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Pride and Prejudice Unitown helps students admit their prejudices — then move past them
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Story and photos By Jill Ragar Esfeld
OELAND PARK — Bishop Miege sophomore Austin Edwards was shocked when he walked into a classroom here and saw the word “illiterate” written on a flip chart under the heading “African American/Black.” Above and below “illiterate” was scrawled a long list of equally disparaging words. Edwards turned and faced the group of white students sitting in a semicircle spanning the room. They had generated the list. Crossing his arms over his chest, confrontation in his stance, Edwards joined fellow black students at the front of the room. They all had just finished reading the same list. And the tension in the stare-down was palpable. The white students were looking down and away. Some of them were clearly uncomfortable. Many were beginning to cry. Welcome to Unitown. Bishop Miege juniors Quanzee Johnson (front) and Richard Smith participate in one of the many activities of Unitown, a retreat and diversity awareness program now in its 16th year at Miege.
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Tough cuts
Budget cuts at the state and national level are putting several programs that help the poor in jeopardy.
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Young confessors Some fresh faces in the priesthood discover the joys and challenges of being good confessors.
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You got it. Confession is available at any church in the archdiocese every Wednesday during Lent from 6-7 p.m.
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eginning next Wednesday, March 16, from 6-7 p.m., for all the Wednesdays of Lent, priests throughout the Archdiocese will be available in their confessionals to administer the sacrament of reconciliation/ penance.
I believe it was St. Augustine who observed: “We either quit the sin or we quit confessing.” In other words, if we quit confessing a particular sin or, even worse, quit going to confession all together so that we do not have to confess the same sin again and again, we This sacrament is truly one of the are in essence giving ourselves permisgreat gifts that the Lord has given to sion to continue practicing this vice. We the church. Whatever our sin may be, no longer hold ourselves accountable if we confess it with genuine contrition by forcing ourselves to recognize and and a firm purpose of amendment — a acknowledge our sin. commitment to strive not to repeat this On the other hand, if we persevere sin — then we can be assured by the in confessing our sins with sincerity authority Jesus gave to the apostles and implore God to give us the strength that we are forgiven (Jn 20: 19-23). to overcome this persistent vice, evenIt is no accident that the risen Jesus tually we will allow God’s grace to pengave to the apostles this power to etrate our hearts and liberate us from continue his ministhis enslavement. try of mercy during I am convinced, ‘The Shepherd’s Voice’ besides the Eucharist, his first encounter with them after their the greatest tool that programming notes abandonment of Our Jesus has given to us Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann’s Lord on Good Friday. to grow in holiness radio program on KEXS 1090 AM It is at this moral low is the sacrament of airs at 10 a.m. on Sunday and is point for the apostles, reconciliation. The repeated at 9:30 a.m. on Tuesday when they personregular and proper and 3:30 p.m. on Thursday. ally most needed the reception of this sacraLord’s forgiveness, ment challenges us to that Jesus empowers them to be the huexamine our conscience frequently and man instruments for extending his gift thoroughly. This forces us to face the of healing mercy through all time. grim reality of our sin but, more imporBishops, as the successors of the tantly, opens our hearts to experience apostles, have had this authority passed the depth of God’s love for us. on to them. Bishops, in turn, share this Jesus is the ultimate revelation of ministry with their priests. Bishops and God’s love. Jesus came to call sinners, priests have not been entrusted with not the self-righteous. We can never apthis power and responsibility because preciate the depth of God’s love for us if they are sinless. We are as weak as the we do not recognize our sin. apostles. Every confessor is first and St. Paul, the former persecutor of foremost a penitent. It is from our own Christians, marvels in his Letter to the experience of God’s forgiveness in our Romans at the miracle of God’s merlives that we are called to be the human ciful love revealed in his son, Jesus conduit Jesus uses to bestow his mercy Christ: “While we were yet helpless, and grace upon others. at the right time Christ died for the Another obstacle that can impede us ungodly. Why, one will hardly die for a from coming to confession is the repetirighteous man — though perhaps for a tive nature of our sin. We can become good man one will dare even to die. But discouraged by the seeming lack of God shows his love for us in that while progress in overcoming a sin or a conwe were yet sinners Christ died for us. stellation of sins. We may even question Since, therefore, we are justified by his the sincerity of our “firm purpose of blood, much more shall we be saved by amendment” when we find ourselves him from the wrath of God. For if while repeating the same sins. Discouragewe were enemies we were reconciled ment can lead to despair. There is no to God by the death of his Son, much more sure sign of the devil’s presence more, now that we are reconciled, shall than despair! we be saved by his life. Not only so, but Certainly, we must challenge ourwe also rejoice in God through our Lord selves to be truly committed to doing Jesus Christ, through whom we have our best in the future to avoid the sins now received our reconciliation” (Rom we confess today. We must try to iden5: 6-11). tify what are the occasions or the cirThe beauty and power of God’s love cumstances that make us vulnerable to for us is that he loves us — not because this sin and strive to avoid them. With we deserve it, not because we are the help of our confessor, we should perfect. God loves us even in our weakseek to identify the underlying vice that ness, sending Jesus into the world to leaves us vulnerable to a particular sin liberate us from sin. (e.g., pride, envy, anger, sloth, greed, In the end, every sin is a violation of gluttony, lust) and pray for the grace to the First Commandment. It is valudevelop the corresponding virtue that ing something or someone more than is the antidote to this moral weakness. our relationship with God. Every sin Yet, most wars are not over after the involves giving our allegiance to an first battle. We must persevere in strividol. When we sin, we are in essence asing to overcome our sins by persistently serting that we believe that something recognizing and acknowledging them other than being in union with God will through our regular examination of make us happy. conscience and by bringing them to the Every time we examine our consacrament of reconciliation. science in our preparation for con-
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Archbishop Naumann’s March 12-13 Pastoral visit — Sacred Heart, Baileyville, and St. Mary, St. Benedict March 13 Rite of Election — 3 p.m., St. Matthew, Topeka March 14 Confirmation — St. Ann, Hiawatha March 15 Presbyteral Council meeting Task Force orientation meeting March 16 Confessions — St. Michael the Archangel March 17 St. Patrick’s Day Mass — Assumption Church, Topeka March 18-19 Conception Seminary board meeting
March 20 Rite of Election — 3 p.m., Holy Angels, Basehor Rite of Election— 7 p.m., St. Michael the Archangel, Leawood March 21 U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops Pro-Life Committee meeting — Washington, D.C. March 22 Administrative Team meeting Confirmation — St. Joseph, Shawnee
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March 13 Confirmation — St. Ann, Effingham, and St. Louis, Good Intent, at Good Intent March 16 Dinner at the federal prison March 19 Pro-life Mass — 8 a.m., Sts. Cyril and Methodius Church, Kansas City, Kan. March 20 Mass at the federal prison March 22 Talk at the cathedral in Metuchen, N.J.
fession, we have the opportunity to recognize and set aside the idols in our life. Every time, after confessing and receiving the absolution of our sins, we are like the apostles on Easter night encountering the risen Jesus, who not only forgave them their betrayal but empowered them to be ambassadors of his love and reconciliation for others. No matter the nature or level of seriousness of our sin, if we approach the Lord sincerely in the sacrament of reconciliation, we will not come out of the confessional the same person. Each time we receive this sacrament, we become liberated from the sadness of our sin and empowered to bring the love of Jesus to others. Why would we deprive ourselves from receiving a sacrament that by its nature brings us greater peace and joy? Think about it!
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s budget battles rage from the U.S. Capitol steps to nearly every statehouse, Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas has weighed in to speak for those whose voice might otherwise not be heard. The stakes are enormous, said Jan Lewis, president and CEO of Catholic Charities. Various proposals call for billions of dollars to be cut at the national level, and hundreds of millions for the individual states. In Kansas, the state government is facing a $492 million shortfall in revenue for the coming fiscal year that starts July 1. As state and national legislators wrestle with how to bring spending under control, Catholic Charities is working feverishly to keep the faces and the stories of the individuals and families that they serve in the forefront, Lewis said. “These people don’t work in industries with big lobby groups,” she said. “They don’t have the ability to travel to Washington, D.C. — or even Topeka — to protest a bill under consideration. They are our seniors, our unemployed and underemployed, and our children. If we, as the body of Jesus Christ, are not willing to speak up for our neighbors in need, who will?” Time is running short for Catholic Charities and its sister agencies across the country to make a difference. While both the House and Senate passed a continuing resolution to keep the federal government running, they only extended the debate until March 18, at which time they hope to present to the president a budget that both sides can agree on. The version, current as of this issue of The Leaven and passed by the House, contains major cuts to some of the longest-lived programs administered by Catholic Charities agencies. For the past 35 years, Catholic Charities has been part of the Foster Grandparent Program, a federally funded initiative that connects low-income seniors with young children. The seniors are trained and then deployed to child care centers and schools in Wyandotte County where they work with children in the classrooms. In addition to improved reading scores, the primary outcome measure, the grandparents provide an extra measure of love to these children who may not have the opportunity to interact with their own grandparents. In return, the foster grandparents receive a small stipend that helps them make ends meet. The program is slated for complete elimination. “Locally, the program provides about $425,000 in stipend payments to the 85 Wyandotte County seniors who participate, which helps them to pay for things like prescriptions, medical supplies and even food and electricity,” said Lewis. “But the even greater loss is that 94,000 hours of service would be pulled
For up-to-the-minute information on issues of special interest to Catholics in Kansas regarding the budget, go to the Web site of the Kansas Catholic Conference at: www.kscathconf.org.
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Mildred Fraizer of the Foster Grandparents program works with children in a local day care center. The program is in danger of losing its federal funding, which would affect 85 Wyandotte County seniors who use the small stipend the program provides to help make ends meet.
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The Refugee and Migrant program is facing a 50-percent cut. This humanitarian effort resettles refugees coming out of camps around the world. from local schools and day cares,” she continued. “Over the past 35 years, the program has impacted the lives of over 52,000 at-risk and special-needs children in our community. How are our
schools going to replace that?” When news of the potential cuts was announced, one foster grandparent said, “I will miss my children. They help me along and we help each other.”
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The Refugee and Migrant program is facing a 50-percent cut. This humanitarian effort resettles refugees coming out of camps around the world. Also receiving cuts is the Emergency Food and Shelter program, which last year helped keep 775 area residents safely housed when they faced foreclosure or eviction. One of the individuals that the EFS program assisted was a nurse who had suffered a personal injury and was in a coma for several weeks. Because of lost wages and her extended hospital stay, she was being evicted from her home. Through the Emergency Food and Shelter program, Catholic Charities was able to help her save her home. She has now returned to work and is on the road to both physical and financial recovery. “This could have been me, or a close friend or family member,” said Lewis. “What if that support had not been there?” Lewis worries this program might not be there in the future. The current cuts being proposed at the federal level could result in nearly $900,000 lost funding for these programs. “While those are big numbers, it isn’t the money that worries me,” said Lewis. “It is the people we will no longer be able to help.” Catholic social teaching states that “a basic moral test is how our most vulnerable members are faring,” said Lewis. “In a society marred by deepening divisions between rich and poor, our tradition recalls the story of the last judgment (Mt 25:31-46) and instructs us to put the needs of the poor and vulnerable first.” Lewis said that in recent letters to Congress, Bishop Howard J. Hubbard of Albany, N.Y., and Bishop Stephen E. Blaire of Stockton, Calif., called on legislators to look for solutions that do not attempt to “balance the budget on the backs of the poor at home and abroad” and to recognize that “in times of economic crisis, the poor and vulnerable are in greater need of assistance, not less.” To learn more about the impact of these budget decisions, visit the Catholic Charities Web site at: www.catholic charitiesks.org. To be a voice for those who have no voice, contact your elected officials in Washington by visiting the Web sites at: www.senate.gov or www.house.gov. For issues related to the Kansas budget, visit the Web site at: www.kansas.gov, where you will also find links to your state officials’ offices.
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Confessors find penitents teach, uplift them
Both sides now “[Our seminary training] did give you a good sense that you didn’t know what was coming, and a sense that the sacrament of reconciliation is one of the most precious, intimate opportunities we have to make a huge impact in someone’s life.”
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KANSAS CITY, Kan. — One of the questions young priests inevitably encounter is: “How do I become a good confessor?” The answer, in part, is: “Be a good penitent.” People sometimes forget that priests have to go to confession, too. Being on both sides of the screen — at least figuratively — gives them special insights on the sacrament of reconciliation. By both administering and receiving the sacrament, they learn how the human soul is touched and healed, and their essential role in bringing people back to the heart of Jesus.
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Seminary simulation “In [the] seminary we had one professor . . . who [believed that] to be a good confessor you have to go to confession,” said Father Andrew Strobl, associate pastor of Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe, ordained in 2009. “He wasn’t talking about just once or twice a year, but very regularly — go to confession yourself.” As seminarians, they studied the history and theology of the sacrament, said Father Pat Sullivan, administrator of Annunciation Parish in Frankfort, St. Joseph Parish in Lillis, and St. MonicaSt. Elizabeth Parish in Blue Rapids. And they read and wrote on the sacrament. But they also practiced it. “[With five or six classmates] each week we’d run through scenarios,” said Father Sullivan, ordained in 2009. “One would be the penitent and the other would be the confessor.” The rest of the seminarians would watch and critique. “It was a fascinating learning experience,” said Father Greg Hammes, associate pastor of Curé of Ars Parish in Leawood, ordained in 2007. “I discovered that it is kind of challenging to be on the other side of the sacrament.” “One of the things that at least one of our professors taught us is that in every confession we should ask, ‘Why is this person here?’” he continued. “‘What is it they are seeking?’ That is often a very difficult question.” As much as they could, these simulations tried to get seminarians to think and react to situations they’d encounter as priests. “It did give you a good sense that you didn’t know what was coming, and a sense that the sacrament of reconciliation is one of the most precious, intimate opportunities we have to make a huge impact in someone’s life,” said Father Strobl. Still, these classroom scenarios were nothing like the “real world.” “You can talk about scenarios and
Father Andrew Strobl, associate pastor, Prince of Peace, Olathe
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general things about how to address certain sins, but you are not prepared to go to one confession after another and totally refocusing,” said Father Strobl. “When you hear multiple confessions, you have to totally refocus to the new person in front of you . . . and give them
the attention they deserve.” It was really helpful to him, as a seminarian, to go to different confessors, he added. He’d pick up on things he really appreciated, with the thought in the back of his mind that “someday, you will have to do this,” said Father Strobl.
“I also learned how broken we are as a people, every one of us — the successful businessman, the wife and mother, the athlete, young and old — we are all broken.” Father Pat Sullivan, administrator of Annunciation Parish in Frankfort, St. Joseph Parish in Lillis, and St. Monica-St. Elizabeth Parish in Blue Rapids
them, and perhaps [your own] should be eating at you.” Often, the confessor can identify with the penitent and learn more about themselves. “Often I learn about myself, because — wait a minute — I struggle with that, too,” said Father Hammes. “And when I listen to them and respond, often I am preaching to myself, too, so I do learn from that encounter personally.”
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Learning in the trenches The learning didn’t stop in the seminary, said Father Sullivan. In fact, one thing he gained was a deeper appreciation of his own priesthood. “I have realized just how important the priesthood is to the faithful,” he said. “So often we hear that without the priesthood, there is no Eucharist. This is true, of course, but without the priesthood, there would not be the sacrament of reconciliation, either.” Administering so great a sacrament is a tremendous responsibility. Like other young priests, Father Hammes was concerned about getting the rubrics right and saying the right things. In time, he learned to relax and trust God. “I learned — and am still learning — to relax and listen,” said Father Hammes. “I’m often very surprised by what I say. It feels like the Holy Spirit is speaking through me, so I’ve learned to listen and not even think about what I’m going to say [to the penitent] until I do speak.” “I’ve also learned a lot about people and their faith in the sacrament,” he continued. “To me, this is the most encouraging sacrament, because you get to see the heart of people. It’s often quite beautiful to see their faith as they struggle, and their trust, courage, and humility. It often amazes and encourages me.” Learning to be a good confessor comes hand in hand with experience. “A good confessor gets a feel of where the penitent is coming from,” said Father Strobl. “A good confessor will be able to pick up if this is someone comfortable with the sacrament, who goes regularly. A good confessor will be able to zero in if this is someone who needs encouragement or a little push in a certain direction, or hasn’t been to confession [in] a while and needs to be put back together again.” They also learn to ask the right questions. Not too many, but just enough to be helpful. Father Sullivan has gained a deeper appreciation of the sacrament as he’s come to realize more fully how we’re all sinners in need of God’s mercy. “I also learned how broken we are as a people, every one of us — the successful businessman, the wife and mother, the athlete, young and old — we are all broken,” said Father Sullivan. “I am humbled to see people lay all their sins down in front of a stranger and trust in the Lord,” he continued. “I think this is one of the great things about the sacrament — that [to receive it] we have to be humble.” A good confessor learns to be comfortable with the “awkward pause,” lets
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penitents collect themselves, and doesn’t rush them. A little feedback is good, too. “I love the penitents who aren’t afraid to give a little helpful feedback,” said Father Strobl. “It’s like, if you start going off on some advice, and they fill you in [by saying], ‘Well, Father, here’s my circumstance,’ then they give a little bit more helpful [information].” Father Strobl believes that a good confessor does not assume too much. For example, the reason he might go to confession may not be the same reason the penitent has come to him for confession. The confessional is a place of healing and liberation, and thus requires kindness and compassion on the part of the confessor. It also, however, requires honesty and firmness. “You need to be firm when you’re directing someone in their spiritual life,” said Father Sullivan. “ I often tell people, “If I were a medical doctor, and we were talking about your physical health, you’d want me to tell you the truth if you were doing something horrible to your body.’” “Well, I’m a doctor of the soul, and you’d want me to tell you the truth,” he continued. “So, very lovingly and in a convincing and real way, I tell [penitents] the error of their ways if they need to hear it. Always with love and a smile. The backbone to tell the truth in confession, with patience, makes a good confessor.”
New ways of appreciation Going to confession is never easy, even if you’re a priest, said Father Strobl. Yet, confession can become such a beautiful time to encounter God’s love and mercy and to experience spiritual growth. The sacrament has helped him appreciate his vocation even more.
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“I love being a priest,” he said. “God bless us, we need so many great counselors and good psychologists. But, as priests, we have such a blessing to be able to turn to someone who needs God’s mercy in some way, ask them, ‘When was your last confession?’ and offer it — boom — on the spot.” Probably the best part of being a confessor is that the experience of grace isn’t limited to the penitent. “I’ve learned as a confessor that the peace that comes from the sacrament of reconciliation, the joy that is in it, is reciprocated back to the confessor,” said Father Sullivan. “At least for me, the confessor gets just as much out of it as the penitent. You can sense when both of you are uplifted by the grace of Jesus.” Some of that uplift comes from the holiness found in the penitent. “It’s very interesting and humbling to see someone come in,” said Father Sullivan, “and they are just really upset and hurt by their sins, and you sit there thinking, ‘You really haven’t done much. . . . I’ve had a worse week than that,’”
“I’ve also learned a lot about people and their faith in the sacrament. To me, this is the most encouraging sacrament, because you get to see the heart of people. It’s often quite beautiful to see their faith as they struggle, and their trust, courage, and humility. It often amazes and encourages me.”
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Father Greg Hammes, associate pastor, Curé of Ars, Leawood
said Father Sullivan. “You’re learning that, perhaps, they are holier than you are. Their smaller sins are eating at
Another aspect of the sacrament only fully appreciated once the seminarians reached the other side of the screen was how it continues to be celebrated and lived outside the confessional. “Do your penance,” said Father Hammes. “Always practice some penance in your life to remind yourself throughout the year that we are sinners and we need penance.” “Whatever gift [of grace] we have been given is meant to be shared with others,” he continued. “We have been reconciled with Christ and the church, and we need go out and reconcile with others. We need to repair old relationships to bring people back to Christ.” Celebrating the sacrament is more than just getting the slate wiped clean. It’s about going on to avoid sin, said Father Sullivan. We should use those times when we return to the sacrament to grow in holiness, and not give in to frustration. “So many people come in frustrated because they confess the same sins,” he said. “It’s OK. Don’t be afraid to confess those sins. But you want to ask yourself if you are doing anything to try to stop committing those sins. . . . That’s what will help make us saints. Chip away, little by little, and pray for God’s help in those areas of your life.”
Deacon opportunity worth the trade-offs, says Topeka man By Kara Hansen Leaven staff
Becoming a deacon was a natural step for Daniel Ondracek. “I have been a part of Cathoeducation Deacon lic my entire life profile and considered being a monk for a while in college,” said Ondracek. “I’ve always been active in the church and becoming a deacon is an extension of that. I love being around people, especially helping them and teaching them the faith.” Aside from his professional and family responsibilities, Ondracek also volunteers at the juvenile prison in Topeka and helps with Special Olym-
pics. He is looking forward to beginning his ministry as a deacon but expects it to be something of a balancing act. “I work in a hospital in a position where I don’t have set hours, so it’s going to be a challenge balancing my time and responsibilities with family, church, and work,” he said. But the trade-off — becoming a deacon and having the opportunity to serve in his faith community — is definitely worth it, said Ondracek. “I love being around church, and I enjoy everything about our faith,” he said. “Community is a big thing with being Catholic, and Topeka is a great Catholic town.”
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Name: Daniel Patrick Ondracek Parish: Most Pure Heart of Mary, Topeka Age: 53 Family: wife, Carol; sons: Alex and Ryan Occupation: nurse anesthetist Favorite food: cookies What am I looking forward to most about being a deacon: serving those who need help the most. Something people might be surprised to learn about me: I raised hogs to help put myself through college. Favorite saint: Actually four — St. Pio of Pietrelcina, because he never wavered; St. Don Bosco, because he had tremendous faith in young people; St. Francis of Assisi, because he gave up everything to serve the Lord; and St. Thérèse, because of her simplicity and love. If I could visit a period of church history, it would be: following in St. Paul’s footsteps. Favorite book: “Left to Tell” by Immaculée Ilibagiza Hobby: gardening/landscaping
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THE LEAVEN • March 11, 2011 Nadine (Lyons) and Kenny Monroe, a member of St. Ann Parish, Prairie Village, celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary March 5 with anniversary a dinner for family and friends. The couple was married on March 2, 1946, at St. Benedict’s Church in Atchison. Their children and their spouses are: Diane and Robert Eisele; Leslie and Candy Monroe; and Lisa and Mark Glover. They also have eight grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.
Anointing Mass set for April 2 KANSAS CITY, Kan. — Archbishop Joseph Naumann and Archbishop Emeritus James Keleher will join with Bishop Robert Finn and Bishop Emeritus Raymond Boland in a joint communal Mass to administer the sacrament of the sick to Catholics of both dioceses. The special Mass, anointing, and blessing of the sick as it is done in Lourdes, France, will begin at 10 a.m. on April 2 at Curé of Ars Parish, 93rd and Mission Rd., Leawood. Among those who may be anointed, according to the ritual, are: • Those undergoing surgery, whenever serious illness is the reason • The elderly who have become weakened, even if no serious illness is present • Sick children, if they have sufficient use of reason to be strengthened by the sacrament. Those wishing to receive the sacrament are asked to preregister by phone. Call (913) 649-3260 and leave your name with correct spelling. In addition, there is a registration form (see page 10) in this week’s Leaven on March 18.
Vocation day Father Francis Hund (left), pastor of Church of the Nativity in Leawood, and Father Ken Kelly, pastor of St. Pius X Parish in Mission, demonstrate to students from several area Catholic schools the use and importance of a chalice at the annual vocation day March 2 at Prince of Peace School in Olathe. The session with the two priests was one of many sessions held that day. At right, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann holds a question-and-answer session with all the students.
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Benedictine College announces new Gregorian Fellows program ATCHISON — Benedictine College has announced the launch of a new academic program on its Atchison campus: the Gregorian Fellows. Named for St. Gregory the Great, the first Benedictine to become pope, the new fellowships will provide educational opportunities to advance intellectual culture on campus and in the world. Each year, the college will select 25 students for the program. A fellowship involves an annual academic retreat, a presidential round-table program, participation in the Fellows Reading Group, and special gatherings with notable speakers visiting the campus. Each fellowship also includes
a $2,000 Gregorian Stipend that can be spent on any approved educational endeavor. The stipend is in addition to any scholarships or other financial aid for which the students qualify. “The stipend is intended to open the world to our Gregorian Fellows,” said Kimberly Shankman, dean of the college. “Many, of course, will use the stipend to cover costs of studying abroad — whether at our campus in Florence, Italy, or at any of the 300 campuses around the world with which we have exchange agreements. But it could also be used for service learning projects or special research opportunities. It is
truly meant to expand the Fellows’ horizons.” Gregorian Fellowships are available to incoming freshmen at Benedictine College. To be eligible, students must apply and be accepted for undergraduate admission to Benedictine. Applicants must have a minimum high school GPA of 3.2 and a minimum ACT score of 27. Each applicant must also write and submit a short (approximately threeparagraph) essay on each of the following questions: 1. In your life up to this point, what intellectual event or experience (i.e., class, book, travel, museum visit) has had the
greatest impact on you? Why? 2. Which event or experience in your community involvement has had the greatest impact on you? Why? 3. How do you see yourself advancing or contributing to the intellectual culture of Benedictine College? 4. After you graduate from Benedictine College, how do you plan to advance or contribute to the intellectual culture of greater society? The deadline to submit completed essays is March 15. The 25 students selected to participate will be notified by April 1.
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Task force to review needs surfaced by feasibility study
Operation Rice Bowl provides vital assistance to poor
The council is a group of 25 to 30 lay leaders from throughout the archdiocese. John Gillcrist, a member of Holy Spirit Parish in Overland Park, is the council’s chairman. More than 1,500 archdiocesan Catholics participated in the feasibility study, which was conducted in summer and fall of 2010. Those surveyed represent a broad spectrum of archdiocesan Catholics. “In that study there was positive support, but some confusion as to the needs described,” said Haske. “It sort of prompted a healthy debate about the best way to move forward,” he continued. “We recommended the archbishop and the archdiocesan leadership elect to spend the next year taking a fresh look at the identified needs and make a recommendation about the best path forward.” The task force will look at the six elements of the capital campaign outlined in the feasibility study. The campaign would seek to: • Make Catholic high school education more affordable by reducing or eliminating debt and increasing scholarship funds. • Create an endowment to fund youth ministry in rural areas not served by Catholic secondary education. • Create a Youth Ministry Center in Kansas City, Kan. • Make major contributions to Donnelly College in Kansas City, Kan. • Create an endowment to help parishes and parochial schools in poor areas of the archdiocese. • Return 30 percent of donations to the parishes for their needs. “This is an exciting time for all of us,”
BALTIMORE — This year Pope Benedict XVI’s Lenten message invites Catholics to consider the traditions of fasting and sacrifices. “For Christians,” the Holy Father said, “fasting, far from being depressing, opens us ever more to God and to the needs of others, thus allowing love of God to become also love of our neighbor.” Operation Rice Bowl, Catholic Relief Services annual Lenten program, offers Catholics in the United States an opportunity to follow the Lenten call to sacrifice by learning about our brothers and sisters living in poverty, and by making sacrificial contributions that will help them improve their lives. This year’s theme, “We are Disciples of all Nations,” reflects this opportunity to reach out beyond our borders by highlighting the people and cuisine of Haiti, Indonesia, Senegal, Honduras and Kenya, and the CRS projects that help to alleviate poverty in these countries. Each Lent, Catholic families, parishes and schools use symbolic rice bowls during the 40 days of Lent as the focal point for their prayer, fasting and learning. Catholics raise more than $8 million annually through Operation Rice Bowl. Seventy-five percent of contributions support CRS development projects overseas, including agriculture projects to help farmers improve crop yields, water projects to bring clean water to communities, microfinance projects that support the growth of small businesses and provide families with reliable income, and health projects to provide basic medical care to poor and vulnerable communities. Twenty-five percent of contributions remain in dioceses in the United States to support local hunger and poverty alleviation efforts.
By Joe Bollig Leaven staff
KANSAS CITY, Kan. — A blueribbon task force has been created by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann to review the needs identified in the recent feasibility study of a capital campaign. It is then tasked with making recommendations on the next steps required to better articulate and address those needs. The 12-person case review task force, consisting of six laypeople and six priests, was created in response to a recommendation made after completion of a capital campaign feasibility study done by The Steier Group, a development firm based in Omaha, Neb. “I am humbled by the archbishop’s request that I serve as chairman of this group of impressive lay and clergy leaders who comprise this task force,” said Mike Morrissey, member of the Church of the Nativity Parish in Leawood. “I firmly believe that by gathering this group of intelligent people, that over the course of the next several months, we can successfully chart the best way for the archdiocese to move forward.” The task force will meet for the first time on March 15, and then monthly until the end of the year. Its members will review information about archdiocesan priorities, research potential solutions, and form final recommendations, said John Haske, associate vice president of The Steier Group. Periodically, the task force will report its progress to the archdiocesan presbyteral council, and the archbishop’s lay case review advisory council.
Case review task force members The six lay task force members are: • Mike Morrissey, chairman, Church of the Nativity Parish, Leawood • Bill Dunn Jr., St. Agnes Parish, Roeland Park • Brenda Zimmerman, St. Matthew Parish, Topeka • Jack Newman, Church of the Nativity Parish • Lamar Hunt Jr., Church of the Nativity Parish • John Menghini, Ascension Parish, Overland Park The six clergy task force members are: • Msgr. Thomas Tank, Ascension Parish • Father William Porter, St. Michael the Archangel, Leawood • Father Bill Bruning, Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish, Topeka • Father Frank Burger, Prince of Peace Parish, Olathe • Father Mark Mertes, Blessed Sacrament Parish, Kansas City, Kan. • Father Mike Koller, Sts. Peter and Paul Parish, Seneca said Haske. “We are extremely grateful to these leaders — both the lay leaders and the priests — who are willing to give so much of their time and talent on behalf of the archdiocese. We pray that their work will complement the work already being done by so many throughout the archdiocese.”
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Diversity awareness
More than a game As Edwards discovered when he walked into the classroom and confronted the list of prejudices, often what starts out as a game at Unitown quickly becomes serious business. In the “Spy Exercise” described above, the black delegates had been instructed to leave the room. The remaining delegates were instructed to make a list of any words or phrases they had heard used to describe the black/African-American community. They were then instructed to write down these words or phrases on the flip chart at the front of the room. Everyone, West insisted, should be completely honest. When the black delegates were invited to return, they stood quietly as they read the list, then turned to face the other group. The resulting discussion was emotional, educational and cleansing. “The first thing I noticed was the word ‘illiterate,’” said Edwards. “I thought it was ironic, because I saw at least five other words on the list that were misspelled.” “I felt like it really hit me hard the first time I went,” said Bishop Ward junior Jozzi Rainey, a peer counselor who is also black. “But this time it didn’t have as big an effect on me. “Those are just stereotypes, and I
s Bishop Miege sophomore Leah Brown shares her answers to a questionnaire asking what participants value and what they’d like to change about themselves. s
Airick West, president of the Kansas City Missouri school board, facilitated the Unitown Retreat at Bishop Miege High School.
s Jozzi Rainey, a junior at Bishop Ward, places her thumb on the forehead of Bishop Miege sophomore Audrey Crosby, as part of one of the icebreaker exercises at Unitown. From left, Mead D’Amore, a junior at St. Thomas Aquinas, and Paseo Academy’s Haris Paige and Montanna McDaniel find the sweet spot in their three-part harmony. s
Unitown is a life-changing 24-hour retreat for high-school students, designed to address prejudice, discrimination and conflict while raising awareness of diversity issues. The heart and soul of Unitown is its facilitator, Kansas City Missouri school board president Airick Leonard West. “Unitown allows students to look at the world as larger than themselves and learn to be considerate of other people’s experiences and viewpoints,” said West. “They leave here with the power to live out their values and their beliefs,” he said. West believes so strongly in the program that he volunteers his time to present it. Mary Perrini, director of campus ministry at Bishop Miege, initially brought Unitown to her school 16 years ago. “I started on Holy Thursday in 1995, with a group of about eight or nine kids,” she recalled. “And we’ve been doing them every year since.” A record crowd of 77 students attended this year’s retreat, which was co-hosted by St. Thomas Aquinas High School in Overland Park. The group also included students from Bishop Ward High School in Kansas City, Kan., and Paseo Academy in Kansas City, Mo. West is assisted at Unitown by prior attendees that he personally trains to be peer counselors through a separate leadership-development program. “The only way to come back is to come back as a leader,” he explained. Unitown educates participants — referred to as delegates — through a series of games and activities that are fastpaced, but emotionally charged. “We’re just playing all these silly games and singing,” said West. “But our intention is really focused around diversity awareness issues and growing these students’ capacity to be leaders in that regard.”
didn’t let them get to me — that’s not who we are.” “The variety we had in that AfricanAmerican group made it interesting,” said Bishop Miege senior Hannah Holt, a peer counselor who was attending Unitown for her fourth time. “We had the star of the basketball team, we had the valedictorian and we had all sorts of people.” “You realized no matter how hard they work, they’re always going to be a step behind because of those stereotypes,” she said. “I think that was the kicker.”
“Some of the people who I think of as always happy and perky actually have pretty sad and disturbed pasts.” “You learn that not everybody is the same and not everybody is perfect,” said Rainey. “And everybody has their struggles.”
Up and down
Gender wars “Spy Exercise” was by no means the most intense moment at Unitown. The next day, in an exercise called “Gender Reflection,” the girls and boys were separated and instructed to make a list of characteristics of an ideal mate. Some characteristics on the girls’ list may have been unrealistic. But the boys, alone in a room awash in testosterone, came up with a list Casanova would blush to read. When the groups recombined, however, there wasn’t a Casanova in sight. The boys had to read every item on their list — out loud — to the girls. “It gets me every single time,” said Holt. “Where does this stuff come from?
“The boys feel super uncomfortable. “But the thing is, we feel super uncomfortable trying to fulfill all those things they want.” After the lists were read, it was question-and-answer time. “The boys understood the girls better after that,” said Rainey. Holt agreed, saying students of both sexes learned something from the exchange.
“I think it hits them that what they want in their ideal mates — how hard that impacts the opposite sex,” she said. Another “game” that touched many students deeply was a deceptively simple exercise called “Gender Stand-up.” “Airick read a statement and, if it was true, you stood up,” explained Rainey. “They start off pretty light,” said Holt. “Like ‘Please stand if you’ve ever worn clothing that you thought was restrictive
or uncomfortable.’ Then it gets into like, ‘Please stand if you’ve ever experienced molestation.’ “It’s a good way to let a lot of things off your chest without saying anything,” she said. Edwards said the “Gender Stand-up” exercise made him revise his opinion of some fellow students he thought had it made. “In the end, I learned a lot,” he said.
An inevitable result of the intensity of the Unitown experience is an explosion of emotion on the part of many students. “Every time, we have people break down and cry,” said Holt, “because everyone’s story gets to be heard. And a lot of times, it’s the first time people have gotten to tell their story and feel comfortable about doing it.” In between activities, delegates break into small “family” groups, led by peer counselors, for discussion, debriefing and decompression. “And through this experience we all become kind of a family,” said Holt. “I’ve never told people some of the stories I’ve told on this retreat. It’s a very nice way to escape from the place where you’re supposed to hide everything.” Unitown is a roller coaster ride — one minute a student might be participating in a life-changing group exercise; the next, in an intimate family discussion moment. And some games really are just
about having fun. Edwards said the latter were some of his favorite moments at the retreat. “We played a game called ‘In My Hand,’” he said. “One member from each team would race to [West] and he’d ask for something like a water bottle, a sweat shirt, a religious object.” Teams competed to find the most items. The winning team was first in the food line for dinner. “And then, for breakfast,” said Edwards, “we had to get up early and sing and dance.” All the participants agreed West was the perfect conductor for this wild ride. “Airick West can be so energetic. But two minutes later, he is more serious than anyone I’ve seen,” said Holt. “He has to be that way; it’s just the nature of the retreat.”
Going on One of the most moving moments of Unitown came at the end, during the closing circle, when participants held hands and shared their thoughts about the experience. “That closing circle really showed that they had grown in awareness of their own thoughts and prejudices, as well as seeing people from a different perspective,” said Perrini.
“Changed? I’m sure I have,” said Edwards. “I just don’t know how much I’ve changed. I know I learned you can discriminate without even realizing it.” “You learn so much from new people, and you come out with a different view of other people and other races,” said Rainey. “And you learn you shouldn’t judge people if you don’t know them.” “And so knowledge is power,” said Perrini. “The more awareness and the more understanding and the more empathy we can teach these kids, the better our world will be. “As Catholic Christians, I believe we are called to be Christ-like in all that we do.” “Treating one another with dignity is key to our Catholic social teaching,” she continued. “Racism, stereotypes, classism — all erode the dignity of another person. “What better way to grow in our faith than to learn from one another? In Unitown, we are allowed to walk in another’s shoes. “I believe Jesus would be right there with us.” West calls Unitown a great awareness-building instrument that gives high school students essential skills to succeed out in the real world. “They’re going to go out into the rest of the world and there’s going to be a little bit of everyone there,” he said. “And your capacity to compete on the economic world stage is always going to be a direct function of your ability to communicate with and work with whomever you come across,” he added. “When I looked around the room at the end,” said Holt, “I saw how many people were standing in that circle with me. “And it was so much easier then to think that I can start changing the world, because I’ve got all these people who will support me in doing so.”
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Ward students impress Continued from page 1 was thanks to the Ward game changers who taught each week. “They are a wonderful group of young people with take-charge attitudes,” said Sister Carol Ann. “They were nice, respectful, and affirming of the women in the group, as well as very well-prepared for each class.” Heiman said teaching the course was just as valuable an experience for the students involved. “Second-person teaching is one of the most powerful learning tools. So, by mastering the material to be able to teach it to the women at the Keeler Women’s Center, the students really own the knowledge,” said Heiman. “Second, it reaffirms their culture and the beauty of being bilingual,” she added. “Last, but not least, it allows the students to give back in a significant way to their community, which is one of our primary missions as a Catholic high school.” Heiman said students also gained a greater appreciation of what their teachers go through in preparing and presenting lessons. And they have experienced a unique opportunity to have real-world business experience and community service rolled into one. “It’s a big time commitment, and I am really proud of them,” said Heiman.
AAngelawork of mercy Wilhelm’s third-grade class at Holy Rosary School, Wea, collected blankets as a service project to donate to the Rescue Mission in Kansas City, Mo. The class donated over 50 blankets to the homeless.
12 CLASSIFIEDS Employment Business office manager - 170-bed, nonprofit, long-term care facility is seeking a business office manager with at least three years experience in LTC billing. Experience in Medicare billing is a must. Financial and supervisory experience a plus. Fax resume to Villa St. Francis at (913) 829-5399 or call (913) 747-0283 for information. EOE. Instrumental music teacher - Bishop Miege High School is seeking applicants for an instrumental music teacher for the 2011 - 12 school year. Send letter, resume, transcript and credentials to: Mariann Jaksa, 5041 Reinhardt Dr., Shawnee Mission KS 66205 or send, via e-mail, to: mjaksa@bishopmiege.com. Director of music - Holy Trinity Parish, Lenexa, is seeking a full-time director of music to begin July 15. Candidates should have a music degree, be proficient in organ and piano, and possess strong interpersonal skills. Experience in church music preferred. For information or to apply, contact Dr. Paula Neihouse at (913) 895-0682 or send an e-mail to her at: pneihouse@htlenexa.org. Development assistant - The Catholic Education Foundation of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is seeking a part- time development assistant to help with grant writing, social media, and other duties in the CEF office. Applicants must be a practicing Catholic; possess a bachelor’s degree; demonstrate competency in writing, social media, Microsoft Excel and database management. Not-for-profit experience preferred. For information, contact Michael Morrisey, executive director, Catholic Education Foundation, at (913) 647-0383. Candidates may submit a cover letter and resume, via e-mail by March 25, to Michael Morrisey at: mmorrisey@archkck.org. Financial representative - Due to the success and growth of the Knights of Columbus, we are adding financial representatives in the Kansas City area. This position is ideal for a determined, high-energy, high-expectation, professional, self-disciplined, independent individual desiring to serve others, yet earn a better-than-average income. We provide top-rated financial products to our members and their families and will provide excellent benefits and training. For information or an interview, contact John A. Mahon, 307 Dakota, Holton KS 66436; or call (785) 364-5450.
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THE LEAVEN • MARCH 11, 2011 Lawn Care Mowing * spring cleanups * fertilizing Free estimates Insured; excellent references Call Tony at (913) 620-6063 Tree service - Pruning trees for optimal growth and beauty and removal of hazardous limbs or problem trees. Free consultation and bid. Safe, insured, professional. Cristofer Estrada, Green Solutions of KC, (913) 378-5872. www.GreenSolutionsKC.com. Faith-based counseling to cope with life concerns - Kansas City area. Call Mary Vorsten, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, at (913) 909-2002. Bankruptcy - When debt becomes overwhelming, seek professional help. Experienced, compassionate Catholic attorney Teresa Kidd. For a confidential, no obligation consultation, call (913) 422-0610; or send an e-mail to: tkidd@kc.rr.com. Need a ride? Where to? I am available to take you to your doctor’s appointment, hairdresser or shopping. Maybe you aren’t driving anymore or just prefer a chauffeur; I’ll get you there. I can also run errands for you or do the grocery shopping. Just give me a call to discuss your needs. Johnson County only. Call (913) 469-6211 or (816) 806-0564. Medical supplies and equipment - Home from the hospital and needing supplies and equipment? KC Home Medical Supply has what you need. Come see our retail store, or call Ed at (913) 385-2020.
Caregiving Caregiver - Catholic lady with over 30 years experience has availability for elderly care. Excellent references. Johnson County area. Call (913) 579-8914. Looking for high quality home care? Whether you’re looking to introduce care for your family or simply looking to improve your current home care quality, we can help. Our unique approach to home care has earned us a 99% client satisfaction rating among the 1,000-plus families we have assisted. We are family-owned and based in Lenexa. Call Benefits of Home-Senior Care at (913) 422-1591 or visit our Web site at: www.benefitsofhome.com. Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation to the elderly and disabled in home, assisted living and nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Sara or Gary.
Home Improvement Wood treatment and refinishing - We strip, refinish and treat woodwork. Restoration of pews, altars, stairways, cabinets, desks, paneling and more. Work in churches, homes and businesses. Insured and guaranteed. Family owned. Call (816) 241-1900. Roof repair or replace – Insurance work welcome. Free inspection. Quality work; reasonable rates. Call (913) 206-4524.
House and office cleaning - Honest, reliable; reasonable rates. Johnson and Miami counties. Parishioner of Queen of the Holy Rosary-Wea. References available. Call (913) 908-4834.
Detail construction and remodeling - We offer a full line of home remodeling services. Don’t move — remodel! Johnson county area. Call for a free quote. (913) 709-8401.
Machine quilting - by Jenell Noeth, Basehor. Also, quilts made to order. Call (913) 724-1837.
The Drywall Doctor, Inc. - A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean! Lead-certified and insured! Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655.
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Woodbright - A very affordable alternative to refinishing, refacing or replacing stained cabinets and woodwork. The average kitchen only costs $500. 18 years experience. Call Woodbright at (913) 940-3020.
THE LEAVEN • MARCH 11, 2011 Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite, and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee. Clutter problems? Embarrassing garage, basement, attic or any room? Let me help you get organized! Items sorted, grouped, boxed and labeled; areas clean when finished. Great references and insured. Twenty years experience! Handyman repairs also available. To view “before” and “after” pictures, visit my Web site at: www.swalms.com. Tillar Swalm (913) 375-9115. Clutter getting you down? Organize, fix, assemble, clean . . . we do it all! For a free consultation, call your professional organizing handyman, Kevin Hogan, M Ed, today at (913) 271-5055. Insured; references. Visit the Web site at: www.koatindustries.com. EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation* Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!! Call Lupe at (816) 252-3376 STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Call for free estimates. Cell: (913) 579-1835; phone: (913) 491-5837; e-mail: smokey cabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa. Thanks to all my customers for a great fall! We’re looking for indoor work. We can do bathroom, kitchen, and basement remodeling. Includes floors, cabinets, doors, windows, sheetrock, painting, and wood rot. You name it – we can do it; just ask. We’re reasonably priced and fully insured. Call Josh at (913) 709-7230. Interior painting, tiling, kitchen, bath and basement remodeling – 20 years experience. Excellent references. Quality work at a reasonable price. Call Rob at (913) 206-4524. Interior and exterior painting and wallpaper removal - 30-plus years experience. Quality work; excellent references; reasonable rates. Senior discount. Member of St. Ann Parish, Prairie Village. Call Joe at (913) 620-5776. Adept Home Improvements Where quality still counts! Basement finishing, Kitchens and baths, Electrical and plumbing, Licensed and insured. (913) 599-7998 Roof repair or replace – Insurance work welcome. Free inspection. Quality work; reasonable rates. Call (913) 206-4524. Electrician - Free estimates; reasonable rates. JoCo and south KC metro. Call Pat at (913) 963-9896.
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Vacation Colorado ski vacation - Winter Park. 2 BR, sleeps 6. Fully furnished, fireplace, rec. center with pool & hot tub. Bus to ski area. $125/night; $700/ week. Call Joe Frederick at (913) 385-5589. Ski cabin in Winter Park, Colo. – 2 BR, 1 BA, on free ski shuttle route. $110/night. Call (913) 642-3027. For pictures, visit the Web site at: www.tillmancabin. com. Lake of the Ozarks rental - Osage Beach; million-dollar view; fully furnished; 2 BR, 2 BA; sleeps six. No smoking, no pets. For special rates or pictures, call Steve or Sheryl Roederer at (913) 244-2022.
Childcare Infant care available – Experienced, reliable, private care for your little one, ages newborn to two years, in my home. References provided. Call (913) 642-9637. Member of Curé of Ars Parish, Leawood. Summer nanny available - Catholic, collegebound St. Teresa Academy graduate is seeking to nanny full time this summer in the Overland Park or Leawood area. Has reliable transportation and references. Call or text Alexa Fowlkes at (816) 813-4603.
Misc. Scottie dog needs a good home – Five-year-old purebred female. Sophie is good with children and other pets, house trained, spayed and current on all shots. Owner is relocating to apartment. Call Shari at (816) 678- 5718. Member of Curé of Ars Parish. Donate a vehicle. Make a difference. Donate your vehicle to Catholic Charities to support those in need. Your tax-deductible donation of a vehicle helps children and families served by Catholic Charities and is an environmentally wise way to recycle your vehicle. Cars for KC Kids is a partnership between Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas and Catholic Charities of Kansas City - St. Joseph. Call 1 (866) 430-9499 or visit the Web site at: www.cars4kckids.com.
Will buy firearms and related accessories One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee. ***WANTED*** I buy coins, older watches, silverware, slot machines, old rifles and shotguns, stoneware crocks and jugs, old furniture from basement or attic. Call Chris at (913) 593-7507 or (913) 642-8269
For Sale Residential lifts - Buy/sell/trade. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. Recycled and new equipment. Member of St. Michael the Archangel Parish, Leawood. Call Silver Cross KC at (913) 327-5557. For sale - One space, without marker, in Hope Lawn Crypt at Resurrection Cemetery, Lenexa. Originally purchased in 1990. Lot 20, section D, space 3. Asking price is $3000. Call Peggy Langenbach at (816) 645-2890.
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Sophia Center, 751 S. 8th St., Atchison, will host “Teresa of Avila: HighSpirited Mystic,” a one-day retreat presented by Benedictine Sister Sheila Carroll, from 9 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. on March 12. This retreat will include talks on the writings of Teresa, prayer experiences, quiet time, and a video. The cost is $50; $100, if staying overnight. For information or to register, call (913) 360-6151 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb. org/sophia.html. A celebration to commemorate the 31st anniversary of the martyrdom of Msgr. Oscar Romero will be held at 7 p.m. on March 12 at St. Sabina Church, 700 Trevis, Belton, Mo. Father Estefan Turcios of the Archdiocese of San Salvador will celebrate a Mass. A fiesta and music will be provided by a marimba group from Chicago. All are welcome!
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A five-part theology of the body series will be held at 7 p.m. on Sunday evenings, beginning March 13, at Most Pure Heart of Mary Church, 3601 S.W. Stone, Topeka. For information or to RSVP, call (785) 580-3071 or send an e-mail to: ourladyofthefaithful@gmail. com.
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The Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan., will offer a Lenten lectio retreat from 6 - 9 p.m. on March 16. A light supper will be served. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.
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“How to Discipline Without Yelling, Threatening or Putting Down,” a two-part parenting program presented by Nona Boyd of the Wyandot Center, will be offered from 9:30 - 11 a.m. on March 16 and 23 at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.
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A healing Mass, sponsored by archdiocesan charismatic prayer groups, will be held at 7:30 p.m. on March 17 at Curé of Ars Church, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. Father Anthony Kiplagat will preside; fellowship follows. For more information call (913) 649-2026. The Altar Society of Annunciation Parish, Baldwin City, will host an Irish stew dinner and silent auction from 5 - 7 p.m. on March 17. Freewill donations will be accepted.
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Overland Park home - Available now! 3 BR, 2 BA, plus possible fourth BR or rec. room on lower level. Recently remodeled – hardwood floors, large yard with deck, very clean. Holy Spirit Parish. $1200/mo. Call (816) 806-3817 or e-mail: johnch@everestkc.net.
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Hermes will speak about recent school improvements. Ignacio Alonso, science teacher and biologist, will offer tours of the school’s live animal collection. Happy hour begins at 11 a.m.; lunch (catered by Johnny’s Barbecue) will be served at 11:45 a.m.; the program begins at 12:30 p.m. A suggested donation of $20 is appreciated. Transportation will be provided if needed. For information, call (913) 371-6901.
St. Patrick Parish, Emerald, will host its annual St. Patrick’s Day dinner from 11 a.m. - 2 p.m. on March 13. Corned beef and cabbage and homemade pies will be served. A freewill offering will be collected. There will be live entertainment provided by Tullemore and a raffle. For information, call Joan Gagnon at (785) 733-2708. The Shawnee Knights of Columbus will serve a corned beef and cabbage dinner during the St. Patrick’s Day parade on March 13 in their hall, located at 11221 Johnson Dr. Serving will begin at 11:30 a.m. Chili, hot dogs, brats and more will also be available. Mary Health of the Sick Guild of the Sisters, Servants of Mary will gather for Mass at 9 a.m. on March 13 at the convent, located at 800 N. 18th St., Kansas City, Kan. A meeting will follow. All who are interested in joining the guild are invited to attend. St. Patrick Parish, Corning, will host a pancake breakfast from 7 a.m. - 1 p.m. on March 13 in the Corning Community Center. A freewill offering will be collected. There will also be a country store and raffles. St. John the Baptist Parish, 708 N. 4th St., Kansas City, Kan., will host the monthly Fatima rosary rally devotions at 3 p.m. on March 13. All are welcome.
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All Bishop Ward men ages 55 and up are invited to the annual “Here’s to Another Year” luncheon on March 16 in the school cafeteria, located at 708 N. 18th St., Kansas City, Kan. Father Michael
Mater Dei-Assumption Church, 204 W. 8th St., will host an Irish stew dinner with homemade pies from 11 a.m. 2:30 p.m. on March 17 in Rossiter Hall. The cost is $6 for adults; $3 for children. Proceeds will benefit the sandwich ministry of Topeka. Wear your green and join the clan! For information, contact Terry after 5 p.m. or on weekends at (785) 2462363.
17-18 The auxiliary of St. Joseph Hospital, I-435 and State Line
Rd., Kansas City, Mo., will host a book fair from 7 a.m. - 3 p.m. on March 17 and from 7 a.m. - 3 p.m. on March 18 on the first floor of the medical mall. The book fair will feature quality books and unique gifts for all ages.
18 A memorial liturgy for deceased loved ones will be held at 8 a.m.
on March 19 at Curé of Ars Church, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. The bereavement ministry will have its monthly meeting following Mass in the Father Burak Room. The topic will be: “Walking Through Grief.” For information, call (913) 649-2026.
19 The Holy Rosary Sodality of All Saints Parish, 809 Vermont Ave.,
Kansas City, Kan., will host its annual chicken dinner from 5 - 7 p.m. on March 17 in the parish hall. The cost is $8 for adults; $4 for children. St. Joseph of the Valley Parish, 31151 207th St., Leavenworth, will host a St. Joseph’s table on March 19. The table will be blessed and a spaghetti dinner will be served following the 5 p.m. Mass. There will also be a bake sale and auction. Freewill donations will be appreciated. Proceeds will benefit the Sisters of the Lamb monastery building fund.
The Singles of Nativity (SON) will host a St. Patrick’s Day dance from 7 11 p.m. on March 19 in the parish hall at the Church of the Nativity, 3800 W. 119th St., Leawood. “Get your green on,” meet singles and dance to live music provided by the 13th Hour Band. The cost of $15 includes beer, wine, soda, and appetizers. For information, visit the Web site at: http://son-ministry.org.
20 The youth group of St. Louis Church, Good Intent, will host a spa-
ghetti lunch from 11:30 a.m. - 1 p.m. on March 20. Freewill donations will be collected. For information, visit the Web site at: www.stlouisgoodintent.org. There will be a St. Joseph Table and spaghetti dinner on March 20 in the Cathedral of St. Peter parish center, 431 N. 15th St. Kansas City, Kan. Blessing of the table will begin at noon. The spaghetti dinner will be from noon to 2 p.m. Proceeds from this event will be used to help the poor.
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Sophia Center, 751 S. 8th St., Atchison, will host “Prayer in a World of Chaos,” a one-day retreat presented by Benedictine Sister Constance Krstolic, from 10 a.m. - 3 p.m. on March 23. Taking time to refocus your life upon God’s magnetic presence is the purpose of this prayer day. The cost is $50. For information or to register, call (913) 360-6151 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/ sophia.html.
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“Food Rules: Keep Them Simple,” a nutrition presentation sponsored in partnership with K-State Extension Services, will be offered from 9:30 - 11 a.m. on March 24 at Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.
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Divorced? Widowed? Beginning Experience Weekend gently helps people move through their loss to a new beginning in their lives. The next weekend for the Kansas City area will be held from March 25 - 27 at Sanctuary of Hope Retreat Center, 2601 Ridge Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call John at (913) 219-3465 in Kansas City, Michelle at (785) 478-3481 in Topeka, Jerry at (785) 843-2079 in Lawrence, or visit the Web site at: www. beginningexperience.org.
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The annual Greenway auction, a benefit for Xavier Elementary and Immaculata High School, will be held on March 26 in the McGilley Field House on the campus of the University of Saint Mary, Leavenworth. There will be a dinner, live and silent auctions, and live music. For information or to purchase tickets, call (913) 682-7801 or visit the Web site at: www.greenwayauction.org. The charter presentation for the newest Serra Club for the state of Kansas will be held on March 26 at St. Benedict’s Abbey church, Atchison. Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann will celebrate Mass at 11:30 a.m. There will be an installation of officers and an induction of charter members ceremony. A lunch will follow at the abbey. For information on joining Serra or to RSVP, call Tim or Susan Draftz at (913) 367-2227. A healing Mass in honor of St. Peregrine, patron of those suffering from cancer or other serious illnesses, will be celebrated at 9 a.m. on March 26 at Holy Spirit Church, 11300 W. 103rd St., Over-
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land Park. The sacrament of the anointing of the sick will be offered. There will be special devotions and a blessing with a firstclass relic of St. Peregrine. For information, contact the parish office at (913) 492-7318 or Marge Hattrup at (913) 492-7682.
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Sophia Center, 751 S. 8th St., Atchison, will host a retreat, entitled “Three Experiences of Darkness: Spiritual Desolation, The Dark Night, and Depression,” presented by Sister Maureen Conroy, RSM, from 7 p.m. on April 1 until 3:30 p.m. on April 3. This retreat will be very helpful for spiritual directors, pastoral ministers, therapists and health care practitioners. For information or to register, call (913) 360-6151 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/sophia. html. The Society of Our Lady of the Most Holy Trinity (SOLT) lay formation group will host a Lenten retreat from 6 p.m. on April 1 until noon on April 3 at the Franciscan Prayer Center, 2100 Noland Rd., Independence, Mo. For information or to register, call (913) 626-2123 or (913) 220-0610.
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The 15th annual joint diocesan healing Mass will be held at 10 a.m. on April 2 at Curé of Ars Church, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. Bishop Robert Finn, Bishop Emeritus Raymond Boland, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann and Archbishop Emeritus James P. Keleher will concelebrate. The sacrament of the anointing of the sick will be administered. Those wishing to receive the sacrament are asked to preregister by calling (913) 649-3260; leave the correct spelling of your name. The church is handicap accessible.
Misc. The annual Jared and Matty 3-on-3 coed basketball tournament will be held from 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. on April 30 at Rockhurst High School, 9301 State Line Rd., Kansas City, Mo., The cost is $60 per team. For information or preregistration materials, call (913) 2449725; send an e-mail to: jriordan@prukc. com; or visit the Web site at: http:// kcatholicchallenge.com. The Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan., offers personalized spiritual direction. Spend time in prayer and reflection with other women. Individual monthly appointments are available. All offerings are free; donations are accepted. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www. mountosb.org/kwc. The Catholic Alumni Club International (CACI) will host a young adults weekend in St. Louis from June 2 - 5. For information, send an e-mail to Steve at: valksr@yahoo.com, or visit the Web site at: www.csacstlouis.org/youngadults.html.
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family matters
How you gonna keep ‘em down on the farm?
Difference between elderly and elders is our perspective
t first sight, the baptism that I did last Saturday for a fourmonth-old named William seemed quite ordinary.
In addition to the guest of honor, his parents, godparents and a slew of relatives were gathered in the parish center. There were the usual cameras and video cameras to record the event. I’d prepared the water (warm), the oils (of catechumens and chrism) were in place, and the Easter candle was burning. I’d checked to make sure the white baptismal garment and candle were where they should be. Then, after all seemed so normal, I noticed a most unusual guest at the baptism. It was the aunt of the little boy . . . at least from the waist up. She was in a box of sorts, but alive and talking. I couldn’t believe my eyes. Please don’t think that these first few days of Lent have already sent me over the edge. Let me explain what was happening with that aunt at the baptism. The “box” that she was in was actually a laptop computer monitor, so that’s why she was seen only from the waist up. She was talking with us — live — from where she is presently a student of history. And that is in St. Petersburg, Russia! This whole thing was a first for me. I’d never had anyone attend a baptism via Skype. (By the way, Skype is like a video phone call, except it’s done from one computer to another.) It was entertaining for me to watch as the laptop was lifted up and turned so that the aunt could watch the baptism and then later visit with all of the family gathered in Tonganoxie. I’ve got to tell you that this techno-geek was both fascinated and wildly impressed.
We often hear of the dangers and pitfalls of the Internet and modern technology. Like anything, though, their goodness or evil rests in how they are used. And, I’ve got to tell you that this “Skyped” baptism was one of the wonderful, creative, grace-filled ways that technology can do good and bring people together. Someone who doesn’t appear afraid of new technology is Pope Benedict XVI. In fact, in his message for World Communications Day last May 14, he encouraged priests to make use of the “new media” to bring God’s message to the world, especially to younger people. Maybe this Lent, we can look to technology as an aid to making this a holy season of spiritual growth and change. Since so many of us own smart phones, iPods, iPads and computers — and are rarely seen without them — why not explore the many spiritual offerings available on these devices? One of the apps on my iPad, for example, is the RC Calendar. (Incidentally, the “RC” stands for “Roman Catholic,” not “Real Croatian.”) When you tap on a day, up pops: information on what saint or feast is being celebrated; all of the day’s Mass readings (in the Jerusalem Bible translation); and the Liturgy of the Hours. It’s an incredible resource and readily available whenever and wherever you happen to be. I also just downloaded an app for the Stations of the Cross, offered for free by Ave Maria Press. It’s based on Pope John
Paul II’s new Way of the Cross. Because these 14 Stations differ from those traditionally found in most churches, they can perhaps help people rediscover that ancient prayer so appropriate to Lent. The app contains an explanation of what the Stations are, beautiful artwork for each one, a scriptural meditation and a prayer. For people who are visually inspired, why not take an incredible tour of the Sistine Chapel, found at the Web site: http://www.vatican.va/ various/cappelle/sistina_vr/index.html. Prepare to be blown away as you do a 360-degree tour of this amazing space. You can even zoom in and out of the artwork. I hate to say this, but it’s almost as good as being there in person. Supplement your viewing pleasure by reading one of the many Sistine guides found online. While some folks might consider giving up Facebook for Lent (as they may spend way too much time there), others might look to using that social networking site for doing a Lenten discipline, that of almsgiving. This term does not exclusively refer to giving money to the poor; it signifies doing any type of good deed for another. Why not, for example, select a number of “friends” on Facebook and send one message of encouragement a day to a selected person. It can be as short as a post on their wall or a longer private message. Naturally, there’s no shortage of other Lenten Web sites, podcasts and videos to guide your journey throughout these 40 days. Heck, you may even want to “Skype” a friend who lives far away and “donate” your time in visiting. Using these new technologies to experience Lent in a new way may be just the innovation you need to grow in holiness. And, let’s face it, it’s certainly better for your soul than yet another game of Angry Birds!
second thoughts on the second reading First week of lent March 13 first sunday of lent Gn 2: 7-9; 3: 1-7; Ps 51: 3-6, 12-13, 17; Rom 5: 12-19; Mt 4: 1-11 March 14 Monday Lv 19: 1-2, 11-18; Ps 19: 8-10, 15; Mt 25: 31-46 March 15 Tuesday Is 55: 10-11; Ps 34: 4-7, 16-19; Mt 6: 7-15 March 16 Wednesday Jon 3: 1-10; Ps 51: 3-4, 12-13, 18-19; Lk 11: 29-32 March 17 Patrick, bishop Est C: 12, 14-16, 23-25; Ps 138: 1-3, 7c-8; Mt 7: 7-12 March 18 Cyril of Jerusalem, bishop, doctor Ez 18: 21-28; Ps 130: 1-8; Mt 5: 20-26 March 19 JOSEPH, HUSBAND OF THE VIRGIN MARY 2 Sm 7: 4-5a, 12-14a, 16; Ps 89: 2-5, 27, 29; Rom 4: 13, 16-18, 22; Mt 1: 16, 18-21, 24a
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Lent helps us make a new beginning in Christ
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erhaps you have noticed a skull and crossbones at the base of some crucifixes.
Although this macabre image does not appear on every crucifix, when it does, it reflects the tradition that the cross of Jesus stood on the spot where Adam was buried. This tradition also explains why there is a Chapel First sunday of Adam next to of lent the traditional site Mt 4: 1-11 of Calvary in the Church of the Holy Sepulcher in Jerusalem. There is no historical evidence for this tradition, neither does Scripture provide it any support. It is a pious legend which developed from an idea that is found in Scripture — that there is a link between Jesus and Adam. A similar tradition led to the Christmas tree. During the Middle Ages, Dec. 24 was observed as the feast of Adam and Eve. In their honor, “paradise trees,” hung with red apples, were set up in homes. The trees that had originally stood for Adam eventually turned
into a sign of the birth of his descendant, Jesus. Although these traditions go beyond the claims of Scripture, the Bible does draw a link between Adam and Jesus. We find a good example of that in Sunday’s second reading. St. Paul calls Adam “the type of the one who was to come” — namely, Jesus. In other words, St. Paul believes that Adam anticipated Jesus in certain ways. Adam began the human race. Similarly, Jesus represents a new start for the human race. In another letter, St. Paul even uses the term “Adam” to refer to Jesus: “The last Adam was a life-giving spirit” (1 Cor 15:45). Even though St. Paul sees similarities between Adam and Jesus, by no means does he claim that Jesus is just a repeat of Adam. St. Paul sharply contrasts Jesus with Adam in Sun-
day’s reading. He goes back and forth between the two, point by point. St. Paul blames Adam for the miserable state we find ourselves in: “Through one man, sin entered the world, and through sin, death.” On the other hand, St. Paul holds up Jesus as the reversal of Adam’s legacy: “Through one righteous act, acquittal and life came to all.” Where Adam messed up, Jesus got it right. As we begin Lent, we remember the beginnings of the human race, so that we might make a new beginning in Jesus Christ. Do you remember biology class? The biogenetic law states that “ontogeny recapitulates phylogeny.” In other words, the development of the individual repeats the ancestral sequence that occurred during the evolution of the species. Something similar happens in the spiritual life. What took place for the human race also can play out for the individual. Each of us, in a sense, is Adam. Each of us, through God’s grace, can become Christ. Father Mike Stubbs is the senior parochial vicar of Holy Trinity Parish in Lenexa and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.
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began my work with the aging when I was five years old.
We had moved into a new/old house in a neighborhood with few children, but a rich sprinkling of older widows. Living next door to us were two sisters, Mimi and Aunt Babe. Their home was adorned with an inviting front porch, which housed three wicker rocking chairs. It was a porch where I spent delightful days rocking and talking with the best friends of my childhood. It was there that I first tasted storebought cookies. At the time, I thought they were such delicious cookies compared to my mother’s home-baked Danish cookies.
When I turned 16, Mimi and Aunt Babe were my first passengers in the family car, as I drove them to 6 a.m. Mass on Christmas morning. They were two of the people who helped form me in the Catholic faith. Also, I worked with the aging through the archdiocesan family life office and was enriched once again by the spirit and faith of my elders. There was one gathering where I handed out a sheet of various quotes
on aging to those attending. As an icebreaker, I had asked if anyone would like to share which quote had the most meaning for them. After a few sharings, a man spoke up and said: “I like the quote that says, ‘The birds sing louder as we get older.’” He then responded, “Of course, they have to sing louder, or we wouldn’t be able to hear them.” My heart chuckled at his positive response. Another lesson that I learned on aging came from a conference given by Dr. Richard P. Johnson, author of “Ageless in the Lord.” He asked, “What do you think of when you think of the elderly?” There wasn’t a moment’s hesitation before I could see in my mind’s eye the bus from the assisted living community that brings the many men and women to Mass on Saturday evening.
Then, he said, “What do you think of when you think of an elder?” Within an instant, my mind went to someone who had faced life’s struggles and joys, and, sometimes, tragedies; someone who had gained and worked for the wisdom they now held within them, and often shared with others. I have been abundantly blessed by the many elders in my life and their lessons that have enriched and fortified my understanding of aging. “Our later years can usher in a noticeable intensification of the call of God, a greater clarity in listening to God, and a heightening of our trust in God’s work in our heart.” --- Dr. Richard P. Johnson Jacki Corrigan is the archdiocesan consultant for the office of family life.
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that if we (you) did not provide this assistance, over 900 of the 1,104 kids would not be in Catholic schools today. Truly, you are helping us make a difference. You are assisting in positively changing the lives of children currently living in poverty. I am very proud of you! You should feel very good about what you are doing. The past three weeks I traveled to our 19 CEF schools and had the opportunity to visit with our principals and some CEF scholarship recipient family members. I was asked by all to
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Bishop Ward seniors Jocelyn Villanueva and Oscar Solis teach a financial literacy class at the Keeler Women’s Center in Kansas City, Kan. The students put their bilingual skills to use by providing the class in Spanish for the first time. Offering the financial class in Spanish had been a struggle for the center until Ward stepped in.
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Ward students teach valuable lessons to Keeler clients By Kara Hansen Leaven staff
KANSAS CITY, Kan. — One might be forgiven for thinking the phrase “Bishop Ward game changer” has something to do with the school’s excellent sports programs. Sure, some of the student-athletes fit that description. But this time it was a group of big-hearted and financially savvy Ward students that turned the game around for some disadvantaged women in need of some financial literacy. These game changers are part of the Kansas City, Kan., high school’s Academy of Finance. As members of the academy, the students can take advantage of a variety of hands-on opportunities to learn about business — and one, in particular, to teach others what they have learned. The Ward students put their learning to good use this spring by assisting with a financial literacy class offered by the Keeler Women’s Center. “Financial literacy programs offered in English in the past have always been well-received,” said Sister Carol Ann Petersen, director of the Keeler Women’s Center. “It’s an important thing for women, for their well-being and that of their families,” she continued. “There is always a great interest in those classes.” For women who speak another language, however, options have been limited in terms of class offerings. “We have always struggled to provide that same programming in Spanish,” said Sister Carol Ann. Enter the Bishop Ward High School
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Bishop Ward juniors Alicia Rodriguez (left) and Citlali Corona provided child care for mothers taking the financial literacy class taught by their fellow Ward students at the Keeler Center. students. Not only did they speak the language of money. They could also speak Spanish! “We had talked about doing a partnership, and both parties were interested in working together,” said Sister Carol Ann. “We were anxious to have the program here.” The Ward students taught Money Smarts classes weekly at the Keeler Center from January through March. The classes were entirely student-taught. To make the classes even more accessible for participants, while some students taught, others provided child care. “Through an educational partner-
ship with the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation and the Keeler Women’s Center, [these] Bishop Ward students implemented an innovative educational program for Spanish-speaking, financially illiterate and unbanked adults in the urban core of Wyandotte County using the Money Smarts curriculum,” said Cindy Heiman, Academy of Finance director at Bishop Ward. “The students had to take the information they learned in their AOF classes in English, relearn it in Spanish, and then teach it,” she continued. Twelve women attended the class; seven women attended every class and
The Academy of Finance (AOF) was begun in 1982 by then-chairman of Citigroup Sanford Weill. Weill made a commitment to connect inner-city high school youth in New York with the world of financial services. AOF got its start after he forged partnerships with business and education leaders. There are over 240 AOFs throughout the United States and the United Kingdom. They consist of small learning communities with a curriculum of business classes with a college preparatory focus, accompanied by core classes such as math, English and theology. The program includes learning outside the classroom through activities on leadership, a career fair, job shadowing, internships and community outreach. received a certificate of completion. “The women were a range of ages and most were mothers,” said Sister Carol Ann. “Many of the women have never had a checking account and never been taught how to save. From attending the class, they have gained a working understanding about money and a knowledge about the importance of saving and having good credit.” Sister Carol Ann said the course could empower the women to better provide for their families and, ideally, teach their own children about finances. All of this
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