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STATEWIDE community CALENDAR Compiled by Amelia Casamina Cabatu
OAHU January 8-10, 2016 Hawaii Jaycees Year End Convention. Hosted by the Hawaii Kai Jaycees. Friday January 8, 2016 Casino Social, Kakaako Conference Room at the Ward Warehouse, Saturday January 9, 2016 Professional Training Kakaako Conference Room, Buffet Dinner Manoa Grand Ballroom, Sunday January 10, 2016 Board Meeting Kakaako Conference Room Contact Persons: HKJC 2015 President Lance Kajiyamahkjaycees @ gmail.com and Reina Ojiri reina.hkjc@gmail.com or 7693330 January 16, 2016 Filipino Chamber of Commerce of Hawaii Foundation in cooperation with the City & County of Honolulu presents A Taste of Kalihi, A Block Party Kalihi Style 10:00 AM-8:00 PM Dillingham Shopping Plaza 1505 Dillingham Blvd. & Colburn Street. Honolulu, Hi. See what Kalihi has to offer with great live entertainment, games, food booths, business booths, exhibitions & more. Win a round trip to the Philippines! Contact Persons for vendor opportunities & more information, Sam Acosta 808- 306-1428, or visit filipino chamber.org January 23, 2016 Annak Ti Batac International (ATBI) 5th Anniversary & Legacy Awards. Pacific Beach Hotel, Grand Ballroom. 6:00
PM; Contact Persons: Simeon Ortal 422-1667, Trina Pascual 834-2970 January 23, 2016 Philippine Medical Association Of Hawaii (PMAH) 38th Anniversary and Installation of Officers Hilton Hawaiian Village Tapa Ballroom 5:00 PM. $100.00 per person or $900.00 table of ten. Cost to include Buffet Dinner, Entertainment, dancing with the Night Shades Band. Attire: Filipiniana Formal or Black Tie. Contact Info by email to pmahinfo@g mail. com or by calling Phone: 888674-7624 January 24, 2016 Philippine Cultural Foundation of Hawaii Installation & Inaugural of newly elected officers Empress Restaurant 100 N Beretania St. 6:00 PM Cost: $40.00 Contact Persons: Janice Sevilla 595-8000, Lina Longboy 421-7381, Faye Cudal 7837552, Maggie Domingo 7830068, Edith Gudoy 841-2881 January 30, 2016 Gumil Hawaii & AKA will be presenting the Pageants of Miss Gumil Hawaii and Mrs. AKA at August Ahrens School Waipahu; 5:00 pm to 10:00 pm; Contact persons Salvador Obaldo 677-3941, Pacita Saludes 839-8016 and Liliadel Rosario 389-4660 February 6, 2016 Annak Ti Badoc Iti Hawaii Valentine’s Ball and Scholarship
Presentation Ala Moana Hotel Hibiscus Ballroom 6:00PM; Contact Person: Marilyn Tolentino Villar: 678-1482 February 6, 2016 C’est Si Bon Reunion 1 at the C’est Si Bon Room at the Pagoda Restaurant 1525 Rycroft Street Honolulu, HI 6:00 PM12:00 midnight. Cost $25.00 per person. No Host Bar & Food prepared by Pagoda Restaurant will be available for purchase at this event. Featured Bands are: Manila Machine, New Experience, Shining Star. Contact Persons Ben Juan & Freddy Von Paraz 808-561-6079 or email cestsibon reunion@yahoo.com & JonTMedia@gmail.com February 14, 2016 Philippine Nurses Association of Hawaii (PNAH) Valentine’s Dance Fundraiser, Rumours Night Club at the Ala Moana Hotel; 5:00PM-10:00PM. Contact Persons: Ramon Sumibcay 489-7148, Tina Salvador 4266183 February 16-21, 2016 Filipino Chamber of Commerce of Hawaii Official Trade Mission to the Philippines. The delegation will meet with the Philippine Chamber of Commerce to strengthen the business links between Hawaii and the Philippines. Optional extended tour to Cebu available at an additional cost. Contact Persons: Sam Acosta 3061428, Maria Etrata 392-2962
Amelia Casamina Cabatu is a familiar face in the community, often hosting community events and celebrations. She is a veteran radio announcer and guests-hosts on 1270 KNDI Radio. In addition to other affiliations, Amelia is the current Chair of the Philippine Celebration Coordinating Committee of Hawaii. She owns and operates an adult daycare business and is happily married to Arnold Cabatu. They live in Salt Lake and is blessed with one daughter, Armay. Please send your event information to acmina808@gmail.com.
or visit filipinochamber. org. February 20, 2016 Vogue Pygmalion Hawaii presents The Lady In Red Gala with Masks, Hawaii Prince Hotel Maunakea Ballroom 7:00 PM Cost: $70.00. To benefit the special projects of Pygmalion Arts Fund, a 501c3 Company; Contact Person: Leo Gozar 630-6268 March 5, 2016 Alliance of Residential Care Administrators (ARCA) Installation of new Officers 2016 Hale Koa Hotel 6:00 PM Contact Persons: Lilia Fajotina 291-1706 or 676-7399, Evelyn Cacal 676-5756 March 19-21, 2016 SarilingGawa Youth Council holds its 36th Annual Leadership Conference Camp at YMCA Camp Erdman in Mokuleia for high school and college students. Cost: $140.00 per participant. This year’s theme is “Today for Tomorrow” focusing on living in the moment. There will be various activities ranging from energizers, community building, Self-awareness & reflection activities to personal and leadership development of skills. Contact Person: Rouel Velasco at email rouel.velasco @sarilinggawa.org/218-0833. March 25, 2016 Filipino Chamber of Commerce of Hawaii Foundation Annual Scholarship Golf Tournament. Ewa Beach Golf Club 91-050
Ft. Weaver Rd. Ewa Beach, HI. Tournament proceeds fund the Foundation’s Scholarship program. Scholarship recipients will be presented during the chambers Filipino Entrepreneur of the Year & Scholarships Awards gala. Contact Persons: Sam Acosta 306-1428, Eddie Agas 783-3327 April 30, 2016 Hawaii Filipino Women’s Club (HFWC) Annual Terno Ball. Ala Moana Hotel, Hibiscus Ballroom 6:00 PM. Contact Persons: Nelly Pongco Liu 228-7808, Carlota Ader 688-3215 July 16, 2016 Filipino Chamber of Commerce of Hawaii and Foundation Annual Installation Banquet Hilton Hawaiian Village Resorts, Tapa Ballroom 6:00 PM. Contact Persons Bernadette Fajardo 3428090, Sam Acosta 306-1428, Marivic Dar 342-8679 August 27, 2016 Philippine Cultural Foundation of Hawaii Recognition Night honoring the 2016 Parents/ parent of the year, recognizing the 2016 outstanding achievements of graduating high school valedictorians in public and private schools & presentation of the continuing scholar recipients. Empress Restaurant 100 N.Beretania St. 6:00 PM. We are currently searching for the parents/parent of the year who has sacrificed to send their children (3 minimum) to college and/or universities & have attained their professional chosen careers. Contact Persons: Janice Sevilla 595-8000, Lina Longboy 421-7381, Leo Rojas Gozar 630-6268, Edith Gudoy 841-2881, Maggie Domingo 783-0068.
MAUI January 17, 2016 Santo Nino Festival. Sponsored by Santo Nino Club of Maui. Mass at 3:00 PM at Christ the King Church. Celebration at 5:30 PM at Wailuku Community Center. Contact Person: Leizl Oandasan at 808.276.5548. February 13, 2016 Mrs. Maui Filipina. Sponsored by Binhi at Ani. 5:30 PM at Binhi at Ani. Contact Person: Sandra Tokunaga at 808.357.7796.
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What the Sakadas and Miss Universe
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Two events— as disparate as night and day—will be forever linked because they both occurred on the same day: December 20, 2015. One event was local, with historic festivities that focused on the contributions of the sakadas, the humble plantation workers from the Philippines who started to arrive in Hawaii at the turn of the century and paved the way for Filipinos to be woven into the fabric of Hawaii’s colorful ethnic tapestry. For the first time ever, the State celebratedSakada Day in Hawaii— by virtue of a proclamation promulgated by the State Legislature, and properly signed by Governor David Ige a few months ago. The milestone event, attended by politicians, community leaders,a handful of sakadas (most of them in their 80’s and 90’s) and their families, was a poignant occasion which brought tears and sentimental introspection to all who attended. The other event, a global milestone, was the coronation of Miss Philippines Pia Wurtzbach as the Miss Universe 2015. It was the first time in 42 years since the Philippines had won and the joyful announcement was a source of pride and jubilation for Filipinos everywhere. Both milestonesstarted with a DREAM. Pia Wurtzbach was open about the fact that it took her three tries to win the Miss Philippines crown. A child model since she was eleven, Pia was born in Germany but when her parents divorced, her mom brought her back to the Philippines where she was raised. Pia helped her mother support the family throughout her childhood, all the while nursing her dream of someday winning Miss Universe. Pia worked on that dream until it became reality. It
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must have seemed like an impossible dream at that time. Think about it: Most beauty contestants give up after one try at a pageant, preferring to explore other options at that point. But not Pia. She plodded through the second rejection and with the confidence of one who had already learned valuable lessons from earlier experiences, she tossed her name into the ring for the third time, finally emerging a winner. That tenacity is so admirable since it gently reminds us that if we hold on to them long enough, dreams CAN come true. The sakadas too nurtured their dreams when they signed up to work in Hawaii’s sugar plantations. Many of them were farmers and from the working class, and as they looked at the horizon back home, they were likely convinced that a better future laid yonder across the ocean. They left their families, a culture, and everything that is familiar to pursue a dream for a better life for themselves and their progeny. I can only imagine the hardships they had to endure. It must have been arduous work as they labored in the plantation fields, their weary bodies beaten by the harsh sun and the elements. The pay was meager and in the beginning, the living conditions were deplorable. It must have been lonely. Wives, girlfriends, parents
were inaccessible since mail then took months and phone lines were nonexistent. It must have been strange. With the workers coming from various ethnic backgrounds, their workplace was a melting pot of cultural norms, food and ethnic practices all blending together. It must have been confusing, not to mention challenging, to learn a new tongue— English—and be expected to communicate using this new language,knowing their fortunes depended on it. But the sakadas held on to their dreams. They could not be deprived of their rightful place in the sun. With so much at stake, the sakadasbore their burdens despite the adversities. They did not give up. They stayed. They decided to call Hawaii, home. The Filipinos in Hawaii owe a lot to those sakadas who have paved the way. Pia too was no stranger to adversities. Failure was not in her vocabulary. But you have to give the girl credit: her birth circumstances, her family’s economic hardships and her pageant blues, were but mere fodder for a greater resolve. It is this grace under pressure that she displayed, and continues to display amidst the controversy that swirled around her as she was crowned Miss Universe. You can see it in her eyes: She has the steely determination to ensure
that despite any drama, she will have a great year. Sakadas and the new Miss Universe, such a strange juxtaposition, yet so appropriate, in teaching us the lessons about dreams. As one song goes: “yes, it all begins with a dream…we travel on though we may not be sure where life will lead us.” In this issue of the Fil-Am Courier, we offer a cover story about dreams as well—that of young, second or third-generation Filipinos nurturing the dream to visit the land of their ancestors in a program called Filgrimage, a national effort sponsored by several Philippines agencies. Many of the next generations are still going through their own inner struggles to find their place in our community, many still trying to find balance between being Filipino and being American. There is a sense that visiting the Philippines would be a significant step to helping them find their touchstone to their identity. One such example of a Filipino-American who is trying to navigate his journey of self-discovery is our cover story subject Jeff Orig, who also happens to be a part of the Courier Editorial team. Jeff is a successful business owner of his ownmultimedia company, OrigMedia, and he shares the story of his journey towards acceptance, integration and now, a passion to help other Filipino-Americans of his generation discover their (Filipino) soul and in so doing, find their voice. As we celebrate the coming of a new year, we wish you, our readers, theblessings of a new day. May we never forget the power of dreams.
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By Bennette Espineli Misalucha
Managing Editor, Fil-am Courier
Our cover....
The beautiful and poignant picture was taken at the Philippine Airlines counter at the Honolulu International Airport with our cover story subject Jeff Orig. Jeff has been an integral part of organizing the Hawaii portion of the first Filgrimage project, which is a national effort designed to bring second and third generation FilipinoAmericans to the Philippines. Photo and Graphic Design by the talented Noah Felipe. Both Jeff and Noah can be reached at OrigMedia at (808) 447-9559 or email: Team@ origmedia.com
Jeff and Ken Natividad after the Bayanihan Gala this year
Filgrimage 2016:
A Sentimental Journey When Jeff Orig, a second generation FilipinoAmerican, first heard about the Filgrimage project, his heart skipped a beat. He knew the value of traveling to the Philippines to connect with the ancestral roots. He himself has been blessed by the many gifts emanating from a Philippine experience. But it has been decades since he had gone back. And more than anything, he wanted that same experience for others. “When I heard about it, I contacted one of the organizers, Tony Olaes, and I told him, I want to be a part of it!,” said Orig. A successful business owner of his own multimedia company, Orig, who is in his early 30s, has lived in Hawaii for more than
thirteen years and it was here that his love for his culture blossomed. Amidst this veritable melting pot which counts Filipinos as the largest ethnic group, Orig said he found a wonderful environment that allowed him to fully embrace his cultural identity. “Here’s a wonderful example of how our Filipino culture is so integrated in Hawaii…I was talking to a non-Filipino friend of mine, and he said, “Hala,”—I asked him whether he knew what that meant. And he did…I was tickled pink that our words have found its way into the local verbiage. I love it!” Orig declares. It’s a far cry from his early childhood days in Chicago where, although he came from a loving home
with two other siblings, he felt disenfranchised and disconnected from his roots. “We lived in a mostly white neighborhood, mostly Catholics, and there were only two Filipino-American families in the entire school. The other kid was in the same grade, and also happened to be named “Jeff”, so I had an identity crisis all throughout elementary. I kept trying to be different from the other Filipino kid!” he laughs at the recollection. “My parents tried to teach my older sister, Tagalog, but when she started school, she got confused. So when I was born, they decided that we should speak only English at home.” Orig said his parents wanted them to speak well so he remembers his father
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A young Jeff Orig
drilling him by asking him to stand up and to read aloud to him. “The funny thing was I only realized recently that my dad had an accent.” He said he understood that his family was different: “Remember that Chicago was the most segregated city. Back then, you hanged out with your own kind. I’m sure things have changed since.” He admitted that he got into scuffles, now and then, usually when the Caucasian kids would tease him about his physical features. “I’d get super-mad, and I just wanted to defend who I am!” Despite being smart, Orig admitted that he tried to dumb down so as not to draw attention to himself: “Being smart did not have cache. Asian kids were expected to have good grades, and doing well was the norm. I was adamant. I did not want to fit the stereotype, so I held myself back on purpose.” He was ten years old when he went to the
Jeff and Lisa Orig on their wedding day in Hawaii
Philippines for the first time. He stayed for a month and played mostly with his cousins.”I remember my grandpa made us a slingshot. I still have it actually,” he recalled. His mom brought him to the Philippines again nine years later. The trip was a turning point in his life. Orig was in college and by then, was a little more mature and appreciative of the opportunity to connect. “It was just me and my mom, and we travelled for three weeks to Manila and the Visayas.”(Editor’s note: Orig’s mom, Jean Orig of Siquijor, just passed away on Christmas day). “For the first time, I felt stirrings of my ethnic identity calling to me. For the first time in my life, I connected with the Philippines. I looked at their
faces, and they looked like me. We shared so many things in common—from our values, to the practice of removing our shoes upon entering the home, to the food we ate. “It was also then that I realized the limitations I have. I may be part of them but I could not speak the local language. I felt I wanted more.” It was in 2003 when Jeff first came to visit his
With his parents, Carlito and Jean Orig
relatives in Hawaii. “As soon as I got off the plane, as I walked through the open air, I saw a rainbow. For me, it was such a poignant moment. From that point on, I knew Hawaii will always be home. I never left.” The latent feelings about his cultural identity bubbled to the surface when he attended the Fil-Am Youth
Summit in 2014 and met other Filipino-Americans who apparently were going through the same heartfelt journeys. “My take away from that summit was that we have to share our stories! The responsibility lies in us to bring others to the fold. Hopefully, by sharing our stories, we can build
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ABOUT FILGRIMAGE (from Filgrimage.com) February 21-25, 2016 The Filgrimage is a fun, inspirational, and educational immersion trip to the Philippines that reconnects Filipino Americans with their rich and proud heritage. This 5-day journey aims to bridge the gap between the Philippines and Filipino communities in the United States, and provide Filipinos an opportunity to reconnect with their roots and strengthen their sense of identity.This transformational experience is a partnership between the Philippine Department of Tourism, Tourism Promotions Board, Philippine Airlines, the people of the Philippines, and the Filipino diaspora in the United States. With the Hawaii Filipino Jaycees at one of their meetings
Orig when he won the Outstanding Young Filipino Entrepreneur of the Year in 2013
more connections—to the country, to others, with ourselves.” Orig sees Filgrimage as an excellent tool to capture the second or third generation Filipinos who are continuing to struggle to integrate their heritage into their mainstream lives. “Let’s just be honest. There are still others who are ashamed to be Filipino. Maybe they are embarrassed that some of our people are working class and are hotel workers, or janitors or cleaning ladies. So what? There is dignity of labor. Think about it: they are working so hard to give their kids a better life. That’s something to be proud of!”
Sunday, February 21 Filgrims arrive, register and network at our centralized conference venue for orientation and an evening reception to officially welcome them to the Philippines as Filipinos coming back to their motherland. The program will include a series of cultural performances, video presentations, and short talks from leaders of government, business, media and the arts to provide a snapshot of current challenges and development in their respective fields.
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“Our story—the Filipino story in Hawaii—is a story of personal sacrifice. I feel so proud that we have this strong work ethic which is reflected in our people working two or three jobs to support their families. If their kids are disconnected to their culture, I suggest the parents send their children to the Philippines. I bet if they experience the culture, if they meet the
people, if they witness the beauty, the children will open up.Then FILGRIMAGE IS THE ANSWER.” Orig becomes earnest as he explains the end goal: “We need to work toward unity. When we are at our best, we embody the spirit of “Bayanihan”. And since in Hawaii, we have the Aloha Spirit…if we combine “Bayanihan” and “Aloha”, what a powerful concept.”
Bennette Espineli Misalucha is the Fil-Am Courier’s Managing Editor. She has been affiliated with the Courier since 1987 as a contributing writer and as Managing Editor since April 2013. She started her career as a journalist, and was a reporter/producer both in Hawaii (at KHON Channel 2 News) and in Cebu, Philippines.
Monday, February 22 Exploring Metro Manila’s cultural and business districts, Filgrims will receive a historical overview of how the nation was formed, and experience the Philippines of today. Local historians will guide the group on a tour through Intramuros and Rizal Park to learn about the heroism of Jose Rizal and the movement he inspired to liberate the Philippines from Spanish rule. The day will conclude in Makati City, which is the business and finance center of Metro Manila. In the evening after dinner, there will be small breakout sessions for the Filgrims to discuss their discoveries about the story of the Philippines. Tuesday, February 23 The third day of the immersion will introduce our Filgrims to the contrasting realities of the Philippines as illustrated in the city of Taguig: behind the business centers, high end fashion, and nightlife of Bonifacio Global City (BGC), the persistent issue poverty will be experience first-hand through a visit of the slum areas and interaction with its settlers. The group will then be brought to a Gawad Kalinga village, which has become a model of community development in addressing the challenge of poverty. We will have the opportunity to witness the lives changed by social enterprises like Comet GET, and meet the jeepney drivers. The trip continues to Cavite where Filgrims will volunteer to build homes for Gawad Kalinga beneficiaries. The day will end in Tagaytay. Wednesday, February 24 The fourth day will allow the Filgrims to travel more by land to Batangas to visit a coffee farm and a fishing village, and witness first-hand the lives of rural folks who have been the backbone of rural development. Filgrims will learn about the history and challenges of these industries, and connect with the very people that keep these industries moving. Filgrims will spend an evening at a resort beach in the Batangas to be enveloped by the natural beauty of our seas and skies as a respite from the busy days of immersing. Thursday, February 25 Filgrims continues to enjoy the sand and surf of Pico de Loro (Batangas) in the morning. The group will head back to Manila after lunch for a closing reception at the hotel. As the entire Filipino nation observes the 30th anniversary of the EDSA People Power Revolution, Filgrims will gather under one roof for an evening of reflection and celebration. A highlight film showcasing the Filgrims journey and experience over the last five days will be presented. Just as the EDSA People Power Revolution serves as an inspiration to Filipinos everywhere as a nation and as a people, the closing reception will be an important milestone marking the beginning of the Filgrims new identity as part of one Filipino Family.
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PERSONAL JOURNEYS
Compiled by Radiant Cordero
to connect with (Filipino) roots
Growing up with the Fil-Am Courier as a major influence in my life, I feel fortunate to be steeped in Philippine culture. I first visited the Philippine sat a very young age and have since returned multiple times, with colleagues and friends in tow. As a result, I consider being involved in the Filipino community as the norm. But, I must admit to sometimes experiencing an (ethnic) identity crisis: whenever I visited the Philippines, it seemed I was not Pinay enough. Yet, in Hawaii, I feel I am not totally American either since I
am the Filipino “on steroids” with experiences no one could relate to. I share this feeling with other Filipino-Americans across the country. For many of them, they have come to realize there is an element missing in their lives: a personal connection to a country that runs much deeper than the food, history, and scenery. This personal connection is different for every person – but it is certainly rooted in their’s family heritage. It is the place they all long to visit because it whispers their family origins: the Philippines. Here are their stories:
Camille Cabalo Clinical Credentialing Assistant Master’s of Business Administration Candidate
knowledge about my family, my history, and my people. I made an effort to learn, at least contextually, the language by watching hours upon hours of Filipino soap operas at night. I attempted to eat Filipino dishes I was not familiar with, and I went to pay respect to more elders I had no idea that existed. Facebook has allowed us to stay in touch with my relatives in the Philippines. Despite the connections - I still feel compelled to participate in a Filgrimage. I am determined to visit every few years so I can view the land, the culture, and the people through eyes that have also grown, changed, and matured. It’s important that I go back and hold onto the tangible ties that lead me back there: to hug and kiss my family members, to eat the food and sing their songs. It is important to connect and reconnect in a way that technology simply cannot provide.
While growing up, I always felt divorced from my motherland and my mother tongue. My family was the only Filipino family in a predominantly affluent white/ Japanese neighborhood and I was raised by a father who did not know the language and a mother who did not teach me. I was 10 when I traveled to the Philippines for the first time. I barely remember the trip, though I do remember exploring and experiencing the Philippines as if it were a foreign and alien planet. It was both overwhelming and stunning for me to realize that I have generations of family in a land I knew nothing about. I went back when I was 18, to be a part of my cousin’s wedding. This time, I had a greater awareness and a thirst for
Cassandra Joy Ecraela UH Manoa Undergraduate Student Majors: Human Resources Management, International Business, and Management Minor: Philippine Language and Culture Like many Fil-Ams, I struggled with my cultural identity and spent most of my childhood distancing myself from my ancestral heritage. I viewed the country as just some place we would send money and gifts to. I had no connection or sentiment towards it. This all changed when I began taking Filipino language and culture classes. Looking back, this marked my cultural awakening. I was fortunate to have so many inspiring mentors and peers to guide
Jumar Pantoca BA Digital Art and Minor in Philippine Language and Culture from the University of Hawaii at Manoa I’m a recent graduate of the University of Hawaii at Manoa where I majored in Digital Art and minored in Philippine Lan-
me along my journey. If it wasn’t for them, I may not have ever visited the Philippines. In Fall 2015, I was very fortunate to have been chosen to study abroad at the Ateneo de Manila University in Quezon City, Philippines. I was in a cohort with five other UH Manoa students and we all had different majors and reasons for studying abroad. For me, it was so much more than just studying and living in a foreign country; it was a chance to get to know the land of my ancestors. Although it was a once-in-a-lifetime experience, it wasn’t always fun and games. There were so many times that I felt homesick and wished I could just fly back to Hawaii. However, through all the challenges, the experience truly enriched me. Part of me went to the Philippines looking for answers, but I left with even more questions. I learned that my cultural heritage wasn’t something I could just take a few classes on. It was something I had to experience for myself. Being Filipino is different for everyone and it was up to me to discover my own meaning. In many ways, studying there allowed me to get to know myself better. Someday, I hope to go back with my family, to show them the Philippines through my own set of eyes.
guage and Culture. When the opportunity to study abroad in the Philippines opened up, I felt that it was the perfect opportunity to experience my parents’ homeland. It was also a way to further my education of the Filipino language and gain a deeper understanding of my family’s culture. As an art major, I was really interested in learning about Philippine Art History and wanted to expand my knowledge on the different art styles and trends. Exploring the artistic aspects of Philippine culture helped me to grow both as an artist and as a Fil-Am. Throughout my semester at Ateneo De Manila University, I embraced the new environment and way of learning. Although I was taken out of my comfort zone and faced many challenges, I was determined to keep an open mind. I think it’s important, especially as a young Fil-Am, to take an opportunity to explore new depths of one’s cultural identity. If I could say one thing to my fellow Fil-Ams, it’s never too late to take a chance and discover your Filipino roots.
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Janine San Juan Service Desk Clerk at the University of California, San Francisco I remember going to the Philippines yearly when I was younger, usually for weddings or Holy Week. Every time we went, it was always a celebration. There was never a dull moment and we were treated so well. There was always food and company at my grandparents’ house and they would always host group prayers before and during the Holy Week. They also owned a huge float of Mama Mary and Jesus depicting one of the Stations of the
Jeffrey Ryan Calaro MBA/Nursing Student in Las Vegas, NV As a Filipino-American born in the Unites States, I have had several opportunities to visit the Philippines. My parents are both immigrants from Luzon, who came to America via their parents to seek better opportunities. My mother is from Binalonan, Pangasinan and my father from Sarrat, Ilocos Norte.
Darren Sana BA Photography & BA Philippine Language and Literature, University of Hawaii at Manoa As a Filipino-American, I made it a point to be aware of my roots. Growing up, I always felt I did not belong. Later on, I realized that being a product of the Philippines and America is something unique. Knowing and learning about our roots is the most fulfilling experience you can do for yourself. There were two instances when I visited the Philippines. First when I was 18 and the most recent when I was 27. It was interesting to find that those two experiences contrasted so much. When I was 18, my experience in the Philippines wasn’t (for lack of a better term) pleasing. When I look back at the experience, I concluded that I was naïve, uninterested and never gave the Philippines a chance to “wow” me. I spent most of my days on the internet reaching back to my friends at home in Hawaii because I did not want to
Cross. At that time, I felt the trips were more for my mom and my grandparents. I knew they went back to reconnect with family, to bond with old friends, and commemorate traditional religious practices during Easter. Part of the fun for them was seeing old faces, catching up and telling the same jokes they told when they were younger. While the adults talked, my brother and I would play with our cousins and follow their rules. Of course, going to the Philippines meant seeing the poverty around us; so my brother and I tried to blend in, and we had fun running with no shoes on, playing on dirt roads, and riding on tricyles and jeepneys. There was never any time for pitying others back in the motherland. My mom and grandparents had left for San Francisco when my mom was 13. My brother and I were born in the US. We were brought up in a heavily traditional Filipino home. I feel the trips back to the motherland were never intended to teach my brother and I anything but it ended up being everything for me now. It’s great to understand where your family comes from.
Growing up, my parents ensured that my sister and I grow up with Filipino values and traditions. It was constantly ingrained in us. I spoke Ilokano since it was the best way to communicate with my grandparents. The Filipino channel was always on, which allowed me to learn the Tagalog language. I also took Filipino language courses in college to become more fluent. Through the multiple times I’ve been to the Philippines, I continue to learn new things. I have gained more appreciation towards the Filipino culture through my experiences. I believe it is very important to visit the Philippines as much as we can. It brings our families together and it keeps our emotional bonds tight. Living thousands of miles away from immediate family can be stressful and worrisome so visits are always important. Unfortunately, my last visit to the Philippines was over 10 years ago due to school constraints, work scheduling, and personal reasons.
be there. It wasn’t until the end of that trip where I realized the hardships the country faces. I was on my way to the airport in the taxi, in the heat of July in Manila. We were stuck in traffic and I was angry at the fact that we didn’t have a functioning AC in the car. Then, this little girl no older than 8 years of age came up to the car and simply put out her hands. As I looked into her eyes, I had a sudden realization that she probably wasn’t begging for something for herself but maybe her younger brother and the rest of her family as well. Emotions hit me like a truck and I had an overwhelming sadness take over me. It was such a shock. I’ve lived a sheltered life up until this point. Living in the comfort of my small town in Lahaina, Maui, I have never experienced anything like this first hand. Fast forward nearly a decade later I’m finished with my bachelor’s degrees and fulfilled my goals to graduate college. In the Filipino program in college, I grew to appreciate my Filipino roots. Due to the unfortunate circumstance of my Grandmother’s death, I visited the Philippines once more. This time it was different, I sought to try different foods, went and visited many different places, and gave myself a chance to appreciate all the intricate details the Philippines can offer. I found that the culture was rich with a deep history. And at the end of my trip I found myself wishing that my short vacation was longer. There was so much I still wanted to see and experience. I would definitely want to go back someday; sooner rather than later.
Victor Vidal Agent, San Francisco Bay Area Rapid Transit District As a third generation Filipino-American, I was not exposed to a lot of Filipino culture in my household. My parents and grandparents communicated to me in English; I was primarily fed American food, and I attended schools that did not have a lot of other Filipino-American students. Most surprisingly, I have never been to the
Bradley Taguinod Tuition Coordinator at Hawaii Medical College I have had the opportunity to travel to the Philippines three times during my lifetime and each visit was a different experience. In 1996, I travelled to the Philippines for the first time and I was to meet my parent’s brothers and sisters. I was six years old in a strange environment, so you can imagine the extreme culture shock. We lived as my parents once did: we stayed in a farm with no electricity, no bathrooms, and no working showers. I hated it. But I did learn on this trip that you don’t need material things to be happy. The bond that you create with the people around you will get you through life. My relatives were happy although they didn’t have a tv or a Nintendo Gameboy.
Philippines, and do not know of any direct relatives residing in the Philippines. I was not heavily exposed to the Filipino culture until I enrolled in several courses at the University of Hawaii at Manoa Philippine Language and Literature Program. This was the first time that I had the opportunity to get introduced to the Filipino language, as well as learn about the culture of the Philippines and its historical background. This was an extremely enlightening experience for me. I would love to go to the Philippines and learn more about my culture and my ancestry. I even have a job that would allow me to travel abroad for a significant amount of time. The reason why I haven’t travelled to the Philippines yet is because I am intimidated by the whole idea. I don’t know who I would go there with, what I would do when I get there, and how to make the experience as enjoyable as possible.
In 2000, we returned to the Philippines. This time, it felt different. We returned to my grandfather’s place and we got to enjoy amenities like a sturdy roof versus a nipa-hut roof, running water, and a door that locks. It amazed me how far my family has come: here they were as kids walking miles just to get to school and I was complaining about the cereal I ate. The last time I went to the Philippines was in 2008. Instead of focusing on the uncomfortable environment, I chose to concentrate on family. I wanted to know where I came from culturally. I wanted to understand them. That trip was an eye opening experience. It made me realize that I didn’t know who I was culturally. Since then, I have not gone back. Would I go back? Yes. I still regret not being able to absorb the culture more. I do regret not taking the opportunity to know my own cousins. I want the opportunity to show to my family in the Philippines that life there and life here is exactly the same and that they don’t need to live the “American Dream” to be happy.
Radiant Cordero is an Assistant Editor at the Fil-Am Courier. She was awarded by the United Filipino Council of Hawaii as an “Outstanding Youth” and by the JCI Filipino Junior Chamber as a “Top Outstanding Young Filipino.” She graduated with honors from the University of Hawai‘i at Manoa with a B.A. in Political Science and B.A. in American Studies in May 2012. She is now a Master’s candidate in the Public Administration Program at UH Manoa. Cordero works as a Senior Advisor at the Honolulu City Council.
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By Daniel B. Eisen, PhD Pacific University
Being disconnected from the Philippines and Filipino culture often sets the stage for the development of a colonial mentality in secondgeneration individuals. While the individual is often blamed for allowing this disconnect to persist, this distancing from the Philippines and Filipino culture is facilitated by many social factors. Fo r e x a m p l e , r e s e a r c h has shown that all of the following lead one away from a Filipino identity: (a) the dearth of FilipinoAmerican representation in schools (e.g., textbooks, celebrations, and class offerings), (b) the media’s oversaturation with images of Filipinos, both in the United States and in the Philippines, as struggling l a b o r e r s , ( c ) H a w a i i ’s practice of ethnic humor, which disproportionately mocks Filipinos, and (d) parents who want “the best for their children” encouraging young Filipinos to leave Filipino culture and language to achieve success. These external forces create a complex web that secondgeneration individuals must navigate while attempting to understand their ethnic heritage. Often individuals attempt to avoid this complex web of issues by simply rejecting their Filipino heritage. This makes strategic sense and aligns with the question posed by scholar Linda Revilla: “who wants to be part of a group that others [constantly] make fun of?” A participant in my doctoral research clearly demonstrated this distancing processin her discussions of travel. At the time of the interview she had visited parts of the United States, India, and Japan and had aspirations to visit Australia, England, but stated that she had “never been interested in visiting the Philippines.” Her lack of interest stems from the societal denigration of Filipinos and left her
“feel[ing] ashamed that I don’t know anything about [the Philippines].” For many individuals travelling, especially to the Philippines, can serve as a pathway to developing a Filipino identity. This does not simply occur because one becomes connected to the “homeland;” instead this experience often forces one to recognize the limitations of popular depictions of Filipinos. The individual is forced to see the complexity and dynamic nature of the Philippines, Filipino culture, and Filipinos. Ultimately, one begins to realize that the Filipino life, just like life in the United States, cannot be accurately characterized by a simple stereotype of an entire group of people. It is this realization that helps one understand that there is wide diversity in what it
means to be Filipino. It is important to note that not everyone has the means to travel to the Philippines for this experience. This does not preclude those who cannot afford to travel from having these identity altering experiences. It is important for those that have visited the Philippines, as well as those that have lived in the Philippines, to share their experiences with others. The sharing of these stories can work to dismantle the one-dimensional picture of Filipinos that works t o d e n i g ra t e F i l i p i n o s . Storytelling has the power to connect individuals across time and space and allows those who cannot afford to travel to the Philippines to have a similar experience with questioning popular depictions and stereotypes of Filipinos.
Ethnic identity scholars identify exploration of one’s ethnic heritage as a key factor in developing a secure ethnic identity. Through travel, the recounting of these experiences through storytelling, and a willingness to listen to these stories, the current conceptualizations of “Filipino” become more complex. This complexity provides more access points for younger individuals to choose to explore a Filipino
identity, as “Filipino” become more than “a group others [constantly] make fun of.” Ultimately, the destruction of a one-dimensional image o f F i l i p i n o e n c o u ra g e s individual to explore Filipino culture, locate themselves within the wide variety of Filipinos, and develop a secure Filipino ethnic identity by developing a very personalized understanding of what it means to be Filipino.
Dr. Daniel Eisen grew up in Ewa Beach and graduated from Campbell High School before attending Pacific University, Oregon to earn his BA in Sociology. After living in Oregon for four years, he returned to Hawaii to earn his PhD in Sociology from the University of Hawaii at Manoa, where his doctoral work examined young adults’ development of a Filipino ethnic identity in Hawaii. Daniel Eisen is currently an Assistant Professor of Sociology and Assistant Dean of Strategic Initiatives at Pacific University in Forest Grove, Oregon.
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By brandon elefante Council Member City and County of Honolulu
This first year in office serving as your elected Councilmember has been an honor and a privilege. As 2015 ends, I wanted to share some photos with outstanding citizens from our community and recent events. Enjoy!
Councilmember Elefante joined Mayor Kirk Caldwell, Fire Chief Manny Neves, and members of the Honolulu Fire Department for the signing of the Fire Code. Councilmember Elefante and the Honolulu City Council Honor the Pearl City Lions on their fiftieth anniversary. Pictured with the nine Honolulu City Councilmembers are left to right: Nadine Nishioka, Chris Tamura, Curtis Lee, Alice Kudo, Ira Tagawa, and Paul Kudo.
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The theme for this year’s Honolulu City Council tree at Honolulu Hale was Mickey Mouse. After topping our tree, I sat between Mickey (aka my secretary, Jan Salcedo) and Minnie (aka Radiant Cordero, Senior Advisor to Councilmember Joey Manahan and a frequent contributor and Assistant Editor of the Fil-Am Courier). Councilmember Elefante attended the Christmas Program at the St. Joseph’s Church in Waipahu. Pictured above,left to right, are: Councilmember Brandon Elefante; Fr. Efren Tomas, Pastor of St. Joseph Church in Waipahu; Councilmember Ron Menor; and Dr. Mike Rockers, Catholic School Superintendent.
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Compiled by Radiant Cordero
What is your reaction to the Miss Universe fiasco?
I am very excited and happy for Miss Universe 2015, Pia Alonzo Wurtzbach. While the circumstances of her crowning was an unfortunate mix-up, the way she handled herself in that moment and thereafter is evident that she truly represents what we should all strive to be, humble and kind. The Miss Universe Pageant is a congregation of some of the world’s most accomplished and driven women and I believe she not only embodies the power that women possess but the essence of what simply being a human is. I wish her the best in her reign as Miss Universe 2015 as this platform gives her the opportunity to reach beyond other organizations’ means to do many impactful things for people around the world.
Sheila Marie Cadiz Teller, Bank of Hawaii
Congratulations to Miss Philippines and now 2015 Miss Universe on your well deserved win! We are extremely proud of your beauty, grace, and composure throughout the competition. Go forward and make us proud! Do your thing, Girl, like a boss!
Chelsie Barrett-Narito Emergency Small Veterinarian
For me, the most dramatic moment was not when Steve Harvey erred on reading the final results card, but instead, when Miss Philippines was asked whether the United States should have a military presence in the Philippines. Pia’s answer was that of a contestant trying to win a competition. Whether or not she holds the majority opinion in this issue or reflects the sentiment of the times, her voice, nonetheless, was heard and can potentially hold sway. What she says matters because the issue goes beyond the Pageant political machine of winning the crown. At Miss Universe 2015, we saw a contestant chasing her dreams, while grappling with the problems of her beloved nation. A true drama indeed.
Paul Martin Student, University of Hawaii at Manoa
I think my reaction was that this was all such an unfortunate and embarrassing mishap. I’m excited the Philippines is getting notoriety, and I am excited for her win. That said, let’s not pretend beauty contests don’t still hold women to mostly white, western ideas of beauty. I don’t blame the women who participate-they work hard. But the fact that, for example, this is the first year a woman with dreadlocks competed says something.
Christina Torres Teacher, University Laboratory School
It was an honest mistake. It was super awkward and really embarrassing for Steve Harvey, but I don’t think behaving in a mob-like fashion online will do much good. The main focus is supposed to be on the wonderful women on stage, not him. It sucks that they have worked so hard to be up there and all we talk about it is Harvey’s big “flub”. Both contestants were excellent representatives of their country. I’m glad that Philippines won, but I am more interested in what she will do with her newfound position as Miss Universe. All I ask is that whoever wins use the platform to make a positive impact in the world.
Inah Golez Lab Technician
Congratulations, Miss Universe! Finally, after 42 years, another beautiful Filipina will have the pleasure of being an influential ambassador for all young girls around the world.
Sharon Lum Student, University of Hawaii at Manoa
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By Nancy Bernal
Al Waterson
Glenn Medeiros
Left to right: Yasmin Dar, Denby Dung with Stitch and Shaiyanne Dar
Happy New Year! Take time to write down your intentions for 2016 for yourself and add in what you can do to help others. Always express appreciation to the ones that helped you
on your journey through life; don’t take them for granted. Be thankful for your health and the simple things in life that often mean the most. “Thank you” are two powerful words,
Martin Nievera
and when expressed with feeling can mean the world to people. •••• Here are New Year’s Resolutions from some highprofile Celebrities. •••• Martin Nievera (Internationally and Nationally Acclaimed Entertainer) – “In 2016, I will do whatever I can to inspire nations and instill hope and happiness to all those who need it. In other words, I will sing louder.” •••• S h e r y n Re g i s (Internationally and Nationally Acclaimed Singer) – “Life is hard sometimes, but for the year 2016… I will break my bad habit of not
Michael Paulo and Rene Paulo at Paulo Family Christmas Concert
sleeping early. Live healthy. Embrace all the challenges in life and to not expect too much from anything that can happen in my life.” •••• Jordan Segundo (Professional Singer, Actor and On-Camera Host) – “For 2016 I would like to make the most of every opportunity and to express more gratitude and appreciation for all things in my life and the people who mean the most to me.” •••• Ya s m i n D a r ( N e w s Anchor, Actress, Model, and Co-Owner of Dolkii Clothing) – “My goal is to physically write in a planner again! I’ve already started prepping with fun stationary and a polaroid camera. I can’t wait to begin putting my goals, schedule and little memories with my kids in my 2016 planner!” •••• Denby Dung (Host of The Pet Hui Television Show) – “I want to create more music and continue helping Hawaii’s homeless animals find a forever home. I also hope to travel and make precious memories with my loved ones, because quality time together is what truly matters most.” •••• Glenn Medeiros (Head of School at St Louis and Entertainer) – “I would like to eat less, pray more and stay focused on recognizing God’s love in each and every
person I encounter.” •••• Al Waterson (Professional Singer, Emcee and Actor) – “I would like to spend more quality time with my wife enjoying life.” •••• If you are looking for something fun to do in January, check out the next Smooth Jazz Concert on January 30 at 8 p.m. at The Hawaii Convention Center featuring Veteran Saxman Richard Elliott with his high energy band from the mainland. Tickets are available at TIX.com Michael Paulo presents this fantastic show and his resolution is to continue to bring the nation’s top jazz artists from around the world to Hawaii for special concerts. •••• I n D e c e m b e r, T h e m e m b e r s o f T h e Pa u l o Family shared their musical talent in a successful soldout concert at Medici’s featuring legendary pianist – Rene Paulo. This family truly knows the meaning of sharing their love. •••• For now, That’s Entertainment! Thank you for all of your support and especially for your friendship! (If you would like to submit entertainment information, please contact Nancy Bernal at 947-5736 or e-mail her at NancyBernal@ aol.com)
Sheryn Regis and Jordan Segundo
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By PERFECTO YASAY, JR.
We customarily herald the New Year with our resolutions. However, as we try to venture into new beginnings, we always find ourselves chained to the past enabling us to repeat old habits. But how can we sustain and fulfil our promises and commitments to make change a reality? Jesus Christ gave us the answer to this perplexing question more than 2,000 years ago, in Matthew Chapter 9 verse 17. “Neither do men pour new wine into old wineskins. If they do, the skins will burst, the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. No, they pour new wine into new wineskins, and both are preserved”. This biblical passage was the response Jesus gave to the Pharisees who had become too rigid to accept Him and contain his teachings in their antiquated practices and strict interpretation of religious rules. And yet, this instructive parable continues to reverberate with profound meaning to our lives in the 21st Century.
In ancient times, grapes were crushed by treading usually by foot to obtain their juices that were stored in large earthenware jars and buried under the floors of barns for several weeks. Thereafter, they were poured into new wineskins to further ferment and age. Both new wine and new wineskins have a dynamic relationship with each other. This valuable interaction permits the budding wine to develop properly. It brings out the essence of the wine, giving it quality and taste. The aging process so that grape juice is transformed into enduring good wine is oftentimes missed by most of us. It is a craft, elevated to the level of art, where active waiting is a virtue; where a period spent for hope has a purpose; where the
promise of fine tasting wine is fulfilled only after years of expectancy. If this practice is not followed, the wine turns sour and becomes tart vinegar. All these mellowing and maturing process takes place in the new and sturdy wineskins. Old and worn-out wineskins cannot do the job. They rupture when corrosive elements in the juices stir up during fermentation and spill valuable wine. These profound words continue to apply to our lives as we grapple and address various concerns and issues affecting our communities and nation as a whole. They remain useful as we continue to work on and address newfangled ideas and concepts that attract and captivate younger people of our time. Allow me to compare my
generation of “baby boomers” as the new wine of the era for which our communities were not ready to transform into the desired scent, essence and character. In the sixties, we were seeking new structures and new regimes that recognized the innate dignity of the human being. We were fighting for freedom that makes being human purposeful. We opposed war a means of settling differences, fully aware that the price of conquest entails needless sacrifice of countless innocent lives and massive destruction of property. We rejected the idea of development measured only in terms of gross national product. We declared that real development is human development. However, this new wine – so full of potential were
poured into old mindsets and worn out biases. Thus, they were summarily dismissed as radical activists and trouble makers and the old wineskins that contained them burst and much of the new wine spilled and wasted. Are we ready as wineskins to receive the emergent wine represented by the new generation of millenials? Are we setting aside our prejudices to receive their new ideas, vision and dreams? Are we prepared to accept and nurture them in our sturdy structures so that their desired essence and character can be developed to full maturity? Are we in a state of readiness to create a dynamic interaction between the wisdom of the old and the exuberance the young? One final point must not be missed. The resolutions that we make for 2016 are in a deeper sense the budding wine that must be poured into fresh wineskins of new p a ra d i g m s a n d p o s i t i v e attitudes. Then, perhaps, for a change and with God’s grace, we will keep them. Happy New Year to all!
After successfully practicing law in the Philippines and the United States, “Jun” served as Chairman of the Philippine Securities and Exchange Commission under President Fidel V. Ramos. He is currently Chairman of the Board of the Philippine Christian University in Manila, and a member of the Board of Governors of the Filipino Community Center. Yasay, along with his wife Cecile and daughter Stephanie, is a resident of Honolulu.
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Happy New by Dr. Rickie Camara
It is a new year, but it is the same bad news when you read the papers and watch the content on TV and social media nowadays. And bad news, dear reader, is bad for your health.
So as we start this year, commit yourself to a lifestyle that does no harm to you. There are many ways to live a harmless life, and staying away from negativity and the bad news bears is highest among them. In a part of our brain, deep in the limbic system, is the amygdala whose job is to be an early warning system alerting us of any immediate danger in the environment. It served us well in that evolutionary stage when we were hunters and gatherers and needed to know if there was a saber-toothed tiger in the bush or other dangers lurking. This part of the brain is wired to pick up survival and negative cues and it why we sap up all the negative stories in our newsfeeds. And because we drink it up, content providers dish up more. No wonder that most of the news is filled with war, disasters, disease, corruption, incompetence and other distressing stories! Alas, for every seventeen negative news reports, there is only one good news report. Possibly because of this survival remnant in our brains, studies have shown that we have a “negativity bias” which makes us hungry to hear and remember bad news. In laboratory experiments, people respond quicker to words like “cancer”, “bomb”, or “war” than to works like “baby”, “smile” or “fun.” And if we have a negative view of the world, we are more likely to cue in to information that confirms this bias. And even worse, stimulation of the amygdala causes intense emotion, such as aggression or fear and making us more likely to contribute to negative events in this world. N o w, t h i s a r t i c l e i s beginning to sound like bad
You news, too. So you can either practice your New Year’s Resolution and stop reading it; or read on with the hope that the author, I, will offer some remedy to this gloomy picture. Luckily, I am on board with your hopes. Yes, we do have higher brain centers in the cortical region that are responsible for positive emotions like e m p a t h y, c o m p a s s i o n , resilience and optimism. These brain centers evolved because positive emotions allow us to live longer and to survive as a species. It is when we work together that we are at our best. The more we cultivate positive feelings, the better we will get at it. What are some of the things we can do when confronted with negative thoughts or negative emotions from within or from others? First, know that you can control your thoughts. You can actively stop a negative thought and reframe it to a positive one. Learn about how we distort our thinking when we catastrophize, jump to conclusions, over generalize, etc. and make things/ events seem worse than they really are. Instead of seeing the halo-halo glass as half empty na; see it as half full pa! Secondly, be in the presence of the people you love and are loved by. Bathing yourself in the positive emotion of love can neutralize negativity. If alone, you can view photos of your loved ones; or even looking at photos of holy people and saints. The visions of their peace and serenity will rub off on you. And lastly, you can simply leave a place or person that permeates negative vibes and return when the emotions have subsided, if ever. Not that I have to toot my Editor’s horn, but one
of the reasons I like the Fil-Am Courier is because of its emphasis on positive news of interest to our community. Looking back at the issues, the paper has covered accomplishments of caregivers, nurses, builders; and shared stories of cultural events. The coverage on natural disasters focused on the resilience of the people and rebuilding efforts. We too can focus our lives on positivity. I heard it best from British
author James Allen who wrote a long time ago something to this effect: Guard carefully your thoughts. What you think about will be what you speak about. What you speak about will be what you do. What you habitually do becomes your character. So if you think you are locked into a specific ‘character’ or ‘personality,’ think again. You are what you think; so think yourself into a H appy New You!
Dr. Rickie Camara is a BoardCertified psychiatrist and Bikram Yoga teacher. He teaches yoga classes at Hotyoga8 in Kaimuki and at Bikram Yoga Kapolei. He has a yoga-aligned health coaching and counseling practice in Kahala.You can hear him every Friday on the radio at KNDI between 8 and 8:30 a.m. on the Medical Forum with FlorMartinez. Email contact at rickiec@pixi. com.
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By Ryan Piros Born and raised on Maui, Ryan Piros is currently the Deputy Communications Director at the office of Maui Mayor Alan Arakawa. A graduate of the University of San Francisco, he worked as an on-air personality, music director and VP/Program Director for 15 years at KPMW-FM before his present role. He is active in the Filipino community and serves as an officer/director in a number of organizations. If you want to let Ryan know about an event on Maui, please reach him at ryanp105@gmail. com or call him at (808) 283-2020.
Mayor Alan Arakawa and wife Ann secures the helmet for a young child that received a brand new bike from the Toys 4 Tots Annual Toy Run and Parade at the Azeka Mall in Kihei.
Congratulations to the recent MEO Core Four Business Planning Course Graduates that were recognized at the MEO Bankers’ Lunch. This program is designed to provide training and technical assistance to entrepreneurs who are seeking to start or grow a business.
The new County of Maui Director of Environmental Management Stewart Stant being sworn-in by Judge Rhonda Loo in the Mayor’s Conference Room. Stant officially became Director on December 16, 2015.
Kahului Airport Rescue and Fire crews give Virgin America’s first flight to Maui the “aloha” treatment by using water cannons to form an arch for it to taxi beneath on its way to the terminal. Virgin America now offers flights non-stop from San Francisco to Maui.
Maui County Mayor Alan Arakawa offered the welcome remarks at the 110th Anniversary Celebration of Filipinos in Hawaii.
During the 110th Anniversary Celebration of Filipinos in Hawaii. (L-R) 2015 Miss Teen Maui Filipina Kawena Kan-Hai 2015, Miss Hawaii Teen USA 2016 Joahnnalee Ucol, Miss Barrio Fiesta 2015 Cristal Bismonte.
The Upcountry Dog Park, the largest dog park in the State of Hawaii, opened on December 5, 2015 at the Mayor Eddie Tam Memorial Complex in Makawao, Maui.
110th Anniversary Celebration of Filipinos in Hawaii. (L-R) Maui Filipino Community Council President Virgilio Agcolicol, Chef Jake Belmonte, Gov.’s Maui Liasion Leah Belmonte, Event Chair Vince Bagoyo Jr.
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