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WHEN GOD HAS OTHER PLANS Sister Gabrielle Kocour, OSB, keeps fighting the good fight long past the time she thought she’d ‘put my feet up and relax’

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Sister Gabrielle Kocour, OSB, has spent her life working for the poor and disenfranchised. Over the course of 65 years, she’s worked in a wide variety of ministries that champion the poor.

TCHISON — Sister Gabrielle Kocour, OSB, didn’t answer the phone when I first called her to ask for an interview to write this story.

Being in the business of calling people repeatedly begging for interviews, I just figured she was deliberately avoiding the probing, incessant questions of the fledgling Leaven reporter.

I was wrong.

Sister Gabrielle was on the other line with a nurse who, due to unfortunate circumstances, was living

Story by Katie Hyde Photos by J.D. Benning

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Benedictine president Stephen Minnis works with the U.S. bishops on higher education.

out of her car at the mercy of Kansas weather.

Desperate for food, shelter, and a job, she called the right person.

By the time Sister Gabrielle called me back five minutes later, she had helped the woman schedule a job interview. The long process of getting back on her feet had begun.

Over 65 years of service, Sister Gabrielle has earned a reputation in Atchison and beyond for her dogged commitment to social justice, whether it be internationally — or just next door.

5 future priest

Lawrence Bowers is ordained to the transitional diaconate.

>> See “Benedictine’s” on page 6

8 the buck stops here

St. Patrick religious education coordinator Susan Buck knows how to get things done.

16 king of the hill

The Strawberry Hill Museum is rich with Catholic history.

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Life will be victorious

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Catholics invited to fast and pray for change

couple weeks ago on a Saturday morning, I had just boarded a plane to return to Kansas City from Dallas, when I received a text from my niece Dee Dee.

archbishop Joseph F. Naumann

I have been dismayed with the news in recent weeks of the uncertain fate of Hostess baking products. I hope Her message informed me the Twinkie, cupcake and that her 5-year-old, who also Ding Dong can be rescued happens to be named Joseph from a threatened extinction Naumann, had prepared because of the bankruptcy of breakfast for himself. the current parent company.

Joey’s breakfast consisted Beginning with the Adof a “Pop-Tarts bar sandwich vent season, I have made a and 4 Donettes.” The text personal commitment to fast came complete with a photo from all sweets and desserts, of Joey proudly displaying as part of my intercessory his breakfast. The conclusion prayer for the revocation of Dee Dee’s either by the text read: courts or the “It (Joey’s president of breakfast) the Health looked like and Human something Services any Joe Nau(HHS) mann would mandates. like!”

As you Joey and are aware, I do share the HHS in common mandates a genetrequire ic sweet Catholic emtooth. On ployers to my mothviolate their er’s side of conscience the family, and church many of my teaching by The archbishop received this photo of providing ancestors were bakers. his great-nephew Joey Naumann proud- contracepMy maternal ly displaying the breakfast he made for tion, aborgrandfather himself. tifacient concluded drugs, and his career as the manager sterilizations as part of their of one of the Continental employee health plans.

Bakeries in St. Louis, which The first group to be at that time was the parent subjected to these onerous company for Wonder Bread mandates is privately owned and Hostess pastries. businesses. Beginning this Throughout my childpast August, at the time of hood, my mother, brother the normal renewal date and I lived in the upstairs for their employee health unit of a two-story, twoprograms, privately owned family residence with my businesses are required to grandparents living in the include these morally objecdownstairs unit. Most evetionable “services.” For many nings, we would eat supbusinesses, the renewal of per with my grandparents their employee health plan in their dining room. My will occur in January. brother and I were always The HHS mandates, delighted to welcome my which were not specified by grandfather home from Congress in the Affordable work, because frequently Health Care Act, are the crehe would bring packages of ation of the Obama adminiscupcakes and Twinkies. tration under the pretext that

they are preventive health care for women. Of course, for contraceptives and abortifacients to be preventive health care, one has to define fertility and pregnancy as diseases.

Several Catholic employers have contacted me, asking what their moral options are. If they refuse to comply with the HHS mandates, their companies will be subject to crippling fines that could put them out of business and leave their employees with no health insurance. If these Catholic employers comply with the mandates, they will be forced to help fund actions that are at odds with their deeply held convictions.

This coming August, many church entities, e.g., Catholic Charities, colleges, hospitals, etc., will also be subject to these HHS mandates. Many people do not seem to realize or to care about the serious repercussions of the HHS mandates.

This is one of the most difficult moments in history for American Catholics. How will we resist this unprecedented trampling on religious liberty and conscience rights by our own government?

There are those within the current administration who would like nothing more than to force the Catholic Church and faithful Catholics out of the field of health care. If the government can define abortion, sterilization and contraception as essential preventive health care services, what will impede that same government from requiring doctors and other health care professionals to provide them?

Our first response to this crisis should be to turn to God through prayer and fasting. We must pray for a change of heart by the president and his administration. We should pray that the courts will declare unconstitutional the HHS mandates.

We must pray for wisdom and courage on how to fight most effectively this unjust law. We should pray for the conversion of many Catholics and of other Americans to recognize and resist the grave evils that have been embedded by the administra-

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Naumann Dec. 8 Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception (holy day of obligation)

Donnelly College board meeting Hayden High School auction dinner Dec. 13 Adoration — Maur HillMount Academy

Deacon aspirants conference

Catholic Education Foundation meeting

Dec. 9 Mass and dedication of parish hall — Sacred Heart, Paxico

Dec. 15 Pro-Life Mass — St. Cyril & Methodius, Kansas City, Kan.

Pastoral visit — Sacred Heart, Paxico, and Holy Family, Alma

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Pastoral visit — St. Bernard, Wamego, and St. Joseph, Flush

Dec. 10 Catholic Foundation of Northeast Kansas meeting Dec. 11 Administrative Team meeting Priests Personnel meeting Dec. 12 Serra Club presidents meeting and lunch

tion in health care reform.

I ask that every member of the Archdiocese consider adopting some additional practices of penance and prayer. If you do not abstain from meat every Friday of the year, I encourage you to begin to do so. If you do not pray the rosary as an individual or family, I encourage you to begin this beautiful devotion and offer it for a restoration of religious liberty and conscience rights. You also might consider spending additional time in eucharistic adoration or participating more frequently in daily Mass for this intention.

If something does not change soon, some of us may be called to participate in civil disobedience in one form or another. Of course, this would be a very serious step and one that should only be employed as a last resort. However, the possibility for other solutions to this crisis appears to be dwindling. The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops may propose some common

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prayers and penances for American Catholics to adopt.

In the meantime, I encourage you to make your own personal commitment.

As a church, we are delighted that more people will receive health care because of the Affordable Health Care Act. However, this good could turn into an economic disaster if we do not have a realistic means of funding it and paying down our existing national debt. Moreover, this good of providing more people with a greater level of health care can never justify the trampling on conscience rights and religious liberty.

Actually, my fast from sweets and desserts will be a very good thing — not only for my prayer life, but also my health. Perhaps in this twisted way, Obamacare is working to improve my own health. However, sadly, I will not be able to enjoy a breakfast created by Joey until the HHS mandates are rescinded.

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Fostering Catholic identity Benedictine participates in U.S. bishops’ higher ed working group ATCHISON — Benedictine College president Stephen D. Minnis was one of only five college presidents invited to participate in a working group associated with the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops Committee on Catholic Education on Nov. 11. The group, which also included six bishops, was charged with reviewing Catholic higher education in America based on “Ex Corde Ecclesiae,” a decree issued by Pope John Paul II in 1990. The first meeting was held in conjunction with the USCCB’s general assembly meeting in Baltimore.

“I was blessed to be invited to the meeting,” said Minnis. “Our discussion reminded us all just how important Catholic colleges and universities are. A 2012 Georgetown University study pointed out that only 11 percent of young people today have no religious affiliation when they head to college. By the time they leave, 25 percent are unaffiliated. Catholics lose even more members in college than others do.”

The working group was formed by Bishop Joseph McFadden of Harrisburg, Pa., chair of the Committee on Catholic Education, and included the presidents of Catholic University of America (Washington, D.C.), Loyola University (Chicago), University of Dallas, Neumann University (Aston, Pa.), and St. Bonaventure University (St. Bonaventure, N.Y.), along with Minnis. The group also included the auxiliary bishop of Boston, the archbishop of Portland, Ore., and the bishops of Buffalo, N.Y.; Orlando, Fla.; Trenton, N.J.; and Helena, Mont.

Last year, more than 100 U.S. bishops engaged Catholic university presidents in conversations regarding “Ex Corde Ecclesiae” as part of a 10-year review of the decree.

According to Minnis, who met with Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann as part of a review of Benedictine College in 2011, the process asked specific questions: In what ways have the Catholic identity and mission of the institution been clarified and enhanced in the past 10 years?

Benedictine College president Stephen D. Minnis participated in a working group associated with the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops Committee on Catholic Education on Nov. 11.

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“Clearly, students and parents appreciated the direction we took. But so did higher-education critics. Since embracing ‘Ex corde Ecclesiae,’ Benedictine College received national recognition for the first time from U.S. News & World Report and Colleges of Distinction, among others.”

Stephen D. Minnis, Benedictine College president

How has communion with the church been strengthened? How has the school incorporated the bishops’ norms?

“The working group is charged with developing

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best practices to continue the dialogue between bishops and presidents,” said Minnis. “Each member of the group agreed that much progress has been made in Catholic identity. The group

determined that missionbased hiring and formation of faculty, staff and trustees were essential. Finally, they agreed that addressing theological and catechetical training is becoming more

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important for our young people during their college years — and before.”

The group will continue to meet by conference call and yearly at the bishops’ annual meeting.

As an example of the power of following the blueprint laid out by “Ex Corde Ecclesiae,” Minnis talked about the history of Benedictine College since the decree was issued.

“Benedictine College owes much to Pope John Paul II’s document,” he said.

“He published it in 1990 — the year of the lowest enrollment in our history at 570 students. The college had been under pressure from many sources to follow a different path. Certain voices argued that a Catholic university could not be academically excellent and faithfully Catholic or that academic freedom demanded that faith be put on a shelf.

But we made a conscious decision to support the church’s vision of a Catholic university, and that has made all the difference.”

Since then, Benedictine College has grown to more than 1,700 full-time undergraduates. The school has built nine new residence halls since 2000, just completed a 56,000-square-foot academic center, added a campus in Florence, Italy, and begun majors in international business, finance, engineering and nursing.

“Clearly, students and parents appreciated the direction we took,” said Minnis.

“But so did higher-education critics. Since embracing ‘Ex Corde Ecclesiae,’ Benedictine College received national recognition for the first time from U.S. News & World Report [magazine] and Colleges of Distinction, among others.”

Benedictine College has clearly thrived by following the recommendations of the pope and the U.S. bishops.

“Benedictine College alumni will carry the faith ‘from the heart of the church’ into their jobs as engineers, doctors, lawyers, teachers, etc. — and into their families and parishes as well,” said Minnis. “That’s what a Catholic college is for.”

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Deacon’s path to ordination led home

Overland Park native installed as bishop of Lincoln n Bishop Conley succeeds bishop BruskEwitz after 5 years in Denver

The Diocese of Lincoln At a Glance The Diocese of Lincoln is one of three in the state of Nebraska. The other two are the Diocese of Grand Island and the Archdiocese of Omaha.

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INCOLN, Neb. — More than 1,200 people, including at least 40 bishops and archbishops, filled the Cathedral of the Risen Christ here on Nov. 20 to witness the installation of the diocese’s ninth bishop, Bishop James Douglas Conley, an Overland Park native who graduated from Shawnee Mission West High School in 1973 and the University of Kansas in 1977.

At the opening of the Mass, Bishop Fabian Bruskewitz, who served as the diocese’s eighth bishop and apostolic administrator from 1992 to 2012 and is now retiring, welcomed all those in attendance and praised God for sending “a precious treasure in our new bishop.”

The apostolic nuncio to the United States, Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano, then read an English translation of Pope Benedict XVI’s apostolic letter naming Bishop Conley to the position.

In it, the pope reflected upon the 125th anniversary of the Diocese of Lincoln, the faithful service of Bishop Bruskewitz and the “apostolic zeal” of Bishop Conley.

The new bishop started his first homily as bishop of Lincoln on a light note, explaining that “I moved from Denver to Lincoln on Nov. 6 — exactly two weeks ago today. And in that time, I’ve experienced my first Huskers victory and my first Runza sandwich, and both are pretty awesome.”

“I’ve also eaten more kolaches than I care to admit,” he continued. “But with those things behind me, I think it’s fair to say I’m now a Nebraskan.”

Later, turning his attention to the day’s celebration, the bishop said: “Today we celebrate the installation of a bishop. . . . But the focus of today’s Mass is not the installation of a bishop.

The focus of the Mass and the focus of every Mass is the redeeming sacrifice of Christ on the altar, the Lord truly made present to us.”

Elsewhere in his homily, Bishop Conley discussed the relevance of the Sacred Heart of Jesus in the life of the church, bishops, priests, religious and the laity, as well as in his own vocation.

“Today we celebrate the votive Mass of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. In the preface to the eucharistic prayer we will pray in a few moments, we give

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Bishop James D. Conley offers a blessing as he departs the Cathedral of the Risen Christ in Lincoln, Neb., after being installed as the ninth bishop of Lincoln on Nov. 20. thanks to God who ‘gave himself up for us with a wonderful love and poured out blood and water from his pierced side, the wellspring of the church’s sacraments, so that, won over to the open heart of the Savior, all might draw water joyfully from the springs of salvation.’ This wonderful love wants to win over our hearts,” Bishop Conley said.

Greeting the bishops in attendance, Bishop Conley reflected upon their shared responsibilities: “My brother bishops, there is nothing more important for a bishop than the care of souls.

If the church is to flourish in the world today, if the new evangelization is to really take root, if we are to build a culture of life, holiness must begin with us.”

Elsewhere in his homily, he said

that, like many priests, he attributes his vocation to Blessed John Paul II. “In 1979, on a bright autumn day much like today, I stood in a cornfield not far from here in Des Moines, Iowa, as the new pope celebrated Mass on the feast of St. Francis of Assisi. His message was beautiful, especially because it was rooted in the spirituality of rural life.”

“But John Paul’s witness was more important this message,” he continued. “Even by 1979, John Paul’s life was characterized by suffering under the Nazis and then the Soviets, through the death of his mother and his father, his brother. I was 24 years old in October of 1979, and I watched a man whose life was defined by suffering but who, at

the same time, radiated joy and hope.”

At the time, Blessed John Paul II was 59 years old. Bishop Conley recalled that he was energetic and joyful.

“St. Irenaeus said, ‘The glory of God is man fully alive.’ John Paul was fully alive in his priesthood, and I wanted to share in that life,” he added.

Reflecting upon his collaboration with the priests of the diocese, Bishop Conley said, “Our priesthood should be characterized by joy. Our sufferings can transform our hearts into the Sacred Heart of Jesus. They can allow us to love as Christ loved.”

Near the end of his homily, the bishop turned his focus to the laity of the diocese.

“In your daily lives, God has given you the opportunity to become holy,” he said. “Family life, professional life, your social and cultural and public lives are all venues for love and sacrifice. You are called to love with self-giving love, the self-giving love of Jesus.”

Bishop Conley quoted Archbishop Charles Chaput of Philadelphia who said recently, “The only thing that matters is to be a saint.”

“That’s what we need to be,” the new bishop continued. “That’s what we need to become.

“Your holiness can transform the world.”

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n Lawrence Bowers on track to be ordained to the priesthood in May

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T. MARYS — The newest archdiocesan deacon’s path to ordination led to a religious order, and then back to his home diocese, proving that there’s no place like home.

Deacon Lawrence Andrew Bowers III, 36, a seminarian at St. John Vianney Theological Seminary in Denver, was a Capuchin Franciscan friar when he further discerned that he was called to be a priest of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas.

Deacon Bowers was ordained to the transitional diaconate on Nov. 10 at Immaculate Conception Parish in St. Marys. He is the son of Larry and Marla (Brooks) Bowers of Delia.

Originally of Sacred Heart Parish in Delia, the family became members of St. Stanislaus Parish in Rossville at the time of Sacred Heart’s closing. Deacon Bowers has two older sisters.

Deacon Bowers graduated from Rossville High School in 1994, and earned a bachelor of science in computer engineering from Kansas State University in 1999. He did computer engineering until he decided to enter the Capuchin Franciscan order in 2004. He began his seminary studies in 2008.

The main celebrant and ordaining minister was Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann. Also present was Bishop Emeritus George Fitzsimons of the Diocese of Salina. Deacons Nathan P. Haverland and Daniel P. Schmitz vested Deacon Bowers.

In his homily, the archbishop thanked Bowers’ parents for their witness to marriage and family, and recognized that Deacon Bowers was sacrificing such blessings for himself in order to serve the people of God as an ordained minister.

The archbishop also said that Deacon Bowers’ decision to follow God’s call was a noble use of freedom, in contrast to a society that more and more sees freedom as the “right to do anything any way we want and whenever we want” simply because we want to do it.

Further, he said Deacon Bowers’ faithful response to God’s call demonstrates an obedience to true freedom, a gift that always comes from God. During the promise of the elect, Dea-

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Above, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann and Deacon Lawrence Bowers share a laugh during Bower’s ordination to the transitional diaconate on Nov. 10 at Immaculate Conception Parish in St. Marys.

Right, the archbishop performs the rite of the laying on of hands on Deacon Bowers, who is scheduled to be ordained to the priesthood in May 2013. con Bowers pledged to fulfill the duties of the diaconate. Then, he prostrated himself on the floor during the Litany of the Saints. Next, he approached the archbishop to receive the laying on of hands and the Book of the Gospels.

Although short, the period of the transitional diaconate is important. In addition to committing to pursue a life of service, Deacon Bowers made commitments to lead a life of celibacy and obedience to the archbishop and his successors.

As a transitional deacon, he will be able to baptize, officiate at weddings, preach, distribute the Eucharist, preside at funerals, and lead Sunday celebrations in the absence of a priest.

Deacon Bowers will continue his seminary studies and serve at Christ the King Parish in Denver. The tentative date for his ordination to the priesthood is May 25, 2013, at St. Matthew Parish in Topeka.

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Benedictine’s passion for justice driven by her faith

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“The thing that sticks out [about Sister Gabrielle] is her indefatigable energy to pursue a greater social justice for a greater number of people. She’s always up for helping others.”

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A long two weeks When Sister Gabrielle announced her decision to enter the monastery after graduating from high school in 1950, her mother looked at her like she was crazy.

“My mom told me I needed to clean up my language or they were going to kick me out,” she said, laughing.

Her classmates were equally astounded.

“All my classmates said to me, ‘You were the last one we thought would do it,’” said Sister Gabrielle.

Though her classmates doubted her, she was passionate about service.

“I wanted a way to serve others,” she said. “There were no Peace Corps or Papal Volunteers. I didn’t want to get married right out of high school and start having kids.”

So she decided to give it two weeks.

After that time, she gave it another two weeks. And another. And another.

“I swear I did that for four years,” she said.

And then it was time to make final vows.

“It seems like a long two weeks,” said Sister Gabrielle, smiling.

Working woman on the move The inscription on a coffee cup that sits on her desk serves as a testament to many years spent in service to others.

“Working woman on the move” it says, reminding her that though she recently turned 80, her work isn’t anywhere near complete.

“The thing that sticks out [about Sister Gabrielle] is her indefatigable energy to pursue a greater social justice for a greater number of people,” said fellow Benedictine Sister Grace Malaney, Sister Gabrielle’s friend and co-worker.

“She’s always up for helping others.”

Over the course of 65 years, Sister Gabrielle’s work has spanned nearly every ministry imaginable. She’s worked in Catholic Charities in Tulsa, Okla., and in Kansas City. She developed social outreach programs at a Tulsa parish and developed the Nemaha-Marshall Catholic Education Center in northeastern Kansas.

She has also worked in ministry to AIDS victims, fought for nuclear disarmament, supported an end to human trafficking and worked with domestic violence victims for many years.

“She teaches social justice — mostly by example,” said Sister Barbara McCracken, OSB, who worked with Sister Gabrielle through Catholic Charities.

From her earliest days, when it was

Sister Grace Malaney

Sister Gabrielle pursues social justice with a passion and energy uncommon for someone who recently turned 80 with only one good hip — the other having been removed in 1980.

“Anyone who calls with needs, I work with them and do something to help them,” she said.

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“She’s really changed the world one person at a time. She’s never refused to help the person if she could and if the person had a need. She never refuses.” co-worker Sister Sheila Carroll far more common for a Benedictine Sister to go into teaching than anything else, Sister Gabrielle had her heart set on working for the poor and disenfranchised.

In those days, she said, “I felt that the Catholic Church was more focused on educating the upper class and middle class,” she said. “I said, ‘I’d like to work among those with a low income. The church needs to focus on that.’”

“I don’t believe in social action just for social action,” she clarified. “I believe in social action coming from our faith.”

Though she is technically “retired” now, Sister Gabrielle’s work — like that of many Benedictine Sisters of her generation — is far from over. She leads

Kernel of truth If you had to pick your favorite parable, what would it be? If you chose the good Samaritan or the prodigal son, you would have the Evangelist Luke — and Luke alone — to thank for it.

Yes, Year “C” is a very good year in the Lectionary cycle of the Catholic Church. (Remember that we hear the bulk of the Gospels read at weekend Masses over a threeyear cycle — in Year A, we hear Matthew’s Gospel; in B, it’s Mark’s; and now we’ve just started Year C — Luke’s.)

That’s because Luke is not only a great storyteller, but he has more great stories to tell. That’s partly because

book discussions weekly, “lectio divina” (or Scripture meditation) classes on Sunday, and spirituality classes for those attending retreats at the Sophia Center in Atchison. That’s when she’s not driving other Sisters around to doctors’ appointments and other obligations.

“After 50 years in the field, I thought [retirement] would be nice,” she said. “I thought, ‘I can put my feet up and relax.’”

But God had other plans.

Healing hands Sister Gabrielle’s primary job since retiring has involved providing assistance to individuals and families through a local program called Domestic Violence Emergency Services, or DoVES. Sister Gabrielle has been treasurer of the DoVES board for six years.

Every day, Sister Gabrielle receives calls from people who are homeless, hungry, jobless, or abused.

“Anyone who calls with needs, I work with them and do something to help them,” she said.

There’s the woman who returns every few months looking for shelter, each time with a new name. And the women who come to her door with bruises on their arms and faces. Or the family of three, with one on the way, that needed a place to stay.

“I try to talk to them to get them up on their own two feet,” said Sister Gabrielle, “to make them feel good enough about themselves.

“The more we build them up as persons, the more they will be able to walk away from [drugs and violent situations].”

But Sister Gabrielle’s help goes far beyond a pep talk. Sometimes it means arranging a motel stay for a few nights, helping someone find a job, or sometimes just sharing a meal.

“She’s really changed the world one person at a time,” said friend and coworker Sister Sheila Carroll. “She’s

he’s writing later than either Mark or Matthew — maybe almost at the end of the century.

Because he is so influential — Luke accounts for a full quarter of the New Testament as he is also the author of the Acts of the Apostles — we’ll come back to Luke’s own story later. But to start, remembering just three things will help you appreciate his Gospel better.

First, unlike Mark, whose account is so spare as to sometimes lack context, Luke is very intentional about setting the stage. He has been specifically commissioned to record the history of Jesus for posterity, and he means to do just that.

Second, Luke is an educated man. He uses the same

never refused to help the person if she could and if the person had a need. She never refuses.

“In some way, she will somehow reach out to that person, if only it’s to share a meal here at the monastery.”

“She’s just a great person,” said Sister Mary Beth Niehaus, who has worked with Sister Gabrielle over the years.

“She is concerned about people who are otherwise not considered in society today — who are lost and fall through the holes in our day-to-day life. They are very much a part of our society, but what do we do to help them?”

You can’t keep a good woman down When Mount St. Scholastica prioress Sister Anne Shepard jokingly called Sister Gabrielle a hippie for her work in peace and social justice, the older nun had a quick comeback.

“I’m a hippie because I’ve got no hip,” she retorted while rolling through the 200-year-old monastery in an electric wheelchair.

In fact, even to outsiders, said the prioress, “I often introduce Gabrielle as our ‘resident hippie.’

“Ever since I have known her, she has been a bit nonconventional, but she has been a consistent advocate for the poor, the abandoned, the unnoticed.

“She acts out of a spirituality of peacemaking that is solidly grounded in the Gospel and the Rule of St. Benedict.”

There was only one time when the indefatigable nun seemed to be in danger of throwing in the towel.

Sister Gabrielle’s hip was replaced in June 1975. But a staph infection, followed by other complications, required it to be redone in September of the same year. Following even further complications, the surgeon removed her hip altogether in 1980.

It was a very tough time for a woman used to being active 24/7. She was in the hospital for a total of 90 days and, for a while, it appeared as though it might defeat her.

“I was overwhelmed with grief in the hospital,” Sister Gabrielle recalled.

“Then I saw a poster. It said that a human is like an onion,” she said. “You peel off one layer, and then you weep.”

Sister Gabrielle cried her tears.

Then she threw herself into her rehabilitation.

“The Holy Spirit kept me at it,” she said.

Though she has helped thousands of people through her ministry, and continues to deliver emergency services to this day, Sister Gabrielle takes no credit for her work.

“It is not I in ministry,” she said simply, “but the Holy Spirit working within me.”

literary and historical devices that other historians of that era — like Josephus or Thucydides — used.

Which means that, third, before we can really get underway, Luke is going to want to establish for us just when and where Jesus of Nazareth walked this earth.

How good a job does he do? Well, more than 2,000 years later, the reference points he uses — the reign of Tiberius, Pilate’s term as governor, etc. — are such familiar methods of dating a historical event that all it takes to fact-check the evangelist is a little thing called Google.

Not bad for a start, eh?

— A.M.

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Superb honor for a Supreme Knight

n Nativity parishioner receives honor from Knights of Columbus

By Joe Bollig joe@theleaven.com

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — It’s something special when people put you in the same company with the late Cardinal John O’Connor and Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta.

Both the late cardinal and the beatified Sister are among only nine people who have received the Gaudium et Spes Award from the Knights of Columbus.

“Gaudium et Spes” is Latin for “joy and hope,” and are the opening words of the Second Vatican Council’s Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the Modern World.

On Nov. 16, one more name was added to the worthies on that list: Virgil Dechant, who served as Supreme Knight from 1977 to 2000.

Dechant received the honor on Nov. 16 at the Gaylord Texan Resort and Convention Center in Dallas. Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann gave the invocation.

This is the highest award given by the fraternal organization. As part of the honor, he received a gold medal and an honorarium of $100,000.

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Past Supreme Knight Virgil Dechant received the Gaudium et Spes Award from the Knights of Columbus on Nov. 16 at the Gaylord Texan Resort and Convention Center in Dallas. Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann gave the invocation.

“I feel totally inadequate,” said Dechant, who with his wife Ann is a member of the Church of the Nativity in Leawood.

“I’m kind of humbled by it,” he continued. “You never feel you merit [such an honor]. I surely feel I don’t when I look at the illustrious recipients before me. I don’t come up to that standard.”

Others feel that he is more than deserving of such an honor.

“The Gaudium et Spes Award,” said Supreme Knight Carl A. Anderson, “is a fitting tribute to past Supreme Knight Virgil Dechant’s tireless spiritual and humanitarian work.”

“The joy and hope reflected in this award’s title,” he continued, “reflect very well the attitude with which Virgil approaches his work for the church, the Knights of Columbus, and those most in need in communities around the world.”

Dechant has been a Knight of Columbus for 63 years. When he joined the St. Augustine Council No. 2340 in his native Liebenthal, he was only 18 years old. He quickly rose through the organization and held several leadership positions until he became Supreme Knight in 1977.

During his tenure, Dechant led many major initiatives, including the restoration of the façade of St. Peter’s Basilica, the creation of the Vicarius Christi Fund for the Holy Father’s personal charities, and a collaboration with the Pontifical Council for Social Communications.

Although he is retired, Dechant continues to serve on the Knights’ board of directors, is chairman of the ceremonials committee, and serves as a consultor to the Pontifical Commission for Vatican City State.

Dechant helps Bishop Ward students celebrate Year of Faith Bishop Ward’s junior theology class is studying theology of the body by Pope John Paul II, so the students were excited to welcome Virgil C. Dechant, former Supreme Knight of the Knights of Columbus and a friend of Pope John Paul II, to class on Nov. 13.

In sharing his personal stories about the Vatican, Pope John Paul II and Mother Teresa, Dechant treated the students to a riveting account of his life of faith.

Dechant also shared with the Bishop Ward students the vast collection of photos he has compiled over his many years of travel to the Vatican, as well as memorabilia and gifts acquired along the way.

“I really liked being able to see the letters he brought from Mother Teresa,” said Hannah Baughman. “They were very interesting and authentic.”

“It was a moving experience to hear Mr. Dechant’s stories,” said student Cydney Bushue. “I felt such a heavenly presence in the room. He is truly a gift from God.”

always room at the inn

Religious education director makes evangelization her year-round mission

By Jessica Langdon Leaven staff

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — In 32 years as a priest, Father Pat Murphy, CS, has never encountered anyone like Susan Buck.

“To her, there’s no such thing as a lost sheep,” said Father Pat, archdiocesan animator for Hispanic ministry.

Buck, the longtime director of religious education at St. Patrick Parish in Kansas City, Kan., keeps a close watch over her whole flock, even on bustling Wednesday evenings when nearly 250 kids — plus their teachers and parents — pour into the school to learn the faith and prepare for the sacraments.

“When I see her on Wednesday nights and the classes are getting started, to have everybody come together for a prayer, to me looks like utter chaos,” said Father Pat with a laugh.

But with Buck and her team in charge, it runs like a well-oiled machine.

“She’s like the maestro of the orchestra,” he said.

Father Pat only met the religious educator this past spring when St. Patrick launched a regular Spanish Mass — and in the process signed up dozens of additional families for religious education.

But just a few months of working with Buck has demonstrated the something special she brings to the table.

“She’s just so focused on her ministry there and making sure kids get catechesis,” said Father Pat. “Just being open — accepting them where they are,” he said, makes all the difference Buck happily tends to the parish’s ever-evolving needs, even as she shoulders another round-the-clock vocation at home: caring for her husband Russell, who has had 10 strokes since 2008.

“My whole world revolves around my family and my job,” said Buck.

She doesn’t view teaching the faith to 244 children — ranging in age from kindergartners to eighth-graders — as anything less than what God has asked her to do.

“When they receive holy Communion for the first time, I see the joy in their heart. I see the parents’ faces light up, and I know that it’s all worth it then,” Buck said. “There’s always something about a sacrament. When you watch that child get baptized, you know you’ve done what the Holy Spirit’s asked you to do.”

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Selena Ramirez signs up to volunteer for the Thanksgiving Mass as Susan Buck, director of religious education at St. Patrick Parish in Kansas City, Kan., recruits students in confirmation catechist Gabe Zamora’s class in November. Pastor Msgr. Michael Mullen looks forward to the two yearly Wednesday evening Masses led by students in the religious education program. He also enjoys seeing students who have gone through the program come back as aides during their high school years.

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Susan Buck, director of religious education at St. Patrick Parish in Kansas City, Kan., talks with catechist Jim Reitemeier about the lesson he is preparing for his class. As the longtime DRE, Buck believes the catechists make this program thrive. rament Grade School in Kansas City, Kan., she attended Bishop Ward High School.

And although Russell didn’t go to the same school — he didn’t become Catholic until later — the two got to know each other through neighborhood friends.

Susan and Russell eventually married, and welcomed a son, Rusty, and two daughters, Lisa and Sharon.

The couple’s participation through St. Patrick, their parish, in a Marriage

Encounter event sparked Buck’s first encounter with the religious education program in 1978.

When a member of the group — the parish’s DRE — mentioned needing a first-grade catechist, Buck volunteered.

“And just like that, I started,” she said. “And it was fun. I stayed with it.”

It soon became a family affair when Russell and a family friend started teaching. Lisa volunteered as an aide in high school and later taught as an adult.

‘Somebody needed somebody’ Buck grew up in a predominantly Catholic neighborhood, where neighbors helped neighbors.

After graduating from Blessed Sac-

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Susan Buck attends Mass with her husband Russell. Both have spent time teaching the faith to children at St. Patrick Parish in Kansas City, Kan. Since Russell’s health has declined, the couple has adjusted their plans and day-to-day lives.

Buck’s youngest daughter, Sharon Davenport, remembers sitting as a child in the back of her mom’s classroom.

Today, Davenport teaches her own class of kindergartners in the program.

When the previous DRE left the position in the mid-1990s, she immediately thought of Buck to take the reins.

Buck, coincidentally, had turned in her notice at a hearing aid company the very day that then-pastor Father Tony Blaufuss called to ask if she was interested.

Buck had planned to work for her husband, a truck mechanic, at his garage.

But Russell encouraged her to go for it. She could handle both, he said.

“The Holy Spirit just put me where I needed to be because somebody needed somebody — and it just worked out,” she said.

St. Patrick pastor Msgr. Michael Mullen believes this has been a match made in heaven.

“She enlists other people to help her and gives them good direction,” he said, adding that she has developed a wonderful staff of catechists and is “gifted at placing them” with the right ages.

Msgr. Mullen always finds classes engaged in good topics and sometimes jumps into the conversation.

He is always inspired by the two Masses each year with leadership from students in the religious education program.

Msgr. Mullen knows well that families don’t always join a parish according to the school-year calendar.

“When a parent steps forward and expresses interest, that’s the time to respond,” he said.

And Buck does that naturally.

“Her theory is: If kids haven’t been to catechism in a while, that’s OK — we’ll do catch-up classes,” said Father Pat. Buck folds new arrivals into the program no matter what time of year they arrive.

“To me, if I came to a church and I said, ‘OK, these are my children,’ and somebody says, ‘Well, you know it’s February — you need to wait until September,’ I would say, ‘How important are my children to you?’” Buck said.

“Those children are very important to me,” she said, “and to God.” They’re so important she’ll go out of her way to make sure they know Jesus’ love.

“I don’t believe in God and I don’t want this,” a student once told Buck. So they struck a deal: The student would come in once a week and complain for half an hour, but the second half-hour belonged to Buck.

At the end of their sessions, the student told a different story: “I do want to be confirmed and I do believe in God.” Buck hopes students will remember this as a positive place, and she reminds her catechists that you never know when something you say might stick with a child for a lifetime.

But the learning is never one-way.

“A good catechist has to learn as well as teach,” said Buck.

That’s why she was one of the first to sign up for a School of Faith course as part of the “Faith: Love It. Learn It. Live It.” initiative.

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As an evening of religious education gets underway at St. Patrick Parish, DRE Susan Buck, left, visits with parent Nancy Aviana.

“When they receive Holy Communion for the first time, I see the joy in their heart.

I see the parents’ faces light up, and I know that it’s all worth it then”

‘She really evangelizes’ “I think any student can see that what Mrs. Buck is saying, she’s living,” said Msgr. Mullen.

Her marriage is a witness to her faith.

When they said, “I do,” it was for

life, said Buck. And over the years, they have had the chance to honor that promise “in sickness and in health.”

Despite those challenges, said Msgr.

Mullen, “they have a wonderful marriage.”

The couple cherished years of good health, and especially enjoyed camping. Russell took his grandsons hunting and fishing and would lend a hand on his wife’s busiest nights at church.

When his health declined, he struggled with his new limitations, and it was very hard at first.

But both adjusted to the change, moving to a smaller home and revisiting plans they’d made for retirement.

It’s simply what you do, though, Buck insists.

“Within the vocation of marriage, you have sacramental grace,” she said. “I believe that grace kicks in all the time, and that sacramental grace is what helped us to go through what we’ve been through — to never be an-

gry, and to always be there for each other and do the next step and the next step, whatever it is.”

They treasure moments together at their mobile home in Missouri, on their deck overlooking the woods, or even just watching TV. “He made the comment about a year ago that we’re closer than we’ve ever been,” said Buck.

She has started taking part in a new support group at the parish for caregivers and takes comfort in the knowledge that she’s never alone.

She’s surrounded by family and friends, she said, who let her laugh — or cry on their shoulders — wonderful co-workers, and catechists who can seamlessly step in if she is called away on a Wednesday night to the hospital.

But that has happened only a couple of times. The majority of Russell’s major rehabilitation has taken place during the summers — timing she credits to the Holy Spirit.

When she began working with a growing number of Hispanic families, Buck knew right where to turn for inspiration.

As the first pope, St. Peter was charged with bringing together people of different cultures and languages to build one universal church, she said.

“He’s answering my prayers,” she said. “I have a picture I keep by my desk of him to remind me that I fall in the water and Jesus has to help me up, too.”

Even with plenty going on at St. Patrick, Buck immediately offered to be a resource to the Cathedral of St. Peter when it expanded its Hispanic ministries this year.

“There’s always room at the inn in terms of Susan,” said Father Pat. “I just wish we had more people who only did their part like Susan does her part,” he added. “She really evangelizes.”

10 local news Douglas and Patricia (Parr) Martinek, members of Christ the King Parish, Topeka, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on Dec. 1. They were married on Dec. 1, 1962, at Sacred Heart Church in Delia. Their children and their spouses are: Michelle and Mike Berry, Topeka; Doug and Amy Martinek, Union City, Tenn.; Melissa and John Kuckelman, Hong Kong; Darren and Denise Martinek, Kansas City, Kan.; and Mandi Martinek, Union City, Tenn. The couple also has nine grandchildren. They will celebrate with a trip to Hong Kong.

Bob and Mary Lue Preston, members of St. Patrick Parish, Kansas City, Kan., celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary on Dec. 1 with an open house hosted by their children and grandchildren at the Kansas City Kansas Community College Conference Center with family and friends. The couple was married on Nov. 22, 1952. Their children and their spouses are: Becky and Roger Bell, Kansas City, Kan.; and Robbin and Ron Killingsworth, Fort Myers Beach, Fla. They also have seven grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren.

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Sister Mary Aloys Powell, SCL Leavenworth — Sister Mary Aloys Powell, 85, a Sister of Charity of Leavenworth, died on Nov. 22 at the motherhouse here.

Mary Elizabeth Powell was born on Aug. 23, 1927, in Maple Hill, to John A. and Elizabeth Hansan Powell.

She graduated from Immaculate Conception High School in St. Sister Mary Aloys Marys, and enPowell, SCL tered the religious community of the Sisters of Charity of Leavenworth on Feb. 12, 1946. As Sister Mary Aloys, she made her profession of vows on Feb. 15, 1948.

She completed nurses’ training at St. Vincent Healthcare in Billings, Mont., and loved being a nurse. She worked in health care ministry as an RN for 10 years, mostly as a night supervisor or a supervisor in ob-

stetrics at SCL hospitals in Denver; Leadville, Colo.; and Santa Monica, Calif. She went on to earn a graduate degree in hospital administration from St. Louis University.

Sister Mary Aloys served in different capacities (hospital administrator, president, chief executive officer) from 1961-1992 at St. Mary’s, Grand Junction; St. John, Santa Monica; and St. John, Leavenworth. According to those who knew her, she was a real life, down-to-the-trenches administrator. In 1993, Sister began working in Denver with the Saint Joseph Hospital Foundation until she retired in 2011. On March 21, she returned to the motherhouse.

Sister Mary Aloys received many accolades in her professional life but was especially proud of having received the Order of the Green Fez Award from the Western Colorado Shrine Club, a very rare honor given by some Shrine units in North America to those they consider very special people.

She was also thrilled to have been the first woman Rotarian in Leavenworth.

National Catholic Youth Choir is seeking singers

Collegeville, Minn. — The National Catholic Youth Choir is seeking high school singers to audition for the 2013 camp and multi-state concert tour held at Saint John’s Abbey and University here, from June 17 through July 2.

Apply online at: www.Catholic YouthChoir.org. Applications and auditions are due March 18, 2013. Questions? Call (320) 363-3154 or send an email to: dkantor@csbsju.edu.

Scout earns Eagle Fort Leavenworth — Cody Arod Deas, a member of Boy Scout Troop 66 of Fort Leavenworth and of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee, achieved Eagle Scout rank and was recognized in an Eagle Court of Honor Oct. 7.

Deas’ Eagle project entailed development of a multimedia room Cody Arod Deas for use by Catholic adult and children’s religious education programs at Immaculate Conception-St. Joseph Church, Leavenworth. The project involved recycling and donating books and computer equipment, painting and prepping the room, and staging chairs, tables, a TV, and a VCR to complete the room.

Archbishop will celebrate pro-life Mass Kansas City, Kan. — Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann will celebrate the archdiocesan monthly pro-life Mass on Dec 15 at 8 a.m. at Sts. Cyril & Methodius Church here, located at 44 N. Mill.

Immediately following Mass is a rosary procession to an abortion clinic approximately four blocks away.

Eucharistic adoration is available for those not processing. Benediction concludes services by 9:45 a.m.

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december 7, 2012 | theleaven.com

Father Bernard, pastor and educator, buried at Scipio

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Father Bernard Lickteig, O.Carm., 91, loved laughter, travel, his family and education — both as a student and teacher.

Father Bernard, who served as a pastor and educator at several locations as a member of the Carmelite order for 73 years, died on Nov. 26 at Villa St. Francis in Olathe. He was a member of the Province of the Most Pure Heart of Mary Order of Carmelites.

“He was a good friend, a good priest and a good Carmelite,” said Father Aaron Peters, OSB. “He was always available Father Bernard to people if they Lickteig, O.Carm. needed to see him.

He had a good sense of humor and liked to tell jokes.”

Father Bernard was born to Francis Joseph Lickteig and Elizabeth (Wolken) Lickteig on Jan. 6, 1921, in Greeley.

His baptismal name was Fabian Phillip Lickteig.

Fabian, his parents and 11 siblings were members of St. John the Baptist Parish in Greeley. After his studies at the parish school, he continued his education at Mount Carmel Junior Seminary in Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada.

When he was 18 years old, he received the Carmelite habit and, on Aug. 14, 1939, took the religious name “Bernard.”

Brother Bernard made his first vows on Aug. 15, 1940, at New Baltimore, Pa. He entered Mount Carmel College and graduated with a degree in philosophy in 1943, before professing solemn vows as a Carmelite on Aug. 15, 1943, in Washington, D.C. He resumed his studies at Catholic University of America and received a bachelor of science in education in 1946. He was ordained a priest on June 8, 1946, at St. Clara Church in Chicago.

Father Bernard continued with his education after ordination. He earned

advanced degrees in math and German in 1949 from DePaul University in Chicago, and in education and chemistry in 1952 from the University of Chicago. He also studied counseling in 1974 at Arizona State University in Tempe, Ariz.

Father Bernard’s first assignment was at Mount Carmel High School in Chicago, where he taught for four years. Then he joined the Our Lady of the Scapular Carmelite Community and staff of the Carmelite Retreat House in Hamilton, Mass.

During the nine years he served in retreat work, Father Bernard also taught at the Carmelite Junior Seminary. In his last year of retreat work, he promoted the Carmelite-sponsored St. Therese Chapel in the North-Shore Mall Shopping Center in Peabody, Mass.

In 1960, Father Bernard became a teacher at Mount Carmel High School in Houston. After three years, he became pastor of St. Cecilia Parish in Englewood, N.J. He was also elected as second councilor for the Most Pure Heart of Mary Province and served in that position for three years.

After nine years as pastor of St. Cecilia, he became associate pastor of St. Agnes Parish in Phoenix, where he also served in provincial administration. In 1978, Father Bernard became pastor of St. Therese Parish in Cresskill, N. J., for two years. Next, he became pastor of St. Raphael Parish in Glendale, Ariz., for nine years. In 1989, he returned to Texas and became associate pastor of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Parish in Houston.

Next, he served as associate pastor of St. Albert Parish in Houston.

In 1991, Father Bernard moved to St. Boniface Parish and the Carmelite priory in Scipio. After assisting in parish work for three years, he became associate pastor of Immaculate Conception/ St. Joseph Parish in Leavenworth.

In 1996, Father Bernard retired to St. Boniface Parish in Scipio. After five years there, he moved in 2001 to St. John the Baptist Parish in Greeley. He later moved to Casa Santa Teresita, the pre-novitiate community in Houston, where he lived until March 2007. When

the pre-novitiate community moved to Chicago, he returned to Kansas and resided at Villa St. Francis in Olathe until his death.

Father Bernard loved to travel, and his journeys took him throughout the United States and Europe.

“He was an all-around good person to be around,” said Father Aaron. “He was a sociable person and he liked people.”

He came from a large and devout family, and many of his relatives became priests and women religious.

Father Bernard was preceded in death by his parents; his sisters, Beatrice Gilner, Agatha Meyers and Irma Miller; and brothers, Alfred, Raymond, Dominic and Father Fergus Lickteig, O. Carm. He is survived by his sister Elizabeth Gellhaus, his brother Francis, and many nieces and nephews.

“I remember many visits to [Uncle] Gene and [Aunt] Irma’s house when he was there, and many stories and lots of laughter,” wrote Kathe (Miller) Solo in a memorial note. “He would also come to visit my folks’ house and we all enjoyed [his visits]. I will never forget his laugh! We were all blessed to have known him!”

In another memorial note, Sandie Fritz wrote that the family lost a treasure of family knowledge and faith.

“Thank you, Father Bernard, for the many fond memories that I hold in my heart from the Lickteig reunions and gatherings,” wrote Fritz. “I will miss, but never forget, your big hugs that you always had available for everyone, your smile and the twinkle in your eyes.”

A Mass of Christian burial for Father Bernard was celebrated at St. John the Baptist in Greeley on Dec. 3, followed by burial at St. Boniface Cemetery in Scipio.

Donations in honor of Father Bernard may be made to: The Society of Mount Carmel, 1317 N. Frontage Road, Darien, IL 60561.

— Additional reporting by Joe Bollig

Serra essay winners announced KANSAS CITY, Kan. — Soon sixth-graders in several Catholic schools, religious education programs, and home schools will consider one of the most important questions a youth could be asked: “What would I do if I were called to serve God as a priest or Sister?”

It’s a big question, and one that has been the topic for the past three years of an essay contest run jointly by the Serra Clubs of Atchison and Topeka. The purpose of the contest is to encourage young Catholics to think about a vocation to the religious life or the priesthood.

A separate contest will be conducted by the Serra Clubs of Johnson County and Kansas City, Kan., for students in those regions.

The essay materials will be distributed to students on Dec. 3. The contest will end on March 18, 2013, when the 2013 winners will be announced.

Twenty prizes will be distributed — 10 for girls and 10 for boys. The first five in each gender category will receive cash prizes ranging from $25 to $5. The remainder will receive honorable mentions. All participating students will receive a holy card and a letter of congratulation.

Last year, 251 essays were received from students at 13 schools — the highest number since the contest began.

In the boys division, the winners were: • First place: Michael Navarro Jr., Christ the King School, Topeka • Second place: Nathan Smith, Holy Trinity School, Paola • Third place: Ryan Ortiz, St. Matthew School, Topeka • Fourth place: Matthew Moore, Christ the King School, Topeka • Fifth place: Cole Harris, Atchison Catholic Elementary School, Atchison.

Those who received an honorable mention were: Kaleb Buessing, St. Michael School, Axtell; Lucas Gudenkauf, St. Gregory School, Marysville; Brandan Scheller, Sacred Heart School, Emporia; Mason Wietharn, Mater Dei School, Topeka; and Briley Walken, St. Rose School, Garnett.

In the girls division, the winners were: • First place: Dorothy Rose Hoopes, Twin Lions Academy Home School, Atchison • Second place: Makenna Koch, St. Michael School, Axtell • Third place: Haley Miller, Atchison Catholic Elementary School, Atchison • Fourth place: Emma Persinger, Sacred Heart Religious Education Program, Emporia • Fifth place: Lauren Abby, St. Matthew School, Topeka Those who received an honorable mention were: Sammy Blenden, Most Pure Heart of Mary, Topeka; Madison Carr, Mater Dei School, Topeka; Adyson Edwards, Holy Trinity School, Paola; Nina Killian, Most Pure Heart of Mary, Topeka; Margaret (Maeve) McInerney, Most Pure Heart of Mary School, Topeka; Angelina Rodriguez, Christ the King School, Topeka; and Idallis Shaffer, St. Rose School, Garnett.

12 classifieds Employment Administrative assistant - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is seeking a full-time administrative assistant for the office of stewardship and development. This position provides administrative support for a busy office and supports the CFNEK board. The position requires 3 years minimum administrative experience in a multifaceted setting; exceptional communications skills, both written and verbal; proficiency with Microsoft Office programs; meeting planning experience; and ease and proficiency with telephone communication. Prefer experience with Blackbaud’s Raiser’s Edge database. A complete job description, application and benefits information are available on the archdiocese’s website at: www.arch kck.org/employment. Qualified individuals should email cover letter, resume, and application by Dec. 21 to: kthomas@archkck.org. Items may also be mailed to: Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, Office of Human Resources, Stewardship – Admin. Assistant, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109.

Catholic school principals - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is seeking dynamic Catholic school principals for the 2013-2014 academic year who embrace the Catholic faith and possess spiritual leadership skills blended with strong instructional leadership and managerial skills. Principal applicants must be practicing Catholics and hold (or be eligible for) an administrative license from the Kansas State Department of Education. Interested individuals should complete the principal application available online at: www.archkckcs.org. Preliminary interviews will begin as applications are received. Questions may be directed to Dr. Kathleen O’Hara, superintendent of schools, Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, at (913) 721-1570 or by email at: kohara@archkckcs.org.

Equestrian program manager - Prairie Star Ranch is accepting applications for the position of equestrian program manager. This part-time position oversees the herd and riding programs of the ranch, while managing all the trail rides during Camp Tekakwitha. Duties include: monitoring and managing the herd; training seasonal equestrian staff as well as facilitating trail rides steeped in Christian teaching. An ideal candidate will be a practicing Christian; have strong foundation in horse care and management; demonstrated skills in instructing youth and adults; practitioner of safety awareness; and commitment to professionalism.

Job requires 3+ years of equestrian experience and a high school diploma or equivalent. Candidate must be able and willing to complete a certification as a herd manager or an equestrian facility manager. A complete job description, application and salary information are available on the archdiocese’s website at: www. archkck.org/employment. Interested individuals should send cover letter, resume, and application

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Operations and event planning coordinator - Event production and marketing communications company seeks an operations coordinator to assist on many different programs, working with both account management and sales teams. Must have excellent communication skills, strong computer skills; being social media savvy is a plus. Should be a multitasker as the responsibilities include proposal support, vendor research, travel coordination, administrative tasks, event planning assistance, program website development (with training) and customer service support.

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Staff accountant needed - Small family office located in south Johnson County seeking FT accountant/bookkeeper. Assist with monthly financial statement preparation, bill paying and budgeting. QuickBooks and Excel knowledge a plus. Send resume to: UPS Store, 12120 State Line Road #374, Leawood, KS 66209.

Substitute teacher - Holy Trinity Catholic School in Paola is seeking a long-term fourth grade substitute teacher beginning in February. Interested applicants should complete the teacher application available online at: www.archkckcs.org and email/mail a letter of interest and resume to the principal, Josh Cavender, at: mrcavenderhts@gmail.com or call (913) 294-3286 for more information.

Service representative - Do you love to help people solve problems? Great listener? Enjoy challenges, problem solving, and making things better? Enjoy working in an office? Do you bank, buy, read, and transact much of your life online? If you know the answer to all of these questions is yes, we want to meet you! We have part-time hours available: 9 a.m. - 2 p.m. and full-time: 8 a.m. - 5 p.m., Mon-Fri. Administrative experience a plus. Send your resume and tell us how your background and passion relate to what we’re doing to: HR@ COBRAGuard.net.

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Vision therapist - Want a new career? Use your knowledge of child development to help children achieve their life and academic potential. Working hours: Mon. - Thurs., 1 - 5:30 p.m. Training provided; education or psychology background helpful. Will need to learn some anatomy and physiology. Salary commensurate with education and experience. Send resume to Dr. Bazin, 13600 Washington, Kansas City, MO 64145, or send an email to: bbazin@visiondevelop.com.

Financial representative - Due to the success and growth of the Knights of Columbus, we are adding financial representatives in the Kansas City area.

This position is ideal for a determined, high-energy, high-expectation, professional, self-disciplined, independent individual desiring to serve others, yet earn a better-than-average income. We provide top-rated financial products to our members and their families and will provide excellent benefits and training. For information or an interview, contact John A. Mahon, 307 Dakota, Holton KS 66436; call (785) 364-5450; or send an email to him at: john.mahon@kofc.org.

Are you looking for a fun and rewarding job working with young children? Special Beginnings Early Learning Centers, a private, Christian early care and education company, is seeking the following candidates: lead teachers for infants and pre-K, FT/PT assistant teachers for all ages, and substitute staff for all ages. We offer a competitive wage as well as a great benefits package. $100 signing bonus (upon successful completion of provisional period). Visit any location, fill out an application and interview all in the same day. Mon. - Fri., 7 a.m. - 6 p.m., at 10216 Pflumm, Lenexa; 14169 Murlen Rd., Olathe; or 8205 W. 108th Terr., Overland Park.

Services MEDICATION SETUP & MANAGEMENT RN support visits for filling weekly pill boxes & managing medication. Affordable and convenient.

To learn more, call Home Connect Health Services (913) 627-9222

Home Improvement DENNISBILT CUSTOM WOODWORKING Kitchen and Bath Specialists Reface or Brand-New 20 years experience (913) 850-3956 / www.dennisbilt.com Get a jump on your home repairs! - I specialize in painting, wood rot, decks, fences, windows, doors, siding, stucco, landscaping, drainage issues, and concrete. Fully insured. Now accepting all major credit cards. Call Josh Doherty (913) 709-7230.

Housecleaning - I love what I do and you can love it, too! 20-plus years experience. Excellent references.

Southern JoCo area. Call (913) 548-8702.

Brick mason - Installation and repair of all types of masonry work - brick, stone, and concrete. 17 years of residential and commercial experience. Small and large jobs accepted. Free quotes in the KC metro area. Call Jim or John at (913) 485-4307.

Helping Hand Handy Man - Home maintenance upgrades and chores available by the hour. Special rate for senior and single-parent households. Electrical, painting, wood refinishing, deck repair, yardwork, small to medium tree trimming, gutter cleaning, shelving and organizing. Most home problems and needs solved.

Member of Prince of Peace, Olathe. Call Mark Coleman at (913) 526-4490.

Ceilings and wall crack repair - Ceilings retextured with popcorn or knockdown. Interior painting with no mess! Serving Johnson and Wyandotte County areas for 23 years. Call Jerry at (913) 206-1144.

Fall Cleanup Leaf Removal. Tree/Shrub Trimming Aftin Lawn And Landscape Free Estimates/ Insured/ Refs Local Parishioner (913) 620-6063 Cleaning lady - Reasonable rates; references provided.

Call (913) 940-2959.

Masonry work - Quality new or repair work. Brick, block and chimney/fireplace repair. Insured; second-generation bricklayer. Member of St. Paul Parish, Olathe. Call (913) 829-4336.

Perfect Roof - Free estimates; roofing repairs if needed. Hail and wind damage inspections. Insured and reasonable. Call (816) 288-1693.

Rodman Lawn Care - Mowing, leaf removal, mulch and more. Call John Rodman, member of Holy Cross Parish, Overland Park, at (913) 548-3002 or send an email to him at: Rodman.Lawn@yahoo.com.

STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 491-5837 or (913) 579-1835. Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com.

Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa.

Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover.

Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload, and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mikehammermoving@aol.com.

Garage door and opener sales and service - 24-hour, 7-day-a-week service on all types of doors. Replace broken springs, cables, hinges, rollers, gate openers, entry and patio doors, and more. Over 32 years of experience. Call (913) 227-4902.

Tree service - Pruning trees for optimal growth and beauty and removal of hazardous limbs or problem trees. Free consultation and bid. Safe, insured, professional. Cristofer Estrada, Green Solutions of KC, (913) 378-5872. www.GreenSolutionsKC.com.

Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@kc.rr.com; or visit the website at: www. bankruptcylawinkansascity.com.

Machine quilting - by Jenell Noeth, Basehor. Also, quilts made to order. Call (913) 724-1837.

Agua Fina Irrigation and Landscape The one-stop location for your project!

Landscape and irrigation design, installation and maintenance.

Cleanup and grading services It’s time to repair your lawn. 20% discount on lawn renovations with mention of this ad.

Visit the website at: www.goaguafina.com Call (913) 530-7260 or (913) 530-5661 Faith-based counseling to cope with life concerns - Kansas City area. Call Mary Vorsten, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, at (913) 909-2002.

Get your yard ready for winter with a FALL CLEANUP. Full Service Lawn Care - gutters, mulching and more.

Call John @ 913-825-4353 or visit www.foleyslawncare.com St. Joseph Parishioner, Shawnee

Exterior painting, drywall projects, wood rot repair, bathroom and kitchen remodels, and tile work Quality products. 20 years experience. References. Call (913) 206-4524.

Swalms Organizing Service - Basement, garage, attic, shop — any room organized! Items taken to donation sites, trash is bagged, and areas are clean and neat when job is complete. To view before-and-after pictures, visit the website at: www.swalms.com. Over 20 years of organizing experience; insured. Call Tillar at (913) 375-9115.

Brack Home Repair - Call Dan when you need it done!

Carpentry, drywall, plumbing, electrical, painting, tile, wood-rot and much more. No project too big or small.

For free estimate, call (913) 219-5388 or visit the Website at: brackhomerepair.com. Insured; senior discount available. Philippians 4:13.

The Drywall Doctor, Inc. - A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean! Lead-certified and insured! Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655.

EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation *Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!!

Call Lupe at (816) 252-3376

Electrician - Free estimates; reasonable rates. JoCo and south KC metro. Call Pat at (913) 963-9896.

Adept Home Improvements Where quality still counts!

Basement finishing, Kitchens and baths, Electrical and plumbing, Licensed and insured.

(913) 599-7998 Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite, and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.

Caregiving Companion services or private duty - RN for 24 years, licensed in Kansas, background check, professional references. Current private duty experience. Pet sitting also available. Johnson County area: Prairie Village, Leawood, Mission Hills, Roeland Park. Call (913) 262-0358.

Looking for high quality home care? - Whether you’re looking to introduce care for your family or simply looking to improve your current home care quality, we can help. Our unique approach to home care has earned us a 99% client satisfaction rating among the 1,000-plus families we have assisted. We are family-owned and based in Lenexa. Call Benefits of Home - Senior Care at (913) 422-1591 or visit our website at: www.benefits ofhome.com.

CNA – Would you like to keep your senior loved one in the comfort of their own home? Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves. Compassionate, nurturing, attentive home health care professional provides quality service and personal assistance for over 20 years. Available anytime. Live-in optional. Non-smoker. Excellent references and reasonable rates. Call Rosalyn at (816) 830-7455.

Caregiver - 42-year-old caregiver. 10 years experience. Works nights, days, weekends. Flexible hours.

Best rate in town. Pay negotiable. Excellent references. Call Kara at (913) 909-6659.

Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation to the elderly and disabled in home, assisted living and nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Debbie or Gary.

Real estate Investors - Why play the stock market? Become a passive real estate investor. If you want to discuss the possibility of investing in real estate that produces positive income with a seasoned investor, call (913) 980-3559.

For sale - Lake of the Ozarks waterfront condo.

2 bedroom, 2 bath in the Four Seasons area. Condo offers boat slip, pool, wooded acreage, tennis courts, trail and main channel view. Call (913) 485-3484.

for rent For rent - 1 BR, 1 BA apartment in St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee. Near Nieman and Johnson Dr. $500/month; utilities included. 10911 W. 59th Terr. Nonsmokers only.

For a virtual tour, visit the website at: www.shawnee rentals.com. Call (913) 649-7596.

For rent - Private location with woods, 2 BR, 1 BA, country kitchen, large rooms, private patio. $595/mo.

Shawnee Mission. Contact Ken at (913) 484-6942.

For rent - 2-story, 4 BR, 2.5 BA, 2-car garage in Leawood, Nativity Parish. Updated kitchen, hardwood floors, large deck. Close to shopping, walking trails, great schools (Blue Valley Dist). $1800/mo., credit and rental reference check. Call (816) 210-1119.

vacation Ski cabin in Winter Park, Colo. - 2 BR, 1 BA, fully furnished; sleeps four. View of Continental Divide from deck. Close to points of interest and activities. $115/ night. Call (913) 642-3027. For pictures, visit the website at: www.tillmancabin.com.

Colorado ski vacation - Winter Park. 2 BR, sleeps 6.

Fully furnished, fireplace, rec. center with pool & hot tub. Bus to ski area. $135/night; $800/week. Call Joe Frederick at (913) 385-5589. >> classifieds continue on the next page

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for sale Two plots, side by side, for sale - Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens. Location: Garden of Gethsemane, vaults included. Price: $3,690 each or $7,000 for both. Contact Sondra at (913) 441-1650.

Residential lifts - Buy/sell/trade. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. Recycled and new equipment. Member of St. Michael the Archangel Parish, Leawood. Call Silver Cross KC at (913) 327-5557.

For sale - 2 side-by-side individual crypts (#30 and #32) in Gate of Heaven Mausoleum, Queen of Heaven Court, Level “D.” Current selling price at this level would be $12,000, asking $11,000. Must sell. Contact Cathy M. to make an offer at (913) 485-7076.

For sale - 2 adjacent burial plots at Resurrection Cemetery in Ascension Garden. $3600 includes transfer fee.

Call (660) 888-3977.

Doll uniforms for 18” or American Girl dolls. Full line of doll clothes and accessories including cheerleader outfits, party dresses, play clothes, pajamas, dance wear, flower girl dresses and First Communion dresses.

In house showroom in south Johnson County. Call (913) 345-9498.

ROOMMATE Roommate wanted - Move in Jan. or Feb. 2013. Student or young professional female, 21 or older. Clean, nonsmoker to share 3 BR, 2 BA home in Prairie Village. $485 per month, plus half of the utilities. Email: mmcguire85@gmail.com.

ENTERTAINMENT DJ Irishman - Colm Delahunt is available for parties, weddings, graduations, and any other function. Playing all your favorite hits from the Village People to U2. Call (913) 548-6765 or visit the website at: www.djirish man.com.

wanted to buy Antiques wanted I buy old pocket & wrist watches; sets of silverware; souvenir spoons; advertising signs; coins; and Native American turquoise jewelry, arrowheads & rugs. Call Chris at (913) 593-7507 or (913) 642-8269.

Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee. *** Wanted to buy *** Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, prints, sterling, etc.

Renee Maderak (913) 631-7179 St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee

MIScellaneous Donate a vehicle. Make a difference. Donate your vehicle to Catholic Charities to support those in need.

Your tax-deductible donation of a vehicle helps children and families served by Catholic Charities and is an environmentally wise way to recycle your vehicle. Cars for KC Kids is a partnership between Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas and Catholic Charities of Kansas City - St. Joseph. Call 1 (866) 430–9499 or visit our website at: www.cars4kckids.com.

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Wagner’s Mud-Jacking Co. Specializing in Foundation Repairs Mud-jacking and Waterproofing.

Serving Lawrence, Topeka and surrounding areas.

Topeka (785) 233-3447 Lawrence (785) 749-1696 In business since 1963 www.foundationrepairks.com

December The Strawberry Hill Ethnic Museum and Cultural Center is celebrating the holiday traditions of many cultures every Sat. and Sun. from noon - 5 p.m. through Jan. 27, 2013. The cost for the tour is $7 for adults; $3 for children ages 6-12; and free for children ages 5 and under. Group tours of 20 or more are offered during the week by calling Cathy at (913) 7210081 or the museum at (913) 371-3264 for reservations. For more information, visit the website at: www.strawberryhill museum.org.

A “Classic Rock Dance Party” will be held on Dec. 8 from 7 - 11 p.m. at the Knights of Columbus Hall, 11221 Johnson Drive, Shawnee. Riptide will be performing classic rock, soul and blues from the ’60s and ’70s. A $5 donation will cover admittance. Adults only, 21 and over.

Contact Keith Winterhalter at (913) 6312173 or Gary Van DeBerghe at (913) 2264407 for more details or to make group reservations.

The Social Concerns Committee of Prince of Peace Parish, 16000 W. 143rd St., Olathe, will host a movie and discussion on Dec. 9 at 2 p.m. in the St. Luke - Mark Room. The topic is immigration, and the movie is entitled “The Visitor.”

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Sursum Corda, the archdiocese’s polyphonic vocal ensemble, will sing Advent vespers with a sacred choral music concert on Dec. 9 at 6 p.m. at Holy Angels Church, 15408 Leavenworth Rd., Basehor. This hourlong program includes evening prayer of the church, sung to the beautiful melodies of Gregorian chant and enriched by the musical tapestry of Renaissance polyphony. The cost is a freewill offering.

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The Cathedral of St. Peter, 409 N. 15th St., Kansas City, Kan., invites you to its second annual Nativity display on Dec. 9. Over 50 unique Nativities will be on display from 10 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. Admission is free. There will also be a bake sale and raffle. For additional information, contact Patty McKiernan at (913) 281-2918.

The Knights of Columbus, Council No. 10932, are hosting an all-you-can-eat breakfast buffet on Dec. 9 from 8 a.m. noon in the lower level of the Church of the Ascension, 9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park. The cost is: $6 for adults; $4 for children ages 5-11; and free for children age 4 and under. Proceeds support the seminarian fund.

Knights of Columbus, Council No. 3768, will be sponsoring a breakfast with Santa on Dec. 9 from 8:30 a.m. - noon, at Christ the King Parish, 53rd and Leavenworth Road, Kansas City, Kan. Santa will arrive at 10:30 a.m.

CTM’s Networking Jobseeker Conference is being held on Dec. 12 at Holy Trinity’s secondfloor cafe rooms, 9001 Summit, Lenexa, from 8:30 a.m. - 2:30 p.m. The day features dynamic speakers, companies (including Garmin and Perceptive Software), complimentary professional

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photography for LinkedIn business portraits, refreshments and more. Register online at: www.htlenexa.org by Dec. 10 or at the door the day of the event. Call Judy for more details at (816) 225-8610.

There is no cost to attend.

The regular noon luncheon meeting for the Serra Kansas City Club will be held at the Hilton Garden Inn, 5th and Minnesota Ave., Kansas City, Kan., on Dec. 12.

Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann will be the guest speaker. Members of all Serra clubs are invited to attend.

Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan., will present “Surviving the Holidays” in partnership with Heartland Habitat for Humanity on Dec. 12. A light supper is provided at 5:30 p.m., and the program is from 6 – 9 p.m.

Learn how to enjoy the holidays and manage your money at the same time. Reservations are required. Men and women are welcome. No children. There is no cost to attend. Call (913) 906-8990 to register.

A celebration in honor of Our Lady of Guadalupe will be held at 6 p.m. on Dec. 12 at Queen of the Holy Rosary Church, 71st and Metcalf, Overland Park.

Beto Lopez will provide mariachi music. A reception will follow Mass with Mexican pastries, coffee and hot chocolate.

Sanctuary of Hope Prayer and Retreat Center, 2601 Ridge Avenue, Kansas City, Kan., will present retreats for the unemployed on Dec. 13 (English) and Jan. 10, 2013 (Spanish) from 9 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.

The retreats will be given by Anita Martinez, director of job development for over 10 years. To RSVP, call (913) 321-4673 or send an email to: julie@sanctuaryofhope. org.

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Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan., partners with Hospitality Staffing Solutions to offer a monthly job fair for those seeking employment in the hotel industry. A variety of full-time jobs in housekeeping, maintenance, events, laundry, food service, etc., are available throughout the metropolitan area. The next fair is Dec. 13, 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. Men and women will fill out applications and be interviewed. Call (913) 906-8990 for an appointment.

Christ’s Peace House of Prayer in Easton will host a contemplative prayer retreat day from 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. on Dec. 15. Instruction will be provided on request. Full- or half-day options are available, with a noon meal included. The cost is $25 per participant. The retreat may be extended for an overnight stay. For information or to register, call (913) 773-8255 or send an email to: info@shantivanam.com.

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Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann will celebrate the archdiocesan monthly pro-life Mass on Dec 15 at 8 a.m. at Sts. Cyril &

Methodius Church, 44 N. Mill, Kansas City, Kan. Immediately following Mass is a rosary procession to an abortion clinic approximately four blocks away. Eucharistic adoration is available for those not processing. Benediction concludes services by 9:45 am.

A memorial liturgy for deceased loved ones will be held at 8 a.m. on Dec. 15 at Curé of Ars Parish, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. Following the Mass, the Bereavement Ministry will have its monthly support meeting in the Father Burak Room. Msgr. Charles McGlinn will speak on spirituality and grief. For more information, call (913) 649-2026.

The Blue Army will hold its monthly rosary devotion on Dec. 16 from 3 - 4 p.m. at Christ the King Church, 8510 Wornall Rd., Kansas City, Mo. The three mysteries of the rosary will be prayed, followed by Benediction and enrollment in the brown scapular.

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The archdiocesan vocation office is offering a Quo Vadis retreat from Dec. 19 - 21 for single men ages 18 – 35 to discern their purpose in life, with a focused look at the priesthood. It will be held at Savior Pastoral Center, 12601 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, Kan. Activities include Mass, eucharistic adoration and lunch with the Sisters, Servants of Mary, talks on being a “Man of Prayer, Discernment and Sacrifice,” and guidance from Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann and seminarians. Quo Vadis is free by registering online at the website: www.kckvocations.com.

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A Mass with prayers for healing, sponsored by archdiocesan charismatic prayer groups, will be at 7:30 p.m. on Dec. 20 in the Father Burak Room at Curé of Ars Parish, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. Father Dennis Wait will preside. For more information, call (913) 649-2026.

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The annual Serran seminarian/parents luncheon will be at 10:30 a.m. on Dec. 27 at the Church of the Ascension, Overland Park. The cost to attend is $25 per person. The luncheon is sponsored by the Johnson County Serra Club. For information, contact George or Maggie Lents at (913) 492-3239 or send an email to: glents@kc.rr.com.

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A New Year’s Eve singles dance party will be held on Dec. 31 at 9 p.m. at Holy Trinity Church Quigley Center, 92nd and Pflumm, Lenexa. Cost is $40 at the door; $35 in advance. Mail check to: Beginning Experience, P.O. Box 2615, Shawnee Mission, KS 66201 by Dec. 20. Drinks and appetizers are provided. Contact John at (913) 219-3465 or send an email to: jpstuartcpa@yahoo.com.

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mark my words Scripture Readings second WEEK OF ADVENT Dec. 9 second SUNDAY OF ADVENT Bar 5: 1-9 Ps 126: 1-6 Phil 1: 1: 4-6, 8-11 Lk 3: 1-6 Dec. 10 Monday Is 35: 1-10 Ps 85: 9ab-14 Lk 5: 17-26 Dec. 11 Damasus I, pope Is 40: 1-11 Ps 96: 1-3, 10-13 Mt 18: 12-14 Dec. 12 OUR LADY OF GUADALUPE Zec 2: 14-17 Ps 45: 11-12, 14-17 Lk 1: 26-38 Dec. 13 Lucy, virgin, martyr Is 41: 13-20 Ps 145: 1, 9-13ab Mt 11: 11-15 Dec. 14 John of Cross, priest, doctor of the church Is 48: 17-19 Ps 1: 1-4, 6 Mt 11: 16-19 Dec. 15 Saturday Sir 48: 1-4, 9-11 Ps 80: 2-3, 15-16, 18-19 Mt 17: 10-13

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ather, looking around the church today reminded me of a homily you once gave. So, I gotta ask: Is that little boy at it again?”

It took me a split second to get what my parishioner Bob was talking about.

Here’s the story: During Advent, a little boy named Danny went to his mother and demanded a new bicycle for Christmas.

“Danny, you know we can’t afford that,” said his mother.

“Why don’t you write a letter to Jesus and pray for one instead?”

Danny got right to work: “Dear Jesus, I’ve been a good boy this year and would really appreciate a new bike. Your Friend, Daniel.”

Looking at what he’d written, he figured that Jesus knew he’d really been a brat, so he tore up the note and tried again.

“Dear Jesus, I’ve been an OK boy this year and I want a new bike. Yours truly, Daniel.”

Upon reflection, he knew this wasn’t true either, so he wadded it up and went back to the drawing board.

“Dear Jesus,” went the third letter, “I’ve thought about being a good boy, so may I have a new bike? Daniel.”

Go from ‘blah’ to ‘ah’ Father Mark Goldasich Father Mark Goldasich is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.

Finally, Danny thought better of making all of those false claims in the letters and ran to church instead. Once inside, he looked around and, seeing no one, stole a small statue of the Blessed Virgin and ran out. He carefully hid it under his bed, scurried to his desk and wrote: “Jesus, let’s face it: I’ve broken most of the Ten Commandments, tore up my sister’s doll and did lots more bad stuff. I’m desperate. I’ve got your mother Mary. If you ever want to see her again, give me a bike for Christmas. Signed, You know who.” (This version adapted from “Preaching to the Converted” by Richard Leonard, SJ.) After the Advent decorations went up in church, my parishioner Bob noticed that a statue of the Blessed Virgin

was no longer there. He said he missed her. That was what triggered his hoping that the “pilfering youth” was not up to his old tricks. I reassured him that the statue was sitting safely in the sacristy and would return once the Christmas season was over.

I was proud of this parishioner because he’d noticed not only the Advent decorations, but also that something was missing. I appreciated his playful sense of humor, too.

Those two things — awareness and humor — often seem to be in short supply during this short Advent season. Many people are so preoccupied with all the “extras” that have to be done — the shopping, wrapping gifts, cleaning, baking, entertaining, etc. — that they run the risk of missing what is much more important: the flickering light of an Advent candle, a heartfelt note written inside a Christmas card, the smell of a Christmas wreath or cookies fresh out of the oven, the comforting melodies of seasonal songs, the twinkling lights outlining homes, the velvety taste of hot chocolate, the sparkle of anticipation in the eyes of children. These are the things that truly bring peace

of heart and meaning.

Also in short supply is any semblance of humor or courtesy. People seem to shove ahead rudely in lines or get pushy with harried salespersons. More shopping carts than usual are carelessly abandoned in parking lots, leaving them to either block precious parking places or to bang into defenseless vehicles. Even minor inconveniences, like a red light or a slow driver, escalate into major issues. We forget the power of a smile, the contagious effect of a hearty laugh, or the good will engendered by words like “please,” “excuse me,” “thank you,” or “Merry Christmas.”

Being countercultural in these days is not so much a matter of waiting until the last minute to put up your Christmas tree or not using “Santa” postage stamps or refusing to play Christmas music until Dec. 24. As Christians, we can stand out powerfully by doing whatever we can to bring companionship where there is loneliness, joy where there is sadness, peace where there is discord, and generosity where there is selfishness.

These small acts may be all that’s needed to turn “blah” and “bah” into “aaaaah.”

In the beginning

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Reading predicts glory in Jerusalem’s future

ometimes, an interesting story will lie behind the name of a city. For example, Truth or Consequences, N.M., named itself after a popular 1940s radio and TV comedy program as part of a publicity gimmick.

Lawrence acquired its name from Lawrence, Mass., because of a financial backer who originated from that eastern city.

Those are relatively recent examples. The history behind the name for Jerusalem stretches far back into antiquity. King David captured the city from the Jebusites about a thousand years before Christ. At that time, it was already an ancient city. The name of Jerusalem had been included in an Egyptian list of Canaanite cities that dates back to the early second mil-

Father Mike Stubbs Father Mike Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University. lennium, nearly a thousand years earlier. When King David took over the city, he did not change its name.

Consequently, the name for Jerusalem is at least 4,000 years old.

What does the name “Jerusalem” mean? It is difficult to determine it exactly, but scholars believe that it means “city of Salem.” We should note that when Abraham

encounter Melchizedek, in Gn 14:18, Melchizedek is identified as the king of Salem. Some commentators conclude from this that Melchizedek was the king of Jerusalem.

However, a complicating factor enters into the picture.

The word “Salem” closely resembles the Hebrew word for peace, “shalom.” In view of that, could the name “Jerusalem” mean “city of peace?”

It is interesting to speculate along those lines.

Certainly, the modern city of Jerusalem is in dire need of peace.

In any event, Sunday’s first reading, Bar 5:1-9, addresses that issue. The prophet promises better times for the city. The exiles will return from captivity in Babylonia, leaving misery behind. The prophet assures Jerusalem:

THE PRACTICAL CATHOLIC Are you familiar with “God Bless My Family”?

I wasn’t until I heard it at “Christmas in Song,” an excellent musical program now running at Quality Hill Playhouse in Kansas City, Mo. (Yes, get tickets.)

Written by Ann Hampton Callaway, the song speaks of family and friends: “some are here and some are gone”; “some we’ve lost and some we’ve found.” The chorus goes: “This Christmas I will find a way/ To let each face I’ve ever loved/ Shine out in me./ God

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“You will be named by God forever the peace of justice, the glory of God’s worship.”

Consistently, the Scriptures ascribe great power to a name. The giving of a name does not merely provide a label, a means of identification.

The name charts a course for the future. It gives direction and meaning.

In other words, when God renames the city of Jerusalem, God is pointing it to a future of peace, established upon justice.

The theme of glory pervades the reading. The word “glory” occurs six times. At the same time, the reading makes it clear that Jerusalem will find its glory, not in remembering its past, its wonderful history, but rather, in the future. That is the promise which awaits.

bless my family.”

Since memories are such an integral part of Advent, haul out some family photos or albums. Take 15 minutes each day to look through a few. (And while you’re at it, weed out those that aren’t so good or special.) Savor each face — those that are still here and those who are no longer on this side of heaven. And don’t be afraid to let the tears of sorrow or laughter come.

Here’s wishing all your family blessings and a picture-perfect time.

— M.G.

By Katie Hyde Special to the Leaven

O

LATHE — They may not be dressed in homespun or be trekking across the prairie, but to everyone at St. Paul Parish here, the 60 men and women who joined the parish’s Holy Name Society are pioneers.

Charting new territory in the archdiocese, the region and, indeed, the country, St. Paul held its first Holy Name Society meeting in September.

The society is the first of its kind in the archdiocese and, unlike almost every other chapter in the nation, invites women to join and holds meetings in both English and Spanish.

St. Paul parishioners felt called to include all: young and old, male and female, English- and Spanish-speaking.

The parish is 30 percent Hispanic, and welcoming Hispanic parishioners is both a focus and a challenge for St. Paul, said Lilly Parra, who is an officer of the society and is also Hispanic.

“I can’t say [overcoming the language barrier] is easy, but once that we know each other and talk in the same language of God’s love, it becomes easier,” said Parra.

The society has its roots in the 1400s, according to Marianne Sylvester, director of adult formation at St. Paul. The society was started in order to “praise the name of Jesus” but, since

photo courtesy of the holy name society

Father John Torrez blesses medallions and buttons and presents them to new members of the Holy Name Society. They are, from left, Ruth Pfiefer, treasurer; Nancy Cariglio; Joyce Harding, president; Quinta Schwarzenberger, counselor; Tom Schwarzenberger, counselor; and Trisha Kirkbride, secretary. then, has become an organization to praise God, serve the church, and serve one another.

“That’s really what the Holy Name Society is about: helping where it’s needed — whether it’s child care or gardening or altar cloths,” said Sylvester.

The idea for a chapter at St. Paul grew out of a discussion between pa-

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rishioner Tom Schwarzenberger, Sylvester and pastor Father John Torres.

The Holy Name Society has played a significant role in Schwarzenberger’s life: He has been a member since he was 17 years old and still keeps the pendant his grandfather received when he was a member.

“The spirituality and emphasis on the Eucharist really made an impres-

sion on me,” said Schwarzenberger.

What began as a simple discussion quickly turned into a planning committee. The society now boasts 60 members. Two-thirds of the members are female, including president Joyce Harding, and there are many Hispanic members.

The society is already deep in planning for the upcoming year, which Harding hopes will include a retreat, prayer groups, and prayer walks from their current location to the site of the new church.

“This is just the tip of the iceberg,” said Harding. “There are so many things we can do.”

With plans, prayers, and a SpanishEnglish dictionary close at hand, the Holy Name Society will meet regularly from here on out.

“The Holy Spirit is at work here,” Sylvester said. “When we started this, we just started doing research. It has just snowballed.”

Parra agrees, grateful for a community where Hispanic and English, young and old, male and female are united.

“Here at St. Paul we try to include everybody,” said Parra. “We try to include Anglo people in Spanish events and include Spanish people in the Anglo events. That way, we feel we are only one community. It has been a very enriching experience. ”

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The ladies parlor, part of the original mansion, is decked out in holiday splendor. The piano is from the period and still works.

The museum has 32 mangers and Nativity scenes displayed in the chapel. This one came from nearby St. Mary Church.

The children’s room features toys, decorations and an infant bed from the orphanage.

Museum basks in holiday glow

By Sheila Myers Special to The Leaven

Visiting the museum

K

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — If you haven’t already visited the Strawberry Hill Museum and Cultural Center here, go now.

The 1887 Queen Anne-style home has served as a private residence, a Catholic orphanage and a cultural museum, but the stately mansion is at its best decked out in Christmas splendor.

The museum reopened on Nov. 17 for the Christmas season after being closed for three weeks, during which an army of volunteers installed the decorations.

“There’s a very wonderful group of talented, dedicated people who help,” said volunteer and tour guide Bernadette Soptick. “It’s like a labor of love.

Even families come and do it — mothers, fathers and kids.”

Like Soptick, many of the 30-some volunteers who keep the museum running grew up on Strawberry Hill or are related to someone who did. They volunteer to stay connected to their heritage.

Soptick (her maiden name is Modrcin) is an ideal representation of the southern Slavic cultures that populated the area, with a heritage that’s one quarter Slovenian, one quarter Croatian and half Serbian.

She attended St. John School and was married in St. John the Baptist Church next door. Soptick now lives in Lenexa and is a member of Holy Trinity Parish.

Father Mark Goldasich, the Leaven’s editor, was born and raised on Strawberry Hill. His picture is displayed with other priests from the neighborhood, like Msgr. Martin Krmpotic, the St. John’s pastor responsible for acquiring the property from owner John Scroggs.

Victorian wealth, Catholic frugality Besides finding an ideal specimen of a Queen Anne-style home adorned in full holiday regalia, visitors can view artifacts and decorations from 16

The Strawberry Hill Museum and Cultural Center is located at 720 N. 4th Street in Kansas City, Kan. The museum is open to the public Saturdays and Sundays from noon to 5 p.m. Admission is $7 for adults; $3 for children. Christmas decorations will remain up through Jan. 27, 2013.

Private tours for larger groups can be arranged by calling the museum at (913) 371-3264. To volunteer, donate or become a member, call, or visit the museum’s website at: www.strawberryhillmuseum.org.

Wyandotte County,” said Soptick.

Historical artifacts Leaven photo by Sheila Myers

Volunteer Bernadette Soptick leads a tour of Holy Spirit parishioners in the foyer of the original home that became the Strawberry Hill Museum. During the holidays, Soptick leads tours dressed as Emma Cruise McFadden, daughter of Margaret Cruise Scroggs, the original mistress of the house. different ethnic cultures, all of which have left their mark on Strawberry Hill and Kansas City, Kan. The tour takes you through the original home, where John Scroggs lived with his wife and five children until 1919. It continues through the four additions constructed in the 1920s while the property served as an orphanage run by the Sisters of St. Francis of Christ the King.

The orphanage closed in 1988 and the Strawberry Hill Museum opened.

The tour starts in the chapel, with 32 donated mangers and Nativity sets on exhibit. The large Nativity set in the front corner comes from nearby St. Mary Church, the Irish parish, which is now closed. “[The Nativity set] comes in three pieces and takes a lot of men to put it together,” said Soptick.

The next stop on the tour is the original family residence, which incorporates signs of wealth for the period: ornate oak woodwork, stained-glass windows, and a round corner tower.

Soptick points out craftsmanship

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that has gone the way of the horse and buggy — all intact, even though the place teemed with children.

“How did 3,000 children come through this home and not damage the woodwork?” Soptick asks.

Chalk it up to the durability of oak . . . and the discipline of nuns.

Cultural diversity Upstairs are the ethnic rooms — one for each country. Volunteers in charge of decorating the rooms choose which artifacts to display.

The Polish room contains a table set with Polish pottery. The Russian room has a Russian crèche. The Lithuanian room displays amber jewelry and decorations, and straw ornaments. The Slovenian room is filled with red carnations, the national flower.

Each room is a representation of the craftwork and Christmas traditions for that culture.

“A lot of people are surprised at all the diversity here, but they don’t know

the budget is tight. That’s why it’s important to discuss money issues before they reach a stress threshold that makes calm discussion difficult.

Start by attending a financial workshop together or sharing a book on finance. Garner information that will help you agree on future financial goals. Once goals are

Besides cultural and religious displays, the museum also contains a multitude of historical objects that help tell the Strawberry Hill story.

One of the upstairs rooms has been left intact as a “cell” where the nuns lived, to show the simplicity of their lives. The room contains only a small bed, a sink and a desk.

In another area, behind a glass pane, visitors will find the “Pope Room,” socalled because it displays the bed Pope John Paul II slept on during his TWA flights to the United States. The bed was moved to the museum for safekeeping and because John Paul II was Polish.

“Now we have it under lock and key, because he’s on his way to becoming a saint,” Soptick said.

The bedroom where the Scroggs boys slept displays dozens of Christmas toys from the period and an infant bed from the orphanage.

An elaborate handmade Nativity set that depicts the entire city of Bethlehem and Croatian memorabilia from St. John the Baptist Church and School are displayed downstairs in the addition.

At the end of the tour, there is traditional Slavic pastry — povitica or apple strudel — in the Tea Room and souvenirs in the gift shop.

set, work as a team to plan how you can reach them.

Make a list of needs and wants, and then set up a monthly budget that takes care of the needs first and ensures you’re spending less than you take in. Review the budget together every month.

—J.R.E.