Sun City West / Surprise - May 2023

Happy Mother’s Day!

Just looking at my calendar for this month makes me dizzy. I’m confident your mailbox (or email box) has more than a few invitations to graduation celebrations, and weddings before summer officially begins.

May provides us with many opportunities to celebrate the achievements of our extended family, celebrate our mothers, and thank those patriots who have served our country honorably.

As I was writing this month’s content, I was reminded how sometimes life’s transitions make some people feel stuck. If you know that feeling, or are looking for something new to make your transition to a new season of life a little easier, I hope this month’s magazine will provide you with some motivation.

Thank you for your support of The Grand Season and our local advertisers! I hope your May is filled with many memories as you celebrate the ones you love.

Now go out and celebrate!

Melissa Whitton Associate Publisher / Editor

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Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.

Lou Holtz

People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing - that’s why we recommend it daily.

Zig Ziglar

Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.

Jim Ryun

Once something is a passion, the motivation is there.

Michael Schumacher

Motivation will almost always beat mere talent.

Norman Ralph Augustine

Don’t be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart.

Roy T. Bennett

In my experience, there is only one motivation, and that is desire. No reasons or principle contain it or stand against it.

Jane Smiley

In life, an abundance of confidence gives us higher motivation, persistence, and optimism and can allow us to accomplish things we otherwise might not have undertaken.

Whitney Tilson

I’ll always use the negativity as more motivation to work even harder and become even stronger.

Tim Tebow

Love Your Skin from Head to Toe

1. Which artist netted a Grammy for his “I’d Do Anything for Love”?

2. Name the first group to release “Teach Your Children.”

3. Name the duo that released “Teardrops.”

4. Which artist released “Maybe I Know”?

5. Name the late 1980s song that contains these lyrics: “When no one else can understand me, When everything I do is wrong,

You give me hope and consolation, You give me strength to carry on.”

HERE’S A TIP

To re-whiten socks or washcloths, try boiling a pot of water and adding a sliced, juiced lemon. Soak the items for at least an hour, and then pick out the lemon and add the pot—water and all —to a load of wash.

When washing out stockings, add a tablespoon of vinegar to the rinse water, and they will retain their elasticity better.

TRIVIAL PURSUIT

Answers on pg. 34

1. Which movie gave actor Tom Hanks his first Oscar?

2. Apollo astronauts reported that the Moon smelled like what substance?

3. How many stars are on the Australian flag?

4. Which president killed a man who insulted him in a duel?

5. Which signaturesounding pop group produced the mid 1960s hit song, “God Only Knows”?

6. “The Brady Bunch” TV show features how many blended family members?

7. What is the official language of the United States?

8. What is the state capital of Rhode Island?

9. Which is the only planet in our solar system that is not named after a god or goddess?

10. What is a cheese connoisseur called?

The Department of Veterans Affairs is moving forward toward its goal of ensuring that Native American veterans receive the benefits they should be getting. Last month, it was reduced mortgage interest rates for Native Americans, Native Hawaiians, Alaska Natives and Pacific Islanders. Now, per the Indian Health Care Improvement Act, it’s a waiver on having to pay a copay for VA health care services and urgent medical care.

Besides taking affect now, it’s retroactive: Starting last year, on Jan. 5, 2022, any eligible American Indian and Alaska Native Veteran who’s received care and paid a copay can go back and be reimbursed. If you’re not yet signed up for VA health care, this might be the time to do it and have that, plus the question of your copays, out of the way. In a medical emergency, you don’t want to have to think about what you’re going to do or where you’re going to go.

Confused yet? There’s help at 800-698-2411, the MyVA number that’s answered 24/7 with assistance on a dozen different topics.

BEST BLUEBERRY MUFFINS

DIrections

Preheat oven to 425°. Grease a standard 12-cup muffin pan with cooking spray. In a medium bowl, whisk flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. In a large bowl, using a handheld mixer on medium-high speed, cream butter, granulated sugar, and brown sugar until light and fluffy. Add eggs one at a time, beating to blend after each addition. Add sour cream, milk, and vanilla and beat until smooth. Fold in dry ingredients until only a few streaks of flour remain, then fold in 1 3/4 cups blueberries. Divide batter among prepared cups. Press remaining 1/2 cup blueberries into top of batter and sprinkle each with 1 teaspoon sparkling sugar.

FLASHBACK ANSWERS

From pg. 16

1. ”Meat Loaf, aka Michael Lee Aday. Before he died in 2022, Aday appeared in over 50 films, including the 1975 “Rocky Horror Picture Show” playing Eddie, the former delivery boy.

2. Crosby, Stills & Nash in 1969. Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young released a different version the following year. Band member Graham Nash had written the song in 1968.

3. Womack & Womack, in 1988. Elton John and k.d. lang covered the song in 1993, followed by several other duos over the years, including Cliff Richard and Candi Staton in 2011.

4. Lesley Gore, in 1964.

5. ”The Wonder of You,” by Elvis Presley in 1970. The song has been used in England and Scotland by football clubs as their anthem, although with different lyrics.

1. Is the book of Simon (KJV) in the Old or New Testament? Or neither?

2. In a fit of anger, what did King Saul throw trying to kill David? Was it a spear, vase, shield or ax?

3. From Exodus 1, what were the people of Israel forced to make? Was it blankets, boats, baskets or bricks?

4. Who was the deceptive future father-in-law of Jacob? Was it Masa, Laban, Jehoram or Rehu?

5. What did Shamgar use to kill 600 Philistines? Was it a sword, stones, mina or ox goad?

6. How many deacons were chosen to help the apostles? Was it 4, 7, 11 or 15?

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James Barlow, MD Drew Reese, DO Hava Dodd, PA-C

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REMEMBER WHEN

There are days you wake up and have no motivation to workout. But what happens when the lack of motivation creeps into marriage, and you begin struggling to want to work through marital challenges—it’s time to sound the alarm.

Is it unusual to get to a place in your marriage where you want to give up? Recently, I asked this question to a couple who had been married 40 years.

They looked at me and said “Are you kidding me? Yes!” Then, they shared some dark moments in their marriage. They admitted there were times when they just weren’t sure. But, they also said, “We’re glad we stuck in there because we wouldn’t trade these 40 years for anything.”

How did they stay motivated? The couple told me their secret: “You just have to remember.” Remember what exactly?

Remember your why.

Why’d you get married in the first place? People marry for several different reasons: love, kids, a passion for another or to have companionship. Your why doesn’t

have to match anyone else’s why. The never-ending nature of your why can help you outlast the temporary challenges you face in marriage.

Remember your story.

Pictures. Videos. Experiences. Memories mean little without the story attached to them. You look at them to remember the story. It connects you with the positive energy captured during the moment that’s worth remembering. Let that energy motivate you to keep going. Your story can help you remember what you’ve built together.

Remember to never stop connecting. Keep searching for better ways to communicate, be playful, and spend quality time with one another. Regardless of how challenging marriage gets, to stop communicating is never the answer. Connecting in hard conversations, through disappointments, and in the midst of hurt is better than not communicating at all.

Remember you’re not alone.

Many couples, if not most couples, have gone through difficult moments where they felt like giving up was really the best option on the table. So, when you find yourself hurting and questioning if it’s worth it to hang on, reach out to other couples who have walked the road before you and made it to the other side in one piece.

When you remember these things, you’ll realize no matter how big the problems may seem, your commitment to each other is bigger.

Q. My labrador-mix, Seeker, has always been a big guy. Lately he’s turned into a very round dog. If I don’t feed him throughout the day, he sits beside his bowl and howls—making it impossible for me to work at my desk. What can I do to calm him down and help him lose weight?

A: It’s hard to lose extra pounds, and Seeker is complaining about it! One way to mitigate howling is to implement a divert-and-reward system to take his mind off his empty bowl. In essence, keep Seeker away from the kitchen and as busy as your schedule allows. Right after breakfast, close off the kitchen. Use a baby gate or shut the door, and hide the food bowl out of sight. Take Seeker for a short walk to burn off energy and calories. While working, keep Seeker separated from the kitchen and give him plenty of chew toys. Spend time with him on each break from work and be sure to take him on a long walk each day before dinner.

STRANGE BUT TRUE

Seventy-five percent of all sesame seeds grown in Mexico end up on McDonald’s hamburger buns.

Pixar required its entire staff to take a graduate-level ichthyology (the branch of zoology that studies fish) class to help improve the authenticity of “Finding Nemo.”

Earthworms in the northern part of North America are a non-native, invasive species and a major factor in forest deterioration.

A city in Sweden uses light therapy in bus stops to combat depression during the winter when 19 hours of the day are darkness.

A lobster’s brain is located in its throat, its nervous system in its abdomen, its teeth in its stomach, and its kidneys in its head! It also hears using its legs, tastes with its feet, and tends to favor one front limb, meaning it can be right-clawed or leftclawed.

Brazil has the largest Japanese community outside of Japan.

Queen is the only band in which each member individually wrote more than one No. 1 hit.

No one actually “won” the war of 1812.

PURSUE PURPOSE

After years of planning and saving, you’ve finally achieved your dream of retirement. Then, one day you wake up and realize you have no focus or motivation. Essentially, you have lost your purpose.

But realizing you’ve lost your purpose is just the first step to finding a new one. Some retirees are fully prepared to launch into extensive volunteer work. Others travel and spend time with families. Others lunch with the ladies and play bridge. Still others begin painting or journey into photography. Overall, whatever the new goal is, they have one. But you may not. There are countless books out there about finding your calling. Unfortunately, most of those books are about finding a career you can be passionate about.

So, if you haven’t yet decided what your new purpose will be, perhaps the first question is whether or not you need one. For many retirees, living with freedom, trying new things, and enjoying life’s endless possibilities is enough – they are content without any “higher” or overarching purpose.

But for many of us, finding a new purpose is necessary and can be a major undertaking. Afterall, retirement is all about pursuing the things you couldn’t while you were younger.

Here are a few questions to help open your mind to new possibilities and help you regain your focus and motivation:

• What social or ethical issues are most important to me?

• What made me happy in my childhood that I’d like to try again?

• When do I feel the most creative?

• How have I made the world a better place?

• How can I make the world a better place going forward?

• What special talents do I have that I haven’t been able to explore?

• What have I thought about trying someday?

• What or who touches my heart?

• What characteristics do I have that have intrinsic value?

• What skills can I use to benefit other people?

• Am I more motivated by issues, family, or something else?

• Am I where I want to be spiritually and what can I do if I’m not?

• What would I regret not doing when I die?

Work on these questions over a period of time. Spend some time each day writing on whichever ones strike you at that moment. As you journal your thoughts and determine what you value, you can begin to shape what your new purpose will be.

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Sue RoyerDirector

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When it becomes too difficult for you or your loved ones to safely manage daily living and/or manage medical needs, call Sue Royer for help navigating the many options available.

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CELEBRATE

It may be possible to gild pure gold, but who can make his mother more beautiful?

—Mahatma Gandhi

The influence of a mother in the lives of her children is beyond calculation.

—James E. Faust

There is no role in life that is more essential than that of motherhood.

—Elder M. Russell Ballard

Motherhood is the exquisite inconvenience of being another person’s everything.

—Unknown

A mother is your first friend, your best friend, your forever friend.

—Unknown

Mother is the heartbeat in the home; and without her, there seems to be no heartthrob.

—Leroy Brownlow

Youth fades; love droops; the leaves of friendship fall; A mother’s secret hope outlives them all.

—Oliver Wendell Holmes

Motherhood is the biggest gamble in the world. It is the glorious life force. It’s huge and scary – it’s an act of infinite optimism.

—Gilda Radner

Mothers are like glue. Even when you can’t see them, they’re still holding the family together.

—Susan Gale

MOM

MOMENTS IN TIME

May 12, 1925

A Philadelphia radio station broadcasts the first all-star radio program featuring film actors and actresses. Sound films had not yet debuted, and it marked the first time that most listeners had heard the voices of film stars like Lillian Gish and Marion Davies.

May 23, 1934

The notorious criminals Bonnie Parker and Clyde Barrow are shot to death by Texas and Louisiana state police while driving a stolen car near Sailes, Louisiana.

May 17, 1885

The Apache chief Geronimo again breaks out of an Arizona reservation, fleeing with 42 men and 92 women and children, and sparking panic among Arizona settlers. Geronimo surrendered in September 1886.

May 20, 1927

Charles A. Lindbergh takes off from Roosevelt Field on Long Island, New York, on the world’s first solo, nonstop flight across the Atlantic Ocean and the first-ever nonstop flight between New York to Paris.

May 20, 1873

San Francisco businessman Levi Strauss and tailor Jacob Davis are given a patent to create work pants reinforced with metal rivets

Fine Fittings Fine

1. In March 1973, what two New York Yankees pitchers announced they had swapped wives and families?

2. What basketball player from Poland, the WNBA’s alltime leader in shots blocked with 877, died from a cardiac arrest in 2011?

3. Longtime Sports Illustrated football writer Paul Zimmerman was better known to readers by what nickname?

4. Name the American swimmer who won five gold medals at the 1988 Seoul Summer Olympics.

5. Who had more professional boxing career wins: Leon Spinks or his brother Michael?

6. In cricket, the term for a batsman’s dismissal with a score of zero is the same as what kind of waterfowl?

1) Mike Kekich and Fritz Peterson

2) Margo Dydek

3) Dr. Z

4) Matt Biondi

5) Michael, with 31. Leon had 26.

6) A duck

REFLECT THANK YOU!

Technically, summer doesn’t start until June 21st. But many people consider Memorial Day to be the unofficial start of the season. This year, we celebrate the holiday on May 29th. Many families will heat up the grill, head to the beach or take in a big blockbuster movie. But Memorial Day has the word “memorial” in it for a reason.

Known as Decoration Day, the holiday got started on May 30, 1868, when Union General John A. Logan declared the day an occasion to decorate the graves of Civil War soldiers. Twenty years later, the name was changed to Memorial Day. On May 11, 1950, Congress passed a resolution requesting that the President issue a proclamation calling on Americans to observe each Memorial Day as a day of prayer for permanent peace and designating a period on that day when the people of the United States might unite in prayer. President Richard M. Nixon declared Memorial Day a federal holiday in 1971. Memorial Day is now observed on the last Monday of May. It is an occasion to honor the men and women who died in all wars.

Remembering Those Who Served

It is customary to mark Memorial Day by visiting graveyards and war monuments. One of the biggest Memorial Day traditions is for the President or Vice President to give a speech and lay a wreath on soldiers’ graves in the largest national cemetery (Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia). Most communities host local Memorial Day celebrations.

Here are some ways you can honor the men and women who served our country:

• Put flags or flowers on the graves of men and women who served in wars.

• Fly the U.S. flag at half-staff until noon.

• Visit monuments dedicated to soldiers, sailors and marines.