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he cave of Nazareth becomes the tabernacle of the Most High and the refuge of Mary and Joseph. In a stone room he shows his life, and from a stone room he will later reveal his resurrection.

May this Christmastide find your faith in Jesus renewed, as you look for him to come again in glory.

Joseph F. Naumann Archbishop of Kansas City in Kansas

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Life will be victorious

Sandy Hook reminds us why we need a Redeemer

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ith the rest of America, I was saddened and stunned by the tragic killing of 20 children and six adults at Sandy Hook School in Newtown, Conn.

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are lessons to be learned.

Who would not want to take reasonable measures that could prevent another such My prayers and sympathy tragedy? go out to the parents, spousIn one sense, these hores, children, siblings and rors can happen in America friends who lost a loved one because of the tremendous in this latest mass murder at freedoms we enjoy. A police an American school. I cannot state can eliminate the opimagine a human suffering portunities for individuals more proto perpefound than trate such ‘The Shepherd’s Voice’ losing a child horrible Archbishop Joseph F. Nauor a spouse acts. Howmann’s radio program on in such an ever, history, KEXS 1090 AM airs at 10 a.m. abrupt and sadly, is on Sunday and is repeated at brutal manstrewn with 9:30 a.m. on Tuesday and 3:30 ner. too many p.m. on Thursday.

Presiexamples dent Obama of totalitarspoke ian goveloquently and emotionally ernments committing, on to the American people aca grander scale, far worse knowledging our nation has crimes against humanity. “endured too many of these At the time of the writing tragedies in the past few of this article, the nation years.” With his voice crackstill does not know the ing with emotion, the presimotive of the perpetrator of dent said: “I know that there this violence. I presume that is not a parent in America we will hear many reasons who doesn’t feel the same why this man committed overwhelming grief that I these crimes. We may well do. The majority of those find that at some moment in who died today were chilhis life he was victimized. dren — beautiful little kids Perhaps, we will find others between the ages of 5 and that bear some responsibil10 years old. They had their ity for what happened last entire lives ahead of them Friday, because they inflict— birthdays, graduations, ed the emotional scars that weddings, kids of their own. disposed the perpetrator to Among the fallen were also engage in such violent acts. teachers — men and women In the end, I believe we who devoted their lives to will discover that, in this helping our children fulfill atrocity, we have once again their dreams.” caught a glimpse of the reSome are calling for ality of evil. What happened stricter gun control laws. at Sandy Hook School was Others are urging even not inevitable. Choices were tighter security for all made by a human being schools. No doubt others that led to Friday’s horrific will cite the violence in our events. Every mass murder entertainment that portrays and other terrible crimes so cavalierly the taking of manifest the fractured human life. Certainly, there nature of our humanity.

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Every mass murder and other terrible crimes manifest the fractured nature of our humanity.

The tragedy at Sandy Hook School makes even clearer why we need Christmas — why we need a Redeemer.

The tragedy at Sandy Hook School makes even clearer why we need Christmas — why we need a Redeemer.

One relevant observation that I have not heard and do not anticipate hearing from the mainstream media is that more than 1,000 other American children were killed on Friday, Dec. 14. I have not heard it, perhaps because to say it will evoke fierce criticism.

More than a thousand other children died by abortion last Friday. The key differences between their deaths and the deaths at Sandy Hook School are: 1) their killing was authorized by their mothers, who in most instances were pressured or encouraged by their fathers, 2) their murders were performed by professionals who are trained to heal and 3) their deaths were sanctioned by our government.

The president, who rightly mourns the deaths of the children who were murdered in Newtown, advocates for the so-called “right” for unborn children to be killed every day in

America. In fact, the president has actually made abortifacient drugs part of his healthcare plan for the nation.

Flags will not fly at half mast for these unborn children. The president will not address the nation about the tragedy of their deaths.

Nevertheless, the children who died by abortion on Friday, Dec. 14, also “had their entire lives ahead of them — birthdays, graduations, weddings, kids of their own.” We not only lost them, but we lost all the good that they could have contributed to our society.

We will not hear anyone justifying what happened in Connecticut by invoking the perpetrator’s right to choose to kill the children of Sandy Hook School. Yet, the deaths of the more than 1,000 unborn children who died on Friday were permitted under the cloak of a false rhetoric of choice and personal freedom.

For this tragedy at Sandy Hook School to happen so close to the celebration of Christmas seems to magnify and intensify the pain.

My father was murdered 64 years ago on Dec. 18. I was in my mother’s womb at the time, sheltered from the tragedy that enveloped her.

Hopefully, the family and friends of the victims of this tragedy have the same faith that my mother had for the One born in Bethlehem. It was from her faith in Jesus that my mother found the peace and strength to care for me and my Brother despite her own personal pain and sadness. It was from Jesus that my mother found the power not to allow her life to become dominated by her anger against my father’s murderer. It is from Jesus that she was consoled with the truth that my dad’s life had changed, but not ended.

What happened at Sandy Hook School was a reminder of why we need Christmas. Why we need a Redeemer. Why we need Jesus Christ.

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Naumann Dec. 21 Chancery staff Mass and lunch Dec. 23 Chiefs game for priests, provided by Lamar Hunt Dec. 24 10 p.m. Mass — Cathedral of St. Peter, Kansas City, Kan. Dec. 27 Serra Mass and lunch Vespers and dinner with seminarians Dec. 30-31 Apostles of the Interior Life Family Retreat

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keleher Dec. 16 Federal prison Mass Confessions — Church of the Nativity, Leawood Dec. 18 Johnson County priests’ luncheon Dec. 21 Chancery staff Mass and lunch Dec. 22 St. James baptisms “Catholic Way” taping Dec. 24 Mass — St. Agnes, Roeland Park

Dec. 25 Christmas Mass — Sisters, Servants of Mary

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New class takes first step down road to diaconate

By Joe Bollig joe@theleaven.com

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Investigating the permanent diaconate was not on Steve White’s short list — or the long one, for that matter. It wasn’t on any list at all.

But God, in his providence, gave White a new list through his spiritual director.

“I told her that I thought that God was calling me to do something more than what I’m doing — something different — [but] I don’t know what it is,” said White, a member of Curé of Ars Parish in Leawood.

She told him to write down anything — no matter how strange or unlikely — that he thought God might be asking him to do.

“The last thing I wrote down was the diaconate, because I wasn’t attracted to it, but I remembered Sister Julie Galen [at the parish] at one time asking if I’d ever thought about being a deacon,” Leaven photo by Joe McSorley said White. “Of course, I said no.”

Mike Scherschligt, executive director of the School of Faith, gives a presentation to the second cohort of deacon aspirants on Dec. 8 at Savior Pastoral He remembered that encounter, and Center, Kansas City, Kan. put it on the list. quote from a vocations advertisement “No” led to “maybe.” “Maybe” led to co-leader of marriage preparation classes with his wife Marilyn, and is a Cathon the back of the Knights of Columbus “tell-me-more.” “Tell-me-more” led to conversations with his wife and others. olic Community Hospice volunteer at magazine, Columbia. It was this: God Villa St. Francis in Olathe. does not call the qualified; he qualifies The desire to further discern the diLemons has also been director of adthe called. aconate grew.

• Joe Allen, Prince of Peace Parish, Olathe ministrative services at Good Shepherd This first year for the aspirants is Now, five years later, White is one of • Dave Cresswell, St. Patrick Parish, Kansas City, Parish in Shawnee since 2008, after he like courtship, said Leon Suprenant, more than 90 men who applied and 22 Kan. retired from Farmers Insurance. pastoral associate for administration for who were accepted into the new cohort • Mike Denning, Prince of Peace Parish The difference is that Lemons is the office of the permanent diaconate. of the archdiocesan diaconate forma• Rolly Dessert, Immaculate Conception-St. not a cradle Catholic. He was raised in Suprenant works under the direction tion program.

Joseph Parish, Leavenworth This past September, the 22 men be- the United Methodist Church and re- of Father Gary Pennings, who is direc• Dean Gilbert, Immaculate Conception-St. mained there for tor of the archdiocesan office of the gan a one-year Joseph Parish many years un- permanent diaconate. Two established • Steve Lemons, Holy Trinity Parish, Lenexa program of intentil he became a deacons assist the program, Deacon • Brian Lillie, St. Ann Parish, Hiawatha sive formation Catholic in 1994.

Tom Mulvenon and Deacon Dan Peter• Mike Moffitt, St. Paul Parish, Olathe and discernment A deacon is one of three orders of or“I attribute son. Deacon Peterson was president of • Nicholas Mortagues, St. Bernard Parish, called aspirancy. dained ministry in the Catholic Church, that to the Holy the National Association of Diaconate Wamego It’s an opportuthe other two being priest and bishop. A • Marcos Navarro, Good Shepherd Parish, Spirit saying, Directors and was director of the ofnity for them to deacon can assist, but does not substitute Shawnee ‘Steve, it’s time fice of the diaconate for the Diocese of get a good look for a priest. A deacon can assist a priest • Phillip Nguyen, Holy Spirit Parish, Overland for you to get Phoenix. at the diaconate, during Mass, including reading the Gospel Park more in line with “The initial year has a heavy emphaand the archdioand preaching. A deacon may baptize, cel• Steve Nguyen, St. Ann Parish, Prairie Village your wife and sis on discernment,” said Suprenant, cese to get a good ebrate marriages and preside at funerals.

• Tim Ruoff, Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish, daughters,’” said who himself is one of the aspirants. “In look at them.

Deacons are often involved in specialTopeka Lemons. that regard, it is like the first year of beIf the aspirants ized ministries such as visiting the home• Bill Scholl, St. Agnes Parish, Roeland Park When he told ing in a religious community or the first bound, prison ministry, crisis pregnancy, decide to contin• Ralph Schramp, Church of the Nativity, his wife Mari- year of seminary.” services to charity and the poor, sacraue, they will beLeawood lyn, she told him “This is a ‘come and see’ period,” he mental preparation, and a myriad of other come candidates • Chris Slater, Prince of Peace Parish that she’d been continued. “The guys have already gone activities in support of a parish. and continue a • Brad Sloan, Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish praying for it all through a fair amount of discernment three-and-a-half• John Stanley, Church of the Ascension, Overalong. She hadn’t and application before, but now they’re year program of land Park human, spiritual, theological and pasto- told him earlier because she wanted the getting even more.”

• Leon Suprenant, Prince of Peace Parish Holy Spirit to move him to that deciMen must meet certain qualifications ral formation.

• Jose Torres, All Saints Parish, Kansas City, Kan. before they can apply. They may be sinThose who complete the whole pro- sion, not her.

• Steve White, Curé of Ars Parish, Leawood Lemons, like White, was already in- gle or in a stable marriage, practicing cess and program will be ordained in • Ron Zishka, Sacred Heart Parish, Tonganoxie volved but wanted to do more. No great Catholics, and meet all the canonical respring 2017.

The aspirants of the second cohort flash from the heavens — but he felt a quirements. They must have the “heart of a deacon,” which is a strong sense of (or group) for the permanent diaconate call.

“I wanted to share my faith with service and charity. to be formed for the archdiocese are as ticipants — and their wives — attend “This isn’t an honorary title,” said Sudifferent from each other as their indi- others, which we do through our daily monthly weekend retreats and belong lives, and I wanted to give back to the prenant. “Deacons are called to be icons vidual calls. Most of them, however, are to “deacons’ circles” for study and muin their 40s or 50s, married, with chil- church,” he said. “I was at the point in of Christ the servant.” tual support.

“We are looking for men who are dren, heavily involved with their parish my life that my kids were grown and “All aspirants have pastoral assignthat provided me with more of an opalready the salt of the earth and leavand other faith-related activities, and ments,” said Suprenant. “They are reportunity to give to the church.” en in the church,” he continued, “and are lifelong Catholics. quired to do a minimum of 50 hours of “Working in the church as I do, I see who with additional formation and the Except for Steve Lemons, a member service to their parish over the course that we have one priest at Good Shep- grace of the sacrament could take these of Holy Trinity, Lenexa. of the aspirancy year. This gives them Lemons, 56, is married and has two herd who serves nearly 1,800 families,” gifts to another level of service in the an opportunity to identify even more daughters. In addition to his secular Lemons continued. “In many ways, a church.” closely with the pastor and parish, and The five years of formation and disactivities as a Lenexa city councilman, deacon could help him with his daily to ‘stretch’ them and introduce them to cernment include study, spiritual forhe is a lector, a eucharistic minister, a work and be an asset to the parish.” new areas of ministry.”

He got a lot of inspiration from a mation, prayer and service. The parfourth-degree Knight of Columbus, a

Second cohort of deacon aspirants

What’s a Deacon?

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Sister Celestina Menin, AVI (right), and Kelly Deutsch lead a spiritual mentorship class. In January, 64 participants in the Spiritual Mentorship Program will complete their training to serve as spiritual guides to others. The program is co-directed by the School of Faith and the Apostles of the Interior Life.

Program develops mentors to serve as spiritual guides n First class of mentors will complete their training in January

By Jill Ragar Esfeld jill@theleaven.com

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. – Two years ago, Mike Scherschligt, executive director of the School of Faith, said that “one of Archbishop Naumann’s dreams is that every person has a spiritual mentor.”

This coming January, the archbishop’s dream will begin to come true as 64 participants in the Spiritual Mentorship Program complete their training to serve as guides and companions to others on their journey to holiness.

This is the first group to complete the two-year course designed and codirected by the School of Faith and the Apostles of the Interior Life, an association of the faithful whose apostolate’s goal is interior formation and spiritual assistance.

Sister Debbie Li, who describes herself as “the one in the background organizing everything,” is beyond pleased with the results of this initial run.

“After the first session, one of the signs that let us know the Holy Spirit was present and tangible was the unity that was created,” she said.

The unity grew so strong in the following sessions that when participants finally complete their training, the success will be bittersweet.

“I guess I speak for all the Apostles of the Interior Life,” said Sister Debbie.

“It has completely exceeded our expectations.

“What really struck me was the disproportion of the fruit from the effort.

And so that’s a clear sign that the Holy Spirit is in charge.”

Participants were equally pleased.

“This group of people is really good at developing this program and then carrying it out,” said Holy Trinity parishioner Gordon Moffitt. “They’re very knowledgeable, very faith-filled people dedicated to evangelizing.”

The value of his training became clear to Moffitt during a visit to Rome this summer when he heard Archbishop Salvatore Fisichella, president of the Pontifical Council for Promoting the New Evangelization, speak about three things essential for salvation.

“The first one was, you’ve got to have a prayer life,” said Moffitt. “The second was, you have to know your faith. And the third was, you have to be able to witness.

“And that’s basically what this program is all about.”

When Moffitt applied to the program two years ago, he hoped it would take him to another level spiritually. After his third session, he realized God’s plan was much greater.

“I feel like I’ve been taken two or three levels up,” he said. “Through this program, God has transformed me into someone I never thought I could be.”

“It helped form us all in our faith — to know what our faith really is, the whole truth, and to be able to practice it and witness it.”

“And that basically comes through prayer life,” he added. “That’s where you receive your awareness. It’s just a huge part of anybody’s salvation.”

In this last phase of the program, the spiritual mentors have had the opportunity to take mentees under their wings for a trial period.

“It gives us a way to kind of monitor what they’re doing and give them some experience before we kind of throw them into the world,” said Sister Debbie.

Anonymous feedback has been overwhelmingly positive. And mentors are feeling well-trained for their mission.

“We’re not wanting to share our

opinions,” said Moffitt. “We’re wanting to share what God wants us to share — the truth. And that’s a big responsibility.

“We’re to guide [those we mentor] to find their own answers through their prayer life. Because God will answer them if they take the time to talk to him and listen.”

It’s up to each spiritual mentor to determine how many people they are able to mentor responsibly, depending on work schedule and family commitments.

“All who go through the program have a spiritual director themselves,” said Sister Debbie. “So before they take on commitments, we advise them to discern with their spiritual director.”

The hope is that the spiritual mentoring relationships will be ongoing.

“We encourage meeting that person every four to five weeks,” said Sister Debbie, “so you’re seeing each other every month.”

Because the relationship is intended to be ongoing, many more mentors are needed to realize the archbishop’s dream. A new mentorship program will begin next May; applications are now available and will be taken through the first of the year (see sidebar).

Coordinators are hoping to fill Savior Pastoral Center with participants in the next program.

“And we would increase the team in proportion to the applicants we get,” said Sister Debbie The program is recommended to anyone who wants to grow in his or her relationship with Christ and help others do the same.

“Whether you’re a mother or a father or anyone really,” said Sister Debbie, “you’ll find people in your life who come up to you and question you about your faith.”

“It’s sort of a calling, too,” said Moffitt, who acknowledges the program requires a commitment of time and effort,

Catholic Spiritual Mentorship Program The next spiritual mentorship program will begin in May 2013. Applications are being accepted now, and slots are filling quickly.

The program, co-directed by the School of Faith (www.schooloffaith. com) and the Apostles of the Interior Life (www.apostlesofil.org) is a two-year course of study that combines eight distance-learning courses with four, one-week intensive in-residence sessions at Savior Pastoral Center in Kansas City, Kan. The program is designed for Catholics who have a desire to develop a deep prayer and sacramental life, to increase their knowledge of the Catholic faith, to grow in the virtues and to help others do the same.

The program’s intent is to develop spiritual mentors who will be trained to help guide and assist others in the spiritual life. The cost of the program is $1500 per component or $6000 in total (which includes the room and board costs during the in-residence sessions).

Because co-directors and the archbishop believe spiritual mentorship belongs to the universal church, 30 percent of applications for the next program will be reserved for participants from dioceses nationwide.

For more information, visit the website at: www.schooloffaith.com and click on the icon for “spiritual mentorship program.”

Applications will be accepted through Jan. 1, 2013.

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“If I have time for nothing else,” he said, “it should be for God. “And if God’s calling me, then that’s his time.”

y dear brothers and sisters in Christ, As you know, our Holy Father Pope Benedict XVI has declared a Year of Faith which began on Oct. 11 and will conclude on Nov. 24, 2013. This Year of Faith coincides with both the 50th anniversary of the opening of the Second Vatican Council and the 20th anniversary of the Catechism of the Catholic Church. During the Year of Faith, Catholics are asked to study and reflect on the documents of Vatican II and the catechism so that they may deepen their knowledge of love for the faith. In our own archdiocese we have embarked on a Faith Initiative, not only in celebration of the Year of Faith declared by the Holy Father, but in a sincere effort to deepen our relationship with Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, while at the same time celebrating the gift — the beauty — of our Catholic faith by loving it, learning it, and living it more intensely.

Pope Benedict has granted a plenary indulgence for the Year of Faith.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches us that an indulgence is “the remission before God of the temporal punishment due to sin whose guilt has already been forgiven” (CCC, No. 1471).

Even when guilt of sin is forgiven in the sacrament of reconciliation, its effects and wounds in human nature remain.

The practice of obtaining an indulgence involves the healing of these effects of sin and helps us grow in our relationship with God. One plenary indulgence per day may be gained by an individual, which they can use for themselves or apply to a soul in purgatory. During the Year of Faith, there are four means of gaining an indulgence.

First, by reading at least three lessons from the documents of the Second Vatican Council or the Catechism of the Catholic Church. In our archdiocese, we have provided the following opportunities: the Vatican II Lecture Series, presented by Archbishop James P. Keleher and Father John Melnick, SSA (with live streaming to allow viewing at remote locations); the catechism courses offered in our parishes by the Holy Family School of Faith. For more information on these programs and to check dates and parish locations near you, please visit our website at: www. archkck.org/faith.

Second, by making a pilgrimage to a basilica, catacomb, cathedral, or location designated by the local bishop for

Pilgrimage sites eligible for plenary indulgences in the archdiocese

Shrine of St. Philippine Duchesne, Mound City

St. Rose Philippine Duchesne Memorial Park

Cathedral of St. Peter, Kansas City, Kan.

Assumption Church, Topeka

St. Mary Church, St. Benedict

Immaculate Conception Church, St. Marys

Immaculate Conception Church, Leavenworth

the Year of Faith, and either participating there in a sacred celebration or remaining for a time of prayer and pious meditation. The act of prayer should finish with praying the Our Father, reciting the Creed and praying to the Blessed Virgin Mary. I hereby designate the following holy sites within the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas as eligible for gaining the plenary indulgence: Cathedral of St. Peter, Kansas City, Kan.; Immaculate Conception Church, Leavenworth; Shrine of St. Philippine Duchesne, Mound City; St. Rose Philippine

Duchesne Memorial Park, 1525th St., Centerville; Assumption Church, Topeka; St. Mary Church, St. Benedict — Nemaha County; Immaculate Conception Church, St. Marys.

Third, by participating in a solemn celebration of the Eucharist or the Liturgy of the Hours in a sacred place, on a day chosen by the local ordinary, and reciting the Creed. I declare the following days during the Year of Faith to be eligible for the indulgence: the feast of the Chair of St. Peter (Feb. 22); the Visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary (May

31) and on the same day, the anniversary of the dedication of the Cathedral of St. Peter the Apostle, Kansas City, Kan.; Blessed Junipero Serra (July 1); the Queenship of Mary (Aug. 22); the Exaltation of the Holy Cross (Sept. 14); the feast of St. Rose Philippine Duchesne (Nov. 18).

Finally, people can visit their place of baptism and renew their baptismal promises there. Those who cannot attend such celebrations for serious reasons may still obtain the indulgence if they pray an Our Father and a Creed and other prayers that agree with the objectives of the Year of Faith.

A plenary indulgence also requires that the individual be in the state of grace, have complete detachment from sin, and pray for the pope’s intentions.

The person must also sacramentally confess their sins to a priest and receive holy Communion up to about 20 days before or after completing the other acts.

It is my sincere prayer that during this Year of Faith, and through our own Faith Initiative here in the archdiocese, all Catholics will experience, in the words of our Holy Father, an “authentic and renewed conversion to the Lord, the One Savior of the world” (“Porta Fidei” (“The Door of Faith”), No. 6). The Year of Faith is an opportunity for Catholics to experience a conversion — to turn back to Jesus and enter into a deeper relationship with him. May these holy sites and feast days that I have designated in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, and the other opportunities declared by Pope Benedict for gaining the indulgence, be powerful instruments for conversion for you and for all the faithful of northeast Kansas. I encourage you to visit our website for more information on gaining the indulgence and for opportunities for prayer, education, catechesis, study and formation during this Year of Faith.

Commending us all to the protection and intercession of our patron, the Immaculate Conception, I remain, Sincerely yours in Jesus, the Lord of Life,

Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas

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God’s love is only true certainty in our lives

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ut when the designated time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of a woman” (Gal 4:4).

I often wondered what made this time the “designated time.” Was it Mary’s fullness of grace and total openness to the love of God? Were there many people yearning for the presence of God? Would mankind have gone completely to evil ways?

It is a mystery for us.

It is the same as the second coming. Two thousand years ago, the apostles thought Jesus would come back soon. No one but the

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Father knows. This is another incomprehensible mystery for us.

Our own life is a total mystery. We do not know anything for certain. I can die at any time. I can get sick at any time. Everything can go wrong in my life at any time.

What do I really know for certain? I do know that God loves me. That is the only certainty of my life. And truly it is enough.

That is what Christmas is all about. God loves us and sent his only Son down to earth to redeem us and thus open heaven for us. Why as

a baby? If we would want to accomplish something significantly great, would we choose a helpless baby? A tiny, helpless baby immediately conquers every heart.

No one is afraid of a baby.

But a “Baby God?” The three kings knelt down at his crib.

Throughout the centuries, we have adored the Child of Bethlehem. As children, we did it with great love and emotion. We loved the Christ Child and believed he brought all our gifts at Christmas. Growing up, we did not believe that he brought material gifts, but he filled out hearts with love and joy. We believed because God had given us this gift of unshakeable faith.

These days, Christmas is almost drowned with material gifts. Why gifts at

Christmas? Because we have received this wonderful gift from God. Instead of kneeling down silently before this great mystery, we rather worry about Christmas gifts.

It is all right to show our love for others by giving them nice gifts. But do we give the Christ Child a gift? All he wants is out hearts, our lives.

How do I do that? Jesus said that what we do to our neighbors, we do to him. So, let us love everyone at Christmas, being good to friends and enemies.

Who knows? It might be the last Christmas. Only the Father knows, and he does not tell us. All is a great mystery. But the greatest mystery is that God loves us and sends us his Son as a little baby.

A blessed Christmas to all of you.

Father John A. Riley, chancellor, announces the following appointments made by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann: Parochial administrators (effective Jan. 5, 2013) Father Francis Burger, from retirement to parochial administrator of Mater Dei Parish, Topeka.

Abbot Barnabas Senecal, OSB, to parochial administrator of Immaculate Conception Parish in St. Marys, and St. Stanislaus Parish in Rossville, with pastoral oversight of Sacred Heart Oratory, Delia.

Parochial Vicar (effective Feb. 1, 2013) Father Bruce Ansems, from pastor of Immaculate Conception Parish in St. Marys, and St. Stanislaus Parish in Rossville, with pastoral oversight of Sacred Heart Oratory in Delia, to parochial vicar of Holy Spirit Parish, Overland Park.

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Son sees this Advent through his parents’ eyes

his Advent season, as I prepare for Christmas, I dedicate this article to my mom and dad.

Thanks to them, the Advent and Christmas seasons hold many wonderful memories for me. My dad was a junior high school teacher and my mom stayed home to take care of me and my four younger siblings. As you can imagine, this was not a recipe for financial prosperity. Nonetheless, they always managed to get by and we never seemed to go without.

I vividly recall being a child and feeling like Christmas morning would never arrive, anticipating the arrival of Santa and the treasures that would be sitting beneath the tree. One of many outstanding memories is the time that my younger brother and I were sent on a hunt through the house

Keith Jiron Keith Jiron is coordinator of RCIA and adult education at St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Leawood. with clue upon clue, finally leading us to the discovery of the top-of-the-line video game in those days, an Atari.

My brother and I jumped up and down with joy and delight.

My brothers and sisters agree with the fact that there was something special in the mix around our house during the holidays. Surely, we each have our own unique perspective as to why. Though part of it, I believe, was something beyond the delicious food, the games and the presents. Looking back, I realize now more than ever that what we had in that tiny, three-bedroom house was an

Kernel of truth Jesus himself told us his Father’s house has many rooms. Thank heavens — that way there’s plenty of room for all the customs and traditions we’ve stuffed into it over 2,000 years.

One of our most treasured traditions will appear front and center, so speak, in churches around the world this weekend — that of the Nativity set, or the Christmas crèche.

Nativity scenes date back to 1223, when St. Francis of Assisi, inspired by a recent visit to the Holy Land, decided to reenact the rustic birth of Our Savior. His enterprise was blessed by the pope, and the practice eventually spread

abundance of love.

I now find myself with a desire to give my children what my parents gave to me. It is not a modern-day version of an Atari. It is something of greater significance that I think this passage captures well: “And this is my prayer: that your love may increase ever more and more in knowledge and every kind of perception, to discern what is of value, so that you may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ” (Phil 1:9).

More important than the Atari or other material gifts, my parents demonstrated by their lives what was of real importance.

Because my parents struggled financially, their faith in God was palatable. And God always seemed to come through for them. They taught me that doing God’s will doesn’t necessarily mean financial gain, but that life is much more than that. My mother and father embody the Scripture passage from the prophet Isaiah quoted

by John the Baptist in Luke’s

Gospel: “Prepare the way of the Lord, make straight his paths. Every valley shall be filled and every mountain made low. The winding roads shall be made straight, and the rough ways made smooth” (Lk 3:4b-5). They had and still have many rough roads, but their deep trust in God is a continual reminder for me in my own life. Their worldly investment, or rather lack thereof, might not make sense to some. But my siblings and I are all the richer for it.

This year, my wife and I decided to put up our Christmas tree a little earlier than we have in the past.

I’m always conflicted about giving in to the culture and decorating prematurely for Christmas because Advent is a time of preparing and longing for Christ’s coming.

But every time my three-year-old would see the Christmas lights on all the houses, he would ask, “Can we decorate our house today?” So, on the first weekend of Advent, we took our annual trip to our

throughout Christendom, and then beyond.

Nativity set or crèche traditions vary from country to country, and even family to family. (Crèche is a French word that comes from Greccio, the Italian town where St. Francis set up his first manger.) Sometimes a donkey and an ox are included, not so much as a reference to the original manger scene, but to a passage from Isaiah that presages the coming of the Christ Child.

In other scenes, there are shepherds, angels, and a star — even though no single Gospel includes them all. Magi arriving on camels laden with frankincense and myrrh can even lend a faint casbah feel to the scene.

Throw a couple of toddlers in the mix — did I mention

favorite Christmas tree lot, selected the perfect tree and came home to decorate it.

This event is always rather chaotic, and I’m thankful to my wife for foregoing her natural desire for a tree that looks like something from a magazine. The end result is kind of symbolic of our lives — chaotic, but beautiful.

This season is a good time to ask what values we are teaching our children by our own lives. What are we doing to give Christmas a deeper meaning than the presents under the tree? What lessons and values did our parents impart to us? Where do we find truth, goodness and beauty?

This Advent, I am grateful for the gift of seeing things through my parents’ eyes.

I’m grateful for the perspective on life that they gave to me. I’m grateful for my wife and my own children, who indelibly place the words of the psalmist in my heart: “The Lord has done great things for us; we are filled with joy” (Ps 126: 3).

that old and young alike enjoy rearranging the scene, over and over and over again? — and you get one of the most gloriously popular, if sometimes unorthodox, traditions of our usually very orthodox faith.

So unorthodox, in fact, that neighborhood Christmas light rivalries here can’t hold a candle to the competitively lavish Nativity displays in other countries.

Yes, James Joyce was right when he once described the Catholic Church as: “Here comes everybody.” But it is exactly through such simple, yet heartfelt, traditions that so many have found their way to the manger over the years.

And to the Babe, lying within.

— A.M.

Let the infant Lord pierce your heart

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top. Look. Listen. The simple slogan that taught us as children to be careful crossing the street can serve us well in these final days before the birth of the Savior.

If your Advent has been like most of ours, your preparations for Christmas have been incomplete. You might have all the cookies baked. You might even have all the packages wrapped. Or you may be a complete and anxious mess — stressed to the max by all the things you have yet to do.

Either way, it’s time to STOP. Take 10 minutes out of your preparations to complete this simple exercise. It won’t take long. Don’t set it aside for a “better” time. Instead, put down your work, turn off your phone, and give St. Luke your full attention.

Now LOOK. Read Luke’s Christmas narrative below. Read it slowly, prayerfully. Now examine the painting. Place yourself at the scene for a moment — is it cold and damp? Or is it, instead, warmed by the light of the Christ Child? Observe the artist’s use of color, light and symbolism. What is he trying to say about Our Savior’s birth that is new to you? How would you describe it to others? Finally, read aloud the prayer attributed to St. Bernard of Clairvaux at right with the painting in mind.

Finally, LISTEN. Sometimes the clamor of our lives grows too much for us. Our anxieties, our burdens, even our joys, create a noisy static that keep us from hearing even that which could comfort us — could give us peace. Ask the Lord for help to hear him in a special way this Christmas season. Then LISTEN for his answer.

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et your goodness, Lord, appear to us, that we, made in your image, may conform ourselves to it. In our own strength we cannot image your majesty, power and wonder; nor is it fitting for us to try.

But your mercy reaches from the heavens, through the clouds, to the earth below. You have come to us as a small child, but you have brought us the greatest of all gifts, the gift of your eternal love. Caress us with your tiny hands, embrace us with your tiny arms, and pierce our hearts with your soft, sweet cries.

— Attributed to St. Bernard of Clairvaux

Luke 2: 1-20

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n those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus that the whole world should be enrolled.

This was the first enrollment, when Quirinius was governor of Syria. So all went to be enrolled, each to his own town. And Joseph too went up from Galilee from the town of Nazareth to Judea, to the city of David that is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and family of David, to be enrolled with Mary, his betrothed, who was with child. While they were there, the time came for her to have her child, and she gave birth to her firstborn son.

She wrapped him in swaddling clothes and laid him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.

Now there were shepherds in that region living in the fields and keeping the night watch over their flock. The angel of the Lord appeared to them and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were struck with great fear. The angel said to them, “Do not be afraid; for behold, I proclaim to you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. For today in the city of David a savior has been born for you who is Messiah and Lord.

And this will be a sign for you: you will find an infant wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger.” And suddenly there was a multitude of the heavenly host with the angel, praising God and saying: “Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

When the angels went away from them to heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go, then, to Bethlehem to see this thing that has taken place, which the Lord has made known to us.” So they went in haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the infant lying in the manger. When they saw this, they made known the message that had been told them about this child.

All who heard it were amazed by what had been told them by the shepherds. And Mary kept all these things, reflecting on them in her heart. Then the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen, just as it had been told to them.

“Nativity” in St. Peter’s Church, Ghent, Belgium. © istockphoto.com/toddwhabiger

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Sisters looking for a few good women

By Jessica Langdon jessica@theleaven.com

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — The Sisters of Charity of Leavenworth are hoping to find a few good women — and they don’t even need to be considering a religious vocation.

Of course, they can be discerning the religious life, but they don’t have to be to take part in a unique living situation.

Since 1999, 26 women have joined several SCLs in “simple community living” in the Xavier Community near the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kan. The house has room for four Sisters and four laywomen, ideally between the ages of 20 and 40.

One of the young women who lived there recently graduated from college and moved away, and another will enter formation in January with the Sisters of Charity of Leavenworth, so the community has room for two women.

The community is named for SCL founder Mother Xavier Ross, and its participants refer to it as an “intentional community,” meaning it is more than simply an alternative to apartment living.

“It’s a commitment to share,” said Sister Mary Rachel Flynn, SCL, who lives in the Xavier Community. “We share cooking. We share responsibilities in the house.”

The women also bring to the table their experiences and interests from outside the house.

watch for it

A more in-depth look at the Xavier Community, its members and their ministries will appear in an upcoming issue of The Leaven.

Kate Becker, who works at an environmental nonprofit organization in Kansas City, Mo., called Bridging the Gap, has enjoyed living in this community where the women share their ministries, activities and many varied interests.

“I just feel like my perspective of God has gotten bigger since I’ve been here,” said the 32-year-old Becker.

The current age range in the house spans from early 30s to early 80s, and Sister Vicki Lichtenauer, SCL, believes that range adds a lot of depth to this experience.

Through the Xavier Community, Sister Mary Rachel has come to realize deeper sharing through the many group prayers and conversations.

“We get a sense of who God is among us as a group and as individuals,” she said.

Women seeking to join this community will go through an interview. They must have health insurance and be able to contribute to the household responsibilities and living expenses.

For more information about the Xavier Community or to determine whether this might be the right fit, call (913) 342-4682, or send an email to Sister Vicki at: vickil@scls.org.

Eunice and Robert A. Atkins, members of Immaculate Conception/ St Joseph Parish, Leavenworth, will celebrate their 65th wedding anniversary on Dec. 29 with a family get-together in Lansing. The couple was married at Camp Campbell, Ky., on Dec. 29, 1947. Their children and their spouses are: Carole and Eddie Wong, Honolulu, Hawaii; Sister Kathy Atkins, SCL, Kansas City, Kan.; Deborah Reilly, Leavenworth; Robert Jr. and Jeana Atkins, Grand Junction, Colo.; Sandra and Kenny Wallace, Lynchburg, Va.; Michael Atkins and Maco Shimoda, Niwot, Colo.; Patrick and Denise Atkins, Lansing; and Nancy Fairchild, Litchfield Park, Ariz. They also have 21 grandchildren, five step-grandchildren, six great-grandchildren and three step-great-grandchildren.

Lynn C. and Janice R. Holthaus, members of St. Malachy Parish, Beattie, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Dec. 30 with a Mass and family dinner. The dinner will be followed by an open house at the parish hall.

The couple was married on Dec. 29, 1962, at St. Malachy.

Their children and their spouses are: Larry and Deb Mayes, Hunnewell, Mo.; David and Leslie Holthaus, Beattie; Doug and Lisa Holthaus, Tribune; and Dennis Holthaus, Beloit. They also have six grandchildren.

Erla (Holbrook) and Arthur Scherchligt, members of Holy Spirit Parish, Overland Park, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary at the 8:30 a.m. Mass on Dec. 27 at Holy Spirit.

Coffee and cake will be served in the Martha & Mary Room following Mass. The couple was married on Dec. 27, 1962, at Sacred Heart Church, Yankton, S.D. Their children and their spouses are: Michael and Sandy Scherchligt, Overland Park; and Julie and Jerry Corley, Wichita. They also have seven grandchildren.

A family vacation to Colorado is planned for July 2013. Their daughter and family also took the couple to Clearwater, Fla., in August.

George J. and Rosemary Miller, members of Good Shepherd Parish, Shawnee, will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary on Dec. 30. The couple was married on Dec. 30, 1952, at St. John the Baptist Church, Greeley.

Their children and their spouses are: Angela and Kevin Traynor, Overland Park; George E. and Cheryl Miller, Greeley; Timothy Miller (deceased); Mary Ann Lyons, Emporia; Kathleen and Ryan Phillips, Fort Scott; Stephen Miller (deceased); James and Judi Miller, Tuttle, Okla.; John and Tracy Miller, Olathe; Fred Miller, Topeka; and Brian Miller, Olathe.

They also have 25 grandchildren and 17 great-grandchildren. They will be honored at a dinner and reception on their anniversary.

12 classifieds Employment Administrative assistant - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is seeking a full-time administrative assistant for the office of stewardship and development.

This position provides administrative support for a busy office and supports the CFNEK board. The position requires 3 years minimum administrative experience in a multifaceted setting; exceptional communications skills, both written and verbal; proficiency with Microsoft Office programs; meeting planning experience; and ease and proficiency with telephone communication. Prefer experience with Blackbaud’s Raiser’s Edge database. A complete job description, application and benefits information are available on the archdiocese’s website at: www.archkck.org/employment. Qualified individuals should email cover letter, resume, and application by Dec. 21 to: kthomas@archkck.org. Items may also be mailed to: Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, Office of Human Resources, Stewardship – Admin. Assistant, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109.

Equestrian program manager - Prairie Star Ranch is accepting applications for the position of equestrian program manager. This part-time position oversees the herd and riding programs of the ranch, while managing all the trail rides during Camp Tekakwitha. Duties include: monitoring and managing the herd; training seasonal equestrian staff as well as facilitating trail rides steeped in Christian teaching. An ideal candidate will be a practicing Christian; have strong foundation in horse care and management; demonstrated skills in instructing youth and adults; practitioner of safety awareness; and commitment to professionalism.

Job requires 3+ years of equestrian experience and a high school diploma or equivalent. Candidate must be able and willing to complete a certification as a herd manager or an equestrian facility manager. A complete job description, application and salary information are available on the archdiocese’s website at: www. archkck.org/employment. Interested individuals should send cover letter, resume, and application

by Dec. 31 to: Prairie Star Ranch, 1124 California Road, Williamsburg, KS 66095, or send an email to: prairiestarranch@gmail.com.

School president - Kapaun Mount Carmel Catholic High School in Wichita is seeking applicants for the position of school president. As it celebrates its 125th anniversary, Kapaun Mount Carmel is distinguished in the state of Kansas for its legacy of excellence in both academics and activities. With enrollment gains of 200 students and three facilities expansions in recent years, Kapaun Mount Carmel is poised for a new era of excellence. The school’s mission ­— “Kapaun Mount Carmel High School is dedicated to the education and formation of the total person in the image of Jesus Christ” — succinctly summarizes the Catholic focus and commitment of the faculty and community of this diocesan high school. The new president will be a practicing Catholic of great professional integrity who is committed to the continued excellence and advancement of this mission-driven institution. The president works with the diocesan school office and the principal to assure the implementation of the Catholic philosophy and mission. Responsibilities will include: maintaining external relationships and public relations; supervising student recruitment; fundraising; development efforts; and managing the school’s finances. Kapaun Mount Carmel Catholic High School is located in the Diocese of Wichita, recognized nationally for its strong Catholic culture rooted in the stewardship way of life that enjoys unparalleled parish support. For further information, please contact Bob Voboril, Superintendent, Diocese of Wichita, 424 N. Broadway, Wichita, KS 67202.

Superintendent of schools - The Archdiocese of Omaha is seeking a dynamic leader to head the Catholic Schools Office beginning July 1, 2013. The candidate will be tasked to implement the “Vision for the Future of Catholic Schools in the Archdiocese of Omaha,” a strategic vision published last July. Application information and more can be found on the website at: www. archomaha.org/aboutus/careerops.html. Deadline for applications is Jan. 18, 2013.

Service representative - Do you love to help people solve problems? Great listener? Enjoy challenges, problem solving, and making things better? Enjoy working in an office? Do you bank, buy, read, and transact much of your life online? If you know the answer to all of these questions is yes, we want to meet you! We have part-time hours available: 9 a.m. - 2 p.m. and full-time: 8 a.m. - 5 p.m., Mon-Fri. Administrative experience a plus. Send your resume and tell us how your background and passion relate to what we’re doing to: HR@ COBRAGuard.net.

Financial representative - Due to the success and growth of the Knights of Columbus, we are adding financial representatives in the Kansas City area.

This position is ideal for a determined, high-energy, high-expectation, professional, self-disciplined, independent individual desiring to serve others, yet earn a better-than-average income. We provide top-rated financial products to our members and their families and will provide excellent benefits and training. For information or an interview, contact John A. Mahon, 307 Dakota, Holton KS 66436; call (785) 364-5450; or send an email to him at: john.mahon@kofc.org.

Parish business manager – Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Emporia, seeks a qualified individual to oversee or perform all parish financial, human resource, and facilities responsibilities. Responsibilities include:

theleaven.com | december 21, 2012 financial planning and coordination of budget process; bookkeeping functions; cash flow management and financial reporting; and management of payroll and benefit programs. Qualifications include a bachelor’s degree and 3+ years related work experience; leadership, organizational and communication skills; proficiency in Microsoft Office and QuickBooks; knowledge of Catholic parish organization; and the ability to work with parish leadership teams. Full-time position with excellent benefits and flexible hours. To apply or for information, contact Father Rich Warsnak at (620) 342-1061, ext. 201, or send an email to: parish@sacred heartemporia.org.

Data entry - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas has immediate openings for two temporary data entry positions. These individuals will assist the office of stewardship and development during the busy Call to Share annual appeal. Required hours will be 30+ hours per week beginning in January, with approximate end date in late February to early March. Requires reliability, collaborative demeanor and demonstrated data entry skills. Qualified individuals should email cover letter, resume, and application (available on the archdiocesan website) by Jan. 2 to: kthomas@archkck.org. May also be mailed to: Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, Office of Human Resources, Stewardship – Data Entry, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109.

Staff accountant needed - Small family office located in south Johnson County seeking FT accountant/bookkeeper. Assist with monthly financial statement preparation, bill paying and budgeting. QuickBooks and Excel knowledge a plus. Send resume to: UPS Store, 12120 State Line Road #374, Leawood, KS 66209.

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December The Amphion Men’s Ensemble of Kansas City will present Christmas vespers, an evening of yuletide carols and readings, featuring special guest the Vivo Allegro Children’s Chorus, at 7 p.m. on Dec. 23 at the Cathedral of St. Peter, 409 N. 15th St., Kansas City, Kan. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. Cost is a $5 suggested donation for adults; free for children and students. For more information, visit the website at: www.amphionkc.com.

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The annual Serran seminarian/parents luncheon will be at 10:30 a.m. on Dec. 27 at the Church of the Ascension, Overland Park. The cost to attend is $25 per person. The luncheon is sponsored by the Johnson County Serra Club. For information, contact George or Maggie Lents at (913) 492-3239 or send an email to: glents@kc.rr.com.

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January The regular noon luncheon meeting for the Serra KCK Club will be held at the Hilton Garden Inn, 5th and Minnesota Ave., Kansas City, Kan., on Jan. 9. The speaker will be Deacon Dana Nearmyer who will talk about evangelization and Catholic formation for youth and NET ministries.

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The College of St. Benedict and St. John’s University symphony orchestra will present a program of opera overtures and dances at 8 p.m. on Jan. 12 at the Church of the Nativity in Leawood. Admission to the performance is free, although freewill donations will be accepted.

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St. Ann Boy Scouts will host a pancake breakfast on Jan. 13 from 7:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. in the St. Ann School cafeteria, 7231 Mission Road, Prairie Village. Allyou-can-eat pancakes and sausage with coffee and orange juice. The cost is $15 for families; $5 for adults.

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Friends and former parishioners of Father William Fisher are invited to celebrate the 20th anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood on Jan. 13 at Sacred Heart Church, 408 S. Cedar, Ottawa. Mass at 11 a.m. will be followed by a reception.

St. Agnes Parish, Roeland Park, will host a morning of reflection, featuring a presentation “Pilgrimage of Faith: How to live a faithfilled life in this crazy world!” on Jan. 19.

Mass will be held at 9 a.m., followed by breakfast and the presentation in the parish center.

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The Sophia Center, Atchison, will host a “lectio divina” retreat 22-23 from 10 a.m. on Jan. 22 through 2 p.m. on Jan. 23. Learn about and practice this ancient art of prayerful reading. The time will include sharing, solitude and reflection. This retreat will be conducted by Sister Micaela Randolph, OSB, a member of the Sophia Center staff. The cost is $100. For more information or to register, call (913) 360-6151 or visit Sophia Center’s website at: www.mountosb.org/ ministries/sophia-spirituality-center.

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mark my words Scripture Readings fourth WEEK OF ADVENT Dec. 23 fourth SUNDAY OF ADVENT Mi 5: 1-4a Ps 80: 2-3, 15-16, 18-19 Heb 10: 5-10 Lk 1: 39-45 Dec. 24 Monday 2 Sm 7: 1-5, 8b-12, 14a Ps 89: 2-5, 27, 29 Lk 1: 67-79 Dec. 25 THE NATIVITY OF THE LORD (CHRISTMAS - MIDNIGHT) Is 9: 1-6 Ps 96: 1-3, 11-13 Ti 2: 11-14 Lk 2: 1-14 Dec. 26 STEPHEN, THE FIRST MARTYR Acts 6: 8-10; 7: 54-59 Ps 31: 3-4, 6-8, 17-21 Mt 10: 17-22 Dec. 27 john, apostle, evangelist 1 Jn 1: 1-4 Ps 97: 1-2, 5-6, 11-12 Jn 20: 2-8 Dec. 28 THE HOLY INNOCENTS, MARTYRS 1 Jn 1:5 –3 2: 2 Ps 124: 2-5, 7b-8 Mt 2: 13-18 Dec. 29 FIFTH DAY WITHIN THE OCTAVE OF NATIVITY OF THE LORD Thomas Becket, bishop, martyr 1 Jn 2: 3-11 Ps 96: 1-3, 5b-6 Lk 2: 22-35

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Try to picture a gift like this

y the time you get this issue of The Leaven, I’m certain that all your Christmas cards are written and mailed, all your gifts are bought and wrapped, and your entire house has been cleaned and decorated in holiday finery.

But, on the off chance that you’re still in need of a last-minute, emergency gift, maybe you can draw inspiration from this story: During the Depression, many families could scarcely afford the bare essentials, much less purchase presents at Christmas.

“But I’ll tell you what we can do,” said a father to his six-year-old son, Pete. “We can use our imaginations and find pictures of the presents we would like to give each other.”

For the next few days, each member of the family worked secretly, but with great joy. On Christmas morning, huddled around a scraggly tree decorated with pitifully few decorations, they gathered to exchange the presents they had created.

And what gifts they were!

Daddy got a shiny black limo and a red motorboat.

Mom received a diamond bracelet and a new hat. Lit-

Father Mark Goldasich Father Mark Goldasich is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989. tle Pete had fun opening his gifts: a drawing of a swimming pool and pictures of toys cut from magazines.

Then it was Pete’s turn to give his present to his parents. With great delight, he handed them a brightly colored crayon drawing of three people — a man, woman and little boy. They had their arms around one another and under the picture was one word: US. Even though future Christmases were far more prosperous for this family, none stood out in the family’s memory as more precious that this one: that happy day when they realized they still had one another and their ability to laugh and celebrate. (Adapted from “A Christmas Special,” found in “Love Adds a

Little Chocolate,” by Father Medard Laz.) What a great idea! Even if you’ve purchased all your gifts, consider giving just one more. No doubt, you probably have a whole stack of Christmas magazines, gift catalogs and ads scattered around the house. Gather them up and spend a little bit of time going over your Christmas gift list once more. Pick out several people whose names are listed there. Then scour those magazines, catalogs and ads for some extravagant, special present to “give” each one.

Cut out the picture of that fabulous gift and attach a note to it. Say something like: “This is what I’d like to give you — had I hit that half a billion dollar Powerball jackpot — as a sign of how valuable your ______ (here fill in something like: love, support, friendship, sense of humor, wisdom, encouragement, zest for life, etc.) is to me. Know how honored and grateful I am that you are a part of my life. You make it so much richer.” Put the note in an envelope and hand it to the person after all of the other presents are opened.

Giving pictures of valuable items to those priceless

people in our lives may be the best gift of all and the one most treasured by the recipient.

Honestly, physical presents — no matter how costly — pale in comparison with the real gifts of Christmas: a loving family, loyal friends, good health, a roof over our head, food and drink to enjoy and share and, most important of all, the real reason we celebrate at all: Jesus, the light of the world and our lives.

I close with a prayer for Christmas, written by Robert Louis Stephenson: “O God, our loving Father, help us rightly to remember the birth of Jesus, that we may share in the song of the angels, the gladness of the shepherds, the worship of the wise men. Close the door of hate and open the door of love all over the world. Let kindness come with every gift and good desires with every greeting. Deliver us from evil by the blessing which Christ brings, and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.

May Christmas morning make us happy to be your children and Christmas evening bring us to our beds with grateful thoughts, forgiving and forgiven for Jesus’ sake. Amen.”

In the beginning

Reference to Bethlehem foreshadows Savior’s birth there

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ur state is known for many things: John Brown, Quantrill’s raid on Lawrence, Dorothy and “The Wizard of Oz.” Kansas is also noted for its fields of wheat and herds of cattle, which produce some of the best beef in the world.

The little town of Bethlehem in the land of Israel also had gained quite a reputation in ancient times for its agriculture. The name itself, “Bethlehem,” means “house of bread” in Hebrew.

That suggests that it stood out for its production of grain. It was a bread basket, so to speak. As for livestock, one of the most famous residents of Bethlehem herded sheep as a young boy before becoming King David.

Otherwise, Bethlehem

Father Mike Stubbs Father Mike Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University. was regarded as fairly insignificant. One of the few times that the Old Testament even mentions it is in regard to the prophet Samuel seeking out David to anoint him as king (1 Sm 16:1).

It is because of Bethlehem’s connection to King David that Sunday’s first reading — Mi 5:1-4a — sin-

gles out Bethlehem as the place that will give a new ruler to Israel. Like King David, this new ruler will be a shepherd — not just of sheep, but of the nation.

The prophet Micah probably had in mind a leader who would rescue Israel from the military threat of Assyria. That danger is mentioned in the verse immediately following our reading: “If Assyria invades our country and treads upon our land.” That is the context in which Micah first uttered this prophecy.

But as Christians, we place it in the larger context of world history. The peace that is promised by the prophecy is not merely temporary relief from worldly enemies, but rather the peace that comes from

THE PRACTICAL CATHOLIC I enjoy the mail this time of year because, interspersed with all the ads, bills and magazines, is honest-to-goodness stuff I love: Christmas cards.

I savor each one and display as many of them as I can throughout the Christmas season. When it’s time to take them down, I get to appreciate them one last time before I tear off their fronts (as long as there is no writing on the back) and mail them to St. Jude’s Ranch for Children, which creates “new lives with new skills for

God, the peace that surpasses understanding. The ruler is not one preoccupied with affairs of state, but rather, Christ the king.

He is the one who has been born in the little town of Bethlehem. He is the ruler whose birth we celebrate.

Modern Bethlehem is a fairly large town. It boasts a Catholic university. And, of course, its population swells considerably at Christmas.

It has grown far beyond its humble beginnings.

Sunday’s first reading reminds us how Bethlehem started out small: “But you, Bethlehem-Ephrathah, too small to be among the clans of Judah.” It was only appropriate that the tiny baby born there would become the King of the universe.

abused, abandoned and neglected children of all races and faiths.”

The organization accepts all types of greeting cards, except those from Hallmark, Disney or American Greetings. You can mail your card donations to: St. Jude’s Ranch for Children, Recycled Card Program, 100 St. Jude’s Street, Boulder City NV 89005.

This simple “green” action can ensure that a better life for kids in need is definitely in the cards.

— M.G.

There’s no place like home — but Spanish Mass comes close

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oday I am writing to you from Portugal, where I am attending the general chapter of my religious community.

father pat murphy, cs

This is a monthlong meeting of 45 Scalabrinians working in 32 countries. We gather to write up our missionary plan and to elect the leadership team for the next six years.

One of the great experiences of this meeting is when we gather for prayer and Eucharist, which often occurs in six or seven languages. Despite the beauty

of this experience, however, I must be honest and say that, after one month, I am ready to return home.

The experience of being away from home has reminded me why Hispanic ministry is so essential to our Spanish-speaking fami-

Father Pat Murphy, CS, is the archdiocesan animator for the archdiocesan office of Hispanic ministry.

lies. The presence of Hispanic ministry gives immigrants a moment to feel at home in terms of their faith experience. In fact, as the population of Hispanics increases in the United States (53 million in 2012, of which 45,000 live in Wyandotte County), Hispanic ministry is not only important for those who speak Spanish, but an absolute pastoral necessity for the future of the Catholic Church.

Hispanic ministry is crucial for the future of the Catholic Church in light of the following three reasons: 1. As the church exists to evangelize, we must be prepared to teach and celebrate sacraments in the language of those we serve. The

number one priority of the church is always to preserve the faith of all people.

2. Indeed, the church does not exist to teach English. And so Mass in Spanish is not up for discussion, but rather a pastoral necessity because it is where the people feel at home in living out their faith in the Catholic Church rather than finding God in some other church. (If you have any doubts about this just drive through Kansas City, Kan., and see how many other denominations are saying “Bienvenidos” (“Welcome”) to the Hispanics.

3. To live in a new country requires a very long process of adaptation. But by the second generation, the

children of immigrants begin to speak mostly English and to forget their Spanish.

However, one of the last things people give up is the practice of the faith in their language. For Hispanics to pray in their native tongue and to celebrate their traditions is the best way to help them preserve the faith.

There is much more that could be said about this theme. But let me conclude with a few words from the recent synod on the new evangelization where the bishops said: “It is important that the church give to [immigrants] their support with a pastoral plan . . . respecting also their traditions” (No. 22).

Building the culture of Life

Are we — like German Christians — singing through the Holocaust?

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member of a church in Germany during the time of the Holocaust shares this dramatic story.

“A railroad track ran behind our small church and each Sunday morning we would hear the whistle from a distance and then the clacking of the wheels moving over the track. We became disturbed when one Sunday we noticed cries from the train as it passed by. We grimly realized that

Ron Kelsey Ron Kelsey is the archdiocesan consultant for the pro-life office. You can email him at: prolife@archkck. org or call (913) 647-0350. the train was carrying Jews.

They were like cattle in those cars!

“Week after week, that train whistle would blow.

We would dread to hear the sound of those wheels because we knew that the Jews would begin to cry out

to us as they passed by our church. It was so terribly disturbing! We could do nothing to help these poor miserable people, yet their screams tormented us. We knew exactly what time the whistle would blow and we decided the only way to keep from being so disturbed by the cries was to start singing our hymns. By the time the train came rumbling by the churchyard, we were singing at the top of our voices. If some of the screams reached our ears, we’d just sing a little louder until we could hear them no more. Years have passed and no one talks about it much anymore, but I still hear that train whistle in my sleep. I can still hear

them crying out for help.

God forgive all of us who call ourselves Christian, yet did nothing to intervene.”

Move forward to the current time. The slaughter of unborn babies continues nearly 40 years after Roe v.

Wade, and the scale of the slaughter is well over 50 million babies to date with no end in sight. I would argue that society is singing louder — singing louder to avoid hearing the silent screams of the unborn. Our singing louder involves: rationalizing to the untenable “pro-choice” position because we seek the respect of the world rather than of God; being “too busy” to get involved; considering those

involved in the battle to end abortion “too radical”; failing to properly form our consciences, etc. But God has made it perfectly clear that he expects us to be involved: “and from man in regard to his fellow man I will demand an accounting for human life” (Gn 9:5).

This demand from God should give us reason to pause and assess whether each of us is doing what we can to protect these babies and end abortion. What am I doing, according to my state in life, to protect innocent babies from being slaughtered? Am I ready to stand before God and account for human life . . . or am I singing louder?

do unto others

Solidarity with Christ requires solidarity with the poor

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fter 2,000 years of romanticizing the incredible event of Our Savior’s birth, it’s easy to overlook the earthy, humble circumstances of the Godman’s birth.

Born on a governmentmandated road trip in a cave with a bunch of workingclass strangers coming by is hardly the birth plan any of us would choose, much less expect, for the King of the universe. Yet, this is exactly

bill scholl Bill Scholl is the archdiocesan consultant for social justice. You can email him at: socialjustice@archkck.org. the type of labor and birth God the Father ordained for his son. Christ, in coming this way, brings himself into solidarity with all states of humanity and calls us to do the same.

Christ comes as the king.

A good leader never asks of his people something

he himself is not willing to do. Christ leads, even as an infant, by bringing himself as low as he can and is born into a situation entirely reliant upon God’s providence and the charity of strangers.

Solidarity is recognizing that God does not bless everyone equally with material goods, and that he calls us all to share from our abundance and rely on his help through the generosity of those who answer this call.

The rejections at the inn are a sad reminder of how most of us miss the incredible opportunity to help out the God-king in a rare moment of need. Would you have helped the Holy Family in their time of crisis? Think

back to the last time you left your comfort zone to help a poor stranger. If you can’t think of a time, then you have your answer.

At Christmas, we celebrate God reconciling an estranged humanity — to be in solidarity with him in a way that amazed and baffled the angels. Jesus, the son of the God of abundance, could have had any kind of birth.

That he chose so humble a circumstance is, in part, his gift to us. There is no state of poverty that disgraces because Jesus has been that poor or even poorer.

He is not only in solidarity with us in our nature but also in the distress of our daily trials. No matter what you are going through,

you can look to Jesus and the Holy Family and know the God-man had it hard, too.

If we are to live in solidarity with God, then we must be in solidarity with Christ. The birth of that poor boy in poor circumstance shines the star of Bethlehem’s light on the crucial middle term of the equation: If we are to be in solidarity with Christ, then we must be in solidarity with the poor.

“For you know the gracious act of our Lord Jesus Christ, that for your sake he became poor although he was rich, so that by his poverty you might become rich” (2 Cor 8:9).

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can describe shock, sadness after shooting, says priest

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EWTOWN, Conn. (CNS) — Msgr. Robert Weiss, pastor of St. Rose of Lima Church in Newtown, was at Sandy Hook Elementary School almost immediately after the horrific shooting Dec. 14.

When the enormity of the tragedy began to unfold, other priests, chaplains and Catholic Charities personnel “were on the ground,” Brian Wallace, Bridgeport diocesan director of communications, told Catholic News Service.

In the days since, St. Rose of Lima has taken center stage as people gathered for a prayer vigil the night of the shootings and flocked to Sunday Masses seeking solace. They looked to Msgr.

Weiss and his staff and other Catholic leaders for pastoral outreach in the aftermath of the violence, which left 20 children and seven adults dead.

Eighteen children died at the school and two others died after they had been rushed to the hospital. All of the children were first-graders. The adults included the principal and five teachers, as well as the gunman.

Police officials identified the shooter as Adam Lanza, 20, and said he killed himself as first responders arrived on the scene.

“There are no words,” Msgr. Weiss told a TV reporter Dec. 15 in an interview for NBC’s “Today” show after spending hours helping law enforcement officials inform parents that their child had died in the shooting. At least eight of the children belonged to the parish and will be buried from St. Rose.

Msgr. Weiss said many of the family members thanked him for his presence. “There was a lot of hugging, a lot of crying, a lot of praying, a lot of just being silent,” he said, adding that at the previous evening’s vigil, community members “came together to care and to support. . . . People really care here and hopefully we can just keep the community together and they can console each other.”

The priest, along with Lutheran, Episcopal, Jewish, Congregationalist, Methodist, Baha’i and Muslim leaders, participated in an evening interfaith service Dec. 16 at a Newtown auditorium.

President Barack Obama addressed the gathering after meeting separately with each family who lost someone in the shooting. He expressed his condolences and the nation’s support as they face their grief and bury their dead.

“I come to offer the love and prayers of a nation. I am very mindful that mere words cannot match the depths of your sorrow, nor can they heal your wounded hearts,” Obama said at the service.

“I can only hope it helps for you

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People visit a memorial outside St. Rose of Lima Church in Newtown, Conn., Dec. 16. Twelve girls, eight boys and six adult women were killed in a shooting massacre Dec. 14 at Newtown’s Sandy Hook Elementary School. Eight of the children were to be buried from St. Rose of Lima. to know that you’re not alone in your grief; that our world, too, has been torn apart; that all across this land of ours, we have wept with you, we’ve pulled our children tight,” he continued.

“And you must know that whatever measure of comfort we can provide, we will provide; whatever portion of sadness that we can share with you to ease this heavy load, we will gladly bear it.

Newtown — you are not alone.”

Obama pledged in the coming weeks to “use whatever power” his office holds “to engage my fellow citizens — from law enforcement to mental health professionals to parents and educators — in an effort aimed at preventing more tragedies like this.

“Because what choice do we have?

We can’t accept events like this as routine,” he added.

Before closing his remarks, Obama named each child by name, and added: “God has called them all home.

For those of us who remain, let us find the strength to carry on, and make our country worthy of their memory.”

In a Dec. 16 statement, Msgr. Jerald A. Doyle, administrator of the Bridgeport Diocese, said: “On this Gaudete Sunday we realize how quickly our joy can be turned to sorrow and how our faith can be challenged.

“On behalf of the clergy, religious

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and all the faithful of the Diocese of Bridgeport I extend my prayers and condolences to the families of the victims. . . . Our concern and support go out to the whole community of Newtown as you try to assist and support one another, especially those who were directly impacted.”

Msgr. Doyle pledged whatever diocesan resources are needed “to assist those affected by this tragedy,” including counselors from Catholic Charities.

“As we continue our journey toward the Christmas feast, may our hope for the peace and comfort of the divine Savior, be a true source of assurance of his loving presence in our lives,” he added.

At all of the Sunday Masses at St. Rose, a letter was read from Baltimore Archbishop William E. Lori, Bridgeport’s bishop from 2001 until he was named to Baltimore in March.

“Along with you, and along with the rest of our nation and, indeed, the rest of the world, I was shocked and horrified to learn of what had taken place in Newtown so suddenly and terribly on Friday morning. I was in Rome for meetings, and it was early evening there when I heard,” the archbishop wrote.

“Since that moment, my heart has been heavy, and I can’t stop thinking about everyone in Newtown, especial-

— you can multiply the stress. If you want peace, divide household duties evenly — but first, work as a couple to define what’s even. Start by making a list of all the duties, chores, and responsibilities you share. Then each of you separately rate the items on a scale of one to 10 — with 10 being reserved for the most dreaded tasks. You may

ly the victims, the children, and their families,” he continued. “So I just wanted to say very sincerely and simply that I am close to all of you in my thoughts and prayers right now.”

He added: “Our lives will never be the same. But neither will we have to face a single day without the strength and peace that only Christ can give to us. In that strength and in that peace, I am very much united with you today.”

In a statement released late evening Dec. 14, New York Cardinal Timothy M. Dolan, president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, said the shooting “wrenches the hearts of all people” and the “tragedy of innocent people dying through violence shatters the peace of all.”

“We pledge especially our prayerful support to the Diocese of Bridgeport and the community of Newtown as they cope with this almost unbearable sorrow . . . as they deal with the injuries they have sustained and with the deaths of their beautiful children,” he said.

“Once again we speak against the culture of violence infecting our country even as we prepare to welcome the Prince of Peace at Christmas,” the cardinal added. “All of us are called to work for peace in our homes, our streets and our world, now more than ever.”

be surprised to find out your spouse likes to vacuum, but hates paying bills. Use this rating system to divide duties evenly. If there is something you both label a 10+, set up a schedule for taking turns.

—J.R.E.