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Editor’s Note Whether love or lust is in the air this Valentine’s Day, this edition has something for romantics and singles alike. We don’t need a special holiday to tell us what we already know: that love and sex are a huge part of our lives. But what better time to discuss topics you’ve been too afraid to explore? Go on; don’t be shy – open up this edition for a guide to all things love and sex. Hopefully this edition serves as a reminder to
all the boyfriends out there that if you haven’t started planning your V-Day agenda, you better get to it. If you need a quick date idea or your wallet is looking a little bare this time around, we have a few tips for cheap outings and gifts on page 17. Top it off by visiting one of the local dessert shops on page 5 for a sweet treat after dinner. Looking to spice things up in the bedroom? Check out our lingerie guide on page 7 or have
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your burning sex questions answered by Miss Manners on page 11. If you’re in the mood to try something new, consider getting in shape through pole dancing (pg. 15) or visiting a sex shop (oh yes, we did). If you’re looking to mingle, try attending a singles mixer. But proceed with caution, Bianca Moragne tested the waters and things could get awkward. Check out her story on page 10. Speaking of trying
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something new, online dating is on everyone’s radar lately: from catfishing scandals (Manti T’eo, anyone?) to the growing popularity of matchmaking websites to debates about the future of dating in our technology-obsessed world. We dig a little deeper into these topics in “Dating in the Digital World” on page 12. A special shout out to our cover stars Chris Gilman, for putting up with being nearly
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Spotlight LOVE THAT STYLE!
Showcasing students around campus
by Elysse Alvarado Photos by Monica Zhang
Scott Asonye
Jocelyn Matyas
philosophy junior
economics junior
Asonye likes to dress in comfortable but presentable clothes. “I’m not too likely to wear basketball shorts to class unless I’m planning to go the gym,” he said.
Matyas said her chic and affordable style is “for the people.” She keeps her outfit both professional and trendy while spreading the word about American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life.
Style inspiration: AMC’s Mad Men (although he is behind by one season) Wearing: Urban Outfitters sweater, True Religion jeans and Clarks shoes
Wearing: Forever 21 jacket, H&M sweater, World Market earrings, thrift scarf from Chicago and Ray Bans aviators
CHATTER Joseph Flores international relations and global studies freshman
“The worst gift I ever got was nothing. I gave this girl a present and she just said, ‘Thanks.’ Nothing else, just, ‘Thanks.’ It definitely did not go the way I planned.”
Susan Rismiller
WHAT’S IN YOUR BAG? Michael Auvin
electrical engineering freshman
Auvin packs light for the long day ahead by only carrying around the essentials. He takes a break from his heavy engineering coursework by diving into Haruki Murakami’s “Kafka On The Shore.”
international relations and global studies freshman
“I haven’t had very many valentines, but one year I got a teddy bear from a friend who felt bad for me.”
Anushka Jasraj creative writing graduate student
“Any valentines gift. A candy bear?”
What’s the worst gift you’ve gotten for Valentine’s Day?
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Wednesday
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FEBRUARY
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Saturday
2/8
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East Cameron Folkcore
Murs
9 p.m. @ Scottish Rite
11 p.m. @ Stubb’s
2/10
2/11
2/12
2/13
2/14
2/15
2/16
Bridging the Music Showcase
The XX
Alejandro Escovedo
Morrissey
Suzanne Vega
KVRX Pledge Drive
Thr Preservation
2/17
2/18
2/19
2/20
2/21
2/22
2/23
Neurosis
Dale Watson
Wil Cope
Unknown Mortal Orchestra
Rebelution
He’s My Brother, She’s My Sister
Hardproof Afrobeat
6:30 p.m. @ Flamingo Cantina
9 p.m. @ Emo’s East
8 p.m. @ ACL Live Theater
10 p.m. @ Continental Club
10 p.m. @ Continental Club
9 p.m. @ Hotel Vegas
7 p.m. @ Austin Music Hall
6:30 p.m. @ Mohawk
7 & 9 p.m. @ Paramount Theater
6 p.m. @ Stubb’s
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2/25
2/26
2/27
2/28
Electric Six
Chris Cubas
Tame Impala
Dropkick Murphys
Nakia
9 p.m. @ Holy Mountain
7 p.m. @ Stubb’s
6:30 p.m. @ Stubb’s
EVENT CALENDAR
8 p.m. @ Stubb’s
9 p.m. @ Emo’s Annex
9 p.m. @ Parish
9 p.m. @ Holy Mountain
9 p.m. @ Hotel Vegas
10 p.m. @ Sahara Lounge
CAMPUS EVENTS 02/09
The Coffee Sergeants play Cactus Cafe, 8 p.m., Cactus Cafe
02/11
Gender & Sexuality Center Book Club discusses “Will Grayson, Will Grayson” by John Green, 6 p.m., SAC 2.112
02/18
Mr. McCombs Pageant, 7 p.m., SAC Auditorium
02/19
The Knights perform with Wu Man, 8 p.m., Bass Concert Hall
OFF-CAMPUS EVENTS 02/09
G. Love & Special Sauce, 8 p.m., Stubb’s Bar-B-Q
02/12
Fat Tuesday Pub Run, 5:30 p.m., Rogue Running
02/15
Anti-Valentine’s Day Burlesque Show, 10 p.m., Spiderhouse Cafe
02/18
Austin Salon Poetic open mic night, 7:30 p.m., Headhunters
STUDENT ORG EVENTS 02/14
SEC Film Committee presents Pitch Perfect (Blockbuster Film Series), 6 and 9 p.m., UNB 2.228
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Good Eats
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Embrace your inner foodie
Pour some sugar on me: Valentine’s Day sweets Austin Cake Ball Kitchen & Bar
3401 Esperanza Crossing Located in The Domain, Austin Cake Ball Kitchen & Bar provides the perfect combination of upscale ambiance and comfort. This restaurant specializes in small plates, drinks and, of course, dessert. Cake balls are the main event, and with elegant flavors like Italian crème and tiramisu, the combinations are endless. For a romantic touch, order the Valentine’s Day Collection with a Godiva chocolate martini for the two of you to share. While cake balls may have been thought of as a passing fad, Austin Cake Ball Kitchen & Bar shows that they’re here to stay.
La Patisserie
602 W. Annie St. Don’t have the funds to fly your sweetheart to Paris? La Patisserie brings the taste of France to our very own backyard. Former engineer Soraiya Nagree, owner and baker at La Patisserie, always had a love for Paris and French desserts. After realizing that she was much happier working with sweets than with numbers she started La Patisserie. Tucked away in South Austin, this little boutique boasts a variety of decadent desserts. From golden warm croissants to chocolate éclairs, there is no such thing as the wrong choice. There is also a wide assortment of macarons for those who yearn for a taste of Paris without the heavy price tag. The flavors range from the traditional rose and vanilla bean, to the innovative caramel fleur de sel and cardamom honey orange.
Tiff ’s Treats
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1806 Nueces St. Not only is Tiff ’s Treats an Austin staple, but it was created by two UT alumni. The Austin based company, founded in 2000, is known for bringing fresh, homemade cookies right to your front door. Aside from classic cookie combinations, Tiff ’s Treats offers a variety of special Valentine’s Day gifts like chocolate covered strawberries, and packages with brownies and Blue Bell ice cream. You can also add a red rose or a heart balloon to your purchase. No matter what your budget is, Tiff ’s Treats has something to help you spread the love.
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A new spin on an old classic by Priyanka Deshpande Photo by Katrina Funtanilla Chocolate-covered strawberries gained popularity in the 1960s and have been commonly gifted on Valentine’s Day ever since. If you feel that they’ve lost their novelty, indulge in these fun variations on the traditional dessert. You and your special someone may start a new tradition with these chocolate strawberry pancakes or Valentine waffle drops. VALENTINE WAFFLE DROPS
Source: allrecipes.com Ingredients: 1 ½ cups all-purpose flour
3 ½ teaspoons baking powder 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon white sugar 1 ¼ cups milk 1 egg 1 cup finely chopped strawberries ½ cup semi-sweet chocolate chips 1 teaspoon cinnamon powdered sugar and whipped cream (optional) Directions: 1. Sift together flour, baking powder, salt, sugar and cinnamon in a bowl. 2. Make a well in the center of the mixture and pour in the milk, egg and melted butter. 3. Mix until smooth. 4. Remove stem from strawberries and chop into fine pieces. 5. Gently fold strawberry chunks and chocolate chips into pancake batter. 7. Pour or scoop batter
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onto the griddle, using approximately 1/4 cup for each pancake. 8. Brown on both sides and serve hot. 9. Sprinkle powdered sugar on top of a stack of pancakes. Add a dollop of whipped cream on top and enjoy!
CHOCOLATE STRAWBERRY PANCAKES Source: foodnetwork.com
Ingredients:
1 ½ cups chopped strawberries 6 ounces semi-sweet chocolate chips 2 cups of dry pancake and waffle mix additional ingredients required for package vegetable oil powdered sugar Directions: 1. Finely chop strawberries. Lay chopped pieces in clumps on baking sheet lined with parchment paper, and freeze for 30 minutes.
2. Using a spoon, scoop dollops of melted chocolate onto clumps of chopped strawberries. 3. Place baking sheet with chocolate-covered strawberry clumps in freezer for about 15 minutes, or until chocolate hardens. 5. Prepare pancake/waffle mix in bowl as directed. 6. Heat vegetable oil in a deep-frying vessel. 7. Using a pair of tongs, pick up chocolate-covered strawberry clump and dip into waffle batter. Release waffle ball into vegetable oil, turning as needed until batter is golden and fully cooked (around two minutes). 8. Repeat with remaining waffle drops. 9.Remove waffle drops from oil and set them to drain and cool on a paper towel.
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Lingerie
Keeping the 40 Acres trendy
Style Notes
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At the cost of looking sexy, one romantic night can become pricey. However, with these flirtatious lingerie pieces, you can look sexy enough to light the fire without extinguishing your bank account. by Channing Holman
FOR THE NFL LOVER Nike Pro Victory Compression NFL New Orleans Saints Women’s Sports Bra, $28 Trying to impress an NFL-crazed guy? Nike has just the thing for you. Support your guy with this sexy and comfortable Nike sports bra. If frilly things are too much to handle, and less is more in your playbook, then this bra is the perfect fit.
FOR THE SASSY LOVER Miss Selfridge Sequin Mesh Bodysuit, $26 Tap into your inner Beyoncé with this “single ladies” bodysuit, which is now on sale. This bodysuit can be worn in the bedroom – and it may land a ring on it – but it can easily be turned into sexy downtown outfit when paired with a short skirt and heels.
FOR THE BARE-IT-ALL LOVER Victoria’s Secret Peek-a-boo Babydoll, $48 It may not leave much to the imagination, but that’s the point, right? The sheer mesh and playful ruffles make this a ravishingly sexy choice. This babydoll look has triangle cups and a matching panty.
FOR THE TRENDY LOVER Remove All-over Spike Design Bra, $36 Spikes have been a hot fashion trend on heels and jeans, so why not add spikes in the bedroom? Pair this rock-chic bra with a pair of black undies like a thong, panties or G-string.
FOR THE ANIMAL PRINT LOVER Charlotte Russe Lace Overlay Bray & Thong Set, $16 Leopard print and lace are always a tempting combination. This set includes a laceup ribbon front bra and matching skirted thong.You’ll have your guy roaring in the bedroom with this dangerous set.
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Impact UT LGBTQA students find community in organizations Sociology sophomore Andra Steele is a co-director for StandOut and the financial director of Queer People of Color and Allies. Through these organizations, Steele has helped improve the campus experience for LGBTQ students and allies. StandOut is a grassroots movement organized entirely by students, without university funding. The group usually tackles political issues by staging protests and rallies. Steele said she became interested in joining the organization because she is politically minded and intrigued by “the power people have to change their own communities.” Steele said that StandOut is a great way for students in the queer community to fight for the rights they deserve. As co-director, she typically handles crisis management, leads meetings, facilitates discussion and takes care of logistical tasks. Steele’s proudest moment with StandOut was when the movement came together to create a proposal to get the current gender-specific on-campus housing policy reviewed. It’s one of their biggest projects as a group, as
they feel that the needs of many queer and transgender students are not taken into consideration by the typical on-campus housing policy, which pairs people by their sex. Gender-neutral housing would allow housing assignments to be less black and white. Steele also works to better the lives and experiences of LGBTQ students through QPOCA, an organization that aims to “bridge the gap between queer and racial identities.” QPOCA was created for students who are not only a minority in terms of sexual orientation or identity, but also due to their race or ethnicity. Steele joined QPOCA because she finds it hard to reconcile her identities as queer and Latina. In addition to one of UT’s annual welcome-back events, Bloq Party, QPOCA held the first annual Gloria Anzaldúa Luncheon last year. Anzaldúa, an alumna of the university, was a Tejana feminist and queer theorist. The organization honored her with this event for her contribution to the history of queer people of color. For Valentine’s Day, StandOut usually takes part in protests organized by the Pride and Equity Faculty Staff As-
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sociation. These annual protests aim to discourage the university from discriminating against its employees in same-sex relationships. UT does not currently provide insurance benefits to the partners of its LGBTQ faculty and staff, and several organizations, as well as individual members of the community, are fighting with PEFSA for competitive insurance benefits. However, Steele is unsure if StandOut will participate this Valentine’s Day. “Valentine’s Day is kind of an annual prompting that society expects of heterosexual, cisgendered people and couples,” Steele said.
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Explore It’s playtime - a guide to adult toy shops in Austin by Channing Holman
Just because action figures and Barbie dolls are now a distant memory doesn’t mean college students can’t have a few toys lying around. Austin A GUIDE has many spots where you can get your hands on toys to stimulate grown-up fun. Whether it’s doubling the pleasure with a partner or a solo performance, pledge to have a little more fun this February.
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Adam and Eve took a bite, and now it’s your turn. But the best times don’t always have to come in pairs. Here are manager Lynn Raridon’s favorite ways to spice up your Valentine’s Day, with or without a partner. Don’t forget your student ID to get 10 percent off of your entire purchase.
Step into Dreamers and take a break from reality with a wide range of wild toys and novelties. Here are a few of manager James Fontinos’ top picks for Valentine’s Day and beyond.
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Silver Bullet, $14 The Silver Bullet is great for clitoral stimulation only, so do not insert. The Silver Bullet also has a remote control attached to it to intensify the vibrations as necessary.
Butterfly Kiss, $19.99
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Mini Mystic Wand, $80 The Mini Mystic Wand is multi-functional with a flexible shaft. It has a USB charger, so it can be charged on a computer, and the wand is made of silicone, so it can be sterilized.
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We Vibe 3, $175 The We Vibe 3 offers clitoral and G spot stimulation, and can be used solo or in a pair. The vibrator has up to two hours of battery life, is waterproof and comes with a wireless remote.
The Butterfly Kiss is similar to the popular Rabbit, a vibrator and clitoral bullet that stimulates the G spot and vaginal play for beginners. The Butterfly Kiss massages the clitoris with a tantalizing “kiss” antenna, and its variety of colors and functions makes it less intimidating as a first toy.
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Rabbit vibrator, $24.95-$279.95
Rabbit vibrators range in color, size and texture — the more expensive Rabbits are made of silicone and have a pulsating motor. The dual pulsating motors simultaneously stimulate with a gyrating tip and a powerful shaft.
E X P E RT Squeel, $79.99 The Squeel is fairly new, but it’s innovative. It is discreetly designed to resemble Bubble Tape Mega Roll bubble gum, with 10 silicone “tongues” that pulsate on a rotating wheel with three speeds.
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Mix to match
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by Bianca Moragne photo by Monica Zhang
From the outside looking in, it’s just another West Sixth Street lounge; the kind that is meant to keep the young, sophisticated attendees dancing until the next morning.
But once inside the dimly lit Molotov Lounge, the scene transformed into an awkward social affair. Being single and dating is hard enough. Throw in family and friends constantly bombarding you with advice or even setting you up on embarrassing, unwanted blind dates with their acquaintances, and it’s a recipe for disaster. But, a new dating trend offers hope for those who find themselves in this predicament — singles mixers. Singles mixers are meant to be a fun way to bring like-minded people together that is more personal than dating online. Austin Social Affair, an event promotion and marketing company, put on an event with similar intentions to “unplug and expand your network live.” However, the Thursday evening in January seemed more like a middle school dance. Austin native Victor C., who was unwilling to reveal his last name, was initially impressed by the relaxed atmosphere. “I thought it would be an interesting event for meeting new and accomplished people,” Victor said. “I have been to a few meet-ups in the past and they are always very lowkey, sort of like going to a movie as a date, and I enjoy that aspect.” Despite his high hopes, Victor sat at the open bar with another male attendee, cheap drinks in hand, for the remainder of the evening. Not once did he converse with a woman.
About 40 eager professional singles, all over the age of 25, attended Austin Social Affair’s mixer. Unlike the crowd at your average bar downtown, everybody in attendance was there for the sole purpose of meeting that special someone, rather than a one-night stand. An hour into the event and the setup looked like the parting of the Red Sea, with the women stranded on one side as the men looked on from the other. There was little intermixing and communication between the sexes decked in business-casual attire. There was timid mixing between the business-casual coeds, but the men mostly stood in pairs near the bar while the women mingled with the sponsors at the event. From Pinot’s Palette to Kash Clothing Boutique, the sponsors served as the only source of communication. “We’re here to get people to come drink with us and socialize,” said Hannah Hausman, an Austin teacher and public relations executive for Pinot’s Palette. Pinot’s Palette, a BYOB painting class, was just one of the vendors hoping to attract a newly matched couple as a possible date. Hausman hopes the mixer will get Austinites talking about the business. But, like Victor, many of the singles shied away from talking about being at the mixer, as if ashamed of merely being there. Brave souls eager to hit up a single mixer in the near future, be prepared — it’s nothing short of awkward.
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Q: I’m sexually attracted to one of my best friends, but I don’t want a relationship or to ruin our friendship. What should I do? A: If you want to move forward into the “friends with benefits” zone, your friend must understand exactly what you’re asking of them. You should clearly state that the two of you are agreeing to have sex as friends, not as a couple. Make sure you set boundaries that don’t scream “relationship.” You both must also understand that your feelings may change. If you want more than just sex though, don’t withhold that information — just tell your friend, or things can get awkward.
Q: I think my girlfriend fakes orgasms, but when I ask her, she denies it. How can I know when she actually has an orgasm? A: Well, first, know that female orgasms aren’t as feasible as male orgasms. Like men, the female body will completely clench, but her lady-parts should also pulsate and clench your shaft. You can try different sex positions that allow you to penetrate deeper and hit her G-spot to entice an orgasm.
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Q: It takes my partner way too long to have an orgasm during oral sex. What can I do to rev him up more quickly? A: Tease your partner a little more before starting. Have an intense make-out session, play with your partner’s ears, run your fingers along your partner’s back and arms and work your way down to his shaft. The more aroused he is before you start, the better. Q: He’s WAY too big. What do I do? A: First, let him know that you’re not used to his size, which will more than likely stroke his ego. Then, let him know that he needs to go slow or he’ll hurt you. Don’t rush it; enjoy the foreplay, and don’t be afraid to use lots of lube. Finally, try positions where you’re on top, so you can control the tempo.
Q: Do aphrodisiacs actually work? What are they? P.S. I don’t like oysters. A: Yes, incorporating aphrodisiacs can stimulate sexual desires with just a few bites of the right treat. Plus, you could bring some to bed with you! Try these ones out: • Cinnamon — Sugar and spice, you’ve heard it before. Throw this on your favorite dessert for a quick way to, well, spice things up. • Truffles — These can be sent to your loved one’s workplace for them to nibble on throughout the day, before the big bang later on. • Marshmallows — S’mores anyone? You don’t have to be a chef to make this fireside treat. • Dark chocolate — It has so many uses, whether it’s melted or not.
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Online dating reaches college students
by Katey Psencik “Do you like sushi? Can you cook? What would be ally there isn’t a whole lot of time in between for me to your biggest disappointment in a date?” go out and meet people, let alone date,” he said. “Out of These are a few of the questions posed when buildall the dating sites I’ve tried, this site has seemed the ing a profile on a dating website. Thought online dathighest quality since the highest quality of people ing was just something your divorced parents did? usually — emphasis on usually — attend college. Not anymore. The number of college students on datI actually met a girl from this site yesterday. We ing sites is growing. had a really nice time and I’m really into her. “Young folks do everything online, so why should Here’s hoping it turns into something long and dating be any different?” said Brian Donovan, aufulfilling.” thor of “Not a Match, My True Tales of Online DatDMS has about 4,000 users in Texas and nearing Disasters” and a writer for Thought Catalog. “I’m ly 500 users on the UT campus. Alexa expects not sure why college students need Internet dating. I that number to grow in the coming months mean, what’s more romantic than meeting someone with the launch of their mobile application. while holding their legs up for a keg stand? But it’s Anna**, a UT student, joined DMS because there for them if they need it. Of all the things you can she pledged to go on at least one date in 2013. do online, finding a girlfriend doesn’t even break the “I don’t have much time between school top 10 most humiliating.” and work to meet people, so I thought this Columbia MBA students Balazs Alexa and Jean would help me,” she said. “I feel like most Meyer founded Datemodern things are MySchool in 2010. The approached with some site is designed to help negativity, but the longer it is busy students and alumaround the more it is accepted. ni meet people in difPeople are getting busier and ferent departments and busier, and the Internet is such nearby campuses, espe- Balazs Alexa, a convenient place for everycially targeting majors thing, even dating.” DateMySchool co-founder dominated by a particuWhile some still have reslar gender, like nursing or ervations with online dating, engineering. Student membership requires a verified Donovan notes that the negative social stigmas are disuniversity email, and alumni are cross-referenced solving. with school databases. “Many people Internet date now, so how can there be Alexa said college students’ openness and willingprejudice?” Donovan said. “It’s a multi-million dollar ness to try new things are why websites like DMS can industry. That would be like having prejudice against function. “College students are the drivers of change Netflix. ‘A man is supposed to rent “Three Men and a and innovation,” he said. Baby” at a store, not on a computer!’ That’s just crazy.” The site is breaking down the perceived taboo of Donovan, who has been an online dater for over 10 online dating for young people with three promises: years, said prejudice against online dating is essentially efficiency, privacy and safety. nonexistent. “All of these are mostly or entirely lacking on other “People are pretty accepting of Internet dating nowdating sites, since all they care about is user growth adays,” he said. “There was a point when every single and making money,” Alexa said. “You have to create person in my family was dating online, including my an experience people prefer to what they experience cat, who got a very impressive amount of responses. in a bar, at a party or in a library.” I think friends and family couldn’t care less how you DMS now has more than 100,000 users, and is at every meet someone, as long as that person makes you hapfour-year university in the country. Crazykaplinf00*, a py. I met my current girlfriend online, and she’s a for21-year-old senior at Butler University, has had an onmer Longhorn. So it must be good, right?” line presence since he was 11 years old, and has now found his way onto DMS. *DMS username “I wouldn’t describe myself as a social person, and **name changed for anonymity I’m constantly working trying to pay for school, so re-
“You have to create an experience people prefer to what they experience in a bar, at a party or in a library.”
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It’s complicated: dating and social media AOL chat rooms were once considered a revolutionary communication tool, connecting people next door and countries apart. Two decades after the AOL onslaught, the Internet has skyrocketed to one of our primary communication tools, with endless ways to meet and connect with people. You might find a long-lost elementary school friend. You can apply for a job. You can even find love. Along with our communication, our perceptions of dating have also evolved thanks to the ease and anonymity of the Internet. The traditional idea of a date is a romantic, specified appointment between two people. Now, many 20-somethings feel this idea has faded. “We don’t court as people used to back in the day,” said journalism junior Irma Garcia. “Yes, we still go to dinner and whatnot, but it’s really rare.” Courting, defined as an engagement in social activities leading to marriage, is a term that may
by Channing Holman belong in the Stone Age. “Courtship is kind of scary because it leads to marriage and I’m definitely not ready,” said Garcia. For many young singles, courtship or dating has serious connotations. Dating in the millennium has snapped the focus to the present, looking for someone that meets needs for now, but not always with a lot of thought about what comes next. This has reduced the need for the traditional, burgers-and-milkshake dates. Paul Eastwick, an assistant professor in human ecology, said dating has now evolved into informal hangouts in mixed company. Young people are more likely to get to know romantic interests in larger groups; something that is largely the norm in countries like France. “These days, men and women hang out in mixed groups, and it’s not clear whether it’s a bad thing,” said Eastwick. SOCIAL continues on p. 14
A bad catch when Internet flirtation turns into deception by Rachel Lau and Ali Killian
Brad*, a UT sophomore, is just one of the many victims of “catfishing,” or being romantically deceived online. “Sometimes, you may have to play dirty to get what you want,” Brad said. How does a relationship begin through social networking platforms? Well, first moves aren’t exactly easy to make when all you know about the other person is their name and what they may or may not look like, based on their chosen profile picture. However, Brad says that it wasn’t hard to start a relationship with Judith, since she was an attractive woman who added him on Facebook. He said he believes that it’s difficult for most guys to reject a good-looking woman who wants to chase them. When speaking with Brad about his short-lived relationship with Judith, it’s easy to realize that the idea of meeting and dating a stranger online is enticing to many people. It’s much easier to take risks and be yourself in the virtual world than it is in reality. You can give yourself a second identity, even going so far as to alter your physical appearance to become the person that you have always wanted to
be. Take the story of University of Notre Dame linebacker Manti Te’o that has captured headlines in the past few weeks. After meeting online, Te’o and Lennay Kekua became friends, and eventually entered into a relationship. Long story short, the two had nightly phone conversations until they fell asleep, and Kekua, or rather Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, couldn’t help falling in love with the famous athlete. Tuiasosopo claims to have wanted to confess that he wasn’t the woman Te’o imagined him to be, but there was never an opportune moment for him to do so, which is why he decided to end their relationship by killing Kekua. Tuiasosopo diagnosed her with leukemia, and hoped that Te’o wouldn’t dwell on her and the fabricated relationship. On Dec. 6, three months after Kekua’s supposed deaht on Sept. 12 — the same day Te’o’s grandmother passed away, in fact — Te’o received a call informing him that Kekua and their relationship was a hoax, according to the football star. CATFISH continued on p. 14
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He credits the shift in dating to the advancement of social media. Suitors can hide behind computer screens, where rejection is a much softer blow. With the click of a button, you could get a weekend date or something more, but the dread of asking someone out face-to-face is eliminated completely. Meeting on social networks makes getting to know someone a one-stop shop. A Facebook profile has a profile picture, education, birthday, hometown and occupation all conveniently listed under the profile’s information tab. With a mouse scroll you can learn a first date’s worth of information without even meeting a person an idea that was unimaginable a decade ago. “People court through technology: calling, texting and social media,” Garcia said. “That’s why I believe guys don’t go up to girls as much anymore.” Many share Garcia’s sentiment; social media pads one of our biggest fears — rejection. A foiled plan for a date is much less painful via Facebook or Twitter, making it easier to ask — and be rejected — for guys and girls. But it also often takes a toll on the rest of the relationship. Affection and adoration are sent through a computer screen or smartphone; butterflies come from an emoji icon instead of tender handholding or a warm embrace. To combat the trend, Eastwick suggests expressing blatant displeasure with behaviors associated with millennium dating. Reject a group outing for a one-on-one encounter and you may get better results. It may not be meeting up for a milkshake at the burger shack, but it may start with a coffee date and eventually turn into more.
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Te’o calls himself a victim, seemingly embarrassed that he put his true feelings into this virtual relationship. Brad did not receive a phone call like Te’o’s, but he figured out that he was a victim of catfishing once Judith failed to turn off Facebook chat’s new location indicator, which activated automatically. Judith claimed to live in Austin, but when Facebook said her messages were sent from Boston, Mass., Brad immediately became suspicious and confronted her. Judith admitted to lying about her location to make their relationship seem more realistic, and Brad never spoke to her again. Some people may think that online dating saves you from the pain of getting hurt, since you’re behind a computer screen. However, as both Manti Te’o’s and Brad’s cases prove, taking risks online has consequences, too.
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Dance dance revolution
by Rachel Lau photos by Chelsea Jackson 10 years ago, most people pictured pole dancing as the main attraction at a gentlemen’s club. All of the attention would be on the female body, clad in tiny bits of fabric, leaving the men crowded around the stage wanting more, or rather, less. As she swings around the pole, discarding her clothing piece by piece, men fight for the chance to strategically place bills of various amounts on her. Indeed, pole dancing is most commonly associated with a seedy strip club, but that perception is rapidly changing. Pole dancing is being recognized as a style of dance, artistic expression, recreational activity and fitness. While the trend is gaining traction, it still has opponents. Feminists largely disapprove of pole dancing, mainly because they deem it degrading for women. They do not see pole dancing, even recreationally, as a way for women to move away from objectification. Futhermore, many also believe that there is a very thin line between stripping and prostitution. With the nudity and sexual thoughts that exotic dancing may conjure, pay-
ing for sex is not unimaginable. Some can even deem exotic dancing as foreplay. However, pole dancing can also be viewed as having an elegance similar to that of ballet. After speaking to a few students that are currently taking classes at Brass Ovaries, the only fitness studio in Austin that teaches pole dancing to both male and female students, the similarities between traditional dance classes and pole dancing are much clearer. Katie*, a Brass Ovaries student, said that the reason why she took a sudden interest in pole dancing was because of a YouTube video of a woman who performs under the moniker Dirdy Birdy. Her video currently has over 2.5 million views; perhaps another indicator of pole dancing as a new trend. “She makes pole dancing look graceful, and more importantly, tasteful,” Katie said. Another student mentioned that she has a newfound respect for strippers because of the difficulty of pole danc-
ing. “It’s really hard to do some of the moves and still be able to maintain the sex appeal,” said Lauren. “I’m always struggling to keep from sliding off the pole because it requires a lot of upper body strength. It really pushes you to work your core.” Brass Ovaries offers group and individual classes at all different levels. In addition to pole dancing classes, Brass Ovaries offers aerial hoop, stretching and conditioning and dance-based classes, like Twerk. Instead of judging a book by its cover, consider trying it out for yourself. You’ll get in a great workout to help you accomplish those New Year’s resolutions. *Names have been changed
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Making cents Less expensive, but not less effective
Consumers don’t skimp when it comes to protection, but does the effectiveness of condoms go up with the price? Many people believe brand names offer better protection than the less-expensive generic kinds, or that certain types of condoms are safer. But by law, the brand of a condom makes no difference in protection. All condoms in the U.S. undergo testing for retail approval. According to the University Health Services Web site, all are “considered equally effective at preventing
Doing more for less by Shantanu Banerjee photos by Mika Locklear may sound intuitive, it is not proven. Not only has the FDA approved the ultra-thin condoms, but a study by Consumer Reports found that there is no correlation between the performance of a condom and its price and thickness. According to the FDA, spermicidal condoms are no more effective in preventing pregnancy than traditional condoms. In fact, UHS recommends against their use, as it “can increase the risk of some STIs,” their website states. Even though most condoms come pre-lubricated, one should add lubricant to the inside and outside to reduce friction and the chance of breakage. When used correctly, condoms break only 2 percent of the time. The most common reason for breakage is not in using a cheaper, generic brand, but in human error. Common mistakes include using an oil-based lubricant instead of water-based, forgetting to pinch the tip when putting it on or using it after the expiration date. One common truth that is often mistaken as a myth is that storing a condom in one’s wallet leads to breakage. Simple actions like walking around campus, sitting down or going through temperature changes can be detrimental to a condom’s effectiveness.
pregnancy and infection.” The US Food and Drug Administration conducts tests and establishes and enforces manufacturing regulations all condoms must pass, regardless of brand name or price. As far as the sensation goes, that’s up to the user. Some people enjoy ribbing or extra lubricant, and others prefer a larger size for comfort. In the end, it comes down to what characteristics you and your partner find most preferable. UHS provides condoms free of charge for students. You can also pick up free condoms at the Health Promotion Resource Center in Room 1.106 of the SSB. While UHS provides free lubricated, non-lubricated and flavored condoms, the Forty Acres Pharmacy sells a variety of condoms and other contraceptives, including emergency contraception like the morning after pill. “Like anyone, I’ve heard my share of condom myths from friends. For example, it’s believed that thinner condoms aren’t as safe others, ones with spermicide are safer and that you shouldn’t keep any in your wallet,” said biomedical engineering freshman Varun Koneru. Ultra-thin latex condoms are sometimes rumored to be less effective than normal ones. While this
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Last minute plans on a budget
by Katey Psencik
Picture a moment you know well: mid-semester panic. You’re buried up to your ears in midterm papers, projects and exams. It’s the second week of February and you’re up late one night finishing a research paper. You type the last sentence, sigh, close your laptop and stretch — and then check your phone to see what time it is, now that you’re about to roll into bed. It’s 2 a.m. on Feb. 14. You wonder if you should text your girlfriend. No wonder she’s been suspiciously quiet lately. The panic builds, but never fear! If you are swamped with school or burdened by an empty wallet, here are some last-minute ideas for a romantic Valentine’s Day on the cheap.
Stay at home South Congress South Congress Avenue is a date night virtually prepackaged into a street. Start your evening at sunset on the South Congress Bridge and watch Austin’s famous bats take flight. Then, wander farther south down SoCo, stopping at the “I love you so much” graffiti on the wall of Jo’s Coffee to take a cute couple photo. Have dinner at The Mighty Cone food trailer as you watch fellow V-Day strollers, and, of course, grab a red velvet confection from Hey Cupcake. Then, swing by a convenience store for a six-pack of your beverage of choice and head west on Barton Springs Road to end the night with a round of Peter Pan Mini Golf. Estimated spending: $30 to $40
Mount Bonnell Feeling adventurous? Enjoy the warm Texas winter and pack a picnic basket full of goodies to enjoy at Mount Bonnell. Grab a cheap bottle of wine from H-E-B and fill your basket with fruit, crackers and cheese to enjoy together as you watch the sunset.
Estimated spending: $10 to $20
On campus If you want to save gas money, staying on campus has its charms. Start the night off with the University Unions Student Events Center Film Committee’s Blockbuster Film Series at 6 p.m., screening Pitch Perfect. Then, head over to the Union Underground to enjoy a round of the cheapest bowling in Austin. After the two of you have worked up an appetite, walk just a few blocks into West Campus and enjoy the brand new trailer food park, Rancho Rio Eatery, on the corner of 26th and Rio Grande streets. After you’ve filled up on all the trailer food you can handle, walk a few blocks north to Polkadots Cupcake Factory (28th and Rio Grande streets) for cheap, delicious dessert. Estimated spending: $20 to $30
Staying in is often just as romantic as going out for a fancy dinner. Whip up a quick and cheap meal like pasta with alfredo sauce and asparagus, with cookies or brownies and ice cream for dessert. Since you’re saving money on dinner, splurge for a bouquet of daisies — avoid roses, as they tend to be overpriced. If you want to be extra cute and crafty, you can create a book full of romantic coupons your partner can turn in, or turn a used deck of cards into a “52 Things I Love About You” flipbook. After dinner, have some wine and watch a few episodes of “30 Rock” on Netflix. Estimated spending: $15 to $25
Happy hour Don’t let a midterm the next day rain on your Valentine’s Day — there are plenty of cheap, quick happy hour options around Austin. El Arroyo has $1 margaritas every Thursday, and Lavaca Street Bar and Grill hosts Bacon Thursday, where you can order a $2 Bud Light and get free, unlimited bacon. Estimated spending: $10 to $20
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The Psychology of Valentine’s Day
by Katey Psencik
It’s sometimes annoying, but always obligatory. Why do we continue to celebrate what some call a “Hallmark” holiday? This time 10 years ago, you were begging your mom for Spongebob or Barbie-themed Valentine’s Day cards, tearing the box open on the way home from the store to read clever sayings like “Keep it spongy, Valentine!” or a simple, “Glad we’re friends!” When you got home, you studied them like you would a good climbing tree or the perfect Razor scooter, picking out which one to give to your crush. Fast-forward 10 years later and here you are — maybe single, maybe in a relationship, maybe even married. You’ve changed, but Valentine’s Day hasn’t. Many argue that the celebration, which has roots in ancient Greek and Roman cultures, is nothing more than a “Hallmark holiday,” or a marketing ploy by greeting card companies, florists and chocolatiers. But, like it or not, advertising has shaped our expectations of Feb. 14. Human sexuality Professor Nancy Daley blamed the holiday’s romantic kitsch on pressure from modern culture. “Love sells,” Daley said. “Movies, television, magazines in the 20th and 21st centuries have advertised romantic love. The love industry perpetuates Valentine’s Day. Diamonds, wedding cakes — they make who knows how many billions of dollars off of this holiday. Then, the whole romantic love industry becomes a yardstick in relationships, something you measure your own relationship by.” Government senior Will Bass also believes the hearts and flowers fete is over-marketed. “Most of the Valentine’s Day ads are geared toward influencing men to buy something for their girlfriend,” he said. “I celebrate because I feel like my girlfriend will think I’m a bad boyfriend [if I don’t]. I would prefer to do something for her unannounced, when she doesn’t have any built-up expectations. It’s sad, really, because I love my girlfriend and would do anything for her, but celebrating on that day puts unnecessary pressure on me.” Liz Miller, a corporate communications junior, came back
to school after a 15-year career in sales and marketing management. She and her husband opt out of celebrations. “When my boys were little, it was fun to make cards and give out candy to friends, but that’s about it,” Miller said. “It seems like this holiday is made for people in the early stages of dating. They still try to impress each other with grandiose displays, which only serve to unreasonably raise expectations and ensure later disappointment. I just think that love should be intentional every day. Instead, we just try to dedicate one night a week for ‘date night’.” On the other hand, classics junior Rachel Theis loves what Valentine’s Day represents. “It’s important to take a day to be really intentional about loving others, even if you don’t have a significant other,” she said.
However, not all members of the LGBTQ community share Whalley’s concerns. Kent Kasischke, director of the Queer Students’ Alliance, said he understands the media’s attempt to advertise Valentine’s Day to the heterosexual community, which is the larger population, and isn’t personally affected by it. “Small efforts here and there could definitely be a positive change for the future, especially as we see the LGBTQ equality push occurring in our society,” Kasischke said. “I can say the LGBTQ community has in itself worked against it all with making their own special valentines and materials, which has been a great change.” After years of criticism and the descent into cheesy, meaningless ritual, why does Valentine’s Day still exist? It’s because love exists, Daley said. “Romantic love has been around a long time in western thought, and the idea of falling madly and uncontrollably in love is kind of a paradox,” she said. “We’re supposed to be in control of so many aspects of our psyches, and so many aspects of and here’s something that can be - Nancy Daley, nature, so random and messed up. There’s somehuman sexuality professor thing very appealing about the edginess H s of it. Love throws your neatly-ordered s universe into turmoil.” “I love to spend time with my man, and although I think we should always be kind and loving, it is good to take a day and really think about what that means,” she said. “That’s not necessarily spending a load of cash on each other. Valentine’s Day is valuable, but only if one can recognize the day for more than just chocolates, stuffed animals and roses.” Imagine a typical Valentine’s Day commercial; it will likely feature a man buying something for a woman: jewelry, chocolates, flowers or a romantic rendezvous between a beautiful woman and her beau. But advertisers rarely reach out to same-sex couples. “I find it frustrating that I don’t see myself reflected in the marketing of Valentine’s Day and if I do it doesn’t feel genuine — more like a marketing gimmick,” said Shane Whalley, education coordinator for the Gender and Sexuality Center. “I might find a couple of cards that are genderless, but it can be hard to find one with an image that is not gendered. Even if they are animals!”
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anything, including their genitalia, because it is all a miracle. Next, that the most difficult part of relationships is having the other person’s interest in mind as much as your own. That’s hard for humans, because we’re naturally self-centered. Last, I would tell them to use their sexuality as a gift that you give other people or other people give you. Don’t treat sexuality as a demand or something that you are owed — just be appreciative of what is offered.
Human sexuality Professor Nancy Daley laughs along with her students during a lecture. Daley says she relies on humor as a passage to talk about the personal subjects of sex and relationships.
Human sexuality is a large part of our daily lives, but it remains a public taboo. Through the human sexuality course at UT, professors Nancy Daley and Lawrence Brownstein attempt to break down the barrier that exists between sex in our private lives and discussion of relevant sexual health topics. Longhorn Life sat down with Daley, who has been teaching the course for 17 years, and Brownstein, who has been teaching it for 25, to discuss, well, sex. Longhorn Life: If you could teach just three lessons from your class, what would you want all college students to know? Nancy Daley: First, sexual coercion, because it’s a big problem on college campuses. Second, STIs and contraception are important for sexually active students to know. And last, I’d want to do orientations — all of the different sexual orientations that a person can have. Lawrence Brownstein: I would want them to know that they are a miracle, and they should respect themselves and others as miracles. They shouldn’t be ashamed or embarrassed of
LL: What is the biggest or strangest myth that you’ve heard about sex? ND: One student said that, in their sex education class in high school, they were told that if two unmarried people are having protected sex, that the condom could sense it chemically, somehow. That was a new one. LB: I think that the biggest myth I’ve heard is that masturbation causes physical harm. I also want everyone to know that STDs cannot just be transferred through regular intercourse — you can get most STDs from any sexual activity, including oral and anal. LL: Do you get lots of interesting questions from your students? ND: I get a lot of interesting questions from all over the board. Some are practical — medical questions, relationship questions or questions about the mechanics. There are a lot of perspectives too, like having a student from communist China who grew up never hearing about sex. LB: I have a box where students can submit questions anonymously. They can be about anything, as long as it’s about sex, relationships or other things related to the class. LL: Since sex can be an uncomfortable topic, how is the best way to approach the subject when teaching it? ND: I like to use a lot of humor and anecdotes. I mostly want to keep the class both informative and entertaining. LB: I think humor is one of the best tools. I also use a lot of class participation, like making the entire class say a word
someone is uncomfortable with. If someone doesn’t like to say ‘penis,’ I’ll make the entire class say it together.
LL: What do you think about the role of sex in pop culture? For instance, sex addiction in the movie “Shame,” the invention of the vibrator in the movie “Hysteria,” and the popularization of bondage with the book “Fifty Shades of Grey.” ND: It’s great! We’re a very young culture, and sex still makes everybody giggly and nervous. I’m not berserk about gratuitous vulgarity personally, but I feel like the media has an obligation to explore edgy topics. LL: What do you think of sex education in this country? LB: It’s important to people, it’s necessary. Not all schools
Human sexuality Professor Lawrence Brownstein stresses the miracle and mutual respect of the human body.
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things I’ve learned… compiled by Shantanu Banerjee photo by Trisha Seelig
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Dr. Stephen Phillips Philosophy At UT [31 years]
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1. When you’re introduced to President Powers for the first time, resist giving him a high-five. 2. Never park in the Dean’s parking space. 3. When Officer Halstead tells you to evacuate a building, do it. 4. Never trust anyone over 30 to know what bands are hot. 5. Avoid auto-flush restrooms. 6. Enjoy every minute of your time here.
1. Don’t tell ethnic jokes, unless they’re about Aggies. 2. There is an amazing correlation between time taken on final exams and final grades. 3. From Ed Allaire: Texas is the only state with a nationalism problem. 4. Just because a professor can hit a jump shot doesn’t mean his or her class is easy. 5. Keep Austin weird.
1. Learning happens when we’re out of our comfort zones, but only if we’re humble enough to really listen to those who challenge our core assumptions; which tend to be the least examined ones. 2. Great TAs are the lifeblood of the university. 3. Faculty who complain that, unlike their younger selves, students can’t pay attention for a 50-minute lecture may forget that their learning styles led them to pursue a doctorate. Different paths to learning are not only a real thing, but a good thing. 4. Administrators, at all levels — from cleaning personnel to secretaries to the folks at the top of the Tower — are the unsung heroes who make UT possible. Thank one, or a few, today! 5. Being fully present can be very hard, but it’s absolutely worth it.
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Faculty Update The Visual Arts Center reopens for spring by Ali Killian
Loaded with five new exhibits from in-house and foreign artists, the Visual Arts Center reopens for the spring season on Friday, Feb. 1. The VAC combines art with education by showcasing student, faculty and guest work in its galleries. Having been closed for winter break, the VAC’s opening reception kicks off the 2013 season with a performance by senior studio art major Zoe Berg in her exhibition space at 6 p.m. The reception is free and open to the public, and it will continue until 8 p.m. In addition to Berg’s exhibit, “Til sjøs (At sea),” in which she creates a NorwegianAmerican identity, the work of Diego Bianchi, an artist from Buenos Aires, Argentina, which examines various objects and how they work together to be individual parts of one whole, will be showcased in an exhibit called “Into The Wild Meaning.”
Annie Han and Daniel Mihalyo, who work under the name Lead Pencil Studio, combine architecture with art in their exhibition “Diffuse Reflection Lab.” The exhibit will contain different structures in which the viewer sees their reflection. By using various lighting and spacing the viewers’ perceptions are challenged in an attempt to create conversation about the effects reflections can have on the public, according to the VAC’s website. “New Prints 2012” and “Overlapping Impressions: A Study in Contrasting Cognition” are the other exhibitions premiering on Feb. 1. The nonprofit International Print Center New York organized New Prints 2012, which will feature 36 prints of various types, from etchings to video animation, that were selected from more than 2,600 submissions to IPCNY’s New Prints Program, according to IPCNY’s website. Meanwhile, “Overlapping
Impressions” is a collection of typographic prints made on the Rob Roy Kelly American Wood Type Collection, which was originally used for printing during 19th century America. Since the VAC is used mainly for traveling exhibits, four of the five opening exhibitions will only be on display until March 9, while Lead Pencil Studio’s “Diffuse Reflection Lab” will stay in the VAC until May 11.
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Meet the... Assistant director of the Landmarks Public Art Program by Priyanka Deshpande | photo by Alejandro Silveyra
Longhorn Life: What are your responsibilities? Nisa Mason: My responsibilities include the management of our public art collection, in other words ensuring that all works of art are properly cared for and documented, managing the process of installing new works of art and operations management, or overseeing our education, communications and administrative staff and processes.
LL: What do you do during a typical day? NM: It’s a cliché to say this but there really is no typical day for me. That’s part of what makes my job great. Some days I spend a lot of time on administrative tasks, emailing with various stakeholders in our projects or reviewing contracts or budgets. Other days I spend in meetings or out on campus, checking in on pieces we have in the works. I would say that my one consistent task is problem solving.
LL: What led you to pursue a career in aesthetics management? NM: In many ways my current career as a public art administrator found me. It just seemed to be a very natural combination of my interest in art and the particular ways we interact with the built environment that surrounds us.
LL: What is the most interesting part of your job? NM: One of the most interesting and challenging aspects of my job has been learning how to properly care for a diverse collection of modern and contemporary art, from traditional sculpture to high tech new media pieces. I learn something new every day. It has also been incredibly interesting to watch the entire process of artistic creation in the public realm, from the artist’s initial concept to the completed work of art, and the many transformations that take place along the way.
Nisa Mason
Nisa Mason plays an integral role in managing the various works of art and sculptures that are on display around campus. After earning a bachelor’s degree in urban studies from Brown University, she came to UT to earn her master’s degree in art history, and has worked with the university ever since. Mason offered insight into her job of handling the world-class art, some of which has traveled all the way from the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City.
LL: What is the most interesting sculpture or piece of art on campus? Why? NM: This is a tough question to answer. Perhaps I’m biased because it’s new, and because I had such a strong hand in the making of this piece, but I’d have to say I really love Ben Rubin’s “And That’s The Way It Is.” Every night after sundown the façade of the CMA building comes to life with this projection. It’s not only visually striking, but also fascinating because it meshes together archival news with contemporary headlines and is different every day.
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by Kaci Borowski photo submitted by the Gender and Sexuality Center able to expand its reach; assisting students and faculty The GSC is an active and ever-growing venue, hosting Since its inception in 2004, the Gender and Sexuality with education and awareness regarding LGBTQA and large events like the Lavender Graduation, a ceremony Center has been an important resource for members of gender issues, which can constantly change and evolve. honoring graduating LGBTQ and ally students, and small the university community hoping to learn and discuss events, such as Knowledge and Noms, an informal lunch The education outreach program often visits classrooms to issues regarding gender and sexuality. What began as a enhance the curriculum with information or help address time lecture. small room on the outskirts of campus has grown into a Many campus clubs and organizations have been issues that may come up in classes. busy headquarters for students and faculty alike. Now In addition to education, the center also provides located in the Student Activity Center, the GSC is a friendly born from the space, including Queer Chorus, which was walk-in advising to offer support and and welcoming envito those in need, including ronment that provides “...things really span the gamut, from small to large, formal to informal and personal to resources information on safe-sex practices and women and members communal, hopefully everyone can find a way to engage.” counseling. of the LGBTQA comAs Rosal explains, the center is munity a safe space to an open and receptive place for any member of the UT formed by a group of music-loving students who met at explore issues that are important to them. family looking to broaden their understanding of issues the center. Peers for Pride, a peer facilitation program that Not everything in the GSC is serious business, however. regarding gender and sexuality, as well as those seeking a Throughout the day, students can be found relaxing on the explores the current state of affairs in the LGBT commulike-minded community. nity through monologue and performance, is also based couches, playing board games or stopping by for a quick at the GSC. “What I appreciate about what we’ve been able to put catch-up between classes. together is that things really span the gamut, from small Beyond being a place for community, the GSC is an “People make this their home; they come back and to large, formal to informal and personal to communal,” educational resource. The center’s lending library is forth between classes,” said Ixchel Rosal, the director of Rosal said. “Hopefully everyone can find a way to engage.” the GSC. filled with books on topics ranging from feminist theory, The center also serves as a base for many student masculinity and health, to coming out stories and LGBT fiction, as well as many magazines and DVDs that are organizations, such as the Queer Student Alliance and the available for checkout. Feminist Action Project, providing them with a place to With support from the university, the center has been plan and organize in a relaxed atmosphere.
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