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RARER THAN A LEFTY

(Re: Life as a Lefty, Issue 472)

As a lefty myself, I enjoyed the article about lefties. Although my left hand is my more dominant hand, I write with my right hand. When I became bar mitzvah, my father asked a shailah about how I should put on tefillin. I was told to put tefillin first on my left hand, and then on the right hand.

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I really enjoy The Monsey View and look forward to it every week. POV is one of my favorite columns. I just wanted to suggest that maybe the topics featured could be less materialistic and appeal more to the spiritual side of life.

It’s definitely interesting, in a yentish kind of way, to read about what people buy in the grocery, but I don’t think there’s anything to be gained by it. On the other hand, a different POV question addressed ways to enhance the Shabbos seudah. That gave readers insight and ideas to elevate their own Shabbos tables. Instead of appealing to our yenta-gene, those ideas were useful and helpful in developing us into better people.

Some other topics that are both interesting and inspirational would be: What steps do you take to remain calm during trying moments? What comments did you find comforting, or appreciate most, after experienc-

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While the Sukkos tablescape pictures were beautiful, I object to the publication of these elaborate tablescapes. I find it very disturbing to see so much time and energy spent on putting together such elaborate meals, table designs, dishes and decor. Instead of making Yom Tov heilig and special, it diminishes the kedusha and erodes our spiritual sensitivity by filling us with gashmius. It defies the entire purpose of the Yom Tov seudah

Instead of turning a Yom Tov seudah into a lavish display of gashmius, our children should be taught that we eat the seudos in honor of Hashem. In general, we eat in order to have ko’ach to do what Hashem wants. But all these exotic preparations cause tension, stress and peer pressure, not to mention a huge financial burden. May we be zoche to be mechanech our children according to the Torah.

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WHAT DECOR ITEM IN YOUR HOME GIVES YOU THE MOST PLEASURE?

We recently got a gorgeous chandelier, which we bought with our saved tips. Looking at that chandelier gives me so much pleasure. – B.N.

We have a beautiful “im eshkacheich” etched in stone that we bought on our family trip to Eretz Yisroel. I wouldn’t say that it gives me “pleasure,” but the reminder that we are in our home away from Home is what we all need on good days and on less sunny days. – Family R.

27% of POV respondents mentioned family photos as their choice of home decor that gives them the most pleasure. Here is a sampling:

Pictures of my kids on the wall are the most beautiful decor items in my house. I try to replace them yearly as they grow. There’s nothing like seeing perfect smiles and clean clothing when my kids are anything but... – C.F.

What gives me much pleasure is a picture sitting on my dining room buffet. The photo features five generations: my greatgrandfather, grandfather, father-in-law, husband and son. – A Reader

8% of POV respondents prefer empty walls and clear surfaces to home decor:

I hate THINGS! They just collect dust and have to be moved every time its place is needed. And who needs the stress of children possibly breaking them? – Miriam

Although I’d love decorative items, I prefer clear, empty spaces. Which of course don’t stay clear and empty very long… – A Reader

I love our big canvas blowup of professional family pictures I took in the Old City before moving back from Eretz Yisroel. It fills me with joy! – A.H.

The certificate my husband’s friends made for him when he completed Shas. – A Reader

I printed a picture of a Kosel on tapestry. I have it hanging on the wall, and it makes me feel like I am back in seminary. – A Reader

I have a small, beautifully painted wooden block on my night table that bears the words, “Life doesn’t come with a manual; it comes with a mother.” – T. Davidson

I love the sign in my kitchen that says, “This is a self-cleaning kitchen. Clean up after yourself.” – A Reader

The paintings hanging over my couch. I got them for a great deal, and they just pull together the whole room. – A Reader

We have a decorative wooden shelf in a corner of our dining room where we place our leichter It frees up space on the Shabbos table and is safer when little children are around. – T.

The home decor that gives me the most pleasure is our couch footrest. Nothing like picking up my feet after a long day. – S.R.

The picture of our Rav in our dining room, which we had printed on acrylic. It’s stunning and makes our home feel so Torah’dig. – R. Family

Rugs. They lend a welcoming and cozy atmosphere to the bedrooms. – A Reader

My in-laws used decorative items to present my kallah gifts, some of which I converted to enjoy and display around my house. – A Reader

My most beautiful decor in my house is the kids’ parsha crafts hanging on the wall. – H.L.

Since our wedding, my husband kept telling me that the coffee should be more accessible than in the cabinet. So after a while, I bought a decorative coffee bar that sits on the counter and does its duty daily while leaving the area uncluttered. What can give me more pleasure than pleasing my husband in such a decorative way? – G.F.

On a ruchnius level, what can be nicer than “ Banecha k’shsulei zeisim saviv l’shulchanecha?”

The best decor in a Yiddishe heim is a dining room table around which children and grandchildren sit, with Zeidy and Bubby shepping nachas. – Mrs. Shmuelwitz, a grandmother who enjoys her role

I got a very outdated decorative mirror from a close family member as a wedding gift. I really did not like it and was upset about having to hang it up in my brand-new perfectly-set-up apartment. (This person visits me at home, so I had no choice). Then I put the situation into perspective and realized that in the grand scheme of things, having a less-than-perfect mirror hanging in my apartment for a few years is no big deal. It’s five years later now, and I just went to buy a new one. I’m proud to say that I did not let it get to me, and this gives me the ultimate pleasure. – B.C.W.

I enjoy the canvas painting behind my couch that I painted to match the design of my couch pillows. I did the same in a bedroom to match the linen. – D.H.

AT THE ENTRANCE TO MY HOUSE, I HAVE A CONSOLE TABLE THAT I BOUGHT BECAUSE I DON’T HAVE A FRONT HALL CLOSET. ALL KINDS OF RANDOM THINGS THAT USED TO FLY AROUND THE HOUSE FINALLY HAVE A PERMANENT HOME. – R.R.

A piece of decor that gives me pleasure is the grandfather clock my daughter bought us after we hosted her after her baby was born. It reminds me of her appreciation to us and of our precious first grandchild. – A Reader

When we moved back from Eretz Yisroel, my parents gave us one of their beautiful paintings to make our apartment feel warm and homey. It has graced our dining room ever since, and while it’s a beautiful piece in its own right, it’s the warm feelings behind it that bring us the most pleasure. – D.R.

After my cleaning lady leaves, everything in my house gives me utmost pleasure. – E.

I LOVE THE SCENT AND LOOK OF MY PROSECCO DIFFUSERS. – L.B.

The live plants in my living room give me lots of pleasure. I shep nachas when I see new leaves sprouting, and when I need to trim them, I replant the cut branches so I have another plant. Another benefit of having live plants in the home is that they clean the air we breathe. – A Reader

The decor item that gives me the most pleasure is definitely the floating wooden shelves in my girls room. It’s the place for their fabric dolls, cute pink stuff, pink diffusers, some hanging trinkets, and of course, a picture. – A Reader

The decor item that gives me pleasure whenever I glance at it is a large painting of chassidim dancing hanging in my dining room. We bought it in Eretz Yisroel, and it enhances the whole house as we live in an open-concept home. – M.G.

This pillow, a decorative item, gives me a lot of pleasure. I am an accomplished quilter, and I own a computerized sewing machine with an embroidery module that uses software to embroider. It took a year to finish this pillowcase since my machine broke down in the middle. I keep the pillow on the bed in my sewing room, and I am proud of it because it reminds me of the patience and perseverance I learned by completing this project. – A Reader

This is a difficult question to answer because the longer you’re a homeowner, the more pleasure-giving items you have as part of your decor. There’s the ledge of family photos (which all guests peek at), my hanging needlepoints (one of which was a gift to a dear aunt who was since nifteres), my kitchen table runner (bought while on a boat from another boat in Mexico), and so much more. – R.S.

I love my red-and-white herringbonepatterned laundry room counters. When we first ordered it, the seller asked us five times if we were sure with this selection, as it was a pretty unconventional choice! Ten years later, I’m still loving and enjoying it every time I work in that space. – A Reader

My hanging chair. It’s meant for outdoors, but who cares? It goes well with my home decor and is so comfortable. There’s nothing like swinging back and forth on comfortable cushions while you procrastinate on getting your todo list done. Best Wayfair purchase ever! – A Reader

I have two large (live) palm trees in my dining room, which give off great, positive vibes. – A Reader

My beautiful gemstones are on display all around the house. They give me visual pleasure whenever I look at them, and also they impact the energy around me. – A Reader

The decor item that gives me most pleasure isn’t a single item; rather, it’s an entire wall. The wall facing my kitchen table is full of random crafts, letters and notes from my kids and random tidbits that show that happy little kids live here. It gives me great pleasure to see it at every meal, and it makes my kids feel valued and appreciated. – A Reader

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Before overturning Sedom, Hashem said, “Should I hide from Avraham what I’m about to do? Avraham will become a great and mighty nation, and through him all nations of the world will be blessed. [I have promised him these brachos] because he instructs his children after him to follow Hashem’s ways…” (Bereishis 18:17–19).

Rashi explains that these words were said b’lashon chibah — Hashem loved Avraham. Why? Because he was mechanech his household to follow the derech Hashem.

This pasuk reveals an astounding idea. Why was Avraham worthy of having Hashem reveal His plans to him? Not because he overcame ten nisyonos or because he taught the world about Hashem, nor because he was such a great baal chesed — although these would seem like great reasons. Rather, it was for one reason alone: that Avraham commanded his children and generations after him to follow in Hashem’s ways.

THE NESIVOS SHALOM EXPLAINS: Avraham Avinu tread a path different from the rest of the world. He taught his offspring how to live like a Yid from the moment he wakes up until he goes to sleep, in a lifestyle completely different from that of a non-Jew. We know how to live, think and behave like a Yid, with emunah and bitachon, and the middos of ayin tovah, ruach nemuchah and nefesh shefeilah that Avraham was famous for, thanks to the trail he blazed.

Thus, Avraham’s chinuch of the next generation was not “another advantage.” Rather, it was the actual kiyum, the actual continuation, of the Jewish nation. It is the central achievement in which merit Avraham was zoche to all these great havtachos

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At an asifah for mechanchim, Rav Dessler stepped up to the podium. “I’m afraid to speak,” he began. “I feel I can hardly open my mouth. You think I’ll be speaking to the few mechanchim sitting here. But no — standing here, I see before my eyes thousands of children, all of your current talmidim, and all the talmidim you will be mechanech over the years. They are all dependent on the approach you have to chinuch. That’s why I’m afraid. I must have the right approach.”

Then, Rav Dessler added, “Who knows which of your students will grow up to be the next gadol hador ? Maybe one of them will be the Reb Akiva Eiger, the Chasam Sofer, or Chofetz Chaim of the next generation. With one word, you can affect

I see before my eyes thousands of children, all of your current talmidim, and all the talmidim you will be mechanech over the years. They are all dependent on the approach you have to chinuch

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“Don’t you know everyone gets one portion, and one portion only?” He gave Avraham a sharp slap on his face.

the fate of the next gadol hador, and ultimately of the entire generation! If so, it’s simply a pachad to speak.”

A great responsibility lies on the shoulders of parents and mechanchim. It’s vital to remember that the key to our child or student lies in our hands. The impact of our words and actions can determine the path the child will take for a lifetime.

Growing up as an orphan, young Avraham was used to going hungry. Luckily, every day, he received a nourishing lunch in cheder, the famous Eitz Chaim of Yerushalayim. And every Rosh Chodesh, the boys were treated to chocolate pudding — a delicacy they all looked forward to, especially the poor orphans like Avraham.

The first time Avraham tasted the pudding, he was delighted. He licked his plate clean and wanted another portion.

Avraham decided to try his luck and stand in line once again near the large dessert pot. As he neared the precious pudding, the man who was doling out the portions recognized him. “Why are you standing here again, boy? Don’t you know that everyone gets one portion, and one portion only?” Instead of giving Avraham some pudding, he gave him a sharp slap on his face.

Smarting from the pain, humiliation and disappointment, Avraham angrily kicked the foot of the table in front of him. The table buckled, and the entire pot of pudding turned over. A large puddle of chocolate spread across the floor, to the utter disappointment of the children still waiting in line for their treat.

Avraham was shocked — and frightened. He ran out of the cheder building as quickly as his feet could carry him. He knew he had committed a dreadful deed, and he felt terrible. In his young mind, he already envisioned himself being terribly punished. Who knew if he would be allowed back in cheder altogether?

That night, Avraham couldn’t sleep. He was so worried. But as morning dawned, he reluctantly got dressed and dragged himself to cheder

Sure enough, Avraham was called to the office of the menahel, Rav Aryeh Levine, zt”l. His heart was pounding so loud, Avraham was sure Rav Aryeh could hear it. He looked at the floor, refusing to make eye contact.

“Is it true that you spilled the pot of pudding yesterday?” Rav Aryeh asked softly.

Voice stuck in his throat, Avraham simply nodded.

“Will you do it again?”

Avraham shook his head from side to side. No doubt, he wouldn’t do such a thing again!

Rav Aryeh smiled warmly. “Why did you do it?” he asked.

In a quiet voice, Avraham described the events of the previous day, as simply as they’d occurred. The potch still stung his face.

When he was done, Rav Aryeh said, “You know, I also like chocolate pudding.” He stood up and walked over to a closet in the corner of the room and removed two plates. He put them on the table — one in front of Avraham and one for himself. Each held a serving of chocolate pudding.

With his trademark smile, the menahel invited his talmid to sit and eat with him.

Avraham grew up to be the famed mechanech Reb Avraham Baharan. Decades later, he would say that this experience remained before his eyes all his life. “In those magical moments in Rav Aryeh’s presence, I understood how great the power of a mechanech is, and what it means to understand the nefesh of a child. I thought to myself then and there that I, too, want to be like him, and that’s what prompted me to go into chinuch.”

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CHAYA KOHN

The soaring costs of weddings have long been a source of stress and anxiety for families in our community. As families struggle to balance celebration with financial responsibility, a groundbreaking initiative called Motza Tov has emerged, bringing new hope to ease this burden. Successfully implemented in the Vizhnitz Monsey community, community leaders from other sectors are actively working to bring its approach to their own communities.

In a significant meeting held in Monsey before Yom Tov, prominent askanim and roshei kehilla gathered with askanim from the Motza Tov organization to discuss strategies for tackling the rising expenses of weddings. These expenses have placed a heavy strain on families, often leading to debilitating debt and financial hardship.

Motza Tov was created to directly address this crisis. The organization has worked tirelessly to develop practical solutions to cut costs without compromising the joy and dignity of a simcha. In the Vizhnitz Monsey community, where this model has been in place for the past six months, families have already seen transformative savings. Hundreds of families have had the rare opportunity to celebrate weddings that respect both tradition and financial sensibility, saving tens of thousands of dollars on what often becomes an overwhelming financial burden.

The Motza Tov model includes several innovative approaches, including a dedicated showroom in Vizhnitz that offers high-quality decor and furniture at wholesale prices. This initiative has transformed the way families approach wedding planning, making it possible to create beautiful, memorable simchos without the excessive spending that has become so common. By eliminating unnecessary extravagances and providing quality, affordable options, Motza Tov has set a new standard for dignified, budget-conscious weddings.

for so long.

In preparation for this expansion, Motza Tov mailed an informational pamphlet to every household in the greater Monsey Area. This pamphlet outlined the organization’s plans and upcoming initiatives, and shared ways for community members to get involved. Alongside the pamphlet, Motza Tov also included a survey designed to gather feedback from current and future mechutanim. Families were invited to share their experiences, concerns, and ideas on wedding planning and costs.

Askanim from other kehillos in the Monsey community have taken notice. Inspired by the success in Vizhnitz, they’re eager to bring similar solutions to their own communities. Responding to requests from askanim and community leaders seeking to replicate this model, Motza Tov’s leadership agreed to a collaborative meeting to discuss how they could extend the program beyond Vizhnitz and reach even more families in need.

The goal is ambitious but attainable: to bring these costsaving measures to tens of thousands more Yiddishe households burdened by wedding expenses. With support from across the community, Motza Tov is building a network of families, askanim, and communal leaders who believe that weddings can be celebrated beautifully, and affordably, without the financial strain that has weighed down so many

The response has been nothing short of overwhelming. Since the surveys went out, Motza Tov’s headquarters have been flooded with heartfelt answers, suggestions, and stories from community members eager to share their perspective. This invaluable feedback has strengthened the organization’s resolve and has already started shaping the next phase of Motza Tov’s initiatives. Families have shared their struggles and hopes, providing insights that will continue to refine the organization’s approach as it expands into other communities.

The enthusiastic response from the community has confirmed that the issue of sky-high wedding expenses resonates deeply with many. With each new response, the Motza Tov team feels a renewed sense of purpose and dedication to spreading this transformative model. The insights from the surveys have also sparked new ideas, with community leaders and Motza Tov strategists working tirelessly to create solutions that will alleviate this burden not only in Monsey but also in Jewish communities everywhere.

The road ahead is promising. Thanks to the support of visionary askanim, community leaders, and families themselves, a revolution in wedding planning is underway—one that emphasizes joy and dignity over financial strain. The Motza Tov team remains committed to bringing this movement forward, and they encourage the community to stay tuned for more exciting developments.

As we look to the future, it’s clear that with Hashem’s help and the dedication of those committed to this cause, relief is on the horizon. The days of overwhelming wedding expenses may soon be a thing of the past, making way for a new era of thoughtful, joyful celebrations across our communities.

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Wieder Heading to Albany After Assembly Win

It was a big win for County Legislator Aron Wieder on Election Day, edging out incumbent John McGowan in the race to represent the 97th District in the New York State Assembly.

Wieder took 51.82 percent of the vote, according to unofficial results posted by the Rockland County Board of Elections, beating his opponent by 3,448 votes. With his win, Wieder becomes the Assembly’s second chasidic member, joining Boro Park’s Simcha Eichenstein in the legislative body.

Also emerging victorious on election night were two strong allies of the local Jewish community: Congressman Mike Lawler and State Senator Bill Weber.

Lawler successfully fought off a challenge from Mondaire Jones in the 17th Congressional District, garnering 58 percent of the vote. Weber beat out challenger Elijah Reichlin Melnick for the third time in a row, besting his challenger by nearly 10,000 votes.

Both Lawler and Weber are Republicans, with many local residents joining their fellow Americans in voting the red line, sending a strong signal to Democrats that their policies are out of touch with the general population.

Trump Jr. Hails New Square for Unprecedented Support

New Square made state history last week, with virtually all of the village’s voters casting their ballots for Trump, the highest margin of victory recorded anywhere in New York.

Eric Trump thanked Mayor Izzy Spitzer during a congratulatory post-election phone call for his village’s near-unanimous support. Ninety-nine point nine percent of village voters cast their ballots for Donald Trump in the presidential election.

In addition to extending his well wishes, Spitzer said that he

looked forward to collaborating with the Trump administration in the coming years. Eric Trump commented on the warm relationship shared by his family and the Jewish community, both in New Square and beyond, noting, “It’s a great day for religious liberty and a great day for the United States.”

Deadline Looming for Spring Valley Property Tax Deduction

First-time homeowners in Spring Valley could recognize significant savings on their property taxes over the next five years if they submit applications to the village by December 30.

The initiative is part of a state program offering incentives to first-time homeowners who either purchase a newly constructed home, or perform more than $3,000 worth of renovations to their new dwellings within 90 days of purchase. The program applies to one or two family homes, townhouses, or condominiums constructed after November 28, 2001, that had not been previously occupied before their purchase.

Homeowners would have to meet income and purchase price criteria to qualify for the program, which would offer a 50 percent discount on their property taxes in their first year of ownership. The reductions would continue for the next four years, decreasing 10 percent in each subsequent year.

Deputy Mayor Yisroel Eisenbach is encouraging interested homeowners to contact him for assistance at yeisenbach@villagespringvalley.org or at 845-826-4639. Qualifying Spring Valley homeowners must submit their applications to Kristen Padilla at kpadilla@villagespringvalley.org or at 845-352-1100 extension 193.

Amsterdam Pogrom Sparks Worldwide Uber Boycott

With dozens of Jews targeted in what appears to be a preplanned attack in Amsterdam, Yeshiva World News is calling for a global boycott of Uber, alleging that many of its drivers actively participated in the violence.

Yeshiva World News called for the boycott on November 8, saying that the company had not taken any meaningful action in response to reports that Jews leaving a local soccer match were beaten, kicked, chased, and in some instances, hit by cars. Police in the Netherlands arrested 62 suspects in the November 7 attacks, which were allegedly coordinated through Uber’s app.

“The silence from Uber has fueled a sense of outrage within the Jewish community, who see this as a test of accountability for global companies,” wrote Yeshiva World News. “Until Uber acknowledges and responds to the serious allegations surrounding the attack, YWN strongly recommends that Jews cease using the service.”

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Port Authority Unveils Plans for State-of-the Art Terminal B at Newark

Building on its successful efforts at all three area airports, the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey shared its vision for much-needed updates that it hopes will transform Newark Liberty International Airport into a world-class gateway.

Announced in late October, the Port Authority’s EWR Vision Plan will completely rebuild Terminal B, Newark’s outdated international hub, with enhancements also being made to Terminal C. Both terminals, as well as Newark’s all new $2.7 billion Terminal A, which began operations in 2023, could see additional expansions in the future, as needed.

In addition to its focus on Newark’s terminals, the Port Authority plan will also include improvements to the airport’s taxiway network, the addition of new deicing facilities, and other enhancements, all of which are aimed at minimizing delays and increasing safety. Those using the airport can also expect to find streamlined roadways and

better AirTrain access once the project is completed.

The Port Authority plan follows in the footsteps of the agency’s $19 billion transformation at John F. Kennedy International Airport, its highly acclaimed reconstruction of LaGuardia Airport, and its award-winning new Terminal A at Newark. With a record 49 million passengers utilizing Newark in 2023, the Port Authority expects to begin its two- to three-year planning process for the project in 2025, which will pinpoint cost projections and estimated completion dates.

“Newark Liberty Airport serves as the gateway for millions of passengers, offering them their first welcome to the great state of New Jersey,” said New Jersey Governor Phil Murphy. “The EWR Vision plan will solidify Newark Liberty’s status as a premier regional and international transportation hub. This transformation will not only enhance passenger service, but also strengthen the airport’s role as a key economic driver for New Jersey and the surrounding region.”

Ellish Parkway Improvements Completed

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The 2024 presidential election between Vice President Kamala Harris and former president Donald Trump was expected to be a nail-biter. Polling averages leading up to the election showed a tight contest in battleground states needed for an electoral college victory. In fact, many polls showed Harris holding a slight lead in the popular vote. Yet, in what can rightfully be described as a political earthquake, Donald Trump resoundingly defeated Kamala Harris and was reelected as President of the United States.

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The magnitude of Trump’s victory has left Democrats reeling. If Republicans manage to retain the House, Democrats will face the reality of being shut out of the federal government. Complete Republican control of Congress and the presidency will allow President Trump to implement much of the agenda he promised on the campaign trail. That includes mass deportations of illegal immigrants, rolling back Bidenera environmental regulations, imposing across-the-board tariffs on imports, and extending the 2017 tax cuts. Trump is also expected to implement significant changes in foreign policy; he has vowed to bring the wars in Ukraine and the Middle East to an end.

to Jerusalem, implementing the Abraham Accords, and recognizing the legality of the annexation of the Golan Heights. Trump was also rewarded for his helpful actions on behalf of members of the American frum community. However, Trump lost the overall Jewish American vote by a significant margin.

Harris’ loss can be attributed to several factors, chief among them that most Americans believed the country was headed in the wrong direction. Over the

Trump’s victory was greeted with enthusiasm in Eretz Yisroel and by many in the Orthodox Jewish communities throughout America. These communities gave Trump overwhelming support mainly because of his decisive actions during his first term in support of Israel, such as moving the U.S. embassy

TRUMP’S VICTORY WAS GREETED WITH ENTHUSIASM IN ERETZ YISROEL AND BY MANY IN THE ORTHODOX

past four years, many Americans have experienced diminishing purchasing power as COVID-fueled inflation caused the prices of everyday items to rise. Even though annual inflation had been brought under control and was within the Fed target rate of 2.4%, the prices of everyday items remained high. Harris made the case that the American economy was strong, with solid GDP, record-low unemployment and record stock market gains. However, Harris’ argument fell flat in the face of the continued high prices at the supermarket. Additionally, high interest rates implemented by the Federal Reserve to bring down in-

flation caused the cost of borrowing to rise and was acutely felt by those seeking mortgages or carrying credit card debt.

Additionally, many Americans blamed Harris for the administration’s lack of action in enforcing border security. The influx of illegal migrants to American cities fueled concerns regarding the strain being placed on resources and government services. The administration’s attempt to pass a bipartisan comprehensive border bill crafted by conservative Republican Senator James Lankford of Oklahoma fell short. Voters perceived it as too little, too late.

To win voters, Harris needed to articulate her policy positions forcefully, and she failed to do so. In her attempt to tack to the center, she flipped on many previously held policies, such as retracting her support for a fracking ban to win votes in Pennsylvania. On Gaza, as well, she sought to play the middle ground. She supported the shipment of weapons and munitions to Israel but expressed her outrage over the deaths of civilians in Gaza. She spoke of the need to free the hostages but also of the need for a ceasefire. She refused to allow a pro-Palestinian speaker to address the Democratic National Committee but skipped the address of Netanyahu to Congress. In her attempt to pacify both sides, she managed to alienate everyone. Harris lost support among Jews in swing states and lost support among Arabs and Muslims in Michigan. Many also faulted Harris for not being forceful enough in the condemnation of antisemitic college campus protests that have erupted over the past year.

cans such as Liz Cheney and Adam Kinzinger failed to help her garner enough support.

Trump’s victory will profoundly impact the role of the United States on the world stage. Trump’s first term included many traditional Reagan Republicans who believed that the United States was responsible for promoting and defending democracy across the globe. The current Trump team is composed mainly

Harris was also unable to untether herself from the very unpopular President Biden. She could not articulate what she would do differently from him, if elected. Harris’ outreach to Never Trump Republi-

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of America First isolationists. Trump has pledged to end American involvement in overseas wars and bring the fighting in Ukraine and the Middle East to an end. The new Trump administration will likely cease funding the Ukrainian military and force the Ukrainians into concessions to effectuate a negotiated settlement with Russia. It is unclear how the new administration plans to bring the wars in Gaza and Lebanon to an end, but as president, Trump will likely give the Israeli government more leeway and freedom of operation on how forcefully it can respond to threats from Hamas, Hezbollah and Iran. Trump is also expected to take a tougher stance on sanctioning Iran; however, it is questionable if an America First administration will be willing to deploy U.S. military assets and servicemen in defense of Israel as the Biden administration has.

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Jewish Governor of North Carolina, handily defeating GOP candidate Mark Robinson, who had a long history of making incendiary and antisemitic remarks.

Republican Mike Lawler drew strong support from the frum community and held off a challenge from former congressman Mondaire Jones to win reelection

Trump’s victory will also affect the many legal cases pending against him. The federal charges against him regarding the events of January 6 and the retention of classified documents will likely be dropped. The state charges in Georgia regarding his attempts to pressure the state Attorney General Brad Raffensperger to “find votes” are now in legal limbo. In terms of his supporters, Trump has promised to pardon those who were convicted for storming the Capitol on January 6, 2021. Trump has also vowed to pursue legal action against his political opponents, whom he described as the enemy within. However, the extent of the fulfillment of this promise remains to be seen.

In other vital races, Democrat Josh Stein was elected as the first

in NY-17. Republican Craig Goldman won TX-12, making him the third Jewish member of the House GOP caucus. Eugene Vindman, a Jewish Russian immigrant who, together with his brother Alexander, aroused the ire of President Trump for their involvement in his first impeachment trial, won election to Congress in a closely contested contest in VA-7.

The election of President Trump and his Republican allies fills many with hope for a better future. However, we must remember the words of Dovid Hamelech in Tehillim: Al tivtichu bindivim. Ultimately, lev melachim v’sarim b’yad Hashem (Mishlei 21:1). We must continue to be mispallel for the success of this country and for the safety and security of Klal Yisroel everywhere in the world.

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Recap: Kaily shoulders the bulk of her mother’s care. She very badly wants to join her organization’s Shabbaton. Roiza asks Perela to stay with her for Shabbos so Kaily can go.

How cowardly of Kaily, to make her mother do the dirty work.

How could she say no?

But how could she agree? Was it even normal to ask her entire list of contacts for help? Because that’s what it would take for her to stay in the hospital with her mother for Shabbos.

Perela yanked the string to the collapsible attic staircase. It opened with a billow of dust and heat. She gingerly unfolded the rest of the staircase and ascended to greet the unbearable temperature. Though it was the last week of camp already, the heat had not let up, and the attic wasn’t insulated.

at least she could start packing.

Perela carefully carried the bags down the steps and folded up the ladder. First, the girls’ room. Socks, Shabbos robes, hair bows, pajamas. What was she forgetting?

The boys were much easier to pack. That didn’t mean that they were easier to host. “They’ll give your mother a heart attack,” she told Ezriel, only half joking.

“Sometimes there’s no choice,” Ezriel had assured her. “Sheva will help with Yanky, and I’ll take the rest to shul. Besides, we don’t do this often.” He was right, but her

PERELA IGNORED THE CALL. SHE DIDN’T NEED KAILY’S GRATITUDE. IT MADE HER FEEL SICK

She stomped up the steps like a little kid and flicked on the light. Cautiously, she navigated the plywood panels on the unfinished attic. She had five minutes before she would melt.

They didn’t even own a suitcase. That’s how often the Sternbergs traveled.

She spied the two duffel bags Leiby used for camp last year. They would have to do. She would use one for herself and one for Sheva. She also dug up two oversized gift bags that could fit clothing for two of her boys. The rest would have to do with grocery bags.

See? It’s all for the best that Chaya can’t take Charni because of her “cold.” It wouldn’t look good if she showed up with her clothes in a shopping bag — not when she thinks I’ve got class all figured out. Not that she had a good — or bad — alternative yet. But

mother-in-law wasn’t a young woman, either. And Perela had thought it cute when she got engaged to a fellow youngest.

Her phone rang. Kaily I wish I could video call her. Let her see this — this shopping bag party!

She ignored the call. She didn’t need Kaily’s gratitude. It made her feel sick.

Because Kaily wouldn’t get it. She wouldn’t understand that her house was still recuperating from Tuesday’s shift at the hospital.

Did she know what it meant to find six neighbors to meet her kids’ buses? What it meant to have peyos gelled,

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Tuesday, when she’d taken over Kaily’s shift, Kaily had excitedly greeted her with a beautifully designed welcome brochure for her Shabbaton.

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First there would be a warmup pool party with aqua aerobics. To relax from the extraneous activity, they would be treated to an Erev Shabbos massage and professional makeup application. Add to that music, speeches, comedy, hypnosis and an illusionist that could somehow read your thoughts.

She was glad no illusionist could see her thoughts now.

Perela let the phone ring until it went to voicemail. She took a pile of laundry to sort, fold and pack as she racked her brains for someone who could host Charni.

The phone rang again.

Perela sighed. It could be Kaily again; she simply had to answer the phone.

“Hello?”

“Hi, Mrs. Sternberg?”

She recognized the voice but couldn’t quite place it.

“It’s Tziri. Tziri Blass from Prance. Do you think we could meet sometime soon?”

Meet? “About what?”

“I have a great offer to make you. One I don’t think you could — or should —– refuse.” Her voice was authoritative and super sweet, and Perela didn’t like it, though she envied it. What did it feel like to always look and feel your best, with a good dose of confidence to go with it?

“Umm… my mother’s in the hospital,” she blurted. “So it’s not a great time to meet.”

“I don’t want this to wait,” Tziri said smoothly. “So let’s schedule for Monday, then. Does eleven o’clock work?”

“Uh…” Hadn’t she told Tziri that she wasn’t available? But really, what did she have on Monday except for Sruly’s vort ?

“That should work,” she said slowly. From the baby’s room, she heard Yanky waking from his nap. “And thanks,” she said quickly, just to get off the phone.

What had she just agreed to? She headed to Yanky’s room. But instead of jumping up when she came in, Yanky just lay in the crib and wailed. Uh-oh. She bent to pick him up. Warm. He was definitely warmer than he should be. She held him tightly and kissed his cheek.

WHAT HAD SHE JUST AGREED TO? SHE HEADED TO YANKY’S ROOM. BUT INSTEAD OF JUMPING UP WHEN SHE CAME IN, YANKY JUST LAY IN THE CRIB AND WAILED

She sat down on the bed with him and rocked him gently. Then she noticed three suspicious blotches behind his right ear. She inspected the back of the left one; there were two dots there, too.

Nooo.

The phone rang again. Kaily.

* * * * *

She didn’t answer Kaily’s calls until she was safely at the pediatrician. She held Yanky in a corner of the waiting room so that no one got too close to him. He was irritable, even on Motrin, and so was she.

Please Hashem, make a miracle happen. Not chicken pox! In the face of this new crisis, she suddenly realized that she did want Kaily to go to the Shabbaton, especially after all the arrangements she’d made.

Once she was safely in an exam room and the nurse had taken Yanky’s temperature, height and weight, she called Kaily.

“Hi, Kaily?” she said softly.

“Perela! Finally! I can’t tell you

how much I appreciate this! I so badly need this Shabbos now —” she dropped her voice, “— with Sruly’s simcha, and everything… I can really use the chizuk. And by the way, I didn’t set up Mommy to call you. I promise. It was her idea.”

“Kaily.” Perela said it quietly but sharply. “Kaily. Can you please listen for a minute?”

“Yeeeess. Don’t tell me…”

“I’m not telling you anything. Yanky’s doctor will. I’m putting you on speakerphone. Mute yourself.”

Well, using someone else to break news was a page out of Kaily’s book.

“Hey, young man!” The doctor tickled Yanky, who cried. “What have we got here? Looks like a very unhappy little

He inspected the boils for under a min-

up the women for room accommodations. Every other sentence was, “Yes, I’m sure I can’t come.”

Kaily busied herself with small tasks and phone calls all morning and avoided conversation. The elephant in the room seemed to suck all the oxygen out of the space.

Finally, Sruly popped in during his lunch break. “Hi, Bubby!” he called cheerfully. Such a sweetheart. Bina was lucky.

“Sruly, zeeskeit.” She motioned him to come closer to her bed.

“What is it, Bubby?”

“Can you stay here for Shabbos?” Roiza whispered.

“WHATEVER. IT’S TOTALLY FINE.” KAILA SUCKED IN A BREATH. “I’M HAPPY TO STAY HERE. YANKY HAS CHICKEN POX”

“Classic chicken pox,” he said. “It’ll get worse before it gets better. Keep him home until you see the boils starting to dry up. About five days or so.”

When he left the room, Kaily un-

“I heard,” she said woodenly.

* * * * *

Roiza also heard. She watched Kaily’s face harden. She struggled to talk from under the mask.

“What?” she rasped.

“You’re up?” Kaily asked.

“Hmm? What’s with Perela?”

“Whatever. It’s totally fine.” Kaila sucked in a breath. “I’m happy to stay here. Yanky has chicken pox.”

Roiza felt stricken.

She couldn’t do much with her hands shackled to an IV, her hip still aching and her legs unable to hold her up. Her breath was noisy from the mask, though they’d promised she was ready for a cannula already.

A total upgrade.

Kaily was already on the phone with that Mira girl who’d taken her home from the l’chaim. She was rapidly giving her instructions on who to contact for what and how to pair

Sruly was quiet, caught by surprise.

“I want your mother to go to the Shabbaton,” Roiza explained quickly. She glanced at him anxiously to make sure he understood.

A light went on in his eyes. “I’d love to,” he said.

Roiza squeezed his shoulder with her free hand. Was she imagining it, or was her hip feeling better?

When Kaily finally got off the phone, Roiza and Sruly started talking together.

“You’re going!” Roiza squealed — as much as she could squeal while attached to oxygen.

At the same moment, Sruly said, “Ma, I came to tell… um… ask you…”

Both women went quiet.

“I could’ve called you,” he said, not meeting her eyes, “but I wanted to visit anyway, and… um, I knew you’d be here.”

He looked away uncomfortably. “My father. I know he won’t really be able to come to the simcha next week, but I feel like it would only be right to see him… you know, get his bracha. Do you think I could fly there after the vort ?”

TO BE CONTINUED…

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RECLINERS

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Chapter 18

Recap: Alone in the freezing cold, Rachel takes an enormous risk and seeks shelter in a house.

Standing in the doorway, Rachel saw a family sitting around a table: a woman, a man and a teenage boy. Her courage failed her, and she couldn’t take the step inside. She just stood there in the doorway, frozen by fear and the bone-deep chill. She knew she needed to say something, do something, but she couldn’t.

The woman turned to see who had opened the door, and she looked startled. Startled, but not angry. Rachel let out a breath she didn’t even know she had been holding. The woman motioned to Rachel. “Come inside, child. Close the door. It’s cold outside.”

Turning to her husband, the woman said, “This is the girl I found in the barn this morning. She must be cold. And hungry.”

The man nodded. He got up and pulled a chair over to the table. “Sit down, child. Tell us your name.”

Rachel watched as the woman got up to put some food on a plate. Her mouth watered. Hot food. It had been a long time since her last hot meal.

They were all watching her. Rachel blinked. The man had asked something. Right. Her name.

“My name is Rachel,” she said. “Rachel Blum.”

“Blum?” said the woman. “Did your father make vinegar?”

“Yes, he did. How do you know?”

“We used to do business with him. He’d give us a few bottles of vinegar to sell, without asking us for any money upfront. Whenever we sold some, we paid him. He was satisfied with this arrangement. Sometimes he would come over, and we would sit and talk for hours. He was a very fine man.”

They knew her father. Her father, who only the previous night had come to Rachel in a dream to tell her not to be afraid. A chill went down Rachel’s spine and she felt a hidden Hand in her life, right there in the middle of all the death and destruction that surrounded her.

YAAKOV ASTOR

Her next words surprised them all, including herself. “Do you have a Bible?”

The woman looked at the man, and the man at the woman. “Of course.”

“Please, can you bring it to the table?”

They knew her father. Her father, who only the previous night had come to Rachel in a dream to tell her not to be afraid

The man took it off the shelf and brought it over.

“Please, everyone, sit,” Rachel said. “Everyone, put your hands on this Bible.”

They did as she asked, not sure what she would say or do next.

“I have nowhere to go,” Rachel said. “I can’t run any longer. If you tell me I can stay, I will stay. If you tell me to leave, I will leave. But I have no more strength to run away. Instead, I’ll go behind your barn, lie down in the snow, fall

asleep and die. And maybe the snow will bury me, or maybe you’ll be kind enough to come out and dig me a proper grave. But for me, this is the end.

“We all know that one day this war will end. And there will be some Jews who survive, with G-d’s help. So I want you to swear on this Bible that after the war you’ll find Jews and tell them. Tell them that there was a Jewish girl buried here. Tell them to dig up my body and rebury it in a Jewish cemetery, so I can be with my people. Promise me. Swear to me on this Bible. Swear that after the war when you see a Jew, you’ll tell him that you know where there is a grave of a Jewish girl, so that he can rebury me in a Jewish cemetery.”

The family sat there, stunned by Rachel’s words. They

The SS did not care if the farmers had not helped any partisans. They were there to destroy their farms whether they were guilty or not

looked at each other, speechless. Rachel sat, terrified, waiting for a reaction — any reaction. They all sat in silence for a few long moments. The tension in the air was palpable.

Finally, the woman said to her husband, “We have to keep her. She has to live. If she made it all the way until now, we have to make sure she lives.”

The man nodded. “It may be a small thing, but it’s something. It’s something we can do. I’ve seen too much in this war. I can’t be responsible for this child’s death.”

They looked at their son, and he nodded, too. “I might not have a sister, but it would be nice to have a cousin.”

“We agree, then,” said the woman. Turning to Rachel, she said, “We’ll keep you as long as we can.”

“What’s your name?” Rachel asked.

“My name is Maria,” the woman answered.

“And my name is Ivan,” the man said.

“And my name is Stephan,” the teenage boy added.

“We are the Roluks,” Maria told Rachel. “Welcome.”

* * * * *

In April 1944, a new contingent of German soldiers suddenly showed up one night in Ludmir. Their uniforms were black and their caps were adorned with the skull and crossbones insignia. History knows them as the Totenkopf, which is German for “death’s head” or “skull.”

This was the symbol of the infamous SS (Schutzstaffel). Originally, the SS was a group of fanatical Nazis assigned to guarding Hitler. It grew from a small paramilitary formation into one of the largest and most

powerful organizations in the Third Reich, boasting more than a million soldiers and security forces under its command. It was the SS that came to symbolize the most evil aspects of Nazism. They were not only responsible for the vast majority of war crimes, but were also the primary organization that caused the Holocaust and ran the concentration camps.

They first arrived with trucks and even tanks in the middle of the night and almost immediately began burning down farms. Most of these had originally been farms owned by Jews, and which had since been taken over by local Poles. Every night for a week, they burned down more farms. The reason for this was the increasing success of the partisans.

As the war wore on and Germany suffered more defeats, partisans — Poles, Russians and Jews who had escaped to the forest — became ever bolder in their attacks and attempts to harass the Germans. The partisans often relied on farmers, willingly or unwillingly, to supply them with food. The SS did not care if the farmers had not helped any partisans. They were there to destroy their farms whether they were guilty or not.

The first week the SS arrived, they burned the farms owned by Poles. The next week, they set fire to the farms owned by Ukrainians. This was hard to comprehend, because the Ukrainians were less inclined to help partisans, not even Polish partisans. Perhaps some had, or perhaps the Nazis just wanted to instill fear in everyone.

They did not need excuses to do so.

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3 oz. dark chocolate, grated

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4 cups hot water

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RAIZY FRIEDMAN

Making a simcha is truly the best of times.

But for the bank account, it’s the worst of times.

People have been known to spend astonishingly large amounts of money in an extremely short time. There’s the engagement moment, followed by a tumble of l’chaim-vort-miniatures-party planner-tablecloths-props rental-diamond bracelet-tenoim hall-flowers-diamond ring-dresses-hair-makeup-the welcomekallah-from-the-kids package… and deposits! The wedding hall! The musician! The badchan! The singer! The hair stylist! The makeup artist!

Mrs. Reiner, who had always been a careful spender, received multiple annoying phone calls from her credit card company, checking up on what they suspected were fraudulent charges. She had to confirm each one. Yes, she was at a tablecloth rental place only ten minutes after she’d been at an event hall. Both charges were legitimate.

Welcome to a Yiddishe simcha, Mr. Credit Card Company — mazel tov!

The reality often makes us wonder if many of the expenses are actually as legitimate as Mrs. Reiner assured her credit card company they were. Are we spending a lot of money just to “do what’s normal” instead of doing what’s right?

Normal is a relative term, and in the postCovid world, we’ve learned that normal can be a happy marriage after a small backyard wedding, and normal can be a wedding that ends at 1:00 a.m. instead of at 4:00 a.m. Normal can be inviting less people, skipping a tenoim affair, or giving the kallah a CZ or lab-grown diamond.

There are so many details to an engagement, and our regular day-to-day responsibilities do not disappear just because we were fortunate enough to do a shidduch. The rest of the family still needs school shoes, and you still need to put food on the table (okay, pizza and pasta more often than ever before, but still, food).

So how do people manage?

Turning to those in the trenches, we discovered that there are, indeed, ways to buck the trends and implement some boundaries, despite the changes to “normal.” And surprise! These families have all gone on to do more shidduchim with their other children, even after they saved using non-conventional methods.

“It wasn’t easy,” Sury Gruen, a working mother, shares. “But I had spent enough years seeing my siblings, friends and colleagues doing what I thought was unnecessary, and when my own time came, I was determined not to make the same mistakes.”

The first thing she mentioned to her future mechutanim, the Reichs, when they “spoke money” right before the couple was engaged, was the trend of gifting the children in the other family. It was mere days before Chanukah, and Sury couldn’t imagine shopping for individual Chanukah presents for all the Reich children, along with the million other things that would have to fall into place that week.

Normal is a relative term, and in the postCovid world, we’ve learned that normal can be a happy marriage after a small backyard wedding

“My mechuteniste actually looked quite relieved,” Sury remembers. The Reichs had five children at home, and the Gruens had eleven. “She got the better end of the deal,” Sury says with a laugh.

Upon reflection, Sury knows that she may not have saved many thousands with that request, but she did set a certain standard: they weren’t looking to go over the top.

Esther Ostreicher, a grandmother to many, has married off eight children and is delighted to share her experience with mechutanim.

“We aren’t rich,” Esther says, “but we aren’t poor, either. We were able to afford middle-class weddings for our children.”

But when her oldest son got engaged, her mechutanim, who had already married off several children, suggested they go with the Chasunah Mall package, where each side contributes an extremely reasonable amount, and all selections for housewares, linen, furniture and gifts are made at the Chasunah Mall. Not only would this save them lots of money, the mechutanim explained, but it was a great time-saver as well. Who needed an endless number of choices when

the Chasunah Mall had beautiful, current options? Plus, the Chasunah Mall offered a package for the actual night of the wedding as well; they were affiliated with a particular takanos wedding hall that provided all the night’s necessities for a set price.

Her mechutanim were respected members of the community. Since they felt comfortable with this arrangement, Esther tentatively agreed, wondering if she’d regret it later on.

“It was the best thing ever,” she says emphatically. “And I learned to do the same with my future mechutanim.”

Not all of them agreed. One of Esther’s sons-in-law is an only son, and his parents wanted to go all out. They felt stifled with the wedding mall package and wanted to upgrade the wedding itself as well. After some back-and-forth, they agreed to compromise.

“After all,” Esther says, “isn’t compromise the key to everything?” Esther agreed to do the shopping at retail locations instead, and the mechutanim agreed that the Ostreichers would pay the same amount as they would have paid for a

DOS AND DON’TS OF CUTTING BACK

Do:

Think about your financial situation before your child starts shidduchim

Talk to your child (the chasan/kallah) openly about where you plan to cut.

Be as fair as you can when it comes to gifting future children-in-law. If you gave your oldest daughter-in-law a CZ diamond ring, don’t give your next daughterin-law an authentic diamond ring just because her parents are rich.

Compromise: Give up less-important details for moreimportant ones.

Try to save a little, even if you think that these couple of dollars won’t make it or break it. It adds up!

Remember what’s more important than a few dollars: shalom with your child’s in-laws.

Don’t:

Walk around talking about all the things you’re not buying the couple. This will only make you appear stingy.

Put a dollar sign near every portion, aka resenting the people who join your simcha

Stop your basic necessities such as cleaning help or children’s tutors to pay for fresh flowers for one night.

Resent the child who is getting married for the financial burden their simcha is incurring; an engagement is stressful enough.

Let any single item be the deal breaker with the mechutanim. Step back and look at the bigger picture.

Forget to take stock of where you went right or wrong — to know how to do better with your next child!

takanos package, and her mechutanim would pick up the rest of the tab.

“Had I not known about the whole mall option from my first child’s in-laws, I would have ended up spending so much more than I actually did over the years, at all of my children’s weddings.”

Rivka Leah took a different path entirely. “We’re a simple family,” she says. (Doesn’t everyone think that about themselves?) “I didn’t splurge on anything unnecessary. My children were fine with the clothing that we found on the sale rack, and we tried to get appliances in department stores on Black Friday.”

But when it came to booking the aufruf hall, Rivka Leah found herself hitting rock bottom. Or, to be exact, the peak.

“The halls wanted an astronomical amount of money, and I knew that schlepping our extended family together to celebrate the aufruf with us would involve so much inconvenience on everyone’s end.”

Rivka Leah and her husband both come from large families, and there had been many simchas during the year before her son’s wedding. Most of the time, attending Shabbos aufruf meals before nephews’ weddings involved heartache, headache and, at times, tears. There were arrangements to be made for the younger kids, meals to be figured out for the older kids, and rooms to be found for out-of-town guests. Why would she subject her family members to more of the same inconvenience, plus empty her pockets at the same time?

“We decided to host it at home,” Rivka Leah says. “Our dining room is comfortable, and our kitchen table can seat our family nicely.” By renting smaller chairs, she utilized all the space they had.

Rivka Leah cooked all of the food herself. “It was just like cooking for Shabbos every week, but on a large scale.” They invited both sets of grandparents as well as their own married couples for the meals. After the seu-

Were there some people who would have come to the vort and who didn’t come to the l’chaim?

Yes, probably. But those who really cared called to say mazel tov

dah on Friday night, the family members living within walking distance came over for (ready-made) dessert and singing.

“It was the nicest simcha ever,” Rivka Leah says. “My son, the chasan, was the king of the night, and everyone who was there actually wanted to be there. It was true family time, with no waiters rudely grabbing the plates mid-bite. We all enjoyed it. And no, the serving was not too much. It was good for me and my daughters to get a chance to stretch our legs a bit, and my sons and sons-inlaw were good sports about serving the men.”

Mr. Davidowitz proudly tells us that when their second daughter got engaged,

they skipped the vort, sufficing with only a l’chaim

“We’d had a l’chaim and then a vort for my oldest daughter, and everyone, including the kallah, felt that it was unnecessary.”

The Davidowitzes are an upper-class family, and it wasn’t that they didn’t have the money for the vort. It was just a general feeling that it was not necessary. They were nervous about how the chasan’s side would feel about it, but

they needn’t have worried. The kallah was content, and the mechutanim were ecstatic. The l’chaim was a small affair, celebrated in their house, with some homemade miniatures and lots of true joy.

Were there some people who would have come to the vort and who didn’t come to the l’chaim? Yes, probably. But those who really cared called to say mazel tov. A neighbor from across the street sent over a yummy homemade brunch the day after the engagement and told Mrs. Davidowitz that it was easier for her to make a nice lunch than run out at night for a half hour. And the rest of the people probably blessed the Davidowitzes for the reprieve.

Oif Simchas

The beauty of a Yiddishe simcha is something indescribable. Just watching a chasan and kallah standing under the chuppah, swaying to age-old melodies as neshamos from the next world hover in the air, is enough to bring on the tears.

But when the tears of joy mix with the tears of financial worry, it’s a pity. Just one small step in cutting back is sure to lead to another — and then another. May we all be zoche to besuros tovos and simcha after simcha, with light hearts and hefty bank accounts, amein!

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Racks of rich satin. Clouds of shimmery tulle. Yards of delicate lace.

The large windows in Majestic Bride’s showroom let in so much sunlight, it reflects off the beading glinting from all corners and wraps each girl in the room in that soft, bridal glow.

Side rooms are lined with racks of tightly packed gowns, one lovelier than the next. Some have been crafted with heavier lace, others of sleeker satin; you see lightly beaded necklines, neatly tucked sleeves.

Across from the windows in the center room, all you see are mirrors. Your reflection winks back at you from every corner — except where your view is obstructed by a kallah in a dreamy white masterpiece. She turns this way and that, full skirts swishing, until she can almost see herself, just a few days or weeks from now, gracefully stepping into her future as a married young woman.

The Brides at Brody’s

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“Our story began about 35 years ago,” says Zissy Brody, “when my friend Rane Deutsch and I partnered up to found a gown rental — the first of its kind in Monsey. We launched in the spring, and by summer, kallahs were already wearing our gowns.”

When a business has a name that is soon overshadowed by its moniker, that’s when you know you’re looking at an icon.

“Where are you getting the kallah’s gown?”

“At Brody’s.”

That’s all you need to say, and already there’s this ethereal sense of magnificence, of exquisitely delivered care, and the knowledge that this kallah will be doted upon with all the attention she deserves. She’ll be shown style after style until her face lights up — and will look like absolute royalty when her big day arrives.

Majestic Bride was first based out of Mrs. Deutsch’s home on Wiener Drive, until the rental moved to Melnick Drive two and half years later.

“We rented out both bridal gowns and simcha dresses,” Zissy says, “but we soon realized that we’d bitten off more than we could chew. We got busy really fast, so after our first season, we limited ourselves to bridal gowns.”

In those early days, gown rentals cost between $800 and $1,200 apiece. This might be a (not very funny) joke when compared to today’s prices, but as Hindy*, one of the saleswomen, explains, “Shipping itself has quadrupled in price since those good old days, as have fabrics, trimmings, labor and just about everything else.”

After six and half successful years of dressing kallahs at their second location, Majestic Bride — or Brody’s, as they’re more fondly known — finally moved to their present location in the Atrium Plaza.

Brody’s hasn’t changed much over the years, but that’s all part of their appeal, all part of the Majestic Bride experience.

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“Most importantly, a kallah and her mother need to be on the same page,” says Zissy. “Sometimes it’s the kallah who is satisfied with less, and it’s her mother who’s demanding more pricey designs, and sometimes it’s the opposite. But whatever the case, discuss your budget beforehand so you know what to ask for. This is crucial.

“Other times,” she continues, “there are disagreements over the sleeve length, for example, and this can get sensitive. In such cases, I try to get them to meet somewhere in the middle.”

“This is where Zissy comes in,” Hindy comments. “She neutralizes the whole thing until the mother and daughter can come to a calm decision.”

When it isn’t a weighty disagreement, but a matter of style choice or technicality, she will often encourage the mother to let it go.

“This is her daughter’s night,” Zissy says. “Especially when it’s not about something majorly significant, I’ll try to remind the mother that this tiny detail really isn’t that big of a deal.”

There’s another point that Hindy brings up.

“Some kallahs come in,” she says, “and they can’t make any decisions. They’re unhappy with whatever is offered to them, and they themselves don’t know what they want. In these cases, the kallah’s mother will often hire Leiky Bauer, or any other personal shopper. Leiky is a wonderful person. She just knows how to talk to the girls so they feel like there’s someone on their side, someone they can trust. And when the kallah’s happy, we’re happy!”

The Kallah, the Queen

“At Majestic Bride, the main goal is making kallahs happy,” Zissy says. “This is a very momentous time in their lives, and we do our very best to make each kallah feel special.”

Sometimes it takes three visits, and sometimes it takes five, but when the kallah leaves Brody’s the very last time, she adores her gown.

“That’s when we rent the most gowns,” Hindy says. “When a kallah puts on her gown at her final fitting, and she’s glowing and looking so beautiful, that’s when other kallahs say, ‘Hey, I love that gown! Can I have it after her?’”

Sometimes a kallah chooses a gown, settles on a style, fabric and cut — and then has second thoughts when she gets home.

“It isn’t a problem,” Zissy says. “We just reassure her that she can come back and choose something else, no questions asked.”

That reassurance goes miles when it comes to kallahs overwhelmed with the sheer number of styles available to choose from. And guess what?

“Very often, they’ll go back to their original choice,” Hindy says. “They liked it for a reason, and they really still do.”

The sales team will often see girls looking at themselves in the mirror, face full of doubt. They’ll turn this way and that and say, “I don’t know. I don’t like it!”

“But then,” Zissy says, “the next time they come, they’re already smiling at themselves in the mirror. And the next time, they don’t want to take the gown off! That’s what we want to see. We want to see each kallah love her gown.”

“Zissy’s amazing,” Hindy remarks. “She’s so patient with the girls, and somehow, she always gets it right on the first try.”

“We have an amazing team,” Zissy acknowledges. “They’re so devoted, so kind to the girls.”

When she was recently in Boro Park, two women walked up to Zissy.

“I’ve been married seventeen years,” the first woman said, “and I still love my gown!”

“And I’ve been married eighteen years,” said the second woman. “I also still love my gown! It was absolutely gorgeous.”

This — the absolute certainty in their choice and the warm memories of what they looked like on the most special day of their lives — means that Brody’s met their collective goal: Another kallah made to look and feel her very best, another job well done.

Sometimes kallahs come in with a complete vision of what they want their gown to look like.

“And we always come through,” Zissy says. “Whether it’s a description, or a picture, or a sketch, we can always recreate a dream. It takes teamwork, but we can do it. We love to see the kallahs happy.”

When it comes to rebbishe customers, as well, some of whom have the minhag of wearing a pink wedding gown, the saleswomen make sure to find that perfect shade of pink or peach that the kallah is envisioning.

“Every girl has that dream wedding dress, and we make sure to find it.”

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“Our most memorable customer would have to be the woman who walked in and announced, ‘I am Baron Rothschild,’” Zissy says, laughing. “I just looked at her and said,

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‘What?’”

Turns out that this woman, when she herself got married, wore a gown that she despised. And when she and her brandnew husband got home after their wedding, she told him, “Our daughters are going to have the most beautiful gowns in the world.”

Now her oldest daughter was a kallah, and she hadn’t forgotten her vow. She’d saved up carefully for this expense — as she would later do for her other daughters — and now she wanted to see the most magnificent gowns Brody’s had to offer.

“I don’t care about the price,” she told Zissy. “Show me the most beautiful pieces you have on the floor.”

Then there was a mother who brought her daughter in for a diametrically different purpose. After oohing and aahing over the gowns her daughter was trying on, this mother turned to Zissy and murmured, “To be honest, we’re taking a gown from a gemach. But I wanted to give my daughter this experience of being doted upon and made to feel like royalty.”

Well, Zissy was happy to be helpful.

The Majestic Bride showroom is always hopping, yet they’re very proud of the fact that they work completely offline.

“Customers are our best advertisement,” says Hindy, “so we have absolutely no technology in our place.”

And even when other bridal boutiques open their doors, the Majestic Bride team doesn’t waver.

“There’s enough business for everyone,” Zissy says emphatically. “We get more customers than we can manage — from Brooklyn and Monroe as well — and we’re happy when other places open so customers can have other options.”

Then there are gemachs, which also fill a tremendous need.

“Any gown whose season has passed but is in good condition goes to a gemach,” Zissy says. “Every few weeks, we walk around the showroom, and whatever gowns have already been around for a few months get passed on.”

And so the marvel of Brody’s lives on, from one kallah to the next.

Other customers that are close to Zissy’s heart are the repeats, the ones who come for gowns for one daughter after the other.

Simcha Overseas

Majestic Bride dresses plenty of outof-country kallahs, including those from Australia, England, Belgium and Eretz Yisroel. How does that work? How does the gown get to its destination in one (crease-free) piece?

“After steaming the gown to perfection,” Zissy says, “it gets fully stuffed and then packed into a duffel bag. And when the gown gets unpacked right before the wedding, it doesn’t even need another steaming.”

“We have a customer,” she says, “who’s rented twenty gowns by now. First it was her own daughters getting married, and by now it’s her granddaughters. It’s so beautiful to be part of their lives during such special times.”

What about difficult customers?

“There are those as well,” Zissy admits, “but they’re few and far between.”

When they do serve more challenging customers, the saleswomen try to make them happy — all while telling themselves that the much-anticipated wedding day is bound to come sooner or later…

“And when they marry off their youngest daughter, it’s a happy moment all around,” Zissy says, twinkle in her eye.

Sometimes it takes two kallahs to create the best stories of all.

“One day,” Hindy tells me, “we got a call from a kallah who’d come to the U.S. from Brazil. It was very close to her wedding, and she wanted a private appointment. Well, that day, as the hour of her appointment got closer, the showroom began emptying out, until there was one kallah left. But we couldn’t rush her out the door; she was a yesomah and

deserved all the attention she could get.”

Before they knew it, the kallah from Brazil was at the door, and Zissy quietly and apologetically explained the situation. Fortunately, the Brazilian kallah was more than kind about the unexpected customer in the room. Then the first kallah left, and in an unexpected move that truly touched all the hearts in the room, the Brazilian kallah insisted on paying for the other kallah’s gown.

When the Majestic Bride team sees stories like these, then they know that they are truly dressing Hashem’s children.

Drama of the Day

Every service business has its fair share of near-mishaps. Are there any stories that the team will have a hard time forgetting?

“There’s always drama,” says Hindy. “The world only stops for Shabbos and Pesach, and it takes bucketloads of siyata d’Shmaya to get each kallah to her wedding on time.”

In one instance, a kallah walked in at around 4 o’clock on a Sunday. She was getting married the following night, on Monday, and while she’d gotten a gown at a gemach, the cleaners had ruined it.

“She was frantic, of course,” says Hindy. “Imagine such agmas nefesh right before a wedding! But the following night found her wearing a beautiful gown and looking like a dream.”

In a similar story, there was a kallah getting married in the fall who had also taken a gown from a gemach. Over the summer, the gemach’s seamstresses devoted much time to sewing beading onto the gown. Finally, a day before the wedding, the kallah’s grandfather collected all of the gowns for the wedding and piled them into his truck. On his way to the city where the wedding was to take place, he made a stop at a gas station, and the gowns were stolen from his truck.

“The kallah arrived at our show-

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room, completely distraught. We found her a beautiful gown, and she also made it to her wedding looking just like the princess she was.”

But some surprises are good ones. Like the time the Belzer Rebbetzin from Eretz Yisroel was in town for a Skverer wedding (the Skverer Rebbetzin, Rebbetzin Chaya Chana, a”h, was the Belzer Rebbetzin’s sister). As part of her trip, she was invited to give a speech at an event at the Atrium. Mrs. Deutsch was accompanying her at the time, and on a whim, Rane suggested that they visit Majestic Bride; after all, it is located in the same building.

The Belzer Rebbetzin agreed, and imagine her surprise when she found her niece, a kallah, wearing a beautiful wedding gown!

“Inderheim hut men gemacht ah l’chaim ven m’hut gekoift a chuppah klaid,” the Rebbetzin declared. “Back home [in Europe], when a kallah purchased her wedding dress, it was celebrated with a l’chaim!”

Someone quickly ran out to get some liquor and cake, and those gathered made a beautiful l’chaim. On this happy note, the Rebbetzin’s visit commenced.

Designing Masterpieces

When Majestic Bride first started out, they imported wedding gowns that they then rented out.

“Most of our gowns were sourced from Italy, where we had a contact who helped us find what we needed,” Zissy explains. “Eventually, the quality was no longer up to our standards, and we knew that we had to look elsewhere.”

Service With a Twist

That’s when Majestic Bride began working directly with designers, seamstresses and high-quality textile suppliers, both in Europe and in the U.S., all of whom serve only worldclass designers whose names appear on merchandise favored by discerning shoppers. Today, these skilled professionals craft from scratch the beautiful bespoke gowns Brody’s is famous for.

Trends ebb and flow, and Brody’s has a great nose for catching on a step before anyone else.

“You need to stay current,” says Zissy. “We’re dressing young ladies here, and if you don’t keep up, they won’t want it.”

Sometimes it’s tulle that’s in vogue, other times it’s lots of beading that’s everyone wants, and yet other times, the gown is crafted top to bottom from heavy lace, as was the case fairly recently.

“Now the kallahs want satin, which is a very simple, elegant look. Nevertheless, bridal lace is always a traditional option that we depend on.”

Finally, as part of the bridal experience, one of the salesladies, Yachet Freund, offers crown, shoe and veil rentals at a minimal fee. Put on those shoes, throw over that veil, and there it is: the transformation from girl to kallah.

Does the Brody’s team ever get any memorable or interesting requests?

“We once had a kallah ask us to hide a gebentched deck-tich between two new layers of fabric,” Zissy remembers. “She wanted to use this special deck-tich at badeken, but she didn’t want it to be visible.”

“Another time,” says Hindy, “we got an interesting phone call from a kallah who was getting married sometime in February or March. At that point it was at the end of the summer, and she told us that they wanted their deck-tich already because there is an inyan to cover the shofar with it on Rosh Hashanah.

“So yes,” Hindy finishes, “we do get interesting requests. And we also get gowns back all the time with interesting things hiding in them, from white shirtzlach and red strings to garlic cloves.”

That Extra Touch

Majestic Bride hires master seamstresses, all of whom do very specialized work. One does skirts, another does hems, a third does beading, and yet another does the fittings. Others will specialize in dressing, and yet others in cleaning.

“All together we have over ten seamstresses on the floor at any given time,” says Zissy. “They come from all over the world, and it’s a whole operation.”

“They recommend each other,” says Hindy. “In fact, we have a set of four sisters working for us now.”

These seamstresses are highly skilled professionals, and they produce work that is as near perfect as is humanly possible.

“When you try on shoes, you might find that one foot is slightly longer than the other,” says Zissy, “but that’s also true with your shoulder and your arm.”

In order to get that completely symmetrical look, Brody’s seamstresses play around with those discrepancies — by adding a quarter inch to this side, or removing a quarter inch from that side — to produce gowns that fit to perfection.

Even though Majestic Bride is classified as a rental, as Hindy puts it, “Every gown goes out looking brand-new again.” Every kallah’s gown gets freshened up and redesigned to her specifications.

Yet the job isn’t over when the gown is finished. At that point, the seamstresses go over every inch to make sure there’s no fuzz anywhere, no loose threads, no microscopic stains — nothing at all. Finally, the gown is steamed and crisped up, which turns it into a masterpiece worthy of the Brody’s name.

“We also teach kallahs how to sit at the wedding so the gown shouldn’t scrunch up,” Zissy says, “and we teach them how to walk. Finally, we make sure that they’re equipped with a Shout wipe and a needle and thread, so they can deal with anything that comes up, and then we help them right into the car, all ready for the big day.”

A Last Word

Working at Majestic Bride isn’t for the faint of heart. It’s a high-stakes setting with emotions running high and deadlines that can’t ever budge. What gives the saleswomen that sense of satisfaction that refuels them for another day?

“Making kallahs happy,” Zissy says instantly. “It’s the most satisfying thing to watch kallah after kallah leaving this place feeling beautiful.”

“Then there are those voicemails we get in the morning,” Hindy adds, “either from the mechuteniste from the night before or from wedding guests who loved the kallah’s gown. These voicemails really give us chizuk!”

And then the team is ready for a brand-new day of dressing kallahs and spreading joy, one spool of thread at a time.

Managing money takes skill. Income, outgo, needs, wants, fixed expenses, variables, unexpected expenses. You finally get it under control and then along comes a pandemic or inflation or a simcha or an emergency, and you have to rework the numbers all over again. Managing relationships also takes skill. There’s so much nuance, difference in perspective and sensitivities to take into account. Relationships are delicate — especially relationships with your adult children, children-inlaw, and parents-in-law. And when you combine money, marriage, and mechutanim… that requires a whole new skill set.

The Hard, Right Thing

RSK is an organization based in New York that serves the tristate area and beyond by offering financial coaching and guiding families toward financial stability. “Sometimes parents commit to financial help they can’t really afford,” explains RSK’s director of financial coaching. “That means they have a new monthly expense that they can’t cover, and that creates a cascade of problems.”

Shlomo:

There’s such a special nachas in marrying off a child. Especially when that child is everything you hoped and dreamed they would be: a shtarke bochur whose entire life is contained in the koslei beis medrash. My gratitude to Hashem cannot be contained in words. And how lucky we were to find such a special wife for him! She really values his commitment to learning, is protective of his time, and works hard to support their little family.

But even the expenses of a young couple are hard to cover. When we finalized the shidduch, we told the mechutanim that we would pay the rent for the new couple. And we did. For a few months. But it was hard. Harder than I had thought it would be. We also had all the wedding expenses to pay for, remember. And inflation…

The first month, we paid their rent on the first, with a sense of simcha and fanfare. The second month we paid it on time too… more or less… but without that sense of simcha. By the fourth month, we couldn’t do it anymore.

We paid the fifth month, but not the sixth. Now it’s another month later, and it’s already the tenth of the month. I don’t know if we can do it. I keep juggling the numbers, but I can’t seem to put the cash together. Some months we have money and some months we don’t, and I don’t know why. I’m embarrassed of my own son! I don’t know how to get out of this mess.

Money Mindset

Young couples should view steady support as regular income. If you know the support will end in a year, plan for it. It’s like knowing in advance that you’re losing your job. You know exactly what size hole you have to plug and when. There’s no news here — just a mindset that sets you up for financial health and security.

The emotions associated with a scenario like this can be overwhelming: The parents might feel embarrassed that they made a mistake, or shame that they can’t provide for their children the way they want to. They want to perceive themselves as generous and benevolent; being unable to give makes them feel impotent and useless. That sense of failure can be crushing. Until recently your child lived in your home and you provided them with all of their needs, and it’s hard to face the fact that you can’t give to them anymore. To top it all off, parents might also feel uncomfortable about their children becoming aware of their private financial matters — after all, their children were never involved in their parents’ finances before. Especially if it’s soon after the wedding, parents may feel a dramatic sense of letdown, loss and frustration, like they’re slamming into a reality that they wish weren’t there.

But when you strip the situation of its emotional overtones, an objective look shows that it’s not really different from any family finding itself unable to meet its financial needs, for any reason.

“Look at it like any other expense,” advises RSK’s financial coach. “Financial support for a married child goes into the budget along with groceries, auto insurance and clothing expenses. When you have clarity on your expenses, you can get to work making sure those expenses are covered.”

Sometimes financial clarity itself is the answer — there is enough money, it just has to be managed properly. Other times the budget reveals a deficit, and the couple changes that either by cutting their expenses or by increasing their income. When financial support for a married couple overlaps with ruchnius considerations (like if the married child is in kollel), a rav should always be consulted.

But sometimes the answer is that the parents can’t actually stretch themselves that far, and financial support for their married children is out of their reach.

In that case, RSK recommends doing what they call “the hard, right thing.” It’s challenging in the moment, but in the best long-term

interest of both couples: You need to communicate clearly about what you can and cannot do. What kills the relationship and the financial health of both couples is confusion and lack of clarity. It might be hard to admit it to yourself, and hard to say it to your kids, but financial clarity is the greatest financial gift you can give your married children.

Uncertain Terms

On the other end, adult married children who lack clarity about what to expect in terms of financial support from their parents also struggle.

Faigy:

Yom Tov is coming. I would love to buy myself something new, but I’m not sure we have the money. I already bought clothing and shoes for all the kids, and we put

It’s challenging in the moment, but in the best long-term interest of both couples: You need to communicate clearly about what you can and cannot do

up a sukkah this year for the first time — I used my Yom Tov bonus for that. I would love to buy myself something new... and I could really use a new coat.

Golden Rule

Offer support to your children only according to what you can afford. Be very clear about how much you’re giving, when you will give it, how long it will last, and how it will be transferred, and give it without conditions. Encourage the young couple to seek financial guidance and become financially educated shortly after their wedding — within three to six months.

Pesach time, my parents gave us money before Yom Tov. They do that sometimes. Sometimes it’s $250 or $500, and sometimes it’s more, like $2,500. I wonder if they’ll give us anything this time. Probably, right? Yom Tov is in three weeks, so if they do it, it will be soon… I assume. If they give us $250, that will cover that dress I found. And if they give us $500, that will also cover that coat I saw…

But what if they don’t give us the money in the end? I mean, they usually do… but sometimes they don’t. And then I’ll have the dress and the coat, but I’ll also have a credit card bill that I won’t be able to pay…

I better wait and see. But I don’t want to lose the chance to buy it! Whatever… I’ll just buy it. Usually they give us SOMETHING… It will be fine.

I hope…

There could be many reasons why the parents in this scenario aren’t communicating. Maybe they don’t know yet if or how much they’ll give. Maybe they haven’t really thought about it yet. But the lack of clarity is a problem for this young mother. She doesn’t know if she can rely on financial help from her parents or not. It becomes even more complex when there is a quasi-commitment. Well-meaning parents want to help, but don’t want to overcommit. So they say things like, “We’re going to help support.” Vague statements like this create tension and confusion for the married children. What does “help support” actually mean? Are they going to pay the rent? If yes, for how long? Are they going to give the money to their married children, or directly to the landlord? When is the money going to be given? How will it be transferred? And maybe the most delicate question of all — are the married children allowed to ask any of these things?

It’s easy to see how the lack of clarity spawns stress and distress, and tension both between the parents and their married children as well as between the new couple themselves — something no parent wants.

The lack of clarity is a problem for this young mother. She doesn’t know if she can rely on financial help from her parents or not

“The solution here is the same,” say the coaches at RSK. “Clarity and communication. If the parents want to support, they should inform their children exactly what that’s going to look like. What form the support will take. How much money it will be,

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for how long it will be given, who the money will be given to, and how the money will be transferred. Everyone should be clear on the system.”

Making Mistakes

Charna:

I just got home from my niece’s wedding, and I’m fuming. My married daughter was there — looking like a shmatte! Is that how I brought her up? To come to a wedding like that? For that I give her money every month? She should take some of that money and put herself together a little more. I know how she scrimps and saves — it’s ridiculous. You need to live a little! And it’s not only the way she dresses. Maybe if she stopped counting her pennies and hired more cleaning help, her house would be respectable. Last time I gave her money, I told her to paint the living room, but of course she didn’t. I don’t know what she did do with the money; she certainly didn’t spend it on her clothes or sheitel. Next time, I’ll just keep the money and hire the painter myself!

It’s challenging for parents to watch their kids make mistakes, including financial mistakes. Your kids might be scrimping more than you think necessary, or maybe they’re going on lavish vacations that you know they can’t afford. When you’re the one giving financial help, your kids’ financial decisions feel very close to home and personal. You automatically feel like you’re part of the story, that you bought the right to be involved in their decisions and you should have a say in how the money is spent.

But the healthy thing — for financial health and relationship health — is for parents to stay out of it.

Here, again, clarity is necessary. When parents give their married children money, how is

that money categorized? It’s not a salary, like from an employer to an employee — the recipient did not perform any service in order to receive it. It’s not a price, like buying something in a store — the payer does not get an item in return. So what is it?

The answer is that it’s a gift. When someone gives something to another person out of the goodness of their heart, simply because they want them to have it, and without any agreement to receive anything in return — it’s a gift.

And when you give a gift, it becomes the property of the recipient. You have no say in how the gift gets used.

“This can be hard for parents,” the RSK team acknowledges. “We’re not only talking about parents with control issues, or boundary issues. Well-meaning, loving parents have a hard time watching their kids make avoidable mistakes.”

But they also can’t tell their kids what to do. So should they just sit back and watch a train wreck happen?

RSK recommends that parents, in turn, make a recommendation. It should only be a recommendation, not a requirement, and they can probably only say it once.

It’s challenging for parents to watch their kids make mistakes, including financial mistakes

But parents can say something like this: “We’re giving you this money every month as a gift, for you to spend or save as you wish. But because we love you and want what’s best for you, we recommend that you seek financial coaching to learn how to manage your finances. This is a new stage in life for you, and we want you to have the skills you need to be successful.”

Household finances for a young couple are relatively simple. They usually have less than ten expense categories each month: rent, auto, food, phone, utility, and several other variable expenditures. It’s the easiest time to learn how to manage finances — and the best time, because a family that begins on a financially stable foundation saves itself a lot of trouble in the long term. When parents give their children financial support as a gift without any strings attached, they preserve the health of their relationships — and when the married children are educated about finances, they ensure the health of their finances for many years to come.

The Greatest Gift

Miri:

When I was growing up, my parents made it clear to me that once I got married, I would be on my own. It had nothing to do with whether they could afford to help or not; it was part of their belief system. They invested in my education so that I could get a good job, and from the day I got married, my new husband and I had full responsibility for supporting ourselves.

So you can imagine what a pleasant surprise it was, at the end of my first baby’s bris, when my father handed me an envelope. “This is for the simcha,” he said. I was astonished — and thrilled — when I opened it and found $4,000 in cash. That more than covered the cost of the mohel and the very, very, VERY simple shalom zachor and bris we had held. In fact, if I had known my parents were planning such a generous gift, I would definitely have spent more on the simcha Of course, that wasn’t really relevant… until my next son was born. As soon as I heard that it was a boy, I began wondering if my

parents would give us such a generous gift again.

Obviously, I couldn’t ask. In the end, my husband and I decided to spend only what we could afford on our own, and not rely on a gift that might not come.

After all, that’s what a gift is — something you can’t rely on and have no claim to, given solely on the terms of the giver, regardless of your preferences — but still special and appreciated whenever it’s received.

In the final analysis, this attitude is best from both ends. Parents who give financial help to their married children should do so as a gift — wholeheartedly, with love, and without the expectation of control over how the gift is used. Married children who receive financial support should also treat it as a gift — accept it with thanks and gratitude, but don’t rely on it unless it was specified in advance.

Lack of financial clarity creates chaos and destruction. Clarity, communication and gratitude builds financial health and stability, and will ensure that both the parents and their married children will be able to maintain the health of their finances, and their relationships, for many years to come.

RSK’s mission is to be a bridge of support and create opportunities and stability for anyone that has a desire to grow financially, while guiding them to achieve their goals with dignity.

To find out about financial coaching and career coaching, visit us at RSK.org, email us at thekey@rsk.org, or call 845-414-8001.

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Most young women, culinary inclined or otherwise, are all expected to don a chef’s hat along with their brand-new sheitel upon getting married. It’s no wonder that the first year of marriage is bound to include some very teachable kitchen moments. Writers share some kitchen flops they will likely never forget.

FLAVORED WITH NEW BEGINNINGS

NECHAMA SCHWARZ

I wasn’t one of those newlyweds who are petrified of the kitchen and measure out every teaspoon with an actual teaspoon. I had baked loads before I got married and was super excited to finally bake for my own bayis ne’eman. When the dust settled after our chaotic move to Eretz Yisroel, I got right down to it, baking my favorite cookie recipe with gusto.

The cookies came out a bit… interesting. But I quickly bounced back, sure that this was just a fluke, and ate the cookies that seemed to be strangely raw and burnt at the same time. Anything is possible in the Land of Starry Eyes. I thought it was funny — the quintessential kallah, wearing her cutest, still clean apron, flopping her cookies.

THE BREAKFAST THAT WASN’T ROCHEL DIAMOND

When I was setting up my cute little apartment before my wedding, I was focused on the layout and decor, not the mundane details — like getting the gas line connected. The gas line didn’t even cross my mind… until I tried to turn on the flame on my shiny new stove two days after my wedding.

I didn’t think it was so funny when it happened again. And again, and again, and, well, you get the picture; whatever I baked had that strange, uneven quality.

Determined, I kept on putting up cookies. After all, I wasn’t going to cheat and buy from the bakery just yet.

To cut a long, pain-filled story short, it only took us a little longer to figure out the issue. Turns out that our adorable new toaster oven had two heating elements, one at the top and one at the bottom. And while the top one glowed a cheerful, hot orange when baking, the bottom one remained a lifeless, infuriating — and cold — gray. Hence, burnt tops and gooey bottoms for all of my favorite cookies.

I have baked many cookies since, thankfully with perfectly crisp and chewy results most of the time. But those memories of long ago are flavored with the magic of new beginnings, and you can barely notice the slightly burnt aftertaste.

These days, I’d chuckle and move on. I have plenty of no-oven cooking methods and gadgets, and there are always some bagel shops across the street. But at that moment, all I knew was that I was cooking my first-ever breakfast to impress my chasan. Help!

My smart older sister, already married for a year and a half and serving as my shomeres, offered her infinite wisdom: “Why don’t you just use your toaster?”

My well-stocked freezer and recipe repertoire of today did not exist yet, so I didn’t think of making bagels or paninis or anything, not even toast. I simply opened my freezer, found a box of waffles, and toasted them. When my chasan came home and saw the table elegantly set with china dishes and placements, and the platter of waffles in the center, his eyes lit up. Without further ado, he rummaged through the freezer and returned with a tub of ice cream. Our deluxe breakfast was now complete.

LESSONS OF THE LAND

RIKI GOLDSTEIN

Living in Eretz Yisroel after my wedding, it took some time for my skills to catch up with my level of independence. One week, my husband invited some bachurim over for a Shabbos seudah. I realized while my husband was in shul that I had forgotten to take challah from my beautifully shaped homemade loaves. They looked the picture of aishes chayil perfection, but I knew that a fundamental flaw blighted them, and when my husband came home, I shamefacedly filled him in.

In chutz la’aretz, if you make this mistake, you can rectify it by just leaving over the last part of your challahs as the “separated challah.” But in Eretz Yisroel, taking challah is a mitzvah d’Oraisa. My husband didn’t know what to do. He ran down a few flights of steps until he found a neighbor to discuss the lah with. The reply was that challah could not be taken on Shabbos, and the challahs weren’t usable. And since they weren’t usable, they were muktzeh, too!

My husband removed them from the table and stowed them away in the kitchen, and I handed him a box of square matzahs for Hamotzi. Everyone acted like it was no big deal, but what those bachurim thought of a seudah with no challah to dip and enjoy to the last crumb, I don’t know.

CLUELESS IN THE KITCHEN

TZIPPY SCHREIBER

I was married for three short months when I heard that my in-laws’ anniversary was coming up. I was very excited; here was a chance for me to impress the people who had warmly welcomed me into their family. I decided to go all out for the occasion.

First I printed up a professional-looking invitation and mailed it to their home. They were delighted, and my mother-in-law innocently asked me if I was planning on serving pizza. I was miffed that she thought so little of my culinary skills, but didn’t want to ruin the surprise, so I just told her that the menu was fleishig, eagerly imagining her shock when she saw the beautiful banquet.

Finally, the big day arrived. When my in-laws arrived, they were astonished at the elegantly set table — chargers, dishes, silverware and all. The fish entrée was artfully displayed, and the smell of homemade dinner rolls wafted through my apartment.

My in-laws and my siblings-in-law were delighted with the sumptuous meal. After the main course, my father-in-law suggested that the menfolk should daven Maariv in the neighborhood, and then come back for dessert. Oops! That was not part of my plan. I now had to entertain my mother-in-law and her young daughters until the men came home from shul. My mother-in-law insisted on helping me clear the table as we waited. I

protested, but she followed me into the kitchen.

Before I knew what was happening, my mother-inlaw raised my stovetop cover, and there before my eyes was a congealed mess of split pea soup remnants and other indiscernible globs of food.

“It’s no big deal,” my mother-in-law said. “Just give me a steel wool pad and I’ll clean it for you.”

I was beyond mortified. I handed her the pad, and she happily scrubbed away at the mess.

When she was done, she asked me for some silver foil and said, “Tzippy, when you have open burners, it is a good idea to line the inside of your stove, so that if something drips, all you have to do is remove the silver foil without having to clean up the mess.” Then my gracious mother-in-law continued, “It’s okay that you didn’t know this. After all, you never had to run your own home, so how could you know?”

Several years later, when my next sister-in-law, Leah, invited my in-laws for supper, the same thing happened. Except when my mother-in-law offered to help Leah clean up the mess on her stove, Leah squealed, “Shvigger, I’m so embarrassed!”

“Leah, don’t be embarrassed!” my mother-in-law said. “Do you know that the same thing happened to Tzippy when she first started cooking, and she had no issue with me helping her?” Little did she know!

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A MOST EXPENSIVE MEAL

CHAYA SARA BEN SHACHAR

Some girls might harbor secret hopes of becoming a chef de cuisine after their marriage. I didn’t. I knew my limitations, and cooking was not my forte. I knew that, accepted that, and anticipated a bumpy shanah rishonah culinary road.

For some reason, however, I thought that making falafel for the post-Tisha B’Av meal would be a breeze. I mean, what’s falafel anyway? Salad and pita? Isn’t that good, wholesome and inexpensive food, with a twist of the exotic, making it perfect for our first meal with company — two bachurim we’d invited to break the fast with us?

The package instructions on the falafel mix seemed easy enough. Add water to the mixture and form into balls, then fry.

I poured oil into the pot and absent-mindedly covered it. After all, a covered pot would heat up faster, and then I’d be able to add the falafel mixture to the boiling-hot oil.

Strangely, the glass cover showed a frosty color beneath it very quickly. The oil in the pot was obviously very hot.

I removed the cover and turned away. The minute I turned back, my heart caught in my throat. Big, huge flames were leaping out of the pot!

My new husband was out davening mincha, and there was a fire raging on my stovetop. Putting the blaze out by myself was too scary to even contemplate, but maybe my neighbor could be the hero.

I ran to summon the neighbor and her husband. They raced across the hall and into my kitchen. He grabbed the washing cup and threw water at the flames. More water. Even more water.

Out the fire went. Phew! One of us thought of opening the doors and windows to let the room air out.

Baruch Hashem, all was safe, except the kitchen cabinets and walls that all featured a layer of soot. The landlord, who lived in the same building, came over to see what the commotion was. I don’t remember his reaction, but it probably wasn’t a very happy one.

As for my six-week-old husband, his jaw simply dropped when he returned from shul and saw our blackened kitchen walls.

I don’t remember what I served my husband and our guests, but I do remember the topic of conversation; it was a nobrainer with our soot-filled kitchen.

The lessons I learned that night have remained with me until now: Never, ever, ever cover a pot with only oil inside it.

As for the simple yet exotic meal that should have been inexpensive? Well, it ended up be ing the most expensive meal ever, but don’t they say that lessons learned are priceless?

Please note: In general, throwing water onto an oil fire is extremely dangerous. An oil fire should be put out with baking soda or a fire extinguisher.

DIP DELUXE

CHANA HINDY SCHECHTER

It was two months after my wedding, and I was going to be hosting my husband’s sister and her husband for a meal on Shabbos. Thanks to my dozens of hours spent in the kitchen, everything was looking just right!

Potato kugel sizzled merrily in the oven, piles of colorful vegetable ribbons — salad and ratatouille — decorated the small counter, and the salmon filets patiently awaited their turn.

The sun drew back slowly as I peeled, chopped and sang, inviting the shining white whisper of a moon to take its place. Yes, I made it! Good Shabbos!

Chaim returned from shul two hours later and was followed by our guests shortly thereafter. After Kiddush, I brought the parade of dips and salads to the table as my sister-in-law politely complimented my offerings.

Leiby, my brother-in-law, spooned a generous amount of spicy tomato dip onto his plate while in an intense parsha discussion with Chaim. Everything was going so well — too well — until Leiby’s face suddenly blazed a beet red as he coughed and spluttered before taking a frantic gulp of cold water. Three pairs of eyes turned to me.

“What in the world did you put into that tomato dip?” my sister-in-law Etty finally asked.

“Well, five tomatoes, five garlics —”

“Five whole garlics?” she asked, a strange expression flitting across her face.

I nodded, and she burst out laugh-

Over a beautifully laid table punctuated with lots of laughter, I learned that five garlics meant only five garlic cloves. My own mother never used fresh garlic, and in my enthusiastic cooking attempt, I misjudged its potency.

Years later, it’s a fond memory that smells faintly of garlic and very kind siblings.

SHAVUA RISHONAH

AS TOLD TO TALI EDELSTEIN

Only one week after our chasunah, my husband and I celebrated our first Shavuos together. In fact, not only was it our first Yom Tov, it was also my first time cooking for my new husband.

I am not a born cook, especially where dairy foods are concerned, but since we’d made our home in Eretz Yisroel, I couldn’t fall back on my parents, and I spent hours upon hours in the kitchen, choosing and preparing complicated recipes to make a beautiful Yom Tov.

On Shavuos morning, I carefully set up the hotplate. As a final touch, I pulled out a gorgeous wedding gift: an elegant hotplate cover with the words Lichvod Shabbos Kodesh embroidered on it. Excited to use it for Yom Tov, I gently spread it over the warming food and went off to shul.

When my husband and I came home, we sat down at our little table and began our seudah. As we were enjoying our first course, I suddenly smelled fire. I ran into the kitchen to investigate. There was our beautiful new hotplate cover, going up in little orange flames, with smoke spreading around the kitchen.

Apparently, a corner of the cover had fallen directly onto the hotplate when I’d removed the food, and it caught fire. While it was fireresistant, it wasn’t quite fireproof!

I yelled for my husband to come. It was not pikuach nefesh at that point, so we couldn’t pour water on it. My husband wanted to put the burning cover in the bathtub, but I was too afraid about leaving the fire in the house. I suggested putting it onto our porch. My husband bravely grabbed the flaming thing, ran out, and dropped it on the tiled floor of our mirpeset. The cover continued to burn throughout the entire Yom Tov until it was just one giant charred, bad-smelling mess.

I was so mortified that I’d burned a brand-new gift and ruined our first meal, our first Yom Tov, our first week together, but my husband was so chilled about the ordeal. In the years after this, we often laughed about how we almost burned down the house on Yom Tov and had an accidental bonfire on our mirpeset

But I never did buy another hotplate cover. I wasn’t going to take any chances...

SOME EXTRA BOUNCE

AS TOLD TO GOLDA FRIEDMAN

The first time I made Shabbos, a few weeks after our wedding, I made matzah ball soup. When my husband dipped his spoon into his bowl and attempted to partake of the unfortunately undercooked matzah ball, said item went bouncing off the spoon and onto the floor, where it proceeded to bounce around like a rubber ball. I was mortified, but I remember laughing through my embarrassment and thinking, this will be funny some day!

IN CELEBRATION OF MESSES

TZIVI WAGNER

You know teens and lofty concepts like order and schedule? They can be poles apart. No, I’m not saying I was dysfunctional. Let’s just say that, back then, “time-sensitive” meant that I was sensitive to the concept of time, and stupendous messes were an accepted part of getting things done.

Graduating my teens coincided with my being married for one whole year. In honor of our first anniversary, I rustled up an impressive anniversary dinner, full of zest and cutesy shtick. Remember alphabet pasta? They spelled out “Happy Anniversary” in the soup. Dessert was ice cream with mini wedding photos in chocolate picture frames. That type.

But my kitchen… What can I tell you about the state of my kitchen? It was a wreck to end all wrecks, a happy harmony of food and nonfood items living it up together. I’m not going to describe it any further because words won’t do. I still had some time before my husband was due home for dinner. But who said anything about cleanup? I ran out to get the freshest red roses from the florist, stuck them in a vase, and scattered some vivid petals for the effect. I turned on the little spotlights in the china closet; they were for super-special occasions, and also, for times when the closet doors were perfectly Windexed.

Finally, everything was set. I snapped shots of the dashing tablescape and also of the hyperactive chaos that was my kitchen. After all, that mess made the evening happen, right?

The next day, I sent pictures of the table, of each lovingly crafted course, and of the happily created mess to my mother-in-law so she could schep nachas What she thought of her new daughter-in-law, I have no idea.

FULLER FLAVOR

MALKA NEWMAN

A normal breakfast is cereal and coffee. A shanah rishonah breakfast is bagels and warm eggs.

A normal lunch is a tuna sandwich. A shanah rishonah lunch is eggplant parmesan, smoothies and freshly chopped lettuce salad.

A normal supper is chicken and rice. A shanah rishonah supper is crispy roasted potatoes, pan-fried herbed tilapia with butter-lem on dipping sauce, and a side of com pote. No plebeian bone-in chicken for my brand-new husband. I was going to ace this supper thing and prove all the naysayers (read: big sisters) wrong.

Oh, how I carefully followed that tilapia recipe. Ready to show my husband just how sophisticated his new wife could be, I had stocked my cabinet with every green spice the grocery had to offer: dill, parsley, rosemary, thyme. I measured the ingredients with the greatest care, although when the spices overflowed past the tablespoon mark, I hardly flinched. Everyone knows a confident cook cooks with full flavor, right? Right. I sprinkled the salt with enthusiasm, then added a dash more for good measure. The recipe also called for pepper, but I couldn’t decide between black and white pepper, so I added both.

There was also the very minor detail of the recipe calling for six tilapia fillets while I was making merely three. Nu, nu, fuller flavor never hurt anyone, or their shalom bayis

By the time I finished mixing and coating and frying and flipping, there was hardly any time left for the other dishes I had planned to make. But no matter. My tilapia fillets were a work of art. Forget about being pepper crusted; they were positively the-loveliest-shade-of-green-crusted. I couldn’t be prouder. Quickly, I whisked together the butter-lemon dipping sauce, and not a moment too soon; my husband walked through the door as I was sliding the fillets onto my stillshiny Corelle dishes.

Dear husband only coughed a teensy bit as he took his first bite. Still smiling, he looked at me graciously, and with an utterly straight face he said, “Wow. Such a supper only happens once in a lifetime!”

And so it was.

THE MALODOROUS MELTDOWN

LIBA SINGER

I come from a long line of balabustas. My Babi’s savory paprikash and my mother’s tender goulash are the stuff worthy of culinary dreams — but let’s not give all the credit to the ladies. At the tender age of eight, I learned how to braid challah and twist babke in the huge commercial kitchen of a summer camp, my hands dwarfed by my father’s as he guided them.

As a newlywed, I started cooking suppers early on, eager to show my kitchen who was boss right from the get-go. I confidently whipped up cakes, fearlessly fried schnitzel, and gallantly grated potato kugels — by hand.

(It’s precisely because of my competence and confidence in the kitchen that I hesitated to tell this story at all. My Hungarian bubbies and nénis watching from up high would emit a “Yoooooooooy” of supernatural proportions.)

It all started with the best of intentions. My husband’s birthday was coming up, and birthdays require cake. After flipping through my stack of cookbooks and all the magazines published that week, I made the fateful decision. Featuring a moist and fudgy base, chocolate chunks and hazelnuts, and a glossy, dark ganache, the Triple Chocolate Temptation Brownies were sure to bring the house down. They nearly did, but not in the way I’d intended.

The batter was ready. The chocolate chunks were prepared. Every single mixing bowl I owned was on duty or soaking in the sink, and the only thing left to whip together was the ganache.

Ganache is made by melting chocolate and combining it with milk or cream. Dreading the cleanup, I decided to save time by melting the chocolate directly in the mixing bowl. Clever and efficient! I popped the bowl onto the stove, turned on a low flame, and stepped away to prepare the baking pan where the magic would happen.

It must’ve been black magic, though, because within seconds, instead of the rich, inviting aroma of melting chocolate, an acrid stench assaulted my nostrils. I turned back to the stove and realized what I’d done: I’d put my Bosch mixer bowl onto direct heat! My plastic Bosch mixer bowl!

I immediately shut the flame, stabbed the shrieking smoke detector with a broomstick, opened the window, and hung my head in shame. But I can’t tell you what happened next. Not because I don’t want to; the trauma of that fiasco has wiped what followed from my memory.

I’m pleased to report that I still bake. I’m just careful that it’s the chocolate, and only the chocolate, that’s having a meltdown.

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The Interior of Design A space-planning adventure

CHAPTER 3 OF 4

From Fresh Facelift to Dream Kitchen: A Long-Awaited Renovation

Buying a house is a whirlwind—exciting, yes, but often overwhelming. Most people feel like they can only do the bare minimum at first, with plans to tackle the big stuff a few years down the line. That was exactly the case with my client Chaya Greenberg, who approached me not long after giving birth to her first child. She had just purchased a house that, to put it mildly, “needed work.”

Phase I: The House

The layout was beautiful — spacious and open — but the previous owners hadn’t been kind to it. The floors needed to be ripped out, the moldings and doors had to be replaced, and the entire space was begging for a facelift. I was thrilled to jump in and give this tired house a fresh start.

We started with the essentials: tiles, paint colors, new moldings and an elegant ceiling detail in the dining room complete with updated lighting. We even gave the central staircase, the heart of the open layout, a new look with a gorgeous color update. By the end of phase one, the house looked fresh, stylish and ready for its next chapter.

But then there was the kitchen.

The kitchen was a different story. Picture this: old pink Spanish tiles, crumbling cabinets, and two bizarre beams crossing the ceiling and looking totally out of place. It was far from pretty, and as a designer, it made my eyes twitch. But Chaya, who had a clear sense of what she wanted, asked to hold off on the kitchen. She wanted time to imagine the perfect space and recover her financial standing before embarking on that phase of the renovation.

I agreed — although I have to admit that the thought of leaving that eyesore in an otherwise beautiful home was tough.

For the next two years, I kept that kitchen in the back of my mind because I knew this kitchen could be amazing It had quirky, challenging features that were just begging for a designer’s touch. It took two years, but finally, I got the call: We’re ready!

Phase II: The Kitchen

Having worked with Chaya before, I knew her style, but there were some key challenges to address right off the bat. First, the layout. The kitchen was an odd shape, with windows and doors scattered haphazardly around the walls, which made placing cabinets a real puzzle. And then there were those beams — two oddly positioned overhead beams that were neither centered nor aesthetically pleasing.

Finally, we had to ensure that whatever we did in the kitchen blended seamlessly with the rest of the house, which had been transformed into a stylish, cohesive space. The colors, tiles and overall design had to flow.

So off we went to the kitchen supplier, ready to tackle the design. We

were clear about what we needed: a big, beautiful island, a centerpiece stove (Chaya loves to cook), plenty of storage, and most importantly, a layout that let all the sunshine pour in from the windows and doors. We wanted that kitchen to feel alive with light, warmth and space.

I pitched a few ideas, and one stood out immediately. I suggested we annex the laundry room, which was conveniently located near the kitchen. My plan was to turn it into a walk-in pantry-slash-slop kitchen, and move the laundry room upstairs where it would be more functional. My client loved the idea, and just like that, our storage problems were solved.

Now came the tricky part — designing the kitchen layout. We twisted and turned the design, tried cabinets here, an island there, but it was clear we needed to keep an open mind. There wasn’t going to be a cookie-cutter solution. I eliminated the back wall cabinets, shifted the island, extended it, moved the oven to the center, and voila — things finally started to click into place.

But still, there were those beams... those awful, misaligned beams. I spent days trying to imagine a way to conceal them without dropping the ceiling height, which was one of the room’s best features. It felt like a design roadblock.

One day, during an impromptu meeting with the contractor and client, we were reviewing the cabinet layout when inspiration struck. Grabbing the plans, I started feverishly drawing lines across the kitchen. Out came a ceiling design that not only solved the beam problem but turned it into a statement piece. I dropped the ceiling just above the stove to cover one beam, creating a custom hood feature that blended perfectly into the room.

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We added lighting and intricate millwork details, and suddenly, what was once a design headache became a breathtaking focal point.

With the first beam beautifully concealed, we tackled the second. This one sat above what would be the pantry and built-in fridge/freezer area. The solution? Seamlessly blend it into the cabinetry, making it look like the beam was intentionally part of the design. Just like that — problem solved.

Once the design was complete, the rest of the details seemed to fall magically into place. We decked out the kitchen with stunning lighting, beautiful polished concrete gray tiles, and cabinetry in striking, contrasting finishes of charcoal gray and white. The only challenge was the countertop.

For a designer, selecting the countertop is a bit like finding the soul of the kitchen. The right stone can elevate the space, creating a harmonious balance that complements everything else. But countertops are also a big-ticket item, sometimes rivaling even the appliances and cabinetry in cost. So when Chaya and I headed to the stone yard, we knew we were in for a challenge.

But it was love at first sight. There, in the middle of a sprawling selection of stones, was a magnificent marble that took our breath away. Its natural veining was unlike anything else we’d seen, and once we had our eyes on it,

Design Dilemma

High Gloss vs. Matte Tiles

Q: I love the look of high-gloss tiles, but I’m worried about slipping in busy areas. Are matte tiles a better choice for safety considerations?

A: High-gloss tiles can indeed bring a stunning, reflective quality to any space, adding brightness and a touch of sophistication that’s hard to match with matte finishes. Although they can become slippery when wet, there are workarounds. First, using smaller, high-gloss tiles in areas where a wet surface is a concern can actually add grip due to the increased grout lines. Additionally, some high-gloss tiles now come with slip-resistant coatings, offering the best of both worlds. If you love the glossy look, go for it! Just make sure to select slip-resistant options for any particularly wet or high-traffic areas.

nothing else seemed to compare. The problem was that the stone came with a price tag to match its beauty, and it was higher than Chaya had planned to spend.

Determined, we toured stone yards across New York and New Jersey, hoping to find a similar stone that fit the budget. But nothing could capture that same elegance. So we made a compromise: Ee would use the marble selectively, in key areas where it could truly shine, and opt for a clean white quartz for the rest of the countertops. It was the perfect solution — one that balanced beauty with practicality.

The results were breathtaking. The marble added a luxurious flair in just the right spots, while the quartz provided a crisp, clean look that tied everything together. The kitchen was everything we’d dreamed it could be, a testament to thoughtful design, a little compromise, and a whole lot of heart.

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NO, NO. THAT’S NOT WHAT I HAD IN MIND AT ALL. THE COMMUNITY’S LAWYER, PEDRO PALACIOS, IS A VERY WEALTHY MAN.

HE OWNS A FEW PARCELS OF LAND.

HE’S BEEN TRYING TO SELL THEM FOR MONTHS NOW, WITHOUT SUCCESS. HE MIGHT BE MORE FLEXIBLE WITH HIS PRICE THAN SENIOR HERNANDEZ.

THIS LAND WAS SOLD TO YOU AT A PRICE ONLY SLIGHTLY HIGHER THAN THE ORIGINAL PROPERTY.

A FEW HOURS LATER, A QUICK CONTRACT WAS SIGNED BETWEEN THE LAWYER AND THE IMMIGRANTS, SELLING THEM THE LAND ADJACENT TO THE RAILWAY NEAR SANTA FE.

BARUCH HASHEM! WHAT A QUICK RESOLUTION!

I’M NOT AFRAID OF HARD WORK. AS LONG AS WE CAN LIVE IN PEACE AND PRACTICE OUR YIDDISHKEIT AWAY FROM THE POGROMS IN EUROPE. LET’S GO.

HOWEVER, THERE ARE NO FARMHOUSES OR AGRICULTURAL INFRASTRUCTURE PRESENT. YOU HAVE YOUR WORK CUT OUT FOR YOU!

IT’S… IT’S… AMAZING… AMAZING!

ABUELO, WHAT’S GOING ON?

MISHA, TELL ME — ARE YOU SEEING WHAT I’M SEEING? OR ARE MY OLD EYES DECEIVING ME?

RECAP: THE RUSSIAN IMMIGRANTS REACH ARGENTINA, ONLY TO DISCOVER THAT THE LAND OWNER WHO SOLD THEM LAND RETRACTED HIS CONTRACT. THEY HAVE NOWHERE TO GO. RABBI RUBINOV AND YISHAI MORENO STEP IN TO HELP.

A CIPHER! A CODE! WHO WROTE IT?!

ELIAS MORENO, MY GREATGREAT-GRANDFATHER AND THE ONE WHO WROTE THIS DIARY. HE LEFT A HIDDEN MESSAGE HERE.

THAT’S WHAT I WAS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHEN I ALMOST FELL INTO THE WATER!

WHAT DOES IT SAY?

BUT AT THE PORT TODAY, THE SUNLIGHT SUDDENLY REVEALED THE HIDDEN WRITING. IT’S HARD TO READ. INVISIBLE INK DOESN’T SURVIVE AS WELL AS REGULAR INK — CERTAINLY NOT AFTER 200 YEARS.

OVER THE LAST FEW MONTHS, I’VE BEEN READING THE DIARY OFTEN, AND I NOTICED A FEW STRANGE PARAGRAPHS AND SKETCHES. I TRIED TO FIGURE THEM OUT WITH NO SUCCESS.

I’LL TRY AGAIN AT HOME, WHEN IT’S QUIET AND PEACEFUL

ARE WE SUPPOSED TO SLEEP INSIDE THESE TRAIN CARS?!

BUT “QUIET AND PEACEFUL” WOULDN’T COME ANYTIME SOON…

BITS OF WITS

SHEVY HOLLANDER

The letters -OTUS, an acronym and a suffix that serves as a shortened version of the phrase “of the United States” came into use in the late 19th century, and people have gotten quite creative with it. The first recorded use is from 1879, where SCOTUS (Supreme Court of the United States) appeared in a book that included code words for telegraphic use.

In 1895, POTUS was used, also for telegraphic purposes, as a shortened version of President of the United States. You can also come across FLOTUS (first lady), VPOTUS (vice president), COTUS (Constitution) and even TOTUS (teleprompter, which came in handy during Obama’s presidency).

THE CHANGING FACE OF:

Most of us have been taught that in the Middle Ages, prior to Columbus’ voyage, it was widely believed that the world was flat. However, it was not so. European scholars have generally understood that the world must be round. This is such a common modern historical misconception that it is called the “flat-Earth error.”

FLOWER POWER

Use the following letters to list 5 words, each using 7 letters and up. Only the center letter must be used, and letters can be repeated. Bonus points for pangrams (words that use all seven letters).

O A R N T D U

Find a common factor for this group of four words

Fall

Mark

Way

Color

Answer: If it’s the word stone, atone, ounce or any other five-letter word containing the letters “one.”

Butterflies can be let out to fly free, because when you’re talking about that queasy and anxious feeling in your stomach, the word collywobbles does the job so awesomely.

In the 1930s, eight shell-shaped gas stations were built for Shell. One of them still remains in North Carolina.

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TEMPERATURE IN NEW YORK CITY HISTORY WAS 84°, WHICH OCCURRED ON NOVEMBER 1, 1950. THE TEMPERATURE IN NYC THIS PAST WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 6, 2024, REACHED 81°, MAKING IT THE THIRD WARMEST NOVEMBER DAY ON RECORD. RECORDED!

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The following are not allowed in Boggle: Adding “s” to a word • Proper nouns • Abbreviations • Contractions • Acronyms

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Furnished studio apt. for rent on Route 306. Call/Text: 845545-4500

SPRING VALLEY/UNION

3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms for rent. Call 347-403-9933 leave message.

MIAMI BEACH FL.

For rent all season only, full one bedroom apartment, Ground floor, close to shul, and Ocean. Also available for sale, 845-662-3879

APARTMENT RENT

Spacious 2 bedroom apt available for rent in New City. $2,100 including utilities. Please call or text 845-7097826.

BASEMENT RENTAL

Cozy 3-bedroom apartment in Spring Valley/Union area. 3 steps down. $2600/ month, utilities included. Prime neighborhood. Please text 347-228-2240 Available immediately

APARTMENT FOR RENT

Brand New two bedroom apartment for rent in the Chestnut Ridge/ Dexter Park area. Call or text 845- 5870461

SPACE FOR RENT

Commercial space available for rent in the center of Monsey to park trucks or for storage. 80 x 50 ft . $2800 per month. Call 917-673-0056

2 BEDROOM APT

Almost brand new nice 2 bedroom apt Cardinal Lane beginning Chestnut Ridge. Monsey Realty 845-376-0906

TOWNHOUSE

Townhouse 55+ Complex on Highview. Monsey Realty 845-376-0906

5 BEDROOM HOUSE

Brand new 5 bedroom+ Up and down, South Madison. Monsey Realty 845-376-0906

2-3 BEDROOM APT

Brand new 2/3 bedroom apt on South Madison. Monsey Realty 845-376-0906

3 ROOM APT

Nice 3 room apartment on Decatur/First St. Monsey Realty 845-376-0906

FOR SALE

Suffern NY Cul-de-Sac Gem! 2744 SF, breathtaking views floor-to-ceiling windows, open living/dining 4 bed, 2 bath 25 min to shul Private 0.7-acre oasis, Tax 15k price 775k. Call, Whatsapp 347772-9733

Classifieds real estate

HOUSE FOR RENT

Beautiful Renovated Apt For Rent In Prime Airmont Neighborhood. 3 Bedroom 1.5 Bathroom New Kitchen. Please call 347-729-4104

HOUSE FOR SALE TZFAT, ISRAEL

Magnificent 3 floor House, Breathtaking Views, 8 Bedrooms, 3 Bathrooms, Sukkah Terrace, 2 Shuls Across St, Close to all Kvarim. Email: tzfatluxury@gmail. com

OFFICE FOR RENT

Newly renovated offices for rent on LENORE AVE. please call 845 533 2427

HAVERSTRAW

1000 SF ground floor space + 15 parking spots available for rent call/Text 845.203.1120

RETAIL BUILDING FOR SALE

Retail building in haverstraw on rt 9w 4,000 sf, asking $999k, great location, text or call 845.203.1120

OFFICE CUBICLES

Available for rent Francis Suzanne. Includes internet and wifi. Call 845-318-7376. Text 845-232-0676

BAKERY

Commercial Bakery available for lease in Suffern, 6000 Sq. Feet Call 718 757 6247

FOR RENT

One-bedroom apartment for rent on Sunrise. Call/Text: 845-545-4500

OFFICE SPACES FOR RENT

Beautiful, professional office spaces now available for rent in the heart of Liberty. Ideal location with ample amenities. Inquire today: KB Management Team 845-4390001, Ext. 102

OFFICE FOR RENT

Private office for rent 200sqft, in the center of Monsey, High ceiling private toilet, call or text 347-762-1256

OFFICE SPACE

Beautiful Office Space Available! Located on N Rigaud Rd, Spring Valley. Choose from 1 or 4 desks, allinclusive, at a very affordable price! Call or text 845-9252746 for more info!

LAKEHOUSE VILLA

Luxurious 3 bedroom lake house villa in Case Grande Arizona. Private pool fully stocked kosher kitchen. 520.251.4459

WEST PALM BEACH

For the best Real Estate deals, Call: Mrs. Debby Schwartz 203.667.2785

AIRMONT RENTAL

Airmont, NY - 6 bedroom house, 20+ total beds. Near Lorna Park. Weekday, Shabbos, or Short Term. Call 347-451-9432

WEST PALM BEACH FOR SALE

Wellington M, 2 Bedroom apt. Ground Floor FOR SALE. Call: 347.760.0639

MIAMI BEACH FLORIDA

Carriage Club North, beautiful 2 bedroom, 2 bath, ground floor, for rent. Call: 347.499.0031

FLORIDA RENTAL

Beautiful 3 bedroom 3 bath villa with inground heated pool and hot tub available in North Miami, Price per night $339. Pictures available. Call/Text 845-327-7153

VACATION STUDIO RENTAL

Brand new vacation studio for rent Shabbosim/ weekday. One bedroom with kitchenette. (Minimum 2 nights) Close to Rimnitz Hall. 8455380990

SHORT TERM RENTAL

Airmont, N Y - Furnished 6 bedroom house, 20+ beds. Across Lorna Park. Weekday, Shabbos, or Short Term. Call 347-451-9432

BEAUTIFUL VILLA RENTAL

Beautif ul villa in serene area outside Monroe. 9 couple rooms, teen room 8 beds and many kids mattresses. Huge private pool with stunning grounds. Pictures at hotelfifteen.com .still avail for sukkas 845 837 5662

MONSEY VACATION/ SIMCHA RENTAL

Beautiful fully furnished Shabbos equipped 6 bedroom 4 bath house Highview/College. Call/ whatsapp 718-5410292

HOLLYWOOD FLORIDA

Beautiful private villa. 4 Master suites with kosher kitchen, huge living area, pool. Walking distance to Shul/ Kosher shopping. Call/ WhatsApp 718-541-0292

NORTH MIAMI FL.

• Couples Only• Kosher Vacation House

• Private Heated Pool• Warm, Relaxing, Dreamy

• Beautiful Patio• 5 Min walk to a Shul. Contact chany for more details @ 845-274-7610

STAY SUITE

SHABBOS RENTAL | STAY SUITE. Fully furnished studio apartment for rent. New, clean and fresh. Quiet, private and stylish stand alone building. Located Grandview and 306 area. Text 845-418-5916.

VILLA IN CASA

GRANDE ARIZONA

Gorgeous upgraded villa available. 14 comfortable beds, 3 baths, kosher kitchen. Beautiful private backyard with heated pool. Near Shul & Grocery. Call/text 929-592-0368 / 929-441-5709 Arizonakoshervilla.net. Villa in Tuscon also available.

AIRMONT

Spacious extended 4-bedroom house for rent. Please call 347-403-9933 leave message.

• HR – Employee Relations/ Training & Development, 2+ yrs. experience, 75k+, Monsey

Looking paRtnERs

• Director of Finance & Payroll Compliance, 3+ yrs. experience in finance, accounting, payroll tax compliance and managing multi-state payroll tax filings, 175k - 225k, Monroe

• Senior Sourcing Specialist, 3+ yrs. experience in supply chain management, including strategic sourcing, purchase order management, logistics, contract management, and supplier management w/ proficiency in data analytic tools, 150k, Newark NJ

• Real Estate Asset Manager, 3+ yrs. experience required, construction experience a plus, travel required, 150k+, Monsey

• Accountant, 2+ yrs. nursing home industry experience required w/ bank reporting and dealing with lenders, 150k, Monsey

• Clinical Director, 5+ yrs. clinical experience required with a background in mental health, working with children, clinics etc., 150k, Monsey

• Bookkeeper, Manufacturing / cost accounting experience required, transaction entries & bookkeeping, month-end Reporting & close, analyzing and reporting on inventory, labor, and material costs, 100k - 120k, Parsippany, NJ

• Buyer, 2+ yrs. experience, negotiate prices, strong communication, analytical and procurement skills, 100k, Monsey

• Payroll Administrator, 2+ yrs. experience, 100k + full benefits, Monsey

• NetSuite Administrator, be familiar with NetSuite settings, configurations, and customizations, as well as having the ability to integrate NetSuite with other systems, fulltime, 100k+, Monsey, [Hybrid 1-2 days a week]

• E-Catalog Content Manager, experience in catalog management, product data processing, or similar roles, 85k - 110k, Newark

• Paralegal, full-time position, 70k+, Monsey

• Junior Accountant, Real Estate Management company, hands-on experience working with general ledgers, journal entries, credits/ debits, and P&L statements, Familiarity with tax returns and Financial Statements; experience with accounting software, 55k –65k, Monsey

• Product Development & Marketing Specialist, Judaica/gifts line, Research & develop new products, manage social media & create content, design marketing materials & product packaging, 2+ years of experience in product development, social media, and graphic design, 50k – 60k

• IT Level 1, A+ certification required, 50k – 60k, Monsey

• Director of Patient Services, RN License required, home care experience, compliance and DPS with management experience, 130k –150k, full benefits package, Monsey

• Executive Assistant to the CEO, real estate development company, 2+ yrs. relevant experience required, Excellent communication and interpersonal skills, Proficiency in Microsoft Office, Google Workspace, project and calendar management tools, 130k – 160k, Monroe

• HR Director, manage Indeed accounts and staffing of Nursing home facilities, relevant experience required, 120k – 150k, Monsey

• Director of Private Label, 3+ yrs. experience launching and managing private label products, 120k – 140k, Monsey

• Ecommerce Director, 3+ yrs. experience w/ Amazon and Walmart marketplaces, including FBA, WFS, and Inventory Management, 110k –140k, Monsey

• Senior UX designer, full-time, in-house position for a healthcare software startup, 110k - 130k, Monsey

• Payroll Representative, male office, 2+ years in the nursing home industry, detail-oriented, strong communication / analytical skills, proficient in Excel, Outlook, and Word, $85k110k, Monsey

• HCBS Quality Assurance Compliance Director, HCBS experience required, female office, 80k – 90k, Monsey

• E-commerce Catalog Listing Manager, maintain, optimize listing performance, running deals, etc. 70k – 90k, Montgomery NY

• Logistics Project Coordinator, logistics and freight management experience required, including working directly with shipping companies, 75k – 85k, Newark NJ

• Construction Project Manager, 2+ yrs. experience required, travel to Tri-state area,

• Real Estate Title Coordinator, 1+ yrs.

• Estimator for Commercial / Residential

• Showroom Operations Project Manager for Architecture firm, Oversee operations, equipment upkeep, customer relations, scheduling clients, 52k, Monsey

• Licensed Social Worker for local agency, male population, $65/hr. - $90/hr., based on experience, Monsey

• Leading Commercial Real Estate Mortgage Brokerage firm, seeks motivated and ambitious individuals to join their team as Real Estate Finance Advisors, develop relationships with real estate owners and developers to arrange financing. Learn to analyze and underwrite deals, 40k plus commissions, Monsey

• Field RN, 1 year of RN experience and be willing to do home visits in the Greater Monsey area, $50 - $60/hr.

• Marketing Coordinator, Homecare company, relevant marketing experience required, fulltime, in-office position, $40/hr. Monsey

• Bookkeeper, 2+ yrs. experience required, $30$35/hr., Monsey

• QA Coordinator, Female office, Part-timeFriday required, Excellent reading/ writing skills required. $30/hr. Monsey

• Full-time Customer service positions available. $25 - $30/hr. Monsey

• Fiscal Intermediary Coordinator, 6+ hours daily Monday - Thursday, Friday a must. Some prior office experience required. $30-$35, Monsey

• AP Rep, AR Liaison, Payroll Rep positions. $25$35/hr., Monsey

• Female Care Manager - BA or Equivalent degree required, relevant experience preferred, part-time or full-time $30/hr.+, Monsey

numbers, experience in estimating a plus, 75k+, Monroe

Secretary, Real Estate office, full-time position, be organized, multi-tasking, detail-oriented and Microsoft Office proficient, $25 - $30/hr.,

Saleslady, Upscale Gift store, relevant experience required, full-time position, $25 -

• AP/AR/Cash collection positions for Nursing home facilities back-office, $25/hr.+, Monsey

Classifieds

MIAMI BEACH FLORIDA

Collins Ave. Beautiful ocean view. 1 bedroom apt. for rent. 347.760.0570

HELP WANTED

INSURANCE OFFICE HIRING

Do you have office experience, strong communication skills, and a customer-focused approach? Join our growing team and enjoy a collaborative environment with growth potential. Send your resume to hr@adlersinsurance.com today!

HELP WANTED

Construction office looking to hire a full-time secretary and project manager. Preferable knowledge of QuickBooks. Please email your resume to officejobs4832@gmail.com

MEDICAL BILLER

A growing medical center is seeking an experienced P/T or F/T Medical Biller. Competitive salary, paid vacation/holidays, 401K, flexible schedule and opportunities for growth. Send your resume to hr@ mdcommunityhealth. com.

AFTER SCHOOL

Looking for someone to take my daughter off the bus and watch her for 1.5 hours. (Some medical needs) Very well paid 845.709.0588

BCBA POSITION

ABA Riders is looking to hire a BCBA. Well-paid, flexible hours. Contact Rikki 347930-9736/info@abariders. com.

FULL-TIME NANNY

Looking for a full time live out nanny. Please call 845 293 2312 for details.

EXCELLENT OPPORTUNITY!

B.Y.E. seeking elementary reading specialist, experience required. Email resume to rfaivelson@ baisyaakovelementary.org

HIRING

Property management company is looking for a part time Bookkeeper.Budgeting, reports and collection skills required.Please email resume to rcmanageoffice@ gmail.com or text 845-8286781

SECRETARIAL POSITION

Great full-time secretarial position, Experience needed. Email Resume to gitty@ hireexteam.com or call 845682-1075

SECRETARIAL POSITION

AVAILABLE

Organization in Monsey is seeking a responsible and dedicated Married Woman for a full-time secretarial position available immediately . Candidates should be fluent in both Yiddish and English, ability to multitask, excellent organizational skills, and knowledge of Microsoft Word, Excel & QuickBooks. Send resume to info@ mikvaht.org.

MA/EMT

We are seeking Medical Assistants and EMTs to join our team and provide essential care in our community. This is a great opportunity to make a difference while enjoying competitive pay and a supportive work environment. pls contact 845-734-3039 maemt126@ gmail.com

WE’RE HIRING!

Upscale jewelry store in monsey is looking to hire a part time energetic sales lady. Sunday’s included. Please email resume: jewelrypersonal@gmail.Com

SALESLADY OPPORTUNITY

Local Home organizing store is seeking a saleslady with a passion for Home organizing. Must speak Yiddish. Hours: MondayThursday 2:30-6:30 and Sunday 12-6:45. Call 845-459-3950 lv msg

UNDERWRITER

Insurance company seeking experience underwriter. Email leah@hireexteam.com

WORK FROM HOME

Great opportunity to manage your own business from home. No experience needed, no computer necessary. Huge potential to grow big. Call: 438.529.1216

Classifieds help wanted N

ACCOUNTING POSITION

CPA firm seeking to hire a full-time female employee to fill a junior accounting position in a great environment. Ideal candidate should have strong accounting and people skills. Please email resume to CPAjobmonsey@gmail.com.

JOBS AVAILABLE

Part-time & Full-time jobs available. Email TopPartTimeJobs@ gmail.com

JOB OPPORTUNITY

Heimish Female Office is looking to expand their accounting department, please email your resume to monseyjob123@gmail.com

HELP WANTED

A office in Suffern is looking to hire a full-time office worker with strong communication skills and attention to detail. Previous office experience is required. Please email your resume to jobssuffern@gmail.com

JOB OPPORTUNITY

Join our home care agency as a Clinical Coordinator in the Nursing Department! You’ll serve as a key liaison between the nursing team, caregivers and families as well as be responsible for updating RN documents. Candidates must have some office experience and basic knowledge of MS Word and Excel. Flexible hours, competitive pay, and friendly work environment. Send your resume to: hiring@hamaspikcare.org

ENGLISH DEPT.

We are looking to hire a devoted, creative and committed art/extra curricular teacher. Must be title 4 approved. Please send in your resume to englishdept@bnosbinahm. org.

SPEECH THERAPIST

Looking for a speech therapist to work with special needs students in a school setting. Very flexible hours. resumes@ohreducation.org 845.352.3307 ext:119

We are now taking bookings for our Gym / Indoor Basketball court for the upcoming year.

taking bookings for our Gym / Indoor Basketball court for the upcoming year.

For more information please email dtyberg@chederby.org

F/T RESIDENTIAL LOAN PROCESSOR

Busy mortgage office seeking F/T Residential assistant/ processor. Individual must be organized, computer savvy, detail oriented and hardworking. Please send resume to saram@ everestequity.com

JOB OPPORTUNITY

Seeking para daily after 4, with or without a degree. Compensation according to credentials, competitive pay. Call 718-306-9893 ext. 304 or email leah@ headwayservices.org

150+ JOB OPENINGS!

Stop wasting your time going through all the jobs classifieds. Simply email your resume to Info@ SwiftStaffingGroup.com to explore your options & maximize your career. Or Call/Text/ WhatsApp 732-800-7633 Strictly confidential & completely free.

HR DIRECTOR

Looking for a HR director in a Recruiting business. Great opportunity. Must have managerial skills and HR experience. Driving a plus. chany@theprimestaffing. com 8459251588

HELP WANTED

Looking for a full time worker with prior office experience to assist with processing online orders and with phone and email customer service. Must have good verbal and written communication skills and work Sundays. Work in a fast faced office with a great team. Call 845-356-2269 x208.

OFFICE MANAGER

Are you an experienced office manager with solid leadership? This is your chance to advance your career. A very prominent company is looking for qualified candidates to join their leadership team. Please reach out to me today rivky@ theprimestaffing.com 329205-6185

Reserve now to make sure we can accommodate you for your specific timing

Or call (845) 694-6015 x201 for

for our Gym / Indoor Basketball court for the upcoming year. Reserve now to make sure we can accommodate you for your specific timing

make sure we can accommodate you for your specific timing

accommodate you for your specific weekly sessions our Lunchroom rental

Special Prices for weekly sessions

Or call (845) 694-6015 x201 Gym / Indoor Basketball court for year.

Special Prices for weekly sessions

Please also inquire about our Lunchroom rental

For more information please email dtyberg@chederby.org

For more information please email dtyberg@chederby.org

Please also inquire about our Lunchroom rental

For more information please email dtyberg@chederby.org

Or call (845) 694-6015 x201

Or call (845) 694-6015 x201

ARE YOU READY TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN SOMEONE’S LIFE? WE ARE HIRING!

Full-time, in-office, positions Competitive salary

Intake Coordinator

Experience with HCBS and/or intake a must Spanish speaking a plus

Send your resume and specify position 1224 info@ascendservicesny.com 845-280-9206

Elevate your career with Ascend Services

MONSEY POSITIONS

2024-25

Join our wonderful team!

2024-25

TEACHING POSITIONS

Bnos Leah Prospect Park of Monsey has a preschool co-teacher opening immediately. Also looking for an elementary school kodesh teacher due to teacher getting married.

Due to expansion, Bnos Leah Prospect Park of Monsey is seeking Kodesh and General Studies preschool and elementary school teachers for 2024-25 school year.

Great working environment and competitive salary!

Experienced, dynamic, warm, organized and passionate about chinuch habanos.

Teachers should be experienced, dynamic, warm, organized and passionate about chinuch habanos.

Email resume to: jobs@prospectmonsey.org

Email resume to: jobs@prospectmonsey.org

experienced, and

Classifieds help

ACCOUNTING

Accounting Office looking to hire for full time position. Experience in QuickBooks and Tax a plus. Email resume to connie@oberlanderandco. com

TITLE TEAM LEADER

Do you have title experience? Looking for a Title team leader in a great heimish office. Great pay for the right candidate. female chany@ theprimestaffing.com 8459251588

OFFICE POSITION

Looking for a dynamic and rewarding job? Join our team as an Authorization Coordinator. A friendly and supportive work environment, competitive pay, and benefits package. New graduates welcome! Send your resume to: hiring@hamaspikcare.org

EXCELLENT OPPORTUNITY!

Bais Yaakov Elementary seeking afternoon Librarian. Please email resume to resumes@ baisyaakovelementary.org

ADMIN ASSISTANT/ CLIENT SERVICES

Investment firm in Montvale *Pleasant, professional environment *Must be well-organized, with good computer & communication skills *Graduate welcome *Own transportation preferred. Please email resume and references to

SFKBM1@GMAIL.COM

SERVICES

NUTRITIONIST

Learn to Appreciate, Trust and Take Care of the Body you Have Been Given. Miriam Shurpin, MS , RD, CDN.Registered Dietitian Nutritionist.347 480 1670 rd@miriamshurpin.com. In-person and Telehealth Consultations

LASER IN NYACK

Smooth results, unbeatable price! Full-body laser hair removal for just $350 at StatBeam Laser in Nyack, NY. Check our reviews to see why clients keep coming back! 929-490-7375

MESOS

DODIM

Shidduchim services for those with medical needs. Strictly confidential. We’ve recently upgraded our system, so please reach out to confirm we still have your form on file. Call or text: 845729-3001.

HANDYMAN

Assembly of all types of furniture & Furniture Repairs -Installation of Blinds,Shades,Shelves,RodsServicing Monsey Area Chaim- 347 416 1027

BABY LOSS

Are you grieving the loss of your baby? New 12 week workshop for mothers who had a late miscarriage, stillbirth or infant loss. Limited spots. Call/Text now 718-310-8678 - chaya@ jewishgriefgroups.com

$40 TUTORING

Male Tutor with 40 years’ experience: [English, שידיא]. Reading/Writing, ESL, Math, ארמג ,הנשמ ,שמוח ,האירק $40 for 40 minutes! Call 845642-1082

HEALTH COACH

Take control of your health, and create longterm sustainable lifestyle changes!Mushki Goldin, Certified Health and Wellness Coach 215-9062070.

PHOTOBOOKS, SLIDESHOWS, & VIDEO EDITING

A professional graphic designer is available for video editing, slideshows, photo books, and photo editing. Phone: 845-213-9881 Email: hindyhirschler@gmail.com. Web: hindydesigny.com

SHAIMOS

ARROWSMITH

Is your child still in the same place after all that tutoring?Join Arrowsmith, a research based program that strengthens the brain and eliminates learning disabilities. Call Mrs Feuer 914-260-6449

Baby Layettes (845) 213-3646

Layettes Text 718-551-1732

Doula 845-587-1649

Labor Bag 347-604-3274

Pidyon Haben Accessories 845642-7256

Pidyon Haben 845-659-6704

Pidyon Haben Gemach 845-263-9387

Pidyon Haben silver tray 845-558-9589

Formula 347-267-3640 Or 216-8893643

Neocate Formula 718-853-4090

Neocate Formula 845-517-9221

Formula Gemach 845-371-3232

Carseats, Bassinet & Pack N Plays. 425-1202

Carseats, Pack N Plays, Strollers, Pumps 845.425.6826

Doona Car Seat 845-445-7474

Brass Iron Bassinet 917-280-4559

Preemie Clothing 845-520-0475

The Preemie Box 845.664.5768 Or 718.688.5814

Baby Scale 845-578-5639

Baby Headphone 845 356 6797 Or 845 558 9370

Baby Scales 845-694-8985

Easy birth from Koznitzer Maggid 917-514-9461

NICU approved clothing 4.5lb+ 845422-7896/347-382-0016

Nursing pumps 8454999871

Twin layette gift box.719 972 0554.

Lv msg.

Baby bassinets 917-618-0909

EZRAS RUSSI L’TINOK LAYETTE 845425-3266 or 845-362-2004

Brissim

Bris Accessories 617-955-3630

Bris Accessories 845-352-5130

Bris Accessories 425 3873

Bris Accessories 425-6574

Bris Accessories 356-6215

Blue Light 845.425.1919

Poya and bris outfit w/ tefillos 845425-0672

Bris outfit & Poya 917-909-4072

Bris outfit poya, also tefilla cards 845 3564859 Ralph area

Pillow/Benchers 845-213-0602

Knife Sharpening For Mohalim 718384-6214

Segula Stone 347-699-6418

Preemie Outfit 845.558.7065

Krias Shema Board With Stand 425-4540

Free Mohel 347-383-5696

Bris Gemach call/text 845-587-5813

Bris outfit, hat and Puyah 845-5589589

New Bris Gemach -845 549 0316

Simcha

Gowns 845-517- 8808

Mother & Sister Gowns 845-426-7496 Or 845-352-3031.

Gown And Petticoats 347-278-1278

Ivory/white/dusty blue gowns 845371-1765

Floral Bisomim 845-629-2785.

Hats $25. 347-351-1604

Elegant Hats 845-517-0838. Bands & Berets 845-371-3556

Tichel 845-548-0014

Mechitza’s, Tables, Chairs Etc. Call 845-445-8015

Hot Water Urns 845-425-9211

Ear-Plugs 845-202-0105. Toys 845-578-6513

Toys 917-538-3453. Clics 845-352-5820

Tablecloths (845) 371 2105

Tablecloth 352-8292

Tablecloths 352-8292

GEMACHIM

Gold Chargers 845-573-9772

shelves, stands, trays & centerpieces

845-425-1721

Siddurs. Sfard: 845-608-7830 Ashkenaz: 845 352 1756 Or 845-826-6718

Siddur/Chumash 558.4774

Benchers 845-642-0910

Bentchers 347-404-2204

Bechers 845-377-5671

Becher, Challah Deklich, Zemiros

845-425-0498

Coat Rack And Hangers 845-356-9841

Chuppa Cards 347-278-1278

Chupah Cards 845.222.0456

Chuppah Tefillos Booklets. 845-2130602.

Wedding Kit 845-425-2036

Wedding Kit 845-371-2947

Simcha Powder Room Kit 845-3048154

Accessories Basket 845-371-6857

Children Hair Pieces 3473001679

Portable Chuppah 845-425-4790

Sound System 917-382-8809

Evening Bags 845-549-2929

Shmiras Halashon Cards 537-0069

Earplugs for Simchos 845-328-1071

22 qt crockpots, big hot plates, big pots, perculator 8453238570

Simcha table centerpieces 8456087715

Centerpieces 845-570-7755

Wedding guest accessories basket

845-425-0963

Mechteniste/Teenage Gown Gemach

845-662-4149

Invitation Addressing 845-275-3044

Portable & Plug in Food warmers

845-371-1531

Centerpieces & table top 845.213.0160

Kallah

Yom Hachuppah Cd 845-352-2560

Crowns, veils, shoes, capes 426-0767

Headpieces, Tiaras, Veils 845-4254221

White Sneakers 917-613-6579

White Shoes 845-200-0211

Dress your kallah stress free. Book 1 week in advance 518-306-1167

Kallah Dresser 845-300-5767

Vort dress gemach 845-499-3086

Kallah fur capes 845-425-7176

Misc

Ribbis Question? 347-977-0628

Notary Public 347-228-8825

Fix necklines 845-238-6691

Hairstyling 845-540-3731

Hair styling 845-502-6558

Haircuts & Styling 845-352-8101/ 845-499-3218

Wash & sets $25, 347-944-0003

Haircutting/Styling 845-263-7057

Haircutting & Styling 845-422-5337

Hospital Supplies 746-8293

Hospital Gown 845-425-8687

Hospital Gown 845-426-4695

Hospital Gowns 845-356-5364

Medical Equipment Email Slmw50@ Gmail.com

DVDS & players for Cholim/Homebound 425-2660

Simcha Maternity 845-425-1725

Maternity Coats Text only 845-5212912

Bed Rest? Laundry Help. 213-7437

Maternity Clothing 845-445-9687

Maternity Coat Text Only 8455212912

Twin Z Pillows 845-445-9298

Proposal Gemach 347-277-4072

Makeup 845-517-7128

Gps & Waze 845-352-2588 (Minimal Fee)

Kosher Waze 845.587.1708

Roof Carriers 845-659-1863.

Pack N Play Sheets Included. Text: 845-216-4885

Pack n plays 845-426-1177/ 347631-8183

Pack n plays 845-356-7353

Beautiful nishmas cards 845-729-7390

Poya (outfit, hat, booties) 845-4250672

Help-a-mom. to volunteer call 347977-6816

Phones For Emergencies. 845-3760738

Reflectors 845-356-0815

Reflectors 347-977-6816

Feeding Supplies 845-366-6398

Natural Health Support, text 347 2287578

Ostomy Supplies 845-637-6231

Moving Boxes Text (845) 641-5536

Boxes 845-425-6826 Or 845-608-7830

Boxes 845-642-5286

Boxes Text (845) 641-5536

Heaters 845 362 8666

Phone Gemach 845-445-7422

Air Mattresses 9176537170

Air mattress gemach Text/WhatsApp 9087831676

Tablecloths 845-459-7396

Coat racks & Hangers 845-352-4640

New Tablecloth Gemach 845-459-7396

twin exchange- do u have twin clothing in perfect condition that you no longer use and want to pass it on to another set to enjoy? We match up families of twins who wish to contribute or enjoy this service. call 646-689-2129 or email twinexchange29@gmail.com

Tablecloths on New Hempstead 845-459-7396

Baby scale 845-540-1710

Moving blankets 314-606-5011

Egg Boxes for moving 845-642-9729

Cuddles n Cradles 347-243-7495

Outfit and pillow 914-715-2672

Suitcases 845-371-9121

Minor Repairs txt 845-272-4840

Bike Racks 845-659-1863.

Opwdd Sd Advice Email Slfydhm@ Gmail.com

GPS 425-3873

Teacher’s Bulletin 845-425-8046

Computer Advice (862) 248-1931

Loans 347-385-1408

Twin carriages 718-522-3891

Moving Help packing/unpacking 845-281-5900

Pack N Plays with sheets text 845280-3470

Therapy toys 1-443-879-3169

Financial planning 7188536016

Digital Cameras 8264062

Phone With Service 845-445-7422

Single parent? Help with shopping etc. 516-203-2616

Hairstyling 845-570-7121

Washing Stations 845.428.9014

Yiddish & English Poems 845-587-3018

Shabbos lamps (914) 391-3787

Lev Simcha music groups/visits 8456082676

Sefer Torah 347-598-0357

Free-shalom bayis 845-213-0602

Mezuzos 845-540-1802

Boys Occasionwear 570-507-4492

Drop in babysitter - (845) 445-9391

laminators & paper cutters msg 845-263-7115

Kendamil formula 914-523-0592

Zichron Eliezer mailing Gemach 845-213-5617

Vitamin Gemach 845-521-5241

Hachnosas Kallah loan gemach 347415-1525

Heimish Chicken soup 845-352-3959

Purim Costumes 845-641-4684

MAKEUP

Get your flawless glamorous look! Please call/ text Surie 8455177128

PETTICOATS FOR RENT!

Complete your look! Adult & kids petticoats for rent, Beautiful floral wreath & crown headpieces for rent, Adorable kids jewelry, and more! Call 845-502-0153 leave msg or 845-7467248

MASSAGE THERAPY

In The Comfort of Home-- *Swedish *Deep Tissue *Lymph *Craniosacral Therapy Call Sarah: 845-596-1373

PIANO LESSONS!

Learn how to play piano by ear.Learn how to compose your own music.Accepting students of all ages and levels. $55/45 min session*FIRST SESSION HALF OFF*Contact Shira at 845 624 9865

NEW WEBSITE?

Get your Beautiful, Fast, SEO-Friendly Website done in 14 days, guaranteed. Email efraim@rapidquill.com

AYIN HORAH

The renowned Rebetzin Aidel Miller from Yerushalayim will remove Ayin Horah over the phone. Call till 5:00 PM: 718.689.1902 or 516.300.1490

CUSTOM PHOTO ALBUMS

We specialize in custom Photo Albums, Chosson, Wedding, etc. Also professional Photo Editing, many years of experience. Special rate for photographers. Call: 347.563.5153

WHOLESALE FISH

Buy by the case & save. Baby & Regular Salmon. Hashgucha Volove Rav. Free delivery to your home. Call Eli: 516-270-6755

TRANSFORMING TOUCH

Experienced physical therapist now offering TRANSFORMING TOUCH sessions at a 50% introductory rate. (Limit first 5 clients/ 3 sessions each). TT is a somatic intervention for regulation and healing . Please call/ text 7184902815.

ADDRESSING ENVELOPES

Amazing prices, call for quote. Jobs can be done immediately. Call 845-445-7422 or e-mail printingaddresses@gmail.com

Classifieds

EARPIERCING

12 years experience. Wide selection. Call/text: 845-5387986

BOTOX - FILLERS

Botox, Fillers, Peels, HydraFacial, Thread Lift, IV-Vitamin Drip, Permanent Makeup. Home visits available for select services. Call 845-300-8586

CLEAN YOUR GUTTERS

917-624-0666

SINGING DUO

Looking for some live music to liven up your event? Let our professional singing duo bring the perfect ambiance to your gathering! Whether it’s a reunion, tea party, or any special occasion, we’re here to enhance and inspire your event. Text/Call Layala at 3473535926 for more details.

HOME ORGANIZING

Dreaming of an organizing Home? Let’s Make it Possible! Declutter and empower yourself to Maintain Order in Your Home. Sara: 845-2702812

GARTLECH

We fix knitted & crochet Gartlech & make beautiful professional fringes. We also teach how to knit & crochet. call: 917-414-3281

EXPERIENCED HANDYMAN

Experienced handyman available for all your handy work as well as plumbing & Electrical needs call 845232-1843

ODDS & ENDS

PRIVATE BESHOW ROOMS

Looking for a nice private place for a Beshow? A few locations available in the Monsey area. No charge. Call

845-426-5484 or 845-7467251

MOTHER’S MILK

Urgent need for gluten free & dairy free mother’s milk, please call 845-664-4021

GOWNS

MATERNITY GOWN RENTAL

Georgeous selection of maternity gowns affordable prices all sizes...New! Also accepting gowns on consignment. Please call/ text 8458622799

IVORY GOWN

Beautiful ivory gown for rent size Small/Medium. Text 845-826-2185

SISTER OF BRIDE

Gorgeous gowns for sale:

Olive Green size 2-4, Hunter Green size 0-2, Grey size 4-6, Blush size 4-6, Ivory size 4, Grey/ Taupe Winter size 12, Ivory kids size 12-14. 845.502.6491

GOWN FOR SALE

Beautiful white gown for married sister of bride, for sale. Size 2-4 845-200-4326

WHITE MATERNITY GOWN

White maternity gown size large to sell for great price call 7183098716

WHITE GOWN

Looking to sell a size 2-4 white gown for sister of the bride, please call 347 628 9586

MECHUTANESTA GOWN

Beautiful Taupe Gown for sale. size 16845.502.6491

CHILDRENS WHITE GOWNS

2 white gowns to rent or sell childrens size 4 & 6 call 7189388597

GOWN FOR SALE

Gorgeous hunter green, sister of the bride gowns for sale. Please call 845-356-6935, if no answer leave a message

CHILDCARE

THANK YOU MOMMY

For treating me to the most amazing playgroup. 2 slots available. 845-8280364. West St/Rt. 59 area. Transportation and extended hours available.

LOST

Lost something? Found something? The Daily Return: Call/text: 845538-0193, Email: monsey dailyreturn@gmail.com

Lily and Todd bag filled with children’s black pants at the library before yomt 3476931292

FOUND

Baby wool beige pompom hat Nov 10 on Adar Ct / Park Lane (914) 979-2071

Silver Siddur on Monsey Blvd. 845-587-6355

Girl’s shoe on Maple Ave 845587-6355

FREE GIVEAWAYS

Beautiful brand name pink/ blush color dress size 4-6 . call or text 3476317346

White fabric roman shade brand new 69wide x 57 long. To pickup in monsey 7189169252

2-39” beds 845-925-0645

LATE ADS

METZBOCH MENTOR

We are looking for a Yiddish-speaking male mentor who can work with a 9-year-old child on the

Metzboch program. If you have experience and are interested in providing one-on-one tutoring, please contact us. 845-200-2925 #812

SEEKING MUSIC TEACHER

Music ‘n Motion, a preschool music program, is looking to hire a female music teacher. Qualifications : musical, lively, warm personality, great with children, responsible and dedicated. Responsibilities include: monthly preparation, and giving over the interactive music lesson in each classroom. email gela@ mnmotion.com or call 929322-4202 ext 202

“!SOLUTIONS!”

Win! Start “Living”! Get out of addictions, anxiety, depression, fears, trauma, suicidal thoughts, stuttering and more. 845-558-4027. Under 18 Parental Consent

ACCOUNTANT

Seeking a part-time bookkeeper to join our accounting department. Prior bookkeeping experience is required. Join our heimish, friendly, and calm office environment. Please send your resume to monseyjobs2024@gmail.com

SUBSTITUTE AVAILABLE

Experienced Substitute with many years of experience, available to sub grades playgroup/preschool till 8th Grade. Please call 845-2489610

JOB OPPORTUNITY

Heimish Female Office is looking to expand their accounting department, please email your resume to monseyjob123@gmail.com

GRAND OPENING FOR THE NEW LOCATION OF US MOBILE

office@tyymonticello.org

שטיוואקציא

Baby Girl After 9 Years

“My son was married for close to nine years,” Mr. K. says, “and there still was no baby in sight.”

The young couple explored all medical avenues and tried various routes, but sadly, their efforts were not yet blessed with success.

As a loyal father, Mr. K. tried all he could to help his son. He dreamt of getting him the zechus of Reb Shimon through tefillos in Meron. After all, besides being a place mesugal for all kinds of yeshuos, Meron is the place to be helped with children…

Living on the East Coast of the United States, it seemed like a pointless dream.

Until Mr. K. heard about Tehillim Kollel. Personal messengers would deliver his tefillos! He immediately gave in his son’s name and waited for their family’s personal miracle.

That was thirteen months ago. Just now, Mr. K. called in to share the good news: his son had celebrated the kiddush of his baby daughter this Shabbos!

There’s nothing like the combined power of Tehillim and Reb Shimon to close the chapter of nine lonely years and open to a new page – a simchah-filled future!

Turn your pain into pleasure too! Let’s daven for you in Meron.

Tehillim Kollel at Tzion Rashbi in Meron

Nachas - Back in Yeshiva

Parnassah - The IRS Drops the Case

Shidduchim - And a Third L’chaim

Children - Never Give Up

Health - New Lungs

Health - Defying all Odds

DRONE PHOTOS OF SMOKE OVER MONSEY DURING SUNSET FROM THE JENNINGS CREEK WILDFIRE IN WEST MILFORD NJ | CREDIT YANKY WILSON

Realizing Dreams, Together

At Lehoel, we aim for the stars when it comes to your child’s success. And our clients are a testament to the fact that dreams do come true.

O ering HCBS, CFTSS and recreational activities for qualifying individuals.

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Contact Us Today 845-213-3146 Monday - Thursday 9:30 - 4:30