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Nancy NancyRice Ricehas hasbeen beenpracticing practicingEstate EstatePlanning Planningand andElder ElderLaw LawininNew NewJersey Jerseyand andPennsylvania Pennsylvania since 1986. She was Certified as an Elder Law Attorney in 1977, and has maintained since 1986. She was Certified as an Elder Law Attorney in 1997, and has maintainedoffices officesinin Atlantic County and Camden County, specifically in Linwood and Cherry Hill. She can answer Camden andand Capeconcerns May counties, specifically in Cherry Hill and Ocean City. She can answer your questions - just call 609-398-3447. your questions and concerns- just call 609-398-3447.

What Is Elder Law?

“ WILL CONTESTS: How Do They Work? ”

BY NANCY M. RICE, ESQ., CELA

We discussed A.) Fraud and B.) Due Execution in the Atlantic 2. Elder Law is a sub-specialty within the practice of law. Until the early 1990’s, this Today, we will continue in our discussion with C.) Testamentary area of practice was more generally known as “Estate Planning.” Elder Law developed and D.) Undue as aCapacity sub-specialty of Estate PlanningInfluence. in the late 1980’s.

What is “Elder County WomanLaw”? September/October 2015 issue, Part 1 of

The National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys (NAELA) was founded in 1987 as a

C.) Testmentary Capacity professional association of attorneys who are dedicated to improving the quality of legal services provided to seniors. testamentary capacity is rather permissive. Indeed, The test for determining the of capacity needed to execute a Will is less than that required to enter level What is “Estate Planning”? into a contract. Thegenerally key questions person madeforthe Estate Planning involvesare thewhether drafting the of Wills andwho planning theWill (called the “Testator”) understood: disposition of estates upon death. Estate Planning can also include tax planning to reduce or eliminate the various death taxes which can, in some cases, seriously deplete The nature and extent of the property subject of the Will; in other words, an estate. what assets the Testator had and planned to leave under his or her Will.

1 Do Estate Planning Lawyers address planning issues in the event I become incapacitated? 2

The “natural objects of his or her bounty,” that is, who are the Testator’s During 1980’s and 1990’s, Estate wastoexpanded to include planning nextthe of kin (whether or not he orPlanning she wants leave them anything under for well. This was to a necessary expansion because if you are in a car theincapacity Will, theasTestator needs know who they are). accident or suffer a stroke, leaving you unable to tend to your legal affairs or make medicalThe decisions, wouldthat be ofthe little usewould to youdispose as it is effective only upon death. effect ofa Will the Will; Will of property following Thus, most lawyers today will talk to you about Durable Powers of Attorney and death. Advance Medical Directives (“Living Wills”) when you meet with them to talk about drafting a Will. The relation of each of these factors to the other.

3 If4 an attorney focuses on Elder Law, what areas of law would that include? Notably, the law presumes that all Testators are of sound and competent

mind Will is executed (assuming he/she was at least 18 years of age and Elderwhen Law aincludes: has not been declared by a court to betolegally incapacitated). To overcome • Preservation/transfer of assets seeking avoid spousal impoverishment when athe spouse enters a nursing home the contestant must prove lack of testamentary capacpresumption of capacity, • Medicaid ity at the time the Will was executed, by clear and convincing evidence. It is • Medicaretoadvocacy, claims important know that it isand notappeals enough to show that the Testator was addicted • Social Security and disability claims to drugs or alcohol; you must prove and thatappeals the person was under the influence of Supplemental andtime long-term insurance a •substance at the of the health execution of theissues. Will. Nor is it sufficient to show • Disability planning, includingat usethe of time, Durable Living Trusts, and that the Testator was forgetful so Powers long asofheAttorney, or she had some capac“Living Wills” ity to manage his or her business affairs. • Conservatorships and guardianships • Probate, administration and management of trusts and estates D.) Undue • Long-term careInfluence placements in nursing home and life care communities • Nursing home issues, questions of patients’ rights andthat nursing quality Undue influence hasincluding been defined as any type of exertion can home prevent • Elder abusefrom and following fraud recovery casesfree will. This can include physical, menthe Testator his/her • Housing including home equity conversions tal, or moralissues, exertion. Merediscrimination suggestions, and persuasions or the exertion (“reverse of some mortgages”) influence is not enough to invalidate a Will. Ordinarily, the challenger has the • Retirement, including public and private retirement survivorone benefits, burden of proving undue influence. If, however, thebenefits, Will benefits who and pension benefits

Part 2 of 2 Most Elder Law attorneys do not specialize in every one of these areas. For example, I enjoyed do not handle Social Disability appeals or with Elder the Abuse cases. Additionally, a special or Security “confidential relationship” Testator, and there are some Elder Law attorneys handle matters for the clients who are of notthe elderly. “suspicious circumstances” surrounding execution Will, For the example, burden of I proof draft Wills for clients all ages. of the Will. will shift to theofdefender

If I see the designation “CELA” after an attorney’s name, A “confidential relationship” can be found where there is some special trust what does mean? between the that Testator and a beneficiary under the Will and where the nature of

that Onespecial of the relationship ways to evaluate the experience knowledge an attorney who claims creates some typeand of reliance or ofdependency. At times, to practice Elder Law is to consider whether he or she is Certified as an Elder Law a special or confidential relationship has been found to exist between a Testator Attorney (CELA). and: an adult child; other relative; a healthcare provider; a neighbor; an attorney; The purpose of this certification program is to identify those lawyers who have the or an accountant. Notably, while a confidential relationship naturally exists beenhanced knowledge, skills, experience, and proficiency to be properly identified as tween a husband and wife, the presumption of undue influence will not generCertified Elder Law Attorneys to the public. ally arise even when the Testator’s children are disinherited.

The criteria for certification include:

1. Licensure The attorneycircumstances” must be licensedcomponent to practice law in atundue least one state orWill in As to the- “suspicious of an influence the District of Columbia. contest, the evidence on this issue can be “slight.” Suspicious circumstances have 2. Practice - The attorney must haveofpracticed duringhis theattorney five (5) years preceding been found where a beneficiary the Willlaw engaged to prepare the his or her application and must be currently practicing law. Testator’s Will and where a nursing home patient was removed from the facility 3. Integrity/Good musta be a member in good standing of the by the beneficiaryStanding of a Will- The thatattorney was signed few days later. state bar in all places in which he or she is licensed. 4. Substantial Involvement - The attorney must have spent an average of atexecuted least If you believe that a Will should be challenged because it was not 16 hours per week practicing Elder Law during the three years preceding his her or properly (i.e., it was forged, didn’t have the correct number of witnesses,oretc.) application. In addition, he or she must have handled at least 60 Elder Law matters because the deceased was not competent when he/she signed it or because the during three (3) of years with influence, a specified distribution subjects asattorney, defined Will wasthose the product undue you should among hire a seasoned by the National Elder Law Foundation. who has significant experience in this area of law. Do not delay with your deci5.sion Continuing Education -attorney The attorney mustthe have in aatnarrow least 45 to engageLegal an experienced because lawparticipated allows only hours of Continuing Legal Education (CLE) in Elder Law during the preceding window time during which a caveat and/or a Will contest may be filed. three (3)ofyears. 6. Peer Review/Professional References - The attorney must submit the names of five Nancy can answer your and concerns! (5) referencesRice from attorneys familiar with his orquestions her competence and qualifications in Elder Law. These attorneys must themselves satisfy specified criteria. 7. Examination – The attorney must pass a full-day certification examination.

Call 609-398-3447 today!

I have been practicing Estate Planning and Elder Law since 1986. I sat for the CELA exam in the Fall of 1996, passed it, then satisfied all of the other criteria listed above. Additionally, I have been Certified as an Elder Law Attorney since the Spring of 1997. In 2002, and again in 2007, I satisfied the conditions for re-certification.

Nancy Rice can answer your questions and concerns. Call 609-398-3447.

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‘THE BIG TALK’: When Should You Have It? Long gone are the days of diapers, formula, and baby foods. Fast approaching are the dreaded “teenage years.” “Watch out, hold onto your parental hats, it is going to be a fast and bumpy ride” may all be appropriate descriptive terms. Yes, our children are approaching puberty.

Puberty is a time of significant physical, emotional, and psycho-social changes for children. These changes may cause confusion, stress and a host of other issues in a child. As you, the reader, progress through this article, keep this ONE THING IN MIND - BE PATIENT, BE PATIENT, and BE PATIENT. As a parent, this stage is going to be as difficult, if not more difficult, for you than your son or daughter. You, the parent, are your kid’s best asset. It is your job to teach, advise, counsel and, most importantly, listen to your son or daughter. You may or may not like what you hear. Try not to be angry or upset. Keep your child close to you and maintain open lines of communication. Puberty starts at varied ages; some start early, some late. Some develop quickly, others develop slowly. There is no hard and fast rule for this. Boys tend to take after their dads and the males in their family. Consider other family members and the ages for puberty. This may give you a clue as to when your own son or daughter will start puberty. From a medical perspective, doctors usually recommend that kids who start puberty before the age of eight-and-a-half to nine have a medical check-up. Also those who have not started puberty by their fourteenth or fifteenth birthday should see a doctor. It’s important to remember that starting early or late does not always mean there is something wrong. However, when there is something wrong, the problem can be treated by a doctor at an early age to allow the child to develop normally. Pimples, perspiration, and body hair growth. Most of us recall our first body changes. Hair growth in pubic areas, armpits, legs and arms is not too distressing to most kids. Just an aside, to dispel a popular rumor, shaving does not cause more hair growth. It may look like more but it is not. Shaving cuts the hair shaft, removing the tapered tip and exposing the wider shaft, so it looks like more hair growth. Body odor can start to occur during this period. Consider teaching the use of personal care products. For young women the body changes are more pronounced and noticeable. The enlargement of breast tissue begins in this stage, as well as an overall change in the contour of her body. This can be distressing to some women. The use of a bra or other supportive garments is really up to the individual. Support her in her decision to wear or not wear a bra. The next mountain is the start of her menses

or period. The onset of menses is the beginning of a variety of things. The most important one being this signifies her ability to become pregnant. Your daughter may wrestle with the decision to use a tampon or pad. Use of a tampon may disrupt the hymen. There are commercially available smaller tampons with plastic applicators that may offer her some advantages for ease of placement. Other issues may arise such as romantic feelings and sexual feelings. Young people often face questions about how to handle strong romantic and sexual feelings. This is an important time to really examine your own feelings, organize some basic concepts in your mind. And really try to talk with your child. They can use the guidance. At this time it is important to discuss the “what” and “how to” related to sexual activity. Kids today start at a young age. Don’t ignore the subject. It is important to discuss sexual contact, intercourse and, yes, birth control. Include in this safe sex practices and STD prevention. As a gynecologist, I have helped many parents with the talk. I have over the years developed the ability to effectively communicate with young women. This is a time of many emotions like confusion, anxiety, and excitement about growing up. It may also be a time when our kids have the “blues.” These ups and downs are very common in this age group. Part of the reason we have these feelings may be the new hormones our bodies are making. Our hormones are powerful substances and they can affect our emotions and our bodies. It takes our bodies and our emotions some time to adjust to these hormones. At times, all these changes are overwhelming. Your children may feel scared, uncertain, anxious or depressed. Be there to support, listen and at times talk to your children. You are their best asset. Try to keep them safe and out of trouble. In my own life, I have three children of my own. They are fast approaching at this age. I have started to have “the talk” with one of my own. It is really not as easy as one would think. When it comes down to it, this is a really difficult subject. It is stressprovoking for both my son and me. Kids can be difficult to reach, so keep trying. Again, be patient, don’t pre-judge; guide them, don’t push them. If you have difficulty with your child and “the talk,” we at Advanced Care are here to help. I have this type of discussion several times in any given week. Please contact my office if needed. Good luck.

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Welcome to the May/June Issue of The Atlantic County Woman Publication! Despite the late snowfall and colder temperatures in April, the pair of Canada geese began nesting near our mailbox. This means for the next 24 to 28 days, we will try to be careful when venturing out to our mailbox or trash cans. However, as we did two years ago, we are hoping to witness the baby goslings hatching and leaving the nest under the watchful eye of their mother and father. Speaking of mothers and fathers, now is the time of year where we get to honor the mothers and fathers in our own lives. First, Mother’s Day is May 13th, a time to recognize how special Mom is and to make sure she feels loved and appreciated. Then, on June 17th, we celebrate Father’s Day, a time to appreciate the special men in our lives who have guided us through life’s triumphs and troubles. In addition to these two holidays, Memorial Day is celebrated on May 28th. Memorial Day is a time to honor all those men and women who have died in service to their country. Memorial Day is also the unofficial beginning of summer in New Jersey, as the beach communities come alive with activities. Another occasion I celebrated in the month of April was my four-year anniversary of beginning my career at the Atlantic County Woman Publication. Over the past four years, I have met some wonderful people, from our talented staff to our clients, who are highly skilled in their professions. I am looking forward to continuing my career at the Atlantic County Woman Publication as the Production Manager and I thank each and every one of you for continuing the success of the Atlantic County Woman Publication. As the weather heats up and all the beach communities come alive with activities, we want to wish you a safe and fun summer. Take advantage of everything the Jersey Shore has to offer, including the many wonderfully popular events you can read about in the Community section of this publication. In addition, don’t forget to visit our Facebook page, where you can enter to win tickets to see an amazing show.

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Contents ^Elder Law

Rice Elder Law..................................................................2

^Medical Professionals

Advanced Care Ob/Gyn Infertility......................................3 Accent Aesthetics Medical & Laser Day Spa....................6 Shore Vascular & Vein Center......................................7, 76 Kathy A. Banks, DMD........................................................8 Sood Center for Aesthetic & Plastic Surgery..................13 Relievus...........................................................................16 Go Feet: Stuart W. Honick, DPM.....................................18 Atlantic Medical Imaging.................................................21 Barbara Greenling, DNP..................................................26 Bella Derma Medi Spa.....................................................39 Quality Dermatology........................................................46

^Coffee Shop

Barista’s Coffee House......................................................5

^Fashion & Beauty

Funny Farm Rescue..................................................44, 45 Jolly Pets Supplies & Grooming......................................53 Atlantic County Animel Shelter..................................62, 63

Clay’s Climate Control.....................................................14

Vagabond Travel Agency.................................................49

^Home Improvement ^Law

D’Amato Law Firm...........................................................15 Russell & Marinucci...................................................24, 25

^Theatre & Entertainment

Charles Meusburger, MD.................................................20 Lou Marchiano for Men...................................................27

The Friendly Cobbler.......................................................53

^Permanent Makeup

Beau Institute..................................................................17

^Psychiatry

^Men’s Clothing

^Wigs & Hair Replacement

Sorella Salon of Galloway...............................................29 Abstrax Hair Designs.......................................................33

Garden State Trust Company....................................10, 11

^Featured on the Cover

Breathe Studio.................................................................12 Body in Balance Physical Therapy & Fitness Center......19 Yoga Nine Mind/Body Studio..........................................32

^Business & Finance

Coffee Shop

^Travel

Two River Theater............................................................51 Atlantic City Ballet...........................................................67 Show Score.....................................................................68 This One’s For The Girls..................................................68 Desperate Measures.......................................................69 Cape May Stage..............................................................71

^Acupuncture

^Health & Wellness

Curexa Pharmacy............................................................43 Hypnosis for Women.......................................................47 Nina Radcliff, MD............................................................56

Barbara’s Boutique............................................................9 Talk of the Walk...............................................................14 The Bra Boudoir..............................................................17 Seagrass Boutique....................................................22, 23 Mrs. B’s Boutique............................................................27

^Financial Management

Sunshine Community Acupuncture.................................29

^Interior Design

Ava’s Design Ideas..........................................................31

^Private Training Studio

Strength First, LLC..........................................................31 BAYADA Home Health Care................................34, 35, 36 Copiers Plus....................................................................38

^Shoe Repair

^Women’s History

Geraldine Cohen.............................................................55 ^Women of Atlantic County..............57, 58, 59

^Fabulous Food

Cutting Board Creations, LLC.........................................66

^Family Portraits & Headshots

Donna Andrews Photography.........................................75 ^Community.....................28, 30, 37, 40, 42, 48, 50, 52, 54, 59, 60, 61, 64, 65, 70, 72, 73, 74

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Newkirk Family Veterinarians..........................................41

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A few months ago, I received a message at home from an IRS agent and a few days later from someone who had a buyer for my new home. I knew that both calls were a sham. At Garden State Trust we primarily work with retired and soon-to-be retired individuals. I knew that a company we worked with, Merrill Anderson & Co., created a booklet about Keeping Our Seniors Safe that we purchased and placed on our website. I would like to share the booklet with you. The following anecdotes are composites of true stories, with the names omitted to protect the innocent. Mrs. X got a telephone call from the fire department telling her that her chimney needed to be inspected promptly under the new fire code. The caller was a scamster; there was no new fire code; he was looking for a way to be admitted into her home. The fire and police departments subsequently issued public warnings against this sort of scam. After Mr. Y’s wife died, his nephew moved in with him to help with the household. Then the nephew’s girlfriend moved in as well. Then the nephew started helping with the money management. Mr. Y’s monthly statements began to show large, unusual withdrawals. Mrs. Z was approached by a stranger in a parking lot who claimed to have a winning lottery ticket. The stranger claimed that he could not claim the prize because he was in trouble with the law, but he would sell it to Mrs. Z at a steep discount. Another passerby confirmed the winning numbers on the ticket. Actually, the second person also was part of the scam. These are three examples of financial exploitation of seniors, and unfortunately there are thousands more. By some estimates, 20% of those over 65 will experience financial exploitation at some point during their retirement—which at this date tallies some $3 billion every year. The three stories above have happy endings. In each case, the individual involved or family members were able to step up and take responsibility for remedying the situation. But the better course is to take early steps to head off the possibility of neglect or financial abuse.

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With these protections in place, the opportunity for neglect or financial exploitation of the senior is reduced sharply. Signs of Financial Exploitation • You spot unusual financial activity, such as unexplained credit card activity, withdrawals incurring penalties, newly authorized signers on accounts. • You are confused about recent financial arrangements/transactions. • Recent changes to property titles, deeds, refinanced mortgages, power of attorney documents, wills, trusts or other documents that you do not understand or did not authorize. • A caregiver or beneficiary has refused to use your funds for your necessary care and treatment. • Someone has threatened to place you in a long-term care facility unless you give him or her control of your finances. • Food or medication has been manipulated or withheld to make you weak and compliant. • You have become financially responsible for a family member or friend without regard for your own needs. We Are A Resource Financial exploitation and neglect of our seniors is a serious and growing problem. Garden State Trust Company is doing our part to fight back, being alert to the protection of our seniors and raising awareness of the issue in the community. Now you need to do your part, taking the initiative to protect your loved ones, with the tools that are available to you. What To Do When Financial Abuse Of An Elderly Person Is Suspected If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 911 or the Detective Division of your local Police Department.

To report cases of suspected abuse, neglect, or exploitation, you can visit on our website: http://gstrustco.com/assets/Garden-State-WYW.pdf and you will find phone numbers for New Jersey Adult Protective Services throughout the State. Or you can call our office at 732-255-5000 and we can mail you these important telephone numbers.

Plan Now, Avoid Being A Victim Later No one expects to be a victim of neglect or financial exploitation. Unfortunately, as people reach their most senior years, the chances of financial exploitation occurring increase significantly. What can you do? • To nearly eliminate telemarketing calls, join the National Do Not Call Registry. Visit www.donotcall.gov or call 888.382.1222 to register your phone number. Remember that charities, politicians and On You. On Your Family. On political parties are exempt from penalties for ignoring the list. • Stay in touch with others, because isolation can make you more vulnerable. • Never, ever send anyone personal information to collect a prize or reward. • Consult with someone you trust before making a large purchase or investment or signing a legal contract. • Special bank accounts with a trusted family member. Such accounts may be used to handle all the routine financial expenses of retirement. • Durable power of attorney. This gives a third party, normally a trusted family member, greater authority over one’s financial life. The authority may extend to making investment decisions, even making gifts to family members. Powers of attorney need to be drafted with care by a lawyer who specializes in elder law, and some supervision is warranted. Unfortunately, for all the good that they can do, powers of attorney have been the source of financial exploitation in some Toms River, NJ | Cherry Hill, NJ | Lebanon, NJ cases.

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“Start where you are, grow from there, the practice is yours.” My journey started with my love for barre. I connected with the fluidity of the movements and how my body felt. Pilates was natural progression. The more the I practiced, the more I desired to perfect my skills. In 2013 I began my training and certifications in Barre and in 2016 I completed my reformer certification from Balance Body. Throughout my education I have collaborated with mentors of varying practices that have diversified my technique and knowledge, and molded my abilities as an instructor.

reformer) the resistance of springs to lengthen and strengthen your muscles, while moving the body as a whole. Regardless of what class you choose, make sure to let your instructor know you’re a beginner. This way, they’ll be able to keep an eye on you throughout the class and offer modifications or form adjustments that ensure you are moving in proper posture. 2. You’ll feel your muscles burn during class, and you’ll probably be sore the next day. While you may not be crushing high-intensity exercises like squat jumps or lifting heavy dumbbells, the mostly bodyweight routines that Pilates classes offer can be pretty intense. Take the signature Pilates Hundred, for example. A core-focused move that involves less than two inches of constant movement, it will make your abs burn. Dedicating your entire focus to even the smallest movements means that you’ll work the muscles more efficiently and solidify good posture through movement. This means you can be dealing with muscle soreness after your workout. Don’t fret: Being sore the next day doesn’t mean you’re out of shape; it just means you’re challenging your muscles in new ways or working muscles you didn’t know you had. 3. Pilates is the foundation of a well-rounded fitness plan. NEW CLIENT Pilates stretches, strengthens, and aligns your SPECIAL body all at the same time. With that said, it 5 group classes & complements every other fitness endeavor 3 Private training because it prepares your body to move better in sessions for $215! every way. Adding it into your routine will help A great way get started you lift heavier weights, run faster, swim with and learn about how better form, or even achieve that elusive arm your body moves! balance in yoga.

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The literature also shows a pretty well accepted view by sociologists “that about half of American women are sexually harassed at least once during their working lives. While the ages of those who harass are not well documented, there is a school of thought that because of how important being powerful is, those who do it are generally older than those they abuse.”

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Coastal Fashion With A Modern Bohemian Flair Home to one of the hottest women’s boutiques in New Jersey, Seagrass has enjoyed somewhat of a cult following since opening in 2016. Owner Kevin Heck’s passion for the industry is evident as soon as you visit his store. With his background in Public Relations and degree in fashion marketing, you could say he is well suited for the role. The store is filled with the hottest trends in casual beachwear and resort clothing with that “boho chic” feel. He adds, “At Seagrass Boutique our motto has always been about giving the best customer experience. We take the time to figure out the wants and needs of our clients. We listen, we understand different body types, and our goal is to provide an experience that you won’t receive online.” ACW: What is the average age of your customer?

Kevin: Seagrass offers something for every age. Whether it is a bracelet, a delicious candle, casual, comfortable outfits, faux leather jackets, soft vegan suede slim pants, or a beautiful dress for a special occasion. We have you covered! The average age of our customers is between 20 and 65.

ACW: What do you enjoy most about owning your business? Do you find any part challenging?

Kevin: The most gratifying part is the gift of meeting and doing business with clients who have become fast friends. I’m honored to have met so many great people. By owning my own business, I am able to pick and choose fashion styles that make a statement, but are still comfortable, all at the same time. It is also wonderful receiving feedback from my clients that love everything they have purchased. The best part is when they leave the store with a smile. As we all know, there has been a shift in retail. With the convenience of online and big box fashion, it has become increasingly hard to compete. We are always trying to find new styles and items that make us stand out and become a destination in the South Jersey area.

ACW: What essential pieces are necessary to achieve that “Bohemian” look?

Kevin: My interpretation of Bohemian is styles focused on free and flowy fabrics. Some staples to include in

your wardrobe are a maxi skirt, neutral colored ankle boots or gladiators, lacey cardigans, the standard printed maxi dress, and of course tunic style t-shirts and embroidered blouses. Overall, one should dress with the mindset of being free and casual in styles that are eye-catching, while still being whimsical.

ACW: What style trends do you see on the rise for 2018? What will be making a comeback?

Kevin: I see ruffles, unique trims, contrast details, embroidery, and florals making a strong comeback this year. Colors have been a bit muted for spring but bold and vibrant in the summer. Some women will be thrilled to know that the slip dress will be back. In 2018 it’s all about making a statement with sheer fabrications, updated trenches, fringe, and embellishments.

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ACW: What types of sunglasses are in style these days?

Kevin: We offer a wide array of styles and manufacturers. We have the Australian sunglass line, Quay that is upbeat and very eye catching. With Quay, it’s all about the bigger, the brighter, and the better! We carry RAEN sunglasses that are American made and excellent quality. It’s a style that is extremely flattering and looks good on everyone. We also offer Tom Ford sunglasses, which are above and beyond in both quality and style. Overall, the sunglasses for 2018 are larger in size and outstated in style. The aviator style is still going strong and mirrored lenses are a must.

ACW: How is your new location doing?

Kevin: Last summer we opened in Ocean City and the store continues to do very well. Each of our stores has its own aesthetic and this location is a bit more laid back, especially because in Ocean City folks are looking for a more casual look. It’s about having the ability to transform an outfit from day into evening, or pieces you can dress up in your own personal way. It’s a busy, upbeat place to be during the summer and I am looking forward to our second season!

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May/June 2018

Law

Choosing The Right Attorney By Marla Marinucci, Esq.

hoosing the right divorce attorney can make all the difference in your case, both financially and emotionally. People contemplating divorce often think that they need a “barracuda” lawyer in order to “win.” My first response when somebody makes a statement like this is always to say that there is no winning in divorce—plain and simple. My job as your attorney and advocate is to get you the fairest and best result possible based upon your unique set of circumstances. Divorce, in and of itself, is one of the most traumatic life experiences a person can go through. If you think that hiring the quintessential “barracuda” or Rambo-esque attorney will get you anything more than additional emotional trauma, combined with an exorbitantly high legal bill, you have been misguided. In choosing your attorney, a good way to start is to ask friends, family and colleagues for referrals. Most important is that your potential divorce lawyer should specialize in family law, as I do, and not be someone who will take anything that walks in off the street. You wouldn’t want your primary care physician performing your root canals, would you? Same holds true for matters of the law. In addition to specializing in family law, I am very proud of the fact that I am a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys (AAML), a distinction held by approximately 75 attorneys throughout this State. Moreover, in Cape May and Atlantic County where I practice, there are only four practicing family law attorneys, myself included, who are Fellows of the AAML. It is an honor to be a member of this group made up of the most skilled and experienced family law attorneys in New Jersey. In addition to being a Fellow of the AAML, I have also been Certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a Matrimonial Law Attorney. Again, another distinction earned by very few attorneys (less than 3%) which demonstrates that an attorney possesses above-average skills and knowledge in their respective field of law. When you have your first consultation, make sure it is in person and not over the phone because you need to know if you are going to have a good rapport with your potential attorney who is going to be counseling and

guiding you through a very difficult time in your life. Also, you should expect to pay a consultation fee for a consultation with a family law attorney. As the saying goes, you get what you pay for. If you are insistent that you will not settle under any circumstances and just want to have your day in court, I may not be the right attorney for you. Most people do not realize that the number of divorce cases in New Jersey that actually go to trial is minuscule. I do not know the exact figures but I can confidently represent that fewer than five percent of divorce cases actually go to trial in New Jersey. Moreover, the trial is what’s called a “bench trial,” meaning that it is decided by one Judge, not a panel of jurors. I am a firm believer that it is always in the best interests of the parties and their children (if there are any) that the case settle out of court. While we have outstanding Family Part Judges in Atlantic and Cape May Counties, where I primarily practice, they will tell you that they are the last person who should be making decisions about your future and much prefer that the parties themselves arrive at an amicable resolution of their matter. Divorce is emotionally traumatizing, no doubt. But trials irreparably destroy lives. If your primary goal in your divorce is to make your soon-to-be ex pay as much as possible in legal fees because you want to destroy him/her, then I am not the right fit for you. Similarly, if you are seeking to bring to the Court’s attention certain personal issues about your spouse that have no bearing on the outcome of your case, then I am clearly not the best choice as I feel that engaging in issues (especially those that could be considered below-the-belt) that are not relevant to the case at hand is neither necessary nor productive and in the end is simply a waste of the Court’s time. There are no guarantees in divorce. In fact, it is a standard provision in any fee agreement that there are no such guarantees. However, I do have a few personal guarantees of my own: 1) There is no winning in divorce; 2) A barracuda belongs in the sea; and 3) I will tirelessly advocate for you to ensure you attain the fairest result possible and we will share a chuckle or two along the way.

If you or someone you know is contemplating divorce, please call my office to arrange for a consultation. 609-398-1900.

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MARLA MARINUCCI, ESQ. Marla is the first to say that in her profession, it’s all about getting the “right” result vs. “winning” a case. She adds, “Something I tell all of my clients is: There is no winning in family law. It’s about advocating and getting the right and just result based upon the circumstances.” She suggests advocating to the best of your ability without hitting below the belt. Most importantly, she says, “Don’t be afraid to ask your colleagues for advice if you have a difficult issue and you need a second opinion.”

If you or someone you know is contemplating divorce or has a legal issue involving a family law matter, please call my office to arrange for a consultation. 609-398-1900.

When Marla Marinucci first started out as a young matrimonial attorney, she felt a strong desire to change the world. After several years and a myriad of challenging cases, she now realizes that was not a reasonable plan. “Family law is constantly evolving and an Appellate or Supreme Court decision can change everything in the blink of an eye,” she adds. It takes a very strong personality to deal with people during the darkest hours of their lives. Marla has the tools and the experience to help her clients make it through these difficult times.

over a $500 credit card bill when the legal fees incurred to fight over it will exceed the amount of the actual bill. In appropriate situations, I also encourage my clients to settle as many issues as they can with their soonto-be ex-spouse because it will cost them less in the long run, thereby reducing everyone’s stress level, not to mention their respective legal bills.

ACW: What advice would you give to someone just starting out in this profession? Marla: New lawyers starting out should network and get involved.

Whether that means joining your local bar association or going to local

ACW: What do you find to be the most challenging events for young professionals— just get involved. It may lead to a job offer, referral, or both. Also, showing respect at all times for your aspect of your profession? Marla: Explaining the law to clients can be very challenging. For

example: it’s much harder financially to live separate and apart than it is together. Thus, if during the marriage you enjoyed going out to dinner; getting a massage when you felt like it; or taking vacations two times per year, after the divorce you may not be able to afford those luxuries because there are now two households. Those luxuries are not an entitlement and not something that by law must continue once you and your spouse are divorced if there isn’t enough money to support that kind of lifestyle, which is the reality in most divorces. Litigants have a difficult time grappling with this concept. Also, the stress level that comes with the job can be at times quite high. One of the most challenging aspects of this practice right now is how to address the new Tax Cuts and Jobs Act that was recently passed and how it will affect our clients’ overall bottom line. In addition to the multiple changes in the new tax code, for new divorces entered after December 31, 2018, alimony will no longer be taxable to the recipient nor deductible to the payor. This will have a huge impact on the practice of family alw. Finally, difficult and unreasonable adversaries are an unfortunate challenging aspect to this profession because they not only double or triple the parties’ legal fees, they render an already difficult and emotional situation much worse.

ACW: What is the most important advice you would give to a prospective client?

Marla: Different clients require different advice. I often find myself

saying, “Don’t sweat the small stuff,” because I don’t believe in fighting

colleagues, Judges, and court staff, no matter how hard that can be at times, is paramount to surviving in this profession. Finally, just do the right thing.

ACW: Share with our readers the first three steps a married couple should do when contemplating a divorce. Marla: My advice would be to first try and have an adult conversation

with the other party to see if they can agree on anything. The more the parties can mutually resolve between themselves, especially when there are children involved, the better for everyone. I also firmly believe in alternate dispute resolution and would advise a party about to embark on a divorce to contact a mediator who could assist them in resolving their differences prior to involving the courts. It is much less costly and also provides the parties with more control over their matter, as there is no pressure from the Court to get the case resolved. This results in considerably less stress and parties who are still able to communicate with one another post–divorce, as opposed to the nastiness and bitterness that accompanies litigation. Finally, when searching for an attorney to represent you, do your research and make sure your attorney specializes in matrimonial/family law.

CALL: (609) 398-1900 Email: marinucci@ocnjfamilylaw.com

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Medical Professionals

Close to 25 percent of VA Patients Have Diabetes Written By Barbara Greenling, DNP, MSN, APN-C

American Veterans — Time to Take Action

Nearly one in four Veterans receiving care from VA has diabetes. This is partly attributable to the older average age of Veterans compared to the general US population. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimate that nearly 26 million people, or about 8 percent of the US population, have diabetes. That includes about 11 million persons 65 and older, or about 27 percent of seniors. In the United States, about one-in-four persons with diabetes are not aware that they have the condition. While exact numbers are not available, it is likely that the number is lower for Veterans receiving regular VA primary care. However, many Veterans of all ages are at risk for diabetes because of the high rate of obesity and those who are overweight, estimated at over 70 percent of Veterans receiving VA care.

“About one-in-four persons with diabetes are not aware that they have the condition.” Weight Loss and Physical Activity

An individual does not have to achieve drastic weight loss. Losing about five percent of one’s weight will help. In recent studies, a weight loss and exercise program was more effective than medication in both younger and older individuals. The medication was not effective in persons older than 60. The VA’s MOVE! Weight Management Program is available to all Veterans who are overweight or obese and for whom weight management is appropriate. It supports Veterans in developing plans that work for them to lose or maintain weight through balanced diet, physical activity, and behavior change approaches.

For the MOVE! program to be tailored to the individual’s needs, the Veteran can complete a 23 item questionnaire. More information is available at www.move.VA.gov. MOVE! is available in multiple convenient formats including group sessions, telephone-based care, and a new home messaging program called TeleMOVE! which uses the telephone line, provides daily support, and is interfaced with a scale for weekly home weigh-ins. Talk with your Primary Care Team about MOVE! Although the focus is to identify individuals at higher risk for developing diabetes, it is important to remind persons who already have diabetes of the importance of weight loss and physical activity in managing diabetes. Additionally, persons with diabetes or at risk for diabetes should manage other conditions, such as hypertension or high lipid levels, appropriately, and if they have diabetes, they should be screened at regular intervals for early signs of kidney, foot or eye conditions.

Diabetes and Agent Orange

Diabetes mellitus type 2 is one of the diseases VA presumes is associated with exposure to herbicides, such as Agent Orange. Veterans who were exposed to Agent Orange do not have to prove a connection between their type 2 diabetes mellitus and military service to be eligible for VA benefits. Healthy eating habits and exercise can help prevent this chronic disease. Visit the Agent Orange homepage to learn more about Agent Orange and VA benefits. The American Diabetes Association provides an online Diabetes Risk Test.

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National Institutes of Health (NIH) Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)

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About the Practitioner Barbara was born in Trenton, eventually settling in Atlantic County in 2005 while working on her medical degrees. Many years of diverse experience working in the medical field as she continued her education finally culminated in a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree in 2013. She joined Reliance Medical Group in 2014 and now has her own practice in Egg Harbor Township, an accomplishment of which she takes immense pride. She is affiliated with Shore Medical Center. Barbara takes special interest in her community, with a practice focused on family, veterans and the trans-gender population. She personally has volunteered in the Wounded Warrior project since 2009, and donates her time and resources to the American Cancer Society and the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Dr. Greenling also takes great pride in the level of care her office provides. It is a safe-haven office with a friendly and easy-going staff. They take all insurances, including Tri-Care for veterans. When Barbara is not practicing medicine, she enjoys golfing, gardening, entertaining and spending time with her family.

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Acupuncture

What Is Acupuncture?

cupuncture is a holistic medicine - it sees symptoms in relationship to the entire body, rather than focus solely on the symptoms, and it empowers the body to heal itself. It is a natural healing method that supports the body and addresses the root of the problem, not just the symptoms. It is very gentle and relaxing to receive, and has an extremely low probability of side effects. The purpose behind all acupuncture therapy is the achievement of balance - specifically the balance of the flow of Qi. Qi (pronounced “chee”), or vital energy, flows throughout the body.

Symptoms are seen as imbalance in this flow, and the correction of the imbalance is reflected in good health. The Qi flows in pathways throughout the body. Each pathway runs on the skin surface and is accessible via acupuncture points, and also runs deeply into the body and connects to the internal organs. The pathway brings the treatment from the superficial level into the deeper levels. Acupuncture has been used for centuries as preventative medicine and to relieve acute conditions and chronic conditions, such as asthma, chronic pain, anxiety and

Maria DeAngelis Lascheid, M.Ac., L.Ac., Dipl.Ac. Maria is a Licensed Acupuncturist who holds a Masters Degree in Acupuncture from the Won Institute of Graduate Studies in Glenside, Pa. She developed an interest in Acupuncture during her career in the casino industry. She is drawn to natural methods of healing and, in particular Eastern Medicine, which has a holistic perspective of health and healing. She believes in the body’s amazing ability to heal itself and utilizes various therapies in addition to Acupuncture including Auricular Acupuncture, Cupping, and Gua Sha.

depression. Acupuncture also treats pain, anxiety, depression, insomnia, inflammatory bowel syndrome, menstruation, fertility, menopause, and so much more... Over 2500 years old, it is a time-tested method of preventative care that speaks for itself. Acupuncture has been used to prevent, diagnose and treat disease, as well as to improve general health. Acupuncture treatments are done individually or community-style. Community acupuncture is practiced in a group, rather than a one-on-one setting. The treatments are primarily on the front of the body and mainly on distal points (legs, arms, hands, feet, ears, head). Community-style clinics are more affordable so you can get the amount of treatment you need in a shorter period of time. The idea is to make acupuncture accessible and affordable!

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Come join us for a fun day supporting a great cause! Tee Time: 1:00 pm Food, giveaways, silent - Alzheimer’s Support Groups - at Seashore Gardens Living Center auction, contests, prizes May 9th and Junepm 13th at 5:30pm Dinner & Awards: 6:00 and much more!

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2018 Summer Design Trends

Written by: Ava Cocchi

Spring is finally here and thankfully summer is creeping up right behind so we must be prepared to wine, dine, and be divine in our outdoor oasis. The 2018 summer design trends for outdoor living can be costly, but doing it within your budget, or even DIY, can vastly change the way you use your outdoor space.

Here are a few suggestions on ways to make your space up to date while creating cozy moments for you and your summer visitors! 1. OUTDOOR SHOWER: Whether you live at the beach or on the mainland, an outdoor shower can make the mundane act of daily cleaning feel like a luxury. Surrounding oneself with fresh air and nature at the end of a long day or just rinsing off after hours of playing on the beach, an outdoor shower can be practical while feeling magical. 2. DINING ALFRESCO: Spring and summer is the ideal time for enjoying the outdoor space, and alfresco dining is set to be bigger than ever this year. Create a dedicated area with comfy furniture and mood lighting, complete with a sunken fire pit, BBQ or pizza oven. Lighted pergolas with integrated drainage, lighting and heating will be the must-have garden feature, while outdoor kitchens with dedicated spaces for cooking, eating and entertaining will become a central focus. 3. WATERFALL: There are endless studies that show the sound of running water can immediately reduce stress and create a feeling of relaxation. If you are not lucky enough to live on the beach and hear the ocean, then bring this natural element into your backyard. 4. GROW IT YOURSELF: Veganism is one of the fastest growing lifestyle movements, and coupled with rising food prices and a growing appreciation of organic produce, in 2018 the “grow your own” movement will really see resurgence. Create a dedicated space in your backyard for your favorite vegetables and fruits and watch in wonder as your garden grows. Start with easy foods such as peas, broccoli, spinach and even quinoa. 5. SOLAR LIGHTING: Never has lighting your backyard or porch been easier! Solar lighting is set to be even bigger in 2018 thanks to a number of factors including cost and safety, and of course it creates a perfect atmosphere to relax and unwind in.

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Strength First’s Developmental Athlete Program Is Back For Another Summer. This all-encompassing program includes: • Beginner thru Advanced Weightlifting • Instruction With a Certified USA Weightlifting Coach • Flexibility and mobility training • Speed and agility training using hurdles, slide board, jump rope, ladders, push and pull equipment (using harnesses, tires, sleds), medicine ball work, treadmill and stationary bike sprints • Classes available in AM and PM, beach and indoors • Unlimited session packages for week, weekends, month or entire summer • Training programs designed for ball and endurance athletes Bernard J. (B.J.) Fox is a Certified USA Weightlifting Coach and a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS) thru the accredited National Strength and Conditioning Association (NSCA).

This CSCS certification is required and mandated by the NCAA to be a Division I Strength and Conditioning Coach. B.J. is also registered with the United States Registry of Exercise Professionals. Please see USREPS.org Your athlete will leave us prepared for their upcoming high school or collegiate sport. Every workout is logged and kept in their personal binder to keep track of their progress. A predetermined maximum number of athletes will be accepted to keep student/ instructor ratio low and quality of instruction high. Students will also be given nutrition information for athletes. For photos of our facility and our workouts, see us on Facebook StrengthFirstLLC and StrengthfirstNJ. You can also visit our website at strengthfirstnj.com. For questions or more information, please call 609-271-5555. Gift certificates are available. Discounted pre-season rates will be offered.

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Bernard (BJ) Fox is an Atlantic City High School (91’)/Rutgers University(96’) alumni. He has been a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS) since passing examination in May 2015. He lives in Margate with his wife and three strong daughters. He is also a member of the AC Guns&Hoses(Police/Fire) travel Ice hockey team and as an LPBP alumni, rows in long distance lifeguard races.

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Health & &Wellness Health Wellness

Summer Detox with YogaYou Ready? Now the Practice of Yoga Begins…Are Written by Laurie Greene, PhD, ERYT, Owner

“Every gesture of the hand, signs everyandMudra hasofadisease deep Vyakta little (clear manifestation) – clear-cut symptoms get manifested. meaning – the entire philosophy of life is contained in opens important Sanskrit texts, means “now” and has the connotation of Bheda (differentiation or further complication) – the disease shows these gestures. They convey a whole history of God’s auspicious beginnings…like saying “behold!”: it acts at once as an imperative— further complication as it affects more parts of the body. How “detox” as the body? This is the of year “wake up,”can we areyoga beginning—and a “blessing” for those whotime are ready to in the universe.” of the disease (due to Is it possible to prevent the manifestation that ItI frequently thisfinally question. answer withthe yoga’s self-manifestation begin. insinuates thatget we are ready to The get real, and “tolies discover Atha Yoganushasanam (yoga sutras 1.1) “Now the practice of yoga begins”

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accumulation of toxins) and even remove these toxins from your body? – Paramahamsa Omkarananda Saraswati That is what most detox programs are about – eliminating the toxins from the body, thereby preventing the onset of a future disease or alleviating a Mudras play a very important role in Taoist alchemy, Buddhist meditation, disease which has already manifested. yoga, and Indian classical dance and theater. The word mudra stems from dathus, the seven types of substances that constitute the Sanskrit A traditional hatha yogameans practice eliminates toxins promotes Yoga is a very varied practice. There are many different styles, diverse the root mud, which “bliss.” This hints at theand power of body. Improper eating or lifestyle, however, are called ama. a healthy lifestyle by eliminating ama through the creation of tapas practices, and distinct lineages, but there is also an underlying web of similarity these beautiful gestures to evoke deep feeling in the observer and joy in the – Thisjoins ama gets accumulated the intestines remains that these different approaches. AninIndian folktale tells and of a man who is INTERNAL HEAT. This is not the same as external heat, but “heat” practitioner. The word mudra also denotes “seal” in yoga and is employed to digging well. begins by down lining five feetof andthe when there is notube water,all explain thereaas a He coating ondigging the inner intestinal that isthe created “concerted effort” inthebreathwork processthrough of sealing and strengthening body’s vital (pranayama), energies. In hethe is discouraged by his hard work, and he climbs out of the hole, moves a few classical Indian dance, mudras are used to express the vast array human way to the large intestine. postural practice (asana) involving controlling locks in the of body (mudras yards away and begins digging again, only to be met by disappointment again and experience; to communicate deep feelings intricate stories. Ayurveda describes the process of disease creation called shad kriya kala: emotion and bandas), and through the single-pointed focusand andtellconcentration and again. This goes on and on, and he never finds water, but labors endlessly. Ininthe yoga tradition mudras are DISCIPLINED used for spiritual concentration, healing,with the six stages of development of a disease. Ama gets absorbed into the meditation (dhyana). This EFFORT, coupled Most traditions of yoga inspire us to engage in deep self-exploration. They ask removing obstacles, and other subtle energetic practices. through intestinal lining and becomes a toxin. it enters healthy eating of fresh, nutrient-rich whole foods, is what rebalances the usbody to stick with it,the work hard, and dig deeper and deeper. WhatOnce we tend to do Please join us at Yoga Nine for awithin deeper (inflammation) exploration of theand “now.” accumulates in any just organ tissue, causing disease; body and come allowsand it to reduce the agitation inthe ourbloodstream, lives is leave aitpractice (any practice) as itorbecomes challenging. We We will always offer challenging, guided practice to every student as we dig understood as “inflammation”: heal itself. This practice is SELF-CONTAINED, and free from external jump from regimen to regimen, diet to diet, relationship to relationship, career into experience. dig “the deeper…the is now! “soothing massage,” stimuli like “calmingCome music,” smells oftime incense,” toChaya career. In yoga we are asked to stick it, so that through the body (accumulation) – the toxintoaccumulates at a fixed place.and breath deeper we can investigate deep and subtle –feelings, responses, and reflexes in relation to or “empowering words,” although these things may be the pleasures we Prakopa (increase/aggravate) the toxin increases. the conditioned mind. We do this by slowing everything down and observing depend on for our well-being. The tools for true well-being are already Prasara (to spread) – the toxin spreads all over the body. it closely with fresh eyes. We try to look past the rapid evaluations of our contained within us... Sthana Samshraya a specific organ or place) – toxins conditioned minds. Atha(collection is therefore in about being present, here, in the moment. Yoga 101: accumulate at one specific point, causing pre-manifestation symptoms. The diverse styles of yoga accomplish this focus and concentration in 5 Week Course for different ways. 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BAYADA’s Got You Covered! Hospice BAYADA Hospice, Atlantic County specializes in comprehensive end-of-life medical, social, emotional, and spiritual care to comfort and support families and patients with a determined life-expectancy of six months or less. With a variety of care and comfort services delivered by an interdisciplinary team of health care professionals, bereavement counselors, and medical social workers, the goal of hospice is to support a patient’s quality of life and the family’s grieving process. Professional caregivers are specially trained and educated to provide the best possible care for veterans, who often have unique needs related to military service, combat experience, or other traumatic events. The life review is at the heart of BAYADA Hospice services; it’s our way to help patients prepare for a peaceful end of life by exploring what goals and experiences are most important to them, what can bring them the most joy now, and what personal relationships may need some time and care to make sure that nothing important goes left unsaid. Once their care team guides a patient through a life review, they support the patient in making their wishes come true.

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BAYADA Home Health Care, Linwood provides Medicare-certified short-term nursing, rehabilitative, therapeutic, or assistive care services, usually for a limited number of one-hour visits. Physicians prescribe home health services to help a client recover from an illness, injury, hospital stay, or surgery, or to manage a chronic medical condition with the goal of preventing an unnecessary hospitalization. When a new client engages home health services, a registered nurse will visit them at home to assess their needs, then works with their clinical manager and physician to develop individualized goals and a plan of care. Professional care teams may include a nurse, physical therapist, occupational therapist, speech therapist, medical social worker, or home health aide, and their visits continue until recovery goals have been met.

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BAYADA South Jersey Senior Living specializes in providing Medicare-certified home health services— such as nursing and therapy—to residents of assistive living and other senior communities. Seniors there receive the same high-quality, short-term recovery services as our clients who live in a private home, helping to prevent an unnecessary hospitalization. In some of the senior living communities we serve, we partner with them to offer wellness programs and fitness classes, bringing an enhanced level of holistic care for their residents’ complete well-being.

From left to right: Judy Del Rossi, RN, BAYADA Linwood home health; Michelle Amendolia, RN, BAYADA Atlantic county Hospice Director; Susan McAndrew, RN, BAYADA Atlantic Cape Pediatrics; Maggie Schiebel, RN, BAYADA Linwood assistive care; Mary Villanueva, RN, BAYADA Atlantic City adult nursing.

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Meet Our BAYADA Nurses On The Cover The registered nurses (RNs) pictured on the cover work as BAYADA Clinical Managers in Atlantic and Cape May Counties, each in a different field office. As part of their duties, they get to visit our clients, assess their needs, and work with physicians to set goals and a care plan for each individual. They also oversee the caregiving team—providing hands-on training, answering questions, and ensuring that each client receives the care they need at the highest professional, ethical, and safety standards.

Michelle Amendolia, BSN, RN BAYADA Hospice, Atlantic County

“As a hospice director and nurse, I can say BAYADA Hospice is truly one of a kind. Every member of our office and field staff is so dedicated to the patients and families we support. Our nursing staff is unquestionably different from any other, always doing the right thing with excellence and selflessness. Their character is what makes BAYADA Hospice so remarkable.”

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“I love what I do because we give clients and families a sense of control over what may sometimes feel like an out-of-control situation. We allow family caregivers a sense of normalcy. When I’m looking for nurses to join our team, I look for their compassion and desire to learn—because nursing is an evergrowing career, and we learn something new every day.”

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“I feel very grateful for the amazing resources BAYADA provides, like our Pediatric Simulation lab and our evidencebased nursing curriculum. We have what we need to ensure that each client receives nursing care with the highest level of skill and competence. Our pediatric nurses are so rewarding to work with—I love being a clinical educator with such a great team of warm, committed, and amazing people.”

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Compounding Medications For Your Child Children pose many challenges when it comes to medication: they may resist having to take a medication, dislike the taste or texture, have difficulty swallowing solid dosage forms, and are fearful of injections. The limited pediatric market for most drugs may be the leading reason for the lack of investment in drug development for this population by the pharmaceutical industry. Most medications are not labeled for pediatric populations, and when a medication is not approved for use in infants and children, it usually is not available in a suitable pediatric dosage form. Fortunately, our compounding pharmacy is able to help.

We can compound oral medications into pleasant flavors:

A palatable formulation is more likely to improve compliance and minimize spillage or waste during administration. Lollipops are an ideal alternative to “swish and swallow” medications that need to be retained in the mouth for a prolonged period of time. Formulations can also be prepared in a suppository or rectal gel in the event that the oral route of administration is not an option. At Curexa, we love nothing more than to provide unique solutions to unique problems, whether it’s transdermal gels to rub on your child’s wrist, a lollipop lozenge to soothe a sore throat, or a diaper rash ointment to counteract the digestive acids that result in irritation. It’s why we’re the premier compounding pharmacy in Atlantic County.

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Pets 70 Human/Animal Bond The

“Unconditional Love” Written by Matt Reeves

One of the best places in the learn the meaning of Everyone is a volunteer and 100% of all Theworld Funnyto Farm Rescue & feeds and cares for the Funny Farm “unconditional love” is theSanctuary Funny Farm Rescue & Sanctuarydonations in was just inducted animals. Nothing is wasted. into the New Jersey Veterinary Mays Landing, NJ. Kids ask their friends to donate to the Funny

Medical Association Animal Hall Farm instead of bringing them birthday presents. If you’ve ever had a pet, you have a pretty good idea how much they love you and get of Fame because of the incredible ones. have coin drives to raise money for the excited when you come home and how sad they are when you leave. Those are the luckySchools animals. The Pre-K to 2nd grade classes of the human/animal Not all animals are so lucky to have someone love them. bond that affects The animals at the Funny Farm Rescue are the exceptions. TheyFunny have thousands numerous lives at the Farm local John Milanesi Elementary School alone of people each year who come to visit in andso givemany them the love theyways. need. Most animals raised over $800 to help feed and care for the positive come to the farm from very difficult situations. Many were disabled, abused, injured, or animals of the Funny Farm! Nearly all arrangements of the 550+ animals the after Funny unwanted. Some people simply didn’t make for theiratpets they were The human/animal bond makes miracles Farm are rescues. Most of them would have beenanimals gone and the animals had nowhere to go. How scary that must be for these sweet happen. You have no idea what you are capable euthanized if it wasn’t for the Funny Farm and our of unless you try. At the Funny Farm, we never that gave their owners so much love. One example is a nameless incredible little blackteam and white baby goatdonors, with a broken leg. At less of volunteers, supporters, give up. We do all that we can to provide the best than a month old, he was injuredand andveterinarians. was in a lot of pain. His future was dark. Throughlife a possible for animals that once faced uncertain series of miracles, Laurie Zaleski, the Founder of the Funny Farm Rescue, found out about When an animal comes to the Funny Farm, futures. Pets 70this little goat’s situation and didn’t waste time rescuing him. they seemany to know they have been given a second Today, we bring the animals and visit entire schools to read We made a custom splint tochance. stabilize his leg because When you come he to couldn’t the farm,stand on it at all. He the anti-bullying children’s book needed food and water brought to his mouth while he lay in a new warm bed made just for just look around you in all directions “Farley the Funny Farm Dog,” which him. Farley Manager, a 1-year-old Australian Shepard, took him under his wing One of the best places the in theFarm world to learn the meaning of and you will see playing, running, teaches kids that we can all get along and gavelove” him a Funny lot ofFarm loveRescue and&attention. “unconditional is the Sanctuary in jumping, andlooked pure happiness! You will that he earned the Mays Landing, NJ.little goat was black and like the animals at the Funny Farm The white and so much like a cow hear little heads callsvisits to tell the world how If you’vepeacocks ever had a pet, youwith have a pretty good idea how much making they love you andloud get name “Cowboy.” Over the next few days, and to many veterinarians, Zaleski took do. excited when you come home and how sad they are when you leave. Those are the lucky ones. Not all to animals are so lucky to have You someone love them.hear happy they are. will pigs oinking and rolling around. You’ll hear him to the University of Pennsylvania, where they had the best equipment. Several They see the famous Adele the house chicken riding on The animals at the Funny Farm Rescue are the exceptions. They have thousands ofducks people each year who comeof to visit and give them theway love they need.an Most animals to save quacking on their to important meeting. Something thousands dollars were spent trying his leg from possibleisnerve damage and the back of Hollywood the goat, and they see Brooklyn the come to the farm from very difficult situations. Many were disabled, abused, injured, or unwanted. Some happening! people simply didn’t makeIt’s arrangements their pets after they amputation. always just forbeautiful toweresee, especially knowing that they gone and the animals had nowhere to go. How scary that must be for these sweet animals golden retriever showing kids how to be gentle and kind that gave their owners so much love. in the house so he could be cared for properly and received much lived once hadHe orblack noandhope. One example is a little nameless little white baby goat with a broken leg. At less to animals. The children get to meet Farley, the star of the than a month old, he was injured and was in other a lot of pain.animals future was dark. Through a with and people. And because of this he has no idea he’s a goat, ofsocialization When come to Histhe Funny the animals come up interaction, and series miracles, Laurievisitors Zaleski, the Founder of the Funny Farm Rescue, found outFarm, about book! No message is more effective to kids this little situation andhe’s didn’t waste any time rescuing him. hegoat’sthinks a roam dog! greet Most freehe couldn’t andstand make you We madethem. a custom splint to stabilize his leg because on it at all. He feel like a celebrity. There is no than teaching through the animals. They all needed food and water brought months to his mouth while he lay in not a new warm bed made just Cowboy’s for Seven later, only has leg healed, hebest hasfriends. captured the hearts of people all over him. Farley the Farm Manager, a 1-year-old Australian Shepard, tookstage. him under his wing awkward getting-to-know-you You’re just automatically love each other despite their differences and and gavethe him a globe!! lot of love and He attention. makes everyone that laugh and gets into everything! He is now known as the “Donations The The little goatFounder was black and whiteand and looked so much like a cow he earned the President of the Funny Farm, Laurie Zaleski, makes so can we! name “Cowboy.” Over the nextWhen few days, andvisitors visits to many veterinarians, Zaleski took Inspector.” come and donate food for the animals, they barely have time to get out of toimpossible him to the University ofthings Pennsylvania,possible. where they had theShe best equipment. Several help from her family, friends, solicits thousands of dollars were spent trying tothey save his legdiscover from possible nerve damage and is already inside their car! The human/animal bond brings so their cars when Cowboy amputation. visitors, and supporters alikeattonothing to make you laugh and has He lived in the househas so he could be cared for properlyvolunteers, and received muchsweet much happiness to both humans and animals He a wonderful, lovable, personality and will stop socialization with other animals and people. And because of this interaction, he has no idea he’s a goat, makeEveryone the Funny Farm one of the happiest placeswhat on was done for him and he he thinks he’s unlimited a dog! an supply of kisses! is his friend! Somehow he knows and is one of the most rewarding things in Seven months later, not only has Cowboy’s leg healed, he has captured the hearts of people all over Earth. Nothing stops Laurie and if you’re in her way, look the globe!! He makes everyone laugh and gets into everything! He is now known as the “Donations appreciates his life now. life. Showing just a little love will come back Inspector.” When visitors come and donate food for the animals, they barely have time to get out of their cars when they discoverunconditional Cowboy is already inside theirlove car! out!!! The that comes from an animal is astounding, but the unconditional love that comes from an animal that to you tenfold. Your life can be anything you He has a wonderful, lovable, sweet personality and will stop at nothing to make you laugh and has an unlimited supply of kisses! Everyone is his friend! Somehow he knowsshort what wascome done for him and he hundreds Visitors from of miles away, many from was once in distress is nothing of miraculous! Nearly 400 of these animals at the Funny Farm Rescue & Sanctuary are waiting want it to be, but one thing is for certain: the appreciates his life now. The unconditional love that comes from an animal is astounding, but the unconditional love that Farm comes from is anjust animal thatbut to meet you and your family!! Coming to the easy leaving your new furry friends is very difficult. other states and countries, to see what one woman was once in distress is nothing short of miraculous! Nearly 400 of these animals at the Funny Farm Rescue & Sanctuary are waiting love in your heart wasn’t meant to stay there. to meet you and your to the Farm is easy If but leaving your is newsomething furry friends is very difficult. Allfamily!! lifeComing is precious. there we can do as humans to preserve and protect it, in nearly all cases, built from All life is precious. If there is something we can do as humans to preserve and nothing, protect it, in nearly into all cases, such an amazing place that it is Love isn’t love until you give it away. the unconditional love you receive in return is love somethingyou you willreceive simply never forget. the unconditional in return is something you will simply never forget. today! The Funny Farm Rescue is open Sundays and Tuesdays from 8am-4pm at 6908 Railroad Blvd., Mays Landing, NJ 08330. There is no admission as we operate entirely by donations and we don’t have any paid positions. Come see us! www.funnyfarmrescue.org For information on scheduling your next event, please contact Robin at: funnyfarmrobin@gmail.com

Photos by Matt Reeves and Laurie Zaleski

“Unconditional Love”

The FarmFarm RescueRescue is open Sundays Tuesdays from at 6908 Blvd., Mays Landing, NJ 08330.Blvd., Mays Landing, NJ 08330. TheFunny Funny is openandSundays and8am-4pm Tuesdays fromRailroad 8am-4pm at 6908 Railroad Thereis isnonoadmission admission as we entirely byentirely donationsbyanddonations we don’t haveand any we paid don’t positions. Comeany see paid us! www.funnyfarmrescue.org There asoperate we operate have positions. Come see us!Follow www.funnyfarmrescue.org us on Facebook: ForFor information on scheduling your next event, please contact Robin at: funnyfarmrobin@gmail.com information on scheduling your next event, please contact Robin at: funnyfarmrobin@gmail.com “Funny Farm Rescue” Follow us on Facebook: “Funny Farm Rescue”

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Funny Farm Rescue Golf Outing

Join us as we golf for the animals of the Funny Farm. The Funny Farm Rescue & Sanctuary is a nonprofit, 501(c)(3) charity. We are personally and professionally committed to the well being of abused and abandoned animals. We provide food, shelter, medical care, compassion and love for the rest of their natural lives in a permanent, safe and healthy environment.

Thursday, August 16, 2018 BE A HOLE SPONSOR! Registration Time: 12:00 pm Four Person Scramble Shotgun Start: 1:30 pm Cost: $125 Per Golfer Includes: 18 holes of golf, cart & Italian Dinner Buffet Dinner Only $25.00 (6pm) Prizes Awarded for: Closest to Pin & Longest Drive 50/50 and Basket Auction

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$1,000 Includes: Golf 4 some & 2 hole sponsor signs Coop King $500 Includes: Golf 2 some & 1 hole sponsor sign Pasture Prince $250 Includes: Golf for 1 & 1 hole sponsor sign Stable Stud $100 Includes: hole sponsor sign Barn Master

For questions or additional information, contact Laurie Zaleski at (609) 742-9410 or via email laurie@funnyfarmrescue.org. Make Checks Payable to: Funny Farm Rescue 6908 Railroad Blvd. Mays Landing, NJ 08330 Or Register online:

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Medical Professionals Medical Professionals

Medical Professionals What You Need To Know About MOLES #

Moles, or nevi, are skin growths made up of cells called melanocytes.

What Is A Skin Cancer Screening?

A skin cancer screening is a What You Need To Know About MOLES visual inspection of your skin by a

Moles, or nevi, has fewer than 30-40 are skin growths moles. Moles can be made up of cells called melanocytes.

dermatology medical professional. No blood work is conducted at a screening.

range in color, and are Why are skin cancer screenings has fewer than 30-40 primarily genetically necessary? moles. Moles can be determined, although aSkin ultraviolet (UV) exposure can play role. cancer is the most common cancer in range in color, and are

the United States; in fact, 1 in 5 Americans will develop skin cancer in their lifetime. People of determined, although all ages, colors and races can get skin cancer. ultraviolet (UV) exposure can play a role. There aredeveloping many different types of skin cancer have 10 or more have 12 times the risk of melanoma compared ATYPICAL MOLES are unusual-looking moles, also known as dysplastic with the general population. and precancer, including actinic keratosis, basal cell carcinoma (BCC), squamous cell carcinoma H and melanoma. Withcompared early detection have 10 or more have 12 times(SCC), the risk of developing melanoma with the general population. atypical moles plus a family history melanoma have a very high riskrate of for BCC and andofproper treatment, the cure ATYPICAL are unusual-looking moles, also known as dysplastic primarilyMOLES genetically

developing H melanoma. People who have atypical moles, but no family history atypical moles plus a family history of melanoma have a very high risk of developing melanoma. People who have atypical moles, but no family history

SCC is about 95 percent. When melanoma is detected before it spreads, it also has a high cure rate. Regular self-skin exams and a yearly examination by a dermatologist help people find early skin cancers.

How long will the screening take?

Screenings take approximately 10 minutes.

Which areas of my body will be screened for skin cancer?

The American Academy of Dermatology recommends full-body examinations. Yearly screening, means head-to-toe of melanoma,full-body are also at higher risk ofwhich developing melanoma compared examination of your skin, is the most accurate with the general population. All of these high-risk individuals, as well as rest of us, should practice dailycancers sun protection, perform Screenings a yearly skin way to rigorous detect skin or precancer. of melanoma, are also at higher risk of developing melanoma compared examination head to toeinclude with dermatologist, report any mole that changes. an exam ofand patientâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s scalp, with the generaltypically population. All of these high-risk individuals, as wellface, as rest mouth, feet, andperform extremities, and ule ofhands, melanoma skin cancer are guidelines to help of us, should practice rigorous daily sunortrunk protection, a yearlyeyes skin determine ifhead aeyelids, mole is normal or abnormal. A report is for asymmetry, B changes. is for Border, examination to toe with any mole that ears,dermatologist, fingers, toesand and toenails. C is for Color,I D is for Diameter, and E cancer isexam for Elevation Evolving. ule ofhad melanoma or skin are guidelines help just my yearly withand/or myto primary Normal moles generally follow the ABCDE rules: they are symmetrical, determine if a mole is normal or abnormal. A is for asymmetry, B is for Border, care physician. Do I still need anaEvolving. exam smooth have uniform smaller than pencil eraser in Chave is for Color, borders, D is for Diameter, and Ecolor, is forare Elevation and/or with my dermatologist? diameter, andgenerally are uniformly elevated above the they skinare surface and not changing Normal moles follow the ABCDE rules: symmetrical, over smooth time. Aborders, normal mole that suddenly breaks ABCDE rules might Yes.have Your annual exam withtheyour have uniform color, are smaller than aprimary pencil eraser in be diameter, uniformly elevated above the skin surface and not changing abnormaland or are atypical. care provider does not substitute for a yearly over time. A normal mole that suddenly breaks the ABCDE provider. rules might be examination with your dermatology abnormal or atypical.

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When a person contacts me regarding weight issues, I pay close attention to what they say and how they say it. Most eventually reveal that they’ve been repeatedly embedding negative statements and beliefs, such as . . . • I’m fat like the rest of my family – it’s in our genes. • I can’t stick with any diet. • Nothing works for me – I lose, I gain, I lose, I gain. • My metabolism is so slow. • I look at food and I gain weight. • Most people eat a lot worse than me, but I’m the heavy one. When we constantly repeat something, it can become our reality; it impacts how we feel and behave. Even the healthiest lifestyle plan is doomed if those beliefs aren’t adequately addressed.

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Those negative and limiting beliefs may make you throw your hands up in the air and say, “I just have to deal with being fat.” You may become resigned to being overweight and dealing with the physical and emotional fall-out. Or you may start on a healthy path, then hear those whispers that say, “You’ll never stick to this; you’ll fail just like before.” Maybe your weight loss slows down

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Work on challenging your negative selftalk, and engaging in encouraging selftalk.

Instead of saying, “I have no control over sweets,” say, “Sweets have lost their hold on me.” A lot of people benefit by writing down affirmations, leaving them in plain sight, and repeating them often. Encourage yourself instead of berating yourself. Remember that what you feed your mind will impact your weight and overall well-being. Hypnosis and coaching can equip you with tools to think and act in ways consistent with your goals.

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Crossroad for Angels: Helping Survivors Overcome Their Past Eve Cortes, founder of Crossroad for Angels, strives to educate, help and inform survivors of sexual abuse and incest. Her Story When I walked into my new apartment for the first time and saw the surreal view from the window, it took my breath away. I walked out to the deck and looked out towards the ocean and watched the waves flow back and forth. I was drawn to the ocean, the sound of the waves and the seagulls as they glided by. It brought me back. Back to a place I had spent years trying to forget. As a child I had always lived by the ocean; the sounds and smells of the shore always brought me back to the abuse. I knew my brother loved me, but was this love? It started off with small things like an innocent game of playing house. I was the mom and he was the dad. “This is what mommies and daddies do,” he’d say, demonstrating with my Barbies how they should kiss and touch. Eventually the toys went away and our game of house turned into him on top of me, touching me in the living room, not uttering a word. The silence was deafening. I knew this was wrong, but he was loving me. This was love. Someone loved me. One morning I went downstairs and saw my brother in the living room, where that awful green

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Geraldine Cohen

Mother of Atlantic County Justice Facility I had the distinct pleasure of interviewing the first female Warden of the Atlantic County Justice Facility, Geraldine Cohen. Although Warden Cohen will be retiring at the end of May, 2018, she has made history as being one of four female Wardens in the State of New Jersey. As I interviewed Warden Cohen, she sat behind her desk wearing civilian attire. Warden Cohen reported that she started wearing civilian attire when she began to grow her auburn hair out. However, Warden Cohen reported that she misses wearing her uniform for the sense of pride it exudes. Research reflects that Warden Cohen was not only the first female Warden of Atlantic County but also within the State in 2012. The other Wardens followed with Sandra Mueller in Ocean County in 2014, Mildred Scholtz in Burlington County in 2015, and Karen Taylor, who was named the first female Warden of the Camden County Correctional Facility in its 172-year history in 2016. Warden Cohen was born in a Philadelphia, Pennsylvania Naval Hospital and was raised in the area of Atlantic City, Pleasantville and Absecon, New Jersey. Warden Cohen reported that she obtained her GED and then took the civil service exam. Warden Cohen’s employment varied prior to her receiving a call for an interview with Atlantic County for the position of Corrections Officer. In 1991 Geraldine Cohen became an “official” Corrections Officer. She graduated from the New Jersey Corrections Officer Training Academy in 1992. Warden Cohen went on to complete the West Point Command and Leadership Program in 2003. Only seven short months after becoming a Corrections Officer, Warden Cohen was offered the opportunity to work as a Sheriff’s Officer. Warden Cohen declined the invitation as she believed she belonged right where she was as a Corrections Officer at the county jail. The ability to move up in ranking in the Corrections field is not easy. A Corrections Officer must take advancement exams in order to be considered for higher positions. Also, testing is done as needed for open positions. The ranking order consists of Corrections Officer, then Sergeant, Lieutenant, Captain and Warden. Warden Cohen reported that she “got lucky” because every time there was an opportunity for advancement, she was able to take the required examinations for eligibility. Warden Cohen started as most Corrections Officers begin: with an assignment to the various housing areas within the confines of the jail. She then served as a Lieutenant Shift Commander for Inmate Services. In 2004, Warden Cohen was promoted to Captain. By 2007, Warden Cohen was assigned to oversee the Classifications, Criminal Records and Admissions Department. This assignment lasted only one year before she returned to oversee Inmate Services. Warden Cohen served as the Deputy Warden from 2010 until 2012 under Warden Joseph Bondiskey. Upon his retirement, Geraldine Cohen was appointed Warden by County Executive Dennis Levinson. Warden Cohen reported that her employment with the Atlantic County Justice Facility worked well with her single-parent lifestyle. However, coparenting three boys was not an easy task working shift work. Warden Cohen reported that she currently has three grown sons. Warden Cohen talked about the successes of her sons and one in particular. Warden Cohen openly shared how she first learned about one son who was addicted to opiates. She is proud of his success in recovery and credits his fiancée as the backbone to his stability. The knowledge gained as a result of her son’s addiction has resulted in Warden Cohen moving forward with the development of a “medication assisted treatment” (MAT) program at the Atlantic County Justice Facility. In fact Warden Cohen delayed her previous retirement date to ensure that the MAT program, which was 8 years in the making, was in place prior to her departure. Warden Cohen is most proud of the change in the perception of the line staff of the law enforcement culture from the “good ol’ boys club” to an environment

that provides opportunities for females as well as males without favoritism. There is currently a disproportionate number of female inmates to male inmates. The Warden said she would like to see more females on the night shift. Additionally, there are no female officers above the rank of Sergeant at this time who are eligible for advancement testing. Warden Cohen reported that her “life cycle” has prepared her to work in Corrections. She noted that what has kept her from “corrections officer burnout” is her great pride in “seeing people as people and not as a prisoner or inmate.” As Warden Cohen prepares for her retirement, she plans on exploring volunteer opportunities as well as spending time with her grand-niece. Warden Cohen’s advice for female Corrections Officers is to “be the officer you want to be.” These were words of wisdom that were given to Warden Cohen upon her entrance into the Corrections arena, and these are the words that she is now passing on to her fellow officers with her exit and as she prepares to begin the next chapter in life. Geraldine Cohen, an incredibly intelligent woman who is empowering and inspiring to female Corrections Officers. As this feature comes to a close, Warden Cohen will be close to her final days as the Warden of the Atlantic County Justice Facility. This feature is dedicated to Geraldine Cohen with sincere appreciation and gratitude for her years of service in the field of Corrections. Best regards in your retirement! Rita King, LCSW is the Associate Director of Justice Involved Services at Jewish Family Service. In this role, Rita currently supervises a Re-Entry program for incarcerated individuals as well as a community based diversion program for consumers experiencing mental illness and involvement with the criminal justice system. Rita is a “De-escalation for Individuals with Special Needs” training facilitator and has trained approximately 1,200 law enforcement professionals to date. Rita is also a CIT trained mental health professional. Rita has a strong passion for women’s history and in her free time she continues to raise awareness of the importance of women’s history through lectures and community speaking engagements.

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pring has sprung. And as temperatures rise, an estimated 50 million Americans will be afflicted with runny and itchy noses, sneezing, coughing, puffy eyes, and even shortness of breath from seasonal allergies. Also referred to as hay fever or allergic rhinitis, these symptoms can be miserable and interfere with our sleep as well as exacerbate asthma symptoms or cause a sinus infection. And, unfortunately, there is no known cure for seasonal allergies. However, there is much in the way of prevention and treatment that can be done to help you survive. So, if you or a loved one is battling allergies, here are some helpful tips:

Dr. Nina’s What You Need To Know: About Allergy Season and How to Manage It

What is pollen? The fertilizing element of flowering trees, grass and weeds.

Due to its light weight, pollen is readily carried over large distances. And, as a result, it creates havoc for allergy suffers—facilitating its ability to land in our nostrils and enter our lungs. Depending on where you live, there are generally three pollen seasons—in the spring, trees and flowers; in the summer, grasses; and in the fall, leaves and weeds (and molds). How does pollen cause allergy symptoms? For some of us, our body mistakes pollen as a dangerous, foreign invader. And, as a result, it mounts a fierce, ”take-no-prisoners” attack where chemicals such as histamine or leukotrienes are released. They work in a concerted manner to evict the foreign invader by making you sneeze, your nose run, your eyes water, and cough. And although this is a clever disposal system when it comes to germs or other things that can make us sick, it can be agonizing.

What other problems can allergies cause? In addition to the miserable symptoms, seasonal allergy sufferers can experience a plethora of other health problems: • Sleep deprivation from nasal congestion or coughing that leads to daytime drowsiness and its associated problems—difficulty concentrating, grouchiness, and headaches, to name a few. • Asthmatics may see an exacerbation of their otherwise well-managed symptoms because pollen triggers it. • Chronic sinusitis can result from the chronic inflammation of the nasal passages along with mucus production that results in obstruction and subsequent bacterial obstruction. • There is also some research that suggests seasonal allergies can contribute to chronic fatigue syndrome and depression (possibly from sleep deprivation or triggered by inflammatory reactions in the body).

Keep pollen out of the home: • When you enter your home, make sure to park your shoes at the door, immediately change your clothes, and take a shower. • Use air-conditioning in the house or car instead of opening windows. • Wash bedding in hot water at least once a week. • Change air filters and choose high-efficiency particulate air (HEPA) filters. They are specially designed to trap pollen and dust and can provide much-needed relief from pollen in the house. • Wipe down your pets before they enter the house.

What are some effective home remedies?

• Inhaling steam through your nose is a simple way to refresh and soothe irritated sinuses and help rid the nasal passages of mucus. You can boil several cups of water, then pour them into a big bowl, lean over the bowl, and drape a towel over your head. Then, breathe gently for 5 to 10 minutes. • Saline sprays can flush pollen out of our nasal passages, thin and clear mucus, and combat the drying effects of prescription allergy medications. They are available at most pharmacies and can also be made by mixing a teaspoon of salt into 1 quart of distilled or boiled water and using a baby aspirator to administer it once the water cools. • Neti pots are typically made of ceramic or plastic and can best be described as a cross between a small teapot and Aladdin’s magic lamp. They use a mechanism similar to saline sprays—the nasal cavities are rinsed with a saline solution to flush pollen out and soften mucus. The difference is that instead of squeezing a bottle, the “snout” of the pot delivers the solution.

What are some over-the-counter medications?

• Antihistamines relieve sneezing, runny nose, and itchy eyes and nose. Some examples are diphenhydramine, loratadine, cetirizine, and fexofenadine. • Decongestants alleviate nasal stuffiness by shrinking the lining of nasal passages. Some examples are pseudoephedrine, phenylephrine, and oxymetazoline. Always check with your pharmacist before starting any new medication—and always discuss all other medications you are taking prior to starting any new medications. Follow instructions on the label. And if you are not getting relief— DO NOT take more medication than recommended in an attempt to lessen your symptoms, but DO call your primary physician to determine which treatment is best for your symptoms. There are a number of prescription medications that can help.

What are some tips to survive allergy season?

If you know you suffer with seasonal allergies, start to protect yourself early on—if you have not already, take action now.

Reduce your exposure to triggers:

• Block pollen from landing on your eyes or nostrils by wearing a large-brim hat or cap and large sunglasses when outdoors. • Minimize time spent outdoors when pollen counts are high—this typically runs midday to afternoon—and also when it is windy.

Nina Radcliff, M.D., is a practicing physician; a Board Certified Anesthesiologist and member of the American Society of Anesthesiologists where she serves on committees for young physicians and communications. Often called upon by media to speak to medical health topics impacting our lives today, Dr. Nina is passionate about sharing truths for healthy, balanced living as well as wide preventative measures.

This article is for general information only and should not be used for the diagnosis or treatment of medical conditions and cannot substitute for the advice from your medical professional. Dr. Nina has used all reasonable care in compiling the current information but it may not apply to you and your symptoms. Always consult a doctor or other health care professional for diagnosis and treatment of medical conditions.

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Women Of Atlantic County

Jennifer Pierce, Co-Owner, Clay’s Climate Control Jennifer Pierce is the co-owner and General Manager of Clay’s Climate Control, a local HVAC business in Linwood, NJ. Jennifer and her husband, Clay, started the business together in 2001 with the simple idea that they could provide exceptional customer service and work quality in an industry that was not always known for that. Jennifer was born and raised in Long Island, NY, and moved to the Jersey Shore in 1990. She is a graduate of Holy Spirit HS and has her BS in Biochemistry from Lafayette College. While enrolled in a master’s program for Forensic Science at John Jay College of Criminal Justice in NYC, she pursued a career as a pharmaceutical representative for Wyeth-Ayerst. After the birth of her first son in 2004, Jennifer decided to focus on raising her family and growing Clay’s Climate Control. In the past 17 years, Clay’s Climate Control has grown from just Jen and Clay to 25 successful co-workers. Her family has also grown to three children, two dogs, two cats and various rodents. She and Clay believe strongly in giving back to the community and consistently donate to CASA of Atlantic and Cape May Counties, the Hero Campaign, and many local schools and sports clubs.

For more information call 609-653-2295 or visit www.claysclimatecontrol.com.

Joan O’Donnell, CMI, Beau Institute With over 25 years of experience teaching and working in cosmetology, Joan brings an unparalleled knowledge of color theory and facial structure to her work as a permanent cosmetic practitioner. For 10 years she owned a salon, where she specialized in hair and makeup. Now Joan has successfully taken her talents to the world of permanent cosmetics. She is a highly skilled artist at the Beau Institute, whose keen eye and attention to detail always come through in her permanent cosmetics. Her clients are continually impressed with her professionalism and the great rapport she builds with them. Joan is a certified Micropigmentation instructor through the American Academy of Micropigmentation and is an active member of the American Academy of Micropigmentation and the Society of Permanent Cosmetic Professionals. She has also received advanced training in Areola Tattooing, Microblading Fusion, and Phi Brow Microblading. She is also a Microneedling specialist and has achieved wonderful results with this technique that improves skin texture and the appearance of fine lines as a result of aging and sun damage. Joan is also an instructor at the Beau Institute for both the Primary training and our apprenticeship program, which help primary training graduates launch their new careers in permanent makeup. When she’s not making her clients look more beautiful, Joan loves biking, running, and the art of scrapbooking.

For more information, call 856-727-1411 or visit www.beauinstitute.com.

Maria DeAngelis Lascheid, M.Ac., L.Ac., Dipl.Ac., Sunshine Community Acupuncture

Maria is a licensed acupuncturist who has earned a master’s degree in Acupuncture from the Won Institute of Graduate Studies in Glenside, PA. Maria has worked in the casino industry for over 30 years, and developed an interest in natural healing after a successful treatment of an illness. She was drawn to acupuncture and Eastern medicine, which has a holistic perspective of health and healing. She believes in the body’s amazing ability to heal itself, and bringing balance to your body with acupuncture can prevent, as well as treat, disease and improve general health. Maria has 3 adult children, and lives in Ventnor with her husband, Rick. They love the beach and enjoy walking and biking on the boardwalk, and playing with their two-year-old grandson, Leo, and dog, Chloe.

To schedule an appointment, call 609-551-5778.

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Mary Villanueva, RN, BSN, Clinical Manager, BAYADA Home Health Care

After many years as a hospital nurse near and far—she worked in the trauma center of a major South Jersey hospital as well as in Saudi Arabia— Mary craved the one-on-one relationship that home care offers. She joined BAYADA five years ago, providing care that enabled clients to remain safely at home. Mary was promoted to a clinical manager, where she now has the opportunity to oversee all of the services that are given to her clients. She supports her nurses and enjoys working with all members of the care team. She says the best part of her job is “collaborating across disciplines to positively affect a client’s plan of care.” Mary is actively involved in many charitable events including dragon boat racing to support breast cancer research. She is also a member of N.O.D. (Nurses on Deployment), a suicide awareness and prevention group that uses activity and healthy lifestyle changes to promote wellness. Mary enjoys spending time with her family: husband, Ronald Villanueva and their son, Chris; her daughters, Monique and Maritza Brown; and her stepdaughter—or bonus daughter, as Mary says—Aida Villanueva.

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Women Of Atlantic County

Eleanor Hagan, Owner, Body in Balance Physical Therapy & Fitness Center Ellie Hagan, founder of Body in Balance Physical Therapy & Fitness Center, whose goal to build a clinic of excellence for her community is coming to fruition. Body in Balance offers an outstanding group of professionals, who, together as a team, bring the highest caliber of physical, occupational, & speech therapies to their clients. In addition, Body in Balance Fitness Center offers Cybex Total Access equipment built to accommodates all users, abled and disabled. Our elite team of personal trainers is available to help you reach your fitness goals. Graduating with her Masters’ degree from Stockton University in May of 2000, Ellie delivers a variety of evidence based exercise protocols to her clients. She is a board certified Geriatrics Specialist, an Exercise Expert for the Aging Adult (CEEAA), a Schroth Scoliosis therapist, and a certified Graston Clinician skilled in delivering Instrument Assisted Soft Tissue Mobilization (IASTM) for soft tissue injuries. Pilates for Rehabilitation is also included in her multi-faceted approach to wellness. As Founder of the Parkinson’s Life Center of Southern New Jersey, Ellie offers evidence-based programs to those people diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. She was trained by the National Parkinson Foundation’s ATTP, certified in LSVT BIG Parkinson’s exercise protocol, and trained as a Parkinson Wellness Recovery (PWR) clinician. She is a Rock Steady Boxing Coach & have added RSB’ing in her clinic to fight against PD.

For more information, call 609-365-8499 Ext. 1 or visit www.bodyinbalance.co.

Kasi Gifford, Esquire, Associate Attorney, D’Amato Law Firm, PC

Kasi Gifford is an associate attorney with the D’Amato Law Firm, PC where she specializes in representing victims of all types of accidents, including motor vehicle and products liability. Prior to joining the D’Amato Law Firm, Kasi was Judicial Law Clerk to the Honorable James P. Savio, J.S.C. of the Atlantic County Superior Court, Civil Division. Kasi received her J.D. from Widener University Delaware Law School and her B.A. from the University of Delaware. Kasi is an active member of the Atlantic County Bar Association, and is on the Executive Committee for the ACBA’s Young Lawyers Division. Kasi is also an active participant in the Vincent S. Haneman American Inn of Court. Kasi grew up in Galloway and now resides in Ventnor. Kasi aims to be accessible, easy to talk to, and honest with her clients. Additionally, she strives to be a leader and role model for young people, especially young women in the community who hope to enter the legal profession. Kasi looks forward to the summer and spending her free time on the beach and outside with her two dogs, Savannah and Gingersnap.

For more information, call 609-926-3300 or visit www.damatolawfirm.com. Photo by Donna Andrews Photography

Nancy Rice, Esquire, CELA, Rice Elder Law Nancy Rice is an Elder Law and Estate attorney with two offices in New Jersey: Linwood and Cherry Hill. She has been practicing law in New Jersey and Pennsylvania for over 30 years and is passionate about helping clients with any legal needs they might have. Her firm, Rice Elder Law, focuses on Wills, Trusts, Estates, and planning in the event of disability. Nancy is particularly passionate about providing a welcoming atmosphere in her firm- one that is both friendly and professional. Nancy was born and raised in Pennsauken, NJ and currently resides in Somers Point. Her son, Sean, is a Wealth Management Advisor at Garden State Trust Company and her daughter, Meghan, is a student at Drexel University Thomas R. Kline School of Law. Nancy’s favorite hobby is boating in the spring and summer on her boat, Crabe Diem. Additionally, Nancy loves to travel and cook for her friends and family.

For more information, please call 856-673-0048, or visit www.RiceElderLaw.com and take a look at our videos. Photo by Donna Andrews Photography

Barbara Greenling, DNP, Reliance Medical Group

Barbara was born in Trenton, eventually settling in Atlantic County in 2005 while working on her medical degrees. Many years of diverse experience working in the medical field as she continued her education finally culminated in a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree in 2013. She joined Reliance Medical Group in 2014 and now has her own practice in Egg Harbor Township, an accomplishment of which she takes immense pride. She is affiliated with many hospitals including Atlanticare Regional Medical Center - City Div, and Shore Medical Center. Barbara takes special interest in her community, with a practice focused on family, veterans and the trans-gender population. She personally has volunteered in the Wounded Warrior project since 2009, and donates her time and resources to the American Cancer Society and the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Dr. Greenling also takes great pride in the level of care her office provides. It is a safe-haven office with a friendly and easy-going staff. They take all insurances, including Tri-Care for veterans. When Barbara is not practicing medicine, she enjoys golfing, gardening, entertaining and spending time with her family.

To schedule an appointment, call 609-625-9146.

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Angelica Torres, CCMA, Go Feet Angelica Torres was born and raised in South Jersey and currently resides in Millville, NJ, along with her mother, her pit bull, Gypsy, and her kitten, Ruby. She came onboard the team at Stuart W. Honick, DPM GO FEET last year after she simultaneously graduated from Millville Senior High School and Cumberland County Technical Institute with both her high school diploma and her certificate as a CCMA. While working full-time as a medical assistant in both the Hammonton and Mays Landing locations, Angelica is also pursuing her bachelor’s degree in Biomedical Science Health Care. She is overjoyed at the opportunity to work with her co-workers under Dr. Stuart Honick in a practice which has been serving the communities for 23 years. She is outgoing with a great personality and genuinely enjoys interacting with each patient who walks through the doors. Though only being employed with the practice for a short time, Angelica has adjusted very well into a practice which truly caters to its patients’ healthcare needs.

For more information call 609-704-9001 or visit www.GoFeet.com. Photo by Donna Andrews Photography

Barbara Jolly, Owner, Jolly Pets Supplies & Grooming It was ten years ago that Barbara Jolly decided she wanted to open her own pet supply and grooming business. That decision she made while working at Bally’s casino for 32 years. Now, Barb resides in Margate, NJ with her husband, and her family of dogs, which are frequent visitors of Jolly Pets. She has been open now for four years and enjoys the mom-and-pop, homey feel of the store and wants to keep that as her business grows. Jolly Pets Supplies & Grooming carries a full line of natural foods and treats, all made in the U.S. Her store carries toys, beds, leashes, clothing, and anything else you could possibly want for your four-legged friends. She sells booster seats and seatbelts for safely taking your dog in your car and in the summer, she sells plenty of life jackets for your pets that enjoy boating with you and your family. If there is something Barb does not have, she will immediately order it for you. Jolly Pets is also a full-service groomer, offering haircuts, baths, nail clippings, ear cleanings… anything that contributes to the overall health and beauty of your dog.

For more information, call 609-350-7518, visit Jolly Pets on Facebook, or stop in today with your pet(s) to socialize! Photo by Donna Andrews Photography

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Deaths And Costs Rise In New Alzheimer’s Association Report In a new report, Alzheimer’s Association 2018 Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figures, new findings show deaths from Alzheimer’s and related disorders increased 123% from 2000 to 2015, while deaths from other major diseases like HIV, heart disease and others decreased during the same time frame. In New Jersey alone 2,260 individuals died from Alzheimer’s disease in 2015, the latest year for which statistics are available. However, Alzheimer’s continues to be one of the most expensive diseases in the United States, costing an estimated $277 billion this year, with an expected rise to more than $1 trillion by 2050. The report also confirms Alzheimer’s remains the sixth leading cause of death in the nation and the only one among the top 10 without a cure, a way to prevent it or even slow its progression. Consequently, the disease is rapidly gaining ground – affecting more Americans more frequently. According to this year’s report, as many as 5.7 million people in the United States have Alzheimer’s, compared to 5.5 million last year when every 66 seconds someone developed the disease. Now, someone develops Alzheimer’s every 65 seconds. In New Jersey 180,000 people age 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s and by 2025 that number is projected to rise to 210,000 – a 16.7% increase. Meanwhile, as many as 453,000 caregivers in the Garden State spent about 516 million hours last year providing unpaid medical care valued at more than $6 billion. The report also indicates the financial and medical impacts these family caregivers face. Last year dementia caregivers in New Jersey shelled out $352 million more than other caregivers on their own healthcare due to the health complications and emotional strain associated with providing care for a relative. Women in particular are affected the most: Throughout the United States almost two-thirds of all caregivers are women and one-third of dementia caregivers are daughters. “Families in the Delaware Valley, like so many others across the country, are facing tremendous financial hurdles on top of dealing with the emotional toll that affects both the person living with the disease and their care partners,” said Mary Beth Lewis, with the Alzheimer’s Association Delaware Valley Chapter’s Atlantic County Branch Office. “It becomes even more of a strain for those who are diagnosed later in the disease progression.” In fact, a Special Report included in this year’s Facts and Figures report suggests the entire family benefits when some is diagnosed early. “An early diagnosis reduces healthcare costs because the person is getting the most appropriate care to help manage the disease,” said Lewis. “It also enables the person with the disease to plan for his or her own future while they are still able to make legal, financial and medical plans.”

They are also able to participate in clinical trials that could help advance research for a treatment or cure, spend more quality time with the most important people in their lives, or take advantage of educational opportunities or support groups. “We’re here to help anyone who is newly-diagnosed or is providing care for someone who has Alzheimer’s or another dementia,” explained Lewis. “We offer many free programs like support groups to the estimated eighty-five thousand people in South Jersey who are affected.”

The full Facts and Figures report is available at alz. org/facts. Anyone with questions or needs additional information may call the Alzheimer’s Association 24/7 Helpline, 800.272.3900.

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Adopt Your New Best Friend Today The incredible bond between people and their pets and the many benefits that pets bring to our lives is a celebration of how positively animals can influence our lives. Pets not only provide their owners with companionship, but also with several health benefits. They may help lower blood pressure, heart rate and cholesterol levels and ease tension, anxiety and depression. When people come in contact with animals they tend to experience a general feeling of peace and wellbeing and are perceived as being more happy and healthy. Pet ownership increases the opportunity for exercise and socialization with other pet owners. The therapeutic value of animals for individuals in hospitals and nursing homes has also been documented. Children learn to be more nurturing and compassionate adults by being raised among animals. Taking guardianship of an animal that has been abandoned is a wonderful and fulfilling experience rewarded by unconditional love and companionship. Animal shelters and rescue groups appreciate the publicâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s support, as do the many pets that are fortunate to find forever homes. Kathy Kelsey Manager

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Sonny is a snuggly 7 year old male Shih Tzu that showers love and affection on those who treat him kindly.

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Tamon is a gentle 3 year old male mixed breed who does his best to appear fierce and then retreats to repair his dignity.

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Interested in Sponsoring a Pet? Help a furry friend find a forever home! Anyone can sponsor a pet! It’s only $25 for a two-month pet sponsorship. Makes a great gift! CONTACT: Lauren Shover, staff@thecountywoman.com The Atlantic County Animal Shelter 240 Old Turnpike Rd., Pleasantville, NJ 08232 • 609-485-2345

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48 Blocks Atlantic City

A Celebration of Creativity and a City

48 Blocks AC is a celebration of Atlantic City’s history, diverse culture, artistic talents, and creativity. For 48 hours in June, more than 48 artists, performers, and community members will create projects to entertain and engage people across the 48 blocks that make up Atlantic City, NJ.

48 Blocks AC is a celebration of all that Atlantic City has to offer: a rich history, vibrant communities, and diverse cultures. For the weekend of June 2224, 2018, Atlantic City will present over 48 creative projects that are intended to demonstrate the wealth of talent found in the city and to use this creative flow to help bring a greater sense of community to the neighborhoods of the city. Atlantic City Mayor Frank Gilliam stated, “We want people to recognize our unique neighborhoods as they do SoHo in New York or Old City in Philadelphia.” Atlantic City has a creative pulse driven by its people, history, and artistic vibe. The 48 Blocks AC mission is to strengthen Atlantic City and its neighborhoods by having people come together to share their creativity and talents. Joyce Hagen, Executive Director of the Atlantic City Arts Foundation, confirms, “The creation of 48 Blocks AC is a citizen-driven process. We are excited by the number of city and regional residents who are

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volunteering their time and talents to help us plan this celebration of creativity and culture in Atlantic City.” Stockton University is again partnering with ACAF to present 48 Blocks AC. According to Lisa Honaker, Dean of Stockton’s School of Arts and Humanities, this partnership is “consistent with the university’s mission and its commitment to Atlantic City. We recognize that fostering and promoting AC’s creativity is integral to the city’s civic wellbeing and positive vision of itself going forward.” Join the Happening! Volunteer as an artist, performer, ambassador, participant, or project sponsor.

Visit the interactive activities map at www.48blocksac.com/event and plan your adventure, or call the information line provided by Atlantic City Contact Center, 1-833-700AC48 to learn more. 48 Blocks AC is a celebration of all that Atlantic City has to offer. Don’t miss the opportunity to be immersed in the arts and culture of our city by the sea!

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The Atlantic County Division Of Intergenerational Services INFORMATION & ASSISTANCE 1-888-426-9243 Our staff members are available from 8:30 a.m - 4:30 p.m Monday through Friday to provide information on a wide range of issues from adult day care, transportation and home delivered meals, to family services, dental clinics and caregiver support programs. • Advocacy • Alzheimer’s • Blind and Visually Impaired • Caregivers • Deafness/Hard of Hearing • Employment • Food and Nutrition • Grandparents Raising Grandchildren • Home Health Care • Hospice • Legal Services • Mental Health • Multiple Sclerosis • Parkinson’s Disease • Reverse Mortgage Information • Transportation

PERSONAL ASSISTANCE SERVICES PROGRAM (PASP)

The PASP affords eligible permanently physically disabled adults the ability to hire and direct their own personal assistant to aid them with their activities of daily living such as personal care, light housekeeping, meal preparation and shopping. Adults ages 18-70, living in the community whom are employed, attending school or actively volunteering may be eligible for up to 40 hours a week of personal assistance service dollars. Please contact Cristine Chickadel in the Office of Disability, for more information.

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AGING & DISABILITY RESOURCE CENTER (ADRC)

SENIOR HEALTH INSURANCE PROGRAM (SHIP) If you’re confused by the changes in Medicare regulations, you’re not alone. Intergenerational Services’ staff members provide counseling and assistance to Atlantic County’s seniors and disabled residents, helping them better understand Medicare regulations and help them access the services and benefits for which they are entitled. We will explain the Medicare supplement and prescription plan options and provide you with the information you need to make the best decision for your situation, and receive the services you need.

Atlantic County offers many services for aging adults and individuals with disabilities. The Atlantic County Division of Intergenerational Services, in collaboration with the New Jersey Division of Aging and Community Services, has created the Aging and Disabilities Resource Connection (ADRC). This program includes a consumerdriven, culturally competent service delivery system for seniors and individuals with disabilities. This service streamlines the eligibility process and financial considerations of Medicaid recipients and can help locate resources for: • Adult Day Care • Home-Delivered Meals • Statewide Respite Services • Legal Services • Residential Maintenance • Caregiver Assistance Services • Transportation • Home Care Services • Housing Assistance • Senior Center • Adult Protective Services

Our counselors are available for home visits and group presentations. Please call 1-888-426-9243 for more information.

Happy Mother’s Day Mother’s Day is the perfect day to celebrate the joys of

having a mother. There is simply no way we can ever really thank our mother for all she has done for us. On May 13th, strive to make Mother’s Day absolutely hassle free for your mother and take the responsibilities on yourself for a day. Pamper her a little on this special day of hers just as she pampers you all the year round. Give her a warm hug and a big kiss as you wish her a Happy Mother’s Day!

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Community

Every Day Heroes in Your Community Ordinary people can do extraordinary things by volunteering their time to help others with the American Red Cross. You can have a positive impact on your community – and yes, help save lives. The Red Cross awarded some of its outstanding volunteers in Monmouth, Ocean and Atlantic Counties who go above and beyond to help others in need. Highlighted here are a few of the every day heroes honored recently.

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Providing Red Cross services in Atlantic, Cape May, Cumberland, and Salem counties

Outstanding Volunteer Service Award Susanne and Harry Miller

Susanne and Harry Miller began volunteering with the Red Cross in early 2017, bringing their passion, energy, and sincere desire to help make a difference. Within a week, they both attended weekend-long training during the region’s Disaster Training Institute, displaying a zest for service that has yet to diminish. In one short year, both Susanne and Harry have been extremely active responding to home fires in southern New Jersey, helping provide Red Cross

emergency financial assistance to families displaced by fires. The couple also volunteers with Red Cross Blood Services, greeting and registering blood donors, as well as helping with blood transportation. When large disasters like Hurricanes Harvey and Irma hit, Susanne volunteered to deploy for two weeks to other parts of the country to assist with relief efforts. Most recently, she helped drive a Red Cross emergency response vehicle to Kentucky, where she helped those affected by major flooding in the state. The couple is also active with the Red Cross Home Fire Campaign, volunteering during numerous Sound the Alarm home fire safety and free smoke alarm installation events. Susanne and Harry are dedicated volunteers willing to jump in to help with special projects like Disaster Services shelter surveys or to work at Service to the Armed Forces events helping veterans. Susanne and Harry Miller are amazing assets to the Red Cross and the people of New Jersey.

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Providing Red Cross services in Ocean and Monmouth counties

Outstanding Volunteer Service Award Jodi Bocco

Jodi Bocco’s dedication to the safety and wellbeing of disaster victims is what drives her and makes her one of the Red Cross New Jersey Region’s most cherished Disaster Mental Health Services volunteers. Her compassion for those affected by disasters, as well as for fellow members of the Red Cross Disaster Services team, is constant. She is professional, dedicated, and selfless, demonstrating a calmness that is infectious and has a huge impact on those around her, which is particularly important during times of disaster. Jodi has been a volunteer with the American Red Cross for more than five years. This past year, Jodi volunteered virtually as a Disaster Mental Health worker following large disasters like Hurricanes Harvey, Irma and Maria, and the wildfires in California. She provides a compassionate ear and effective coping mechanisms while working with people in very difficult situations. In addition to Disaster Mental Health Services, Jodi also volunteers with Red Cross Service to the Armed Forces and is an instructor, trained to teach Psychological First Aid, CPR and First Aid, as well as other Red Cross courses. Jodi has dedicated her life in service to others, and provides exceptional service through the American Red Cross.

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May/June 2018

Theatre

&Entertainment

CAPE MAY STAGE 2018 SEASON CELEBRATING THREE DECADES OF THEATRE

MAY 23-JUN 22

JUN 27-AUG 3

ERMA BOMBECK: AT WIT'S END

CHAPTER TWO

by Allison Engel & Margaret Engel

by Neil Simon

WED-SAT | 8:00 PM SAT & SUN | 3 :00 PM

TUES-SUN | 8:00 PM

AUG 8-SEP 14

SEP 19-NOV 9 THE SHUCK

AN ACTOR'S CAROL

by James Goldman

by Shawn Fisher

by Charles Evered

TUES-SUN | 8:00 PM

WED-SAT | 7:30 PM SAT & SUN | 3 :00 PM

THUR-SAT | 7:30 PM SAT & SUN | 3 :00 PM

THE LION IN WINTER

NOV 14-DEC 30

THE LIGHTS ARE BRIGHT IN CAPE MAY! Presents the 2018 Cape May Stage

609-770-8311

capemaystage.org

The Robert Shackleton Playhouse 405 Lafayette Street, Cape May

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May/June 2018

Community

Save the Date

Bag Ladies Luncheon Greate Bay Country Club

Wednesday, August 22nd from 10:30am to 2:30pm 3 South Newport Ave. Ventnor, NJ 08406

609-487-1190

www.rnscancerandheartfund.org

Ruth Newman Shapiro Cancer & Heart Fund Ruth Newman Shapiro (RNS) Cancer and Heart Fund is a volunteer organization that has raised more than $17 million to fund programs, services and equipment purchases for hospitals in southeastern New Jersey. RNS is asking kindly for your donation to help fulfill our pledge. Any amount will help! With enough donations we are also hoping to be able to pledge the funds to purchase another ReWalk so many more spinal injury persons will be able to feel the JOY of walking again and the physical differences in their bodies after being confined to a wheel chair for life. RNS Thanks You in Advance. Please make checks payable to RNS and send to: RNS Cancer & Heart Fund / c/o Joanne Kenny / 3 S. Newport Avenue, Ventnor, NJ 08406 For any questions, call 609-487-1190.

Gift Raffles, Jewelry, Basket of Cheer & Photo Ops Raffle Gently Used Bargains in Town $15 & $25 Handbags A Silent Auction on Our Most Popular Handbags. Tickets $50 Each For Reservations call Renee Wolf @609-823-6371. To Sponsor or to Make a Handbag or a Gift Item donation, call Joanne Kenny at 609-214-7541 or jkenny302@comcast.net To make a monetary donation contact Roe Magliocco at longportroe@aol.com

RNS welcomes new members to our “Because We Care” RNS Family. A $25 donation a year can help someone with Cancer or Heart Disease. You might just need that little extra help needed to relieve the pain.

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Community

For more information on upcoming exhibits & additional classes visit www.hammontonartscenter.org

Funding has been made in part by the NJ State Council on the Arts/Dept. of State a partner agency of the National Endowment for the Arts, Through a grant administered by the Atlantic County Office of Cultural and Heritage affairs.

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Community

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May/June 2018

Family Portraits

&Headshots

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