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Married daughter is a visitor to her parents’ house! This is what office bearers of a housing society in Kalyani Nagar believe. They shot a notice to Dogras after their daughter got into a tiff with security over parking BY SALONEE MISTRY @SaloneeMistry
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A notice shot by office bearers of a housing society in Pune’s upmarket Kalyani Nagar has led to outrage. The society believes that a married daughter is a guest in her maternal home. The office bearers of profile Harmony Co-operative Housing Society were reacting to a tussle that Manasee Dogra Thakur, whose parents live in one of the row houses, had with a security guard of the complex over parking. Instead of restricting to the altercation, the overzealous office bearers went overboard and said that since she was a “visitor to her parents’ house”, “she cannot interfere in the working of society’s personnel”. The notice signed by chairman and secretary of the housing societies, which has 12 row houses and 45 flats in three buildings, stated, “Please note that a married daughter is herself a visitor to her parents’ house and she cannot interfere in the working of society’s personnel. Please note that this behaviour will not be tolerated by the Managing committee and stern action will be taken if this behaviour is repeated.” The notice was shot to Dogras on May 13, a few hours after their daughter Manasee had an altercation with a security guard over parking for one of their visitors. Dogras own a row house and also run a salon within the housing society. The society has a rule that customers to commercial units in the complex (including the salon run by Dogras) have to park outside. Guests to the houses are allowed to park in the designated car parks allotted to the families living in the complex. Dogras have three such parking slots. In the afternoon on May 13, the Dogras had invited a few guests over to their house. The guests requested the security to allow their car inside the housing complex. The guard on duty, however, refused to let the car in. He argued that the guests were not going to the Dogras household
Geetanjali Dogra with daughter Manasee
but were headed to the salon. “One of the occupants of the vehicle had injured her foot and could not walk. She told the guard that she was a guest to our house and was not headed to the salon. She made it clear that she would park in one of the garages allotted to us. However, the guard was very adamant and I had to go to the gate to sort things out,” said Manasee, 32, who got married three years ago and stays not so far away from her maternal home. Situation did not change even after Manasee intervened. “The watchman was very rude and even slammed the gate hard to show that he would not allow the car inside. Continued on p5