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ANSAS CITY, Mo. — Visitors to the Giving the Basics warehouse see well-organized bins, barrels and carts. Teresa Hamilton sees containers brimming with dignity and success for the needy. The charity’s executive director and founder — and Queen of the Holy Rosary, Wea, parishioner — was inspired in what she says was a catalyzing moment in her life, like the turning on of a proverbial spiritual light bulb. It started off simply enough: A family in need came to the attention of Hamilton and a small group of people. The family had food, but no hygiene products. After helping with those and other cleanliness needs, one family member regained her dignity and got a job. That became the formula for Giving the Basics. “Yay!” thought Hamilton, when she realized how much the products had helped that family. “Yay, God!” But the idea, born Nov. 11, 2011, in Hamilton’s garage, seemed to take on a life of its own. Now, Giving the Basics occupies about 18,000 square feet in Dean’s Downtown Underground on W. 31st St. near the Coleman Highlands neighborhood in Kansas City, Missouri. The Dean family has been instrumental in helping the charity grow, charging the nonprofit much-reduced rent. “All this got lost in food,” said Hamilton, as she gestured toward carts, shelves and bins of shampoo, laundry detergent and packages of incontinence supplies. “Food stamps (the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program) take care of food, but they can’t be used for any of this.” Giving the Basics serves pantries and Catholic Charities organizations on both sides of the state line. This year to date, Giving has logged 577,423 items at the 65 pantries served. At Metro Lutheran Ministry in Kansas City, Missouri, Kimberlye Bernard oversees the food pantry. “We have been partners with Giving the Basics for almost two years now,” she said. “It has been >> See “OPERATION” on page 4
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Volunteers at Giving the Basics sort and package items such as razors, combs, shampoo, deodorant and feminine products — things that can’t be bought with food stamps and aren’t readily available at emergency assistance centers. The items are donated to clients all across that Kansas City metro area.
Members of the archdiocesan Hispanic community look to the future. Page 3
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60th birthday is a significant milestone. On Oct. 23 this year, what is today Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas marked the 60th anniversary of its founding by Archbishop Edward J. Hunkeler. The Catholic Church had been doing charitable work in our part of Kansas long before 1956. Archbishop Hunkeler wanted, however, to establish an organization that would provide oversight and skilled management to the church’s efforts to make the love of Jesus tangible by addressing the human and material needs of many within the community. Catholic Charities was initially focused on facilitating the adoption of children and serving the needs of both the birth and adoptive parents. However, in a very short amount of time, Catholic Charities was providing food, clothing and financial assistance to those in need. Catholic Charities’ first Emergency Assistance Center was established in 1965. Today, Catholic Charities operates Emergency Assistance Centers in Kansas City, Atchison, Emporia, Leavenworth, Lawrence, Olathe, Overland Park and Topeka. We also have mobile resource buses that bring assistance to other areas of the Archdiocese. This past year, Catholic Charities responded to
LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN 248,480 requests for food assistance. While Catholic Charities continues to assist with adoptions, the breadth of services provided today by Catholic Charities is astounding. Catholic Charities helps to resettle refugees, operates Shalom House — an emergency shelter for men — organizes a summer food program for children and provides in-home support for the elderly as well as hospice care to assist families with the care of a loved one during their final days of life in this world. The Catholic Church has been providing assistance to refugees and immigrants for decades. Last year, Catholic Charities resettled 329 refugees, placed 322 in jobs and enrolled 226 in English language classes. Successful resettlement programs are time intensive, but positively
change the lives of refugees, their families and successive generations of their descendants. In recent years, Catholic Charities, while not neglecting its emergency services, has become more focused on providing opportunities to help individuals break free from the cycle of poverty in order to gain independence. One example of this is the Kansas Loan Pool Project, which, in its first year, assisted almost 100 individuals gain freedom from the astronomical payday loan interest rates. Partnering with local banks, Catholic Charities makes it possible for individuals to acquire conventional loans with reasonable interest rates. Individuals in this program participate in financial literacy programs that not only coach them into becoming debt-free, but also help in acquiring a favorable credit rating. The most important ingredient in Catholic Charities’ success is not just in the impressive number of people served,
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Head of the art and environment committee Kathy Elson checks to make sure each light on the Christmas tree is working, as her committee members tackle other details.
Ellie Behrmann ensures that the candles are distributed evenly.
Dana Mullin prepares the floral arrangement to be displayed in front of Our Lady of Guadalupe.
Suzy Meyer strings lights on Church of the Nativity’s 12-foot Christmas tree.
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EAWOOD — Church of the Nativity here is gearing up for the “Hanging of the Greens,” an annual festival that brings the entire parish together to decorate the church for Christmas. Parishioners are already staking claims for the task that best matches their talents: unpacking Nativity figures; hanging wreaths; trimming the tree; arranging poinsettias; or just setting up hundreds of extra chairs — there’s something for everyone. The tradition was started by pastor Father Francis Hund six years ago, but it isn’t anything new. “Hanging of the Greens” is a custom practiced at many churches, schools, colleges and universities throughout the world. It dates back to Old English days when people would bring evergreens into their homes during Advent as a symbol of eternal life and a reminder that the bleak days of winter are followed by spring. At Church of the Nativity, the tradition is orchestrated by the art and environment committee — a group of 12 women working behind the scenes to visually enhance every celebration of the liturgy. “This is a wonderful ministry,” said Kathy Nelson, head of the committee. “It gets a little hectic at Christmas because you’re trying to balance family and church. “But to be able to uplift people and raise their minds and heart at these special church times is very fulfilling.” Nelson views the ministry as a vocation. She was prayerfully searching for a way to volunteer her time after her oldest son graduated from high school. “I got a call from Father Ron (former pastor Father Ronald Livojevich),” she said. “And I thought, ‘Well, this must be it, so I’d better say yes.’ “And I didn’t know what I was going to do.” That was 12 years ago. Nelson learned on the job and slowly recruited a group of talented individuals who can creatively put together just about anything. For instance, one Lent Father Hund
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asked for a big rock. “We papier-mâchéd over a table and we built him a giant rock,” said Nelson. “And it looked pretty good.” Dana Mullin joined the group a year ago, after working in the floral arranging industry. When her husband Jim entered the permanent diaconate program, she >> See “KEEP” on page 5
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Operation grew from garage to model for 44 states >> Continued from page 1 a huge asset to our pantry. Clients appreciate that we offer personal items, which are very difficult for clients to come by.“ Each month, the ministry logs on to Giving and orders toothbrushes, feminine products, toilet paper and soap. “We are so fortunate to have Giving the Basics as part of our team at Center School District,” said Kelly Wachel, a spokeswoman for the district in Kansas City, Missouri. The charity “works hand in hand with our social workers to make sure that our kids have what they need to feel dignified and ready to be at school,” she added. “We are grateful for their partnership.” Likewise, Kim Davis at Amethyst Place in Kansas City, Missouri, said, “Our partnership greatly reduced the stress on our families caused by the scarcity of basic supplies. . . . Our clients can focus on their recovery and mental health.” Giving the Basics is so successful that 44 states want to know how to run a similar program. Asked how she learned the skill set that has made her program work, Hamilton chuckles. “I have 12 kids,” she said simply. Keeping her family organized prepared her for the swarm of obstacles — large and small — the charity has encountered and mostly overcome. “Systems. It’s systems,” she said. And grace. “God is throwing grace all over this,” she added. Hamilton runs the charity with a board of directors and a handful of employees. Hamilton’s team includes Curé of Ars parishioner Michele Orpin; Kelley Scharosch, a member of Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish in Wea; and Heidi Whitehall. (Giving the Basics could use a warehouse employee should someone want to donate a salary, said Hamilton.)
A structured existence Things became official when Hamilton and her husband Bob Hamilton (of the Overland Park-based heating, air conditioning and plumbing company that bears his name) sat down with their attorney. He warned Teresa Hamilton that what she wanted to do was a lot of work and would take way too much time and, initially, a lot of money. Needless to say, she wasn’t discouraged. “Never tell a woman ‘no’ when God said ‘go,’” Hamilton likes to say. She was born in Wichita and raised in Kansas City, Missouri, where she went to Visitation Grade School and later St. Teresa’s Academy. She has been married to Bob for 36 years. “I’ve been incredibly blessed,” she said. “It’s an awesome life.” Hamilton went into Giving the Basics with specific ideas about how this burgeoning charity would operate. For example, she made sure that no one in need would ever be required to work for or pay for the products provided. Simplicity was important, as was steering the group’s efforts toward its specific goals. Hamilton has seen God’s hand in the many doors that have opened for Giving the Basics. A few times, the answers to her prayers have been different from what she thought they would be. But she knew God would lead the way. And he did one day when, once again, a phone call played a pivotal role in the charity’s future. “A teacher . . . from Center (School District) wanted to know if [they] could help,” recalled Hamilton.
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Teresa Hamilton, executive director and founder of Giving the Basics, takes Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann on a tour of the facility while explaining the rationale for the charity.
How to help • Organize a “Dignity Drive,” which collects products that go to the Giving the Basics warehouse. Groups and businesses participating can help package the products, or not. • Monetary gifts help buy specific items not commonly donated. • Manufacturers’ product donations are greatly needed, but individual donations are equally welcome. • Text SOAP to 27722 to make a $10 donation to purchase products for those in need. • Text DIGNITY to 27722 to follow Giving the Basics on social media. • Needed: Bar soap, deodorant, feminine products, laundry detergent, lotion, shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, toothbrushes, body wash, combs, dish soap, trash bags, storage bags, household cleaner, dental floss, diapers, incontinence products, wipes, razors, shaving cream, tissues and toilet paper. • Mailing address: Giving the Basics, 3150 Mercier St., Suite 270D2, Kansas City, MO 64111. Phone: (913) 964-3300. • “Products to the people,” Teresa Hamilton says, is her organization’s main goal. • Check the website at: givingthe basics.org for more information. Speakers are available for groups that would like more information.
That teacher and others had realized that children whose families didn’t have hygiene products and laundry detergent would be bullied at school because of body odor, dirty hair or dirty clothes. Those students shrank from social contact, or just did not go to school. The district was trying to help, but more was needed. A program to serve schools was born. Year to date, Giving the Basics has logged 261,544 products for schools. One hundred eighty-six schools were served in 2015. About 220,000 people had access to personal hygiene items in 2015 from Giving the Basics, according to the organization’s website.
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About 220,000 people had access to personal hygiene items in 2015 from Giving the Basics.
Looking to the future Hamilton is quick to emphasize that she encourages her children to work at Giving the Basics, but doesn’t require it. “I’m careful not to talk about it too much at home,” she said. And she believes there will be a national organization that spreads the
Giving the Basics model someday. “I want people to be freed from shame in every city,” she said. But she also says she will only be that organization’s leader if it fits within her boundaries of being a wife and mother first. “I’m at a point in my life where I don’t need conclusions,” she said. She leaves the conclusions to God.
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St. Paul (San Pablo) Olathe, parishioners, from left, Patricia Vargas, Alex Sierra and Eloy Parra take part in a local Encuentro at Sacred Heart Church in Kansas City, Kansas. The Encuentro is in preparation for a national meeting that will take place in Dallas in 2018.
Local training will prep leaders for national Encuentro
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — More than 70 Catholics gathered at Sacred Heart Church here on Oct. 28-29 to prepare for a four-year process of reflection that will culminate in a national meeting in Dallas in 2018. The local Encuentro (meaning “encounter” or “meeting”) was a preparatory training of lay Hispanic parish leaders from eight parishes in Wyandotte and Johnson counties. They were being prepared to participate in the four-year process, begun in 2015, of pastoral reflection on the parochial, diocesan, regional and, finally, national level. “This was a training for the work and the process that needs to be done until we have the archdiocesan celebration of the Encuentro on Nov. 18, 2017,” said Father Gianantonio Baggio, CS, director of Hispanic ministry for the archdiocese. “The Encuentro is basically Hispanic, but not only for [them],” he continued. “Other people are invited, too. But logically, since the majority were Spanish speaking, the training was in Spanish.” The Dallas gathering in 2018 will be the fifth national Encuentro, the previous ones being in 1972, 1977, 1985 and 2000. The U.S. bishops are organizers and sponsors of the Encuentro process. They are doing it in response to the growing numbers of Hispanic Catholics, who now represent
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“THE U.S. BISHOPS WANT TO KNOW WHAT IS THE PRESENT SITUATION OF HISPANIC CATHOLICS IN THE UNITED STATES.” Father Gianantonio Baggio, CS, director of Hispanic ministry close to half of the Catholic Church in the United States. According to national Encuentro organizers, the “main goal of the [fifth] Encuentro is to discern ways in which the church in the United States can better respond to the Hispanic/Latino presence, and to strengthen the ways in which Hispanics/Latinos respond to the call of the new evangelization as missionary disciples serving the entire church.” “The U.S. bishops want to know what is the present situation of Hispanic Catholics in the United States, and what is the future about this,” said Father Gianantonio. “They want to know what is happening to the Catholic Church in the United States.” The Encuentro process is also intended to raise up new leaders — from parishes, but also from schools, and other interested programs and agencies. Past Encuentros led to the establishment of new organizational structures and initiatives within the church, and
generations of new leaders. Individuals currently involved in Hispanic ministry in parishes and Catholic schools were the first cadre of people to be invited to Encuentro training. The archdiocesan Hispanic ministry office invited 10 people per parish. “During this training, we gave [participants] a manual to do the work at their parish level,” said Father Gianantonio. “They have six months to do their parish work — to reach as many people as they can on certain issues.” The archdiocesan Encuentro participants will ask their fellow parishioners certain questions. These include: What is the church doing for you? How do you feel about the Catholic Church? Do you feel like part of the church? Does your priest serve you? The answers to these questions will be gathered and eventually become part of the national Encuentro. A second Encuentro was held on Dec. 3 at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Topeka for the western and southern parts of the archdiocese. Hispanic Catholics from Topeka, Lawrence and Emporia were invited to this event. “We will put together all the work by the 12 parishes . . . and celebrate our work done by the parishes and the archdiocese,” said Father Gianantonio. “People representing the archdiocese will go to the regional Encuentro in April 28-29, 2018.” The regional Encuentro will lead to the national Encuentro in 2018.
retired from floral arranging so she could be more of a support to him. That allowed her to volunteer her talent with art and environment. “Which is wonderful,” she said. “I’m never closer to God than when I am in nature. And this — getting to play with all God’s beautiful creations — is pretty awesome.” The secret to Nelson’s recruitment success, according to Mullin, is making sure everyone has fun. “She’s always up here,” said Mullin. “And she’s so patient with everyone. “I’m sure [Nelson] would like to be doing the fun stuff, but she lets us do it instead.” Nelson’s philosophy is simple. “Keep the volunteers happy and they’ll keep volunteering,” she said. “I can sweep the floor.” As often happens with those involved in church ministry, this group lives by the liturgical calendar. “And that’s beautiful,” said Mullin. “You become so connected to the liturgy — all the aspects and nuances that are thousands of years old.” Art and environment is actually part of the liturgy committee. “We meet once a month,” said Nelson. “We all plan the liturgies for the coming seasons, and that includes the readings and the music and the environment.” The planning is meticulous and prayerful with the goal of enhancing the liturgical experience, but never overshadowing it. “We always strive to raise people’s minds and heart to another level,” said Nelson. “But we never want to be the center of attention.” Advent begins the church calendar and presents the challenge of telling in a new way a story that’s been told thousands of times before. This year, Church of the Nativity Christmas tree will display pictures of the corporal works of mercy performed by parishioners throughout the Year of Mercy. During the festival of the Hanging of the Greens, parishioners will hang stars on the tree as a sign of being a light of hope for others. The festival will take place on the evening of Dec. 21 this year. Cookies and bottled water will be shared during the decorating, and a Christmas craft will be available for children. “The choir is practicing while we’re decorating,” said Nelson. “So we have Christmas music.” Art and environment committee members will be stationed throughout the church to give directions to parishioners taking part in the event. “Father Francis instituted this and it has been such a great celebration and festival,” said Nelson. “The parishioners take ownership and they decorate this entire church. “They will make the Lord’s house beautiful for people.”
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EAWOOD — By all rights, Michael Shirley should have died in 2004. That fall, he was driving to Prairie Star Ranch near Williamsburg to lead a men’s retreat for the Church of the Nativity Parish. Outside of Ottawa, his car was broadsided on the driver’s side by a car going 75 miles per hour. “When the emergency medical technician came to the scene, he asked, ‘Where’s the fatality?’ and bystanders pointed to me, standing eight feet from him,” said Shirley. His car was totaled, but Shirley didn’t even have a scratch. “Boy, you don’t know how lucky you are,” said the amazed EMT. “Luck has nothing to do with it,” Shirley told him. Shirley was able to get a ride to the ranch and give his retreat. Later that evening, he lay in his bunk, unable to sleep because his body was sore and his mind preoccupied by the day’s events. That’s when he had his “encounter with God.” “I helped you build your kingdom,” God seemed to tell him. “Now help me build mine.” “That turned my life around,” said Shirley. “I was working and doing well, faithful and reasonably devout, but he got my attention.” It was clear that God wanted him for full-time service to build the kingdom of God. Ever since that accident, and especially since he retired eight years ago, Shirley’s life has been focused on various evangelization efforts.
His most recent effort has him going door to door. “I volunteered to head up the lay evangelization initiative at the Church of the Nativity,” said Shirley, who is a member of the Leawood parish. “We’ve been doing it for two and a half years.” He leads a group of 10 men and women who go to people’s homes to talk with them. “We just put out in our parish bulletin that we had people in the parish who were ready and willing to go out and talk with anybody that someone would like us to talk to — a husband, a brother, a son, a neighbor, whatever,” said Shirley. “I went out to people’s homes, upon invitation, and made an effort to engage them with the parish,” he continued. “That doesn’t start with ‘You need to come to Mass,’ particularly if they are former Catholics. It starts with ‘Why don’t you come to a fish fry, why don’t you come to a men’s group, why don’t you join the Knights of Columbus?’” He’s also made cold calls going door to door at Christmas and Easter in his neighborhood, asking, “What are you doing for Christmas?” or “What are you doing for Easter?” People would reply, “Are you asking me to go to your church?” Not necessarily, Shirley would say. He’d invite them to go to any church. But sometimes, he’d find an inactive Catholic, and later he’d see them at church. Why does Catholic evangelization fail? It’s simple, said Shirley. Catholics simply don’t
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do it. Many Catholics think evangelization is more complicated than it really is. They are needlessly intimidated and think they don’t know how. Actually, evangelization is something all Catholics can and should do. “I think it’s actually pretty straightforward,” said Shirley. “Evangelization is sharing your faith with others to entice someone to Christ. It’s simply sharing your faith and telling people about your personal encounter with Jesus Christ and how much he means to you — and what he can mean to them.” “It’s not complicated or particularly sophisticated,” he added. “It’s just making yourself available to tell someone else about Jesus Christ,” he explained. “The first part is the personal relationship with Christ — the understanding that you need him. “The second part is leading them into the church.” Story by Joe Bollig Photo by Joe McSorley
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Youth minister launches outreach for the ages By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org
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AOLA — All it took was a simple activity to unite two unlikely groups of parishioners at Holy Trinity here. When Luci Kennedy, a religion and social studies teacher at Holy Trinity School, took on the role of youth minister this year, she knew exactly what she wanted to do to boost the parish’s program. “I wanted to start building connections,” said Kennedy. “That was going to be my mantra — ‘Build connections.’” And when it comes to church community, she said, the connection “has to be the young and the old.” That’s why Kennedy organized a senior and student luncheon to open up communication and bridge the gap between older parishioners and the school’s seventh- and eighth-grade students. “At first, it was almost kind of awkward because you didn’t really know [the adults],” said eighth-grader Ben Timpe. “But once you got to know them, you felt comfortable sharing stories,” said seventh-grader Seth Aistrup. “My grandparents live kind of far away, so it’s nice to have them to talk to,” he added. The first gathering was in September, and the seniors hosted. “We all had fun,” said Marilyn Gray, a parishioner at Holy Trinity. “We met the kids and learned a lot about them.” “It’s great because you get to know them,” she continued. “You see them at Mass, but you don’t really know their background.” Marilyn’s husband Jim agreed. “It’s nice to know and meet the kids, to see their personalities,” he said. “You kind of know the family, but you don’t have an opportunity to learn about the kids.”
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Seventh- and eighth-grade students at Holy Trinity in Paola pose with older parishioners after sharing brunch together following an all-school Mass. The brunch is part of a wider effort initiated by youth minister Luci Kennedy to open communication between parishioners of all ages. “The thing that’s good about it is we can learn from the kids and the kids can learn from us,” he added. “It’s kind of a two-way thing, and so I think both benefit from it.” Because the first get-together was so successful, Kennedy decided to have the students make the seniors brunch on Nov. 10. The students were excited for an opportunity to serve the seniors, who they look up to as role models. “We asked what kind of jobs they did growing up,” said Timpe. “I think it’s pretty nice to hear their stories and listen to them talk, and it’s comfortable around them,” said Aistrup. “You enjoy their stories and they enjoy your stories.” Kennedy believes that teenagers are often misunderstood and feel out of place. “Only the negative is viewed a lot of times,” she said. “This is an opportunity for those seniors to see what an
incredible age this can be.” The seniors sometimes feel disconnected from their parish as well, so activities like this help them feel appreciated and included. “As you get older, you kind of feel like maybe you don’t fit in or maybe you’re not involved anymore,” said Marilyn Gray. “But it’s great to be involved in the kids.” Even in a short amount of time, the seniors are able to share words of wisdom with the students. Like Jim Gray’s fundamental piece of advice: Life is learning. “All throughout your life you have plenty of opportunities to learn new things,” he said. “And it’s important to have the attitude that, no matter how old you are, you can always learn something new.” Marilyn Gray would remind the kids to stay in touch with their grandparents. “Ask them questions, because once
they’re gone, you’ll sit there and you’ll wish you had asked them this, or that you knew this about them,” she said. Although there are only 11 students in Holy Trinity’s seventh- and eighthgrade, Kennedy believes they are “small but mighty,” and is proud of the way they’ve handled activities like the brunch. “It feels like they’re starting to take ownership of their parish,” she said. “And to me, that’s huge. “Having this, there’s a name to those faces that they see in church,” she continued. “And they’re able to talk with them.” Activities like this give Kennedy hope for Holy Trinity’s future. “I’m hoping that [the students] make a bond, and bonds develop that carry on into church, into their relationships, with how they view the seniors in their community and with their families,” she said. “I’m hoping that it opens up that communication between them.”
Catholic Channel host to keynote women’s retreat By Marc and Julie Anderson mjanderson@theleaven.org
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OPEKA — Resolve. Renew. Rejoice! That’s the theme of the second annual women’s regional retreat to be held Jan. 14 at Christ the King Church in southwest Topeka. The retreat will include a light breakfast, Mass and two inspirational talks. Additionally, the half-day event will include an opportunity for women to interact with representatives of various ministries throughout the region. Registration opened Dec. 1. Event organizers Tonya Campbell and Belinda Flynn said the retreat is timed to help women of all ages “reenergize and renew their faith.” According to Campbell, a new year brings a chance for people to reflect on their lives and set goals. It makes sense then, she said, that spiritual goals should become part of the discussion. By offering the retreat just two weeks into the year, Campbell hopes many women will take advantage of the opportunity to pray, reflect and laugh — all while enjoying the fellowship of other Catholic women. Echoing similar thoughts, Flynn said, “There’s a hunger among Catholic
women for knowledge of their faith and the opportunity to interact with other women.” Flynn said the retreat was a gift women could give themselves and their own daughters, sisters, mothers and grandmothers. In fact, Flynn admitted to having purchased tickets for all of the women in her own family. She and her family members were among the nearly 300, ranging in age from teenagers to 94, to have participated in the inaugural retreat earlier this year. That event featured keynote speaker Lisa Cotter, a graduate of Benedictine College in Atchison, a member of the Fellowship of Catholic University Students and a nationally known speaker on the topics of relationships, femininity and living life with excellence. Besides speaking at the retreat, Cotter also spoke at Hayden, Topeka’s only Catholic high school, and at a family event held in the evening following the retreat. The upcoming retreat will feature Hallie Lord, an author, speaker and a SirusXM Catholic Channel guest host. She is a wife and mother of seven children. In August, Lord released her fourth book, “On the Other Side of Fear: How I Found Peace,” a book detailing her journey of learning how to live in God’s will
progress we will make in overcoming without fear. A convert to the Catholic faith, Lord said it’s ironic that she didn’t our anxieties. Follow his lead and trust experience much fear until after she in his plan for your life and little by little you will find freedom from your fears.” had joined the Catholic Church. Lord also recently shared that there’s “Surprisingly enough, it wasn’t until I became Catholic that I truly started to a Scripture passage that has provided her great comfort and struggle with fear,” she freedom from fear. said. “Psalm 46, Verse 11 “It’s one thing to try (“Be still, and know to cultivate courage that I am God.”) has when you are living a life always been a favorite. that is fashioned entirely Fear and anxiety often by you,” she continued. lead our imaginations “It’s quite another thing to run into the future to be brave when you where we conjure all have handed your life the worst-case scenarover to God and promios that we believe are ised to follow him wherdestined to play out in ever he may lead. Hallie Lord our lives. Meditating on “Because God, wantthe psalm has a calming ing only the best for us, often leads us down paths that chal- effect on me and reminds me to stay lenge us and refine us by fire. And that rooted in the present, accepting the circumstances, grace and consolation can be a very scary thing.” In her book, Lord shares part of her that God is offering me in the present faith journey and the important lessons moment.” Lord also said that one saint, in parshe learned along the way about trustticular, serves as a role model to her in ing in God’s plan. “Perhaps the most life-changing conquering fear in her own life. “St. Joan of Arc is my go-to gal when thing God taught me,” wrote Lord, “is it comes to conquering my fears. Her that spiritual growth (of which overcoming our fears is a part of) is syn- quote, ‘I am not afraid. I was born to do this’ is endlessly inspiring to me.” onymous with spiritual surrender. The more we lean into his will, the more
Sanctuaries across archdiocese swirled with bright colors and lively music as Catholics celebrated the feast of
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — When immigrants from Mexico came north to the United States, one of the riches they brought with them was a fervent devotion to “Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe” — Our Lady of Guadalupe. Although she was invoked as “Mother of the Americas” in 1961 by Pope John XXIII, she has a special connection to Mexicans and Hispanic Americans of Mexican heritage. The feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe on Dec. 12 is celebrated throughout the Western Hemisphere and beyond. For those whose families have been in Kansas for generations, the celebration of the apparition of Our Lady of Guadalupe is a heritage to be cherished, celebrated and handed on. To those who are more recently arrived, it is rich with nostalgia. And of course, you don’t have to have Mexican roots to celebrate Our Lady of Guadalupe. All Catholics are welcome to take part in the Masses and all devotions during the feast, and the Hispanic community is a particularly welcoming one. The celebrations of the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe at some parishes in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas are nearly identical to those in Mexico, except for the absence of fireworks and pilgrimages to the shrine near Mexico City. Typically, the devotions begin with a novena
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from Dec. 3-11. In some archdiocesan parishes, rosaries are prayed daily from Dec. 8-11. One tradition observed in some archdiocesan parishes is an all-night vigil, which began this year after evening Masses on Sunday, Dec. 11. The all-night vigils include dances by groups called “matachines,” meaning “sword dancers.” The dancers, in elaborate costumes, perform devotional dances in the churches to the accompaniment of drums in honor of Our Lady of Guadalupe. Also participating are dancers called “Aztecs,” who are also dressed in elaborate costumes. Still another traditional devotional dance by costumed devotees is “El Baile de los Viejitos,” or “the Dance of the Old Ones.” In addition to the dancers, various choirs and mariachi bands perform traditional Mexican songs in honor of the Blessed Mother. One traditional song is “Las mañanitas,” or morning greeting. When daylight comes, the vigil ends and a Mass is celebrated in honor of Our Lady of Guadalupe. Following the Mass, there are social times, usually held in the parish hall, featuring traditional Mexican foods such as hot chocolate and “pan dulce,” or sweet breads. After the morning Mass and social, some archdiocesan parishes have “living rosaries” and offerings of flowers set before the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe. The observance of the feast typically ends with an evening Mass.
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Reyna DelReal, left, and Feliciano Valdez, fourth-graders at Holy Family School in Topeka, play the parts of the Blessed Virgin Mary and Juan Diego at the 8:30 a.m. Mass at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Topeka.
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Marisol Mercelo, a sophomore at Hayden Catholic High School in Topeka, helps Manny, 5, and Lulu Valdez, 4, place a rose at the altar for Our Lady before the feast day Mass of Our Lady of Guadalupe at the Topeka church named in her honor.
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Costumed devotees perform “the Dance of the Old Ones” following Mass at St. John the Evangelist Church in Kansas City, Kansas.
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Six-year-old Luis Silva joins Jose Maldonado as drummers who accompanied the traditional Aztec dancers who performed at the Cathedral of St. Peter's Our Lady of Guadalupe celebration. LEAVEN PHOTO BY DOUG HESSE
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ft, and his uncle Juan Alvarez of Danza La Imaculada Concepcion de Topeka lead a dance ass on the evening before the feast day of Our Lady of Guadalupe at Our Lady of Guadalupe a.
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Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann takes a seat as performers showcase their talents with dance, music and elaborate costumes after Mass at St. John the Evangelist Church in Kansas City, Kansas.
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Decked out in traditional costumes, parishioners of St. John the Evangelist Church in Kansas City, Kansas, process in with images of Our Lady of Guadalupe.
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Journey turned into a family affair >> Continued from page 16 consecrated life was all about. “From this point forward, I felt called to share this same joy,” he said. “God was calling me to share this gift.” Both Father Innocent and Brother Angelus agree with their parents on their “normal” family upbringing. “We prayed at meals and before bed, and went to Mass every Sunday,” said Brother Angelus. “Our house was always a place where priests came for dinner and were around. They were all a great inspiration for us.” “Our parents passed on to us the gift of faith, but also the values and virtues that inspired us to work hard, respect others, do our best in everything,” he added. “We are so grateful!” “Mom and Dad taught us to say the simple prayers before meals and before bed,” Father Innocent recalled. “Thank God there was a lot of natural virtue that formed our environment. They allowed us — when the time was right — to use this to explore a more intimate relationship with God. “It was our time in high school where my relationship with God became more personal, and I wanted to start living with God at the center of my life.” Father Innocent also noted that when he started to discern the
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“OUR HOUSE WAS ALWAYS A PLACE WHERE PRIESTS CAME FOR DINNER AND WERE AROUND. THEY WERE ALL A GREAT INSPIRATION FOR US. Brother Angelu priesthood and religious life, he was surprised at how challenging his decision was for his parents. “It was all so new to them,” he said, “and my parents — as supportive as they were in life — struggled to understand what was going on in my vocational journey. “This was a good lesson for me. My mom and dad are amazing, loving parents, but it was clear to me that we were all on a journey together.” That journey has included not only the brothers’ work with their order of the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal, but also their attempts to reach millennials through their television program “Icons Spotlight,” which highlights the lives of Catholics doing
amazing things in their faith. So far, three programs have been produced, with plans for more as funds allow. The three episodes have already been seen around the world on EWTN and the Internet. In addition, a radio show, “Icons Impact,” currently airs in New Jersey and is slated for drive-time slots in five states. The work of the two brothers has also led to the creation of the Live Greater Foundation (see sidebar on page 16), which the whole Montgomery family helps with. “I was transitioning into retirement,” said Dick, “and my kids challenged me to think about creating a movement that encouraged others to care for the poor and vulnerable in our neighborhoods and cities.” “It was right around the time of Pope Francis getting elected and really giving the world an incredible witness of care for those in need and spreading the Gospel,” he said. “I am so grateful for the gentle challenge of the family and so humbled by the small impact we are making together with those who support us,” he added. To view the three episodes of “Icons Spotlight,” go online to: iconsmedia.org and click on the link for TV. For podcasts, click on the link for Radio.
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Wendall and Eleanor (Boone) Burns, m e m bers of St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on Nov. 26. The couple was married on Nov. 26, 1966, at St. Thomas Church in Kansas City, Kansas. Their children are: Teri Leet and Michael Burns. They also have six grandchildren.
New Eagle Scouts OVERLAND PARK — Michael Bartkoski and James Cahill, members of Boy Scout Troop 265 and Holy Spirit Parish here, earned the rank of Eagle Scout. For his Eagle project, Bartkoski constructed eight new barricades to be used Michael Bartkoski for parking lot safety and other events at Holy Spirit. Cahill’s project entailed refinishing tables and helping to fix the basement at the house used by the Apostles of Interior Life in Lawrence, so that it could be used for prayer meetings James Cahill and for KU students.
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‘Theology of play’ event broadens perspective of youth ministers By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org
For more about the art of playing, go to the ReachKCK YouTube page at: www.youtube.com/reachkck. The video is called “The Art of Playing: Practical, Formative Ministry.”
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — It’s hard to go a day without play. Games, activities and a variety of entertainment are woven into the fabric of our
daily lives. But those who work with youth in Wyandotte County parishes learned that play can also be a spiritual experience — one that brings us closer to God — as they participated in a training session on the theology of play Nov. 10. “The purpose of these trainings is to equip those that are working in ministry with young people with tools to serve their youth better,” said Liz Miller, Wyandotte County youth outreach coordinator. The hope is that they gain confidence when ministering to the youth in their lives, she said. Attendees affiliated with a Wyandotte County parish earned grant money for their parish by attending; the money goes toward their middle or high school youth ministry. The event was offered by ReachKCK youth ministry and included a presentation by Matt Saunders, a board game designer and program director at Youthfront in Mission. “My goal this evening is that you walk away from here tonight feeling a little more inspired, feeling a little more passionate about what you do with young people, and that your mind and your heart have expanded with more love for what you do,” said Saunders.
Matt Saunders, a board game designer and program director at Youthfront in Mission, speaks to those who work with youth on the “theology of play.” His talk was part of a training session hosted by ReachKCK youth ministry designed to explain how youth ministers can use play as a spiritual tool. Saunders presented a variety of topics relevant to the art of playing and how it can be used as a tool to teach young people. “Our culture is fascinated with play,” he said. “Play is everywhere. “I want us to consider if maybe there’s a bigger and better view of play — if there’s a theological view that we can approach play with.” Play is a chance to grow in relationship with God as well as our peers, said Saunders. “We’re invited into this divine dance with God,” he said. “We bear the image of God by being able to relate to each other.”
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“By grace, we are able to taste and see how good God is, how good this creation is, how we can engage with the creation and playfully interact,” he continued. “Playfulness allows us to embrace each other and to embrace all of creation. “It can be a thing that is deeply important for our Christian ministry.” Father Karl Good, CMOP, associate pastor of St. Patrick Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, attended the event to learn more about techniques used in youth ministry, as St. Patrick is considering starting its own youth ministry program. “Play is used for development and teaching in many ages, starting from
babies to adults in the work force,” said Father Karl. “It can develop imagination to dream big, which can lead to invention,” he added. Luz Diaz, director of formation and communication at All Saints Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, hoped to learn about engaging youth in more effective, creative ways. “[Training like this] is very helpful,” she said, “because the new generations are more motivated by actions and creativity. And creating a fun and active environment really motivates their will to learn more about God.” Providing training like the “theology of play” event is crucial in giving those who work with youth quality development, said Miller. “It is so important for those involved in ministry to take opportunities to be renewed — both personally and spiritually — so that their ministry flows, not just from themselves, but from God’s never-ending font of energy and inspiration,” she said. The next Wyandotte County youth worker training session will be on March 7, 2017. Deborah Nearmyer, director of faith formation at St. James Academy, Lenexa, will speak on prayer experiences and facilitating an encounter with Christ.
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CALENDAR OLD WORLD CHRISTMAS Strawberry Hill Museum 720 N. 4th St., Kansas City, Kansas Dec. 16 - Jan. 29
The museum hours are Saturday and Sunday noon - 5 p.m. The Tea Room hours are 1 - 4 p.m. The cost is $7 for adults and $3 for kids ages 6 - 12. The museum will also be offering a number of cooking classes through the holiday season. For more information about other events, go online to: www.strawberry hillmuseum.org.
CRAFT FAIR Christ the King Parish 3024 N. 53rd St., Kansas City, Kansas Dec. 17 from 9 a.m. - 6 p.m. Dec. 18 from 9 a.m. - 3 p.m.
Items available for sale will include clothing, jewelry, baked goods, tamales, decorative items and much more. Food will also be available for purchase, including taco salad, burritos, and beans and rice. There will also be chorizo burritos for breakfast on Sunday.
DAUGHTERS OF ISABELLA, LITTLE FLOWER CIRCLE 503 Christ the King Parish (Yadrich Hall) 5973 S.W. 25th St., Topeka Dec. 18 at 12:30 p.m.
This will be a Christmas celebration and raffle. Bring a covered dish. Meat will be provided by the circle. Bring the family.
CHRISTMAS CONCERT Redemptorist Church (Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish) 3333 Broadway, Kansas City, Missouri Dec. 21 at 7:30 p.m.
Redemptorist will present the Spire Chamber Ensemble in concert, performing the Christmas portion of Handel’s “Messiah” and selected Christmas music. For tickets, contact the parish office at (816) 561-3771.
TREASURES REMADE Keeler Women’s Center 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Dec. 21 from 9:30 - 11 a.m.
Find and bring your broken pieces of jewelry. Make them into something new or give your old jewelry a brand-new look.
WINTER SOLSTICE CELEBRATION OF LIGHT Precious Blood Renewal Center 2130 St. Gaspar Way, Liberty, Missouri Dec. 21 from 4 - 8 p.m.
This will be an evening of prayer, reflection and a guided labyrinth walk. Enjoy a soup and salad supper. A freewill offering is suggested. RSVP to Lucia Ferrara at: Hospitalitycoordinator. pbc@gmail.com or call (816) 781-4344.
ONE GOAL: SOCCER TOURNAMENT TO PREVENT SUICIDE Legends Soccer Club (Happy Feet) 9701 W. 67th St., Merriam Dec. 30 from 9 a.m. - 7 p.m.
Teams will be made up of five players at a cost of $100 per team. There will also be a silent auction. All proceeds will go to the suicide prevention center in Lawrence. Register online at: www.onegoalkc.com. For more information, call Meena Allada at (913) 6876282 or Dylan Cline at (913) 485-0284 or go to our Facebook page at “One Goal for Cady and Ciara.”
TAIZE PRAYER Annunciation Chapel 4200 S. 4th St., Leavenworth Jan. 5 at 7 p.m.
Taize prayer is a meditative, candlelit service that includes simple chants sung repeatedly, silence and prayers of praise and intercession. These prayer services emerged from an ecumenical community of monks in Taize, France. Persons of all Christian traditions are invited to attend.
‘COPING WITH LIFE ALONE’ St. John Francis Regis Parish 8941 James A Reed Rd., Kansas City, Missouri Sundays, Jan. 8 - Feb. 19 from 1:30 - 3:30 p.m.
“Coping with Life Alone” is a Beginning Experience grief support program that meets each week for seven weeks. The program helps those who have lost a love relationship — due to death, divorce or separation — move through the experience of grief and loss into a future with renewed hope. For more information, or to register, call Donna at (816) 305-3760.
‘TAKE-A-LOOK-THURSDAY’ Holy Spirit School 11300 W. 103rd St., Overland Park Jan. 12 from 9 - 11 a.m.
Come join us for information, tours of the school and refreshments. For more information, call Anita Pauls at (913) 492-2582 or send an email to: apauls@hscatholic.org.
RETROUVAILLE Marillac Center 4200 S. 4th St., Leavenworth Feb. 17 - 19
Retrouvaille is a marriage program dedicated to helping couples grow closer and develop a stronger bond. The program is designed
to help couples bridge the distance that has grown between them. For more information about this program for couples, contact the registration team at (800) 470-2230 or visit the website at: www.helpourmarriage.com.
RECOVERY RETREAT Marillac Center 4200 S. 4th St., Leavenworth Feb. 24 at 7 p.m. - Feb. 27 at 11:30 a.m.
This retreat, based on the 12-Step process, will provide an excellent opportunity to reflect on life and relationships. Donations for this retreat are $50 for commuters (includes lunch) and $150 for overnight guests (includes four meals). For more information and to register, call (913) 785-6552 or email retreats@scls.org, or visit the website at: www.marillaccenter.org.
CELEBRATE RECOVERY St. Pius X Parish (youth room) 5500 Woodson Rd., Mission Thursdays at 7 p.m.
Celebrate Recovery is a Christ-centered program for all who are struggling with the disease of addiction. For more information, call Joe Quinn at (913) 228-8279 or send him an email at: joe-quinn@sbcglobal.net. All information is kept confidential.
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HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS Keeler Women’s Center 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Tuesdays from 10 - 11 a.m.
This group meets weekly to discuss topics about healthy relationships and domestic violence education and support.
BINGO Immaculate Conception Church (hall) 606 Elm, Louisburg Second and fourth Thursday at 7 p.m.
Bingo is sponsored by the Knights of Columbus. The doors open at 6 p.m. Food available.
SCRIPTURE GROUP AND BIBLE STUDY Keeler Women’s Center 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Wednesdays from 9:30 - 11 a.m.
There will be Bible sharing, reflection, lectio and journaling, led by Heather Neds, pastoral minister.
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COMMENTARY
Let’s not misplace the Baby
FOURTH WEEK OF ADVENT Dec. 18 THE FOURTH SUNDAY OF ADVENT Is 7: 10-14 Ps 24: 1-6 Rom 1: 1-7 Mt 1: 18-24 Dec. 19 Monday Jgs 13: 2-7, 24-25a Ps 71: 3-4a, 5-6b, 16-17 Lk 1: 5-15 Dec. 20 Tuesday Is 7: 10-14 Ps 24: 1-6 Lk 1: 26-38 Dec. 21 Peter Canisius priest, doctor of the church Sg 2: 8-14 Ps 33: 2-3, 11-12, 20-21 Lk 1: 39-45 Dec. 22 Thursday 1 Sm 1: 24-28 (Ps) 1 Sm 2: 1, 4-8 Lk 1: 46-56 Dec. 23 John of Kanty, priest Mal 3: 1-4, 23-24 Ps 25: 4bc-5ab, 8-10, 14 Lk 1: 57-66 Dec. 24 VIGIL OF THE NATIVITY OF THE LORD Is 62: 1-5 Ps 89: 4-5, 16-17, 27, 29 Acts 13: 16-17, 22-25 Mt 1: 1-25 Dec. 25 THE NATIVITY OF THE LORD (CHRISTMAS) Is 62: 11-12 Ps 97: 1, 6, 11-12 Ti 3: 4-7 Lk 2: 15-20
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he first question that I hear often at this time of year is: “What do you want for Christmas?” That’s followed immediately by: “Because, you know, you are the hardest person to buy for!” I don’t mean to make life difficult for people, and I’m touched that folks want to buy me something. However, I really don’t know how to answer that first question. The fact is, if I really want or need something, I just go out and buy it. That means that my “Christmas wish list” is pretty much nonexistent. And what a blessing to be able to say that. I’m sure that you’ve by now seen or at least heard of a delightful TV ad from Amazon Prime that features a Church of England priest and a Muslim imam. (If you haven’t seen it, just Google “Amazon Prime ad imam.”) The ad, shot in England, shows a priest and an imam getting together for a cup of tea and a chat at the rectory. It’s clear that the two are old friends. “Old,” because they moan as they sit down and rub aching knees; “friends,” because they greet one another with an embrace,
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FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.
and their conversation is comfortable, marked by thoughtfulness and laughter. At the end of the visit, both stand, moan at their painful knees, give each other a sympathetic look and then hug once again. As soon as the door closes, the priest gets an idea, pulls out his cellphone and orders something from Amazon. The imam, out on the sidewalk, pauses, smiles and does the same. The next day, each man receives an unexpected package. Both laugh as they open up their boxes: Each had ordered bright green knee pads for the
other. The commercial not only conveys a much-needed message about ecumenism and acceptance, but also illustrates what I find to be true the older I get: There’s less I want (and need), and it’s more fun to get gifts for others. The priest and the imam chuckle when they realize that each man was thinking of what would make life a little easier for the other. That attitude goes against the commercial frenzy of these days, where we’re bombarded with messages of hurry-hurry-hurry and buy-buy-buy. There’s even an “upside-down” Christmas tree for sale out there. You can get a five-foot model at Kohls for $215 or upgrade to a taller, pre-lit one for $724.49. Part of the rationale for this tree is
that it lets you see your ornaments better. Of course, the other reason mentioned is that you can get even more presents under it! Each Advent, I reread a story by the Christian evangelist Luis Palau about a wealthy family that decided to have their newborn baptized. Dozens of guests were invited to the elaborate affair, which was being held at their mansion. Everybody arrived dressed to the nines. After depositing their wraps and coats in an upstairs bedroom, the guests were entertained in style. Soon, it was time for the main event: the baptism. Everyone looked expectantly for the infant, but no one seemed to know where the child was. The nanny ran upstairs only to return a short time later with a bewildered and worried look. All then began a frantic search throughout the house. Finally, someone remembered having seen the infant asleep on one of the beds. Rushing upstairs, they found the baby buried beneath the pile of coats and furs. The guest of honor had been forgotten, neglected and nearly smothered. Palau concludes, “The baby whose birthday
we celebrate at Christmas may also be hidden beneath the piles of stuff we load up during the season. We need to enter every Advent asking, ‘Where’s the baby?’” (Adapted from the story in “1001 Illustrations That Connect,” edited by Craig Brian Larson and Phyllis Ten Elshof.) Let’s not forget to keep Christ in Christmas. We do that best by imitating that loving God who came to live among us, to offer himself in service to us. The best Christmas is one where we are more concerned about how much we give rather than how much we receive. This issue of The Leaven features stories of some wonderful organizations that make the lives of needy people happier and healthier — not just around Christmas, but all through the year. Sharing time, talents and treasures with Giving the Basics, Catholic Charities, the Live Greater Foundation or just at your parish can make this a truly Merry Christmas. Let’s get our priorities straight once again in these days: Flip that Christmas tree right side up . . . and don’t misplace the Baby who is the reason for the season.
Jesus is the gift that keeps on giving
ften a musical play will close with a reprise of a signature song. The audience wants to hear that standout tune one more time before it leaves the theater. In a sense, that is what will happen with the Gospel according to St. Matthew. Throughout this church year, which we are just now beginning, Sundays’ Gospel reading for the most part will come from that Gospel. This Sunday is no exception. We will hear Mt 1: 18-24. This reading sets the stage for Matthew’s entire Gospel by announcing an important theme: God’s presence with us through Jesus Christ. This scene takes place before Jesus’ birth
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THE GOSPEL TRUTH
FATHER MIKE STUBBS Father Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.
and before the final step of Mary’s marriage to Joseph, when she would enter into his house. Joseph has learned
Pope Francis pleaded with a group of billionaires to take seriously their personal obligation to share their resources and make a real commitment to doing business in a way that helps other people realize their potential, too. The global economic system, he said, needs a “fundamental renewal” that “does not have to do simply with market economics, figures to
of Mary’s pregnancy and is understandably alarmed by it. He is on the verge of divorcing her. To allay his fears, an angel reveals to Joseph in a dream that the child to be born to Mary has been conceived through the power of the Holy Spirit. He will be called “Emmanuel, which means ‘God is with us.’” This announcement comes at the very
beginning of Matthew’s Gospel. And then, at its end, we hear that theme repeated. Jesus assures his disciples, right before he ascends into heaven, that he will remain with them “always, until the end of the age!” (Mt 28:20). This promise anticipates what we celebrate at Christmas, the mystery of the Incarnation. Even though it began with a past event — the birth of Jesus — it continues on as a present reality. We celebrate God’s presence with us through Jesus Christ. Throughout the Old Testament, God’s presence with the people of Israel appears as an important theme. When Moses worries about going before Pharaoh, God tells him:
be balanced, the development of raw materials and improvements made to infrastructure. What we are speaking about is the common good of humanity, of the right of each person to share in the resources of this world and to have the same opportunities to realize his or her potential, a potential that is ultimately based on the dignity of the children of God, created in his image and likeness,” the pope told CEOs and other leaders taking part in the Fortune-Time
“I will be with you” (Ex 3:12). As the people of Israel travel through the desert, a column of cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night precedes them, to remind them of God’s continual presence. When King Solomon builds the Temple in Jerusalem, it is recognized as God’s dwelling place on earth. Once again, it is a sign of God’s presence. All these point to, and anticipate, God’s presence with us through Jesus Christ. Because of his birth, that is something that we can celebrate continually. Does that mean that Christmas lasts all year long? In a sense, yes, because Jesus is the gift that never stops giving.
Global Forum. Business leaders like Virgin’s Richard Branson, LRN’s Dov Seidman, Siemens’ Joe Kaeser and IBM’s Ginni Rometty met in Rome for two days to respond to what they described as Pope Francis’ “passionate pleas for broader prosperity and lasting ways to lift the poor.” They also spoke with concern of growing popular discontent with the way big business and governments operate. — CNS
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Preparation is critical to success — in sports, and in life
t’s the beginning of a new season! Advent has arrived as a wonderful time of preparation and penance, helping us to prepare not just for another joyous Christmas celebration, but for the hour when Christ comes calling for us. Of course, it’s also the beginning of another kind of season in CYO. As basketball begins, it occurs to me that there’s a parallel between the time of Advent and the way we approach sports. We find this in the concept of practice. For the last month, hundreds of CYO basketball teams have been hard at work preparing for the season. Teams have
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imeout is a method of disciplining a child when his or her decision-making is less than stellar. It is a widely used technique and far more sophisticated than the methods that my sibling and I were raised with. After I put one my kids in timeout several times in one day, I wondered to myself, “Is this working? And where do I think this child is going to draw wisdom from after multiple sessions in the same spot without much enlightenment?” I was really frustrated, and so I began to pray. At that point, it hit me. Timeout to sit quietly was
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PETER J. PISCITELLO Peter J. Piscitello is the executive director of the archdiocesan Catholic Youth Organization. He can be reached at: pete@cyojwa.org.
practiced twice a week, building relationships between teammates, learning new skills and
working to improve. Younger children have started with the basics, learning to dribble, pass, shoot and play defense. Older kids have worked to continue growth from seasons past. All of them eagerly await the games that begin each December. Children are not the
only ones preparing. New parents attend our “Play Like a Champion Today” workshop and learn about the many benefits (and potential pitfalls) of participation and parenting in youth sports. Coaches organize teams and prepare practices, deciding which drills will help their kids, what plays to teach them and handling the many duties involved in leading a team. They, too, attend clinics and programs designed to improve skills and their ability to teach the children on their team. This time of preparation is important for everyone involved in youth sports. The planning and preparation allow
us to assess a team or players’ strengths and weaknesses, teach them important lessons, and get ready for the day when all that practice culminates in an actual game. Yet, we also understand that that first game is not really a culmination, but rather another important step in the longer journey that is a season or a career. Advent is also a time of great preparation. We assess our own faith development. We pause to understand how we’ve succeeded and failed in our relationship with Christ. Our children learn about the great mystery of Our Lord’s incarna-
tion, practice prayers around the family Advent wreath and prepare to celebrate one of the great feasts of the year in Christmas. Yet even Christmas Day is not an end, but just the beginning of the Christmas season — one step in a faith journey we hope leads to heaven. Practice is a critical part of the sports experience. During this Advent, may we take the time to consider what practices we put in place for our spiritual life, in order to grow in our relationship with Christ incarnate. Perhaps then, we’ll know the joy of the ultimate victory as we share in eternal life.
Parenting kids in a pressure-cooker world SEEKIING CHRIST’S HEART
DEACON DANA NEARMYER Deacon Dana Nearmyer is the lead consultant for the archdiocesan office of evangelization and Catholic formation of youth.
OK, but wasn’t it a better
idea for us to pray about our decision-making, rather than reenact a mini cold war. Our new version of timeout involves asking the Lord to give us a heart like his. Our lives are infinitely more peaceful, and our kids
learn to seek Christ’s wisdom in the rough patches. Parenting is exhausting and so much of it is trial and error. I read a book called “Hurt 2.0” by Chap Clark that has taken much of the guesswork out parenting for me. Clark is coming to town on Jan. 18 at St. James Academy in Lenexa at 7 p.m. for all who are interested. He will also speak on Jan. 19 at the chancery offices to youth ministers, directors of religious education, family life directors, deacons, Sisters and priests. There is no charge for either event. “Hurt 2.0” reveals the overpressurized
world that our kids are navigating. It pulls back the cover on the hidden world of peer-to-peer counseling that teens and preteens retreat to when the adult community appears to abandon them. This is really a critical read when achievement in academics, athletics and music/theater are valued so highly by adults. External accomplishments are admirable and important as part of being well-rounded. But we as Catholics know that our spirituality and interior life are even more important. As I read “Hurt 2.0,” I learned that a portion of my daily routine was
sending my kids the opposite message that I was intending to send. I was really challenged by the book and changed several of my habits and rituals after exploring with my kids what they were taking away from my parenting. I am so grateful for “Hurt 2.0.” I recommend the book to parents frequently; I teach the book at Benedictine College. I use the book in my home and am thrilled to have Chap Clark coming to Kansas City to share his findings and encourage families to embrace the precious moments that slip by all too quickly. Please join us.
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THE INCREDIBLE JOURNEY ‘Ordinary’ upbringing leads brothers to extraordinary ministry
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LATHE — Any family with a religious vocation certainly feels blessed. But Dick and LuAnne Montgomery experienced a double blessing when two of their sons decided on religious vocations. Scott, a member of the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal, was ordained May 28, and Rusty, now a friar in the same order, will be ordained in two years. So how did one family end up with two vocations to the priesthood? LuAnne will tell people that the story began 31 years ago — and that it’s been quite a journey for everyone, but especially for her, her husband Dick and the young men’s brother and sister. “Our oldest son was 3 when I found out I was pregnant,” said LuAnne, who has worked as a school social worker for 38 years. “I figured God had a good sense of humor when I found out I was going to have triplets,” she added. The two boys and one girl were born in Wichita, then the family later moved to Lincoln, Nebraska, and finally to Kansas City, where LuAnne now works at Ascension School in Overland Park. There was nothing out of the ordinary about the way her four children were raised, said LuAnne. “We all went to Mass and said night and meal prayers,” she explained. “We emphasized service.” Nor were their expectations for the kids too unusual. “We saw them as someday married and having families of their own,” she said. “However, one thing I found out is God has a plan,” added LuAnne. “I don’t.” “Scott and Rusty have always been committed to their faith,” explained Dick. “Even in high school, they were involved in some innovative ministries. I was very proud of my kids who always lived lives that reflected what their mother and I hoped to
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From left, Brother Angelus and Father Innocent Montgomery talk with Father Nathan Haverland before an event at Church of the Ascension in Overland Park. The two religious are also two of three triplets, whose mother works at Ascension School. pass on to them.” Despite their involvement in several ministries, however, he was definitely surprised when they decided to take up religious life. “We had envisioned a different life for them,” he said. “Looking back now, I realize that they are both passionate and dedicated men who give their everything in all that they do. That shows up in their vocation, and I am so proud.” While Scott, now Father Innocent, felt a calling to the priesthood while he was in high school, Rusty, now known as Brother Angelus, wasn’t so sure. “It was actually a surprise to me,” said Brother Angelus. “In high school, I used the excuse that if Father Innocent went to the seminary to become a priest, then I didn’t have to.
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ust as Dick Montgomery was being encouraged by his sons to consider deepening his relationship with the Lord, he was also very much affected by Pope Francis and the way the Argentinian witnessed the mercy and love of God to all men. “In my daily hunger to read more about Pope Francis, I came across the statement that one of the cardinals whispered to [Cardinal Bergoglio when] he realized that [he] had enough votes
to become pope,” said Montgomery. “The cardinal told him simply: ‘Don’t forget the poor.’” “This statement shook me,” added Montgomery. “It awakened in me a desire to support Pope Francis in his mission to live the Gospel mandate to care for those in need. “And thus, the Live Greater Foundation’s mission was born.” With pockets of volunteers in New York, New Jersey, Nebraska and Kansas, “it is amazing how much we can do with a few dedicated
“But God had different plans. My junior year in college, I felt the call to discern more seriously what God was doing in my life. I couldn’t hide anymore! “After I graduated, I told the Lord I would give him some time in [the] seminary. “And that was in 2008.” Father Innocent said that although he and his brother had the privilege of having “several amazing priests that taught at the high school that were super inspiring and really set an amazing example for us,” it wasn’t until college that he was introduced to the religious life. “My brother and I went to New York City to help with the kids’ summer camp with the Missionaries of Charity,” said Father Innocent. “Their example of religious conse-
people who give their time and effort to help those in need,” he explained. “We regularly do small projects that meet an obvious need in a short time, like our Bible campaign,” he said. That campaign provided 500 Bibles to children through several vacation Bible schools and a Catholic youth camp in Kansas, Nebraska and Iowa. “Right now, we are celebrating the delivery of a color copy machine/printer to a school in Haiti that previously had no way to make copies so that kids could have worksheets and reading
cration and the Franciscan Friars who came to help every day at the camp was so amazing. Their joy, their prayerfulness, their peace . . . was so attractive.” “They had responded to a call from God to give up everything to follow him,” he continued. “They had nothing to call their own, but were so full of life.” Brother Angelus agreed. “We were instantly attracted to the ‘Franciscan’ way of life and the way they lived the Gospel,” he said. “They were joyful men on fire for the Lord and serving others. They captured my heart. I wanted to give my life to the Lord in this way.” Father Innocent said that was the first time that he realized what
material,” said Montgomery. “We also sent two years of school supplies. We supported a few organizations that needed turkeys this fall. We also continually make welcome bags for men entering the St. Anthony Shelter in New York City through our New Jersey volunteers.” Numerous other projects are also in the works, he added. In addition to its mission to the poor, the Live Greater Foundation also aims to spread the word of God through the media and hopes to raise funds to continue the “Icons Spotlight”
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TV program and radio shows. “Retirement is a funny thing,” said Montgomery. “Live Greater is the start of a new chapter for me and a new story that is being written.” With 40 years in the corporate business world behind him, he hopes others will join him in the foundation’s endeavor “not to forget the poor, and to make a tremendous impact on our brothers and sisters who suffer in the world.” More information on the Live Greater Foundation can be found online at: www. livegreaterfoundation.org and www.iconsmedia.org.
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