12 Practical Travel Tips

Quality time is a hallmark of summer bucket lists, yet most of us don’t include “traveling hours and hours cramped in a vehicle” as a desirable family activity. Yet the reward of the destination keeps us pressing the accelerator. • But is it even possible for road trips (with kids!) to be enjoyable? Or at the least tolerable? James exhorts us to count it all joy, but it’s awfully hard to find happiness with shrill screams of “she touched my seat” or a spill of goldfish crackers all over the floorboard, isn’t it? • Road trippin’ with kids is a situation where we really must draw into patience…and practicality! • With all four of our children, we began traveling early. We’ve even endured an eight-hour drive with a one-month-old. The destination was worth the effort of traveling with a carload. Plus, many of our most memorable conversations and laughs have been had during highmileage excursions. • No trip is perfect, but thirteen years of parenting four children (who now range from ages 13-3) has taught me tons about making trips easier.

TWELVE TIPS FOR TRAVELING WITH CHILDREN

PRAY:

The night before our trip, I go into the rooms of my sleeping children to pray for safe travels, good attitudes by all, and for us to each show kindness and patience with each other on our journey.

PACK PATIENCE:

James 1: 2-4 says, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.

DRINKS:

Don’t provide unlimited access to drinks. Why? The effect of constant water is the constant need to start and stop for gas station restroom breaks. It’s a major problem with multiple children and cringe-worthy if there is an emergency during a traffic jam. Our children get drinks at breakfast, lunch, and dinner; we make sure they are hydrated, but we don’t supply them with a drink to keep at their seats.

FOOD:

Pack each child a Ziploc bag of snacks for the time of travel. Plus, the bag serves as a personal garbage bag.

CAR BAG:

Keep an easy to access bag that includes baby wipes or sanitizing wipes. Spills happen! We also pack a real road atlas, so the kids can have a big-picture understanding of our trip.

ATTIRE:

I make certain my children wear footwear that is easy on /easy off so during pit stops they can get themselves in / out of the vehicle with ease. They also wear outfits that are cozy for long periods of sitting.

KID BAG:

Each kid has a bag for car fun: books and puzzle books, drawing pad, pens, pencils or crayons, stuffed animal, small blanket and small pillow, and any little toy(s) they want to play with in the vehicle. These bags stay in the vehicle when we reach the destination. The diaper bag is well-stocked with diapers, wipes, extra clothes, and extras of favorites such as pacifiers. Just beware: once I arrived at a destination to find my three-year old covered in marker drawings. Yes, she was quiet during her “art time” but it was an unwelcome surprise to open the car to find her new masterpiece she had drawn all over her body.

POTTY BREAKS:

Keep supplies at hand for easy diaper changes in the car to lessen gas station diaper changes. Also, pack a little potty chair in the back of your vehicle if you are potty training a toddler. Sounds crazy, but this can eliminate scrambling when they scream, “I go potty, now!” Now all you must do is pull over and pull out the potty. Plus, you’ll have the potty-training potty for them to use at your destination.

SIBLING SQUABBLES:

Drown out the sound of sibling squabbles with music! We DJ a good theme drive to introduce our children to genres and decades of music. Our oldest fondly remembers the 10-hour drive we took where he was introduced to 90’s Country. Exploring 80’s top hits is also fun! Will your kids roll their eyes? Absolutely. But that doesn’t stop the fun. Soon they will know all the Alan Jackson hits.

DON’T EXPECT THE ETA:

Traveling with babies or toddlers? Prepare yourself for an unpredictable arrival time. Your estimated 6-hour trip will take anywhere from 5 to 24 hours. Abandon hopes of an exact ETA; exact times and children do not coexist. You have been warned!

SPECIAL STOPS:

Plan on a break at a quick, in-route point of interest. Halfway between home and our favorite destination is a country store on the side of the interstate. We always stop to browse and stretch our legs. Likewise, keep driving if you have a sleeping baby/toddler in your car. We never stop if the baby is sleeping.

SPECIAL TREATS:

In the middle of a long road trip, my husband leads our children into a gas station to pick

out snacks. I roll my eyes about his spoiling of the kids, but this solitary act keeps our spirits up. They get to pick out WHATEVER they want. Donuts? Sure. Popcorn. Why not? My kids think they get away with something because normal-day mom doesn’t let them have snacks, but road-trip dad leads them into the convenience store snack haven. Plus, they always bring me a Snicker bar. A gas station treat is one of our sanity-saving road trip secrets. We pull under those neon lights of a Seven-Eleven and the tears instantly dry.

The destination is always the goal, but be open to all the ways that road trips in and of

themselves can be fun, teach patience, and are full of memory making moments.

We parents know that being in a car for multiple hours with children will test our faith and can be a trial of various kinds. When your faith is tested – rather it be from the scream of your inconsolable newborn or road rage toward a fellow human, we must pray to God for patience. Pray to God for help and praise Him that He has blessed you with a family and the means to travel to see family, friends, or a destination of choice.

Published originally at KHCB- Upliftd Moms

Sarah Philpott Englewood, Tennessee, USA

Mom. Farmer’s Wife. Writer. Dreamer. Schemer. Ph.D Sarah lives in the south on a cattle farm where she raises her four mischievous children and is farm wife to her high school sweetheart. Fun fact: she doesn’t share desserts...get your own!

Check out her devotional: The Growing Season: A Year-of-Down-on-the-Farm Devotions is available on Amazon and online at major retailers. Her awardwinning book, Loved Baby: Helping You Grieve and Cherish Your Child After Pregnancy Loss, is available wherever books are sold. You can connect with Sarah on social media