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‘Many a fine tune’ Friends gather for a gentle ‘roast’ of Archbishop Keleher

By JOE BOLLIG Leaven staff KANSAS CITY, Kan. — Among those who know and love him, Archbishop Emeritus James P. Keleher has a reputation as a raconteur extraordinaire.

His stories and personal parables, which often appear in his famous three-point homilies, have delighted parishioners and prelates alike for decades.

The tables were turned, however, during recent celeyears as brations on Dec. 11 a priest and 12 of the archbishop’s 50th anniversary of his ordination as a priest and the 25th anniversary of his ordination as a bishop.

A few of his fellow clergy took the opportunity to share their favorite stories about “Uncle Jimmy” during a dinner following a vespers service on Dec. 11 at Savior Pastoral Center in Kansas City, Kan. Nine bishops and 85 priests attended the event.

Relatives present were Rita Zick, the archbishop’s sister, and Father Marty Marren, his cousin from Chicago. Speakers were: Archbishop John Vlazny, from the Archdiocese of Portland (Ore.); Archbishop

Daniel Buechlein, OSB, from Archdiocese of the Indianapolis; and Father Bill O’Mara, from Chicago.

Other distinguished clergy present were: Bishop Robert Finn, of the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph; Bishop John Gaydos, of the Diocese of Jefferson City; Bishop William L. Higi, of the Diocese of Lafayette (Ind.); Bishop William J. Dendinger, of the Diocese of Grand Island (Neb.); Bishop Emeritus George Fitzsimons, of the Diocese of Salina; Bishop years as Michael Jackels, of a bishop the Diocese of Wichita; Bishop Emeritus Daniel Ryan, Diocese of Springfield (Ill.); and Msgr. Walter Rossi, rector of the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, Washington, D.C. Archbishop Vlazny has known Archbishop Keleher since the two joined the faculty of Quigley Preparatory Seminary North in Chicago in 1963. He recalled the day they were both summoned to the rector’s office.

“I wound up being assigned to teach music,” said Archbishop Vlazny. “And I said, ‘All I’ve done is play an accor-

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From our readers

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n March 2002, St. Agnes Church was holding a special Mass for Archbishop Keleher and Father Don Cullen was the attending pastor for our parish. At that time, I was facing a life- threatening health issue that Father Cullen had previously been informed of. Before the Mass had started, Father Cullen found my husband and asked us to follow him as he took my hand and he led us to Archbishop Keleher. Father Cullen explained to him that I was suffering from a brain aneurysm and was soon to have surgery.

Archbishop Keleher asked for my family — my husband David and my three children, Rachel, David, and Laura — to come over for a blessing. It was a very spiritual and special moment for me and my family, and I will never forget it.

Carmela Valdivia Queen of the Holy Rosary, Overland Park

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ast winter, my father was sent to Hoeger House to regain strength following a serious illness. As I pushed his wheelchair into the dining room the day he was admitted, I immediately recognized a tall man standing next to one of the tables and exclaimed, “Aren't you . . .” Before I could say his name, Archbishop Keleher boomed, “Yes, I am!” Each day thereafter, Papa and I were able to spend some very special time with Archbishop Keleher as he recovered from knee replacement and Papa regained his strength. For me, it will always be a special memory of a time spent with two very important men in my spiritual life and a confirmation of what a special person Archbishop Keleher is.

Annette Johnson Sacred Heart, Shawnee

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rchbishop Jim is a very humble, gentle shepherd! Working with him in the 1990s on the pastoral council for the archdiocese was a true blessing for me. I saw firsthand the compassion, dedication, and love a shepherd has for his flock. He was always willing to take suggestions from the laity and the religious alike in developing his plan for the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. His caring for all the regions of that flock is astounding! One can truly see Christ in his words and actions. We were truly blessed to have him as our shepherd.

Linda M Buessing St. Michael Parish, Axtell

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don’t think Archbishop Jim ever missed a Donnelly College graduation ceremony during his years as archbishop. He would attend, vested in all of the archbishop’s finery, adding a colorful dimension to the event. The students loved it and clamored to have their pictures taken with him.

Knowing that, he always came early to accommodate them and stayed long after the ceremonies were over to visit with them and have more pictures taken. He made each graduate feel so special and, of course, that is because he truly thought each one was.

Congratulations, Archbishop Jim, on your 50 years of spiritual leadership.

Dr. John Murry President Emeritus, Donnelly College

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LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS

Priestly vocations depend on vocations to married life

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hen I was preparing for my ordination to the priesthood, I had very limited resources to purchase a chalice.

One of my seminary classmates informed me that the pastor of his home parish offered to make available to anyone in our ordination class a chalice of a deceased priest (Msgr. William Mullally). I gladly accepted this generous offer.

The chalice was much more beautiful than anything that I could have possibly afforded. My family had a small cross affixed to the base of the chalice with the diamonds of my mother’s engagement ring set into the cross.

The cross, with the diamonds, serves to remind me every time I celebrate Mass to pray for my parents and to give thanks that my vocation, as a priest, is the fruit of their vocation as a married couple.

The vocations of priesthood and marriage are intimately connected.

Most priestly vocations are born in families where the Catholic faith is lived faithfully and celebrated joyfully.

It is in the environment of vibrant Catholic families that young men realize the importance of the Eucharist, the sacramental life of the church and the importance of the priesthood.

At the same time, the ministry of the diocesan priest is at the service of the family. The life of the priest is devoted, in part, to helping prepare couples for marriage; to providing spiritual nourishment for married couples, so that they can grow daily in their love for

each other in the Lord; to counseling and providing assistance to couples who are facing challenges in their marriage; and to assisting parents in their responsibility as the primary teachers of their children of our Catholic faith.

Recently, I received a Christmas card from a woman who was a teenager in the parish where I was first assigned to serve as a priest in 1975. She is married and raising a family.

Her Christmas card included the following note: “As the year draws to a close, we reflect on our blessings. I am struck by how generous and good our God is. So many days we take the small things for granted. This past year brought some challenges our way, and yet I look back with gratitude for the difficulties, and for the grace to carry the load, and the gift of strengthened faith that comes as a result. We appreciate so much the service you do for all of us! If there is a debt that we can never repay, it is the priesthood that serves us so faithfully and brings us our greatest gifts in the sacraments!! For the Christmas that comes every day in the Eucharist, I thank you!! And for the grace that it imparts, I stand in awe!”

This Sunday, we celebrate the feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. This feast reminds us that God chose to fully immerse himself in our humanity by becoming a member of a

human family. The life of Jesus in Nazareth with Mary and Joseph illustrates the importance and sacredness of family life. I look at the cross on my chalice and I realize my debt to my parents that I can never repay — a debt for the gift of life, but, even more, a debt for the gift of my Catholic faith and life in Jesus Christ.

One of the true blessings of my life now is the opportunity to spend time with the family of my nephew, David.

Dave and Dee Dee have three children and are expecting their fourth. I admire their generosity and openness to being co-creators with God of new human life.

Their children are a joy for our family. At the same time, their children are a lot of work and require Dave and Dee Dee to make heroic sacrifices. I admire their dedication and zeal in their vocation as Christian parents. Being around them inspires me to strive to be a better spiritual father, a better priest, a better bishop.

I am impressed by the goodness and beauty of so many of our families throughout the Archdiocese. Family life is the foundation of culture, country and church. Strong families make for a healthy nation and a vibrant church. Good priests are the result of healthy, faith-filled families. Healthy, faith-filled families need zealous, holy priests to nourish them with the Eucharist and to nurture them with preaching the Gospel. The vocations of the priesthood and Christian marriage are intimately connected.

On the weekend of Jan. 2 - 5, I will be participating in the annual Archbishop’s Quo Vadis Retreat for Vocations. We hope to have more than 20 young men — college age or older

— who will be making this retreat. The retreat is designed for men who are attempting to determine if they should enter the seminary to discern a vocation to the priesthood.

This year our seminarians will help give the conferences, sharing their own vocation discernment experiences. I will celebrate Mass with the retreatants, preach and meet individually with each man making the retreat.

It is still possible to register for the retreat. If you are a young man who is trying to figure out if God is calling you to serve as a priest, this retreat is designed for you. You can register online at the Web site: kckvocations.com. If you know a young man who you think might have a call to the priesthood, encourage him to make this retreat.

Whether he is called to enter the seminary or not, I am confident that he will benefit from the retreat and will be blessed for giving this time to the Lord.

Also, I ask everyone in the Archdiocese to pray for the young men who will be making this Quo Vadis Retreat. “Quo Vadis” is Latin for “Where are you going?” This is the question Peter asked Jesus when Jesus appeared as Peter was fleeing Rome at a time of persecution. Jesus responded by saying that he was going to Rome to be crucified again. Peter turned around and went back to Rome where he was martyred with many other Roman Christians.

Pray that many of the young men on the retreat will hear Jesus inviting them to follow him in the heroic life of priestly ministry so that your children and grandchildren will have priests to serve them and to make Christmas available every day through the Eucharist.

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Raul Mendoza, president of the Nocturnal Adoration Society, kneels in prayer near Father Dan Gardner and Deacon Raymundo Guevara.

Father Dan Gardner, pastor of All Saints Parish in Kansas City, Kan., incenses the altar at the inaugural Mass for the Nocturnal Adoration Society. He is assisted by Deacon Raymundo Guevara.

ALL NIGHT LONG Nocturnal eucharistic adoration finds a new home

By JOE BOLLIG Leaven staff KANSAS CITY, Kan. — A group of All Saints parishioners here have taken the words of Psalm 134 to heart: “Come, bless the Lord, all you servants of the Lord Who stand in the house of the Lord during the hours of the night” (v.1).

Since June, a group of about 30 people have gathered at All Saints Church (formerly St. Joseph-St. Benedict) to participate in a eucharistic devotion more familiar to earlier generations of Catholics than to their own. Known simply as nocturnal adoration, it is a devotion that calls for eucharistic adoration, carried on throughout the night by successive shifts of worshippers, on a specified night each month.

Th e re ar e m an y ado r ati o n chapels in Kansas and several in the archdiocese. Many parishes periodically conduct eucharistic adorati o n, p ar t i c u l ar l y as p ar t o f Benediction.

All Saints, however, is one of only Leaven photo by Don Wolf two places in the state that conducts From right to left, Carmen Oregel, Gerardo Oregel and Raul Pacheco hold candles as part of the Nocturnal Adoration Society commitment nocturnal adoration as part of a local ceremony. Both candles and medallions were distributed to members of the society at the ceremony. chapter of the Nocturnal Adoration Society. graduation project. After receiving some sleep in the basement. One wife Carmen.

The practice of nocturnal adora“When I was a kid, my dad used approval from All Saints pastor man, and sometimes more, stays tion began in Rome in 1592 and Father Dan Gardner and Archbishop awake all night, acting as sort of the to take me to nocturnal adoration,” spread quickly across “foreman,” monitoring the shifts.

Naumann, the Oregels began resaid Gerardo Oregel.

Italy and then other “Then, at 4 a.m., everyone gets up “I tried to start it here cruiting others to form the local Those who want to countries. Today, the and prays for the last time together, seven years ago, but it chapter. become a part of the society numbers a and the pastor unlocks the door for Nocturnal adoration is held on wasn’t possible belocal chapter can million members in whoever wants to come in for adoracause of security con- the first Friday of each month. come to the church 36 different countion,” said Gerardo Oregel. “Father Members of the local chapter, somecerns.” on the first Friday of tries. The national times joined by others, gather inside Gardner [completes exposition] and This year, however, each month and fill headquarters of the ends with the Mass.” the church at 8:30 p.m. Father the Oregels took up out a contact inforsociety is at St. Jean There’s something special about Gardner opens the devotion with a the idea again after mation card. Or, for Baptiste Church in praying before the Lord in the quiet finishing a two-year brief homily, then at 9:30 p.m. conmore information, New York. of the night, he said. In a sense, it is Hispanic leadership ducts exposition of the Blessed call All Saints Parish On Dec. 6, like keeping watch with Christ in the Sacrament. course conducted by at (913) 371-1837.

Archbishop Joseph F. At 11 p.m., all those not staying Garden of Gethsemane.

Father Pat Murphy, Naumann celebrated The nocturnal adoration at All the night leave and the doors are CS, animator for archan inaugural Mass for Saints is conducted in Spanish, but it diocesan Hispanic locked. Those remaining have been the Kansas City, Kan., chapter of the ministry. organized into groups: One “shift” is open to all Catholics of the archsociety, which was established by Launching the adoration program remains in adoration in the church, diocese.

Gerardo Oregel, with the help of his became, in a sense, Gerardo Oregel’s while the remainder of the men get

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Vatican warns certain new research violates moral principles Catholic News Service VATICAN CITY (CNS) — A new Vatican document warned that certain recent developments in stem-cell research, gene therapy and embryonic experimentation violate moral principles and reflect an attempt by man to “take the place of his Creator.”

The latest advances raise serious questions of moral complicity for researchers and other biotech professionals, who have a duty to refuse to use biological material obtained by unethical means, the document said.

The 32-page instruction, titled “Dignitas Personae” (“The Dignity of a Person”), was issued Dec. 12 by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. Pope Benedict XVI personally approved the text and ordered its publication.

The document represented an updating of the congregation’s 1987 instruction, “Donum Vitae” (“The Gift of Life”), which rejected in vitro fertilization, human cloning, surrogate motherhood and nontherapeutic experiments with human embryos.

The new instruction expanded on those teachings or presented new ones in the following areas: • Stem-cell research. The document recognized that stem cells have opened new prospects in regenerative medicine. It said it is morally acceptable to take stem cells when they do no serious harm to the subject, as is generally the case when tissues are taken from an adult organism, from the umbilical cord at the time of birth or from fetuses that have died from natural causes.

On the other hand, it said, it is always “gravely illicit” to take stem cells from a living human embryo, because it invariably causes the death of the embryo.

• The morning-after pill and other anti-implantation methods. The docu-

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Embryologist Ric Ross removes a vial of frozen embryos from a storage tank at the Smotrich IVF Clinic in La Jolla, Calif., in this 2007 file photo. The new Vatican document “Dignitas Personae” (“The Dignity of a Person”) warns that certain recent developments in stem-cell research, gene therapy and embryonic experimentation violate moral principles and reflect an attempt by man to “take the place of his Creator.” ment said an embryo is constituted after fertilization of the egg, and drugs and techniques that prevent its implantation in the uterine wall are morally illicit because they intend to cause an abortion — even if they don’t actually cause an abortion every time they are used.

Anyone who seeks to prevent the implantation of an embryo that may have been conceived, and who therefore requests or prescribes such a drug, generally intends abortion, it said. The use of such anti-implantation methods

“falls within the sin of abortion” and is gravely immoral; when there is certainty that an abortion has resulted, there also are serious canon law penalties, it said.

• Gene therapy. It said genetic engineering that aims to correct genetic defects by intervening on nonreproductive cells, a process called somatic-cell gene therapy, is in principle morally acceptable. The effects in this case are limited to a single person.

But it is not permissible to make genetic modifications that seek to transmit the effects to the subject’s offspring, called germ-line cell therapy, because of potential harm to the progeny, the document said. It said that “in the present state of research” germ-line cell therapy in all its forms is morally illicit.

• Embryo manipulation and “adoption.” The document repeated earlier condemnations of the in vitro creation of human embryos, a technique often used in fertility treatment, first because it separates procreation from the conjugal act in marriage, and second because in practice, unused embryos are often discarded, thus violating the principle that “the human being is to be respected and treated as a person from the moment of conception.”

Freezing such embryos is itself a violation of ethics, because it exposes them to a serious risk of death or harm, the document said. Most of such embryos remain “orphans,” it said.

Despite the good intentions of people who have suggested a form of “prenatal adoption” to allow unused frozen embryos to be born, such a proposal would be subject to medical, psychological and legal problems, it said.

• Freezing of human eggs. The freezing of oocytes, immature human egg cells, has been introduced as part of an in vitro fertilization technique, in which only those eggs to be transferred to the mother’s body are fertilized. The

document said the freezing of oocytes for this purpose is morally unacceptable.

• Human-animal hybrid cloning.

The document rejected as immoral recent efforts to use animal eggs to reprogram human cells in order to extract embryonic stem cells from the resulting embryos. These efforts represent a grave offense against human dignity by mixing animal and human genetic elements capable of “disrupting the specific identity of man,” it said. In addition, use of the resulting stem cells would expose humans to unacceptable risks, it said.

In a section titled “The use of human ‘biological material’ of illicit origin,” the document examined the ethical questions posed for people who, in research or the production of vaccines or other products, deal with cell lines that are the result of a procedure the church considers immoral.

In cases where there is a direct connection, such as embryonic experimentation that inevitably involves the killing of the human embryos, such acts “always constitute a grave moral disorder,” it said.

It said the situation was more complex when a researcher works with cell lines produced apart from his research center or obtained commercially. The document rejected the “criterion of independence,” as formulated by some ethics committees, which argues that using such biological material would be ethically permissible as long as there is a clear separation between those causing the death of embryos, for example, and those doing the research.

The document said it was necessary to distance oneself in one’s ordinary professional activities from the injustice perpetrated by others, even when immoral actions are legal, in order not to give the impression of “tacit acceptance of actions which are gravely unjust.”

Notre Dame de Sion raises more than nine tons of food KANSAS CITY, Mo. — The Notre Dame de Sion Student Council here wrapped up its annual Food For Thought food drive on Nov. 25. The school reported a total collection of 9.267 tons of food, which helps stock the pantry at Redemptorist Catholic Social Services Center.

“We constantly hear how grateful children are that their parents had things taken care of. Have you done this for your children?”

Sion began its food drive with a sleepout on Nov. 10 from 7 p.m. to 7 a.m. on Nov. 11, to help raise awareness of the daily life of Kansas City’s homeless. The girls weathered an ice storm and were forced inside, but realized the hardships that homeless people face every winter: the elements of the weather and hunger.

There’s no place like home Couple, teen find a family in each other

By JANE GRAVES Special to The Leaven LAWRENCE — Seventeen-yearold Brandie Roberts has had the same Christmas wish for as long as she can remember: to have a family.

This year, Rebecca Buford and Jeremi Lewis, of Lawrence, made that dream come true.

“When I was little,” said Brandie, “I thought that if I really, really wished [for a family], it would come true.

“Then I started getting into my teen years, and it never happened. I never thought it would.”

In fact, when a couple chooses to adopt a new a child, it is most likely to be an infant or a toddler. But Rebecca, 32, and her husband Jeremi, 31, of Lawrence, decided instead to open their home to a teenager.

It was not a decision Rebecca and Jeremi took lightly.

“We certainly prayed a lot about it,” Rebecca said. “You really kind of look into yourself and say, ‘Can I provide the right resources for her needs?’”

Rebecca, a parishioner of St. John the Evangelist in Lawrence, and Jeremi have known Brandie for two and half years, having served as her Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) volunteers. When Brandie needed a new placement, Rebecca and Jeremi decided to make her a permanent part of their life; their guardianship was finalized in October.

Before becoming CASA volunteers, the couple had several miscarriages.

Those miscarriages, said Rebecca, changed her life — and that of Brandie.

“I do sometimes feel like, gosh, if we had had one of our children be-

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When I was little, I thought that if I really, really wished [for a family], it would come true.

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fore, I’m not sure we would have been in this unique position to be parents for Brandie,” said Rebecca.

Rebecca said that she didn’t want Brandie to just age out of the foster system, never having received the per-

manent support family can provide.

“She’s a very bright girl, very loving girl, has so many wonderful qualities, but was feeling just rejected and part of the foster system. She needed some permanency,” recalled Rebecca. “And here this bright girl had just kind of given up.”

“In some ways, the next few years of her life are absolutely critical for her success,” Rebecca continued. “If you have a 16-year-old, you know that they really would rather not go to school. They’d really rather have some fun.”

Rebecca credits her own parents’ example with influencing her choices as a teenager, as well as modeling the parenting skills she’s called on to use these days.

“I think back to my parents and,

it was like, there’s no question — you’re getting up, you’re going to school, you’re doing well in school and you’re going to college,” she said. “There was no choice.

“Brandie hasn’t been told that for most of her life. So it’s essential — even more for her — that she hears that. And that there are two parents there who can really make sure she can do her best.”

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‘It just fills my heart with joy’ Continued from page 5 see them have smiles on their face and welcome me home,” said Brandie. “Being able to cook together, play together, go places together, spend time together, stay at home and watch a movie. That has changed significantly since I have moved in here.”

“In the past I haven’t ever really had what you would call a family,” she said. “Because my mom — my biological mom — would lock herself in her room and I would be like the parent of my sisters. Now that I’m living with [Rebecca and Jeremi] I’ve been able to come and act like a normal teenager.”

The verdict?

“It’s wonderful,” she said. “It just fills my heart with joy to be able to come home every day and them to tell me they love me and care for me and they’re glad that I’m living with them and stuff.”

Dealing with loss For Rebecca, her conviction for the need for family support was solidified after the death of her younger sister Kathleen, who was killed in a car accident during

Rebecca’s last year in college, and then again after her miscarriages.

“Loss is never easy,” Rebecca said.

Part of learning to deal with loss, said Rebecca, is “just wading through it without control. And I think our faith probably prepares us best for letting go of some control and being at peace with that.”

Her family’s faith and love for each other, she believes, helped them g o o n aft e r Ka thl e en ’s death.

“You do see families that have not really learned how to love,” she said. “I can’t imagine going through that kind of loss in my family without being able to give each other a big hug and kiss and say, ‘It’s going to be OK. I love you.

We’re here.’”

Mike and Lannie Buford, Rebecca’s parents and parishioners of Most Pure Heart of Mary in Topeka, agreed.

“I don’t know how you do it without faith,” said Lannie. “It’s kind of what keeps you going, because you know somewhere down the road, you’ll see her again.”

“You just get through things,”

Mike said, “knowing that there are better things ahead.”

“It’s made our two daughters that are still with us much closer, and I think just appreciate life,” Lannie said. “I think they want to honor their sister by being better people themselves.”

“It’s just kind of come full circle,” concluded Rebecca. “I just know that’s what God is, and that’s what love is, and that’s what it means to be a family.”

And Christmastime, said Jeremi, is the best time to celebrate that love.

“It isn’t just another day — it’s a celebration of family and another year to come and more opportunities to do good and do right for each other.

“It’s a celebration of us being a family and the sacrifices that we make for each other and the happiness that we get out of it.”

For Rebecca, the first Christmas with a child of her own has been nothing short of “exciting.”

But it has been a bit different than she imagines those of other first-time parents.

“As teenagers,” she said with a laugh, “they expect bigger gifts.”

John and Mary Lou (Tanking) Cheray, members of Mother Teresa of Calcutta Parish, Topeka, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on Dec. 28 with a Mass, followed by a reception hosted by their chilANNIVERSARY dren and six grandchildren at Mother Teresa Parish hall in Topeka. The couple was married on Dec. 29, 1958, at St. James Church, Wetmore. Their children and their spouses are: David and Kathae Cheray, Houston; Stephen and Lois Cheray, Topeka; Chuck and Sharon Urban, Andover; and Rick and Teresa Spaulding, O’Fallon, Mo.

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Archbishop John Vlazny, from the Archdiocese of Portland (Ore.), recalled Archbishop Keleher’s soft heart as a teacher.

Rita Zick, Archbishop Keleher’s sister, looks like she’s telling tales out of school on her brother.

Father Marty Marren, the archbishop’s cousin and a priest from Chicago, shares how his cousin was a positive influence on him.

Continued from page 1 dion as a kid,’ and the rector said, ‘Then play records.’”

“And [Archbishop Keleher] was assigned assistant athletic director,” Archbishop Vlazny continued with a smile. “We had to show him the difference between a football and a basketball.”

One of Archbishop Keleher’s jobs was oversight of the intramural sports program. The problem was, with thenFather Jim in charge, no one went out to the basketball court.

“He’d be sitting in the equipment room, and [the students] would all be sitting around and chatting with the assistant athletic director,” said Archbishop Vlazny. “The guys loved to chat with [Archbishop Keleher], as we all do. It was a gift from the very, very beginning.”

Teaching was a bit of a struggle for young Father Jim back then.

“He was a bit of a soft touch, and it was very hard for him to give a ‘C,’” said Archbishop Vlazny. “That was the rockbottom low in his class. But he taught, and the men learned, and the students loved him very much.”

When he needed to be, however, Archbishop Keleher could be tough. His toughness, however, was always tempered by pastoral gentleness.

“We all know him as a man of courage and conviction,” said Archbishop Vlazny. “He doesn’t try to avoid a challenge, but he is always able to soften the blow of his message, because of his approach as the ‘velvet hammer.’ You don’t even know when you’ve been slugged.”

A gregarious soul, years as Archbishop Keleher offered a priest support to a number of his junior colleagues, said Archbishop Buechlein.

“The archbishop was a mentor for me [when I was] a new rector,” said Archbishop Buechlein. “He was at the great Mundelein Seminary, and I was at this humble southern Indiana semi-

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Msgr. Tom Tank, archdiocesan vicar general, leads a toast to Archbishop Emeritus Keleher during an event for priests and chancery employees held Dec. 11 at Savior Pastoral Center. nary, but he treated me as an equal, and I appreciated that.”

Archbishop Keleher has continued to mentor him ever since, said Archbishop Buechlein, now 70.

“Now you’re teaching us to be ‘emeritus,’” Archbishop Buechlein told Archbishop Keleher, “and I appreciate that as well.

“And I’m watching very years as carefully.” a bishop Friendship is an amazing grace with which Archbishop Keleher has been abundantly blessed, said Father O’Mara, a Chicago priest who has been a friend of the archbishop’s since childhood.

“He has many, many friends, and friendship is synonymous with

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Archbishop Keleher, because he makes friends so easily,” said Father O’Mara.

Even as a young seminarian, Archbishop Keleher’s conversational skills were appreciated by his classmates, said Father O’Mara. When their old (to them) parish monsignor took them out to dinner, young Keleher was the delegated schmoozer.

“We’d put Jim in the front with the monsignor, because he was the only one who could really connect with the monsignor,” said Father O’Mara. “He’d ask the monsignor many questions that we knew he knew the answer to already.

“But he knew how to converse.

“And he knew how to make friends.”

Father O’Mara couldn’t resist, however, telling how a story in which he,

rather than Archbishop Keleher, was the star.

“When we were going on vacation together, we’d come over [to see the archbishop’s mother],” said Father O’Mara. “He’d say, ‘I’m going on vacation with Bill O’Mara,’ and she’d say, ‘Oh, that’s wonderful. I’m glad you’re going on vacation with him, because he’s such a good influence!’”

Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann, master of ceremonies, thanked Archbishop Keleher for all he continues to do for the archdiocese.

“One of the things I admire so much about Archbishop Keleher during his ‘emeritus’ years is that he’s made a special commitment to visit the prisTurn to FRIENDS on page 8

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Bishop William J. Dendinger, of the Diocese of Grand Island (Neb.), acknowledges the crowd as he is introduced.

n our trip to Ireland, we visited a shop in County Ennis that had the “Keleher” name printed on its storefront. This reminded us of our bishop back home.

Now, at age 80, I was privileged to offer the reading for the pro-life Mass celebrated by Archbishop James P. Keleher at St. Cyril’s Church on Nov. 15, 2008, where we enjoyed his homily and blessings once again. So, he continues to touch our lives. May God bless him always.

Helen Mufich Christ the King, Kansas City, Kan.

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rchbishop Jim started e-mailing me when our son was first diagnosed with cancer in 2000. He helped me accept Lucas’ death in 2004. His e-mails were a great inspiration to us and still are. He always has a great way of saying just the right thing to help us through the troubles that come and make us truly grateful of our many blessings. I don’t think that most people in the archdiocese know how truly lucky we are to have such a blessed and holy man in our area.

Mary Ellen Wetter St. Gregory, Marysville

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ome years ago, my wife Ginny and I chaired the Catholic Charities Snowball. It happened to be Archbishop Keleher’s first year here in Kansas City, and his first time to attend the Snowball. After I welcomed everyone to the Snowball, the archbishop led us all in a prayer. I remember it being an energetic, but warm prayer. We invited him to sit with us at our table and grew to like him quickly. As the years passed, his warm demeanor and compassion towards others touched us time and time again. One specific time I remember well is when he visited my wife after she suffered a serious stroke. He sat at her bedside and prayed the rosary with her on two different occasions. Now that she has passed, I reflect on that special moment, and want to thank Archbishop Keleher for touching our lives. Congratulations and best wishes to you.

Pat Wilkerson Church of Nativity, Leawood

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his is our story: Nov. 2003, Archbishop Keleher arrived in Flush for confirmation. My 22-year-old daughter Regan was facing a biopsy for cancer the next day. The doctors told us there was no question: The tumor was cancerous. Archbishop took the time to pray with us before confirmation. He was so compassionate. My daughter said, “I'm so scared.” Archbishop put his arms around her and said, “I know you are,” and then we prayed.

He was so wonderful and we were at peace. The next day, my daughter had the biopsy and it was not cancer!

Gladys Thorsell St. Bernard Parish, Wamego

‘Friends are a gift’

CHUMS Archbishop Emeritus Keleher introduces his friend and colleague Bishop John Gaydos, of the Diocese of Jefferson City, Mo.

MEET & GREET Archbishop Emeritus James P. Keleher makes the rounds following the vespers service on Dec. 11, chatting with old friends and coworkers.

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Continued from page 7 said Archbishop ons,” Naumann.

“What a beautiful ministry he does,” continued Archbishop Naumann, “but it is a little embarrassing when we have to say, ‘The archbishop is in jail again.’”

At the end of it all, Archbishop Keleher was given the opportunity for a “final rebuttal.” Surrounded by friends gathered from 50 years in ministry, the archbishop spoke on the importance of friendship.

“Friends are a gift,” he said.

“You know, we say you make friends. You don’t make friends. Friends happen, and they happen by the grace of God, and they are the most precious gift any of us can have.”

“And the friendship depends on being in touch with each other,” he continued.

“Never let that friend be there alone. Share your life with your friends — especially with Jesus in the Eucharist.”

As he looked ahead, Archbishop Keleher referred to a poem given him that expressed his fondest wishes.

“There’s many a fine tune that can be played on an old fiddle,” he said. “And I trust with God’s help I’ll be able to play some mellow music for you all on this fiddle for years to come before it is time to put it away.

“God bless you all!”

GOOD TIMES The archbishop enjoys a good laugh with friends at a reception after a Mass in his honor at Curé of Ars Church in Leawood on Dec. 12.

MEN IN BLACK The chapel at Savior Pastoral Center in Kansas City, Kan., was filled with some 85 priests of the archdiocese to honor Archbishop Emeritus Keleher for his 50 years as a priest and 25 as a bishop.

FROM THE HEART Archbishop Emeritus Keleher delivers a heartfelt homily on the occasion of his anniversary Mass celebrating 50 years as a priest and 25 as a bishop.

STANDING OVATION Bishops, priests and lay people give Archbishop Emeritus Keleher a standing ovations following his remarks on the importance of friendship and his relationship with God.

GUEST OF HONOR Archbishop Emeritus Keleher celebrates his double anniversary Mass with the assistance of several priests of the archdiocese and visiting bishops on Dec. 12 at Curé Ars Church in Leawood.

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walk a lot of miles at the Lake of the Ozarks. One sunny hot day in the afternoon, I rounded the curve on the last phase of my walk and noticed a man slowly walking down a slight hill, as if thoughtfully, in prayer. I had to pass him and with sudden remembrance I said, “I think I know you!” Of course, it was Archbishop Keleher, and I knew out of all the people he’s served in the church, he couldn't possibly have known who I was. After introductions, we chatted for a short time. When I walked away, I had wished I asked for his blessing, and still do to this day. I often hope that I’ll see him again when I walk, then I'd have the chance for that blessing. But have not seen him since. I’m glad for that chance meeting in the quiet woods, and I’m glad that also when I remember him, it is because he was always cheerful. I’ve noticed this cheerfulness whenever I saw him at any church gathering. Thank you, archbishop, for letting me see in you something that I think is important to Christ when he calls leaders to his church. Happy Anniversary!

Linda Van Nieuwenhuyse St. Joseph, Shawnee

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y best memory of Archbishop Keleher is that he always seemed very jovial, happy, funny, and just excited about our faith and about being alive. At every Mass that he celebrated, he would always say that he was from a little town called Chicago and would be giving a brief but brilliant homily. Thank you, Archbishop Keleher, for being a great man of God and an inspiration for myself and for our archdiocese.

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ome years ago we were in Rome with Archbishop Keleher when he received his pallium. At that time, he arranged for a personal visit in which we got to meet and greet our beloved Pope John Paul II. This was typical of Arch Jim’s interest in people and always doing something for others.

call my good friend, Archbishop Emeritus James Patrick Keleher, a modern-day saint.

He truly talks and walks in the true and apostolic tradition of the early bishops and he spreads the Gospel of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ in a manner which is both enjoyable and understandable. Archbishop Jim invested me as a papal knight, a Knight of the Holy Sepulcher in 1998.

I can honestly say that Archbishop Jim has uplifted my spiritual life. I have seen good priests and bad priests. Archbishop Jim is one of the best!

Because of his good example, I did a prison ministry with him at the federal prison (so, I can honestly, but smilingly, say that I've “done time” with him in “the pen”). I’ve also sipped wine with him at the Winefest this past September in Overland Park at which he was honored. I’ve attended Masses with him in over a dozen parishes, covering three states. Archbishop Jim is my friend and my shepherd, and I salute him on his 50 years as a priest and 25 years as a bishop.

Mary Anne and John Henke Curé of Ars Parish, Leawood

James A. Marples Longview, Texas

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met Archbishop Keleher nearly four years ago on an American Airlines flight to Chicago. As I sat down, this kindly looking older gentlemen smiled at me and I smiled back. Something looked more and more familiar about him. After a few minutes of awkward stares, I finally asked, “Aren’t you my bishop?” He replied, “I don't know, am I?” I pulled out my copy of The Leaven that I was planning to read on the short flight and he happened to be featured on the cover of that issue. I pointed and said, “Yeah, that's you!” “By golly, you're right,” he said. The flight turned out to be delayed, so we had a few hours to discuss many things. By the time we parted, he agreed to visit my small parish of Our Lady of Lourdes in La Cygne. We have remained friends and in frequent contact ever since. ABK is a terrific shepherd, modeling Christ’s love and determined concern for his followers, always with a singular sense of humor. I feel privileged to know him.

Eric Victor Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, La Cygne

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e are so very grateful for Archbishop Keleher and his strong devotion to Divine Mercy. He took time out of his very busy schedule at the Knights of Columbus state convention held in Topeka on April 30, 2000, to celebrate the enthronement of the Divine Mercy image at Most Pure Heart of Mary Church on the day of St. Faustina’s canonization. The Topeka community was overjoyed with his presence, and we remain deeply thankful for his continued support.

Bob and Kathy Dorst Mother Teresa, Topeka

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e remember what a breath of fresh air Archbishop Keleher brought into the archdiocese when he arrived here. He brought a vigor and warmth that continues today. He represents the best in what the Catholic clergy can be and is an inspiration to all of us. We also cherish our memories of the Mass the archbishop celebrated for us at our 50th wedding anniversary this past Sept. 20 at St. James Academy.

David and Esta Setter St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee

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everal years ago, my son was a seventh-grade student at Holy Spirit School. It was the job of the seventh-grade parents to organize the reception following confirmation for the eighth-graders.

Archbishop Keleher was confirming the students that year.

Many parents were participating in this, the night of confirmation. We all knew that the actual sacrament was drawing to an end, so we anxiously finished the preparation. In the final minutes, we had time to just chat while waiting for the confirmandi, families, friends, and, most importantly, Archbishop Keleher to enter. As I was standing with a friend, discussing my busy week ahead that included a variety of activities my children were participating in, a voice from behind me empathized with me as a hand touched my shoulder. I turned and it was Archbishop Keleher. I was so surprised and gratified that he would take the time to speak to me about my upcoming commitments, considering what his schedule must have looked like. He continued to talk to me about my sons and my family. He had such a gentle spirit about him. It’s an experience I will never forget.

Janet South Holy Spirit Parish, Overland Park

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hristmas Day, it will be exactly one year and four days since I was released from behind the walls at the Federal Penitentiary in Leavenworth, Kansas. The Catholic community behind the walls is far from thriving. It is barely alive.

How it lives under such hostile conditions and predatory scrutiny is no modest Christmas miracle. Everyone who has had the express and unquantifiable privilege of meeting his eminence understands the charisma and bounding energy he commands! He reaches beyond the confines of human kindness and literally becomes a prism of Christ’s love. There is almost no way I could accurately paint with syllables and sounds a portrait of the life his eminence carries with him into our humble, burned-out lives . . . gathered together . . . a mere 10 or 20 deep . . . in our humble, burned-out multifaith chapel. I have never met a man with so much vigor and accomplishment display so authentically warmth and openness to a group of men that so sparingly had it coming — beggars and thieves.

Wait a minute. Never is a long time. Perhaps 1,975 years is a bit more accurate! Bless you, Archbishop Keleher.

Your impact on our lives is profound! Bless you!

USP Leavenworth Catholic Community

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Open House for priests — Archbishop’s residence

St. James Academy — adoration and Benediction

Pastoral visit — Prince of Peace Parish, Olathe

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Quo Vadis retreat for young men discerning a vocation

Catholic Charities Snowball

Catholic Schools Week

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Conference call — U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops task force for the promotion of life and dignity of the human person

Mass with Leavenworth Catholic schools — Immaculate Conception

4 Mass — 100th anniversary of Holy Name Parish, Kansas City, Kan.

5-12 Region IX bishops’ retreat

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Mass with Topeka Catholic schools — Hayden High School

Martin Luther King Jr. celebration

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Administrative Team meeting

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Priests Personnel meeting

St. Thomas More Society Red Mass — Phoenix

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Presbyteral Council meeting

Vigil Mass for March for Life — Trinity University’s Notre Dame Chapel, Washington, D.C.

15 4th anniversary as archbishop Mass and dinner — Topeka Serra Club at Most Pure Heart of Mary Parish, Topeka

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Mass - St. Thomas Aquinas High School

29 Mass — Sts. Peter and Paul School, Seneca

30 Support Our Seminarians dinner

22 March for Life — Washington, D.C.

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Pastoral visit — Sacred Heart, Tonganoxie

USCCB’s Marriage and Family Committee meeting

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Seeking dyn ami c Cathol ic school pri ncipal s Who embrace the Catholic faith and possess spiritual leadership skills blended with strong instructional leadership and managerial skills. Two schools in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas have openings for the position of principal for the 2009 - 10 academic year: St. Matthew, Topeka – St. Matthew School serves 167 students in grades K – 8. The school employs 23 faculty and staff members. St. Matthew is proud of the rich diversity in the student and family population and is looking for an excellent communicator who can build upon the strong Catholic identity and academic programming that is a hallmark of the school. In addition, the principal at St. Matthew is expected to implement a comprehensive marketing initiative to increase school enrollment. In order to be successful at this effort, the principal will need to have an energetic and creative approach to reaching the entire St. Matthew community.

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The principal will be expected to be an exceptional instructional leader who will be able to bring creativity and flexibility to the position in order to provide the best academic and co-curricular program possible. In addition, the principal will be expected to enhance the mission focus of the school, as well as participate in an aggressive recruiting effort designed to increase enrollment.

Principal applicants must be a practicing Catholic and hold (or be eligible for) an administrative license from the Kansas State Department of Education. Interested individuals should complete the principal application available on the Web site at: www.archkckcs.org. Applications are due by Jan. 13. Questions may be directed to Dr. Kathleen O’Hara, superintendent of schools, Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, at (913) 721-1570, or via email, to: kohara@archkckcs.org.

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Sunny and 80 - Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. 2 BR, 2 BA beachfront condo. Fully equipped, sleeps 6.

Great location; close to everything. $125/night. Call (816) 835-7994, or send an e-mail to: kelgang@ aol.com.

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Excellent condition! Will consider all offers. Member of Queen of the Holy Rosary, Overland Park. Call Barbara at (913) 706-3410 or (913) 544-2723.

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New Yea r’s Ev e si ngles extrav aganza 2 008 Sponsored by Kansas City’s own Zepster’s A to Z Party DJ’s at Holy Trinity, 92nd & Pflumm Rd., Lenexa. Doors open at 8 p.m., with dancing until 12:30 a.m. Tickets cost $25 in advance ($30 at the door) and include soda, beer, wine, champagne, and light appetizers. To order advance tickets, visit the Web site at: www.zepster. com/dances.asp, or send a check, postmarked by Dec. 20, to: P.O. Box 14321, Kansas City, MO 64152. Advance purchase tickets will be at the door under your name. For information, contact Zep at (816) 292-2848 or send an email to: e-mail@zepster.com. A percentage of proceeds will be donated to BE fundraiser.

Jan. 2

The Johnson County Unos will hold their monthly meeting and potluck dinner at 6 p.m. on Jan. 2 at St. Pius X Church, 5601 Woodson, Mission. Bring meat casseroles, salads, vegetables or desserts — enough to feed 8 — or $5 to pay for your meal.

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Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann will host Quo Vadis, a retreat for single men, ages 18 – 35, who are open to discerning the life God created them to live. It will be held from Jan. 2 - 5 at Savior Pastoral Center, 12601 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, Kan. There will be Mass, prayer, adoration, personal time with the archbishop, recreation, and talks by priests and seminarians. There is no charge to attend. For information or to register, by Dec. 28, visit the Web site at: www.kckvocations.com.

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The Militia of Immaculata will meet every first Saturday of the month from 10:30 a.m. to noon at the Redemptorist Social Service Center, 207 W. Linwood, Kansas City, Mo. For more information, call Christine Rossi at (913) 268-0208.

or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb. org/kwc.

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“All My Money” a seven-part series that teaches basic money literacy to high school juniors and seniors and women will be offered on Wednesdays, beginning Jan. 7, from 1 - 3 p.m. at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. Women who attend all sessions will receive $100 to begin or add to a savings account. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.

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Did you know that as many as 50% of pregnant women living in poverty suffer from postpartum depression after they give birth? The Keeler Women’s Center will partner with the Postpartum Resource Center of Kansas to offer a seminar entitled, “Perinatal Mood Disorders and Poverty: Assessment and Resources for Treatment” from 9 a.m. - noon on Jan. 9 at 2220 Central Ave, Kansas City, Kan. Professionals who serve pregnant women or women with infants and toddlers are encouraged to attend. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb. org/kwc.

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Sophia Center, 751 S. 8th St., Atchison, will host “Forgive and Remember“ presented by Donna and Robert Bacic, from 9 a.m. on Jan. 10 - 4 p.m. on Jan. 10. The cost is $100; advance deposit of $20. For information or to register, call (913) 360-6151.

available. Tickets cost $5 and are available at the door. For information, visit the Web sites at: www.mrstinkyfeet.com and www. funkymamamusic.com.

12 & 26

“Writing for Life Workshop,” a series designed to help women heal from the past and recapture lost dreams, will be held from 10- 11 a.m. on Jan. 12 and 26 at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.

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The Family Ties ministry (families tied together through adoption and infertility) of Good Shepherd Parish, Shawnee, will host a trivia night on Jan. 31 in the church community center.

Tickets cost $12.50 per person; $100 for a table of eight. The doors open at 6 p.m.; the game begins at 7 p.m. For tickets or information, send an e-mail to Sarah at: fourhawkeyes@kc.rr.com.

Holy Family Parish, Kansas City, Kan., will host a New Year’s Eve dance at its club located at 513 Ohio. Music will be provided by the Don Lipovac Orchestra. A prime rib dinner will be served at 7 p.m., followed by music and dancing from 8:30 p.m. - 12:30 a.m. The cost is $30 per person; reservations are required. For information or to purchase tickets, contact Richard Schutte at (913) 724-2388, Mike Waliczek at (913) 342-1785, or JoAnn Lipovac at (913) 299-2792.

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A six-week loss support group will meet on Tuesdays from 3:30 - 5 p.m., beginning Jan. 6, at the Keeler Women’s Center, a ministry of the Benedictine Sisters, located at 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.

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“Raising Responsible Kids with Love and Logic,” a three-part series, will be offered on Tuesdays, beginning Jan. 6 from 1 - 2:30 p.m. at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990

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▲ St. Paul Parish, 900 S. Honeysuckle Dr., Olathe, will present “Mr. Stinky Feet and Funky Mama — Live in Concert” from 6:30 - 8 p.m. on Jan. 10 in the gymnasium. Funk and fun for the whole family. Come prepared to sing, dance and have fun. Concessions will be

“7 Steps to Becoming Financially Free,” a completely Catholic faith and finances course created by Veritas Financial Ministries, will help individuals and couples set financial priorities based on solid Catholic teachings. Small groups are led by local volunteers and last eight weeks.

Groups are forming now in Topeka, Lenexa, Shawnee Mission and Atchison.

Meetings will begin in mid-January. For information or to register, contact Gary Pratt at (913) 647-0365 or send an e-mail to him at: gpratt@archkck.org.

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Di sc j ocke y - For your wedding, kolos, nightclubs, corporate parties, teenage celebrations, holiday parties, sock-hops, ethnic, birthdays, holiday parties, hip-hop/rap, golden oldies. Member of St. Therese Parish, KCMO. Call Zepster’s A to Z Party DJ’s at (816) 741-4777.

Individual and family counseling is available at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. Counseling is offered in partnership with Catholic Charities; the fee is based on a sliding scale and is very affordable. Free child care is provided during some time periods.

To schedule an appointment, call (913) 6218749.

Freedom from pornography. Sam Meier, MA, LPC, provides counseling and men’s groups for sexual integrity. Call (913) 6470378, or send an e-mail to: mhmg@archkck.org. Women, contact Beth Meier for information on our group for spouses and loved ones at (913) 647-0379, or send an e-mail to: bmeier@archkck.org.

Support is confidential and from a Catholic perspective. To listen to live testimonials, visit the Web site at; www.archkck.org/ myhouse.

Divorced? Widowed? Beginning Experience Weekend gently helps people move through their loss to a new beginning in their lives. The next weekend for the Kansas City area will be Feb. 27 - March 1.

For information or for registration material, call John at (913) 219-3465 in Kansas City, Sue at (785) 331-2216 in Lawrence, or visit the Web site at: www.beginning experience. org.

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The Singles of Nativity will gather for round-robin-style tennis from 2:30 - 5 p.m. at the Indian Creek Recreational Center, 103rd St. and Marty, Overland Park, on Sundays throughout the winter, weather permitting. If the temperature is above 45 degrees and it is not windy, we will play outdoor tennis. Beginners are welcome; there is room for everyone. We may go out for a light dinner afterwards, because the idea is to share friendship. For information, send an email to Jane Zaccardi at: service@sonministry.org.

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SCRIPTURE READINGS OCTAVE OF CHRISTMAS Dec. 28 THE HOLY FAMILY OF JESUS, MARY AND JOSEPH Sir 3: 2-7, 12-14; Ps 128: 1-5; Col 3: 12-21; Lk 2: 22-40 Dec. 29 FIFTH DAY IN THE OCTAVE OF CHRISTMAS 1 Jn 2: 3-11; Ps 96: 1-3, 5b-6; Lk 2: 22-35

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No, these don’t refer to the time, nor are they this weekend’s winning Pick 3 numbers or the combination to a safe filled with jewels and gold.

Instead, these numbers — ten, two, five — unlock a different kind of treasure.

Before I go any further, I have to credit my friend, Father Phil Winkelbauer of Sacred Heart-St. Casimir Parish in Leavenworth, for directing me to these numbers, found at a very helpful Web site, called 43folders.com. Founded by Merlin Mann, an independent writer, speaker and broadcaster from San Francisco, this site is about “finding the time and attention to do your best creative work.”

Its name comes from the number of folders you need to start an effective “tickler” system for papers — one folder for each of the 31 days in a month, plus another one for each of the 12 months in a year. But I’m not here to talk about the number 43; I’m here to sing the praises of ten, two, five.

The Web site above sent me to a link to how to effectively battle procrastination, even if you’re a professional at

it (like me). How? Think those magic three numbers, expressed in this formula: (10+2)*5. If you’re wondering just what the heck that means, here’s the way it plays out in practice: The first step is to pick out something that you’ve been putting off.

Next grab your kitchen timer (two are better, if you have them). Sit down with that dreaded task and set the timer for ten minutes. Work on that item in a focused manner for those ten measly minutes; allow no distractions.

When the timer goes off, quit and reset it for two minutes. These are your two fun minutes — get up and stretch, grab a Diet Pepsi, run in place, breath deeply, do whatever floats your boat.

When those two minutes are up, it’s back to another ten at your task. Then take another two-minute break, then work another ten, etc. Repeat this five times (the last number of the formula) and — voila — you’ve just put one hour into a task without really breaking a sweat. I can’t believe how three little numbers have been responsible

for making me more . . . responsible.

A second new year’s discipline that I’ve already started is composing a “not to do” list. This idea, from the January issue of Real Simple magazine, is a winner at reducing stress, guilt and regret. Readers of the magazine were invited to write in with their “not to do” list items and here are a few: (not) worry, go on another diet, be a “people pleaser,” save things for “special occasions,” and obsess about my aging looks.

As my personal “not to do” list is getting longer and longer, my spirit is growing lighter and lighter as I see time emerging for truly important things — visits with God, family and friends, for instance.

Lastly, my new year will be a time to “hide the evidence.” I recently came across this little nugget of advice for keeping things more orderly: Think like a “criminal” when it comes to the day’s projects or tasks. After you’ve eaten breakfast, for example, hide the evidence that you’ve done so: Put the dirty dishes in the dishwasher, throw away your used napkin, put the milk and cereal back in their proper places, pop the bread back in the bread bag . . .

Whoops, sorry. Gotta go. The timer just went off for the fifth time and that means that I’ve got to move on. You see, there’s plenty more things on my list that I’ve got “not to do.”

Dec. 30 THE SIXTH DAY IN THE OCTAVE OF CHRISTMAS 1 Jn 2: 12-17; Ps 96: 7-10; Lk 2: 36-40 Dec. 31 THE SEVENTH DAY IN THE OCTAVE OF CHRISTMAS 1 Jn 2: 18-21; Ps 96: 1-2, 11-13; Jn 1: 1-18

THE GOSPEL TRUTH

Jan. 1 THE OCTAVE DAY OF CHRISTMAS: THE BLESSED VIRGIN MARY, MOTHER OF GOD Nm 6: 22-27; Ps 67: 2-3, 5-6, 8; Gal 4: 4-7; Lk 2: 16-21 Jan. 2 Basil the Great and Gregory Nazianzen, bishops, doctors of the church 1 Jn 2: 22-28; Ps 98: 1-4; Jn 1: 19-28 Jan. 3 The Most Holy Name of Jesus 1 Jn 2:29 - 3:6; Ps 98: 1-3, 6; Jn 1: 29-34 CHRISTMAS SEASON Jan. 4 THE EPIPHANY OF THE LORD Is 60: 1-6; Ps 72: 2, 7-8, 10-13; Eph 3: 2-3a, 5-6; Mt 2: 1-12 Jan. 5 John Neumann, bishop 1 Jn 3:22 - 4:6; Ps 2: 7-8, 10-11; Mt 4: 12-17, 23-25 Jan. 6 Blessed André Bessette, religious 1 Jn 4: 7-10; Ps 72: 2-4ab, 7-8; Mk 6: 34-44 Jan. 7 Raymond of Peñafort, priest 1 Jn 4: 11-18; Ps 72: 2, 10-13; Mk 6: 45-52 Jan. 8 Thursday 1 Jn 4:19 - 5:4; Ps 72: 2, 14, 15bc, 17; Lk 4: 14-22a Jan. 9 Friday 1 Jn 5: 5-13; Ps 147: 12-15, 19-20; Lk 5: 12-16 Jan. 10 Saturday 1 Jn 5: 14-21; Ps 149: 1-6a, 9b; Jn 3: 22-30

With faith, not fear, is the way to greet the new year

I’m counting on improvement in 2009 o matter what you do in 2009, don’t forget these numbers: Ten . . . two . . . five.

Jesus turns system of exclusion upside down atholics of an older generation most likely remember the Communion rail. It has disappeared from most churches, although it still survives in a few.

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that “she gave thanks to God and spoke about the child to all who were To receive Communion, one knelt at awaiting the redemption of the Communion rail. The Communion Jerusalem.” rail also served as a barrier, cutting off All this takes place at the Temple. the sanctuary from the rest of the But where exactly? To answer that church. For the most part, question, we should first exonly the clergy and the altar amine the layout of the THE HOLY servers could gain access to Temple of Jerusalem. It was FAMILY OF the sanctuary. That restricnot a single structure, but JESUS, MARY tion especially held true for rather was a large complex, AND JOSEPH Lk 2: 22-40 women, who could ordinarily made up of several courtenter the sanctuary only for yards, leading up to the two purposes: to clean it or to Temple building. Each courtbe married on their wedding day. yard was bordered by colonnades, The Temple of Jerusalem, which figreminiscent of St. Peter’s Square in ures significantly in Sunday’s Gospel Rome. reading, Lk 2: 22-40, had a similar sysThe first courtyard was the court of tem of increasing levels of access. the Gentiles, which was accessible to Joseph and Mary have taken the Infant anyone. Beyond that lay the courtyard Jesus to the Temple to present him as of the women, where only Jews could required by the Law of Moses. While enter, including Jewish women. Next there, they encounter two members of was the courtyard of the men, where the older generation, Simeon and only Jewish men could enter. Then Anna. was the courtyard of the priests, reSimeon predicts great things for stricted to priests. Eventually, one Jesus. Anna is also described by the reached the Temple building itself, Gospel text as a prophetess, although where only priests on duty could go. it does not report any specifics — only Finally, within the Temple building,

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was the holy of holies, entered only by the high priest on one day during the year.

According to this system of graduated access, Simeon and Anna would have encountered Jesus, Mary and Joseph either in the courtyard of the Gentiles or the courtyard of the women. It is there that they recognize the arrival of God’s salvation, in the form of this newly born baby.

The system of graduated access in the Jerusalem Temple suggested that the closer one approached God, the more difficult it became. It emphasized God’s holiness and identified it with inaccessibility. God was thought of as distant and far removed.

It is significant, then, that Jesus appears as the Messiah, not in the heart of the temple, but on its periphery. In his ministry, Jesus will identify with those living on the margins of society.

It is appropriate that at the beginning of his life we also find him there.

Instead of approaching God through a system which becomes more and more exclusive, with Jesus it is the opposite. Jesus turns the Temple system upside down, just as eventually he will return to the Temple as an adult and overturn the tables of the moneychangers.

Father Mike Stubbs is pastor of St. Francis de Sales Parish in Lansing and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.

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few words from Archbishop Joseph Naumann about trust and hope changed my attitude and my heart.

A few months ago, many of the archdiocese’s priests gathered at the chancery to pray, share a meal, and learn about the results of the 2008 Archbishop’s Call to Share. One of the responsibilities of our office is to manage the annual appeal.

Before the meeting, I gave a copy of my talk to the archbishop, along with the usual meeting notes. I prepared to speak to the priests about our Call to Share results, our goal for 2009, the current state of the American economy, and our needs in the church. In my little

speech, I planned to talk about the pressures our parishioners were facing and the church’s challenges of finding resources to meet the growing demands for ministry and social services in the face of competition, layoffs, and the dismal plummet of the stock market.

About an hour before the meeting, the archbishop called me to his office.

With a few brief, thoughtful words, he transformed my thinking. He pointed out to me that the words I had chosen

expressed not my faith, but my fear; not hope, but skepticism.

“We need to be unafraid,” Archbishop Naumann said. “We know that people will be called to do even more.”

He reminded me that a steward’s “sacrificial giving” is a blessing for the giver.

With those few words, I could feel the warmth of God’s grace fill my heart and understanding. If I am to follow Jesus as my model of stewardship, then I need to remember that stewardship is what I do after I say, “I believe!”

With these words — “Be not afraid” — we can greet a new year, focused on blessings instead of challenges and with grateful hearts for the gift of the Christ child, life itself, faith and community, freedom and the chance to make a difference in the lives of others.

It sure is tough to be ever-faithful

when the world pushes its way into my consciousness. I don’t always put my trust in God the way I should. Maybe that’s just the human condition. In our Bible study this fall at my parish, we learned how God’s chosen leaders often failed to put their trust in God. Perhaps we each need reminders to not worry so much as we attempt to control the world around us and to turn to God in prayer for strength and comfort. Thank you for your generous support of the Archbishop’s Call to Share in 2008. Let’s greet the new year free from all anxiety, as we wait in joyful hope for the coming of our savior, Jesus Christ.

Lesle Knop is the executive director of stewardship and development.

You can e-mail Lesle at: lknop@archkck.org.

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‘Whole child’ focus nothing new to Catholic schools

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ear friends of Catholic schools,

The “hot phrase” in education these days is the “whole child.” This phrase refers to educators’ belief in the importance of developing more than just academic skills in children. In Catholic schools, we’ve been educating the whole child from the beginning of our existence.

However, the “whole child” we educate is the student who is a child of God; the student, who, along with all of us, is made in God’s image and likeness. This child has been given talents that we are called to help develop.

Thus, when we in Catholic schools talk about educating the “whole child,” we are talking about a spiritual mission for a higher purpose. In fact, it is

our core mission. Perhaps that is why Catholic schools have been able to maintain focus in this era of “high stakes” academics — we have never lost sight of the fact that cognitive ability is one of the God-given gifts that we develop when we educate the “whole child” of God. So what does this really mean?

When asked, one alumnus of Catholic schools described his experience in this way:

“By sending me to . . . Catholic schools, my parents made an investment in my future. Not only did I learn about the sacrifices Jesus made for us, but my Catholic education helped influence my moral values and molded me into the person I am today.”

There have been many studies about the effectiveness of Catholic schools.

Critics of our schools and these studies try to refute the results by claiming that Catholic schools only enroll select students. However, several researchers have addressed these criticisms and found that, when comparing like types of students, Catholic school results still hold, especially in urban areas.

These researchers (Anthony Bryk and Patrick McCloskey to name two) also have explored why our results are so positive. Their findings point to Catholic schools’ firm focus on and

commitment to our mission — educating the whole child as a child of God to become a disciple of Christ and to ultimately be with him in heaven — as the reason for our success.

We do what we do for a higher purpose — talk about high stakes! When your goal is something beyond your own interest or the interests of this world, not only is there great motivation to achieve it, but also there is the knowledge that there is great support as well. We teach students that much is expected of us as children of God, but that he will help us if we stay close to him. This is why Catholic schools, even those in areas of great poverty, are places of hope. ¡Vaya con Dios!

Kathy O’Hara is the superintendent of archdiocesan schools.

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No room for loneliness when priests keep Christ close arents of young men interested in the seminary often worry that their sons might be lonely.

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Their concerns are valid ones, not because priests actually report loneliness (studies show that priests often experience less loneliness than married men), but because priests are obviously asked to sacrifice the natural closeness that comes through having a wife and children. What does the Lord offer to men that he calls to “make up” for the sacrificed intimacy that is inherent in a good marriage?

Christmas is a special time when we celebrate the closeness of the Lord to each one of us. We celebrate that, through the Lord’s birth in Bethlehem,

there is no “chasm” between heaven and earth, between divinity and humanity. They have been united through the mystery of the Incarnation.

Because of Christmas, each of us has a chance to be saved from the “illusion” that God is distant and that ultimately each one of us is alone. Atheists challenge us all the time as to how we can believe in a God who can seem so distant from a world that needs his presence. Christmas is our proclama-

tion that the Lord’s presence does make a huge difference in the world, if only we don’t fail to contemplate how close he has come by being born among us! Because of Christmas, we know that the Lord is as close to each one of us as we are to ourselves.

Ultimately, each one of us has come from God and will return to God. That is why we are to love him above all things and to look to him in an exclusive way to be the cure for any loneliness that afflicts us.

Through the gift of the priesthood, the Lord invites men to a special closeness to him that really can satisfy the deepest hungers of the human heart.

First, a priest worships regularly the Creator who knows how we are made better than we do ourselves. Second, a priest, as he is called to be the presence of Christ in the world, is a sign that the Lord Jesus is much, much closer to the

world than people think he is. Thirdly, as a man whose life is centered on the Eucharist, he celebrates often the sacred mystery of how we become one flesh, one spirit with Christ, inseparably united to him, as we eat his body and drink his blood. In all these ways, a priest has an opportunity for a deep conversation and friendship with Christ, who is the lasting source of true intimacy for every person.

Don’t be afraid of loneliness! Give Christ the opportunity to be everything he has promised to be for you! Follow him as closely as you can, strengthened by the knowledge of his closeness to you through the Christmas mystery.

Merry Christmas to all from the vocation office!

Father Mitchel Zimmerman is the archdiocesan vocations director.

Madrigal Tale

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But, Mom! The prince (Reid Smith) tries to find his place in the kingdom by becoming a game show host.

His mother, the queen (Kristen Oswald), is fed up with his nonsense and is trying to get him to grow up and assume his rightful place in the kingdom.

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LORI WOOD HABIGER

Lenexa’s St. James Academy performing arts department presented “The Prince Finds His Peace” Dec. 6 as part of its signature annual event, a madrigal dinner. The dinner-theater performance featured Renaissance-era costumes and audience participation.

Eye on the ball Eric Huber provides the dinner guests with some entertainment before the dinner is served.

Light dancing The Candlelight Dancers perform a candle dance to the accompaniment of the choir.

Welcome all Jester Jazzy (Gina Kelling) welcomes the guests to the Banquet Hall.