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It came late this year, but Lent is finally here. Ash Wednesday is next week, March 6. By next weekend’s Masses, you will see the change in the liturgical season reflected in the art and environment of your church, as in this photo of Corpus Christi Church in Lawrence. So check your parish bulletin for the Ash Wednesday schedule and read on to learn how to make the most of your Lent.
Do Lent like a boss: Advice from the pros By Marc and Julie Anderson mjanderson@theleaven.org
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Lent starts next week. Which means some of us folks
in the pews need to start scrambling if we’re to be ready to launch
on Ash Wednesday. But laypeople aren’t the only ones who commit
to improving their relationship with God during this penitential season.
LENTEN REGULATIONS
FATHER TIM HABERKORN Pastor of Sacred HeartSt. Joseph Parish, Topeka
Spiritual growth, said Father Tim Haberkorn, pastor of Sacred Heart-St. Joseph Parish in Topeka, is the ultimate goal for him personally during Lent, as well as something he wants to encourage in the parishioners he serves daily. “I think Lent gives us an opportunity for what I call latitude in attitude.
And what I mean by that is to really pause and try to get the proper spirit and attitude of Lent.” Father Haberkorn said it might sound easy, but in practice it can be tough. “It sounds simple in words, but it is a daily commitment. When I say Lent is an opportunity for latitude in attitude it goes back to Archbishop Fulton Sheen’s approach. He said when it comes to our days, there’s two ways we can approach each day either, ‘Good morning, God’ or ‘Good God, morning.’ “I think for me, [the goal is] to make every one of those days of Lent ones of ‘Good morning, God.’ “Like I said, it’s an easy thing to say, but to actually have an attitude of >> See “LENTEN” on page 5
All Catholics 14 years of age and older are obliged to abstain from meat on Ash Wednesday, March 6, and all the Fridays of Lent. Catholics 18 to 59 years of age are obliged to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday — a fast consisting of one normal meal and two lesser meals, with no eating in between. It is also recommended that Catholics find opportunities throughout the Lenten season to complement their fasts with prayer, reception of the sacraments of reconciliation and the Eucharist, and positive works of charity.
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ARCHBISHOP
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It is the Christian capacity for joy that draws others to the faith
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ardinal Francis Xavier Nguyen Van Thuan died in September 2002. The cause for his beatification is underway. At the end of his life, he was the president of the Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace. However, in his native Vietnam, then-Bishop Van Thuan spent three years under house arrest and 13 years in prison, nine in solitary confinement. During a portion of his imprisonment, Cardinal Van Thuan was able to smuggle out brief daily messages to strengthen the faith of his people. These have been collected in a book called “The Road of Hope.” One chapter in the book is devoted to joy. Cardinal Van Thuan wrote: “How is it that you feel discouraged if you are working for God? The more difficult things are, the happier you should be, just as John and Peter were when they were flogged at the hands of the Sanhedrin. ‘So the apostles left the Sanhedrin, rejoicing that they had been considered worthy to be dishonored for the sake of the Name.’ (Acts 5:41); or like Paul, ‘I am wonderfully encouraged and, despite all our afflictions, I am brimming over with joy” (2 Cor 7:4). In another reflection on joy, Cardinal Van Thuan made clear that the Christian always has a reason for hope and joy: “When you are successful, give thanks to God; and when you are a failure, give thanks to God. Rejoice always! When you fail, you will soon see if you serve God or your own will. To be joyful and courageous
Archbishop Naumann
LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN in a moment of failure is more difficult than in a moment of good fortune.” Cardinal Van Thuan’s life shows us what is possible when we allow our friendship with Jesus to refresh our soul, give wisdom to our mind, enlighten our eye and rejoice our heart. This is the kind of strength and hope and joy only faith can provide. Recently, I read a book entitled “Black and Pro-Life in America: The Incarceration and Exoneration of Walter B. Hoye.” It chronicles the events leading up to the arrest, sentencing and confinement of Baptist pastor Walter Hoye in the Alameda County Santa Rita Jail in California. His crime? Holding a sign outside an abortion clinic that read: “Jesus loves you and your baby. Let us help you.” Pastor Hoye became passionate about protecting the unborn because his first child was premature. It made him aware of the humanity of life within the womb. He also became disturbed by the disproportionate number of African-American children being aborted.
Concrete Work
Pastor Hoye spent several weeks in jail. He did some excellent prison ministry during his incarceration. After a protracted legal battle, the statute used to convict Pastor Hoye was ruled unconstitutional and the city of Oakland had to pay Pastor Hoye’s legal fees. Pastor Hoye was unjustly imprisoned because of his desire to assist women experiencing a difficult pregnancy and for attempting to save the lives of unborn children. Walter Hoye used his time in prison to give a powerful personal witness of his willingness to suffer for the injustice being done to others. Father Emil Kapaun, a priest of the Wichita Diocese, died in a prisoner of war camp during the Korean War. His cause for beatification is also under consideration. The American soldiers liberated from the POW camp where Father Kapaun died gave beautiful testimonies of their chaplain’s heroism. Through his example, he taught the men imprisoned with him that they were still free. Even in the harsh conditions of the POW camp, they were still free to pray and praise God. They were still free to encourage and support each other. They were
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From top, Cardinal Van Thuan, Father Emil Kapaun and Pastor Walter Hoye provide three examples of individuals who were unjustly imprisoned but never lost their capacity for love, hope and even joy. still free to treat their captors with kindness and respect. Cardinal Van Thuan, Pastor Walter Hoye and Father Emil Kapaun provide three examples of individuals who were unjustly imprisoned but never lost their capacity
for love, hope and even joy. Pope Emeritus Benedict in his encyclical on hope made this observation about Cardinal Van Thuan: “During thirteen years in jail, in a situation of seemingly utter hopelessness, the fact that he could listen and speak to God became for him an increasing power of hope, which enabled him after his release, to become for people all over the world a witness to hope — to that great hope which does not wane even in the nights of solitude.”
Catholic Foundation of Northeast Kansas board meeting Ethics Council meeting March 6 Ash Wednesday Mass — Cathedral March 7 Confirmation — Curé of Ars, Leawood March 9 Pastoral visit — Christ the King, Kansas City, Kansas March 10 Rite of Election — Christ the King, Topeka Rite of Election — Holy Angels, Basehor March 11-13 U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops meetings — Washington, D.C.
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The Christian is never without the capacity for love, hope and joy. Our faith is able to provide meaning and reason for hope in the direst circumstances. In fact, it is our ability to continue to love and to evidence joy in the midst of adversity that makes our faith attractive to others. I encourage all of us to look upon the present difficulties of our lives as precious opportunities to magnify the beauty and power of our Christian faith.
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VATICAN SUMMIT
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‘We do not have forever and we dare not fail’
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Cardinals and bishops attend a penitential liturgy during their meeting on the protection of minors in the church at the Vatican Feb. 23.
Sex abuse survivors Denise Buchanan and Alessandro Battaglia are pictured in front of St. Peter’s Square at the Vatican Feb. 24, on the final day of the Vatican’s four-day summit on abuse.
Pope Francis reviews papers during the third day of the abuse summit held at the Vatican Feb. 23.
After the Vatican’s summit on abuse, the stakes are clear
Bishops must be held accountable, says cardinal
By Greg Erlandson Catholic News Service
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ATICAN CITY (CNS) — The long-awaited “Meeting on the Protection of Minors in the Church,” nicknamed the abuse summit, was an extraordinary and historic gathering that surpassed many expectations while perhaps disappointing others. Historic in that it brought together the heads of 114 bishops’ conferences from the entire world, as well as the leaders of religious congregations, curial officials and even a few laypeople to discuss in a semipublic forum the sins of the church and to hear the powerful words of the victims themselves. Extraordinary in that it featured a drumbeat of eloquent and at times blunt criticisms by speakers regarding the way that the church has handled abuse crises to date. It also may have become a prototype of sorts for what synodal gatherings may come to look like in the future in terms of both a diversity of voices and an honesty of opinion. From the start, Pope Francis had four chief audiences to reach, each with its own suspicions and concerns. The first was the broad leadership of the church, the bishops of the world represented by the heads of their episcopal conferences as well as the leadership of religious congregations. The second consisted of the victims of clerical sexual abuse who so often had been ignored, excused or even attacked for having the courage to tell what was done to them. Numerous organizations of survivors came to Rome to be heard, and many made their dissatisfaction with the proceedings known, judging them too little and too unsubstantial. Within the hall, however, other victims were heard in person and by audio. Their statements were read as reflections for prayer, and every session was reminded of what they are suffering. The third audience was both the >> See “SUMMIT” on page 4
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Pope Francis speaks at the conclusion of a Mass on the final day of the extraordinary and historic “Meeting on the Protection of Minors in the Church” at the Vatican Feb. 24.
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ATICAN CITY (CNS) — The Vatican summit on child protection and the clerical sexual abuse crisis affirmed the U.S. bishops’ strong belief that bishops and cardinals who abuse children or cover up abuse must be held accountable, said Cardinal Daniel N. DiNardo of Galveston-Houston. The cardinal attended the Feb. 21-24 summit as president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops. “While here, it became obvious to me” that several speakers were insisting that “any Cardinal Daniel N. loopholes” existing in how bishops are DiNardo treated — if they are accused of abuse or of negligence in handling allegations — “must be closed,” Cardinal DiNardo told Catholic News Service. Most people feel “justice was done” when the Vatican dismissed Theodore E. McCarrick, the former cardinal and archbishop of Washington, from the clerical state, he said. But he and many U.S. Catholics are still awaiting a promised Vatican report on how the former cardinal could abuse minors and sexually harass seminarians for so long and still rise through the hierarchical ranks of the church. The calls at the summit to hold bishops accountable, he said, affirmed the U.S. bishops in their efforts to establish standards of conduct for bishops and procedures for reviewing >> See “LAYPEOPLE” on page 4
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VATICAN SUMMIT
Summit leverages pressure for change >> Continued from page 3 larger Catholic community as well as the general public, both of whom increasingly look on the church as guilty until proven innocent and doubt that the church is able to police itself. The fourth audience was those members of the Roman Curia who have been cautious about some proposals and changes — for example, those proposed by the U.S. bishops last year. It appears that the actual proceedings over the course of four days had a powerful impact on the vast majority of the attendees. From prayerful meditations on the words of victim survivors to presentations by victims themselves, the bishops came face to face with the impact of clergy sexual abuse. While some of the attendees had previous experience meeting with those who had been abused, for others coming from regions where the crisis has not been directly acknowledged, it was revelatory. The cry of the victims was made flesh before their eyes, the tears and the trauma unavoidable and undeniable. The assembled leaders heard from their own. Cardinal Luis Antonio Tagle of Manila, Philippines, launched the summit with a spiritual reflection on the necessity of touching the wounds of their people as Thomas touched the side of Christ. Colombian Cardinal Ruben Salazar Gomez of Bogota dismissed those who say the problem is worse elsewhere. “The fact that abuses occur in other institutions and groups can never justify the occurrence of abuses in the church,” he said. He exhorted his fellow bishops, “We have to recognize that the enemy is within.” Pope Francis, who sat through all the sessions and heard all the presentations, told the bishops at the start of the meeting that he wanted “concrete and effective measures.” In the final news conference of the meeting, Jesuit Father Federico Lombardi identified three “concrete initiatives”: • Legislation from the pope that would “strengthen prevention and the fight against abuse on the part of the Roman Curia and the Vatican City State” • A guide from the Congregation for
complaints against bishops. The bishops had planned to vote on the proposals in November, but the Vatican asked them to delay considering the measures until after the summit. Cardinal Blase J. Cupich of Chicago presented a step-by-step plan for bishops’ accountability at the summit Feb. 22 using what has been described as a “metropolitan model” that would rely on the metropolitan archbishop of each church region coordinating the initial investigation into complaints made against a bishop in that region. The guidelines also would name an alternate — perhaps the neighboring metropolitan or the senior diocesan bishop — in cases where the accused is the metropolitan archbishop. Both Cardinal Cupich in his presentation and Cardinal DiNardo in his comments Feb. 24 insisted that model would need to include the involvement of laypeople. Cardinal DiNardo said it obviously will be up to the entire U.S. bishops’
Benedictine symposium to explore technology, humanity, faith By Olivia Martin olivia.martin@theleaven.org
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Pope Francis and church leaders from around the world attend a penitential liturgy during a meeting on the protection of minors in the church at the Vatican Feb. 23. The summit brought together the pope and 190 church leaders — presidents of bishops’ conferences, the heads of the Eastern Catholic churches, superiors of men’s and women’s religious orders and Roman Curia officials. the Doctrine of the Faith that would make clear the “duties and tasks” of all bishops when confronting allegations of abuse • The creation of task forces of “competent persons” who could “help episcopal conferences and dioceses that find it difficult to confront the problems and produce initiatives for the protection of minors” While none of these are new proposals, the impact of the summit, the explicit commitment of the pope and the clear expectations of the larger world for a change in the status quo will put enormous pressure on the Vatican to deliver on these commitments while they, in turn, press all dioceses to do the same. There are those in the Vatican bureaucracy, the fourth audience, who seem not to understand how devastating the scandals have been to the Catholic communities in North America, Australia, Ireland and Chile. The truth is that the proposed “concrete initiatives” have long been in the works, and it can appear that all in the Curia do not fully appreciate the scale and the scope of the emergency. As Cardinal Oswald Gracias told
impatient journalists at the final news conference, “It is not like the Holy Father snaps his fingers and everything is done all over the world.” For this reason, the summit was an opportunity also to bring pressure to bear on those in the bureaucracy who may, for a variety of reasons, be dragging their heels. The pope’s final speech at the summit’s end disappointed some. He emphasized that the abuse of minors was a “universal problem, tragically present almost everywhere and affecting everyone,” a rationale often heard from some churchmen angry or defensive about the criticism the church has endured. But the pope made clear that the church is not just any institution: “The brutality of this worldwide phenomenon becomes all the more grave and scandalous in the church, for it is utterly incompatible with her moral authority and ethical credibility.” With this summit, Pope Francis has tossed down the gauntlet. The stakes are clear. In the words of Australian Archbishop Mark Coleridge of Brisbane, “All of this will take time, but we do not have forever and we dare not fail.”
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conference to determine what proposal they will approve, but it could end up being “a kind of fusion” of a “metropolitan model” and the establishment of a special commission of mostly laypeople to receive and initially review complaints against bishops. While some commentators thought the U.S. bishops’ proposals turned too much responsibility over to laypeople, Cardinal DiNardo said, “in our proposals the work of the laity is to collaborate — that’s pretty important” — and almost all the speakers at the summit insisted on the need to involve laypeople in the process. The ideal, Cardinal DiNardo said, is to ensure the lay board has a certain “independence without losing being part of the church.” In a statement issued later, the cardinal said the U.S. bishops would intensify their guidelines for handling abuse allegations. He also noted that at the summit “a range of presenters, from cardinals to other bishops to religious Sisters to laywomen, spoke about a code of con-
duct for bishops, the need to establish specific protocols for handling accusations against bishops, user-friendly reporting mechanisms and the essential role transparency must play in the healing process.” “Achieving these goals will require the active involvement and collaboration of the laity,” he said. “A comprehensive range of skills is required to assess allegations and to ensure that local policies and procedures are regularly reviewed so that our healing response continues to be effective.” On a more global level, Cardinal DiNardo told CNS, the summit seemed to be effective in getting all the world’s bishops on the same page in placing victims and survivors at the center of the church’s concern, rather than the church’s reputation and its personnel. The focus on victims was not simply a slogan, he said. In the general sessions and small groups there was discussion of “ways in which we can show that: ways of repentance, ways of moving forward, ways of compassion, ways of accompaniment.”
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Lenten practices work only if they lead to real change If you could get your parishioners to do just one thing this Lent, what would it be?
>> Continued from page 1 spirit adjustment during Lent would be a good thing.” Another area, Father Haberkorn said, with which he struggles and knows others do, too, is practicing patience. “I think if there would be a fourth virtue, it would be patience, because everyone needs a bit more patience with one another and ourselves. “So, that would be something to work on during Lent.” No matter how one chooses to prepare for Easter, Father Haberkorn said it’s important to remember the point of Lent. “The goal of Lent is that when we get to Easter, we can say that we’ve risen to be a new person in Christ. If we can rise to a life that is less selfish and more selfless, then I think we’ve had a good Lent and Easter.” Reflecting on his 25 years as a priest, Father Haberkorn said celebrating the season has changed for him. He remembers how the Lent before his 25th anniversary as a priest was particularly meaningful for him. “That Lent was a time for recommitment, recharging, reviewing, but also kind of like a battery charge for future ministry and what lies ahead. “Starting out in priesthood, I was concerned about getting it right in terms of the rubrics and getting it right in terms of practice. “Now, it’s on a deeper level. It’s about how you’re going to be, and that’s why I think there’s a difference now in terms of doing versus being. “It’s about attitude in spirit, too, not just about practice.” Father Haberkorn also said that Lenten sacrifices, while beneficial, need to lead Catholics to a deeper faith. “All those things (giving up chocolate or dessert, praying the Stations of the Cross, etc.) are good things, but unless it changes your being, I think it’s only temporary and fleeting. It’s just a seasonal thing. “If it changes your being, then it’s more permanent.” ••••
“IF I’D RECOMMEND ONE THING TO THE PEOPLE, IT WOULD BE TO TRY DAILY MASS. A LOT OF PEOPLE JUST NEVER THINK ABOUT IT, HAVE NEVER TRIED IT. LEAVEN PHOTO BY JAY SOLDNER
The color purple will be noticeable in churches throughout the archdiocese as we enter the Lenten season. to do throughout the year, but Lent provides more opportunities. “I find some satisfaction in participating with the people in these special events we do during Lent.” Being the pastor of four parishes is a challenge — especially logistically. So, it is no surprise that his personal Lenten goals are at least partially practical. “Personally, I guess I need to [find a way] to incorporate some discipline into my life about getting things done in a timelier manner.” During seminary, he said, the environment was highly structured and afforded him many opportunities to reflect on his spiritual growth during the Lenten season. “Hopefully, it carries forward in my pastoral ministry here.” ••••
FATHER NICK BLAHA
Pastor of St. Catherine Parish, Emporia and chaplain/director of the Didde Catholic Campus Center
FATHER MICHAEL PETERSON
Pastor of St. Bernard, Wamego; St. Joseph, Flush; Holy Family, Alma; and Sacred Heart, Paxico Father Michael Peterson says that when he thinks of Lent, he thinks first about the needs of his parishes — all four of them! Father Peterson is pastor of St. Bernard in Wamego, St. Joseph in Flush, Holy Family in Alma and Sacred Heart in Paxico. “I try to turn to what is productive for people — my congregation — and [what will] help them best. That’s probably where I focus my attention.” During Lent, Father Peterson leads the Stations of the Cross for his parishioners, something in which he finds solace. Also, on most Fridays, parishioners are likely to find him at one of the fish fry dinners that provide him more opportunities to simply connect with them. Spending time at each parish, Father Peterson said, is something he strives
Making a permanent change in one’s life, said Father Nick Blaha, pastor of St. Catherine Parish in Emporia and chaplain/director of the Didde Catholic Campus Center at Emporia State University, is the ultimate goal of Lent. Every year, the eight-year veteran of the priesthood reviews the physical, spiritual, intellectual and technological aspects of his life. “I spend some time reading and doing some research to nail down what areas I’m going to focus on. I just take stock of where I’m at in those four areas.” After prayer and discernment, he commits to specific resolutions in each area. Father Blaha said those Lents for which he has seen much growth have been the ones in which he consistently practiced and constantly kept in mind his Lenten goals. Still, he said, it’s easy to overlook the point of making a Lenten sacrifice or committing to some pious act during Lent. The point of anything done in Lent, he emphasized, is to change and grow closer in friendship with Jesus. Father Blaha said his best Lents have
been ones in which “I went all in” and “was excessive in some ways.” “The Lord fills the space we give him,” he said. “The more I give him, the move he gives back.”
FOR ME, PERSONALLY, THAT WAS A HUGE FIND IN MY SPIRITUAL GROWTH.” Father Nathan Haverland
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FATHER NATHAN HAVERLAND
Pastor of St. Gregory Parish, Marysville, and St. Malachy, Beattie Like Father Blaha, Father Nathan Haverland, pastor of St. Gregory Parish in Marysville and St. Malachy in Beattie, said he has found the best Lents to be ones of sacrifice. “I think the best Lents have been those where the Lenten resolutions were the hardest. “A lot of us can do easy resolutions — chocolate or social media — but the harder the sacrifice tends to be, the more fruitful the Lent.” One year, he gave up music for Lent. He was driving a lot that year, so it was a real sacrifice. Perhaps though, an even more memorable Lent was the year he tried something even more extreme. “One year, I gave up my bed for Lent. It was during the seminary. It was quite a sacrifice. Usually, I try to pick things that people don’t see or notice because I don’t do it to get noticed. “So, I had heard of that one, and you just give up a little bit of comfort. I guess I was inspired by the CFRs (Franciscan Friars of the Renewal) because they sleep on the floor. . . . So, I gave that a try for Lent.” It was a fulfilling Lenten mortification — and he was very happy to get back his bed at Easter. “I think you realize, in doing things like that, how fruitful sacrifice is. We usually think of sacrifice as suffering, but there can be a lot of fruit that comes from sacrifice. “Just giving up a little bit of comfort reminds you of those that have no comfort at all. “So, I think a lot of fruit comes from sacrifice, and you see it in those moments.”
DAY IS A NEW DAY, ONE THAT’S WORTH MAKING IN THE EYES OF GOD.” Father Tim Haberkorn
“APPRECIATE YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS. APPRECIATE YOUR PARENTS AND SIBLINGS WHILE YOU HAVE THEM. THAT MAY BE FOR ALL YEAR LONG, BUT TRY AND REINFORCE IT DURING LENT.” Father Michael Peterson
“KEEP DEATH DAILY BEFORE YOUR EYES — NOT OUT OF A SENSE OF FUTILITY, BUT TO FOCUS MORE INTENTLY ON CHRIST, WHO IS OUR LIFE.” Father Nick Blaha
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FAMILY LIFE
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Is improving your marriage worthy of Lenten attention?
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pring is upon us and the world of nature is awakening to a new cycle of life. Soon our gardens will have flowers, trees leaves, and birds will hatch their chicks. At the same time, the church is inviting us to prepare ourselves for the celebration of the greatest mystery: the resurrection of Jesus. It is Lent — a time of penance, sacrifice and prayer so that we can become better persons. Lent is our spiritual spring. Lent is a time to put new energy into our spiritual life, strengthen our faith and correct our imperfections and faults. I am reminded of the fact that just a few months ago we did something similar. Many of us made New Year’s resolutions with the intent of becoming better persons. What happened to our resolutions? According to data reported
JOHN BOSIO John Bosio is a former marriage and family therapist, director of religious education and diocesan family life coordinator. He is a member of the National Association of Catholic Family Life Ministers.
by Statista, an online data collection portal, among the most popular resolutions made each year are saving money, losing weight and eating healthier. Dr. John Gottman, a well-known psychologist, is suggesting that a very helpful resolution for couples would be to work on their marriage relationship. I agree with him.
Perhaps Lent is the time to review our New Year’s resolutions or to make some new ones to improve our spiritual life. Among these may be your efforts to improve your relationship with your spouse. But you may wonder: Is this spiritual enough? Is married life spiritual? Christian marriage is a sacrament, a human reality with a spiritual dimension. In your daily interactions, you and your spouse are a walking icon of God’s love. Pope Francis said recently: “Many Christian spouses are a silent homily for everyone.” The better you love each other, the better you reflect God’s love to the members of your family and your community. That is a spiritual endeavor worthy of a Lenten exercise. A few years ago, Teri and I piloted in parishes across the country one of our programs: SIX DATES for Catholic Couples. We did so during
the season of Lent and asked couples to go on a date each week. When the program was over, we asked parishes to share some of the participants’ comments. Couples in Ohio said: “We did not think that doing something for our marriage could be a Lenten exercise, especially going on a date with our spouse. But we are glad we did. It helped our marriage.” Lent is a great time to do something positive for your marriage. This is a time to breathe new life into your relationship because your love is a sacrament of God’s love. What a great way to prepare for the Resurrection. Here are suggestions of things you can do: • Attend Sunday Mass together each week. • Pray together before meals, at bedtime or whenever possible. • Schedule a date
each week of Lent. This does not need to be expensive. Do something fun together at home, just the two of you, or go grocery shopping together or stop by a coffee shop to treat yourselves. • Make an effort to pay attention and be aware of your spouse’s needs. • Greet each other when coming home or going out of the house. • Kiss your spouse often. • Always tell the truth, and learn to listen without interrupting. • Eat at least one meal a day together and during this time avoid the interruptions of TV or electronic gadgets. • When you offend your spouse, make it a habit to say, “I am sorry.” • Show your spouse your appreciation for what he/she does for you and the family. Say “Thank you.” And when you ask for a
Questions for reflection: Ask your spouse, “What is the simplest action I can take to make our marriage better during this Lenten season?” favor, say, “Please.” Pope Francis said that married life is an icon of God’s love. Married life is like a painting that depicts aspects of God’s love. In this painting, the small details are important because love is expressed in the little things. Some of the actions listed above may seem small, but they can make a significant difference in your life when they become habits. Most of all, through them your love can grow and become a doorway to God’s graces for you and for your family.
Join Us for the 23rd Annual Joint Diocesan Healing Mass and Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick. 10 a.m. on Saturday, March 23, 2019 at Curé of Ars Church, 94th and Mission Rd., Leawood, Kansas Celebrant will be Bishop Johnston Homilist will be Archbishop Naumann The anointing of the sick in both dioceses will be administered to Catholics whose health is seriously impaired by illness or old age. All are invited to participate. The ceremony will follow the Lourdes pilgrimage format. Among those who may be anointed, the ritual mentions, in particular: • Those undergoing a surgery whenever serious illness is the reason • Elderly people when they have become noticeably weakened even if no serious illness is present • Sick children if they have sufficient use of reason to be strengthened by the sacrament.
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Everyone in the family knew that Lent was serious business when Denise Godinez was growing up. All you had to do was look in the kitchen cupboards: All the plates were gone. “On Ash Wednesday, we would start eating our meals on what we called ‘picnic plates,’” said Godinez, director of religious education at Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish in Overland Park. “My mother got rid of all our dishes,” she continued. “She cleaned out the cupboards. And that’s what we ate on for 40 days, and they were a smaller size. “As Holy Week began, we started to see the china come out. So on Easter Sunday, we ate on the china.” Catholics have many traditions — both small “t” and large “T” — associated with Lent, Holy Week and Easter. Some of these we know very well and are part of the church’s liturgical patrimony: penance services, Stations of the Cross, the Triduum. Others are more family-based, like placing a family Rice Bowl on the dining room table to collect change for Catholic Relief Services or making Easter eggs in the kitchen. Traditionally, Catholics have relied on the three pillars of Lent to guide their preparation for Easter. The three pillars are prayer, fasting and almsgiving. Lent is a wonderful time for families to get together to truly become “the domestic church” through “digging deeper and being a little creative” with the three pillars of Lent, said Liz Willman, director of adult faith formation and RCIA at Ascension Parish in Overland Park. When she and her husband Jim were raising their two children, Willman would make a big, black foam cross. Then, she would cut strips from four different colors of construction
One of the three pillars of Lent, prayer can take many forms — from public events at a parish to a more private setting such as meal time. paper. On the paper, each member of the family would write something they could do during Lent, and then they put the strips in a bowl on their dining room table. “Every Sunday night we would pick out a slip of paper for the week,” said Willman. “We’d open it, read it and tape it to the foam cross. By the end of Lent the cross was filled with different colors, like a stained-glass window.” The point she makes with her RCIA class — as well as her family — is that external actions done for Lent should be accompanied by a conversion of the heart. “If it doesn’t lead to conversion, what’s the point?” she asks. Here’s another tip: Although the church says abstinence from meat is
only required from age 14 on, Willman said it’s better to establish that discipline early. “Start when they’re 5,” said Willman. Larissa Smith and her husband Dennis became Catholic in 2015, and their son Brayden is 3 years old, so their family Lenten traditions are new. “We have a Lenten countdown calendar that gives us things to do every day,” said Smith, coordinator of adult faith formation at Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe. They also plan to set up a “cozy, quiet Lenten corner” with pillows and age-appropriate books that she and Dennis can read to Brayden. With a little planning and creativity, and by accessing both online resources and participating in activities at their
parish, families can have a wonderful Lent together, said Smith, Willman and Godinez.
Prayer • Some parishes offer special “family” eucharistic adoration services and “family” Stations of the Cross. If yours does, get them on your family calendar. If yours does not, designate your own. And don’t take only your children — encourage the kids to invite a friend and go out for a simple meal afterward. • Attend a parish reconciliation service as a family. • Model to your children the act of praying for someone you are angry with or don’t like.
Lent: a sea By Deacon Andrew Dutko Catholic News Service
Reaching out to our brothers and sisters who are marginalized — this is the purpose of Lent. This Lent, let’s leave our comfort zone, walk out into that desert and embrace the alone and the marginalized and restore them to the community. CNS PHOTO/HANNAH MCKAY, REUTERS
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ave you ever felt alone? Desperately alone? Yes, we can always take solace in the thought that God is forever with us, but I am talking of the aloneness that shatters these thoughts. The times when reason abandons us and we are left numb and adrift. The times when Christ in us and in others is nebulous, at best, when those we normally lean on feel a million miles away, and we find ourselves marginalized, alone in the desert, our own private Lent. I’ve encountered many who have expressed these feelings, but never more so than when I visit the sick as a hospital chaplain: alone with their
ent one to remember • Have a family Bible time. Pick verses that relate especially to the events of Holy Week. Share them at mealtimes. • Visit a cemetery as a family to pray for those buried there, especially family members. Discuss how Jesus died and rose from the dead to save us from our sins and give us eternal life. • Go to the church as a family to say a prayer and light a votive candle. Stay for a brief visit with Jesus in the tabernacle. • Make a paper daily prayer chain. The weekdays can be purple rings and the Sundays can be white rings. The Triduum can be red and Easter gold. Tear off the rings each day as the family gathers for a short prayer. Traditionally, fasting means eating less food, while abstaining means not eating certain kinds of food, like meat. But we can abstain or “give up” many kinds of things for Lent.
The key concept of “giving” is to meet the needs of someone else. This doesn’t always mean money, so families can choose creative things and ways to give. • Have the children offer their own Lenten prayers before and after meals, or at bedtime. • Make a family trip to a Catholic bookstore. If there isn’t one near you, ask to borrow books from the parish. Have a family reading time at home.
• Pray a family rosary or Divine Mercy chaplet weekly or daily. If this is too difficult for the younger children, consider praying single mysteries and decades after family meals. Rosaries can be prayed on walks or in the car.
Fasting Traditionally, fasting means eating less food, while abstaining means not eating certain kinds of food, like meat. But we can abstain or “give up” many kinds of things for Lent. • Compile a list or calendar of things family members can abstain from during Lent: complaining, calling names, arguing, negativity, sarcasm, laziness, being picky, judging others, anger, lying, cursing, snacking, TV, texting, social media, screen time, video games, the internet, favorite apps, favorite treats and snacks. • Give up materialism. Have a spring cleaning on a designated Saturday. Sort through old clothes, toys and other items and give them to the parish rummage house, Catholic Charities, Goodwill, the Salvation Army or Disabled American Veterans thrift stores. Sit at the dining room table and discuss the importance of not letting materialism take over our lives and crowd out our relationship with God and others.
Almsgiving Traditionally, almsgiving meant giving money to the poor. But the key concept is the “giving” to meet the
needs of someone else. This doesn’t always mean money, so families can choose creative things and ways to give. • Have a family poor box. Often, Rice Bowls from Catholic Relief Services are made available at the parish, into which the family can toss its change throughout Lent, then return the box for CRS. But families can also make their own Lenten family “poor box” and collect money to be given to a designated charity or ministry at the end of Lent. • Make a family visit to a nursing home. Decorate some Easter baskets and fill them with goodies or personal care items. Give them to the residents. Be sure to call ahead and ask what things are needed or prohibited, or if there are special requests or considerations. • Go on a family shopping day to collect items for a food pantry. Contact the pantry to see if there is a need for particular items. • Make Easter cards for elderly shutins in your neighborhood. Ask if they need help for tasks that are difficult for them. • Perform acts of charity and record them on a list. • Contact grandparents or other members of your extended family, especially if you’ve fallen out of contact. Set up a regular “inspirational” texting exchange, or get devotional books you can both read and discuss over the phone. ••••••••• However you decide to mark this special season of the church year, do it as a family. Incorporating prayer, fasting and almsgiving into your family life this Lent is one of the best ways to fuel your children’s faith, while preparing them to undertake the church’s important work in the world. And don’t be surprised if along the way, you make some memories that will last a lifetime, Picnic plates, anyone?
ason of the church not to be attempted alone fear-filled thoughts behind a closed door, a curtain or, most uncomfortably, alone on a gurney in the hallway as hundreds of people, busy with so many tasks, walk past them. Two people stand out in my memories. The first, let’s call him George. I met George handcuffed to one of those gurneys in the hallway, with his very nice but bored and silent police escort sitting 10 feet away. George was a recovering addict who had served time for drug possession. Then George’s daughter committed suicide. George, feeling alone, returned to drugs to forget his pain. He was arrested and was sent back to jail. Now George was lying in the hallway of the emergency room because he, himself, tried to commit suicide. I talked with him for over an hour, and while he did smile once or twice,
his was the “alone” that shatters the thoughts of reason. The second, let’s call her Mia. I saw Mia behind a partially drawn curtain in the ER. Her back was to me as she was putting things into her bag. I thought she was being discharged and, because it had been a difficult day so far, I decided to get a couple quick smiles and some small talk. I said something stupid like, “Getting out early?” She turned and I saw that her makeup had run down her cheeks from hours of tears. My next stupid utterance was a barely audible, “Oh no.” She saw my Roman collar and ran the 20 steps between us, crashing into my chest. I held her tight as she sobbed and I could feel her tears soaking my shirt. Mia’s mom collapsed at the breakfast table that morning after Mia’s
father and brother had left for work. Her mom died at the hospital from a brain aneurysm. And Mia actually was now in the ER because she fainted at the “aloneness” she experienced at her mom’s sudden death and the fact that she couldn’t get in contact with her father or brother. But as we embraced, I felt the aloneness of her and myself fade away. Both these people had no support in their time of dire need, no community to strengthen them. Pope Francis tells us, “Jesus [was] unafraid to risk sharing in the suffering of others. . . . [Jesus] wanted to heal the leper. He wanted to touch him and restore him to the community.” Lent is what prepares us for this monumental gift from Jesus. It is a time for all of us to leave our comfort zone, walk out into that desert and
embrace the alone and the marginalized and restore them to the community — even if that person is you. This time in the desert is where we re-evaluate what is important, where we remember why it’s important, where we rededicate ourselves to it because it is important. Relationship, discipleship, restoring community, seeing Christ in ourselves and others, reaching out to our brothers and sisters who are marginalized — this is the purpose of Lent. The journey is not private but shared and strengthened by all. Let’s prepare ourselves for the gift of feeling alone no longer. Andrew Dutko is a transitional deacon ministering at St. Patrick Church in Chatham, New Jersey.
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A man holds a weapon next to burning barricades during anti-government protests in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, Feb. 17.
Following unrest in Haiti, CRS weighs how best to ramp up services By Dennis Sadowski Catholic News Service
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ASHINGTON (CNS) — Catholic Relief Services operations began returning to normal following more than a week of unrest by Haitians frustrated by government corruption and high inflation. “Today we started on time,” Christopher Bessey, CRS country representative in Haiti, told Catholic News Service Feb. 19 from his office in the Haitian capital, Port-au-Prince. “It was a really good sign. I thought that all indicators were that this was going to be the case for some time to come.” All but four of the agency’s nonHaitian staff left the Caribbean nation following onset of violent protests Feb. 7, Bessey said. He was unsure when they would be able to return. “Our focus will be in looking how to bring back staff who left the
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country as soon as feasible and as soon as we’re somewhat certain that they will be able to come back without having to leave again,” Bessey said. CRS also employs about 250 Haitians in three offices throughout the country. They were assessing the situation in various locales to determine how soon they could resume full operations. “We’re making sure it’s safe to get out to the field,” he said. Demanding the ouster of Haitian President Jovenal Moise, protesters shut down the capital and other cities for more than a week by blocking roads with burning tires, cinder blocks and makeshift fencing. Police clashed with protesters, leading to at least nine deaths. The protests were the latest in a series against the Moise administration and the wider government. Warnings against traveling to Haiti by the governments of the United
States and Canada remained in place Feb. 19 despite a tense calm across the country. Demonstrations erupted in July over a 40 percent hike in fuel prices. A 2017 report by the Haitian Senate alleged that dozens of government officials and corporate officials embezzled $2 billion from Petrocaribe, a reduced-price oil aid program offered by Venezuela to several Caribbean nations. Funds under the program were designated for health, education and social programs as well as infrastructure development. Haitians’ anger also has been fueled by a social media campaign accusing several presidential administrations of misappropriating billions of dollars in aid since the country’s devastating January 2010 earthquake. In the meantime, Haiti’s currency, the gourde, has been weakened, making the cost of goods more expensive. Other than food, Haiti must import nearly all basic commodities.
Anti-Semitism on the rise in France
ARIS (CNS) — The French bishops’ conference has condemned rising anti-Semitism in the country, as official data showed a massive increase of attacks, prompting new government measures. The conference president, Archbishop Georges Pontier of Marseille, wrote France’s chief rabbi, Haim Korsia, Feb. 20. “Attacks from seemingly religious motives on our fellow citizens are unacceptable; we stand beside you in struggling against every manifestation of hatred,” Archbishop Pontier said in his letter. “Our society cannot find peace unless it supports a constructive dialogue among all its members. May we
never resign ourselves to the growth of intolerance and rejection,” he said. In Paris Feb. 19, some 20,000 people rallied against anti-Semitism, prompting President Emmanuel Macron to announce new measures against extremism. Msgr. Olivier Dumas, conference secretary-general, called on all political parties and faith groups to “show solidarity with Jews” and condemn attacks on religious targets. “This climate of violence and hatred must end,” he told Vatican Radio. “We must wage a struggle against antiSemitism with fierce determination, knowing where hatred of Jews led in our history, and do everything to ensure powerful impulses for such unimaginable violence never arise again.”
He said fighting anti-Semitism was a responsibility “not just for institutions and religious leaders, but for all French citizens,” who should mobilize through education and “a permanent re-reading of history.” Interior Ministry figures released in mid-February showed a 74 percent increase in anti-Semitic attacks in 2018, with 541 documented. Most involved physical violence and abuse, the daubing of shops and desecration of monuments and cemeteries. Macron, who attended a ceremony at the capital’s Shoah Memorial Feb. 19 after visiting another vandalized Jewish cemetery near Strasbourg, told Jewish organizations Feb. 20 antiSemitism had reached its worst levels since World War II.
ELBOURNE, Australia (CNS) — An Australian court found Cardinal George Pell guilty on five charges related to the sexual abuse of two 13-year-old boys; sentencing is expected in early March, but the cardinal’s lawyer already has announced plans to appeal the conviction. While the appeal is in process, Pope Francis has confirmed the “precautionary measures” prohibiting Cardinal Pell from publicly exercising his ministry as a priest and from having contact with minors, Alessandro Gisotti, interim director of the Vatican press office, told reporters Feb. 26. The jury’s verdict that Cardinal Pell, Cardinal shortly after being George Pell named archbishop of Melbourne in 1996, sexually assaulted the two boys was handed down in December, but the court demanded the verdict and details about it not be reported until after a second trial on allegations that he abused several boys in the 1970s. The judge lifted the reporting ban Feb. 25 after prosecutors announced they would not proceed with the second trial against the 77-year-old cardinal. While professing his innocence, Cardinal Pell took a leave of absence from his post as prefect of the Vatican Secretariat for the Economy in June 2017 to return to Australia to face the charges. His first trial on the charges related to the alleged abuse in Melbourne ended without a verdict in September. Archbishop Mark Coleridge of Brisbane, president of the Australian bishops’ conference, said in a statement Feb. 26 that “the news of Cardinal George Pell’s conviction on historical child sexual abuse charges has shocked many across Australia and around the world, including the Catholic bishops of Australia.” “The bishops agree that everyone should be equal under the law, and we respect the Australian legal system,” the archbishop said. “The same legal system that delivered the verdict will consider the appeal that the cardinal’s legal team has lodged.” “Our hope, at all times, is that through this process, justice will be served,” he said. “In the meantime, we pray for all those who have been abused and their loved ones, and we commit ourselves anew to doing everything possible to ensure that the church is a safe place for all, especially the young and the vulnerable.” Before the appeal, Cardinal Pell is expected to be sentenced to serve jail time for the five counts: one count of “sexual penetration,” in this case oral sex, and four counts of indecent acts with or in the presence of a minor under 16 years of age. Each count carries a maximum penalty of 10 years in prison. The judge may order him jailed pending the appeal.
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EMPLOYMENT Drivers - Ready for the summers off? Join our school transportation division and live like a kid again! Our drivers have the opportunity to serve our community and still get those precious summer breaks. Assisted Transportation seeks caring and reliable drivers to transport K - 12 students in Johnson and Wyandotte counties in our minivans. CDL not required. $12 per hour. Retirees encouraged to apply. Learn more or apply online at: assistedtransportation.com or call (913) 262-5190 for more information. EOE. Do you enjoy driving? - The Kansas City Transportation Group is looking for chauffeurs to drive our guests to events, the airport, dinner, etc. Business is growing and we are in need of workers with flexible hours, those who are retired, etc. Great pay and benefits. Send resume to: jkalbert@kctg. com or in person at Kansas City Transportation Group, Kansas City, MO 64106. Certified medical assistant - A new pediatric dermatology practice at Shawnee Mission Pkwy. and State Line Road is looking for a full-time certified medical assistant. Experience is a plus, but new grads may apply. A cheerful and friendly personality is the most important quality. Must have a love for children. Strong computer skills are a plus. Competitive salary and benefit package commensurate with experience. Direct resumes to Marissa Freise, MHSA, Pediatric Dermatology of Kansas City, at: Freise247@gmail.com. Catholic elementary school vice principal - Holy Trinity School in Lenexa is seeking an individual with demonstrated skill in spiritual and instructional leadership, as well as advancement in Catholic schools for the 2019-20 school year. Applicants for vice principal must be practicing Catholics, understand the mission of Catholic schools and have or be eligible for Kansas licensure in educational leadership. Complete the vice principal application process online at: www.archkckcs.org. Questions should be directed to principal Scott Merfen at: smerfen@htslenexa.org. Executive director - Wyandotte Pregnancy Clinic is currently seeking a full-time executive director to provide Christ-centered leadership for our clinic that has been open 12-plus years. The director will be under the supervision of the governing board and responsible for the day-to-day operations of the clinic, including: community networking; marketing; employee leadership and fiscal oversight. If you feel called to lead this ministry that is changing lives and saving lives, email your resume to: Dkelsey@wpcnetwork.org. Chiropractic assistant - Busy chiropractic office in N.W. Olathe is in need of a dynamic full-time or part-time assistant. $12 per hour. Job duties include checking in patients; scheduling appointments; answering phones; insurance billing; assisting with patient therapies; and other duties as needed. If you are reliable, professional, friendly, hard-working and would like to help others, our office may be the place for you! Must have great computer skills and be a people person. Will train on patient therapies. Email resume to: drkoshlap@yahoo.com. Director of preschool - Sacred Heart Parish in Warrensburg, Missouri, is seeking a director of the preschool. The director should be committed to Catholic education with strong leadership, communication and motivational skills. The position will begin on July 1. For more information and to apply, go online to: careers.hireology.com/thecatholic dioceseofkansascitystjoseph and scroll down to the tab that says: “Director for Sacred Heart Preschool.” Director of development - The Catholic Education Foundation (CEF) is seeking a director of development for its major giving program. The director will be responsible for promoting the program in the community, cultivating donors and securing donations from businesses and individuals. CEF provides scholarships to children from low-income families to attend high-quality Catholic schools in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. Applicants must have a bachelor’s degree and a minimum of three - five successful years in fundraising or corporate sales. The ideal candidate should be able to communicate at the executive level; have polished marketing and presentation skills; and communicate compassionately with a variety of constituencies, including business leaders and families seeking scholarship assistance. The director will supervise an administrative staff position and must be able to speak passionately about the value of Catholic education. Interested individuals should send an email with cover letter and resume to: tcl@archkck.org. Mathematics teacher - Bishop Miege High School has a teacher opening for mathematics for the 2019-20 school year. Send a letter of interest and resume to: mjaksa@ bishopmiege.com.
Principal - St. Elizabeth Parish seeks a principal committed to Catholic education, with strong leadership, communication and motivational skills. The position will begin on July 1. For more information and an application, go online to: careers.hireology.com/thecatholicdioceseofkansascityst joseph, scroll down and click on the tab that says: “Principal - St. Elizabeth School.” Director of special events - The Catholic Education Foundation (CEF) is seeking a dynamic director of special events. The director will oversee the smooth operation of fundraising events, including the prestigious annual Gaudeamus dinner, which raises over $1 million annually. The director will be responsible for growing the events by securing sponsorships from businesses and individuals; recruiting and managing volunteer committees; and promoting events in the community. Candidates must have a minimum of three years of direct fundraising or sales experience; proven ability to recruit and lead volunteers; be highly organized; and have exceptional communication skills. CEF raises funds to provide scholarships for children in need to attend high-quality Catholic schools in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas. Candidates must be able to speak passionately about the value of Catholic education. Individuals interested in this full-time position should send a cover letter and resume to: CEFAdmin@archkck.org. Accountant - Corpus Christi Parish in Lawrence is seeking an accountant. This full-time position will be responsible for the finances of the parish and school. It includes all receivables/payables; payroll; and financial reporting for the organization. Salary will be commensurate with expertise and experience. For a complete position description and to apply, go online to: cccparish.org/joblisting. Director of youth and young adult ministry - Corpus Christi Parish in Lawrence is seeking a part-time director of youth and young adult ministry. The youth minister provides vision and coordination for the parish’s efforts in ministry to young people. Salary will be commensurate with expertise and experience. For a complete position description and to apply, go online to: cccparish.org/joblisting.
HOME IMPROVEMENT Sheetrock repaired - We can repair your ceilings and walls and can retexture with popcorn or knockdown ceilings. We can repaint old yellowed ceilings. Interior painting for 25 years with no mess!! Call Jerry at (913) 206-1144. Local handyman - Painting int. and ext., wood rot, power washing, staining, masonry (chimney repair, patio’s) gutter cleaning, water heaters, junk removal, lawn mowing, window cleaning, honey - do list and more!! Member of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor. Call Billy at (913)927-4118. Swalms organizing - downsizing - cleanout service - Reduce clutter – Any space organized. Shelving built on-site. Items hauled for recycling and donations. 20 years exp.; insured. Call Tillar at (913) 375-9115. WWW. SWALMSORGANIZING.COM. Rusty Dandy Painting, Inc. – We have been coloring your world for 40 years. Your home will be treated as if it were our own. Old cabinets will be made to look like new. Dingy walls and ceilings will be made beautiful. Woodwork will glow. Lead-certified and insured. Call (913) 341-9125. DRC Construction We’ll get the job done right the first time. Windows - Doors - Decks - Siding Repair or replace, we will work with you to solve your problems. Choose us for any window, door, siding or deck project and be glad you did. Everything is guaranteed 100% (913) 461-4052 www.windowservicesoverlandpark.com drcconswindows@gmail.com STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 579-1835. Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa. EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation *Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!! www.elsolylatierra.com Call Lupe at (816) 935-0176
Concrete construction - Tear out and replace stamped, stained or colored patios and drives. Retaining walls, footings, poured-in-place safe rooms, excavation and hauling. Asphalt drives and lots. Fully insured; references. Call Dan at (913) 207-4371 or send an email to: dandeeconst@aol.com. The Drywall Doctor, Inc. – A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean! Lead-certified and insured! Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655. NELSON CREATION’S L.L.C. Home makeovers, kitchen, bath. All interior and exterior remodeling and repairs. Family owned, experienced, licensed and insured. Member St. Joseph, Shawnee. Kirk Nelson. (913) 927-5240; nelsport@everestkc.net Interior painting - Renew your ceiling and walls with a fresh coat of paint. Replace drywall or plaster repaired with no mess!! 25 years experience. Call anytime. Jerry (913) 206-1144.
SERVICES Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@ kc.rr.com; or visit the website at: www.teresakiddlawyer. com. Please do not wait until life seems hopeless before getting good quality legal advice that may solve your financial stress. Tree Trimming Tree Trimming/Landscaping Insured/References Free Estimates/Local Parishioner Tony (913) 620-6063 Custom countertops - Laminates installed within five days. Cambria, granite and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee. Speedy Guzman Moving and delivery Licensed and insured Anytime (816) 935-0176 MEDICARE - Just starting the process? Or would you like to review your current coverage? Local, licensed, independent and experienced Medicare adviser. Holy Cross parishioner. Will shop your current rate or answer your Medicare questions. Contact Rhonda at (913) 579-3349. Rodman Lawn Care Lawn mowing, aeration, verticutting, mulching, Hedge trimming, leaf removal, gutter cleaning Fully insured and free estimates John Rodman (913) 548-3002 Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover. Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mike@mikehammermoving.com. 8 to Your IdealWeight Get Real, Get Healthy, Get Empowered. Release your weight and restore your power in 8 weeks! Certified coach: kathioppold.8toyouridealweight.com. Decked Out in KC - www.WEFIXDECKS.com. We repair, power wash and seal concrete drives, walkways, pool decks and more. Call Brian at (913) 952-5965. HARCO Exteriors LLC Your Kansas City fencing specialists Family owned and operated (913) 815-4817 www.harcoexteriorsllc.com Win disability benefits - Disabled and no longer able to work? Get help winning Social Security disability benefits. Free consultation. Eight years’ experience. No fee unless you win. Call (785) 331-6452 or send an email to: montemace2000@yahoo.com or visit montemacedisability. com.
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CAREGIVING Senior CNA - Has extensive nursing training. Will do private care, Johnson County area. Available Wednesday, Friday and Saturday. Call (913) 701-6381. Fee negotiable. Looking for assisted living at home? - Before you move, call us and explore our in-home care options. We specialize in helping families live safely at home while saving thousands of dollars per year. Call today for more information or to request a FREE home care planning guide. Benefits of Home - Senior Care, www.benefitsofhome.com or call (913) 422-1591. Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation for seniors in their home, assisted living or nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Pat or Gary.
FOR SALE Residential lifts - New and recycled. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. St. Michael’s parishioners. KC Lift & Elevator at (913) 327-5557. (Formerly Silver Cross - KC) Lenten sale - Religious art, rosaries, books, jewelry and more. 1545 N. 85th Place, Kansas City, Kansas 66112. For more information, call (913) 299-3808. For sale - Two side-by-side crypts; tier B, 13 and 15, located in the St. Joseph Chapel at Mount Calvary Cemetery, the only two left in the chapel. Call (913) 269-6176 for pricing. For sale - Two internal crypts at Prince of Peace Mausoleum, Nativity Cove, Resurrection Cemetery. For more information, call (913) 631-4348. For sale - One plot at Mt. Calvary Cemetery, located in the middle of the cemetery underneath a tree. If interested, call Levita at (913) 730-8435. For sale - Two spaces at Resurrection Cemetery in Mausoleum, St. John Corridor. Reasonable rate. Call (913) 894-2448.
REAL ESTATE CASH FOR YOUR HOME (913) 980-4905 Any condition in the metro area Mark Edmondson - local parishioner http://www.buykcproperty.com We buy houses and whole estates - We are local and family-owned, and will make you a fair cash offer. We buy houses in any condition. No fees or commissions and can close on the date of your choice. Selling your house as is never felt so good. Jon & Stacy Bichelmeyer (913) 599-5000. Whole Estates Need to sell a home and everything in it? We buy it all at once in as-is condition. Call (816) 444-1950 or send an email to: www.wholeestates.com. WE SELL HOMES - Looking to sell? This is a seller’s market. Call for a free consultation detailing the steps to selling your home. Ask about our 39-day sales guarantee. Mention this ad for a special offer. Call Jim Blaufuss, Re/Max Realty Suburban, at (913) 226-7442. Jimblaufuss@remax.net
WANTED TO BUY Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee. Wanted to buy - Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, sterling, etc. Single pieces or estate. Renee Maderak, (913) 475-7393. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee.
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CALENDAR WOMEN’S RETREAT Camp Tekakwitha 1124 California Rd., Williamsburg April 26 - 28
This retreat is offered for women ages 21 and older. There will be group and breakout sessions, inspirational speakers, fellowship with other women and celebration of the sacraments. For more information and to register, go online to: camptekakwitha-womensretreat. com. Registration now open.
‘UNFAILING MERCY’ RETREAT: HEALING AFTER ABORTION March 2
If you or a loved one is hurting from an abortion, join our Project Rachel ministry for a one-day “Unfailing Mercy” retreat to share God’s mercy and healing after abortion. All communication, services and logistics are confidential. Call or text Ann Marie Alvey at (913) 621-2199 or send an email to: pro jectrachelkc@archkck.org for retreat time and location. For more information about this ministry, visit the website at: project rachelkc.com.
ST. JOSEPH TABLE AND PASTA DINNER St. Joseph Parish (McDevitt Hall) 11311 Johnson Dr., Shawnee March 3 at 8:30 a.m.
The table will be blessed at 8:30 a.m. and viewing will continue until 2 p.m. A variety of items will be featured for sale. A pasta dinner will be served from 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. The cost is a freewill donation. Proceeds benefit those in need in the parish and the Shawnee community. For more information, call Christine Marion at (913) 268-6677.
MARDI GRAS St. Benedict School Commons 201 Division St., Atchison March 3 from 11 a.m. - 1:30 p.m.
The cost for a meal of jambalaya, maque choux and more is: $8 for adults; $4 for kids 4 - 10; and kids 3 and under eat for free. There will also be raffle prizes, a silent auction and 25cent children’s games. For more information or to volunteer, call Chanda Koechner at (913) 367-3503 or send an email to: chandabing@ gmail.com.
MARDI GRAS CARNIVAL Divine Mercy Parish (Formation Center) 555 W. Main St., Gardner March 3 from 11:30 a.m. - 2 p.m.
There will be hamburger ($3) and hot dog ($2) meals available. A $10 wristband for kids includes a “Tour of Saints” passport book, carnival games, bounce house and a meal. All funds raised support the Divine Mercy high school students attending the Steubenville Catholic Youth Conference in July.
SPAGHETTI LUNCHEON St. Mary Church, Purcell 446 Hwy. 137, Lancaster March 3 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Serving spaghetti, salad, garlic bread, dessert, tea and coffee. A freewill offering will be accepted.
RUNNIN’ REVS BASKETBALL GAME Bishop Miege High School (gym) 5041 Reinhardt Dr., Roeland Park March 4 at 7 p.m.
Priests and seminarians (the Revs) will challenge eighth-grade and high school youth from Catholic schools in a fun and competitive game. Donations and a silent auction will benefit seminarians. For more information, visit the website at: kckvocation.com.
‘WOMEN IN SCRIPTURE: MODELS OF SUFFERING’ Sophia Spirituality Center 751 S. 8th, Atchison March 7 from 10 a.m. - 3:30 p.m.
Begin Lent by looking at women in Scripture
who experienced suffering and responded in ways that are surprising and powerful. The fee for the program is $60 and includes lunch ($20 nonrefundable deposit). To register, call (913) 360-6173 or visit the website at: www. sophiaspiritualitycenter.org.
JESUIT FRIENDS AND ALUMNI NETWORK SPRING BREAKFAST March 7
Are you Jesuit-educated or Ignatian-formed? Want to reconnect with like-minded alumni and friends of Ignatian/Jesuit spirituality? Join us for a breakfast conversation featuring the newly installed president of Rockhurst High School, David Laughlin. For more information, go online to: jfan-kc.eventbrite.com or send an email to Susan Friedrichsen at: jesuitfankc@ gmail.com.
TAIZE PRAYER Annunciation Chapel 4200 S. 4th St., Leavenworth March 7 at 7 p.m.
Taize prayer is a meditative, candlelit service that includes chants sung repeatedly, silence, and prayers of praise and intercession. These prayer services emerged from an ecumenical community of monks in Taize, France. For more information, visit the website at: www. marillaccenter.org or call (913) 680-2342.
‘INTELLIGENT LIVES’ MOVIE SCREENING Glenwood Arts Theater 3707 W. 95th St., Overland Park March 7 from 7 - 8:30 p.m.
The EMBRACE and FIRE Foundation invites everyone to join them for a free screening of “Intelligent Lives.” The movie is a catalyst to transform the label of intellectual disability from a life sentence of isolation into a life of possibility. To learn more about EMBRACE (Enriching Many by Reaching All in Catholic Education), go online to: www.embraceks.org.
BEGINNING EXPERIENCE GRIEF SUPPORT WEEKEND Precious Blood Renewal Center 2120 St. Gaspar Way, Liberty, Missouri March 8 - 10
Beginning Experience is a weekend of healing open to men and women of all ages who have suffered the loss of a spouse through death, divorce or separation. It is a time to heal and a time to begin anew. Reservations are required. For more information and to register, visit the website at: www.beginningexperiencekc.org; send an email to: register.bekc@gmail.com; or call Michelle at (913) 709-3779.
‘VIRTUE AND VICE’ Christ’s Peace House of Prayer 22131 Meagher Rd., Easton March 8 - 10
The retreat will consist of four or five talks with time for prayer and reflection. There will be daily eucharistic adoration, morning and evening prayer, Mass at the local parish and private time. The cost is $170 for individuals and $250 for couples. Meals are included in the cost. If you would like to attend, contact Christ’s Peace House of Prayer by email at: info@christspeace.com or call (913) 773-8255.
TACO DINNER AND SALAMI BINGO Mejak Hall 513 Ohio, Kansas City, Kansas March 9 at 5:30 p.m.
The Altar Society of Holy Family Parish is hosting an annual taco dinner and salami bingo. A $15 donation includes one bingo card, one taco dinner and all the cold beverages you can drink until the games end. There will be three blackout games. For tickets, call Sandy Cannon at (913) 396-1564 or Cathy Schneider at (913) 371-1561. No one under the age of 21 admitted.
AN AFTERNOON OF PRAYERFUL REMEMBRANCE AND INTERCESSION St. Thomas More Parish 11822 Holmes Rd., Kansas City, Missouri March 9 from 1:30 - 3 p.m.
The hidden wounds of abortion affect each of us, whether it is our neighbor, co-worker, friend, relative or ourself. Gather to pray and intercede on behalf of our nation, seeking forgiveness and healing in God’s merciful love. Confession will be offered after the prayer service. Mass begins at 4 p.m. All are welcome. This event is sponsored by the respect life office of the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph.
WOMEN’S DAY OF LENTEN PRAYER The Cathedral of St. Peter 409 N. 15th St., Kansas City, Kansas March 9 from 8:15 a.m. - noon
Sister Mary Pat Johnson, SCL, will present a reflection, “Entering Prayerfully into the Season of Lent.” The day will begin with Mass in the church. Registration and a continental breakfast will follow in the parish hall. The cost is $15. For more information on registration, call Susan Carroll at (913) 6349840 or send an email to: suscar1960@ gmail.com.
PANCAKE BREAKFAST Divine Mercy Parish (Christian Formation Center) 555 W. Main St., Gardner March 10 from 8 - 10 a.m.
The cost for a breakfast of pancakes, sausage, eggs and all the fixings is: $6 for adults; $3 for kids 6 - 12; and kids 6 and under eat for free. Come join the fun and enjoy a hot and hardy breakfast.
BINGO St. Mary-St. Anthony Parish (Bishop Forst Hall) 615 N. 7th St., Kansas City, Kansas March 10 at 2 p.m.
This will be an afternoon of fun, food and bingo. Win salami, apple strudels and poviticas. The cost is $5 for a card, desserts, popcorn and coffee. Additional cards and drinks may be purchased. For more information, call Carol Shomin at (913) 897-4833.
LENTEN SOUP SUPPER Sacred Heart Parish (hall) 106 Exchange St., Emporia March 13 from 6 - 7 p.m.
The Rosary Altar Society is sponsoring this Lenten soup supper. A variety of homemade soups, relishes and desserts will be served. The suggested donation is a freewill offering.
ST. PATRICK’S DAY DANCE Nativity Parish (hall) 3800 W. 119th St., Leawood March 16 from 7 - 11 p.m.
The dance is sponsored by the Singles of Nativity. The cost of admission is $20 per person and includes food and drinks.
IRISH FEST AND FUN RUN Hosted by Mater Dei Parish 8th and Jackson in downtown Topeka March 16 at 8 a.m.
Events begin with Mass at 8 a.m. followed immediately by the 5K Fun Run, Walk and Leprechaun Leap (children aged 10 and under). Festivities before, during and after the St. Patrick’s Parade include breakfast, Irish sing-along, a beer garden, whiskey tasting, homemade Irish and American food, an expanded carnival on 8th St., adult games, live Irish music and much more. Admission to the Irish Fest is free. For more information and updates, visit the website at: www.TopekaIrishFest.com.
ST. PADDY’S IRISH FEST Corpus Christi Parish 6001 Bob Billings Pkwy., Lawrence March 16 at 5 p.m.
Celebrate Irish tradition after the 4 p.m. Mass. There will be Irish cuisine, music and drink. Tickets are $25 per person. There is a $10 “wisdom discount” for persons 70 and older. Tickets may be purchased online at: cccparish.org/irish. Proceeds support the parish.
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LIFE RUNNERS PRO-LIFE SPEAKER Divine Mercy Parish (Formation Center) 333 W. Main St., Gardner March 20 at 6:30 p.m.
Dr. Pat Castle, LIFE Runners founder, will be speaking about his part in the movie “Unplanned” and other critical pro-life topics. No reservation is needed. All are welcome. To learn more about LIFE Runners, go online to: liferunners.org.
SHROUD OF TURIN REPLICA Divine Mercy Parish (Formation Center) 333 W. Main St., Gardner March 21 at 7 p.m.
Visit a 15-foot replica of the Shroud of Turin, which is believed to be the burial cloth of Christ and is a most treasured relic. Pope John Paul II called the shroud “a mirror of the Gospel.”
LENTEN RETREAT Holy Family Parish 274 Orchard St., Kansas City, Kansas March 22 at 8 a.m.
The day will begin with Mass. The retreat will continue at Holy Family Hall, 513 Ohio Ave., Kansas City, Kansas. There will be a light breakfast. The speaker will be Sister Maureen Hall. The topic is: “Living the Lenten Journey: Tipping the Scales in the Favor of Love.” The suggested donation is a freewill offering.
POLKA DANCE Knights of Columbus Hall 11221 Johnson Dr., Shawnee March 23 at 7:30 p.m.
The cost to attend is $10 per person. The Brian McCarty Band will play polka and timeless dance music. BYOB. Beer and soda will be available for sale. Proceeds will go toward the priest and seminarian fund. Contact Dan Nicks at (913) 406-8717 for a table reservation of six or more.
BREATHE RESPITE CARE PROGRAM Holy Cross School 8101 W. 95th St., Overland Park March 30 from 4 - 8 p.m.
BREATHE respite care provides the gift of time away from caregiving for families who have a loved one with a disability age 5 years or older. If you have any questions regarding the program, contact Tom Racunas at (913) 647-3054 or send an email to: tracunas@ archkck.org. To register a loved one, go to the website at: www.archkck.org/specialneeds and complete the online form.
FAMILY SPECIAL-NEEDS SUMMER CAMP Prairie Star Ranch 1124 California Rd., Williamsburg June 28 - 30
This is a summer camp for families who have a loved one with special needs. For more information, go online to: www.archkck.org/ specialneeds or contact Tom Racunas at: tracunas@archkck.org or call (913) 647-3054.
ST. THOMAS AQUINAS GRADE SCHOOL SUMMER CAMPS St. Thomas Aquinas High School 11411 Pflumm Rd., Overland Park June and July
A variety of camps will be provided to give students the chance to discover their potential in both sports and other activities. Registration and further information is available online at: www.stasaints.net/summercamps. For more information, call (913) 319-2416 or send an email to: btriggs@stasaints.net.
CATHOLIC HEART WORKCAMP Kansas City area July 8 - 11
Do you need your house painted, inside or out? Or need your yard cleaned up? Do you need any minor home repairs? Contact the Kansas City managers online at: chwc.kc@gmail.com or call (402) 306-9043. Leave a message and someone will return your call.
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COMMENTARY
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EIGHTH WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME March 3 EIGHTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Sir 27: 4-7 Ps 92: 2-3, 13-16 1 Cor 15: 54-58 Lk 6: 39-45 March 4 Casimir Sir 17: 20-24 Ps 32: 1-2, 5-7 Mk 10: 17-27 March 5 Tuesday Sir 35: 1-12 Ps 50: 5-8, 14, 23 Mk 10: 28-31 March 6 ASH WEDNESDAY Jl 2: 12-18 Ps 51: 3-6b, 12-14, 17 2 Cor 5:20 – 6:2 Mt 6: 1-6, 16-18 March 7 Perpetua and Felicity, martyrs Dt 30: 15-20 Ps 1: 1-4, 6 Lk 9: 22-25 March 8 John of God, religious Is 58: 1-9a Ps 51: 3-6b, 18-19 Mt 9: 14-15 March 9 Frances of Rome, religious Is 58: 9b-14 Ps 86: 1-6 Lk 5: 27-32
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his Lent, I’m giving up Lent. Whoa, that didn’t come out right! What I mean to say is, I’m giving up how I’ve normally done Lent. Since Lent is a great time for the sacrament of reconciliation, what follows is my confession (of sorts). My first failing is illustrated in the story of a priest accosted by a mugger while walking alone down a dark street. The thief demanded his wallet. As the priest nervously opened his coat to reach for it, the mugger saw the Roman collar and realized he was about to rob a priest. He immediately apologized and said, “Forget it, Father. Keep your money. I had no idea you were a priest.” Relieved, the priest took out a cigarette and offered one to the robber. “No, thank you, Father,” said the thief. “I gave up smoking for Lent.” (Adapted from Paul J. Wharton’s “Stories and Parables for Preachers and Teachers.”) OK, my first sin is
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FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.
failing to see what Lent is really all about: to become a holier person. The mugger above was faithful to not smoking, but didn’t see the bigger issue of stealing as something to eliminate from his life. Yeah, I get where he’s coming from. I’ve often focused on my Lenten penances as a sort of spiritual Olympics. I didn’t connect what I was giving up with what would help me to grow in virtue.
Staying away from salty snacks, for example, for the 40-plus days of Lent (no Lenten Sundays “off” for me, unlike weak slackers) glossed over the “why” I was fasting: to feel the hunger of some 815 million people worldwide. Sure, I abstained from snacks — but only my stomach felt discomfort, not my heart or my mind. In other words, my hunger for food didn’t induce a corresponding hunger for justice for the poor. Now, here’s a story detailing my second failing. It concerns a principal who asked her staff to write out resolutions on how to be better teachers.
The teachers agreed, the resolutions were posted on the staff bulletin board and all gathered around to read them. One of the young teachers suddenly went ballistic. “She didn’t put up my resolution. It was one of the first ones handed in!” the teacher said. “She doesn’t care about me. That just shows what it’s really like around here.” And on and on he ranted. The principal heard this and was mortified. Rummaging through the pile of papers on her desk, she found the errant resolution buried there. She immediately went up to the bulletin board and posted it. The resolution read: “I resolve not to let little things upset me anymore.” (Also adapted from Wharton’s book.) Yes, this story is me, too. I often don’t follow through on my Lenten resolutions because I want to do way too much. For example, I’ll be reading something (like this issue of The Leaven) and see a great idea. So, I add that to my already
bloated list. Even with 26 hours in a day, I could never do everything there. When failure strikes, I throw in the towel and say, “If I can’t do it all perfectly, then I ain’t doin’ nothin’!” And another unsuccessful Lent goes into the books. So, that’s why I’m giving up my usual way of doing Lent. Instead, I’m concentrating on doing a lot less: less complaining, less TV, less snacking, less computer game time, less procrastinating, less shopping and less fruitless yakking. This issue is chockfull of wonderful Lenten ideas. I’d recommend, though, that you keep your Lent as simple as possible. Don’t tackle more than you can manage. And you might even test drive a resolution in these days before Ash Wednesday, just to see if it’s really what you or your family need. I suspect that my Lent of doing less this year is going to give me a lot more than I imagine.
What we say reveals who we are, claims Sirach
arly to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.” “A stitch in time saves nine.” These sayings seek to convey a very practical wisdom. Following them can make life easier. At the same time, they are not extremely profound. They are practical. That is the kind of wisdom found in a few of the books of the Bible. The Book of Proverbs stands out as a good example. It offers very practical wisdom packed into short sayings. On the other hand, very profound wisdom is found in some other books of the Bible, wisdom which explores deep philosophical questions.
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For example, the Book of Ecclesiastes delves into the question: “What is the meaning of life?” Similarly, the Book of Job looks into the question:
“Why do the innocent suffer?” Sunday’s first reading, Sir 27:4-7, provides us with some practical wisdom. It sets examples of everyday life next to instances of human behavior, to shed light on them. These follow the form of a couplet, the typical pattern of Hebrew poetry. Thus: “When a sieve is shaken, the husks appear; so do one’s faults
when one speaks.” And: “The fruit of a tree shows the care it has had; so too does one’s speech disclose the bent of one’s mind.” The Book of Sirach is telling us that human speech conveys more than the message intended by the speaker. It also reveals the state of the speaker’s character. That is the most important thing that we can learn from the person’s words. That is why the reading concludes: “Praise no one before he speaks, for it is then that people are tested.” Sirach anticipates the saying in Sunday’s Gospel reading: “From the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks” (Lk 6:45). Sirach also anticipates James’ discourse on the power of the human tongue: “With it we bless
the Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing” (Jas 3:9-10). James takes a step further than Sirach. If human speech reveals the character of the speaker, then we do well to listen to ourselves in order to assess our own moral character. While Sirach looks upon speech as a gauge for judging others, James focuses upon selfcriticism. This fits in well with the Gospel’s teaching: “How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me remove that splinter in your eye,’ when you do not even notice the wooden beam in your own eye?” (Lk 6:41). It calls us to look at ourselves first.
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Even if Christians struggle to recognize him with his “torn clothes [and] dirty feet,” Jesus is present in the migrants and refugees who seek safety and a dignified life in a new land, Pope Francis said. If Jesus’ words, “Whatever you did for one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me,” are true, the pope said, then “we must begin to thank those who give us the opportunity for this encounter — namely, the ‘others’ who knock on our doors, giving us the possibility to overcome
our fears in order to encounter, welcome and assist Jesus in person.” Pope Francis spoke about overcoming fear and welcoming others during a Mass he celebrated Feb. 15 at a church-run retreat and conference center in Sacrofano, about 15 miles north of Rome. The Mass was part of a conference titled, “Welcoming Communities: Free of Fear,” which was sponsored by the Italian bishops’ office for migration, Caritas Italy and Jesuit Refugee Service’s Centro Astalli. The 500 participants included representatives of parishes, religious orders and Catholic-run agencies assisting migrants and refugees, as well as individual families who host newcomers.
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Deacons are uniquely poised to be a bridge for hurting people
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eacon James Keating of the Archdiocese of Omaha, Nebraska, has written beautifully concerning the “creative tension” in the deacon’s identity. After all, the deacon seems to share in some respects in the life of priests, and yet he also shares in the life of the laity, with whom he lives and works in the world. For that reason, Deacon Keating says that a deacon is a man with a foot in both worlds, “a cleric living a lay life.” I have long pondered that “foot in both worlds” analogy. It certainly can be misunderstood. Sometimes when we speak of someone with
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LEON SUPRENANT Leon Suprenant is the co-director of the Office of the Permanent Diaconate. He may be reached at leons@archkck.org.
a foot in both worlds, we imply that they’re wishy-washy or unsure
about which “world” they belong in. Maybe when we hear the expression, we think of some hybrid character that is part cleric and part layperson that nobody can relate to. Or perhaps the deacon is a superhero — a mild-mannered accountant by day who ducks into the phone
booth (or more often, the sacristy!) and transforms into “super deacon” on Sunday! Sometimes, instead of saying that someone has a “foot in both worlds,” the expression will be having a “foot in both camps.” This expression presupposes that the “two worlds” are competing entities — church vs. world, or maybe even hierarchy vs. laity. In this polarized reality, the deacon is then some sort of schizophrenic double agent who plays both sides of the fence, and not an instrument of peace. Of course, none of these images is true. In reality, the deacon has both feet in the institutional church as an
ordained minister and, at the same time, has both feet in the secular world. And yet, through a deep prayer life, sound formation, personal “balance” and, above all, the grace of the sacrament, the two realities are integrated. That’s the “creative tension” of which Deacon Keating speaks. With apologies to St. Augustine, the deacon can truly say to his community: “For you, I am a deacon; with you (and at the same time), I am a Christian.” Far from being an instrument of division, the deacon is uniquely poised, and indeed called, to be a bridge for hurting people to receive the mercy and healing of
the church. The deacon is truly the hands (and feet!) of the bishop but, at the same time, a relatable brother in the Lord for the lay faithful. We see this dynamic at work in the dismissal at Mass. The deacon is the spokesperson for the church, commissioning the faithful to go forth in peace, to infuse the world with Christian charity. But his role doesn’t end there. The deacon himself is called to be a servant leader among the faithful, at the forefront of bringing faith to life in Christian service. As St. Paul, quoting Isaiah, says: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news” (Rom 10:15).
The wisdom of answering Jesus’ call to come and see
ome, and you will see.” Just as Jesus extends this invitation to his first followers in the opening chapter of the Gospel of John, so, too, does he continue to extend this invitation to us every step of the way. Recently, I had the opportunity to take seven young men from our archdiocese on a three-day visit to Kenrick-Glennon Seminary in St. Louis. The purpose of the trip was to give them a taste of what seminary life is like. Although their visit lasted only three days, such an immersion will prove to be invaluable for each
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FATHER DAN MORRIS Father Dan Morris is the archdiocesan vocations director. You can email him at: frscott@archkck.org.
man’s discernment. Although these “come and see” moments don’t require a lot
of commitment, taken as a whole, they hold the power to gradually unlock God’s plan for our lives. As one of the young men commented afterwards, “This was a good next step beyond a discernment retreat. Because, for two days, we actually got to live the life of a seminarian.”
This included sitting in on classes and having their minds stimulated and stretched by topics such as medieval philosophy, sacramental law and Christology. Rising before dawn each day to pray a Holy Hour and celebrate Mass as a community highlighted the importance and benefits of giving God the first fruits of their day. Lastly, there were many moments of authentic brotherhood, in which they were shown how to engage in leisure in both fun and life-giving ways. This fraternity was strengthened through activities like playing basketball, taking an evening excursion to Ted Drewe’s Frozen Custard,
competing in a Smash Bros. tournament and a smattering of little conversations held throughout the day. At the end of our stay, we had the opportunity to hear from the vice rector of the college, Father Jason Schumer, as well as dean of seminarians Father Paul Hoesing. After allowing our men to share some of the fruits of their visit, the formators shared with us some of the overall goals, purposes and finer details that constitute seminary formation. At the end of which, Father Hoesing left us with this: “I’m not interested in whether any of the guys who enter seminary become priests. All I’m interested in is that
they find and listen to the voice of God.” As vocation director, that wisdom sums up my prayer for each of these men as well. Like John the Baptist, my job is but to point and introduce people to Jesus Christ. Ultimately, it is Jesus Christ himself who will ask each man what he’s looking for, followed by an invitation to come and see. These seven young men had the courage to enter into this conversation and answer Jesus’ calling. Because of this, they now find themselves one step closer to discovering their vocation, whatever that may be. And for that, I’m forever grateful.
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WEEKLY SPECIALS The following will have Lenten dinners on all the Fridays of Lent, except Good Friday. St. Patrick Parish, 94th and State Ave., Kansas City, Kansas, will host fish dinners beginning at 4:30 p.m. Cost is: $10-$11 for adults; $6 for children; and $30 for families. For more information, call (913) 515-0621. St Joseph Parish, Shawnee, will host fish and shrimp dinners from 5 to 7:15 p.m. at Johnson Dr. and King St., Shawnee. Two free slices of pizza for children 8 and under when accompanied by a paying adult. For more information, call (913) 927-5558. Divine Mercy Parish, Gardner, will host fish, shrimp and cheese pizza dinners (except March 15) from 5 to 7:30 p.m. at the Divine Mercy Parish Christian Formation Center, 555 W. Main, Gardner. Cost is: $10 for adults; $5 for children under 10; children 5 and under eat free. ($50 maximum) Good Shepherd Parish, 12800 W. 75th St., Shawnee, will host fish dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. Cost is: $9 for adults; $8 for seniors; $5 for ages 4-11; $30 max per household. Cheese pizza and carryouts are available. The Men’s Club at Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish, Wea, 227th and Metcalf, will sponsor fish and shrimp dinners from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. Cost is: $10 for adults; $15 for adult shrimp; and $5 for children. St. Gregory Parish, Marysville, will host fish dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. at the church hall. Carryout and in-town delivery are available. Holy Spirit Parish, 11300 W. 103rd St., Overland Park, will host seafood dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. in St. Elizabeth’s Hall. Cost is: $16 for shrimp and fish; $10 for fish; $5 for children ages 4 to 10; $1 for children under 4. Church of the Ascension, 9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park, will host fish dinners from 5 to 7:30 p.m. in the parish hall. Carryouts are available. Prince of Peace, 16000 W. 143rd St., Olathe, will host Lenten dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. Cost is: $9 for adults; $8 for seniors; and $6 for children. For shrimp, cost is: $14 for adults; $13 for seniors; and $8 for children. Cheese pizza is $5. Sacred Heart Parish, 312 N.E. Freeman Ave., Topeka, will host fish and shrimp dinners from 4 to 7 p.m. in the parish hall. Cost is: $8.50 for adults; $4 for ages 12 and under. Carryouts are available by calling (785) 234-6727.
Mater Dei Parish, Topeka, will host fish and shrimp dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. in the basement of Assumption Church, 8th and Jackson, Topeka. Cost is: $8 for adults; $4 for ages 6-12; and free for ages 5 and under. The St. Agnes Knights of Columbus will host Lenten dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. in the St. Agnes School cafeteria, 5130 Mission Rd., Roeland Park. Sacred Heart-St. Casimir Parish, Leavenworth, will host Lenten soup suppers after the 6 p.m. Stations of the Cross. Dinners will be held at Sacred Heart Parish hall, 1405 2nd Ave., Leavenworth, March 8, 22 and April 5; and at St. Casimir, 715 Pennsylvania, Leavenworth, on March 15, 29 and April 12. St. Joseph Parish, Nortonville, will host fish and shrimp dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. Cost is: $12 for ages 11 and older; $5 ages 4-10; and free for ages 3 and under. Church of the Nativity, 3800 W. 119th St., Leawood, will host fish and shrimp dinners from 5 to 7:30 p.m. Cost is: $11 for adults ($5 extra for shrimp); $6 for children ages 5-12; free for ages 4 and under. Family price is $40 for fish and $55 for shrimp. Sacred Heart Parish, 5501 Monticello Rd., Shawnee, will host fish and shrimp dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. Cost is: $12 for adults; $11 for seniors; and $6 for ages 4-12. Cheese pizza is available. St. John the Evangelist Parish, 1234 Kentucky St., Lawrence, will host Lenten dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. Cost is: $8 for fish or fish tacos; $6 for vegetarian lasagna or mac and cheese plate; $10 for shrimp (March 22 and April 5); and $8 for shrimp creole (March 29 and April 12). Holy Name Parish, 1007 Southwest Blvd., Kansas City, Kansas, will have Lenten dinners from 5:30 to 8 p.m. Sacred Heart Parish, 1100 West St., Tonganoxie, will host Lenten dinners from 4 to 6:30 p.m. Fish dinners March 8, 15, 29 and April 5. Cost is: $9 for adults; $8 for seniors; $3 for ages 5-12. Shrimp and fish dinners March 22 and April 12. Cost is: $15 for adults; $14.50 for seniors; and $7 ages 5-12. Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish, 7023 W. 71st St., Overland Park, will serve fish dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. in the church hall. Cost is $10 for adults; $6 for children. St. Pius X, 5500 Woodson Rd., Mission, will host soup suppers beginning at 5:30 p.m. in Kelly Hall. On April 12, there will be a fish dinner instead of soup. St. Bernard Parish, 17765 Old Post Rd., Wamego, will have fish dinners from 5 to 7 p.m.
Most Pure Heart of Mary Parish, 1750 S.W. Stone Ave., Topeka, will host fish dinners from 5:30–7 p.m. in the parish center. Cost is: $10 for ages 11 and older; $5 for ages 4-10; and free for ages 3 and younger. Max is $35 per household.
St. Patrick Parish, 309 S. 6th St., Osage City, will host a shrimp and fish dinner beginning at 6 p.m. on April 5 in the church hall. Cost is: $15 for adults in advance ($18 at the door); $5 for ages 6 - 12; free for ages 5 and under.
St. Michael the Archangel, 14201 Nall Ave., Leawood, will host fish dinners from 4:45 to 6:45 p.m. in Porter Hall. Carryouts are available.
St. John the Baptist Men’s Club will host jumbo shrimp dinners beginning at 5:30 p.m. on March 15 and April 12 at the St. John’s Catholic Club gym, 414 Barnett, Kansas City, Kansas. Cost is $16.
ONE-DAY DEALS St. Leo Parish, Horton, will host a Lenten fish dinner from 5 to 7 p.m. on March 22 and April 19 at the St. Leo Catholic Center next to the church. The Holy Trinity, Lenexa, Knights of Columbus will host a shrimp dinner from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. on April 5 in the parish center. Tickets can be purchased online at: www.htknights.org. For more information, call (913) 207-3794. Curé of Ars Parish, 9401 Mission Rd., Leawood, will host fish dinners from 5 to 8 p.m. on March 8, 29, April 5 and 12 in the school cafeteria. Cost is: $11 for adults; $6 for ages 7-17; free for ages 6 and under; $30 for families. Carryouts are available. Holy Cross Knights of Columbus are hosting Irish-themed Lenten dinners beginning at 6 p.m. on March 9 and 16 at the church, 8311 W. 93rd, Overland Park. Holy Angels Parish, Garnett, will serve shrimp and fish dinners on March 8, 22 and April 5 at the Garnett Knights Hall from 5 to 7:30 pm. Cost is: $12 for adults; $5 for children ages 5-12; immediate family max is $40. Sacred Heart Parish, 2646 S. 34th St., Kansas City, Kansas, will host a fish dinner on March 15 from 5 to 7p.m. Cost is: $10 for adults; $9 for seniors; and $6 for children 12 and under. For more information, send an email to: bob@precisionprintkc.com
Sacred Heart Boy Scout Troop 158 will host a pasta dinner from 5 to 7 p.m. on March 29 in the Sacred Heart Parish hall, 106 Exchange St., Emporia. Cost is $8. St. John the Baptist Parish, Greeley, will host fish dinners from 5:30 to 8 p.m. on March 15, 29 and April 12 at the parish hall, 406 S. Prairie, Greeley. Cost is $11 for adults; $5 for children. Annunciation Parish, 740 N. 6th St., Baldwin City, will host fish dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. on March 8, 22 and April 5. Cost is a freewill offering. St. Columbkille Parish, Blaine, will host a fish dinner from 5 to 8 p.m. on March 15 at the parish hall, Jct. of Hwy 99 and 16. Sacred Heart Parish, Mound City, will hold a fish dinner from 5 to 7 p.m. on April 12 at the parish hall, 729 Main St., Mound City. St. Benedict School, Atchison, will host a fish dinner from 5 to 7 p.m. on April 12 in the school commons, 201 Division, Atchison. Cost is: $9 for adults; $5 for children ages 7 and under. Carryouts are available.
Holy Cross School, 8101 W. 95th, Overland Park, will host a fish dinner beginning at 6 p.m. on April 12.
Holy Cross Parish, 8311 W. 93rd St., Overland Parish, will host Lenten dinners on March 8, 29 and April 5 beginning at 6 p.m.
Knights of Columbus Council 3185 will host a fish dinner from 5 to 7:30 p.m. on March 8 at the Onaga Community Center, 100 Union Pacific Dr., Onaga.
Immaculate Conception, 208 W. Bertrand, St. Marys, will host fish dinners beginning at 5 p.m. on March 8, 22 and April 12. Cost is $8 for adults; $4 for children.
St. Ann Parish, 7231 Mission Rd., Prairie Village, will host a shrimp dinner from 5 to 7 p.m. on April 5. Cost is: $15 for adults. Children can choose between a $5 small plate or $1 pizza-by-the-slice.
The Atchison Knights of Columbus will host a shrimp boil from 4:30 to 7 p.m. on March 15 at St. Benedict School, 201 Division, Atchison, in the commons. Cost is: $10 for adults in advance ($12 at the door); $5 for children 7 and under. Carryouts are available. St. John the Evangelist, 2910 Strong Ave., Kansas City Kansas, will host shrimp and fish dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. on March 22 and April 12. Cost is: $12 for large meal; $8 for small meal; $8 for fish.
Kelly Knights of Columbus will host a fish dinner from 4:30 to 8 p.m. on March 15 at St. Bede Parish hall, Kelly. St. Philip Neri Parish, 5th and Parker Ave., Osawatomie, will host fish and shrimp dinners on March 8, 22 and April 5 from 5 to 7 p.m. in the church basement. Cost is $12 for shrimp and fish; $9 for fish only; $5 for ages 6-12; free for ages 5 and under. The Cathedral of St. Peter, 409 N. 15th, Kansas City, Kansas, will host Lenten dinners from 5 to 7 p.m. on March 8 and 15 in the parish center. Cost is a freewill offering. Carryouts are available. Holy Angels Parish, Basehor, will host a shrimp and fish dinner from 6:30 to 8 p.m. on April 5 in the Father Quinlan Hall, 15438 Leavenworth Rd., Basehor. Cost is: $18 for adults in advance ($23 at the door); $7 for children 12 and under. Call or text (816) 805-4028 for tickets.
St. Theresa Parish, 209 3rd St., Perry, will host a fish dinner from 5 to 7 p.m. on March 29 in the parish center. Cost is $10 for adults; $5 for children 10 and under. Carryouts are available by calling (785) 597-5558. Corning Knights of Columbus will host a fish dinner from 5 to 7:30 p.m. on March 8 at the Corning Community Center, 5th and Main, Corning. Cost is a freewill donation.
NON-FRIDAY DEALS The Rosary Altar Society of Sacred Heart, Emporia, will host Lenten soup suppers from 6 to 7 p.m. all the Wednesdays of Lent at the Sacred Heart Parish hall, 106 Exchange St., Emporia. Cost is a freewill offering.