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CONTENTS

PAGE 05 | Editor's Letter

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Get to know the Editor with a special note to our readers

PAGE 18 | Money Talks

Key lessons on personal finance with The Money Mom, Jenna Meza

PAGE 25 | Talk that Talk to Me Exclusive tips for you and your partner to keep the spark alive with James and Trish Rodriguez

PAGE 28 | The STOP Method

4 step technique for a more connected conversation with your family

PAGE 29 | Passionate about Purpose

Life-coaching and financial wellness unite with Edgar Euan

PAGE 31 | Tap into Tradition

Celebrate culture in a modern world

PAGE 34 | See Me Survey

Take a privilege survey with someone you trust to see from their POV

PAGE 35 | Absorb Earth

Try a new technique with Mother Nature

PAGE 40 | Come Together Own your role in your community

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ABOUT US

Mission.

To unite people using the power of empathy.

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Vision.

To provide a social platform where people come to widen their personal and professional perspectives.

Meet the Founder. Amanda Castro is a mother and entrepreneur born and raised in Ventura County, California. Her passion for helping others live in celebration of every milestone is rooted deeply within her personal and professional life. As time progresses, her background in communications continues to develop through her experience in networking and sales however, her love for writing has been with her since childhood. It was only until her early adult years where she truly grasped that under the surface, everyone has a story that others know nothing about. This realization demanded a new level of compassion and a deeper understanding of behaviors and feelings. And so, her research began.

The backstory. Fast forward to January of 2020, with the help of some of the most creative columnists and contributors - TKC published it's very first magazine. What the TKC team didn’t know was that the remaining 11 months of that year would be filled with unimaginable events that would shake the world. As events continued to unfold in what felt like the longest year ever, TKC was faced with a decision to pull back or push forward and figure things out along the way. Needless to say, they understood that more than ever their crusade was incredibly important and that dream of theirs had to quickly become a reality. Across the nation today, The Kind of Convo is a platform where various lifestyles and professions can come together to teach, learn, and confide in one another.

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EDITOR'S LETTER

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Often times, we get so consumed in trying to keep up with technology, social media, and hustle culture that we forget to connect with the people around us. Think about the core memories you have for a second. Do your most meaningful memories include a bonding experience or conversation with someone else? I bet they do. We know on many levels that we are social beings by nature and this issue is dedicated to celebrating just that through the stories, expertise, and flashback playlists of your peers. As you're reading through, I ask that you allow this issue to serve as a humbling reminder to pause, reflect, and appreciate how beautifully orchestrated life really is. I believe that through the ups and downs, every life is a life worth living and when you experience it with others, inevitably it becomes a life worth loving. So friends, my prayer is that this issue was shared with you and the people you love in the season that you all need it most. As always, now and forever - I wish you more memories than lists, more love than things, and most importantly... more human connection.

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Editor In Chief

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Which connection are you most proud of?

Hands down the connection I have with my daughter. I gave birth to her in my early twenties so in a sense, we are growing up together and I believe that is one of the reasons our bond is so strong."

What is the best question you have ever been asked? "Have you ever been in love?" because I love to explain the emotions you experience when you are in love.

What is one thing you are so glad you did in life? I am so glad I didn't silence my life long dreams. or become a "realist" after a few failed attempts.

What is one decision you wish you didn’t make?

It was for sure my decision to lie to my doctor about my mental state after giving birth to my daughter. Had I known what I know now, I would have been honest about my thoughts and feelings and gotten the help I needed much sooner than I did.

What's your go-to motivational song?

Save the world by Swedish House Mafia

What is the "failure" that you most cherish? Freezing on stage in front of hundreds of people. I grew a lot from that experience and to this day, I challenge myself to be a better communicator because of it.

Is it more important to believe or to know?

Sheesh! What a question. In my opinion, it's more important to believe. We will never have all the answers and that's okay. Taking a leap of faith and believing in someone or something is much more powerful than trying to prove who or what something is or isn't, including yourself.

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There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.

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FUN

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a two-thousands flashback

It's the year 2000 - the world didn't end and we celebrated a defining year in music with our low-rise jeans and bucket hats ON. Feels like yesterday, doesn't it? Let's get things "poppin" again with 22 songs that are turning 22 this year! Welcome back to the good ‘ol days.

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that turns T W E N T Y - T W O IN

TWENTY TWENTY TWO

"So just chill, til..."

the next episode BY

DR.DRE & SNOOP DOGG

"Doesn't really matter what the eye is seeing"

doesn't really matter

JANET JACKSON

"She saw the marks on my shoulder..."

it wasn't me

SHAGGY

"The kisses of the sun were sweet I didn't blink"

around the world (la la la la la) BY

the light BY

try again AALIYAH

"Oh yeah, alright, don't stop the dancing"

"How you gonna act? How you gonna handle that?"

case of my ex

DAFT PUNK

"Keep rollin', rollin', rollin', rollin' "

rollin'

LIMP BIZKIT

"Looking back on the things I've done I was trying to be someone"

shape of my heart BY

MYA

""If I go crazy, then will you still call me Superman?"

kryptonite BY

3 DOORS DOWN

BACKSTREET BOYS

"Never meant to make your daughter cry, I apologize a trillion times, I'm sorry ..."

ms. jackson BY

"And that's somethin' that just ..."

don't happen twice BY

KENNY CHESNEY

"I just wanna live while I'm alive"

it's my life BY

BON JOVI

"But you know, but you know that you..."

can't fight the moonlight LEANN RIMES

OUTKAST

"That is just so typically me

Oh baby, baby"

oops i did it again BY

BRITNEY SPEARS

"When all I ever wanted was the simple things"

simple kind of life BY

NO DOUBT

"I'm gonna love you right 'Cause all I want is you..."

come on over BY

one more time

COMMON

A TOUCH OF CLASS

"Dust yourself off and..." BY

"There are times. when you'll need someone"

CHRISTINA AGUILERA

"I'm a hustla' baby, I just want you to know"

I just wanna love U BY

JAY-Z

"I'm goin' down, down baby, yo' street in a Range Rover"

country grammar BY

NELLY

"You may hate me but it ain't no lie"

bye bye bye BY

*NSYNC

"Please stand up ,please stand up, please stand up"

the real slim shady BY

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FUN

QUOTES ABOUT LIFE

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ORANGE IS THE NEW BLACK

THE OFFICE

MODERN FAMILY

HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER

“How important it is to stay true to yourself even in the midst of an adventure or experiment.” – Piper Kerman

"Family is family. Whether it’s the one you start out with… the one you end up with… or the family you gain along the way.” – Gloria Pritchett

FRIENDS

“It’s like all my life everyone’s told me, ‘You’re a shoe! You’re a shoe! You’re a shoe!’ Well, what if I don’t want to be a shoe? What if I wanna be a purse or a hat?” - Rachel Green

LOST

"Stop thinking how ridiculous it is, and start asking yourself whether or not you believe it's going to work. That's why it is called a "leap of faith", Jack." - Eloise Hawking

FRESH PRINCE

"As my father used to say, it's better to give than to receive." - Uncle Phil

GREY'S ANATOMY

“If you love someone, you tell them. Even if you’re scared that it’s not the right thing. Even if you’re scared that it’ll cause problems. Even if you’re scared that it will burn your life to the ground, you say it, and you say it loud and you go from there.” – Mark Sloan

FULL HOUSE

“So many things come easily to you, but not everything will. And if you give up on something just because it's difficult, you're gonna miss out on a lot that's valuable. There's no better feeling than conquering something that's really hard for you.” Danny Tanner

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"I wish there was a way to know you're in the good old days before you've actually left them." – Andy Bernard “Sometimes you fall for someone you didn't expect, but that doesn't make it wrong. Doesn't everyone deserve to be happy?" — Barney Stinson

THE WALKING DEAD

“People you love, they made you who you are. They're still part of you. If you stop being you, that last bit of them that's still around inside, who you are, it's gone.” — Glenn Rhee,

GAME OF THRONES

"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you." - Tyrion Lannister

F E R R I S

B U E L L E R

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LIFE MOVES PRETTY FAST. IF YOU DON’T STOP AND LOOK AROUND ONCE IN A WHILE YOU COULD MISS IT.

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DOUBLE TAP

BE AUTHENTICALLY YOU

into a healthy relationship with social media usage.

Social media can be a powerful tool to stay connected in your personal and professional life.

It’s 10PM, you’re laying in bed and you promise yourself you'll only scroll for 10 minutes. You scroll past some funny videos, your old friends from college, a motivational video and maybe even a conspiracy theory here and there (whatever floats your boat) and before you know it - it’s 1 o’clock in the morning. By this point- you’ve probably laughed, maybe cried, had a flashback, made a purchase and likely also compared your reality to some else’s life highlights.

For some, social media is used for marketing and business while others it is used to stay and be connected with friends and family all around the world. Whatever you use it for, there is a community for everyone and once you’ve found yours, it’s easier to set boundaries for yourself and the people you interact with. Here are some tips:

We’re all guilty of allowing social media to consume our attention at one point or another so believe it or not, it’s up to you to leverage it in a way that serves you.

UNFOLLOW

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MINDSET

Don’t sign on when you are feeling down about yourself. Don't be afraid to unfollow people. If they are trolling and/or not your vibethe solution is simple…UNFOLLOW, BLOCK, or REPORT.

Share the light of your life and when you feel inclined to share a not so positive experience, present it in a way that could help or inspire rather than tear yourself or others down.

SUPPORT OTHERS

Connect with like-minds to build positive community. If your values align, support them with interaction (like, comment, subscribe) or purchases.

TIME LIMIT

Don't allow social media to be a distraction. Keep your phone on the other side of the room, place it on "DND", or completely /temporarily delete an app until you reconnect with life outside of your screen. Give yourself a daily time limit and once you’ve reached it, close the app and continue on with your day.

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Meet Norma Baker, an incredibly inspirational modern-day family woman in business. She is the Founder of Red Berry Woman and is nationally recognized for her beautifully designed pieces in the fashion industry. It was an honor to catch a glimpse of how she celebrates tradition through her renowned work. Scan the QR code above to stay connected!

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"Red Berry Woman is a fashion line that incorporates Native American traditional garment styles into contemporary couture garments and ready to wear for both women and men. RBW was created by Norma Baker-Flying Horse, an enrolled member of the Hidatsa tribe and a member of the Dakota Sioux and Assiniboine tribes as well as an adopted member of the Crow Nation. Giving her business her Native given name, Red Berry Woman, Norma strives to create pieces that honor and celebrate her tribal bloodlines."

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We've had the privilege of working with Erika, Founder of Mia Mor Studio on a few projects. In fact, you will see some of her digital art spotlighted in one of our articles. Erika's talent does all the talking and although she specializes in watercolor portraits, digital illustrations and logo designs - you can always count on a creative and custom piece. Scan the QR code to stay connected! "Hello! My name is Erika Martinez and I am an Artist! From graphic design & branding to watercolor portraitures, I "try" to do it all. Whatever speaks to my soul, I am creating and expressing my hearts emotions."

FASHION Samantha Horne

"Handmade clay earrings at an affordable price!"

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PHOTOGRAPHY Andrew Mori

"My love for the art of photography has helped me develop a passion for all things beautiful, whether it be people, things, or even the night sky above us. There is no type of photography that I will not do. To be graced with my vision, and to be able to capture moments in ways that invoke tears of joy, inspiration, and happiness- that is why I do what I do." SPRING2022

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You better NET-WORK by Amanda Castro

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Are you an extrovert, introvert, or somewhere in between like me? Regardless, networking is and will always be your most crucial form of marketing. It requires sincere connections with the right people and has somewhat of an art to it. With that being said, have patience and don’t overthink things. Building a solid network of people takes time. Be clear on your purpose and before you ask for anything in return, always give value first. Further, find confidence in knowing that you can’t say the wrong thing to the right person because the right person will ALWAYS hear you differently. Now while I could give you a list of “what to say” or “ways to pitch your business”, you’re inevitably going to learn these things through experience so instead, let’s dive into some tips about human nature. Happy networking!

Secrets to working the room like nobody's business: Become the MVP: Referrals are the most successful way to grow your business. By becoming the MVP of somebody’s network, they will begin to introduce you to the people they want to gain status from. How do you do this? You help everyone you know with whatever your service is and because they already know you can bring value, they will make connections on your behalf. Everybody wins here. Mirror their body language: Limbic Synchrony is a recipe for instant connection and a great way to communicate empathy and attentiveness. The good news is that it’s already built into our brains so when you are networking for business, you can use this to scale rapport. Are they mirroring you? If so, you've likely established a genuine connection. Keep it moving: Always be in a rush and ask for permission to connect again. For example, “It was great meeting you. I’ve got to be on my way but is it too much to ask that we exchange info so we can discuss this further?” By presenting them with the opportunity to say no, you are giving them back the power - in turn, proving trustworthiness. Use their name in conversation: This is such a small thing but can make all the difference in connecting with someone you’d like to learn from. Not only does it keep the person you are speaking to engaged, it can also be seen as a sign of respect and importance. This will go a long way in networking. Have fun: Don't put so much pressure on yourself. Feeling comfortable while networking takes time, practice, and effort so you may as well enjoy the journey. People are drawn to good energy!

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In this episode, you'll learn how to sharpen your listening skills with tactical how-to's as Ed gives professional insight on intentionality, body language, and conversation etiquette. You can find this episode on Youtube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or scan the QR code below. You'll want a fresh notepad and pen for this one. Happy listening!

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"Collaboration, creativity, and respect build life long connections that matter and make a difference, propelling us to work together across all boundaries."

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On a scale of 1-10, how well would rate your relationship with your finances? If the answer is anything less than 10, we encourage you to tap-in to what The Money Mom has to share about financial literacy. .Jenna Meza is a mother, woman of faith, and respected mentor in the world of entrepreneurship. Her heart for helping others achieve financial freedom is what continues to fuel her nationwide teachings in financial education and leadership development. If you are looking to jumpstart your path to financial literacy, be sure to use these 6 steps to financial freedom. In addition, if you'd like a complimentary Financial Needs Analysis - scan the QR code below to secure a virtual appointment with her team! Let them know “TKC Magazine” sent you to be included in future giveaways and workshops!

Budget Tell your money where to go instead of wondering where it went. We like to follow the 50/30/20 Rule. 50% - Living Expenses 30% - Financial Goals 20% - Flexible Spending NOTE: If any one of these categories falls short, that is a clear indicator that more household income needs to be made/budget needs to be re-evaluated.

Build Wealth

Invest in your future by compounding your money using this simple formula: The Rule of 72: 72/RoR = # of yrs. for money to double RoR (Rate of return): The % at which your money is growing. EXAMPLE: 72/1 = 72 years vs. 72/10 = 7.2 years Assess your risk. There are 3 ways your money can grow: Fixed: Low and guaranteed return. (ie. Bank Accounts, CD's) Variable: Unknown and volatile return. (ie. Stocks, Mutual Funds) Indexed: Protection from down market. (ie.Life Insurance and Annuities)

Emergency Fund Set aside 3 months of income to prepare for unforeseen expenses such as medical bills, unemployment, car repairs, property damage, etc. This fund will allow you to recover from an emergency without derailing your financial strategy or forcing you into debt. When the inevitable occurs and you dip into this account, you must immediately rebuild until it is full again.

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“FOUR “FOUR THINGS THINGS ON ON EARTH EARTH ARE ARE SMALL, SMALL, YET YET THEY THEY ARE ARE EXTREMELY EXTREMELY WISE: WISE: ANTS ANTS ARE ARE CREATURES CREATURES OF OF LITTLE LITTLE STRENGTH, STRENGTH, YET YET THEY THEY STORE STORE UP UP THEIR THEIR FOOD FOOD IN IN THE THE SUMMER;” SUMMER;”

Proverbs 30:24-25

Proper Protection

Life insurance is a defensive strategy for all stages of life that is designed to protect against loss of income and other financial needs that come up after one's passing. There are two types: Term: Provides a death benefit for a specified period of time (Premiums are affordable as it provides one component - a death benefit that will expire). Once the policy has expired, you may no longer have the same insurable need. For example, your mortgage may be paid in full and/or your children may have left the nest. NOTE: Renewing a term policy once expired may be costly. Permanent: Provides a death benefit for your lifetime. Allows the option for long-term care and tax-free growth/income which can be used for retirement, to send children to college, purchase real-estate, etc.

Make a list of your debts, outstanding balances, interest rates, and monthly payments. Eliminate debt using the most effective strategy for your situation. Snowball Method: Regardless of your interest rates, make all minimum payments while focusing extra payments toward the debt with the smallest balance. Once a debt is paid, roll that payment (min. + extra) toward your next debt with smallest balance. Repeat until debt-free. Avalanche Method: Regardless of your balances, make all minimum payments while focusing extra payments toward the debt with the highest APR. Once a debt is paid, roll that payment (min. + extra) toward your next debt with highest APR. Repeat until debt-free.

Jenna Meza, Ventura County Reduce taxation to control how much money you keep.

There are 3 ways your money can be taxed: Taxable: Taxes paid yearly on interest, dividends, and earnings. (Mutual Funds, Savings Accounts, CD's) Tax Deferred: Taxes paid when you take distributions in retirement. (IRA, 401k, 403b, TSP, and Annuities) Tax Exempt: You never pay taxes on your earnings and/or distributions. (Roth IRA, Life Insurance Contracts)

Will: Identifies a guardian for your minor or special needs child and set forth how your property should be distributed. Health Care Directive: Identifies who will make health care decisions on your behalf if you are unable to do so. Power of Attorney: Identifies who will handle your affairs (bills, taxes, insurance, etc.) if you are unable to do so.

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"Kylie maintains the brand image of Hitchcock + Associates on all platforms and oversees the marketing of specific listings and their unique marketing plans. She comes with a robust background in real estate marketing ranging from large scale brokerages to individual agents, combining over a decade of experience in graphic design. Kylie also handles transactions from escrow to close and will be in close communication with you throughout the process. Born and raised in Camarillo, and long time Ventura resident- she is the extension of Hitchcock + Associates in Ventura County."

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in between therapy sessions, here are some mindful tips for when you feel...

Doubtful

REMEMBER YOUR WHY - look at the lock screen on your phone and read your affirmations immediatley.

Sad

REFLECT ON PAST WINS remember you've survived 100% of your worst days.

Angry

MOVE YOUR BODY - dance, hit the gym, go for a walk, stretch.

Tired

LISTEN TO YOUR BODY - Rest is essential to every area of your life.

Uninspired Practice verbalizing your feelings and channeling your emotions into something that will move you forward. We know it's easier said than done but the understanding of our own emotions is crucial and the earlier we learn this, the better off we will be. This type of emotional awareness can allow us to process our feelings more effectively, making It easier to process the positive/negative reactions of others when directed toward us.

CLEAN SOMETHING - Turn on your favorite podcast and organize your car, your home, your office space, anything. Clean spaces will allow for a creative and calm flow.

Irritated

PAUSE- Respond with kindness rather than reacting with emotion.

Anxious

BREATHE - What you are feeling will pass. There is a solution to every problem. One moment, one deep breathe at a time.

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LOOK ME IN MY EYES

A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short André Maurois

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James: Don’t play the guessing game and communicate often. The needs of your relationship will evolve as the two of you experience more life together. We learned this the hard way and it put a major strain on our relationship because one of us would often feel like we weren’t doing enough. Therapy helped us work through this. Trish: You beat me to it! Therapy was and still is a non-negotiable for us. We also learned each other's love languages in therapy and it has helped us in so many ways. I really believe learning that is the reason we are able to be there for each other no matter what’ life throws our way.

Talk that talk to ME Pro Tip: "The ideal seven days (in a relationship ) includes time alone, time with each other, time with your own friends and family, and time with collective friends and family" -Jay Shetty

Here are some ways to keep the spark alive, the Rodriguez way...

Never stop dating each other - T: "The first thing we put in our calendar every week is "Date Night". Sometimes it’s a movie after the kids go to sleep and sometimes it’s a night that requires a sitter but either way, we make it a priority to spend quality time together so we can let loose and relax." Be adventurous - J & T: "Experiencing new things together is crucial. It creates memories and brings you closer as a couple. This one time, we went zip-lining and James had to hype me up because my knees started to buckle. I didn't know I was afraid of heights but he talked me through my nerves and we definitely laughed about it after. Good times." Sex it up - T: "Have passionate sex often. This is normalized talk between us that usually comes up when we are watching a movie for some reason… haha. We ask each other, "How can we switch it up?", "What are we comfortable trying?", "Has anything changed?" etc. We also have a code word for when one of us just isn’t in the mood. I won’t tell you what it is though so don’t ask." Plan for the future together - J: "Not only does it give us something to look forward to as a family but as we accomplish little things, we get to celebrate each other along the way. This is huge for us, especially right now when we are working toward buying our first home." Group gatherings - T: "Spend time with others. I love to see James socialize. I get to admire a different side of his personality and also rescue him from a bad joke here and there. #savedyourlife" Do an everyday task together - J&T: "Not to replace the alone time we each have (very important) but here and there we will work out or cook dinner together. It’s so simple but doing those things together makes it feel more like a mini date than a chore. Throwing in some friendly competition like a cook-off in the kitchen, fastest mile at the gym, or game of over/under at the grocery store is always fun, too."

"Find your person and fall deeper and deeper in love with them over and over again."

Flirt often - J&T: "Send each other voice memos in the middle of the day or give a flirty look at the dinner table. Even a soft whisper in passing will do. However you flirt, do it often." SPRING2022

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What is the most crucial piece of a long lasting relationship?

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You’ll know when you’re having one… a deep and meaningful conversation. These conversations carry much more substance than the usual small talk. They are thought provoking , mentally and sometimes emotionally stimulating. The flow of a conversation like this is hard to describe because it cannot be planned or forced. Whether intentional or not, an inevitable bond is formed, reconnected, and/or strengthened after a talk like this. Something important to keep in mind is not everyone is ready for a deep conversation or likes to have them so you must always respect the boundaries of others and understand that the term “meaningful” is different for everyone. Throughout your lifetime, you’ll continue to gain perspective and as conversations grown deeper, you’ll be able to understand the different layers of who someone is and why. The beauty in that is that its discovered in the act of someone telling a story during a time when they felt safe.

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Conversation Starters

What’s something you will never experience? Do you have an inner voice and what does it say most? What is one thing you would change about yourself if you could? What is your definition of a good friendship? What is something you regret? What is the high and low point of your day? What is your story? What is the most important thing I should know about you? What has been the most significant plot twist of your life? Who are your kind of people? What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received and why? What has been the best season of your life so far? What's the strangest way you’ve become friends with someone? What's the best way to get to know someone? What is the most important quality that someone should have? What does the world need more of? Is it better to be optimistic or realistic? What is something you’ve experienced that nobody believes you about?What is something you want to ask me but are too afraid? If you walked into a room full of everyone you have ever met, who would you go looking for? Do you think you can fall in love more than once in a lifetime? Why do you think people respect the dead more than the living? Do you think we are in control of our fate or is our life destined? What is something that has been said to you that was upsetting? When was the last time you cried and why? What are you most excited about for your future? What is something you would like to experience for the first time again? What advice would you give to someone healing from a breakup? What habit are you trying to break right now? What is your life motto? When was the last time you felt emotional pain? When do you feel the most confident? What is the difference of loving someone and being in love with someone? Do you believe in soulmates? What's something you want validation for but haven’t received? How did your worst mistake change you? What is something you’ve fallen out of love with? Do you focus more on your past or your future? What do you think happens after death? Have you ever had to walk away from something you really wanted? Is there a moment in your life that changed how you treat people? What is your love language? What should an apology consist of? What songs do you feel in your heart when you listen to them? What are your coping mechanisms? When is the last time you laughed so hard that you cried? If you met you today, would you like you? Can trust be earned back once it has been lost? How do rainy days make you feel? What’s the most comforting thing someone has said to you? What is the best and worst thing about growing older? How far are you from who you thought you’d be right now? What makes life worth living? What baggage do you carry from your last relationship? What are your favorite non-sexual pleasures? Do you prefer delayed or instant gratification?

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Editor's Pick

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ROCIO VASQUEZ

As parents, we often walk a fine line between love and discipline. We had an amazing conversation with Rocio about generational teachings, modern-day parenting, and how to fulfill such an important role that comes with no handbook. The care and expertise she offers to her clients and the parenting community is the kind of coaching many parents are seeking today. Here is what she had to say about connecting with your kids before correcting them.

"In order to fully express and have a functional conversation you have to be a good listener." First things first. Listen! The ability to effectively listen can be a superpower and the great news is that many problems can simply be resolved by truly listening. The following technique is broken down into 4 simple steps that will make all of your conversations, especially the difficult ones, become more smooth and effective. Whether you are a teen, or a parent, these skills will serve you always. Now, it's time to let them take the floor first using.....

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Sincerely Listen

When you sit down to make your schedule, be sure to pencil in family events and quality time first. Consider these things nonnegotiables. Everything else gets planned around that.

Time with Zero Distractions

Let it be about them. No interrupting. No explanations. No rebuttals. (keep your phone away)

Open Mind

The point of listening is to understand. After you’ve completed the listening process, if a solution is needed, you can both discuss possible strategies. However, often the person will solve their own problem if you just listen. Hint: You can ask," Do you want my advice? or do you just want me to listen?"

Patience No problem solving. I know this feels difficult especially when you feel like you can help with your experience but just listen attentively.

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Would you believe us if we told you your dreams and aspirations are so unique that they could never be fulfilled by anyone else except you? No matter how many others have similar dreams, it's simply impossible to replicate what's in your heart. This is because those dreams of yours are directly related to your purpose in life. You might be wondering, "well, how do I know what my purpose is?" Continue reading as Edgar Euan, Founder of Hello Indie walks us through how he fulfills his purpose through good work in an ever-changing world. He shares how he was able to recognize a problem and channel his passion and expertise to solve it.

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I created Hello Indie as a response to Covid when I noticed how much of a toll the uncertainty of the world was taking on my clients. I thought to myself, “what if I could somehow fuse life coaching (something that would boost the mental health of my clients) and financial planning (something I'm expert at)?” With my clients in mind, the desire to make this a reality in such uncertain times grew stronger and stronger and eventually my purpose became more and more clear. I knew if I could bring this to life, it would help shift the mindset of my present and future clients. So from then on, I made it my mission to help people reach their financial goals and feel secure about doing so, no matter the circumstances. Today, Hello Indie is no longer just and idea. Everyday, we live out our dream in service to others and make it a priority to help the people around us do the same. Our holistic approach breathes direction & meaning back into the lives of our clients and business partners as we guide them through their goals and dreams. To bring this to life, we created a modern system that is designed to combine financial and life goals while evaluating the short and long term effects of each one. So tell us, what are your goals and dreams? Is it to buy a house? Have a family? Send your kids to college? Retire early? Start a business? Travel the world? Make a difference in your community? Wide-scale philanthropy? Whatever it is, our team of experts are ready to help you design your best life with you casted as the main character. With you, our vision will inspire people to do the things that inspire them, so that together we can change the world.

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Tap-in to TRADITION

IN A MODERN w o r l d by The Kind of Convo

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Celebrating culture is especially important in today’s world. Doing so, opens up ways to teach and learn remedies, rituals, recipes, prayers, and traditions from all around the world. What better way to connect with someone than to introduce them to the ways of your homeland in both big and small ways. Take note that being well cultured will not only help you have a better understanding of of the world but it will also help you develop your own opinions and traditions. So, we invite you to help us celebrate the many cultures that make our communities so beautifully diverse with some ideas on how to keep tradition alive. But first, let's get educated!

Brush up on your native language: Stay sharp by speaking it in and out of your home, often.

Appreciation vs. Appropriation

Teach a friend how to say something in your native language. Family favorite restaurant, here you come!

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Share art and music. Head to a museum, blast some music, support cultural artists with your family and friends.

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the action of taking something for one's own use, typically without the owner's permission.

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recognition and enjoyment of the good qualities of someone or something.a full understanding of a situation.

"Cultural differences should not separate us from each other, but rather cultural diversity brings a collective strength that can benefit all of humanity."

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Ways to keep your culture alive

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Tell a story you were told when growing up. Although you probably can’t tell it as good as your grandma, keeping these memories and/or folk tales alive keep people connected long after they leave this earth. Understand the religion you were raised on . Sometimes you will not agree with the religion you were raised on and that is okay but it will allow you to better connect with the people in your family and help you form your own beliefs. Cook a meal using a traditional recipe - and master it! Write these recipes down so they can live on through the generations. Attend cultural events. What better way to walk get a glimpse of another culture and community when hopping on a plane isn’t an option.

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5 CHICAGO HIGH SCHOOLS GET FULL RIDE SCHOLARSHIPS TO COLLEGE

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That's right. Imagine roughly 4,000 students being surprised with a the gift of a lifetime that is a full ride to college for not only themselves BUT a parent who also wishes to gain a higher education. HOPE CHICAGO will be paying for college tuition, room and board, books and fees at partnering colleges! Talk about GOOD NEWS! "Hope Chicago is a non-profit organization seeking to reduce economic and social inequity by funding postsecondary scholarships and non-tuition costs for Chicago public school graduates and adult family members eager to return to school and update their skills. Founded by businessman Ted Koenig and entrepreneur Pete Kadens and modeled after a similar two-generation scholarship program Pete pioneered in Toledo, Ohio, where he was born and raised. Hope Chicago has a goal of raising and investing at least $1 billion dollars over the next decade to help tens of thousands of Chicago students and family members earn post-secondary credentials. Hope Chicago is grounded in the belief that educational equity lays the foundation for greater economic and social progress and the rebirth and restoration of Chicago communities." HEALTH

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U.S. House Passes Bill to Cap insulin cost at $35 out-of-pocket co-pay limit per month. COMMUNITY & BUSINESS

ED MYLETT VIRTUAL and LIVE EVENT on MAY 27 "To celebrate the release of his new book “The Power of One More,” Ed Mylett is bringing together many of the world's most renowned experts, achievers and motivators for an exclusive 1-day event to help you achieve more success and happiness in life." Watch online for free when you pre-order his book. More details at MAXOUTLIVE.com TKCMAG

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THE WOMEN'S EMPOWERMENT EXPO

In the month of March in Burbank, CA , The Women's Empowerment Expo featured 75+ female-owned businesses, a VIP brunch, expert panels, personal/business development workshops, performances, motivational speakers, wellness stations, red carpet photoops, networking, and free resources. This event was far beyond a networking event as many called it a remarkable movement within the community!

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I don't worry about cost when I am ill and need to see a doctor.

I’ve been bullied about something that I cannot change.

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I was embarrassed about my clothing, home, or parents car when I was a kid.

See Me Survey PRIVLEDGE EDITION Catch a glimpse of privilege (or lack of) through the perspective of someone else. Take this survey with a friend or family member and compare results. Be sure to follow us for updates and castings in upcoming social experiments.

"THE MORE PRIVILEGE YOU HAVE, THE MORE OPPORTUNITY YOU HAVE. THE MORE OPPORTUNITY YOU HAVE, THE MORE RESPONSIBILITY YOU HAVE." Noam Chomsky

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I have never been discriminated against because of my accent or skin color.

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I or a loved one have never struggled with an addiction.

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I can easily find beauty products that match my skin color and hair texture. I grew up with both parents in the household.

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My family is supportive of my sexual orientation.

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I can display PDA with my partner without fear of ridicule.

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I had to get a job to contribute to the household before I graduated high school,

My parents can financially help me in the event of hardship.

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I am able to take time off of work for health reasons.

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I will or have inherited financial assets from my parents/grandparents.

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I am a caregiver for a loved one who is unable to care for themselves due to medical reasons.

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I do not have to work more than one job to make ends meet.

YES/NO I feel safe calling the police. YES/NO

My student loans are not greater than my annual salary.

My parents worked nights and weekends to support our family. I had my own room and bed as a child. I go about my day without fear of sexual assault.

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Security has followed me around a retail store before.

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Growing up, English was my primary language.

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I am usually the only person of my race/gender/socio-economic status/ sexual orientation in the workplace.

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ABSORb EARTH EARTHING

WITH SAM GARCIA Earthing, also known as grounding- is the practice of balancing our body’s electrical current by connecting directly to the energy that comes from the earth. For this energy transfer to take place, it’s believed one must have skin contact with the surface of the earth. Modern day scientist believe that this ancient holistic practice can be applied to benefit people in various ways. Let me point out that the following information is based off of group research conducted by our team and should not be taken as medical advice. After reading this article and conducting your own research, you should find a professional to guide you in your new earthing journey! One barefoot in front of the other, lets dig our toes in… Consider this technique if you experience one or more of the following symptoms: Anxiety Depression PTSD Chronic Pain Inflammation Cardiovascular disease Insomnia You can easily practice this technique daily using one or more of the following methods: Go for a barefoot walk on the beach, in mud, or on the grass. If you must wear shoes for safety reasons, opt for a soleless leather bottom shoe or sandal. Garden with your bare hands in your backyard or create a small garden for your windowsill. Go outside and hug a tree or lay directly on grass or dirt. If going outdoors is not an option for you, you can use an alternative "grounding product" which can be purchased online.

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Tips

Incorporate these into your healing journey:

1. Be consistent with the amount of time you "earth". 10-45 minutes is ideal. 2. Find a guide and use your resources to learn about best practices. 3. Journal your journey so you can measure any improvements.

Once you've learned to ground on your own, invite a friend or family member for some peaceful and intentional connection. We want to know if you give this a go! Tag us @thekindofconvo to be entered into a giveaway for a free grounding mat!

The Kind of Convo does not own any rights to any recommended readings or audio.

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COMMUNITY

Are you an audio-book listener or a hardcopy reader? Regardless of which you prefer, the importance of exchanging stories is essential to human connection. Why, you may ask? Well, when you're on the receiving end of a story you are provided with an opportunity to widen your perspective. That means your opinions, views, and imagination continue to form while you process your productive day reads and even the spicy night ones, too. What's even more amazing is that the words you read are coming from an entirely different mind, in an entirely different time, in an entirely different place.

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Was it something I READ? Insert yourself into the experiences of another person's life with these empathetic reads Staff Picks, The Kind of Convo

The Best We Could Do by Thi Bui

"This beautifully illustrated and emotional story is an evocative memoir about the search for a better future and a longing for the past."

What Happened To You? by Oprah Winfrey, Bruce D. Perry

"Through this lens we can build a renewed sense of personal self-worth and ultimately recalibrate our responses to circumstances, situations, and relationships. It is, in other words, the key to reshaping our very lives."

I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter by Erika L. Sánchez

Addresses the pressures of finding yourself amid the expectations, and stereotypes of growing up in a Mexican-American home.

The 80/80 Marriage

By: Nate Klemp PhD, Kaley Klemp (Author)

"The 80/80 Marriage pushes couples beyond the limited idea of "fairness" toward a new model grounded on radical generosity and shared success, one that calls for each partner to contribute 80 percent to build the strongest possible relationship."

by James Martin

"A trusted guide walking beside us as we navigate our unique spiritual paths, Martin lays out the different styles and traditions of prayer throughout Christian history and invites us to experiment and discover which works best to feed our soul and build intimacy with our Creator."

Raising Good Humans by Hunter Clarke-Fields MSAE, Carla Naumburg PhD

"In Raising Good Humans, you’ll find powerful and practical strategies to break free from “reactive parenting” habits and raise kind, cooperative, and confident kids."

Between The World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates

"Between the World and Me clearly illuminates the past, bracingly confronts our present, and offers a transcendent vision for a way forward. "

I Hear You

by Michael S. Sorensen

"Whether you're looking to improve your relationship with your spouse, navigate difficult conversations at work, or connect on a deeper level with friends and family, this book delivers simple, practical, proven techniques for improving any relationship in your life."

Find Your People by Jennie Allen

"Offers practical solutions for creating true community, the kind that’s crucial to our mental and spiritual health."

Connect

by David Bradford, Carole Robin

"A transformative guide to building more fulfilling relationships with colleagues, friends, partners, and family, based on the landmark Interpersonal Dynamics (“Touchy-Feely”) course at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business" SPRING2022

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Neighborhood NETWORK

"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself In the service of others" -Mahatma Gandhi

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Think of the last time you were with a group of people and thought to yourself, “I’m exactly where I need to be”. That’s what community does for someone. Communities give people a sense of belonging where they feel protected, embraced, and inspired to work toward the future. We were not meant to live everyday for ourselves but more so to participate in togetherness. It’s essential to human connection and can make the world of difference to the people that are apart of it past, present, and future. Whether in-person or online, finding or sharing a common ground with others is a powerful way to move your community forward.

INVOLVED ROLES Raise Money - Help a neighbor - Start an exercise group - Playdates - Share insight Online forum - Attend a church - Share resources - Acts of kindness - Teach a new skill - Give compliments - Community garden - Welcome new faces - Community cleanup - Be a part of life group - Volunteer at a shelter - Join a sport or activity - Know your neighbors - Give input at a meeting Have a friendly attitude - Advocate for something - Check-in with one another Donate money, clothes, food - Book exchange or free library - Bake a treat for your neighbor - Write a meaningful note or letter

SCAN TO STAY CONNECTED

They say if you want to go fast, go alone but if you want to go far, go together. Finding a community that brings out the brings out the best in you will open up so many doors for change within yourself, within your neighborhood, and for the next generations to come. We want to help you give back! Scan the QR to nominate someone in your community for an act of kindness! Let’s celebrate togetherness. SPRING2022

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