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Newborn Zeno Joseph Drumm grasps the finger of his mother Megan Drumm, of St. Teresa Parish in Westphalia. Named for his great-grandfather, Zeno was diagnosed in the womb with anencephaly, a serious neural tube defect that meant he would not live long after birth. Born on March 29, he lived for more than a day, and his family cherished every second of their time with him.

Brief life grips hearts

Community rallies around baby born with fatal birth defect

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Story by Jessica Langdon

ESTPHALIA — The baby’s heart beat robustly.

The sonogram showed 10 tiny, perfect

fingers and toes.

Megan Drumm didn’t know it yet, but it also revealed the baby to be a boy.

She planned to carry that news home to Westphalia in a sealed envelope; she would open it later with her husband Michael. They would share the news with their families at Thanksgiving.

Instead, that sonogram performed the day

before Thanksgiving 2012 revealed news that launched the family on a life-changing — and heart-rending — journey.

The baby, who was developing normally in every other way, had a fatal birth defect called anencephaly, which is estimated to affect one in 4,859 babies in the United States.

So when their baby boy, Zeno Joseph Drumm, was born in late March, no amount of time with him was guaranteed.

As things turned out, his family was given 33 hours with him — 33 hours to hold him, memorize him, and shower him with a lifetime of love.

The Drumms never imagined this would be their story.

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‘Tragic day for marriage’

Musicians return to Good Shepherd to support music ministry meet the musicians

By Jessica Langdon jessica@theleaven.com

Cassie Banion

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HAWNEE — Some talented young Catholics proved Thomas Wolfe wrong when they did come home again — and performed for a sellout crowd.

The May 1 concert, called Divo, Divas and Desserts, featured all native sons and daughters of Good Shepherd in Shawnee — Andrew Morris on piano; vocal performances by Cassie Banion, Olivia Betzen, Jessie Freyermuth and Kirsten Hyde; and accompaniment by Ellen Bottorff and Nate Salazar.

The event raised funds for music ministry at the parish and a scholarship for a music student, of which Morris was the recipient.

The recent graduate of Shawnee Mission Northwest High School will pursue his degree in organ performance at the University of Kansas in Lawrence.

Spreading wings Although each is already on his or her way to a music career, some far from Kansas City, the featured performers coordinated their busy schedules to make this concert come together.

All John Rudzinski, choir director, had to do was ask.

Betzen, who is finishing a post-master’s degree specializing in music performance at the University of Michigan, described herself as a shy kid growing up.

Knowing she loved music, her mom persuaded her to give the children’s choir a try, and the director at the time took her under her wing and taught her music.

“I needed that outlet in my life, and it was there at church,” said Betzen.

By fifth grade, she was serving as a cantor and — knowing her contribution from her allowance was small — saw music as her gift to her parish.

She stayed with music at Good Shepherd until she left for college, and it’s still her favorite place to sing.

She felt her faith growing as her

• Earned degree in vocal performance and music education from Kansas State University • Pursuing master’s in vocal performance at the University of Kansas • Recent performances: the Jazz Singer in “Trouble in Tahiti” and Musetta in “La Boheme”

Olivia Betzen

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Cassie Banion enchants a sold-out crowd with her performance during Divo, Divas and Desserts on May 1 at Good Shepherd Parish in Shawnee. Banion joined several musicians who got their musical start at the church during this concert benefiting the parish music program. musical talents developed.

“This parish truly gave me my wings as a singer,” agreed Hyde, who graduated in May from Kansas State University in Manhattan with a degree in vocal performance.

“The parishioners were so sweet and supportive when I would cantor at Mass,” she said.

Banion remembers eagerly awaiting her chance to serve as a cantor.

“I so admired the people who were up every Sunday singing and leading worship,” she said.

She and Freyermuth, who is her sister, were among the original members of the youth-centered parish music group called Rhythm of Christ — along with their mother.

“It was such a cornerstone or foundation in my music education and gave me a lot of tools I needed to go on in college and perform,” said Banion, who is pursuing a master’s in vocal performance at KU. Freyermuth found opportunities for “constant development” as she played guitar every weekend, learning new chords and growing as a musician and cantor.

Coming home Freyermuth, who is working on her doctorate in musicology at KU, was touched by comments she heard from parishioners who attended Divo, Divas and Desserts.

“I love the ones that said, ‘We just love seeing you grow up and coming back and performing,’” she said.

Many of the performers cherished the final song of the night, a hymn that has been a parish favorite.

“Surely the presence of the Lord is in this place,” the women sang, accompanied by Morris on the piano.

The crowd sang along.

“It was by far the simplest song I sang that night, and that’s exactly why I enjoyed singing it,” said Hyde. “Singing that song was like putting on an old sweater — it’s familiar and comforting.”

All the musicians agreed.

“It means so much more coming back and doing something in a place that has been such a huge part of your life,” said Freyermuth. “It feels like home when you come back.”

• Earned undergraduate and master’s degrees from KU in voice and Italian • Completing post-master’s degree — specialist in music performance — at the University of Michigan • Awards include: third place in 47th International Antonin Dvorak Competition, first place in Upper College Women’s Division and Open Division of the National Association of Teachers of Singing regional competition, as well as Most Promising Young Artist (SongFest)

Jessie Freyermuth

• Earned bachelor’s and master’s degrees in music from K-State • Pursuing doctorate in musicology at KU • At K-State, performed in several operatic roles, including Prince Orlofsky in “Die Fledermaus” and Miss Todd in “The Old Maid and the Thief” • One of three aria competition winners in spring 2009 • Teaches voice and guitar lessons through the Kansas City Vocal Institute

Kirsten Hyde

• Graduated from K-State with degree in vocal performance • Performed in numerous operas and musicals; roles include Lauretta in “Gianni Schicchi,” Rebecca the nurse in “The Crucible,” and Countess Rosina in “Le Nozze di Figaro”

Andrew Morris

• Graduated from Shawnee Mission Northwest High School; played first chair clarinet in band and symphonic orchestra • Studied with Cameron Dibble at the University of Missouri-Kansas City Conservatory of Music and Dance • Has participated in music ministry at several churches, including Good Shepherd and Church of the Nativity in Leawood

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Catholics react to the Defense of Marriage Act being declared unconstitutional

By Carol Zimmermann Catholic News Service

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ASHINGTON (CNS) — U.S. Catholic bishops said the U.S. Supreme Court’s June 26 rulings on same-sex marriage were a “tragic day for marriage and our nation.”

The court, in separate 5-4 rulings struck down the federal Defense of Marriage Act, or DOMA, defining marriage as between one man and one woman and also refused to rule on the merits of a challenge to California’s Proposition 8, the voter-approved initiative barring same-sex marriage.

In the rulings, the court said DOMA was unconstitutional under the Equal Protection Clause and they sent back to lower courts a challenge to Prop 8, saying the individuals who defended the law in court lacked the legal standing to do so.

A statement by Cardinal Timothy M. Dolan of New York, president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, and Archbishop Salvatore J. Cordileone of San Francisco, chair of the U.S. bishops’ Subcommittee for the Promotion and Defense of Marriage, said the court “has dealt a profound injustice to the American people by striking down in part the federal Defense of Marriage Act.” “The court got it wrong,” they continued. “The federal government ought to respect the truth that marriage is the union of one man and one woman, even where states fail to do so. The preservation of liberty and justice requires that all laws, federal and state, respect the truth, including the truth about marriage.”

The bishops also said it was “unfortunate that the court did not take the opportunity to uphold California’s Proposition 8 but instead decided not to rule on the matter. The common good of all, especially our children, depends upon a society that strives to uphold the truth of marriage. Now is the time to redouble our efforts in witness to this truth.”

They urged people to “stand steadfastly together in promoting and defending the unique meaning of marriage: one man, one woman, for life.”

They also asked for prayers “as the court’s decisions are reviewed and their implications further clarified.”

Baltimore Archbishop William E. Lori said the court’s decisions were the “latest in a troubling trend of decisions by lawmakers, judges, and some voters which ignores the fundamental truth about marriage: It is the most valued, most important social unit in our society and as such is deserving of the protection and special recognition societies have afforded it throughout human history.”

The archbishop, who is chairman of the U.S. bishops’ Ad Hoc Committee for Religious Liberty, said the courts’ decisions will “also undoubtedly con-

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President: Most Reverend Joseph F. Naumann

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People demonstrate outside the Supreme Court building in Washington in this photo from late March, when the court heard oral arguments in two same-sex marriage cases. The court ruled as unconstitutional the federal Defense of Marriage Act, or DOMA, in a 5-4 decision issued June 26. In a separate case, the court sent back to lower courts a challenge to California’s Proposition 8, the voter-approved initiative barring same-sex marriage. tribute to concerted efforts not just to redefine marriage but to dismantle it, efforts which represent a serious threat to religious liberty and conscience rights for countless people of faith.”

Archbishop Timothy M. Broglio of the U.S. Archdiocese for the Military Services said that although the

Supreme Court “avoided a firm declaration about same sex-marriage, it signaled that attempts by the federal government to limit rights available under state law could be unconstitutional.”

He said the court shifted the debate to the states, which “raises questions

about the scope of the federal government’s authority to administer its own programs.”

In light of the court’s decisions, the archbishop said it “seems imperative to remind the faithful of the Archdiocese >> See “States” on page 7

KANSAS BISHOPS

Response to Supreme Court decisions on marriage Archbishop Joseph Naumann of Kansas City in Kansas, Bishop John Brungardt of Dodge City, Bishop Edward Weisenburger of Salina, and Msgr.

Robert Hemberger, diocesan administrator of Wichita, issued the following statement on June 27 in response to the U.S. Supreme Court decisions in United States v. Windsor and Hollingsworth v.

Perry: In one of two significant rulings today the U.S. Supreme Court struck down the section of the federal Defense of Marriage Act that defined marriage as between one man and one woman for purposes of federal law and federal benefits. There had been a concern that the justices would strike down all state laws and constitutional amendments defining marriage as between one man and one woman but fortunately this did not come to pass. A great many of the

states in our nation define marriage as between one man and one woman. That state legislation, including our own in Kansas, is undisturbed.

In addressing this issue we must begin by recalling that when asked about marriage, Jesus said: “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female’?”

(Mt 19:4) Scripture, biology, and the natural law reveal that it is God’s design that the two sexes are complementary.

While Americans have a laudable desire to treat all people with equality, equality does not mean interchangeability.

The well-intentioned desire to accept any and all circumstances is misplaced when it applies to an eternal institution such as marriage.

We would further note that God’s plan for marriage is for the well-being of men and women. However, it is also, and especially, for children. In

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our hearts we all know that every child wants to know who his or her mother and father is, wants to be with them, and wants to be loved by them. In our hearts, we know that every child deserves a mother and father. While this is not always possible, and single persons have oftentimes served as exemplary parents, still it should be society’s aspiration that all children know a mother and a father.

Despite this setback, we do not lose hope. All Catholics should continue to pray for our nation, especially during this Fortnight for Freedom. We are committed to being prophetic in speaking the truth about life, religious freedom, and the sanctity of marriage. We are likewise committed to working toward the restoration of a culture that respects marriage, nurtures children, and recognizes the family as the core social unit of our society.

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Death penalty: on our watch and on our dime

By Jessica Langdon jessica@theleaven.com

What can you do?

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OPEKA — When Texas executed its 500th inmate on June 26, many Americans just shrugged their shoulders and went about their business.

What they didn’t realize, said Donna Schneweis, a member of Christ the King Parish in Topeka and chairwoman of the board of directors for the Kansas Coalition Against the Death Penalty, is that public executions are everyone’s business.

“The death penalty is not a partisan issue,” she said. “It’s not an issue of any one particular religion or another. It’s very much a human issue.”

Kansas revived the death penalty in 1994.

Although no one has been executed in the state since then, the issue weighs heavily on Kansans who are pushing to have it abolished.

“The death penalty touches the lives of all Kansans; they just might not be aware of it,” said Schneweis.

“Number one, our state tax dollars pay for the system; and secondly, when someone is executed, it’s done in the name of the state, which is in the name of the people of the state,” she continued. “They’re, in effect, doing it in your and my name.”

She was moved in June to see a longtime volunteer for the coalition take the cause on the road.

Bill Lucero of Topeka set out to ride 100 miles on his bicycle on June 18 to raise awareness.

Despite 88-degree heat and torrential rain toward the end, Lucero completed the 102.8-mile “Ride for Repeal.”

“I was really focused on what our message was that we wanted to get out — that we need to abolish the death penalty in the state for lots and lots of reasons,” he said.

For one thing, there’s the question of innocence.

There’s also the cost — while, at the same time, life services are being cut, he said.

Personal cause Lucero didn’t know how he felt about the death penalty when the issue

Donna Schneweis, chairwoman of the board of the Kansas Coalition Against the Death Penalty, offered the KCADP website as one resource for more information. It can be found at: www.ksabolition.org.

The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops also has information online at: www.usccb.org.

Schneweis also pointed to the Catholic Mobilizing Network at: www. catholicsmobilizing.org.

She encouraged people to contact their representatives.

“It’s always important to pray for policymakers as they’re confronting these issues,” added Schneweis.

‘Ride for Repeal’ Photo by Kristin Bollig

Bill Lucero of Topeka set out to ride 100 miles on his bicycle on June 18 to raise awareness about the death penalty. first came to his attention — even after losing his father to homicide.

“Everything he was, I strived to be,” said Lucero.

Both worked for social justice and were jazz enthusiasts and clinical psychologists.

On Sept. 12, 1972, Lucero’s grandfather called to tell him his father had been shot and killed.

Lucero later ended up attending a meeting focused on opposing the death penalty in Kansas.

During the discussion, the question arose: If anyone in attendance had a family member who had been murdered, would that change how people felt about it?

“Everyone in that room knew what they wanted — hypothetically,” said Lucero.

But even having lost a family member to a shooting, he didn’t know.

So he researched the issue.

In almost every study he found, research showed that the death penalty did not serve as a deterrent.

The death penalty was abolished in Kansas in 1972, he said, but there were many efforts to bring it back.

In 1978, Lucero registered as a lobbyist and voiced his opinions to state leaders.

“I finally said, ‘You know, frankly, as a murder victim’s family member, I don’t see how there’s any value in taking another person’s life. My father was murdered. Reenacting the death penalty in Kansas would do nothing for me and give me no sense of satisfaction.’”

You could hear a pin drop, he said, and he soon found himself surrounded by reporters.

With headlines such as “Murder victim’s son opposes death penalty,” it wasn’t long before Lucero got a call from Sister Dolores Brinkel, SCL, who asked him to come to a meeting.

“After attending that meeting, I have been a lobbyist for the past 35 years, opposing the death penalty,” he said.

He and fellow lobbyists saw successes.

“And then, of course, we lost in ’94,” he said.

The bill that would reinstate the death penalty in Kansas became law without a signature or veto from thenGov. Joan Finney.

Lucero and others staged a hunger strike outside the governor’s office, marking the number of days and hours to go before the measure became law.

Good as gold Julia and Harold Harrington, members of the Cathedral of St. Peter Parish in Kansas City, Kan., renew their vows at the annual archdiocesan golden wedding anniversary Mass June 23 at the cathedral. Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann celebrated the Mass and presented each couple with a gift at the conclusion of the Mass. A reception followed in the parish center.

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Lorraine (Grazaske) and William Bukowsky, members of Good Shepherd Parish, Shawnee, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with family and friends at their home in Charleston, S.C. They also celebrated at the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kan., on June 23. The couple was married on June 8, 1963, at Holy Redeemer Parish in Evergreen Park, Ill. They have three daughters: Eileen, Susanne and Jayne. They also have five grandchildren and one step-grandchild.

When the coalition looked at raising funds and awareness this year, the wheels soon started turning for Lucero’s 100-mile ride.

An avid cyclist, he immediately liked the positive sound of “Ride for Repeal.”

Within a couple of months, $2,000 in pledges rolled in.

And although he didn’t push the abolition angle for anyone else, he recruited some of his cycling friends to join him.

Lucero hasn’t let anger destroy him.

“I find that a lot more life-affirming — to be calling out the injustice of the death penalty and opposing it,” he said.

“It’s been a healthy journey for me. It’s given me purpose in life and it’s a way I can pay tribute to my father’s own sense of social justice.”

It seemed natural for Lucero to combine his passion for this issue with his passion for cycling, said Schneweis.

“I would hope people would take away from this a desire to understand more about the death penalty in Kansas,” she said.

It takes a toll on correctional staff, families and many others, she said.

“So often in this process, people think that the death penalty is about fixing something,” she said. “In reality, it just continues that cycle of violence.

“That’s what Bill speaks to.”

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Naumann July 6-13 Vacation July 15 “Shepherd’s Voice” recording July 16 Legatus rosary, Mass and talk — St. Louis July 20 “Catholic Way” recording

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keleher July 14 Mass at Boy Scout Camp — Osceola, Mo. July 19 Mass and confessions — Prairie Star Ranch

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Whitney Klump, a senior at St. Teresa’s Academy in Kansas City, Mo., works on scraping old paint off of a house in Topeka as part of the weeklong Prayer and Action camp co-sponsored by the archdiocesan offices of vocations and social justice.

Work hard, pray hard Prayer and Action camp offers unique blend of faith, formation, and fun

By Katie Hyde Special to the Leaven

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OPEKA — As they scrape paint off of a dilapidated home, two girls start singing Disney songs. On the other side of Topeka, a seminarian stains a wheelchair ramp for a woman whose daughter is disabled. At a third site, a group of 10 takes a break from painting to say a Hail Mary.

And despite the near-triple-digit heat and hard labor, they all work with smiles, laughter, and jokes.

Though you may not immediately associate scraping paint or organizing a messy garage with God’s work, the teens at Prayer and Action camp in Topeka show that the two not only coexist, they fit together perfectly.

These are just a few snapshots of the weeklong Prayer and Action camp that is co-sponsored by the archdiocesan offices of vocations and social justice.

The camp offers three weeklong summer mission trips for high school students who are passionate about helping others. Campers spend their days visiting homes that need repairs and offering ready hands to those in need.

This is the third year that the camp, which began in the Diocese of Salina, has been held in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. Each year, a new city is chosen for the camp. This year, Topeka was selected.

Prayer and Action offers a unique blend of a local mission trip experience and an intense faith experience, according to team leader Angelique Short.

Short, along with three other laywomen and four archdiocesan seminarians, coordinate the camp, bringing their energy, passion, and faith to the work.

Short, who is a senior at the University of Kansas and a parishioner at

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Sarah Augustine, a member of Curé of Ars Parish in Leawood, fights the heat and bright sun as she scrapes a house in Topeka.

St. Joseph Parish in Shawnee, thinks Prayer and Action is a great way to involve youth in the faith.

“When I was younger, I thought you could either be really holy or ‘normal’ and living in the world,” she said.

“Camps and programs like this bridge that gap. We show that you can live a life of holiness and a life of joy. You can strive for social justice, patience, and compassion every day of your life.”

As Short explained, one of the most important elements of the camp is its emphasis on social justice and service.

Costa Rican transfer seminarian Daniel Coronado agrees.

“The faith is not only in the church,” Coronado explained in Spanish as he painted the porch of a home. “You have to share it by your actions.”

And that’s exactly what the campers do.

When they aren’t fixing homes and helping the needy, they’re in prayerful reflection. Each morning, campers

begin their days with the rosary and Mass and end each day with “collatio,” which is Latin for “gathering.” During collatio, campers pray, reflect, and have fun.

The camp has been such a success in the archdiocese that many campers are not first-timers. One veteran camper is Whitney Klump, a high school junior at St. Teresa’s Academy in Kansas City, Mo., and a parishioner of Curé of Ars in Leawood.

“I had such a great experience last year,” she said. “I had so much fun working and getting to know others and Christ. As soon as I went home, I started grabbing clothes from my closet to donate. The experience humbled me a lot.”

That’s the hope, according to Jana Bersted, another team leader for the camp: to inspire high schoolers to both service and holiness.

“God is totally working in these kids,” she said.

Darlene and Max Turnbull, members of Annunciation Parish, Frankfort, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on June 29 with family and friends.

The couple was married on June 29, 1963, at St. Dominic Church, Holton. Their children and their spouses are: Bruce and Tami Akin, Topeka; and Kevin and Jody Turnbull, Vliets. They also have four granddaughters. Cards may be sent to 2613 Tumbleweed Rd., Vermillion, KS 66544.

Ruth (Bowers) and John Walker, members of Christ the King Parish, Topeka, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with a reception from 1 to 4 p.m. on July 7 at Christ the King Church, Topeka. The couple was married on Jan. 26, 1963, at Sacred Heart Church, Delia. Their children and their spouses are: Lorie and Rick Worner, Leawood; Anne and Bryan Brown, Fort Wayne, Ind.; John Jr. and Mandy Walker, Wichita; James and Sandy Walker, Houston; Kathy and George Werth, Topeka; Andrew Walker, Topeka; Mark Walker, Prairie Village; Diana Hasty, Topeka; and Barbara and Jared Ostermann, Sioux Falls, S.D. They also have 28 grandchildren.

Jerry and Sue (Cook) Dowell, members of Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish, Overland Park, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on June 15 with a family dinner. They also attended the golden wedding anniversary Mass June 23 at the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kan., and had a marriage blessing at Queen of the Holy Rosary on June 30. The couple was married on June 29, 1963, at Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Raytown. Their children and their spouses are: Chris and Chris Dowell; Steve and Nancy Dowell; Lisa and Tom Apperson; and Jason and Jenny Dowell. They also have eight grandchildren.

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Leaven captures nine awards at media conference

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — The writparticularly the abject poverty I witnessed,” ing talents of a news veteran and a Hyde continued. “In the wake of such an exrookie combined to capture three perience, I felt compelled to share the stories first-place awards for The Leaven of the people I met and the lives that were at the Catholic Media Conference, held June changed by the work of the Medical Mis19-21 in Denver. sions Foundation. I wanted to try and convey But the Leaven staff won a total of nine the sense of sadness — but more importantawards at the conference: four first place, ly, the sense of hope — I found in Mali.” two second place, and three third place. Of Freelancers also played a key role in bringthose nine, six were from the Catholic Press ing home awards. Lori Wood Habiger (wife Association and three were special awards. of production manager Todd Habiger) and “I love it, of course, when we do well in Joe McSorley (son of managing editor Anita the awards competition, because it affirms McSorley) teamed up with Todd Habiger to an entire year of work for us,” said managing capture a first-place award for the multiple editor Anita McSorley. picture package “Rally Cry.” “And it’s been a great year for church Although she has won CPA awards for news, in which I think we demonstrated the writing, this was the first time that Wood depth on our bench,” she added. “From Joe Habiger, who was a Leaven staff writer from and Jessica, who did a tremendous job during 1992 to 1994, has won an award for photogthe papal transition, to freelancers Jill Esfeld raphy. and Sheila Myers, to 18-year-old intern Katie “I’m a photographer now, and telling peoHyde, who snagged one of the convention’s ple’s stories through my camera is something top writing prizes — well, everybody delivI love to do,” she said. “I like to show someered the goods.” thing that people may “But I also want to say have seen many times, that the older I get,” said but give a fresh perspecMcSorley, “the more attive. Every time I go on an tached I feel to the folks in assignment for The Leavthe stories we tell. en, I challenge myself to “We hope we do a great show people something job of telling them, but that they may have not these are really the stories seen before, or see it in a of the people of the archdidifferent way. I like meetocese — the Hayden High ing new people and telling School boys who serve as stories through the visual pallbearers for families aspect of journalism.” without relatives, the farm The Fortnight for Freefamilies who rely on their dom religious liberty rally faith even as the drought is took place under a Anita McSorley, shoot destroying their crops, the blazing June sun and in Leaven managing editor triple-digit heat.

Mary Perrinis, who serve as an example to us all. I “The heat was bad,” just think we have a lot to be proud of in this said Joe McSorley, “so bad that Lori started archdiocese, and we feel privileged to be the turning white and had to sit out part of it. It ones to share these stories.” was one thing to be sitting and listening in Jessica Langdon, an experienced journalthat weather, and another thing to be conist who has been with The Leaven for two stantly moving, climbing and shooting. And years, won two first-place awards and one the heat added some tension to what was althird-place award. Although she has won ready a hard shoot.” media awards with other entities, these are But is McSorley ready for another “hot” her first CPA awards. assignment?

The judges said Langdon’s first-place sto“Absolutely,” he said with a grin. “I do ry on the drought’s effects on farm families guttering during the summer, so I’m outside in her story, “Faith flows where the water all the time anyway. And you don’t get any doesn’t,” was “clear-eyed and really put a awards for that!” human face” on the challenges faced by the Freelancers Sheila Myers and photograagriculture community. pher Elaina Cochran won a second place for “Father Pat Sullivan put together a phethe personality profile of Miege campus minnomenal opportunity for a reporter and phoister Mary Perrini in their story, “The real tographer to truly understand more about deal,” and freelancer Jill Ragar Esfeld won the life and faith of a farmer — and how a third-place Father Michael J. McGiveny events that affect our rural communities Award from the Knights of Columbus for her have an impact on everyone,” said Langdon. story on a garden and farmers’ market in To“This was an unforgettable trip to northpeka, “Garden of Eatin’.” eastern Kansas that engaged all the senses “I’m just really happy to bring some recand made me think for the first time about ognition to a group that does a lot of good,” many things I had before taken for granted.”

Ragar Esfeld said. “They fly under the radar, Langdon also won a first-place Father Midoing God’s work, and I’m happy that we chael J. McGivney Award from the Knights were able to give them some recognition.” of Columbus for “Boys serve in life and Reporter Joe Bollig garnered a seconddeath,” a story about high school-aged boys place news analysis/background award for who serve as pallbearers for people in need. his story on worldwide Christian persecu“A roomful of high school boys isn’t where tion, “The scandal and shame,” and a thirdI might have expected to find some of the place vocations coverage story about hospimost faith-infused and compassionate attital chaplain Father Jerry Spencer in “Faith, tudes I’ve ever encountered as a reporter, but hope and stamina.” that’s what I found during this interview,” Editor Father Mark Goldasich said the said Langdon. awards show The Leaven’s resourcefulness Katie Hyde, who has been a student intern and diversity of talent. for the past two summers, won a first-place “I’m not sure we’ve ever seen a year in Archbishop Edward T. O’Meara Award from which the awards better reflected just how the Society for the Propagation of the Faith many people we press into service on behalf for her story, “Miracles in Mali.” of The Leaven,” he said. “Not only did two “I was pretty surprised,” said Hyde. “As freelance writers win awards for us, but so my co-workers here at The Leaven often jokdid an intern, and two family members of ingly tell me, I am just the lowly intern, so Leaven staff.”

I was very surprised to learn I had won an “I guess the moral of the story,” he continaward.” ued, “is don’t walk by The Leaven office on a “When I came home from Mali, I was bad news day, or we’ll throw an assignment overwhelmed by all of my experiences there, your way.”

“We have a lot to be proud of in this archdiocese, and we feel privileged to be the ones to share these stories.”

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s Best Multiple Picture Package — Religious Liberty: First Place: “Rally Cry,” by Lori Wood Habiger, Todd Habiger and Joe McSorley.

Comments: “This was very nice. Particularly the crowd shot on the second page.

Good photo package.”

s Best News Writing Originating with the paper on a local or regional event — 40,000+ diocesan paper: First Place: “Faith flows where water doesn’t,”

by Jessica Langdon and Doug Hesse. Comments: “Enjoyable, well reported and photographed package. It was clear-eyed and really put a human face on the challenges the ag community faces.”

s Best Personality Profile — 40,000+ diocesan paper: Second Place: “The real deal,” by Sheila Myers and Elaina Cochran. Comments: “This article about a woman that changes children’s experience of faith is more than just a standard personality profile — early on, it establishes curiosity about who this woman is and how she does what she does.”

s Best Analysis/Background/Round-up News Writing. The Gerard E. Sherry Award: Second Place: “The scandal and shame,” by Joe Bollig. Comments: “A deep look at an uncovered topic, using clear examples. Shows crisp and clear writing.”

s Society for the Propagation of the Faith, Archbishop Edward T. O’Meara Award for outstanding world mission news coverage in a diocesan/archdiocesan newspaper: First Place 2013 Visits to the Missions, “Miracles in Mali,” by Katie Hyde.

Comments: “This first-person reflection is a ‘warm, beautiful piece of work,’ offered one judge. Hyde’s writing ability is outstanding, recording with love and joy her mission experience in Africa ‘for the least of her brothers and sisters.’”

s Best Reporting on a Special Age Group — On teenagers: Third Place: “Boys serve in life and death,” by Jessica Langdon. Comments: “An inspiring story of young men moving into new life by serving those that have passed. A vivid picture and example of faith.”

s Best Coverage of Vocations to Priesthood, Religious Life or Diaconate: Third Place: “Faith, hope and stamina,” by Joe Bollig. Comments: “Compelling storytelling in word and image. The expressions on these faces tell the story, and the narrative is well written.

A good marriage of image and word.”

s Knights of Columbus, Father Michael J. McGivney Award for Distinguished Journalism: Third Place: “Garden of Eatin’,” by Jill Ragar Esfeld.

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ENVER (CNS) — The nation’s heated debate over immigration reform this summer is “a defining historical moment for America” and “a moment for national renewal” Los Angeles Archbishop Jose H. Gomez told hundreds of attendees at the closing keynote address of the Catholic Media Conference June 21 in Denver.

Archbishop Gomez was initially scheduled to talk about the Catholic media and the new evangelization and praised conference attendees as “absolutely vital to the church’s mission of the new evangelization. . . . Our world needs a vital Catholic media presence — on every platform from print to digital. You are engaged in a noble vocation of witness and service to the church.”

But Archbishop Gomez decided to shift the main thrust of his keynote address to immigration reform, which he called “the most pressing issue that we face in American public life.”

“I’m Mexican by birth and an American citizen by decision,” he said in an address titled “Immigration Reform and the Next America.”

He noted that this issue is “more than personal. For me, our national debate about immigration is a great struggle for the American spirit and the American soul. Immigration is a human rights test of our generation.”

Among the issues being debated now in Congress are reunification of families; border security; amnesty and its effect on government welfare programs; trafficking of women and youth; work protection; and a legal path to citizenship for immigrants who entered the country illegally.

Current legislation in the U.S. Senate aims to allow an estimated 11 million undocumented immigrants to apply for U.S. citizenship while also adding manpower to the U.S. border.

Archbishop Gomez asked attendees to take a step back from the debate and remember “our immigrant roots.”

“Because we are an immigrant

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A group of immigrants and activists for immigration reform chant as they march on Capitol Hill in Washington June 26 to urge Congress to act on immigration reform. The U.S. Senate overwhelmingly passed a comprehensive immigration reform bill June 27. church, this debate over immigration is a debate about the future of the church and our Catholic people,” he said. “The Mexicans and other Latin Americans at the center of this debate — the millions whose fate is being decided by our politicians — are mostly fellow Catholics.”

Archbishop Gomez, who is chairman of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Committee on Migration, said that reaching a decision on immigration reform is one of those major trials that a nation faces in its lifetime.

“How we respond to the challenge of illegal immigration will measure our national character and conscience in this generation,” he said. “And in this historical moment, there’s a great role for the church to play.”

Archbishop Gomez said that Catholics “have a moral obligation . . . to contribute to these discussions. We need to help our neighbors see that immigration is about more than immigration.”

Larger questions to ask, he said, include: “What is America?” “What does it mean to be American?” “What will the ‘next America’ look like” and “What should the next America look like?”

“America’s founders dreamed of a nation where men and women from every race, religion and national background could live in equality — as brothers and sisters, children of the same God,” he continued. “America’s founders wrote this dream down in

the Declaration of Independence. . . .

As a result, we’ve always been a nation of immigrants. ‘E pluribus unum.’

One people made from peoples of many nations, races and creeds.”

Archbishop Gomez decried a culture of “name-calling and discrimination” that clouds the debate, as well as “criminal profiling based on race, random ID checks, commando-style raids of workplaces and homes, arbitrary detentions and deportations.”

“The fact is that most ‘illegals’ are the people next door,” he continued.

“They go to work every day. Their kids go to school with our kids. We sit next to them at church on Sunday.

Most have been living in our country for five years or more. Two-thirds have been here for at least a decade.

That’s what makes our response to this ‘crime’ so cruel.

“For all its limitations, our national immigration policy has always tried to keep parents and children together and to reunite families that are separated by our borders. But that’s not true anymore.”

Archbishop Gomez closed with a story about Pope Francis, whose father was a railroad worker who came to Argentina from Italy to seek a better life.

“The son of a humble immigrant grows up to become the spiritual father of more than a billion Catholics in every continent and nation,” he said. “Doesn’t that say it all about the promise of immigration?”

States left to uphold traditional marriage >> Continued from page 3 for the Military Services that they must never forget that all, regardless of their sexual inclination, must be treated with the respect worthy of their human dignity.”

He said that while the court’s decision “voids federal law it opens the doors to others: It allows the citizens of each state the opportunity to uphold the true definition of marriage by voting for representatives and legislation that defend the true definition of marriage.”

The bishop urged Catholics to “make their voices heard through the democratic process by upholding marriage in their home states,” saying he remains confident that Americans will “continue to promote and defend the

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good and the truth of marriage as the union of one man and one woman as husband and wife for life.”

“Marriage remains what it has always been, regardless of what any government might say,” he added.

In tweets issued soon after the court’s decision was released, Bishop Kevin J. Farrell of Dallas said: “Sexual difference matters. . . . It is essential for marriage. Only through this difference can man & woman speak the language of married love.”

He also tweeted: “In the sheep’s clothing of ‘equality,’ the sacrament of marriage is being reduced to an ‘exalted conception’ of an institution.”

Bishop John C. Wester of Salt Lake City called the court’s DOMA decision “disappointing.”

He said the blessings of marriage

between one man and one woman “cannot be legislated, litigated, or changed by civil authorities.”

Bishop Robert N. Lynch of St. Petersburg, Fla., noted that the court’s rulings were no surprise and that they had been anticipated by the U.S. bishops. He also said the court’s action will likely “be debated for a long time.”

“The Catholic Church has a great interest in the definition of marriage since it is one of its seven sacraments,” he added. “We firmly believe that marriage is and can only be the union of one man and one woman. I pray that no civil legislation will ever require of us or any religion the freedom to define marriage for our own ecclesial purpose.”

ENVER (CNS) — In a June 27 ruling, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 10th Circuit in Denver reversed a decision of the lower court in Hobby Lobby’s challenge to a federal contraceptive mandate, saying that the chain of arts-and-crafts store will not have to pay fines while its lawsuit makes its way through the courts.

The appeals court returned the case to the District Court with instructions that it consider whether to grant Hobby Lobby a preliminary injunction.

The court said that the company has “established a likelihood of success that [its] rights . . . are substantially burdened by the contraceptivecoverage requirement, and established an irreparable harm.”

“But we remand the case to the district court for further proceedings on two of the remaining factors governing the grant or denial of a preliminary injunction,” it said.

In September, Hobby Lobby sued the U.S. government over the requirement that employers cover emergency contraceptives such as the morningafter pill or Plan B, which are considered abortifacients. The family-owned company has no moral objection to the Department of Health and Human Services’ requirement it cover “preventive contraceptives” and will continue to cover those for employees.

Hobby Lobby and other companies that have sued over the mandate cite the Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 1993, which prohibits the federal government from imposing a “substantial burden” on a person’s exercise of religion unless there is a “compelling governmental interest” and the measure is the least restrictive method of achieving that interest.

“We are encouraged by today’s decision from the 10th Circuit,” David Green, founder and CEO of Hobby Lobby Stores Inc., said in a statement June 27. “My family and I believe very strongly in our conviction that life begins at conception, and the emergency contraceptives that we would be forced to provide in our employee health plan under this mandate are contrary to that conviction.”

Green said he and his family “believe that business owners should not have to be forced to choose between following their faith and following the law.” He vowed to continue “to fight for our religious freedom, and we appreciate the prayers of support we have received.”

Kyle Duncan, general counsel for the Becket Fund for Religious Liberty, which is representing Hobby Lobby in its suit, called the appeals ruling “a tremendous victory not only for the Green family and for their business, but also for many other religious business owners who should not have to forfeit their faith to make a living.”

Founded in an Oklahoma City garage in 1972, Hobby Lobby has grown from one 300-square-foot retail space into more than 500 stores in 41 states.

It describes itself as a “biblically founded business.” The stores pipe in Christian music through their sound systems and are closed on Sundays.

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‘That’ person Everything about the pregnancy seemed normal until November.

Accompanied by her one-year-old daughter Addison, Megan had a sonogram on Nov. 21, followed by a routine doctor’s appointment in Overland Park.

Dr. Kathleen Stone, a family friend and Megan’s doctor, looked at the sonogram report and then at Megan.

“Megan,” she said, “the baby is really ill.”

“I was just shocked to hear those words,” said Megan, “because you never expect that you’re going to be ‘that’ person.”

Stone told her that the baby appeared to have anencephaly, a condition in which the cranial cavity doesn’t form over the end of a baby’s spine. The baby is born without parts of the brain and skull, making it impossible for the child to survive more than a short time — usually only a few minutes to a couple of hours — after birth.

Stone worked into the evening, accompanying Megan for a second sonogram to get a better idea of the baby’s situation.

She could tell by the baby’s eyes that he was anencephalic, said Megan.

“She was the first one to cry with me,” she said.

Addition to the family The news that Megan was pregnant had come as a welcome surprise in the summer of 2012, a stressful time during which Addison was sick and a cousin had died, said Megan.

Megan and Michael, parishioners of St. Teresa Church in Westphalia, were elated that this baby and Addison would be close in age. They liked the idea of having a big family.

By the end of the first trimester, they had chosen names — Zeno, after Michael’s grandfather, for a boy.

Over the Thanksgiving break, they held onto hope that the initial reports were wrong — that the baby would be fine.

On Nov. 27, both Michael’s and Megan’s parents accompanied them to another sonogram to confirm the diagnosis.

“This doctor was talking to us about our options, and he encouraged, I felt like, for us to terminate the pregnancy because it would be easier and we could just get started right away on another family member,” said Megan.

The thought of an abortion had never occurred to the Drumms.

“We’d both already bonded with Zeno,” said Megan. “We’d already talked to him, made plans, picked out names.”

He was part of the family.

The principal of the school where Megan manages the cafeteria encouraged her to take time off until Christmas so she could let the news soak in and grieve.

Eventually, Stone, Megan and a counselor decided that Megan wouldn’t return to work until after Zeno was born — to allow time for doctor’s appointments, to meet with hospice, and to make funeral arrangements.

Reaching out

Prayers and a strong heart

The family has a site on www. caringbridge.org, and Megan has posted several journal entries about this experience.

Those who would like to follow the family’s story may find it under the name “Zeno Drumm.”

They don’t claim to be experts, but Megan and Michael Drumm do know how helpful it has been for them to connect with other families that have experienced similar losses.

They are willing to share their experiences and support with other families.

Megan can be contacted by email at: mmdrumm07@yahoo.com.

“We had an appointment right around Ash Wednesday, and I told the doctor that I wasn’t comfortable picking a day for him to be born because I felt like I was picking the day that he was going to die,” recalled Megan.

Stone picked for her — March 29.

Good Friday.

In a journal entry on Zeno’s Caring Bridge website, Megan wrote that more than any other year, she could empathize with what it must have been like for Mary to watch Jesus on Good Friday.

As Michael did when Megan was pregnant with Addison, he often laid his head on his wife’s growing tummy and talked to the baby.

And Megan held Addison close at bedtime.

“It was like I was rocking my two babies to sleep,” said Megan.

Zeno, a “rambunctious” baby in the womb, would kick at his sister.

As Zeno’s birth approached, nightmares troubled Megan.

In one, Stone delivered the baby and told Megan that his face wasn’t worthy for her to see — something Megan knew the doctor would never do.

But the dream made Megan think about all of the families — and medical professionals — who are faced with situations similar to theirs, and it impressed on her how precious these babies are.

Family, friends and even strangers from several states came together on March 9 for a 5K run/walk to celebrate Zeno’s life, support the family, and raise funds to help with expenses.

Michael thought maybe 30 people — mostly family — would show up, and was stunned to see many times that number. Close to 300 people ordered T-shirts.

And a member of the pro-life running organization Life Runners ran the 5K in Zeno’s honor.

Many members of the community also attended a Mass for Zeno and joined the family for a breakfast afterward.

Parishioners at all four of the area parishes where Father Marianand Mendem is pastor offered their prayers.

“They are really communities of faith, and they come together in prayer — and support each other,” said Father Mendem, who is pastor of St. Teresa Church, as well as St. Francis Xavier Parish in Burlington, St. Patrick Parish in Emerald and St. Joseph Parish in Waverly.

Megan’s mother, Margie Highberger, believes the prayers from so many people — from inside their small

Photo courtesy of the Drumm family

The months leading up to Zeno’s birth on March 29 were difficult and sad but, when she kissed her son for the first time, Megan Drumm knew it was worth it. Zeno spent his life being held by his parents, Megan and Michael, and by other members of his family. “I can remember seeing Michael holding Zeno — and the adoration in his eyes,” said Megan.

“I just remember that first kiss. It was so special because it was, like, I have waited nine months for this.”

Lent January and February passed slowly, but the beginning of Lent started a new clock ticking for the family.

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community all the way to Minnesota, Texas, California, New York and in between — made many small miracles happen for Zeno and their family.

Determined to do everything in their power to hold and bond with Zeno as long as possible once he was born, the Drumms scheduled a C-section, which is easier on a baby with anencephaly.

They stayed in a hotel near Overland Park Regional Medical Center the night before the surgery and arrived at the hospital early on March 29.

9:34 Father Tom Wiederholt, a retired priest of the Diocese of Kansas CitySt. Joseph, slipped on a hospital gown, prepping for the surgery.

He would baptize Zeno as quickly as he could.

Father Wiederholt is Megan’s great-uncle — and Highberger’s uncle.

Like everyone else, his first reaction was one of dismay when he learned of Zeno’s birth defect.

Having volunteered as a chaplain at

Above, Megan and Michael Drumm share a laugh with daughter Addison outside St. Teresa Church in Westphalia. Megan holds Michael and Addison near, thankful for their close bond and the blessings in their lives.

Right, Father Tom Wiederholt baptizes Zeno Drumm moments after the baby’s birth. Megan had told him she just longed to hear the baby cry, and when the water reached his head, he did.

Children’s Mercy Hospital in Kansas City, Mo., he had baptized babies in urgent situations before and worked with families through infant loss. But nothing prepared him for making the emotional journey with a member of his own family.

Throughout the pregnancy, the Drumms peppered him with questions, and he supported them throughout.

Father Wiederholt found Stone welcoming and thanked her for her acceptance of his presence in the operating room.

The doctor told him she was glad he was there for the family.

Baby Zeno entered the world at 9:34 a.m. — pink, chubby and sturdy.

Photo courtesy of the Drumm family

“This baby is anencephalic,” the doctor confirmed to Megan and Michael.

Megan’s heart sank as the last shred of hope faded that the diagnosis had somehow been wrong.

“But, then again, I felt such a peacefulness, too. Because, in the end, we all want to get to heaven and here we were with a little angel of our own,” she said.

She laughed for the first time in what felt like forever.

“I just remember that first kiss. It was so special because it was, like, I have waited nine months for this,” she said.

Zeno’s broad chest and stout shoulders reminded her of a football player.

His legs and arms were long.

“My dad said he had my hands,” said

The Drumm family has learned that prayers and a strong heart are the most important things you can have in life, said Megan Drumm.

Just as she urged other families to do at the end of several of her journal entries on her Caring Bridge site, she hugs daughter Addison close.

“I spend so much time with Addison and Michael,” said Megan. “You never know how long you’re going to have, and so when you love someone, tell them. Tell them 10 times a day. Tell them 20 times a day.”

The past year has challenged Megan and Michael as a couple, but it has also brought them closer.

Megan emphasized how important communication has been.

They’ve experienced firsthand that everyone grieves differently and that the process can’t be rushed.

At the same time, they know they have to continue living life without fear — and that every loss is different.

They have appreciated support from another couple — parents who have also lost a child — that truly understands what they’re experiencing, down to the anger and bitterness they feel.

It’s OK to feel these things, Megan has come to understand. But she also takes time to thank God at the end of the day for blessings.

The family has found significant support from Alexandra’s House, a faith-rooted, volunteer, perinatal hospice and infant care system in Kansas City, Mo. And they’ve found open arms all around them.

“There are people to support you, help you. It’s awesome the experience that we’ve had,” said Megan.

“They’ve just been so generous, and I hope that someday I can do for someone like they have done for us.”

Michael, who was proud of the fight his son put up.

Megan loved the look of adoration on her husband’s face as he held Zeno.

She kept running her fingers through the soft, strawberry blond curl at the back of Zeno’s neck.

She knew many babies with anencephaly don’t hear, are blind, and won’t cry like most babies.

But Zeno kicked and screamed and registered the shock of the water when Father Wiederholt baptized him right after his birth.

“When the water hit his head, he cried,” said Megan. “I thought that was so cool.”

So did Father Wiederholt.

“The baby was beautiful, oh my goodness,” he said.

“He would grab your hand,” he said.

“He had a real grasp.”

Zeno’s health was so good the neonatal intensive care unit nurses returned to their floor, and the Drumms invited their families in.

“He was never once laid down in the bassinet,” said Megan. “He was always in someone’s arms.”

Too shy to touch him at first, Addison still wanted to be near and snuggled in close.

A photographer from While I Lay Me Down to Sleep, an organization that provides remembrance photography for families experiencing the loss of infants, discreetly captured images of Zeno’s first moments.

Megan held Zeno skin-to-skin, a connection that perked him up when he got cold and his color started to fade.

“It’s been a hard journey. It’s been a sad journey. It’s been a depressing journey. It’s been an educational journey,” said Megan. “But it’s been so worth it.”

At 9:34 p.m., the family celebrated Zeno’s half-day birthday and also said their goodbyes, uncertain whether he would make it through the night.

“His stats were dropping. We said a prayer, and we waited and we waited and we waited,” said Megan.

His breathing and heart rate stabilized.

The four members of the Drumm family slept in the same room that night, with Zeno on his mother’s chest.

Megan woke up at 2 a.m. and again at 4 a.m., both times finding him still looking wonderful.

“The next morning at 9:34, we celebrated his one-day birthday, sang “Happy Birthday” to him, and bought him a balloon and a big doughnut — of course, I ate the doughnut,” said Megan. “It was so wonderful that he made it to a day old.”

They were even able to feed him from a bottle, which they hadn’t expected.

Why not you?

About noon on March 30, Zeno had his first seizure.

In the course of his fourth, he died in his mother’s arms.

“I knew the exact instant that he was gone,” said Megan. “Michael was right there beside me, helping me, and I was holding him, talking to him, telling him everything was going to be OK.” When Michael left the room to tell their families, grief set in.

In a private hospital room, an exhausted Megan and Michael held onto their little boy for a while longer, not yet ready to place him in the bassinet.

When they left the hospital, they were immersed in preparations for Zeno’s funeral.

“Our family was such a safety net for us,” said Megan.

They couldn’t believe the show of support at the rosary for Zeno the night before the funeral.

“It was just astounding the amount of people that came, because they didn’t know him at all . . . but they still loved him,” said Megan.

Father Wiederholt celebrated the funeral Mass. In his homily, he reflected on some of his own feelings.

He talked about another father whose infant had died, and that father asked, “Why me?”

His best friend responded, “Why not you?”

Father Wiederholt’s homily resonated with the family.

“God never promised us a life that would be perfect, that we would always be happy and fruitful in things that we want,” said Megan. “But God always promised us that he would be with us. . . . His homily really hit home that day.”

Megan’s sister, Mindy Highberger, shared Zeno’s life story with the congregation.

“The proudest moment of the whole day was watching Michael carry his little casket out,” said Megan. “It would have to take a strong father to do that.”

Church is one of the places Megan now feels closest to Zeno.

Margie Highberger, likewise, found her brief time with Zeno to be a deeply spiritual experience.

“The morning after the funeral, this grandma woke up at 2 a.m. [and] realized what her family had witnessed in the past 20 or so weeks,” she said. “I was exhausted. . . . I couldn’t lift a finger or an arm.

“But, at that moment, something struck me.

“That when we touched little Baby Zeno’s face, we touched the face of God.”

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Carpet cleaning technician - love interacting with people and being part of a team? Have a passion to serve others and enjoy the benefits of some physical work? then join one of the most respected, progressive service companies in Kansas City. make top industry pay and be appreciated for a job well done. Bock’s Steam Star is accepting applications for two positions. $10 - $40K. Call (913) 4387767 or visit the website at: www.steamstar.net.

Safe drivers - Assisted transportation seeks caring and reliable drivers in the Kansas City metro area to transport K-12 students in our minivans. CDl not required. Retirees encouraged to apply. learn more or apply online at: www.assistedtransportation.com or call (913) 2625190 for more information. EoE. Director of music - Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in north little Rock, Ark., is looking for a full-time director of music who demonstrates proficiency in playing organ and piano and directing choirs. this position involves providing music and choral direction at parish masses, a weekly school mass, funerals, holy days, etc. our parish (consisting of 1,000 families) and our school (enrolling 400 students in pre-K thru 8th grade) currently has several choirs, including an adult vocal choir, adult handbell choir, and children’s choir. Job includes competitive salary, benefits, and retirement. Send an email with resume, references, and inquiries to Father tom Elliott at: Fathert@Fathert.com by July 26.

After-school care coordinator - Holy Cross Catholic School is looking for a dynamic person to coordinate the after-school program. this is a fantastic opportunity for a stay-at-home mom (your kids may attend) seeking to make a few extra dollars. Hours are 3 - 6 p.m. on regular school days, and 7:30 a.m. - 6 p.m. on a few days when school is not in session. no holiday hours. Contact Allison Carney at (913) 381-7408 or send an email to: acarney@holycrosscatholicschool.com to schedule an interview.

Volunteer coordinator - the Catholic Charities of northeast Kansas volunteer coordinator will support the director of Catholic Action by assisting in the coordination and enhancement of an effective volunteer program and assist the Catholic Charities of northeast Kansas staff in all matters pertaining to the effective utilization of volunteers serving Catholic Charities of northeast Kansas. EEo. Coordinator must demonstrate a passion for the mission of Catholic Charities. College graduate preferred. Excellent interpersonal skills. Excellent written and verbal communication skills, including ability to identify and articulate the impact of volunteer involvement among internal business units. Ability to assist coordination of volunteer involvement and activity throughout the Catholic Charities organization. For additional information, complete application and job specific questions, visit the website at: catholiccharitiesks.org/ job. no phone calls.

Institutional funding coordinator (grant writer) - the Catholic Charities of northeast Kansas institutional funding coordinator will work to obtain financial resources to meet the organization’s goals and objectives. manage the grant writing functions of the development department by securing funding from institutional sources as well as the tracking and reporting requirements for funds received. EEo. Bachelor’s degree and a minimum of 3 years of successful grant proposal writing experience. preserves the ethical standards of Catholic Charities of northeast Kansas and the development profession. Effective communication skills: written, verbal, nonverbal, presentation. Ability to listen and take direction. Self-starter and ability to work well independently and with diverse individuals and groups. Experience working with the budgeting process. Willingness to work during evenings and weekends as needed. For additional information, complete application and job specific questions, visit the website at: catholiccharitiesks. org/job. no phone calls.

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tHElEAvEn.Com | JUly 5, 2013 Executive secretary - St. James parish, Kansas City, mo. the executive secretary supports the ministries of an active and diverse parish. Full time. For full description and to send resume, send an email to: chuntz@sttheresekc. org.

Coordinator of religious formation - St. James and St. therese parishes, Kansas City, mo. the coordinator of religious formation develops the religious formation and sacramental preparation programs for these two active multicultural parishes. part time. For full description and to send resume, send an email to: chuntz@sttheresekc. org.

Teachers - Bishop miege High School has part-time teacher openings for the 2013-14 school year for instrumental music, high school drumline/grade school band and a math teacher to teach 2 - 4 units of math. Send an email with letter of interest and resume to mariann Jaksa at: mjaksa@bishopmiege.com.

Director of liturgy and music - St. matthew Apostle Church, 8001 longview Rd., Kansas City, mo., 64134. the Dlm is responsible for facilitating the worship life of the parish community. this person develops and is responsible for an all-inclusive liturgical ministry and serves as a cohesive force among the various liturgical ministries. the Dlm develops and supervises musical programs for the parish. Qualified candidates will possess a B.A. (m.A. preferred) in liturgy, pastoral ministry or music, have a working knowledge of Catholic liturgical and theological documents and possess knowledge of sacramental life and the structure of the liturgy. they will be familiar with a wide repertoire of traditional, contemporary and multi-cultural music. they will demonstrate flexibility, sensitivity, compassion, empathy and justice, and have the ability to motivate, mentor and empower others. Call (816) 763-0208 or send an email to Jeanne marie miles at: liturgy@stmatthewapostle.org.

SERvICES Part-time/full-time childcare openings - licensed/ CpR, first aid certified, Holy trinity parishioner. located at 123rd and Blackbob, olathe. Will watch teachers’ kids, will not charge for summers. Excellent references. Call Bonnie at (913) 972-2003.

Masonry work - Quality new or repair work. Brick, block and chimney/fireplace repair. Insured; second-generation bricklayer. member of St. paul parish, olathe. Call (913) 829-4336.

CLUTTER GETTING YOU DOWN? – organize, fix, assemble, install! “Kevin of All trades” your professional organizer and “HonEy-Do-lISt” specialist. Call today for a free consultation at (913) 271-5055. Insured. References. visit our website at: www.KoAtInDUStRIES.com.

MEDICATION SETUP & MANAGEMENT - Rn support visits for filling weekly pill boxes & managing medication. Affordable and convenient. to learn more, call Home Connect Health Services at (913) 627-9222.

ALL AREA CATHOLICS WELCOME Christ the King parish Federal Credit Union 5417 leavenworth Rd., Kansas City, Kan. Good Car loan and Share loan Rates (913) 287-8448 or (913) 980-2192 Hours: 7 - 9 p.m., mon., Wed., Fri. Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover. packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload, and in-home moving. no job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mikehammermoving@aol.com.

Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@ kc.rr.com; or visit the website at: www.bankruptcylawin kansascity.com.

Machine quilting - by Jenell noeth, Basehor. Also, quilts made to order. Call (913) 724-1837.

Home decorator/designer - Do you need to redecorate but aren’t sure where to start? or are you in need of a fresh look with a room or an entire house? Call me. I will help. I specialize in color design, furniture replacement and overall beauty of the home. I will help you make any room more functional and comfortable. you’ll have the home you’ve always wanted! no decorating job too small or too large! Call leAnn at (913) 991-2062.

Electrician - Free estimates; reasonable rates. JoCo and south KC metro. Call pat at (913) 963-9896.

Faith-based counseling to cope with life concerns Kansas City area. Call mary vorsten, licensed Clinical professional Counselor, at (913) 909-2002.

Cleaning lady - Reasonable rates; references provided.

Call (913) 940-2959.

Brick mason - Available year-round; installation and repair of all types of masonry work — brick, stone, tile and flat work. 19 years of residential/commercial experience.

Free quote – KC metro area – small and large jobs accepted. Call (913) 485-4307. yes, we renovate kitchen/ bathroom cabinets and install new floor tile.

Housecleaning - I love what I do and you can love it, too! 20-plus years experience. Excellent references.

Southern JoCo area. Call (913) 548-8702.

Rodman Lawn Care - mowing, leaf removal, mulch and more. Call John Rodman, member of Holy Cross parish, overland park, at (913) 548-3002 or send an email to him at: Rodman.lawn@yahoo.com.

Lawn Mowing Spring Cleanups/landscaping local parishioner Insured/References Free Estimates Call tony (913) 620-6063 Garage door and opener sales and service - 24-hour, 7-day-a-week service on all types of doors. Replace broken springs, cables, hinges, rollers, gate openers, entry and patio doors, and more. over 32 years of experience.

Call (913) 227-4902.

Financial advisor to the Catholic community – I’m Bill mcmahon with morgan Stanley, dedicated to helping Catholics accumulate and grow, or derive more income from your wealth. to find out how, please contact me for a complimentary portfolio review.

Bill McMahon | Financial Advisor (913) 402-5267 bill.j.mcmahon@morganstanley.com 11161 overbrook Road, leawood, KS 66211 morgan Stanley Smith Barney llC. member SIpC. Health consultation - Seeking better all-around health?

Way to look and feel better? more energy? Reduce or eliminate pain? I can help! Free sample and many successful references. Call (785) 375-5697; send an email to: ernie.honas@gmail.com; or visit the website at: www. ernie4health.com. member of Sacred Heart Church in Gardner.

Quality craftsmanship at a reasonable price! - Wood rot and house painting. Fiber cement siding/James Hardie. Window replace or repair, decks, basements and baths. Interior and exterior painting. Call mike at (913) 991-3955.

T-shirt Quilts! Graduation Quilts! Quilted memories is now accepting graduation quilt orders. let’s work together to design a unique memory quilt for your grad!

7913 Santa Fe Dr., overland park. (913) 649-2704 or (913) 492-8877. Full service long arm quilting shop!

Agua Fina Irrigation and Landscape the one-stop location for your project! landscape and irrigation design, installation and maintenance.

Cleanup and grading services It’s time to repair your lawn. 20% discount on lawn renovations with mention of this ad. visit the website at: www.goaguafina.com Call (913) 530-7260 or (913) 530-5661 Housecleaning - old-fashioned cleaning, hand mopping, etc. A thorough and consistent job every time. References from customers I’ve served for over 17 years. Call Sharon at (816) 322-0006 (home) or (816) 214-0156 (mobile).

Tree service - pruning trees for optimal growth and beauty and removal of hazardous limbs or problem trees.

Free consultation and bid. Safe, insured, professional.

Cristofer Estrada, Green Solutions of KC, (913) 378-5872. www.GreenSolutionsKC.com.

HomE ImpRovEmEnt Spring is here! I do decks, fences, siding, windows, doors, roofing, exterior house painting and can cover all your landscaping needs. I bid and do the work, and am fully insured. Serving the leaven parishioners for 12 years. Call Joshua Doherty at (913)-709-7230.

Heating and cooling repair and replacement - Call Joe with JB Design and Service. licensed and insured with 20 years experience. member of Divine mercy parish. Call Joe at (913) 915-6887.

Wood rot and house painting - 25 years experience painting houses and working with wood rot and window repairs. I honestly believe you cannot find a better job out there. Up to 15-year warranty on your paint job! no job too big or small, and I will be on your job working every day - no subcontracting out work to someone else.

Fully insured and plenty of references. Call me today! mike at (913) 991-3955.

House painting - Interior and exterior; wall paper removal. 20 years experience. Reasonable rates. Call Joe at (913) 620-5776.

Exterior painting, drywall projects, wood rot repair, bathroom and kitchen remodels, and tile work - Quality products. 20 years experience. References. Call (913) 206-4524.

Swalms Organizing Service - Reducing Clutter - Enjoy an Organized Home! Basement, garage, attic, shop, storage rooms - any room organized! Belongings sorted, boxed and labeled, items hauled or taken for recycling, trash bagged. For before and after photos, visit: www. swalmsorganizing.com. over 20 years of organizing experience; insured. Call tillar at (913) 375-9115.

STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 491-5837 or (913) 5791835. Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. member of Holy trinity, lenexa.

The Drywall Doctor, Inc. - A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean! lead-certified and insured!

Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655.

Custom countertops - laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite, and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.

Adept Home Improvements Where quality still counts!

Basement finishing, Kitchens and baths, Electrical and plumbing, licensed and insured. (913) 599-7998 Detail construction and remodeling - We offer a full line of home remodeling services. Don’t move — remodel! Johnson county area. Call for a free quote. (913) 709-8401.

Perfect Roof - Free estimates; roofing repairs if needed.

Hail and wind damage inspections. Insured and reasonable. Call (816) 288-1693.

EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * lawn renovation *mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!!

Call lupe at (816) 252-3376

CAREGIvInG Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation to the elderly and disabled in home, assisted living and nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with laurie, Debbie or Gary.

Would you like to keep your senior loved one in the comfort of their home? Experienced seasoned CnA provides quality care in the comfort of your home. livein optional. References/reasonable. Call (913) 215-1898.

Palliative care - Retired nurse, massage therapist, will give palliative care to meet the physical needs and tender loving care for your loved one. $25 per hour. References. 12-hour shift available. Call (913) 384-2119.

Two semi-retired exceptional nurses with 57 years combined nursing experience – offering the best private duty, respite, and companion care. Specialize in Alzheimer’s, diabetic and geriatric care. licensed, references and background check. let us keep your loved one in their home. Call (913) 710-5412 or (913) 226-5385.

Have a loved one with Alzheimer’s disease? Inquire about our fresh, unique approach to care. ComfortCare Homes, a local, family-owned care option, opened its first home in 2005. We have now grown to four homes located in overland park and leawood. All of our homes are located minutes from highways I-35 or I-435, allowing easy access from anywhere in the Kansas City metropolitan area including lee’s Summit, Shawnee, liberty and olathe. to learn more or take a tour, call Courtney minter at (913) 609-1891 or visit the website at: www.

ComfortCareKC.com.

Looking for high quality home care? - Whether you’re looking to introduce care for your family or simply looking to improve your current home care quality, we can help. our unique approach to home care has earned us a 99% client satisfaction rating among the 1,000-plus families we have assisted. We are family-owned, with offices in lenexa and lawrence. Call Benefits of Home Senior Care, lenexa: (913) 422-1591 or lawrence: (785) 727-1816 or www.benefitsofhome.com.

vACAtIon Bahamas beachfront condo - Enjoy the crystal clear waters, beachfront pool and beautiful sunrises from our newly remodeled condo that sleeps four. $125/night; $750/week. local owner will rent to mature adults and families. to view, visit the website at: www.coral beach1602.com or send an email to: coral- beach1602@ gmail.com.

Branson getaway - Walk-in condo on pointe Royale Golf Course. Sleeps 6. Close to lakes and entertainment.

Furnished, pool, hot tub and tennis courts. nightly and weekly rates. Discounts available. Call (913) 515-3044.

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july 5, 2013 | theleaven.CoM << ContinueD froM PreviouS Page lake of the ozarks - 7 nights for $500! Beautiful time share in the horseshoe Bend area near the lodge of the four Seasons. available from Sept. 6 - 12, 2013.

Many amenities. Sleeps up to 8. refundable damage deposit required. for details, call jack at (913) 2264476.

Colorado vacation - Winter Park, 2Br, 1 Ba, furnished. Mountain biking, golf, hiking, and fishing. $125 per night or $700 per week. Call (816) 392-0686. mountain cabin in Winter Park, Colo. - 2 Br, 1 Ba, fully furnished; sleeps four. view of Continental Divide from deck. Close to points of interest and activities. $95/night. Call (913) 642-3027. for pictures, visit the website at: www.tillmancabin.com.

for Sale For sale - formal oval dining room table with two leaves (dark wood) and six upholstered cane-back chairs. $550. Call (913) 310-0375.

For sale - Cemetery plots at Chapel hill Memorial gardens; two side-by-side, including vaults. Current value is $3,690 each. asking $7,000 for both, or make an offer. if interested, contact Sondra at (913) 441-1650.

For sale - exclusive rights for two burial easements at resurrection Cemetery, 83rd and Quivira rd. these easements are located in the mausoleum, corridor Queen of holy rosary, tier C, crypts 107. today’s selling price at this level would be $12,000. We are offering this space for $9,000 (or best offer). Contact ambrose Kelly at (913) 649-9691.

Heirloom quality american Girl doll furniture Bedsandthreads.com avoid shipping charges; pickup in Shawnee Call john hember at (913) 631-4060.

St. joseph, Shawnee, parishioner For sale - four choice burial lots. Chapel hill Memorial gardens, 94th and State, Kansas City, Kan. garden of everlasting life. relocated and need to sell. Call (417) 770-2177 (cell). max’s rosaries - Custom-made locally for all occasions – first Communion, confirmation, baptism, graduation. rosary bracelets and beaded earrings too! i also do repairs. Member of the Church of the ascension, overland Park. Call (913) 400-3236.

For sale - Prime crypt space for four persons in the beautiful Central Chapel Mausoleum at resurrection Cemetery, 83rd and Quivira, lenexa. Price negotiable.

Call (816) 665-8408 for information. residential lifts - Buy/sell/trade. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. recycled and new equipment. Member of St. Michael the archangel Parish, leawood. Call Silver Cross KC at (913) 327-5557.

July Mother Teresa Farmers’ Market is open for the season every Saturday from 8:30 - 11 a.m. in the Don Akin Memorial outdoor pavilion, Topeka. Purchase fresh produce grown within five miles of the parish. Any extra produce you would like to donate to the market is welcomed.

All proceeds are donated to the Topeka Rescue Mission.

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The KCK Serra Club will conduct its regular meeting at the Hilton Garden Inn, 5th and Minnesota, Kansas City, Kan., at noon on July 10. The guest speaker will be Nancy Gibson, Serra governor of District 12-C.

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The 6th annual benefit garage sale to benefit St. Joan of Arc School in remote Mawuuki, Uganda, will be held on July 12 from 8 a.m. - 4 p.m. and July 13 from 8 a.m. - 2 p.m. at 16340 Dearborn Drive, Stilwell.

This huge event of donations from more than 75 families is sponsored by Gotta Have HOPE, Inc. All sale proceeds will build a library for St. Joan of Arc School. For additional information, visit the website at: www.gottahavehope.org; send an email to: info@gottahavehope.org; or call Joyce Feder at (913) 226-6958.

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The Blue Army rosary rally will be held July 14 from 3 - 4 p.m. at St. Pius X Parish, 5601 Woodson Ave., Mission. All are welcome to

Sacred Heart Parish, Baileyville, will host its annual picnic on July 14. A roast beef and ham dinner will be served beginning at 5 p.m. The cost to attend is $7 for adults; $4 for children ages 10 and under. Fun and games for everyone. The auction, which includes handmade quilts, begins at 9 p.m.

Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan., will present “Spending Wisely on a Budget” on July 15 from 1:30 - 3 p.m. To register, call (913) 906-8990.

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“Real World Love and Logic Solutions,” a three part program, will be offered on Wednesdays, July 17 - 31, from 9:30 – 11 a.m. at Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For more information, call (913) 906-8990.

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A Mass with prayers for healing will be held at 7:30 p.m. on July 18 in the Father Burak Room at Curé of Ars Parish, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. Father Bill Fisher will preside. For more information, call (913) 649-2026.

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Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan., will partner with Heartland Habitat for Humanity and Wells Fargo Bank on July 18 from 10 - 11:30 a.m. to present “Commoncents Plus: Credit Management and Credit Repair.” There is no cost to attend. To register, call (913) 906-8990.

A memorial liturgy for deceased loved ones will be at 8 a.m. on July 20 at Curé of Ars Parish, 9401 Mission Rd, Leawood. Following the Mass, the bereavement ministry will have its monthly support meeting in the Father Burak Room. The topic will be: “Writing Out Grief.” For more information, call (913) 649-2026.

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Christ’s Peace House of Prayer, Easton, will host a daylong contemplative retreat on July 20 from 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. The cost to attend is $25 per person and includes lunch. For more information, send an email to: directorcp@hotmail.com or call (913) 773-8255.

A course in the sympto-thermal method of natural family planning begins July 21 at 1 p.m. at the Topeka and Shawnee County Public Library. A reasonable course fee is charged and online registration is required on the website at: www.ccli.org. Call Dana or Eric Runnebaum at (785) 380-0062 or the Couple to Couple League of Kansas City at (913) 894-3558 for more information.

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Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan., will present “Landscaping and Simple Home Improvements” in partnership with Heartland Habitat for Humanity on July 24 from 6 - 8 p.m.

A cookout will be provided at 5:30 p.m.

Space is limited and reservations are required. Men and women are welcome. No children. There is no cost to attend. To register, Call (913) 906-8990.

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The guest speaker will be Abbot James Albers of St. Benedict’s Abbey, Atchison, for the KCK Serra Club’s meeting at noon on July 24. The meeting will be held at the Hilton Garden Inn, 5th and Minnesota, Kansas City, Kan. Christ’s Peace House of Prayer, Easton, will host a weekend retreat on discernment from July 26 - 28. The cost to attend is $170 for individuals and $250 for couples. All meals are included. There will be six conferences, discussion, time for reflection and spiritual reading, along with daily eucharistic adoration and Mass at the local parish Saturday night. Check-in will be between 5 - 6:30 p.m. on Friday. For more information, send an email to: directorcp@ hotmail.com or call (913) 773-8255.

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Annunciation Parish, Frankfort, will host its summer picnic on July 28 from 5 - 8 p.m., serving beef or pulled pork sandwiches with all the trimmings, ice cream and cake.

The cost is $8 for adults and $4 for children ages 10 and under. There are games for all ages, a raffle, and a quilt auction.

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St. Benedict’s Circle at Holy Cross Church, 8311 W. 93rd St., Overland Park, will host a card party luncheon (or any game of your choice) on July 30 from 11:30 a.m. – 3 p.m. The cost is $12 per person. For information or to RSVP, call Helen at (913) 3814295 or Doris at (913) 381-2781.

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Concrete Work

Any type of repair and new work Driveways, Walks, Patios

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Member of Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish

For sale - Move-in ready farmhouse with fruit and nut trees. Built in 1890. if walls could only talk! bedrooms, 1 bath on 15.5 acres with 32 x 40 outbuilding. upgrades within last 3 years include fully remodeled bath (with tile), hardwood floors, roof, windows, hot water on demand tank, and painted inside. earth wood stove, propane tank (owned, not rented) and rural water, security gate, good school district. Motivated seller. Call (913) 683-4488 or (913) 362-3024.

WanteD to Buy Wanted - old drugstore soda fountain. apothecary and candy jars, signs, slot machines, Coca-Cola.

Spool, thread, dye. nut and bolt cabinets. advertising clocks, small antique display case and store displays. hunting and fishing old duck decoys and fishing lures. autographed baseballs.

Call (913) 593-7507 or (913) 642-8269. *** Wanted to buy *** antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, prints, sterling, etc. renee Maderak (913) 631-7179 St. joseph Parish, Shawnee

Harvey M. Kascht (913) 262-1555

Wagner’s Mud-Jacking Co. Specializing in Foundation Repairs Mud-jacking and Waterproofing.

Serving Lawrence, Topeka and surrounding areas.

Topeka (785) 233-3447 Lawrence (785) 749-1696 In business since 1963 www.foundationrepairks.com

Will buy firearms and related accessories - one or a whole collection. honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred heart Parish, Shawnee.

Buying a ClaSSifieD aD Cost to advertise is: $17.50 for five lines or less $1.50 each additional line email: julie@theleaven.com Phone: (913) 647-0327

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July 7 fourteenth sunday in ordinary time Is 66: 10-14c Ps 66: 1-7, 16, 20 Gal 6: 14-18 Lk 10: 1-12, 17-20 July 8 Monday Gn 28: 10-22a Ps 91: 1-4, 14-15ab Mt 9: 18-26 July 9 Augustine Zhao Rong, priest, and companions, martyrs Gn 32: 23-33 Ps 17: 1-3, 6-7, 8b, 15 Mt 9: 32-38 July 10 Wednesday Gn 41: 55-57; 42: 5-7a, 17-24a Ps 33: 2-3, 10-11, 18-19 Mt 10: 1-7 July 11 Benedict, abbot Gn 44: 18-21, 23b-29; 45: 1-5 Ps 105: 16-21 Mt 10: 7-15 July 12 Friday Gn 46: 1-7, 28-30 Ps 37: 3-4, 18-19, 27-28, 39-40 Mt 10: 16-23 July 13 Henry Gn 49: 29-32; 50: 15-26a Ps 105: 1-4, 6-7 Mt 10: 24-33 fifteenth week of ordinary time July 14 fifteenth Sunday in ordinary time Dt 30: 10-14 Ps 69: 14, 17, 30-31, 33-34, 36-37 Col 1: 15-20 Lk 10: 25-37 July 15 Bonaventure, bishop, doctor of the church Ex 1: 8-14, 22 Ps 124: 1-8 Mt 10:34 – 11:1 July 16 Our Lady of Mount Carmel Ex 2: 1-15a Ps 69: 3, 14, 30-31, 33-34 Mt 11: 20-24 July 17 Wednesday Ex 3: 1-6, 9-12 Ps 103: 1-4, 6-7 Mt 11: 25-27 July 18 Camillus de Lellis, priest Ex 3: 13-20 Ps 105: 1, 5, 8-9, 24-27 Mt 11: 28-30 July 19 Friday Ex 11:10 – 12:14 Ps 116: 12-13, 15-18 Mt 12: 1-8 July 20 Apollinaris, bishop, martyr Ex 12: 37-42 Ps 136: 1, 23-24, 10-15 Mt 12: 14-21

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It can be fun to fund a scholarship

emember that you are an Englishman, and have consequently won first prize in the lottery of life.”

Oh, give me a break!

Really? Those were some of the more charitable thoughts that went through my mind when I first stumbled on this quote. Curious to see what if anything was special about the day after the Fourth of July, this was the first item that popped up. How ironic!

Those opening words were spoken by Cecil J. Rhodes, who was born on July 5, 1853, in . . . well, where else . . . England. Rhodes was a businessman, politician, and colonizer for England, primarily in South Africa. For a while, he even had a whole country — Rhodesia — named after him. (Of course, it’s now known as Zimbabwe.) He was the founder of the De Beers diamond company, which at one time supplied 90 percent of the world’s rough diamonds.

Many people are probably not familiar with Rhodes the colonizer, but I’ll bet they’ve heard of something called the Rhodes scholarship, which this wealthy man established

Father Mark Goldasich Father Mark Goldasich is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989. in his will.

Considered “the oldest, most celebrated international fellowship,” students are selected each year — 32 from America alone — to receive this prestigious award to study at the University of Oxford. According to the scholarship’s website, winners are chosen “not only for scholarly achievements, but for their character, commitment to others and the common good, and for their potential for leadership.”

I bring up this because someone far more famous than Rhodes encouraged us to embrace a spirit of generosity. In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus said, “The gift you have received, give as a gift.”

This issue of The Leav-

en highlights some people who have done just that. On page 2, for example, former musicians from Good Shepherd Parish in Shawnee returned to the church for a special event. These vocalists and musicians were given their musical start, often as young people, at the parish.

In thanksgiving for their successful careers, they came back — not only to entertain, but also to raise money for the parish’s music ministry, so others may experience what they were privileged to have.

The last page of this issue features a new program at Donnelly College, located in the urban core of Kansas City, Kan. Its purpose is to train exceptional teachers to work specifically in urban schools, to encourage and mentor students to develop their full potential. Those who will receive this wonderful education will then go out and share that gift with local students and parents.

Last, but not least, take a gander at page 6, where you can read about the awards won by Leaven staffers and freelancers at the recent Catholic Media Convention.

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this incredible group of people. They pour their heart, soul and passion into all that they do, to bring to the archdiocese stories that touch the heart, mind and soul. Their talents for writing, photography and design are shared as a way to thank you for the gift of letting us into your homes 41 times a year.

While very few of us have the financial resources to fund something as far reaching as a Rhodes scholarship, each of us — no matter our age or location or income level — has gifts, which the Lord invites us to share in whatever way we can. Something as simple as buying a glass of lemonade from a kid in a front-yard stand or getting some produce from a local farmers’ market or making a donation to your alma mater to use where most needed can have a impact way beyond what we might imagine.

This summer, go ahead and sponsor your own “Roads” scholarship — open up a way for someone to develop character, grow in commitment to others and the common good, and become solid leaders for the church and world of today and tomorrow.

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It’s the most important thing she’s ever done

riests have a privileged view of life.

If we pay attention, we will find ourselves where people’s faith takes on added meaning and, thus, where grace unfolds in their lives.

Consider when parishioners take a turn at feeding the homeless. On a Saturday afternoon, folks deliver prepared dishes to the parish hall, and a select group then ferries sliced ham, scalloped potatoes, green beans, and more to a local National Guard armory where a couple hundred homeless shelter for the cold night.

When I finish the evening Mass, I hustle to the armory to join the others and help as directed. Dinner is in full swing. No doubt, many who shelter there are enjoying their first home-cooked meal in a good while. No doubt, some of the parishioners are living the gospel of love in such a practical way for the first time.

father Dave Mercer

Father Dave Mercer has been a parish priest for 26 years and is currently the administrator of St. Thomas of Canterbury Church in San José, Calif.

The parishioners see the homeless close up. One eats alone, carrying on a nonstop conversation with a voice only she can hear. Another wears a gray, three-piece suit in need of ironing, toting a briefcase and wearing torn gym shoes. Some talk with friends from the streets.

Some are shy at asking for seconds, while others express gratitude for their dinner. As Pope Francis reminds us, the homeless are on the fringe of society.

They are a side of human-

Church is at its best when giving people opportunities to put their faith into practice. Church is at its best when giving people opportunities to do something truly meaningful.

ity we avoid looking at when turning left at traffic lights.

They hold up cardboard with scribbled words: PleaSe HelP. As we make our turn, we wonder if we might ever stop and offer them “HelP.” We hear the Gospel proclaimed on Sundays, such as the one in mid-July that speaks of loving God with one’s entire self and “your neighbor as yourself.” So, we accept the invitation to serve a home-cooked dinner to the fringe of society sheltering in

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Father Mike Stubbs Father Mike Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University. of her comfort, that you may nurse with delight at her abundant breasts. For thus says the Lord, Lo, I will spread prosperity over Jerusalem like a river, and the wealth of nations like an overflowing torrent.”

In its description of this future prosperity, the prophecy places two images of liquids next to each other. As they intermingle, they complement and enrich each other. The image of the

It is “truly scandalous” that the global level of food production is enough to feed the planet’s people, yet millions of people are malnourished and millions more “must be satisfied with the crumbs falling from the table,” Pope Francis said. Addressing the United Nations’ Food and Agriculture Organization conference June 20, Pope Francis said the global financial

river, in which thousands of gallons of water can flow by in a few seconds, speaks of abundance. The image of a mother’s milk, that most basic and nourishing of foods, speaks of loving care. Together, they speak of God’s abundant love.

The prophecy personifies the city of Jerusalem as a woman, as a mother. We might compare a similar personification by Catholics, who sometimes speak of “Holy Mother Church.” This personification of Jerusalem as a mother should not surprise, although some of the details may startle us by their earthiness.

Even more shocking, though, is the comparison that the prophecy makes of God with a mother: “As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you.” We are accustomed to imagining God as a father, but as

crisis obviously has made the situation worse, but it cannot continue “to be used as an alibi.”

Food is not simply a commodity but is a human necessity and right, he told 400 delegates from about 200 countries. “The human person and human dignity risk turning into vague abstractions in the face of issues such as the use of force, war, malnutrition, marginalization, the violation of basic liberties and financial speculation, which presently affect the price

a mother? The image is effective, insofar as the tender love of a mother can help us to appreciate God’s love.

At the same time, the image has its limitations.

Unlike a mother, God does not possess a body. Unlike a mother, God has no sexuality. God is spirit.

While useful, the image of God as mother is incomplete, as is any image that we mortals might form of God. God always remains beyond our imagining.

On the other hand, God is capable where we ourselves are powerless. The best image of God comes from God, in Jesus Christ: “He is the image of the invisible God” (Col 1:15).

In Jesus Christ, we see the God who comforts us in our afflictions, as well as the God who challenges us to repent.

meaningful. Susan no longer wonders why she never offers people the “HelP” they need. She has done so and now hears the Gospel proclaimed on Sundays more clearly as an unfolding of God’s grace.

Of course, this lines up with recent comments by Pope Francis. He captures the attention of even the secular press when he speaks of the Gospel as calling us to focus not on ourselves, but on the poor, admitting that it breaks his heart when the death of a homeless person is not news. In May, he reminded us: “If we step outside of ourselves, we will find poverty.” He is intent on renewing church life by calling us to seek those on the fringes of society who need help the most.

Sometimes, serving green beans can be the important thing we ever do. We can find ourselves living the Gospel and our faith with added meaning. We can find ourselves where God’s grace unfolds.

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hat is your favorite comfort food? Macaroni and cheese, meatloaf, apple pie? Those foods not only taste good, they also stir up memories of childhood, of our mothers who cooked them. That is how they give us comfort.

Sunday’s first reading, Is 66:10-14c, also seeks to provide comfort. In fact, the word “comfort” itself appears four times in the reading. But rather than appealing to memories of the past, it promises hope for the future.

The prophecy addresses the Israelites who have seen their holy city of Jerusalem destroyed and who have gone into exile in Babylon. The prophet foresees prosperity for Jerusalem.

Its former inhabitants will rejoice again: “Oh, that you may suck fully of the milk

an armory.

I chat it up with Susan who is serving green beans.

When the sliced ham runs low, I bring out another pan.

Then, when everyone has been served, we start spooning out second helpings.

Susan turns quiet while she takes in the humanity of the homeless. She glances at me, then back at the homeless, and then turns again, saying in a measured voice, “Father Dave, this is the most important thing I’ve ever done.”

Sometimes, serving green beans is more than simply serving green beans. It can be when we find ourselves living the gospel of love and not just listening to it proclaimed on Sundays. It can be when we find ourselves practicing what we preach.

Serving green beans can be a time for the unfolding of God’s grace.

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of food, treating it like any other merchandise and overlooking its primary function,” the pope told the delegates. But the problems affecting agriculture, forestry and fisheries in both developed and developing countries, he said, are not simply technical and any solutions must recognize that “the human person and human dignity are not simply catchwords, but pillars for creating shared rules and structures.”

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Training teachers from the bottom up Donnelly College launches new bachelor’s degree focusing on urban education

By Jessica Langdon jessica@theleaven.com

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Walking into a new school and finding herself surrounded by many people who didn’t speak Spanish was daunting for Cynthia Molina at age 11.

Now an adult, Molina remembers how she struggled starting school in the United States after arriving from Chihuahua, Mexico.

The 2009 Turner High School graduate looks forward to becoming a teacher herself and working with children in urban schools — including many whose first language isn’t English.

She will Interested in start working this fall Urban Teacher semester on Education her bachelor’s degree Program? at Donnelly Detailed inforCollege in mation on the proKansas City, gram — as well as Kan. financial aid inforM o l i mation and other na will be academic offerings among the at Donnelly College first stu— can be found dents to online at: www. take part in donnelly.edu. a brand-new To schedule a bachelor’s meeting with the program at UTEP director, call Donnelly — the admissions ofthe Urban fice at (913) 621Teacher Ed8700, or the UTEP office at (913) 621ucation Pro8714. gram.

You may also Brenda email Brenda K. K. Harris, Harris, director director of of teacher educateacher edtion, at: bharris@ ucation at donnelly.edu.

D o n n e l l y, came on board three years ago to develop and launch the program.

She’s lined out a rigorous curriculum, connected with surrounding school districts to give the future teachers extensive practical experience, and guided the program through the accreditation process.

Graduates of UTEP will receive a bachelor of science in elementary education and be prepared to teach students in kindergarten through sixth grade.

Knowing what to do While UTEP equips future educators to teach in any setting, its focus is on the needs they might encounter in an urban school.

“A lot of times students come to class hungry, or they may have not gotten a lot of sleep because of things that have gone on in the home,” said Harris.

“Rather than saying, ‘Oh, I don’t know what to do,’” she continued, “we prepare them to know what to do.”

Another element of the program she’s particularly proud of is that graduates will earn their English for Speakers of Other Languages endorsement.

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Brenda K. Harris, director of teacher education at Donnelly College in Kansas City, Kan., has been recruiting students for a new bachelor’s degree through the Urban Teacher Education Program.

It will prepare candidates for the unique needs they might encounter teaching in urban schools. this, but here, it’s built in, she said.

In Kansas City, Kan., public schools alone, there is rich diversity in cultures and languages.

“It’s beyond Spanish,” she added.

“There are so many diverse cultures in the district.”

UTEP sends teacher candidates out to observe as freshmen, and the experiences intensify as they progress.

At the start of their senior year, they’ll be placed in the classroom where they will complete their student teaching.

“They’ll have that whole year to work in the same classroom to see how it runs beginning to end,” said Harris.

As juniors, UTEP students will be matched with established educators — mentors who will support them, offer insights, and serve as a sounding board through their first year of teaching.

Passion for kids UTEP welcomes traditional and nontraditional students.

This might be a good fit for someone who has a degree and wants a career change, said Harris.

It’s also a way for people already working in schools — like paraeducators — to work toward leading a classroom.

It’s structured to allow them to continue working.

Molina loves the flexibility and Donnelly’s willingness to work with her.

She discovered the new program when Donnelly College gave a presentation about the degree to English as a Second Language aides in Kansas City, Kan., public schools.

Molina, who works as a secretary for the district’s ESL department, looks forward to student teaching and is excited about the idea of sticking with District 500 and its families in the future.

“I’m really hoping to do my best and really help them and engage with them — not only the students, but the parents as well,” said Molina.

The kids in the elementary classrooms drive Harris’ passion for this program, especially after her own daughter struggled in school.

Called Miss Molly by her family, her daughter had seizures from first grade

until she was 14.

Though she is intelligent, she struggled in school.

“Not one teacher in her life — in her whole schooling experience — took the time to figure out who she was and how she learned,” said Harris. “It was just my goal to never, ever treat a child the way mine was treated.”

Through many prayers and hours of schoolwork at home after she had already spent the day in class, the family got her through and she’s now grown and working in a career she loves.

Harris knows there are great teachers out there and she can’t wait to send more into schools in the local area through UTEP. The school districts that have jumped on board to work with Donnelly and host UTEP students in their classrooms are excited about the program, too.

Serving the community “This program is right in our backyard. It’s right here,” said Eva Tucker-Nevels, district coach of professional learning and training for Kansas City, Kan., public schools.

She’s familiar with Harris’ work as a teacher and knows the quality and passion she brings to education.

This program fits right in with the district’s own vision of inspiring excellence.

Sending teachers into the workforce with their ESOL endorsement will be a big plus, believes Tucker-Nevels.

She’s also thrilled with the opportunities UTEP students will have to integrate theory they’re learning in their college classes into what they’re experiencing in the classrooms.

“They will be in the work while they are learning about the work,” said Tucker-Nevels. “It’s a complete, 360-degree involvement in the teaching world.”

Harris sees that Steve LaNasa, Donnelly College president, is “getting things off paper and into reality.”

Donnelly College has established a decades-long tradition in the urban core.

“It’s just more evidence of our commitment to serving this community and meeting the need,” said Lynn Hire,

Philanthropist inspires students Henry Bloch is Jewish. But his “kids” go to a Catholic college.

That’s because Bloch, co-founder of H&R Block, has given his steadfast support to Donnelly College in Kansas City, Kan. And since 2001, 149 students have received an H&R Block Foundation scholarship.

In his commencement address to the graduates in May, Bloch talked about the grads’ responsibilities not only to themselves, but to others and their communities.

“Only you can choose to see the needs among your fellow citizens and respond to those needs, even though you still have needs of your own,” he said.

He was not an exceptional student as a young man, Bloch said. He worked hard in school to earn a C. So one of the things he likes about his foundation’s scholarship program is that it requires students to maintain a C-plus average; they don’t have to be 4.0 students.

Given that — and the very real financial need facing many of the students — Bloch sees a sense of genuine appreciation from the scholars who attend Donnelly.

“Many of them are the first students in their family’s history to go to college,” he said, and, by that fact alone, they are making family history.

One program that has particularly impressed him is an on-site associate’s degree program at the Lansing Correctional Facility.

And the new Urban Teacher Education Program will hit a sweet spot he’d already identified.

“I keep telling them I hope some of them will be teachers because we need good teachers,” he said.

Although Bloch holds out hope that one day a Donnelly grad will be president, he’ll be happy with a more modest return on his investment.

But he does ask just one thing of the students he’s supporting.

“I would love to know what they’re doing after graduation,” he said.

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“What we want to do is grow our own teachers for our own metropolitan community,” said Harris.

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