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JUST LIKE ‘GRANDMA’S HOUSE’
Carolyn Vrbas carefully mixes some ingredients together for the day’s lunch. “She puts every ounce of love into her food,” says Sacred Heart principal Natalie Wrobel. Below, Vrbas serves kindergartner Cailyn Hurley her lunch with the help of Deniece Edwards, far left, and principal Wrobel.
Food service director finds recipe for happiness at Sacred Heart in Ottawa
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STORY BY JESSICA LANGDON | PHOTOS BY LORI WOOD HABIGER TTAWA — Move over newcrayon smell. There’s another aroma in town that means school is back in session. The smell of baking bread wafts through the halls of Sacred Heart School in Ottawa, signaling to the kindergartners through fifth-graders that it’s
almost lunchtime. They can thank food service director Carolyn Vrbas for that. Just a few years ago, Vrbas, 72, wouldn’t have guessed this job would be on the menu for her, but friends saw that
she brought just the right ingredients to the table. At the top of the list: more than two decades of preparing school lunches. When Vrbas moved to Ottawa from Hays in 2007, the longtime school cook was certain her years of serving lunch to schoolchildren were over. And that was true. For exactly three days. Because the same day Vrbas was moving into her apartment, the woman who was then Sacred Heart’s food service director was moving her aunt into the same complex. Vrbas’ daughter-in-law introduced the two women. “When she heard ‘school cook,’ her ears perked up,” said See “FAVORITE” on page 6
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Teen’s love life proves enlightening
everal people have been kind enough to mention to me that they missed my column during the summer. Others may be thinking more like a paraphrase of the promo for the sequel to the old “Gremlins” movie: “Oh, no! He’s back!” In July, I received a letter from Ann Marie Growney who is an eighthgrader this year at Holy Spirit Parish in Overland Park. Ann Marie began her letter by telling me: “My life completely changed this summer. My life changed because I fell in love with this amazing guy. And what’s even cooler is that HE LOVES ME BACK!” I am thinking to myself: “This does not sound good — an eighth-grader falling in love so passionately with a guy, no matter how amazing.” Then, Ann Marie writes: “Well, I met this guy at Camp Tekakwitha!” Now, I am thinking: “Oh no! What is our archdiocesan attorney’s phone number?” Ann Marie continues: “You are probably thinking: Why on earth is a 13-year-old girl telling me about her love life?” She was right about that. This is not the usual letter that I find in the daily mail. I think it is best to allow Ann Marie tell you in her own words why she wrote to me: “First, let me tell you a little bit about myself. I’m very blessed with a loving family who provides me with all my needs and lots of stuff that aren’t necessary for living. I was a typical Catholic. Both my parents are Catholic, and I go to a Catholic school. I also go to Mass with my family every weekend, say prayers before meals and bed. “I was baptized as a baby and received my first holy Communion and first reconciliation in second grade. But unplanned pregnancy? decisions to make? Replace pressure and panic with thoughtful, and rational reflection. A confidential, caring friend is waiting for your call. Topeka- (785) 234-0701 Lawrence- (785) 843-4821 Leavenworth- (913) 682-2700 Kansas City-(816)444-7090 Emporia- (620) 342-8600
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I just treated all these sacraments and prayers as a chore or a big pain in the butt. Just like a lot kids my age and even a lot of adults. “Then, I started going to Camp Kateri Tekakwitha. . . . This was my fourth year at camp. And it was so fun! Except for a couple parts and those were the Bible studies and Mass. That went on until this summer. I was blessed with Taylor Kramer as my counselor. She is so fun, enthusiastic, faith-filled, awesome, helpful and just, overall, I had an amazing cabin. “Well, truthfully at first I didn’t think that. When I got there I found out my cabin was full of 7th-graders, and I was thinking: Seriously, God? Out of all these people at camp, you put me with these 7th-graders? Do you want me to have a miserable time at camp? “Then, I thought maybe he was calling me to be a leader to these girls. Then, after my first day, I realized these girls were amazing and didn’t need a leader. But I knew that God was calling me to be a leader, but I didn’t know who to be a leader to. “So camp went on, and I realized this year’s camp motto was: Open the door to faith. And throughout camp, people talked to us campers about how Jesus is knocking on our door — and has been our whole life — and when we open that door for Jesus, our hearts will be satisfied with Jesus’ unconditional love. “And the first couple days, I was thinking in my head, OK, how long are these things? Can’t we just get to the fun stuff? Then, came the fourth night and adoration! That’s where my life totally changed in two major ways. “The first thing was I figured out that God was calling me to be a leader to my
friend (Lexi Cheray). She lost her mom when she was five. Her mom was very spiritual. . . . After her mom’s death, Lexi struggled with faith, and our friendship became weaker and weaker. Then we went to this camp — not as partners, but just to the same session. “So, at adoration I was praying to God about: Whom I am called to lead? Right then, I see my friend [Lexi] crying, and I realized that God was calling me to lead her to become a strong Catholic just like her mom. So, I immediately start praying for her and to her mom. “Also, that’s where I fell in love. So, I fell in love with Jesus Christ! Yes, I’m truly deeply in love with Jesus Christ. And he called me to be a leader and inspiration to others. “And that night, Lexi, whom I was praying for, said she felt her mother’s presence. And we both started crying, and I told her what happened at adoration. Now, she and I are amazing friends who love Jesus, love going to adoration, praying and going to Mass. And now she and I want to be leaders to everyone by sharing our story. “So, I just wanted to let you know that Camp Tekakwitha changed my life. I’m an ordinary person, and Jesus has an extraordinary life planned for me.” Wow! Letters like Ann Marie’s make me look forward to opening the mail! I am grateful for Ann Marie’s and Lexi’s permission to share with you their experience at camp. What happened during adoration to Ann Marie and Lexi illustrates what Jesus wants all of us to experience during this Year of Faith. Our Lord wants each of us to experience his love for us in a deeper and more profound way. Jesus wants each of us to fall in love with him and to experience the abundant life and complete joy he alone can provide. The Lord is using Ann Marie and Lexi to lead us all to open the doors of our hearts to Jesus — giving him permission to help us experience his love in a fresh and powerful way. We can all learn a lot from the “love life” of these two 13year-olds.
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Archbishop Naumann’s weekly calendar
Sept. 7 Mundelein Seminary board meeting Sept. 8 Blessing of Mary’s Choices Clinic — Topeka Leadership banquet — St. James Academy, Lenexa Sept. 9 Mass and dedication of parish hall, classrooms and offices — St. Theresa, Perry Sept. 10 U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops Pro-Life Committee meeting — Washington, D.C. Sept. 12 Groundbreaking and reception — Donnelly College, Kansas City, Kan. Donnelly board meeting Sept. 13 Donnelly College convocation Mass and luncheon Faith Initiative Mass — chancery Wyandotte Pregnancy Clinic banquet — Overland Park Convention Center Sept. 14 Young Adult Catechesis — Benedictine College, Atchison Sept. 15 Profession of vows — Sisters, Servants of Mary Wedding — Holy Spirit, Overland Park
Archbishop Keleher’s weekly calendar
Sept. 13 Prison volunteer training Sept. 15 Mass and banquet — Lansing State Prison
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Former Notre Dame head coach Lou Holtz delivers the keynote address at Benedictine College’s opening convocation in Atchison on Aug. 28. “You certainly made a good choice by coming to Benedictine College,” he told the students. “It’s a very special place with special people.”
Legendary coach Lou Holtz encourages Benedictine students By Steve Johnson
Special to The Leaven
ATCHISON — Legendary football coach, author and broadcaster Lou Holtz visited the campus of Benedictine College here on Aug. 28 to deliver the keynote address at the school’s opening convocation. Following an all-school Mass celebrated by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann, a crowd of nearly 1,400 filled the Ralph Nolan Gymnasium for the opening academic event of the year. With jokes, magic, and heartfelt comments, Holtz captivated the audience with his advice on how to live a positive and fulfilling life. “Wherever you are 40 years from now, it’s going to be because of the choices you make today,” he said to the students in attendance. “Let’s not complicate it.” “How do you make good choices?” Holtz asked. “Three simple rules; the first rule is: Do right. If there’s any question, just check the Bible.” “Rule number two: Do everything to the very best of your ability,” he continued. “Not because somebody is going to award you or applaud you, but just because that’s the way you live.” “And the last rule: Show people you care,” he said. “I know you’re young people, but you’ll never meet anybody in the rest of your life that doesn’t need
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Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann talks with Lou Holtz and Benedictine College president Stephen Minnis before the all-school Mass on Aug. 28. a smile, doesn’t need a kind word, doesn’t need encouragement. Show people that you care.” “It isn’t magic,” he said. “If you always do the right thing, do everything to the best of your ability and show people you care, you’ll always make good choices. And when you get to be as old as I am, you’ll look back and you’ll have no regrets.”
Holtz also complimented the college on its dedication to quality. “When you walk on this campus,” Holtz noted, “you can tell right away that this place is committed to excellence.” “You certainly made a good choice by coming to Benedictine College,” he told the students. “It’s a very special place with special people. Let’s make
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sure that it’s better when you leave than it was when you came.” Holtz received an honorary degree from the college in 2007, when he delivered the commencement address. During this convocation, he and his wife Beth were honored with the Cross of the Order of St. Benedict. Benedictine College established the honor in 1969 as a way to recognize alumni and friends who have supported charitable institutions, provided civic or religious leadership, and demonstrated professional excellence. The Holtzes were some of the first donors to the construction of Mary’s Grotto in the center of the college campus, and they have been regular donors to the college ever since. Holtz is probably best known for coaching the University of Notre Dame to a perfect season and a national championship in 1988. He also served as head football coach for the College of William and Mary, North Carolina State University, the University of Arkansas, the University of Minnesota, the University of South Carolina, and the New York Jets of the National Football League. In his two longest tenure positions, at Arkansas and Notre Dame, he had overall records of 60-21-2 and 10030-2 respectively.
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‘Today we operate in the name of the church’
FATHER JUDE BURBACH, OSB 1927-2012
Father Jude remembered as a quiet man
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ATCHISON —We all know someone like Father Jude Burbach, OSB. They’re the quiet, steady ones. They don’t get a lot of attention — they just get the job done. Father Jude, 85, died in his sleep Aug. 22 at St. Benedict’s Abbey in Atchison. The Mass of Christian burial was offered on Aug. 27, followed by burial in the monastery cemetery. “He was a very quiet person,” said retired Abbot Owen Purcell, OSB, of the abbey. “He had that reputation all his life. His parishioners loved him, because he was kind and solicitous toward them.” But he was a simple guy, continued the abbot. Sensational was not in his vocabulary. He was uniquely himself, with no apologies. Father Jude’s life, said Abbot Barnabas Senecal, OSB, in his funeral homily, incorporated some essential Christian and Benedictine values. “St. Benedict wanted monks to be humble,” said Abbot Barnabas. “Father Jude was humble. He served where he was asked to serve. He shared his need for community by living well and honestly. He chose to be concerned about others more than about himself. He was a celebrant of the sacraments, a celebrant of life and a celebrant of contentment. May each of us join him in such celebration.” Elwin John Burbach was born on Feb. 9, 1927, in Hartington Neb., the son of Henry and Anna (McFadden) Burbach. He had four brothers and five sisters. The future monk attended Holy Trinity Elementary School and graduated from Hartington Cedar Catholic High School in 1945. “My uncle, Father Lucien Senecal, a monk of St. Benedict’s Abbey, gave a senior high school retreat in Hartington in 1945, and made a summer recruitment trip to the community,” said Abbot Barnabas. “Father Jude said these contacts influenced him to make the choice to go to our college in the fall of 1945 rather than to Creighton where he thought he was going.” Perhaps the young man’s vocational inspiration also came from three men in his extended family who became Benedictine monks at Conception Abbey in
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KANSAS CITY, Kan. — When the list of people to thank has been building for years, there’s always the risk of leaving someone out. “If you feel left out, thank you, too,” said Father Vince Huber, a member of the Apostles of the Interior Life, adding levity to an already joyous — and historic — occasion. On Aug. 22, the five priests who make up the male branch of the Apostles of the Interior Life achieved a milestone: The group became a clerical public association of the faithful. A Mass at Savior Pastoral Center was the occasion for the elevation of the group to that status, celebrated on the feast of the Queenship of Mary.
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Father Jude Burbach, OSB, enjoys a peaceful moment on the grounds of St. Benedict’s Abbey in Atchison. Father Jude died Aug. 22 at the abbey. He was remembered as a humble servant of God. Conception, Mo. After one year of college studies, the young man entered the abbey novitiate in July 1946 and received the name Jude. He professed vows on July 11, 1947. Then, as Brother Jude, he graduated from St. Benedict’s College with a bachelor’s degree in philosophy in 1950. Following his theological studies, the monk was ordained to the priesthood by Archbishop Edward J. Hunkeler on May 30, 1953, at St. Benedict’s Church, Atchison. Following ordination, Father Jude was first dorm prefect and Latin instructor at St. Benedict’s College. He was then named assistant pastor of St. Benedict’s Parish in Atchison from 1958 to 1961, then of St. Patrick Parish in rural Atchison County, and next, a parish in Burlington, Iowa. From 1968 to 1970, he was chaplain for the Benedictine Sisters of St. Scholastica Monastery in Chicago while studying at Rosary College in River Forest, Ill. Father Jude graduated from Ro-
sary College with a master’s in library science in 1970, and then worked in the college library for five years. But Father Jude’s quiet career took somewhat of a dramatic turn when he responded to an invitation by Abbot Brendan to serve at St. Benedict Abbey’s foundation in Mineiros, in the state of Goias, in Brazil. One of four monks who responded to that invitation, Father Jude, at age 58, learned a new language and culture as he undertook his new ministry to the priory and parishes in Brazil from 1975 to 1983. Upon his return to St. Benedict’s Abbey in 1984, Father Jude worked as the head librarian until 1986, when he became weekend celebrant at St. John Parish in Doniphan from 1990 to 1995. He was then named pastor of St. Joseph Parish in Wathena and St. Charles Parish in Troy, followed by assignments as pastor of St. Vincent de Paul Parish in Onaga, St. Columbkille in Blaine, and St. Joseph Parish in Lillis, from 1995 until his retirement in 2003.
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“They didn’t sense him as a powerful preacher, but a man of wisdom and advice,” Abbot Barnabas continued. “They didn’t sense him to be a man who sought to correct them, but one who would love them in their strength and in their weakness.” Father Jude was an avid reader, who frequently loaned books to other monks, said Abbot Owen and Abbot Barnabas. His family meant a lot to him, and he frequently visited them in Nebraska. “He was a very dedicated priest,” said retired Abbot Ralph Koehler, OSB, “and certainly a committed monk.” “He did whatever he was supposed to do,” he concluded. Father Jude was preceded in death by his parents, four brothers, and four sisters. He is survived by his sister Ann Janssen, of Bellevue, Neb., and by numerous nieces and nephews. Some material provided by St. Benedict’s Abbey
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Up until this point, the priests had been ministering as diocesan priests in the archdiocese, with permission from the archbishop to live according to the constitution of their community. But with the decree issued by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann, the male branch gained a new status under canon law, and the priests may now minister publicly as Apostles of the Interior Life. “The archbishop has given us this recognition as a public association of Christ’s faithful, which means we operate publicly in the name of the church,” said Father Vince. Their new status means they are free under canon law to live according to the ways spelled out in the Apostles’ constitution, he said.
Years in the making The formation of the male branch stemmed from the female branch, which shares the same charism of spiritual direction and evangelization. The female branch is a private association of the faithful, approved by the Diocese of Rome, Italy. Father Salvatore Scorza founded both branches, with the idea for the female branch springing to life when he met Sister Susan Pieper — now the branch’s president — in California. The provincial house is in Overland Park. The male branch became a private foundation in 2007.
Matt Maher in concert at Benedictine College ATCHISON — National Christian recording artist Matt Maher will be on the campus of Benedictine College here to perform a Praise and Worship concert. The concert is scheduled for Sept. 14 at 7:30 p.m. in the Ralph Nolan Gymnasium on the college’s campus, located at 1020 N. Second St. . The event is part of the Trust One Greater program sponsored by the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas and includes adoration with Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann. Tickets are available online through the archdiocesan website at: www. archkck.org/trustonegreater for $10 each, or are $15 at the door.
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The five priests who make up the male branch of the Apostles of the Interior Life lie prostrate before the altar at Savior Pastoral Center on Aug. 22 as the group is made a clerical public association of the faithful. Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann signed the decree that make the Apostles’ new status official. A female branch of the Apostles of the Interior Life has already formed in the archdiocese.
Growing in faith Still in its formative stages, this association isn’t in a position to ordain priests and deacons for its own community, so the male branch needed a diocese where it would find welcome and support. It found just such an open door in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. Four men — Father Vince from Leawood, Father Edward Ahn from Chicago, Father Scott Kallal from Jerseyville, Ill., and Father Mirco Sosio from Semogo, Italy — were ordained to the priesthood in 2011. Father Alessandro Borraccia from Milan, Italy, was ordained this summer. During the Mass on Aug. 22, the men renewed their commitments. In his homily, Archbishop Naumann described this “new expression of religious life” as a “beautiful outpouring of the Holy Spirit to help the church in this particular moment where there is this
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Many thanks Father Vince looked forward to the possibility of a house in the future where the men can live in community — and to the next steps toward the ultimate goal of becoming what is called a Society of Apostolic Life of Pontifical Right, in which the community would be responsible to the pope. His list of people to thank was long, and included everyone who has persevered with them and prayed for them. “As we’ve been going along, there have been these continual confirmations that we really are doing the work of God and the will of God, and that the church really thinks that what we are doing — and the charism that we are living — is worthwhile and that it’s important for the mission of the church,” he said.
MAPLE MOUNT, Ky. — Sister Rita Redmond, 81, an Ursuline Sister of Saint Joseph, OBITUARY Mount died Sept. 3 here. She was a native of Fort Scott. Sister Rita was an Ursuline of Paola before the merger of that community with Mount Saint Joseph in 2008. Her former religious name was Sister Mary de Lourdes. Sister Rita was a born teacher and Sister Rita Redmon stayed in contact with students she had from 60 years earlier. She was a multitasker before that word was invented, and always looked for an opportunity to help someone in need. Sister Rita taught in St. Patrick School in Paola from 1950-57, then St. Patrick/Holy Trinity School from 195759. She taught at Bishop Miege High School in Roeland Park from 1959-68, and at Sacred Heart School in Bonner Springs from 1968-69. She was coordinator of educational materials at the Lakemary Center from 1969-95, and was librarian of the East Central Kansas Special Education Materials Center from 1974-2001. She worked in internal ministry at the Paola motherhouse from 2001 until her move to Maple Mount in 2009.
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Favorite family meals prove big hits at school Continued from page 1 Vrbas. “I lived here three days, and she gave me a call.” That led to Vrbas lending an occasional hand during the first year. She later helped out about once a week, usually when the menu featured fresh bread — her specialty. And then the previous food service director retired. The position was open for the 20112012 school year. “I have every confidence you could handle the job,” Diane Chapman, then-principal at Sacred Heart, assured Vrbas. Vrbas proved that to be true. She never missed a day. On the few days of true winter weather in 2012, Chapman drove Vrbas to school herself to keep her safe. Her role here is a vital one — and it goes far beyond her famous handmade wheat rolls.
Family time Vrbas arrives hours before lunchtime every day. She carefully counts servings, mixes ingredients and times the dishes just right. Regular diners her first year on the job included three of her granddaughters — Rachel, Monica and Miranda. Now in sixth-grade, Rachel has moved on to her new school, but Monica is a fourth-grader at Sacred Heart and Miranda just a first-grader. “It’s nice that the kids get to see Grandma here at school almost every
day,” said Rick Vrbas, the girls’ dad. Still, he’s not sure who benefits more from this arrangement — his kids or his mom. Vrbas and her husband Ray raised three children, now all grown. Rick fondly remembers the family dinners of fried chicken with mashed potatoes and gravy. Now that Vrbas prepares school lunches — with different ingredients and recipes, of course, to feed close to 100 — some of those traditional menus are still the biggest hits. “I really like the chicken, mashed potatoes and gravy,” said Monica. She likes the hamburgers, too, especially if Vrbas has made the buns. Behind the scenes — often at home — Vrbas does her own homework: planning menus and documenting the servings of protein, grains, vegetables and fruits. She makes sure the food meets state guidelines, and does it all with love, said Natalie Wrobel, who took the reins this year as Sacred Heart’s principal when Chapman moved to Topeka’s Most Pure Heart of Mary School as resource team coordinator. “She puts every ounce of love into her food,” Wrobel said. “And she cares so much about the kids.” “I’d like to keep her around for 100 years — or more,” she added.
and family life office, believes that that act “gives people a chance to get in touch with those [feelings of loss] — to grieve and to seek some sort of closure.” KANSAS CITY, KAN. – Leon and Closure is a commodity these parents Maureen Suprenant had just moved to the area when they attended a Mass have often lived a long time without. “With miscarriage,” explained Leon, that allowed them to heal in a way they “the grieving process is short-circuited.” had never before experienced. “You don’t go through a funeral Mass The annual event held here in the archdiocese, called the Mass of the In- and burial,” agreed Maureen. “In many early miscarriages, nocents, is open to there’s nothing to all who have expebury. There’s no rienced loss through Mass of the Innocents process for dealing miscarriage, stillArchbishop Naumann invites all with your grief.” birth, SIDS and who have experienced the loss of Brad and Libother types of infant a child through miscarriage, stillby DuPont, consuldeath. birth, or in early childhood death to tants for the mar“Supporting famjoin him in a Mass of Remembrance riage and family ilies that are open on Sept. 16 at 10 a.m. at Savior Paslife office, who are to life and struggle toral Center, 12601 Parallel Pkwy., coordinating the with miscarriage is Kansas City, Kan. Mass, know exactpro-life in the best For information, please contact ly what the Supresense,” said Leon, the archdiocesan marriage and nants mean. who is the archdifamily life office at (913) 721-1570 or “We lost our ocesan pastoral assend an email to: famlife@archkck. first child six sociate for the adorg. years ago, and our ministration of the daughter about 4 permanent diaconyears ago,” said Brad. ate program. “In our case, we got to hold our kids “You’re affirming the life of a child and the grief of suffering a loss,” he and take pictures,” said Libby. “People got to be with them, and we had a fusaid. During the Mass, celebrant Arch- neral. “For someone who has had a misbishop Joseph F. Naumann will encourcarriage, they don’t have that benefit. age parents to give their deceased child People may not even know.” a name and come forward to record that “This is a way to really acknowledge name in the Book of Remembrance. Deacon Tony Zimmerman, lead con- the personhood of these children that we believe are with us, praying for us,” sultant for the archdiocesan marriage Special to The Leaven
Pro-life forums deliver pro-life message to eighth-graders By Joe Bollig
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OVERLAND PARK — Some ideas — like the annual eighth-grade pro-life forum — are too good to keep down. That’s why this coming October, prolife activists will celebrate the 20th anniversary of the forum’s revival. The Wyandotte and Johnson County forum in its current incarnation began in 1992, but apparently there was an earlier, defunct effort, said Courtney Williams, director of the forum. “In 1991, Fred McAulay — a man who had been involved in pro-life activities for years — approached me,” said Williams, who at that time was Johnson County parish pro-life coordinator. “He said, ‘Now that we have someone like yourself in place, let’s see if we can reinstate a prolife forum like we had at St. Joseph Parish in Shawnee.’” Williams liked the idea and decided to give it a go. She recruited a few volunteers to put on an event that would feature talks, a panel discussion, and a question-and-answer period. Principal Dorothy Lancaster from Curé of Ars School in Leawood promoted the forum
with other Catholic school principals. Not all the principals understood what Williams was trying to do. “In the 1980s and 1990s, we almost had to apologize for being pro-life,” said Williams. “One principal called me up and asked, ‘You’re not going to show gross movies and pictures, are you?’ I said, ‘No way. I refuse to do that. You don’t need to do that to tell kids how evil abortion is.’” The forums have gotten bigger over the years, outgrowing the single half-day session held at the Community Room of St. Joseph Hospital in Kansas City, Mo. Currently, they are held at the larger Johnson County parishes. There is a Wednesday morning session for students who attend Catholic schools, and a Sunday evening session for students who attend public schools or who are home-schooled. Last year, about 1,000 Catholic school students attended the forums, and 500 public or home-school students. The purpose of the forum is simply this: to educate young people, who are about to enter high school, about why they should be pro-life and in conformity with the teachings of the church, said Williams. It’s vital information that they are not likely to get anywhere else.
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‘Innocents’ Mass provides closure for parents By Jill Ragar Esfeld
Carolyn Vrbas chats with her granddaughter Miranda during lunch. “It’s nice that the kids get to see Grandma here at school almost every day,” said Rick Vrbas, Miranda’s dad.
The format has stayed fairly stable over the years, although the speakers have changed, and there have been some adjustments. The Sunday and weekday sessions each last slightly over two hours. The weekday session for Catholic school students will begin at 9:30 a.m. on Oct. 17 at the Church of the Nativity in Leawood. This year, the Sunday evening session for public school and home-schooled students will be on Oct. 21 at the Church of the Ascension in Overland Park. It’s scheduled after the 5 p.m. Mass, so people can worship beforehand if they wish. Mass is followed by a pizza feed at 6 p.m., and then the session, which starts at 6:30 p.m. The format is basically the same for each session. Students will receive an information packet upon arrival. They will listen to a series of speakers who present short talks. Four or so short videos are also shown. This year’s speakers will include: Father Shawn Tunink, on the church’s teaching about abortion; Kansans for Life executive director Mary Kay Culp, on the history, politics and law of abor-
tion; pro-life educator Michelle Thomas, on abstinence and chastity; St. Paul, Olathe, school principal Tonia Helm, on the theology of the body; and archdiocesan pro-life consultant Ron Kelsey, on the eighth-grade pro-life essay contest. “The [success of the WyandotteJohnson County] annual event is a testimony to the value of its format in educating eighth-graders on the various pro-life topics,” said Kelsey. “Courtney Williams is to be congratulated on initiating this pro-life forum.” There is a separate, although similar, pro-life forum for eighth-grade students in Topeka. This event will be from 5 to 8:15 p.m. on Sept. 30 at St. Matthew Parish hall. Both the Topeka and WyandotteJohnson County forums are held with the support of the archdiocesan pro-life office. For information on the WyandotteJohnson County forums, contact Courtney Williams at (913) 642-1730 or by email at: scj4x@aol.com. For information about all pro-life forums for eighthgrade students, contact Ron Kelsey at (913) 647-0350 or by email at: prolife@ archkck.org.
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said Leon. And it is never too late to come to the Mass and experience the healing. “We’ve had women who have been in their 70s at the Mass, saying they have never grieved, tears rolling down their cheeks,” said Mary Anne Kierl, administrative assistant for the marriage and family life office. All are welcome, including extended family. The Suprenants attended the Mass with their six living children. After the Mass of the Innocents, families gather to share a meal and fellowship. “That component is very good because it helps to bring people together who have experienced this loss,” said Deacon Zimmerman. “It forms a unique fellowship,” added Brad. “People that you wouldn’t meet under normal circumstances, you have an immediate bond with, because of the nature of the gathering.” The DuPonts urge anyone who has lost a child in infancy, or through miscarriage, to attend the Mass of the Innocents. No matter what stage of grief they’re experiencing. “Their grief and their suffering matter to the church,” said Brad. “Even if the whole world has forgotten, Christ in the church does not forget their suffering and is there to offer a healing touch.” The Suprenants agree. “Anybody who is going through this will come out affirmed and strength-
Grief and loss support program Mary Helen Dennihan, a licensed marriage and family therapist, has developed a four-session grief and loss support program for persons encountering the loss of an infant due to miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, stillbirth or early infant death. The program is being offered on four Thursday evenings — Sept. 27, Oct. 4, 11 and 18 — from 7-9 p.m. in the St. Joseph Room at Church of the Nativity, 3700 W. 119th St., Leawood. Call Dennihan at (913) 491-4268 for reservations.
Prayer for the Innocent Trusting in Jesus, the loving savior of the world, who gathered children into his arms and blessed the little ones, we now commend our child to that same embrace of love. May the angels and saints lead our child to that place of light and peace, where one day we will be brought together again. Lord Jesus, bless our child.
ened,” said Leon. “It made [our children] part of the church, part of the community,” said Maureen.
Kelly Youth Rally marks its 15th year
From left, Megan Buessing, Courtney Heinen, and Brady Schmitz, members of St. Michael Parish in Axtell, make their way from St. Bede Church in Kelly, to the hay trucks that will take them to the rally. From left, Bethany Porting, Megan Koch, Birtie Brinkman and Susan Peschel, members of St. Michael Parish, Axtell, throw themselves into the concert.
From left, Bill Boeckman, Kevin Lueger, and Craig Steinlage, members of St. Bede’s Knights of Columbus, work a grill at the Kelly Youth Rally. The Knights grill all the meat that feeds the crowd of nearly 600 students, adult sponsors and rally workers.
Participants in the Kelly Youth Rally roll out from St. Bede Church in Kelly, on hay-loaded trailers, to the site of the rally.
From left, Randee Borntrager, Michael Love and Dalton Hiltibrand of Sts. Peter and Paul Parish, Seneca, share a laugh during the concert at the rally.
From left, Sister Karen Marie Wilson, Sister Abigail Marie Fuenning, and Sister Amy Marie Havlat — all Marian Sisters from Lincoln, Neb. — take the stage at the rally for an impromtu dance. Abortion survivor Gianna Jessen gives the keynote speech at the Kelly Youth Rally, sharing the story of the attempt to abort her life.
Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann processes into Mass at the Kelly Youth Rally. This was the fourth time the archbishop has attended the rally.
Encouraged by keynote speaker Gianna Jessen to stand up and shout “freedom,” the male participants at the rally deliver an enthusiastic response.
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10 LOCAL NEWS Florine and Roy Creek, members of the St. Lawrence Catholic Campus Center, Lawrence, celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary on Aug. 21. The couple was married at St. Patrick Church in Bisbee, Ariz., in 1942. They celebrated ANNIVERSARIES with a Mass at the St. Lawrence Center and a family dinner at the Lake Quivira Country Club with their children, spouses, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Their children and their spouses are: Dennis Creek and Linda Kroll, Berkeley, Calif.; Pat and Carol Creek, Cleveland; Cindy and Mike Maude, Lawrence; and Condy and Connie Creek, Lake Quivira. They also have 11 grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. Sharon C. (Wickey) and William C. Garner, members of Sacred Heart Parish, Tonganoxie, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on Sept. 1. The couple was married on Sept. 1, 1962, at Sacred Heart Church, Tonganoxie. Their children and their spouses are: Wendee and Steven Trieb; Jodi and Douglas Fatherley; Alison Garner Kaighin; and Christopher Garner. They also have 12 grandchildren and three greatgrandchildren.
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THE LEAVEN • SEPTEMBER 7, 2012 Penny and Lannie Zweimiller, members of St. Joseph Parish, Flush, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on Sept. 1. The couple was married on Sept. 1, 1962, at Sacred Heart Church in Gardner. Their children and their spouses are: Brian and Loraine Zweimiller, Hartford; Tim Zweimiller, Fairfield, Idaho; and Krista and Don Kellogg and Kathy and Dan Sargent, both of Manhattan. They also have six grandchildren. The couple celebrated with a Mediterranean cruise, and their children will be hosting a small celebration for family and close friends. They also had a marriage blessing at St. Joseph Church. Joe Jr. and Darlene (Murdock) Krizm a n , members of Church of the Ascension, Overland Park, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on Aug. 18. The couple was married on Aug. 18, 1962, at Blessed Sacrament Church, Kansas City, Kan. Their children are: Joseph Krizman III and Andrea Krizman (deceased). They also have six grandchildren. They celebrated with a reception for family and friends on June 22 at Loch Lloyd Country Club.
Ruth and Allen “Al” Gurwell, members of St. Michael the Archangel Parish, Le a w o o d , will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Sept. 15 with a Mass at the church. The couple was married at St. Peter Church in Jefferson City, Mo. Their children and their spouses are: Mike and Shelley Gurwell; Kristi and Jeff DeBauge; and Keith Gurwell. They also have four grandchildren. They will celebrate with a family dinner and a cruise to Norway and Scotland.
Darrel and Marion (Ryan) Kelsey, members of Curé of Ars Parish, Leawood, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Sept. 8. The couple was married at Christ the King Church in Tulsa, Okla. They will celebrate with dinner and Mass during their anniversary weekend. Joining them will be their wedding party, and their children and their spouses: Christina Kelsey, Teresa Kelsey, Laura and Curt Marchand, and Mary Catherine and Doug Newman. They also have five grandchildren.
Evelyn and Greg Ramirez, members of St. Leo Parish, Horton, celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary on Sept. 2 with a reception hosted by their children and g ra n d c h i l d re n . The couple was married on Sept. 6, 1947, at St. Leo Church in Horton by Father Jerome Twomey. Their children and their spouses are: Larry and Lydia Ramirez, Independence, Mo.; Gloria and Mike Meerpohl, Holton; Patty and Mitch Battese, Barbara and Jim Tucker, and Steve and Carla Ramirez, all of Lawrence; and Mona and Chris Cortez, Marlise and Kenneth Wilson, and Vince Ramirez, all of Horton. They also have 21 grandchildren and 29 great-grandchildren.
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MASS OF INNOCENTS Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann invites you to join him in a Mass of Remembrance for all who have experienced the loss of a child through miscarriage or other before-birth losses, through stillbirth, or in early childhood death.
Sunday, September 16, 2012 10 a.m. Savior Pastoral Center 12601 Parallel Pkwy. Kansas City, Kansas For directions or more information, please call: Archdiocesan Marriage & Family Life Office (913) 721-1570 flifesec@archkck.org
Seven Benedictine Ravens make final vows ALTON, Ill. — On Aug. 15, the Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, at St. Mary Parish ihere, seven former students of Benedictine College in Atchison took their final vows as Sisters of St. Francis of the Martyr St. George. The Sisters took their final vows at St. Mary’s in a ceremony presided over by Bishop Thomas Paprocki of the Diocese of Springfield, Ill. “It was a beautiful way to share the consecration and covenant with my family and friends present and to show them how much it means to me. It was a day overwhelmed with grace that was indescribable,” said Sister Mary George Brown, class of 2005. “I turned my heart over to the One who created it forever.” Thirteen Sisters in total made their final vows. This is the final step in a long process. The Sisters have been in the convent for eight to 10 years: three years of initial formation and the rest in temporary profession. “Through final profession of vows, the young Sister hands over her life to God ‘forever’ within our community,” the Sisters’ website explains. “She receives a ring as the sign of her commitment to Jesus.” Seven of the Sisters have attended Benedictine College. According to Frank Kessler, a Benedictine College professor who attended the service,
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LOCAL NEWS 11 Three earn the rank of Eagle
Sean Clary
Jay Michels
Of the 13 Sisters that made their final vows as Sisters of St. Francis of the Martyr St. George this year, seven of them attended Benedictine College in Atchison. The new Sisters made their final vows on Aug. 15 in Alton, Ill. the group sang the Raven Fight Song after the ceremony. “Not all of them graduated from the school, but they are all Ravens,” said vocations director Sister M. Consolata, FSGM. The seven professed were: Sister M. Catherine Welter, ’07; Sister Mary George Brown, ’05; Sister M. Vianney Ebben, ’08; Sister M. Christiana
Lanuzga, ’11; Sister M. Clementia Toalson; Sister Mary Jude Marsella; and Sister Mary David Tappan. In his homily, Bishop Paprocki told the Sisters not to be satisfied with being good, but to be great, which means to be holy, to be a saint. Four bishops, along with Cardinal Justin Rigali, concelebrated, along with dozens of priests.
Michael Doyle
OVERLAND PARK — Three Boy Scouts from Holy Spirit Parish here have attained the rank of Eagle Scout. Sean Clary, Jay Michels, and Michael Doyle were named Eagle Scouts during a Court of Honor on July 22 at Holy Spirit Church. For his Eagle project, Clary organized and led a fishing clinic for Holy Spirit youth at South Lake Park in Overland Park. Doyle renovated the rosary trail at Holy Spirit Church for his Eagle project. Michels led the construction and installation of shelving units at the TurnStyles in Olathe for his Eagle project.
Keeler Center to offer ‘Women in Scripture’ series KANSAS CITY, Kan. — Jennifer Greene will present “Women in Scripture,” celebrating the role of women in the Israelite covenants and relationships with Jesus, from 10 – 11:30 a.m. on Sept. 12, 19, 26, Oct. 3 and 10 at the Keeler Women’s Center here, located at 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. There will also be reflection, prayer and discussion. To register, call (913) 9068990.
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12 CLASSIFIEDS Employment Human Resources specialist – The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is accepting applications for a position to support the human resources department in a variety of areas. Duties include: processing payroll; coordinating recruiting efforts; assisting foreign religious with immigration applications; and assisting with the performance management process. Ideal candidate will be a practicing Catholic in good standing; have strong communication skills, both written and verbal; demonstrated attention to detail; experience with online technology and communication; and strong mathematical aptitude. Bachelor’s degree in human resources, or related field, or significant human resources experience required. A complete job description, application and benefits information are available on the archdiocese’s website at: www. archkck.org/employment. Interested individuals should mail cover letter, resume, and application by Sept. 28 to: Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, Office of Human Resources, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109, or send via email to: kthomas@archkck.org. Advertising and multimedia coordinator - The Leaven, the official newspaper of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, is seeking applications for a full-time entry level position that will include light bookkeeping and ad management, as well as support responsibilities for The Leaven’s writing, photography, videography and Web efforts. A bachelor’s degree is required, preferably in journalism or multimedia. Some work experience in a related field is preferred, as is expertise in InDesign, CMS programs, iMovie or Final Cut. Ideal candidate will be a practicing Catholic with a willingness to learn, proven attention to detail, and enthusiasm for diocesan news. A complete job description, application and benefits information are available on the archdiocese’s website at: www.archkck.org/ employment. Interested individuals should mail cover letter, resume, and application by Sept. 14 to: Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, Office of Human Resources, Leaven Search, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109, or send via email to: kthomas@archkck.org. Carpet cleaning technician - Love interacting with people and being part of a team? Have a passion to serve others and enjoy the benefits of some physical work? Then join one of the most respected, progressive service companies in Kansas City. Make top industry pay and be appreciated for a job well done. Bock’s Steam Star is accepting applications for two positions. $10 - $40K. Call (913) 438-7767 or visit the website at: www.steamstar.net. Building engineer - Zimmer Real Estate Services has an immediate opening for a building engineer to be assigned to the St. James Academy account. St. James Academy is a 9-12 high school located in western Lenexa. St. James Academy’s mission is to pass on the Catholic faith from this generation to the next, while holding the highest standards of educating students. The full infusion of the Catholic faith in every lesson is central to fulfilling this mission. The successful applicant will have primary responsibility for all aspects of property operations and maintenances, including, but not limited to, HVAC preventive maintenance and repair, plumbing, electrical and miscellaneous carpentry. Successful candidates will be required to complete Virtus training and background checks required by the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. Please forward your resume to: hr@zimmercos.com. Director of music - Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in North Little Rock, Ark., is looking for a fulltime director of music who demonstrates proficiency in playing organ and piano and directing choirs. This position involves providing music and choral direction at parish Masses, a weekly school Mass, funerals, holy days, etc. Our parish (consisting of 1,000 families) and our school (enrolling 400 students in pre-K thru 8th grade) currently have several choirs, including an adult vocal choir, adult hand-bell choir, and children’s choir. Job includes competitive salary, benefits, and retirement. Email resume, references, and inquiries to Father Tom Elliott at: FatherT@FatherT.com by Oct. 18. Driver wanted - Holy Cross parishioner is looking for a ride to church (8311 W. 93rd St., Overland Park), medical appointments, and errands. Will pay for gas and $9+ or more per hour (negotiable). Can possibly use my car. Call (913) 642-2628. Preschool teachers - The Goddard School, located at 21820 W. 115th Terr. in Olathe, is looking to add qualified lead teachers, assistant teachers and substitute teachers to our wonderful staff. In our warm, loving atmosphere caring teachers support the healthy development of children from six weeks to six years. Candidates should be prepared to plan and facilitate lessons and communicate effectively with children, families, co-workers and administrators. Both full- and part-time positions are available. Lead teachers should have a degree in early childhood education or a related field, or a CDA. Prior experience in a child care setting is preferred. Please forward your resume via email to: olathe2ks@goddardschools.com. Owners are parishioners of Church of the Ascension.
THE LEAVEN • SEPTEMBER 7, 2012 Part-time receptionist/ admin. assistant - Position available at established construction management/real estate development firm. Flexible 30-hour Monday through Friday workweek. An excellent opportunity for advancement for the right person. Please send resume to: john.powell41@gmail.com Financial representative - Due to the success and growth of the Knights of Columbus, we are adding financial representatives in the Kansas City area. This position is ideal for a determined, high-energy, highexpectation, professional, self-disciplined, independent individual desiring to serve others, yet earn a betterthan-average income. We provide top-rated financial products to our members and their families and will provide excellent benefits and training. For information or an interview, contact John A. Mahon, 307 Dakota, Holton KS 66436; call (785) 364-5450; or send an email to him at: john.mahon@kofc.org. Youth minister - St. Charles Borromeo Parish, Kansas City, Mo., is seeking a part-time, dynamic, faithalive youth minister to walk with young church members of junior and senior high ages and their families. Coordination and facilitation of confirmation preparation, formation, prayer and service/justice experiences desired. Candidate to actively recruit and empower youth and volunteers in learning and leading opportunities, especially with a summer service week, KCYC/ NCYC trips, monthly and seasonal events. Hours are negotiable, based upon experience and programming. For information, call Maureen Poulin at (816) 436-0880. Applicants should mail a cover letter and resume to: St. Charles Borromeo Youth Minister Search, 900 N.E. Shady Lane Dr., Kansas City, MO 64118. Lunchroom coordinator - St. Paul Catholic School is seeking a part-time lunchroom coordinator for the 2012-2013 school year. Interested applicants should email a resume and cover letter by Sept. 15 to the principal, Tonia Helm, at: thelm@stpaul.eduk12.net. Church nursery worker wanted! - Sunday mornings, possibly evenings. Brookside area. Must have experience & training working with young children, CPR & first aid training. Competitive pay. For more info, contact Trina at: the4tafts@hotmail.com.
Services Triple D Construction - From wood rot repair to window install. Interior trim to tile work. Doors to drywall. Paint to punch lists. Specializing in closets and pantries. Member of Prince of Peace Parish. Terry Dechant (913) 238-0824. Sprinkler System Fall Special!! Aftin Lawn and Landscape, Olathe 25% down. Rest over 12 months!! Free Estimates/Insured/Refs Local Parishioners (913) 620-6063 Tutoring available - For more info, please call (913) 206-2151 or email Kathleen at: Klmamuric@yahoo. com for a brochure. Housecleaning - I love what I do and you can love it, too! 20-plus years experience. Excellent references. Southern JoCo area. Call (913) 548-8702. Interior and exterior painting and wallpaper removal - 30-plus years experience. Quality work; excellent references; reasonable rates. Senior discount. Member of St. Ann Parish, Prairie Village. Call Joe at (913) 620-5776. Faith-based counseling to cope with life concerns - Kansas City area. Call Mary Vorsten, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, at (913) 909-2002. Housecleaning - Old-fashioned cleaning, hand mopping, etc. A thorough and consistent job every time. References from customers I’ve served for over 17 years. Call Sharon at (816) 322-0006 (home) or (816) 214-0156 (mobile). Cleaning lady - Reasonable rates; references provided. Call (913) 940-2959. Girl Friday Services Sewing, ironing, quilting, cooking, typing and errand running. Let me do the work for you! Call Deborah at (913) 648-7258
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THE LEAVEN • SEPTEMBER 7, 2012 Irrigation install and repair Free wireless rain sensor with a full install. Call John at (913) 825-4353 or visit the website at: www.foleyslawncare.com Member of St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee. Machine quilting - by Jenell Noeth, Basehor. Also, quilts made to order. Call (913) 724-1837. Restore your lawn this fall - Aerate and/or verticut. For a free estimate, call Mike at (913) 907-8982. Discounts for multi-neighbor bookings. Agua Fina Irrigation and Landscape The one-stop location for your project! Landscape and irrigation design, installation and maintenance. Cleanup and grading services It’s time to repair your lawn. 20% discount on lawn renovations with mention of this ad. Visit the website at: www.goaguafina.com Call (913) 530-7260 or (913) 530-5661 Lawn mowing Free estimates; references Insured, licensed and bonded Local parishioner Call Tony at (913) 620-6063 Rodman Lawn Care - Mowing, leaf removal, mulch and more. Call John Rodman, member of Holy Cross Parish, Overland Park, at (913) 548-3002 or send an email to him at: Rodman.Lawn@yahoo.com. Tree service - Pruning trees for optimal growth and beauty and removal of hazardous limbs or problem trees. Free consultation and bid. Safe, insured, professional. Cristofer Estrada, Green Solutions of KC, (913) 378-5872. www.GreenSolutionsKC.com.
Swalms Organizing Service - Basement, garage, attic, shop — any room organized! Items taken to donation sites, trash is bagged, and areas are clean and neat when job is complete. To view before-and-after pictures, visit the website at: www.swalms.com. Over 20 years of organizing experience; insured. Call Tillar at (913) 375-9115. Electrician - Free estimates; reasonable rates. JoCo and south KC metro. Call Pat at (913) 963-9896.
Affordable cabinetry - 20 years experience creating quality woodworking, design, and detail for all your custom cabinetry and furniture needs. Competitive rates; references available. Serving the KC Metro area. Call Dennis at (913) 850-3956. Visit the website at: www.dennisbilt.com. Decks by Jake - Power washing, wood preserving and staining. References available. Call Jake at (913) 909-6058. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Helping Hand Handy Man - Home maintenance, upgrades and chores available by the hour. Special rate for senior and single-parent households. Electrical, painting, wood refinishing, deck repair, yardwork, small to medium tree trimming, gutter cleaning, shelving and organizing. Most home problems and needs solved. Member of Prince of Peace, Olathe. Call Mark Coleman at (913) 526-4490. Garage door and opener sales and service - 24hour, 7-day-a-week service on all types of doors. Replace broken springs, cables, hinges, rollers, gate openers, entry and patio doors, and more. Over 32 years of experience. Call (913) 227-4902. EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation *Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!! Call Lupe at (816) 252-3376 Perfect Roof - Free estimates; roofing repairs if needed. Hail and wind damage inspections. Insured and reasonable. Call (816) 288-1693. Masonry work - Quality new or repair work. Brick, block and chimney/fireplace repair. Insured; secondgeneration bricklayer. Member of St. Paul Parish, Olathe. Call (913) 829-4336.
Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@kc.rr.com; or visit the website at: www.bank ruptcylawinkansascity.com.
The Drywall Doctor, Inc. - A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean! Leadcertified and insured! Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655.
Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover. Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload, and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mikehammermoving@aol.com.
Brick mason - Installation and repair of all types of masonry work — brick, stone, and concrete. 17 years of residential and commercial experience. Small and large jobs accepted. Free quotes in the KC metro area. Call Jim or John at (913) 485-4307.
Real Estate Home for sale - KCK home for sale. 1907 N. 40th St. 1-1/2 story, 3 BR, 2 BA, sunroom. Partially finished basement with rec. room. Close to Christ the King Parish and School. Priced to sell. Lots of storage space. Large rooms. Call Phyllis at (913) 299-4555.
Get a jump on your home repairs! - I specialize in painting, wood rot, decks, fences, windows, doors, siding, stucco, landscaping, drainage issues, and concrete. Fully insured. Now accepting all major credit cards. Call Josh Doherty (913) 709-7230.
Franklin County - Newly remodeled 4 BR home on 130 acres with a six-stall horse barn and much wildlife. All hard-surface road, short distance south of Overland Park. Call Galyardt Realty at (785) 550-0977.
Gardner Painting - Attention to detail — we actually use scrapers. Interior and exterior. WyCo and JoCo areas. Many references. Free same-day estimates. Call Ted at (913) 227-9230.
Merriam home for sale - 10124 W. 59th Terr. Close to St. Joseph Church and School. 3 BR, 2-1/2 BA. Home is in move-in-ready condition. Mature trees and located on a friendly cul-de-sac. For information, call (913) 7350074 or visit the website at: www.merriamhome.net.
Adept Home Improvements Where quality still counts! Basement finishing, Kitchens and baths, Electrical and plumbing, Licensed and insured. (913) 599-7998 Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite, and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee. Exterior painting, drywall projects, wood rot repair, bathroom and kitchen remodels, and tile work - Quality products. 20 years experience. References. Call (913) 206-4524.
Home Improvement Caregiving STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 491-5837 or (913) 579-1835. Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa.
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CNA – Would you like to keep your senior loved one in the comfort of their own home? Compassionate, nurturing, attentive home health care professional provides quality service and personal assistance. Twenty years experience, nonsmoker, available anytime. Excellent references; reasonable rates. Call Rosalyn at (816) 830-7455. Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation to the elderly and disabled in home, assisted living and nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Debbie or Gary. Looking for high quality home care? Whether you’re looking to introduce care for your family or simply looking to improve your current home care quality, we can help. Our unique approach to home care has earned us a 99% client satisfaction rating among the 1,000-plus families we have assisted. We are familyowned and based in Lenexa. Call Benefits of Home - Senior Care at (913) 422-1591 or visit our website at: www.benefitsofhome.com. Retired nurse - With 20-plus years of caregiving experience is seeking to care for an individual and their home on a full-time basis. Live-in position is preferred. I will provide caregiving, meal preparation, housekeeping, laundry, errands, etc. My goal is to keep your loved one in their home. Reasonable rates and excellent references. Call (913) 579-5276.
For Rent For rent - 1 BR, 1 BA apartment in St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee. Near Nieman and Johnson Dr. $520/ month; utilities included. 10911 W. 59th Terr. Nonsmokers only. For a virtual tour, visit the website at: www. shawnee-rentals.com. Call (913) 649-7596. Charming rental - 3 BR, 2-1/2 BA home with a roomy dine-in kitchen, family room with gas fireplace, two-car garage and a full unfinished basement. No lawn mowing; no snow shoveling. 12470 Charlotte, Kansas City, Mo. For information or a tour, call (913) 707-4826 or (913) 485-8442. House for rent - 3 blks from Ascension (OP), 4 BD, 3 full/2 half BA, finished basement, master bedroom, with jacuzzi & sitting room, lawn main., granite, eat-in kitchen, 12842 Wedd; $2000; (913) 451-2322. More info at: https://sites.google.com/site/janesak/home.
Child Care Child Care – Holy Trinity mom has opening for 15-month-old or older, 7:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Call Tracie at (913) 909-7927. CONTINUED ON THE NEXT PAGE
Investors - Why play the stock market? Become a passive real estate investor. If you want to discuss the possibility of investing in real estate that produces positive income with a seasoned investor, call (913) 980-3559.
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entitled “The Mystical Path: John of the Cross,” presented by Benedictine Sister Sheila Carroll, from 9:15 a.m. - 4 p.m. on Sept. 8. The cost is $50. For information or to register, call (913) 360-6151 or visit the website at: www.mountosb.org/sophia. html. Our Lady of Unity Parish will host Unity Fest from 11 a.m. - 10 p.m. on Sept. 8 on the field at Sacred Heart Church, 2646 S. 34th St., Kansas City, Kan. Queen of the Holy Rosary-Wea Parish, Bucyrus, will host its annual auction on Sept. 8, following the 4 p.m. Mass, in the parish hall. For information, visit the website at: www.hrauction.org. Bishop Ward High School will host a fall sports “meet and greet” from 5:30 7 p.m. on Sept. 8 at Breit’s Stein & Deli, 412 N. 5th St., Kansas City, Kan. All the Bishop Ward fall sports head coaches will speak on their upcoming seasons. St. Patrick Parish, 1086 N. 94th St., Kansas City, Kan., will host a Texas Hold ‘em tournament benefit for the Green Club on Sept. 8 at the school cafeteria. The doors open at 6 p.m., and the first deal will be at 6:30 p.m. This is an age 21 and older event, and the suggested, voluntary donation is $50 per person. Food and beverages will be provided. Church of the Nativity, 3800 W. 119th St., Leawood, will host a fall festival after the 4 p.m. Mass on Sept. 8. Proceeds go to the Little Sisters of the Lamb. Individual tickets are: $12 for adults (13 years and older); $7 for children (4-12 years); $40 for families. Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish, 2014 N.W. 46th St., Topeka, will host its Holy Smokin’ Jamboree on Sept. 8-9. Serving on Sunday will begin at 11:30 a.m. The cost is $8 for adults and $4 for children. Michael McGlinn will lead a musical Divine Mercy experience from 6-8 p.m. on Sept. 8 at St. Pius X Parish, 5500 Woodson St., Mission.
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A National Marriage Encounter weekend will be held at Holy Spirit Church, 11300 W. 103rd St., Overland Park, on Sept. 8 - 9. Overnight stay is
Home for sale - Shawnee - 1½ story, 3 BR, 2½ BA, lower level walkout w/daylight, ready to expand living space. 8 yrs. young. Call Ken at (913) 484-6942. Lake of the Ozarks - Roach, Mo. - Little Niangua 94’ lake front, dock, level lot, 3 BR, 2 BA, partial bsmt., private well, private septic, carport. For sale by owner, $249,000. 1886 Big Island Dr. Call (913) 432-1309 or (913) 226-8416.
Roommate Seeking - A mature female with verifiable income to share a 2 BR, 1 BA townhome in Overland Park. Clubhouse and pool on complex. No pets or children; outside smokers only. $525 per month; utilities included. Call Sally at (816) 600-7734 (mobile).
Vacation Branson getaway - Walk-in condo on Pointe Royale Golf Course. Sleeps 6. Close to lakes and entertainment. Furnished, pool, hot tub and tennis courts. Nightly and weekly rates. Discounts available. Call (913) 515-3044.
not required. For information or to register, call Jim Goering at (913) 888-3906 or visit the website at: www.nmekc.org.
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Advice and Aid Pregnancy Centers will offer a volunteer information meeting from 7 - 9 p.m. on Sept. 10 at 11644 W. 75th St., Shawnee. For information or to RSVP, contact Mary Newcomer at (913) 962-0200 or send an email to: volunteer@adviceandaid.com.
11 Rwandan genocide survivor Immaculée Ilibagiza will speak on forgiveness and hope at 7:30 p.m. on Sept. 11 in St. Benedict’s Abbey church, 1020 N. Second St., Atchison. This event is free.
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Sanctuary of Hope, 2601 Ridge Ave., Kansas City, Kan., will offer “Respite, Renewal & Reflection for Caregivers” from 2 - 4 p.m. on Sept. 12. Learn how to ease stress, cope with emotions, and make decisions. There is no cost; a freewill offering will be collected. For information or to register, call (913) 321-4673 or send an email to: julie@sanctuaryofhope.org. The Serra Club of Kansas City, Kan., will host a lunch and presentation at noon on Sept. 12 at the Hilton Garden Inn, 5th and Minnesota Ave. The speaker will be Father Scott Walisch, chaplain at St. James Academy, Lenexa.
13 Sister Bridget Dickason will present “Mother Evangelista Kremmeter:
First Prioress of Mount St. Scholastica,” as part of the Holy Women series, from 1-3 p.m. Sept. 13 at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. To register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the website at: www.keelerwomenscenter.org.
Mountain cabin in Winter Park, Colo. - 2 BR, 1 BA, fully furnished; sleeps four. View of Continental Divide from deck. Close to points of interest and activities. $75/night. Call (913) 642-3027. For pictures, visit the website at: www.tillmancabin.com. Vacation Condo for Rent Marco Island, FL South Seas Club – Gated Community 2 BD, 2 BA, perfect weather Contact Bret at (816) 679-7898
Wanted to Buy Antiques wanted I buy old pocket & wrist watches; sets of silverware; souvenir spoons; advertising signs; coins; and Native American turquoise jewelry, arrowheads & rugs. Call Chris at (913) 593-7507 or (913) 642-8269.
For Sale Residential lifts - Buy/sell/trade. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. Recycled and new equipment. Member of St. Michael the Archangel Parish, Leawood. Call Silver Cross KC at (913) 327-5557. For sale - Two cemetery plots. Oaklawn Cemetery. In Resurrection South, spaces 3 and 4 in lot 34. $2400 for the pair. Call (913) 609-2777.
Entertainment DJ Irishman - Colm Delahunt is available for parties, weddings, graduations, and any other function. Playing all your favorite hits from the Village People to U2. Call (913) 548-6765 or visit the website at: www.djirishman.com.
required and space is limited. To RSVP, call Susan Draftz at (913) 674-6172 or send an email to her at: sdraftz@prolifeamerica. com.
1:30 - 4:30 p.m. are games and activities for all ages, horse-and-buggy rides, a history museum of the parish and live music. Archbishop Naumann will bless the church at 4:30 p.m. A pulled pork dinner will follow Mass.
Christ’s Peace House of Prayer, Easton, will host a contemplative prayer retreat day from 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. on Sept. 15. Instruction will be provided on request. Full- or half-day attendance options are available, with the noon meal included. The cost is $25 per participant. For information, call (913) 773-8255 or send an email to: info@christpeace.com. The Singles Of Nativity dance contest, “So you think you can dance?,” will be held from 7 to 11 p.m. at 119th and Mission, Leawood. Tickets are $10 for SON members and $15 for guests. The categories are East Coast, waltz, disco and ladies team line dance. To enter, send an email with name(s) and preferred dance contest to: dyervision@sbcglobal.net. You may only enter one contest as a couple or team. If you’d like to volunteer and get in free for your service, contact Robert Dyer at: dyervision@sbcglobal.net. St. Matthew Church, 2700 S.E. Virginia Ave., Topeka, will host its annual dinner auction on Sept. 15. Cocktail hour begins at 6:15 p.m.; dinner will be served at 7 p.m.; and the live auction will follow at 8 p.m. The cost is $40 per person; attire is semi-formal. The reservation deadline is Sept. 10. For information or to RSVP, call the parish office at (785) 232- 5012 or send an email to: parishoffice@saintmatthews.org. St. Peter Cathedral Parish, 409 N. 15th St., Kansas City, Kan., will host a fall festival, with a taco dinner and activities, from 5-9 p.m. on Sept. 15. For information, call David and Diane at (913) 342-8878.
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Prairie Star Ranch, Williamsburg, will host Prairie Star Under the Stars for youth groups from 10 a.m. on Sept. 15 until 9:30 a.m. on Sept. 16. There will be eucharistic adoration, sacrament of reconciliation, a campfire, gaga ball tournament, canoes and the power pole. The cost is $5 per person with preregistration; $10 per person at the gate. Preregistration forms are online at: www.archkck.org/psr.
The Archdiocesan Council of Catholic Women (ACCW) will sponsor a pilgrimage to St. John Nepomucene Church in Pilsen on Sept. 15. Spouses, family members, and friends are welcome. The cost of $55 includes: bus service from either Kansas City, Kan., Lawrence, or Topeka; lunch; a presentation; and a tour of the church and grounds. Reservations are
*** Wanted to buy *** Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, prints, sterling, etc. Renee Maderak (913) 631-7179 St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee
Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee.
A memorial liturgy for deceased loved ones will be at 8 a.m. on Sept. 15 at Curé of Ars Parish, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. Afterwards, the bereavement ministry will meet in the Father Burak Room. For information, call (913) 6492026.
Sophia Center, 751 S. 8th St., Atchison, will host “Everywhere A Blessing: A Celtic Spirituality Retreat,” presented by Benedictine Sister Therese Elias, from 7 p.m. on Sept. 14 through 1 p.m. on Sept. 16. The cost is $180. For information or to register, call (913) 3606151 or visit the website at: www.mount osb.org/sophia.html.
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Sacred Heart Parish, Emporia, will celebrate its 100th anniversary of the church building on Sept. 16. From
St. Therese Church, Richmond, will host its annual parish dinner on Sept. 16 from 11 a.m. - 2 p.m. The cost is: $8 for adults; $5 for children ages 4-10; carryout, $9. There will be a raffle and country store. St. Joseph Parish, 306 N. Broadway St., Leavenworth, will host a roast beef dinner and bazaar on Sept. 16. Dinner will be served from 11:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. The cost is: $8 for adults; $5 for children ages 4 to 11; and free for children age 3 and younger. For information, call (913) 682-3953 or visit the website at: www.icsj.org. Prairie Star Ranch, 1124 California Rd., Williamsburg, will offer a family day from 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. on Sept. 16. For costs, registration, liability waiver and other information, go to: www.archkck.org/psr and click on the “Family Day at the Ranch” image.
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The Marian Fathers of the Immaculate Conception will offer a Divine Mercy mission/time of renewal from 7-8 p.m. on Sept. 19 at Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish, 7023 W. 71st St., Overland Park. For information, call Judy Dowd at (913) 362-7893. Magnus MacFarlane-Barrow, the founder of the Scotland-based international relief program Mary’s Meals, will speak about his efforts and host rosaries and reflections at two archdiocesan parishes on Sept. 19. Barrow will speak at the Men of Nativity meeting after the 6:45 a.m. Mass at Church of the Nativity, 3700 W. 119th St., Leawood; and at 7 p.m. at Holy Spirit Parish, 11300 W. 103rd St., Overland Park. For information, call Liz Kelly at (913) 488-9800 or Lorraine Fowler at (913) 6342646.
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The Trinity Threaders of Holy Trinity Parish, Lenexa, are selling tickets for a raffle of a queen-size hand-stitched quilt. Tickets are $1 each or six for $5. To purchase tickets, call Linda Moyer at (913) 541-2665 or Joanne Heide at (913) 780-1862. Tickets will also be available for purchase after Masses, beginning on the weekend of Sept. 22 - 23.
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Sept. 9 TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Is 35: 4-7a; Ps 146: 7-10; Jas 2: 1-5; Mk 7: 31-37 Sept. 10 Monday 1 Cor 5: 1-8; Ps 5: 5-6, 7, 12; Lk 6: 6-11 Sept. 11 Tuesday 1 Cor 6: 1-11; Ps 149: 1-6, 9; Lk 6: 12-19 Sept. 12 The Most Holy Name of Mary 1 Cor 7: 25-31; Ps 45: 11-12, 14-17; Lk 6: 20-26 Sept. 13 John Chrysostom, bishop, doctor of the church 1 Cor 8: 1b-7, 11-13; Ps 139: 1b-3, 13, 14b, 23-24; Lk 6: 27-38 Sept. 14 THE EXALTATION OF THE HOLY CROSS Nm 21: 4b-9; Ps 78: 1-2, 34-38; Phil 2: 6-11; Jn 3: 13-17 Sept. 15 Our Lady of Sorrows 1 Cor 10: 14-22; Ps 116: 12-13, 17-18; Jn 19: 25-27
SIMPLY STEWARDSHIP
Hey, better late than never
here’s one organization that I’ve wanted to join for years, but just haven’t gotten around to it. In most groups, this delay might be considered a handicap. In this club, however, it would be extolled as a virtue. One day soon, I intend to search online and see if this group even exists anymore. Better late than never, right, especially since this organization — the Procrastinators’ Club of America — is the proud sponsor of September’s “Be Late for Something Day.” When the subject of lateness comes up around the parish, I’m sure to hear the following: “Hey, Father, remember that time you were late for Mass?” I suppose I should be thankful that it’s referred to as “that time” and not “all those times.” In fact, I am late sometimes for weekend Masses because I hear confessions beforehand and now and then folks come in at the last minute and delay me from starting Mass. But that’s not what people are talking about. “That time” refers to a Father’s Day sometime between 2005 and 2009. I’d gotten up in plenty of time for 8 a.m. Mass and had even read a little of the newspaper and had a cup of coffee. But then I did something dumb. Because I had about a half-hour before the start of confessions, I decided to stretch out on my bed for a few minutes to rest my eyes. I was so intent on the resting that I didn’t think to set an alarm. I awoke to the sound of a ringing phone. Who would be calling me so early in the morning? Morning? Immediately alert, I peeked at the clock — 8:08. I uttered a little prayer, “Oh, please, Lord, let it be Saturday morning.” (I don’t have a morning Mass on Saturdays.) I grabbed the phone and heard the parish secretary saying, “Father, did you oversleep? Are you OK? We’re all here waiting for you to say Mass.” I mumbled a quick, “On my
way!” It’s amazing how fast you can move when you’re late! I searched for a matching pair of shoes, laced them up in record time, ran a comb through my hair and was tucking my shirt in as I locked the front door. I looked up to see a parishioner pulling into my driveway to check on me. I learned later he was relieved to see me alive! At the church, I cut through the grass to get inside quickly. As I entered, the whole congregation burst into applause. I blushed and then almost fell as my shoes, wet from the dewy grass, gave way on the linoleum. When I finally began the Mass, I was so flustered that it took me until the Creed to finally bring my mind into sync with my body. It’s a day that I’ll never forget . . . and apparently no one at the parish will either. So, if you intend to celebrate “Be Late for Something Day,” I’d recommend not doing it at church, especially if you’re the celebrant. That “late Sunday” so unnerved me that I’ve not repeated it. In fact, it’s made me appreciate the value of arriving early to church or to appointments: You’re much less stressed, especially by slow traffic or red lights; you get a chance to compose yourself and breathe deeply; and you’re better prepared all-around. Although lateness is something to be worked on and remedied, I also think that there’s a place in life for the “better late than never.” We’re
often so bombarded each day with the “must do’s” that the “would like to do’s” sometimes get shuttled aside. Below are some situations where, even though sentiments may be late, it’s much better than doing nothing at all: • Thank-you notes: Yes, a person should be thanked in as timely a fashion as possible, but sometimes — especially with the holidays, for example — other things intrude. It’s OK. I’m sure that Emily Post will forgive you, as will the giver of the gift, no matter when a thank you comes . . . as long as it’s heartfelt. • Expressions of sympathy: Sometimes you may not find out about the death of someone until well after the funeral. Sending a note to the family at any time will be greatly appreciated. People don’t just grieve for a few days or weeks; your note will be a welcome comfort even months after the funeral. • Apologies: Again, it’s best to say you’re sorry about an offense as soon as possible, but sometimes immaturity, embarrassment, or still-too-raw emotions may get in the way in the immediate aftermath. It may even take years. A heartwarming story, written by Tom Hallman Jr. in The Oregonian, tells of a student who apologized to a teacher 39 years later. (For the full story, Google “man apologizes to teacher.”) • Words of appreciation: Most of us are fortunate enough to have many wonderful people in our lives. Sadly, we often keep that appreciation to ourselves. I don’t know of anyone who doesn’t treasure — anytime — a good word or two sent their way, whether in person, online or by phone. This weekend, get around to one of those “better late than never” projects. You’ll actually be putting “Be Late for Something Day” into practice. Why? Because it was supposed to be celebrated on Sept. 5. So, congratulations on a lesson well learned!
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Find your passion in your faith
hen I married my husband, I had no idea how much he enjoyed riding motorcycles. I soon found out. Not only did he like riding motorcycles, I could tell that he “loved” everything about them. He would quiz me to the point of annoying me: “What kind of bike is that?” “A Fat Boy?” I would guess. “A Dyna?” “A Softail?” Even though they all looked the same to me, eventually I became familiar with subtle features that distinguished each unique bike. It took repetition, frequent questions, and immersion in the culture. Multiple motorcycle magazines arrived in our mailbox every month. Group rides were plotted on the
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the community and their livestock to drink” (Nm 20: 11). The prophet is promising that God will once again provide water for Israel, but this time in even greater abundance. The huge amount of water will make the desert blossom and come to life. This new miracle will far surpass the wonders of the former. The earlier miracle benefited only Israel, as they passed through the desert. This new miracle will benefit the entire desert, transforming it into an oasis. The prophet is addressing an Israel held in captivity in Babylon, just as their ancestors had been held in captivity in Egypt. They look forward to returning to the promised land, just
as the Israelites of old had traveled to the promised land centuries earlier. Once again, the journey will take them through the parched desert. But God will provide water. We also have hopes that God will provide water. It is a powerful image of God’s grace, the life that we receive in the sacrament of baptism. Water stands for the ability of God’s grace to wash away sin, to quench our thirst for the Spirit. But water is not only a striking image of a spiritual reality, it is also a very real physical need. That need can compel us to turn to God. It can force us to recognize our dependence upon God. It can call us to once again acclaim God as our savior, to find in God all our hope: “Here is your God, he comes with vindication; with divine recompense he comes to save you.” Father Mike Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.
kitchen calendar and maps. Soon I found myself garbed in leather and dorag, meeting new friends while putting on rain gear and shivering on the side of a highway in the middle of nowhere. Such is the life when someone you know is passionate about something. When they “love” it. Fishing. Camping. Music. Sports. Fitness. Art. Sewing. Stamp collecting. People dig deeply into esoteric subject matter when they love it. They learn what they love. They live what they learn. The same can be said of the holy
Bible. Or the Catechism of the Catholic Church. In a few days, every parishioner in our archdiocese will be invited to participate more fully in our beautiful Catholic faith in a program funded by generous donors in conjunction with the Holy Father’s Year of Faith that begins on Oct. 11. I am excited to witness the outpouring of support and enthusiastic encouragement from every priest and religious leader for this effort. The program, called “Faith: Love It, Learn It, Live It,” will be introduced by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann in a beautiful testimonial video at Masses throughout our archdiocese on Sept. 15 and 16. Like my husband’s experience with motorcycles, when we “love” something, we can’t get enough of it. What are you passionate about? Where your mind is, your heart is also. God’s grace has opened my heart
to the love of Jesus Christ. Today, I am more “in love” with our beautiful mother, the church, than ever before in my life. The mysteries and beauty that continue to unfold before me, the forgiveness and mercy poured out on me, are gifts that fill my heart with joy. I hope that you feel the same way. If you don’t, I hope that the experience this year will open your heart to God’s grace. You will be invited to join the many ways we live and learn our faith in our parishes and archdiocese. I hope and pray that you will accept the invitation. I can’t help but think of the words of a devoted Harley rider: “If I have to explain it, you wouldn’t understand.” The simple, inexplicable words of a Christian are: “I believe.” Lesle Knop is the executive director of the archdiocesan office of stewardship and development. You can email her at: lknop@archkck.org.
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y oldest child is a freshman at Benedictine College in Atchison this fall. I can no longer control her thoughts and actions. First Generation Encounter with Jesus is the best experience we can offer children. Golf and soccer can be pretty boring to talk about or watch unless you are a golfer or a soccer player. Our Catholic faith can be much the same. Watching Mass, listening to prayers and learning facts and beliefs about our faith can be really uninspiring . . . unless we know Jesus. Pope John Paul II said that Mary is the first disciple of Christ. We are to be
Drought confronts us with our dependence on God
rought has stricken much of the United States this past summer. The crops have withered away for lack of rain. Dry conditions have led to forest fires and grass fires, causing much devastation. The parched earth cries out for water. The words of Sunday’s first reading — Is 35:4-7a — speak to our desperate need. “Streams will burst forth in the desert, and rivers in the steppe. The burning sands will become TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY pools, and IN ORDINARY TIME the thirsty Is 35: 4-7a ground, springs of water.” Yes, we can relate to that. In our reading, the prophet appears to be reminding Israel of how God provided water for Israel centuries earlier, when they were traveling through the desert after having escaped from captivity in Egypt. God instructed Moses to strike the rock with his staff: “Moses struck the rock twice with his staff and water gushed out in abundance for
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like her “above all else because no one has been ‘taught by God’ to such depth. She was ‘both mother and disciple.’” Jesus died on the cross so that we can be in intimate relationship with him — not only in heaven, but today, right now, in our brokenness. He is calling out to each of us, as his children. In stillness, we can hear his voice and see his face. People tell me all the time that until they sat in eucharistic adoration, listened to God in meaningful quiet
prayer, contemplated the Scriptures or attended a powerful retreat, like Christ Renews His Parish or Camp Tekakwitha, they were just going through the motions. In adoration and Mass, we come face to face with God. But do we recognize him and know him? As adults, it is tough to let our guard down, even to our loving heavenly Father. Children do not bring the same resistance to God. Jesus once said: “Let the children come to me, and do not prevent them; for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these” (Mt 19:14). Pope John Paul II exhorted parents, godparents, grandparents and parish catechetical leaders: “There is one teacher: Jesus Christ.” We are to lead our children to him. He is alive. He likes it when we study him, but he loves it when we talk to him. He actively leads those who seek him.
Show children the beauty of nature, sit in sacred places, allow quiet to exist and teach them to ask God to speak to them about how much he loves them and what they are called to do. Let the voice of God that spoke to all of the great heroes of the Bible speak to them through all of the senses that he created in us. God is faithful; he will not disappoint. Teach your children to talk to God in their words. They will leave for college someday to make their own decision. Prayerfully, they will leave with their childhood roommate, Jesus Christ, at their side. Deacon Dana Nearmyer is the lead consultant for the archdiocesan office of evangelization and Catholic formation of youth.
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ear friends of Catholic schools,
“Faith: Love It, Learn It, Live It.” I am so pleased that Catholic schools in the archdiocese will be participating in the upcoming faith initiative of the archdiocese. It is very gratifying to see the schools join together and, among other activities, use the same themes — Love It, Learn It, Live It — to proclaim our core mission and purpose. We are off to a great start this school year! Here are some highlights: • While we do not have the final numbers yet, it appears that enrollment is good, with many schools reporting an increase in students. • We are continuing the robust faith formation program for Catholic school teachers in the archdiocese. Teachers evaluate this program each year, and it
consistently receives high praise from them. • Students are benefiting from the professional development opportunities provided to teachers, as teachers enhance classroom instruction by incorporating research-based best practices. • School leaders are directing the creation of strategic and development plans that will help sustain our Catholic schools into the future. • School families are receiving tuition assistance in record numbers so
that Catholic schools can remain accessible to them. We have been blessed by the Holy Spirit’s guidance so that we do, in fact, have schools that are joyfully Catholic, diligently achieving, intentionally self-giving, providently managed, and forwardly thinking. As uplifted as I am by all of this, though, what gave me the greatest cause for joy was an email I received on the first day of school at one of our schools. Attached to the email was a photograph of two kindergartners wearing their brand new plaid jumpers. These two little girls were smiling from ear to ear. As I looked at the picture, I found myself marveling at how a plaid jumper (or a white polo shirt and khaki pants) can make a five-year-old appear so grown up almost overnight. Because I am writing this on the feast of St. Bartholomew, the apostle,
I am reminded of my own Catholic elementary school experience at St. Bartholomew School in Pittsburgh. What strikes me, though, is that all of my school memories are related to our faith — praying the rosary, preparing to receive the sacraments, participating in the celebration of the Eucharist, praying the Stations of the Cross, adoration and benediction of the Blessed Sacrament. Apparently I learned to read, write, and calculate, but what I remember most is experiencing Jesus Christ and the Blessed Mother. That is what we want for all students in Catholic schools. I especially want it for those two kindergartners whose picture I was emailed — my granddaughters! ¡Vaya con Dios! Kathy O’Hara is the superintendent of archdiocesan schools.
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THE LEAVEN • SEPTEMBER 7, 2012
Catching up
Breakfast
Meeting in the cafeteria before the first bell, first-graders Diego Melgoza (left) and Levi Horton get caught up after a summer apart.
With the help of his dad Jessie, preschooler Isaiah Dominguez selects cereal for his breakfast.
BACK TO SCHOOL Holy Name School in Kansas City, Kan., kicked off its school year on Aug. 22 PHOTOS BY LORI WOOD HABIGER
Proper hygiene
Pre-kindergartner boys listen carefully as teacher Angelina Thomas teaches them how to properly wash their hands.
That’s me
Classroom volunteer Sharon Staab helps kindergartner David Navarro move his name behind the crayon box on the classroom’s SMART Board.
Lots of lockers
Sixth-grader Santos Ruiz looks for his locker before the first class of the day.
Picture perfect
Mom Lori Oswald gets one last picture of her kindergartner, Jayden, before she accompanies him into the basement lunchroom of Holy Name School, where students and teachers gather to await the beginning of their first school day.