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Kay and Brian Schmidt, members of St. Joseph Parish, Olpe, stand in their soybean field on Oct. 8 as they take a break from the harvest. The soybeans will be donated to the archdiocese.

FULL OF BEANS

Archdiocese receives first commodities gift from Olpe farmer By Jan Dixon Special to The Leaven

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas recently received its first commodities gift transaction — a gift of soybeans. The gift was made by Brian Schmidt, a longtime parishioner from St. Joseph Parish in Olpe. Schmidt grew up in a farming family, went to college and became a certified public accountant. Now, some 35 years later and thanks to help from his family, he has recently fulfilled his dream of becoming a fulltime farmer/rancher. And he found a new and convenient way to fulfill his monetary pledge to the archdiocese. Schmidt was familiar with donating grain commodities because of his experience as a CPA and had actually introduced the program to his parish about 20 years ago.

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Brian Schmidt begins harvesting the soybeans that will be gifted to the archdiocese. New tax laws have made crop donations a more attractive option for farmers. “We’ve been using the transfer of grain program here at St. Joseph’s in Olpe for quite a while,” said Schmidt. “But this was my first [personal]

donation of crops to the archdiocese.” There had been a program to accept grain commodities in the past, but it wasn’t being used effectively. But a

change in the tax laws, which limit the ability of many taxpayers to deduct their charitable donations, has made the option more attractive. “As we developed the One Faith, One Family, One Future in Christ campaign, it seemed like a wonderful opportunity for farmers in our archdiocese to make gifts of grain commodities,” said Lesle Knop, archdiocesan director of stewardship. Archdiocesan foundation board member Joe Bunck, a parishioner of St. Leo Parish in Horton and a farmer, promoted the program earlier this year at a monthly meeting as a beneficial way for farmers to donate or fulfill pledges. He helped the archdiocese draft a policy for the acceptance of grain commodities. “It’s a painless way for us to fulfill our Catholic responsibility of supporting the church while benefiting from applicable, legal tax strategies,” he said. Tax laws allow farmers to give part of their crop production to charity. Gifting the grain directly lets a farmer avoid >> See “GIFT” on page 5

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Embrace God’s call to heroic love: Give to the capital campaign

have been overwhelmed by the many kind expressions of condolence, support and prayers following the death of my mother. I am grateful for the prayerful support that my family has received from so many members of the archdiocese during this time of the loss of our matriarch, the Queen Mother! One of the best decisions that my brother and I made was to move Mom from St. Louis during late June to Villa St. Francis in Olathe. I cannot express adequately my gratitude for the outstanding care my mother received from the staffs of both Villa St. Francis in Olathe and Catholic Community Hospice. In my responsibilities as archbishop, I have participated annually in meeting with the governing board of Villa St. Francis. For the past 15 years, I have received reports on the high quality of care that Villa St. Francis strives to provide to each of its residents. The reports painted a positive picture of the personal care that

LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN each resident receives from Villa St. Francis’ dedicated and highly skilled staff. However, these reports were not nearly as impressive and compelling as witnessing firsthand the actual care my mother received. I have always believed in the importance of the ministry to our elderly provided by the medical and support staff of Villa St. Francis. I am proud of the number of Medicaidfunded residents Villa St. Francis is able to serve. For the last three months, my mother, one of the Medicaid-funded patients, received outstanding, high-quality

care. This experience has increased significantly my gratitude. Villa St. Francis is one of the principal recipients of the funding generated from our One Faith, One Family, One Future in Christ campaign. If our campaign reaches fully our goal, we will be able to allocate $10 million for the purchase, renovation and upgrading of the Villa St. Francis facility. After the allocations for evangelization and the priests retirement residence, Villa St. Francis is our next highest priority within the campaign case statement. The One Faith campaign, like so many other endeavors, has been impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic

and the fallout from the economic shutdown. When our parishes were closed in midMarch, we suspended all campaign activities. We had come close to completing the second cohort of parishes, but the third cohort (containing almost half of our parishes) was just about to begin when everything shut down. In the late summer and early fall, the third cohort parishes began conducting the campaign. The campaign has raised in pledges and cash collected over $41,600,000 (65%) of our $65 million goal. Almost $26 million has been received thus far, and parishes have received already more than $5.5 million to assist with their local projects. With the economic impact of COVID-19 on many of our parishioners, it has become more challenging to reach our goal. At the same time, I have been amazed and edified by the generosity of the people of the archdiocese to both Call to Share, our annual campaign, and to the One Faith, One Family, One Future in

Christ capital campaign. While it will be even more challenging, it is still possible for us to reach our goal. I am grateful to our pastors and parish lay leaders who are the main reasons for our success thus far. I ask our clergy and lay leaders to continue to do your best. Invite every parishioner to participate by making a sacrificial gift. Many of those impacted negatively by COVID-19 may not be able to give. We understand your circumstances, but we do need and depend on your prayers. The One Faith campaign is not about raising dollars but it is about what we can do with those dollars. Many people have rightly expressed gratitude to me for the amazing leadership and service of our priests during the pandemic. One concrete way that you can show gratitude to all of our priests is by a sacrificial gift to the One Faith campaign. Next to our parishes, the biggest beneficiary of the One Faith

campaign are the retirement resources available for our priests. I have already mentioned the impact the campaign will have upon Villa St. Francis and its residents. I also hope that we will be able to achieve our goal so that we can make Savior Pastoral Center physically accessible to all, renew its infrastructure and make the facility and grounds an even more welcoming and beautiful place for the many retreats, conferences and groups that utilize this amazing facility. For the campaign to reach its goal, it will require those of us who have remained very blessed during the pandemic to step up and be even more generous. All things are possible with God. My mother’s experience at Villa St. Francis underscores the importance of the One Faith, One Family, One Future in Christ campaign. It is amazing what God can accomplish when we pool our resources and embrace his call to heroic love.

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Annunciation Parish will save $4,000 a year annually on its electric bill, thanks to solar panels donated by parishioners Dave and Pam Hill. The panels are worth about $30,000, but the couple also donated the cost of installation.

HERE COMES THE SUN Baldwin parish to save thousands from donation of solar panels By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

ALDWIN — When it comes to help with the electric bill, the members of Annunciation Parish here lift their eyes to a higher power. That would be to the solar panels on the roof. Annunciation will save $4,000 a year annually on its electric bill thanks to solar panels donated by parishioners Dave and Pam Hill. Not only did they donate the panels, which are worth about $30,000, but they also donated the cost of installation. The panels were installed at the end of September and will begin to snatch energy from the sun by mid-October. The work was done by Cromwell Environmental of Lawrence. The Hills approached pastor Father Jomon Palatty, MSFS, about the donation of the panels in March. “I was so surprised,” said Father Jomon. “Installing the solar panels would cost a lot, and our parish is not capable of [paying for] the panels and installation. It was a great consolation. I was really surprised to hear about the free installation.” One parishioner told Father Jomon how impressed he was with the gift. “I will never forget the expression,” said Father Jomon. “He said, ‘Wow,

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The solar panels at Annunciation Church in Baldwin were installed at the end of September and will begin to absorb energy from the sun by mid-October. They will cover 80% of the parish’s electrical needs. what a great gift. We are blessed, Father.’” Dave Hill is president of Mid America Bank, and the panels were donated as part of an upgrade of the roof at the bank’s Baldwin location. Hill has solar panels on all five of the bank’s locations. “What inspired [the donation] was the fact that when you buy solar panels, you get three benefits: tax credits, deduction for depreciation and the energy savings,” said Hill.

“So, we as a bank were able to receive those three benefits. We felt it was time to upgrade [to new panels] for the tax credits and depreciation, and we could donate [the old ones] to a nonprofit that can’t capitalize on the tax credits and depreciation.” His parish is, of course, his favorite nonprofit institution so he and his wife donated the solar panels to Annunciation. The solar panels have a 30-year warranty and Hill estimates they have

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about 20 years remaining. They will cover 80% of the parish’s electric needs. Baldwin has its own power plant and has “net metering.” That means the excess power produced by the solar panels during the day is sent to the power grid and, during the night, the church draws power from the grid. The system has no batteries. “The solar panels are installed on the roof and have a great south-facing orientation,” said Hill. “We have a metal roof, so installation was easy.” Hill is a believer in the benefits of solar panels and hopes that the experience of Annunciation Parish will inspire other parishes to also consider solar panels. “It’s the right thing to do from an environmental standpoint but also an economic standpoint,” said Hill. Dan Himmelberg, director of real estate and construction for the archdiocese, provided oversight and inspection of the project. The archdiocese doesn’t keep track of which archdiocesan buildings have solar panels, but they are very few. “The newest installation we have [for solar panels] is the new academic building at Donnelly College in Kansas City, Kansas,” he said. He called the new solar panels at Annunciation a “great win-win for everyone.”

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Traci Streit (black mask) of St. Patrick Parish in Kansas City, Kansas, and Tina Jenkins of Holy Family Parish in Eudora and were honored with the first Archbishop Joseph Naumann Walking with Moms in Need award at the conclusion of the Respect Life Sunday Mass on Oct. 4.

Respect Life Mass honors two with Walking with Moms in Need award

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Tina Jenkins of Holy Family Parish in Eudora and Traci Streit of St. Patrick Parish here are no strangers to pro-life ministry. According to Debra Niesen and Ann Marie Alvey, both of the archdiocesan respect life office, Jenkins and Streit are helping one of the archdiocese’s ministries soar to new heights. Both Jenkins and Streit were honored with the first Archbishop Joseph Naumann Walking with Moms in Need award at the conclusion of the Respect Life Sunday Mass celebrated by the archbishop and concelebrated by Father Mark Mertes at St. Patrick Church on Oct. 4. The Mass served as the archdiocese’s kickoff for Respect Life Month, a time for Catholics to focus on God’s gift of human life. This year’s theme is: “Live the Gospel of Life,” inspired by the 25th anniversary of St. John Paul II’s encyclical “Evangelium Vitae” (“The Gospel of Life”). During the Mass, the archbishop recognized those involved in pro-life ministry and gave them a special blessing. Additionally, the Mass served as a commissioning of the 25 angel volunteers involved in the Gabriel Project, which supports women experiencing unplanned pregnancies by offering “unconditional nonjudgmental friendship along with material and emotional support.” A volunteer since 2013, Streit has helped train the dozen angel volunteers who have joined the ministry within the past year.

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“OUR GOAL IS TO SURROUND MOTHERS WITH LOVESUPPORTED RESOURCES TO CHOOSE LIFE FOR THEIR CHILD. OUR GOAL IS NOT TO PROTECT ONLY THE LIFE OF THE CHILD, BUT TO EMPOWER MOTHERS, TODDLERS AND CHILDREN TO THRIVE FOR A LIFETIME. ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN While Streit has trained the angel volunteers, Jenkins has answered the Gabriel Project’s confidential hotline for years. She takes the responsibility so seriously that, when she was involved in a major accident more than a year ago, the first thing Jenkins asked Alvey when the two women talked after the accident was whether she had remembered to transfer the hotline to Alvey’s cellphone. Indeed, she had. In his homily, the archbishop said while the goal of Walking with Moms and the Gabriel Project is not to turn parishes into pregnancy centers, every parish within the United States can support pregnancy centers and find and share other resources with moms in need. “Our goal is to surround mothers with love-supported resources to choose life for their child,” said the archbishop. “Our goal is not to protect only the life of the child,

but to empower mothers, toddlers and children to thrive for a lifetime. Babies we cannot protect by law, we can save with love.” Elsewhere, he said, it’s important to note St. John Paul II identified abortion as “a crime against human life that demands our special attention at this present moment.” “Our laws do not permit the killing of an innocent person in any other circumstance,” said the archbishop. “The fact that abortion is legal misleads the young, frightened pregnant mother to rationalize abortion for it cannot really be killing because our laws would never permit it.” Elsewhere in his homily, Archbishop Naumann addressed anyone suffering the effects of an abortion. “It is probable that in any gathering of this size at any one of our parishes where I preach there are individuals in the congregations who have been scarred by abortion,” he said. “And my purpose in speaking about this issue is not to revile or increase the pain of those who are suffering the devastating aftereffects of abortion. However, the church must speak about this issue.” “For those of you who have known firsthand the emotional and spiritual wounds of abortion and [been] healed by God’s mercy and grace,” he continued, “you know how important it is for others to find this healing and peace that only God can provide.” He added that he hoped that at least one person would, as a direct result of participating in or watching the Mass, “have the courage to face the truth of abortion in their life and to start to approach the Lord for forgiveness and healing.”

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Father Guvvala Balaswamy, 69, a priest of the Diocese of Cuddapah, India, died on Sept. 24 at St. John’s Hospital in Bengaluru due to multiple health issues and the COVID-19 virus. Father Balaswamy’s 41 years of priestly ministry included parishes in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. He was born on Dec. 12, 1950, in Urutur, Kadapa District. His parents were Jojappa and Mariamma. Father Balaswamy received his priestly formation at St. Father Guvvala Peter’s Minor SemiBalaswamy nary in Mariapuram, Cuddapah, and at St. John’s Major Seminary in Hyderabad. He was ordained on Aug. 15, 1979, at Mariapuram. He served as secretary cum procurator from 1979 to 1980. After that, he served in a number of seminary and pastoral assignments in India and overseas, including Liberia, West Africa, and the United States. In the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, he served from 2001 to 2004 at Holy Trinity Parish in Lenexa, St. John Vianney Parish in Eskridge and St. Stanislaus Parish in Rossville. Father Balaswamy retired from active ministry in 2018. His body was brought to the bishop’s house on Sept. 25. Father Balaswamy was buried with a simple prayer service, as per government instructions, in the graveyard of the bishop’s house campus.

Father Pflumm dies Father Robert Pflumm died on Oct. 12 at Overland Park Regional Medical Center after a battle with pneumonia. He was 90 years old. Father Pflumm was born on Dec. 16, 1929. He was ordained a priest of the archdiocese on June 4, 1960. He celebrated the 60th anniversary of his ordination this year. His funeral was held at 10 a.m. on Oct. 16 at St. Joseph Church, Shawnee. A full obituary will appear in the next issue of The Leaven.

Ray and Judy Dercher, members of Church of the Nativity, Leawood, celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary on Oct. 15. The couple was married on Oct. 15, 1960, at the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kansas. They will mark the event with family at a later date. Their children are: David Dercher, Deanna Gish and Jeanine Conrady. They also have 10 grandchildren.

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Scouts hand out awards at annual Mass AHG Catholic Faith Awards

By Katie Peterson Special to The Leaven

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Another year of Scouting in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas came to a close just in time for its new year to open when the annual Catholic Scouting Awards Mass was held Sept. 27 at the Cathedral of St. Peter here. Normally held in April each year, the Mass was postponed because of the COVID-19 pandemic. Scout awards included two American Heritage Girls Spirit Alive Awards, 15 Ad Altare Dei Awards, seven Pope Pius XII Awards and five Pope Paul VI National Catholic Unit Excellence Awards. Adult awards included two Elizabeth Ann Seton Awards, three Bronze Pelican Awards and one Echo of Kateri Award. A special recognition — the St. John Paul II Award — was also presented to Gary Smith for his nearly 25 years of service to Scouting. He has served as the chair of the Catholic Committee of Scouting for the archdiocese for the past six years and will be retiring later this year. “Scouting offers boys [and girls] the opportunity to fail safely and to learn from failure, which I think is tremendously underestimated in our society. Failure is valuable if you use it as a learning tool, and I had the opportunity to do that [as a young Scout],” Smith said. “I made a promise as a little 8-year-old that I would help people at all times and I recited that at every Scout meeting. And it has become one of my daily prayers now. Scouting weaved a way of thinking in my life that I just couldn’t walk away from.” “We have a saying in Scouting that you always leave your campsite better than when you found it,” he continued. “I’m praying that I’m leaving the committee better than when I found it.” Although COVID-19 has continued to present many challenges to group activities because of social distancing requirements and other restrictions, the Catholic Scouting community has found ways to endure and stay true to its mission as the new year began in September. Meetings and activities have adjusted to video teleconference and socially distanced gatherings of a limited number, and two programs have even made changes for the better.

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American Heritage Girls Patriot Elaine Gast, 15, helps Tenderheart Madeline Ehler, 7, with an outdoor skills and first-aid activity during the AHG Taste of AHG KS0138 sign-up event Sept. 8 at Holy Trinity School in Lenexa. The event had several activity stations in the school cafeteria, as well as a chalk art area outside the building.

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Father Scott Wallisch awards Josiah Bilbery of Boy Scout Troop 395 the Ad Altare Dei Award during a special Catholic Scouting Awards Mass Sept. 27 at the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kansas. Bilbery was one of 15 Scouts to receive the award.

Ad Altare Dei The Ad Altare Dei program was first established by Father James E. Dolan in 1926, in hopes of providing more spiritual development for Scouts seventh-grade and older. The program is organized in sections based on the seven sacraments. “The purpose of the Ad Altare Dei

program is to help Catholic youth of the Roman rite develop a fully Christian way of life in the faith community,” said Paul Camarata, Troop 396 committee member. This year will not only be the first time the program is being held virtually, but the first time that girls in the Scouts BSA program will be participating. Five girls are signed up for a total of 23 in this year’s program.

New programs have launched this year, too, including the American Heritage Girls Catholic Faith Awards. Two local classes for Patriots and Pioneers began in September. Currently, 12 Pioneers and five Patriots are enrolled. “The AHG National Catholic Committee developed the Catholic Faith Awards Program for girls to learn more about their faith and develop a stronger relationship with Christ in a fun and hands-on manner,” according to the official announcement from the archdiocese. “In each program level, girls will gain a greater understanding of the AHG oath, mission and creed.” Tonya Gast, AHG KS0138 leadership mentor, is pleased the new program was added. “My hope is that the books and the programs will teach girls of the next generation and more to come about their Catholic faith and help them grow in relationship with Christ and with other Catholic young women,” she said. “Another hope is that in offering an archdiocesan-wide class, we will reach Catholic girls in non-Catholic AHG troops and help them complete their Catholic Faith Awards,” she added. The two levels include the “Deus Et Civitas Mea” (“God and My Community”) for the Pioneer level and the “Femina Integritatis” (“Women of Integrity”) for the Patriot level. “These programs are each designed for the girls to work in a small group with a mentor guiding them through the book and activities. This includes prayer, study of holy Scripture and the Catechism [of the Catholic Church], community service, learning more about the Catholic faith through the sacraments and more,” Gast said. “The [current] Zoom setup has been great for bringing girls from different geographic areas together. “COVID-19 has caused a need for some adaptations, but we have waited several years in anticipation of these new books, and we were not going to let COVID stop us from jumping right in.” For more information about Catholic Scouting in the archdiocese, visit the website at: www.archkck.org/scouting-home.

Gift of Grain gives families a different way to honor their pledges >> Continued from page 1 the sale of the commodity as income, while the production costs may still be deductible. Reducing taxable income reduces income taxes as well. (The farmer can’t deduct the gift as a charitable contribution because it was not taxed as income.) So how does grain donation work? When farmers decide to donate a commodity, they notify the elevators they use and the recipient charity creates an account there. The farmer delivers the commodity to the elevator. The commodity is placed on the charity’s account, and the charity receives the money after they sell the commodity. The farmer does not direct the sale of the commodity. “Because the farmer does not declare the grain as income and they save tax, they have the ability to make a bigger gift,” said Schmidt.

The donor can designate to a specific fund within the archdiocese, thereby determining how the charitable donation is to be used. For example, it might be designated for Call to Share, or One Faith, One Family, One Future, or for the benefit of the vocation office. The archdiocese can help the farmer with the process but cannot give tax advice. “There is a specific way to do it to be sure it’s done right,” Schmidt said. He recommended that anyone wanting to donate grain seek input from their tax adviser. Both the Schmidt and the Bunck families hope to continue to participate in the Gift of Grain program as a way to honor their stewardship pledges. “I think the greatest benefit of this program is that the archdiocese benefits, the farmer benefits and the ministry of the church continues in a very positive way,” Knop said.

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The Schmidts unload the last of their soybean harvest into a trailer as the sun sets on their farm in Olpe.

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Ice cream shop to employ those with developmental disabilities By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org

VERLAND PARK — When you walk into an ice cream shop, you can count on enjoying a tasty treat. But when you walk into The Golden Scoop, it will be more than just that. It will be an experience of joy, according to its owners. “You never know what you’re going to see or hear,” said Amber Schreiber, president and CEO of The Golden Scoop. “You’ll hear Disney music one day,” she said. “You’ll probably hear some other theater-type music the next. “It’s going to be a very joyful place to come to. You come in, maybe it’s been a bad day, and you walk out with a huge smile on your face.” The Golden Scoop is an ice cream shop that provides meaningful employment for individuals with developmental disabilities. It’s scheduled to open this coming January at 95th and Nall in Overland Park. The idea to start a business designed to employ those with developmental disabilities came from Schreiber’s sister Lindsay Krumbholz, vice president and director of programs and volunteer management at The Golden Scoop. Both women attended St. Thomas Aquinas High School in Overland Park. Krumbholz has some 17 years of experience working with children and young adults with special needs. “After talking to parents about when their kids aged out of the 18- to 21-yearold program [that helps individuals with disabilities], they were concerned if they would work and where they would live,” said Krumbholz. Their worries weren’t unjustified. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, around 80% of people with a disability were not in the work force in 2019. “That is a very staggering statistic,” said Schreiber, “and that’s why we’re taking action.” Krumbholz was already intrigued by the possibility of creating employment opportunities for these individuals in Kansas City. When she heard about successful businesses like Bitty and Beau’s Coffee on the East Coast and Howdy Homemade Ice Cream in Dallas, she decided it was time for her to make her dream a reality. Krumbholz reached out to Schreiber, who has a background in IT project management, business analysis and operations. She also worked as the alumni director for Aquinas, which refined her fundraising and development skills. After much effort, Schreiber created a business plan for The Golden Scoop. The final piece of the puzzle came when Michelle Reeves joined the team. Vice president and director of culinary and creative, Reeves not only has experience working at a nonprofit with

These Golden Scoop employees, known as “Super Scoopers,” aren’t letting their developmental disabilities get in the way of living fulfilling lives. The Golden Scoop, an ice cream shop opening this coming January in Overland Park, will offer them meaningful work in a fun and uplifting environment. Its mission is to provide a positive experience not only for its employees, but also for its customers. individuals who have disabilities, but she also has a background in catering. “She’s very gifted at what she does,” said Schreiber. Reeves will create all the ice cream flavors with help from The Golden Scoop employees, known as “Super Scoopers,” who will also have the chance to create flavors of the month. Krumbholz has been able to hire around 17 “Super Scoopers” through her connections in the Kansas City community, particularly the Golden Stars, a dance class attended by individuals with developmental disabilities. One is Charlie, who currently works at Culver’s and will manage to do both jobs once The Golden Scoop opens. He is most excited about working with his friends and trying out the ice cream. Another is Trey, who was the first individual Krumbholz worked with during her time in the Olathe school district.

“I still keep in touch with him today,” said Krumbholz. “I’m super-excited he’s a part of it. He’s the reason I’m doing what I’m doing.” Both Krumbholz and Schreiber say their Catholic school upbringing helped form their desire to give back to the community. “I think through all of the community service work that we were able to do while at Aquinas, that really helped [us] see the need that’s out there to help different organizations and people,” said Krumbholz. “The values that Aquinas and Catholic schools bring to a student’s life in general really instill that service aspect and carry on for the rest of your life,” agreed Schreiber. Krumbholz looks forward to the day The Golden Scoop opens and the Kansas City community gets to benefit from interacting with its employees. “These individuals will definitely brighten your day,” she said.

Support The Golden Scoop through an upcoming fundraiser The Golden Scoop is hosting its first fundraiser on Oct. 24 from 3-5 p.m. at its coffee partner’s location: Hattie’s Fine Coffee in Prairie Village. Attendees can try a custom-blend coffee created by Hattie for The Golden Scoop. The coffee will be for sale in small and large bags, and Golden Scoop T-shirts will also be available for purchase. “Super Scooper” Patrick will play guitar and all proceeds will go back to the mission of employing and paying the “Super Scoopers.”

For more information or to donate to The Golden Scoop, visit the website at: thegoldenscoop.org.

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COVID calls couples to practice both prayer and patience

few years ago, during a flight from Nashville, Tennessee, to Chicago, the passenger sitting next to me asked: “Excuse me, sir, are you a psychologist? I noticed the book you are reading: ‘The Good Marriage.’ Are there any good marriages?” Those questions started a conversation that lasted until we landed. My companion was eager to talk. After asking me about the book, she proceeded to tell me that she and her husband were seeing a marriage counselor. They were presently separated, and she was hoping that they would soon get back together. This is the story she told. “I love my husband Tom,” she said. “But I cannot be around him when he loses his temper. At times, I have been scared to disagree with him for fear that he would lose

JOHN BOSIO John Bosio is a former marriage and family therapist, director of religious education and diocesan family life coordinator. He is a member of the National Association of Catholic Family Life Ministers.

self-control and do something crazy. Fortunately, he has never hit me or pushed me in anger, but his behavior often scares me. “A few months ago, I made the mistake of paying more attention to a business deal than to my husband and my family. I know it was my mistake, but his reaction frightened me so much that [it]

caused me to move out. “That evening, he came home expecting that I would be there, have the children settled and dinner on the table. Instead, he found an empty house, dinner had not been started and the children were at a neighbor’s house. No one knew where I was. I had left no note and forgot to call him. “When I finally got home, Tom, who had been drinking, was waiting for me. He was screaming at me in a threatening way. He went crazy. In anger, he broke dishes and punched a hole in the wall. I could not stay around because I was afraid that this time he would hurt me. “I packed my bags, took the kids and went to live with my mother. I started seeing a marriage counselor and eventually Tom joined me. We are making progress.” What my plane companion described

is a situation that unfortunately happens all too often in homes around the country. Is this domestic abuse? Yes! Any behavior that threatens or instills fear in one’s spouse is domestic abuse. In the United States, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner — mostly women, but also men — according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. Domestic violence comes in many forms and with different degrees of severity, and it is always wrong. And domestic abuse hurts not only the spouse, but also the children who witness the abuse. If you know someone who needs help, suggest that they call the confidential national hotline — 1 (800) 799-7233 — or go online to: www. thehotline.org. Unfortunately, many who suffer such violence find themselves

trapped in abusive relationships and do not know what to do, or do not have the strength to distance themselves. Some of these may be Catholics who feel stuck in abusive marriages because of the church’s strong stand for marriage and condemnation of divorce. If you are one of these, consider the church’s advice. The Code of Canon Law of the Catholic Church states: “If either of the spouses causes grave mental or physical danger to the other spouse or to the offspring or otherwise renders common life too difficult, that spouse gives the other a legitimate cause for leaving” (1153.1). Pope Francis adds that sometimes separation is necessary and even morally necessary for the safety of the spouse and the children (“The Joy of Love,” 241). Personal safety and the children’s safety is the highest priority.

Question for reflection: What has been your exposure to domestic abuse?

Leaving does not necessarily mean divorce. Leaving puts space between the spouses and gives them time to realize the seriousness of their situation. In 2002, the U.S. Catholic bishops wrote a pastoral letter expressing their care and support for all victims of domestic violence: “When I Call for Help.” They wrote: “Violence against women in the home has serious repercussions for children. Over 50 percent of men who abuse their wives also beat their children. Children who grow up in violent homes are more likely to become abusers themselves. The stage is set for a cycle of violence that may continue from generation to generation.”

Message of Pope Francis for World Mission Sunday 2020 “Here I am, send me” (Is 6:8) Five spiritual dimensions from the message of Pope Francis for the celebration of World Mission Sunday 2020

Missionary journey of the church continues, despite crisis “In this year marked by the suffering and challenges created by the COVID-19 pandemic, the missionary journey of the whole Church continues in light of the words found in the account of the calling of the prophet Isaiah: ‘Here I am, send me’ (6:8). This is the evernew response to the Lord’s question: ‘Whom shall I send?’ (ibid.). This invitation from God’s merciful heart challenges both the church and humanity as a whole in the current world crisis. . . . The call to mission, the invitation to step out of ourselves for love of God and neighbor, presents itself as an opportunity for sharing, service and intercessory prayer. The mission that God entrusts to each one of us leads us from fear and introspection to a renewed realization that we find ourselves precisely when we give ourselves to others.”

Jesus sends us because he is sent by God — God’s missionary “[God] asks us to be personally willing to be sent, because he himself is love, love that is always ‘on mission,’ always reaching out in order to give life. Out of his love for us, God the Father sent his son Jesus (cf. Jn 3:16). Jesus is the Father’s missionary: His life and ministry reveal his total obedience to the Father’s will (cf. Jn 4:34, 6:38, 8:12-30; Heb 10:5-10). Jesus, crucified and risen for us, draws us in turn into his mission of love and, with his Spirit which enlivens the church, he makes us his disciples and sends us on a mission to the world and to its peoples.”

Our personal response to God’s call, ‘Whom shall I send?’ “Mission is a free and conscious response to God’s call. Yet we discern this call only when we have a personal relationship of love with Jesus present in his church. Let us ask ourselves: Are we prepared to welcome the presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives, to listen to the call to mission, whether in our lives as married couples or as consecrated persons or those called to the ordained ministry, and in all the everyday events of life?”

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HERE I AM HERE I AM, SEND ME . . . TO AFRICA . . . where those who are sick are provided loving care at 6,500 Catholic hospitals and small clinics, and where 19,000 young men are preparing to be priests, to uplift the poor, celebrate the sacraments, reach out to children and families, and comfort the sick and dying.

Hearing God’s call during this time of pandemic “Understanding what God is saying to us at this time of pandemic also represents a challenge for the church’s mission. Illness, suffering, fear and isolation challenge us. . . . This situation should make us even more attentive to our way of relating to others. . . . The impossibility of gathering as a church to celebrate the Eucharist has led us to share the experience of the many Christian communities that cannot celebrate Mass every Sunday. In all of this, God’s question — ‘Whom shall I send?’ — is addressed once more to us and awaits a generous and convincing response: ‘Here I am, send me’ (Is 6:8).”

Sending ourselves to mission through prayer and charity “The celebration of World Mission Sunday is also an occasion for reaffirming how prayer, reflection and the material help of your offerings are so many opportunities to participate actively in the mission of Jesus in his church. The charity expressed in the collections that take place during the liturgical celebrations of the third Sunday of October (Oct. 18, 2020) is aimed at supporting the missionary work carried out in my name by the Pontifical Mission Societies, in order to meet the spiritual and material needs of peoples and churches throughout the world, for the salvation of all.” Read the Holy Father’s complete message at: w2.vatican.va/content/francesco/en.html and then click on “Messages.”

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In this time of COVID-19, contributions to the missions donation in the collection basket at your parish. If you can contribute, please mail your World Mission Sunday donatio

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e celebrate World Mission Sunday on Oct. 18 this year. This annual, worldwide eucharistic celebration emphasizes our shared baptismal call to mission. Pope Francis, in his message for World Mission Sunday 2020, implores us: “In this year marked by the suffering and challenges created by the COVID-19 pandemic, the missionary journey of the whole church continues in light of the words found in the account of the calling of the prophet Isaiah: “Here I am, send me” (6:8). This is the ever-new response to the Lord’s question: ‘Whom shall I send?’ This invitation from God’s merciful heart challenges both the church and humanity in the current world crisis.” During the Mission Month of October, Pope Francis reminds us that, as baptized Christians, we are called personally to mission — especially at this time — to bring Christ’s love to those most forgotten around the world. Jesus is God the Father’s own missionary; he asks us to respond to this call to mission, this invitation to “step out of ourselves for love of God and neighbor.” What will your answer be? “Here I am, send me” is the response we will all endeavor to live out this World Mission Sunday, through prayer, participation in the Eucharist and generosity to the collection for the Society for the Propagation of the Faith. Through the pope’s own missionary society, you too can be sent out to all the ends of the earth — sent through your support of missionaries and those they serve. Your gifts sustain priests, religious and lay pastoral leaders in more than 1,100 mission dioceses in Asia, Africa, the Pacific Islands and parts of Latin America and Europe as they proclaim the Gospel, build the church and serve the poor. With them, you answer, “Here I am, send me.” This year, in response to the challenges to the mission church from the pandemic, I invite all of us in this archdiocese to respond in the most generous way you are able. As you do, I offer my sincere personal gratitude for your kind missionary heart, reaching out in love throughout Mission Month.

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HERE I AM, SEND ME . . . TO THE PACIFIC ISLANDS

HERE I AM, SEND ME . . . TO ASIA . . . where six million children receive an education from religious Sisters in more than 15,000 church-run elementary schools.

. . . where 3,500 religious bring the Lord’s mercy and peace to those in need.

HERE I AM, SEND ME . . . TO LATIN AMERICA . . . where catechists travel to remote areas to bring the good news of God’s great love to families.

HERE I AM, SEND ME . . . TO EUROPE . . . where new churches are being built to welcome faith communities, renewed after years of persecution.

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For Chiefs’ kicker, his Catholic faith and family are his priority By Andrew Fowler Catholic News Service

arrison Butker’s impact on the football field is tremendous. As the kicker for the Kansas City Chiefs, he was a vital component to the team’s victory in Super Bowl LIV. But the morning after the game, as he told the attendees at the Knights of Columbus 55th annual College Councils Conference, he still had to take out the garbage. This simple act was a humbling reminder to him while on top of the football world. “Outside of the bright lights of the stadium, with the fans and the notoriety that come with being an NFL player, the greatest impact that I will make with my time on this earth is remaining dedicated to my primary vocation — helping my family get to heaven,” he said. Butker, a member of the Knights of Columbus who joined while a studentathlete at Georgia Tech, challenged College Knights to make an impact on their communities and college campuses by “showing by our actions what a Christ-centered life looks like put into practice.” The Sept. 11-12 conference, which

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Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker kicks the game-winning 58-yard field goal against the Los Angeles Chargers during overtime at SoFi Stadium in Inglewood, California, Sept. 20. was held virtually, was convened under the theme “Brothers in the Breach,” on the heels of a Knights-produced video series calling Catholic men to live a life of heroic virtue similar to that of the fraternal order’s founder, Father Michael J. McGivney, who will be beatified Oct. 31. Butker, 25, told the attendees that

the “world needs Knights” and to rise above the “unfriendly” and “hostile” cancel culture spreading across college campuses. He added that “thankfully, adherence to popular opinion is not a prerequisite for heaven.” “Giving into societal pressure is the easier road to travel for sure, but

‘Code of silence’ allows abuse to go unchallenged

HEELING, W.Va. (CNS) — Violence comes in many forms, but its goal is always control, Bishop Mark E. Brennan of Wheeling - Charleston said in his homily at the fourth annual national vigil Mass marking October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Violence in the home, Bishop Brennan said, is common, not sporadic like epidemics. Whether it is physical, verbal, emotional, economic, or even spiritual, he said, it seeks to tightly control the life of another. While some men are its victims, he said, it is overwhelmingly women who are the victims of domestic violence by men who usually have an intimate relationship with them — usually their wives or girlfriends. “We don’t like to talk about it,” the bishop said, “but the code of silence lets it, like a virus, go unchallenged to keep doing harm to the victim.” Bishop Brennan celebrated the Oct. 3 Mass at the Cathedral of St. Joseph in Wheeling. It was co- hosted by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Secretariat for Laity, Marriage, Family Life and Youth and livestreamed on the WheelingCharleston Diocese’s YouTube channel and Facebook page. In his homily, the bishop recalled that as a young priest, a woman tried to get across to him in subtle language that her husband was hurting her. “I was too naive to grasp what she was saying, or to wonder why she was wearing a long-sleeve blouse on a warm summer day,” Bishop Brennan said. “So I was of no help to her.” Some years later, the bishop said,

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“ “CHILDREN SUFFER FROM SEEING THEIR MOTHER TREATED AS A THING, NOT A WOMAN DESERVING OF RESPECT. BOYS MAY ASSUME THAT THIS IS HOW YOU TREAT WOMEN, AND GIRLS MIGHT GROW FEARFUL OF MEN. BISHOP MARK E. BRENNAN

he was doing sidewalk counseling outside of an abortion facility and managed, with others, to convince a young woman not to go in for an abortion. “Her boyfriend was forcing her to get it, she said, and she was afraid of him,” Bishop Brennan said. “Did she want to leave him? I asked. Yes, she said, but she wasn’t sure how. She needed help. I drove her to their apartment, helped her load her things into my car and took her to the home of some friends.” In her case, the violence was obvious enough to recognize it, Bishop Brennan said, indicating that it was the man’s desire to control her by insisting that she abort her child against her own good judgment. Bishop Brennan said he later took a seminar on domestic violence and learned that violence might be physical, but also could be psychological. An abuser will isolate his victim from family and friends to increase dependency on him, he said, adding

that abusers also will stalk victims to instill fear. In a family suffering domestic violence, the bishop said, children are victims as well. There is a high correlation between violence toward women, and violence toward children, he said. “Children suffer from seeing their mother treated as a thing, not a woman deserving of respect,” Bishop Brennan said. “Boys may assume that this is how you treat women, and girls might grow fearful of men. If a child tries to stop the violence toward his or her mother, the man often beats the child.” “Our American bishops have said, ‘We state as clearly and strongly as we can that violence against women inside or outside the home is never justified. It is sinful, and often a crime as well. The person being assaulted needs to know that acting to end the abuse does not violate the marriage promises,’” Bishop Brennan said, quoting their pastoral, “When I Call for Help: A Pastoral Response to Domestic Violence Against Women,” released in 1992. The document was reissued in 2002 to mark the 10th anniversary of the document. It encourages pastors to dedicate at least one weekend of October to informing people how they can recognize and respond to the signs of abuse. Many ask why women stay in these violent homes, the bishop said. “Some feel pressured to keep the family together at all costs,” he said. “Some belong to ethnic groups that frown on revealing a family problem to outsiders. Women of color may distrust the legal system, immigrants may not know how to use it, while women in rural communities — we have many in West Virginia — may find themselves more isolated and with fewer resources.”

that doesn’t bring us to the side of the countless heroic saints who have shown us the better way,” he said. “It is up to you to speak up, do more, be more. Be the light in the ever-darkening world.” He also opened up about his own faith journey. While he was a student at Georgia Tech, a friend pointed him toward the love of Christ and encouraged him to be more active in the faith. Inspired by his witness, Butker reoriented his life to be centered on God. That newfound relationship with Christ helped him not only in his profession, but also motivated him to act more upon his faith, such as altarserving at the Traditional Latin Mass. Butker noted that faith isn’t something only “reserved in private and on Sundays.” He referred to our lives on earth as a battle that can only be won by a “complete surrender” to God’s love. “Now is the time for you to take up your task, as men of the church to fight this battle for our nation, to bring Christ back to our daily lives,” Butker said. “Men need to play active roles within our church, and I believe being a Knight is a great start. . . . Your priests need to hear from you. They need to see you. Other men need to see you.”

Christmas stamp shows Peruvian painting of Our Lady of Guapulo By Dennis Sadowski Catholic News Service

LEVELAND (CNS) — A new postage stamp for Christmas shows detail from an 18th-century Peruvian painting of Our Lady

of Guapulo. The ornate image of Mary holding the infant Jesus by an unknown artist in Cuzco, Peru, is from the collection of the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York. The U.S. Postal Service will release the stamp at post offices nationwide Oct. 20. “Enrobed in a pyramidal gown speckled with jewels and holding a scepter woven with roses and leaves, a crowned Virgin Mary looks down at a similarly adorned Christ Child in her left arm,” the USPS wrote in its description of the stamp. The image is framed in a gray metallic border. The word “Christmas” appears in black lettering across the top. Art director Greg Breeding designed the stamp. The museum’s description of the painting said the “richly dressed and adorned sculpture depicted in this work originated as a copy of the Spanish Virgin of Guadalupe, commissioned in 1584 by a confraternity of merchants in Quito (Ecuador).” Guapulo is a parish of Quito, nearly 2,000 miles away from Cuzco.

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Teen showed that heaven is ‘attainable goal’

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People sit outside the Basilica of St. Francis in Assisi as they attend the beatification Mass of Carlo Acutis in Assisi, Italy, Oct. 10. The Mass was held inside the basilica but measures to prevent the spread of COVID-19 meant that most of the attendees sat outside.

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SSISI, Italy (CNS) — Thousands sang and applauded as Italian teen Carlo Acutis was beatified in a town dear to him and to many Christians around the world: Assisi. During the Oct. 10 beatification Mass, Italian Cardinal Agostino Vallini, the papal legate for the Basilicas of St. Francis and St. Mary of the Angels in Assisi, read Pope Francis’ apostolic letter proclaiming Acutis’ “blessed,” the step before canonization. “With our apostolic authority, we grant that the venerable servant of God, Carlo Acutis, layman, who, with the enthusiasm of youth, cultivated a friendship with our Lord Jesus, placing the Eucharist and the witness of charity at the center of his life, henceforth shall be called blessed,” the pope decreed. After the reading of the apostolic letter, the newly beatified teen’s parents, Andrea Acutis and Antonia Salzano, processed toward the altar carrying a reliquary containing their son’s heart. The reliquary was engraved with one of the teen’s well-known quotes: “The Eucharist is my highway to heaven.” Pilgrims flocked both to the Basilica of St. Francis for the beatification Mass as well as to the Shrine of the Renunciation at the Church of St. Mary Major, where the newly beatified teen’s remains were on display for veneration. Known as the site where a young St. Francis renounced his father’s inheritance and embraced poverty, the shrine — like the city of Assisi and St. Francis himself — held a special place in Acutis’ heart. The teen loved St. Francis “very much,” his mother, Antonia Salzano, told Catholic News Service Oct. 9. St. Francis “was a very eucharistic soul who used to attend Mass twice a day,” and her son sought to imitate that same eucharistic devotion throughout his brief life. Archbishop Domenico Sorrentino of Assisi reflected on the link between the two saintly figures, and proclaimed that by “providential design, [St.] Francis and [Blessed] Carlo are now inseparable.” “Carlo’s life — always united to Jesus — his love for the Eucharist, his devotion to the Holy Virgin, his making friends with the poor, brought him closer to the spirituality of the Poor One,” St. Francis, Archbishop

“ WITH HIS LIFE, CARLO MADE ME SEE THAT DESPITE THE SMALL OR EVEN GREAT DIFFICULTIES — LIKE HIS ILLNESS — THAT WE COULD LIVE A FULL AND HAPPY LIFE IF WE KEEP OUR EYES LOOKING UP TOWARD HEAVEN ROSANNA 19-YEAR-OLD WHO ATTENDED THE BEATIFICATION Sorrentino said at the end of Mass. “Both invite us to live according to the Gospel.” Many young men and women came to Assisi for the beatification. For many of them, the fact that a normal teen could be beatified was a source of hope and inspiration. “With his life, Carlo made me see that despite the small or even great difficulties — like his illness — that we could live a full and happy life if we keep our eyes looking up toward heaven,” said 19-year-old Rosanna, who was among those attending the beatification. In his homily, Cardinal Vallini said that Acutis’ beatification “in the land of Francis of Assisi is good news, a strong proclamation that a young man of our time, one like many, was conquered by Christ and became a beacon of light for those who want to know him and

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Carlo Acutis is pictured on the booklet for his beatification Mass in Assisi, Italy, Oct. 10. follow his example.” Reflecting on the teen’s life, Cardinal Vallini said that like most young people his age, Carlo was a “normal, simple, spontaneous, friendly” teenager who used modern forms of communication to transmit the “values and beauty of the Gospel.” For him, “the internet was not just a means of escape, but a space for dialogue, knowledge, sharing and mutual respect that was to be used responsibly, without becoming slaves to it and rejecting digital bullying,” the cardinal said. Cardinal Vallini said that Blessed Acutis was a model of virtue for young men and women today, reminding them not to seek “gratification only in ephemeral successes but in the perennial values that Jesus proposes in the Gospel.”

ATICAN CITY (CNS) — Four members of the Swiss Guard and three other residents of Vatican City State recently tested positive for COVID-19, said Matteo Bruni, director of the Vatican press office. In a note Oct. 12, Bruni said that “over the course of the weekend, some COVID-19 positive cases have been identified among the Swiss Guard.” He said that so far, four guardsmen had tested positive; they were showing symptoms and had been placed in isolation. The Vatican also was tracing people with whom the four had been in contact, he added. In addition to the guards, three other people were found to be positive “with mild symptoms” over the “last few weeks” among either residents or citizens of Vatican City State, Bruni said. They, too, were in isolation in their homes and contact tracing had been carried out, he added. “In the meantime, as per the provisions issued last week by the governing office of Vatican City State, all the guards, those on duty and not, are wearing masks, outside and inside, and are following the required health measures,” he said. The Vatican had declared an outdoor mask mandate after Italy did so nationwide Oct. 7. However, at his weekly general audience, which was held indoors Oct. 7, Pope Francis and many in his entourage, including the two Swiss Guards in uniform, did not wear masks at that event. The Italian government extended its state of emergency until January 2021 and has been gradually increasing restrictions on gatherings and enacting other preventative measures as infections continue to rise. Italy has been registering thousands of new infections per day, with nearly 6,000 new cases registered on Oct. 10. The month has seen the highest increase in new cases since the pandemic’s peak in April.

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Part-time day custodian - St. Patrick School has an opening for a part-time day custodian. The hours are 7:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. when school is in session. To apply, please submit a request for a job application to Patty Dickinson at: pdickinson@stpatrickkck.org.

We love our teachers - Come see why you want to work here! The Goddard School Olathe Northwest is looking for dynamic, energetic, professional teachers to add to our faculty. The Goddard School is a premiere preschool for children from 6 weeks to 6 years who are encouraged to develop at their own pace in a nurturing environment, lovingly guided by our highly skilled, professional teachers. We are hiring for the following positions: full-time preschool teacher; full-time young toddler or infant teacher; and full- and part-time assistant teachers to multiple classrooms. Part-time administrative assistant - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is seeking a part-time, 20 hours per week, administrative assistant for the office of justice, life and advocacy. This position provides administrative support for three consultants. This position requires a high school diploma and three to five years of prior administrative experience in a professional office environment. The ideal candidate will possess exceptional communication skills, both written and verbal; and proficiency with Microsoft Office programs; graphic design and social media experience preferred. A complete job description and application are available on the archdiocese’s website at: www.archkck.org/jobs. Qualified individuals should send an email to: jobs@archkck. org, as well as a cover letter, resume and application to: jobs@archkck.org. Position open until filled. Business manager/accountant - St. Patrick Church in Kansas City, Kansas, is seeking a business manager/accountant. This position is responsible for managing all financial aspects of the parish and school. Duties include deposits; payable; reconciling bank accounts; monthly and annual financial reporting; budget preparation; payroll processing; overseeing human resources issues; and other financial duties. The ideal candidate will be a Catholic in good standing with accounting experience, effective communication skills and a bachelor’s degree. QuickBooks experience and/or CPA is a plus. Request a job application from Father Mark Mertes at: stpatrick churchkck@archkckcs.org by Oct. 21. Help wanted - Housekeepers, cooks and dietary aides. Salary plus benefits. Safe and pleasant workplace! Apply online or in person. Silvercrest College View, 13600 W. 110th Terr., Lenexa, KS 66215 or email: www.Silvercrest CollegeView.com.

Unique job opportunities with Catholic Cemeteries - Catholic Cemeteries of Northeast Kansas has openings for two compassionate and outgoing persons to conduct “lead-ins” for funeral services in our cemeteries, directing families and friends to burial sites, attending the services and performing light clerical work. The positions are part time (20 hours per week) with one cemetery assistant designated for Johnson County and one for Wyandotte County. Candidates must have a current driver’s license and a clean driving record. No previous experience required; bilingual candidates encouraged to apply; competitive wage offered. Contact Catholic Cemeteries at (913) 371-4040 or email: information@ cathcemks.org to apply. Youth minister/confirmation coordinator - St. Ann Parish in Prairie Village has an immediate opening for a Christcentered, innovative and passionate individual to serve as youth minister and confirmation coordinator. The primary responsibility of the youth minister will be to engage the parish middle school youth (5th - 8th grade) and form them into intentional disciples of Jesus Christ. The confirmation coordinator will instruct and form 7th and 8th graders at both St. Ann School and the St. Ann School of Religion in their Catholic faith; communicate with candidates, sponsors and parents about their responsibilities; and coordinate the confirmation liturgy under the direction of the pastor. The youth minister and confirmation coordinator is currently structured as a part-time position, with the possibility of developing into a full-time position with additional responsibilities. Individuals interested in this position should email a cover letter and resume highlighting their qualifications to Father Craig Maxim at: frcraig@stannpv.org. Custodian - Bishop Miege has an immediate opening for a full-time, evening shift custodian. Hours are M - F, 3:30 p.m. – midnight, with occasional days and weekends. The custodian will maintain cleanliness of school building and grounds and ensure a safe and pleasant learning environment for students, staff and the public. Duties include, but are not limited to, general housekeeping and sanitation duties, event setup and light maintenance. The candidate must be able to navigate stairs, stand for extended periods and lift 50 lbs. regularly. Must have good communication skills and be able to relate positively and cooperatively with staff, students and the community. Send resume to: Ryan Wrigley, 5041 Reinhardt Dr., Shawnee Mission KS 66205, or email: rwrigley@bishopmiege.com.

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Preschool teacher - A full-time, benefit-eligible position is available at St. Patrick’s Early Education Center, located at 1080 N. 94th St., Kansas City, Kansas. Related experience is preferred and a degree is a plus. The applicant must be a practicing Catholic. Training is available for applicants to meet KDHE state requirements. Please contact Patty Dickinson for an application at: pdickinson@stpatrickkck.org or call (913) 299-3370, ext. 107. The deadline is Oct. 21. Principal - St. Charles Borromeo Academy seeks a principal committed to Catholic education in the classical tradition with strong leadership, communication and motivational skills. The position will begin on July 1. More information and applications can be found at the following link: careers.hireology.com/thecatholicdioceseofkansas citystjoseph and scroll down to the St. Charles Borromeo Academy principal job. Preschool/toddler teachers - Little Saints at St. Thomas Aquinas is looking for a full-time teacher. Virtus training needed. Call Jeanne at (913) 319-2476 for details.

SERVICES Long-term care insurance - Planning your financial future can be overwhelming when it comes to providing protection to you and your family. I would like to help you get started with understanding an important piece of your financial strategy: long-term care insurance. To arrange for a virtual meeting/consultation without leaving the safety of your home, please contact me at: www.JEOroco.com. Handyman - Furloughed railroader just trying to keep the bills paid for my little family. I advertised here as Father and Son Home Exteriors and Remodeling for 13 years before working for the railroad last year. I can do all carpentry, windows, doors, trim, siding and decks. I can paint, sheetrock and love to do tile. Just about any project you have around your home, I can do. No project too big or too small. Just give me a call at (913) 709-7230 and ask for Josh. Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@kc.rr. com; or visit the website at: www.teresakiddlawyer. com. Please do not wait until life seems hopeless before getting good quality legal advice that may solve your financial stress. Custom countertops - Laminates installed within five days. Cambria, granite and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee. Tree Trimming Licensed and insured Free estimates/10 years experience Call Tony at (913) 620-6063 Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover. Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mike@mikehammermoving.com.

8 to Your IdealWeight Get Real, Get Healthy, Get Empowered Take back your power and release weight, fatigue and joint pain without hunger or cravings! Call or text Kathi at (816) 809-7739 Email: imagewellness2@gmail.com Memory quilts - Preserve your memories in a keepsake quality quilt, pillows, etc. Custom designed from your Tshirt collection, baby clothes, sports memorabilia, neckties . . . Quilted Memories. (913) 649-2704. Masonry work - Quality new or repair work. Brick, block and chimney/fireplace repair. Insured; second-generation bricklayer. Member of St. Paul Parish, Olathe. Call (913) 829-4336.

HOME IMPROVEMENT EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation *Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!! www.elsolylatierra.com Call Lupe at (816) 935-0176 STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 579-1835. Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa. Local handyman - Painting int. and ext., wood rot, power washing, staining, masonry (chimney repair, patios) gutter cleaning, water heaters, junk removal, lawn mowing, window cleaning, honey - do list and more!! Member of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor. Call Billy at (913) 927-4118. Faith-based counseling to cope with life concerns - Kansas City area. Call Mary Vorsten, licensed clinical professional counselor, at (913) 909-2002.

Rusty Dandy Painting, Inc. – We have been coloring your world for 40 years. Your home will be treated as if it were our own. Old cabinets will be made to look like new. Dingy walls and ceilings will be made beautiful. Woodwork will glow. Lead-certified and insured. Call (913) 341-9125. DRC Construction We’ll get the job done right the first time. Windows - Doors - Decks - Siding Repair or replace, we will work with you to solve your problems. Choose us for any window, door, siding or deck project and be glad you did. Everything is guaranteed 100% (913) 461-4052 www.windowservicesoverlandpark.com drcconswindows@gmail.com Painting - Diamond Painting, (913) 648-4933, Residential/Commercial, Exterior/interior, Free Estimate, Affordable, Decks, DiamondPaintKc.com, Kcmo/Overland Park Metropolitan area. Concrete construction - Tear out and replace stamped, stained or colored patios and drives. Retaining walls, footings, poured-in-place safe rooms, excavation and hauling. Asphalt drives and lots. Fully insured; references. Call Dan at (913) 207-4371 or send an email to: dandeeconst@aol.com. Popcorn texture removed and apply knockdown texture Renew your walls with a fresh coat of quality paint! Cracks repaired. Fully insured, serving Kansas for 27 years Call or text Jerry at (913) 206-1144.

CAREGIVING Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation for seniors in their home, assisted living or nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Pat or Gary. Looking for assisted living at home? - Before you move, call us and explore our in-home care options. We specialize in helping families live safely at home while saving thousands of dollars per year. Call today for more information or to request a FREE home care planning guide. Benefits of Home - Senior Care, www.benefits ofhome.com or call (913) 422-1591. Dedicated and reliable caregiver - Seeking to provide exceptional care for individuals looking for companion/ caregiver for loved ones. Adept at meal prep, assisting with light housekeeping and errands. Have an ability to develop a strong rapport with my client. Call Ethel at (913) 547-0458.

WANTED TO BUY Wanted to buy - Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, sterling, etc. Single pieces or estate. Renee Maderak, (913) 475-7393. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee. Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee. Wanted to buy - Old cars or hot rods. Uncompleted project cars in any condition, with or without titles. Cash buyer. Call (913) 980-3559.

FOR SALE Residential lifts - New and recycled. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. St. Michael’s parishioners. KC Lift & Elevator at (913) 327-5557. (Formerly Silver Cross - KC)

REAL ESTATE Rental properties - Getting into this kind of investment can be scary. How about if you could have access to a seasoned investor after the sale as a consultant? I am selling some of my investments that are in the KCMO area that you might be interested in. I am not a realtor, but I have owned these properties for a long time. Call (785) 883-2936, leave me your contact information and I will return your call within 24 hours. Whole Estates Need to sell a home and everything in it? We buy it all at once in as-is condition. Call (816) 444-1950 or send an email to: www.wholeestates.com. We buy houses and whole estates - We are local and family owned, and will make you a fair cash offer. We buy houses in any condition. No fees or commissions and can close on the date of your choice. Selling your house as is never felt so good. Jon & Stacy Bichelmeyer (913) 599-5000 CASH FOR YOUR HOME (913) 980-4905 Any condition in the metro area Mark Edmondson - local parishioner http:/www.buykcproperty.com

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SACRED HEART-ST. CASIMIR FALL FEST Sacred Heart-St. Casimir Parish 521 Linn St., Leavenworth Oct. 17 from 5:30 - 7 p.m. Oct. 18 from 9:45 a.m. - 1 p.m.

Saturday will feature trunk-or-treating for the kids, all costumed kids will get a free pumpkin and pumpkins will be for sale. There will be hamburgers/brats/hot dog sack lunch meals for $5/$6. The day will include a silent auction and a cash raffle. On Sunday, there will be free coffee and doughnuts, and the pumpkin sale and raffle will continue.

FUNDRAISER Our Lady of Unity 2910 Strong Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Oct. 19 - Nov. 6

Our Lady of Unity is doing a cash raffle that will raise funds for the parish. If you would like to participate, we would be glad to mail them to you and you can mail completed forms back to us or drop them at the office. The drawing is Nov. 7. The cash prizes are: first place, $1500; second place, $1000; third place, $500. The tickets are $10 each. Contact Jolene at (913) 302-2575 or Sherry at (913) 207-0900 by phone or text.

GUIDED MEDITATION AND SHARING ON JONAH AND THE WHALE Sophia Spirituality Canter Via Zoom Oct. 19 from 10:30 - 11:15 a.m.

Join us for a 45-minute guided meditation session on the story of Jonah in the belly of a great fish. Jonah fails to do God’s will — he is not listening to God’s call. We will look more deeply at this story, seeking to recognize how we, too, may lack the compassion to do God’s

CALENDAR will. To register online, Google “Sophia Spirituality Center,” click on “Retreats” and then on “Program Offerings.” From there, scroll down to “Guided Meditation & Sharing” and go to the bottom of the description to register. The cost is a freewill offering.

BE THE BRIDGE TO RACIAL UNITY Precious Blood Renewal Center Via Zoom Oct. 20, 27; Nov. 10 and 17

The calls for racial justice across the country are asking us to wake up to the injustice in which many of us have engaged, even unconsciously. To meet these challenges, Precious Blood Renewal Center will offer a four-session discussion to examine the roots of racism in our culture and our place in it. To register, go online to: www. pbrenewalcenter.org and click on “Be the Bridge to Racial Unity” under “Upcoming Events”; call (816) 415-3745 (you may have to leave a message); or send an email to: info@pbrenewalcenter.org.

CONTEMPLATIVE MUSIC AND PRAYER: A FACEBOOK LIVE EVENT Sophia Spirituality Center Oct. 21 from 2 - 2:30 p.m.

Sister Susan Barber, OSB, will play organ to accompany this time of prayer. Google “Sophia Spirituality Center,” click on “Retreats” and then click on “Program Offerings.” From there, scroll down to this music program notice and click on the link to Sophia Spirituality Center’s Facebook page.

UNCORKED — SISTERS OF ST. JOSEPH OF CARONDELET Virtual Edition! Oct. 22

Celebrate the autumn season with the

Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet. Enjoy a lovely evening of specialty wine and delicious chocolates from the comfort of your own home. The cost for the evening is $35 per ticket. Go online to: www.csjsl.org/ ways-to-give/uncorked for details and dates on how to pay, register, order your wine and find out your drive-thru location.

SAUSAGE SUPPER Sacred Heart Parish 22298 Newbury Rd., Paxico Oct. 25 from noon - 3:30 p.m.

Pre-order online at: sacredheartfund raiser.com. Pick up on Oct. 25, drive thru only, approaching from the east. The cost is: $12 for adults; $6 for ages 4 - 12; and free for kids ages 4 and under.

PROJECT CHRYSALIS Church of the Ascension and via Zoom 9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park Oct. 27 from 7 - 8:15 p.m.

Project Chrysalis is a ministry offering hope through sacred Scripture and community to parents or grandparents who have lost a child or grandchild. While this group is not a bereavement group, our mission is to offer support and hope through Scripture in a time of transformation. Our guest speaker will be Jerry Anselmo who lost his son Brian. We will meet in the St. Mark Room, lower level. For more information and a Zoom invitation link, contact Deacon Ken Billinger at (913) 634-4210 or send an email to: kbillinger@archkck.org.

ALL SAINTS’ EVE VESPERS SERVICE Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish 3333 Broadway, Kansas City, Missouri Oct. 31 at 7:30 p.m.

Experience the communion of saints. Join us for a beautiful hour of evening prayer

Announcement Joseph A. Butler & Son Funeral Home has re-opened as

13 with eucharistic adoration, a special Litany of the Saints and Benediction for the eve of the solemnity of All Saints.

STS. LOUIS AND ZELIE MARTIN: FAMILY SANCTITY Christ’s Peace House of Prayer 22131 Meager Rd., Easton Nov. 6 - 8

Take this weekend with your spouse to reflect on the importance of family sanctity. Take some time alone with your spouse to reconnect and enter back into the world stronger and more deeply committed to Christ. There will be conferences, eucharistic adoration, Mass, confession, and time for private prayer, reflection and walking. Cabins/courtyard rooms: $170 single/$250 couple; guest rooms: $100 (meals included). To attend, send an email to: info@christs peace.com or call (913) 773-8255.

BEGINNING EXPERIENCE RETREAT WEEKEND Savior Pastoral Center 12601 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, Kansas Nov. 6 - 8

Beginning Experience is offering a healing weekend to men and women of all ages who have suffered the loss of a spouse through death, divorce or separation. Reservations are required. For more information, visit the website at: www.beginningexperiencekc. org; send an email to: register.bekc@gmail. com; or call Laura at (308) 530-1873. Popcorn ceiling removed, or repaired Ceiling and walls painted 30 years experience

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DAILY READINGS TWENTY-NINTH WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME Oct. 18 TWENTY-NINTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Is 45: 1, 4-6 Ps 96: 1, 3-5, 7-10 1 Thes 1: 1-5b Mt 22: 15-21 Oct. 19 John de Brébeuf and Issac Jogues, priests, and companions, martyrs Eph 2: 1-10 Ps 100: 1b-5 Lk 12: 13-21 Oct. 20 Paul of the Cross, priest Eph 2: 12-22 Ps 85: 9-14 Lk 12: 35-38 Oct. 21 Wednesday Eph 3: 2-12 (Ps) Is 12: 2-3, 4c-6 Lk 12: 39-48 Oct. 22 John Paul II, pope Eph 3: 14-21 Ps 33: 1-2, 4-5, 11-12, 18-19 Lk 12: 49-53 Oct. 23 John of Capistrano, priest Eph 4: 1-6 Ps 24: 1-4b, 5-6 Lk 12: 54-59 Oct 24 Anthony Mary Claret, bishop Eph 4: 7-16 Ps 122: 1-5 Lk 13: 1-9

here’s a small sign, discreetly placed, in my Leaven office that reads: “Everybody brings joy to this office — some when they enter and others when they leave.” OK, maybe that’s not so nice, but it sure is true. In addition to being Respect Life Month in the Catholic Church, October is National Bullying Prevention Month. Because bullying at any age undermines the respect due to every human being, countering this unacceptable behavior can certainly be seen as a respect life duty. Suzanne Peck, author of “STAND TALL: Lessons That Teach Respect and Prevent Bullying,” lists four main types of bullying: verbal, physical, relational and cyber. I’d guess the most common type would be verbal, something that almost everyone has experienced. Sometimes, people try to justify this type of bullying by calling it “teasing,” but there’s no disguising the hurt caused when someone comments on another person being overweight, disabled, not as gifted academically or athletically, of a dif-

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It isn’t cool to be cruel MARK MY WORDS

FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.

ferent race, or . . . you get the idea. Relational bullying, according to Peck, “involves deliberately preventing someone from joining or being part of a group, whether it’s at a lunch table, game, sport or social activity.” If I was “picked on” as a kid, it ended with the school day. Unfortunately today, there’s cyberbullying. The harassment can continue relentlessly via a cellphone, email or social media, no matter where you are. Extreme cyberbullying has even led people to harm themselves to escape the negativity. As cyberbullying works on the mind, physical bullying

endangers the body. On page 7 of this issue of The Leaven, John Bosio gives practical advice on how to deal with some aspects of this harmful behavior. Dealing with bullying in a respectful way — so the person being bullied doesn’t turn into a bully as well — demands creative thinking. This story is a wonderful illustration of that: Hundreds of years ago in a tiny Italian village, a small business owner owed a large sum of money to a loan shark. The loan shark was a demanding and disagreeable fellow who fancied the business owner’s daughter. He decided to offer the businessman a deal: The debt would be completely wiped out if the loan shark could marry the businessman’s daughter, something the father found distasteful.

The loan shark, however, bullied the father into agreeing to his plan. The loan shark would place two pebbles into a bag: one white and one black. Then, the daughter would reach into the bag and pick out a pebble. If it was black, the debt would be wiped out and the loan shark would marry the girl. If it was white, the debt would also be canceled, but the daughter would not have to marry the loan shark. Standing on the pebble-strewn path in the businessman’s garden, the loan shark bent down and picked up two pebbles. While he was doing this, the daughter noticed that both of the pebbles he picked up were black! The loan shark then asked the girl to reach in the bag and pick one of the pebbles. The girl drew a pebble from the bag, but before looking at it, “accidentally” dropped it among all of the pebbles on the path. She said to the loan shark, “Oh, how clumsy of me! Never mind! If you look into the bag for the one that is left, you’ll be able to tell which pebble I picked.” Obviously, the pebble left in the bag

was black. Because the loan shark didn’t want to be exposed as a cheat, he had to play along and forgive the father’s debt without marrying the daughter! (Adapted from “Top 100 Motivational Stories,” by Meir Liraz.) You go, girl. That’s what I call out of the box — er, bag — thinking. When dealing with bullying, perhaps creativity is our best tool. I’d start with kindness, calling to mind St. Paul’s advice in his Letter to the Romans: “Rather, ‘if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals upon his head.’ Do not be conquered by evil but conquer evil with good” (12:20). There are many other online resources to combat bullying. Just Google “fight bullying” and you’ll be on your way. This would be a wonderful way to finish out Respect Life Month. After writing this column, I think I need to replace that “discreet” sign in my office with these wise words of Dave Willis: “Show respect even to people who don’t deserve it; not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours.”

Jesus invites the Pharisees to put first things first

Hippolytus

circa 170 - circa 235 A theologian and martyr who died of ill treatment in the quarries of Sardinia, Hippolytus was an important Christian in third-century Rome. In his writings, he attacked several popes for their doctrinal teaching and lax discipline. Followers set him up to rival Pope Callistus I, making him the first antipope. Banished to Sardinia during a Roman persecution, this cleric was there reconciled to the church and to another exile, Pope Pontian, with whom he shares this feast. He wrote in Greek and may have been from the East. His work “The Apostolic Tradition” preserved details about Christian life and customs in the early church. Visiting Rome around 212, Origen, a famous Christian teacher and writer, went to hear Hippolytus preach.

s I read today’s Gospel (Mt 22: 15-21), I was reminded of a favorite high school teacher who would ask his students a series of questions to make them think beyond superficial answers. This teacher was never satisfied with a one-word response and was not content with quick answers to his questions. When students attempted to answer questions, he would ask, “What do you mean by that?” or “Why is this important?” His questions continued until every student had really thought deeply about the subject under discussion. Good teachers use good questions to engage their students in thinking and learning. In fact, the use of questions in teaching may be traced back to

JEM SULLIVAN Sullivan is a professor at The Catholic University of America.

the great teachers and thinkers of ancient Greece. From them, we learn the Socratic method as a dialogue between teachers and students that unfolds through a sequence of questions and answers. Rather than providing a set of prepared statements to a passive audience, the teacher engages students in active learning by

leading them through a series of thoughtprovoking questions. The student arrives at answers that he or she knows from the inside through a gradual process of questioning. In today’s Gospel, Jesus reveals himself as a master teacher. The Pharisees are off together plotting to trap Jesus in his words. They are not interested in the profound truths of Jesus’ teachings and parables. Instead, they are threatened by his words. Their ambition and pride in their position of authority obscure the love of God and neighbor. With malice

in their hearts, they seek to ambush Jesus with questions in the hope that what he says could be used against him. Jesus, the son of God, knew what was in their minds and hearts. He answers the Pharisees’ trick question with another question that gets to the truth of the matter. God is the source of all life in the created world. Our existence comes from the loving hand of God, who sustains us in divine love and mercy. All that is created belongs to God because creation comes from God who is love. So we give to God what rightly belongs to him when we praise and worship God and entrust our lives to God in faith and gratitude. The psalmist captures what we owe to God when he sings aloud, “For great is the

Lord and highly to be praised; awesome is he, beyond all gods.” And St. Paul begins his Letter to the Thessalonians by reminding them to give priority to God in all things when he writes: “We give thanks to God always for all of you.” The Pharisees pit homage to God against homage to Caesar. This is a false dilemma. Jesus’ question moves beyond their false problem to a right ordering of our hearts and minds to God and to political authority. Jesus invites the Pharisees, and us, to put first things first. When we put God first, all earthly forms of authority are placed in right order, rather than in competition with God. For the grace to understand the wisdom of Jesus the Teacher we pray, “Speak to me, Lord.”

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Family members are a gift you’ve been entrusted with

ou probably remember the television sitcom “Home Improvement,” starring, among other people, comedian Tim Allen. When life got a little complicated and messy, Tim would seek advice from Wilson, his neighbor on the other side of a wooden fence. If you remember, the audience never saw Wilson’s complete face. It was always partially hidden by the top of the wooden fence. In today’s pandemic world, we often communicate with part of our faces hidden by protective masks. Instead of a fence, we are separated by the

FAMILY MATTERS

DEACON TONY ZIMMERMAN Deacon Tony Zimmerman is the lead archdiocesan consultant for the office of marriage and family life.

important guideline of maintaining at least six feet of social distancing. Worse yet, if a loved one is living in a nursing

home, the best that is available is communicating through a closed window. It is often difficult to find joy in these circumstances! We are made for relationship with God and one another. These barriers meant to protect us can also leave us feeling alone and isolated.

The “good news” is that we can find joy in our homes when we strive as a family to find the presence of Jesus in the normal, everyday parts of our daily life. The office of marriage and family life has begun offering a monthly set of principles that will enable families to grow in their love for God and each other. The principle proposed with the launch of this project was: “Joyful Families Aren’t Perfect, They Are Intentional.” A series of suggestions were provided to help you grow in your closeness and appreciation for the gifts that each person brings into

your family’s daily life. Sharing chores like raking fall leaves and then allowing the young ones to jump in the piles build family memories. There were suggestions for adding to your family prayer and faith life. October’s theme is: “Joyful Homes Aren’t Perfect, They’re Unrepeatable.” Each one of us is uniquely created by God, so it follows that our families are also unique and unrepeatable. What are the unique qualities found in our family? What challenges have we overcome together? Parents and grandparents can share stories from their lives. Parents can share

what has been important in their faith life. Share memories of your first holy Communion. What is it like to receive Jesus in the Eucharist? Take comfort in this truth: God gave you each member of your family because you are the best one to care for them. As we go along into Advent, Christmas and a new year, there will be blogs and videos with more suggestions on celebrating liturgical seasons and exploring ways to grow in our Catholic faith and love for one another. For more ideas and encouragement, go online to: www.arch kcks.org/joyful-homes.

Elections and the value of justice in public policy

he Catholic bishops of Kansas — indeed the Catholic bishops of the United States — have declared protection of the unborn as the “preeminent issue” facing Catholics this election. According to the Oxford dictionary, preeminent means “surpassing all others; very distinguished in some way.” The preeminent issue of abortion takes on a special meaning in Kansas at this time in wake of a horrific abortion case ruling handed down by the state Supreme Court that discovered and created a right to abortion in the Kansas constitution. Incredibly, the legal path is now open for taxpayer-funded/

CHURCH AND STATE

CHUCK WEBER Chuck Weber is the executive director of the Kansas Catholic Conference.

Medicaid-funded abortion in Kansas. A 14-year-old girl (or any minor) has the “right” to abortion without the knowledge or consent of her parents. Live dismemberment abortions at a rate of about nine each week continue

without mercy. In fact, virtually every pro-life Kansas law on the books is now, according to the court, “presumed unconstitutional,” including bans on horrific late-term birth abortions, mandatory informed consent and even basic clinic sanitation standards. The Kansas abortion industry is unregulated. Abortion “rights” in Kansas are practically unlimited.

Overnight, “prolife” Kansas changed into one of the most radical pro-abortion rights states in the country. In fact, Kansas abortion law is now even more extreme than states like New York. What can Kansas Catholics do to change this grave injustice? “Value Them Both” is the proposed amendment to the Kansas Constitution that will safeguard both women and babies from an unregulated abortion industry. “Value Them Both” places the power to regulate the abortion industry back where it belongs: in the hands of the people and their elected officials. Passing “Value Them Both” is a twostep process.

First, a “super majority” of the Kansas Senate and House must vote to approve placement of the amendment on a statewide ballot. Once that happens, then second, citizens vote yes or no. The amendment becomes part of the Kansas Constitution if it receives a simple majority of votes. Passage of “Value Them Both” does not outlaw abortion, but it will again make our abortion laws enforceable and constitutional once again. This past legislative session, “Value Them Both” passed the Senate, but came four agonizing votes short in the House. Planned Parenthood and the abortion industry cheered. No one is more vulnerable than the

preborn child. No one is more at risk in Kansas. The protection of the unborn is the preeminent issue of our day. Pope Francis reiterated this truth during Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann’s in-person “ad limina” visit to the Vatican last January. Before casting a vote this election, it is incumbent that you bring a properly formed conscience to your decision-making. Know where the candidates stand on all the issues, beginning with “Value Them Both.” Ask questions. Seek the common good. The candidates want to hear from you. Pray. Then exercise your responsibility of faithful citizenship and vote.

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Seek not material abundance, but the fullness of life By Catherine Upchurch Special to The Leaven

he resurrection two centuries ago from a rock-enclosed tomb is good news not just for the followers of Jesus in the past but for all who wish to find meaning in a world that is sometimes hard and full of dying. We are reminded that at the core of our faith is the confidence that death is never the final word from God. The final word is always life. In the Gospel of John, Jesus compares himself to the sheepfold and gate where the flock enters for safety, and to the shepherd himself who EMBRACING THE in his goodness will die for the flock (Jn 10). While OF J o h n ’ s Gospel does not use explicit language for the kingdom of God, by preserving the image of the shepherd who comes to give abundant life, we are drawn into a picture of God’s kingdom that focuses our vision on abundance, specifically on abundant life. In our day and time, there are plenty of voices that promote a false type of abundance. Proponents and preachers of this type of message have equated abundant life with a prosperous life, so much so that their message has been dubbed “the prosperity gospel.” Their message is presented as a kind of formula assuring followers of Christ that if their faith is strong enough — and their donations steady enough — they will reap the rewards in financial security. This is surely not what Jesus has in mind when he says, “I came so that they might have life and have it more abundantly.” The meaning of this abundant life is illustrated in myriad ways throughout Scripture and especially in Jesus’ descriptions of the kingdom of God. From the lush garden of Eden in the second chapter of Genesis, to the tasty feast described in the 25th chapter of the prophet Isaiah, to the life-giving water and the tree of life in the final chapter of Revelation, we are constantly reminded that God is not miserly and, by extension, God’s kingdom is marked by a sense of plenty. Jesus’ teachings, his healing touch and even his critique of his own religious institutions are all meant to re-

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direct human desire to the fullness of life that God wants for us. Jesus illustrates what he knows to be true: God is generous. And in that generosity, we find more than enough to give meaning to our lived experiences. God’s abundance comes in the midst of meager resources to crowds gathered along the hillside near the Sea of Galilee. It was such an important lesson on God’s abundance and generosity that the Gospel writers included the story multiple times (Mt 14:13-21; 15:32-39; Mk 6:34-44; Lk 9:12-17; Jn 6:1-13). Surely, the crowds who gathered on the hillside near the Sea of Galilee were fed spiritually before they ever tasted the loaves and fish. Both were satisfying. Another lesson in abundance comes in the form of the familiar parable of the sower and the seed. Whether the seed is meant to represent God’s word (as in Mk 4:1-9, 13-20) or the disciples who receive God’s teaching (as in Mt 13:1-9, 1823), it is striking that the sower just tosses all the precious seeds from his hands and lets them land where they may. The sower, representing God, exhibits a generosity that is certainly not logical but is lavish to the extreme. God’s kingdom, once again, is marked by such lavish and hopeful gestures. The ministry of Jesus, marked by abundant generosity and mercy, informs our minds and hearts and still has the power to animate our actions. Receiving from God’s abundance transforms us, and through us, could reform the world. Catherine Upchurch is the general editor of the Little Rock Catholic Study Bible and contributes to several biblical publications. She writes from Fort Smith, Arkansas.

The crowds who gathered on the hillside near the Sea of Galilee were fed spiritually before they ever tasted the loaves and fish.

Now At a time of pandemic and related restrictions, it may seem out of sync to speak of abundance, but God’s abundance is the good news we need. Receive the Lord’s grace and sow God’s love through phone calls and video chats, sharing music, laughter, sympathy and hope.

Questions for reflection or discussion: • What messages do you notice from our culture about the value of acquiring an abundance of possessions? What messages do you hear from God’s word about the same thing? • When has an experience of scarcity caused you concern or fear? How might scenes from the ministry of Jesus help you to reorient yourself? How might you work on distinguishing needs from wants? • When in your life have you become aware of the immense generosity of God? How do you talk with others about this awareness? • Read one of the versions of the multiplication of loaves and fish listed in the article. Imagine yourself in the scene. Are you one of the apostles who is worried there will not be enough to satisfy the crowd? Are you one of those fed after listening to a long day of Jesus teaching? Are you Jesus, happy to supply what others need?