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Who is

on the front lines of the pro-life movement?

You might be surprised!

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By Kara Hansen Leaven reporter

Leaven photo by Susan McSpadden

Margie Livingston, above, a teacher at Curé of Ars School in Leawood, has been educating her students about life issues for almost 20 years.

At the annual Rally for Life at the Capitol in Topeka (top photo), Livingston was interviewed by local television news reporter Jenna Troum, from KSNT-TV.

OPEKA – It wasn’t the January weather that sent a chill through Nancy Keenan. It was a vision of the future.

Keenan, president of the NARAL ProChoice America, was waiting for a train at Union Station in Washington, D.C., in 2010. When the train pulled in, she witnessed a crowd pour out of the coaches — hordes of prolife youth on their way to the 37th annual March for Life.

“I just thought, ‘My gosh, they are so young,’” Keenan said in an April 16, 2010, Newsweek magazine article. “There are so many of them, and they are so young.”

While pro-abortion ranks are filled with what Keenan called “the postmenopausal militia,” the front lines of the pro-life movement are being swelled by passionate youths.

And for that you can thank people like Margie Livingston.

Livingston, a veteran teacher at Curé of Ars School in Leawood, has been educating her students about the life issues for almost 20 years.

Recently, she had the opportunity to school a Topeka television reporter on the topic, too.

Livingston was in Topeka on Jan. 21 for the annual Rally for Life, sponsored by Kansans for Life. Along with many other participants, Livingston attended Mass at the Topeka Performing Arts Center, and then walked to the Capitol as part of the rally.

When she arrived there, Livingston was approached by Topeka television news reporter Jenna Troum, from KSNT-TV. Troum asked for an interview.

“I was not really sure about it, but I said OK,” said Livingston. “I am very passionate about life issues, but when she began interviewing me, a calmness came over me that is not always there.”

Livingston said the reporter started with the observation that much of the rally crowd was very young — students on field trips, primarily.

Clearly, the reporter began with a presupposition — that pro-life youths were there simply for a day of officially sanctioned hooky.

“She said, ‘It appears to me the children here far outnumber the adults,’” said Livingston.

“I responded, ‘I think there are a lot of schools that have come and I think it’s great the pro-life movement is a youth movement too.’”

That quote from Livingston was the only one

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LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS

Saints’ examples encourage us to live with passion, even heroism

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have never been accused of being hightech. However, one of the few applications I have on my phone is Saintcast — a podcast produced and created by Dr. Paul Camarata, the head of neurosurgery at Kansas University Medical Center.

that it was destroying Japanese culture.

Paul Miki, a native Jesuit catechist, was preparing for priestly ordination when he and 25 other leaders of the Catholic community in Japan were arrested.

The Japanese authorities tortured them brutally. Their left ears were Each episode contains current insevered, not only to inflict physical pain, formation about recent canonizations, but also to humiliate them in such a way beatifications or other saints who have as to serve as a deterrent — hoping to been in the news. Each episode also discourage other Japanese Christians focuses upon a particular saint, usufrom practicing their faith. In the dead ally one whose feast has just been or of winter, they were paraded through soon will be celebrated in the church’s Japan to make clear to others what calendar. would be their fate if they persisted in Last year around this time, an epithe Christian faith. sode (no. 136) aired, which began with In the end, they were crucified in some audio clips from the New Orleans a wheat field near Saints winning Super Nagasaki as a way of Bowl XLIV. (Conmocking the belief of ‘The Shepherd’s Voice’ gratulations to Father Christians in the cross Gary Pennings and programming notes of Jesus. Paul Miki and all Green Bay fans for Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann’s his companions prayed the Packers’ Super radio program on KEXS 1090 AM and sang hymns as Bowl victory last Sunairs at 10 a.m. on Sunday and is they were being torday!) This Saintcast repeated at 9:30 a.m. on Tuesday tured and executed. also featured St. Paul and 3:30 p.m. on Thursday.

The following is taken Miki and 25 comfrom a contemporary panions who were account of the crucifixion of Paul Miki martyred in Japan on Feb. 5, 1597. and the other Japanese martyrs: St. Francis Xavier, the remarkable “Our brother, Paul Miki, saw himself Jesuit missionary, brought Christianity standing now in the noblest pulpit he to Japan in 1549. The Japanese ruling had ever filled.

To his congregation he dynasty welcomed Westerners, includbegan by proclaiming himself a Japaing Christian missionaries. The efforts nese and a Jesuit.

He was dying for the of Catholic missionaries were remarkGospel he preached.

He gave thanks to ably fruitful. By 1590, there were more God for this wonderful blessing and he than 300,000 Japanese Catholics. ended his sermon with these words: Unfortunately, in 1596, the rulers of “‘As I come to this supreme moment Japan outlawed Christianity, asserting

of my life, I am sure none of you would suppose I want to deceive you. And so I tell you plainly: there is no way to be saved except the Christian way. My religion teaches me to pardon my enemies and all who have offended me. I do gladly pardon the Emperor and all who sought my death. I beg them to seek baptism and be Christians themselves.’

Then he looked at his comrades and began to encourage them in their final struggle. Joy glowed in all their faces.”

Japanese Christians took soil from beneath the crosses of the martyrs and venerated it as relics of their heroism. The persecution of Christianity continued in Japan for more than 200 years.

In the late 1800s Japan again opened up to Christian missionaries.

A few missionary priests from France came to Nagasaki and established a small mission chapel. Some Japanese men approached them and asked three questions: 1) Did they venerate Mary as the Mother of God? 2) Did they not marry? 3) Did they follow the pope of Rome?

When the French priests responded affirmatively to all three questions, the Japanese men told them that they have been waiting for them. Their Christian ancestors had assured them that the Christian missionaries would return.

A Japanese Christian community had survived through centuries of persecution and repression without the benefit of priests or any of the sacraments. Inspired by Paul Miki and his companions, they had passed on the teachings of our Catholic faith through their families.

The church holds up the saints for our edification to inspire us to live heroic lives of Christian faith and virtue.

The communion of saints reminds us that we can invite the saints to be part of our prayer group, accompanying us as

Dodge City installs 6th bishop

Archbishop Naumann’s

Severe winter storm doesn’t keep people away from ordination

Feb. 13 Mass and breakfast — Kansas Catholic College Student Conference, Topeka

Catholic News Service

weekly calendar

Mass celebrating marriage with Kansas City, Mo., and Kansas City, Kan. — Cathedral of St. Peter Feb. 14-16 National Catholic Bioethics Center workshop for bishops — Dallas Feb. 17 Kenrick-Glennon Seminary board meeting — St. Louis Feb. 18 Meetings with seminarians — KenrickGlennon Seminary we approach Jesus, asking for whatever we need to lead lives that embody his Gospel. Though most of us will probably not be called to die a martyr’s death, we are called to live our Catholic faith with a passion and a heroism that will draw others — not to us, but to the One who is the source of our strength, our hope, our joy, our power to love.

I recommend that you subscribe to Saintcast. I know you will find it both interesting and inspiring. Even more, I encourage you to do whatever is required to pass on the truth and beauty of our Catholic faith within your family.

If Japanese Christians were able to do so during 200 years of persecution and repression, surely we can plant firmly our Catholic faith in the hearts of our children. To borrow a line from a national Catholic radio host: “Be a saint!

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DODGE CITY (CNS) — A winter storm that blanketed much of the country in snow and ice Feb. 1 wasn’t enough to hinder the ordination and installation of Bishop John B. Brungardt as the sixth bishop of Dodge City at the Cathedral of Our Lady of Guadalupe here.

The winter storm covered much of Kansas, leaving travel conditions questionable at best, but come Feb. 2, the cathedral on the plains of Dodge City was filled to capacity amid joyous song and the majestic pomp and ceremony of an episcopal ordination and installation.

Bishop Brungardt, who spent the formative years of his youth growing up on his family’s pig farm in Abilene, entered the cathedral with abbots and bishops, following a procession of priests from his home diocese of Wichita and his new home in Dodge City, as well as some 60 Knights of Columbus from across the state.

In his homily, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann of Kansas City in Kansas told him: “Bishop John, drink daily in prayer from the river whose source is Jesus Christ so that indeed your words will be clean and limpid, and your exhortations will charm the ears of your people.”

The archbishop was the principal ordaining bishop. Other ordaining bishops included Bishop Gilmore and Bishop Michael O. Jackels of Wichita.

“The Lord has raised up a new shepherd for the church of Dodge City,” the archbishop continued.

“We give thanks, my brother John, for all the ways the Lord has prepared you for this responsibility: the gift of your faith-filled parents; by your siblings and family who helped to teach you the way of love; by your contemplation of God’s book of nature through your study of science; by your many years of teaching; by your years of serving predominantly Hispanic communities; and by the rich pastoral experience of your priestly ministry in Wichita,” he said.

“May the Lord make your ministry as bishop the light of Gospel truth as bright as the blazing western Kansas sun,” he added.

Archbishop Naumann praised Bishop Gilmore for his nearly 13 years of service to the diocese and the U.S. church.

“Bishop Gilmore has modeled for me what it is to be first and foremost a man of prayer. He has been a national leader among the bishops of the United States in the pastoral care of our rural communities,” the archbishop said. “We thank Bishop Gilmore for his distinguished service of the people of Dodge City and pray the Lord will bless him in every way as he begins this new chapter of his life.”

Following the rite of ordination, Bishop Brungardt received the symbols of his office — ring, miter and pastoral staff. He took his place in the cathedra,

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Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann lays on hands (above) and offers a blessing (left) over Bishop John B. Brungardt during the latter’s episcopal ordination Feb. 2 in the Cathedral of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Dodge City. Bishop Brungardt was installed as the sixth bishop of the Diocese of Dodge City, succeeding Bishop Ronald M. Gilmore, who retired Dec. 15. Bishop Brungardt was chancellor of the Diocese of Wichita.

or bishop’s chair, and received a standing ovation.

“I have so many folks to thank, I need some help,” the new bishop said, and he called on fourth-graders there from a local Catholic school. Several children came forward and sat in front of the altar.

“A bishop wears some interesting vestments, like my hat, called a miter,” he told the children. “It prompts me to remember my call to holiness.”

“Here, try it on!” he said, placing his miter on a surprised boy’s head and adding that it “reminds me of the many bishops who have influenced me throughout my life.”

He then asked a child to try on the smaller red hat a bishop wears — a zuc-

chetto, also called a skullcap.

“The little zucchetto reminds me that I am little; I am small, and I need much help in my ministry, much help from our gentle Jesus and others,” the new bishop said before thanking the priests and deacons.

He handed his pastoral staff, or crosier, to another child, who eagerly accepted it.

“The crosier symbolizes that I am now the head pastor of the diocese, that I, with God’s help, lead and guide the flock to the Lord. We have many other shepherds and shepherdesses to assist in this task,” the new bishop said, adding that he was thinking of “the religious Sisters and religious brothers who have helped me.”

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He then asked the girls in the class to stand, and said: “Jesus may be calling you to be a religious Sister, to teach, to care for the sick, to assist at a parish, or many other apostolates. See all these religious Sisters here? After Mass, go up to one of them and ask: ‘What is it like to be a religious Sister?’ She will tell you all about it. Maybe Jesus is calling you to be a wife and a mom.”

“I know these boys don’t seem like much right now,” he told the girls, to roars of laughter from the congregation, “but some day Jesus may bring a young man into your life to marry and with whom to have a family. Listen to Jesus in your heart!”

“Why does Jesus want to speak with each of us?” he inquired of the children as he moved toward a large sculpted crucifix.

“Because he loves us!” he said, asking them to stand, put their hands together and then stretch them out.

“Jesus loves us that much!” Bishop Brungardt said. He then spread his arms wide: “He died and rose for you, for me, with this great love. Thank you, Jesus!”

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‘Fruit of yOur Prayers’ 18th annual SOS event raises thousands of dollars for seminarians

By Jill Ragar Esfeld Special to The Leaven

KANSAS CITY, Mo. — “I am delighted with the number,” said Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann of this year’s seminarians to the hundreds of supporters gathered at the annual Support Our Seminarians benefit dinner and auction here on Jan. 28.

“But [I’m] even more delighted with the men,” he continued. “They are the fruit of your prayers.”

More than 700 guests How you attended the 18th annual can help Support our Volunteers are Seminarians needed to help (SOS) benmake next year’s efit dinner Support Our Semiand auction, narians dinner and breaking last auction a success. year’s record Those interested in crowd. assisting can conThe event, tact Martha Hodes held at the at (913) 207-9893 Marriott Allis or by e-mail at: Plaza Hotel, mmmh66@sbc benefits semiglobal.net. narians from the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas and the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph. It also supports Conception Seminary College in Conception, Mo. The evening began with a social hour, during which guests toured the Marketplace, a silent auction with close to 200 items.

KMBC-TV anchor Larry Moore was master of ceremonies, as he has been every year since he and his wife spearheaded the first SOS benefit.

Before dinner, Abbot Gregory Polan, OSB, of Conception Abbey led a hymn. Then Mike Debus, a live-art performance painter, delighted the dinner crowd by turning a huge blank canvas into the face of Christ.

Decorating each table was a centerpiece crucifix hand-crafted by Bob Cunningham and offered for sale to benefit Conception Seminary College.

After dinner, Bishop Robert Finn from the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph thanked all those who work to support the formation of men to the priesthood.

Archbishop Naumann followed, assuring the audience that as long as the Catholic Church is ordaining dedicated priests, “the church will prosper.”

The archbishop then called attention to the parents of seminarians and thanked them.

“What a great gift they give to the church, handing down their faith to their sons,” he said.

Abbot Gregory then led an enthusi-

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Diaconate provides candidate a way to balance faith and family

By Kara Hansen Leaven staff

KANSAS City, Kan. — There was only one thing holding Michael Schreck back from greater involvement in the church.

“For me the Deacon question was: profile ‘How can I work for the church and still be able to provide for my family?’” said Schreck, a deacon candidate from Holy Spirit Parish in Overland Park.

Schreck has a long history of ministry in the church as a layperson; he became deeply involved in the Cursillo movement, where he held a leadership position for several years.

“I felt God calling me to give in a more profound way, and I discovered the permanent diacon-

ate was a way I could do that,” said Schreck. “Being a deacon is an unpaid ministry of the church that allows me to continue my full-time work in the secular workplace, while at the same time giving me a way to live out my faith in a more profound way serving others.”

Schreck said finding balance between his diaconate ministry, professional life and personal life would be the biggest challenge he could foresee, once becoming a permanent deacon in April.

“It will be a lot of balancing time, and I’m hopeful that everyone understands we have fulltime jobs and family obligations so we won’t be able to accept every invitation that comes along,” said Schreck. “But I do look forward to serving the church.”

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Archbishop Joseph Naumann is interviewed by radio personality Mark Oppold before the Support Our Seminarians event on Jan. 28.

Painter Mike Debus entertains the SOS dinner patrons with a live-art performance, turning a huge blank canvas into the face of Christ. astic round of applause for all the seminarians and introduced Father Samuel Russell, the president-rector of Conception Seminary College.

As the Nigro Brothers prepared to call the live auction, Moore thanked all those who helped make SOS a success — in particular, chairs Pat and Louise Meyers and Steve and Sharon Perry.

Debus’ live painting was the first item on the auction block, followed by trips, dinners, and even an opportunity to bid on three energetic seminarians to do house chores for one day.

Donations from the night have not yet been finalized, but preliminary numbers look promising.

Martha Hodes, the event’s organizer, said the live auction alone raised more than $56,000 and believed the totals would outshine the 2010 event, which cleared $145,473.

Altogether, from 1994 through 2010, the SOS event has raised $2,710,427 in support of seminarians.

that ended up airing as part KSNT’s coverage of the Rally for Life.

But the reporter actually asked her a number of other questions as well, stemming from other, equally mistaken, presuppositions. Livingston, like the experienced front-line veteran she was, fielded them with aplomb.

The reporter also asked her, for example, “Don’t you find this a step backwards in the women’s rights movement?”

“Quite the opposite,” responded Livingston. “Half the babies being aborted are females who are missing the opportunity to be born and go on to do great things with their lives.”

Being peppered with questions by an aggressive reporter might have rattled someone unused to speaking about life issues — but not Livingston. The sixth-grade teacher had been handling a pretty tough crowd on the topic for a very long time — middle-schoolers — and was quite comfortable articulating the pro-life perspective from her experience doing it in her classroom.

“In October — Respect Life Month,” Livingston explained, “I always start by having students pick one of many members or groups of people in society that are ignored, discriminated against, abused, etc., by society,” said Livingston.

“This includes minorities, the poor, homeless, handicapped (mentally and physically), and the unborn,” she continued. “They research how our society in general discriminates against this group of people, and then we research/ discuss ways that we as a society and we as young people can change these practices and laws.”

Livingston said Troum also asked her if she found the rally to be a breech of

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For Livingston, being interviewed about life issues on TV exemplified the goal of her work as a teacher and a Catholic — to prepare the next generation to take its place at the front of the fray.

“Being able to articulate a pro-life point of view is a very important educational role in a culture of death. We need individuals to speak about pro-life issues in charity and truth so that the message is received well.”

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Ron Kelsey, archdiocesan consultant for the pro-life office the separation of church and state.

“No,” answered Livingston, “because we can talk about the abortion issue outside religion and morality because it’s a human rights issue, much like the

civil rights movement was for AfricanAmericans.

“That three- to four-day lesson [I teach] always emphasizes the human rights angle I spoke of at the Capitol with the reporter,” she said. “This is not just a moral or religious issue. It is a group of human beings, like all the others mentioned, and no one can justify abuse of those other groups —certainly not the government.”

Livingston said the reporter finally asked for Livingston’s impressions of Gov. Brownback, and then moved on to other interviewees.

For Livingston, the experience was much more than her proverbial 15 minutes (or seconds, in this case) of fame.

For her, it exemplified the goal of her work as a teacher and a Catholic — to prepare the next generation to take its place at the front of the fray.

“We need to emphasize that educa-

tion is a real tool in the pro-life movement,” said Livingston. “The more we can expose people — especially young people — to the information, taking it past the issues of morality and religion and exposing them to the facts at a certain age and maturity level, the better.

If they are informed on this issue accurately, it is black and white. They are the future legislators, teachers, parents, doctors, counselors.

“The youth of today will change the future with regard to this issue.”

Michelle Smith, a longtime friend of Livingston, found her arguments compelling, when Livingston told her about the interview following the rally.

“The calm, confident responses Margie shared with me impacted me so much, especially as a former teacher myself, because education is the key to being victorious in the life movement,” said Smith.

“Her responses helped me be better prepared to ‘share the truth in love’ to others who ask us to defend our pro-life position, especially when it comes to the abortion issue, which evokes such passion.”

Ron Kelsey, archdiocesan consultant for the pro-life office, said the ability to engage as Livingston did with Troum is a key to turning the tide in the battle over life issues.

“Being able to articulate a pro-life point of view is a very important educational role in a culture of death,” said Kelsey. “By effectively doing so, one becomes a bright light invading the darkness. We need individuals to speak about pro-life issues in charity and truth, so that the message is received well.”

To view the interview that covered the Rally for Life, visit KSNT-TV’s Web site at: www.ksnt.com (type in “Kids outnumber adults” in the search box).

Additional reporting by Joe Bollig.

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Liturgist promotes Catholics’ identity as sacramental people

By Michael Podrebarac

Special to The Leaven

So what does a diocesan liturgist actually do? No jokes about liturgists and terrorists, please!

The “functional” mission of the office for liturgy here in the archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is quite simple: to serve as a consultant and resource for pastors and parishes in the areas of liturgical preparation, liturgical celebration and evaluation, liturgical music, art and environment, liturgical ministries, and liturgical spirituality.

The “philosophical” mission of the office, as it might be called, was penned many years ago by my venerable predecessor, Father Francis Hund, now pastor of Church of the Nativity in Leawood: “To promote our identity as a sacramental people, and to find ways to express that identity in daily life.” This is, of course, based on some of the most potent words of the Mass: “Take and eat, this is my Body. . . . Take and drink, this is my Blood. . . . Go in peace to love and serve the Lord.”

What does all of this practically mean? Well, in short, I am charged to work toward accomplishing the following: to provide whatever information our priests and parish liturgy committees require in the area of liturgy. This is done through printed information, published resources, and through individual inquiry and consultation. Sometimes I am called the “liturgy answer man.”

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The scope the archdiocesan liturgy office covers is vast. The list includes: planning special archdiocesan liturgies, answering liturgical questions, serving as a resource to priests, and providing continuing formation and enrichment for parish musicians and liturgical ministers. the answers I provide are accurate and faithful to our liturgical tradition and teaching documents.

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“It’s like God knew when I was born, the path that I would take,” said Wise.

“And looking back, it’s unbelievable.

“You have those down moments, and great moments. But I can just look back and say, ‘This is exactly where I’m supposed to be.’”

Originally from Lansing, the 30-yearold was raised Protestant. She went to Mid-America Nazarene College in Olathe on academic and softball scholarships.

Faith and sports were both very important to her.

“I played volleyball, basketball and softball in high school. I was always that athlete, that girl who was a tomboy,” said Wise.

But her athletic career was threatened when she was a junior in high school.

Looking back, this might have been the most important formative moment in her life, she said. She tore the ACL in her left knee.

“I was out of sports for nine months.

It was during that time that I really had to rely on God,” she said. “Here I am, 16 years old. I can’t play anything. I was mad at him.”

She wanted to play again — so much so, in fact, that she made a deal with God. “I told him after that, ‘Anything and everything I do, I will do it in your name and in your honor. Whatever my career choice is supposed to be, it will be about you.’”

“I look back now,” continued Wise, “and it’s been totally him. You ask those things and you’d better be ready.”

Convert finds herself

‘EXACTLY WHERE I’M SUPPOSED TO BE’

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Story By Lajean Rau-Keene | Photos by Katlin Spain

t’s easy to see why one of Sarah Wise’s favorite Bible verses is: “‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’” (Jer 29:11). n Wise points to several watershed events in her life that she believes God used to lead her toward who she is today: a recent convert to Catholicism who is proud to sing the praises of Immaculata High School in Leavenworth.

Is this all there is?

Wise’s first job was teaching high school math at her alma mater in Lansing. After three years, she decided she needed to “spread her wings” — to go somewhere new to her. She took a job in St. Marys, a small town with a big Catholic population.

Wise learned a lot about Catholicism in St. Marys. Many of her co-workers and students were Catholic, and she lived next door to Immaculate Conception Church. She attended a Protestant church, but sometimes she went to Mass, too.

She taught high school and junior high math and coached three sports, including varsity softball.

During Wise’s first year there, the father of one of her softball players died suddenly. Wise was moved by the rosary and the Catholic funeral that followed.

She relied on her faith, and her girls’ faith, to get the team through the difficult time.

The following year, she led her softball team to a state championship.

“It’s every coach’s dream come true,” she said.

The next year, she did it again. She was only 27.

Wise succeeded in the classroom, too.

One of her goals was to teach high school calculus — another objective reached in St. Marys.

But the two parts of Wise’s personal journey — career and faith — were starting to converge.

“I had achieved all my goals,” admitted Wise. “I said, ‘There’s not a lot more for me to do.’

“I needed more challenges.”

Wise had started out as a biology education major, and she missed science.

Despite her success in St. Marys, she found herself looking at jobs, wanting to dig more deeply into her science background.

She also found herself thinking a lot about the Catholic Church.

Then a job posting caught her attention: a biological sciences teacher was needed at Immaculata High School. And

Scripture to inspire students/athletes

Jer 29:11

For I know well the plans I have in mind for you, says the LORD, plans for your welfare, not for woe! plans to give you a future full of hope.

Jer 33:3

Call to me, and I will answer you; I will tell to you things great beyond reach of your knowledge.

Sarah Wise, a teacher at Immaculata High School in Leavenworth, helps a student in her fourth-hour algebra/geometry class solve a problem. Despite success as a teacher and coach at public schools, Wise longed for more — and found it at Immaculata. the incoming principal? It was Helen Schwinn, someone very special to Wise.

(Schwinn was taking her first administrative job after 23 years in the classroom.)

Schwinn had been Wise’s coach and teacher in high school. She was the one who had helped Wise through her high school injury. Wise had worked on Schwinn’s husband’s farm. The two women had taught together at Lansing High School.

And when the Schwinns’ young daughter was ill with cancer, Wise had been there for her mentor.

“She visited the hospital,” Schwinn said. “Here’s a college kid — plenty of things to do. But she would come and keep that connection.”

Over the years, the two had talked often about their respective faiths, and when Schwinn’s daughter was so sick, it was no different.

“I’m looking back on that and thinking those conversations about our journeys really helped me,” said Schwinn. “It really became an important part of helping me get through our daughter’s illness.”

Neither woman thinks it an accident that they were in each other’s lives at these important times.

‘For I know the plans I have for you . . .’

Wise, who took RCIA classes at St. Joseph Parish in Leavenworth after accepting the job at Immaculata, entered the Catholic Church last Easter. She’s excited about her faith again, and her career is reinvigorated.

“I absolutely love teaching science,” she said. “It has been the best move of my life that way.

“Not only that, but I get to share my faith every single day.”

Wise said Immaculata is special because it’s truly a family, and families “help each other.” But even more importantly, it’s a school in which the students get to learn about their faith.

“Every day you have a safe environment that is God-centered instead of society-centered, which is very important,” she said.

Now, she has a passion for sharing her journey.

“It hurts me when I see kids hurting, and they don’t understand. So I share my Catholic faith. I can share what the Lord has done for me, or what his heart is saying for them. To say, ‘It’s gonna be OK. It’s OK that this happened to you. You’re going to grow from it.’”

“It hurts me when I see kids hurting, and they don’t understand. So I share my Catholic faith. I can share what the Lord has done for me, or what his heart is saying for them. To say, ‘It’s gonna be OK. It’s OK that this happened to you. You’re going to grow from it.’”

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Schwinn said Wise sets a good example.

“I think what Sarah does for us is we can see her just putting it out there,” she said. “Don’t be reserved — just go with your instincts. And be willing to share because kids need to hear it. They want to hear it.

“And the more they hear it, the more they want to become a part of it. And they want an avenue to share where they are, and what they think.”

“The openness,” Schwinn added, “even if they question it, is what’s important.”

Schwinn said Catholic Schools Week was a welcome celebration “It’s a week to recognize and celebrate that our students — our children — every day have the opportunity to consider Christ first in everything they do,” she said. “To see their homework as a challenge he’s given us. To see their victories as a gift he’s given us. And to recognize that he’s the leading part of what we do and why we do it.”

A bright future So what’s next in Wise’s journey?

Well, since entering the church last Easter, she’s become a very active member of St. Joseph Parish in Leavenworth.

She not only helps there with the children’s liturgy, but she recently joined the choir.

In addition to teaching full time, she’s pursuing a master’s degree in education leadership at Benedictine College in Atchison.

Finally, for the first time in several years, Immaculata High School will field a softball team this spring.

And guess who will be coaching?

Phil 4:13

I have the strength for everything through him (the Lord) who empowers me.

1 Cor 9:24-27

Do you not know that the runners in the stadium all run in the race, but only one wins the prize? Run so as to win.

Every athlete exercises discipline in every way. They do it to win a perishable crown, but we an imperishable one.

Thus I do not run aimlessly; I do not fight as if I were shadowboxing.

No, I drive my body and train it, for fear that, after having preached to others, I myself should be disqualified.

2 Tm 4:7-8

I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith.

From now on the crown of righteousness awaits me, which the Lord, the just judge, will award to me on that day, and not only to me, but to all who have longed for his appearance.

Hb 12:1-3

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us rid ourselves of every burden and sin that clings to us and persevere in running the race that lies before us while keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus, the leader and perfecter of faith. For the sake of the joy that lay before him he endured the cross, despising its shame, and has taken his seat at the right of the throne of God. Consider how he endured such opposition from sinners, in order that you may not grow weary and lose heart.

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Simple, not easy

Strengthening your Marriage Continued from page 16

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Marriage is a vocation, a call to serve, and just as vital as the call to holy orders or religious life. It is so important that our church calls us a sacrament. As a sacrament, our call is to love each other as Christ loves us and be an example of his love for the world. Love is a verb — it requires action and calls us to make each other the first priority in our lives, even when we don’t “feel” very loving.

We pray together every day. We also take advantage of opportunities to deepen our faith and relationship together. We are taking a new look at St. Paul’s Letter to the Corinthians and are discovering a beautiful guide for couples.

He tells us to be patient, kind, never boastful or conceited, never rude or self-seeking. We should not take offence or rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoice with the truth. And we should make allowances, trust, hope and endure whatever comes. Most impor-

tantly, he tells us that we should never stop loving.

Simple, but not easy.

The simplest thing we did to improve our marriage was to make God the center of our lives. The best thing we did for our marriage was to make a Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend. The weekend brought us to a new deeper level of intimacy with each other and openness to God working in our relationship.

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As I was preparing to preach for the Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time, I came across a quote written by Sister Joan Chittister, OSB. Sister Joan tells us that “every spiritual master in every tradition talks about the significance of small things in a complex world.

Small actions in social life, small efforts in the spiritual life, small moments in the personal life, all of them become great in the long term, the

mystics say, but all of them look like little or nothing in themselves.”

With that in mind, I would like to suggest some simple steps that a married couple can take to strengthen their marriage.

First, look at your spouse and smile!

Do this at least once a day. It seems to change the one looked at and the one who is smiling. Our whole outlook will change when someone smiles at us and we are lifted up. What a gift to give your spouse.

Second, eat together. This sounds simple enough but, so often with family activities going on, spouses don’t take the time to have a sandwich or a bowl of soup or a pork chop together.

They are going in different direc-

tions and aren’t nourishing their lives together. And since we all need to eat, why not eat together? Those few moments of feeding the body will also, I believe, feed the marriage.

Third, find time each day to pray together. I am not talking about a long extended time. Something short will do most of the time, but, if you have the chance and opportunity, take longer.

It is powerful to include God into the marriage. When we invite God to be with us, great things happen.

I believe that, though simple, these three actions will strengthen a marriage.

Local news 11 Leonard L. and Marcie (Garcia) Rodriguez, members of St. John the Evangelist Parish, Kansas City, Kan., will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary on Anniversaries Feb. 13 with a small reception of family and friends.

The couple was married on Feb. 10, 1951, at St. John the Divine Church, Kansas City, Kan. Their children are: Vicki Mendoza, Gloria Rodriguez, Leonard R. Rodriguez, Rebecca RodriguezPena, Carmelita A. Rodriguez, and a late daughter, Carmelita A. Rodriguez.

They also have 14 grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.

Evelyn and Nicolas Aguilar, members of Sacred Heart - St. Casimir Parish, Leavenworth, celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary Jan. 21. The couple was married on Jan. 21, 1961, in La Junta, Colo., at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church. To celebrate the occasion, they renewed their vows at Sacred Heart Church, Leavenworth. A family dinner, hosted by their children, followed. Their children and their spouses are: Nicolas Jr. and Mindy Aguilar; Celeste and Dale Pendergraft; Crystal and Tom Mahoney; and Sonia Aguilar and Mark Shore. They also have six grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. Cards may be sent to the honorees at 1708 Marion, Leavenworth, KS 66048.

Father Phil Winkelbauer is the current pastor of Sacred Heart – St. Casimir Parish in Leavenworth.

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12 CLASSIFIEDS Employment Retirement/disability specialist – The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas is seeking an experienced individual to support the human resources department in the retirement plan, 403(b) plan and disability insurance. Duties include: maintaining accurate records in database; communicating with insurance carriers and actuaries; preparing and disseminating reports from database and vendor Web sites; and preparing retirement documents. Ideal candidate will be a practicing Catholic in good standing; have strong written and verbal communication skills; demonstrated attention to detail; experience working in a multifunctional database; strong mathematical aptitude; and 3 - 5 years administrative experience, preferably in a human resources setting.

Bachelor’s degree in business administration or related field preferred. A complete job description, application and benefits information are available on the Web site at: www.archkck.org/employment.

Individuals may submit cover letter, resume, and application, via e-mail, to: kthomas@archkck.org, or mail to: Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, Human Resources - Search, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109. Application deadline is Feb. 25.

Social studies teacher - Bishop Miege High School, Roeland Park, is seeking a social studies teacher for the 2011 - 12 school year. Mail letter, resume, transcript and credentials to: Mariann Jaksa, 5041 Reinhardt Dr., Shawnee Mission KS 66205 or send, via e-mail, to: mjaksa@bishopmiege.com.

Assistant manager – Immediate opening for full-time (32 - 34 hours/wk) person at Dennis Uniform store in Overland Park. Computer skills necessary.

Call Pat at (913) 381-6500 or send an e-mail to her at: pam@dennisuniform.com.

Director of music - Holy Trinity Parish, Lenexa, is seeking a full-time director of music to begin July 15. Candidates should have a music degree, be proficient in organ and piano, and possess strong interpersonal skills. Experience in church music preferred.

For information or to apply, contact Dr. Paula Neihouse at (913) 895-0682 or send an e-mail to her at: pneihouse@htlenexa.org.

Work from home - Telephone appointment setting for Medicare insurance agent. Typically from 3 - 6 p.m., Mon. - Fri. Must have unlimited calling plan.

Contact Bill, Senior Market Advisors of KC, at (913) 636-7686.

Communications coordinator – Part-time professional needed to support marketing firm with content and publishing work in online media. Relevant education and/or experience preferred. Candidate must possess strong writing and editing skills; familiarity with Web, e-mail and social media a plus. Approx. 10 - 20 hours/wk to start, with flexible hours and some work from home. Applicants should submit cover letter and resume, via e-mail, to Karen at: contact@marketingdialogue.com.

Principal - The Diocese of Wichita is seeking principal candidates for the St. Catherine of Siena School, opening in the fall. An experienced, faithfilled leader with enthusiasm and vision is needed to plan for the school’s opening, hire an outstanding staff, and help plan for a permanent school facility.

Candidate must be a practicing Catholic; be eligible for Kansas licensure as an administrator; promote a high quality instructional program; and possess excellent interpersonal and organizational skills. Send letter of interest to: Mr. Dan McAdam, Director of Staff Services, Catholic Diocese of Wichita, 424 N. Broadway, Wichita, KS 67202. Application deadline is Feb. 21.

Call center representatives – We are looking for telephone professionals seeking top pay and benefits. Prior phone experience preferred. We are growing and need quality people to grow with us.

Prior benefits administration experience preferred.

To apply, visit the Web site at: www.cobraguard.net (click on “jobs” tab at bottom of page) or forward your resume, via e-mail, to: HR@cobraguard.net. EOE Job fair - The St. Joseph Early Education Center, 11525 Johnson Dr., Shawnee, will hold a job fair from 9 a.m. - noon on Feb. 19. Positions include: a nurse, and infant/toddler and preschool staff. To set an appointment, call Ms. Theresa or Ms. Susan at (913) 6310004. Walk-ins are also welcome.

THE LEAVEN • FEBRUARY 11, 2011 Head football coach - St. James Academy, Lenexa, is seeking a head football coach. Interested candidates may contact Mark Huppe, athletic director, at (913) 254-4284.

Financial representative - Due to the success and growth of the Knights of Columbus, we are adding financial representatives in the Kansas City and Emporia areas. This position is ideal for a determined, high-energy, high-expectation, professional, selfdisciplined, independent individual desiring to serve others, yet earn a better-than-average income. We provide top-rated financial products to our members and their families and will provide excellent benefits and training. For information or an interview, contact John A. Mahon, 307 Dakota, Holton KS 66436; or call (785) 364-5450.

Services Faith-based counseling to cope with life concerns - Kansas City area. Call Mary Vorsten, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, at (913) 909-2002.

Perfection housecleaning - I am expanding my business and have openings in the JoCo area. I am a caring, honest, Catholic with years of experience and excellent references. Cost determined by the needs of the client -- no hourly charge, very reasonable rates. I ran two ads in Dec. but my new phone wasn’t recording the incoming messages. That issue has been fixed.

Please call again, Dee (816) 214-5102.

Housecleaning - Charmaine will provide you with excellent service you can depend on. Years of experience in satisfying customers. Serving the Greater KC metro area. Call Charmaine at (913) 972-7900.

Machine quilting - by Jenell Noeth, Basehor.

Also, quilts made to order. Call (913) 724-1837.

Bankruptcy - When debt becomes overwhelming, seek professional help. Experienced, compassionate Catholic attorney Teresa Kidd. For a confidential, no obligation consultation, call (913) 422-0610; or send an e-mail to: tkidd@kc.rr.com.

Computer repair and sales - Geeks on Guard will help you setup a new computer, upgrade your one, or build a new one. We will fix annoying issues such as: popups, viruses, and unwanted programs.

Speed up your computer, backup your data, and recover lost files. Call (877) 724-8727 or send an e-mail to: info@gogllc.com.

Tree service - Pruning trees for optimal growth and beauty and removal of hazardous limbs or problem trees. Free consultation and bid. Safe, insured, professional. Cristofer Estrada, Green Solutions of KC, (913) 378-5872. www.GreenSolutionsKC.com.

Need a ride? Where to? I am available to take you to your doctor’s appointment, hairdresser or shopping. Maybe you aren’t driving anymore or just prefer a chauffeur; I’ll get you there. I can also run errands for you or do the grocery shopping. Just give me a call to discuss your needs. Johnson County only.

Call (913) 469-6211 or (816) 806-0564.

Medical supplies and equipment - Home from the hospital and needing supplies and equipment? KC Home Medical Supply has what you need. Come see our retail store, or call Ed at (913) 385-2020.

Caregiving Housekeeper/companion/elder care - Retired nurse with over 25 years experience is seeking a fulltime care position. Days/nights/weekends. Will consider outside the metro area or a live-in position as well. Rates negotiable. Call (913) 579-5276.

Caregiver - Catholic lady with over 30 years experience has part-time availability for elderly care.

Excellent references. Johnson County area. Call (913) 579-8914.

Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation to the elderly and disabled in home, assisted living and nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Sara or Gary.

THE LEAVEN • FEBRUARY 11, 2011 Looking for high quality home care? Whether you’re looking to introduce care for your family or simply looking to improve your current home care quality, we can help. Our unique approach to home care has earned us a 99% client satisfaction rating among the 1,000-plus families we have assisted. We are family-owned and based in Lenexa. Call Benefits of Home-Senior Care at (913) 422-1591 or visit our Web site at: www.benefitsofhome.com.

Home Improvement Brack Home Repair - Call Dan when you need it done! Carpentry, drywall, plumbing, electrical, painting, tile, wood-rot and much more. No project too big or small. For free estimate, call (913) 219-5388 or visit the Web site at: brackhomerepair.com. Insured; senior discount available. Philippians 4:13.

Interior and exterior painting and wallpaper removal - 30-plus years experience. Quality work; excellent references; reasonable rates. Senior discount. Member of St. Ann Parish, Prairie Village. Call Joe at (913) 620-5776.

Adept Home Improvements Where quality still counts!

Basement finishing, Kitchens and baths, Electrical and plumbing, Licensed and insured.

(913) 599-7998 Roof repair or replace – Insurance work welcome. Free inspection. Quality work; reasonable rates. Call (913) 206-4524.

Clutter getting you down? Organize, fix, assemble, clean . . . we do it all! For a free consultation, call your professional organizing handyman, Kevin Hogan, M Ed, today at (913) 271-5055. Insured; references. Visit the Web site at: www.KOATINDUSTRIES. com.

Clutter problems? Embarrassing garage, basement, attic or any room? Let me help you get organized! Items sorted, grouped, boxed and labeled; areas clean when finished. Great references and insured. Twenty years experience! Handyman repairs also available. To view “before” and “after” pictures, visit my Web site at: WWW.SWALMS.COM. Tillar Swalm (913) 375-9115.

Everything plumbing - Leaks, faucets, toilets, sinks, disposals, repairs and replacements. Over 20 years experience. Fully licensed. Service anytime – days/nights/wknds. Contact Mike at (913) 488-4930.

Member of Church of the Ascension Parish, Overland Park.

EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation* Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!!

Call Lupe at (816) 252-3376 Thanks to all my customers for a great fall!

We’re looking for indoor work. We can do bathroom, kitchen, and basement remodeling. Includes floors, cabinets, doors, windows, sheetrock, painting, and wood rot. You name it – we can do it; just ask. We’re reasonably priced and fully insured. Call Josh at (913) 709-7230.

Electrician - Free estimates; reasonable rates.

JoCo and south KC metro. Call Pat at (913) 963-9896.

For Rent Country home - Totally renovated; 3 BR, 1 BA, central heat and air, basement, one-car garage. Ten miles north of Oskaloosa. $700/mo. Call (785) 220-8038.

Real Estate Price reduced!! Winchester land - 40 acres: 10 timber, 30 prairie grass; two ponds with good fishing; good deer and turkey hunting; located 1-1/2 miles off highway; beautiful building site; excellent schools; only 40 miles from Kansas City. For information, call (913) 683-4488 or (913) 362-3024.

Vacation Colorado ski vacation - Winter Park. 2 BR, sleeps 6. Fully furnished, fireplace, rec. center with pool & hot tub. Bus to ski area. $125/night; $700/ week. Call Joe Frederick at (913) 385-5589.

Wanted to buy Will buy firearms and related accessories One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee. ***WANTED*** I buy coins, older watches, silverware, slot machines, old rifles and shotguns, stoneware crocks and jugs, old furniture from basement or attic.

Call Chris at (913) 593-7507 or (913) 642-8269

Detail construction and remodeling - We offer a full line of home remodeling services. Don’t move — remodel! Johnson county area. Call for a free quote.

(913) 709-8401.

Misc.

The Drywall Doctor, Inc. - A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean!

Lead-certified and insured! Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655.

Donate a vehicle. Make a difference. Donate your vehicle to Catholic Charities to support those in need. Your tax-deductible donation of a vehicle helps children and families served by Catholic Charities and is an environmentally wise way to recycle your vehicle. Cars for KC Kids is a partnership between Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas and Catholic Charities of Kansas City - St. Joseph. Call 1 (866) 430-9499 or visit the Web site at: www.cars4kckids.com.

Woodbright - A very affordable alternative to refinishing, refacing or replacing stained cabinets and woodwork. The average kitchen only costs $500. 18 years experience. Call Woodbright at (913) 940-3020.

Interior painting, tiling, kitchen, bath and basement remodeling – 20 years experience. Excellent references. Quality work at a reasonable price.

Call Rob at (913) 206-4524.

Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite, and solid surface.

Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.

STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Call for free estimates. Cell: (913) 579-1835; phone: (913) 491-5837; e-mail: smokey cabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa.

For Sale For sale - One space, without marker, in Hope Lawn Crypt at Resurrection Cemetery, Lenexa. Originally purchased in 1990. Lot 20, section D, space 3.

Asking price is $3000. Call Peggy Langenbach at (816) 645-2890.

American Girl-type solid wood doll furniture - Heirloom quality, built to last a lifetime. Many types of beds — trundles, daybeds, canopy, bunk, and fourposter. Tables and chairs, clothes bars, and beautiful bedding. Custom orders welcome. Call John Hember at (913) 631-4060. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee.

Residential lifts - Buy/sell/trade. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. Recycled and new equipment. Member of St. Michael the Archangel Parish, Leawood. Call Silver Cross KC at (913) 327-5557.

Feb. 12 Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann will celebrate the annual White Mass

for health care workers at 10:30 a.m. on Feb. 12 at the Cathedral of St. Peter, 409 N. 15th St., Kansas City, Kan. Bishop Robert Vasa, newly appointed coadjutor of the Diocese of Santa Rosa, Calif., and episcopal advisor to the Catholic Medical Association, will concelebrate. Lunch will be provided by the Sts. Cosmas and Damian Guild of the Catholic Medical Association. All are invited to attend. To RSVP, call (913) 945-2090.

Holy Family Church, 513 Ohio, Kansas City, Kan., will host a Valentine’s Day dinner dance on Feb. 12 in Mejak Hall.

A beef tenderloin dinner will be served at 6 p.m.; the dance, with music provided

by The Don Lipovac Orchestra, will follow from 7 - 11 p.m. The cost is $25 per person. For tickets, call Bob Serra at (913) 621-3500; Richard Schutte at (913) 6693677; Mike Waliczek at (913) 342-1785; or JoAnn Lipovac at (913) 299-2792.

Holy Name Parish, 1007 Southwest Blvd., Kansas City, Kan., will host its annual ragin’ sweet and spicy fest — a chili, soup and dessert cook-off — from 6:30 - 9 p.m. on Feb. 12. The cost is: $8 per person; $15 per couple; or $20 per family.

For information or to purchase tickets, call Sharon Staab at (913) 631-1138.

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St. Joseph Parish, 11311 Johnson Dr., Shawnee, will host the monthly Fatima rosary rally at 3 p.m. on Feb. 13.

All are welcome.

Sanctuary of Hope, 2601 Ridge Ave., Kansas City, Kan., will host “Meditation in Movement and Music,” its annual concert, from 2 - 3 p.m. on Feb. 13. Performers include the Charity Notes of the Sisters of Charity, Leavenworth, and the Ebony Chorale of Greater Kansas City.

Refreshments will follow.

St. Dominic Parish, 416 Ohio, Holton, will celebrate the enthronement of the image of Divine Mercy, exposition, Benediction and a Holy Hour at 3 p.m. on Feb. 13. Fellowship will follow. For information, call (785) 246-1338.

St. Mary – St. Anthony Church, 615 N. 7th St., Kansas City, Kan., will host afternoon bingo at 2 p.m. on Feb. 13 in Bishop Forst Hall. The cost of $5 includes povitica, salami, apple strudel, coffee and one bingo card. Additional cards may be purchased. For information, contact Carol Shomin at (913) 897-4833 or the parish office.

St. Stanislaus Parish, Rossville, will host a soup luncheon from 11:30 a.m.

- 1:30 p.m. and bingo from 1:30 - 2:30 p.m. on Feb. 13 in the parish hall. A freewill offering will be collected.

St. Mary Church in Hartford will have a beef and noodle dinner from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. on Feb. 13 at the Neosho Rapids Grade School in the multipurpose room. Cost is $7 for adults; $4 for children 10 and under.

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archdiocesan charismatic prayer groups, will be held at 7:30 p.m. on Feb. 17 at Curé of Ars Church, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. Father Ken Kelly will preside; fellowship follows. For information, call (913) 649-1337.

The Handy Woman series for February will feature a presentation entitled “Fix That Leaky Faucet!” It will be held from 10 - 11 a.m. on Feb. 17 at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb. org/kwc.

Scholarships are available. To register, call (913) 758-6552; send an e-mail to: retreats@scls.org; or visit the Web site at: www.MarillacCenter.org.

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The University of Saint Mary will host its annual Lincoln Event, featuring “An Evening with Mrs. Lincoln,” on Feb. 21 at 7 p.m. in Xavier Theatre on the Leavenworth campus, 4100 S. 4th St. Admission is free; open to the public.

The Lincoln Event is made possible by Country Club Bank of Leavenworth and Lansing.

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RSVP, call Patty at (913) 384-4644.

Mater Dei Parish, Topeka, will host a casino night on Feb. 26 at Rossiter Hall, 204 S.W. 8th St. Doors open at 6:30 p.m.; gaming runs from 7 - 10 p.m. A suggested donation of $20 per person is appreciated.

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St. Bede Parish, Kelly, will host its annual pancake breakfast from 7 a.m. - noon on Feb. 27. Freewill offerings will be collected.

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Feeling alone in your marriage? Are you frustrated or angry with each other? Do you argue? Or have you just stopped talking to each other?

Retrouvaille is a program to help couples through difficult times in their marriages. For confidential information or to register for the upcoming February program, call 1 (800) 470-2230 or visit the Web site at: www.retrouvaille.org.

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The Shawnee Knights of Columbus will host a polka dance on Feb. 19 in their hall located at 11221 Johnson Drive. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. The cost of $10 includes sausage and sauerkraut sandwiches and beverages. Music provided by the Brian McCarty Polka Band.

For information or to reserve a table, contact Dan Nicks at (913) 631-4633.

St. John Catholic Club, 414 Barnett, Kansas City, Kan., will host a bowl-athon from noon - 9 p.m. on Feb. 19. A suggested donation of $20 for three games is appreciated. Proceeds will be used to upgrade equipment.

All ages are welcome. To register, call (913) 371-9690.

Good Shepherd Church, 12800 W. 75th St., Shawnee, will host a shopper’s showcase from 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. on Feb. 19 in the parish hall. A variety of products — including jewelry, handbags and accessories, health and beauty products, home décor, gourmet foods, casual wear and more — will be available for purchase. There will also be a tearoom serving treats and specialty coffees and teas.

A memorial liturgy for deceased loved ones will be held at 8 a.m. on Feb. 19 at Curé of Ars Church, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood. The bereavement ministry will have its monthly meeting following Mass in the Father Burak Room. The topic will be: “An Unexpected Journey.” For information, call (913) 649-2026.

Father Tom Hesse will celebrate the archdiocesan monthly pro-life Mass at 8 a.m. on Feb. 19 at Sts. Cyril & Methodius Church, 44 N. Mill, Kansas City, Kan., followed by a rosary procession to an abortion clinic four blocks away. Eucharistic adoration is available for those not processing; Benediction concludes services at 9:45 a.m.

Marillac Center, 4200 S. 4th St., Leavenworth, will offer a one-day workshop, entitled “God Is an ‘Active Player’: Ten Techniques to Achieve Healing and Illumination,” presented by Richard Johnson, Ph.D., a nationally recognized speaker and author. It will run from 9:30 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. on Feb. 19. The registration fee is $45 if received by Feb. 11; $55 if received after. Lunch is included.

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Church of the Ascension, 9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park, will host Addictions 101 at 7 p.m. on Feb. 23 in the AFF 1 and 2 rooms. For information, contact Jean at (913) 681-3348 or send an e-mail to her at: jhinman@ kcascension.org.

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The Keeler Women’s Center will offer “Eating Like a Diabetic Even if You Aren’t One,” a nutrition presentation offered in conjunction with K-State Extension Services, from 9:30 - 11 a.m. on Feb. 24 at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www. mountosb.org/kwc.

The Christian widow and widowers group of Topeka will host a soup supper at 5 p.m. on Feb. 24 in the formation room at Most Pure Heart of Mary Church, 1800 S.W. Stone. There is no cost to attend.

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Does it seem that you and your spouse are often going in different directions? A Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend may be just the thing to get your relationship realigned.

The next Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend will be held from Feb. 25 - 27 at Savior Pastoral Center, 12601 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call Ralph and Jan Lewis at (913) 400-7173 in Kansas City; Kyle and Denise Mead at (785) 357-5000 in Topeka; Ray and Barb Diedel at (785) 843-9274 in Lawrence; or visit the Web site at: www.neksme.org.

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Father Mitchel Zimmerman, archdiocesan vocation director, will host a Venite et Videte (Come and See) retreat for young men in grades 9 - 11 on Feb. 26 from 1 - 7:30 p.m. at Savior Pastoral Center, 12601 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, Kan. Come enjoy some sports, inspiring talks, question-and-answer time, prayer, pizza and small group discussion. The cost is $10. For information or to register, visit the Web site at: www.kckvocations.com, or call (913) 647-0303.

Queen of the Holy Rosary Church, 7023 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, will host a ladies brunch from 9 a.m. - noon on Feb. 26. There will be a presentation entitled “Does God Want You To Fast?”

The cost is $12. For information or to

1 Sophia Center,Atchison, 751 S. 8th St., will

host a one-day retreat, entitled “Can You Drink This Cup?” (inspired by Henri Nouwen’s book of the same title) from 9:30 a.m. 4 p.m. on March 1. Sister Marcia Ziska, OSB, will lead the day of reflection exploring the spiritual horizons posed

by Jesus’ question. The cost is $50. For information or to register, call (913) 3606151 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/sophia.html.

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St. James Academy and the School of Faith will sponsor a conference and Mass for the sick and suffering from 8:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. on March 5 at St. James Academy, 24505 Prairie Star Pkwy., Lenexa. There will be veneration of the first-class relic of St. Padre Pio’s blood. The cost of $25 includes lunch. For information or to register, call (913) 254-4200 or visit the Web sites at: www.sjakeepingfaith.org or www.schooloffaith.com.

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A support group for women dealing with any type of addiction, at any stage of recovery, will meet from 6 - 7 p.m. on Tuesday evenings at the Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan. For information or to register, call (913) 906-8990 or visit the Web site at: www.mountosb.org/kwc.

Do you or your loved one need support to break free from pornography, infidelity, or lust? The My House Men’s Group provides prayer and accountability for sexual integrity. Sam Meier, MA, LPC, is available for men’s groups and counseling; call him at (913) 647-0378, or send an e-mail to him at: smeier@archkck.org. The women’s group provides hope and healing for women who are dealing with their loved one’s struggles. Contact Beth Meier at (913) 647-0379, or send an e-mail to her at: bmeier@archkck.org.

Calendar items must be received nine days before the publication date.

E-mail submissions are preferred; send to: jennifer@theleaven.com. Submissions may be mailed to: 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109.

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“We need to emphasize that education is a real tool in the pro-life movement. The more we can expose people — especially young people — to the information, taking it past the issues of morality and religion and exposing them to the facts at a certain age and maturity level, the better. They are the future legislators, teachers, parents, doctors, counselors.”

Margie Livingston.

Livingston, teacher at Curé of Ars School in Leawood, in Leawood See story on page 1

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Agency seeks to mobilize Catholics to ‘love’ those in need

his past Saturday, I looked just like a Christmas tree: green vestments, red face.

It happened toward the end of Mass while I was handing out children’s bulletins to our three- to five-year-olds. One little girl — Lilly Bea — happily trotted up, grabbed hers and enthusiastically thanked me. In previous weeks, she’d given me a small square of paper, a little artwork that she’d done during Mass, to hang on my refrigerator. This week, however, as she came forward, it looked like she had a note with writing on it instead.

When she didn’t hand it to me but simply returned to her seat, I asked her grandparents, “Was that a note for me?”

Since I had just made some announcements, I thought that maybe I’d forgotten one — her grandpa is very active in the Knights of Columbus — and this note might be a reminder of something critical and timely.

“Uh, yeah,” her grandma said hesitantly, as Lilly Bea happily returned to me in the aisle. I quickly peeked at what she handed me and did what I usually do when I’m embarrassed: turned beet-red.

It wasn’t an announcement for the whole parish at all; it was a note to me from Lilly Bea’s mom. With a nervous laugh, I mumbled something unintelligible about this being a “personal note,” hurriedly returned to the altar and finished the Mass.

Only afterwards did I find out that Lilly Bea’s grandparents intended for her to give me that slip of paper after Mass, but the little girl was so excited, she couldn’t wait.

I’m sure that the congregation — and now, you readers — are curious as to what the note said . . . and why I turned so red. Apparently, Lilly Bea was talking to her dad a few days earlier about the “daddy/daughter dance” at her wedding.

God’s wisdom meant to be revealed to the world

Feb. 14 Cyril, monk, and Methodius, bishop Gn 4: 1-15, 25; Ps 50: 1, 8, 16bc-17, 20-21; Mk 8: 11-13

If employees know that a particular stock will go up in value because of secret information misappropriated from their company, those persons can buy up shares in that stock before the price increases and make a killing.

That is why that type of insider trading is illegal. sixth sunday in Is there such ordinary time a thing as insider 1 Cor 2: 6-10 knowledge in religion?

After all, we Catholics believe that we have the inside scoop. God has revealed certain truths of faith to us which cannot be known merely by reason or any other means. Being inside the church holds a definite advantage.

At the same time, we do not try to keep those truths secret. They are not locked up in the Vatican Archives, hidden away from the public.

On the contrary, we make every effort to let the whole world know about them. In doing that, we are following the final instructions of Jesus: “Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe

Feb. 17 The Seven Founders of the Order of Servites, religious Gn 9: 1-13; Ps 102: 16-18, 19-23, 29; Mk 8: 27-33 Feb. 18 Friday Gn 11: 1-9; Ps 33: 10-15; Mk 8:34 — 9:1 Feb. 19 Saturday Heb 11: 1-7; Ps 145: 2-5, 10-11; Mk 9: 2-13

Her song of choice for that memorable event? Vanilla Ice‘s “Ice Ice Baby.” And here’s the kicker: She said, “Father Mark will sing it.” Her mother’s note ended with: “You should start practicing.”

(Thank goodness, she’s only three; that should give me plenty of time to learn the words and moves!)

This incident put me in a perfect mood to celebrate a special day this coming Monday, Feb. 14. I know that you know what I’m talking about. That’s right, it’s the birthday of Benjamin Kubelsky! Uh, if that name doesn’t ring a bell, maybe you know him better as comedian Jack Benny.

Known for his incorrigible miser character, one of his classic routines had him confronted by a thug who demands, “Your money or your life!” When Benny doesn’t respond for a moment or two, the thug says again, “Look, pal! I said your money or your life!” To this, Benny responds, “I’m thinking it over!”

Benny also famously claimed to be 39 years old . . . year after year after year.

Through his radio and TV shows, he got us to laugh at things that seem to preoccupy us excessively, especially in this country: age and money. How fitting that he was born in February, a month whose name derives from a Latin root, meaning “to purify.”

This month, especially with all of the snow and cold we’ve been battling, can

be a depressing time. Although the shortest month, it often seems longer, doesn’t it? Maybe it’s the fact that daylight and sunlight are in short supply, or perhaps the isolation we experience in being practically trapped in our homes adds to our gloominess. Whatever brings us down, injecting a little humor into our lives can be an ideal way to “purify” our morose mood.

To get the ball rolling, here are a few of Jack Benny’s gems: • Age is strictly a case of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.

• Hors d’oeuvre: a ham sandwich cut into 40 pieces.

• I don’t deserve this award, but I have arthritis and I don’t deserve that either.

• (about Abe Lincoln) Any man who would walk five miles through the snow, barefoot, just to return a library book so he could save three cents — that’s my kind of guy.

And, in a nod to that “other” event that we celebrate on Feb. 14, he said: “My wife Mary and I have been married for 47 years and not once have we had an argument serious enough to consider divorce; murder, yes, but divorce, never.”

Sometimes I think that we Christians forget that we’re to be messengers of the good news. We’re often way too serious about some things or we give into worry and pessimism. An easy way to purify these attitudes is by peppering each day with plenty of joy and laughter. Maybe we can start right at Mass this weekend: During the sign of peace, simply greet those around you with genuine warmth and hospitality . . . and watch the chill of winter melt away.

And now, if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got a certain song I need to practice. I’m sure my neighbors will be amused.

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Feb. 16 Wednesday Gn 8: 6-13, 20-22; Ps 166: 12-15, 18-19; Mk 8: 22-26

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Mark my words

Feb. 13 sixth sunday in ordinary time Sir 15: 15-20; Ps 119: 1-2, 4-5, 17-18, 33-34; 1 Cor 2: 6-10; Mt 5: 17-37

Feb. 15 Tuesday Gn 6: 5-8; 7: 1-5; Ps 129: 1a, 2, 3ac-4; Mk 8: 14-21

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nsider knowledge can lead to quick riches in the stock market.

all that I have commanded you” (Mt 28: 19-20).

When St. Paul wrote his letters to the Christians in Corinth, some of them had adopted ideas that many scholars believe would eventually develop into the heresy called gnosticism. They prided themselves on knowing spiritual truths that would lead to salvation.

Those fortunate enough to possess this wisdom looked down on the others. In its full-blown form, gnosticism would resemble those modern groups called “cults.”

The gnostics wanted to restrict their esoteric knowledge to an elite few and keep it as a secret from the masses. In fact, the word “gnostic” comes from the Greek word “gnosis,” meaning “knowledge.” That reflects its emphasis upon knowledge as opposed to action.

According to them, knowledge, rather than God’s grace, would lead to their salvation. Nonetheless, St. Paul writes that “knowledge inflates with pride,

but love builds up” (1 Cor 8:1).

In contrast to the gnostics, St. Paul argues that salvation comes from faith in Jesus Christ. This is the true wisdom involved in knowing God’s plan. Unlike the wisdom of the gnostics, which seeks to remain hidden, God’s wisdom yearns to be revealed to the whole world. That is why St. Paul writes that “we speak God’s wisdom, mysterious, hidden.” If at one time, God’s wisdom had been hidden, it now is revealed in Jesus Christ. It is meant for all people.

It is even meant for the Gentiles. That is why St. Paul was appointed their apostle.

We are so fortunate that God has shared this wisdom with us. It is not as though we have done anything to deserve it. That is why St. Paul advises humility: “It is due to him (God) that you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God, as well as righteousness, sanctification, and redemption, so that, as it is written, ‘Whoever boasts, should boast in the Lord’” (1 Cor 1:30, 31).

There is no room for elitism or snobbism in our church.

Father Mike Stubbs is the senior parochial vicar of Holy Trinity Parish in Lenexa and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.

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f I have all faith so as to move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing” (1 Cor 13:2).

In March of 2009, the board of directors for Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas convened a task force to begin work on a five-year strategic plan. What emerged from our meetings was, instead, a philosophical review of who we are as a faith-based organization and what difference we are called to make in the communities we serve and the world around us.

In his Angelus address to the faithful on Jan. 31, Pope Benedict XVI said: “For now, while we are in this world, charity is the Christian difference” — charity, meaning love.

For Catholic Charities of Northeast

Kansas, love is our defining difference.

We recognize that how our brothers and sisters in need experience our help is as important as the tangible help that we provide. We are called to love our neighbor — Catholic Charities seeks to be a neighbor to all of our brothers and sisters in need in the 21 counties of northeast Kansas.

But we cannot do this work alone.

We are not an independent institution but, rather, we are part of a living body of faith-filled people.

To be successful, we must embrace

our identity as a Catholic organization and seek to mobilize all people of good will to join us in “being love” to those most in need. Rather than seeing ourselves as an “institution providing programs,” we seek to become part of a community where neighbors are helping neighbors.

Our goal is to be in position to touch 150,000 lives across the 21 counties of northeast Kansas by the year 2015, providing them with unconditional love and necessary help.

To achieve this, we believe that we have to engage in three core activities: internal alignment of the head and heart, program integration and external engagement.

We must first begin with internal alignment — forming the hearts of our staff and volunteers so that they can serve our brothers and sisters with a Spirit of love. We must also fully train

in the technical aspects of our work, so that those who seek our help receive compassionate and competent care.

We must engage in best practices, understand the strengths and weaknesses of our various ministries, then develop methods and build models for help that can be replicated across multiple sites.

Finally, we must truly engage the communities of northeast Kansas in dialogue about strengths and needs, exploring partnerships and seeking ways to weave together networks of charity to serve the most vulnerable in all 21 counties of the archdiocese.

And we know that it is only with faith that we can accomplish the mission first set before us by Jesus Christ.

Jan Lewis is the executive director of Catholic Charities.

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Youth director sees young church making a difference now

here’s no place like home, there’s no place like home, and there truly is no place like home.

After all the traveling I’ve done in the month of January, Dorothy’s words from “The Wizard of Oz” really hit home. Out of the three places that I’ve visited — Orlando, Fla., for Catholic Heart Work Camp manager information; Washington, D.C., for the March for Life; and Albuquerque, N.M., for the annual National Federation for Catholic Youth Ministry convention — I’d have to say my most memorable experience was the March for Life.

I shared with the young people on the trip that they were going to make history. Sure enough, this year’s March was one of the biggest ever, with an

estimated 400,000 people marching in support of life.

Sadly, if you would have looked in the local newspaper in D.C. or even back here at home, you never would have known it. I liked what Kayla Nguyen from St. James Academy in Lenexa shared with the group on the bus.

“Don’t expect a lot of news coverage about the march when you get home.

Last year I came home and was angry to see how the media portrayed it,” she said. “They reported our numbers as

mere ‘hundreds’ of people, not thousands. It’s disheartening, but that has not kept me from coming back, and I hope that doesn’t keep you from coming back next year either.”

The wisdom and commitment of our young people never ceases to amaze me.

We have the most incredible group of young people in our archdiocese. Father George Hannah said it best after Saturday night when our young people arrived — straight from the bus — for Mass, dinner, a concert and a performance by Mikey Needleman and Mike Debus.

“Your young people are amazing!” he said. “I’ve never seen a group of young people so respectful of the real presence during adoration, Benediction and reconciliation, and I am grateful to be a part of what just happened here this evening.”

The Sisters of Life from New York

said the same thing. I couldn’t agree with them more.

Mill Valley student Jill Applegate asked me in a phone interview, “Will Roe v. Wade ever be overturned?” Yes, through prayer and perseverance.

Then she asked, “Why is it important for teens to be at the march?”

Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann quoted the prophet Jeremiah to answer that question: “Say not I am too young. To whomever I send you, you shall go; whatever I command you, you shall speak.”

To our young people: Our church needs you, our Holy Father needs you, and our archbishop needs you. You’re making a difference now.

Rick Cheek is the associate consultant for the office of evangelization and Catholic formation of youth.

¿QUé PASA? — IN HISPANIC MINISTRY

Maybe it’s time to ask why Hispanics are leaving the church

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t a recent evangelization retreat, a man in his early 30s presented himself to us by saying: “This is the first time I am in a Catholic Church since my arrival in Kansas City.”

These words filled us with hopeful optimism that just maybe this retreat would open his heart to coming back to the church.

It was also good news for me, because recently I had heard several stories of people going away from the church: • First there was Juanita, a young mom of a six-year-old, involved in the Cursillo movement, who recently decided to be baptized in an evangelical

church in Johnson County.

• Secondly, there was Maria, a middle-aged grandmother who was in charge of the liturgical environment in a parish with a large Hispanic community, who decided to become a Jehovah’s Witness.

• Finally, there was Lupita, who had been proud lector at a Spanish Mass at her parish — that is, until she decided to leave the Catholic Church and become a member of an evangelical church where she felt more at home.

All three women had a lot in com-

mon — they were committed to the Lord, active members of their parishes and the spiritual leaders of their families — and yet they all felt a need to go away from the Catholic Church.

When we hear stories, our first reaction is to ask: “What’s wrong with these people?”

However, as I think about the comings and goings of these three women, it seems to me that the question we should be asking is: “What’s wrong with us that, as a church, we have lost three deeply committed members?”

I am sure there are a number of valid explanations when it comes to the Catholic Church and the Hispanic community, but I think we need to dramatically improve in the following three areas: 1. Preparation of priests and lay leaders — We need to gear up for the future by preparing our clergy and our

lay leaders . . . or else Hispanics will continue to go away.

2. Investing in youth — We need to be more creative, because Catholic schools alone cannot do it and, in fact, less than five percent of Hispanics are sending their children to Catholic schools.

3. Opening wide the doors of our churches — There is no other way to say it. We need to be more welcoming and open our churches . . . or Hispanics will continue to go elsewhere.

There is no doubt that “comings and goings” are part of life in the Catholic Church, but maybe now is a good time to reframe the question and simply ask: “Why?” Father Pat Murphy is the archdiocesan animator for the office of Hispanic ministry.

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Eat, pray, love

By Mary Vorsten

God is always there for us

By Karen and Kevin Mead 1. At least once every day, in word or in action, tell your spouse, “I love you.” On most days this is easy to do. On those challenging days, taking this step helps to remind you that you promised to be there for each other “until death do us part.”

2. Speaking of vows, most of those reading this right now stood before a priest, family and friends and, oh yes, God, and made promises to each other for all to hear. Staying faithful to those promises in the 21st century can be a challenge. Making and keeping God as the third member of marriage carries us through the most devastating parts of life — like losing a child 10 years ago — and makes happiness complete — like celebrating the birth of each of our grandchildren. God is always there for us.

3. What really drove home the first two thoughts and much more was attending a Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend. Marriage is a service sacrament and, as such, we are called to be of service — not only to each other, but as instruments of God for others. If we live the love God calls us to, we can live “happily, until death do us part.”

Karen and Kevin Mead are members of of Mater Dei Parish in Topeka. They’ve been married 39 years, are the parents of three sons, and have been very active in Marriage Encounter for many years.

Strengthening your Marriage

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ancy dinners and highend chocolates are standard fare on Valentine’s Day. But they don’t do much to really nourish a marriage.

For a little bit of meat-and-potatoes marital advice, therefore, we turned to folks right here in the archdiocese, several of whom counsel married couples and several others who are active in Worldwide Marriage Encounter. And we asked them a simple question: “What three surprisingly simple steps can a married couple take to strengthen their marriage?”

Here are their responses.

Marriage Encounter The Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend is designed to help married couples communicate more intimately with one another in order to deepen and enrich their relationship.

The next weekend will be Feb. 25-27 at Savior Pastoral Center in Kansas City, Kan. For information, call Ralph and Jan Lewis at (913) 400-7173, or visit the Web site at: www. wwmeneks.com.

Love is a decision you make every day

By Jan and Ralph Lewis He says: The most important thing Jan and I ever did for our marriage was to attend a Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend. I am not exaggerating when I say that everything we are today has come as a result of our weekend. I encourage every married couple to attend the weekend and strengthen their marriage.

Another step married couples can take is to make the decision daily to love each other. The kind of love required for a lifelong covenant marriage is not a feeling. It is a decision. Couples need to make the decision to love each other in spite of their faults, remembering that we all have our own faults.

The romantic feeling of love may come and go, but the decision to love can, and should, be made every day.

Another important step is to work on couple spirituality. The saying — “Couples that pray together, stay together” — is more than just a tired

cliché. Some options to consider are: couple prayer, for and with each other, attending Mass as a couple, and sharing spiritual readings or reflections daily. Deeper couple spirituality will lead to a stronger marriage.

She says: For Ralph and I, we discovered the best tool to keep our marriage strong while on our Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend. That tool is a short, daily communication exercise that we call “daily dialogue.”

We take 20 minutes each day for focused, face-to-face, time together, talking about what is going on inside

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of us — not about the details of the day, but rather about how the day has affected us. We often view this time as being in the “eye of the hurricane,” a few minutes of peace in an otherwise chaotic life.

Like most couples, our arguments flow out of ego, pride and a desire for control. We have learned that no matter what the issue is that we are facing, the most important thing is for our relationship to win. If he wins, or I win, we both lose.

Finally, we have chosen to surround ourselves with other couples who share our belief in the sacramentality of marriage. Not only are they role models for us, they help to hold us accountable in how we live out our vocation as husband and wife.

Jan and Ralph Lewis have been married 25 years and are parishioners of St. Francis de Sales Parish in Lansing. Jan is the director of Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas and both are active in Marriage Encounter.

A popular movie of the past year was “Eat, Pray, Love,” a divorced woman’s search for deeper meaning in her life. These three words, however, also speak of behaviors rooted deep in our Catholic traditions and can guide couples in the process of strengthening their marriage.

Eat: Share in the Eucharist, share meals together, and seek nourishment as a couple physically and spiritually. Have a date night, a romantic meal together as a couple once a month. Talk to each other with your eyes and from your heart as you eat together.

Pray: Take a walk together holding hands and pray silently for each other, pray for God’s wisdom to guide you as life partners and parents. Pray to deepen your commitment to one another. Ask God to remove any resentments that threaten the marriage.

Love: Love as Christ loved us in a selfgiving love. Allow your love to grow as you build on the foundation of Christ’s love in your lives. Observe and learn from the love patterns of those in long-term marriages.

Surprise one another with small tokens of your love — notes, cards, and gifts.

Christ shared a meal with those he loved.

Christ modeled prayer for us. Christ gave freely of his love.

Mary Vorsten, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, can be contacted, via e-mail, at: mytherapist maryv@gmail.com or at (913) 909-2002. .

Third person in every marriage

By Father Mike Stubbs Many couples talk every day, but only on a superficial level — about household chores, about the weather, about day-today concerns. Real communication goes to a deeper level, when the spouses share their hopes and dreams, their anxieties and pains. That communication can strengthen their relationship and make their love grow.

It gives them a firm foundation on which to build their life together.

Going on a Marriage Encounter weekend can help a couple to communicate better.

The weekend not only provides the couple the time and encouragement to share with each other, it also teaches them communication skills that they can take home and use on a daily basis. I have worked with Marriage Encounter for 30 years. During that time, I have seen wonderful results from the weekend.

It is also important that husband and wife recognize that there is a third person in their relationship. God is present in their marriage, in their lives. When the couple takes the risk to share prayer with each other, they can experience God’s presence in a life-giving way. This means going beyond rote — memorized prayer — to prayer which speaks heart-to-heart.

Father Mike Stubbs is the senior parochial vicar of Holy Trinity Parish in Lenexa.