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Patrick M. Double Knee Replacement

WHEN THE WHOLE WORLD STOPPED, WE GOT PATRICK dancing AGAIN. 17 steps. That’s how far it was from Patrick’s bedroom to the bathroom. He counted every step, because he was in so much pain. After 10 years, he just couldn’t take it anymore. So in March 2020 he scheduled a double knee replacement. And then the pandemic hit, shutting down elective surgeries. But Dr. Mark Hartzband knew what this surgery meant for Patrick. So he kept his surgery date. And now, Patrick doesn’t count steps. He dances them.

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William Brown had done a lot for his country, and his city. As a member of the trailblazing, all-black 369th Infantry Regiment – also known as the Harlem Hellfighters – he’d battled on the front lines at D-Day and the Battle of the Bulge. And he’d seen plenty of action as an NYPD cop, too, rescuing people from burning buildings and collaring armed and dangerous criminals. He had earned more than his share of medals, both One of the medals William Brown police and military. earned on World War II fields of But, in the winter of 2015, when battle. community affairs officers from the 113th Precinct first encountered him, they knew nothing of this. All they knew was that he was a 94-year-old man who lived alone in a heatless house in Queens and was now in the hospital suffering from hypothermia. When they did learn of his law enforcement and military pedigree, however, they went above and beyond the call of duty to look after their brother officer. They came to know a frail but lively William Brown with two of his 113th Precinct friends, Detective gentleman, quick with a smile, a joke or a Tanya Duhaney (left) and Detective story, who had joined the NYPD after World Dorrin Ferguson. War II and retired as a detective in 1968. For a few months, they chauffeured him to doctor’s appointments, helped him with personal affairs, got him properly registered with the Veterans Administration, visited him every Sunday and saw to it that his oil burner remained in good repair. But they did more than that. They restored to him the family he had lost. Inevitably, the treasured friendship didn’t last very long. In a few months, in May 2016, William Brown, 95, succumbed to one of his several heart ailments. But even then, the officers found, his death didn’t end his need for assistance. Having no living relatives meant he would have to be buried in an unmarked grave in Potter’s Field, they were told. Not a chance, they decided. The officers claimed the body and arranged for an NYPD-blue funeral at the First Church of God in St. Albans, Queens. Then, they saw to it that veteran Infantryman William Brown was buried, with the playing of taps and with full military honors, alongside many of his Harlem Hellfighter comrades in the Long Island National Cemetery in Farmingdale. Now he was officially a part of NYPD and U.S. military history.

Patrolman William Brown of the 79th Precinct

Police Benevolent Association of the City of New York, Inc. Patrick J. Lynch, President www.nycpba.org

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CONTENTS POSITIVE CHANGE

Mar tin Luther King Jr. and Malcolm X at the U.S. Capitol, March 26, 1964.

Features Black History Month Memory.................................... 3 Emancipation Gala Honorees..................................... 14

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reSURGEnce Conference 2022................................... 18

Money.................................... 18

Mildred Crump Retires from Public Service................ 22

Education .............................. 30

Rev. Deforest Soaries Retires from Pulpit................... 23

Health ................................... 36

Dr. Jennifer Howard Gets People to Polls..................... 24

Culture ................................... 47

NYC: A Chocolate-Covered Big Apple........................... 27

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54th MLK Day Worship & Celebration........................ 28

Publisher’s Desk................................ 10 Guest Editorial.................................. 13 Fitness Doctor .............................. 45 The Last Word ................................ 54

Project POTUS........................................................... 30 Passion & Perseverance Make It Happen.................... 36 Cash Awards Help Local Orgs. & Businesses............... 37 Bethany Baptist Hosts NAN Breakfast ........................ 41 Healthcare Heroes ........................................................ 43 Organ Transplants Are Black History........................... 44 Know History, Know Justice BLM Photos.................... 47 Plessy Pardoned After 125 Years................................ 48

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Transport Workers Union, Local 100 honors

BLACK HISTORY MONTH

TWU Honors the Life of A. Philip Randolph The Transport Workers Union Local 100, representing 45,000 workers at the MTA and private and public bus companies in New York City and Yonkers, honors the life and legacy of A. Philip Randolph, a central figure in the history of the American labor and civil rights movements. Randolph waged a lifelong battle for the economic empowerment of African Americans. In 1925 he organized the Brotherhood of Sleeping Car Porters — the first black labor union chartered by the American Federation of Labor. Randolph organized a mass protest decrying the exclusion of black workers from defense industry jobs. His efforts led to President Franklin Roosevelt signing an order mandating an end to discriminatory practices by government contractors. Randolph also waged a civil disobedience campaign against the draft until President Harry Truman ordered an end to segregation in the military in 1948. Randolph, along with Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. organized the celebrated March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom in 1963. He has served as an inspiration to TWU and the trade union movement for generations. To learn more about his history, go to the A. Philip Randolph Institute at: www.apri.org

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Mt. Neboh Baptist Church, Harlem, NY Rev. Dr. Johnnie Green Jr., Pastor Mt. Pisgah B.C., Brooklyn, NY Rev. Dr. Johnny Ray Youngblood, Pastor Mount Olive Baptist Church, Hackensack, NJ Rev. Gregory J. Jackson, Pastor Mt. Olivet B.C, Newark, NJ Rev. André W. Milteer, Pastor Mt. Zion AME Church, Trenton, NJ Rev. J. Stanley Justice, Pastor Mt. Zion B.C., Westwood, NJ Rev. Bernard Glee, Pastor

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Christian Love B.C., Irvington, NJ Rev. Brandon Keith Washington, Pastor

Harlem Congregations for Community Improvement (HCCI) Malcolm A. Punter, Ed.D., President & CEO

Community Church of God, Plainfield, NJ Rev. Antonio Porter, Pastor

Mother A.M.E. Zion Church Harlem, NY Rev. Dr. Malcolm J. Byrd, Pastor

First Baptist of Jericho, Deptford, NJ Rev. Derek V. Gaitling, Pastor

Greater Zion Hill B.C., Harlem, NY Rev. Dr. Frank J. Blackshear, Pastor

Community B.C., Englewood, NJ Rev. Dr. Lester Taylor, Pastor

Metropolitan B.C., Newark, NJ Rev. Dr. David Jefferson, Pastor

New Beginnings Agape Christian Center, Freehold, NJ Rev. Dr. Andre McGuire, Pastor

Charity Baptist Church, Bronx, NY Rev. Reginald Williams, Pastor

Clear View Baptist Church, Newark, NJ Rev. Curtis W. Belle, Jr., Pastor

Messiah Baptist Church, East Orange, NJ Rev. Dana Owens, Pastor

Imani Baptist Church, East Orange, NJ Rev. William Derek Lee, Senior Pastor It Is Well Living Ministries, Clark, NJ Rev. Kahlil Carmichael, Pastor Macedonia Baptist Church, Lakewood, NJ Dr. Edward D. Harper, Pastor

New Hope Baptist Church, Metuchen, NJ Rev. Dr. Ronald L. Owens, Pastor New Hope Baptist Church of East Orange, East Orange, NJ Rev. Dr. Vernard E. Hinton, Pastor New Hope Baptist Church of Hackensack, Hackensack, NJ Rev. Dr. Drew Kyndall Ross, Senior Pastor New Life Cathedral, Mt. Holly, NJ Rev. Eric Wallace, Pastor New Reid Temple COGIC East Orange, NJ Bishop William Cahoon North Selton AME Church, Piscataway, NJ Rev. Dr. Eric and Myra Billips, Pastors Paradise B. C., Newark, NJ Rev. Jethro James, Pastor Park Ave Christian Disciples of Christ, East Orange, NJ Rev. Harriet Wallace, Pastor

Shiloh AME Zion Church, Englewood, NJ Rev. John D. Givens, Pastor Shiloh B.C., New Rochelle, NY Rev. Dr. DeQuincy M. Hentz, Pastor Shiloh B.C., Plainfield, NJ Rev. Sheila L. Thorpe, Pastor Shiloh B.C., Trenton, NJ Rev. Darell Armstrong, Pastor St. Anthony Baptist Church, Brooklyn, NY Rev. Dr. Walter L. DeLoatch, Sr., Pastor St. James AME Church, Newark, NJ Rev. Ronald L. Slaughter, Pastor St. John Baptist Church, Camden, NJ Rev. Dr. Silas M. Townsend, Pastor St. John B.C., Scotch Plains, NJ Rev. Shawn T. Wallace, Pastor St. Luke Baptist Church of Harlem, NY Rev. Dr. Johnnie McCann, Pastor St Luke B.C., Paterson, NJ Rev. Kenneth D.R. Clayton, Pastor St. Mark Missionary B.C., Jamaica, NY Rev. Owen E. Williams, Pastor St. Matthew AME Church, Orange, NJ Rev. Melvin E. Wilson, Pastor St. Paul Baptist Church, Montclair, NJ Rev. Dr. Bernadette Glover, Pastor St. Paul Baptist Church, Red Bank, NJ Rev. Alexander Brown, Pastor St. Paul Community B.C., Brooklyn, NY Rev. David K. Brawley, Pastor Tabernacle B.C., Burlington, NJ Rev. Dr. Cory L. Jones, Pastor The New Hope B.C., Newark, NJ Rev. Joe Carter, Senior Pastor Union Baptist Temple,, Bridgeton, NJ Rev. Albert L. Morgan, Pastor United Fellowship B.C., Asbury Park, NJ Rev. James H. Brown, Sr., Pastor Walker Memorial B.C. Bronx, NY Rev. Dr. J. Albert Bush Sr., Pastor Welcome Baptist Church, Newark, NJ Rev. Dr. Elijah C. Williams, Pastor World Gospel Music Assoc., Newark, NJ Dr. Albert Lewis, Founder

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HACKENSACK MERIDIAN HEALTH PROUDLY CELEBRATES AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORY MONTH Hackensack Meridian Health is excited to celebrate this year’s African American History Month national theme — “Black Health and Wellness”. This theme is especially meaningful for our health system as it aligns closely with our goal of ensuring equity and opportunity for all our patients and team members. As New Jersey’s largest health system, we are proud of our efforts to address disparities in health care. These include improving maternal health outcomes for Black women; addressing the social determinants that significantly impact the health of communities of color; and the success of our medical school to attract and educate a diverse next generation of physicians. During the month of February, we celebrate the accomplishments of the Black pioneers who have contributed to the advancement of medicine, business, politics and the arts. We also recognize the work and contributions to health care that our African American team members make every day in the communities we serve.

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The Future of Black History in America: Our Year of Positive Change 2022

hat is Positive Change? As we see it, positive change is hope for tomorrow, and opportunity for today—to aspire for the best—in our homes, the classroom, houses of worship, in corporate/community relations; in our music, matters of health, finances, businesses, public safety, and the local economy. Positive Change is the investment of the ages; freedom and love; quality, meaning and value—the seed that bears much fruit! Our Year of Positive Change is the collective commitment to insure true liberty, happiness and prosperity for generations yet unborn; to forecast and act upon a future beyond our years! One might inquire: “I get what you’re saying about this positive change, sounds interesting, but what is the ASK; and what’s in it for me; how much is this going to cost; what can I do to help?” Black History First, let’s take history into account. In an epic study of black life, spirituality and leadership entitled: Martin & Malcolm & America, the late James H. Cone, noted theologian and historian, wrote the following passage on self-knowledge: Nothing pained Malcolm (X) more than black people’s alienation from each other, which he saw as the most damaging legacy of slavery. While physical servitude was terrible, mental slavery was worse, because when the mind is damaged, one cannot act in the best interest of the whole self. Other peoples have suffered physical slavery, but no other people have had its history and culture taken from it like black people. “We are a lost people,” said Malcolm at the Philadelphia temple. “. . . Any other people no matter where they live or are naturalized, they know where they come from.”

Add to that, today’s hostile media environment—a wicked, corporate entertainment industry, relentless in its unholy assaults upon the souls of our children; packaging and selling the SEVEN DEADLY SINS as an attractive lifestyle choice. We are now witnessing a generation coming of age that is well-nigh immune to insult, where “ignorance and the death of curiosity” reign. Sadly, for my generation the light of our collective memory and immense music legacy is growing dim. The Ask Our Year of Positive Change 2022 celebrates the 10th anniversary of the Great African American Cultural Narrative. It was written in May of 2012 in anticipation of the 150th

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anniversary observance of the Emancipation Proclamation January 1, 2013. Study this narrative for yourselves. What was first published 10 years ago is as true today as it will be even 50 years from now! The Cultural Narrative is the truth about who we really are: Beloved Sons and Daughters of the Most High God; Mighty Descendants of the Great Emancipation—1863. And that is our story—the narrative—it belongs to us! We ask that each of us commit to sharing this story with the children and our dear grandchildren. Teach it in the home, the classroom and houses of worship. Ideally, every child by the age of 13 should know how to read, speak and comprehend the cultural narrative—“a new language of freedom.” It must be committed to memory; never to be forgotten! Visit thepositivecommunity.com to view the Cultural Narrative video. The Cultural Narrative provides simple answers to the complex question: Who are we; and where do we go from here? The Cultural Narrative is the story of a people—our claim on the American Dream, in just 281 words; a story for all communities, races and cultures to embrace! What’s the Cost? If you should ever visit historic Newark City Hall, check out the art gallery just outside the Mayor’s offices. A framed Cultural Narrative poster is proudly displayed for all to see and read. You too can own a beautiful 19x25 poster for just $19.99 for your home, place of business, church or classroom. Purchase this poster to commemorate the 160th anniversary of the Great Emancipation January 1, 2023. Positive Community Media represents the best interests of millions in the NY/NJ metro area, the #1 Black consumer market in the USA. We encourage small businesses, schools, corporations, public and private institutions to advertise on our diverse platforms or explore event sponsorship opportunities. How Can I Help? Save the children; secure the future, advance the Race! Indeed, the progress of our children and the integrity and dignity of our African American values, culture, and traditions—our collective soul—mean everything. And above all, in these matters, we the people are sovereign! It is therefore our divine right and patriotic duty to preserve, protect and to promote our very best—America’s best. Never forget and always remember this everlasting truth: the only way we can ever be denied of our own talents and blessings is if we deny them for ourselves! So, let us move forward together and celebrate— Our Year of Positive Change! www.thepositivecommunity.com

The African American Cultural Narrative

frican Americans are a unique people with a peculiar history in this land. Brought to these shores in chains from Africa in the early 1600s, our people toiled and suffered as captives in brutal bondage for a quarter of a millennium (250 years). On January 1, 1863, two years into the Civil War, the Emancipation Proclamation, signed by President Abraham Lincoln, became law, signaling an end to slavery. On that day, the African American community of the United States of America was born. One hundred years later in August 1963, at the height of the Civil Rights Movement, Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stood in front of the Lincoln Memorial, as he led hundreds of thousands to a March on Washington, seeking an end to discrimination and 90 years of Jim Crow segregation in the South. It was a demand for full and equal citizen’s rights for the people in what has been called “the Second Emancipation.” Forty years after Martin Luther King Jr.’s tragic assassination in 1968, America elected its first black president, the Honorable Barack Obama (2008). In the 100 years between the first and second emancipation, in the midst of bitter persecution, humiliation, lynching, and enduring the denial of basic human rights, the resiliency of the African American spirit continued to shine brightly in religion, business, education, medicine, invention, sports, and in the creative arts—music, fashion, dance, language, literature, and theater. Indeed, original American art forms and a popular culture which has become the envy of the world were founded upon the souls of a forlorn people! And that is our story—the Truth, Beauty and Goodness of a loving and gifted race—revealed!

An Extraordinary History Ours is an extraordinary history of trial, tribulation, and triumph that we must never, ever forget! This is the very story we must tell our children and ever be remembered for all future generations. We the people, descendants of the Great Emancipation must tell our story and sing our greatest songs to each other and to the entire world! We must remind ourselves over and over again of the noble struggle, human dignity, sacrifices and wisdom of our torch-bearing forefathers; of our goodly heritage, our divine inheritance; our great music legacy—Positive Music Matters! This is our story—the cultural narrative—a new language of freedom; a springboard toward a great and prosperous future; a spiritually enlightened ideal. A vision of hope, opportunity, and progress; liberty and happiness; health and wholeness—peace and goodwill! WE’VE COME THIS FAR BY FAITH…!

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REV. DR. CORNELL EDMONDS GUEST EDITORIAL

Formerly a successful attorney, Rev. Dr. Edmonds is interim pastor of the Church of the Covenant in New York City.

Love and Respect, Pillars for Positive Change

hat positive change is necessary for the future of our community? I suggest intentional reclamation of its important pillars of love and respect, upon which the hopes of our community have stood for generations. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said; “Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy to a friend.” Hate, an invisible, insidious force, can chip away at those pillars, and simultaneously corrode the core of our souls. Consider the loveless, disrespectful music, media, politics, education, and economics aimed at the Black community. This soul-numbing incursion can turn us into our own worst enemies. Love, is the necessary anecdote—a balm in Gilead to make our wounded whole. Rediscovering our spirit of love is essential to make genuine claim upon our future. Otherwise, the fleshpots of “back in the day,” may seem more desirable, than the buoyant hopes for tomorrow. Self-respect is an equally important pillar. Of respect, said Dr. King, “The mind is the standard of the man. With the new sense of dignity, this sense of self-respect, a new Negro came into being with a new determination, to struggle, to suffer and to sacrifice in order to be free.” Minds rooted in self-respect will not seek out the “back doors,” of which Dr. Carter G. Woodson wrote. Love, supplemented with a booster shot of self-respect, a powerful inoculation for our communities to weather this pandemic of marginalization. Positive change can easily advance through random acts of transformative love and respect. I represented a feared drug dealer arrested on a gun charge on his way to “take care of stuff.” After some debate, he agreed to an exercise of self-love and self-respect to help maintain his freedom. He appeared in court looking like the most important person in the room. On his way to court, impeccably dressed, walking the same streets where he previously felt ”naked without his Glock,” random strangers looked at him, smiled, and said, “Good morning.” Instead of his usual turf-protecting scowl, he returned the unfamiliar love and respect with smiles. He told me how good those random expressions of www.thepositivecommunity.com

love and respect made him feel. As we stood outside after a day in court he shared, “I now know what I want for myself and my children.” He soon quit “the business.” As a community, do we feel good about ourselves? Are love and respect demanded for our future generations? Our disinherited communities are arguably held in a cold death grip of musical, media, political, educational, and economic marginalization. Permanently relegated to a status of consumer have-not, without possibility of parole. Kept in place by any means necessary, the collateral damage is apparent. We must rend this inextricable garment of destiny, woven by the corrupt imagination of pathological greed. Liberate our minds, through self-love and self-respect, to possibilities of positive change. Dr. King reminded us, “Everything that we see is a shadow cast by that which we do not see.” Is our cultural narrative, born out of self-love and respect, obscured? A narrative of love and respect so abiding that Tubman would escape from enslavement, then return repeatedly to help others. So abiding that King fearlessly walked through “the valley of the shadow of death,” to assist oppressed sanitation workers in Memphis. Our story, our song, our narrative, a clarion call to positive change. We cannot be influenced by forces of trickery and greed to paint, “unreliable self-portraits,” which inculcate feelings of self-hatred to a soundtrack of lyrical disrespect of one another, especially our women. Resist those dystopian feelings of self-hatred and disrespect as the heroin or crack of this generation. Do not allow negativity injected into our communities to dull our hopes for positive change. Negative messaging, a new form of “stop-and-frisk,” aimed not at controlling guns, but rather hope and positive change. Minds occupied with a sense of self-love and self-respect reap determination to struggle, to suffer and to sacrifice for freedom, thus yielding positive change. It is written (I Corinthians 13:13), “And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love,” and self-respect, I might add. Winter Issue 2022 The Positive Community

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Ras J. Baraka Newark Mayor Ras J. Baraka’s progressive approach to governing has won him accolades from grassroots organizations to the White House. He was the Nation’s “Most Valuable Mayor” in 2015 and on the front page of New York Times for “defying expectations” during his first year and a half in office. Mayor Baraka’s leadership has married a profound vision with unshakeable passion for the city where he has lived and worked for more than four decades. The city has nearly $2B in development underway and his impact has been felt on everything from a social impact venture to accelerate technology to the return of local control of schools after more than two decades and his executive order detailing the city’s sanctuary city status.

Bishop Johnny Ray Youngblood The Rev. Dr. Johnny Ray Youngblood, pastor of Mt. Pisgah Baptist Church, has fostered the growth of the congregations and the inception of community programs. He is recognized on the national political front because of his work with East Brooklyn Congregations (EBC), an affiliate of the Industrial Areas Foundation. He spearheaded the Nehemiah Housing Project, which constructs owner-occupied single-family homes in three of the most devastated communities in Brooklyn. He serves as a national spokesman for the group and in 1990 was recognized and written up in the Congressional Record for his trailblazing work with the project. The Reverend Dr. Youngblood is the subject of the book, Upon This Rock: The Miracles of a Black Church, written by Samuel G. Freedman. In December of 1995, Dr. Youngblood was featured in The New Yorker magazine as one of the “ten most influential” New Yorkers.

Suzan Johnson Cook The Hon. Suzan Johnson Cook (Ambassador Sujay), was nominated by Secretary Hillary Clinton and appointed by President Barack Obama, as the third U.S. Ambassador-at-Large for International Religious Freedom, the first woman, African American and faith leader to hold this post. With a $1M grant from the Lilly Endowment, she leads a Black Women in Ministry mentoring program and is the CEO of the Global Black Women’s Chamber of Commerce. She was the first female Chaplain for the New York City Police Department for 21 years and was on the frontlines of Ground Zero, 9/11. A founding member of A Partnership of Faith, she served as a senior pastor for three New York City congregations and was the first female president of the historic Hampton University Ministers Conference, the largest conference of African American clergy in the world.

Debi Jackson New York City born, raised and educated, Debi Bolling Jackson was known for over 30 years as Debi B, co-host of the WBLS Sunday Classics beside her legendary husband, radio and television personality, Hal Jackson. The Hal Jackson’s Talented Teens International® (HJTTI) scholarship competition was Hal’s heart and showcased young women giving them exposure to the music, film and entertainment industries. Some of the women who came through HJTTI include Sheryl Lee Ralph, Jada Pinkett Smith, Taraji P. Henson and Dr. Suzan Johnson Cook. Ms. Jackson is CEO and President of the Youth Development Foundation, Inc. (YDF) which is the parent nonprofit organization of HJTTI. For 52 years YDF/HJTTI has awarded over $2,500,000 in scholarships and prizes to young women from around the world. YDF/HJTTI has partnered with Black Women for Black Girls and continues Hal’s legacy by awarding a minimum of five scholarships annually.

Dr. Benjamin Chavis At the age of thirteen, Benjamin Franklin Chavis, Jr, tried to take out books from the segregated local library. That was just the start of his storied career in civil rights activism. Chavis served as a youth coordinator for the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC) and on the advance team for Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Falsely convicted, Chavis spent nearly a decade in prison before being exonerated. Undeterred, he continued fighting the good fight, becoming the youngest executive director and CEO of the NAACP. Later Chavis served as executive director of the “Million Man March.” Chavis has been President and CEO of the National Newspaper Publishers Association since 2014, which focuses on supporting and advocating for publishers of the nation’s more than 200 Black newspapers.

Kim Nesbitt Good

Kim Nesbitt Good is the proprietor of the Nesbitt Funeral Home in Elizabeth with her husband of 35 years, Ted. Her insistence on the highest standards in her profession is matched by her efforts on behalf of the African American community in and around Union County. She has been honored by scores of local, state, federal and national organizations, highlighted by receiving the Presidential Pin from President Barack Obama in recognition of her extraordinary service to others. Ms. Nesbitt Good is the co-founder of “Friends,” an organization of Black Women committed to uplifting the Black Community, and the founder of Friends of the New Jersey Legacy Foundation, whose mission is to acknowledge the legacy of African Americans in New Jersey. She is the proud mother of 2, Lawrence and Leah.

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The National Association of Health Services Executives (NAHSE) is a nonprofit association of Black health care executives founded in 1968. Its purpose is promoting the advancement and development of Black health care leaders and elevating the quality of health care services rendered to minority and underserved communities. NAHSE New Jersey, formed in March 2017, is the 29th chapter of NAHSE and its president is Franck D. Nelson. The New York chapter president is Zsalyne Fergus.

HOST AND MUSICAL GUEST Rev. Jacques DeGraff-Host Reverend De Graff served as the first Vice President of the One Hundred Black Men, New York, where he has been a founding member of two public high schools; The Eagle Academy for Young Men and the Bronx School for Law, Government and Justice (Urban Assembly). As chief of protocol in the National Action Network, Reverend DeGraff traveled with Reverend Al Sharpton to the Sudan to spotlight abuses against Christians, and to Cuba to meet with Premier Fidel Castro to discuss the U.S. embargo. DeGraff has been an outspoken advocate for economic and social justice for communities of color. Well-known and respected in New York leadership circles, he has been a tireless advocate for Minority and Women owned businesses which create jobs in our communities, and he helped to lead the passage of Local Law1 to create municipal opportunities for MWBE contracts.

Marsha Brown, Esq.-Conversation Host Marcia Wilson Brown has served as senior thought leader across government, philanthropic and higher education institutions in Newark and the State of New Jersey since 1979. Brown has more than 40 years of engagement in community development advocacy and governmental relations focused on public policy, housing, education, and nonprofit leadership issues. For 22 years, Brown served as Vice Chancellor for External and Governmental Relations at Rutgers University-Newark working on building legislative partnerships and anchor institution collaborations. At the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD), Brown served 17 years in labor relations and community planning serving local governments and county executives in New Jersey.

Alexis Jessica Morrast-Musical Guest Alexis Jessica Morrast, is a native of Newark, now resides in Plainfield, New Jersey began singing at the age of three. Since that time, she's performed on several stages: the U.S. OPEN, NJPAC with Christian McBride and Dizzy's CocaCola Club with jazz legend Barry Harris. Her resounding tone has been heard on the Millennium Stage of The Kennedy Center, Lincoln Center, abroad in Europe and Africa; The Coltrane Jazz Festival put it this way: "The voice, the song, the stage presence is all astonishing!” She’s worked with greats like Greg Phillinganes, Steve Jordan, Dee Dee Bridgewater, Ray Chew, Lisa Fischer, Michael Feinstein, Christian McBride and toured with Wynton Marsalis and JLCO Band.

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L-R: Rev. Tracy Wall, Rev. Dillon, Melba Wilson of Melba’s Restaurant, and Minister Barbara Webb

L-R: Colvin Grannum, Dr. Calvin Rice, VP Carver Bank Lloyd Doaman

L-R: Conference organizer and Christian Times VP Rev. Evelyn Manns, Awardee NewsOne Anchor Cheryl Wills, and Dennis Dillon

L-R: Nigeria Culture Ambassador Joyce Adewumi, VP Greater Harlem Chamber of Commerce and President New Heritage Theater Voza Rivers, and Harlem Week Executive Board Member Michael Preston

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o fuel growth and the resurgence of Black-owned businesses, the New York Christian Times and a host of partners including The Greater Harlem Chamber of Commerce, the Federation of Protestant Welfare Agencies, and the Brooklyn Chamber of Commerce presented the first in a series of events expressly designed to strengthen small businesses and churches. The event was held on December 16, 2021 at the Brooklyn Navy Yard.

L-R: Barclays Center VP Jackie Wilson II, Rev. Dennis Dillon, Assistant Commissioner NYC Department of Small Business Services Anna Yakubova, and VP Brooklyn Chamber of Commerce Tondalaya London

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L-R: Jennifer Jones-Austin, Rev. Gabby Cudjoe Wilkes, Bishop Raymond Rivera, Colvin Grannum, and Dr. Calvin Rice

Chase VP Rob Scott (center) and JP Morgan Chase team show off their Christian Times Front Page Award

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How Roselle’s New Chase Community Managers Can Empower You in Your Financial Journey

ave you ever worked with your local bank branch team, virtually or in-person? From opening a bank account or line of credit, to exploring mortgage financing options and small business loans, your new Community Manager at your local Chase branch in the Roselle, New Jersey communities is tuned in to your community’s financial wellness needs and ready to help you achieve your next milestone. Tamara Suvil – one of 150 Community Managers we’re hiring across the country – joined our team specifically to work with you and your community to increase awareness of and access to resources, financial health tools, and services. Working in Roselle, Union, Linden, and Hillside, Tamara is Haitian, speaks Creole and understands well the challenges these communities face. She is committed to helping you forge a strong financial future at any stage of your financial journey. With the help of local nonprofit partners who are invested in driving change for Black communities in Roselle, we are bringing more allies to your local bank branch who share Chase’s goal of empowering you to improve and achieve financial health. The Positive Community sat down with Tamara Suvil to discuss her plans to help New Jersey’s Black communities grow, the changes our new branch is expected to bring, and how you can work with her to chart your path forward and meet your financial goals. The Positive Community: How does your job differ from other Chase Bank Branch Managers? Tamara Suvil: My role was designed specifically to meet the unique financial wellness needs of our city’s Black community. We want to evolve from community banking to community building and to do this, we’re actively working to reverse systemic inequalities across the financial system, break down economic barriers and support the success of our customers and our community. We plan to start by providing access to financial health resources, tools, and allies to help you achieve your financial goals. Think of a community manager as a neighbor who understands intentional relationship building, the financial needs of leaders, organizations and people in your community – and who introduces you to the right person in the bank who can help. Meanwhile, a branch manager is a more traditional role created to help you with everyday banking needs – like opening a bank account or offering advice on homeownership and small business growth. The Positive Community: How do you hope to financially empower the Black community in Roselle, Union, Linden, and Hillside? Tamara Suvil: I believe every day is an educational day for people to understand their finances and work towards building their wealth. We’re here to empower members and businesses in the Black community with tools to build generational wealth and a long-lasting legacy. Awareness and accessibility are key, and we see the local branch www.thepositivecommunity.com

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as an ideal place to begin fostering vital community connections and touchpoints to help our customers reach their financial goals. As a Community Manager, my job is to connect with the individuals, families and business owners here in Roselle, and increase awareness and utilization of available resources. My team and I will help you and others in your neighborhood take advantage of financial health tools, products and services, while aiming to boost general financial knowledge via unique and free interactive programs, such as: · Resources to support financial health · Home buying tips · Educational and enrichment workshops such as resume writing and cybersecurity tips · Growth support for entrepreneurs starting or expanding their small businesses While we’re just getting started, I hope to make a real difference in the lives of the families, individuals, homeowners and business owners in our community. The Positive Community: What financial opportunities will you make available to Black communities here in New Jersey? Tamara Suvil: We want to promote financial health, homeownership and Black-owned businesses. One of our priorities will be to help individuals in our community open a checking account for the first time, as this is the key to financial stability and critical to closing gaps in access to banking. To do this, we’ll walk through our low-cost, no-overdraft checking accounts like Chase Secure Banking, which can offer security to those who might be new to banking or who have had trouble getting or keeping a bank account in the past. My team is also responsible for promoting growth among Black-owned small businesses – which means we’ll help local entrepreneurs secure loans. We’ve also brought on board home lending advisors who are focused on helping more of the community secure the funds needed for affordable, sustainable homeownership. The Positive Community: You mentioned another goal of the Community Impact Branch is “community building.” What does this mean and how will you do this in Roselle and Union? Tamara Suvil: A big priority for us is working with local nonprofits and organizations who understand and are invested in driving change. I grew up in Newark and Irvington and my parents are from Haiti. For me, serving people in this community is a personal, as well as professional passion.” Stop by to learn more about the resources available. My team and I look forward to getting to know you.

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“In addition to the physical health effects of the coronavirus pandemic, there were negative impacts to our local economy and our residents’ financial health. Presenting a 2022 budget with a zero percent tax increase while preserving services is recognition of the financial hardships experienced by our residents during these difficult times.” Joseph N. DiVincenzo, Jr.

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• Our proposed 2022 Essex County Budget includes a 0% property tax increase to fund the County portion of your tax bill. (State statutes allow local governments to increase property taxes to 2% annually.) • Over the last three years, we have limited County property tax increases to 0.37%. • Over the last 10 years, we have limited County property tax increases to 1.16%. • Since 2003, we have held County property tax increases to 2.04%, the fourth lowest in the state behind Hunterdon, Monmouth and Burlington counties. • We have presented our County Budget before the State Deadline of January 15th for the last 19 years.

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• In 2015, we earned a Aaa bond rating from Moody’s Investors Services, the first time Essex received the highest rating. • We received 16 upgrades in our bond rating, transforming our lowest junk bond rating into a Aaa rating, the highest available. • We transformed an inherited $64 million deficit in 2003 into an $85.9 million fund balance. • Shared service agreements with other government agencies and fees generates about $111.4 million in recurring revenue. • We instituted a “debt diet” in 2007. This reduces our bond debt payments, which will fall from $127 million in 2022 to $54.5 million in 2028.

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City of Newark Trailblazer Honorable Mildred C. Crump Retires from Public Service

he Special Police Organization of New Jersey, Inc. (SPONJ) President Israel Segarra Sr. and its membership hosted the lavish retirement celebration for former Newark City Council President Mildred C. Crump. For more than 20 years, Ms. Crump served the City of Newark. Family, colleagues, clergy, and supporters gathered at Nanina's in the Park in Belleville on January 19, 2022, to pay homage to a dedicated educator, history-making trailblazer, community servant, and friend. Those present spoke of the many souls she has touched and saluted her indelible and inspiring legacy, soaring spirit, and distinguished service. —TPC Staff Photos: Karen Waters

L-R: Grandson Cecil, Son Lawrence, Daughter-in-Love Zelma, and Granddaughter Marguerite Center: Ms. Crump

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Mildred’s Staff – L-R standing: Walter Bryant, Stephanie Nieves, Chief of Staff James Blaney, and Kenneth Watkins. seated: Odesser Prindle and Ms. Crump

Superintendent of New Jersey State Police Col. Peter Callahan presented a gift to Ms. Crump Rev. Dr. Timothy L. Adkins-Jones, pastor Bethany Baptist Church, Newark, N.J.

Executive board members of the SPONJ, Inc. present Hon. Mildred C. Crump with a special service recognition plaque. L-R: Reginald Merritt Sr., Kaimu Suggs, Israel Segarra Sr., Hon. Mildred C. Crump, Tyrone Broner, and Oscar Pannella

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Rev. Dr. DeForest B. Soaries and First Lady Donna Soaries

First Lady Donna Soaries, Rev. Dr. DeForest B. Soaries and Bishop Donald B. Hilliard Jr.

he congregation of First Baptist Church of Lincoln Gardens hosted a three-day celebration (November 18-21) honoring Rev. Dr. DeForest B. Soaries Jr. on the occasion of his retirement as pastor. At the Sunday service, Rev. Soaries, who served as senior pastor for over 30 years, received the title of Pastor Emeritus. The multi-day events included Gospel luminaries Fred Hammond, Lady Tramaine Hawkins, and Kathy Taylor joining Soaries and his successor Pastor Rev. Danté R. Quick, along with Bishop Donald Hilliard of Cathedral International in Perth Amboy, and Rev. Dr. Alyn Waller of the Enon Tabernacle Baptist Church, Philadelphia in the joyous celebration. —TPC Staff

Rev. Dr. William Watley, Saint Philip African Methodist Episcopal Church, Atlanta, GA First Baptist Church of Lincoln Garden Pastor Rev. Danté R. Quick and Rev. Dr. DeForest B. Soaries

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Dr. Jennifer Howard A Passion for Getting People to the Polls By Fern Gillespie

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ur mission is empowering voters and democracy,” explained Dr. Jennifer M. Howard, referring to the work of the nonpartisan League of Women Voter of New Jersey ( LWVNJ) where she holds the position of president. In her full-time profession, Dr. Howard practices as an OB/GYN physician in Lower Manhattan. The Mercer County, New Jersey resident and the organization’s first Black president, spoke to The Positive Community following the November 2021 election on the urgency of voting. “It’s important to understand the historical significance,” she explained. “People had to literally fight to get their right to vote and take outlandish tests to prove they were competent to vote. If I were to focus my non 9 to 5 activities, it should be something which deals with the importance of voting.” Outlining a few problematic experiences voters may have encountered while attempting to vote, she stated, “This election (2021), our voter protection hotline was inundated throughout the state. Some of it was poll worker error; some of it may have been new technology. But if you had decided you wanted to vote in person and they weren’t ready for you to vote, you became disenfranchised.” She continued, “One of our coalition partners decided to go to court. Maybe we needed to extend the voting by 90 minutes throughout the state. The judge who heard it unfortunately denied the challenge. But this is where we’re talking about defending democracy–that on or about Election Day, the barriers would not be there. We want to make sure our communities are informed of their rights. That’s how we champion voting.” Over the years, many citizens have been denied the right to vote because of a criminal conviction. “Parolees and those on probation are now eligible to vote. It was signed into law December 2019 and enacted in March of 2020, which unfortunately was at the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic,” said Dr. Howard. “In the past, once you had served your time and came out, you were on probation and parole. The thought was that you cold never, ever be a citizen with the right to vote. At the League of Women Voters, we go into reentry programs and help them go through the process.” Activist training and lobbying is a service The League of Women Voters offers. “We’re in the middle of legislative and

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congressional redistricting in New Jersey, that’s why we’re doing this training,” she explained. “It’s free and open to the public. You do not have to be part of the League of Women Voters. We want people to understand that the vote is their voice. Their voice should determine how their legislative and congressional districts look on the map.” The training is designed to give people the tools and skills they need to testify in front of the New Jersey Senate, an apportionment commission, or a congressional legislative redistricting commission. “Hopefully, with our training you will feel empowered to speak at some of the redistricting commissions. We are a nonpartisan organization; we stress this all the time. We want to make sure that you, the resident, voter, and citizen of New Jersey feels your voice is heard.” As a Harvard University graduate, Howard had her pick of medical schools. She proudly chose Howard University College of Medicine for her medical degree. “I am grateful for the ability to go to an HBCU and a medical school like Howard, which had not only a great academic background, but an incredibly great clinical background,” she beamed. “Right now,” she explained, “we’re talking about things in healthcare like social determinants of health, meaning, ‘Do you understand where your patients are coming from? When you prescribe a prescription, do you know if a patient has to go to the pharmacy that’s close by or one far away? Do you know if they have enough food at home?’ We didn’t have to be taught about social determinants of health at Howard. It was part of our culture to understand our patients. It was instilled in us.” In addition to her medical practice and work in voting rights, Dr. Howard devotes her time as a healthcare advocate, a mentor to medical students and residents, a medical volunteer for overseas medical missions, and the medical director of a reproductive health organization—all meant to give back and give a leg up to those coming behind her. “Historically, especially as people of color, we had to find out things through unofficial mechanisms,” she explained. “Not everyone is going to look out for you. The community that will look out for you, will uplift you. By uplifting you, hopefully you can uplift others.” For more information, check out the League of Women Voters of New Jersey at https://www.lwvnj.org. www.thepositivecommunity.com

CELEBRATE INSPIRING BLACK HERITAGE New Jersey honors a living legacy of Black culture, all year long. Discover remarkable individuals and their stories as you visit destinations across the state.

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With our Black Heritage Trip Itineraries, journey to noteworthy museums and sites, and enjoy activities, shopping and cuisine that support Black-owned, independent businesses (go to VisitNJ.org/Black-Heritage). Another highlight: Now through May 22, at the New Jersey State Museum, see the thought-provoking exhibition, Posing Beauty in African American Culture. Access your free official travel guide and explore at VisitNJ.org

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Brooklyn Borough President Antonio Reynoso

NYC Council Speaker Andrienne Adams

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NYC Council Member Chi Ossé

A Chocolate-Covered BIG Apple Elections Yield Record Black Power Structure

he 2021 election in New York resulted in many welcome outcomes for the community. Brooklyn Borough President Eric Adams became Mayor Adams on January 1, 2022. Along with Adams, several other Black New Yorkers won their elections. New York City and State now boast more African American elected officials than ever before. Not even in the days of Dinkins, Rangel, and the “Gang of Four” has Black political representation been as expansive. • For the first time in history, a Black man, Alvin Braggs, is the Manhattan DA. The former NYS Chief Deputy Attorney General won 84% of the vote. Bragg lives in Harlem with his family. • In another historic election, the Bronx elected its first woman and first African American borough president, Vanessa Gibson. Gibson served on the NYC Council representing the 16th district from 2014 to 2021. • Former NYC Council Member Antonio Reynoso cruised to victory with more than 73% of the votes to become Brooklyn Borough President in 2022. He succeeded Eric Adams. • Incumbent NYC Council Member and the first woman to represent her district on the City Council, Spelman graduate Adrienne Adams won re-election in November 2021. She was elected Council Speaker by her colleagues. • Chi Ossé is the youngest member of the NYC Council. Representing Brooklyn District 36, the 23-year-old is the first Generation Z candidate elected in New York. These public servants join other elected and appointed Black New Yorkers such as: • NYPD’s first Black and first woman Police Commissioner Keechant Sewell, who grew up in the Queensbridge Houses in Long Island City and spent 25 years with the Nassau County Police Department. • NYC Schools Chancellor David C. Banks has a long educawww.thepositivecommunity.com

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tion track-record. Almost 25 years ago he was the first principal of Eagle Academy in the Bronx. • Letitia James, the first Black New York State Attorney General, has a J.D. degree from Howard University. The former NYC public advocate withdrew from the race for NY Governor and is seeking reelection in 2022. • Lt. Governor Brian Benjamin succeeded Kathy Hochul when she became Governor in September 2021. Elected to the State Senate in 2017, Benjamin was born in Harlem to Caribbean immigrant parents. • NY Senate Majority Leader Andrea Stuart Cousins became the first woman and the first African American to lead a New York State legislative conference in 2012. • The 100th NY Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie is the first African American to serve in the role. He represents the 83rd A.D. in the northeast Bronx and was first elected to the Assembly in 2000. • NYC Public Advocate Jumaane Williams battled Tourette’s syndrome and ADHD as a teenager. He is running for NY Governor in 2022. • Queens Borough President Donovan Richards Jr. is a lifelong Queens resident and former NYC Council Member. • Darcel D. Clark, the first African American and the first woman to serve as Bronx DA, was reelected in 2019. Raised in the Bronx in public housing, she earned her law degree at the Howard University School of Law in Washington, D.C. • US Representatives Jamaal Bowman, Hakeem Jeffries, Richie Torres, Gregory Meeks, and Yvette D. Clarke; each of whom will be running for reelection in 2022. The Positive Community sends congratulations and positive vibes to the new Black political power structure in New York. May they improve the lives of all New Yorkers. Winter Issue 2022 The Positive Community

54th Annual Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day Worship Service and Celebration

aptist Ministers Conference of Greater NY and Vicinity’s 54th Annual Celebration at Mt. Olivet Baptist Church, Harlem, celebrated the life and legacy of Dr. King for freedom and equal rights. Host Pastor Rev. Dr. Charles Curtis welcomed all. Under the leadership of the conference’s first woman president, Rev. Geraldine Harris, “Moving from Dream to Action” was the event’s theme. The keynote speaker was Rev. Dr. Elaine Flake, senior pastor of The Greater Allen A.M.E Cathedral, Queens. The event honorees were U.S. Senator Charles Schumer, Harlem Mother S.A.V.E Co-Founder Jackie Rowe-Adams, Sunshine in My Living Room Founder Doreen Lesane, Jean Nash Wells and Adrian Council Sr. of The Positive Community, and Peebles Corporation CEO Don Peebles. Speakers included NY NAACP President Dr. Hazel Dukes, Manhattan Borough President Mark Levine, NY County DA Alvin Bragg, NY AG Letitia James, NY Senator Robert Jackson, NYC Comptroller Brad Lander, NYC Public Advocate Jumaane Williams, and NYC Council Speaker Adrienne Adams. Founded in 1898, The BMCGNY&V is NYC's oldest and largest clergy leadership institution. The organization represents a network of over 200,000 constituents. The conference’s mission is to "positively affect educational, moral, civic, economic, and spiritual lives with a vigilant, prophetic eye of concern." Over the past century, the conference's membership included many community and civil rights legends. Members such as Reverends Adam Clayton Powell Sr., Adam Clayton Powell Jr., Wyatt Tee Walker, Gardner C. Taylor, Dr. William Augustus Jones, Charles Kenyatta, Shellie Sampson and Frank J. Blackshear among others, worked together to uplift and improve congregants' lives. Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was also in fellowship with his colleagues at the conference whenever he visited the NYC area. The Baptist Ministers' Conference meets every Monday at the historic Convent Avenue BC in Harlem, where Rev. Jesse Williams is host pastor. —TPC Staff

Baptist Minister Conference of Greater NY and Vicinity President Rev. Geraldine L. Harris

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Keynote Speaker Rev. Dr. Elaine Flake, Pastor at The Greater Allen A.M.E Cathedral, Queens

New York Attorney General Letitia James

L-R: BMCGNY&V First VP Rev. Shepard Lee, Second VP Rev. Dr. James E. Kilgore, US Senator Charles Schumer, Rev. Dr. Charles Curtis, and BMCGNY&V President Rev. Geraldine L. Harris

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L-R: Rev. Shepard Lee, Rev. Dr. Charles Curtis, BMCGNY&V past president, Jean Nash Wells, Adrian Council, Rev. Geraldine L. Harris, and Rev. Dr. James E. Kilgore

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Education the art + science of learning

Project POTUS A Fun and Educational Challenge for Middle School Students

roject POTUS presents an opportunity for students in grades 6-8 across the nation to put their research, writing, and video editing skills to the test. The Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site has just announced the launch of a competition that could win students scholarships and prizes. With nearly half a billion citizens since its founding in 1776, over 12,000 of us have served in Congress. Just 115 have become Supreme Court Justices and only 46 have become Presidents of the United States (POTUS). It’s clear to see, there’s something exceptional about each POTUS – good, bad, or otherwise. The Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site wants students’ help to tell the world in one minute or less, why these citizens are special. Project POTUS calls on students to research an American President and create a one-minute video representing the president selected. Students submit their videos for review by a citizen jury, which will select a winning video project for each American president. The results will be featured in the first ever ’46 Presidents in 45 Minutes,’ a compilation of the winning projects to be released in May 2022. “The value of Project POTUS comes not only from the potential for it to be fun and original, but also from how closely it matches up to standards teachers use in the classroom,” said Russell and Penny Fortune Project POTUS Presidential Fellow with the Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site Molly Beausir. “The project emphasizes civics, history, research, and communication skill building.

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And with the shift of project-based classroom learning to include virtual and hybrid options during the pandemic, the timing couldn’t be better to put those school laptops to good use.” “It’s a fun and unique initiative for students, individually or in groups, to get creative and participate in a national video project with their peers,” said Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site President and CEO Charles Hyde. “The program is an interactive way for students across the country to share what they’ve learned about our country’s presidents firsthand, drawing from their knowledge of history, civics, and leadership. Ultimately, we’re excited to help facilitate peer-to-peer learning, which Project POTUS - plans to do in a nationally significant way.” Students, caregivers, and educators can take part in an educational project. The Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site is seeking volunteers to aid in jurying the videos students enter. Judges must commit about 90 minutes of time during one week to view and score the videos remotely. In May, the citizen jury will award over $5,000 in prizes to students, with one grand prizewinner for the best video overall winning a $500 award and a VIP prize package. Submissions date begins on Presidents’ Day, February 21, 2022 and ends on Tax Day, April 15, 2022. Do you have a video-savvy student or budding history buff who might like this challenge? For more information and for project guidelines, please visit projectpotus.org. www.thepositivecommunity.com

TIPS FOR CHOOSING THE RIGHT SCHOOL FOR YOUR CHILD

By the time a child in the U.S. graduates from high school, they will have spent over 13,000 hours in school—so it’s no surprise that parents across the country spend a lot of time choosing a school where their child is likely to thrive. Some parents find themselves facing numerous options for where to send their child, from their district schools, to magnet schools, to local charter schools or private schools. Below, we’ve outlined some tips we think will help parents choose the right school for their family as they approach their child’s school-aged years. 1. KNOW YOUR CHILD. Does your child thrive in a more or less structured environment? Do they enjoy classroom discussions or prefer to learn by listening? Do they need individual attention to support their learning? Knowing the answers to these questions will help you frame your search and find a school environment that helps your child reach their highest potential.

4. CURRICULUM COUNTS... Every school follows a different curriculum or educational philosophy. What’s the school’s secret sauce for how they inspire learning and encourage children to demonstrate what they know? Ask teachers or school leaders how they approach teaching math, English, or science—and then ask them why they use that method.

2. VISIT A VARIETY OF SCHOOLS. Maybe your neighbor or family friend sends their child to a particular school where they are thriving--and you’re convinced your kid will excel at that school, too. Even so, exploring new options and touring other schools can help reaffirm what you knew all along, or uncover another, new option that works even better for your kid.

5. SO DOES CHARACTER... While a lot of learning takes place inside the classroom, students are often shaped by other interactions throughout the school day. Do teachers and staff encourage children to be honest and own up to their mistakes? Do teachers model respect to others inside and outside the classroom? Ask staff on your tour which school policies support character-driven goals.

3. GAUGE STUDENT ENGAGEMENT. When you visit a school, be sure to ask yourself whether children are engaged in their learning. Do they have opportunities to read lots of books during the day? Do children look happy to be in school? Are there warm relationships between students and staff? If you feel bored sitting in on a class, chances are your child will feel that way, too.

6. ...AND CULTURE! When you join a school, you join a community. The atmosphere of a school should feel conducive to learning and joy. Is student work proudly displayed on the bulletin boards? Are all staff warm and helpful? Be sure to ask about the school’s communications policies. Can teachers text parents? Can parents schedule a time to observe a class in progress during the school year? The answers to these questions often reveal a lot about the type of community the school offers.

We hope these tips will help you and your family discover a school that prepares your child to become a lifelong learner! KIPP Newark Public Schools are currently enrolling for the 2022-23 school year. You can learn more about applying to our schools at KIPPNJ.ORG/ENROLL/NEWARK

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Our school days are longer so our students have more time to learn, grow, and prepare for success in college, career, and life. KIPP families have easy access to teachers and school leadership by email and phone after school hours.

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We believe in making learning fun by offering arts, science, sports and a variety of extracurricular activities to build wellrounded kids.

Our free, high-performing, public charter schools are open to all students, including those with special needs and varied abilities. Our schools provide a safe, positive learning environment for all students.

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e celebrate Mother Cordie L. McKenzie on her 96th birthday. Her son, Obie, says she's still praising the Lord and calling on the name of Jesus everyday.

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Let's Tennis! This Black History Month,

the United States Tennis Association's Eastern Section is celebrating African-Americans who made history locally.

Did you know...

Althea Gibson became the first African-American to win a Grand Slam when she won Wimbledon in 1956. She dominated in tennis, winning five Grand Slam titles, and retired in East Orange, NJ where she later became the city's Director of Recreation. Gibson is widely regarded as a racial equity tennis trailblazer and one of the best to ever pick up a racquet. According to the American Heart Association, the prevalence of high blood pressure in African-Americans is the highest in the world. The good news is, tennis is good for the heart!

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Racquet sports are particularly effective at raising good cholesterol.

Training your heart with short sprints may reduce mortality. As an aerobic activity, tennis improves the heart's ability to supply oxygen to the rest of the body, decrease fat content in the body, and increase muscle mass.

Aerobic exercise helps to lower and maintain blood pressure.

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Dreams Do Come True Passion and Perseverance Make it Happen

Anna Pitts-White

DeeJay White

BY GLENDA CADOGAN

ashing dishes at the kitchen sink on a cold March evening in 2020, the idea of giving up his full-time job weighed heavily on the mind of DeeJay White. At the time, White, 29, taught math and English in the New York City Public School system. He taught for a living, but he really loved athletics, fitness, and wellness. “Ever since my Little League days I’ve enjoyed being in a wellness environment,” he said. “With the onset of the pandemic and remote learning, I had to decide if I was going to return to the classroom. As I pondered that decision, I reached out to a mentor who established his own gym after a similar move years ago. He shared his struggles and sacrifices, but encouraged me to follow my passion.” The next day, White tendered his resignation. “I decided that if making the positive impact I wanted in the world meant I had to sacrifice some things or sleep in my car, it would be well worth it.” Now a free agent, White’s mentors encouraged him to start a career in personal training. He did so without hesitation, training clients in his backyard and in parks and rather quickly, the fearless entrepreneur created his fitness brand: Motiv8 Krazee8 Enterprises. Explaining the mission and purpose of the company he said, “Eight is significant in my life. It was the number on the first jersey I wore in Little League. In supreme mathematics it stands for build and destroy; and turned on its side, it’s the infinity symbol. All of this comprises the business philosophy of my brand: the aim is to help people destroy their old toxic ways of life and build a new healthy physical and spiritual consciousness. It’s a never-ending cycle of self-empowerment.” In the past year and a half, White has trained over 70 people. Current clientele numbers 27 and among them,

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63-year-old nurse practitioner Anna Pitts-White— his mother. “At first it was challenging separating the personal and the professional,” explained White. “But it’s a joy to see her make this investment in herself and witness her physical growth.” Last year the mother/son team joined the 25-plus contingent from the gym that participated in the annual three-mile obstacle course race known as the City Challenge. Pitts-White surprised herself and completed the course ahead of many younger competitors. “When I started training with my son, I had no idea I would be involved in something like an athletic challenge,” she said. “At first when I signed up to train with DeeJay, it was a way of encouraging and supporting his pursuits. Of course, as a mother I was concerned about him leaving a stable job for something unknown. But I saw the passion he has for this and how it allowed him to breathe. So, we exercised in our backyard until he got the spot at the gym.” According to Pitts-White, she had to let go of the mother-son idea and focus on trainer-student. “This has allowed us to build an even better relationship both in and out of the gym.” Of the City Challenge race she said, “I was doubtful about being the oldest member on our team, but the day of the challenge was awesome and one of the best experiences in my life. With the encouragement from my trainer, I made it!,” she said with a proud grin. “My approach to fitness is about challenging your limits, not limiting your challenges. I felt so fulfilled that day when I saw my mom persevere,” White revealed. “I stayed with her every step of the way, but she was the one who pushed through and made it happen.” The race with his mom epitomizes what DeeJay White wants to see for all his clients. The vision he saw while washing dishes at the kitchen sink is coming to fruition. www.thepositivecommunity.com

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Provides More than Healthcare Cash Awards Help Local Organizations and Businesses

merigroup New Jersey has provided more than $230,000 to dozens of organizations and businesses across the state that deal with food insecurity, health education, medical assistance, and overall empowerment. "Our mission is to ensure that residents in need have access to vitally needed resources. These awards have already impacted the lives of hundreds of thousands of people living in New Jersey," said Amerigroup New Jersey Medicaid Plan President Teresa Hursey. Representatives from Amerigroup also plan to provide ongoing hands-on support for the recipient organizations' activities. "These grants are but part of the work we do with our amazing community partners to serve the residents of New Jersey," said Anya Nawrocky, Director of Member Experience and Growth, Amerigroup New Jersey. Grants were provided in the following areas: Food Insecurity: It's been estimated that about 800,000 New Jersey face hunger every day. Approximately 200,000 of them are children.To address food insecurity in New Jersey, Amerigroup donated $33,500 to the Community Food Bank of New Jersey. In addition, CARC (Community Affairs and Resource Center) has received $10,000 to support services that strengthen youth and families by promoting self-sufficiency through education, advocacy, and collaboration. Also, $10,000 went to CUMAC (Center for United Methodist Aid to the Community), and Tomchei Shabbos of Lakewood received a $30,000 grant to provide the basic yet vital needs of over 1,000 families. Access to Health Care: The company gave $10,000 to Misameach, a nonprofit volunteer organization dedicated to lifting the spirits of hospitalized children or adults with physical disabilities, and $10,000 to Lev Rochel Bikur Cholim Lakewood. www.thepositivecommunity.com

Trinitas Health Foundation also received $10,000 to provide healthcare to the people and communities they serve, including the poor and vulnerable. $10,000 has been provided to the Hatzolah, a volunteer Ambulance/First responder organization serving Ocean county. Community Empowerment: Amerigroup New Jersey donated $15,000 to Shoes for Your Soul, a nonprofit organization seeking to uplift households' economic and financial burdens by providing shoes and socks necessary for children in the community. In addition, the company contributed $12,500 to Special Olympics to promote and aid efforts in the competition and advancement of those with intellectual disabilities, To assist low-income, disadvantaged and at-risk individuals and families, including seniors and youth, to become self-sufficient while enhancing their quality of life, Amerigroup gave $15,600 to UCC (United Community Corporation). The Malcolm Jenkins Foundation received $10,000 to help effectuate positive change in the lives of youth, particularly those in underserved communities. The following organizations have also received grants. · Ubiquity Soul Unlimited · Give a Kid a Dream NJ · Heart Screen · Jois Angels · National Islamic Association · The Salvation Army · Food Bank of South Jersey · Beacon of Hope Inc. · The Parish of All Saints · Mercer Street Friends Winter Issue 2022 The Positive Community

Whoever your heart beats for, our hearts beat for you. One of the top 15 heart transplant programs in the nation.

Newark Beth Israel Medical Center has a passion for heart health. As the most comprehensive cardiothoracic surgery program in the state, our Heart Failure and Transplant program has performed more than 1,100 heart transplants, including the first in the state of New Jersey. We’ve been at the forefront of highly-specialized heart care for more than 30 years, improving the quality of life for transplant candidates and recipients, leading groundbreaking research and helping to increase access to transplants. Hope. Health. Hearts. All transplanted here. Learn more at rwjbh.org/hearttransplant

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GOING HOME WITH A NEW HEART

At 34, Derrick Baker had no history of heart disease. In fact, the healthy young father of five had never had a major illness. But in December of 2020, he started feeling weak and nauseous, short of breath with stomach pains. His wife, Tameka Reed, took him to Newark Beth Israel Medical Center (NBI), not far from their home. “He would walk past Newark Beth every day, but he’d never been there for treatment before,” Tameka says. “I figured it would turn out to be a stomach virus.” As doctors tested Derrick, they came to a conclusion that shocked him and Tameka: He had heart failure, had likely had undetected heart issues for years and was at risk of sudden death. “Sometimes a person can have cardiac problems but is able to tolerate them because of their youth and physical fitness,” says Margarita Camacho, MD, Surgical Director of Heart Transplant at NBI MARGARITA CAMACHO, MD and a member of RWJBarnabas Health Medical Group. While there’s no obvious sign of their heart issue, their hearts are actually barely functioning.” The cause of heart failure in such people is generally a mystery, although doctors speculate that there may be a genetic component.

The team at NBI prescribed heart failure medications. After 10 days, Derrick went home to Tameka and their five children—ages 4, 8, 11, 14 and 17 years old. Within a short time, however, he suddenly lost the ability to speak. “I was talking to the kids, and then I couldn’t talk anymore,” he recalls. He’d had a stroke, and he was readmitted to the hospital. He recovered his speech, but continued to need heart failure medication and have frequent stays at NBI. By March, his condition had deteriorated to the point where his heart was operating at just 5 percent, and the function of his kidneys and liver were being affected. Derrick would need a heart transplant. WAITING FOR WORD At any given time, the number of people who are waiting for a heart transplant is greater than the number of organs available. The average wait time is four months, according to the Gift of Life Donor Program, but many factors can lengthen that time, such as blood tissue and size match and proximity to the donor. Derrick was lucky in one sense: His surgery would be done by Dr. Camacho, one of the nation’s most renowned cardiac surgeons. She has completed 661 of the 1,131 heart transplants done at NBI and has personally helped procure more than 500 hearts for transplant.

As Derrick waited for his transplant, his children created a collage of photos of their family, which the medical team posted on his hospital room window. “Looking at it, I couldn’t wait to get home,” he says. They were

As she scrubbed up, Dr. Camacho thought about Derrick and his family, and the impact this heart transplant would have on their lives. - Margarita Camacho, MD able to visit until April, when his oldest daughter got COVID-19 and they all were quarantined. FaceTime visits would have to do. A call finally came that there was a match and this time it was a good, strong heart and a match. The surgery was scheduled for 6:30 a.m. on Memorial Day. As she scrubbed up, Dr. Camacho thought about Derrick and his family, and the impact this heart transplant would have on their lives. HOME AGAIN The surgery was a success. Within a day or two, Derrick was able to get out of bed. “I felt normal,” he recalls. “I felt like before I got sick.” On June 15, he walked out of the hospital on his own two feet, “clapped out” by NBI staff and Dr. Camacho.

At home, his children were waiting for him with balloons, cheers and hugs. That weekend, he celebrated his first Father’s Day with his new heart. Later that month, he was able to see one daughter graduate from high school and another from middle school. THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT The future is bright. Derrick is doing as well as his doctor had hoped. Most heart transplant patients feel physically recovered by six weeks after the procedure, and the first six months continue to be crucial for

healing. Doctors perform regular tests to ensure that the heart is not being rejected by the body and that no infection has occurred. Once Derrick is fully recovered, he will not have any physical restrictions, Dr. Camacho says, although he will have diet and lifestyle restrictions as all heart transplant patients do. Despite achieving a transplant record that puts her in the top 1 percent of surgeons, Dr. Camacho says she never takes the procedure for granted. “Even if I did it only once in my life,”

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she says, “it would be so incredibly meaningful to me and I would still feel so privileged.” To find a top cardiovascular specialist at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center, call 888.724.7123 or visit www.rwjbh.org/heart. To learn more about heart transplants, visit www.rwjbh.org/NBIHeartTransplant.

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L-R: Rev. Shaun Lee, Rev. Tisha Dixon-Williams, Rev. Gabby Cudjoe, Rev. Adolphus Lacey

L-R: Rev. Robert Waterman and Rev. Al Sharpton L-R: Faith leader for Mayor Eric Adams Rev. Gilford Monrose, Bishop Ismael Claudio

Bethany Baptist Church, Brooklyn Hosts NAN Breakfast

he National Action Network held an Appreciation Breakfast for local faith leaders on December 8, 2021. Bethany Baptist Church Pastor Rev. Adolphus Lacey welcomed Rev. Al Sharpton, who thanked local clergy for their continued activism and support.

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L-R: Rev. Sharpton and Rev. Jacques DeGraff

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HONORS

or more than 18 months, the COVID-19 pandemic has impacted our lives more than any of us could imagine, none more than healthcare professionals who consistently risk their lives to protect the lives of others. Facing unexpected challenges, limited staff, inadequate supplies, and dealing with double, often triple the number of patients needing immediate and intensive care, abiding by their sworn Hippocratic Oath to “…do no

harm,” with courage and grace, they tackled any obstacle to serving or saving a patient. Sponsored by Aetna, The Positive Community’s Healthcare Heroes campaign salutes the doctors, nurses, aides, EMT’s, cooks, janitors, hospital and healthcare executives and many more who toil in anonymity— selflessly serving…

WE THANK YOU!

To read more about health care heroes visit: https://thepositivecommunity.com/healthcareheroes/

Dr. Kemi Alli

Joan Dublin

Dr. Kemi Alli has been CEO of the Henry J. Austin Health Center since 2015. The health center serves the diverse community of the Trenton/Mercer County area, consisting of African Americans and Latin Americans, including Spanish-speaking patients. In addition, there’s a significant number of homeless patients. According to Dr. Alli, 1 in 10 patients are homeless and approximately half qualify as low income. “There were a lot of unknowns. It was a scary time for staff and patients."

Metropolitan Family Health Network President and CEO Joan Dublin in Jersey City facility manages 56,000 patient visits each year. During the pandemic, Metropolitan lost close to 10% of their staff. Despite the broad challenges, the center never closed. Their patients, who are primarily Hispanic and African American, expressed their relief and thanks that the center stayed open.

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Organ Transplant, The Gift of Life Samuel Lee Kountz Jr. (1930–1981) A Black History Story

BY R.L. WITTER

rgan transplantation is part of Black History. In 1938, eight-year-old Samuel Lee Kountz Jr., the son of a Baptist preacher, became interested in medicine. He accompanied a friend to the hospital for emergency treatment. So moved by the doctor’s ability to relieve his friend’s pain and suffering, Kountz decided at that moment he would become a physician. After graduating from high school, Kountz applied to Arkansas Agricultural, Mechanical and Normal College (AM&N), now the University of Arkansas at Pine Bluff (UAPB) but he failed the entrance examination. Undaunted, he applied directly to the president of AM&N. Impressed by Kountz’s ambition, his inquiring mind, and his determination to become a physician, he admitted him despite his scores. Kountz earned a BS in chemistry, graduating third in his class. He applied to medical school at the University of Arkansas, and as before, not accepted. Undaunted, Kountz studied chemistry at the Pine Bluff campus then earned a full academic scholarship to University of Arkansas Medical School and earned his M.D. in two years. While interning in the Stanford Service at San Francisco General Hospital, Kountz began surgical training at Stanford University Medical School in 1959. Still a resident in 1961, he made medical history when he performed the first successful kidney transplant between humans who were not identical twins. Six years later, he and a team of researchers at the University of California, San Francisco developed the prototype for the Belzer kidney perfusion machine. The device preserves kidneys for up to 50 hours from the time of removal from a donor's body. It is now standard equipment in hospitals and research laboratories around the world. Kountz later relocated to New York. He became professor of Surgery and chair of the department at the State University of New York (SUNY), Downstate Medical Center in Brooklyn, beginning in 1972, and surgeon-in-chief of Kings County Hospital. He even performed a kidney transplant live on The Today Show in 1976, which inspired over 20,000 viewers to offer their kidneys for transplantation. We remember, honor, and celebrate Dr. Samuel Lee Kountz and his accomplishments always, but especially during Black History Month.

Organ Donors Save Lives

More than 20,000 organ transplants are performed each year in the United States. According to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS), 27 percent of transplant recipients were in New Jersey and New York. Of those transplant recipients, 32 percent were Black. For every transplant recipient in the New York-New Jersey area, there are hundreds more on the waiting list. In 2021, 67 percent

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of the waiting list were people of color; 36 percent of them were Black. NJ Sharing Network, the nonprofit, federallydesignated organization responsible for the recovery of organ and tissue donation in the state, announced the number of organ donors in a single year reached an all-time high as 233 generous individuals in New Jersey gave the gift of life in 2021. Donate Life New Yo r k S t a t e ( N Y S ) t h e Dr. Samuel Lee Kountz Jr. non-profit statewide liaison to Donate Life America is committed to saving and enhancing lives through the miracle of organ and tissue donation and transplantation. Over 8,000 New Yorkers are waiting for a transplant. Organ donation is truly a most munificent gift. All major religions support organ and tissue donation, viewing it as an act of love and generosity. Miraculously, one organ donor can save eight lives, and one tissue donor can enhance the lives of over 75 people. Anyone age 16 or older can register as an organ donor. There are both living donor and deceased donor donations.

Some easily dispelled misconceptions about organ donoation:

· There is no cost to the donor’s family or estate for organ and tissue donation. Costs related to donation are paid by the recipient, usually through insurance. · No one is too old or too sick to register. · Donation becomes an option only after death has been determined. · The decision to donate does not interfere with medical care. · Registration is fast and easy. Register in person when you are getting or renewing your driver’s license, driving permit, or state issued identification at the DMV; register online at www.NJSharingNetwork.org in New Jersey or https://donatelifenys.org/register in New York. With diabetes being so prevalent in Black communities, we are too often the beneficiaries of Dr. Kountz’s pioneering work in organ, particularly kidney, transplantation. Register to become an organ donor this month. www.thepositivecommunity.com

KAHLIL CARMICHAEL THE FITNESS DOCTOR

Kahlil Carmichael MAPCC, MDIV, CPT is the pastor of Live Well Church, in Somerset, New Jersey. He is a fitness specialist at The Fitness Doctor, a fitness and wellness consulting company; and the author of 50 Tips for a Better You. He is a contributor to Guideposts magazine. His first publication, Living Longer Living Better, is available now. Go to www.livewellchurch.org for more information.

Don’t Let Go! is not sustainable. Instead of fad diets, hold on to clean eating and whole, unprocessed foods. Include colorful vegetables and lean proteins—your diet will be healthy and satisfying. Supplements

’ve been studying the biblical story of Jacob as he wrestled with an angel. Jacob held on to the angel all night, quite a feat for an old man. This lesson led me to the topic, “Don’t Let Go.” I believe God has something wonderful in store for each of us if we hold on, trying our best! For this I am grateful. Of course, we must hold on to the right things. As the scripture goes, Jacob said, “I will not let go unless you bless me.” (Genesis 32:29) Holding on to a blessing is the right thing. We hold on to loving, healthy relationships. We hold on to spirituality and faith, even when life is a rollercoaster. “We” are awesome and powerful! Today, let’s discuss not letting go of our health. Many desire to lose weight as part of their health journey and may slip into extreme behaviors. To be truly healthy, we must be balanced, caring for the whole body. Let’s look deeper. Extreme Dieting

Many have done a cabbage soup diet or a master cleanse, eating only cabbage soup or drinking a cleanse mixture for days on end. You may have been initially successful in losing weight, but it comes back. Why? Because this www.thepositivecommunity.com

There are so many. Liver and system cleansing, metabolism boosters, ketones, collagen, and vitamins. Some have great value. But if you are relying on expensive supplements to supercharge your body to do something you are not working for, it won’t be successful. There are no magic pills! Liver cleansing pills won’t work as well as avoiding toxins and eating well. Unregulated metabolism boosters can be very dangerous for the heart and don’t work as well as regular exercise. Be wary of unnecessary supplements and begin doing the work of exercise and moderation. If you do the work, your body—your temple—will respond. Health needs change as we age but don’t let go of caring for your mind, body, and soul. Pray about it! Talk to a professional if you are feeling overwhelmed; download a healthy eating app for inspiration. Incorporate exercise and see your doctor regularly. Nothing can take the place of regular check-ups. Using these methods, health improvements will come—including weight loss! Start slow and continue to build. You are making lasting changes, breaking the strongholds of chronic disease! Blessings and good health to you! Live well and prosper.

Fitness training is available through the Live Well Church FITCARE program, offered at the Fitness Doctor Studio in Somerset, New Jersey. Please call Karen Beasley at 732-912-4435 to schedule a free assessment.

Disclaimer: The information contained in this column is of a general nature. You should consult your physician or health care professional before beginning any exercise program or changing your dietary regimen. Winter Issue 2022 The Positive Community

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125 Years Later Black Activist Homer Plessy Pardoned By Jean Nash Wells

Descendants of Homer Plessy look on as Louisiana Governor John Bel Edwards signs formal pardon, January 5, 2022.

The United States Supreme court ruling in Plessy v. Ferguson, which allowed “separate but equal” accommodations, stood until the passing of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Title II of the law prohibits “... discrimination or segregation in places of public accommodation on the ground of race, color, religion, or national origin.” Plessy passed away in 1925 with the conviction still on his record. On January 5, 2022, Louisiana Governor John Bel Edwards formally pardoned him. Plessy’s descendants stood with the governor and district attorney in New Orleans at the station where Plessy was arrested. According to The New York Times, as Edwards signed the pardon, he explained he also had a much more ambitious aim: confronting a painful and shameful history Plessy’s case came to represent. “It left a stain on the fabric of our country and on this state and on this city,” Mr. Edwards said. “And, quite frankly, those consequences are still felt today.”

t didn’t bring the change he hoped for at the time, but in 1892, Homer Plessy deliberately disobeyed the Louisiana law that kept Black and white United States citizens separate in just about every phase of life. All of the southern states had such laws. Only one-eighth African with very fair skin, Plessy felt strongly that the 13th and 14th Amendments to the Constitution overruled the state law and decided to do something about it. Along with an organization called “The Citizens’ Committee to Test the Constitutionality of the Separate Car Law,” Plessy planned to test the law. On June 7, 1892, he bought a ticket and boarded a train leaving New Orleans going to Covington, Louisiana. He took a seat in the “whites only” car, informed the conductor he was Black, and refused to move to the “colored” car when instructed to do so. Arrested, jailed, and convicted for violating Louisiana’s 1890 Separate Car Act, Plessy appealed the conviction to the Louisiana Supreme Court, naming Judge John Howard Ferguson, who convicted him, as the respondent. That court upheld the conviction. Plessy then appealed to the United States Supreme Court. The court’s majority opinion upheld the conviction with only one dissenting opinion by Justice John Marshal Harlan.

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here have been several high-profile suicides in the news recently. Former Miss USA Cheslie Kryst; Hyattsville Mayor Kevin Ward; and Ian Alexander Jr., son of actress, producer, and director Regina King have all taken their own lives in the past few weeks. As we approach the two-year mark of the COVID-19 pandemic, too many people are reaching their breaking point. Isolation, job loss, financial stress, and loss of loved ones are weighing heavily on their hearts and loneliness simply doesn’t help. As someone who lives thousands of miles from any blood relatives and many long-time friends, I can attest to the importance of actual human contact. Sending a “How are you?” text or email is quick and convenient, but an actual phone call is likely more beneficial. The recipient can hear the care in the caller’s voice and the caller can possibly hear any anxiety, depression, or despair in the recipient’s voice. Despite successfully avoiding COVID thus far, my husband was ill recently and his ongoing recovery has been long and difficult; Hubby was hospitalized for just over one month. I spent 6–10 hours daily at his bedside, advocating for the care he required to make a full recovery. I’d return home after 9 o’clock nightly to my one, daily meal: a bowl of cereal. When the cereal ran out, I was too tired to shop, so I ate crackers, peanut butter, and made smoothies from frozen fruit. It became easy to miss text messages and emails because I was so overwhelmed, I often didn’t have time to check for them. Then, it became a choice. It was easier not to respond because I simply didn’t want to dis-

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cuss the situation. My only interactions were with Hubby and the various medical professionals and insurance representatives working with us. Exhausted, I let the housekeeping slip a bit, then my hair looked a bit wilder than usual, and my clothes were definitely wrinkled and mismatched. The only constants in my life were prayer and my love for The Lord. To my surprise, one of Hubby’s best friends was waiting for me at the hospital entrance as I left one day. “Tomorrow I’m going to sit with him until 3 o’clock and then you can come,” he said. “That way, you’ll have time to work, sleep, shop, or just do whatever you need to do.” I was flabbergasted. Every day after that, the friend “took the day shift.” I worked until three then headed to the hospital until they kicked me out at nine. Hubby was finally discharged on a Friday afternoon. I was cooking, cleaning, bathing him, paying medical bills, coordinating home nurse visits three times weekly, surgeon appointments once weekly, physical therapists coming and going, keeping food and supplies stocked, and trying to remain employed. I found anxiety and depression quickly approaching. The friend and his wife appeared at our door regularly to offer help or a shoulder to cry on—whichever I needed most at the moment. Often, we didn’t even speak. Just knowing someone cared enough to check on us and offer comfort and assistance was enough to keep me going. It turned out Hubby wasn’t the only one who needed help to begin healing. I am blessed to say four months later they are still coming by regularly. Check on your friends and loved ones. Remind them you care and they are important. “Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.” —Romans 12:15 ESV www.thepositivecommunity.com

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