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A HAPPY WARRIOR

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Leavenworth Interfaith Community of Hope executive director Myranda Agnew, middle, and case management volunteer Linda Raach visit with Kevin Hawkins.

‘God pull’ led new director to Leavenworth interfaith effort By Maggie MacFarland Phillips Special to The Leaven

EAVENWORTH — The numbers are going up all around the country. And Leavenworth is no exception — it is seeing both an increase in people experiencing chronic homelessness and an increase in unsheltered populations. Myranda Agnew is the new director at Leavenworth’s Interfaith Community of Hope, which serves county residents experiencing poverty and homelessness. But it is not necessarily Leavenworth residents who are contributing to the rising numbers. She said individuals are coming to them from California, Texas and Nebraska. Often, she explained, someone has abandoned them after taking advantage of them, and quite a few are simply dropped off at the gates of Fort Leavenworth. “And they just end up wandering,”

she said. The city is meeting the local effects of this nationwide problem with true communitywide solutions, as public, private and religious groups working together to shelter those who go without. Finding a way to help these individuals return home is one of many difficulties Agnew confronts at Community of Hope. Since the pandemic, those difficulties have also included an increase in female guests and families showing up at their night shelter. There is, she said, “a lot of problemsolving.” But Agnew is a happy warrior, uncowed by the challenges of serving the marginalized during a oncein-a-century pandemic. Having recently taken over from Interfaith founder Sister Vicki Perkins, SCL (“huge shoes to fill,” Agnew effuses), she brings to her new position a bachelor’s degree in management and human resources,

an MBA from Webster University in St. Louis and 14 years’ experience as director of human resources for Leavenworth city schools.

‘Whatever you have for me’ A few years ago, Agnew says she and her husband “felt the God pull” to make some professional changes in their lives. Inspired by her husband’s decision to leave the field of education for a job as worship leader at a local church, she overcame her initial reservations about leaving behind the stability of her own career to pursue God’s will for her life — whatever that might be. “All right, God, whatever you have for me,” she remembered thinking, “not really knowing that there really was something.” Then, last year, after assisting with Community of Hope’s fundraiser in a volunteer capacity, she

was approached by Sister Vicki about taking over the shelter. Agnew has found her HR skills are well-suited to Community of Hope’s operations. She sees parallels between her work in education and her new vocation — she said the schools’ emphasis on restorative justice and faculty training on dealing with students experiencing poverty have been particularly helpful.

Fully community sponsored in every sense When Agnew characterized the way community support has buoyed Community of Hope — both before and during the pandemic — the reasons for her hope become evident. Community of Hope volunteer and Army veteran Rolly Dessert described a spirit of ecumenical >> See “COMMUNITY” on page 10

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An honest examination of conscience yields personal, societal fruits

wo months ago, I offered an examination of conscience based on the first three of the Ten Commandments. This week, I want to fulfill my promise to complete the examination of conscience based on the remaining seven Commandments. The first three Commandments focus on our relationship with God and our striving to love God with all of our mind, heart and soul. The remaining seven concentrate on our relationship with our fellow human beings. These seven guide us in fulfilling what Our Lord calls the second great commandment: loving our neighbor as ourselves. Jesus actually significantly elevated the standard for his disciples, when he challenged them to love one another as Our Lord had loved them. The Fourth Commandment to honor your father and mother” (Ex 20:12) reminds us of the primacy of our familial relationships and responsibilities. Parents have certain duties to their children, providing physical, emotional and spiritual care for them throughout childhood and adolescence. Christian parents are called to be the first teachers of their children in the faith as well as examples of virtue. There are no perfect parents. Sadly, many adults have father or mother wounds. Many of our societal problems today result from the breakdown of the family. An alarming number of children are growing up without the presence in

LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN their home of one of their biological parents (most often the father). At the same time, young children and adolescents owe their parents obedience. We read in the Gospel that Jesus was obedient to Joseph and Mary in Nazareth. Adult children have a special responsibility for elderly parents. We must not only be vigilant regarding their physical needs, but more importantly, in honoring them by always treating them with great respect. An American cultural weakness is a lack of respect for the elderly. Pope Francis speaks frequently about the importance of honoring and respecting parents and grandparents. Often, adult children may not be able to provide personally the level of physical care aging parents may require. However, one cannot delegate to others the love, respect and emotional support children owe their parents. The family is irreplaceable in accompanying aged parents during their final years on earth. The Fifth Commandment — You shall not kill (Ex 20:13) — “forbids

direct and intentional killing as gravely sinful” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2268). “Human life must be respected and protected absolutely from the moment of conception” (CCC, 2270). “Since the first century, the church has affirmed the moral evil of every procured abortion. This teaching has not changed and remains unchangeable” (CCC, 2271). “Whatever its motives and means, direct euthanasia consists in putting an end to the lives of handicapped, sick or dying persons. It is morally unacceptable” (CCC, 2277). In considering the implications of this, the catechism also reminds us of our responsibility to care for our own health. It counsels us to avoid every kind of excess: the abuse of food, alcohol, tobacco or drugs. (CCC, 229091). Sins against the dignity of the human person such as racism, antisemitism, sexism, etc., are also offenses against the Fifth Commandment. We can do grave harm to individuals by injuring them not only physically, but also by verbal assaults against the dignity of our fellow human beings. The Sixth Commandment specifically prohibits adultery,

infidelity to the exclusive and permanent covenant between a husband and wife in marriage. Marriage is the foundation of the family and the family is the foundation to the present and future health of society. Husbands and wives are not just bound to physical fidelity. Other than their relationship to God, spouses must guard against any other friendship or emotional attachments assuming greater importance than the well-being of their marriage. The Sixth Commandment, however, is more broadly understood to include every other type of sexual disorder — e.g., fornication, pornography, masturbation, homosexual activity, contraception, etc. Positively, this commandment requires the Christian to cultivate the virtue of chastity. The catechism defines chastity as “the successful integration of sexuality within the person and thus the inner unity of man in his bodily and spiritual wellbeing” (CCC, 2337). The so-called sexual revolution has been a societal disaster that has resulted in the deaths of millions of unborn children as well as the emotional scarring of millions because of marital infidelity, divorce, sex-trafficking, pornography, cohabitation, etc. The examination of our life in this area challenges us to ponder how we are positively striving to cultivate chastity in our life and, at the same time, attempting to combat the societal forces promoting a false and dangerous

notion of human sexuality. The Seventh Commandment prohibits stealing the property of another. This commandment implies a right to private property. The confiscation of another’s property by an individual or by the state is a violation of this commandment. Authentic repentance for stealing requires a sincere effort of restitution to the victim of theft. The catechism reminds us that this commandment, more completely understood, challenges the Christian to work for a just society. While the right of private property is necessary for a well-ordered society, those who are materially blessed also have an obligation to be good stewards of their possessions. They have a responsibility not only to provide direct assistance to the poor but also to create economic opportunities for others. This commandment also requires employers to pay a just wage and workers to provide an honest day’s work. Similarly, it requires that we strive to be good stewards of creation. The Eighth Commandment prohibits bearing false witness against another. The commandment obviously opposes saying things that are untrue about another person and thus damaging their reputation. It also prohibits rash judgment, gossip or detraction which involves unnecessarily revealing another person’s faults, thus harming their reputation. The Ninth and Tenth Commandments prohibit jealousy and envy, coveting the spouse or the

material possessions of another. These are sins against gratitude. They occur because we are blinded to the blessings of our own lives by our desire for what another person appears to have. The natural disposition of the Christian is gratitude. Our thanksgiving naturally arises from the realization of our own blessings. Daily pondering the blessings of our own lives is the greatest antidote from the poison of envy. Praying over the Ten Commandments is a great tool for a daily examination of conscience and a helpful preparation for the worthy reception of the sacrament of reconciliation. Christianity is not about self-perfection through our own efforts and will power. The Christian is transformed by recognizing our sin and surrendering our weaknesses to our merciful Redeemer. By exposing ourselves constantly to the merciful and unconditional love of Jesus, we become increasingly transformed into the divine image. Doing an in-depth examination of conscience at least monthly and then receiving the sacrament of reconciliation is an important pathway to grow in holiness and happiness. The more we recognize our sin, the more opportunities for God’s grace to liberate us from our enslavements. We only appreciate the depth of Our Lord’s love for us when we can honestly acknowledge our sin. Allowing God’s mercy to penetrate our hearts helps to equip us to bring mercy and compassion to others.

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THE SOCIAL NETWORK

Gina Sallman, director of faith formation at Sacred Heart in Sabetha, St. Augustine in Fidelity and St. James in Wetmore, manages social media when she’s not busy with her other roles at the parishes.

Social media coordinators keep parishes connected to people during pandemic

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — For parish social media coordinators in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, it’s not just about the “likes.” “What we’re really after is engagement,” said Caleb Regan, director of parish advancement at Corpus Christi Parish in Lawrence. “We want parishioners engaged in every single aspect [of parish life]: spirituality, our ministries, coming to Mass on a regular basis and attending the events we have around here,” he said. “We want an engaged, active and thriving parish,” he continued. “And social media is one opportunity to be in front of people.” Many parishes across the archdiocese have boasted a strong social media presence for years. But they’ve stepped up in an even bigger way since March 2020, offering all sorts of content to keep parishioners connected and spiritually nourished — even from behind the screen.

Coming to the people Jordan Schmitz, social media coordinator at Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe, works from home on a part-time basis, running the parish’s social media channels and helping with various graphic design projects. For her, the work is rewarding. “It’s awesome,” said Schmitz, “because so many times in the Bible we hear Jesus comes to the people — he meets the people where they’re at. “These days, that place is social media.” Managing each parish account is a natural fit for the young adult. “I’m a millennial,” she said. “I’m on social media, so it’s really great to see the church being in a place where everyone is these days.”

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Jordan Schmitz, social media coordinator for Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe, works from home part time on all things social media. The past year has kept her on her toes when it comes to creating a strong online community for the parish. Even so, her work became surprisingly complicated last March. “Things that we normally would do in the community were stripped away,” said Schmitz. “All we had left was social media and connecting through that. “It was kind of crazy. All of a sudden, everything had to be online. It was trial by fire for sure.” The biggest problem Schmitz noticed was that Catholics suddenly had the opportunity to watch Mass online at churches around the world. “There’s people that we usually have [a connection with] because they’re in our boundaries,” she said. “That didn’t necessarily mean that we had their attention anymore. That was hard on us.” But it turned into an opportunity to reevaluate the parish. “It made us think: What is Prince of Peace about? Who are we? Why do people want

to be a part of our community even when they can’t physically be here right now?” said Schmitz. For others like Gina Sallman, director of faith formation at Sacred Heart Church in Sabetha, St. Augustine Church in Fidelity and St. James Church in Wetmore, managing social media has always been a balancing act. Although her primary role is to lead CCD faith formation for youth, Sallman also manages the parishes’ joint Facebook and Instagram accounts. She said it’s important they have a social media presence, even though it can be a negative environment. “I still see a great value in using social media for good,” said Sallman. “If people are already using it . . . and if we could use it for good and for inspiration and faith-building, I think that’s a good thing.” Sallman tries to post daily — whether it’s a resource from a President Most Rev. Joseph F. Naumann

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Catholic evangelist or a notice of a parish event. “When COVID was really heightened and we were more isolated,” she said, “even the content that said, ‘We’re here. You’re not alone,’ and providing them with resources [was important]. “Even just a small thing that stirs that fire in their heart for the Lord, a yearning to be back in community, [has been helpful].”

All hands on deck For Corpus Christi, creating online content is a team effort. “Our whole parish staff contributes in one way or another to our social media presence,” said Regan, who also organizes the parish stewardship efforts and fundraising for the parish school. “The approach we’ve taken is: the more communication, the better,” he said.

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Resources like Catholic Current, a project of the USCCB, make keeping up with social media much less stressful, said Regan. And although it’s a lot of work, he said being involved in helping the parish’s evangelization efforts is special. “What made me get into this work was wanting to do something worthwhile and meaningful,” he said. “To be able to have interactions with folks as a part of our parish staff team is super meaningful and rewarding and what this is all about.” Regan, Schmitz and Sallman are all grateful for the support of their fellow parishioners, and they hope the online Catholic community will continue to flourish. “We’re all just learning together,” said Schmitz, “and we’re all still trying to grow in our faith. “I think it’s been awesome to see the whole church grow in this way.” Managing Editor Anita McSorley anita.mcsorley@theleaven.org

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Jesus is not merely spiritually or symbolically present; He is present

n his column in the April 30 issue of The Leaven, Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann explained that he would be lifting the dispensation from Sunday Mass, in place since the onset of the pandemic, on Corpus Christi Sunday, June 6. But in that column, he also emphasized the importance of gathering in person to worship if at all possible. What is so special about worshiping together in physical community? And why is receiving the Eucharist considered so important to Catholics? For these questions and more, The Leaven turns once again to archdiocesan liturgist Michael Podrebarac.

Many Catholics have had to make do with livestream Masses for much of the past year. What have they been missing out on?

They have had to miss out on the essential part of coming together as a community, a congregation of believers, to offer along with the priest the holy sacrifice of the Mass. Without being able to be present, they were unable to take part in the eucharistic sacrifice, which can only be offered in person. This is why we should always keep in prayer and affection those who, pandemic or not, can no longer attend Mass in person due to illness or age.

Then, of course, they have been missing out on reception of the Eucharist. Could you explain — as if to a nonbeliever — the origin of the Eucharist and why it is central to the Mass?

It’s actually pretty simple. Jesus indicated (John 6) that he would give us his body to eat and his blood to drink. Even when some of his listeners protested his words, he did not back down. On Holy Thursday, he established the eucharistic sacrifice of his body and blood at the Last Supper, and offered himself the next day on the cross. The Mass is the commemoration of this sacrifice, and we participate in it through holy Communion.

During the consecration, the priest prays “do this in memory of me.” Is the Eucharist simply remembering Jesus, then?

No, it is much more than simply remembering. What we are “doing” is what he commanded us to do, to offer his body and blood for our salvation, and then to receive him in holy Communion. Whenever we do what he commanded, he is with us and renews his sacrifice for his church. The Greek word used for this, “anamnesis,” means to remember something in such a way as to make it present with us. It is the same kind of “remembering” the Jewish people have done when gathering for the Passover year after year. They believe God is made present in the Passover.

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Q. Then the Eucharist is actual-

ly essential — and unique — to our faith, correct? Don’t some Protestant denominations also celebrate what they call the Lord’s Supper in their services?

While our Protestant brothers and sisters also lovingly commemorate the Lord’s Supper, what they do is similar but not exactly the same as what we do in the Eucharist. We profess that Jesus is present, truly and substantially, in the elements after they are consecrated, and that, under the appearance of bread and wine, Jesus’ body and blood are offered to the Father. Our Protestant brothers and sisters have varying degrees of this belief in their own understanding of what they may even call the Eucharist, but they do not hold the same belief in Our Lord’s presence, nor the presence of his sacrifice, that we do. Ultimately, for those who profess the fullness of the “one, holy, catholic and apostolic” faith of the ancient church, Jesus is not merely spiritually or symbolically present. He is substantially and bodily present. The substance of his body and blood replaces the substance of the bread and wine. If this were not true, then we’d be worshiping mere bread and wine when we genuflect before the Eucharist, and this would be idolatry!

Q. Where does the Eucharist fit

into our obligation to attend Mass?

Are we required to receive the Eucharist? Does Mass only “count” if we do?

The church requires us to attend Mass each Sunday and holy day of obligation because it understands that this is the only way we can receive the sanctifying grace that the Eucharist affords us. Only those who are impeded because of situations beyond their control are dispensed from this obligation. We are required to receive holy Communion at Mass at least once each year, during the Easter season. But attending Mass and receiving Communion only out of obligation misses the point. If any of us knew that Jesus had arrived again on earth in his resurrected body, which of us would not go to wherever he was, to be in his presence? But Jesus really does “arrive” on earth, again and again, in every one of our parish churches, under the appearance of the consecrated bread and wine in the Eucharist. I can’t imagine anyone not wanting to be with Jesus as closely as possible if he were to return to earth. Nor can I understand why anyone would choose anything less than being in his bodily presence at Mass. But sadly, many do, and we must do whatever we can to help them understand what they’re really missing out on.

What is the best way to receive the Eucharist?

With faith, intention and integrity. I have to be sure that I am living in true unity with God and my neighbor. If that unity is slightly compromised, I can confess my sins at the beginning of Mass, and these compromises are healed. But if my unity with God is ruptured because of serious sin, then I need to amend this, calmly and confidently, in the sacrament of reconciliation, before receiving the Eucharist. But we must be clear: Holy Communion is not about being worthy. Even with my best intentions, I’m simply not worthy. The Eucharist is a gift, and so the best I can do is to conscientiously be in union with God, neighbor and the church. Communion has everything to do with unity. I am not able to receive this sign of unity if unity does not exist. This is why I must strive to possess the unity with God, neighbor and the church that receiving the Eucharist requires.

It’s been a long time since I’ve studied any of this. Where can I learn more about the Eucharist?

In the Catechism of the Catholic Church (especially paragraphs 1322-1419) and in the Compendium of the Catechism of the Catholic Church (especially questions 271-294). Both of these are available online at the website of the Holy See (www.vatican.va) in Rome. The Compendium may be the best place to start, since it is presented in a Q&A format.

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Deacon felt ‘peace’ after decision to give seminary a try By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

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Deacon Thomas Maddock preaches at St. Joan of Arc Parish in Arvada, Colorado. Deacon Maddock, along with two others, will be ordained to the priesthood on May 29 at St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Leawood.

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Of the many things that contribute to a man’s vocation to the priesthood, they all depend on one thing: a foundation of faith. A priestly vocation cannot be built upon thin air. For Deacon Thomas Michael Maddock, that foundation was his family — and more specifically, it began with something his late paternal grandmother did. When he was six weeks old, Deacon Maddock was ill with pyloric stenosis, which prevents food from entering the small intestine. He was severely dehydrated and constantly vomiting. He needed surgery or he would die. Then Grandmother Mary Patricia Maddock stepped in. “My baptism was planned for a few weeks later, but I think my grandmother, out of both caution and desire for my salvation . . . baptized me the night before surgery in my parents’ living room,” he said. Score a big one for the domestic church. Deacon Maddock was ordained a transitional deacon by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann on May 16, 2020, at the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kansas. He will be ordained a priest by the archbishop at 10 a.m. on May 29 at St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Leawood. Deacon Maddock is the oldest of the five children of Michael and Bernadette Maddock, members of Holy Spirit Parish in Overland Park. His father owns a vending company and is a driver’s education instructor, and his mother is a pediatric nurse at Children’s Mercy Hospital in Overland Park. Thanks to his parents — and grandma — he had a solid Catholic upbringing. He went to the parish school and his parents led their children in prayer at home. They never missed Mass. His father was an usher and his mother sang in the choir — that is, once she got out of the cry room. “Some of my earliest memories of church are of being in the cry room [where I remained] until I was 12 years old because there was always a baby,” he said. He became an altar server in the fifth grade. “I wanted to be [a server] partially because my friends were servers,” he said. “I don’t naturally like being in front of people, so this pushed me a little out of my comfort zone.” The possibility of becoming a priest didn’t enter his mind until he went to St. James Academy in Lenexa and met Msgr. Ray Burger, the school’s chaplain. “One of the coolest things about St. James is that they have daily Mass,” said Deacon Maddock. “A friend of mine on the baseball team, Doug Leikam, invited

SEMINARY IS THAT TIME OF FORMATION AND GOD CAN MOLD YOU. IT GAVE ME PEACE THAT MAYBE THIS WAS THE NEXT THING THE LORD WANTS ME TO DO. I SAID I’D GO FROM THAT DAY, AND THEN THERE WAS A BIG PEACE. I HAD A CONFIDENCE ABOUT IT.” DEACON THOMAS MADDOCK

me to come to daily Mass with him. “At first I was like, ‘Oh, Mass isn’t that great — it’s kind of boring.’ “But I said, ‘OK, I’ll go.’ I noticed the way he prayed, and his faith seemed alive. He seemed a more authentic person because of it and that was inspiring to me.” Daily Mass became a habit. And then Msgr. Burger invited him to participate in the activities of the Magnificat Society, a vocations club at the school. Deacon Maddock began serving Mass practically every day, and he developed a mentor-mentee relationship with Msgr. Burger. But the priesthood? He couldn’t make the conceptual leap until . . . “Eventually, Monsignor [Burger] just opened the Scriptures for me and talked about a verse in the Book of Jeremiah where the Lord says, ‘I am the potter, you are the clay,’” said Deacon Maddock.

PERSONALLY SPEAKING Name: Thomas Michael Maddock Age: 28 Born: Overland Park Raised: Overland Park Parents: Bernadette and Michael Maddock Siblings: David (26), Rosemarie (24), Michelle (21) and Sean (18) Home parish: Holy Spirit, Overland Park Education: St. James Academy, 2011; Conception Seminary College, Bachelor of Arts in Philosophy, 2015; St. John Vianney Theological School, Bachelor of Sacred Theology and Master of Divinity The most inspirational Christians I’ve ever met: my parents Favorite food: Z-man sandwich and fries from Joe’s Kansas City Barbecue Least favorite food: Papaya Favorite smell: spring in Overland Park after it rains Favorite childhood toy: Megazords What I wanted to be growing up: professional athlete Worst job I’ve ever had: umpiring Little League baseball Best job I’ve ever had: CYO volleyball referee Things I like to do: running and playing sports, meals with friends and family, listening to music Most important life lesson learned so far: wear sunscreen on cloudy days The closest I’ve come to death: When I was six weeks old, I suffered from an illness called pyloric stenosis. If I could do it all over again, I’d: sin less and love more. Best vocation advice I’ve received: “Commit your life to the Lord, trust in him, and he will act” (Ps 37:5). Who had the greatest impact on you seeking your vocation: countless holy priests who love the Lord and his people My advice for vocation discerners: Learn to recognize the Lord’s voice in your heart and follow him. What is your greatest fear/concern about your first months as a priest?: being mistaken for a high schooler impersonating a priest What I am looking forward to most as a priest: saying the holy Sacrifice of the Mass.

“Seminary is that time of formation and God can mold you. It gave me peace that maybe this was the next thing the Lord wants me to do,” he added. “I said I’d go from that day, and then there was a big peace. I had a confidence about it.” After St. James Academy, he went to Conception Seminary College in Conception, Missouri, and then on to St.

John Vianney Theological Seminary in Denver. Why does he want to be a priest? “God has called me, and I want to respond to that call generously,” said Deacon Maddock. “I have great faith that the Lord has an amazing plan for my life, and I want to follow that, which gives me the joy and hope of wanting to serve him as a priest.”

FAMILY LIFE

What tools are needed to be a spiritual parent? By Deacon Tony Zimmerman Special to The Leaven

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Family prayer is a great way to start the day. This “old-fashioned” practice sets a great example for our families. to St. Joseph: The Wonders of Our Spiritual Father.” In this prayer, we commend our family members to St. Joseph for protection from the snares of the devil, for healing from the poisons of the world and a return to the sacraments. • Pray this intercessory prayer on your rising and before going to sleep.

• Don’t be afraid to create a “prayer scroll” that contains each name to be shared as a family prayer. • Enter a reminder on your cellphone or calendar to stop and reach out to our spiritual father. This “old-fashioned” practice sets a great example for our families. It recognizes our being part of the “communion of saints” who pull together for the salvation of souls.

Catholics, Pentecostals unite for international event By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org

OPEKA — Catholics and Pentecostals will hold a joint prayer meeting here on May 22, the vigil of Pentecost, to commemorate a historic outpouring of the Holy Spirit and to participate in an international, ecumenical event culminating in a livestream celebration with Pope Francis. The Pentecost vigil celebration comes at the end of an ecumenical Pentecost novena to the Holy Spirit that began on May 13. Both the novena and vigil are sponsored by CHARIS (the Charismatic Renewal International Service) through the Commission for Christian Unity. Two hours of simultaneous prayer around the world will take place in Rome, Jerusalem, Buenos Aires and Topeka on May 22, said Lee Defendorf, a member of the Glory to God Covenant Community, a Catholic charismatic group that meets at Most Pure Heart of Mary Parish in Topeka. The Topeka prayer meeting will be

from 1-2 p.m., followed by a viewing of the international livestream of the 2-4 p.m. vigil with Pope Francis. Topeka is one of the four designated cities for the international event because it has a special place in the hearts of both Pentecostal Christians and charismatic Catholics, said Defendorf. Catholics and Pentecostals will hold the prayer meeting in the basement of 3601 S.W. 17th St., the recently vacated rectory of Most Pure Heart Parish. The former rectory is the site of a mansion nicknamed “Stone’s Folly.” For a short time, Stone’s Folly housed Bethel Bible College, founded by the Rev. Charles Parham, a Holiness sect Methodist minister. On Jan. 1, 1901, during a prayer meeting, Rev. Parham laid hands on the head of student Agnes Ozman and she was said to have received the baptism of the Holy Spirit and began to speak in tongues. This event marked the beginning of Pentecostalism. Interestingly, at that same time, Pope Leo XIII sang “Veni Creator Spiritus” (“Come Holy Spirit”) in front of the Holy Spirit window in St. Peter’s Basilica, asking for a new outpouring

of the Holy Spirit upon the church. Defendorf believes there is a connection between the event at Bethel Bible College and Pope Leo XIII, who in his May 9, 1887, encyclical “Divinum illud munus” (“On the Holy Spirit”) called for Christians to pray for a fresh outpouring of the Holy Spirit. People throughout the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas can participate in the event in two ways, according to Defendorf. The first is to come to the site of the former rectory and join the prayer meeting. Since the small basement can only seat about 30 people, an overflow tent with video feed will be set up in the yard next to the building. No registration is required, but Defendorf requests that those who wish to participate contact him by email at: lee@ stonesfolly.com. The second way to participate is to access the local livestream at: Stones Folly.com, or the international livestream via CMAX.TV at: Pentecost. CMAX.TV. “We can really change the world when the Holy Spirit is working,” said Defendorf.

Catholic Cemeteries to resume memorial Masses for deceased

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Starting June 5, Catholic Cemeteries of Northeast Kansas will resume hosting Masses to commemorate persons buried and entombed in cemeteries and mausoleums operated and managed by the archdiocesan organization. The June 5 Masses will remember those buried and entombed throughout 2020 and through April 2021. Masses will be offered at 9 a.m. at three locations: • Holy Redeemer Chapel at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, 126th and Parallel,

50th wedding anniversary celebration set for June 13 Couples celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary in 2021 are invited to the archdiocesan golden wedding anniversary Mass celebrated by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann. The Mass will be held on June 13 at 2 p.m. at Church of the Nativity in Leawood. To receive a formal invitation from the archbishop, contact Mary Anne Kierl by email at the archdiocesan marriage and family life office at: flifesec@ archkck.org or call (913) 647-0345.

ome time ago, I attended a family life conference. A banner that hung above the room in which we gathered declared: “Whoever wants your children the most will get them.” This disturbing statement was meant to remind those present TOOLS FOR that different elFAMILIES ements of our Growing as culture compete Disciples of for the hearts and Jesus minds of young people each day. As parents and grandparents, we face a battle that demands daily reinforcement to win this battle. The solution is available by following an old, daily practice: prayer. When I was growing up, a common practice was the repetition of our “Morning Offering.” To get us on the right track, many people taped a copy of this prayer on their bathroom mirror or the dashboard of their family car. Father Donald Calloway, MIC, gives a great example of such a prayer in his book, “Consecration

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Kansas City, Kansas • Holy Family Chapel at Resurrection Cemetery, 83rd and Quivira Rd., Lenexa • Holy Trinity Chapel at Mt. Calvary Cemetery, 801 S.W. Westchester Rd., Topeka As Catholic Cemeteries prepares to reconvene in-person gatherings, the organization is adopting precautionary measures to prevent the spread of COVID-19. Sharon Vallejo, president, said, “We have focused on creating an environment where it is safe to gather together for worship. We have revamped our

cleaning processes and taken other measures to eliminate air-borne pollutants. We are observing CDC guidelines for masks and social distancing.” Masks are mandatory for those attending these Masses. Staff of Catholic Cemeteries will be monitoring, promoting social distance seating and limiting the size of gatherings in accordance with the guidance and directives of state and local authorities. For more information, call (913) 3714040; send an email to: information@ cathcemks.org; or visit the website at: www.cathcemks.org.

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Peggy Thoennes, members of St. Ann Parish, Prairie Village, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on May 30 from 3 to 5 p.m. with an open house at the Santa Fe Trail Park in Prairie Village. The couple was married on June 5, 1971, at Sacred Heart Church, Atwood, by Peggy’s cousin, Father Jonathan Williams. Their children are: Veronica Quinn, Ben Thoennes and Jon Thoennes. They also have 12 grandchildren. Steve and Doris (O’Keefe) Kerr, members of Queen of Holy Rosary Parish, Wea, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on May 15. The couple was married on May 15, 1971, at Queen of the Holy Rosary. They are planning a trip with family to Santa Fe, New Mexico. Their children are: Tony Kerr and Stefanie Tschappat. They also have three granddaughters. Eugene and Debbie (Henneberg) Berges, members of St. Vincent de Paul Parish, Onaga, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on May 22 with a family dinner and open house. The couple was married on May 22, 1971, by Father Carl Kramer at St. Isidore Church, Manhattan. Their children are: Jonathan Berges, Michael Berges and Daniel Berges. They also have nine grandchildren. Joyce and Steve Oswald, members of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on May 15. The couple was married on May 15, 1971, at St. John the Baptist Church, Kansas City, Kansas, by Msgr. John Horvat. Their children are: Brett Oswald, Erin Kirkland and Kristen Farnet.

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Outdoor rally marks School of Faith’s 1000th daily rosary

VERLAND PARK — Mike Scherschligt never set out to start a podcast. But he did want to share the gift of the rosary

with others. “I found when people, [like] my own kids and adult friends, had something that captivated their minds and heart during the rosary, the more fruitful was their meditation,” he said. “So, I began to weave meditations into the five decades of the rosary, record them and make them available,” he continued. “That’s all. And it grew and grew and grew.” In August of 2018, Scherschligt, founder and director of the Holy Family School of Faith, started recording and publishing daily rosary meditations on a podcast. On May 23, he will pray the 1,000th one. All are invited to join him for that rosary — in person — on May 23 from 5-8 p.m. at Fiorella’s Event Center in Overland Park. Participants will have time for fellowship and are encouraged to bring drinks, snacks and lawn chairs. “A wave moves us more than a drop of water,” said Scherschligt, and so he hopes the crowd will serve as an example of the strong Catholic community in northeast Kansas. “No person is impervious to discouragement that comes from the news and social media that tells us Christianity is dying. And we need to get off that train,” he said. “If we try to live our faith individually or only in small groups,” he added, “we get feeling very isolated and alone. “We all need to be encouraged by witnessing thousands of people who believe come together, so that we can say to ourselves, ‘Thank God, I am not crazy, and I am not alone for believing in Jesus.’” For Chris Hillyer, director of membership for School of Faith, the event is an exciting opportunity for Catholics to build authentic friendships and grow in faith together. He hopes it will be as well-attended as the first one held at Fiorella’s last August. “Coming out of this time of isolation and separation caused by COVID,

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FOR OUR FAITH TO GROW, WE NEED TO INVITE OTHERS AND GIVE OUR FAITH AWAY. MIKE SCHERSCHLIGT DIRECTOR OF THE HOLY FAMILY SCHOOL OF FAITH it will be an opportunity for families and friends to share and celebrate their faith,” he said. “This night will be an opportunity to build friendships, invite others into our spiritual friendships, strengthen our faith and, most importantly, encounter Christ in each other,” he added. Hillyer noted that it’s no coincidence the 1000th rosary will be prayed on the solemnity of Pentecost, but that it’s “divine providence.” The rosary podcast has certainly lit a fire in northeast Kansas and beyond, said Hillyer, with a regular audience of nearly 14,500 listeners. “As people one by one started sharing the rosary, the number of people praying daily grew exponentially,” he said. “There are now subscribers in 48 states and 17 countries around the world.” Scherschligt said communities like the one School of Faith has created are a key part of the faith, and that a large gathering like the live rosary serves as an example for the wider community. “I think solitary embers grow cold,” he said. “Everyone needs a small group of family and friends with whom they can share life and integrate their faith. “For our faith to grow, we need to invite others and give our faith away. “Having small groups of family and friends — what I like to call teams — plus large events gives us a place to invite people where they can experience people really living their faith.” The School of Faith team is grateful for the chance to provide this outlet in the archdiocese, said Hillyer. “We want to recognize and celebrate our supporters and the Catholic community,” he said. “Our faith is meant to be personal, but it was never meant to be private. “We are called to live and share our faith.”

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Last year, hundreds of people turned out for the Holy Family School of Faith’s outdoor rosary on Aug. 22. This year, Mike Scherschligt will pray the 1,000th School of Faith daily rosary on May 23 from 5-8 p.m. at Fiorella’s Event Center in Overland Park. To learn more about the live rosary event, go to the website at: schoolof faith.com/events.

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To sign up for Scherschligt’s daily rosary meditations, go online to: dailyrosary.net.

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25 Ripe 26 Coop 27 Asian nation 28 Parent groups 29 Thy word is a __ unto my feet 30 Opera solo 31 Lumpy 34 Support 35 Abel’s brother 36 Belief 38 Great-grandmother of David 39 Convexity 40 Man’s name 42 Scorns 43 Roman title 44 The Creator 45 Day of wk. 46 Dens 47 Boredom 48 Musical pieces 49 Tribe of Israel 51 Zeus’ wife 52 Writer Bombeck 53 Mongolian desert 54 Tiny insect 57 Legume 58 Be incorrect 60 Summer mo. Solution on page 15

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The state of Texas owns the Presidio La Bahia (1749), which is an old fort where the Texas Revolution began. Dedicated to Our Lady of Loreto, the chapel boasts a curious fresco: The archangel Gabriel appearing to Mary has a six-toed left foot.

PLANNING A ROAD TRIP THIS SUMMER?

Submerged in 25 feet of water at John Pennekam in 1965.

Why not a pilgrimage instead? By Susan Loyacono Special to The Leaven

ANSAS CITY, Kan. — With quarantines lifting, how great would it feel to hit the road for a new kind of adventure? A trip where you don’t have to get on a plane and fly thousands of miles to get off the couch where you sat for a year! This is the kind of trip you might not have considered before. But your next trip can highlight Catholic history, architecture, culture and storytelling that surrounds you. Grab your keys, pack up the kids and arm yourself with a new travel guide, “Monuments, Marvels and Miracles: A Traveler’s Guide to Catholic America,” by Marion Amberg (OSV, $27.95). The Santa Fe, New Mexico-based travel writer has mapped out more than 500 Catholic sites of interest throughout the United States, offering a fresh new way to explore the fascinating features of American Catholicism. Amberg calls herself a “faith traveler,” because she gets wrapped up in religious sites and lore. “The original book release date was last year, but when the pandemic hit, publication was delayed,” she explained. “But the timing is great because people seem ready to get out there to have new experiences.” Thinking about combining a pilgrimage with your vacation? The book is divided by region, then by

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The 1926 neo-Romanesque church, known today as the Basilica and National Shrine of Mary Help of Christians at Holy Hill, located in Hubertus, Wisconsin, has 178 winding steps to an observation deck in one of its twin towers with a view that will take your breath away. According to lore, in the 1860s atop a steep hill near Hubertus, a hermit cried out to the Lord and was healed of a partial paralysis. state, making it easy to plan a day trip, a side trip while you are on a vacation or even to explore the character of your own community. Each section includes a map showing where each monument, marvel or miracle site is located, making it simple to plan your visit or see what’s close to where you happen to be traveling. There is plenty of Kansas in the book, including St. Benedict’s Abbey Church in Atchison. Dubbed the “Ship of the Prairie,” the church resembles a boat: The tower is the mast, with the nave’s plank-like pews the rowing benches. The Basilica of St. Fidelis in Victoria — with its stupendous stained glass and five wooden altars painted to imitate marble — is so grand and so beautiful it was named

one of the 8 Wonders of Kansas. Amberg grew up on a farm in Minnesota, about 100 miles away from the so-called “Grasshopper Chapel.” As a child, she never knew it was there. Now, it is one of her favorite places to visit. The Assumption Chapel in Cold Spring, Minnesota, was erected at the height of a three-year-long locust plague that was devastating wheat fields in the Midwest. Days after the chapel was dedicated to Mary, the plague abruptly ended, and grasshoppers have not infested the fields since that day in 1877. Some of her own best adventures have happened when Amberg was just driving by something and simply decided to stop. “Visiting churches, chapels and

The Basilica of the National Shrine of the Little Fl large portrait of St. Thérèse of Lisieux painted by during the Great Depression, the Beaux Arts churc and lore. In the Tomb Chapel, there is a replica along with stained glass that documents events shrines helps us see the American melting pot,” she said. “We learn the faith stories of Native American, German, Irish cultures and beyond. We see the architecture of places that people tried to burn down but were saved by communities. You can see tiny chapels that can hold three people or grand cathedrals for thousands. This guide is a fun way to explore the country and feel the pride of being an American Catholic.” Those who aren’t quite ready to hit the road can use the guide to virtually explore, as each entry includes a link to the site’s website. “There is nothing like visiting these places in person,” said Amberg,

St. Cecilia Cathedral in Omaha, Nebraska, was built in the Spanish Renaissance Revival style with 16thcentury stained-glass windows and is constructed of three million bricks.

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t’s important to know the Catholic monuments, marvels and miracles in your own community, but if you want to motor outside the archdiocese, here are a few suggestions. Whichever direction you are headed, there is something to behold for Catholic pilgrims.

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mp Coral Reef State Park near Key Largo, Florida, is “Christ of the Abyss” — a nearly nine-foot-tall, two-ton bronze statue of Christ that was placed there

St. Cecilia Cathedral in Omaha, Nebraska, was built in the Spanish Renaissance Revival style with 16thcentury stained-glass windows and is constructed of three million bricks. This magnificent church comes with its own legend of how sculptor Albin Polasek was unsure how to finish his work of art. A carpenter came looking for work, and the sculptor was inspired by his appearance, using it as inspiration to carve Christ’s face looking up to heaven. The carpenter was never seen again.

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Saint Patrick, Missouri, is reportedly the only town in the world named for the saint. For decades, Father Francis O’Duigan wrote letters to people with Irish surnames, requesting donations to build a shrine to St. Patrick. In 1956, the shrine, inspired by the Church of Four Masters in Donegal, Ireland, went up — featuring green marble altars and stained-glass from Dublin.

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On your way through Tulsa, Oklahoma, you can stop at Christ the King Church to experience this GothicByzantine-Art Deco gem. It’s said to be the world’s first church named for Christ the King, after Pope Pius XI instituted the liturgical feast in 1925. High walls and pinnacles are reminiscent of a king’s palace. The Art Deco-stained-glass features Old Testament kings.

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lower in San Antonio has a lot to offer. It holds a y her blood sister and Carmelite nun Céline. Built ch is a stained-glass paradise of Carmelite saints of Thérèse’s reliquary chapel in Lisieux, France, in St. Thérèse’s life. “but it’s still a way to see the country and learn about some fascinating places!” Amberg is currently working on a new travel guide for sites relating to the Virgin Mary. “Every site becomes your favorite as you write about them,” Amberg said cheerfully. She hasn’t visited every one in the book, but researches each in depth, and relies on multiple sources to help her make the cut. “Monuments, Marvels and Miracles” is available from Our Sunday Visitor (OSVCatholicBookstore.com), Amazon (amazon.com) and Catholic bookstores and gift shops.

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The Cathedral of St. Joseph in Hartford, Connecticut, hosts the “Christ in Glory” sanctuary mural. The 40-by-80-foot masterpiece is said to be the largest ceramic tile mural in the world.

Just a few miles into the Colorado Rocky Mountains, you’ll see an exit off I-70 to the Mother Cabrini Shrine. In 1912, the first U.S. citizen to become a saint was leading a project in Golden, Colorado. While working on the site, the Missionary Sisters of the Sacred Heart of Jesus complained of thirst when the future saint showed them where to dig to uncover drinking water from a spring that still runs today. The site includes a Stairway of Prayer, a Rosary Garden and the Cabrini Museum.

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Gaudeamus honors teachers of the archdiocese

By Jill Ragar Esfeld jill.esfeld@theleaven.org

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Superintendent of Schools Dr. Vince Cascone (second from left) joined students from Bishop Ward and Resurrection schools in Kansas City, Kansas, as Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann spoke about the important role of our Catholic school teachers during the pandemic. Archdiocesan teachers are the honorees of this year’s Catholic Education Foundation Gaudeamus gala, it was announced May 6.

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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — In a live broadcast from Bishop Ward High School here on May 6, the Catholic Education Foundation (CEF) announced this year’s Michael and Patty Morrisey Angel Among Us honorees. And there were one or two more than usual. “We couldn’t think of a more deserving group of people,” announced CEF board chair Derek Teeter, “than the teachers in our archdiocese.” “Their unselfish and courageous efforts ensured that our children continued to receive a quality Catholic education despite the circumstances of the pandemic,” he continued. This is the highest honor CEF awards each year. Honorees are chosen for their support of Catholic education in the archdiocese and particularly for their support of students in financial need. Every teacher in the archdiocese will receive a special letter from CEF announcing this honor. The award will be formally presented at Gaudeamus on Oct. 23. Gaudeamus is CEF’s largest fundraiser and consistently ranks as one of the top five galas in the city. More than 1000 people attend each year. Last year’s event was held virtually because of the pandemic; this year, the gala will be in person once again. “It’s been a very challenging year for our nation and for our world,” said Teeter. “But it’s also been a very special year for Catholic education and for our Catholic schools. “Our schools remained open throughout this pandemic, allowing us to serve and support countless children whose families experienced the loss of a job, financial hardship, COVID-related illness and, in some cases, COVID-related death.” Dr. Vince Cascone, superintendent of archdiocesan schools, echoed those sentiments, recalling visits he made to schools during the pandemic and his conversations with students who acknowledged the hard work of their teachers. “Our Catholic schools have been a city on a hill,” he said. “But we also know that, even prior to this year, the

THEIR UNSELFISH AND COURAGEOUS EFFORTS ENSURED THAT OUR CHILDREN CONTINUED TO RECEIVE A QUALITY CATHOLIC EDUCATION DESPITE THE CIRCUMSTANCES OF THE PANDEMIC. DEREK TEETER CATHOLIC EDUCATION FOUNDATION BOARD CHAIR work [our teachers] have done has been awesome.” Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann attended the event, telling the online audience that Catholic schools are one of the most important ministries in the archdiocese. The pandemic, he said, showed us

that we can’t always protect our children from every difficulty in life. “But if they have Jesus Christ,” he said, “if they have a friendship with him, whatever happens to them, they’ll never be alone. “They’ll never be without a reason for hope, for joy and a reason to love.”

The archbishop called archdiocesan Catholic schools a bright light that shown in the darkness of the pandemic. “And our schools were able to stay open because of our teachers — because of their dedication and their willingness to go the extra mile, sometimes the extra 10 miles,” he said. “We thank all of them for what they do year after year, but especially this year. “They’ve stepped up in extraordinary ways to make possible that our young people continue to learn in a Christian environment and continue to develop their skills and talents and abilities to give glory to God.” For more information about Gaudeamus and to purchase tickets to the event, visit the website at: cefks.org/ gaudeamus.

Community of Hope called ‘model for interfaith cooperation’ >> Continued from page 1 cooperation that initially brought together Leavenworth, Lansing and Fort Leavenworth Christian churches. He said they were committed to concretely answering a question: “How should we address problems of poverty?” This unity in support of a clear goal is what gave birth to Interfaith Community of Hope, which opened in 2018 with a debt-free building fully funded through community donations. Night shift volunteer stalwart John Nelson also attributed the organization’s success to Sister Vicki’s leadership and the disparate communities’ continued work together. “I would say that it is certainly a model for interfaith cooperation,” Nelson said. It’s a model of secular cooperation, too. Agnew described a robust relationship with the Leavenworth County Health Department, who contacted her office in mid-February, letting her know there were extra vaccines. By mid-March, her

team was fully vaccinated and the health department called again to arrange a visit to the shelter to vaccinate around a dozen guests. Today, Community of Hope now has a rule that guests must be vaccinated to use the day shelter, where social distancing is difficult and guests unmask to eat. Both Agnew and the health department described diligent vaccine participation among Community of Hope guests. Community of Hope is maintained and grown through regular community member donations, local government grants and cooperation from behavioral health care service provider The Guidance Center. Agnew is pursuing grants and assistance for future projects, including improved access to fresh water (currently, due to an absence of any public fountains, individuals experiencing homelessness in the city of Leavenworth get water from the Missouri River); expanded access to laundry and shower facilities; and material outreach capabilities

for unhoused individuals who will not visit Community of Hope for a number of reasons. Another ongoing effort is bringing in an on-site social worker to serve as a case manager. Volunteers currently work as case managers to help Community of Hope guests secure the necessary items to get a job or even benefits. Many individuals experiencing homelessness do not have identification, making job searches and qualifying for benefits difficult. Getting new identification can be even harder without a birth certificate, which some people experiencing homelessness and unhoused persons lack. When talking about her organization, Agnew used the word “amazing” a lot. She applied the adjective to the center’s volunteers as well as her team of paid employees. Agnew said it takes 70 volunteers a week to efficiently run the center’s day and night shelters (two distinct entities on either side of the building, open at separate times). As a result of the pandemic, their

volunteer numbers dwindled from 250 strong prior to March 2020, down to 50 at one point. While positions of all kinds remain vacant, volunteers are beginning to return.

Selfless service One of the things that sets Leavenworth apart is the Army post in its midst. Many Community of Hope volunteers are retired military or military. Nelson and Dessert both ascribe the Army value of “selfless service” to their continued willingness to serve the vulnerable in their community. So, is the Leavenworth model replicable elsewhere? Dessert thinks so. “While I think we are a unique community,” he said, “I also think that the Gospel will inspire any group of faithful people to achieve cooperation around a task that will help the community.”

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Catechist is a vocation, pope says in establishing formal ministry By Cindy Wooden Catholic News Service

ATICAN CITY (CNS) — Calling for formal recognition of “those lay men and women who feel called by virtue of their baptism to cooperate in the work of catechesis,” Pope Francis has instituted the “ministry of catechist.” “The Spirit is calling men and women to set out and encounter all those who are waiting to discover the beauty, goodness and truth of the Christian faith,” the pope wrote in “Antiquum Ministerium” (Ancient Ministry), his document released at the Vatican May 11. In addition to releasing texts of the document in Italian, French, English, German, Spanish, Portuguese and Polish, the Vatican distributed a video of the text translated into Italian sign language. Pastors must support laypeople in answering the Spirit’s call and “enrich the life of the Christian community through the recognition of lay ministries capable of contributing to the transformation of society through the ‘penetration of Christian values into the social, political and economic sectors,’” the pope said, quoting what he had written about the vocation of laypeople in his 2013 document, “The Joy of the Gospel.” Bishops’ conferences will need to determine the “process of formation and the normative criteria for admission to this ministry” and devise “the most appropriate forms for the service which these men and women will be called to exercise,” the pope said. The Congregation for Divine Worship and the Sacraments, he said, “will soon publish the Rite of Institution of the lay ministry of catechist.” The congregation already is working on revised rites for the ministries of lector and acolyte, which Pope Francis opened to women in January. While millions of lay men and women around the world already serve as catechists, readers and altar servers, formal institution into the ministries signifies that the service is stable, delegated by the bishop and publicly recognized by the church. Archbishop Rino Fisichella, president of the Pontifical Council for Promoting New Evangelization, noted how St. Paul VI wrote in 1975 about the importance of laypeople using their gifts for the growth of the entire church. “It has taken almost 50 years for the church to come to recognize that the service rendered by so many men and

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Archbishop Rino Fisichella, president of the Pontifical Council for Promoting New Evangelization, and Matteo Bruni, director of the Holy See Press Office, participate in a news conference for the release of Pope Francis’ document, “Antiquum Ministerium” (Ancient Ministry), at the Vatican May 11. In the document the pope institutes the “ministry of catechist.” The screen in the background shows journalists who joined the press conference remotely on Zoom. women through their catechetical commitment truly constitutes a distinctive ministry for the growth of the Christian community,” the archbishop told reporters at a news conference to present the pope’s document. In his document, Pope Francis noted how teachers of the faith were present from the earliest days of the Christian community and were recognized as having a special gift of the Holy Spirit for carrying out their role within the community. “At times,” he wrote, “the charisms that the Spirit constantly pours out on the baptized took on a visible and tangible form of immediate service to the Christian community, one recognized as an indispensable ‘diakonia’ for the community.” In looking at the history of evangelization, the pope said, Catholics cannot overlook “the countless lay men and women who directly took part in the spread of the Gospel through catechetical instruction. Men and women of deep faith, authentic witnesses of holiness, who in some cases were also founders of churches and eventually died as martyrs.” Still today, he said, “many competent and dedicated catechists are community leaders in various parts of the world and carry out a mission invaluable for the transmission and growth of the faith.” Especially in communities without a resident priest, catechists are the lead-

ers of the local Catholic community, evangelizing, convoking and guiding their fellow Catholics in prayer and works of charity. And, in missionary territories under the guidance of the Congregation for the Evangelization of Peoples, they already serve with a specific mandate from their bishop. “The long line of blesseds, saints and martyrs who were catechists has significantly advanced the church’s mission and deserves to be recognized, for it

represents a rich resource not only for catechesis but also for the entire history of Christian spirituality,” Pope Francis wrote. The formal institution of catechists, he said, should be a sign and encouragement for all lay Catholics to recognize “even more the missionary commitment proper to every baptized person, a commitment that must however be carried out in a fully ‘secular’ manner, avoiding any form of clericalization.” Archbishop Fisichella said Pope Francis was insisting that lay “men and women are called to express their baptismal vocation in the best possible way, not as substitutes for priests or consecrated persons, but as authentic laymen and laywomen who, in the distinctive nature of their ministry, are able to experience the full extent of their baptismal vocation of witness and effective service in the community and the world.” Laypeople who feel called to the ministry of catechists should be actively involved in the life of their Catholic communities and faithful to the Gospel and the teaching of the church, he said. But they also must receive “suitable biblical, theological, pastoral and pedagogical formation to be competent communicators of the truth of the faith.” “Catechists are called first to be expert in the pastoral service of transmitting the faith as it develops through its different stages from the initial proclamation” of the Gospel, preparation for receiving the sacraments and support in living a Christian life, the pope said.

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12 EMPLOYMENT Workforce-Specialist - Do you want to change lives? Do you want to help break the cycle of poverty? Do you have a social work degree and experience in case management? This could be your opportunity! Come join our team! For more information and to apply, go online to: https://catholiccharitiesks.org/, then go to “About Us” and click on “Careers,” then scroll down to “View Job Openings.” Donnelly College student life coordinator - The student life coordinator is the college’s bridge to its student body. This position is responsible for planning and implementing cultural, academic and recreational programs for students. Working closely with staff and faculty members, the coordinator organizes co-curricular activities designed to develop the students’ educational, social and personal growth. The candidate must be able to pass a background check and complete Virtus training. Practicing Catholic candidate highly preferred. Please send resume and cover letter to Lisa Stoothoff at: lstoothoff@donnelly.edu. Part-time teacher aide - St. Michael the Archangel Preschool is seeking a part-time teacher aide for our four-years-old classroom. This person is responsible for assisting the lead teacher in carrying out daily activities, carrying out the rules and regulations of our licensure and maintaining principles of sound Catholic education. If you are interested, please contact Jennie Wente, preschool director, at (913) 402-3971 or send resume and cover letter to: jennie.wente@stmichaelcp.org. Director of evangelization - Church of the Nativity is seeking to recruit a full-time, dynamic, high-energy, consistently visible director of evangelization for the adult parish community who will be a vital member of the Christian formation team at Nativity. This newly created position will work directly with pastor Father Mike Hawken and the Christian formation team, and will be responsible for casting a long-term vision for the ministry while leading and supporting existing formation leaders and ministries. This new movement within our parish will focus on a consistent invitation to meet our adult community where they are through a ministry of encounter that encourages our members to set out into the deep and experience Jesus Christ and his church in a fresh new way. Email resume and referrals to: Danh@ cornerstone-kc.com or call (913) 341-7655. Donnelly College accounting assistant - The accountant assistant is an integral member of the business office, which is responsible for all financial services and reporting for the college. This includes providing services to students and employees as well as all aspects of payroll, accounting and financial reporting. This requires forward thinking and a “do-what-it-takes attitude” to ensure departmental resources are maximized throughout the entire year. Must be able to maintain confidentiality and be comfortable handling sensitive information. Must be able to pass a background check and complete Virtus training. Send all resumes and cover letters to Bernard Barry at: bbarry@donnelly.edu. Campus youth minister - Church of the Nativity is seeking to recruit a full-time, dynamic, high-energy, consistently visible and creative campus youth minister who will be a vital member of the Christian formation team at Nativity. This position will work directly with pastor Father Mike Hawken and the Christian formation team, and will be responsible for coordinating and refreshing a parish-wide pastoral youth ministry for the entire campus to include high school youth, as well as junior high youth from the parish school and religious education. The youth minister we seek works under the direct supervision of the pastor; coordinates a youth ministry team of adults and youth; develops close communications with and mutual support from families of youth and collaborates with other community and parish organizations and offices; focuses the parish community on the spiritual needs and gifts of youth that is engaging, fun and faith filled; and gives our youth the tools needed to uphold and defend their faith as they transition between junior high and high school and on into college. Email resume and referrals to: Danh@cornerstone-kc.com or call (913) 341-7655.

Donnelly College admissions counselor - The admissions counselor is responsible for establishing relationships through direct outreach efforts with area K - 12 schools, businesses, church and civic organizations to promote Donnelly College as well as conducting daily recruitment calls to prospective students. The position is responsible for presentations covering financial aid and the admissions process. Additionally, this position is well-versed in the college data system and provides high quality customer service while working a schedule that includes evenings and occasional weekends. Must be able to pass background check and complete Virtus training. Bilingual candidate highly preferred. Please send resume and cover letter to Lisa Stoothoff at: lstoothoff@donnelly.edu. Lead consultant for special needs - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas has a full-time, benefits-eligible position open for a lead consultant for the office of special needs. This position is responsible for assisting parishes with the delivery of parish-based ministries and services for children and adults with special needs. It includes but is not limited to assisting parishes and pastoral regions in identifying needs, designing programs/initiatives, implementing ministries and monitoring the ongoing pastoral efficacy of such ministries. The incumbent manages day-to-day operations of the office of special-needs ministry and advocates for children and adults with special needs across the archdiocese; ensures access for those with special needs to situationappropriate Christian formation, sacramental preparation, liturgy and other events at parishes; and supervises consultants and other employees assigned to the department. This position requires a bachelor’s degree in pastoral care, special education, social work or related field; a minimum of three years’ experience working with individuals with developmental and physical disabilities, vision and hearing loss or other special needs; and a practicing Catholic registered in a Catholic parish or faith community, and must embrace in word and deed the church’s teachings on faith and morals as articulated by the church’s magisterium. Qualified individuals must submit a cover letter, resume and application. To apply, please visit: www.archkck.org/jobs. Application deadline is May 27. Retreat team - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas has a full-time, benefits-eligible position open for a retreat team member at Prairie Star Ranch. The retreat team member performs a variety of programmatic and development activities for the retreat team internship program, specifically targeted at the facilitation of retreat programs. The position includes coordination with the director of the retreat center to facilitate retreat programs and host specific user groups. The retreat team member works with user groups, youth ministers, pastors and others to develop a higher level of service and hospitality for the ministry both on-site and off. In addition to the programming dimension, the position requires time spent in an intentional Catholic community, with time in communal prayer, personal prayer and Catholic formation. There is some manual labor and food service associated with the position as well as an expectation of high professionalism and motivation. This position requires a bachelor’s degree in religious studies, theology, education, human relations or related field; must be a practicing Catholic, registered in a Catholic parish or faith community, and must embrace in word and deed the church’s teachings on faith and morals as articulated by the church’s magisterium. Previous experience in Catholic camp ministries preferred. Qualified individuals must submit a cover letter, resume and application. To apply, please visit: www.archkck.org/jobs. Application deadline is May 27.

Career opportunity - Due to the growth of the Knights of Columbus, we are looking for professional men who are interested in helping fellow Catholics with their faith, family and finances. This is a full-time career opportunity that will allow you to be your own boss and a respected professional member of the community. If you or someone you know is self-motivated, good with time management and has a desire to succeed, this might be the opening you’ve been looking for. Benefits include unlimited professional income potential, flexibility, quality training program and incentive award trips such as Rome, Hawaii and Ireland. There are openings in northeast Kansas and western Missouri. If you want to serve your community, strengthen the church and change the world, call John Mahon at our regional office at (785) 408-8800 or toll free at (855) 356-4849. Part-time stylists - Are you addicted to the TV show “Say Yes to the Dress”? Are you self-motivated, love fashion and enjoy helping people look their best? If so, we want to talk to you! Sincerely Susan, a unique destination shop that specializes in dresses for mothers of the bride/groom and galas is looking for part-time stylists. Our boutique is a warehouse environment where clients come in by appointment only. You must have a sense of style and a great personality to be able to interact with our “moms.” Hours are flexible. Must be willing to work a minimum of one evening per week and weekends. Must be able to stand and walk on concrete for long periods of time and reach overhead to pull gowns. Previous retail experience preferred, but not necessary. Hourly rate is based on experience. If interested, call (913) 730-8840. Administrative assistant for evangelization, formation and outreach - This position provides front office administrative support to two department directors as well as other staff, including, but not limited to, RE, youth sacrament preparation, adult education, youth ministry, VBS and CGS. This is a year-round, part-time position that normally works Monday through Friday with occasional, infrequent evening and weekend duties. For additional details, a comprehensive job description or to apply, please visit the website at: stmichaelcp.org/ employment-opportunities or contact Denise Greene at: denise.greene@stmichaelcp.org or (913) 402-3984. Technology teacher - St. Ann School is seeking a parttime technology teacher, approximately 20 hours per week, for computer and keyboarding skills for grades K - 6. This teacher will also potentially work with middle school students in elective courses. Applicants should apply online through the archdiocesan website at: www. archkckcs.org and email principal Liz Minks at: lminks@ stannpv.org. Latin teacher - St. Michael the Archangel School is seeking a full-time Latin teacher for the 2021-22 school year. The ideal candidate will demonstrate a passion for evangelization and discipleship and have experience teaching Latin. Please send resume and cover letter to the parish school, attention Dr. Lorenzo Rizzi, 14251 Nall Ave., Leawood, KS 66223 or to: lorenzo.rizzi@ stmichaelcp.org. Part-time director of religious education - Holy Family in Eudora is seeking a part-time director of religious education. The director is responsible for coordinating religious education classes for children ages K - 12, first Communion preparation, confirmation preparation, vacation Bible school and other duties. This is a paid position at 10 - 15 hours per week. Please contact the pastor at (785) 542-2788 or email: hfceudora@sunflower.com.

Accountant - The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas has a full-time, benefits-eligible position open for an accountant. This position performs professional accounting activities, including analysis and reconciliation of general ledger and subsidiary accounts, revenue and expenditure accounts, and the preparation and distribution of monthly reports to departments. The incumbent maintains the deposit and loan system records; prepares monthly statements for account holders; and prepares financial reports, budgets and year-end audit schedules. This position requires a bachelor’s degree in accounting with at least two years’ relevant accounting work including: experience maintaining accurate financial records; preparing reports; preparing financial or auditor statements; schedules and reports. Qualified individuals must submit a cover letter, resume and application. Please visit: www.archkck.org/jobs to apply. Deadline is May 17.

Lead preschool teacher - St. Ann Young Child Center is currently seeking a lead teacher for a full-time threeyears-old classroom. The lead teacher is responsible for creating lesson plans and teaching a classroom of 12 students with an aide, M - F. The lead preschool teacher is also responsible for maintaining proper qualifications for licensure through the Kansas Department of Health and Environment and for maintaining the principles of Catholic education. If you are interested, please contact Cara Schwarz, preschool director, at (913) 362-4660 and/or send resume and cover letter to: cschwarz@stannpv.org. Fifth grade teacher - St. Ann School is seeking a fifth grade homeroom teacher for the 2021-22 school year. Applicants should apply online through the archdiocesan website at: www.archkckcs.org and email principal Liz Minks at: lminks@stannpv.org.

Campus minister - A full-time position of leadership within our Good Company campus ministry charged with overseeing the success of our Good Company campus ministry; management of the lead and team positions; student leadership development; assisting in the effective implementation of the St. Lawrence playbook; and responsibility for making sure any Good Company initiatives fall in line with our core values; daring to stand out; forming fullness in each person; living the art of relationship; and building a culture of home. This individual will provide leadership, coordination and talents in the area of leadership within Good Company with the goal of creating a culture of home at St. Lawrence and equipping student leaders with the tools necessary for evangelization. Specific responsibilities include overseeing the Good Company mission and vision; creatively implementing Good Company outreach events; writing content and leading an effective structure of all Good Company team meetings; creating a seeker-oriented retreat; mentoring and disciplining students; and is a strong relational presence in and outside of the St. Lawrence Center. Qualifications for the campus minister are a strong desire and natural ability to evangelize on a secular university campus; an ability to relate to different types of people; and at least two years’ ministry experience. The Good Company campus minister at St. Lawrence must work well on a team and must be comfortable having courageous conversations that contribute to staff unity and team development. She/he must be a strong witness of the Catholic faith and committed to discipleship in their own life. Email inquires and resumes to Stacy Cretors at: scretors@kucatholic.org.

Middle school science teacher - Prince of Peace School is seeking a full-time middle school science/ STEM teacher for the 2021-22 school year. Candidates must hold a valid Kansas teaching certificate and be licensed to teach 7 - 8th grade science. Candidates must be faith-filled, student-centered and work well with colleagues. For more information, please contact Jane Shriver at: jshriver@popolathe.org or (913) 764-0650.

Program coordinator: human rights - The Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph is seeking to fill the program coordinator: human rights job opening. This position will assist the development, implementation and maintenance of diocesan programs related to church teaching on contemporary social issues. This is a part-time position. Please visit “Job Openings” at: www.kcsjcatholic. org for a complete job description and to apply.

Full-time elementary teacher - Sacred Heart School in Ottawa is seeking a full-time elementary teacher for the 2021-22 school year. Candidates must hold a current Kansas teaching license and be certified to teach K - 5. Interested applicants should complete the teacher application process at: www.archkckcs.org. For more information, please contact Lisa Blaes at: lblaes@sacred heartottawa.eduk12.net.

Caregivers - Daughters & Company is looking for several compassionate caregivers to provide assistance to seniors in their home, assisted living or in a skilled nursing facility. We provide light housekeeping/light meal preparation, organizational assistance, care management and occasional transportation services for our clients. We need caregivers with reliable transportation and a cellphone for communication. A CNA background is helpful, though not mandatory. We typically employ on a parttime basis, but will strive to match up hours desired. Contact Gary or Laurie at (913) 341-2500 if you want to become part of an excellent caregiving team.

MAY 14, 2O21 | THELEAVEN.ORG Social media and digital communications manager - The Benedictine Sisters of Mount St. Scholastica are looking for a creative, energetic individual to be responsible for the planning, creation and execution of Mount St. Scholastica’s digital communications. This position is responsible for updating, maintaining and creating content for our organization’s website. This role will work to ensure that messages and brand are consistent across all online and social platforms while building and measuring engagement with our audience on social media. This position will work closely with the communications team to produce fresh and engaging content, including video, that tells Mount St. Scholastica’s story within the scope of an integrated communications strategy. The ideal candidate will have a bachelor’s degree in marketing, communications or related business area; 3+ years of experience in social media/digital communications, using industry standard software products for web design, word processing and video editing. Interested individuals should submit a cover letter and resume to Sister Helen Mueting at: hmueting@mountosb.org. Director of marketing/advertisement - Donnelly College is looking for a creative, flexible and organized director of marketing and communications to increase awareness of the Donnelly College brand with a particular focus on advancing enrollment and philanthropy. As a position that is both strategic and tactical, and housed within the advancement division, the director of marketing and communications is a critical driver of developing and implementing strategy to help the college achieve its mission and vision by reaching key target audiences such as prospective students and families, alumni, institutional partners, media investors and the public. The candidate should have the following qualifications: a bachelor’s degree required, preference given to persons with degrees in marketing, communications or journalism or to persons with a related master’s degree; working knowledge of social media platforms required; working knowledge of web design platforms required; preference given to those with bilingual skills and those with experience at an academic institution working with people of diverse backgrounds; committed to diversity and serving a diverse population. Please email your cover letter, resume and transcripts to: hr@donnelly.edu with “Director of Marketing Advertising” in the subject line. Career positions at Ryan Lawn - Full-time career positions at Ryan Lawn & Tree for people who have a passion for plants, working outdoors and customer service. Put your degree to work in the outdoors. We are faith-based and 100% employee-owned. We offer careers in forestry (both plant healthy and pruning), turf, pest and landscaping. With 350 associates in five branches, we have growth careers for the right people. We expect a lot. We can teach you our industry if you want to learn and are willing to work hard. If you or someone you know is interested, apply online at: RyanLawn.com. Small equipment technician - Do you enjoy tinkering and working with your hands? Then this is the job for you! We are a small, family-owned local company looking for someone who is handy with small equipment and enjoys traveling every now and then. We need team members with a positive attitude who are flexible, dependable, self-motivated, mechanically inclined, customer-service oriented and have great time management skills. Mostly on the job training. Electrical knowledge is a plus. Please send your resume to: Yourcareer101@gmail.com. Language arts teacher - St. Michael the Archangel School is seeking a faith-filled, eighth-grade language arts teacher willing to also sponsor student council and/ or yearbook. Interested applicants should complete the teacher application process at: archkckcs.org. Please contact the principal, Dr. Lorenzo Rizzi, at: lorenzo.rizzi@ stmichaelcp.org for more information. Social mission and outreach coordinator - St. Michael the Archangel Parish is seeking a proactive, organized and approachable professional to serve as the social mission and outreach coordinator. This role is responsible for coordinating activities of various parish ministries, committees, volunteers and projects while assuring a high degree of outreach to the local community. The position is approximately 25 hours per week with occasional evening and weekend responsibilities. Go online to: stmichaelcp.org/employment-opportunities for a full job description. Submit cover letter and resume to: Denise.Greene@stmichaelcp.org. STEM director - Bishop Miege has an immediate opening for a STEM director. The director will be responsible for planning, preparing and executing STEM initiatives to increase project-based learning into all classrooms; coordinating professional development for teachers STEM accreditation through Cognia; data analyzation; promoting community involvement with STEM; and will teach engineering or computer science classes as needed. The ideal candidate will have 3 - 5 years’ teaching experience and possess a Kansas teaching license. This is a 12-month position. Send letter of interest and resume to Maureen Engen at: mengen@bishopmiege.com. Drivers and aides - Assisted Transportation is now hiring safe drivers and aides to transport students with special needs in Johnson, Wyandotte and Clay County, Missouri, in company vans. Drivers earn $14 - $16 per hour. Aides earn $12 per hour. Part-time and full-time schedules available. CDL not required. Retirees encouraged to apply. Make a difference in your community by helping those in need. Call (913) 521-4955 for more information. EEO >> Classifieds continue on page 13

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MAY 14, 2021 | THELEAVEN.ORG >> Continued from page 12 Part-time servers - Santa Marta is recognized as a premier senior living community in Olathe. You will make a positive difference when you join the Santa Marta team as a server. Responsibilities include: serve meals to residents in a professional and hospitable manner in either independent living or health care neighborhoods; respectful interaction and communication with residents and co-workers as required; work with a team in a professional manner within dining and other departments; use proper food handling and cleaning techniques; setup and clean the dining rooms after each dining session. Part-time servers are normally scheduled 3 - 5 shifts per week (evenings 4 - 8 p.m. and weekend breakfast, lunch and dinner shifts). $10 - $11 hourly rate, depending on relevant experience. Part-time associates earn paid time off for hours worked. To apply, go online to: santamarta retirement.com, then go to “More,” then scroll down and click on “Careers.” Then scroll down to the bottom of that page and download the application form. Communications director - Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish in Overland Park is creating the position of communications director. The successful candidate will work directly with Father Bill Bruning and the parishioner chairs of the communications committee, the evangelization committee and will coordinate the volunteers who will be responsible for our livestreaming and online presence. The job will also require marketing skills in the form of branding and marketing communications. Interested persons are invited to review the job description and send their resume to: qhradmin@qhr-opks.org. Full-time assistant teachers - With multiple locations in Johnson County, Special Beginnings Early Learning Center provides high quality child care in a safe, loving Christian environment. With a balanced curriculum of pre-academics and the right environment, we believe we are providing the children the foundation to e successful in life. We are looking for full-time assistant teachers for all ages who have an excellent work ethic, a heart for children and a willingness to learn more about early childhood education. Experience and/or education is a plus, but we will train the right candidate. Duties include supervising and ensuring the safely and well-being of the children at all times; following predetermined curriculum and daily schedule; decorating the class and keeping classrooms clean and orderly; creating and filling out daily reports for each child; communicating with parent; meeting children’s basic needs (diapers, bottles, etc.). Must be patient and able to respond to difficult situations calmly; have good interpersonal skills with coworkers, parents and children; and be able to lift 25 pounds on a regular basis. There are opportunities for career advancement. For more information or to apply, call Carolyn Andruss at (913) 894-0131, option 3. Instructor, faculty faith formation - Holy Family School of Faith is looking for a tenacious, innovative and courageous missionary heart to help run our school faculty formation sessions. Expectations include leading faculty formation sessions, regular team meetings, curriculum design and planning, collaboration with our team and a commitment to live the movement of friendship, good conversation and the rosary. The ideal candidate will be in good standing with the church, have teaching experience and be well formed in the faith. If you are interested, contact Chris Hillyer at: Chris@SchoolOfFaith.com. Assistants - Assistants needed to provide support for developmentally disabled adults in a day program setting. Hours are 9 a.m. - 3 p.m. five days a week. Health, dental and vision premiums paid in full after two months of employment. Join us for meaningful, fulfilling relationships with our community. Larcheks.org. Doll dresses - First Communion dresses for American Girl dolls or any 18” dolls. To include dress, veil, shoes, tights, and cross necklace for $35. Call (913) 345-9498 or send an email to: wwelch4@kc.rr.com to order. The dress is on display at Trinity House, 6731 W. 119th St., Overland Park.

Catholic Community Hospice - Come work for Catholic Community Hospice. We are a loving, compassionate and not-for-profit hospice agency. Visit us at: https:// catholiccharitiesks.org/careers/.

Memory quilts - Preserve your memories in a keepsake quality quilt, pillows, etc. Custom designed from your Tshirt collection, baby clothes, sports memorabilia, neckties . . . Quilted Memories. (913) 649-2704.

Part-time office assistant - Looking for a job where you can make a difference and you’re not just a nameless face? Come join our family-owned small company that’s been established locally in the medical instruments field for almost 40 years. We are looking for a part-time candidate who is detail-oriented, organized, self-motivated, dependable, customer-service oriented, friendly and has excellent communication skills. Job tasks include invoicing, vendor relations, product ordering and receiving/shipping. Computer skills are a must and QuickBooks a plus! Please send your resume to: Yourcareer101@gmail.com.

Cleaning lady - Reasonable rates; references provided. Call (913) 209-9234.

Direct support professional - Goodlife Innovations in Lawrence and in Johnson County is urgently hiring direct support professionals to help provide care, teach skills and hang out with adults with disabilities. Full- and parttime shifts available. Average pay of $14 - $16.33 per hour. Apply today at: https://mygoodlife.org/careers/.

FREE LIFE INSURANCE QUOTE IN LESS THAN A MINUTE - For your free, no obligation life insurance or final expense quote from a dozen highly rated carriers, visit: www.mcevoyins.com or call (913) 481-2896. Sean McEvoy, Donnelly College graduate, and Bill McEvoy, Ascension parishioner.

Second grade teacher - St. Ann School is seeking a second grade teacher for the 2021-22 school year. Applicants should apply online through the archdiocesan website at: www.archkckcs.org and email principal Liz Minks at: lminks@stannpv.org.

Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite, and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.

Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@kc.rr. com; or visit the website at: www.teresakiddlaw.com. Please do not wait until life seems hopeless before getting good quality legal advice that may solve your financial stress.

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SERVICES Next level Design & Remodelling llc. 10 to 40% off Exterior, Interior painting Hard surface flooring, remolding Call (913) 709-8401. Free estimates. Senior Care Authority - Navigating senior care options can be overwhelming. We’ll help you sort through and understand all your care and living options and point you to vetted resources. Placement assistance is FREE. We do a thorough assessment, do all the research and walk with you as you make these big decisions for you or your loved one. Call (913) 359-8580.

Wanted to buy -Do you have a car or truck that you need to get rid of? If you do, CALL ME! I’m a cash buyer. We’re Holy Trinity parishioners. My name is Mark. (913) 980-4905. Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee. Wanted to buy - Old cars or hot rods. Uncompleted project cars in any condition, with or without titles. Cash buyer. Call (913) 980-3559.

ACT Prep - Founded by a Bishop Miege graduate, Pathway Prep has helped over 250 students during the last four years improve their scores. In-person or virtual sessions available. For more information, visit: pathway prepkc.com and contact Alex Pint at (913) 991-8217 or: alex@pathwayprepkc.com.

Wanted to buy - Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, pottery, sterling, etc. Single pieces or estate. Renee Maderak, (913) 475-7393. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee.

Financial coach – Living paycheck to paycheck? Little or no savings? If you’re struggling with your finances and feeling overwhelmed but don’t know where to turn, I would love to help guide you out of financial stress and into a life of abundance. Free consultation. Call or text Julie at (913) 617-5409 or email: juliekolichbarron@ gmail.com. Dave Ramsey-certified.

Residential lifts - New and recycled. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. St. Michael’s parishioners. KC Lift & Elevator at (913) 327-5557. (Formerly Silver Cross - KC)

Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover. Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mike@mikehammermoving.com. Win disability benefits - Disabled and no longer able to work? Get help winning Social Security disability benefits. Free consultation. Eight years’ experience. No fee unless you win. Call (785) 331-6452 or send an email to: montemace2000@yahoo.com or visit http://www. montemacedisability.org. Handyman - I wanted to let you all know that we do basement finishes, deck building, bathroom and kitchen remodeling. This includes tile work, cabinet refinishing, and any sheetrock work. We also do all things flooring, siding, windows, doors, covered porches, sheds and much more. I really appreciate all your support. Please call Joshua Doherty at (913) 709-7230.

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For sale - One plot at St. Mary Cemetery, 2201 Cleveland Ave., Kansas City, Mo. Plot located in section E, lot 37, space 3. Current value $1925; asking $1750. Contact Joanne at (913) 730-8861.

HOME IMPROVEMENT DRC Construction We’ll get the job done right the first time. Windows - Doors - Decks - Siding Repair or replace, we will work with you to solve your problems. Choose us for any window, door, siding or deck project and be glad you did. Everything is guaranteed 100% (913) 461-4052 www.windowservicesoverlandpark.com drcconswindows@gmail.com Painting - Diamond Painting, (913) 648-4933, Residential/Commercial, Exterior/interior, Free Estimate, Affordable, Decks, DiamondPaintKc.com, KCMO/Overland Park Metropolitan area.

STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 579-1835. Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa. Interior Painting Specialist Wall cracks repaired, fully insured. Serving the area for 20 years. Call Jerry (913) 206-1144. Concrete construction - Tear out and replace stamped, stained or colored patios and drives. Retaining walls, footings, poured-in-place safe rooms, excavation and hauling. Asphalt drives and lots. Fully insured; references. Call Dan at (913) 207-4371 or send an email to: dandeeconst@aol.com. Popcorn ceiling texture removal Cracks repaired and wall painting available. Call Jerry at (913) 206-1144. 30 years’ experience. Call with questions Local Handyman - Painting int. and ext., wood rot, masonry (chimney repair), gutter cleaning (gutter covers), dryer vent cleaning, sump pump (replace, add new), windows, doors (interior and exterior) honey-do list and more! Member of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor. Call Billy at (913) 927-4118.

REAL ESTATE Get Instant Cash Offer on Your Johnson County Home! Skip the Showings Move on Your Schedule Low Fee Structure Get Started Today! www.FullPriceHomeSale.com OFFER CODE KS01 We buy houses and whole estates - We are local and family owned, and will make you a fair cash offer. We buy houses in any condition. No fees or commissions and can close on the date of your choice. Selling your house as is never felt so good. Jon & Stacy Bichelmeyer (913) 599-5000 CASH FOR YOUR HOME (913) 980-4905 Any condition in the metro area Mark Edmondson - local parishioner http://www.buykcproperty.com Whole Estates Need to sell a home and everything in it? We buy it all at once in as-is condition. Call (816) 444-1950 or send an email to: www.wholeestates.com.

CAREGIVING Looking for assisted living at home? - Before you move, call us and explore our in-home care options. We specialize in helping families live safely at home while saving thousands of dollars per year. Call today for more information or to request a FREE home care planning guide. Benefits of Home - Senior Care, www.benefits ofhome.com or call (913) 422-1591. Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation for seniors in their home, assisted living or nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Pat or Gary.

“I am proud to continue the legacy of service my grandfather and father began in 1946.” SALES Advertising Account Manager Sell ad space for Church bulletins. Salary, expenses, commission PLUS benefits. Reply: Recruiting@jspaluch.com www.jspaluch.com

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DAILY READINGS SEVENTH WEEK OF EASTER May 16 THE ASCENSION OF THE LORD Acts 1: 1-11 Ps 47: 2-3, 6-9 Eph 1: 17-23 Mk 16: 15-20 May 17 Monday Acts 19: 1-8 Ps 68: 2-5d, 6-7b Jn 16: 29-33 May 18 John I, pope, martyr Acts 20: 17-27 Ps 68: 10-11, 20-21 Jn 17: 1-11a May 19 Wednesday Acts 20: 28-38 Ps 68: 29-30, 33-36b Jn 17: 11b-19 May 20 Bernardine of Siena, priest Acts 22: 30; 23: 6-11 Ps 16: 1-2a, 5, 7-11 Jn 17: 20-26 May 21 Christopher Magallanes, priest, and companions, martyrs Acts 25: 13b-21 Ps 103: 1-2, 11-12, 19-20b Jn 21: 15-19 May 22 Rita of Cascia, religious Acts28: 16-20, 30-31 Ps 11: 4-5, 7 Jn 21: 20-25

Cristobal Magallanes 1869-1927 This Mexican saint shares his feast with 21 other priests and three laymen martyred between 1915 and 1937 when Mexican authorities persecuted the Catholic Church. Many of these Cristero martyrs, canonized in 2000, were tortured and executed when apprehended. Father Magallanes, a zealous pastor in his home state of Jalisco, also did mission work among the indigenous Huicholes. Before they were shot, he said to his priest-companion, “Be at peace, my son; it takes but one moment, then it will be heaven.”

couple of weeks ago after Mass, I pulled aside one of our high school students. “Did you know you’ve been hacked?” I asked her. “No,” she answered, as a look of concern spread across her face. “Yes,” I said, “someone’s been sending out notices in your name, saying that you’re graduating in a few weeks! There’s no way that’s true, right? You only started high school a year ago!” She burst out laughing and confirmed, much to my surprise, that she was indeed graduating . . . after four years. Honestly, it seemed like I had just baptized her yesterday. Heck, I myself was just where she is a mere (gulp) 48 years ago. What? Where did all those years go? (And even more incredible is watching “kids” from the parish graduating from college.) With so many graduations happening at this time of year, I try to

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FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.

imagine what advice I’d offer to graduates. This year, it would be about coffee. Here’s the story: A group of friends, all highly established in their careers, got together to visit an old university professor. Their conversations soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life. Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot and an assortment of cups: porcelain, plas-

tic, glass, crystal; some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite. He told the guests to help themselves to the coffee. When all the former students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said: “If you noticed, all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of problems and stress. “Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases, it is just more expensive and, in some cases, even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was

the coffee, not the cup. But you consciously went for the best cups . . . and then began envying each other’s cups.” “Now, consider this,” continued the professor, “life is the coffee; the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life. The type of cup we have does not define nor change the quality of the life we live. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee.” (Story found in Meir Liraz’s “Top 100 Motivational Stories.”) That is one wise professor. It’s said that the happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they simply make the best of everything. One of the most important things we can do for those graduating is to bless and pray for them. It can be a crazy world out there, quite different from the one many of us graduated into. Only the good Lord can truly light their way. Perhaps you can use the following

prayer (source unknown) for graduates in your family or simply for all students graduating this year: “God of our beginnings, we thank you for the gifts of these graduates: their excitement, their awesome wonder and curiosity, their open speech and encouraging words. Their contributions have blessed and challenged us, and we have become a richer and more diverse community because of them. “As they step forward into the world that awaits, comfort their fears with the full knowledge of your divine presence. Strengthen their resolve to walk in the footsteps of Jesus as modern-day disciples in a world that needs their spirit. Guide their feet as they move through life, protecting them from the pitfalls of darkness while they help to lead future generations into the warmth and promise of your light. Amen.” And, graduates, one last thing: Don’t forget to enjoy the coffee!

Jesus is the visible face of God’s invisible love for us

n announcing a Year of St. Joseph, Pope Francis drew attention to the virtues of the saintly carpenter of Nazareth. Joseph faced many challenges and trials as he wrestled with the mystery of Mary’s motherhood, protected the infant Jesus from the murderous rage of Herod and raised Jesus, God’s divine son, during the hidden years of his earthly life. In the face of problems, Joseph turned difficulties into moments of God’s grace and providential care. These virtues are highlighted in the readings of the Seventh Sunday of Easter, which call our attention to how we might grow in steadfast faith,

JEM SULLIVAN Sullivan is a professor at The Catholic University of America.

courageous hope and the love of God by which God remains in us always. In the first reading from the Acts of the Apostles, we see Peter as the leader of the disciples, speaking and

acting in the power of the Holy Spirit as he ensures the unity of faith among the first Christian communities. Every successor of Peter carries out the same role of maintaining the unity that Jesus prays for in the Gospel: “Holy Father, keep them in your name that you have given me, so that they may be one just as we are one.” In relying on the Holy Spirit, Peter leads the community in deciding who would

replace Judas, the disciple who betrayed Jesus in the hour of his agony in the garden. Matthias is chosen and added to the disciples who will soon become apostles — that is, those sent out to the ends of the earth to proclaim boldly the life-transforming message of Jesus’ life, death and resurrection. The heart of the Gospel is summed up in the second reading: “God is love, and whoever remains in love remains in God and God in him.” Jesus is the visible face of God’s invisible love. In Jesus, we encounter the merciful and eternal love of God. As we remain close to Jesus, in his word and sacraments,

we live in the power of God’s love. In the Gospels, Jesus enters into deep communion with his heavenly Father. He retreats to pray in places of solitude on mountains, lakes and in deserts. In Sunday’s Gospel, we are privileged to hear Jesus’ words of prayer to his heavenly Father. What a gift of faith it is to know not only where Jesus prayed but to hear his words in the intimacy of his conversation with God! As we listen to the words of Jesus who prays for each one of us who are baptized in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, may we find wisdom and creative courage to pray, “Speak to me, Lord.”

One act of pure love is greatest miracle Christians can perform VATICAN CITY (CNS) — Contemplative prayer transforms and purifies the human heart, Pope Francis said. Being contemplative in prayer is an act of faith and love, it is “the ‘breath’ of our relationship with God,” he said during his weekly general audience May 5. Continuing his series of talks on prayer, the pope reflected on

contemplative prayer, which is not so much a way of doing, “but a way of being,” he said. “Being contemplative does not depend on the eyes, but on the heart. And here prayer enters into play as an act of faith and love” that offers God’s “breath,” purifying the heart and sharpening one’s gaze so that one can see the world from another point of view, he said.

“Contemplation is a gaze of faith, fixed on Jesus. ‘I look at him and he looks at me’” in loving contemplation, the pope said, citing the Catechism of the Catholic Church (2715). Jesus’ gaze “illumines the eyes of our heart and teaches us to see everything in the light of his truth and his compassion for all men,” the quote continues.

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his column is not a “fake news” rant. But as the Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches: “Journalists have an obligation to serve the truth . . . in disseminating information. They should strive to respect, with equal care, the nature of the facts” (2497). Nearly all news reporting on the Fairness in Women’s Sports Act, recently passed by the Kansas Legislature but (successfully) vetoed by Gov. Laura Kelly, is an example of de facto advocacy and unfairness cloaked as objective journalism. This legislation, officially known as SB 55, is a fascinating read. It can be accessed online at: www.kslegislature.

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CHUCK WEBER Chuck Weber is the executive director of the Kansas Catholic Conference. He can be reached at chuck@kansascatholic.org

org using the Find Bill search box. SB 55 would have protected women and girl athletes from the unfair physical advantages inherent

in bigger and stronger biological male competitors. It would prevent situations like that which occurred in Connecticut where two teenage boys “transitioned,” identified as female, and then took 15 state track championships from nine girls who previously held the titles. Women who tes-

tified in favor of SB 55 included several champion Kansas University athletes, a former Olympian and one of the first women from Kansas to take advantage of Title IX, the landmark law that guaranteed equal opportunities for college scholarships and participation previously reserved for men. The news media — wholly adopting language and issue framing supplied by opponents like the Kansas LGBTQ+ lobby — claimed SB 55 would “ban transgender” kids from sports. This is simply untrue. It would not have impacted male or coed teams. Everyone gets to play. The Fairness in Women’s Sports Act

would have simply ensured that athletic competition would take place on a level playing field for all Kansas students. The words “ban” or “transgender” are not found in the bill. The news media narrative of a “transgender sports ban” carried the day. Proponents of SB 55 were vilified as schoolyard “bullies.” One Senate opponent outrageously declared there would be “blood on your hands” if SB 55 passed. It would be a mistake to shrug our shoulders and dismiss the loss of the Fairness in Women’s Sports Act as a meaningless political skirmish. Like other aspects of Catholic Church teaching

connected to contemporary culture, we find a valuable lesson. Pope Francis has been clear about the evil of “gender ideology.” The Holy Father has been equally insistent about advocating a “Christian anthropology” and a “human ecology” that respects “our dignity as human beings” and “the necessary relationship of our life” to the “moral law, which is inscribed into our nature” (“Laudato Si’,” cf. 154-155). We can and should respectfully correct the secular scribes of our day. Let us also defend the unique gift, beauty and truth of human sexuality.

CALENDAR MEMORIAL LITURGY Curé of Ars 9405 Mission Rd., Leawood May 15 at 8 a.m.

There will be a memorial liturgy for deceased loved ones followed by a grief support meeting in the Father Burak Room. The topic will be: “Understanding and Dealing with Grief.” For more information, call (913) 649-2026.

ST. ISIDORE DAY RETREAT Christ’s Peace House of Prayer 22131 Meagher Rd., Easton May 15 from 10:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Join us for a special Mass in honor of St. Isidore, the patron saint of farmers, on his feast day. The day will begin with Mass followed by a procession to the St. Isidore Shrine. Bring seeds and soil in a small decorated basket to be placed at the altar for blessing. After lunch and a time of fellowship, there will be a spiritual conference on Pope St. John Paul II’s encyclical, “On Human Work” (“Laborem Exercens”), eucharistic adoration and evening prayer. A freewill offering will be taken up during the retreat. For more information, send an email to: info@ christspeace.com or call (913) 773-8255.

DISABILITY RESOURCE SERIES FOR PARENTS, GUARDIANS AND SELF-ADVOCATES Via Zoom May 20 and at 8:30 p.m.

Sessions include: “Working Healthy” (by Shannon Beat, benefits specialist). Register online at: www.archkck.org/special-needs. The Zoom link will be sent the day before each session. Contact Tom Racunas at: tracunas@archkck.org or Jill Reffett at: jillreffett@embraceks.org with questions.

A SPIRITUALITY OF THE HEART ONLINE OPEN HOUSE Via Zoom May 23 from 7 - 8 p.m.

Have you been longing in your heart for a closer relationship with God or been searching for means to deepen your prayer life? The Daughters of St. Francis de Sales offer a practical means of living a life devoted to God in everyday life with a family of spiritual friends, united in a bond of love and support. We invite you to join our upcoming virtual open house to learn more about this gentle saint, his spirituality of the heart and our associ-

ation. For meeting details, email: haydee@ sfdsassociation.org or visit our website at: www.sfdsassociation.org and look for a link in our “Welcome” box to register.

PROJECT CHRYSALIS Church of the Ascension (St. Luke’s Room) 9500 W. 127th St., Overland Park May 25 from 7 - 8:15 p.m.

Project Chrysalis is a Catholic ministry designed to help parents who have lost a child find hope through sacred Scripture and community. The guest speaker will be Deacon Ed Schoener from the Diocese of Scranton, Pennsylvania, sharing his story and ministry. For more information, including the Zoom invitation link, contact Deacon Ken Billinger at (913) 634-4210 or send an email to: kbillinger@archkck.org. While this ministry is not a bereavement group, our mission is to offer support and hope through Scripture in a time of transformation. The group is open to parents or grandparents who have lost children.

SACRED HEART RUMMAGE SALE 2427 Riley Rd., Ottawa June 3 from 8:30 a.m. - 6 p.m. (full price) June 4 from 8:30 a.m. - 6 p.m. (half price) June 5 from 7:30 a.m. - 1 p.m. (bag sale: 2 bags for $2)

Shop clean and reusable items including, but not limited to, furniture, clothing, knickknacks, home decor, tools, dishes, cookware, toys, books, craft supplies and more. Please wear a mask.

OLPE COMMUNITY CELEBRATION St. Joseph Parish 308 Iowa, Olpe June 5 at 10 a.m.

This event will celebrate the alumni of St. Joseph High School, Olpe; members of St. Joseph Parish, Olpe; and the 49th anniversary of Deacon Dale Steffes, a native of Olpe and permanent deacon of the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston. Mass will be at 10 a.m. followed by lunch at the Knights of Columbus Hall. All parishioners, alumni and people of Olpe are welcome. Please RSVP by email to: dalesteffes@comcast. net, so we can get a count for lunch.

WAR HORSES FOR VETERANS D-DAY RIDE 5600 W. 183rd St., Stillwell June 6 at 8 a.m.

This motorcycle ride is being hosted by the Father Donnelly Division of the Ancient Order of Hibernians. WHFV is a nonprofit organization that provides equestrian therapy for veterans and first responders. The 103-mile ride will begin at WHFV with stops at American Legion and VFW posts. It will end at Rawhide Harley Davidson, Olathe. Absolutely no alcohol during the ride. The cost is: $25 per rider; $10 per passenger. For registration and details go online to: horsesforveterans.com.

PRAYER VIGIL FOR THE SOLEMNITY OF THE SACRED HEART OF JESUS St. Joseph Parish 11311 Johnson Dr., Shawnee June 10 at 7 p.m.

The prayer vigil will include vespers, the Act of Reparation, Litany of the Sacred Heart and the chaplet of the Sacred Heart.

HOLY SPIRIT GARAGE SALE Holy Spirit Parish 11300 W. 103rd St., Overland Park June 10 from 8 a.m. - 6 p.m. June 12 from 8 a.m. - noon

Sale items include, but are not limited to, furniture, kitchen wares, clothing, baby items, toys, games, holiday items, books, home decor and more.

‘UNFAILING MERCY’: PROJECT RACHEL WEEKEND RETREAT June 11 - 13

For privacy, the location is given only to those attending. For further information and to register, contact Ann Marie by email at: projectrachelkc@archkck.org or call (913) 621-2199.

SPECIAL-NEEDS FAMILY CAMP Prairie Star Ranch 1124 California Rd., Williamsburg June 18 - 20

Enjoy a weekend of fun and family at Camp Tekakwitha. Register online at: www. archkck.org/special-needs.

ST. JOSEPH RETREAT: ‘WITH A FATHER’S HEART’ Christ’s Peace House of Prayer 22131 Meagher Rd., Easton June 25 - 27

The retreat will begin on June 25 at 6 p.m. with supper. In this year dedicated to

St. Joseph, enter into the movement and develop a deeper relationship with our spiritual father as we learn about consecration to St. Joseph. For more information, send an email to: info@christspeace.com or call (913) 773-8255.

CATHOLIC HEART WORKCAMP Kansas City area July 12 - 15

If you know of anyone needing minor home repairs, painting or yard cleanup, contact the managers by email at: chwc.kc@ gmail.com or call (402) 306-9043. You will need to leave a message if you call. Safety guidelines are in place to meet the current CDC guidelines regarding COVID.

TOTUS TUUS FOR PEOPLE WITH SPECIAL NEEDS Prince of Peace Parish 16000 W. 143rd St., Olathe July 19 - 23

Come join others and learn about Totus Tuus. Register online at: www.archkck.org/ special-needs.

ST. THOMAS AQUINAS GRADE SCHOOL SUMMER CAMPS St. Thomas Aquinas High School 11411 Pflumm Rd., Overland Park June and July

There will be a variety of camps for students entering grades K - 8. Registration and further information are available online at: www.stasaints.net/summercamps. For more information, call (913) 319-2416 or email: btriggs@stasaints.net.

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TALKING WITH MOM AND DAD How to discuss the tough topics with your aging parents

ough conversations often begin at home, and one of the most common is “the talk” with aging parents. Helping your parents plan for the future — or offering to help them — might be awkward, but necessary. The Leaven spoke with Maureen Kelly, director of spiritual health at Villa St. Francis Catholic Care Center in Olathe, for advice in making it a loving conversation.

At what stage of life should adult children and parents discuss a parent’s financial, mental and health expectations and future?

The earlier, the better. Ideally, a family begins to talk about these issues as they experience the deaths of family or friends. Family discussions about health, life and death, finances and other end-of-life issues shouldn’t only occur with elderly, aging parents. Young and adult children can pass away. In that situation, decision-making and follow-up falls to their parents. Most families are uncomfortable having ongoing conversations about end-of-life issues. Sometimes, these conversations occur naturally upon the death of a friend, retirement or if a parent is diagnosed with a terminal illness and is still able to talk about their expectations and future.

How should an adult child prepare for that discussion?

A. Reflect ahead of time on the

following points: What do I want to know? Why do I want to know it? Do I need to talk to a financial professional? What do I know about my parents’ physical health? Are there other members of the family to include? How do I think my parents will respond to a conversation about these issues? What is the best way to approach the topics with them? Role play your conversation with a friend.

Should the discussion be with all the children or just one? How is that decided?

Talk with your siblings about having this conversation and decide together whether it is the right time and if one or some or all need to be involved in the conversation. Have your parents already decided who they want to be their advocate? If so, that may be the best person for the conversation.

Should you have the conversation with a professional present?

Not necessarily. If it is the first time you or your parents have discussed these topics, an informal or spontaneous family conversation may be the best choice. You may want to suggest meeting with a financial professional next or invite your parents to attend a presentation by an elder care attorney.

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Maureen A. Kelly, far right, director of spiritual health at Villa St. Francis Catholic Care Center in Olathe and a member of St. Thomas More Parish in Kansas City, Missouri, gives readers advice about talking with elderly parents about financial planning, future living arrangements, power of attorney and avoiding scams.

Q. Should parents take respon-

sibility to start that conversation and share financial plans with children?

A. That is ideal. In my own expe-

rience, parents have told me that their adult children “just don’t want to talk about it.” It takes openness on both sides.

Are there other “liabilities” impacting a parent’s savings — such as driving and physical and mental health — that should be part of the discussion?

Yes. When you discuss finances and savings, help parents look ahead to other things, such as another car, longterm care and other health expenses.

Should living arrangements (current and future) be part of the conversation?

Yes. Do they want to stay in their home? Will it be safe depending on their physical health and challenges? Will they want to downsize? Are there places they are considering moving into later? If they have to go to a nursing home or care center, would they have places in mind? What financial plans will need to be put in place to achieve this goal?

How about trips they’d still like to take or goals they’d still like to accomplish, but might need help with?

A. Understand how their hobbies

or travel plans align with their savings and other goals. Much depends on age, health and finances. As an adult child, avoid a “now I am in charge” approach.

The more you go with the flow, the less resistance you will have in the end.

Should you consider an annual review of their expenses?

A. Yes. Adjustments may be nec-

essary. If they have a financial planner, offer to attend the annual review. Adult children can also assist with taxes and bank statements to assess where their parents stand. If a parent shows signs of dementia, review their bank statements more often.

What powers of attorney and other information are essential to designate or share?

It is essential that people designate a Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA) for health and finances. It can be the same person for both or a different person for each. These designations go into effect when a person is no longer capable of making her or his own decisions and end at their death.

What tips can adult children share with parents to avoid scams?

Tell them never give out their Social Security number, no matter how legitimate it sounds. Tell them never to send or give money to people they do not know or to someone they met recently, especially if they are a widow or widower.

Should children encourage repairing family estrangements?

Children can encourage parents and siblings to repair estrangements, but it is not their role to interfere. Encourage each party, but do not get into a triangle or be a messenger

from one to the other.

Q. What should you say and not

say?

Emphasize that planning ahead is a gift to themselves and others. Offer to help. Don’t criticize what they have or have not done.

What if you’re met with resistance?

If your family has had conversations about money, death and aging, you will not likely have a lot of resistance. You may have resistance if you are presenting your observation of a parent losing their memory, if finances have always been private or if your parents have not thought about or do not want to think about their own end of life. If the conversation is not going well, offer to provide them with additional information for review on their own. If you know friends who have made plans, encourage your parents to call them. Share your own plans for end of life, which may help them see how helpful that will be to your own family. Maureen A. Kelly, MA, is director of spiritual health at Villa St. Francis Catholic Care Center in Olathe and a member of St. Thomas More Parish in Kansas City, Missouri. She has served as a hospice chaplain for Catholic Community Hospice and Ascend Hospice; has worked in the field of catechetics at both the national and local level; and has contributed articles to Catholic magazines and several Catholic religion textbooks. She earned her master’s degree in theology from the Catholic University of Louvain in Belgium.