Issue 10B 11-21-14

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Chidinma and Fumnanya Nwadialo are adjusting to the American culture day by day, but continue to keep their Nigerian customs close to heart.

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VICTORIA WHITWELL Staff Writer

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wo sisters from Nigeria come to America for a better education and opportunity. More than 6,450 miles away from home, these women are learning to balance their Nigerian ways with American customs. Taking America by a grain of salt, Chidinma Nwadialo and Fumnanya Nwadialo experience the ultimate culture shock. Chidinma first came to America in January 2013. She studied at the University of Pittsburgh at Johnstown for the spring semester and then transferred to KC for the Fall 2013 semester to be closer to her aunt, an alumna of KC. Chidinma is in America to pursue a degree in chemical engineering. She hopes to use her degree to better the world of fashion and makeup. Fumnanya is pursuing a law degree. November is her fourth month of being in America. “I have my sister here so I’m learning American things faster and easier than she did when she was on her own,” Fumnanya said.

The Nwadialo sisters’ parents, Felix Nwadialo and Pastor Ngozi Nwadialo, both agreed that “the United States of America is still one of the most politically stable democracies where [Chidinma and Fumnanya] can pursue their dreams, their academic goals and other ambitions with minimum political truncation of academic studies.” “As their parents we want to give them the best education that will help them to be very enlightened citizens of both Nigeria and the United States and contribute their best towards the development of the world,” Felix said. The flight from Nigeria to Dallas, Texas is 16 hours long. The sisters come from Lagos, Nigeria, a city with a population of 11 million people. “Lagos is like the New York of Nigeria,” Chidinma said. “You have the state and then you have the city named after the state. It is also big, like New York City.” Lagos is one of 36 states in the country of Nigeria is divided. Some states are divided by tribes such as Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa. These tribes tend to reside in the country part outside the cities of the state.

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“You have the city side, and then you have the village side as well. The village side has huts, vegetation, and no roads,” Fumnanya said. Knowing some of the challenges that were ahead for Chidinma and Fumnanya, Ngozi had her daughters go to boarding school for their high school years. The pastor also made sure the Nwadialo sisters were firm in their beliefs and credits their “godly background” for keeping them from “transition instability and nostalgia.” The Nwadialo sisters are both fully aware that people have many misconceptions about Nigeria. Many Americans have thought of Nigeria as seen on the National Geographic channel - a bare, impoverished land. This conception is far from the truth. “Nigeria has the number one economy in Africa. It thrives on crude oil and agriculture. Nigerians don’t live in trees. There are malls in Nigeria! We have cell phones. We go to the movies, and English is our first language,” Chidinma said. “We also have Kentucky Fried Chicken. I think it tastes better in Nigeria,” Fumnanya added. Culture has been the biggest

barrier for the Nwadialo sisters. “Nigerian culture and America culture are diverse in some aspects; our mode of dressing is different, our mode of greeting, respect for elders, our food, family values, the use of language and family ties,” Ngozi said. “So I expect our daughters to blend the two, provided they are within the context of the already established and acceptable culture. Although we believe in positive flexibility and adaptability in all training given to them.” Respect is a big aspect in Nigerian culture. For instance, it is disrespectful to take anything from an elderly person with your left hand in Nigeria. In school, students dress to look professional. One former fear of the Nwadialo sisters parents was that they would lose respect towards their parents, but their father said that fear has left due to the Nwadialo sisters keeping their parents “informed of whatever they want to do” and seeking their parents’ consent on bigger matters. Food has played a big role in Fumnanya’s culture shock. She said in her culture it is not uncommon for families to cook enough food to

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feed five times the family’s size. It is also important that a Nigerian woman knows how to cook. Some of the Nwadialo sisters’ favorite foods include pounded yam and nsala soup. Rice is the main staple. “There is no event without rice,” Fumnanya said. Chidinma acknowledges that coming to America has had its challenges. As an international student, lectures can be hard to follow due to lack of knowledge in American culture. Outside of school, elements such as transportation and the weather are hinderances to what she is used to. Simple factors such as communication with others and ordering food have been difficult for Chidinma in the past but are becoming easier. “Coming to America has trained me to be tough and more confident. At first, I was afraid people were going to think that I was weird because I’m not from here,” Chidinma said. The Nwadialo sisters may be on their own 6,450 miles away from home; however, they are learning to overcome the culture shock and excel phenomenally in their transitions.

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usic is always around us. We listen to it on our phone, in our cars and computers. Music is such a big influence on our society. We make all types of gadgets to improve our experience. The thing about music is that its very influential on our society and culture. Kids CAMRON can’t wait to hear PORTLEY the next new, Lil’ Wayne single, but News Editor are never ready for class. Don’t get me wrong, I love music, but not at the expense of my individuality. Music has a way of changing teens and young adults. People don’t always realize this and generally overlook it. Music changes each generation, both its self and the people. It’s up to us to enjoy it but not let it change us. Young adults need to keep their heads straight. I’m not saying don’t listen to your favorite rapper or rock-n-roll band. Enjoy them, but you don’t have to be or

do everything you hear them say. College is not a place to play “Who’s the better rapper,” or “I’m a real gangster.” It’s where you prepare yourself for a higher education. Its time to pull up our pants and pick up a book. Atteona Ware, Hamburg sophomore, said,”Music can have a negative effect, but then you have to consider what is music.” When it comes down to it, she has a point. She is not completely disagreeing with the fact that music changed our society, but she sees what music is or how it should be. I understand that we can’t blame all of our problems on music, but with its cultural shifts and it’s easy access, it’s safe to say music has some edge to the situation. We need only to find a medium to stand on to keep us afloat in the pool as it shirts each generation. It’s time to step up to the plate, and play ball. I don’t plan to change who I am because Jaz-Z told me to. I’m going to put in the work, and finish strong. Camron Portley is a mass communication/journalism major from Overton.

Leddy AnsAnAy

E’Lexus Hodge / THE FLARE

from Papua Came to America in 2009 to study chemistry. Uses Skype to keep up with five siblings. She’s the only one of them living in America. Favorite American foods are French fries and mashed potatoes.

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MonicA AgAthiArA

from Jakarta, the capital city Lives with her cousin in Longview and is studying computer networking. Uses Skype, Whatsapp and Facebook to keep up with her two younger sisters and younger brother. Favorite American foods are Pizza King, Burger King, and chocolate.

nternational KC students, Leddy Ansanay and Monica Agathiari, both come from the country of Indonesia. Even though these women are from the same country, their lives are very different. Read more about these two in a Q & A interview with Flare reporter Victoria Whitwell on www.theflareonline.com.


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