Aya Zaki, 16, Meknes. When I first heard about the ‘Women in our lives’ essay contest, and that participants need to write an essay about a woman who in their eyes is an inspiring role model and had a special influence on their lives, the first person that came to my mind wasn’t my mom surprisingly, it was my older sister Soumaya. I know Soumaya will be shocked a bit when she finds out that I’m writing this essay about her, that I chose her as the special woman in my life. I didn’t choose my mom because, let’s face it, mothers have lots of responsibilities that require their attention these days. So it’s only fair to talk about my sister who has been there to inspire me. I bet you are wondering why she would be shocked like I first mentioned. Well, it’s not that she’s not special and worth writing about, but it’s the fact that we don’t get along with each other a lot. She’s 6 years older than me so I guess the age difference is why we sometimes argue on stupid things. She’s always older and wiser and I’m always young and immature. But of course, in the end of every argument, we return to normal, no fights, just two sisters who talk and laugh with each other. I assume that’s how most sisters are. I’ve always asked myself how is it possible that the woman whom I argue and fight with; whom I don’t get along with, is the same woman who has made a huge influence on my life, and made me want to be exactly like her; and wish to have the same life she has or at least a similar life. Truth is when I was younger, I solely believed that my sister lived a life full of success and great opportunities, impressive school grades; friends and family who showered her with love and care; … I thought she never had a single problem; that she was always so .. Perfect. Growing up through the years, however, I begun to understand the fact that nobody is perfect. Regardless of the successes Soumaya has achieved, she had her ups and downs like anyone else. However, She was able to study hard, get a great career and a good salary from that; a loving home and husband. Isn’t this what we all dream of?
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