10-16-09 Vol. 31 No. 11

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By Marc and Julie Anderson Special to The Leaven

MERALD — Not much exists anymore of the town known as Emerald.

In its heyday, however, the rural community in Anderson County had a post office, a school, a trading post and several other shops. The buildings were all located on the slope of a hill with a church above and farm fields below.

But what was once a thriving community is gone now . . . except for one building — that of St. Patrick Catholic Church.

Known widely as the “jewel of the archdiocese” and “the cathedral of the plains,” the tiny rural parish celebrated its sesquicentennial on Oct. 3.

Parishioners, former pastors and well-wishers from neighboring communities gathered to celebrate the parish’s 150th anniversary with a Mass of thanksgiving celebrated by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann. Concelebrants included pastor Father Marianand Mendem and former pastors Fathers Ken Kelly and Mike Hawken. A dinner followed in the church basement for all in attendance, including the 48 families who still call the parish their spiritual home.

Among those enjoying the festivities was Ed Wilper, who at age 93 is the oldest active parishioner.

The name Wilper does not automatically bring to mind all things Irish. Wilper’s heritage is of both Irish and German ancestry, a blend common to many St. Patrick parishioners.

A lifelong member of the parish, Wilper never left the area and still recalls the parish’s early days, days when parishioners did a lot of the work by hand — such as digging graves in the parish cemetery.

Wilper and his wife Agnes, who have been married for 61 years, have been involved with the parish in a myriad

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Father Marianand Mendem visits with Agnes Wilper after a Mass celebrating the 150th anniversary of St. Patrick Parish in Emerald.

An anniveRsary to remember Curé of Ars Parish in Leawood celebrated its 50th anniversary with a blend of old and new.

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Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann visits with Heather Lee, a member of neighboring St. Joseph Parish in Waverly, following the 150th anniversary Mass of St. Patrick Parish in Emerald.

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Former KCK parishioner Raymond Schrader is made a chevalier of the French Legion of Honor for his service in World War II.

open hearts

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An open adoption made it possible for Julia Griffin (second from left) to enjoy the support of both her adoptive family and her birth mother — and neither would have it any other way.

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LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS

Are you using God’s gifts as he intended?

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hen I was in college, one of my best friends entrusted me with the care of his six finches.

They were beautiful, brightly colored, petite birds. My friend was going to be gone overnight.

He instructed me as to how much food and water I needed to provide them.

He also told me to cover their rather elaborate cage at night.

Everything was going great with the care of my overnight guests. I provided the amount of food and water at the prescribed times. When I went to bed, I threw a blanket over their cage wishing my winged charges: “Sweet dreams!”

When I removed the blanket in the morning, I was stunned to see all six finches lying on the floor of the cage.

I did not know much about the life and habits of these birds, but I was fairly certain this was not their normal slumber position. My worst fears were confirmed when I shook the cage and there was no movement from any of the birds. Evidently, I had placed too heavy a blanket, too securely over the cage.

All the birds had suffocated.

I felt terrible, much worse than if the

birds had been my own. The opportunity to do my friend a favor and return his many kindnesses to me had turned into a disaster.

When my friend returned to pick up his birds, I tried to break the news to him as diplomatically as possible. At first, he thought I was kidding. I can only presume, as the reality of being finchless set in, he was thinking to himself: “Nobody could be so stupid in one night to suffocate all of my finches!”

He was very gracious. He declined my offer to replace his recently departed feathered friends. However, it was completely understandable that he never entrusted me again with the care of any living creature.

The subject of this year’s annual workshop for priests was the spirituality of stewardship. Cultivating a spirituality of stewardship is one of the five goals that I have asked our priests, lay leaders, parishes and archdiocesan agencies to make a pastoral priority.

The term “stewardship” is a fairly recent word in the Catholic lexicon, but it has deep biblical roots and has been — though under different names — part of the life of the church from the very beginning.

The spirituality of stewardship

begins with the realization that everything is God’s gift. Those who have developed this spirituality have a tremendous awareness that they are blessed. Everything that we treasure and hold dear has been given to us by God. Life, health, our talents, abilities, family, friends, educational and job opportunities, as well as every material possession, have their origin and source in God. There is nothing that we can truly claim as our own. The first fruit of this spirituality is a profound gratitude.

A steward is not an owner, but one who has been entrusted with the care and management of the property and assets of another. This provides a helpful image for the Christian understanding of our relationship with God. God has entrusted us with the gift of life and has endowed us with whatever talents or abilities we possess. God simply asks that we use our life and develop our gifts in ways that glorify him.

How can we use the gifts the Lord has given to us in ways that honor and please him? One of the surest ways we glorify God is by using our talents and resources to assist with the mission of the church. In other words, we know that the Lord delights in whatever we can do to announce to others the good news of God’s love for them as revealed in the life, death and resurrection of his son, Jesus.

We also know that God is pleased when we use his gifts to make his love real and tangible for others. Our Lord is glorified when we use our gifts to provide for the needs of our family and to make our homes places where faith,

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love and joy are shared. Jesus made it perfectly clear that nothing gives him greater joy than when his disciples lovingly care for the sick, the suffering, the imprisoned, the stranger, the hungry, the homeless and the poor.

Another of the fruits for those living the spirituality of stewardship is a deep, enduring joy. This abiding happiness derives from our heightened awareness of our own blessings, but also results from the satisfaction that inevitably comes from using God’s gifts as he intended.

The joy of the good steward contrasts with the sadness and despondency so prevalent in our materialistic society. Our culture encourages us to acquire more, better and bigger things that in the end leave us dissatisfied and always longing for something more.

The false happiness promised by our materialistic culture is suffocating and brings us to a state as pitiful and lifeless as those six finches lying on the bottom of their cage.

When offered the chance to share your time, talent and treasure with your parish community, pray over the opportunity. Thank the Lord for his blessings. Ask his guidance in discerning how you can best use the gifts, that he has entrusted to you, in ways that will glorify him and bring you lasting joy.

When our friend Jesus returns to see what we have done with all that he has entrusted to us, I hope that we will all have some much better news than the death report I had to deliver to my college friend. Think about it!

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Msgr. Charles McGlinn, pastor of Curé of Ars Parish, receives a round of applause from priests and parishioners alike, as they acknowledge his many years as pastor of the Leawood parish.

Curé celebrates 50

By Kara Hansen

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eawood — The official anniversary celebration was Sept.

26, but that did not stop Curé of Ars parishioners from starting the festivities a little early.

In fact, the Leawood parish has been celebrating a little each weekend at Mass since Aug. 4, the feast day of St. John Vianney.

“Each week at Mass, there were different photos displayed, depicting various aspects of parish life,” said Jodie Stockwell, who directs the catechumenate at Curé of Ars and helped in the planning of the official event. “We did the ‘then and now’ of baptisms and marriages, as well as photos of what the old parish buildings looked like. We highlighted past priests and previous parish celebrations, as well as current groups and activities going on in the parish.”

The culminating anniversary event was held Sept. 26 on the parish grounds. The celebration followed a French theme, in keeping with the parish’s namesake, St. John Vianney, the curé of Ars. A “Rue de Vianney” was set up outside the parish school for all ages and included boutiques, games, inflatables, puppet shows, caricatures, lunch, and adult cafés.

Archbishop James P. Keleher then celebrated a 5 p.m. Mass, assisted by pastor Msgr. Charles McGlinn; associate pastor Father Greg Hammes; and former pastors and associates — Father Mike Stubbs, Father Al Rockers, Father Craig Maxim, and Father Brian Schieber. Father Bob Burger also concelebrated.

“I thought [the Mass] was absolutely beautiful and the music was phenomenal,” said Stockwell.

Parishioner Barb Truesdell agreed.

“It was a wonderful celebration and a beautiful liturgy with some of our

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Archbishop Emeritus James P. Keleher incenses the altar at the 50th anniversary celebration of Curé of Ars Parish. previous pastors there, and with Msgr.

Charles, who has been here almost half of the parish’s existence,” she said.

Truesdell said she was especially moved by the wide range of ages in attendance at the celebration.

“I thought the best part of the entire day was the wonderful showing from both young and old,” said Truesdell. “As Monsignor [McGlinn] gave his homily and was talking about the parish’s history, he asked original parish members to stand up, and several did. It was very inspiring.”

A special choir comprised of 65 pa-

rishioners helped lend an especially festive air to the anniversary Mass; it was joined by a chamber trio, a timpanist, trumpeters, and a handbell choir.

“We wanted the music to be general, but festive and familiar, so the congregation could fully participate. And they really did,” said Ellen Tuttle, director of music at Curé of Ars. “The singing of the congregation was so moving. The Holy Spirit was truly with us that day and it really was a celebration for everyone.”

After Mass, the adults-only portion of the evening began with a social hour that included cocktails and appetiz-

ers. A sit-down dinner followed, with a dance in the gym until midnight. Nearly 1,000 people attended the festivities in the afternoon; close to 900 participated in the evening.

Stockwell said even after the day’s events were over, she was reminded of and touched by the commitment parishioners have at Curé.

“I looked around and every single person was working and knew their role to play,” she said. “It was truly the body of Christ in action, and it’s an experience I won’t forget.”

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THE LEAVEN • october 16, 2009

THE LEAVEN • octoBER 16, 2009

A helping hand

Courage under fire

Caritas groups give priests a chance to discuss the joys and rewards, challenges and struggles of the priesthood

Former KCK parishioner made a chevalier of the French Legion of Honor for his service in World War II

By Joe Bollig

By Kara Hansen

Leaven staff

KANSAS CITY, Kan. — A young Pvt. Raymond A. Schrader saw a lot of war in two short years.

He saved his ship by spotting a Uboat while crossing the Atlantic, and he landed in Normandy on D-Day Plus 2.

He fought through the deadly Normandy hedgerows during the St. Lo Breakout, battled his way across France, and walked 230 miles through the freezing cold in time for the Battle of the Bulge.

Finally, he fought battle-hardened German troops in their own homeland, helping to extinguish Nazi tyranny once and for all.

Schrader, a scout, messenger and infantryman in the 137th Infantry Regiment of the 35th Infantry Division, U.S. Army, was also a member of the former St. Casimir Parish in Kansas City, Kan. He joined the Kansas National Guard in September 1939. With only two weeks to go on his enlistment, the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor, and America was plunged into war. Schrader was in for the duration.

Like millions of other Americans, the 25-year-old Schrader then returned home from the war to build a family and live his civilian life in relative obscurity, his medals and citations gathering dust in a closet.

But for a brief moment last month, a spotlight dispelled that obscurity when on Sept. 21 the 90-year-old Schrader received a singular honor. He was made a chevalier, or knight, of the French Legion of Honor. The ceremony took place at the Kansas National Guard Armory in Kansas City, Kan. Family, friends, elected officials and members of the military were present to witness the ceremony.

The honor came 64 years to the day that Schrader boarded a troop ship in Belgium for the voyage back to the United States.

It’s not very often that an American receives the Legion of Honor, “the highest honor that France can bestow upon those who have achieved remarkable deeds for France,” according to JeanBaptiste de Boissiere, Chicago-based consul general of France.

It was his daughter, Sister Barbara Schrader, SCL, who began the process that led to Raymond Schrader being awarded the French medal.

Two years ago, the elder Schrader suffered the sudden onset of Lewy body dementia. In a single month, he went from being relatively healthy to needing care. Now, he resides in Riverside

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During his time in France, Schrader stayed in a castle used by another liberator of France: Joan of Arc.

Schrader was one of millions of Americans who served in World War II and built postwar prosperity. Now, they are few in number.

Sister Barbara Schrader, SCL, kneels at the side of her father, Raymond A. Schrader, after he was made a chevalier — or knight — of the French Legion of Honor. The medal was given to Schrader, a U.S. Army veteran, for his role in liberating France during World War II. Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Riverside, Mo. While calling around to identify benefits her father might be eligible for, Sister Barbara was told by a sergeant at Fort Leavenworth that her father also might qualify for the French honor. So she contacted the French consulate in Chicago, and also received help from U.S. Rep. Dennis Moore, D-Kan. The ceremony itself attracted soldiers old and new and a host of dignitaries including: Moore, who acted as master of ceremonies; Brig. Gen. Alex Duckworth, deputy commander of the 35th Infantry Division; and retired Maj. Gen. Jack Strukel Jr., former commander of the 69th Infantry Brigade, Kansas.

Col. Jean-Claude Brejot, French liaison officer at the Combined Arms Center at Fort Leavenworth, represented

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his nation and pinned the medal on Schrader.

The colonel noted that Schrader helped liberate many French cities, including Orleans, Sens, Nancy, Chambry and Sarreguemines.

“Thanks to your courage, to our American friends and allies, France has been living in peace for the past six decades,” said Brejot, after he pinned the medal on Schrader. “You saved us and we will never forget.

“I want you to know that for us, the French people, you are a hero. Gratitude and remembrance are forever in our souls.”

The medal was not Schrader’s first, however. Sixty-four years earlier, he received the American Defense Service Ribbon, the Good Conduct Medal, the Combat Infantry Badge and the Bronze Star Medal.

The Bronze Star was awarded for his

heroics during the battle for Ostenberg, Germany, where he captured more than 80 German soldiers and helped knock out two tanks and machine gun nests.

“The National Guard’s motto is: ‘Always ready, always there,’” said Sister Barbara in her remarks. “That has been true of my dad.”

While in France, her father stayed once in a castle once used by Joan of Arc, near Compiegen, she said; perhaps the saint protected him. She also honored his non-combat service, even restricted as it has been by recent health problems.

“Even in this, my dad continues to provide every loving service in his power to be faithful to his God, to guard his family, and to continue his allegiance to his country,” said Sister Barbara.

Raymond Schrader also received the prestigious Division Commander’s Coin of Excellence of the 35th Infantry Division Association from Duckworth and a commemorative coin and membership in the 35th Infantry Division from Strukel.

A reception in his honor was held after the ceremony.

KANSAS CITY, Kan. — “I see the priests who have been in prayer groups for decades, and I want what they have,” explained Father Andrew Strobl, associate pastor of Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe.

“Their ease with one another is incredible. They have gone through fire and crisis together. They have celebrated joys and milestones together,” he said. “It’s crazy to think that the group we just started might endure for decades.”

It’s the solidarity and accountability they see in these veteran priests’ groups that have made several newly ordained priests seek out such a group for themselves, early on in their ministry.

“I think that it’s paramount to have the structure of brother priests to share our lives with us,” said Father Patrick Sullivan, associate pastor of Holy Trinity Church in Lenexa. “It’s much like police officers or firefighters, who are able to rely on each other because they can relate to one another more than anyone else.”

Jesus Caritas priest groups are generally made up of five to seven priests and are formed following a loose model created by the Jesus Caritas organization. Each group requires its members to make a commitment to meet once a month for shared prayer, adoration, and a review of life. Usually, a meal is also shared. The meetings take up much of a day.

“The notion of having fraternal support in the priesthood is more important than ever,” said Father Mark Mertes, pastor of Holy Cross Church in Overland Park and the “national responsible,” or director, of Jesus Caritas.

“Priests are living further apart than ever and are busier than ever before. It’s important to have a way for a priest to access support and set aside a time for contemplative prayer.”

Though he was ordained a short six months ago, Father Matthew Schiffelbein said he can already see how attending his newly formed Jesus Caritas group will be beneficial.

“Stepping away from the parish, even for a short time, can be important in helping refresh the ministry in the parish,” said Father Schiffelbein, associate pastor of the Church of the Ascension in Overland Park. “I can see how having our monthly group will help with that.”

Father Schiffelbein’s priest group includes Fathers Andrew Strobl, Pat Sullivan, Anthony Ouellette, Shawn Tunink, and Mitchel Zimmerman.

Newly ordained priests, from left, Fathers Pat Sullivan, Matthew Schiffelbein and Andrew Strobl are all part of the same Jesus Caritas priest group. The three find the group very valuable as they work to serve God and his people.

Father Schiffelbein said that being able to share the unique challenges that come with the priesthood was useful as well.

“There’s this amazing recognition that priests have the gift of entering into people’s lives at such important times — in moments of conversion, crisis, and great joy,” he said. “I might go from a funeral in the morning to a wedding in the afternoon, to hearing confessions and celebrating Mass, then back to the wedding reception — all in one day. You can go from the beginning to the end of life all in one weekend.

We’re always changing gears, and that can be really challenging.”

Father Sullivan agreed. “[The group is] really helpful for being able to talk about the many joys and rewards, challenges and struggles of the priesthood on an ongoing basis,” he said. “It’s also really helpful for holding each other accountable and calling each other on the carpet, so to speak.”

Being a part of a group with several recently ordained priests — as well as a few that have been in the priesthood for several years — has seemed to work well for the priests who were still semi-

“Those of us who are new are able to share a lot of common struggles, while the more veteran priests can share from experience and offer feedback. And I think we help them, too, with our new zeal for the priesthood and the new ideas we bring fresh from seminary.”

Father Pat Sullivan, associate pastor of Holy Trinity Parish in Lenexa narians not so long ago.

“Those of us who are new are able to share a lot of common struggles, while the more veteran priests can share from experience and offer feedback,” said Father Sullivan. “And I think we help them, too, with our new zeal for the priesthood and the new ideas we bring fresh from seminary.”

Father Strobl said he found the mix

of experiences and personalities in the group beneficial.

“We’re all pretty much in the same boat, and the experiences of being a brand-new priest are fresh in all of our minds,” he said. “That being said, we have some very different personalities.

That is such a blessing, because you really get to appreciate how God calls different men to meet the challenges of pastoral care.”

In a ministry and profession that requires major transitions on a daily basis as well as the larger transitions of changing parishes, the three recently ordained priests are looking forward to having their priest group as a constant in their lives.

“We know where the other guy is coming from. We see each other as brothers. We’re in this together. It’s awesome to be able to share and pray with other priests on a very honest and open level,” said Father Strobl. “Knowing you’re in this together for the long haul takes a lot of the pressure off. We know that none of us is going anywhere, and this support will always be there.”

For more information on the Jesus Caritas fraternity of priests, visit its Web site at: www.jesuscaritasusa.org.

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Father William Anthony Finnerty dies on Oct. 7

By Joe Bollig Leaven staff

OLATHE — Father William Anthony Finnerty, 82, a long-serving priest of the archdiocese, died on Oct. 7 at Villa St. Francis here.

Father Finnerty was born on Oct. 10, 1927, in Emporia, one of two sons of Bernard L. Finnerty and Margaret Irene (Lynch) Finnerty. The family attended Sacred Heart Parish.

Father Finnerty graduated from Emporia Senior High School in 1945. He received further education at St. John Seminary in Kansas City, Mo., and Conception Seminary in Conception, Mo. Archbishop Edward J. Hunkeler ordained Father Finnerty on May 28, 1955, at St. Peter Cathedral in Kansas City, Kan. After his ordination, Father Finnerty was named associate pastor of Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish in Overland Park, and he served in a number of parishes

Father Finnerty’s assignments • 1955 – Associate pastor of Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish in Overland Park • 1960 – Associate pastor of Sts. Cyril and Methodius Parish, Kansas City, Kan. • 1960 – Temporary assignment at Holy Angels Parish in Basehor and St. Francis

de Sales Parish in Lansing • 1960 – Catholic University of America, Washington, D.C. • 1962 – Assistant director of Catholic Charities, in residence at St. Thomas Parish, Kansas City, Kan. • 1963 – Administrator of St. Rose of Lima Parish, Kansas City, Kan. • 1964 – Director of Catholic Charities • 1969 – Administrator of Our Lady and St. Rose Parish, Kansas City, Kan. • 1980 – Pastor of St. Mary-St. Anthony Parish, Kansas City, Kan. • 1981 – Resident at Marian Hall, Kansas City, Kan. • 1982 – Pastor of St. Agnes Parish, Roeland Park • 1992 – Senior associate of St. Patrick Parish, Kansas City, Kan. • 1995 – Retired from Catholic Charities • 1995 – Senior associate of Holy Spirit Parish, Overland Park • 2001 – Retired from active ministry until his retirement from active ministry on July 14, 2001. (See sidebar.)

In addition to serving as an associate pastor and pastor, Father Finnerty

was appointed archdiocesan director of deaf ministry in 1957.

In 1960, he began advanced studies in social work at Catholic University of America in Washington, D.C., and received a master’s in social work in 1962.

He received his doctor of ministry degree from the Jesuit School of Theology in Berkeley, Calif., in 1983.

He was named assistant director of Catholic Charities of the archdiocese on Aug. 13, 1962, and was appointed director on Sept. 1, 1964. Father Finnerty retired from Catholic Charities on Feb. 1, 1995.

A funeral Mass for Father Finnerty was celebrated on Oct. 12 at Curé of Ars Parish in Leawood. He was buried at Resurrection Cemetery in Lenexa.

Father Finnerty was preceded in death by parents. His survivors include his brother, James E. Finnerty of Phoenix, and nieces and nephews.

Life Chain

William Rodgers, a member of St. Agnes Parish in Roeland Park, participates in the Life Chain at 95th and Metcalf in Overland Park on Oct. 4. Rodgers joined thousands of people nationwide, who formed Life Chains to demonstrate their opposition to abortion. This is the 22nd year that Life Chains have been active across the United States.

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‘This is truly a warm and loving community’ Continued from page 1 of ways, including serving on the parish council and the cemetery committee, singing in the choir and holding office in the Altar Society.

Ed still recalls the fire back in September 1939 and the rebuilding of the church when he was just 23 years old.

He also remembers how the men of the parish used to cut wood to heat the building. The couple’s daughter, Ina, reminisced on how the building used to be quite warm in the summertime until the installation of air conditioning, made possible by another generation of parishioners.

“The younger generation has worked hard to make St. Patrick’s a thriving Catholic community,” said Agnes.

“Without them, we would not have an elevator, air conditioning, a wheelchairaccessible ramp, a new floor and carpet. . . . The choir has worked hard for some time to every make Mass a celebration as has the Altar Society and the parish council to raise funds for the roof renovations. This is truly a warm and loving community, built upon the faith and love of many families.”

Expanding upon the theme of the faith and commitment of strong families, Archbishop Naumann discussed the history of the parish in his homily, offering his hopes and prayers that the parish will continue to nurture the Catholic faith for another 150 years.

“In our prayer today,” said the archbishop, “we give thanks for this parish family of St. Patrick’s, for the way in

which God has blessed this community for 150 years. We remember gratefully the priests and the Sisters who have served and ministered to this community with such dedication and love.

We give special thanks for the families of faith that gave life to the parish 150 years ago and those who have sustained and built upon the work of those founders. We pray that this precious emerald jewel of the archdiocese will remain a strong and vibrant parish for the next 150 years.”

Elsewhere in his homily, the archbishop discussed the permanence of marriage as a sacrament and how strong marriages are vital for a strong society.

“The strength of marriage,” the archbishop said, “is not just important to the couple — not even just to their children or their extended family.

“It is important for society, culture and the church. Society needs strong families that give life to and form the next generation.”

“God depends on the parents — not only to be co-creators with him of new human life, but to educate and form their children in the faith,” Archbishop Naumann added. “Pope John Paul spoke frequently about the family’s role in evangelization, in that the family is essential in passing the faith to the next generation.

“It is in the family that we have the opportunity to develop the virtues of generosity, fidelity, integrity, sacrificiality, etc., that make us good citizens,

Important dates in the history of St. Patrick

n In the 1850s, Irish immigrants from the counties of Cavan, Carlow, Termanagh, Wicklow and Queen’s settled in Anderson County and founded the town of Emerald. Named after the Emerald Isle itself, the farming community thrived and families bearing surnames like Collins, Fitzgerald, Glennon, McEvoy and Doolin formed bonds of faith and love.

Given their Catholic faith and love of their motherland, it was natural for the immigrants to name their parish in honor of St. Patrick. n In 1859, the first church — made of logs from Garnett, located 20 miles away — was built, followed nine years later by a stone church, built with rocks quarried from adjacent hills. The community and parish continued to grow. In 1895, Bishop Louis Fink laid the cornerstone for a Romanesque church to serve some 90 families now living in the area. n Dedicated in 1899, the church featured turrets at either front corner of the building. In the center of the turrets stood a large dome surmounted by a lantern five feet high, a design that was modeled

as well as responsible and productive members of the community.”

In conclusion, the archbishop said: “We also pray that the Lord will continue to bless the parishioners of St. Patrick’s. We pray particularly for God’s blessing on the married couples and

after the dome of the Kansas Capitol in Topeka. A large bell hung on the inside half of the dome which was supported by two iron columns, measuring 26 feet high. All the windows were stained glass depicting religious scenes; the main altar was hand-carved and overlaid with gold. n The “cathedral of the plains” stood until Sept. 29, 1939, when Father J.B. Karnowski awoke sometime around 2:45 a.m. to what he later described as “the most severe crash I ever heard” as lightning struck the center dome. The ensuing fire gutted the building, leaving only the walls and the center dome. Everything else was destroyed, except one important thing: the faith of the parishioners, who immediately began rebuilding efforts to restore the church to as much of its former glory as possible. n A year later, the rebuilt “jewel of the archdiocese” was dedicated once again, this time featuring a rather unique item: a statue of the Sacred Heart of Jesus donated by singer and actor Bing Crosby.

parents of this community. May the Lord, who has called you to love your spouse, give you the grace to continue to be true to your commitments of love that are so important — not only for you, but for our society, our nation, our church and this parish of St. Patrick.”

A star is born

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aint James Academy senior Julia Griffin was born to be a star.

Last year, in a school with a makeshift theater and only a fledgling drama program, she managed to earn one of the highest honors available for high school actors — the Blue Star Award (see sidebar).

When Julie and her mother, Holy Trinity, Lenexa, parishioner Susan Griffin, discovered Julia was a Blue Star nominee, they were overjoyed.

And there was no question who they would call first with the news — it was Julia’s “other” mother, the one she affectionately refers to as “Beth, the mom who can’t yell at me.”

Julia, like her brother Jay, is the product of an open adoption.

And her journey to stardom really began in a small town in Kansas where she almost wasn’t born at all.

A gift to share

ones we picked,” she said.

What Daly-Smith didn’t know is how open an open adoption could be.

Eighteen years ago, Elizabeth Daly“I wanted letters and pictures of the Smith was 16, pregnant and scared to baby,” she said. “I didn’t want to meet death. All she wanted to her. I thought that would be do was make her “probtoo confusing for her and Starlight Theater lem” disappear. That’s too confusing for me.” why, when she realized Fortunately, the Griffins Blue Star Awards she was pregnant, her were ready to convince her Now in its eighth season, first thought was of an otherwise. They already the Blue Star Awards program abortion. had a toddler who was at Starlight, patterned after But she lived in PittsBroadway’s Tony Awards®, thriving in the atmosphere is designed to recognize burg and didn’t have a of an open adoption. outstanding achievement in clue as to how or where “Since we already had musical theatre production to get an abortion. So the relationship with Jay’s and performance among high she had to think some birth parents, we really school students. more. wanted it for Julia,” said Last year’s competition “Once I actually made Susan Griffin. included students from 44 Kansas City area high myself realize, ‘This is So after Julia was born, schools, who performed a baby; you’re going the Griffins were diligent in 48 musical productions to have a baby,’ then I about including her birth during the 2008-09 school knew abortion wasn’t family in each important year. Top honors were an option for me,” said event of her life. awarded in 23 categories.

Daly-Smith.

“After I had her, they Julia Griffin, representThe young teen talkinvited me to her baptism ing St. James Academy in Lenexa, won Outstanding ed to her mother, who and my mom and I went,” Actress in a Supporting Role helped her see adoption said Daly-Smith. for her performance as Miss as the best option for her “And then they invited us Hannigan in “Annie.” situation. Together, they to something else and then For more information met with a social worker I was babysitting for them,” about the awards, visit from Catholic Charities she added. “And now, 17 the Web site at: www.kc of Kansas City. starlight.com; click on Eduyears later, they’re just a part cation.

“When I told her of my family, just like any I wanted to meet my extended family.” baby’s parents and know where they lived, she about fell out of her chair because 18 years ago they didn’t do adoptions like that,” said Daly-Smith.

However, Catholic Charities did have two profiles of families who were interDaly-Smith said being part of an open ested in an open adoption. adoption has strengthened her faith.

“And Jim and Susan Griffin were the “I can’t explain why it worked so well

Twice blessed

other than God played a part,” she said.

Julia couldn’t agree more. She has a close, loving relationship with her parents and considers her birth mother a best friend.

“It makes me feel more blessed because my parents are so amazing, and I’m so fortunate to know my birth family,” she said. “Having information is good, but actually being able to have contact with them and know that I wasn’t just thrown aside is really nice.”

Twelve years ago, Julia’s family grew even larger when her birth mother, who is now married, had a daughter of her own. Julia is close to her half sister, Breanna, who shares many of her interests, like volleyball and the theater.

The two moms often share parenting advice.

“I call Susan and say, ‘OK, Breanna is doing this. What did Julia do? How do I handle this?’” said Daly-Smith. “And Susan calls me to say, ‘OK, Julia is doing this. Why is she doing this? Did you do this when you were young?’”

Both families agreed that, in addition to counseling, the key to a successful open adoption is an attitude that puts the child first.

“I don’t look at Julia or Breanna as possessions,” explained Daly-Smith. “I look at them as gifts from God. “They’re not mine to have; they are their own individual people that I’m just here to help.”

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Jim Griffin agreed.

“We’re just all supporting Julia,” he said. “There are no boundaries, really, to manage. You know your children are unique individuals, and all you care about is helping them and supporting them.”

Julia’s birth family loves to attend her performances and support her success in the theater.

In fact, her director at St. James, Whitney Coulson, attributes Julia’s success in part to the support of her big, devoted family.

“I’ve been inspired by Julia and her situation because it is so loving and so nurturing,” she said. “For both her mother and her birth mother to be so supportive of her, and for me to witness that — I think it’s powerful and wonderful.”

The lure of the lights After 10 years as a professional actress and singer, Coulson is in a good position to judge talent.

And she is blown away by Julia.

“Oh, she’s really good,” she said. “It’s been an awesome process to watch, because she really started focusing on [acting] just three years ago and has already gone beyond what some people do in 10 or 15 years.”

Winning the Blue Star Award was

made more impressive by the fact that Julia was only a junior and the school’s drama program was hardly off the ground.

“She was competing against seniors at big public schools with huge theater departments,” said Coulson. “[St. James] is a brand-new Catholic school. It’s growing every year, but we had very little to give her, and she took what she could get and she just drove with that.”

Julia caught the acting bug her first time on stage in grade school, and Coulson helped her realize she could make it part of her life.

“In third grade, I did the talent show at Holy Trinity [School in Lenexa],” Julia recalled. “That rush of adrenaline was amazing. I got off the stage and I thought, ‘I really want to do that again.’

“But freshman year at St. James, when I started working with Whitney Coulson, that’s when I realized it was within my grasp to actually do this every day.”

Coulson also taught Julia how to integrate her acting with her faith life.

“She and I have had many discussions and she understands that it’s not possible for her to reflect the human spirit if she’s not a spiritual person,” explained Coulson. “She’s beginning to grasp the theater world and her faith life and how they intersect.”

That realization is very important, said Coulson, because “if you’re doing it for your ego, you’re not going to get very far.

But if you’re doing it for God and because you feel the need to reflect the human soul, then you’re going to go a lot further and you’re going to touch more lives.”

Indeed, Julia compares her experience on stage to a religious experience.

“I find so much beauty in a good performance that, to me, it’s like praying,” she said. “When people pray, they’re asking God to support them, and when I’m on stage, I feel like I’m giving back to God for what I’ve been given.”

The only choice When Daly-Smith sees Julia on stage, it makes her grateful that she chose life for her daughter. But she also feels concern for other young girls whose circumstances might cause them to make a different decision.

“Who’s to say that if [abortion] had been readily available to me, I wouldn’t have chosen that?” she said. “I’m sad for those girls who have it so available that they don’t have to tell anybody, they don’t have to talk about it.

“And before they know it, they’ve made a life-changing decision that they may regret.”

When Coulson reflects on that choice, she’s astounded by the number of people Julia has touched thus far in her short life.

One big happy family

For Julia Griffin (second from left), her extended family is just a little more extended than most.

The product of an open adoption, Julia has the benefit of not only knowing her adoptive family, but her extended birth family as well. They are, from left to right: Jay Griffin (brother), Julia, Cheryl Daly (birth grandmother), Beth DalySmith (birth mother), Breanna Daly (half sister), Betty Bower (birth great-grandmother), Susan Griffin (mother), and Jim Griffin (father).

“I have to think, if Julia wasn’t brought into this world and wasn’t raised by the Griffins and loved and nurtured, then we would be missing this incredible actress that already, at the age of 17, is holding up a mirror to life and forcing people to reflect in an audience,” she said.

“I’ve seen people laugh so hard that they’re crying,” Coulson added, “and I’ve seen people cry so hard that they have to stand up and leave because of her performances — that kind of response shows me how powerful she is as an actress.

“If she wasn’t brought into this world, we’d be missing that. We’re lucky we got her. We’re lucky she was born.”

Julia’s mother couldn’t agree more.

“We have been so blessed to be able to be a part of Julia’s life,” she said. “And we thank her birth mother every day for choosing life for Julia and allowing us to share in her life.”

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Christians, Muslims both face ‘challenge of relevance’ WASHINGTON (CNS) — Christians and Muslims alike face “the challenge of relevance” in today’s society, former British Prime Minister Tony Blair said Oct. 7 at Georgetown University. The challenge includes “showing how faith can be a force for the future, for progress, that it will not fade as science and technology and material prosperity alters the way we live,” Blair said. “We face an aggressive secular attack from without. We face the threat of extremism, often from within,” he added.

“These challenges are not for Muslims alone or Christians alone or Jews, Hindus or Buddhists for that matter. They are challenges for all people of faith. “Those who scorn God and those who do violence in God’s name both represent views of religion. But both offer no hope for faith in the 21st century,” he said. Blair, who became a Catholic months after he stepped down in mid-2007 after a 10-year run as Britain’s prime minister, spoke at a Georgetown-sponsored conference, “A Common Word Between Us and You: A Global Agenda for Change.”

Catholic women’s group faces financial, membership woes JACKSONVILLE, Fla. (CNS) — Members of the National Council of Catholic Women heard bleak news from their top officers at their recent convention in Jacksonville: The organization is rapidly shrinking, going broke and was operating with a policy-setting structure that was not only unwieldy, but also illegal according to the laws of incorporation. But the 900 or so women gathered for the meeting also heard a message of hope from their president, regional vice presidents, treasurer and other leaders: We’re already working on it and, with your help, we can fix it.

“We all know that times have changed, our beloved church has changed, society has changed. It’s time for [the NCCW] to change,” said Bobbie Hunt of Layton, Utah, president of the organization made up of members of women’s groups at nearly 4,000 parishes and other Catholic entities and about 4,000 individual members. During the convention’s Sept.

24 session on “The Future of NCCW,” Hunt and other officers reported the findings of a thorough assessment of the organization’s standing. “A new management model is needed and the board is exploring a number of options,” said Patty Johnson of Knoxville, Tenn., a regional vice president who reported on management and operations issues revealed in the assessment.

THE LEAVEN • october 16, 2009

Nobel to Obama greeted with high hopes at Vatican

Woman’s cure led to a canonization

By Anna Weaver

Catholic News Service HONOLULU (CNS) — In her 44 years as a teacher, Audrey Toguchi, now retired, doled out a lot of advice to her students.

Since she was publicly identified in April 2008 as the woman whose cancer cure the Vatican declared as the second miracle needed to make Blessed Damien de Veuster of Molokai a saint, she finds herself in the role of adviser again.

This time she is counseling people who find her unlisted telephone number, who approach her in stores, who write her letters or who contact her through others. They want her guidance and her prayers for them and their loved ones. Toguchi listens and responds.

“You have people who have problems and they just need to be reassured that God is there for them,” she told the Hawaii Catholic Herald, newspaper of the Honolulu Diocese.

And although Toguchi, a friendly 81-yearold who converses easily with a warm, peaceful smile, is happy to help in any way she can, it can be overwhelming to be suddenly at the center of so much attention.

While on the official Diocese of Honolulu pilgrimage to Belgium and Italy Oct. 3-13, Toguchi was asked to give a fiveminute talk to an estimated 3,000 people the night before Blessed Damien’s canonization and also be interviewed for a future “20/20” documentary.

Toguchi said she gets a range of reactions from people now who know about her miracle, and she certainly wouldn’t want to call what she’s experiencing “fame.”

“You know you’re just a common person. Just like Abraham Lincoln said, ‘God loves the common man,’” she said.

That’s one reason she has always been devoted to Blessed Damien.

Toguchi made the simple life of the priest the focus of her Oct. 10 Rome talk. The “kicker” conclusion was a quote from an anecdotal story called “Hot Chocolate”: “Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly. Leave the rest to God. Remember, the richest person is not the one that has the most, but the one who needs the least.”

“I think that’s so appropriate for Father Damien,” she said.

By Carol Glatz

Catholic News Service

CNS photo/Mike Crupi, Catholic Courier

CNS photo/Max Rossi, Reuters

PRIEST BLESSES DOG — Father Adam Ogorzaly blesses a Pomeranian named Lola as parishioner Renata Woloszanski holds Lola during a Oct. 3 pet blessing at St. Stanislaus Kostka Church in Rochester, N.Y. The annual blessing coincides with the Oct. 4 feast day of St. Francis of Assisi, patron saint of animals and the environment.

ARTIST PERFORMS DURING CONCERT— An artist performs during a concert, attended by Pope Benedict XVI, to mark the 70th anniversary of the start of World War II at a concert hall in Rome Oct. 8.

Faith-based groups urge Senate to pass climate bill

Church needs to help women in polygamous marriages

By Dennis Sadowski Catholic News Service

WASHINGTON (CNS) — Faith-based advocates are ratcheting up efforts to get the U.S. Senate to pass legislation that addresses the causes of climate change and funds programs to help people in the world’s poorest countries deal with the impact of global warming.

Under a campaign called DaySix — the day the Book of Genesis teaches that humans were created by God — the advocates outlined a lobbying campaign and introduced a corresponding Web site Oct. 8 during a nationwide teleconference.

Primarily utilizing new media and the Internet, the campaign is designed to rouse people of faith to urge senators to pass climate-change legislation sooner rather than later.

Among the groups organizing the campaign were Catholic Relief Services, the U.S. bishops’ overseas relief and development agency, the Evangelical Environmental Network, Interfaith Power and Light, the Coalition on the Environment and Jewish Life, and Renewal: Students Caring for Creation.

The advocates said millions of people around the world already are feeling

the effects of climate change through extended drought, reduced crop yields, stronger storms and the spread of more virulent forms of tropical diseases.

Bill O’Keefe, director of policy and advocacy for CRS, said the world’s poorest people have done the least to cause global warming but are bearing the brunt of climate change.

“In the debate so far, there has been more attention to polar bears than on people,” O’Keefe told the teleconference. “This is what has motivated us. It’s a critical human development issue.

“We already see how climate change is affecting the lives of those we serve in 100 countries or so where we support projects,” he explained. “We’re witnessing the real inconvenient truth that those contributing the least to the problem are going to be affected the most.”

The campaign was introduced with the goal of getting the Senate to act before the Conference of the Parties to the U.N. Framework Convention on Climate Change Dec. 7-18 in Copenhagen, Denmark. The framework convention, or treaty, has the goal of preventing “dangerous” human interference with the climate system. It was adopted at the 1992 Earth Summit in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, but it is nonbinding.

By Cindy Wooden

Catholic News Service VATICAN CITY (CNS) — The Catholic Church in Africa needs to make special provisions for women who want to join the church, but are denied the sacraments because they are in polygamous marriages, a bishop from Ghana said.

Bishop Matthew Kwasi Gyamfi of Sunyani told the Synod of Bishops for Africa Oct. 8 that, because of a tradition established long before Christianity arrived on the continent, “many African women find themselves in polygamous marriages through no fault of their own.”

The bishop’s speech came during an abbreviated session of the synod, which met only for an hour so that the bishops and Pope Benedict XVI could attend a concert, “Youth Against War,” marking the 70th anniversary of the outbreak of World War II and the 20th anniversary of the fall of the Berlin Wall.

Bishop Gyamfi said the church’s practice of baptizing married people and admitting them to the other sacraments only if they are part of a monogamous relationship creates enormous difficulties for many women.

“The church needs to address this painful and unpleasant situation in Africa by giving some special privileges to

women” who “through no fault of their own have become victims of polygamous marriages,” the bishop said.

Especially if they have children, women in polygamous marriages face social rejection and serious economic hardship if they try to end their relationships with their husbands, the bishop said.

In addition, he said, “in cases where women have walked away without the consent of the husbands and the extended families, the church has been cited for injustice, insecurity, breaking up families, fomenting disunity and destroying social cohesion.”

The real difficulties for the women and their children have discouraged many women from formally joining the church, Bishop Gyamfi said.

“The result is that, in some parts of Africa, many women attend church regularly and actively participate in all church activities, but are denied the sacraments of initiation, reconciliation and marriage,” not to mention “the many denied fitting Christian burial for not being baptized,” he said.

Receiving the women into the church without making them leave their husbands “will enable them to share in the peace and reconciliation offered by the compassion and peace of Our Lord Jesus Christ who came to call sinners and not the self-righteous,” Bishop Gyamfi said.

VATICAN CITY (CNS) — News that U.S. President Barack Obama had been awarded the Nobel Peace Prize was met with high hopes from the Vatican spokesman.

Jesuit Father Federico Lombardi told journalists Oct. 9 that the news “was greeted with appreciation at the Vatican in light of the president’s demonstrated commitment to promoting peace on an international level and, in particular, in recently promoting nuclear disarmament.”

“It is hoped that this very important recognition would offer greater encouragement for such a difficult but fundamental dedication to the future of humanity so that it may bring about the desired results,” he said in a written statement.

The new U.S. ambassador to the Vatican, Miguel Diaz, told Vatican Radio that the president was being recognized for his efforts in working to build understanding between people and eliminate nuclear weapons from all parts of the world.

Winning the Nobel Peace Prize is a great encouragement to keep working toward building a better world, said Diaz.

He said that when he presented his credentials as the new U.S. ambassador Oct. 2, Pope Benedict XVI “made clear to me how grateful he was” that Obama was especially committed to ridding the world of nuclear weapons.

Archbishop Wilton D. Gregory of Atlanta said it “clearly was an unexpected honor to come to the president” and he hopes that “it leaves an invitation for greatness.”

“I hope in receiving the award, the president realizes and responds to the great challenge that has been placed before him,” he told Catholic News Service Oct. 9.

“The world has sent a signal, at least insofar as the Nobel Prize is concerned, that it has high expectations for him and hopes he will live up to the energy and the positive things that he has thus far set on the world stage,” he added.

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Marking fall of Berlin Wall, bishops warn of crisis in values PARIS (CNS) — Europe’s Catholic bishops have commemorated the end of their continent’s East-West division while also warning that it now faces a crisis of values. “Twenty years ago, we witnessed a great moment: the fall of the Berlin Wall.

It was a turning point that did not simply come out of the blue; it came as a result of determined and bold men who did not lack their own freedom,” said the Swiss-based Council of European Bishops’ Conferences, which represents about 1,200 bishops. “We now see that the incredible European project, with a strong ethical basis, has greatly weakened,” the council said. “The hopes placed on building Europe have not, so far, been fulfilled.” In a message at the close of the council’s Oct. 1-4 assembly in Paris, the bishops said Catholics should remember “the many battles fought for solidarity and respect for human dignity” in Central and Eastern Europe, as well as the “fundamental role” of Pope John Paul II in supporting “a Europe based on foundations of faith, the common good and peace.” They added that the November 1989 dismantling of the Berlin Wall had been “a great stepping stone in the European adventure,” but said later developments in the European Union had been accompanied by developments that went “against the authentic good.”

Genetically modified crops call for caution, bishop tells synod VATICAN CITY (CNS) — Africa should be cautious in its approach to genetically modified agriculture “even if it promises economic salvation” for the impoverished continent, a bishop from Cameroon said.

Bishop George Nkuo of Kumbo said Oct. 7 that because the long-term impact of such new technology on human and environmental health is still not clear, “we in Cameroon suggest that Africa should not rush blindly to embrace it.” Speaking at the Synod of Bishops for Africa, Bishop Nkuo emphasized that poverty poses “one of the great obstacles to justice, peace and reconciliation” and is “the single greatest cause of hunger” in Africa. Increased food production using better agricultural methods on the continent is key to pulling its people out of extreme poverty, he said. But while new discoveries in science must be part of the solution, Bishop Nkuo said, serious questions regarding the safety of the new GMOs (genetically modified organisms) need to be addressed.

On the other hand, he said, the new methods promise that “not only will the quality of life for the poorest people be improved, but they will also begin the process of economic development” so important to Africa.

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EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation * Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!!

Call Lupe at (816) 252-3376 STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Call for free estimates.

Cell: (913) 579-1835; phone: (913) 491-5837; e-mail: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity Church, Lenexa.

For rent Living at its best on a budget! - 1 BR apt., with rent based on income; all utilities paid; no voucher needed. Section 8 assistance. Great location, only 5-10 minutes from The Legends in Kansas City, Kan. Edwardsville Court Apartments Highrise, 531 S. 4th St., Edwardsville. Call (913) 441-6007. EHO. Handicap accessible.

Shawnee condo for rent – 2 BR, 2 BA with fireplace, washer/dryer, patio, carport; Johnson Dr. and Quivira, Shawnee. Walk to St. Joseph Church. All utilities paid except phone and cable. $725/month. Call (913) 631-3427.

Real Estate 87th and Metcalf, Overland Park - Two great condos for sale. A 1 BR on the first floor that is like new! The second is a 2 BR, 2 BA. Fine appliances, beautiful grounds and pool. Close to everything.

Priced right!! ($8,000 tax credit to first-time buyers).

Call John with Lacy Realty at (913) 642-4564.

Seneca home FSBO - Newly updated 5 BR, 3 BA Victorian home is located in Sts. Peter and Paul Parish. Newly constructed Sts. Peter and Paul School as well as new public school in community. Four lots, three-car attached garage, fenced-in backyard, large cement dog run and sprinkler system. Wraparound porch plus two patios. Beautiful hardwood floors and new carpet. Very large walk-in pantry/laundry room.

15 x 30 ft. storage above garage. A must see! Call (785) 336-9933.

Beautiful Lenexa home - Large, 5 BR, 3-1/2 BA home located one block from St. Thomas Aquinas High School. Enjoy a 26 x 16 in-ground pool with a cedar deck. Finished lower level with second fireplace, BR/office and full bath. Recently upgraded hardwood floors and many extras, plus a $5000 allowance for kitchen. 13322 W. 113th St. $225,000. Call RoseMary, Masters GMAC Realty, at (913) 661- 9744.

Beautiful Shawnee home FSBO - Wonderful ranch-style home located in St. Joseph Parish; 10925 W. 51st Terr. 3 BR, 2 BA with finished walkout basement, large wood deck and a fenced yard. $215,000.

To view, call (913) 268-4459.

Lake house – Beautiful and private Lake Kahola, less than 2 hours from the KC area. Only 10 miles off I-35 at Emporia exit. This home sleeps 10+ with a 2-car garage, plus a private boat ramp and dock. Located at the water’s edge on a quiet cove. Call Cy at (316) 262-0888.

Small apartment or room to rent - Retired nurse is seeking modest living accommodations in the JoCo area. Call Pam at (913) 579- 5276.

Vacation Ski cabin in Winter Park, Colo. – 2 BR, 1 BA, on free ski shuttle route. $110/night. Call (913) 6423027. To view pictures, visit the Web site at: cabin. forcadeassociates.com.

Ski vacation - Winter Park, Colo. 2 BR, 1 BA, sleeps 6. Fully furnished, fireplace, rec. center with pool & hot tub. $125/night; $750/week. Call Joe Frederick at (913) 385-5589.

Childcare It’s not too late to join a preschool class - St. Joseph Early Education Center has a few openings left in our three- and five-day preschool program. To register your child in our award-winning school, call (913) 631-0004.

For sale For Sale - One plot in the Queen of Heaven Garden at Resurrection Cemetery, Lenexa. Includes grave liner and opening and closing of grave. $2,900. Call (417) 365-0760 or send an e-mail to: jmatravelers@ yahoo.com.

Residential lifts - Buy/sell/trade. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. Recycled and new equipment. Member of St. Michael the Archangel Parish, Leawood. Call Silver Cross KC at (913) 393-2042.

Bulk mulch - $35 per cu. yd. delivered (within our delivery area with a 2-yard minimum order) OR $70 per cu. yd. delivered and spread. Contact Joe Keehn at (913) 631-7217 or (913) 449-9848 or visit the Web site at: www.mokanmulch.com.

Avon products and opportunity - Buy or Sell Linda O’Neill, Independent Sales Representative.

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Wanted to buy ***WANTED*** I buy coins, older watches, silverware, slot machines, old rifles and shotguns, stoneware crocks and jugs, old furniture from basement or attic.

Call Chris at (913) 593-7507 or (913) 642-8269 Will buy firearms and related accessories One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee.

Oct. 16-17

The Garnett Knights of Columbus will host the annual Autumn Blaze Knights of Columbus barbecue contest, 5K walk/run for Special Olympics, and pumpkin festival on Oct. 16 - 17. To register a barbecue team or for information, visit the Web site at: www.garnettkofc.com.

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October is Respect Life Month.

Become a public witness to the atrocity of abortion. Join Father Tom Hesse on Oct. 17 for the archdiocesan monthly pro-life Mass at 8 a.m. at Sts. Cyril & Methodius Church, 44 N. Mill, Kansas City, Kan., followed by a rosary procession to an abortion clinic four blocks away. Eucharistic adoration is available for those not processing; Benediction concludes services at 10 a.m.

Join the Singles of Nativity for a day trip to celebrate Oktoberfest in Hermann, Mo., on Oct. 17. For information, send an e-mail to: social@son-ministry.org.

The Altar Society at St. Mary-St. Anthony Church, Kansas City, Kan., will host its annual Oktoberfest from 5 - 8 p.m. on Oct. 17 in Bishop Forst Hall, 615 N. 7th St., Kansas City, Kan. Traditional American and German foods will be served. The cost is $8 for adults; $4 for children ages 12 and under. Dinner tickets must be purchased in advance by calling the parish office at (913) 371-1408. There will also be a raffle and musical entertainment.

Join Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann at a benefit dinner to celebrate the 65th anniversary of Villa St. Francis, a skilled nursing center in Olathe sponsored by the archdiocese. The event will be on Oct. 17 in the parish hall at Church of the Ascension, 9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park. Social hour begins at 6 p.m., followed by dinner at 7 p.m. Entertainment will be provided by The Priest Band. For information or to purchase tickets, call (913) 592-3897.

Join the Singles of Nativity for happy hour, beginning at 6 p.m. on Oct. 17, at Houlihan’s, 11600 W. 95th St., Overland Park. Look for the yellow balloon and our greeters who will be at the table until 7:30 p.m. Questions?

Send an e-mail to: social@son-ministry.org.

A memorial liturgy for deceased loved ones will be held at 8 a.m. on Oct. 17 at Curé of Ars Church, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. The bereavement ministry will have its monthly meeting following Mass in the Father Burak Room. The topic will be: “Managing the Holidays.” For information, call (913) 649-2026.

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The Knights of Columbus, Council No. 12437 at Immaculate Conception Parish, Louisburg, will serve breakfast from 8 – 11 a.m. on Oct. 18 in the parish hall.

St. Mary Church, Purcell, will host a pancake luncheon from 11 a.m. – 1 p.m. on Oct. 18. A freewill offering will be collected. There will also be a silent auction for Red Wing crocks.

to the public. A question-and-answer session will immediately follow. For information, call (913) 758- 6165 or visit the Web site at: gsi. stmary.edu.

Queen of the Holy Rosary – Wea Parish, 22779 Metcalf Rd., Bucyrus, will host its annual fall bazaar and carnival from noon - 6 p.m. on Oct. 18. A fried chicken dinner with all the trimmings, homemade pies and desserts will be served from noon - 4 p.m.

The cost is: $8 for adults; $4 for children ages 3 - 12; children under three eat free. There will be bingo, a country craft store, religious items, a raffle and carnival games. For information, call (913) 533-2462, ext. 103, or visit the Web site at: www.holyrosarywea.org.

Divorced? Widowed? Beginning Experience Weekend gently helps people move through their loss to a new beginning in their lives. The Beginning Experience Weekend for the Kansas City area will be Oct. 23 - 25 at Sanctuary of Hope, 2601 Ridge Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or for registration material, call John at (913) 219-3465 in Kansas City, Sue at (785) 331-2216 in Lawrence, or visit the Web site at: www. beginningexperience. org.

The Singles of Nativity will host a progressive dinner at Carraba’s Restaurant, 10586 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, on Oct. 18. For information, send an e-mail to Dan Fagan at: dan@kingstonprinting.com.

The Daughters of Isabella, Little Flower Circle No. 503, will say a rosary for sick and deceased members at 1 p.m. on Oct. 18 at Rossiter Hall, 204 S.W. 8th, Topeka. A business meeting will follow.

Bishop Miege High School, 5041 Reinhardt Dr., Roeland Park, will host an open house for prospective students from 11 a.m.

- 3 p.m. on Oct. 18. This is the perfect time to meet our outstanding faculty and coaches, tour our facility and learn more about how you can find the best in Catholic education at Bishop Miege. For admissions information, contact Patti Marnett at (913) 262-2701, ext.

226, or send an e-mail to her at: pmarnett@ bishopmiege.com.

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The annual pro-life forum and essay contest will be held from 9:30 – 11:45 a.m. on Oct. 21 at the Church of the Nativity, 119th and Mission Rd., Leawood. All eighthgrade parochial students will be attending.

Parents are invited and encouraged to attend.

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The Knights of Columbus, Council No. 12437 at Immaculate Conception Parish, Louisburg, will host bingo on Oct. 22 in the parish hall. The doors and concession stand open at 6 p.m.; bingo will begin at 7 p.m.

“Soups, Stews and Such,” a nutrition presentation, will be offered from 9:30 – 11 a.m. on Oct. 22 at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.

The University of Saint Mary will host retired U.S. Army Col. Lawrence Wilkerson, former chief of staff to then-Secretary of State Colin Powell, to speak on “Why the American Empire May Be Finished” at 7 p.m. on Oct. 22 in the Xavier Theatre, 4100 S. 4th St., Leavenworth. He will discuss how the stresses of maintaining both the welfare state and the national security state may dramatically change America’s role in the world and bring the so-called American Empire to a close. This event is free and open

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Sophia Center, 751 S. 8th St., Atchison, will host a retreat, entitled “Everywhere A Blessing: A Celtic Spirituality,” presented by Therese Elias, OSB, from 7 p.m. on Oct. 23 through 1 p.m. on Oct. 25. The cost is $180; advance deposit is $35. For information or to register, call (913) 360-6151.

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Bishop Ward High School, 708 N. 18th St., Kansas City, Kan., will host its annual auction at 6 p.m. on Oct. 24 at the Reardon Center, 520 Minnesota Ave., Kansas City, Kan. Tickets cost $60 and include dinner, a live auction, a silent auction, and other festivities.

For information, visit the Web site at: www. cyclonecountry.org; call Sarah Dee at (913) 371-6901; or send an e-mail to her at: sdee@ wardhigh.org.

The Johnson County Unos will gather for 4:30 p.m. Mass on Oct. 24 at St. Pius X Church, 5601 Woodson, Mission. Dinner will follow at Perkins Restaurant, 11200 W. 87th St., Lenexa.

A craft and gift bazaar will be held from 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. on Oct. 24 in McDevitt Hall (church basement) at St. Joseph Church, 11311 Johnson Dr., Shawnee. Over 40 vendors will showcase their crafts, candles, jewelry, home decor and more! Refreshments will be provided by the St. Joseph Garden Club. For information, call Connie Davidson at (913) 631-7757 or Shannon Foley at (913) 825-4353.

St. Matthew Parish, 2700 S.E. Virginia Ave., Topeka, will host a fall festival on Oct. 24 -25. On Saturday, there will be a 5K run/ walk and fun run at 9 a.m., a Mass at 5 p.m., and a chili cook-off and supper at 6 p.m.

Live music will be performed by area schools and bands. There will also be a beer garden and traditional fall activities. On Sunday, a turkey dinner will be served from 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. in the newly dedicated parish hall. There will also be children’s games and inflatables, crafts, baked goods, jewelry and a health fair.

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The Mary, Health of the Sick Guild will host a pancake breakfast from 8 a.m. – 1 p.m. on Oct. 25 in Spurlock Hall at St. Peter Cathedral, 409 N. 15th St., Kansas City, Kan., to benefit the Sisters, Servants of Mary.

The cost is $6 for adults; $4 for children.

Sacred Heart Parish, Paxico, will host an old-fashioned smoked German sau-

CALENDAR 13 sage supper from noon – 5 p.m. on Oct. 25 in the Knights of Columbus Hall in Newbury (1-1/2 miles north of Paxico). The cost is: $8 for adults; $3.50 for children ages 6 – 12; and $2.50 for children ages 2 – 5. There will also be bingo, a beer garden, a silent auction, and games for all ages.

Holy Angels Parish, Garnett, will host a fall bazaar and dinner on Oct. 25 in the school. A buffet-style dinner will be served from 11 a.m. - 2 p.m. The cost is: $8 for adults; $4 for children; $9 for carryouts. There will also be bingo, a raffle, crafts and homemade baked goods for sale.

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SKIP (Special Kids, Informed Parents), a group for parents of children with any type of disability or special need, will meet at 7 p.m. on Oct. 26 and every fourth Monday of the month in the community room at the Seneca Public Library, Seneca.

Misc.

“Coping With Grief,” a series for those grieving the loss of a loved one, will be offered on Tuesdays from 6:30 - 8 p.m. through Oct. 27 at Good Shepherd Church, in the Romero Chapel, 12800 W. 75th St., Shawnee.

For registration or information, call Bernadine Asher at (913) 563-5304.

There will be a Divine Mercy day of recollection, featuring professor Ted Sri and Father Bill Bruning, from 9 a.m. - 3 p.m. on Nov. 14 at Most Pure Heart of Mary Parish, 17th and Stone, Topeka. Registration begins at 7:30 a.m.; Mass at 7:55 a.m. The cost is: $20 per person, with lunch; $15, without lunch.

You must be preregistered to attend. To register, mail check, by Nov. 8, to: Topeka Divine Mercy Apostolate, 5940 N.W. Westbrooke Dr., Topeka, KS 66617.

Project Rachel is offering weekly support groups throughout October in the KC metro area for those hurting from an abortion.

Registration is required. For information, call Patricia at (913) 621-2199 or 1 (888) 246-1504.

All calls are strictly confidential.

The Singles of Nativity will gather for round-robin-style tennis on Sundays at 4 p.m. and on Wednesdays at 6 p.m. at the Indian Creek Recreational Center, 103rd St. and Marty, Overland Park, on Sundays throughout the spring, weather permitting. Beginners are welcome. Join us for fun tennis, and good company. We may go out for a light dinner afterwards.

“Living Free: Re-enter and Re-start,” a weekly support group for women who have recently been released from incarceration, will be held from 1 – 2 p.m. on Mondays at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.

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THE LEAVEN • october 16, 2009

THE LEAVEN • october 16, 2009

Learn to ‘live in full swing’ through one-day program

Mark my words

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“Priests have the gift of entering into people’s lives at such important times — in moments of conversion, crisis, and great joy. I might go from a funeral in the morning to a wedding in the afternoon, to hearing confessions and celebrating Mass, then back to the wedding reception — all in one day. You can go from the beginning to the end of life all in one weekend.”

Father Matthew Schiffelbein, associate pastor of Church of the Ascension in Overland Park See story on page 5

“F

ather, have you eaten yet?”

I must have heard this question 50 times or more this past Sunday during my parish’s annual turkey dinner and bazaar. For the past several years, I’ve taken up residence at the door to the parish center in order to greet people as they arrive and point them in the right direction for the food line.

Doing this for several minutes doesn’t concern people; doing it for several hours in a row prompts the “Have you eaten?” question.

My response was, “No, not yet, but don’t worry. I’m standing here right in front of the dessert table and I’ve gained at least 10 pounds from the ‘second-hand’ calories that are drifting my way!” (And, honestly, going for a few hours without stuffing my face would not hurt me in the least!)

There are actually two reasons why I don’t sit down and eat at the parish bazaar. The first is a selfish one, in a sense. When I eat, I like to savor the food in front of me. I know from past experience that the food served on this day is fabulous; it truly is “comfort” food: turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes and gravy, green beans and corn, cole slaw, cranberry sauce, rolls, and pies to die for.

As most priests will tell you, though, when you sit down at a gathering like this, you’re lucky to get a couple of forkfuls of food in your mouth before being interrupted by people who would like to say hello or chat. So, I choose to get a carryout — OK, make that two carryouts — that I can enjoy at home after all of the activities of bazaar day are over.

Don’t get me wrong: I’m delighted

Oct. 18 Twenty-ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time Is 53: 10-11; Ps 33: 4-5, 18-20, 22; Heb 4: 14-16; Mk 10: 35-45 Oct. 19 John de Brébeuf and Isaac Jogues, priests, martyrs, and their companions, martyrs Rom 4: 20-25; (Ps) Lk 1: 69-75; Lk 12: 13-21 Oct. 20 Paul of the Cross, priest Rom 5: 12, 15b, 17-19, 20b-21; Ps 40: 7-10, 17; Lk 12: 35-38 Oct. 21 Wednesday Rom 6: 12-18; Ps 124: 1-8; Lk 12: 39-48 Oct. 22 Thursday Rom 6: 19-23; Ps 1: 1-4, 6; Lk 12: 49-53 Oct. 23 John of Capistrano, priest Rom 7: 18-25a; Ps 119: 66, 68, 76-77, 93, 94; Lk 12: 54-59 Oct. 24 Anthony Mary Claret, bishop Rom 8: 1-11; Ps 24: 1-6; Lk 13: 1-9

that people come up and chat. And that’s why I stand by the door: It makes it much easier to visit with almost everyone who comes in. Because I’m not “distracted” by any rapidly cooling food on a plate in front of me, I can instead focus on the guests: friends from my home parish of St. John the Baptist Kansas City, Kan.; former parishioners from other parishes where I’ve served; good people from the Tonganoxie community; people from neighboring Catholic churches; and even my own parishioners that I often don’t get to interact with informally.

In other words, the fellowship is just as important as the food. Perhaps this little story makes the point clearer: It was Thanksgiving, but there were no delicious smells of turkey roasting, no pies on the sideboard, no festive table setting. The mother had just lost her job and a daughter’s tiny salary went to pay the rent. A son was still in school and, with no father in the home, things looked bleak. The mother had wrapped day-old bread in a paper sack and set it to warm in the oven. When the doorbell rang, the mother panicked. She was proud and didn’t want anyone to know how bad things were.

She opened the door and there stood Mr. Gold, her neighbor. With his arms full of grocery bags and a shy smile, he asked, “Can I come begging?

Here it is Thanksgiving Day and I have no place to go and no one to share it with.”

Although embarrassed, the mother invited him in and started to explain.

But Mr. Gold interrupted her, “Look, I have all this food. It’s only chicken, but who’s to know?” Then he began unpacking the groceries — enough for a Thanksgiving feast, from soup to nuts, plus a mincemeat and a pumpkin pie.

Mr. Gold didn’t eat much, but nobody seemed to notice. When he was leaving, he thanked the family for taking such good care of a lonely old man that holiday. (Adapted from Florence Myles’ “Heart of Gold,” found in “Sower’s Seeds That Nurture Family Values: Sixth Planting” by Brian Cavanaugh, TOR.) We had a big crowd at our parish dinner. I’m sure that the unseasonably cold and gray weather had something to do with that. Since it looked and felt like Thanksgiving, people must have been drawn by the thought of a turkey dinner.

But I’m sure that it was more than that. There’s something special about sharing a meal with others. It’s not just the food that we crave; it’s the connection and conversation with others.

The food serves as a springboard to sharing life. This is one of the reasons we celebrate the Eucharist together each week. It’s also, I suspect, why these parish dinners continue to be so popular.

I’ll close with a little food for thought: This weekend, take a road trip to a parish offering a dinner or plan one to share with family or friends.

Your body and soul will thank you.

the gospel truth

Scripture Readings TWENTy-ninth WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME

How about a little food for thought?

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Ambition divided disciples, as it does us

hat is the best way to ask your boss for a promotion or for an increase in salary? Do you begin by reminding him or her of your good qualities, how your work has benefited the company?

Or, do you blurt out the request and take it from there?

in imagining what Jesus might accomplish? Or, do they mean the glory that will surround Jesus when he returns at the end of the world as the Son of Man, seated on the clouds and accompanied

by God’s angels? Which kind of glory do James and John mean?

I would guess that they James and John take the have in mind earthly glory, Twenty-NINth second approach in Sunday’s while Jesus might think inSunday in Ordinary Gospel reading, Mk 10:35stead of heavenly glory. But Time 45. They tell Jesus that they it is not clear.

Mk 10: 35-45 are asking him for a favor: What is clear is that “Teacher, we want you to do Jesus is thinking along very for us whatever we ask of you.” And different lines than James and John, then they make their request for a and he realizes it. That is why he tells privileged position when Jesus comes them: “You do not know what you are into power: “Grant that in your glory asking.” we may sit one at your right and the The request of James and John other at your left.” sparks a violent reaction from the In making their request, James and other apostles: “When the ten heard John refer to Jesus’ future glory. Do this, they became indignant at James they mean the glory of an earthly king and John.” Because Jesus rebukes who has succeeded in overthrowing those ten apostles, along with James Roman rule to establish his own? Are and John, we can conclude that they they projecting their own ambitions similarly were guilty of ambition. They

were angry at James and John — not because they judged that what James and John had done was wrong, but because they had not thought of making such a request themselves.

They were all guilty of ambition, the remaining 10 apostles as well as James and John. And that ambition led to division and quarreling. Had Jesus granted the request of James and John that “we may sit one at your right and the other at your left,” James and John would have undoubtedly ended up arguing about which of the two would occupy the more privileged right-hand seat. Their selfish ambition would inevitably lead to more disunity. Jesus’ teaching on service and humility aims to protect the integrity of the group.

Later on, other writings in the New Testament will echo that goal: “Live in the manner worthy of the call you have received, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another through love, striving to preserve the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace” (Eph 4:1-3).

The goal that Jesus desires for his small group of disciples is also the goal he wishes for us.

Father Mike Stubbs is pastor of St. Francis de Sales Parish in Lansing and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.

Leavenworth — Maximize your mind/body/spirit performance with purposeful risk-taking. Learn how by attending the program “Living in Full Swing” on Nov. 10 from 9 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. at Marillac Center, 4200 S. 4th St., here.

Cathy Newton of PRT Consulting and Sister Noreen Walter of Marillac Center will facilitate this personal enrichment program. The seminar is open to persons interested in self-improvement or development. Through the Providence Medical Center education department, the course is approved for five contact hour credits for continuing nursing education.

Newton is the risk enhancer. She is a professional speaker, the author of three books, and a facilitator who helps people take on challenges, improve performance and regain energy. Sister Noreen is the director of Marillac Center and a certified spiritual director.

Through stories and examples, she inspires others to live life to the fullest.

The fee of $50 includes lunch and a copy of “Living in Full Swing” by Newton. Scholarships are available for those unable to pay for the program. The book and the course focus on practical strategies and purposeful risk-taking required to achieve innovation, influence, immediacy, integrity and inspiration.

Register online at: www.Marillac Center.org. For more information, call (913) 758-6552.

Fred Thompson set to speak at Vitae Foundation benefit dinner women with local pregnancy cenKANSAS CITY, Mo. — American politician, actor, attorney, lobbyist, ters where they can find caring and radio host Fred Thompson will support and resources to make an be here to speak at the Vitae Foun- informed decision. Not only do these pregnancy centers provide dation’s annual pro-life benefit the information and redinner on Oct. 24 at the sources to make that dedowntown Marriott. The cision, they also provide benefit raises money to assistance throughout help reach out to womand after the pregnancy en facing unplanned with material support pregnancies and confor mother and baby and nect them with local parenting classes. resources where they Thompson is coming can make an informed to extend his support in decision.

Vitae’s mass communiVitae is partnering cations effort to reduce with local pregnancy Fred Thompson abortion numbers. In an centers to launch a Calleffort to build this campaign even for-Help media campaign this fall larger, so that more lives can be in the Greater Kansas City area.

Vitae will be phasing in a total of saved, Vitae is asking for support as it develops a strategy that will 90 billboards over the next 30 days reach out to those women and bathat advertise free abortion alterbies who are most in need of help. natives and list phone numbers The dinner and program will connecting women with a local pregnancy center where they begin at 7 p.m. at the downtown Marriott – Muehlebach Tower. Rescan get free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, confidential options ervations can be made by calling (800) 393-5791. The cost is $50 counseling, and many more serper person ($25 is tax-deductible). vices.

Many women feel scared and Seating is limited.

For additional information, visit confused when facing an unplanned pregnancy. Vitae’s goal is the Web site at: www.vitaecaring to use advertising to connect these foundation.org.

LOCAL NEWS 15 Mary and Leo Wiederholt, members of St. Therese Parish, Richmond, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Oct. 24 at 6 p.m. with a Mass of thanksgiving at the church.

A reception will be held at the Richmond Community Building from 2 to 4 p.m. on Oct. 25. The couple was married on Oct. 24, 1959, at Sacred Heart Church in Ottawa. Their children and their spouses are: Theresa and Bill Horinek, Newkirk, Okla.; Kathleen and Scott Tryon, Hiawatha; and Sandy and Rick Vrbas, Ottawa. They also have 10 grandchildren.

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Send notices to: The Leaven, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109, attn: anniversaries; or e-mail: Todd@ theleaven.com. If you would like your photo returned to you, please include a self-addressed stamped envelope.

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THE LEAVEN • october 16, 2009

Leaven photo by Susan McSpadden

From left, superintendent of archdiocesan schools Kathy O’Hara, Cathedral rector Father Harry Schneider, Resurrection school board president Joanne Huey, and All Saints pastor Father Dan Gardner applaud the naming of Resurrection as the 2009 Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann School of Excellence.

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Ann Connor, principal of Resurrection Catholic School at the Cathedral in Kansas City, Kan., accepts the School of Excellence award at the annual Gaudeamus Dinner held on Oct. 10.

Angelic evening Catholic Education Foundation’s Gaudeamus dinner a record success

By Jill Ragar Esfeld Special to The Leaven

OVERLAND PARK — A record crowd, inspiring presentations and an outpouring of generous donations: There was much to celebrate at Catholic Education Foundation’s (CEF) seventh annual Gaudeamus Dinner this year.

Resurrection Catholic School at the Cathedral in Kansas City, Kan., received the Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann School of Excellence award, and John and Pat Menghini were recognized as “Angels Among Us” for their outstanding contributions to Catholic education.

CEF executive director Michael Morrisey opened the evening’s celebration by announcing a record crowd of 863 in attendance. Abbot Barnabas Senecal, OSB, set the mood by singing a beautiful opening prayer blessing.

The evening’s master of ceremonies was local news celebrity Stan Cramer, a graduate of Rockhurst High School in Kansas City, Mo., and Creighton University in Omaha, Neb., who told the audience, “Catholic education has always been dear to my heart.”

Entertainment was provided by vocalist Ron Gutierrez, a graduate of Hayden High School in Topeka, and the St. Thomas Aquinas Chorale directed by Joe Heidesch.

CEF showcased its work and accomplishments in a video montage of schools and children supported by the foundation.

The video was an inspiring illustration of what it means for children to receive a quality, faith-based education. It informed the audience that one in five CEF school students receives tuition assistance through a CEF scholarship.

Donating to CEF is a sure way to see that local money helps local kids, it explained, because one hundred percent of CEF donations go directly to scholarships. The archdiocese pays the operating costs.

After the video, Cramer encouraged patrons to visit CEF schools saying, “If you ever get a chance to give one of these schools a visit, we promise you’ll stay all day.”

Guest speaker Jackie Saavedra, a graduate of Christ the King School and Bishop Ward High School in Kansas City, Kan., then discussed the difference CEF made in her life.

“CEF is a committed group of Catholics for whom I’m very grateful,” said Saavedra.

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Catholic Education Foundation executive director Michael Morrisey (left) visits with “Angels Among Us” award winners John and Pat Menghini at the Gaudeamus Dinner held Oct. 10. The Menghinis were recognized for their outstanding contributions to Catholic education.

She recalled how her family struggled through financial difficulties and how a CEF scholarship to Bishop Ward changed the direction of her life.

“There had to be a deeper meaning to life than just living every day for yourself,” she said.

Saavedra is currently a student at Rockhust University in Kansas City, Mo., with her sights set on law school.

She said she hopes one day to be able to help other students with scholarships through CEF. Mark Ledom, past board chair, followed Saavedra, praising the Catholic Church’s commitment to helping those in need.

“If we can teach a child to read in third grade at a third-grade level,” he said, “the chance of that child being successful multiplies ten times.”

Ledom illustrated CEF’s rate of success with statistics from Bishop Ward, where 98.7 percent of incoming freshman graduate and 93 percent go on to further education. In public schools,

only 50 percent of students continue their education.

“A man is never as tall,” concluded Ledom, “as when he stoops to help a child.”

One of the highlights of the evening was the announcement of this year’s school of excellence by superintendent Dr. Kathleen O’Hara and Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann.

Resurrection principal Ann Connor accepted the award on behalf of the school, offering thanks to the priests, teachers and staff.

“The heart of Resurrection is the parents who believed in the consolidation,” she said.

The archbishop and board chair Nelson Newcomer then presented the 2009 “Angels Among Us” honorees, John and Pat Menghini.

John Menghini spoke for the couple, saying he and his wife felt “humble to be in the company of those who have been honored before.”

Menghini talked about being in-

spired by his mother, a Catholic schoolteacher, who always said, “If you want to have benefits in heaven, you can’t have them on earth.”

He said he and his wife hoped their recognition would bring more attention to past successes and future challenges of CEF. “Helping kids get to Harvard is important,” he said, “but there’s nothing as important as getting kids to heaven.”

The evening concluded with the archbishop blessing the guardian angel medals that were distributed to guests by students from CEF-sponsored schools. Gutierrez, accompanied by the St. Thomas chorale, sang “Angels Among Us.” It was announced that the evening had raised $96,205.

Archbishop Naumann closed the evening by thanking the guests for being “messengers of love and care.”

“Let everything you do,” he said, “be to the glory of God.”