Local Teen's Memorable Experience to Israel Through The Bronfman Fellowship

October 2023

By Daniel Shames

Last summer, I had an incredible experience with going to Israel through The Bronfman Fellowship, a prestigious program uniting Jewish teenagers from across North America for an immersive and intellectually invigorating experience. When I was first accepted, I was filled with questions and doubts. Would I like it? What would I learn? Would the other fellows be nice? How will my Judaism evolve after Bronfman?

All these uncertainties vanished when I met everyone in New York. I immediately felt a sense of community. This sense of belonging continued beyond the summer, shaping my everyday life outside Bronfman. As we gathered on the 17th floor, I pushed myself out of my comfort zone, feeling a desire to be more open and outgoing. Fortunately, this was mutual among the other 25 fellows and staff, leading to instant connections. By the end of the week, it felt like we had known each other for months, cementing a connectedness that made Bronfman special.

Our second stop was Pearlstone Retreat Center in Maryland. Here, our cohort flourished with new ideas and perspectives. A typical day began at 8 in the morning, with fellows rushing to the opening circle, often skipping breakfast due to late nights. Afterward, Shiur sessions focused on Talmud and other texts in small groups. Following a break and a lunch featuring fresh vegetables, questionable soup, and carbs, we embarked on bus tours of museums with guest speakers and free exploration. Returning to the retreat center, dinner included meat and various side dishes prepared by the staff. After dinner, we gathered for a closing circle and then had free time. Many nights, we stayed up until 3 or 4 a.m., engaging in deep and meaningful discussions that brought a sense of closure and grounding to our cohort.

After five nights at Pearlstone, we made a quick stop in Philadelphia to tour the Weitzman Museum of American Jewish History before heading to Israel. The 11-hour flight, feeling like just three hours due to conversations, movies, and hushed voices, was memorable. Arriving in Israel, we headed to Goldstein Youth Village in Jerusalem, where we spent three weeks. Our time in Israel included visits to various places. A walk around the Old City and a visit to the Western Wall deepened my appreciation for Israel’s history and Jewish traditions. At the Kotel, we followed the tradition of walking with closed eyes, opening them to the sacred site’s sight. Later, I prayed, wrote a note, and put on tefillin for the first time, making the experience unforgettable. We also took a day trip to Tel Aviv, exploring museums, enjoying a walking tour, and relaxing in the Mediterranean Ocean. Shabbat in Jerusalem, with its unique quiet and vibrant atmosphere, was memorable. Exploring multiple synagogues, including a Yemenite service, enriched my experience. My favorite was Yakar Synagogue, a 15-minute walk from our building, where handshakes, singing, dancing, and a warm rabbi made us feel at home. He even invited us to a Shabbat dinner and offered a place to stay if needed.

Bronfman not only has a North American program but also one in Israel. Our cohort met 20 Israeli Jewish fellows in Neve Shalom, a small town. Over 3 days, we exchanged cultures, learned about life in Israel, and studied together. Adir, an Ethiopian Jew aspiring to be an IDF fighter pilot, became a friend. Our late-night walks involved discussions about sports, movies, and friends back home. These laughs and conversations deepened my connection to Israel and its people.

As the fellowship came to an end, I felt a mix of emotions. Gratitude for the experience, sadness at leaving my new-found friends, and excitement for the journey that lay ahead. The impact of The Bronfman Fellowship extended beyond those few weeks, influencing my educational and career choices, as well as my personal relationships and perspectives. Looking back, I can confidently say that The Bronfman Fellowship was a transformative experience that shaped me in profound ways. It nurtured my intellectual curiosity, expanded my worldview, and reinforced the importance of community, dialogue, and lifelong learning. I am immensely grateful for the opportunity to have been a part of this remarkable program and carry its lessons with me as I continue to grow and evolve.

Daniel Shames is a high school senior from McAdenville,North Carolina, and member of Temple Emanuel of Gastonia. Daniel recently selected as a 2023-2024 Bronfman Fellow and was one of the 2023 CJN Celebrating Jewish Youth Essay Contest winners.