have seen a reduction in the number of cyberbullying incidents. (stopitcyberbully. com) It’s natural for parents to want their children to live in a kinder, safer world. At the same time, parents need to equip children with the skills they need to cope with problems should they arise. When parents talk — in advance — about communities that have mobilized to combat cyberbullying, children become stronger, more confident and more likely to respond constructively to whatever comes their way online.
Carolyn Jabs, M.A., raised three computer-savvy kids including one with special needs. Her new book, “Cooperative Wisdom: Bringing People Together When Things Fall Apart,” will be published this spring. Visit carolynjabs.com for more information. @ Copyright, 2016, Carolyn Jabs. All rights reserved WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM
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arents don’t want to think about it, so kids are often unprepared. Cyberbullying may seem like something that happens to other people, but the statistics say otherwise. A study from the Pew Research Center found that, among adults, 40 percent have experienced online harassment and 73 percent have witnessed it. (The sad facts are summarized at onlineharassmentdata.org) For teens, the numbers are a little lower, though researchers note that many adolescents don’t report incidents of cyberbullying for the same reason they don’t talk about offline harassment: They feel intimidated and humiliated. They assume nothing can be done. And they worry talking to adults will make the problem worse. That’s why parents need to be proactive. The hard fact is that most children will eventually encounter people who use the Internet to intimidate, harass and threaten others. The best way to fortify kids is to talk — in advance — about what cyberbullying is, how to prevent it and what can be done when it happens. Here’s some of what your child needs to know: Recognize it when you see it. Cyberbullying comes in many forms. The mildest is mean comments, name-calling and shaming. Painful as this may be for the target, it’s not dangerous. Learning to shake off mean and ignorant comments is a life skill. To give kids perspective, talk about the American tradition of free speech. Even nasty, misinformed people have a right to their opinions.
That doesn’t mean your child should give them time or attention. Other forms of harassment are more serious, especially if they continue day after day. These include threats of personal harm including rape, spreading lies that damage a person’s reputation, posting personal information including cell phone numbers or sexual photos and techno attacks such as taking control of a social media account. Help your child distinguish between unpleasantness and risk. Be proactive. The best way to deal with any problem is to avoid it. Raise your child with the assumption that people will be kind to each other. Model that way of living in your home, and help your child find friends who respect and appreciate each other. Online, help your child build a community where people treat each other well. Point your child toward the helpful Social Media Safety Guides produced by Heartmob (iheartmob.org/safety_guide). There are separate guides with straightforward explanations of privacy tools for Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, Tumblr and YouTube. Report — sometimes. Experts give contradictory advice about how to respond to cyberbullies. Some recommend ignoring the behavior because most bullies are looking for reaction and attention. This is especially true online where anyone can say anything to anyone. Others recommend telling the bully to stop. That is also easier—and somewhat safer—online where it’s possible to send a private message that may appeal to the other person’s sense of fair play.
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Threats of abuse or harm should be documented by saving messages or capturing screen shots. Notify local police or the FBI with the understanding that they may be ineffective because laws lag behind technology in many states. The Cyberbullying Research Center maintains a comprehensive library of materials about cyberbullying including a complete list of regulations in every state (cyberbullying.org/ cyberbullying-laws). Internet services are also inconsistent in how they define and respond to harassment. Twitter, for example, recently started a Trust and Safety Council “to ensure that people feel safe expressing themselves on Twitter” — and was immediately slammed for restricting free speech. This is a good topic for dinner table discussion before a problem arises. If you were running a social media site, what limits would you put on what people can post? How should someone decide whether to ignore, confront or report a cyberbully? Get creative. Because bullies can’t always be avoided and authorities can’t always be effective, a growing number of people are taking creative steps to make the Internet — or at least corners of it — safer for everyone. Kids who know about these efforts are less likely to feel hopeless about bullying if it happens to them or they witness it. They may still feel shock, shame and even fear, but they will also know that they have allies and role models who have figured out effective ways to respond. A Thin Line provides detailed information about online harassment and encourages kids to share steps they’ve taken to assert their digital rights. The site, developed by MTV, also has a For Grownups Section that lists helpful resources (athinline. org/pages/parents-and-educators)
BeStrong Emoji are little symbols,
distributed by Vodaphone, that allow kids to encourage people who are being harassed. (vodafone.com/ content/parents.html ) We Heart It is a social media app that limits harassment by allowing users to “heart” but not comment on content uploaded by others. (weheartit.com) StompOutBullying runs a free, confidential chat line for teens over 13. Trained volunteers provide support to young people who are distressed about online harassment. (stompoutbullying.org) The Speech Project details all the ways young women can be harassed online. The tools and resources section provides up-to-date information about what girls and young women can do to protect and defend themselves. StopIt is a software platform that allows people within a community to anonymously send screenshots of material that is offensive or abusive. Schools that use the app have seen a reduction in the number of cyberbullying incidents. (stopitcyberbully. com) It’s natural for parents to want their children to live in a kinder, safer world. At the same time, parents need to equip children with the skills they need to cope with problems should they arise. When parents talk — in advance — about communities that have mobilized to combat cyberbullying, children become stronger, more confident and more likely to respond constructively to whatever comes their way online.
Carolyn Jabs, M.A., raised three computer-savvy kids including one with special needs. Her new book, “Cooperative Wisdom: Bringing People Together When Things Fall Apart,” will be published this spring. Visit carolynjabs.com for more information. @ Copyright, 2016, Carolyn Jabs. All rights reserved WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM
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Learn yoga’s calming rhythms of breathing, movement, and posture in a tranquil Garden setting. Small class sizes enable instructor Jacqueline Gooding to offer individual pointers and address multiple levels of experience. Please bring a blanket, yoga mat, water and appropriate layered clothing for the season. Classes take place in the Garden or inside Garden buildings, depending on weather. Member $75 Non-Member $147. Tuesday, March 8, 2016 @ 9:00a.m. - Tuesday, April 12, 2016 @ 10:30a.m. lewisginter.org (804) 262-9887
UPCOMING Richmond Coin and Currency Show CLARION HOTEL
May 6-8, 2016, Fri and Sat 10-6, Sun 10-3, Clarion Hotel, 3207 N. Boulevard, Richmond, VA 23230. Free parking, admission, and appraisals. Youth Day on Saturday. richmondcoinclub.com (804) 350-1140
An Evening with Judy Collins
CAMP CONCERT HALL, BOOKER HALL OF MUSIC
Judy Collins has inspired audiences with sublime vocals, boldly vulnerable personal life triumphs, and a firm commitment to social activism. The award-winning singer-songwriter is esteemed for her imaginative interpretations of traditional and contemporary folk standards and her own poetically poignant original compositions. 7:30p.m. modlin.richmond.edu (804) 289-8980
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A marketplace with seasonal gifts and decorative accessories for the home and garden, gourmet food and cookbooks, clothing, toys, fine crafts and artwork, furniture, and jewelry. Friday and Saturday 10:00a.m.– 7:00p.m., Sunday 10:00a.m.– 5:00p.m. Through April 3rd. 600 E Laburnum Ave, Richmond, VA 23222. thebizarrebazaar.com
Specially designed for child care providers, these large-group story times are held once a month at each library. 10:30-11:00a.m. Room A & B. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
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An eclectic mix of Eastern European, Balkan, and Mediterranean folk music, with an emphasis on Yiddish, Hebrew, and Roma traditions. 7:00p.m.-
CARPENTER THEATRE AT DOMINION ARTS CENTER
TEDx events are community versions of the larger TED talks that are produced globally, TEDxRVA began 4 years ago will be held for the second time at the Carpenter Theatre at Dominion Arts Center. This year’s theme is “ARTFUL” providing a stage for international, national, regional, and local speakers to communicate about innovations in Technology, Entertainment, and Design. Friday, April 8, from 9:00am–5:00pm at the Carpenter Theatre at Richmond CenterStage. tedxrva.com
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VA Homeschoolers Conference and CHESTERFIELD TOWNE CENTER The festival kicks off at Chesterfield Towne CenResource Fair Whether your homeschooler’s path is to college or apprenticeship, traditional employment or entrepreneurship, learn how to develop a love for learning that continues to enhance their lives wherever they are and whatever they do. Through April 2nd. 9:00a.m.-6:00p.m. 2880 Mountain Road, Richmond, VA 23060. conference.vahomeschoolers.org
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Family Scavenger Hunt Crack secret codes, and use maps and riddles to find your way around the 100-acre estate. 10:00a.m.-12p.m. 2201 Shields Lake Drive, Richmond, Virginia 23220. maymont.org/spring
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Technology Services and VCU Libraries present the 2016 VCU Tech Fair on Monday, April 4, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. in the VCU Student Commons and on Tuesday, April 5, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. in Tompkins-McCaw Library for the Health Sciences. The event is free to all, and no pre-registration is required. library.vcu.edu (804) 828-0017
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ter at noon and runs to 6 p.m., in the parking lot near Sears. More than 30 Richmond area food trucks will set up shop, for the afternoon, and live music will start at 12:30 p.m. There will also be plenty of Virginia craft beer to wash all the food down. There’s no admission into the Rodeo but food and drinks is a pay as you go. centralvirginiafoodtruckrodeo.com
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Global music sensation Celtic Woman presents DESTINY, an enchanting new show and world concert tour. The 2016 Destiny Tour features music from their brand new album and DVD, Destiny, including timeless Irish traditional and contemporary standards wrapped in the group’s celebrated style. Four sublimely gifted Irish women- three glorious vocalists and a brilliant Celtic violinist –are accompanied by a group of equally talented musicians and dancers whose exceptional skills and high energy bring a fresh fusion to centuries of musical and cultural tradition. This unforgettable live concert experience features all new stage designs, stunning wardrobes and magnificent arrangements with superb choreography. On the heels of their successful 10th Anniversary World Tour that captivated millions of fans, come join Celtic Woman as they begin the next chapter of their musical journey - a true destiny to be shared by all! 7:00p.m. altriatheater.com
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A music benefit for the Optimist Childhood Cancer Fund. Tickets: $15. 7:00-8:30p.m. 6930 Hopkins Rd., Richmond, VA 23234 (804) 306-1960
MONDAY, APR. 11 Johnny Appleseed
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Some stories of Johnny Appleseed are legend, and some are true, and some are a fanciful mixture of both. But Johnny Appleseed was most certainly a real man who loved children, loved the outdoors, loved animals and believed that apples could feed everyone and keep them healthy. Grades Pre-K - 4. 10:15a.m.-12 noon. Theatre tickets: $8.75. Add $2.00 for lunch. (approximately 45 minutes) Through May 12th. 17401 Jefferson Davis Hwy, South Chesterfield, VA 23834. swiftcreekmill.com (804) 748-5203
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SATURDAY, APR. 23 Teen Résumé Workshop BON AIR LIBRARY
Learn how to build a résumé to land your first job! Discover what employers are looking for and how to describe your school and volunteer experience to make your résumé stand out. Recommended for teens 14-18 years old. Registration is required and begins April 9. 11:00a.m.12:30p.m. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
SATURDAY, APR. 30 Victorian Days: Ice Cream Social BON AIR LIBRARY
Free ice cream!Live music, children’s craft, and a performance of “American Girl - Samantha”. Event Time: 10:00a.m.-3:00p.m. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
SATURDAY, APR. 16 Water Play | Weekends
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Water Play During warm spring, summer, and fall days, the Children’s Garden is the coolest place to be! Bring or wear your bathing suit and water shoes to enjoy the gentle water sprays. Don’t forget a towel and remember that swimming diapers are required for those not potty-trained. WaterPlay is operational when the air temperature is 70 degrees or higher. 9:00a.m.-4:45p.m. Through September 25th. 1800 Lakeside Avenue, Richmond, Virginia 23228. lewisginter.org
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TUESDAY, APR. 19 Disney’s The Lion King ALTRIA THEATER
Winner of six Tony Awards®, including Best Musical, THE LION KING brings together one of the most imaginative creative teams on Broadway. Tony Award®-winning director Julie Taymor brings to life a story filled with hope and adventure set against an amazing backdrop of stunning visuals. THE LION KING also features the extraordinary work of Tony Award®-winning choreographer Garth Fagan and some of Broadway’s most recognizable music, crafted by Tony Award®-winning artists Elton John and Tim Rice. There is simply nothing else like THE LION KING. All guests require a ticket, regardless of age. We recommend that children be at least six years old to attend a performance of THE LION KING. Each performance lasts 2 hours, 30 minutes including one intermission. Through May 8th. altriatheater.com
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SATURDAY, APR. 23 Fitness Fiesta LAPRADE LIBRARY
A fun day of sports and other activities to encourage healthy eating and fitness. Participants can show off their inner hero by wearing a cape or costume for the Super Hero Fun Run with Nutzy from the Richmond Flying Squirrels. The day’s activities will include ballroom dancing, Zumba and other fun classes, along with jump rope cardio and a Richmond Kickers goal kicking contest. Get more information about healthy living with information booths and health screenings. 10:00a.m.-3:00p.m. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
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Summer Quest Young Adventurer's Camp for 3 year olds through rising second graders
Build your own Camp Experience with Summer Learning Quest and Summer Adventure Quest for 3rd through 8th graders.
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CONTINUING
VCU Tech Fair 2016
VCU STUDENT COMMONS & TOMPKINS-MCCAW LIBRARY FOR THE HEALTH SCIENCES
Yoga in the Garden
LEWIS GINTER BOTANICAL GARDENS
Learn yoga’s calming rhythms of breathing, movement, and posture in a tranquil Garden setting. Small class sizes enable instructor Jacqueline Gooding to offer individual pointers and address multiple levels of experience. Please bring a blanket, yoga mat, water and appropriate layered clothing for the season. Classes take place in the Garden or inside Garden buildings, depending on weather. Member $75 Non-Member $147. Tuesday, March 8, 2016 @ 9:00a.m. - Tuesday, April 12, 2016 @ 10:30a.m. lewisginter.org (804) 262-9887
UPCOMING Richmond Coin and Currency Show CLARION HOTEL
May 6-8, 2016, Fri and Sat 10-6, Sun 10-3, Clarion Hotel, 3207 N. Boulevard, Richmond, VA 23230. Free parking, admission, and appraisals. Youth Day on Saturday. richmondcoinclub.com (804) 350-1140
An Evening with Judy Collins
CAMP CONCERT HALL, BOOKER HALL OF MUSIC
Judy Collins has inspired audiences with sublime vocals, boldly vulnerable personal life triumphs, and a firm commitment to social activism. The award-winning singer-songwriter is esteemed for her imaginative interpretations of traditional and contemporary folk standards and her own poetically poignant original compositions. 7:30p.m. modlin.richmond.edu (804) 289-8980
The Bizarre Bazaar
Day Care Story Time
A marketplace with seasonal gifts and decorative accessories for the home and garden, gourmet food and cookbooks, clothing, toys, fine crafts and artwork, furniture, and jewelry. Friday and Saturday 10:00a.m.– 7:00p.m., Sunday 10:00a.m.– 5:00p.m. Through April 3rd. 600 E Laburnum Ave, Richmond, VA 23222. thebizarrebazaar.com
Specially designed for child care providers, these large-group story times are held once a month at each library. 10:30-11:00a.m. Room A & B. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
CHESTERFIELD COUNTY PUBLIC LIBRARY
An eclectic mix of Eastern European, Balkan, and Mediterranean folk music, with an emphasis on Yiddish, Hebrew, and Roma traditions. 7:00p.m.-
CARPENTER THEATRE AT DOMINION ARTS CENTER
TEDx events are community versions of the larger TED talks that are produced globally, TEDxRVA began 4 years ago will be held for the second time at the Carpenter Theatre at Dominion Arts Center. This year’s theme is “ARTFUL” providing a stage for international, national, regional, and local speakers to communicate about innovations in Technology, Entertainment, and Design. Friday, April 8, from 9:00am–5:00pm at the Carpenter Theatre at Richmond CenterStage. tedxrva.com
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SUNDAY, APR. 3 Central Va. Food Truck Rodeo
VA Homeschoolers Conference and CHESTERFIELD TOWNE CENTER The festival kicks off at Chesterfield Towne CenResource Fair Whether your homeschooler’s path is to college or apprenticeship, traditional employment or entrepreneurship, learn how to develop a love for learning that continues to enhance their lives wherever they are and whatever they do. Through April 2nd. 9:00a.m.-6:00p.m. 2880 Mountain Road, Richmond, VA 23060. conference.vahomeschoolers.org
Acoustic Concert Series: My Son, the Doctor
4th Annual TEDxRVA 2016 “Artful”
MAYMONT
FRIDAY, APR. 1
THE CULTURAL ARTS CENTER OF GLEN ALLEN
THURSDAY, APR. 7
FRIDAY, APR. 8
Family Scavenger Hunt Crack secret codes, and use maps and riddles to find your way around the 100-acre estate. 10:00a.m.-12p.m. 2201 Shields Lake Drive, Richmond, Virginia 23220. maymont.org/spring
RICHMOND RACEWAY COMPLEX
Technology Services and VCU Libraries present the 2016 VCU Tech Fair on Monday, April 4, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. in the VCU Student Commons and on Tuesday, April 5, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. in Tompkins-McCaw Library for the Health Sciences. The event is free to all, and no pre-registration is required. library.vcu.edu (804) 828-0017
8:00p.m. For all ages. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
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ter at noon and runs to 6 p.m., in the parking lot near Sears. More than 30 Richmond area food trucks will set up shop, for the afternoon, and live music will start at 12:30 p.m. There will also be plenty of Virginia craft beer to wash all the food down. There’s no admission into the Rodeo but food and drinks is a pay as you go. centralvirginiafoodtruckrodeo.com
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MEDICARE PART D
TUESDAY, APR. 5 Celtic Woman 2016 Destiny Tour ALTRIA THEATER
Global music sensation Celtic Woman presents DESTINY, an enchanting new show and world concert tour. The 2016 Destiny Tour features music from their brand new album and DVD, Destiny, including timeless Irish traditional and contemporary standards wrapped in the group’s celebrated style. Four sublimely gifted Irish women- three glorious vocalists and a brilliant Celtic violinist –are accompanied by a group of equally talented musicians and dancers whose exceptional skills and high energy bring a fresh fusion to centuries of musical and cultural tradition. This unforgettable live concert experience features all new stage designs, stunning wardrobes and magnificent arrangements with superb choreography. On the heels of their successful 10th Anniversary World Tour that captivated millions of fans, come join Celtic Woman as they begin the next chapter of their musical journey - a true destiny to be shared by all! 7:00p.m. altriatheater.com
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April 2016
BEULAH UNITED METHODIST CHURCH
A music benefit for the Optimist Childhood Cancer Fund. Tickets: $15. 7:00-8:30p.m. 6930 Hopkins Rd., Richmond, VA 23234 (804) 306-1960
MONDAY, APR. 11 Johnny Appleseed
SWIFT CREEK MILL THEATRE
Some stories of Johnny Appleseed are legend, and some are true, and some are a fanciful mixture of both. But Johnny Appleseed was most certainly a real man who loved children, loved the outdoors, loved animals and believed that apples could feed everyone and keep them healthy. Grades Pre-K - 4. 10:15a.m.-12 noon. Theatre tickets: $8.75. Add $2.00 for lunch. (approximately 45 minutes) Through May 12th. 17401 Jefferson Davis Hwy, South Chesterfield, VA 23834. swiftcreekmill.com (804) 748-5203
(804) 262-9887
SATURDAY, APR. 23 Teen Résumé Workshop BON AIR LIBRARY
Learn how to build a résumé to land your first job! Discover what employers are looking for and how to describe your school and volunteer experience to make your résumé stand out. Recommended for teens 14-18 years old. Registration is required and begins April 9. 11:00a.m.12:30p.m. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
SATURDAY, APR. 30 Victorian Days: Ice Cream Social BON AIR LIBRARY
Free ice cream!Live music, children’s craft, and a performance of “American Girl - Samantha”. Event Time: 10:00a.m.-3:00p.m. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
SATURDAY, APR. 16 Water Play | Weekends
LEWIS GINTER BOTANICAL GARDENS
Water Play During warm spring, summer, and fall days, the Children’s Garden is the coolest place to be! Bring or wear your bathing suit and water shoes to enjoy the gentle water sprays. Don’t forget a towel and remember that swimming diapers are required for those not potty-trained. WaterPlay is operational when the air temperature is 70 degrees or higher. 9:00a.m.-4:45p.m. Through September 25th. 1800 Lakeside Avenue, Richmond, Virginia 23228. lewisginter.org
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TUESDAY, APR. 19 Disney’s The Lion King ALTRIA THEATER
Winner of six Tony Awards®, including Best Musical, THE LION KING brings together one of the most imaginative creative teams on Broadway. Tony Award®-winning director Julie Taymor brings to life a story filled with hope and adventure set against an amazing backdrop of stunning visuals. THE LION KING also features the extraordinary work of Tony Award®-winning choreographer Garth Fagan and some of Broadway’s most recognizable music, crafted by Tony Award®-winning artists Elton John and Tim Rice. There is simply nothing else like THE LION KING. All guests require a ticket, regardless of age. We recommend that children be at least six years old to attend a performance of THE LION KING. Each performance lasts 2 hours, 30 minutes including one intermission. Through May 8th. altriatheater.com
Entries are subject to change; call to confirm dates and times. Entries for the May calendar are due April 9; send items to: calendar@richmondpublishing.com.
Is back pain getting in the way of your life? We accurately diagnose painful disorders of the spine and pelvis to definitively treat them, reduce medications, and improve your level of function and quality of life.
Vis it u
SATURDAY, APR. 23 Fitness Fiesta LAPRADE LIBRARY
A fun day of sports and other activities to encourage healthy eating and fitness. Participants can show off their inner hero by wearing a cape or costume for the Super Hero Fun Run with Nutzy from the Richmond Flying Squirrels. The day’s activities will include ballroom dancing, Zumba and other fun classes, along with jump rope cardio and a Richmond Kickers goal kicking contest. Get more information about healthy living with information booths and health screenings. 10:00a.m.-3:00p.m. library.chesterfield.gov (804) 751-2275
18 u RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u APRIL 2016
Lawrence E. Gelber, M.D.
9020 Stony Point Parkway, Suite 140 (804)330-0303 • www.vaispine.com
Voted “Top Doc” by Richmond Magazine 2008 and 2011
Michael J. DePalma, MD
WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM
Robert S. Call, M.D.
William T. Hark, M.D.
Come in for a Tour AlphaDogClub.com
w.vaispine. com
Lynne Carnes& Brothers 2
w s online to learn more: w
Let’s Go
Luther Memorial
Summer Quest Young Adventurer's Camp for 3 year olds through rising second graders
Build your own Camp Experience with Summer Learning Quest and Summer Adventure Quest for 3rd through 8th graders.
Opt in for a week or explore with us for 7 weeks! WWW.RICHMONDPARENTS.COM
Call 804-321-6420 or visit lmsrva.org
RICHMOND PARENTS MONTHLY u APRIL 2016 u 19
Diet & Exercise Not Working? It may be your hormones!
You will be impressed by the approach to weight loss. Learn how and why you hold your weight where you do.
ATTEND THE FREE WORKSHOP TO LEARN: • How HORMONES can distort your midsection into a large belly and prevent weight loss, even with diet and exercise. • How HORMONES can affect sleep cycles, chronic pain, cravings for carbohydrates, and fat burning. • Why “counting calories” doesn’t work for belly fat.
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My stress was affecting every aspect of my life. I now have a better sense of well being. My body is just running so much more clean. The weight is just falling off. - Nancy While working with Dr. Kranski, a short period of time, my doctor started reducing my medications and was impressed with my weight loss. - Jean
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Call (804) 897-0008 to Register Today!
Seating is limited so registration is required. We offer West End and South Side seminar locations, call for details. Visit our website at www.DrKranskiWorkshop.com Speaker: Dr. Klinton J. Kranski, DC, ACN