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ADVENT

With Advent just around the corner, Tadeo (age 5), left, and Teresa Jacobo (age 3) practice their candlelighting skills on the traditional Advent wreath. They are the children of JesĂşs and Maricela Jacobo, members of St. Paul Parish, Olathe. Advent begins on Nov. 29.

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#iGiveCatholic

Moving on up

This year, 55 organizations are participating in the annual #iGiveCatholic crowdfunding event that begins on Dec. 1.

St. Rose Philippine Duchesne School in Garnett has increased its enrollment by 71% over the past 5 years.

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A tale of two priests, and the way forward

his week’s virtual meeting of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops devoted a significant amount of time to the Vatican’s McCarrick report.

It is a report that is difficult to read because of pain experienced by the trail of victims who suffered because of Theodore McCarrick’s abuse of his office as priest, bishop, archbishop and eventually cardinal.

The report still leaves a lot of questions regarding how Theodore McCarrick was able to rise to positions of authority within the church, while living in a way completely inconsistent with celibate chastity.

The report exposed the multiple human failures that allowed McCarrick to continue to function as a prominent leader within the church until three years ago.

Fortunately, the efforts of the church for the past 20 years to hear with respect and openness the accusation of victims

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LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN eventually led to Theodore McCarrick’s removal — first from the College of Cardinals, and ultimately resulted in his prohibition from exercising the ministry of bishop or priest. The recent implementation of the protocols instituted by Pope Francis to create a means to report accusations of misconduct by bishops is an important step for the prevention of the possibility of future McCarricks.

However, the best laws, protocols and systems must be implemented by human beings. The ultimate safeguard for the

church is the integrity of its deacons, priests and bishops living the commitments that we make in the ordination ceremony.

One concrete suggestion made during the discussion of the report was for each bishop to recommit ourselves to our personal pursuit of holiness. We were challenged to spend a portion of our daily eucharistic Holy Hour praying for the healing of victims of clergy misconduct.

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FATHER MCGIVNEY IS A BEAUTIFUL EXAMPLE OF HOW A HEALTH CRISIS PROVIDES AN OPPORTUNITY TO WITNESS POWERFULLY TO THE LOVE, HOPE AND JOY OF THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST. Catholic priest, Blessed Michael McGivney, the founder of the Knights of Columbus, as an example of priestly integrity and zeal.

Father McGivney founded the Knights of Columbus to provide fraternal, spiritual support for Catholic laymen who, in turn, could offer financial resources for widows and their children.

Today, we benefit from the legacy of Blessed Father Michael McGivney in the amazing charitable efforts of the Catholic fraternal organization that he founded. Just this past Saturday, I blessed a new sonogram machine the Knights of Columbus donated to the Wyandotte Pregnancy Clinic, allowing mothers a technological window into their

womb to witness the humanity of their unborn child.

This is just one small illustration of the amazing charitable work performed by the Knights of Columbus today. Father McGivney showed what is possible when Catholic clergy and laity work together to fulfill the mission of the church to make the love of Jesus tangible in our world.

Father McGivney died at the age of only 38 from pneumonia during an 1890 pandemic. His life was too brief, but its impact is being felt 150 years later. Father McGivney exemplifies priestly zeal and dedication as well as a charism for inspiring and equipping Catholic laymen to transform the world

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by the light of the Gospel.

It is no coincidence that his beatification took place during the COVID pandemic.

Father McGivney is a beautiful example of how a health crisis provides an opportunity to witness powerfully to the love, hope and joy of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

McCarrick and McGivney is a tale of two American priests.

Theodore McCarrick is a tragic example of clericalism and the worst kind of abuse of authority. Blessed Michael McGivney, on the other hand, is a shining example of the difference one humble, zealous priest can make in the lives of millions.

Please pray for me that I can strive more and more to become a shepherd after the example of the Good Shepherd who laid down his life for his sheep. Pray for all priests that we can be faithful to the promises we made on the day of our ordination, seeking not to be served but to serve.

Blessed Michael McGivney, pray for us.

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#iGiveCatholic makes it easy for Catholics to give

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — When Gov. Laura Kelly issued a stay-at-home order for the entire state beginning March 30 because of the COVID-19 virus, all Catholic parishes were left scrambling to find ways to minister to their flocks.

Because in-person Masses were canceled, some parishes turned to livestreaming Masses over the internet — if they had the equipment and know-how.

Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish in Overland Park was one of many that had neither. But they had to do something quickly.

A temporary fix was found.

“A parishioner (Mike Brown) stepped up and livestreamed over his Verizon cellphone account onto our parish Facebook page, and then he copied it there onto our parish website,” said Paul Coquillette, parish business manager.

Shortly after that, Coquillette began investigating livestreaming equipment and drew up a proposal to present to the parish finance council. The unexpected capital expense of the equipment was paid for out of parish reserves. But now that expense — $30,000 — needs to be made up.

That’s why Queen of the Holy Rosary is participating in this year’s #iGive Catholic online crowdfunding event on Giving Tuesday, Dec. 1.

Above, Mike Brown, parishioner at Queen of the Holy Rosary in Overland Park, monitors the parish’s livestream equipment during a daily Mass on Nov. 13. The equipment allows parishioners and others to watch daily and weekend Masses from home through the parish’s Facebook page.

Parish staff hope the equipment’s expense will be made up through this year’s #iGiveCatholic event, taking place on Dec. 1.

55 ways to give This is the fourth year that the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas will participate in #iGiveCatholic and 55 archdiocesan organizations are participating — parishes, schools and Catholic nonprofits. #iGiveCatholic is different from traditional fundraising campaigns because it’s online, most of the donations are small and the campaign reaches out to a whole different segment of the population. Donors can give to one organization or as many as they want. The minimum donation amount is $25.

The online platform specific to the archdiocese is: kansascity.igivecatholic. org. Donors can go to the site and search for a specific organization to which they want to donate. A search can be done by name, location or cause.

Another option is to go browse through the “wish lists” of several organizations by clicking on “View All” under the blue “Search” button.

Another way to access the online giving platform is through the archdiocesan website at: archkck.org/igivecatholic.

Opportunities to match Resurrection Catholic School at the Cathedral in Kansas City, Kansas, is asking donors give with the future in mind.

“This year we are asking that all of the proceeds go to our newly established endowment fund,” said Felicia Holcomb, director of development for the school.

In October, an anonymous donor gave $10,000 to the school to establish

From left, Maureen Kelly, spiritual director at Villa St. Francis, and resident Maudeline “Maudie” Britz play a game of bingo. Villa St. Francis, a Catholic nursing home in Olathe, is attempting to raise $20,000 to fund an entire year’s worth of activities for the community.

an endowment fund. This same donor is willing to contribute up to $5,000 in additional funds to match #iGiveCatholic donations to the school’s endowment.

“We’re really excited we get to have this established where we can ensure a Catholic education to Resurrection students in the future,” said Holcomb.

If donors don’t want to give to Resurrection’s endowment fund, they can give to the school’s general fund.

Gifts that keep on giving Villa St. Francis, meanwhile, a Catholic nursing home in Olathe, is using the opportunity to launch its “Your Best Christmas” campaign.

The aim, they say, is to get archdiocesan Catholics to focus on what’s important this year and to make themselves happier in the process. According to recent studies, people who spend more on others — on “prosocial” spending, to a charity like Villa St. Francis, for example — are happier than if they spent the money on themselves.

Villa St. Francis is attempting to raise

$20,000, a figure that will fund an entire year’s worth of enjoyable activities for the community.

“We strive to promote and maintain our residents’ highest functional abilities by providing a variety of engaging opportunities. We understand how important meaningful activities are to their emotional well-being,” said Priscilla Salinas, life enrichment director.

“When you donate to Villa St. Francis, you are providing a better quality of life for our residents.”

Finally, for the first time ever, the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas office of Catholic schools is asking for funds to thank school administrators, teachers and staff at Catholic schools across the archdiocese. The school office wants to thank them for their hard work during the COVID-19 pandemic by offering them treats, gifts and lunches.

Need greater than ever The success of this year’s #iGiveCatholic campaign is especially important

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because of the COVID-19 pandemic, say organizers. This is a safe and secure way to donate to your favorite cause.

“This year more than ever, #iGive Catholic is supporting participating parishes, schools and ministries in reaching and engaging their communities during a time when many in-person events are limited or canceled,” said Kathryn Robards, marketing coordinator for the Catholic Foundation of Northeast Kansas. “[This campaign] is allowing them to fundraise for amazing projects that will expand the ways in which they serve the community, especially during these unprecedented circumstances,” she continued. “We are proud and excited to have another successful Giving Tuesday.” #iGiveCatholic will begin precisely at midnight on Dec. 1 and run for a full 24 hours. If, for some reason, people can’t give on Dec. 1, the iGiveCatholic. org website will open for advance giving from Nov. 16 to 30.

In instances where a person opts not to give online, participating organizations will provide envelopes for #iGive Catholic donations.

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NOVEMBER 20, 2O2O | THELEAVEN.ORG David and Mary Pracht, members of St. Teresa Parish, Westphalia, will celebrate their 50th anniversary on Nov. 21. The couple was married on Nov. 21, 1970, at St. Boniface Church in Scipio.

Their children are: Dale and Dana. They also have three grandchildren.

Linda and Phil Voyles, members of St. John Paul II Parish, Olathe, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Nov. 27. The couple was married on Nov. 27, 1970, at St. Teresa Church, Lincoln, Nebraska. Their children are: Cory Voyles and Megan Loveless. They also have five grandchildren. A family celebration is planned for next year.

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Editor’s note: The Leaven received this submission in response to its Oct. 30 front page story called “Honoring their journey: Name change reflects the desire to walk with victims.” “Anne S.” is a pseudonym for a woman living here in the archdiocese who is the survivor of sexual abuse by a representative of the church. The Leaven is honored to share her submission and thanks her for her courage.

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n the last six years working with the office of child and youth protection, now called the office of protection and care, I have experienced healing, support, encouragement and respect. But something is still missing.

I find that there are words, or phrases, or quotes, that keep emerging. I begin to think of them as a message; a message that relates to my life and compels me to send them to you.

And then I found this picture and I was able to rise up and find my voice.

“In the midst of rushing waves, I thirst. I thirst a thirst only God can satisfy.”

— inspired by Jn 4:5-42

“ I stand at the door of your heart and knock. Open to me; for I thirst for you.”

—St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta “Water, water everywhere, not a drop to drink.”

—Samuel Taylor Coleridge, “Rime of the Ancient Mariner”

I thirst for a relationship with God that is based on complete trust.

Much like the trust I felt as I received my first Communion. Pure.

Innocent. Whole and holy trust.

I thirst for peace and the belief that it was not my fault. When a priest in confession tells you to pray harder so that the molestation will stop and gives you penance, it is more powerful than any statements by people in the future who repeatedly use these words, “You know it was not your fault. You had nothing to do with causing the acts done to you.”

I thirst for accountability. I feel no hate and I wish no punishment.

But I do want accountability. A confession by my perpetrator and an idea of why.

I thirst to know that anyone else they have wounded can be provided help.

I thirst for the indignation on the part of all clergy, nuns, members of the faith community . . . to not only feel they need to console us, but to realize indignation for the damage it does to their own selfless dedication to the faith.

I thirst for recognition of the strength and resilience of the survivors who live with this every day and still work, raise families, serve the church and hide the pain because they do not want to impose it on their family and friends.

And, in my case, I thirst for the husband, children, picket-fence life

that I was afraid to have because of a belief that I was not a deserving person in the eyes of God. The abuse of a child, whether by relative, teacher or clergy, results in the death of a part of the soul that has to be brought back to life aggressively, consistently and with profound sincerity of action.

That tiny part of the soul is never without a fear that God does not feel the same love for them, or that God will never forgive them no matter how hard they pray.

That tiny part of the soul has to be nurtured, watered, warmed and given the patience it needs to grow and regenerate.

Pope Francis was quoted as saying that when children are abused, God weeps. Only the faith community — the entire faith community, not just clergy — can provide that special care. We must be seen as believing that God truly weeps for abused children, even when they have physically grown to adulthood.

The response to this church burden is the responsibility of all of us, not just the clergy and hierarchy of the church. We ARE the church.

No, you may not have been a part of any of the terrible wounds inflicted. But they were inflicted in a setting that involved belief in God. For children that makes it so difficult. We have a responsibility to let those wounded know that God loves them, their pastor loves them and the whole faith community loves them.

They are soldiers that have won a battle. Welcome them home. And, above all, listen when they speak.

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Jeanne (Gray) and Bob Ruzich, members of St. Agnes Parish, Roeland Park, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Nov. 21. The couple was married on Nov. 21, 1970, at Blessed Sacrament Church, Kansas City, Kansas. Their children are: Shannon Heffron, Chris Ruzich, Dorothy Meyer, Matthew Ruzich, Jeremy Ruzich and Eugenia Ruzich. They also have nine grandchildren. They will celebrate with family and friends at a later date.

Jane (Fraser) and Gene Peck, members of St. Ann Parish in Prairie Village, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Nov. 28. The couple was married on Nov. 28, 1970, at Overland Park Christian Church in Overland Park.

They joined the Catholic Church in 1975.

Their children are: Leah Nguyen, Simon Peck and Monica Peck. They have eight grandchildren on earth and two in heaven. They will celebrate with a blessing at the 4 p.m. Mass on Nov. 28 at St. Ann and a family dinner.

Rita (Wondra) and Cletus Legleiter, members of Immaculate Conception Parish, St. Marys, celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary on Nov. 19.

The couple was married Nov. 19, 1960, at Holy Family Church, Odin. Their children are: Diane Coffman, Baldwin City; Steve Legleiter, St. Marys; Mike Legleiter, Manhattan; Cheryl West, Topeka; Kenny Legleiter, Columbia, Missouri; Chris Legleiter, Olathe; and Mary Beth (deceased). They also have five grandchildren. They will celebrate at a later date.

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Stable faculty, parish support help school to grow

By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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ARNETT — If past trends continue at St. Rose Philippine Duchesne School here, principal Kelli Wolken is going to have a problem in a few years.

It’s this: Where is she going to put all those kids?

In the past five years, the school has increased enrollment by 71%, from 64 students in the 2016-17 academic year, to 110 students in the 2020-21 academic year.

The school, which was created by the merger of two neighboring parish schools, is supported by St. John the Baptist Parish in Greeley and Holy Angels Parish in Garnett.

Wolken marks the beginning of the rise to an all-day preschool-to-kindergarten program the school launched in the fall of 2017.

“That was a big step for us, because we are getting families in the door who might not choose us, because we offer all-day pre-K,” said Wolken. “Their kids make friends, they get a little taste of our school, they see what we’re like and they want to stay.

“What are the things they see that make them want to stay? They are the things we are most proud of in our school.”

One of those factors leading to enrollment growth — something the school is proud of — is the faculty.

“We have incredibly strong teachers in our school,” said Wolken, “in their morals, in their faith and in academics.

They bond with their students tremendously.”

St. Rose is a dual classroom school, meaning grades one and two are together, as are three and four, five and six, and seven and eight. A student will have the same teacher for two years and that builds relationships.

Another factor is faculty stability.

“For a long time, St. Rose was a stepping stone for teachers,” said Wolken.

“We would have a lot of new teachers come in, get a couple of years under their belt and then they’d leave for another district — one closer to their homes or one that paid better.

“Of the teachers we have now, three are alumni . . . two are married to alumni and one is a recent convert to the Catholic faith.”

And that points to another strength and reason for the growth. The faculty and staff, except for the school cook, is 100% Catholic. Everyone the students come into contact with is Catholic.

Strong support from previous pastors and current pastor Father Daniel Stover is another strength that encourages enrollment.

“Our priests have been very pro-Catholic school and very involved

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Above, Norma Rockers teaches fifth- and sixth-graders about chemical bonds through the process of making their own bouncy balls.

Left, the junior high football players create a rosary for the feast day of Our Lady of the Rosary.

The students decorated prayer chains and wrote intentions on them. Pictured are (from left): principal Kelli Wolken, Rigin Jasper, Adian Steele, Andy Foltz (partially hidden), Christian Barnett, Carson Kuhlman, Teagan Wolken, Brayden Wheat, Landon Schillig and Paxton Foltz.

in the school,” said Wolken. “They meet with the kids, take them to the church and do lessons. We see our priests at every event that we have.” “[Father Stover] knows a little bit about all our students,” she continued, “supports the school in our decisions and shares our successes with the parishioners. He gladly asks parishioners to share funds. He is very supportive.”

The parishes and the school are mutually supportive. Several parents returned to practicing their Catholic faith when their children became active at school.

But not all the students are Catholic.

The school has 18 non-Catholic stu-

dents because their parents appreciate the smaller class sizes relative to the public schools, the building of relationships and the teaching of morals and virtues at St. Rose.

Wolken has every expectation that enrollment growth will continue because several younger families are interested in St. Rose.

The greatest challenge the school faces because of the growth is space.

The school, built in 1954, has four classrooms. Because of space constraints — and the COVID-19 pandemic — they’ve had to get creative.

The cafeteria was turned into a classroom. The library was also turned

into a classroom and the books moved to the church basement — the new library. “[Growth] has increased our class sizes,” said Wolken. “They’re a little bigger than we like. We’d love to hire another teacher and split a class. The grades one and two classroom has 30 students, and we’d love to split it.”

There have also been discussions about expanding facilities, such as building an activity center (gymnasium) and a cafeteria, but there are no definite plans yet. The school is taking things year by year.

The current maximum capacity of the school is probably 125 students.

Will they reach it?

“I don’t know,” said Wolken. “We might. It’s a good possibility. . . . If we keep getting families from outside [of the community], we’ll keep growing — not only in our school, but our parishes, too.”

Holiday wreath-laying to honor veterans buried at Resurrection Cemetery

ENEXA — Veterans laid to rest at Resurrection Cemetery here will receive special recognition during the holiday season through the collaborative efforts of Catholic Cemeteries of Northeast Kansas, Wreaths Across America, the American Fallen Warrior Memorial Foundation, local Scouting troops and donors.

“This will be our second year to place remembrance wreaths at Resurrection Cemetery to honor those who have served in the military and to

commemorate their love of our country,” said Sharon Vallejo, president of Catholic Cemeteries. “We gratefully acknowledge the American Fallen Warrior Memorial Foundation for sponsoring and coordinating this initiative that we hope to expand to some of our other cemeteries in the future.”

On Dec. 16, starting at 4 p.m., volunteers from several Scout troops will begin laying the evergreen wreaths at individual burial sites.

A brief ceremony will follow at 5 p.m. at the Veterans Memorial at Resurrection Cemetery, located at 83rd and Quivira Rd. The ceremony is open to the public with the requirements of wearing masks, social distancing and observing other current COVID-19 guidelines recommended by the CDC. Dawn Hilton, director of community engagement for the American Fallen Warrior Memorial Foundation, said

that last year volunteers placed over 200 wreaths at Resurrection Cemetery.

Nationwide, Wreaths Across America laid almost 2 million wreaths in 2019.

Catholic Cemeteries of Northeast Kansas is a ministry of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas that manages and operates nine cemeteries in Johnson, Leavenworth and Wyandotte counties, and in Topeka.

For more information, call (913) 3714040; send an email to: information@ cathcemks.org; or visit the website at: www.cathcemks.org.

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Make it a Thanksgiving to remember

By Deacon Tony Zimmerman Special to The Leaven

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few years back, we gathered at the home of one of our daughters for a holiday dinner.

That year was a time of change for our family as our daughter Amy and her family had moved to Minot, North Dakota, due to her husband’s job change. Instead of the usual 20-minute drive, we were now separated by 830 miles (13 hours).

As we prepared for our meal, she called us from their car via Skype. She told us they were driving to a friend’s home to share their meal. It was snowy there as it was here that day. You can imagine how surprised I felt when someone answered the doorbell and there stood Amy, her husband and two children.

The shouts of joy and hugs made the day memorable. While the holiday food was great, it was nothing compared to the thanks we felt for being all together!

For many of us, this Thanksgiving will be missing the time of being all together.

It will taste like drinking flat soda pop.

Now, in an effort to keep this holiday as normal as possible, we might prepare a favorite family dish to be left at the door of one another’s homes.

When all the food has been exchanged, perhaps we will gather via Zoom to “share” the meal. Beyond that, what can make this a Thanksgiving to remember? Here are some possibilities: • Remember those who cannot afford the Thanksgiving meal due to lack of funds or shelter. Prepare a dinner item to take to a local food kitchen. When you begin your meal, remember to ask God’s

Thanksgiving may be different for many families this year. Do what is in your power to make the best memories possible during these times. blessings on those who are hungry or homeless.

• Invite further prayer, asking each family member to share that for which they feel thankful.

• Invite each person to share their favorite Thanksgiving memory.

• Invite each person to share what they

like most about being part of this family.

• Share your favorite humorous event from a family gathering or meal.

• Share your favorite memory about a family member who cannot attend or is deceased.

• What gift did their presence bring to these gatherings?

• Play a virtual “game” together like charades — this can be a lot of fun.

• Have your cleanup after the meal be a “family event.” Dr. Gregory Popcak reminds us that sharing in family chores says: “You can count on me — not just for the fun times, but all the other times, too.”

Look to our seniors for reasons to be grateful this Thanksgiving “ OUR SENIORS, SURELY, WILL KNOW HOW

SISTER CONSTANCE VEIT, LSP Sister Constance Veit is the director of communications for the Little Sisters of the Poor.

staff, almost completely cut off from the outside world.

Families, volunteers and our devoted lay associates — who provide companionship, entertainment and the little extras that make life more pleasant for our frail seniors — have all been barred from our homes since midMarch.

We try to take one day at a time, but we are always aware that even a single positive COVID test would send our residents back into isolation. Recently, some of them told me

that they expect the holidays to be quite difficult this year, since it is unlikely they will be able to spend time in close proximity with their loved ones.

Despite having minimal contact with the outside world, we remain mindful of those who have passed away due to COVID-19 and the thousands of loved ones who mourn their loss, as well as those who have lost their jobs or homes, those who struggle every day to provide for their families and those who are risking their own lives for others.

What will Thanksgiving mean this year, in the face of so many challenges and so much loss? What will we find to be grateful for? How can we celebrate while our lives are still so thoroughly disrupted, and our wings and spirits remain clipped?

I find answers to these questions in the faces and example of our elderly residents.

Throughout these last months, we have marveled at how resilient our residents are in the face of daily inconveniences, constantly

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n unexpected headline in the New York Times recently caught my eye: “A Disrupted Thanksgiving Leaves the Turkey Business Guessing.”

The article that followed discussed a question that is, according to the author, on the tip of everyone’s tongue — “Just how many whole turkeys will Americans cook this year for a holiday whose wings have been clipped by the pandemic?”

I don’t know if there was any pun intended, but I found the question quite amusing.

I can’t say that this has been the big question on my mind lately, but I have been thinking ahead and wondering what Thanksgiving and Christmas will look like this year.

Throughout the summer, social distancing regulations were relaxed throughout much of the country, but we are now seeing worrying signs of a COVID second wave.

In the world of long-term care, we still live in a virtual bubble with our elderly residents and essential

TO FIND A SILVER LINING AND A WAY OF THANKING GOD FOR HIS BLESSINGS ON THIS ‘DISRUPTED THANKSGIVING.’ changing routines and countless unknowns.

Although in many cases their bodies are frail, their spirits — and their sense of humor — have remained strong.

What is the secret to their resilience?

As members of the Greatest and Silent Generations, our residents experienced the Great Depression and World War II, as well as tremendous social and technological changes during their long lives.

These two generations are known for their resilience in surviving hardship, their strong work ethic and their sense of personal responsibility and self-sacrifice. The men and women of the Greatest and Silent Generations have held on to strong values, gratitude and an appreciation for the simpler things in life.

The wartime Thanksgivings of their youth were marked by rationing and shortages of common ingredients such as sugar, meat and butter.

Turkeys were in short supply on the home front because they were shipped overseas so that every member of the U.S. military could have a hot Thanksgiving dinner, no matter where they were stationed.

Gasoline and tire rationing prevented people from traveling long distances by car, and military personnel were given priority on trains, so family gatherings were surely smaller.

The traditional Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade was canceled as the famous giant balloons were shredded for scrap rubber, and even college and

professional football were put on hold.

These were the youthful experiences of our seniors — surely, they will know how to find a silver lining and a way of thanking God for his blessings on this “disrupted Thanksgiving.”

Surely, the words uttered by their president in 1943 will find an echo in their hearts: “May we on Thanksgiving Day and on every day express our gratitude and zealously devote ourselves to our duties as individuals and as a nation. May each of us dedicate his utmost efforts to . . . bring[ing] new opportunities for peace and brotherhood among men.”

We Little Sisters are so blessed to share our lives with these elders of the Greatest and Silent Generations!

If you are lucky enough to have members of these generations among your family or neighbors, take some time this “disrupted Thanksgiving” to learn from them and share in their gratitude for the little things in life.

EDUCATORS TACKLE TEAC

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St. Agnes teacher looks for ways to reimagine school, while making sure safety comes first

By Pam Heiman Third-grade teacher at St. Agnes School, Roeland Park

THE TRUE NEED FOR FLEXIBILITY HAS BEEN APPARENT. BEING FLEXIBLE AND PREPARED FOR CHANGES ISN’T EASY, BUT HAVING A GREAT SUPPORT SYSTEM IN MY LIFE HAS REALLY MADE A DIFFERENCE.

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OELAND PARK — “Let’s keep our hands to ourselves.” “Give your friend some space.” “Is that a safe choice?”

Some phrases at school haven’t changed.

But “Cover your nose,” “Masks aren’t for chewing,” “Hand sanitize and line up for recess,” “You’re going to have to speak up, I can’t hear you,” and “You really shouldn’t drink your water through your mask” are definitely phrases I didn’t think I would ever say as a teacher.

Our daily reminders to our pupils aren’t the only thing that’s changed. One of the hardest parts about going back to school in August were the unknowns.

I was meant to be a teacher, but how do I keep all my kids safe in my classroom? Will they feel safe? How will this subject work? How will we transition?

Can I keep student jobs? Are they able to still have a conversation with a partner?

How will lunch work? Are bathroom breaks in the hallway allowed?

What about recess? What about reading groups? Is there enough space in their desks for the supplies they can no longer share?

Then, when school started, there was a whole new list of questions I asked myself.

Was that safe? Do I need to stop kids from playing tag at recess? Can they

touch the slide that their friend also touched? Did I say the right things about staying safe in our masks? Was it OK that my students stood in a line and they weren’t six feet apart down the hallway?

Are they washing their hands the right way? Are they even washing their hands often enough? Did I forget to wipe down the door handle? Can I still do this lesson? Do they know that I care and am happy to see them, even though they can’t see the smile on my face?

As a teacher, I think it’s easy to look at our day and see many things we aren’t used to seeing in our normal day-today as teachers. Recreating so many of our lessons and ways we interact with students in small groups, activities and group work has had to look completely different.

The true need for flexibility has been apparent. Being flexible and prepared for changes isn’t easy, but having a great support system in my life has really made a difference.

If I’m going to sum up teaching for me in 2020 so far, it has been full of learning and relearning. In my limited years of teaching where I have established my own routines and learned the best way to teach a skill for kids to understand, there hasn’t been a year that I’ve gone home more exhausted. The recreating/reinventing how to navigate this year safely has had me thinking that sometimes an 8 p.m. bedtime is not early enough!

Surprising to me, my students are so much more flexible and go-with-the-flow than I originally thought. I’ve never had to debate with my students why we’re

wearing a mask. The pure compassion of knowing it’s helping everyone, including themselves, stay safe. . . . How did I get this lucky to have such great kids?

It has truly been a blessing to be [teaching] in person. I have missed being around my students in person and I’m so thankful St. Agnes has been able to be in person safely. The teachers and administration have been working so hard to keep our students safe and give everyone the support they need.

Early in the year, wrapping our heads around the changes, making sure everyone was being safe, was exhausting. I hate to brag, but I have the best principal and priest at St. Agnes. They recognized their staff’s need for a break and scheduled a day off for the next week.

The pure relief on the faces around the room that day! It was exactly what we needed to get through the week.

Speaking from experience, having such a good support system has made this experience much more bearable.

Throughout all of this, some routines haven’t changed, and I am so thankful to have my faith.

I still get to pray with my students and attend livestream Mass every week with them. As far as phrases go, “Let go and let God” has been the go-to — because at this time in our lives, that’s what we need to remember.

I think it’s important to remember that at the end of the day, everyone — parents, caregivers, and teachers — are doing their best to keep kids happy and healthy.

CHING IN A COVID WORLD Mater Dei teacher finds teaching remotely a challenge — but not without some upside

By Carolyn Kaberline Eighth-grade teacher at Mater Dei School, Topeka

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OPEKA — First of all, let me say I never planned on being a teacher. Even though my grade school and high school teachers tried to steer me toward education, I knew that was not for me.

I planned on being a veterinarian — preferably for large animals and, in particular, horses — even though at the time I had never owned one or even been around them much.

But I was horse crazy.

I enrolled at K-State after graduating from Hayden High School in Topeka. At that time, there were few women veterinarians, so I chose a major in technical journalism — a backup plan since I love to write, although veterinary medicine was always my first choice.

Somewhere along the line, I decided to add English to the journalism and thought I could teach journalism for a few years to earn money for vet school as it was and is expensive. But I did not want to teach English — too many papers to grade.

Now — after teaching English and

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journalism to high school and middle school students for the past 51 years — I tell my students to never say never.

God works in mysterious ways, and I have enjoyed teaching more than I ever thought possible.

Probably the only time I regret not becoming a veterinarian is when I get his bill in the mail for treating one of my horses.

So what is it like teaching in this year of COVID? It is definitely challenging for any teacher, regardless of the number of years of experience he or she has. Currently, I am teaching eighth-graders at Mater Dei School in Topeka — remotely, due to some health problems. A few students are receiving instruction at home as well.

Trying to teach as though I were there in person can be a challenge, although I have some wonderful teachers helping me. Solving technical issues can be taxing, as can finding meaningful assignments that will allow the students to be prepared for high school, while enjoying their time in middle school.

Social distancing, in particular, makes it difficult for them to participate in many activities, like reading to the kindergartners — a long-standing tradition for

eighth-graders at Mater Dei. Singing in music classes, too, is tough, as is having guest speakers come in — last year’s visit from Abraham Lincoln (or at least a reenactor) was a hit.

And of course, students also miss some recess activities due to social distancing protocols. Everything must be planned thoroughly in advance, whether I am there in person or not.

Where I might have, in the past, taken the class outside to play hopscotch or some other game mentioned in a short story we were reading and with which they were unfamiliar, I have to make sure there is enough space available so they are not too close to each other.

But there are some upsides. Even though COVID has added problems for teachers, it has also encouraged students to be more independent thinkers and to exercise more self-discipline.

Some things never change: The material still has to be covered and Mater Dei sets high goals for each of its students, then does its best to help the students attain them.

But at least at the moment, it seems like almost everything else has changed for the foreseeable future.

“THERE ARE SOME UPSIDES. EVEN THOUGH COVID HAS ADDED PROBLEMS FOR TEACHERS, IT HAS ALSO ENCOURAGED STUDENTS TO BE MORE INDEPENDENT THINKERS AND TO EXERCISE MORE SELF-DISCIPLINE.”

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Detroit Archbishop Allen H. Vigneron, vice president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, and Los Angeles Archbishop José H. Gomez, USCCB president, are pictured in the studio at USCCB headquarters in Washington Nov. 16. They were in the studio for the bishops’ fall general assembly, convened virtually due to the coronavirus pandemic.

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ASHINGTON (CNS) — The two days of the virtual assembly of the U.S. Catholic bishops, Nov. 16-17, initially included discussion of the Vatican report on former cardinal Theodore E. McCarrick. But the bulk of the bishops’ conversation focused on the ongoing pandemic and the church’s response to racism.

The assembly, which usually takes place in Baltimore, was virtual this year due to COVID-19 restrictions and the public sessions were livestreamed.

About 300 bishops logged on, and for the most part, they crossed the technological hurdles of making sure their individual responses came through on the teleconference format.

The main topic Nov. 16, added late to the bishops’ agenda, was discussion on the Vatican report on McCarrick, released less than a week before, on Nov. 10.

Bishop Joseph E. Strickland of Tyler, Texas, said the report, which described McCarrick’s ascent to highest rungs of the church, even amid rumors of abuse, read like a list of the seven deadly sins.

“It’s very clear that there’s still very much a tendency in the world and in the church to turn a blind eye to many of these sins,” he added during the 45 minutes of discussion about the long-awaited 460-page report.

Chicago’s Cardinal Blase J. Cupich said Pope Francis had taken historic action in issuing the document as well as other unprecedented measures.

“It really has been a watershed moment,” he said. “And something that we should continue to study and read.”

Los Angeles Archbishop Jose H. Gomez, president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, pointed to the ongoing suffering caused by the coronavirus pandemic, noting that people’s faith in God “has been shaken” by the pandemic and related economic turmoil, and he urged the church leaders to help people navigate this enormous challenge.

The current times, with social unrest and uncertainty caused by the pandemic, “call for heroic Christianity,” he explained. In response, he said: “We need to continue to form and empower missionary disciples, as Pope Francis calls us to do.”

Archbishop Christophe Pierre, the papal nuncio to the United States, also spoke about the pandemic, as one of the “dark clouds” looming over today’s world.

In a 45-minute discussion about the pandemic Nov. 17, several bishops spoke about parishes livestreaming Masses and their efforts to keep in touch with parishioners, particularly the elderly, and learning how to help people access food and other basic necessities.

They also spoke of the spiritual lessons that have occurred, saying there has been a renewed desire among Catholics for the Eucharist.

Bishop Daniel E. Flores of Brownsville,

IT REALLY BROUGHT HOME THE FACT THAT WHITE SUPREMACY IS NOT A HARMLESS FRINGE IDEOLOGY BUT THAT IT IS DEATH-DEALING IDEOLOGY. BISHOP MARK J. SEITZ EL PASO, TEXAS Texas, said he has arrived at parishes to see people kneeling outside, praying for the chance to receive holy Communion and the return of normal worship experiences.

“This is the renewal that I find very personally edifying and a source of great strength,” he said.

Bishop Kevin W. Vann of Orange, California, similarly said he saw people kneeling in the rain early one morning waiting for Christ Cathedral to open.

Several bishops said such yearning for the Eucharist presents an opportunity for the church to begin a new effort of evangelization and catechesis as the public celebration of Mass gradually expands and church leaders determine how best to encourage people to reengage in parish life.

In a practical response to the pandemic, the bishops approved a budget for the year 2021 that took into consideration the economic impact of the coronavirus.

Bishop Gregory L. Parkes of St. Petersburg, Florida, USCCB treasurer and chairman of the USCCB Committee on Budget and Finance, said the USCCB had started trimming budget outlays in 2020 when it appeared the coronavirus

pandemic was going to stay far longer than expected. One such measure was a pay freeze and travel restrictions for all USCCB employees.

Due to “consideration for the pressures each of us face in the dioceses,” he said no assessment increase is being proposed for 2022.

In another action related to the pandemic and to the ongoing discussion nationwide about racial inequality, the bishops approved addendums to their four-year strategic plan addressing the impact of these issues. The plan, adopted a year ago, will go into effect in January 2021.

Continuing their look at the sin of racism, the bishops approved the renewal of the Ad Hoc Committee Against Racism for three more years.

They also discussed, Nov. 17, their efforts to address racism in their dioceses.

Bishop Shelton J. Fabre of Houma-Thibodaux, Louisiana, and chair of the USCCB’s Ad Hoc Committee Against Racism, reminded the bishops that when they approved their pastoral on racism two years ago, they had no idea how the nation would have such a reckoning with racial inequality as it has experienced this past summer.

He said the document, among other things, “unequivocally declares that racism is a life issue.”

It certainly was a life issue for Bishop Mark J. Seitz of El Paso, Texas, who recalled how a racially motivated mass shooting in his diocese last year left 23 people dead and as many injured.

“It really brought home the fact that white supremacy is not a harmless fringe ideology but that it is death-dealing ideology,” said Bishop Seitz, “and it also reminded us that words matter. Words that denigrate immigrants and other people

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of color really matter and feed into these ways of thinking.”

Archbishop Mitchell T. Rozanski of St. Louis said he has spent time meeting and listening with various groups and also took a tour of Ferguson, Missouri, and stopped and prayed where 18-year-old Michael Brown was fatally shot by police in 2014.

He said changing hearts when it comes to racism “is one of the biggest challenges,” but it’s important as Catholics to “plant the seed and leave it to the Holy Spirit.”

The bishops held election during the meeting. Msgr. Jeffrey D. Burrill, a priest of the Diocese of La Crosse, Wisconsin, was elected the new general secretary of the USCCB, succeeding Msgr. J. Brian Bransfield.

In another vote, Cardinal Timothy M. Dolan of New York was elected chairman of the bishops’ Committee for Religious Liberty.

The bishops also voted on chairmenelect for seven committees and seven seats on the board of directors of Catholic Relief Services.

The votes for chairmen-elect included: Committee on Priorities and Plans: Archbishop Timothy P. Broglio of the U.S. Archdiocese for the Military Services; Committee on Catholic Education, Bishop Thomas A. Daly of Spokane, Washington; Committee on Communications, Auxiliary Bishop Robert P. Reed of Boston; Committee on Cultural Diversity in the Church, Auxiliary Bishop Arturo Cepeda of Detroit; Committee on Doctrine, Bishop Daniel E. Flores of Brownsville, Texas; Committee on National Collections, Bishop James S. Wall of Gallup, New Mexico; and the Committee on Pro-Life Activities, Archbishop William E. Lori of Baltimore.

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Vatican looks towards all-electric fleet

By Carol Glatz Catholic News Service

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ATICAN CITY (CNS) — As part of its long-running efforts to respect the environment and reduce its use of resources, the Vatican said it was gradually trying to replace all its service vehicles with an all-electric fleet.

“Soon we will start collaborating with automobile manufacturers who are able to provide electrical vehicles for evaluation,” said Roberto Mignucci, director of workshops and equipment for the office governing Vatican City State.

He told L’Osservatore Romano, the Vatican newspaper, Nov. 10 that an electric fleet was perfect since the average annual mileage for each of their many service and support vehicles is less than 4,000 miles (6,000 km) given the small size of the 109-acre city state and the close proximity of its extraterritorial properties, such as the papal villa and farm at Castel Gandolfo, 13 miles south of Rome.

The Vatican plans to increase the number of charging stations it already has installed for electric vehicles to include other extraterritorial properties surrounding the basilicas of St. Mary Major, St. John Lateran and St. Paul Outside the Walls, he said.

Over the years, several car manufacturers have donated different kinds of electric vehicles to the pope, and the Japanese bishops’ conference gave the pope a hydrogen-powered popemobile in October.

The popemobile, a modified Toyota Mirai, was built for Pope Francis’ trip to Japan in 2019. It uses a fuel-

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Pope Francis rides in a hydrogen-powered Toyota vehicle as he greets the crowd before celebrating Mass at the baseball stadium in Nagasaki, Japan, Nov. 24, 2019. The Vatican plans to gradually replace all of its service vehicles with an all-electric fleet. cell system that generates electricity from a reaction between hydrogen and oxygen, producing no tailpipe emissions other than water vapor.

Manufacturers said it can go about 300 miles (500 km) on a “full tank” of hydrogen fuel.

Mignucci told L’Osservatore Romano that the Vatican has long sought to reduce its impact on the environment and has stepped up those efforts as the technology and materials have become more readily available.

It has installed double-pane windows and high-efficiency heating and cooling systems, improved insulation and bought the latest energy- saving, low-loss electrical transformers found on the market, he said.

Unfortunately, he added, there is

not enough space or rooftops that are feasible for more solar panels.

Through the generosity of a Bonnbased company, the Vatican installed 2,400 solar panels on the roof of the Paul VI audience hall in 2008 and, in 2009, the Vatican set up several hightech solar collectors to help heat and cool its buildings.

In addition to the Vatican’s reduction of greenhouse gases, Mignucci said, it also has made progress toward a total elimination of the use of other gases as part of the Holy See’s agreement to adhere to the Kigali Amendment. The amendment asks nations reduce the production and use of hydrofluorocarbon refrigerants as part of the Montreal Protocol on Substances that Deplete the Ozone Layer.

WYD cross to be given to Portuguese young people

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ATICAN CITY (CNS) — Young people representing their peers in Panama will hand the World Youth Day cross to young people from Portugal at the end of Pope Francis’ Mass Nov. 22 for the feast of Christ the King.

The young hosts of World Youth Day 2019 in Panama originally were scheduled to give the cross and a Marian icon to Portuguese representatives at the end of Mass on Palm Sunday in April. But the COVID-19 pandemic and its travel restrictions made that impossible.

Just a few weeks later, the Dicastery for Laity, the Family and Life, which coordinates World Youth Day, announced that the Lisbon event would be pushed back a year to August 2023.

Leaders of youth and young adult ministry from bishops’ conferences around the world and from Catholic movements will join the virtual celebration after meeting online Nov. 18-21 for a conference titled, “From Panama to Lisbon — Called to Missionary Synodality.”

U.N. calls for action after shipwreck kills 74 migrants

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Youths from Poland present the World Youth Day cross to young representatives from Panama at the conclusion of Palm Sunday Mass celebrated by Pope Francis in St. Peter’s Square at the Vatican in this April 9, 2017, file photo. Young people from Panama will pass the World Youth Day cross to their Portuguese peers Nov. 22 at the end of Pope Francis’ Mass for the feast of Christ the King.

OME (CNS) — The U.N. migration agency renewed its call for increased search and rescue efforts after another tragic shipwreck in the Mediterranean Sea claimed the lives of 74 migrant men, women and children.

According to the U.N. International Organization for Migration, also known as IOM, a boat carrying more than 120 people capsized off the coast of Khums, Libya, Nov. 12.

It was the third fatal incident in less than a week: a migrant vessel shipwrecked Nov. 10, killing 13 people; and the next day, a boat capsized, killing six migrants, including a 6-month-old baby.

“The mounting loss of life in the Mediterranean is a manifestation of the inability of states to take decisive action, to redeploy much needed, dedicated search and rescue capacity in the deadliest sea-crossing in the world,” Federico Soda, IOM’s Chief of Mission in Libya, said Nov. 12.

“We have long called for a change in the evidently unworkable approach to Libya and the Mediterranean, including ending returns to the country and establishing a clear disembarkation mechanism followed by solidarity from other states,” he said. “Thousands of vulnerable people continue to pay the price for inaction both at sea and on land.”

The latest drownings came less than a month after Doctors Without Borders denounced European governments for allegedly preventing nongovernmental organizations from conducting search and rescue missions in the Mediterranean “in a sustained campaign to criminalize saving lives.”

The organization said five vessels they support with medical teams have been detained in recent months, including the Sea-Watch 4 vessel, which has been detained since Sept. 19 at a port in Palermo, Sicily.

“Italian authorities are holding SeaWatch 4 on 22 apparent ‘irregularities,’ including ‘systematically’ saving people and having too many life jackets on board,” Doctors without Borders said Oct. 16. “However, rescue ships are routinely held hostage by unrealistic standards; it seems these inspections have only one goal: to discriminatorily block NGOs from rescuing people at sea.”

According to Italy’s Ministry of the Interior, the country has seen a sharp increase in migrants landing on its shores. As of Nov. 12, an estimated 30,978 migrants, including nearly 4,000 unaccompanied minors, have landed since January, compared to a total of 9,944 people in 2019.

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Ministry for grieving parents to hold first Mass Attend the Mass

By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org

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VERLAND PARK — After the loss of a child, parents are flooded with a unique and unfathomable grief.

But thanks to Project Chrysalis, moms and dads in the Kansas City Metro area and beyond don’t have to go through it alone.

“We say it’s a club nobody wants to belong to,” said Deacon Ken Billinger, “but there’s a need out there, so we’re trying to fill that need with this ministry.

“It’s like having an extended family.”

Deacon Billinger and his wife Patty created Project Chrysalis after they lost their son and realized there was no specific ministry in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas to help grieving parents.

After talking with Deacon Tony Zimmerman and Brad and Libby DuPont of the archdiocesan marriage and family life office, who “saw there would be a definite need for this,” they launched their own.

Now, Project Chrysalis will host its first Mass with those involved in its ministry

JULIAN OF NORWICH: MYSTIC FOR OUR TIMES’ Sophia Center via Zoom Nov. 21 from 10 a.m. to noon

This charming 14th-century English mystic has never been more relevant than today. She teaches that God is at home with us, showing us how to find God in the ordinary and how to pray from the nitty-gritty of life. Delight in Julian’s positive, affirming words and images — a striking counterpoint to the pessimism of her time and our own.

The cost to attend is a freewill offering. To register, go online to: mountosb.org, click on “Ministries,” then “Sophia Spirituality Center,” then “Retreats” and finally “Program Offerings.” From there, scroll down to “Julian of Norwich: Mystic for Our Times” and go to the end of the description of the retreat to complete the registration.

HOG & GROG RAFFLE Our Lady of Unity School 2910 Strong Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Nov. 20 - Dec. 11 at noon

Take a chance on winning a football autographed by Chiefs Super Bowl champion and Pro-Bowler Dustin Colquitt! The winner will be announced via Facebook following the Chiefs game on Dec. 13. The cost is $10 per ticket or $25 for three tickets. Google “Hog and Grog raffle” for details on how to purchase tickets online, or send a check to Our Lady of Unity Catholic School, 2646 S. 34th St., Kansas City, KS 66106. Make check payable to Our Lady of Unity School and write “Hog & Grog” in the memo line.

PROJECT CHRYSALIS MASS Church of the Ascension 9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park Nov. 30 at 7 p.m.

Join us for the Project Chrysalis Mass for parents and grandparents who have lost children or grandchildren. The Mass is open to all in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas and the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph. If you would like to celebrate with us and wish to reserve a memory candle, send an RSVP no later than Nov. 23 by email to: pbillinger@kcascension.org or call (913) 6813348 and include the following information:

To register for the Project Chrysalis Mass, send an email to Patty Billinger at: pbillinger@kcascension.org or call Ascension at (913) 681-3348. To learn more about Project Chrysalis, visit the website at: hopeinscripture.com.

Project Chrysalis will host its first Mass in remembrance of children of parents involved in the ministry who have died on Nov. 30 at 7 p.m. at Church of the Ascension in Overland Park. in remembrance of the children who have been lost.

The Mass is scheduled for Nov. 30 at 7 p.m. at Church of the Ascension in Overland Park. Those interested in attending are asked to register in advance.

“We’ll have candles there as a memorial that people can light and take home with them,” said Deacon Billinger.

Anyone is welcome to attend, including those from the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph and those outside of the Kansas City Metro area.

correct spelling of the name of the deceased, your name and relationship, and whether you plan to be present.

‘ORA ET LABORA’ RETREAT FOR HIGH SCHOOL/COLLEGE STUDENTS Christ’s Peace House of Prayer 22131 Meagher Rd., Easton

Christ’s Peace House of Prayer has openings for applicants to participate in an “Ora et Labora” retreat, designed for high school and college students who are looking for a fun and unique way to fulfill community service hours or simply have a new experience.

There is no charge for this retreat. Masks and social distancing are implemented at this time. Invite friends and schedule a date for a prayer and working retreat designed to your needs. Contact us if interested at (913) 773-8255 or by email at: info@christspeace. com.

‘ADVENT SILENT RETREAT WITH JOHN THE BAPTIST’ Christ’s Peace House of Prayer 22131 Meagher Rd., Easton Dec. 4 - 6

The retreat begins at 5:30 p.m. on Dec. 4 and ends at 4:30 p.m. on Dec. 6. Come prepare your hearts for the coming of the Lord this Advent as we look to St. John the Baptist to show us how to prepare the way. This is a silent retreat. There will be conferences, eucharistic adoration, Mass, confession, and time for private prayer, reflection and walking. The cost for cabins/courtyard rooms is $170 single/$250 couple or $100 for single guest rooms, meals included. To attend, send an email to: info@christspeace.com or call (913) 773-8255.

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“We’re really trying to create an awareness of the ministry to let people know that we’re here and it’s a way of supporting [them],” said Deacon Billinger.

When it was first created in October 2018, Project Chrysalis held a meeting every six months for parents and grandparents experiencing the loss of a child or grandchild. Family members were also invited to attend.

Now, those involved in the ministry gather monthly. Each meeting includes

time for parents to share about their children and their struggles, as well as hear from a guest speaker.

The ministry is Scripture-based and has drawn in some 50 couples and single parents. It’s designed not only to support those who are grieving, but also to help couples communicate with one another.

“The comments [have revealed that] they’re thankful for the ministry because it’s helping them get through the struggles they’ve had,” said Deacon Billinger.

“When you’ve got a situation where you’ve got other people that have gone through the same thing and you can relate to it, we can help each other,” he added.

Deacon Billinger hopes the upcoming Mass will be healing for attendees and that it will help expand this important ministry.

“We want people from all over the metro and anywhere else to come in and be a part of it,” he said.

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DAILY READINGS THIRTY-FOURTH WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME Nov. 22 OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST, KING OF THE UNIVERSE Ez 34: 11-12, 15-17 Ps 23: 1-3, 5-6 1 Cor 15: 20-26, 28 Mt 25: 31-46 Nov. 23 Clement I, pope, martyr; Columban, abbot; Blessed Miguel Agustín Pro, priest, martyr Rv 14: 1-3, 4b-5 Ps 24: 1b-4b, 5-6 Lk 21: 1-4 Nov. 24 Andrew Dung-Lac, priest, martyr, and companions, martyrs Rv 14: 14-19 Ps 96: 10-13 Lk 21: 5-11 Nov. 25 Catherine of Alexandria, virgin, martyr Rv 15: 1-4 Ps 98: 1-3b, 7-9 Lk 21: 12-19 Nov. 26 Thanksgiving Day Sir 50: 22-24 Ps 138: 1-5 1 Cor 1: 3-9 Lk 17: 11-19 Nov. 27 Friday Rv 20: 1-4, 11 – 21:2 Ps 84: 3-6a, 8a Lk 21: 29-33 Nov. 28 Saturday Rv 22: 1-7 Ps 95: 1-7b Lk 21: 34-36

Veronica First century Veronica does not appear in the Roman Martyrology, the church’s official list of feasts. According to legend, she was the woman who took pity on Jesus as he carried his cross, wiped his face with a cloth and was left with an image of the suffering Christ. Many such images, known as “veronicas” and “vernicles,” existed in the Middle Ages. Veronica was sometimes associated with other New Testament women, but there is no evidence that she was real. Her name may come from a combination of Latin (“vera” for true) and Greek (“eikon” for image) words. Her story was included in the Stations of the Cross in the 19th century.

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This Advent, make a season of it

er volant sedem vestra Braccae.

If I had a family crest, I’d put these words on it.

I won’t vouch for the accuracy of the Latin, but it means: “Fly by the seat of your pants.”

That certainly describes how I live my life — even more so in this time of COVID-19.

In other words, planning isn’t my strong suit. (Take a guess as to when I’m writing this column!) Rather, it’s usually the event that drives my response. I don’t think I’ve ever been busier as a priest.

The months of lockdown meant that all the baptisms, first Communions, welcoming RCIA participants into the church, appointments, weddings and meetings — like airplanes — were in a holding pattern, circling the field.

When restrictions began to ease, they all wanted to land . . . at the same time!

Unfortunately, that meant switching from

MARK MY WORDS

FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.

one thing to another without adequate preparation on my part.

And I’m still in that pattern.

It reminds me of this story: A student, rather lazily inclined, noticed that a classmate always recited her Spanish lessons well. One day, he asked her, “How do you recite your lessons so perfectly?”

“Before I study,” she told the boy, “I always

pray that I can remember my lessons and repeat them well.”

The boy thought to himself, “So, that’s her secret. Well, I’ll just pray, too!”

That night, he prayed up a storm, reciting every prayer he could remember. However, the next day he couldn’t repeat even one phrase of the lesson. Baffled, he looked for his friend and confronted her.

“Hey, I prayed,” he told her, “but I couldn’t repeat a single phrase from yesterday’s homework!”

“Did you take time to learn the lesson?” she asked.

“Of course not,” said

the boy. “I didn’t study at all. I had no reason to. You told me to pray that I might remember the lesson.”

“Well, there’s your problem,” replied the girl. “I told you I prayed before, not instead of, studying!”

(Found in Brian Cavanaugh’s “Fresh Packet of Sower’s Seeds: Third Planting.)

Too many times, I’m that little boy. Prayer is wonderful, but it should be accompanied by action. For centuries, the Benedictines have understood this with their motto: “Ora et labora,” which means “Pray AND work.”

The season of Advent, the beginning of a new church year, is an ideal time to jettison an old and ineffective pattern of life and replace it with something better.

Usually, I’ve approached Advent by praying that the Holy Spirit would bless these days.

And that was it; I took it no further.

Perhaps the Spirit was calling me to sketch out a plan on how exactly I’d keep Advent holy, instead of doing my usual fly through it by the seat of my pants?

How about you?

What would make your Advent holy and meaningful? Since Advent doesn’t begin until Nov. 29, we have time to pray and reflect on that question. But don’t leave it there. After prayer, Google “celebrating Advent,” to come up with a slew of practical ways — from Advent wreaths and garlands to Jesse Trees to Advent calendars — to make this season come alive.

Don’t be swept along by the seat of your pants and miss opportunities to prepare for a deeper coming of Christ this Christmas.

Because I’m hoping to change my ways this time around, I’ve got a new motto all ready to go on my crest: “Tardus et stabilis vincit genus” (“Slow and steady wins the race!”).

How can we find our place in Paul’s cosmic vision?

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his Sunday’s readings mark the end of the year — the church year, that is.

We’ve made our way once more through the yearlong celebration of the Christian mystery. God has so loved the world that he sent his only Son, so that we might have life in him.

Since last December, we have remembered his Son’s birth, life, death and resurrection. Now we’ve arrived at the end of the cycle. From this vantage point, we can turn and look back.

What, finally, does it all amount to? An uplifting message for a darkening world?

A guide to a decent, moral existence — the

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KEVIN PERROTTA Perrotta is the editor and an author of the “Six Weeks with the Bible” series, teaches part time at Siena Heights University and leads Holy Land pilgrimages. He lives in Ann Arbor, Michigan.

Ten Commandments plus grace? A hope for some kind of afterlife?

St. Paul gives us an indication that takes

me, at least, to the very limits of the capacity to believe.

Paul speaks of the “end” of “all” (1 Cor 15:24, 28). We don’t know exactly how Paul pictured the universe, but however he thought of it, he was saying that, in its entirety, it will pass away; something new will take its place.

For us in the 21st century, talking about the “end” of “all” the universe means thinking with measures of

time and space that far exceed comprehension.

For a 13-billion-yearold universe, whose extent can be represented only with a mind-glazing string of zeroes, when might the end be? What might it look like?

Whenever or however the end, Paul says, it will not simply be the end. It will be the moment of God’s re-creation in his Son, so that God will be “all in all.”

God will be everything for everything, everything for everyone. “All” will find fulfillment in him.

Whatever was crooked will be straightened out. Every tear will be wiped away.

That is what the Christian mystery

amounts to.

If in faith we take hold of this cosmic vision, we must ask how we, in our littleness, can manage to find a place in it.

The path is accessible, Jesus tells us in the Gospel. Show compassion to the people around you.

Each person around you, then, is your way into the summing up of everything in God. And if we know ourselves to be weak and wayward, needing strength and guidance along the way?

We have our answer in both our first reading and responsorial psalm. “I am your shepherd,” God declares.

Prepare for heaven with faith and good works, pope says VATICAN CITY (CNS) — People sometimes forget life’s ultimate purpose is to prepare for the kingdom of heaven, Pope Francis said.

“People do everything as if they will never depart for the other life. And so, people care only about possessing, of standing out, settling down,” the pope said in his remarks before praying the Angelus with visitors gathered in St. Peter’s Square Nov. 8.

The day’s Gospel reading offered an ongoing reflection on eternal life, he said. The reading from the Gospel of Matthew said the kingdom of heaven will be like 10 virgins who went to a wedding feast with their oil lamps. Those who were wise brought extra oil and those who were foolish did not.

The delayed groom arrived while the foolish ones were out getting more oil, so they found

themselves locked out of the feast and were admonished for not being prepared.

Pope Francis said the parable explains how Jesus tells people they must be prepared — both for Jesus’ final coming and in their daily commitment to meeting him through charity to those in need.

“The lamp of faith is not enough; we also need the oil of charity and good works,” he said.

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Heartfelt thank yous more than money can buy

hroughout each school year, the Catholic Education Foundation receives handwritten thank you cards and letters from students receiving CEF scholarships.

It warms the hearts of the people who get the pleasure of reading them. During this Thanksgiving season, we would like to share some examples of these thank you notes from our joyful students in hopes that many feel the warmth that we do.

“Dear Friend, The work you do is amazing and I’m very happy for it. You give so many people a

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can come here to my school. When I grow up, I want to join CEF so I can help people that can’t send their kids to school.”

Dominic

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VINCENT ANCH Vince Anch is the executive director of the Catholic Education Foundation.

chance to get a better education, even those who live in poverty.

I love being at my school because of my friends and teachers.

They always make

days better, even the worst ones. Without your work, I may have never met some of the people I know today or be here at all. This is the best school I could ever attend.”

Izzy “Dear CEF Donors, Thank you for donating money so everyone

supporting us so we can go to a Catholic school. I love my school because I can express my Catholic beliefs. I can go to Mass every week.”

Alex

“Dear CEF Donor, Thank you for donating money for kids to get a good Catholic education. Some of my friends have been able to come to my school because of people with kind hearts like you.”

Tommy

“Dear CEF, Thank you for supporting our school. I am praying for you. I like my school because everybody is so nice and I get to learn about God and go to church every week.”

Aryanna

“Dear CEF, Thank you for giving money to our families! You have helped us in so many ways!”

Brooke

“Dear CEF Donors, Thank you for your donations and support. We are praying for you.”

Valerie

“Dear CEF, I’m so thankful for you guys

These thank you

notes would not be possible without the many generous donors and supporters of the Catholic Education Foundation.

This year, CEF hopes to provide over 1,600 youth with scholarships totaling over $2.6 million. Proceeds from CEF’s annual Gaudeamus event and the upcoming year-end CEF Scholarship Drive will support over 80% of the CEF scholarships awarded this school year.

We thank all of the kind donors, board members and volunteers for making this possible for so many children in need.

Happy Thanksgiving from the Catholic Education Foundation!

Not everyone can foster a child, but everyone can help

o be truly prolife, we must ensure that every child has an environment where he or she can thrive.”

Archbishop Naumann November is National Adoption Awareness Month.

This is a time to celebrate those whose lives are touched by adoption, to pray with couples waiting to adopt and to support expectant mothers in difficult circumstances who are lovingly and courageously making adoption plans for their child.

This is also a time to raise awareness of the more than 500 children in Kansas foster care who are waiting to be adopted, and the many more who need

LIFE MATTERS

DEBRA NIESEN Debra Niesen is the archdiocesan consultant for the pro-life office.

a foster family to care for them until they can safely return home.

Each of these foster children is a precious gift from God with unique talents and dreams. They have been removed from their home through no fault of their own for a variety of reasons.

They come from all communities, backgrounds and socioeconomic groups.

Many have experienced trauma and are scared, confused and lonely. All deserve a loving and safe home.

The Kansas foster system, while working hard to protect vulnerable children, is overwhelmed. There are around 7,500 children in the system with only 2,000 foster families

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have the grace needed to answer this call.

This past spring, the archdiocese launched a new foster care ministry with the mission of supporting children and the families who care for them.

We thank the many heroic Catholic foster and adoptive families who have already opened their hearts and homes to care for vulnerable children.

We know their journey is rewarding but also immensely challenging at times.

Fifty percent of foster families quit within their first year often due to lack of support.

As Catholics, we are called to respond.

What if every parish inspired two new foster families, five new respite families and multiple parish “support teams” that

able to help.

As a result, children at times have to do multiple one-night stays with different families until a longterm foster family can be found.

Reunification with their biological family is always the goal of foster care, but sometimes this is not possible.

Teens who “age out” of the system without the loving support of a family face sobering statistics: 20% become homeless; 25% enter the justice system within two years; 71% of females are pregnant by age 21; and many fall into the trafficking industry.

The church is the solution! Because care of the orphan and works of mercy are part of the mission for all baptized Catholics, we

Jim Larkin

Sam Garcia

Connect with us!

Visit the archdiocesan foster care ministry website at: www.archkcks.com/foster

wrapped around these families, assisting with their meals, household chores, and material and spiritual needs?

Imagine the impact that could make in the lives of our children!

Not every family is called to foster, but everyone and every parish can do something to help. Go online to: www.arch kcks.com/foster to learn more.

Archbishop Naumann also says, “The mission of the church is to make Christ’s love real and tangible in the world.” Answering this call through fostering and adoption is a way to actively live the “Gospel of Life.”

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A lifeline for the future: Life Insurance 101

en Franklin’s old adage, “Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today” seems especially fitting when considering life insurance. Life insurance is one of those t o p i c s p e o p l e tend to b r u s h aside until they need it. Yet, as Knights of Columbus insurance agent John M a h o n tells The Leaven, purchasing life insurance is a discussion all families should have.

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. Why should someone purchase life insurance, especially if they are single and have no dependents?

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tance of life insurance when you have a spouse and young children?

Most people don’t consider having enough to cover the house, college, etc. It’s more than just funeral considerations.

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. When we do an extensive financial needs analysis for our clients, it is crucial to examine their immediate cash needs, funeral, mortgage, debt liquidation, emergency fund, education fund and day care expenses as well as future income (Human Life Value). Most people underestimate their human life value. When dealing with a premature death of the breadwinner, income needs is usually the area most people overlook or miscalculate. Clients need assets to replace income for their working years or beyond. Sources like Social Security benefits and group insurance fall short in the planning process. The easiest way to create assets for immediate needs and income replacement is life insurance. Life insurance creates an immediate estate. That’s the beauty of it.

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. When should an individual purchase life insurance?

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. There is never a bad time to purchase life insurance, but qualifying is easier when you are healthy and less costly when you are young. If possible, life insurance should be purchased at birth by parents. Guaranteeing future insurability is important and making sure we have enough for any unforeseen tragedies that might occur to our children. As a young adult, parents should purchase enough term insurance to offset any college loan liability they sign up for. As an adult, it should be purchased as soon as possible when

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John Mahon, an agent for Knights of Columbus Insurance Mahon Agency in Topeka and a member of Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish in Topeka, talks about the importance of life insurance and what people should be looking for in an agent.

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. Having life insurance guarantees future insurability. Health issues usually occur as you age. Younger clients qualify for better rates (Premier Class) because they are generally more fit and less of a risk for the insurance company. As you get older, your needs change and usually increase. You may start the normal life cycle: graduating high school or college, taking that first job, getting a car loan, getting your first mortgage, getting married, having children, etc. Having life insurance also takes the burden of burial expenses off the table if you experience a premature death.

AS A CATHOLIC, I THINK IT’S IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO KNOW THE COMPANY INVESTMENT PHILOSOPHY YOU PLAN ON DOING BUSINESS WITH. IS THE COMPANY INVESTING IN ANYTHING THAT IS CONTRARY TO OUR FAITH? JOHN MAHON INSURANCE AGENT AND MEMBER OF MOTHER TERESA OF CALCUTTA PARISH, TOPEKA

you enter the work force. Financial planning begins there. Early financial planning is beneficial to young adults.

Most people overlook the basic financial pyramid. Cover the basics first then move on to retirement planning and investments.

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. How should he/she decide how much to purchase?

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. An insurance agency comprehensive needs analysis can determine a person’s current and future needs.

It’s not a one-size-fits-all approach.

It’s a well-planned, tailored and analysis process for each individual family.

Agents will educate clients about financial products that are available in the marketplace that will fit their personal, individual, current and future planning needs.

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. What happens when you live past the point of coverage? Should you try to get more?

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Annual policy reviews help clients understand when to adjust coverage and the options they have going forward. If you live past and need insurance long-term, permanent

life insurance works really well for the long haul.

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. What should you consider when comparing rates like they show on TV?

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. We call it selecting a company you want to do business with. Keep in mind that there is a lot of confusion on rates. All companies are not created equal. You should be looking for a highly rated company. AM Best and Standards & Poor are two rating resources you can use to evaluate who you want to do business with.

As a Catholic, I think it’s important for you to know the company investment philosophy you plan on doing business with. Is the company investing in anything that is contrary to our faith?

For example, some companies hide the fact that they invest in companies that fund or support abortion.

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. And is that a good way to buy life insurance? Or should I consult an actual agent?

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. I believe you get what you pay for when it comes to buying financial products — or any purchase for that matter.

Purchasing online is cold and can be frustrating, especially when dealing with a death claim. I would never put my wife in that situation. I want someone in the toughest life-changing event that my wife will ever experience (losing a lifelong partner or a child) to assure her that she will not experience any of the financial burden or financial grieving and help her through her spiritual grieving as well. I want a fellow Catholic at my kitchen table when I am gone helping my family. That is very important. Consider a professional Catholic agent who will work with you in the most ethical way possible.

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. How has your advice to your clients changed as a result of the pandemic, if it has?

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. Nothing has changed as far as our process. It is just a different platform.

We are doing face to face and virtual meetings. If anything, the pandemic has put a sense of urgency on people to get their households in financial order.

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. What do people misunderstand about life insurance?

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. Most people think it’s an expense. It’s not. There are a variety of life insurance programs that are used for a variety of reasons. Life insurance is an expression of “love for the family.” It is a financial tool today that can have a big impact on families for generations. It is a tool that can leave a legacy to your family, children with special needs, charity, an alma mater, your parish or diocese, replace Social Security income on the first to die, and more. It’s not just for burial planning.

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. What other questions should someone buying life insurance ask?

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. To name a few: • Is your company going to be there when something happens to you or a family member?

• Under what circumstance has your company ever not paid a death claim?

How long is the claim process?

• What would prevent me from attaining life insurance?

• What is your company’s AM Best and Standard and Poor’s rating?

• Do you know where your company invests its monies? Is there any investment deemed contrary to our Catholic values?

• Do your products come with guarantees? What are some features that you recommend?

• Are your term plans guaranteed renewable and convertible?

John Mahon is a regional agency executive consultant and northeast general agent for Knights of Columbus Insurance Mahon Agency in Topeka. He and his wife Ruth belong to Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish in Topeka, where John served on the parish finance committee for several years.