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LONG TIME COMING

Paola parish completes new multi-use parish hall

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Father Peter O’Sullivan stands with a group of his parishioners in the parish’s new multi-use parish hall. The interior consists of a multi-purpose room with storage and an adjacent warming kitchen, a suite of offices for the pastor and staff, a smaller meeting room, bathrooms and storage.

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AOLA — It’s been an “off again, on again” project for decades, but Holy Trinity Parish here has finally finished its marathon effort to build a new multi-use parish hall and office building.

“It’s been a want of this parish for the past 20 years,” said Father Pete O’Sullivan, pastor for the past five years. “It was really needed.”

For many years Holy Trinity has used the church basement or, when available, the school cafeteria, for events and funeral dinners — neither ideal setups.

The parish office was in an old house and the rectory garage was used for

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THEY BUILT A REALLY NICE FACILITY. IT’S PERFECT FOR THEM. IT GIVES THEM THE FLEXIBILITY THEY NEED AS TIME GOES ON, AND IT GIVES THEM THE BREATHING ROOM THEY’VE NEVER HAD IN A REALLY NICE SPACE. DAN HIMMELBERG DIRECTOR OF THE ARCHDIOCESAN OFFICE OF REAL ESTATE AND CONSTRUCTION

storage. The parish needed meeting rooms and a place that grade school children could use for indoor activities.

“Plus, Paola is growing,” said Father O’Sullivan. “Johnson County is slowly and surely moving down here.”

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The parish consists of more than 400 families.

Parishioners saved and contributed, and a major donor boosted the effort over the finish line. Construction of the $1.5 million building began in February

and was completed in mid-August. The general contractor was Legacy Contractors of Paola, and the architect was Richard Zingre of Zingre & Associates of Fort Scott.

“The parishioners are ecstatic that it’s come to completion,” said Father O’Sullivan.

The one-story building, approximately 10,000 square feet in size, is attached to the west side of the school.

The exterior is a mix of red brick and metal siding.

The interior consists of a multi-purpose room with storage and an adjacent warming kitchen, a suite of offices for the pastor and staff, a smaller meeting room, bathrooms and storage. The multi-purpose room can accommodate >> See “NEW” on page 4

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Maybe God is keeping her here not for her, but for me

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oward the end of June, I moved my mother from Mother of Good Counsel Home in St. Louis to Villa St. Francis Catholic Care Center in Olathe.

I will forever be grateful to the Franciscan Sisters of the Martyr St. George for the excellent care Mom received at Mother of Good Counsel. My grandmother spent her final years at Mother of Good Counsel, where my mother visited her daily.

After my grandmother died, my mom volunteered at Mother of Good Counsel for several years. Mom spent several stints of post-surgery rehabilitation at Mother of Good Counsel before becoming a more permanent resident there almost two years ago.

The care at Mother of Good Counsel was exceptional. At the time she left Mother of Good Counsel, not a single resident had tested positive for COVID-19.

Nevertheless, age was catching up with Mom. She was becoming less able to stand, much less, walk. The isolation from family and friends, caused by the COVID-19 prevention protocols for skilled nursing centers, also took its toll.

Before moving Mom to Kansas, her doctor in St. Louis admitted her to the hospital to run a series of tests to determine

LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN if there was anything medically that could improve her physical condition. At the end of a battery of tests, the medical conclusion was that she is: 1) 97 years old; 2) her body is wearing down; and 3) she is depressed because of the isolation from loved ones. Her doctor recommended that she be evaluated for hospice care once she was admitted to Villa St. Francis.

Mom has been a resident at Villa St. Francis for three months. The care she is receiving there is amazing. While continuing as a resident at Villa St. Francis, Mom has also qualified to receive care from Catholic Community Hospice. I have been edified by the exceptional, additional care Mom receives through the dedicated staff of Catholic Community Hospice.

It has been gratifying for me as a son of

a patient to experience the high quality and loving care that my mother is receiving from the exceptional staff of both Villa St. Francis and Catholic Community Hospice.

I am both grateful and proud of the dedicated and very competent care my mother is receiving from these archdiocesan ministries.

I have the greatest sympathy for our elected leaders and public health officials during this COVID19 epidemic. With much unknown about the transmission and effective therapies for this virus, our state and county leaders have had to make difficult decisions to protect the health of Kansans.

We all looked on with horror at some of the terrible mistakes made in New York with the care of those in skilled nursing centers. At the same time, I think it is a mistake to focus all of our attention on the physical health of the elderly, while completely ignoring the

spiritual, psychological and emotional needs of individuals at a time of life when they are least equipped to be isolated from friends, family and spiritual resources.

No one wants a repeat of New York in Kansas. The huge mistake in New York was forcing skilled nursing centers to admit individuals who had tested positive for COVID-19. Hopefully, we have learned from that tragic error.

However, we need to figure out safe ways to allow residents of skilled nursing centers to receive emotional and spiritual support from a limited number of family members, who take prudent precautions not to carry the virus into nursing homes.

We also have to come to the realization that it is impossible to eliminate all risks and that our current protocols create their own set of risks. It is not wise or compassionate to force our elderly to spend their last days in this world in isolation from loved ones. Window visits and phone calls help some, but our elderly need and deserve more human contact with at least a limited number of family.

My mother has outlived all of her contemporaries. She is a great woman of faith, but nevertheless wonders why she is still on this side of heaven.

Mom would rather

Louise Naumann be with Jesus, Mary, St. Joseph, St. Rose Philippine Duchesne, all the saints, my dad, her sister, her parents, her cousins and her friends.

I believe Our Lord is keeping her here not for any needed growth on her part.

Instead, I think Mom is still with us because of my need to grow in virtue. After all my mother has given to me for the past 97 years, it is a privilege to accompany her during these days.

I attempt every day in our conversations to communicate to her what an extraordinary mother she is.

I remind her how she was my first and best teacher of the Christian faith.

Whatever good that I and my brother are able to do in this world is the fruit of the heroic love of our mother. I remind Mom of all the teachers she mentored, all the students she inspired and all the individuals that she brought back to the faith through her ministry with the

Legion of Mary.

During her almost 20 years as a resident at an independent living apartment building for seniors, many of her neighbors died.

My mom quipped: “It is like living on death row, though it is a very nice death row.”

When I moved her to Mother of Good Counsel, I commented that she had survived “death row.” Her response was: “Yes, but I am moving to another death row from which there is no escaping!”

My hope is that however many more days Mom has in this world, that in some small ways I can return a portion of the amazing love she provided to me and so many others.

Since coming to Villa St. Francis, Mom has become more alert, more engaged and more at peace with her current circumstance.

I am confident that much of that is due to the army of people who are praying for her. If you are able, please occasionally offer a prayer for my mother (Louise Naumann).

I encourage all of us to do whatever we can to give support, encouragement and love to our elderly. We owe so much to those who have given us life and spent their lives caring for us. What a grace and privilege to accompany and support these heroes during their last years this side of heaven!

Archbishop to discuss COVID vaccine at Benedictine College

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TCHISON — Benedictine College here will welcome Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann, chairman of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops Committee on Pro-Life Activities, for a special presentation on “The COVID-19 Vaccine: A Discussion of the Ethical Considerations” at 6:30 p.m. on Sept. 29 in O’Malley-McAllister Auditorium.

Due to continuing COVID-19 mitigation protocols, there will be very limited seating in the auditorium. However, the event will be streamed on the Benedictine College Facebook page: www.facebook.com/benedictineks.

The event, sponsored by the Ravens Respect Life student group and the office of the president, will also feature Pilar Calva, a medical doctor specializing in human genetics and a fellow of the Culture of Life Foundation; and Stacy Trasancos, Ph.D., an internationally recognized author, speaker and educator on the topic of theology and science.

Along with the archbishop, the panelists will discuss the ethical considerations regarding some of the research practices behind the development of a COVID-19 vaccine.

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ALONE ON A HILL

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Left: Heinen Custom Operations, a general contractor located in Valley Falls, works on mounting the old steeple of St. Bernard Church in Wamego on a concrete base in 2018.

Below: An antique steeple from the turn of the last century now sits atop a hill just off K-4 highway, near Valley Falls. The steeple was moved there by a family who had an interest in preserving the structure and putting it on display.

Old St. Bernard steeple finds hilltop home near Valley Falls

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By Mike Swan Special to The Leaven

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ALLEY FALLS — At the top of a hill just off K-4 highway, about four miles south of here, sits a lone church steeple mounted to a concrete block.

And sometimes, passersby can see its striking copper-colored steel shingles glowing in the sun.

The project was the brainchild of the family members of Heinen Custom Operations, a general contractor located in Valley Falls. Dan Heinen and sons Doug and Nathan were working in Wamego in 2017, assisting in the construction of a new Catholic church there, when they stumbled upon the idea to preserve the old steeple of St. Bernard Church — if they could save it from the wrecking ball.

Dan loves the craftsmanship in old church steeples, and this one was from the turn of the last century.

“I have a sense of awe about how high up they were built with the limited equipment they had,” he said. “They did not have the architects and engineers like today. They had to hold up 100 feet in the air. This was over 100 years ago, and they are still standing.’

Some steeples were built in the late 1800s through the early 1900s, Dan said, and have a lot of the same designs and styles throughout northeast Kansas.

The Heinens had the idea to move the St. Bernard steeple to its current hilltop spot, on land Heinen owns just outside Valley Falls.

But it almost didn’t happen.

“We stood it on the ground [in Wamego] and braced it all off, then laid it down,” Dan said. “The bottom was in stone and there was no framework.

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We braced the top with twoby-sixes, mainly.”

His sons, who do a lot of commercial work, have big

trucks that can haul items like steeples of that size.

But when they got it to the ground in Wamego, the President Most Rev. Joseph F. Naumann

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50-foot-tall steeple nearly collapsed.

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crew got it done,” Dan said.

They then strengthened the structure and braced it for travel.

Now, since 2018, it sits on a concrete base at the top of the hill off K-4 highway. That base includes stones from the original church.

A sign has been placed near the structure, just off the road, with an article by the Valley Falls Vindicator, the local newspaper, about the Heinens’ project. In that article, Dan said that whenever he gets permission, he likes to go up in church steeples to see how they are constructed. The article also said there are 72 anchors at the base of the steeple.

The roadside sign, a 4-H project for last year’s Jefferson County Fair, was assembled by two of Nathan Heinen’s children, Benton and Paisleigh.

Workers on the steeple project also included Heinen’s grandson Jarett Wildeman.

A small chapel sits at the base of the steeple. Other notable touches include a 19th-century window from a church in Topeka and two deacon pews.

Dan said his family had motivation to complete the project and then it just took off. By using their own equipment, financing, land, know-how and labor in their spare time, they put together an inspiring display.

The site is designed as a place for people to pull off the road, read the sign and potentially follow a path up to the base. By taking 300 or so steps, visitors can gather some inspiration and enjoy a view of the beautiful countryside.

“It’s a good place to meditate,” Dan said.

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What gifts has God given you with which to serve him?

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Called and Gifted workshops can be done online or in person. The workshops are designed to help people discern how God is calling them to use their unique gifts.

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Have you ever wondered if God is calling you to a work of love that only you can do, with God-given gifts for that unique purpose?

Wouldn’t you like to find out?

Now you can, thanks to a partnership that began in August between the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas and the Catherine of Siena Institute in Colorado Springs.

The institute is offering its Called and Gifted discernment process to anyone in the archdiocese for a discounted price.

The process can be done as individual self-study online, or through in-person workshops at parishes and with small groups. The parish option also offers online and telephone interaction.

The discernment process is being offered through the archdiocesan office of adult evangelization as part of the archdiocesan Enflame Our Hearts, Homes and Communities initiative, which was launched in October 2019.

“We would like as many people as possible to have access to formation that can teach them how to discern God’s will in their lives and God’s unique spiritual gifts,” said Kimberly Zubillaga, consultant for evangelization.

Many Catholics in the archdiocese have gone through the Called and Gifted process, said Zubillaga. In fact, several were beginning or planning to begin the process — before the partnership was established — when the COVID-19 pandemic forced lock downs, and subsequent cancellations this spring.

It was because of the pandemic that the Catherine of Siena Institute modified their program so individuals could participate using, in whole or in part, video conferencing and the telephone.

The Called and Gifted discernment process has three steps, which can be completed in two months.

The first step is a daylong workshop consisting of talks and a spiritual gifts inventory. With the modified approach, the workshop and inventory can be done online or with parish

WE DECIDED TO DO IT BECAUSE THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DON’T KNOW WHAT THEIR GIFTS AND TALENTS ARE. HELPING THEM DISCERN WHAT THOSE ARE CAN HELP THEM LIVE THEIR LIVES TO THEIR FULLEST POTENTIAL. LARISSA SMITH DIRECTOR OF ADULT FORMATION AND EVANGELIZATION AT PRINCE OF PEACE PARISH, OLATHE sponsorship at an in-person workshop.

The second step is individual interviews examining the inventory. This can be done in person, or by telephone or video conferencing with a trained interviewer.

The third step is discernment in depth with a small group. This, too, can be done in person, by telephone or

video conferencing.

Seventeen people attended the Called and Gifted workshop on Sept.

12 at Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe.

“We decided to do it because there are a lot of people out there who don’t know what their gifts and talents are,” said Larissa Smith, parish director of adult formation and evangelization.

“Helping them discern what those are can help them live their lives to their fullest potential.”

The workshop portion was done in person, but participants could complete the three-part process using the telephone or by online video conferencing.

Sacred Heart Parish in Shawnee will conduct a Called and Gifted process for parish staff this fall and another one for parishioners in the first quarter of next year.

“We think it will be an extraordinary benefit for parishes across the archdiocese, and we are very grateful for this gift,” said Kathleen Whalen, director of ministry at the parish.

For information about the Called and Gifted discernment process, contact the archdiocesan office of evangelization by calling (913) 647-0373, or by email at: jhaganey@archkck.org.

New hall gives Holy Trinity “the flexibility they need” >> Continued from page 1 nearly 300 people for dinners.

One interesting feature is a storage room that is only accessible from the outside. It will contain freezers, refrigerators and shelving. On the outside it has a landing raised 30 inches to facilitate loading.

This pantry, with 24-hour access, will be used by parishioners who volunteer once a month at the St. Mary’s Food Kitchen/Hot Lunch Services, Inc., in Kansas City, Kansas.

Part of the project was a new parking lot with 11 new spaces, four of them dedicated to handicapped accessibility.

The parking lot is between the building and the church.

One of the great challenges facing all parishes that have started building projects this year has been the COVID-19 pandemic. In some cases, the work has been slowed or delayed. Paola, however, got lucky.

“I think they had impeccable timing

in that they raised all their funds and got up and running before the start of the year,” said Dan Himmelberg, director of the archdiocesan office of real estate and construction. “They also used a local contractor and architect . . . they were self-contained in Paola. And they were careful and wore masks. They got a good start on everything.”

Additionally, all the materials were ordered before the pandemic hit, which caused shortages and shipping problems for many others.

Himmelberg, whose role was to provide advice and oversight, praised the parish on a job well done.

“They did a great job,” said Himmelberg. “They built a really nice facility.

It’s perfect for them. It gives them the flexibility they need as time goes on, and it gives them the breathing room they’ve never had in a really nice space.”

No date has been set for a dedication and blessing, said Father O’Sullivan.

That will likely happen post-pandemic.

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Father Pete O’ Sullivan and parishioners show off the new kitchen in the multi-use parish hall.

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Archbishop calls for building a culture of life by solidarity

or World Day of Migrants and Refugees, Archbishop Jospeh F. Naumann is calling for solidarity with those society might prefer to ignore, even as the pandemic isolates.

The following pastoral letter, in addition to being published here, has been translated into several languages and sent to the Burmese, Korean, African and Hispanic Catholic communities in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas.

Archbishop Naumann’s message for World Day of Migrants and Refugees To the faithful of the church of northeast Kansas, our brothers and sisters who have come from other nations, and all people of good will.

As is our custom, we had planned to celebrate the 106th World Day of Migrants and Refuges with the whole church on Sept. 27 with a special Mass that brought our local migrant and refugee Catholic communities together. Out of caution for those with health issues making them vulnerable to COVID-19, we have chosen not to gather this year in person.

I write this letter to all Catholics as a reminder of our solidarity in the midst of our isolation. At the beginning of this pandemic, I observed that the precautions we take help to build a culture of life, because all of us endure inconveniences and make sacrifices to protect the most vulnerable in our community. This is a sign of hope for a culture that too often turns a blind eye to the endangered lives of the unwanted; from the unborn life inside the womb to the stranger from afar.

As Catholics, we uphold the dignity of all human life. This calls us to wel-

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A Venezuelan migrant child wearing a protective mask is seen at a makeshift camp in Bogota, Colombia on June 8. come the stranger. Pope Francis teaches with this year’s theme of the World Day of Migrants and Refugees, “Forced like Jesus Christ to Flee,” that we should give to migrants and refugees the same care we would to our Lord and his Holy Family. It is through charity that we make Jesus’s love visible and his healing of this broken world possible.

While we welcome and celebrate the migrants and the refugees who seek to be our neighbors, we also acknowledge their suffering and desire

to accompany them with compassion.

Many have been forced to flee their homes because their economic livelihood and their lives were threatened.

Immigrants and refugees are a blessing to our country.

It is our responsibility as American Catholics to work for a world where the human dignity of each person is valued and protected. As Jesus teaches us in the Gospel of Matthew: “Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.”

Capuchin event goes online for the first time

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — For 26 years the only way that friends of the Capuchin Franciscan friars could participate in the annual Brown Robe Benefit was to go to Denver.

And the friars no doubt have many friends here in the archdiocese. The Capuchin Franciscan Friars have ministered in Kansas for more than 140 years and still staff St. John the Evangelist Parish in Lawrence and the Haskell Indian Nations University Catholic Campus Center there.

This year, however, anyone with internet connectivity can participate in this event, the biggest and most important fundraiser of the year for the Capuchins. That’s because the COVID-19 pandemic led the Capuchins to convert the local event into a worldwide, live, virtual event.

The 27th Annual Brown Robe Benefit: The Timeless Call, will be held on Oct. 10; it starts at 7 p.m.

“The Brown Robe is an annual fundraising event . . . created in the vein of wanting to increase awareness about the work of the Capuchins, but also to raise funds to sustain their lives and their ministries,” said Gina Francis, director of marketing and special events for the order.

One of the great needs the Capu-

chins are facing now is a happy one.

They need to support 18 men in formation — a healthy number at a time when many religious orders struggle to attract vocations.

“This is a great joy that we have young men coming to us,” said Father Blaine Burkey, OFM Cap., who is assisting Francis.

“God is sending them to us, and that’s the whole story of the Franciscan order. St. Francis in his last years wrote: ‘and the Lord gave me brothers.’ He wasn’t asking for them, but God gave them to him in great numbers.

“It’s a great hope for us, but it’s a long road [of formation] . . . This particular year we’re very happy because we’ve had two men ordained to the priesthood. At the same time, we’ve had one ordained a deacon, two make a solemn profession and we have a large number in the novitiate and postulancy. They’re all very fine men.”

This year’s Brown Robe event offers some perennial favorites with a virtual twist — like the silent and live auction.

The online silent auction will begin at noon on Oct. 5 and will close at 9:30 p.m. CDT on Oct. 10. To participate in both auctions or to learn about the pre-event raffle, go to the event website (see below).

There will also be a pre-event “Road to RoAM Raffle, with tickets going on sale Sept. 25. The winner will

be drawn on Oct. 10. For the raffle, go to: RoadtoRoAMRaffle.com There will be new things this year, too.

The event will include guest appearances by Father Raniero Cantalamessa, OFM Cap, preacher to the papal household; Brother Andrew Corriente, OFM Cap., winner of the 2020 Great American Baking Show; Cardinal Sean O’Malley, OFM, Cap., cardinal archbishop of Boston; and Kim Christiansen, Denver area TV news anchor.

There will be two videos. The first video will show the ways the Capuchins respond to the needs of the poor in Kansas, Colorado and Texas.

The second video will show how the Capuchins met the needs of those affected by the COVID-19 virus and the increase in vocations to the order.

After the second video there will be an appeal for donations and a few words from Brother Mark Schenk, the provincial of the Province of St. Conrad.

The evening will conclude with the friars singing “The Ultima” in four languages.

For information on hosting watch parties to win a prize, go to facebook. com/CapuchinFriars or contact them by email at: events@capuchins.org.

The virtual Brown Robe Benefit is free and can be accessed by going to the event website at BrownRobe.com, or to brownrobe2020.hosted.events.

As disciples of Jesus, we work to build up the culture of life by defending the vulnerable. We proclaim the truths of the Gospel that enlighten our civic engagement to make the world better. And so I join Pope Francis in calling upon all who read this message to work to build a culture of life that: “welcomes, protects, promotes and integrates” persons who are displaced, so we all may someday hear our Lord say, “I was a stranger and you welcomed me.”

Announcements Father John Riley, chancellor, announces the following appointments

by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann: Father Bruce Ansems, to pastor of Immaculate Conception Parish, Louisburg, effective Sept. 1, and continuing as Adjutant Judicial Vicar and principal Master of Ceremonies.

Father Joseph DeGuzman, FSSP, from chaplain of the Latin Mass community of St. Philippine Duchesne, Mission Woods, to pastor of St. Rose Philippine Duchesne Parish, Mission Woods, effective August 24.

40 Days of Life begins

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VERLAND PARK — The 40 Days for Life worldwide prayer vigil begins Sept. 23 and ends Nov. 1 this year. More than 500 cities across the world will unite in prayer and fasting for the ending of abortion throughout this time.

The kickoff event here in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas took place Sept. 23 on the sidewalk outside the Center for Women’s Health abortion facility in Overland Park.

Debra Niesen, lead consultant for pro-life ministries at the archdiocese, and Father Al Rockers, senior associate at Church of the Nativity in Leawood were the speakers at the rally.

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Families aren’t perfect, they’re joyful

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — First, the bad news. Your family isn’t perfect. The good news, however, is that your family can be joyful.

The archdiocesan office of marriage and family life has begun the Enflame Our Homes initiative to help families grow in the love of God together and, in the process, become more joyful.

“It can feel like that the last thing people can think about during a pandemic and the stress of regular, daily life is being a joyful family,” said Libby DuPont, consultant for the archdiocesan marriage and family life office.

“We want families to recognize that there is joy there every day if we just look for it, and we can invite more joy — more of the presence of God — into our homes in small, simple ways.”

The Enflame Our Homes initiative is a follow-up to the archdiocesan-wide Enflame Our Hearts, Homes and Communities convocation in October 2019, that drew Catholics from throughout the archdiocese to Overland Park. This program began on Sept. 1 and will continue for three years.

Three great things about this initiative

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The archdiocesan office of marriage and family life has begun the Enflame Our Homes initiative to help families grow in the love of God together. Each month has a theme that might include things like reading Scripture or a family rosary. are first, its small and attainable goals; second, its simplicity; and third, its flexible options. There’s nothing offered

by Enflame Our Homes that any family couldn’t do.

Each month has a theme. The theme for September is “Joyful families are intentional.” The one-page resource for each month offers family discussion topics and activities that can help families participate in “small, attainable goals” that set them up for success.

For September, the activities include praying a family rosary or holding a family Scripture reading, blessing the

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kids before school and at bedtime, assigning chores in pairs and scheduling a family night.

Emily and Jim Donohue, members of Holy Spirit Parish in Overland Park, learned about the initiative and discussed it with their four children during a family campout.

The Donohues began to participate as soon as they got home.

“We create dinner time around our kids’ schedules,” said Emily. “Partially, that’s the way my husband and I grew up, and we want to recreate that for our kids.

We intentionally make homemade meals

and have the kids set the table and do the dishes.”

During the dinner they read from “Jesus Calling: 365 Devotions for Kids,” and have their meal prayer. “[Enflame Our Homes] is a good program,” said Emily. “It creates opportunities for discussions between kids and parents, and even between siblings, that you maybe normally wouldn’t have.

“We asked our kids about things they missed when we were quarantined, and what they thought we should go back and do and do differently. We learned more information about our kids and the kids learned information about each other.”

There is no cost to participate in the Enflame Our Homes initiative.

Resources can be found on the Joyful Homes website at: archkcks.org/ joyful-homes.

Families can get a one-page resource through parish bulletin handouts or via email from Catholic schools and parish religious education programs.

Families can sign up to receive a weekly email containing resources by going to the website, scrolling down the home page, clicking on the button that reads “…Stay in touch” and entering the relevant information.

The marriage and family life office plans to create a blog on the website for families to contribute posts about what they are doing.

For more information, call the marriage and family life office at (913) 6470345, or contact Libby DuPont by email at: ldupont@archkck.org.

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Can an ugly couch bring your family joy?

oy is the infallible sign of the presence of God.” — St. Augustine

was a bit much. As we discussed our new normal, we discovered that it wasn’t the amount of time we were spending with each other, it was the type.

We noticed that because of our Where God is, there is joy! For the next three years, families of the constant exposure to each other, our archdiocese will be trying to invite time together wasn’t as special as it more joy into our homes was in the pre-COVID days. by taking one small action We made an intentional TOOLS FOR per month. In September, decision to use a new sofa FAMILIES we are trying to be more as a mechanism to bring us Growing as intentional. For more incloser together.

Disciples of formation and lots of great A few years ago, we Jesus ideas, go to: archkcks.org/ bought a beautiful leather intentional. couch for our living room.

It matched the room, and looked Here is how one family has stunning, but because it was so tall chosen to live intentionality by and narrow, it was terribly uncomstarting with their own marriage. fortable for two people to sit in, for long. (Amazing how you don’t

By Paul and Tracy Satterfield notice this in the showroom!)

Special to The Leaven The unforeseen result of this subtle back-bending and legLike many people, when the numbing was that one of us usualpandemic hit, Tracy and I started ly went upstairs to watch “their” working from home. As much as shows, while the other remained to we enjoy each other’s company, this

Respect Life Month kicks off with Mass at St. Patrick’s Oct. 4

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ANSAS CITY, Kan.— Respect Life Month kicks off next month. All archdiocesan Catholics, and especially those involved in any type of prolife ministry, are invited to the 11 a.m.

Mass to be celebrated by Archbishop Joseph Naumann at St. Patrick Church in Kansas City, Kansas.

Debra Niesen, lead consultant for the archdiocesan pro-life office, said she hopes Catholics will be inspired by the Mass to get involved in building a culture of life within American society.

“It’s just a time Debra Niesen, lead for us as Catholics to consultant for the really reflect on the archdiocesan prodignity and sanctilife office. ty of all human life,” said Niesen. “This year is the 25th anniversary of the Gospel of Life (“Evangelium Vitae”), so it’s a good opportunity anyway to reflect on that beautiful teaching of St. Pope John Paul II so that we can share it with others and be actively living the Gospel of Life.”

At the Mass, Niesen said, the archbishop will offer a special blessing to anyone involved in prolife ministry, including the nearly two dozen Gabriel Project angels found at parishes throughout the archdiocese and those involved in endof-life ministry.

“We care about the dignity of all human life,” Niesen said, “from natural conception to natural death.”

An outdoor reception will follow immediately after the Mass.

For more information about Respect Life Month, visit: https://www.usccb. org/respectlife or the archdiocesan Respect Life website at: https://www.archkck.org/prolife.

The Mass will be livestreamed at: www.facebook.com/StPatrickKCK/

Paul and Tracy Satterfield watch something else. This forced an intimacy wedge between us, as we were now in other rooms during couple “prime time.”

After realizing that time spent together is Tracy’s love language, and that we weren’t escaping the lockdown anytime soon, we made an intentional decision to part

ways with our fairly new, perfectlymatching couch.

Though it was not a wise financial move, it was priceless when measuring the value to our marriage.

The new couch is big, fluffy, difficult to leave from, cuddly, and fits two middle-agers perfectly. When you sit down, it feels like you’re getting a hug from your grandma. The brain science of oxytocin combined with physical closeness is paramount to building a loving bond.

Though we still squabble over viewing decisions (Hallmark vs History channels), we make it a point to have at least an hour a day, together, on our couch.

Paul and Tracy Satterfield, members of Holy Spirit Parish, Overland Park, have been married for 31 years and have two children. They serve as regional coordinators of the Retrouvaille marriage ministry.

THREE WEDDINGS AND A PANDEMIC Newlyweds say ‘I do’ while navigating postponements, venue changes and health restrictions

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eddings. They can be stressful to plan in an ideal world, let alone in a world turned upside-down by a virus. Recently, three newlywed couples shared their journeys to the altar amid a backdrop of ever-changing restrictions.

WHEN ALL THE DETAILS GET THROWN OUT THE WINDOW, IT FORCES YOU TO GO BACK TO FOCUS SOLELY ON WHY YOU’RE DOING IT.

‘Just glad to get married’

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Their wedding was originally scheduled for May 29 at Most Pure Heart of Mary Church in Topeka. But when Rob and Jesse Gutierrez had to postpone their wedding until June 19, they decided that no matter how their wedding was going to have to look on that day, they would move forward with it — even if it had to be just them, two witnesses and the celebrant.

The couple’s wedding day had been long in the making. In 2012, although separated by 1,300 miles, they connected via social media. After that, the couple talked nearly every day.

Three years ago, Rob, a veterinary assistant, moved to Topeka for work while Jesse attended law school at Washburn University. The wedding was scheduled a few weeks after Jesse’s graduation, a ceremony which never took place.

And if that was not disappointment enough, when Jesse called the wedding reception venue about a month out, she learned the venue had canceled their reservation.

Another venue was secured but, by that time, social distancing restrictions began impacting their wedding in a major way. First, due to gathering limits in effect, the couple had to cut their guest list from 200 to around 90.

“It was incredibly difficult,” Jesse said, and not just the winnowing process itself.

The situation changed almost daily, so it was hard to know what to expect on their actual wedding day. But the couple wanted to give people as much advance notice as possible to adjust or cancel travel plans.

They were surprised, however, at how well their “uninvited” guests took the news.

“Everyone was really nice about it,” Rob said.

In the end, fewer than 90 people came that night, most of whom was family. Due to its large size, the church easily accommodated the guests with the social distancing restrictions The reception venue, on the other hand, had arranged to divide one room into two, allowing for two groups of 45.

Then, there was the issue of the celebrant.

“There was a mix-up with the time,” said Jesse, laughing.

“He thought it was an hour later. So, the church had to pull in Father [Ratma] Swamy at the last minute. . . . I found out beforehand, but Rob didn’t find out until the ceremony.”

By that point, Jesse said, “It truly was, like, ‘Whatever.’”

Rob agreed.

“I was just glad we were able to get married that date. I was just all excited and wrapped up in it,” he said.

Jesse said Rob’s laid-back, go-with-theflow attitude definitely helped her.

Many times, she said, she cried over the disappointments of her canceled law school graduation and the coronavirus wreaking havoc on their wedding.

“Rob was always there to remind me what was important is that we were getting married,” she said. “That’s all that mattered.”

Not ideal, but what God had in store A few weeks ahead of their July 25 wedding at Church of the Ascension in Overland Park, Josh and Libby Schmitz thought most of their planning was done.

They were wrong.

Although they met at Benedictine College in Atchison, it was only in 2018, after they both started teaching at Hayden High School in Topeka, that they developed a friendship.

“There were five of us who were new teachers, fresh out of college, and we all hung out a lot together,” Josh said.

By November 2019, the couple was planning its nuptials.

“And then we had to change all the plans,” Libby said. “We literally planned two weddings.”

A few weeks before the wedding, the couple’s reception venue, a venue they had booked months in advance, told the couple they would have to limit the reception to no more than 45 guests after previously telling them there were no size restrictions.

The couple scrambled to find another

Neil and Kaitlyn Cox thought that if they postponed their wedding from April 25 to July 25, the pandem everything in a short amount of time made things difficult, but the couple leaned on their faith to get venue that could accommodate the size of their reception better, but still adhere to all public health guidelines.

“We ended up changing to the other reception venue we had, and it was outside, more open and spacious,” Libby said. “And then we had to coordinate all the different vendors. The original venue had a bar package included and a DJ and all those kinds of things. We had to quickly find people to take those places.”

Within the first two weeks of July, they recall making numerous phone calls as they scrambled to plan the reception all over again. Thankfully, though, the couple said they were spared tough

choices surrounding the guest list.

“Thankfully, [the guests] scaled themselves back,” Libby said.

“A lot of people were not able to make it due to various circumstances, so we ended up not having to cut anybody from our guest list. . . . It was very fortunate, and we’re very grateful for that,” she added.

The couple tried to think of everything — like masks for all their guests in case anyone forgot theirs.

But those weren’t the only changes.

“No one could sing at Mass, our bridal party had to walk down separately and you had to seat people in every other row,” Libby said. “Our caterer had to

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Libby and Josh Schmitz said the pandemic made it so they literally had to plan two weddings. Libby, a planner by nature, had to let go of her inclination to organize everything down to the last detail, while Josh reminded her that it was all in God’s plans.

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mic would be over. They were wrong. Rescheduling them through it all.

Jesse and Rob Gutierrez had to cut their guest list in half to adhere to social distancing requirements. They also had to move their wedding date from May 29 to June 19.

change the way he was going to serve the food because it had to be separately plated. People couldn’t use the buffet style we had planned, so then we had to do a whole lot more with seating and plating.”

Josh and Libby had originally planned a honeymoon to the Bahamas, but a week out, their travel agent called and said the resort they booked was closing until November. Still, they were able to spend a week in Texas where they enjoyed hiking and sitting by a lake.

Libby noted that the whole effort challenged her natural inclination to organize everything down to the last detail.

“I’m not good at letting go of control,

and this is something I had almost no control over,” she said. “It’s not what I would have put in my plan if I had had the option.

“I’m very much a planner, and I like things to go the way I want them to go.”

Prayer, she said, helped.

“It was so hard,” she added. “It took so much prayer. . . . I think I prayed a whole bunch of novenas. I love novenas because they give me a lot of time to think, even just for peace, comfort or trust.”

She prayed less, she said, for outside events to change, and more for her to be able to deal with whatever came her way.

“It was more internally with myself,”

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Libby said, “trying to let go of control, trying not to stress out. And I think that helped a lot.”

In addition to prayer, Josh’s constancy comforted her.

“I kept reminding her that no matter what, even if it’s not like what we view as ideal, it is what God has in store for us,” Josh said.

“We’re so blessed to be able to celebrate in the way that we did,” he continued. “It was perfect for us. Even if wasn’t exactly what we had planned, it was perfect for us.”

‘Felt very lucky’ Setting a new wedding date, Neil and Kaitlyn Cox said, was definitely a challenge they never expected to face when they planned their wedding for April 25.

In March, the couple said, it became apparent that their long-awaited wedding day would have to be postponed, mostly due to the limits placed on gatherings at the time.

“At that point, we were just over a month out,” Kaitlyn said. She and Neil called Father Tim Haberkorn, pastor of St. Joseph Church in Topeka, first. Then

they called all their vendors and guests to inform them of the delay.

“We thought that by July 25, this whole thing would be in the rearview mirror. At that time, we just had no idea,” Neil said.

Postponing their wedding meant a lot of extra work they definitely had not anticipated earlier this year. From rescheduling a reception venue to making sure the florist could still deliver all the arrangements to canceling honeymoon plans, the couple said they definitely made a lot of phone calls in a short period of time.

And like the other newlyweds, Neil and Kaitlyn said their Catholic faith helped them ride the waves of uncertainty.

“We feel like we just had to give it up to God,” said Kaitlyn. “We feel like we would go through weeks where we’d start to get optimistic that things were looking up. . . . Then, you’d hear news in the media, and there were a lot of ups and downs.”

“I don’t deal well with rapid-fire changes and stuff like that,” she continued. “So, at the end of the day, we truly had to come back to the reality that what is meant to be is what is going to happen.”

Neil was her touchstone on that, she said.

“Neil said one day,” she recalled, “that if we don’t have the wedding we originally planned and if it’s ‘guest-less’ and full of restrictions, then God didn’t intend us to have the wedding we originally planned because that wasn’t his plan.

“So, that’s what I kept coming back to when I would have hard days and hard weeks. I’d say to myself, ‘You know, this is all working according to God’s plan, even though it’s not my plan.’”

“You get so caught up in the planning process,” added Neil, “that the actual marriage sacrament can get lost in all the details. When all the details get thrown out the window, it forces you to go back to focus solely on why you’re doing it — what the sacrament is and [that] the only people who matter are the two of us and God on that day.”

“It really forced us to put things in perspective — which in the end was a good thing,” said Kaitlyn.

Besides the date, the biggest change they made in arrangements focused on seating.

“We ended making a pretty detailed seating arrangement to comply with the restrictions,” she said. “We fit as many people as we could in there. We maximized space as well as we could. We had planned for 150 people to attend.”

Ultimately, some guests, including Neil’s grandparents in Florida, were unable to attend the wedding. For that reason, the newlyweds chose to livestream their wedding Mass, along with part of the reception.

Of course, they made a slew of adjustments to their reception plans, and included face masks, multiple rooms and social distancing.

But they still worried about their guests.

“For the two weeks following it, we were just praying that no one got sick,” Neil said.

“We felt so blessed that we were still able to have such a memorable day,” said Kaitlyn, “and that everyone was healthy.

“We felt very lucky.”

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Catholic women top list as possible Supreme Court nominees

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ASHINGTON (CNS) — Two Catholic women judges are on the short list of possible candidates to fill the vacant Supreme Court justice seat after the Sept. 18 death of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

The judges are Amy Coney Barrett, a federal appellate court judge in Chicago, and Barbara Lagoa, a federal appeals court judge in Atlanta.

President Donald Trump told reporters the afternoon of Sept. 19, and rallygoers later that evening, that he intended to pick a Supreme Court nominee in the coming days, and it would likely be a woman.

Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell, R-Kentucky, pledged hours after Ginsburg’s death that he would hold a vote on Trump’s nominee to fill the court vacancy despite blocking President Barack Obama’s nominee in 2016, after Justice Antonin Scalia’s death that February, because it was an election year.

McConnell and other Republicans have said the situation is different this time because the same party, Republicans, control both the Senate and the White House.

To move Trump’s nominee through

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Amy Coney Barrett is pictured in this undated photo. She is a judge for the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 7th Circuit, and a law professor at the University of Notre Dame.

Florida State Supreme Court Justice Barbara Lagoa was the first Hispanic woman to be appointed as a justice of the state Supreme Court and now serves on the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 11th Circuit.

the Senate would require a simple majority vote. Democratic presidential candidate Joe Biden has said that if he wins the election, he should be the one to nominate Ginsburg’s successor.

One of the first names to emerge as possible contender for Ginsburg’s seat — raised while mourners were gathered on the steps of the court chanting, “RBG!” — was Barrett, a 48-year-old who serves on the U.S. Court of Appeals

for the 7th Circuit Court, based in Chicago.

The judge, a former law professor at the University of Notre Dame and a mother of seven, is not an unknown.

She was viewed as a potential candidate for the nation’s high court in 2018 after Justice Anthony Kennedy retired, a slot that was filled by Justice Brett Kavanaugh.

Barrett, a former clerk for Scalia,

was the focus of Senate grilling during her 2017 confirmation hearing to serve on the 7th Circuit, when she was asked about the impact her faith would have on her interpretation of the law.

At the time, Sen. Dianne Feinstein, D-California, told her: “The dogma lives loudly within you, and that’s a concern.”

Barrett responded: “It’s never appropriate for a judge to impose that judge’s personal convictions, whether they arise from faith or anywhere else, on the law.”

The other name that emerged as short-list contender for the Supreme Court — and quickly gained traction as a potential election boost for the Trump — was Lagoa, the 52-year-old Miami-born daughter of Cuban exiles.

Last year, Lagoa spoke at a Florida reception of the St. Thomas More Society after the annual Red Mass, which prays for lawyers and judges, at St. Anthony Church in Fort Lauderdale. She said her Catholic education instilled in her “an abiding faith in God that has grounded me and sustained me through the highs and lows of life.”

Lagoa, a judge of the Atlanta-based 11th Circuit, asked the audience if “one could be a strong advocate for one’s client and still be a Catholic?” She answered the question by saying faith was “more than going to Mass every Sunday, and to me at least, it means having a personal relationship with God that in turn informs how we treat others.”

USCCB committee chairs say: ‘Enough. Stop these executions’

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ASHINGTON — Archbishop Paul S. Coakley of Oklahoma City, chairman of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ (USCCB) Committee on Domestic Justice and Human Development, and Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann of Kansas City in Kansas, chairman of the USCCB’s Committee on Pro-Life Activities, issued the following statement in response to the federal executions scheduled this week: “In the last 60 years, before the Trump administration restarted federal executions, there were only four federal executions. Since July, there have been five, which is already more federal executions than were carried out in

any year in the last century. There are two more federal executions scheduled this week.

“After the first murder recorded in the Bible, God did not end Cain’s life, but rather preserved it, warning others not to kill Cain (Gn. 4:15). As the Church, we must give concrete help to victims of violence, and we must encourage the rehabilitation and restoration of those who commit violence. Accountability and legitimate punishment are a part of this process.

Responsibility for harm is necessary if healing is to occur and can be instrumental in protecting society, but executions are completely unnecessary and unacceptable, as Popes St. John Paul II, Benedict XVI, and Francis have all articulated.

“We say to President Trump and Attorney General Barr: Enough. Stop these executions.”

The USCCB has been issuing statements and providing resources on the death penalty since even before the recent resumption of federal executions: In July of 2019, Bishop Frank J. Dewane, then-chairman of the Committee on Domestic Justice and Human Development, called on the administration to abandon plans to resume federal executions.

In October 2019, Archbishop Paul S. Coakley, Archbishop Wilton D. Gregory, and Bishop Frank J. Dewane participated in a roundtable discussion for the World Day Against the Death Penalty.

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op Gregory, and Bishop Dewane coauthored an op-ed in America Magazine in December 2019.

The USCCB restated its opposition to the death penalty in an amicus curiae brief in a case before the U.S. Supreme Court in January 2020.

Archbishop Coakley called on Attorney General Barr and President Trump to reverse course on the executions after the Supreme Court declined to hear the appeals of the death row inmates in June 2020.

Archbishop Coakley and Archbishop Naumann issued a statement in August 2020 urging the administration to stop the executions.

A USCCB action alert continues to allow Catholics to raise their voices in opposition to the death penalty.

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Vatican reaffirms teachings on end-of-life care

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ATICAN CITY (CNS) — With the legalization of assisted suicide and euthanasia in many countries, and questions concerning what is morally permissible regarding end-of-life care, the Vatican’s doctrinal office released a 25-page letter offering “a moral and practical clarification” on the care of vulnerable patients.

“The church is convinced of the necessity to reaffirm as definitive teaching that euthanasia is a crime against human life because, in this act, one chooses directly to cause the death of another innocent human being,” the document said.

Titled, “’Samaritanus bonus,’ on the Care of Persons in the Critical and Terminal Phases of Life,” the letter by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith was approved by Pope Francis in June, and released to the public Sept. 22.

A new, “systematic pronouncement by the Holy See” was deemed necessary given a growing, global trend in legalizing euthanasia and assisted suicide, and changing attitudes and rules that harm the dignity of vulnerable patients, Cardinal Luis Ladaria, congregation prefect, said at a Vatican news conference Sept. 22.

It was also necessary to reaffirm church teaching regarding the administration of the sacraments to and pastoral care of patients who expressly request a medical end to their life, he said.

“In order to receive absolution in the sacrament of penance, as well as with the anointing of the sick and the viaticum,” he said, the patients must demonstrate their intention to reverse their decision to end their life and to cancel their registration with any group appointed to grant their desire for euthanasia or assisted suicide.

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A patient is pictured in a file photo chatting with a nun at Rosary Hill Home, a Dominican-run facility in Hawthorne, N.Y., that provides palliative care to people with incurable cancer and who have financial need. accompany patients who have made these end-of-life directives, it added, by showing “a willingness to listen and to help, together with a deeper explanation of the nature of the sacrament, in order to provide the opportunity to desire and choose the sacrament up to the last moment.”

However, it added, “those who spiritually assist these persons should avoid any gesture, such as remaining until the euthanasia is performed, that could be interpreted as approval of this action.”

Another warning in the letter regarded medical end-of-life protocols, such as “do not resuscitate orders” or “physician orders for life-sustaining treatment” and any of their variations.

These protocols “were initially thought of as instruments to avoid aggressive medical treatment in the terminal phases of life. Today, these protocols cause serious problems regarding the duty to protect the life of patients in the most critical stages of sickness,” it said.

On the one hand, it said, “medical

staff feel increasingly bound by the self-determination expressed in patient declarations that deprive physicians of their freedom and duty to safeguard life even where they could do so.”

“On the other hand, in some health care settings, concerns have recently arisen about the widely reported abuse of such protocols viewed in a euthanistic perspective with the result that neither patients nor families are consulted in final decisions about care,” it said.

The letter reaffirmed that “any formal or immediate material cooperation in such an act is a grave sin against human life,” making euthanasia “an act of homicide that no end can justify and that does not tolerate any form of complicity or active or passive collaboration.”

The letter also underlined a patient’s right to decline aggressive medical treatment and “die with the greatest possible serenity and with one’s proper human and Christian dignity intact” when approaching the natural end of life.

Quebec government limits church attendance

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ONTREAL (CNS) — The Quebec government took religious leaders by surprise by announcing Sept. 20 that the maximum number of people allowed to participate in an event in a place of worship would be lowered from 250 to 50 in all regions of the province, starting Sept. 21.

But the Quebec government also announced that three regions, including Montreal and Quebec City, moved from “yellow” to “orange” on the COVID-19 alert scale. In these regions, places of worship are now allowed to accommodate only 25 people instead of 250.

This measure will be adjusted when these regions move back from orange to yellow. Christian Dube, minister of health and social services, said that because of the spread of COVID-19, Quebec health authorities have had to “permanently adjust, regardless of the alert level” a previously adopted measure.

“For gatherings taking place in rented rooms, places of worship, festive events, weddings, BBQs, picnics, it will now be a maximum of 50 people,” he said at a

U.N. must recommit to serving the common good, cardinal says

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A statue of Christ is pictured in a file photo outside Sts. Paul and Peter Catholic Church in BaieSaint-Paul, near Quebec City. During the COVID-19 pandemic, the Quebec government is limiting churches to having 50 people, 25 in riskier regions. news conference in Montreal.

“Epidemiological investigations have shown that the outbreaks are more specifically related to gather-

ings,” his ministry added. It is to “protect the population” that public health authorities “recommend tightening the rules related to gatherings.”

ATICAN CITY (CNS) — Marking the 75th anniversary of the United Nations, Cardinal Pietro Parolin called on the United Nations to renew its commitment to the ideals upon which it was founded.

In a prerecorded message released Sept. 21, Cardinal Parolin, the Vatican secretary of state, said that while the United Nations has worked for decades to alleviate poverty, promote peace and champion human rights, “there have been challenges and setbacks, even contradictions and failures” throughout its long history.

“The United Nations is not perfect, and it has not always lived up to its name and ideals, and it has harmed itself whenever particular interests have triumphed over the common good,” he said.

“The United Nations will always be in need of revitalizing the original spirit in order to make the charter’s principles and purposes its own within the context of a changing world,” the cardinal said.

Cardinal Parolin’s statement was among several prerecorded messages made by representatives and heads of state unable to travel to New York due to travel restrictions because of the COVID-19 pandemic.

However, because of time constraints, Cardinal Parolin’s message and many others were not broadcast; according to the Permanent Observer Mission of the Holy See, the messages “will be officially played when the meeting resumes at a time to be named later.”

Pope Francis will address the general assembly Sept. 25 via video message, the permanent observer mission said.

In his message, Cardinal Parolin said that people around the world have looked to the United Nations “as a source of hope for world peace and harmony among states” throughout its 75 years of existence.

Echoing St. John Paul II’s call for the United Nations to be a “‘moral center’ where every country is at home,” the Vatican secretary of state said that now, more than ever, the world is in need of solidarity in order to find “multilateral solutions to global challenges.”

“As the COVID-19 pandemic has made abundantly clear, we cannot go on thinking only of ourselves or fostering divisions; rather, we must work together to overcome the world’s worst plagues, mindful that the burden carried by some necessarily affects humanity and the whole family of nations,” he said.

He also praised the organization’s protection of international law and human rights throughout its history, as well as its promotion of “a world based on the rule of law and justice rather than on weapons and might.”

“The U.N. has strived to champion universal human rights, which also include the right to life and freedom of religion, as they are essential for the muchneeded promotion of a world where the dignity of every human person is protected and advanced,” the cardinal said.

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We need your help! - Caring and reliable drivers needed to transport K - 12 students to and from school in Johnson and Wyandotte counties in company minivans. We offer competitive wages, flexible schedules and the ability to make a difference in your community by helping those in need. CDL not required. Retirees encouraged to apply. Call (913) 262-5190 or visit: AssistedTransportation.com to learn more and apply online. EEO. Board members - Villa St. Francis, a skilled nursing community in Olathe sponsored by the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, is actively seeking board members. If you are interested in giving your time and talent to the Villa’s mission, submit a letter of interest and resume to: rwhittington@villasf.org.

Substitute teachers - Our Lady’s Montessori School is looking for substitutes in our 3- to 6-year-olds classroom and elementary classroom. Please call Jenny at (913) 4039550 or email: jwallace@olmskc.org.

Janitorial - Need janitorial services part time, two - three hours nightly for two individuals. Experience preferred. Call John at (913) 575-2686.

Substitute teachers - St. Joseph Early Education Center, Shawnee, is looking for substitute staff in our center, ranging from the infant to pre-Kindergarten age programs. Please call (913) 248-4589 or email: tgavila@stjoeshawnee.org.

Openings at Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas - We are looking for passionate, skilled team members to join us in serving the community. There are currently several positions open, including program coordinator - VITA/Cents@Work and food and nutrition coordinator. Please visit our website to learn more about these and other exciting opportunities.

Go online to: catholiccharitiesks.org/careers and scroll down to “View Job Openings.”

Administrative assistant - St. Patrick School, located at 1086 N. 94th St. in Kansas City, Kansas, has an opening for a part-time administrative assistant at the Early Education Center from 7:30 until 11:30 a.m. when school is in session.

To apply, please submit a request for a job application to Patty Dickinson at: pdickinson@stpatrickkck.org.

Caregiver needed - Room and board plus pay in exchange for elder care. Some flexibility in schedule. Call for details. Call Michelle at (913) 333-9117.

Lead/assistant teachers - St. Joseph Early Education Center, Shawnee, has positions available in our infant, toddler and 2-1/2 year-olds rooms. Applicants must be at least 18 years of age. Competitive pay and benefits are offered. Please call (913) 248-4589 or email: tgavila@st joeshawnee.org.

Part-time day custodian - St. Patrick School, located at 1086 N. 94th St. in Kansas City, Kansas, has an opening for a part-time day custodian. Hours are 9 a.m. - 2:30 p.m. when school is in session. To apply, please submit a request for a job application to Patty Dickinson at: pdickinson@stpatrickkck.org.

We love our teachers - Come see why you want to work here! The Goddard School Olathe Northwest is looking for dynamic, energetic, professional teachers to add to our faculty. The Goddard School is a premiere preschool for children from 6 weeks to 6 years who are encouraged to develop at their own pace in a nurturing environment, lovingly guided by our highly skilled, professional teachers. We are hiring for the following positions: full-time preschool teacher; full-time young toddler or infant teacher; and full- and part-time assistant teachers to multiple classrooms.

Youth music minister - This full-time role of leadership is charged with integrating relevant music into all aspects of youth ministry, assisting in the continued implementation of the Life Teen model of youth ministry and working collaboratively with staff in all parish efforts. Specific responsibilities will include leading worship, and organizing and rehearsing the band for the Sunday night youth Mass; additional work will involve coordinating and implementing music into other aspects of the youth ministry (i.e., prayer meetings, core meetings, retreats, special events, etc.); assisting in the planning and implementation of weekly Life Nights and periodic adoration/song/prayer events; participation in weekly staff meetings and monthly core meetings.

Applicants must have experience leading a band and be familiar with contemporary Christian music and the Mass.

Sight reading skills, experience as a worship leader, and experience and knowledge of Life Teen youth ministry are a plus. College degree in related field preferred. Competitive compensation based on experience. Please email questions and/or resumes and cover letters to: mneal@htlenexa.org.

SERVICES Handyman - Thank you for all the work. It has been a great spring and summer. Please remember we can do full bathroom, kitchen and basement remodels for any budget. We still do wood rot, ceiling popcorn removal and retexturing as well as flooring, windows, siding, doors, decks, fences, covered porches, gutters and trim carpentry. You can see some of my work on Facebook at: Father & Son Home Exteriors & Remodeling. My family and I appreciate you all.

Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@kc.rr.com; or visit the website at: www.teresakiddlawyer.com. Please do not wait until life seems hopeless before getting good quality legal advice that may solve your financial stress.

Garage Door Repair New Garage Doors Platinum Amarr dealer, Elite Home Advisor top rating.

Call Joe, mention The Leaven discount.

A Total Door (913) 236-6440.

Custom countertops - Laminates installed within five days.

Cambria, granite and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058.

Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.

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Cleaning lady - Reasonable rates; references provided. Call (913) 940-2959.

Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover. Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/ unload and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mike@mikehammer moving.com.

Tree Trimming Licensed and insured Free estimates/10 years experience Call Tony at (913) 620-6063

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Call or text Kathi at (816) 809-7739 Email: imagewellness2@gmail.com Memory quilts - Preserve your memories in a keepsake quality quilt, pillows, etc. Custom designed from your T-shirt collection, baby clothes, sports memorabilia, neckties . . .

Quilted Memories. (913) 649-2704.

Speedy Guzman Moving and delivery Licensed and insured Anytime (816) 935-0176 Masonry work - Quality new or repair work. Brick, block and chimney/fireplace repair. Insured; second-generation bricklayer. Member of St. Paul Parish, Olathe. Call (913) 829-4336.

CAREGIVING Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation for seniors in their home, assisted living or nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Pat or Gary.

Looking for assisted living at home? - Before you move, call us and explore our in-home care options. We specialize in helping families live safely at home while saving thousands of dollars per year. Call today for more information or to request a FREE home care planning guide. Benefits of Home - Senior Care, www.benefitsofhome.com or call (913) 4221591.

HOME IMPROVEMENT EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation *Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!! www.elsolylatierra.com Call Lupe at (816) 935-0176 STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 579-1835. Email: smokeycabin@hot mail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa.

NELSON CREATIONS Affordable home remodeling: Kitchens, baths, basements and room additions.

All interior and exterior work.

Honest, dependable, experienced and family owned.

Licensed and insured. Member St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee.

(913) 927-5240 or nelsport@everestkc.net Rusty Dandy Painting, Inc. – We have been coloring your world for 40 years. Your home will be treated as if it were our own. Old cabinets will be made to look like new. Dingy walls and ceilings will be made beautiful. Woodwork will glow.

Lead-certified and insured. Call (913) 341-9125.

DRC Construction We’ll get the job done right the first time.

Windows - Doors - Decks - Siding Repair or replace, we will work with you to solve your problems. Choose us for any window, door, siding or deck project and be glad you did.

Everything is guaranteed 100% (913) 461-4052 www.windowservicesoverlandpark.com drcconswindows@gmail.com Painting - Diamond Painting, (913) 648-4933, Residential/ Commercial, Exterior/interior, Free Estimate, Affordable, Decks, DiamondPaintKc.com, Kcmo/Overland Park Metropolitan area.

Concrete construction - Tear out and replace stamped, stained or colored patios and drives. Retaining walls, footings, poured-in-place safe rooms, excavation and hauling. Asphalt drives and lots. Fully insured; references. Call Dan at (913) 207-4371 or send an email to: dandeeconst@aol.com.

Popcorn texture removed and apply knockdown texture.

Renew your walls with a fresh coat of quality paint!

Cracks repaired.

Fully insured, serving Kansas for 27 years Call or text Jerry at (913) 206-1144.

Local handyman - Painting int. and ext., wood rot, power washing, staining, masonry (chimney repair, patios) gutter cleaning, water heaters, junk removal, lawn mowing, window cleaning, honey - do list and more!! Member of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor. Call Billy at (913) 927-4118.

WANTED TO BUY Wanted to buy - Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, sterling, etc. Single pieces or estate. Renee Maderak, (913) 475-7393. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee.

Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid.

Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee.

Wanted to buy - Old cars or hot rods. Uncompleted project cars in any condition, with or without titles. Cash buyer. Call (913) 980-3559.

FOR SALE Residential lifts - New and recycled. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. St. Michael’s parishioners. KC Lift & Elevator at (913) 327-5557. (Formerly Silver Cross - KC)

REAL ESTATE Rental properties - Getting into this kind of investment can be scary. How about if you could have access to a seasoned investor after the sale as a consultant? I am selling some of my investments that are in the KCMO area that you might be interested in. I am not a realtor, but I have owned these properties for a long time. Call (785) 883-2936, leave me your contact information and I will return your call within 24 hours.

Whole Estates Need to sell a home and everything in it?

We buy it all at once in as-is condition.

Call (816) 444-1950 or send an email to: www.wholeestates.com.

We buy houses and whole estates - We are local and family owned, and will make you a fair cash offer. We buy houses in any condition. No fees or commissions and can close on the date of your choice. Selling your house as is never felt so good. Jon & Stacy Bichelmeyer (913) 599-5000.

CASH FOR YOUR HOME (913) 980-4905 Any condition in the metro area Mark Edmondson - local parishioner http:/www.buykcproperty.com

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KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS BARBECUE FUNDRAISER St. Agnes Parish 5250 Mission Rd., Roeland Park Sept. 10 - Oct. 7 orders by email

John Roe Council 3020 is selling barbecue prepared by award-winning pit-master Paul Kirk. St. Louis-style spare ribs are $20 per slab and baby back ribs are $25 per slab. Orders must be paid in advance. For more information or to place your order, contact Grand Knight Keith Krull by email at: stag.kofc@gmail.com.

WOMEN IN SCRIPTURE: MODELS OF LEADERSHIP Sophia Spiritual Center via Zoom Oct. 2 from 9:30 - 10:30 a.m., 1 - 2 p.m.

You are invited to spend the day with the women who were an integral part of the beginning of Christianity, yet whose contributions are not generally known. We will examine who these women were and what their roles were in this crucial time following the death and resurrection of Jesus. Spend time in learning, prayer and sharing, while connecting with these women leaders of the past and with each other. The cost is a freewill offering. Please register by Sept. 25 by calling (913) 360-6713.

THOMAS MERTON: CONTEMPLATIVE WISDOM FOR THE 21ST CENTURY Sophia Spirituality Center - Via Zoom Oct. 2 from 7 - 8:30 p.m.

Oct. 3 from 9:30 - 11 a.m.

Oct. 23 from 7 - 8:30 p.m.

Oct. 24 from 9:30 - 11 a.m.

The sessions, in order, will be: “Why we still need and read Thomas Merton;” “What might Merton say about the Age of Covid;” “Merton, prayer and contemplation;” and

“Merton and nature.” The voice of Thomas Merton reaches across time with clear-eyed guidance that speaks directly to many of the struggles we are facing in today’s world.

Please register by calling (913) 360-6713.

LIFE CHAIN 6th and Merchant sts., Emporia Oct. 4 from 2 - 3 p.m.

Join in silent prayer for the right to life.

Bring your family, chairs, strollers and signs.

Join in the movement to protect those who do not have a voice.

EASING INTO CONTEMPLATIVE PRAYER Ignatian Spirituality Center of Kansas City via Zoom Oct. 5 from 7 - 8:30 p.m.

This is a six-week long experience of exploring the four stages of prayer that lead to contemplation. We will be reading the book “The Armchair Mystic” by Father Mark Thibodeaux, SJ, and praying his suggested exercises to help cultivate a deeper relationship with Our Lord. There will be 90- minute weekly meetings via Zoom to reflect and share. For more information about this event, go online to: www.ignatiancenterkc.org/events and click on “Easing into Contemplative Prayer: Monday Evening Group Prayer Retreat.” The cost for the retreat is $35.

CARING FOR CREATION IN A CHANGING WORLD: THE CONVERGENCE OF CLIMATE, RACE AND COVID Jesuit Friends and Alumni Network of Kansas City via Zoom Oct. 6 from 7 - 8 p.m.

Join JFAN-KC to hear Judy Mayotte’s message about how each of us as engaged, responsible and responsive global citizens can reflect on and care for creation so that we

can help maintain the fragile balance of life on earth. The event is free. To register, go online to: jfankc.eventbrite.com.

STS. LOUIS AND ZELIE MARTIN: FAMILY SANCTITY Christ’s Peace House of Prayer 22131 Meager Rd., Easton Nov. 6 - 8

Take this weekend with your spouse to reflect on the importance of family sanctity. Take some time alone with your spouse to reconnect and enter back into the world stronger and more deeply committed to Christ. There will be conferences, eucharistic adoration, Mass, confession, and time for private prayer, reflection and walking.

Cabins/courtyard rooms: $170 single/$250 couple; guest rooms: $100 (meals included).

To attend, send an email to: info@christs peace.com or call (913) 773-8255.

ANNUAL MEXICAN SUPPER Sacred Heart Parish 106 Exchange St., Emporia Oct. 9 from 4:30 - 7:30 p.m.

There will be drive-thru service only. The online ticket purchase link can be found at: shsemporia.org/mexican-supper; scroll down to “Support Us,” then click on “Mexican Supper.” You can also purchase in person at the church office, located at 27 Cottonwood St.

13 JoElla (Benjamin) and Paul Phares, members of Holy Angels Parish, Garnett, celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary on Sept. 17. The couple was married on Sept. 17, 1955, at Holy Angels Church.

They have five children: Paula Wallace, Cheryl Harber, Vicki Phares Ranney, Rod Phares and Marcia Phares.

They also have five grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren. Friends and family participated in a card shower and a family dinner will be held on Sept. 27.

Mary Ellen (O’Brien) and Charlie Green, members of Holy Trinity Parish, Lenexa, celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary on Aug. 27.

The couple was married on Aug. 27, 1960, at Holy Name Church in Kansas City, Kansas. Their children are: Chuck, Kim and Kevin. They also have six grandchildren. A family celebration is planned at a later date.

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DAILY READINGS TWENTY-SIXTH WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME Sept. 27 TWENTY-SIXTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Ez 18: 25-28 Ps 25: 4-9 Phil 2: 1-11 Mt 21: 28-32 Sept. 28 Wenceslaus, martyr; Lawrence Ruiz and companions, martyrs Jb 1: 6-22 Ps 17: 1b-3, 6-7 Lk 9: 46-50 Sept. 29 MICHAEL, GABRIEL AND RAPHAEL, ARCHANGELS Dn 7: 9-10, 13-14 Ps 138: 1-5 Jn 1: 47-51 Sept. 30 Jerome, priest, doctor of the church Jb 9: 1-12, 14-16 Ps 88: 10b-15 Lk 9: 57-62 Oct. 1 Thérèse of Lisieux, virgin, doctor of the church Jb 19: 21-27 Ps 27: 7-9c, 13-14 Lk 10: 1-12 Oct. 2 The Holy Guardian Angels Jb 38: 1, 12-21; 40: 3-5 Ps 139: 1-3, 7-10, 13-14b Mt 18: 1-5, 10 Oct. 3 Jb 42: 1-3, 5-6, 12-17 Ps 119: 66, 71, 75, 91, 125, 130 Lk 10: 17-24

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Looking for something to fall back on

utumn began this past Tuesday . . . not with a bang, but a whimper.

For that matter, in this crazy year of 2020, so did spring and summer.

A few weeks ago, as this pandemic continued its hold, I found myself saying what many others were: We’re stuck in the movie “Groundhog Day.” Each day just repeats itself in an end-less loop, with no change or relief in sight. I totally agreed with the meme that said: “I’m not counting this year as part of my age since I didn’t get to use it!”

My spirit needed a major overhaul. Many of the activities that usually enriched my life were canceled. I’ve never gone through months of not eating out with friends or not attending several theater productions or sporting events.

What a bummer of a summer!

But just when the “woe is me” mindset

MARK MY WORDS

FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.

was beginning to color my whole worldview, this story gave me a much-needed perspective: Pastor Tim Keller tells about his brother-in-law, who would never wear a seat belt in the car, even though he hounded him about it.

One day, however, when the brother-inlaw picked him up at the airport, he was wearing a seat belt.

“What happened?”

Pastor Keller asked.

“What changed you?”

“I went to visit a friend of mine in the hospital who was in a car accident and went through the windshield,” he said.

“He had two or three hundred stitches in his face. I said to myself, ‘I’d better wear my seat belt.’”

“But did you not know that if you didn’t wear your seat belt you would go through the windshield if you had an accident?” asked Pastor Keller.

“Of course, I knew it,” he replied. “When I went to the hospital to see my friend, I got no new information, but the information I had became new.

The information got

Feast - Sept. 29 These archangels, messengers sent by God, are the only ones named in the Bible. In the Book of Daniel, Michael is called “the great prince”; in the Letter of Jude, he argues with the devil over Moses’ body; and in the Book of Revelation, he leads the battle against Satan.

He is patron of the sick, radiologists and mariners.

Gabriel explains Daniel’s visions to him in the Book of Daniel, and in the Gospel of Luke announces to Zechariah and Mary the births of their respective sons. He is the patron of messengers and telecommunications and postal workers. Raphael guides Tobiah in the Book of Tobit; he is patron of the blind, physicians and travelers. The church created their joint feast after the Second Vatican Council.

real to my heart and finally sank down and affected the way I live.” (Story found in “1001 Illustrations That Connect,” edited by Craig Brian Larson and Phyllis Ten Elshof.)

This was a news flash moment: When I admitted that COVID19 wasn’t going away any time soon, I realized that I still had the power to choose how it was going to affect the way that I live. I could waste my days bemoaning the pandemic or use my time instead to creatively deal with all the disruption it’s brought.

Now that I think about it, I’ve actually been subconsciously coping in a creative manner for weeks.

Let’s talk masks, for instance. Since it’s wise to wear them, why not make them fun? A few weeks ago, I ordered some from a Croatian lady in New York, who patterns them after the Croatian flag with solid blue on one-half and a red-and-white checkerboard on the other. And I can’t help

but smile whenever I wear them since she markets them as “Cro-vid” masks!

In the baptisms that I’ve done over the past months, we’ve had a lot of laughs over how memorable these pictures will be to the child growing up — with parents, godparents and me, all masked up. Oh, the stories we’ll have to share.

If nothing else, this pandemic has disturbed me . . . and that’s not such a bad thing, as this prayer, attributed to Sir Francis Drake, reminds us: “Disturb us, Lord, to dare more boldly, to venture on wider seas where storms will show your mastery; where losing sight of land, we shall find the stars. We ask you to push back the horizons of our hopes and to push us into the future in strength, courage, hope and love.”

What say we live these words for the rest of 2020 and end the year, not with a whimper, but a bang!

We have been led to the path of unity by Jesus himself

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n a campaign season when political animosities are inflaming divisions within the church, St. Paul’s words in today’s second reading (Phil 2:1-11) sound quaint.

“If there is any encouragement in Christ, any solace in love, any participation in the Spirit, any compassion and mercy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, with the same love, united in heart, thinking one thing” (2:1-2).

The idea that Christians could be of the same mind, have the same outlook and be united in pursuing a common mission in society seems so foreign it would make you

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KEVIN PERROTTA Perrotta is the editor and an author of the “Six Weeks with the Bible” series, teaches part time at Siena Heights University and leads Holy Land pilgrimages. He lives in Ann Arbor, Michigan.

laugh if it didn’t make you cry.

Look at how we treat each other on

social media. Father Joe, the pastor of a parish up the road from where I live, is a genial man who makes Jesus-centered and entertaining posts on social media. (He worked as a comedy writer before becoming a priest.)

But he said recently that his posts draw so many vitriolic responses that he’s had to block people — 500 on Twitter alone!

He listed “people who are cruel, people who are more faithful to their political party of choice than Jesus, the constant complainers, the perpetually indignant.”

Not much solace there, or joy in having “the same love.” And shall we think that none of the blocked belong to Father Joe’s parish?

So what do we do with Paul’s appeal for unity? File it away in some archive of outdated religious sentiments?

Do we accept that in the 2020s we’re just not going to experience being of the same mind and heart, sharing the same love, thinking the “one

thing” of Christ and his mission in the world?

The conflicts in society and the church can’t be easily resolved.

But there is no reason for hopelessness about our ability to move toward unity of outlook and purpose in the church. Paul says, “Have in you the same attitude that is also in Christ Jesus.”

God will place it in us.

We have a real “participation in the Spirit.” The path to unity, which is the path of humility, on which we treat each other as “more important” than ourselves, has been opened to us by Jesus.

So let us walk on it.

Creation must be protected, not exploited, pope says at audience VATICAN CITY (CNS) — Human beings must change their relationship with nature and view it not as an “object for unscrupulous use and abuse” but as a gift they are charged by God to care for and protect, Pope Francis said.

People are called to contemplate creation as a reflection of “God’s infinite wisdom and goodness” and not act as if people are the “center

of everything” and the “absolute rulers of all other creatures,” the pope said Sept. 16 during his weekly general audience.

“Exploiting creation — this is sin,” he said. “We believe that we are at the center, claiming to occupy God’s place, and thus we ruin the harmony of creation, the harmony of God’s design. We become predators, forgetting our

vocation as guardians of life.”

The audience was held in the San Damaso courtyard of the Apostolic Palace. While the pope maintained his distance when greeting most of the faithful, he approached several pilgrims to sign autographs, speak directly to them or briefly swap his signature zucchetto for one brought as a gift.

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Abortion is far more than a single issue

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his past November, the U.S. Catholic bishops again identified the protection of unborn children as the preeminent moral priority.

Why? 1) Abortion attacks the most vulnerable and innocent; 2) abortion occurs within the family, destroying the most precious of human bonds pitting mother versus child or mother versus father; and 3) the sheer number of human lives destroyed (nearly one million babies) and damaged (mothers, fathers, family members) annually from abortion.

The bishops share this to help us properly form our conscience to the moral principles and priorities of our faith. This formation is essential when we vote for those who will represent us in government.

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DEBRA NIESEN Debra Niesen is the archdiocesan consultant for the pro-life office.

As faithful citizens, we must elect officials who defend innocent life.

Being pro-life is foundational to our Catholic identity. There should be no confusion or ignorance surrounding the church’s teaching on the sanctity of human life. Yet, many justify voting for candidates that support

legalized abortion by saying, “You can’t be a single-issue voter.”

Friends, abortion is far from a single-issue.

Abortion kills an innocent child: Always. Otherwise, there would be no need for abortion. No other debated public policy always ends in the death of an innocent person.

This fact alone should be the game-over decision that disqualifies any candidate supporting

legalized abortion from receiving our vote.

Yet, the ugly tentacles of the abortion industry extend into many other societal evils.

Violence towards women: Abortion is not health care or empowering. Many women report being pressured to abort and, as a result, often suffer physically and endure a lifetime of shame, depression, broken relationships, substance abuse and suicidal thoughts.

Also, abortion and sex-trafficking are undeniably linked. The abortion industry is known to turn a blind eye so they and abusers can continue to profit.

Promotion of youth promiscuity: Planned Parenthood is working hard to partner with public schools to be “the trusted sex

education resource” for children.

In California, Planned Parenthood already runs “well-being centers” inside high schools — a publicly funded strategy to ensure a never-ending stream of abortion customers.

Loss of parental rights: Unless Kansas passes the “Value Them Both” constitutional amendment, the Kansas parental notification law for minors seeking an abortion is now at risk of being overturned.

Should that happen, parents would not even know that their 15year-old daughter had an abortion and could be suffering from its physical and emotional effects.

Racism: Planned Parenthood’s founder, Margaret Sanger, was a racist eugenics

advocate. Planned Parenthood continues to carry out her mission. Seventy-nine percent of Planned Parenthood clinics are placed in minority communities, resulting in black women being four times as likely as white women to have an abortion; 360 black babies are aborted every day.

For more information, visit the website at: www.archkck.org/ prolife and do your own research; be skeptical of sources that profit from abortion.

On Nov. 3, as people of love and life, let’s reject candidates who fight for the abortion industry that inflicts death, pain and widespread evil in our great country.

There is simply too much at stake for its victims — both born and unborn.

Now, more than ever, CEF’s kids need your help

ack-to-school time is always exciting for students, teachers and families.

This fall is especially exciting for so many students who have waited desperately to see their teachers and classmates in person.

Our Catholic schools did an extraordinary job closing out last school year by providing novel online learning. They have now taken the necessary measures to make it possible for students to return to their schools for in-person learning for this school year.

This school year is particularly exciting for hundreds of children who received financial assistance scholarships from the Catholic Education Foundation.

CEF is providing

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VINCENT ANCH Vince Anch is the executive director of the Catholic Education Foundation.

a record amount of scholarship funding at a time when the need has never been greater. Many families have lost jobs recently due to the effects of the pandemic. They needed CEF support in order to keep their children enrolled in an archdiocesan school.

Hundreds more students who come from families living at — or near— federal poverty guidelines also received CEF scholarships so they could attend a Catholic school for the first time.

Some challenges remain to this school year. Schools are financially strapped and have used up their own scholarship and emergency assistance budgets. They are

turning to CEF for increased scholarship funding.

CEF is hoping that this year’s annual event, Gaudeamus, will raise enough money to meet the increased need that our schools have for student scholarships.

Proceeds from Gaudeamus raise approximately 80% of CEF’s scholarships each year.

This year’s event has the unique challenge of being virtual for the first time.

Gaudeamus chair Janet Lovick looks forward to the challenge.

“We are excited about the opportunity to offer Gaudeamus as a virtual event this year,” she said. “Our hope is that, even though we must celebrate apart, Gaudeamus will bring our community together and support

much-needed scholarships for children in need.”

“The virtual event will be short yet powerful,” she added, “and everyone is invited to join us.”

Anyone can participate in Gaudeamus by watching it live on computers, smart TVs, cellphones or other electronic devices.

Individuals, families or businesses can also become sponsors, underwrite scholarships or even host dinner parties the night of Gaudeamus on Oct. 24. This year’s Gaudeamus honorees will be Rita and Lamar Hunt Jr. The Hunts have been tremendous supporters of CEF and Catholic education.

They were recently honored by the National Catholic Education Association for

their commitment to Catholic education.

Gaudeamus will have a special incentive for its supporters this year. Every “Sponsor-a-Child” donation received through Gaudeamus will be matched dollarfor-dollar.

In addition, 100% of every “Sponsora-Child” donation will support student scholarships and not overhead.

It is an exciting and challenging time for our students, schools and the Catholic Education Foundation.

Each of us can make this year even more exciting by sharing the gift of a Catholic education to a child in need.

To participate in Gaudeamus virtually or to make a contribution to CEF, go online to: www.cefgala.org.

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Do you know where your money is going?

T

he coronavirus pandemic has caused a lot of families to worry more than ever about money.

Many families do not have a good feel for where their money is going. A simple answer to this problem could be a budget, w h i c h for many people may sound as exciting as watching paint dry.

But the peace of mind that can come from taking control of your spending and being able to make your next mortgage payment can make budgeting a rewarding and effective money management tool.

Here’s how to start a budget.

Q.

What is a personal or household budget and what purpose does it serve?

A.

A budget is a financial tool to help you to better understand and control your spending patterns. You create an itemized list of projected future income and expenses for each month.

You can find plenty of online resources like budget worksheets to help you with this process.

Q.

If I do not really know how much I am spending now, what is a good way to get started with budgeting?

A.

Before budgeting for future income and expenses, it is a good idea to track income and expenses for a month or two to get a better idea of where your money is going. If you do this and are satisfied with how you are managing your money, great! Maybe you do not really need a budget.

However, if by tracking your expenses you find that you are spending far too much at vending machines, on impulse spending, or in other ways that are not in line with your financial goals, a budget may be just what you need to adjust your spending so it is more consistent with your financial goals.

Q. What are some of the main

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Ken Mark, of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie, explains how a simple budget can help families better manage their money in these uncertain times. components of a budget for most people?

A.

Income for most of us is our salaries or wages from employment. If you have a set salary for a period of time, budgeting your income each month should be simple. If you have income that varies from month to month, you should estimate your income for each month.

Other income such as interest and dividends should be included in your budget. Your take-home pay is the income that is available to you for spending and saving.

Some expenses like rent or mortgage payments and car payments are usually fixed in amount for a period of time and recur each month. Other expenses like groceries, dining out, charitable donations, and entertainment may recur each month, but these vary in amount from month to month. Try to estimate your variable expenses based on past spending.

Expenses such as personal property taxes, real estate taxes (if they are not included in your house payment), and

perhaps car insurance and homeowner’s insurance are recurring, but often paid less frequently than monthly. For expenses such as these, divide the total annual expense by twelve and including that amount of expense in your monthly budget.

Q.

How can a budget be used to help money management?

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Monitoring your budget each month is important because this helps you to see if you are hitting your target for each expense category. You may decide that you need to cut back in some areas or that you can allow for more in other areas. Variable expenses such as dining out are easier to cut than fixed expenses like a house payment.

Q. How are your financial goals

and values related to your budget?

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One financial goal that most people have is to save money. Saving should be included in your budget just like any other expenses. Try to pay yourself first if possible by budgeting a

set amount for savings each month.

Vacations are important goals for many families. Estimate the annual cost of your vacation, divide that amount by twelve and budget a monthly amount to be saved for it.

Most budgets will reflect the priorities for that person or family. If your faith and church are important to you, then your budget will reflect that through your charitable contributions.

If you use credit cards, be sure that these expenditures fit within your budget. It is good practice to try to fully pay your credit card balance each month so that you avoid finance charges. You do not want to still be paying for groceries that you purchased today three months from now.

Ken Mark is the president of the pastoral council of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie, was a professor of business at Kansas City Kansas Community College where he taught personal finance for 36 years and has been a contributor to a series of McGraw-Hill textbooks on the subject. He currently works part-time at Unbound in Kansas City, Kansas.