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How a screen alters attraction
Graphic by Dalila Kahvedzic
Do dating apps lead to successful relationships? Dalila Kahvedzic Editor-In-Chief
As Miley Cyrus states in her song “Someone Else,” “love is patient, love is selfless, love is hopeful, love is kind, love is jealous, love is selfish, love is helpless, love is blind.” Is love really all of these things? According to Google, love is an intense feeling of deep affection,
but according to dating apps such as Tinder, love may come after one decides to swipe right. Whether someone decides to swipe right or not, love is something we all crave. Love can be multiple things; a relationship with a grandmother, a relationship with a sibling or a relationship with a partner. Love is patient. A person waits for love and when they have it, it stands the test of time. Is this the right time to do this, when is it the
right time to make the next move? Love is selfless. Love is hopeful, love is kind. Is it? Love is jealous, love is selfish, love is helpless, love is blind. Is it? Love is communication. It is the interaction one gets from their significant other on a daily basis as they go about their normal routine tasks. Communications professor Chris Smejkal said that in today’s society, people gravitate more towards communicating through
a screen than in person because it requires less commitment. But what about somebody’s true, unpolished self that is seen when it is a face-to-face interaction? The old-school feelings of touch, chemistry and energy? Seeing somebody’s edited and polished photo that they post on a website versus seeing them in person are two completely different scenarios. How much information can one really pull from a photo and a short bio on tinder, versus a two-
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minute conversation in person? When interaction is in person, the nerves kick in. The awkward silences happen and the typical conversation about mediocre topics, such as the weather, begin to fill it. Which one proves to be better? Anonymous surveys were taken and submitted by students on the Meramec campus to show us what happens on these dating apps when there is no in-person, faceto-face communication involved. Story on Pgs. 5-6