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VOL.26, NO.4

A life forged by fire and friends

Reinventing herself At first, her addiction worsened. But during those years Arnold was trying to heal, she also started to think about life and reconsider her path. Before the accident, Arnold had followed in her father’s footsteps as a salesperson. Working in outside sales kept her out and about, traveling to clients all day. Her family and friends assumed she would return to that career following her recovery. But Arnold knew she had a choice be-

PHOTO COURTESY OF MARGO ARNOLD

By Rebekah Sewell To look at Margo Arnold now — as an active, fit 73-year-old who recently returned from an African safari and has three tandem skydiving jumps under her belt — you might assume she has led an adventurous life. You wouldn’t be wrong. But not all of her adventures have been such positive ones. In fact, much of her youth was marked by hardship and tragedy. For many years, Arnold struggled with alcohol and substance abuse. When she was growing up, members of her family dealt with their emotions and anger physically, by slamming doors and throwing things. Worse, they would drown their sorrows. “In my family, the bottle came first,” she said matter of factly in recent remarks to a 12-step group. Her first memory of being drunk was at age 16, when she began a pattern of partying, drinking and abusing drugs. She recalled one wild evening, when she stood on a car roof and broke a boy’s bedroom window with her elbows. “It was natural behavior to me. This is what we did,” she sighed. Alcohol had become her solution for dealing with her problems. At age 21, Arnold was pregnant. “I felt I had to marry” the child’s father, she said. Within four years, the marriage dissolved and she turned, naturally, to alcohol to “deal with the breakup.” As if this wasn’t enough, when she was 26, an accident changed Arnold’s life forever. At a beachside dinner party with friends, the material of her dress caught fire from a tabletop chafing dish. She suffered severe burns over half of her body, and spent the next five years undergoing multiple reconstructive surgeries.

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LEISURE & TRAVEL

Geyser and grizzly gazing in Yellowstone; plus, a step back in time to Andy Griffith’s home, and a roundup on riding the rails around the world page 49

ARTS & STYLE After a youth marked by substance abuse, and suffering life-threatening burn injuries as a young adult, Margo Arnold was introduced by friends to a 12-step program that gave her strength and the ability to recover. She went on to careers in art and sales, and has been enjoying retirement through adventures like tandem skydiving. Here she is shown with her instructor, Jean-Marie LeGrand.

tween playing to her strengths and pursuing her passions. She was skilled in the business world, but longed to have a career in art. So she enrolled in a four-year degree program in commercial art (now called graphic design), surprising all who knew her. Then some of her friends surprised her in turn, asking her not to take a drink or drug for the next 90 days. One of them suggested she go to a meeting of a 12-step program. Feeling that her personal “life was in shambles,” she decided to give it a try. “I had no idea I had a substance [abuse] problem that day,” she now says. “It felt like a life line had been thrown to me when I went to my first meeting.” Still, while on some level she wanted to take con-

trol of her life, “I had a very bad attitude” at first, she admitted. “Eventually, I got serious about the program and worked the steps.” In December, Arnold celebrated her 36th year sober. “Today, I live and breathe the program,” she said.

A support group for artists After graduating with her art degree, Arnold began creating and selling her art, which features bold colors and brushstrokes. In 1990, Arnold started her own graphic design company, which she headed for nine years. See ARNOLD, page 37

Musical at Ford’s Theater spells fun; plus, a visit to the U.S. Navy Memorial, and Bob Levey on his nameless generation page 55

FITNESS & HEALTH k Get a colonoscopy on the run k Is “expired” food dangerous? SPOTLIGHT ON AGING k Newsletter for D.C. seniors

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