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riven. Compassionate. Committed to

smart, enthusiastic individuals under 40. Plus, we

the community. enthusiastic. Athletic. Smart. Very

are currently enjoying two great interns – both

smart. Charitable.

from SJ County, attending Stanford University and

These are just of a few words to describe the

St. Mary’s College Moraga, respectively. (Intern

individuals that make up “More than 40 under

Carson wrote the story on Laura Wilkinson,

40,” our special feature in this issue of Lifestyles.

page 26, and intern Brad wrote the Mark the

More than 40, because once diving into this

Date section, pages 98-99). It is refreshing to be

project, we kept finding great young adults –

influenced by their energy, fresh thinking, and

individuals that have made a commitment to

creative ideas. everyday I get to experience that.

being the difference in this community through

It’s a joy.

their career choices and their deep passion for

I am encouraged about our future. One story

life. Most of our photographers and writers for

at a time, these young adults are impressive, but

this issue are under 40, as well.

when you read page after page, it goes beyond

As a community we can be encouraged

that. It becomes encouraging, motivating and

by these exceptional young people, and be

hopeful for our community. We truly have a new

extremely proud. They have made the choice

generation of emerging leaders. Interestingly enough, we could have featured

at home. Many moved away, went to college,

“More than 80,” or even “More than 120.” We

and then came back. Some never did leave, and

just simply ran out of space. So I’ll guess we’ll do

some came to our community through various

this again next year. So don’t hesitate to send

circumstances and chose to stay and build their

us suggestions. We’ll keep them on file. A very

lives and careers here.

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On the cover: mOre than FOrty under 40 CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

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f your reading materials include only Forbes Magazine or the

culturally diverse area far outweigh the negatives. That is something

local crime and financial statistics, you may think that our local young

that our young leaders, entrepreneurs, artists, and educators know.

people would start racing to cross the county line upon graduation.

Their desire to contribute to and thrive in this place we call home

But if you know the truth about San Joaquin County, then you will

comes straight from the heart and the soul.

understand why we have so many young people staying in our area

We invite you to meet some of the movers, the shakers, the dreamers

or returning after college to work and live in our vibrant and ever-

and the doers that are making San Joaquin County a place to be

changing communities. We admit that we still have a few uphill

proud of now, while assuring its future as the perfect place to call

battles to fight, but the benefits to living in this agriculturally rich and

home for generations to come. â&#x17E;¤

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STORY BY TARA MANNeRS

hen I sit down for an

interview with Megan and Zac Cort, both of them exude a confidence and energy that I only see from those who are truly passionate and excited about their endeavors. They are simultaneously humble and eager about what they are accomplishing, and the farther along I get in my interview, I understand that Zac and Megan Cort are ready to change and improve the city of Stockton, and they are starting with the heart of downtown. As I speak to the Corts, their list of accomplishments is quite impressive for any couple, much less a couple in their early 30s. Megan was the president of her sorority, and spearheaded many fundraisers to help in the prevention of child abuse. Additionally she started a

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successful business called Mint Clean (an industrial cleaning service) in her hometown of San Diego. She was able to sell her company two years later when she and Zac made the decision to move to Stockton. Currently she is a mother, coowns a franchise called “Juice it Up” in Stockton, and is on the board of directors for Stockton’s Pride Center. Zac, on the other hand, was a collegiate baseball player who was born in Stockton and spent a great deal of his childhood here. After graduating college, he had a successful career at Bear Stearns and he is now working on renovating and reviving places like the Metro building and the Newberry building, among others in Stockton. He

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serves on the board for the Downtown Stockton

like to help it to realize that potential. We are in

Lodi, spend time at Ports games and frequent

Alliance and the Stockton Symphony, and

downtown Stockton every day. We want to stay

events at the Stockton Arena. The Corts both

helped to spearhead the movement to bring

in Stockton to see our projects through, and

love the diversity in Stockton, not just of the

bicycle police into downtown Stockton.

then later we will want to stay to enjoy what

people, but the diverse history that Stockton has

The Corts met in college while at CSU Long

we have done.” The Corts envision a thriving

to offer, and the bountiful agricultural center

Beach, and mutually describe their biggest

downtown with renovated buildings and many

that helps our economy to thrive. They promote

accomplishment as their “18-month-old son,

small boutiques, stores and open markets. While

a healthy lifestyle, which is why they chose to

Lincoln Decker.“ When asked why they moved

they talk, you can almost picture the hustle and

place a Juice it Up downtown, and why they will

to Stockton from San Diego, Zac says simply,

bustle of a “walkable community.”

continue to try and help Stockton to blossom

“We sold a producing business and moved our

Zac and Megan mutually love Stockton

whole family here because we saw the potential

for the Delta waterways and the feeling of not

that downtown Stockton has, and we would

being landlocked. Additionally they picnic in

Jackie Kurtzer

into a place where people can live, work and play, all within walking distance.

PR & DIGITAL MARKeTING COORDINATOR

BIG VALLeY FORD

eing born and raised in Stockton fills me with a definitive

need and desire to stay in Stockton and support my community. I have so many fond memories visiting local community centers such as Pixie Woods, the Children’s Museum of Stockton, Haggin Museum and Micke Grove Zoo. Showing my 2-year-old all the places I adored as a child means so much to me. As a proud Stocktonian, I know and have always known what an incredible city we live in. I’m proud to call Stockton my home, and am equally proud to raise my child in our beautiful city! I’ve been blessed to work for an organization that is extremely generous, giving, and wants nothing more than to see our community thrive and prosper. With the decline in funding to high-school sports, I’ve been able to work with local high schools to raise thousands of dollars to help keep their programs running and properly funded. I am currently on the committee for the upcoming March of Dimes Signature Chefs Auction 2013. Giving back to the community is always at the forefront in my mind. Creating opportunities and positive experiences is how I give back to my community.

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B U S I N e S S

S P O T L I G H T

or Alexandros economou, the five-story A.G. Spanos

specializing in public and private school projects. Later, after

building, visible to traffic on Interstate 5 at eight Mile Road

joining the Spanos Cos., he spent five years in Denver, opening

in Stockton, is a daily reminder of the potential that lies in

and running the company’s Colorado office.

ReGIONAL VICe PReSIDeNT

Lex economou

working in his hometown.

About three years ago, economou and wife, Lindsey –

The Trinity Parkway office building was the first project

the two met at Lincoln High School – returned to Stockton,

economou, now 36, oversaw for the company founded by

where both have deep roots: economou is a third-generation

his grandfather, Alex G. Spanos, and which he joined in 2003.

Stocktonian. His wife’s family has lived in the city even longer.

“It’s why I love what I do,” says economou, Regional

Now it’s where the couple are raising two sons, 5-year-old

Vice President for the A.G. Spanos Companies. “It’s not just

Vasilios and 3-year-old Markos. A third son is due this fall.

sitting behind a computer. It is neat to take a blank piece of

“Our families are from here,” economou says. “There’s no

property and see the company’s goals and the community’s

substitute for family and having people around you can trust

goals come together.”

and can rely on. It’s good to be back… The kids really love to

After growing up in Stockton, economou left the city to

be around family.”

study at the University of Colorado, where he earned a degree

As a regional vice president with Spanos, economou

in architectural engineering. He then worked for Douglas

manages the entire development process, from property

e. Barnhart, Inc., a San Diego-based general contractor

acquisition through construction and beyond. His territory spans the western United States, including operations in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Arizona, Nevada and California. Though his work requires frequent travel, he says he looks forward to becoming more active within the Stockton community, and has joined the Business Council. “I want to get more involved and, hopefully, make a difference,” he says. “My wife and I want to see great things happen here.” Hard-hit in the economic downturn, Stockton was in the midst of some of its most challenging years when economou and his family returned to the city. Now, he says, he is optimistic about the region’s future. “I’m proud of what we’ve been able to do in the community,” he says. “I think things are a lot better than people realize. It’s just a sense I have when I’m visiting the shopping centers or eating at a restaurant. There are more people out. There’s an energy… I’m proud that my wife and I can say we’re from Stockton.”

STORY BY JeNNIFeR TORReS SIDeRS

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Philip Berolzheimer

PeNCIL MANUFACTUReR, PALOMINO PeNCIL

orn and raised here, I am a fourth-generation Stocktonian.

I give back to the community by helping the family business in Stockton, coaching water

polo and swimming, and growing an eCommerce website locally. I am the fifth generation in the pencil business, and am a graduate of UOP. My family first came to Stockton in the 1920s. I decided to stay in Stockton, get married and set roots here after graduation because of my investment in family and the community and my love for the area.

Kristen Dyke

MARKeTING DIReCTOR / OWNeR, PORT CITY MARKeTING SOLUTIONS, INC.

came to Stockton when I attended University of the Pacific. During

college I met my husband (born and raised in Stockton) who has introduced me to many great places and amazing people. I love the community feel, eating dinner at locally-owned restaurants and running into and catching up with old friends everywhere we go. My husband and I enjoy spending time outdoors, especially boating on the Delta. Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve learned that Stockton is very supportive and welcoming to new businesses. This tight-knit community has enabled us to access business and community leaders to help build and mold our company. We couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have asked for better mentors and support. I give back to my community by being a member of the executive Board for the San Joaquin County Child Abuse Prevention Council, participating in the Rotary Club of Stockton where I am the Communications Director, and giving back to my alma mater by sitting on the Pacific Athletic Foundation Board as the VP of Marketing. I am married to my husband, Gerrit Dyke, and we have a son who just turned one. My business partner/co-owner is erin Diego.

I am

San Joaquin Gwen Krenecki Age: 30 Occupation: Engineering /Accounting, Lodi Iron Works How long I’ve lived in San Joaquin County: Born and raised in Lodi, CA, college at Chico for 4 years, 4 years working in Alabama, and now 4 years back in Lodi. Why I choose to live in San Joaquin County: Family The people who mean the most to me: Family, friends and coworkers… My husband is my favorite! A key event in my life and the impact it had on me: My mother passing away. I was living in Alabama when my mother was diagnosed with lung cancer. She had been cancer-free for 20 years. This cancer was caused from the radiation from the first go-around all those years ago. She lived about 9 months after the diagnosis. Living across the country during this process was one of the hardest parts of my life. This is a huge factor why I moved back home – to be closer to the family I still had. When I moved back to Lodi, I joined my dad and uncle at Lodi Iron Works, a business my family has been a part of since 1947. What I’m reading now: Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead Hobbies: CrossFit Pet: female Doberman – Pearl; male German Shorthair – Lewis; three cats – Charlotte, Charley, and June Favorite food/dessert: Frozen yogurt I “give back” by volunteering with the following organizations: Micke Grove Zoological Society; Leadership Lodi Alumni Association My favorite quotes: “The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love.” Galatians 5:6b NIV Favorite childhood memories: Boating on the Delta and New Hogan Lake, water polo, swim team, riding the golf cart in the country. PHOTO BY LINDSAY ORTeZ

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All in the Streeter Family

Ashley 29 Our parents: thOmas t. streeter and harjit sud streeter

TJ 33

Monica 37

ur mom grew up in India; our dad grew up in Sacramento. They met during their medical residency

program and moved to Stockton 35 years ago. With grandparents living in Sacramento, Stockton provided them an opportunity to practice medicine and raise their family while being close to grandparents. Our parents have always invested in and been involved with the community. They have really made Stockton their home. From serving on the Board for the Stockton Symphony, the Womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Center, the San Joaquin County Fair, and hosting fundraising events for local charities at their home, giving back has always been a priority.

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mOnica – attOrney I grew up here and my family is here. After law school it was an easy decision to move back to Stockton – it’s always been home. I lived in the Bay Area for several years and I never felt like I developed roots. In Stockton, I feel like everyone who lives here chooses to live here, and the people really give back to and invest in the community. In addition to the people, Stockton has a lot to offer – the Haggin Museum, the arena, the ballpark, and the Delta, just to name a few. I love living here. I currently serve on the Board of Goodwill Industries, Inc., the Haggin Museum and the Fox Theatre. I’ve also been involved with Lambda Theta Phi, a woman’s philanthropical organization that raises money for local charities, the San Joaquin County Bar Association, and the American Cancer Society.

ashley – OrthOdOntist I was born and raised in Stockton. My family and friends are here, so it was an easy decision to raise my own family here. I feel a strong tie to the area and love being able to be part of this community. I am also involved in the local Dental Society, and Lambda Theta Phi, a group of women dedicated to raising money for charities and scholarships in San Joaquin County.

tj – architectural designer Because I love this place, it’s home. My friends and family live here. Geographically Stockton’s location is great – we are so close to so many great places to explore and visit. Most importantly, I love the community and the people that live here. I have lived in several other places and have never found down-to-earth people like the ones we have here. I support everything local – from our sporting teams, local businesses and the Haggin Museum and Fox Theatre. I also volunteer my time to organizations and causes that are important to me. One of my biggest contributions to this community is being an ambassador of this town anywhere I go.

Darien Fields

orn into a family in which everyone

seemed involved in music in some way or another, Darien Fields was surrounded by people who encouraged him in his musical talent. So itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s no surprise that Fields is rising quickly in his career, already standing out among musicians his age.

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As well as the encouragement he found in his family, Fields found sturdy support and numerous opportunities in the Stockton community. In elementary school, he first learned to read music – the spark which started his fire for music. It continued to burn as he

school also opened up the opportunities for Fields to be in his first band – an experience which was only the first step in the journey towards his goal of making music. When Fields heard the band Ship of Foolz playing at a fair in Stockton, he realized almost immediately, “I wanted to play with them.” Doors opened, and he was able to become their drummer. This set a foundation for his pursuit of a musician’s career. The knowledge

Dance Studio Director and owner, Dance instructor and choreographer

two instruments alone, he taught himself guitar. High

Chelsea Hill

taking private piano lessons. Not satisfied with these

moved to St. Mary’s High School, learning drums and

and experience he gained from being their drummer helped him in his current band – the Darien Fields Band – of which he is the lead vocalist and guitarist.

needed to set his musical foundation, and now he

gives back by blessing the community with his music.

wanted to bring my experiences back to Stockton to enrich the training of local

The “feel-good” music he plays is music people can

young dancers. Having traveled as far as Las Vegas to learn from professional

connect with and enjoy, appealing to a wide variety

choreographers and teachers, I wanted to provide that education to dancers in

and breaking down the barriers of both age and

this area, something that was difficult to find when I was a young dancer. Over

ethnicity. And still, Fields and his band are flourishing.

the years I have trained in ballet, jazz, tap, modern, hula and Tahitian as well as

Most recently, he signed a record deal with Pac Ave

variations of those styles, but I wanted to truly become educated so as to provide

Records: an independent record label at the University

a well-structured curriculum for my students. Certified through Dance Educators of

of the Pacific, where Fields is currently a student. He

America, I have been able to provide my students with a studio environment that

will be recording this summer, and is hoping to release

allows them to train as recreational or future professional dancers with a focus that

in the fall.

requires the same level of expectations. Living in Stockton is not always easy, but it is

Fields and his band play at several local venues, including the restaurants Casa Flores, Garlic Brothers, and Arroyo’s. Stockton has given him the chances he

ince I was very young it was always my desire to teach dance and open

my own studio. I trained in many places and with a variety of teachers, but I always

Most importantly, through all of his successes

my home and I want to provide my students with hope and understanding that you

and setbacks, Fields has not let himself lose sight of

can become anything you want to be. It may not always happen the way we think,

his goal. His passion is making music – and he will

but it is possible with enough perseverance, respect, and confidence. I live and work

continue making music, “wherever they want to hear

here in order to bring to the community something unexpected by those who doubt

it, and where God leads me.”

it. There is a lot of talent here; it just needs to be recognized and fostered.

Story by Rachel Telander PHOTO BY KELSEY Mcnickle lifestyles

Julian Vera

ARTIST – PAINTeR/PHOTOGRAPHeR/MIxeD MeDIA

have always been impressed by the cultural diversity that exists here

in Stockton, and the wonderful people and mentors that I have met, like photographer John Nagle, and the artists of the Tidewater Art Gallery. And of course, my biggest mentor – my father, Arturo Vera. Working at Whirlow’s for the past four years, I have had the pleasure of meeting new people who are also involved in the arts and music. I am involved and volunteer with Art expressions of San Joaquin. It is a co-op group of artists bringing many artists together and showcasing art throughout our community, mentoring the young and old. I feel it is so important for our youth and young artists to continue to be involved and stay motivated – The arts have done that for me.

Jesse Hendricks

MUSICIAN

aving been born and raised in Stockton, after high school, I worked

and pursued my degree in various cities. For several years I also traveled and lived in europe, mostly Italy. It was there where I really began to be inspired to work on music. During the time I spent in europe I met amazing street performers and other interesting people. I began to appreciate and understand different cultures from around the world. All this added to my interest in performing music that has an international flavor. I love to experiment with new rhythms and other ideas that are derived from music from around the world.

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STORY BY JeNNIFeR TORReS SIDeRS PHOTO BY CeSAR LARIOS

ob Gutierrez was just 21 when he went to work for then-Congressman

Richard Pombo, a high-profile job that fueled a lasting interest in politics and public service. “It’s an exciting business,” he says. “You have the ability to get your hands dirty and effect change. It taught me a lot about problem solving and working with people.” Now 33 and Director of Government Affairs for PAQ Inc., the company that operates Food 4 Less and Rancho San Miguel markets, Gutierrez continues to view his work as an opportunity to change the community for the better. “I enjoy being part of the community and working to address issues and assist however I can,” he explains. Though Gutierrez grew up in Stockton – he is a Lincoln High School graduate – he didn’t always imagine his future here. After graduation, in fact, he moved to California’s Central Coast. Not long after, though, he returned. Now, he and wife Hilary have settled in Stockton and are raising two sons, Luciano, 5, and Giovanni, 3. “Family is one of the reasons we’re here,” Gutierrez says. “My wife’s family and my family are here. Our kids get to grow up close to their cousins and relatives. My work, of course, is another reason I stay.” Professionally, Gutierrez serves as a liaison between government officials and the grocery chain he represents. The position, he says, also incorporates extensive community involvement. Gutierrez serves on the boards of el Concilio – the nonprofit organization provides a wide range of programs and services for local families – and the San Joaquin County Hispanic Chamber of Commerce, which supports the growth of area businesses. Gutierrez also is a member of the executive committee for Restore the Delta, a coalition of business leaders, farmers, environmentalists, and other individuals and organizations working to preserve the Sacramento-San Joaquin Delta ecosystem. More recently, he has taken an active role in Stockton Forward, an effort to promote the city’s successes and strengths as it emerges from economic hardship. Though turnarounds can be challenging, he says he is optimistic about his hometown’s future. “I view myself as being a Stocktonian for life,” says Gutierrez, who envisions

Bob Gutierrez GOVeRNMeNT ReLATIONS DIReCTOR

a return to politics at some point. “It’s important to be a part of the process and to help rebuild this community. I view it as an opportunity. We are seeing safety improve. We are seeing businesses thrive again.”

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his is the city I love and call home. I grew up in Stockton

and was deeply invested in my community as a youth, and made a conscious decision to get educated and return home to be near my family and use my skills and education to better my city. In addition, my fiancĂŠe recently proposed to me at a Christmas party with a large group of friends and family right here in Stockton. Not only will our wedding take place in the heart of downtown Stockton, but we also plan to start a family here and raise them in our beautifully diverse city. I am intertwined in my community, and will continue to work

Dyane Burgos

SOCIAL WORKeR / STOCKTON CITY COUNCIL MeMBeR

hard to make it a better and safer place for my family and all Stocktonians. Finally, besides serving on the Stockton City CounciI I am also a social worker for San Joaquin County Child Protective Services. I chose to work in San Joaquin County because I know our community and our true desire to help others in need. I see suffering and hardship every day, and work to keep children safe while working tirelessly in partnership with the courts, community-based organizations, and families. I believe with the right collaboration and strong leadership that our city and county can and will be great.

espite having travelled all over the world, I always return home because of

the potential I see in this city. When I was growing up, my parents both had to work full-time jobs (my father had two jobs), and my brothers and I had paper routes to help them. Because of their hard work and dedication, I was able to receive a top-notch education from St. Maryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s High School. I ultimately graduated from the University of the Pacific, McGeorge School of Law. Recently, my fellow Stocktonian, Jaime Lao Patena, and I purchased the Miller Law Corporation located in the beautiful Budd Building downtown. I owe this city and the county a lot. Thanks to the opportunities I found here, I got to see the world, receive an amazing education, and I now have an opportunity to have a successful career. I give back to my community by being involved and volunteering with the American Cancer Society, Relay for Life. Our paralegal, Teresa, recently got the whole office involved in the Relay for Life. It was an amazing experience this year, and we hope to continue

Rafael Carrillo LAWYeR / BUSINeSS OWNeR

participating in the coming years. I am excited to see Stockton evolve into a city that people are proud to call home, and hope to be a part of the process!

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he sense of community here and the people themselves are incredible. I’m a fifth-

generation Stocktonian, and was born and raised here. I went to UC Davis for college and UC Berkeley, Boalt Hall for law school, and was convinced that I was never coming back to Stockton. My dad, John Harris, is a well-known lawyer here in town and I did not want to be known only as “John Harris’ daughter.” However, after practicing law in the Bay Area for 3 years (and having been away from Stockton for a total of 10 years) I decided to return to Stockton, and am so glad I did. The legal community itself is tight-knit and supportive, and after practicing law here in town for 6 years, I decided to open my own bankruptcy law practice 2 years ago, which wouldn’t have been possible without the support of the local legal community, especially my dad. In addition, now that I am a single mother I can genuinely appreciate the sense of community that is fostered in Stockton. I have an amazing support system that includes people I grew up with here in town, as well as incredible people I have met since moving back here. I regularly volunteer at the San Joaquin County Bar Association’s monthly event, Lawyers in the Library, where I give free legal advice to community members. I’m also on the committee for the March of Dimes Signature Chef Auction and I volunteer in my daughter’s preschool class at Central Methodist Nursery School. My daughter is a sixth-generation Stocktonian on both sides!

Alissa Harris

BANKRUPTCY ATTORNeY

Moses Zapien

ATTORNeY / STOCKTON CITY COUNCIL MeMBeR FROM DISTRICT 4

love living and working here. Having

been born and raised in Stockton, I feel a close connection with the history and future of this community. And I want to work to make that future brighter for us all. I give back to my community by being involved and volunteering with the San Joaquin County Bar Association’s Free Legal Clinic, helping folks better understand their rights and legal problems.

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Laura Wilkinson

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ll it takes to make a difference is someone brave enough to

take a chance, step up, and work hard. Laura Wilkinson, a pre-calculus and honors geometry teacher at St. Mary’s High School, is just this type of person. Under her determined and dedicated leadership, St. Mary’s has been able to implement a type of teaching called a flipped classroom. For one day a week, instead of hearing a lecture in class and going home to do homework, students listen to the lecture at home by way of a fifteen-minute YouTube video. The free class period then allows them to work with each other on challenging homework problems in class, all with the teacher right there to help. Wilkinson returned to her alma mater after eight years in pharmaceuticals, and had been considering trying to implement the flipped classroom since she began teaching there in the fall. When Greg Bahr, the computer technician at the school, mentioned the flipped classroom, she immediately volunteered. “I told him, ‘I’m your person,’” she said. “I will run with it, it will be good.” And it has been. “[The students] were doing great before, but now they’re doing excellently,” she said. “It’s allowed me to challenge and push them even more.” Wilkinson took great pains to make sure that her students would adjust well to the program and could get as much out of it as possible. “I told them about it months before it happened so that they could ask me questions,” she said. “I did a survey about what concerns they had, what questions they had. I want it to be as successful as it can be.” Wilkinson often can be found in her classroom an hour before school starts, to offer even more support and help to the students. “Other teachers joke about it – they tell me, ‘you have kids in your room all the time,’” she said. “One of the biggest goals with any teacher is to reach the kids, and provide them with an education that they’ll be able to use as they go on to college and into the real world,” she said. “A lot of people struggle with math, and a big goal of mine is to make it so that they enjoy it.” St. Mary’s has even begun bringing prospective students into Wilkinson’s classroom, to show off how well the program is going. “The students love it,” Wilkinson said, “and they’re learning. That’s the important part.”

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have chosen to live and work in

team participates every year at the March

Stockton because it is the city that brings

of Dimes, The Heart Association, and the

the most fulfillment to the work that I do,

Women’s Breast Cancer charity events,

and to the position that I serve in. I lead

just to name a few. We have been active

an extraordinary strong-willed, driven

members of the Hispanic Chamber of

and talented admissions team of 30

Commerce for the past 6 years. every year

individuals. My job is to help people in our

my team volunteers to serve as translators

community change their lives by showing

at the financial aid and college awareness

them a faster way to create career

workshop held at UOP. For members in

opportunities for themselves. I feel the

the Hispanic community this event has

Stockton campus is the most rewarding

been invaluable because we help bridge

for me personally because of the extreme

over information that sometimes can be

challenges our community faces. This

difficult to receive due to the language

community has so many great qualities

barrier. We have volunteered at this event for the last 6 years and have helped assist thousands

that are overshadowed by the things that

to receive information on how to afford college. Last year, we were honored when we received the

the media chooses to focus on. I help those

Corporate Member of the year award from the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce for our involvement

in this community by empowering them to

in giving back to the community.

receive career skills and an education.

Hola Motuapuaka

SeNIOR DIReCTOR OF ADMISSIONS, HeALD COLLeGe – STOCKTON CAMPUS

In the 4 years that I have served as the Senior Director of Admissions, I have been so blessed to

I am a big advocate of getting into the

see thousands of people from all walks of life change the quality of their lives and their family’s lives

community to do outreach work with my

by getting their education with Heald. If more individuals in our community were polished up with

colleagues. I am a firm believer in giving

the right skills and taught to think with a different mindset, our whole community would change…

back and sowing seeds the right way. Our

Anything is possible is what I believe.

Lauren Toledo

KINDeRGARTeN TeACHeR

o me Stockton means family. My great-grandparents Angelo and Ottavia Dell’Aringa settled in

Stockton in 1913 from Porcari, Italy and established Dell’Aringa Farms. They were searching for the true “American Dream,” and created that for themselves and for the future generations of our family. Stockton is a special place to me because it is where five generations of my family have grown and have thrived. There is no other place I could call my home – I am proud to be a Stocktonian. As a kindergarten teacher for Stockton Unified School District for the past ten years, I have been fortunate to teach many amazing students from our city. I volunteer my time as an active member of Junior League of San Joaquin County, and I was also member of Lambda Theta Phi of San Joaquin County for five years. I have been involved with ACS Relay for Life and St. Mary’s High School Alumni. I find that giving back to our community is such a rewarding process because you truly do make a difference to so many different people. I am proud to know that I have helped in making our city a better place. My husband Bryan and I have chosen to make our home in Stockton, and raise our two-year-old daughter Mia where we were raised and attended local schools. Our second daughter will be arriving any day now.

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fter graduating from college, I relocated to Stockton, where I have resided

for nearly 12 years. Although its beauty is often overshadowed by its challenges,

I give back to my community through my employment with First 5 San Joaquin. I’ve enjoyed serving this great community for nearly eight years, and have had the privilege of being a part of initiatives that have brought family support services, health education, quality preschool, and many other resources to some of the County’s highest-need families. Also, being a daughter of a local pastor and very involved in that ministry, I’ve found the local church to be a great vehicle for change in the community. Through my church, I’ve had the privilege of leading efforts such as clothing and toy drives for families in need, health education workshops, a financial literacy program, and young adult leadership development. Although it is faced with challenges, I believe in the resilience of this city. The task

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family-friendly activities.

Jovanna Gonsalves

kayaked for the first time this year on Stockton’s beautiful waterways!), and has great

Stockton is rich in culture and diversity, offers great recreational opportunities (I

of turning this city around is difficult, but not impossible. Whether through my church, my employment, or my personal endeavors, it’s a task to which I’m committed. And instead of complaining about challenges, I’ve chosen to be one of the many voices and many efforts aimed at changing the countenance of this city. In the words of Nelson Mandela, “It always seems impossible until it’s done.”

Courtney Boettger

TeACHeR, LINCOLN SCHOOL DISTRICT

give back to my community by teaching fifth grade at Don Riggio. Last year I was a math

teacher at Lincoln High, coaching swimming and water polo. Born and raised in San Joaquin County, I went to UOP and then began working as a teacher here. I love this community and would like to grow with it. I have known my fiancée for almost my whole life. We both taught swimming at Stockton Golf and Country Club, graduated from UOP, and now are setting our own roots down in Stockton as a soon-to-be-married couple who chose to live here and work here.

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Matthew Kozina Age: 32 Occupation: Asset Manager for Visionary Home Builders of California How long I’ve lived in San Joaquin County: 22 years The people who mean the most to me: My wife – she’s an amazing individual; my family – I owe everything to them; and my close friends – I enjoy being able to have a close group that when I see them and some time has gone by between visits, we can pick up as if we just talked the day before. Favorite SJ County place to take friends when they come to visit: I enjoy staying and entertaining around mid-town, on the Miracle Mile. The Abbey is always a great place to go for a good selection of regional and local brews, as well as their tasty appetizers. ➤

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A key event in my life and the impact it had on me: Meeting, dating and ultimately marrying my wife. Although it sounds corny, my wife has been more important than events in my life. Each day she seems to make better than the last. Without her, I doubt that I’d been in the position that I’m in. My bucket list includes: Competing in the Kona, HI, Ironman; running with the bulls in Spain; and driving on the Nürburgring in Germany. Favorite sports team: I’m a big college football fan – Michigan and most of the Pac-12 What I’m reading now: The Forgotten Man, Caught Inside, and Born Standing Up Favorite Vacation Destination: Maui, HI. There’s a great little strip in Kehai that has some really great restaurants, plus not to mention some decent surf. Hobbies: I enjoy a good morning run with my dog and my running mate Andy. Crossfit – either at home or the gym, surfing when I get the time, and family/friend get-togethers, when we can enjoy getting away from reality for a while. Sports I enjoy: I enjoy all types of sports and being active. I especially enjoy being outdoors in any capacity – running, hiking, surfing, etc. Pet: My dog, Samantha and two cats, Jack and Lucy Favorite food/dessert: Nothing beats a fresh batch of fish tacos and frozen yogurt with fresh fruit on the top. I “give back” by volunteering with: There are 2 groups that I like to volunteer with – The Lupus Foundation and The American Cancer Society. I really try to focus however, on the “everyday” situation and lend a hand whenever, wherever I see a chance to make someone’s life just a little better. Whether that means providing a meal for someone down on their luck, rescuing an animal or helping out someone loading groceries into their cart, it just requires some attention to others around you. Other information you would like to share: Back in early 2012, my wife and I became legal guardians and adopted a young teen. It was clear in the beginning that she was headed down a path that would be detrimental to her life and well-being. It was a huge commitment, not to mention extremely scary. We knew, however, that given our ability and situation, we would be able to help her in seeing true options and possibilities that she might have not had if she continued. This allowed her to really succeed, and put her in a position that she never truly thought would have been possible.

aura Werter didn’t anticipate starting her own business at the age

of 23. Now, five years since opening Toasted Toad Cellars, she certainly has a lot to reflect on. A graduate of Cal Poly San Luis Obispo with a major in business marketing and a minor in viticulture, she has put everything she learned in college into practice in the winery she co-owns with her father, Jeff. And just where did they come up with the unique name of their winery? “My dad and I knew we didn’t want to name it Werter Family Winery because no one can say it, and no one can spell it,” Laura says. “We do our best brainstorming while doing sake bombs and playing Wii pinball.” Her father has a collection of frogs that had become somewhat of a joke among their friends – when no one knew what to get him, they’d buy him something frog-related. “[We said], ‘You know, we’ve got all these frogs. We can put them in the tasting room,’” Laura recalls. “You do another sake bomb and come up with ‘Toasted Toad.’” The "toasted" reference is multi-faceted, simultaneously referring to toasted wine barrels, giving a toast, or yes – getting a little toasted. Laura and her father are involved with every aspect of the winery. Besides being present in the tasting room Friday through Monday, there is general maintenance and cleaning to be done, as well as racking and topping wine. Laura also does consulting within the wine industry. “I think for us, it’s all about creating a really fun atmosphere. You come in, you see us, you talk to us,” Laura says. “We very rarely ever have anyone else helping us out in the tasting room. It’s definitely a father-daughter thing,” she says. Laura also enjoys being part of the Lodi wine community. Toasted Toad Cellars was the first winery to open on the east side of the railroad tracks, and she and her father aim to promote an unpretentious, fun atmosphere in the tasting room. To give back to the community, Toasted Toad Cellars has participated in wine pourings at fundraising events. In the past, they’ve held unique events at the winery such as a luau day and a pineapple bowling party. Now that Toasted Toad Cellars is in its fifth year of operation, Laura is looking toward the future. “For the most part, it’s about being behind the bar, talking to people. Hopefully one day I’ll get married and have children who want to take over this business my dad and I created,” Laura says. “When the lottery gets up to $600 million, people ask if I’d walk away. No way – I’d just have a lot of really cool expensive new toys that would make things a lot easier. I’d still be here seven days a week.” 32

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WINe MAKeR

STORY BY KATIe DONAHUe

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TASTING ROOM MANAGeR / LOCAL SALeS, DANCING COYOTe WINeS

tockton is the city I grew up in. Now living in the small town of

Acampo, San Joaquin County is the place I will always call home. After 4 years of living in San Diego, I was lucky enough to find a job in this area when I moved back. I am so thankful to have a job that I love and enjoy going to everyday. Fortunately because of my job, I am able to give back to my community quite often. There are many tasting events all over the county, supporting different organizations. It is a great feeling to know the events we participate in not only donate funds to various causes, but bring the community together for a few hours of socializing and getting to know each other.

grew up in this region and have always wanted to come back and

be a part of this supportive community. When my husband and I had an opportunity to start our own winery a few years ago and move back to Lodi, we jumped at the chance, and bet that we could build a thriving business here. Lodi and Stockton have been fantastic supporters of our business… from our fellow wineries to the local organizations, government and community… all of these folks have contributed to our success and will continue to do so in the future! Advertising and promoting Lodi as a wine destination is a core part of what we do everyday at Riaza Wines… driving people to visit our region will ultimately benefit all businesses in our area. We also support many local charities like P.A.L.S., The Haagin Museum and Sunrise Rotary by contributing wine and participating in their events. We hope do even more of this in the future as our production grows. My husband and I have been overwhelmed by the support we’ve received for our small business in this community… we’re happy to give

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back and help it grow!

WINeRY OWNeR, RIAZA WINeS / DIReCTOR, PePSICO FOODSeRVICe / MOM

Anthony “Tony” Mannor

FINNeGAN’S IRISH PUB AND ReSTAURANT AND ReBeL’S WHISKeYHOUSe

y family lives here. I have traveled all over the country, but I have never felt at home

anywhere but in Stockton. I now run a business in the same shopping center that I used to ride my skateboard through. I take my kids to the same parks that I went to when I was their age. It’s amazing to have that connection to a community. It’s not something I could just give up. I have participated in many organizations from the Red Rhino Orphanage Project to Toys for Tots and Cell Phones for Soldiers. I have mentored at-risk kids and adults on entrepreneurism as a catalyst for affirmative life changes. Now we have incorporated that personal passion for “giving back” into our businesses. We regularly hold fundraisers and events to raise awareness on subjects such as skin and breast cancer awareness. We want to effect positive change in our community person by person, block by block. We have recently received international press for our use of social media. We will be highlighted in the Morgan Spurlock documentary series on CNN called “Inside Man.”

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S P I R I T S

fter attending college at UC Davis, I found myself

awesome staff in our tasting room, and attend numerous national

searching for a challenging and meaningful job. As a new graduate

wine events, including the Boston Wine expo, and the California

in this economy, you can imagine my dismay when landing a job was

Wine and Food Festival. I also contributed to the opening of our

not as easy as I had thought it would be. This is when I came across

second tasting room in downtown Lodi.

Growing up nearby, I had always known that Lodi flourished with

hospitality, food, entertainment, and togetherness. I love being part

beautiful grapevines, created some of the world’s most sought-after

of this “hidden gem” of California, and contributing to its growth and success.

wines, and grew Zinfandel grapes that would make anyone’s mouth

There are many ways that I feel that I am able to give back to

their small, yet growing, empire and I wanted to join in. I saw this

the community. Not only does Jessie’s Grove participate in and host

not only as an exciting place to visit, but as an opportunity to put

numerous events per year, but we also donate to many different

my education to the test — I wanted to be part of the wine industry.

organizations and fundraisers. Along with a colleague, I organize

Being so young, there are so many things I still do not know.

our quarterly donation budget; we have donated wine, concert

But what I didn’t know, I wanted to learn. I started small as an

tickets, and time to over 30 charities in this area alone since January

assistant to one of Jessie’s Grove owners, and it blossomed into a

of 2013. I have also helped organize and hosted a fundraiser at

more exciting and challenging position. I am now event Coordinator,

Jessie’s Grove for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society; about 50

and run our over 1200-member wine club releases and events, and

people attended and donated to this wonderful organization while

host our yearly concert series, Groovin’ in the Grove. I manage the

enjoying great wine.

Courtney Chadwell

eVeNT COORDINATOR AND MANAGeR, JeSSIe’S GROVe WINeRY

water. The grape and winery community in Lodi works together in

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I love this area and all of the diversity it has to offer — its wine,

Jessie’s Grove Winery…

Gerardo J. espinosa ARCHITeCTURAL PROJeCT MANAGeR / WINeMAKeR

n 1944, my grandfather came from Mexico to work the fields of

the Central Valley, providing support for the education of his children back in Mexico. After a few decades, my family established itself in the Lodi region, and I grew up traveling between Michoacan, Mexico and Lodi. While maintaining a career in the architectural field, I immersed myself in enology in order to assist my family in realizing the dream to produce our own wine from grapes grown on our property near Clements. As a project manager in a local architectural firm, I have the opportunity to help design buildings in the Central Valley region, playing a role in shaping local communities for future generations. As owner/ winemaker of Vinedos Aurora, I have sought opportunities to partner with local non-profit organizations that benefit the Latino community and the community-at-large: General Consulate of Mexico in San Francisco and Sacramento, Cien Amigos Scholarships, Haggin Museum in Stockton, Stockton Art Commission, etc. I am the father of an energetic seven-year-old who enjoys sports, playing guitar, and helping his father oversee the harvest/ winemaking. I’m also very supported by my girlfriend (mother of my son).

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Shoua xiong

ike any profession or hobby, practice

makes perfect. But what’s better than gaining experience and pursuing your passion than doing both of these while making a difference in your community’s non-profit organizations. That’s exactly what Shoua xiong is doing! A wife and mother to three children, Shoua is a busy Fashion Merchandising and Design student at San Joaquin Delta College. Shoua has been a Stockton resident since 2006. She enjoys the area for its proximity to other cities, in particular, the Bay Area cities. The culturally diverse community and familyfriendly events and venues are other factors that brought Shoua’s family here 11 years ago. Shoua’s infatuation with fashion began at the young age of eight, when her mother had her hand stitch-designs and patterns on their traditional Hmong outfits. She’s now making her dream a reality as she will be entering her third year of design school. She will graduate next year from Delta College, and hopes to gain experience by landing a full-time job within the field of fashion. One day during class at Delta, Shoua’s professor

announced

opportunity

to collaborate with the American Heart Association in order to raise awareness for heart disease among women. Shoua knew this was something she wanted to be involved with. As head coordinator of the Red Dress Challenge, Shoua jumped right in, recruiting classmates to design and create red dresses. “She was pretty amazing at organizing the Red Dress Challenge and communicating with her classmates and the models,” stated Leslie STORY BY MOLLY BOLOGNINI PHOTOS BY KATHY VANG 38

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In addition to her involvement with American

The models, all from San Joaquin County,

Heart, Shoua has been a supporter of March of

wore these fabulous red dresses at the American

Dimes, fundraising and participating in their

Heart Association’s Go Red for Women luncheon

annual “March for Babies” walk. Shoua, along

in April, as well as Delta College’s Spring fashion

with ten of her classmates, won first place for

show in May.

the design of their team’s shirt. She also led

Along with managing her classmates'

the fundraising efforts for National Denim Day

designs and communicating with the models,

which partners with Lee Jeans in order to raise

Shoua designed several of her own red dresses,

awareness and funds for breast cancer research.

one of which was worn by Michael’s Pizza owner

Shoua obviously displays many talents and

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selfless qualities.

Asfour boasts, “The dress she designed for

Asfour expresses, “Shoua is one of the

Gina fit her like a glove. It literally looked like the

kindest people, always helping other students

fabric was liquid on her body.”

with projects and pushing them to be successful.”

Brady Davis

OWNeR AND STYLIST, BeeHIVe eing born and raised in Stockton has allowed me a very enjoyable youth, and has

contributed a great group of hair stylists and clientele to my business. I realize that it’s not known for being an A+ place to live, but I’ve been able to accomplish a lot professionally and met some pretty amazing people along the way. This place gives you a bit of everything, and I am proud to be from Stockton, California.

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STORY BY ALex BReITLeR PHOTO COURTeSY OF THe ReCORD

ristal Harris didn’t have much. But she had her dreams.

November 26, 2007.

Harris, 23, graduated from the University of California, Los Angeles,

“We had nowhere to go,” Harris said.

in June with a degree in African-American studies. She plans to attend law school.

Living out of her car, Harris decided that the Army was her only option after high school. But Weston Ranch Spanish teacher Andres Treviño

Her triumph seemed unlikely just a few years ago, when she was a

urged her to consider attending Delta College instead.

homeless teenager attending Weston Ranch High School and, later, San Joaquin Delta College.

“I tried to help her out when she was frustrated with school,” he said. “I tried to remind her it was going to be stressful, but that it was going

Harris credits her achievement to God and a handful of helpers she

to be OK.”

met along the way.

At Delta, Harris was steered toward a grant-funded program to

“At the end of the day, it’s the ability to say, ‘What I am going to get is

support black students.

going to be better than what I am experiencing right now,’ “ Harris said.

eventually, she got a job and earned enough money to move into

She grew up in Oakland. Her father was absent. She has few memories

an apartment. Then it was on to UCLA and law school and who knows

of her mother, who was addicted to drugs.

what else.

Harris and her aunt moved to Stockton in 2004, buying a home in

Her mother wasn’t there to celebrate her commencement. That’s OK

Weston Ranch. But the housing crisis struck about the same time Harris’s

with Harris, because if Weston Ranch High and Delta College taught her

aunt endured triple-bypass surgery and could no longer work.

anything, it’s that family isn’t limited to bloodline.

Harris found herself not only struggling to complete schoolwork, but also taking care of her aunt. She was almost expelled for tardiness.

“I hope one day I can talk to her, get to know her as a person,” Harris said. “Honestly, I’ve forgiven her. But I’m not missing out on her; she’s

eventually they were ordered by the bank to abandon their house by

missing out on me.”

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H e R O S

hile playing baseball for the

Stockton Ports in 1996, I met my wife erica, a Stockton native. During my playing career we lived all over the U.S., as well as Italy. We decided we wanted to be close to her family, so we moved back to Stockton. During that time I made a career decision to become a firefighter. After lots of research, it became evident to me that the Stockton Fire Department has one of the best reputations in the state. So I applied, got lucky and here I am 9 years later. erica and I now have a 3½ year old daughter, Ava. Since 2011 I have been on the Board of Directors for the Child Abuse Prevention Council of San Joaquin County. I have always given to charity, but I needed to do more. The opportunity to volunteer as a board member of an organization that advocates for our children

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and families has been more rewarding that I could have ever imagined.

FIReFIGHTeR

Leighann Wells

RN / TRAUMA QUALITY CARe, ST. JOSePH’S MeDICAL CeNTeR

have lived in Stockton my whole life, and started giving back to the

community at age 13 when I was a volunteer at St. Joseph’s Medical Center. I chose to work there after graduating nursing school because I think that it is a wonderful hospital and takes care of its patients with compassion and respect. I wanted to be a part of that. I give back to the community through my work. I find that I often work beyond my required hours and days because I enjoy what I do and I enjoy caring for people. I have been employed at St. Joseph’s since the age of 20 and have accomplished the role of relief charge nurse and trauma quality care.

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Octavio Cruces

STORY BY JULIA BeRRY TeRZAKIS PHOTO BY CeSAR LARIOS

asa Flores is a story of a family who successfully established

their brand and created a legacy.

enjoyed since the original restaurant was opened in 1992. While each restaurant features long-standing favorites, every

“We cook real food,” says Octavio Cruces Flores, owner of Casa Flores

location also serves specialties. each location features a unique

in the Marina. “We don’t buy anything that is pre-made or processed.

section of their menu with specialties that are the same as what the

We get shipments of meats, fresh produce, dry beans and spices daily.”

staff likes to make for themselves. At the Casa Flores in the Marina

The name Casa Flores is synonymous with friendly service and

on Ben Holt Drive, you will find on the menu favorites like “Taco de

quality Mexican cuisine. In fact, their products are so consistently

Alambres.” According to Octavio, this is a “typical Mexico City taco”

delicious, many have speculated that it may be part of a national chain

with onions, bell peppers, sirloin steak, bacon, and ham topped with

of restaurants. Although there are many locations, Casa Flores is not a

melted Jack cheese. They offer healthier and traditional options, with

chain restaurant. With nine locations, six of which include tequila bars,

substitutes such as black beans for refried beans.

the Flores family is proud that each location is owned and operated by

Octavio Cruces Flores is the next generation of the Casa Flores

a family member. Casa Flores is owned by members of a family who

familia. With a degree in Business Management from Sacramento

believe in cooking the food they like to eat – just like the food they

State University, being a restaurateur was always his “plan B.” While

cook at home.

studying business, he says he “always loved working in restaurants”

It began in the late 1980s with a taco truck inscribed “Flores

and kept a hand in it through school by working in various restaurant

Brothers” at the Stockton flea market. Soon, the first restaurant

genres. Two years ago, Octavio focused on upgrading the format of the

location was opened on Weber Avenue and a family tradition was born.

restaurants to create what he calls “a more professional atmosphere,”

The success of the restaurants is based on simple principles: preparing

by adding new options like the comfortable seated tequila bars.

authentic Mexican cuisine with the highest quality ingredients. Today, all menus feature traditional favorites made from the same recipes

“The focus is to establish the name, Casa Flores,” says Octavio. So far, so good.

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S P O T L I G H T

Married Life

PHOTO BY JONee BARDO

Jeff & Molly Bolognini

e knew that returning to our roots would be the best choice

for a young couple that was eager to start a family. Also, the majority of our family and friends remain here, and having that love and support is irreplaceable. Jeff always knew that one day he wanted to take over

fundraisers, volunteers, and I recently held a position with the organization in their mission delivery department. Gian’s Deli supports the fundraising efforts of local schools, non-profit organizations, and churches.

his father’s business, Gian’s Deli, but this opportunity came earlier than

I just completed my five-year term with the women’s organization,

expected when his father lost his battle to cancer in 2009. As a young

Lambda Theta Phi, where I held several different positions on the board

couple, and now family of four, we’ve grown to love San Joaquin County

and managed their annual shopping party event. We have two boys, Luke and Matteo (ages 3 and 17 months), who are

for its people, restaurants, and family-friendly venues. Both being touched by cancer, Jeff and I have become very passionate about the mission of the American Cancer Society. We have been

spending many of their summer days swimming and playing baseball. We love spending time with our family in our home away from home, Aptos.

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PROGRAM DIReCTOR

Sinath Mike Vann

C O M M U N I T Y

STORY BY JeNNIFeR TORReS SIDeRS

t 32 years-old, Mike Vann knows a career in the nonprofit

“I wasn’t too comfortable with anybody. I didn’t trust anybody, I truly,

world is not the path to wealth and fame. But, says Vann, program

truly hated the shooter, obviously. It took me a long time – through high

director for YMCA of San Joaquin County, “Success means something

school – to actually forgive him.”

different to me. Where I am right now, success means I can make a difference in somebody’s life. It doesn’t pay much, but … my passion is

Vann says he does not excuse Purdy’s actions, but has tried to understand what led to them. “As babies, we are all innocent,” he says. “We are shaped and

for helping people.” He says he is encouraged by a growing spirit of collaboration among

formed by our environments. … What if, growing up, the shooter was a

organizations and agencies working to improve the well-being of

loner? What if he showed signs that he needed help, but he was one of

families in San Joaquin County. But the edison High School graduate

those that fell between the cracks?” Those questions drive Vann’s passion for service today.

wasn’t always so optimistic. Vann was born at a refugee camp in Thailand after his parents fled

“When I started working for the Y, I always looked at all the kids I

genocide in their home country, Cambodia. When he was still quite

was helping, and it reminded me that any one of these kids could be a

young, the family was resettled in Stockton where on January 17, 1989,

person who is going to take the wrong path,” he says. “For a lot of them,

gunman Patrick Purdy opened fire on the playground of Cleveland

all you need to do to prevent that is to be there and listen.” Vann and his wife, Vun Khor, are raising two sons in Stockton,

elementary School. Five children were killed. Vann was a first-grader at Cleveland, at recess when the shooting

Ahnuksan “Junior,” 13, and Ahnuckpheap “Aaron,” 8. Though some of his memories of Stockton are grim ones, Vann says

occurred. At first, he thought the gunshots where fireworks. “It was a very surreal moment for me,” he recalls. “As a kid, when it’s recess, all you want to do is go out there and play… I remember

he will not let events of the past drive him from the place he considers his hometown.

going out and getting a drink of water. The water fountain was attached

“I love this city,” he says. “Why don’t we just move out? If my

to the portable building where the shooter ended up shooting from. I

mentality is just to run away from the problem, what happens when I

stood looking at the whole playground.”

face another problem? The question is, ‘What can we do to help each other make this a better place?’ The answer, to me, is not leaving.”

The tragedy wounded him deeply. “I remember growing up, I had a lot of hate in me,” Vann says.

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Lori Souza

SOCIAL SeRVICeS serve and live in Tracy because I want to make an impact in my community. I’m just one

person that wants to make a difference and build people up. I live in a city where community resources are scarce and the need is high. Challenges in life are not limited by sex, race, color, or socioeconomic status. So many people in our community are suffering, and sometimes all they need is some guidance and a little bit of hope. But mostly, I serve because of my belief in God and the stupendous amount of support I receive from my family and friends. Without my faith and strong support network, my service would mean little to me. I volunteer at Case For Kids Foster Child Program (founder) www.caseforkidstracy.org, Good Samaritan Community Services For San Joaquin County,The Lisa Project – Traveling exhibit created by the Child Abuse and Prevention Council of San Joaquin County, Grace Church – Foster Care ministry, Missionary to Mexico, Sow a Seed Community Foundation – Bright Futures Program, and V.B.R. Foster Family Agency As a advocate for children, I strongly believe that every child deserves the chance in this world to start their lives with love, dignity, happiness and praise. Mostly, every child deserves to be happy. If my bit of service helps one child, that’s one difference I have made.

he Central Valley of California has always been my home. I’ve

had the pleasure of visiting and staying in other countries from europe, to Africa to South America, yet I still feel there is no better place to call home than our beautiful valley. everything from the weather to our gorgeous landscapes and most importantly the diversity of our valley residents, has always led me to never doubt the place I call home. There is a plethora of opportunities for young professionals to learn and thrive, and even more opportunities for volunteering and giving back to the community. There is such a need for young educated people, that it is the perfect place to utilize my skills, abilities and passion for community service right here in San Joaquin County where it is needed most and make a true impact. I am involved and volunteer with el Concilio, PACT, Joaquin Magazine, Leadership Stockton, the Stockton Homeless Shelter, Lathrop

Candelaria Vargas

MARKeTING AND FUND DeVeLOPeR, eL CONCILIO

Youth Focus, the Young Democrats of San Joaquin, and Comerciantes Unidos. I’ve also volunteered at the Women’s Center Youth & Family Services and helped local election efforts as a San Joaquin County election poll official.

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Hannah Ketcherside

y name is Hannah Ketcherside. I am 12 years

old. I am in the eighth grade at Merryhill School in Stockton. I am proud to be a second-generation native Stocktonian. I enjoy playing tennis, piano, skiing and volunteering. Five years ago, when I was 7, I started an annual sock drive for my birthday for the clients at St. Mary’s Dining Room. Instead of asking for birthday gifts for my birthday, I always ask for packages of socks to donate to the clients at St. Mary’s Dining Room.

Mimi Nguyen

Over the past five years, with the support of friends,

family, and total strangers in the Stockton community, I have donated over 10,000 pairs of socks.

exeCUTIVe DIReCTOR, MIRACLe MILe IMPROVeMeNT DISTRICT

Mary’s Dining Room, Merryhill School and was awarded a 2012 Kohl’s Community Kids national scholarship for my sock s a lifelong Stockton resident, I believe in Stockton. I

drive efforts.

grew up living in low-income neighborhoods in southwest Stockton

I have learned 2 things:

and attended Stockton Unified School District Schools through eighth

1) a simple pair of socks can make a huge difference in

grade. It was with the commitment of my teachers and the support of the community that recognized my potential that I was provided with the tools and education to build a solid foundation for my future. I

I have received awards from the Stockton Thunder, St.

our community. 2) most people in Stockton are generous, and willing to help out, if you just ask!

now recognize all of the opportunities that Stockton has to grow, to

My 2013 sock drive is underway! Please email me at

overcome obstacles, and to improve the quality life for its citizens. Now

hannahsockdrive@live.com for information on how you can

it’s my turn to contribute to Stockton.

donate socks to help out people right here in our community.

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y family has lived, worked, and thrived here for many generations. I believe it is important for me to give

back to a place that has given so much to my family. I find that the spirit of San Joaquin County, Stockton in particular, is extremely inspiring. The people here are extremely dedicated in trying to return Stockton to the safe, all-American metropolis that it once was. This movement has taught me the meaning of true dedication, hope and community. I give back to my community by being involved and volunteering with the organization Kids For The Cure. We are a not-for-profit organization that aims to create breast cancer awareness and raise funds to support local breast cancer support programs. In 2007, my neighbors and I decided to hold a lemonade stand in front of our homes with all proceeds donated to this cause, which was dear to our hearts after seeing loved ones battle the illness. eventually, we decided to make it an annual event. Over the past six years, we have grown tremendously from our original three-man lemonade stand to a large, community effort. We have raised over $60,000 for several programs, including St. Joseph’s Hospital’s COPe program. Kids for the Cure has taught me how rewarding it is to make a difference in the community. It has inspired my involvement in several other local organizations and clubs. In the past two years, I have had the wonderful opportunity to work with several women and girls from my school community to empower young women and educate many on the global exploitation of women. I am extremely fortunate and grateful to have such a strong community of leaders who have helped to educate and guide me.

Sydney Seligman

STUDeNT

love Stockton, I love living in the Miracle Mile, and I love the friends I have made here.

They are like family. My husband and I moved to Stockton in 2005 from Ohio, and it has become our home. I continue to be impressed and inspired by the passionate people of San Joaquin County – in government, business and the nonprofit sector – who are working hard every day to improve our community. Stockton’s diversity is one of its best attributes; so many cultures, languages, religions, and traditions help us learn to respect, appreciate and embrace different ways of thinking that we might never have otherwise discovered. Living in San Joaquin County also means having access to some of the freshest and best produce in the country. My husband and I like getting as much of our food as possible from local farmers markets. I have been working at Women’s Center – Youth & Family Services for more than seven years. Our staff and volunteers are amazing people doing tremendous work serving homeless runaway youth and victims of domestic violence and sexual assault. I also recently joined the Board of Directors for the San Joaquin Pride Center. Only two years old, this organization has

Kate Macek

MARKeTING & DeVeLOPMeNT DIReCTOR, WOMeN’S CeNTeR – YOUTH & FAMILY SeRVICeS

already made great strides in providing services, activities and resources for the LGBTQQIA community and creating a safe and welcoming space for LGBTQQIA youth and adults. They are also educating the community, teaching tolerance and respect. I am proud to be a part of this organization, and I hope I can help them as they grow in the coming years.

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Kristina Knudsen

STORY BY PATRICK GANNON PHOTO BY FRITZ CHIN

assionate and driven, Kristina Knudsen embarked on her first

fundraising campaign when she was only 10 years old. After learning that St. Mary’s Church had fallen short on raising money for its new

always come back to Stockton,” Kristina expressed. “It’s home to me.” When she returned in 2008, Kristina began work as Director of

steeple, Kristina took matters into her own hands.

Development at St. Joseph’s Medical Center. Kristina was drawn to St.

“I wrote a letter to the editor, and began collecting donations on behalf

Joseph’s because of its rich history in Stockton, as well as its dedication

of the church,” Kristina recalled.

to helping the poor and underserved.

The daughter of two Stockton Unified school teachers, Kristina

Most recently, Kristina led a successful $2.4 million philanthropic

was raised by parents whose lives' work was inspiring positive change.

campaign towards St. Joseph’s new on-site MRI, the only on-site

Kristina attended Stagg High School before studying liberal arts at

MRI in Stockton, and the first piece of equipment funded entirely by

Sonoma State University. Kristina accepted an internship with Amnesty

philanthropy.

International, in Washington D.C. and studied international nonprofit

“Health care is changing. There is a greater need for funding for new equipment and crucial programs. Now more than ever, we need our

management and policymaking at Johns Hopkins.

“I have lived all over Northern California and the east Coast and I

Kristina explained, “In DC I realized I could have a successful career

community. And our community needs St. Joe's to remain top-notch.”

as an agent of change. How fun is this? I get paid to ask people for

Recently promoted to Vice President of the Foundation, Kristina relishes

money and make a difference!”

the challenge to raise money and along with Sister Abby Newton, Vice

She went on to work for nonprofits all over the Bay Area, including

President of Mission Integration, tell the important story of St. Joseph’s.

Special Olympics and Rebuilding Together Peninsula. After 11 years

“I love what I do; it’s an incredible feeling to create opportunity for

of working in Washington D.C., San Francisco, Oakland and Palo Alto,

donors to make a difference in their lives and for countless others in our

Kristina returned home to Stockton.

community,” Kristina explained. “There’s nowhere else I’d rather be.”

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ot only is Stockton where I was raised, but it is where my immediate family resides. After

completing nursing school I had a couple of job options to choose from, and the one pro to taking the job at Doctor’s Hospital of Manteca was that I could live in Stockton, be near my family and still work within San Joaquin County, giving back to the community that helped to shape the person I had become. As the current Chapter President, I give back to the community primarily through my sorority, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated Stockton Alumnae chapter. We are a private, non profit international organization, composed of more than 300,000 predominately Black college-educated women. We were founded in January 1913 by 22 college women on the campus of Howard University. Our purpose is to provide assistance and support through established programs in local communities throughout the world. Within our chapter we give back to our community through community programs such as our Delta Academy, which includes Bettye Shabazz and G.e.M.S., our annual participation and support of American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life of Stockton, providing annual holiday baskets to families in San Joaquin County and the annual donation of toiletries to the Women’s Center of San Joaquin County. We also provide eight annual, $500 scholarships to graduating high school students for their college

Shanelle House

education.

RN – STAFF NURSe II

rowing up in Stockton and having personal and professional experiences

serving and working in this area changed the geography from being a place where I grew up into a community that I am invested in and love. I have the privilege of having a career in an organization (Health Plan of San Joaquin) that continuously allows me to contribute to the community in what can begin as a professional connection but can evolve into a personal commitment. I learned about the Mommy & Me Boutique through my job, and because of that connection I was able to learn about the critical work that Doreatia Hart, RN and her team are doing to serve low-income pregnant and parenting African American women and other women of color in order to help them achieve healthy birth outcomes, develop positive parenting skills and pursue self-sufficiency. I am so proud to be a cheerleader of that team. I also serve as a member and leader in my congregation, The Open Door House of Prayer Ministries, which is located in a high-needs area of downtown Stockton. We are committed to meeting the spiritual and practical needs of the neighborhood where we are located. Another organization that I am involved in is Project 180 which is led by Christina Peoples. This is a volunteer organized effort that seeks to help women elevate beyond the circumstances of their past to pursue their goals and achieve their potential. This program is phenomenal because it partners with women – each woman commits their time and

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39 effort to self-exploration and improvement, and the program delivers powerful sessions and

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mentoring over the course of a year. 180 has completed two successful years and I can’t wait to see and be a part of where the organization is headed.

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Kendra Clark DIReCTOR OF SALeS AND MARKeTING

STORY BY LeAH MYeRS PHOTO BY ASHLee BLACKARD

ome people enjoy having a predictable

day job, but that is not the case for Kendra Clark who has served as the Director of Sales and Marketing for the Stockton Arena since 2011. Originally from the small, rural town of Reedley, CA, she launched her career in sales and marketing in 2003 with SMG. The City of Stockton hired SMG, a world leader in venue management, marketing and development to manage their facilities. Within the first year, Stockton Arena and the Bob Hope Theatre and Stockton Ballpark hosted more than 150 events. Clark moved to Bossier City, LA after college to work for SMGâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s CenturyLink Center, a 270,000 square foot facility capable of hosting up to 14,000 patrons. While she thoroughly enjoyed her time in Louisiana, she did not pass up the offer to make a move to Stockton when SMG asked if she would be interested in working for the Stockton Arena. Clark happily accepted the offer and continues to love her job and life in San Joaquin County. She explained that one advantage to working for the Stockton Arena is that she has the opportunity to get involved in the local community through non profit fundraising and managing youth/adult sports leagues at the Oak Park Ice Arena. The next event that Clark is very excited about is Stocktonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s very first Coat and Blanket Drive, which begins in September 2013 and is sponsored by United Way of San Joaquin County, The Record

and St. Maryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Dining Hall. The coats will be distributed at the Stockton Arena later this year. When it comes to making the most of life in Stockton, she especially enjoys spending time on the Delta, summer movies in the park and shopping on the Miracle Mile and Lincoln Center. When guests are here to visit from out of town, there is never a shortage of things to do. Kendra is looking forward to spending the rest of her summer enjoying plenty of concerts and sporting events at the Stockton Arena!

John Gibson FARMeR

s Paul Harvey once said, “and on the eighth

day, God looked down on his planned paradise and said, ‘I need a caretaker.’ So God made a farmer.” The time before adulthood has proven throughout history to be one of the most influential periods of life. So often does a person absorb his or her surroundings during youth and subconsciously employ their childhood to find their true calling. For Mr. John Gibson this was and is exactly the case. John Gibson found his career not in a college classroom but instead on the very soil of his Switzerlandborn great-grandfather’s humble but successful Linden farm. There in that place were the words of Paul Harvey forever imprinted upon Gibson’s heart. STORY BY CORT CARLSON PHOTO BY LINDSAY ORTeZ

John Gibson was born and raised in Stockton, California. He attended elementary school at Annunciation, high school at St. Mary’s, and college at University of California at Berkeley. Gibson compares his participation in seasonal sports during those years in school to his current seasonal cultivation of local heirloom agriculture. He describes that every crop has its own season just like sports do, and also makes known that a farmer enjoys the intensity of each growing season individually in order to be efficient and successful. Golden Bear Ranches, owned and farmed by Gibson, are highly acclaimed especially for their succulent heirloom tomatoes. This wide success proves to be a positive impact on San Joaquin County and transitively gives back to the community that helped to raise this special young farmer. When asked why he chose this career path John said, “I have always admired farmers — a very independent breed of entrepreneur — who used their skills and strengths to create their own ‘brand’ by using their creativity to market their fresh fruits and vegetables to their respective markets. Farmers are tenders of the land, and we all take that responsibility very serious.” These motivating words are obviously observable in Golden Bear Ranch’s long-and short-term goals: 1. To continue providing delicious, locally grown, heirloom produce that is high in antioxidants and minerals, and requires little outside resource exhaustion. 2. To make the Golden Bear farm and ranches better than when they were originally found. When asked, John revealed one of these goals, “I hope to give back to Mother Nature more than what she has given me, and to enhance the soil and air on our farm so that the future generations will be able to work and provide for our community.” Gibson finds his own self-fulfillment in facing the challenges of agriculture as they arise time and time again with the changing of the seasons. He finds great pride in the cultivating of soil, the harvesting of produce and the providing of product to homes within the local community. John Gibson exemplifies the exact type of youthful motivation and success that the San Joaquin Valley can benefit from. Roots spread out on the rich soil of the Central Valley provided sustenance for what would surely become a giving and equally sustaining fruit tree. The tree’s produce provides for the cycle to begin again; for the future to remain vibrant, clear and giving. This is how John Gibson used his roots in the San Joaquin Valley to produce something beautiful and nutritious, all along trying to leave the soil richer than when found. As John himself says, “It is extremely satisfying to watch a seedling grow into a mature plant and harvest its bounty to share among our local community in the end.” Hopefully this story is only the beginning.

Bros-In-Law

Ryan Haggerty

Angelo Caffese PHOTO BY DAVID SOWERS

angelO

FARMeR

am motivated to carry on a legacy of family farming.

Stockton has rich agricultural characteristics; some of the most fertile soils are found in our area. Apart from work, my family lives throughout S.J. County, and family is the best thing you have. It is also nice to know you have the coast in one direction and the mountains in the other. I have coached CYO basketball since 2006, and have helped coach many other teams and leagues. My family has supported many organizations through donations and fundraisers. Any way to help kids in our community draws me in. I am a fourth-generation farmer who is proud of where my family has come from and what we have accomplished. Farming

is a way of life, not only for work, but family. Our strong family

Natalie Schallberger

connection keeps our farm active and successful.

DIReCTOR OF SPeCIAL PROGRAMS, SAN JOAQUIN FARM BUReAU FeDeRATION

ryan

GeNeRAL CONTRACTOR

y decision to come back home to San Joaquin County after

college was an easy one. I couldn’t think of a more agriculturally diverse place to work and live. Growing up it was the people I met, the organizations I was involved with, and the experiences I had here in San Joaquin County that

have chosen to live and work in Stockton/San Joaquin

helped shape the person I am today.

County because of the vast range of recreational activities and

Having grown up in a family working in San Joaquin County’s agricultural

its central location to surrounding opportunities. Our community

industry, I am keenly aware of its economic and social presence here in the

has been so extremely supportive of my family and our business,

county. As such, I spend a lot of volunteer time trying to support, enrich, and

helping us develop a strong and promising foundation of

educate the public on the value that agriculture holds in our county. Over the

continued growth and success.

last few years I’ve volunteered in outreach through the County Fair, AgVenture

I give back to my community by being involved and

youth programs, local 4-H programs, public school read-ins, and have stayed

volunteering with children’s athletic organizations, such as little

active in the San Joaquin Young Farmers and Ranchers program.

league, and YMCA organizations.

San Joaquin County holds a very special place in my heart. Outside of being an

Three years ago, my family and I stepped out on faith and

awesome geographic location (two hours to the mountains, and two hours to

started our own business. Through some of the most troubled

the beach!), it is a county made up of hard-working and truly good people. It’s

times this area has seen in history, our community and faith

the place my whole family calls home and an amazing place to have grown up.

have supported us and provided opportunity for success. For this

I met my wonderful fiancée here; we just purchased a home in Lodi and can’t

we are forever grateful.

wait to start our lives as a married couple in the heart of San Joaquin County!

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Matt Cunningham OWNeR / OPeRATOR, PReCISION LANDSCAPING

odi native Matt Cunningham knows a thing or two about

landscaping. Since 2005, Cunningham has been the sole owner/ operator of Precision Landscaping. After working for other companies and learning a great deal about landscaping, he decided to open his own business. Based in Lodi, CA Cunningham’s work entails “anything outside.” Some of his services include: new landscape, updating/ remodeling, wrought iron/irrigation install, new fences, decks, patios and custom projects. A 1997 graduate of Lodi High School, Cunningham always knew that he wanted to have a career which allowed him to work outdoors. He has strong ties to the local community through his customers, Vinewood Community Church and the network of vendors with whom he contracts work. Cunningham has provided landscaping services for clients within the Stockton, Lodi, Linden and Acampo areas for the last eight years. His most elaborate project was completed in the backyard of a Stockton customer’s house, where he planted fruit trees, vegetable and herb gardens, compost bins, a 6 x 10 foot pond with a waterfall, lowvoltage lighting and a wisteria vine. Cunningham has the skill and expertise to turn his customers’ personal vision into a reality. He achieves this ➤

by carefully listening to what his clients want, and stays involved throughout the entire process, even visiting local nurseries with his customers. The reward for Cunningham comes when he knows that his clients are beyond satisfied with the finished product. In fact, most of his new business is generated through word of mouth. He is not only a businessman, and feels strongly about giving back to the community, which he does by donating materials to schools and offering free landscaping services to his church in Lodi. With a solid reputation, strong work ethic and a generous spirit, it is certain that Precision Landscaping will continue to thrive in San Joaquin County. â&#x2013;

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H e A L T H

A N D

ome people seem to always have a song written on their hearts.

every beat hitting their ears flips them into a dance. You may see these

F I T N e S S

and varying countries, and also teaching master’s classes overseas taught her that there is always something more to learn about dance.

individuals doing the Cupid Shuffle down the lettuce isle, or turning in

Through her adventures she’s remained a loyal Stockton native.

pirouette with every happy excitement, or even stepping in Salsa while

Although escaping for her 49ers experience, Melissa made her next step

waiting for the restroom. Although at times, it seems people keep this

on neighborhood soil. A dear friend approached her with the idea to

melody somewhat restrained, quieted. Melissa Galvin has a different

open up a business, Dance xtreme. An unfortunate passing of that friend

theory about this song. She turns it up.

left the dance studio solely to Melissa. Nevertheless, expansion and success have continued to be key aspects of its history, now reaching its ninth season of business. Being a recreational and professional studio, it’s designed for dance education for kids of all ages. Instruction on proper technique in a range of styles has enabled this studio’s teams to nationally compete, winning seven Icon Awards, the highest honor, and several 1st Place Platinum personal accolades. Having been a Gold Rush Cheerleader presented the opportunity to further work for the 49ers organization as a field reporter. After two years, Melissa was promoted to the position of co-host, alongside Joe into a wonderful dance.

DANCe STUDIO OWNeR / COMMeNTATOR FOR THe 49eRS

Melissa Galvin Dodson

Fonzi, where she would travel and interview players. Her life was twirling Regrettably, in every dance there is sure to be a struggle. Melissa’s is more properly defined as a fighting battle. Abruptly after becoming cohost, she was diagnosed with breast cancer — her mom having passed away six months before from the same diagnosis. Camera presence was a leading part of her job, and now she wasn’t feeling particularly presentable, having lost hair and needing to cut it. However, the 49ers supported her entirely through the strides to follow. Her next two years were threaded with eight rounds of chemotherapy and thirty rounds of radiation. And still, Melissa was determined to dance. Her love for her studio, students, and dance became her therapy. Having the strength and motivation to get up each morning inevitably inspired her students, who adopted a mantra dedicated to her crusade: “Dance always as if you could not see tomorrow.” Beginning from the toddler age of three, Melissa has kept time with

Through every achievement and adversity, her family has been her

that tune and made dance the center of her life. She grew up in the

focus. Her husband, Patrick, and her kids, Brady and Stella, have been

sport, which drew her to teaching it at fourteen and then competitively

every support to her. After seeing her life come full circle, Melissa has

participating at eighteen. Taking a spot on the San Francisco 49ers Gold

rejuvenated back to her old self in the past year. Having created a family

Rush Cheerleading Team for six seasons — four as captain — gave

at Dance xtreme and now co-hosting for the third season with the

her experience she will always remember. Forming enduring friendships,

49ers, Melissa keeps those she loves within her minutes and beats —

dancing with professional choreographers, traveling to countless cities

still dancing and loving every bit of where her song has taken her. STORY BY DANI HOVATTeR

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Samantha Matthews Chamberlain

INTeRIOR DeSIGNeR / eVeNT COORDINATOR

orn and raised in Stockton, a place that I have always called home. I attended

college out of state and have had many adventures and travels all over the world, but thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s just no place like home. Most of my family and friends live in Stockton or nearby, so it makes sense to want to settle around those you love. I continue to enjoy living in the Stockton area while working for my family business, Legacy Homes, as an Interior Designer. Working for my family has led me into opening my own business as well, Samantha Designs, where I am an event Coordinator and an Interior Designer. For these reasons, and so many others, Stockton is the wonderful place that I have chosen to live, and now raise my children. Lambs has been a major organization that I have participated in for the past five years, as a past President of the organization I have truly enjoyed volunteering. My husband and I created a program with the American Heart Association called Heart Power Cooking, for high school kids to learn more about the importance of healthy eating and exercise. I also volunteer with Stockton Peniel Neighborhood Center. I love running and doing triathlons all over the world, and Stockton has been a great place for me to train, as it is centrally located to the mountains and ocean. Surrounded by great races, and I have the wide-open outdoors at my fingertips.

Leigh Hobson

OWNeR / INSTRUCTOR, BABY BOOT CAMP LODI & STOCKTON

fter spending years working and living in Sacramento area, my husband

and I settled in San Joaquin County to raise a family and be active in a smaller community. As avid boaters, being near the Delta waters was appealing to us. Owning a business here has helped me discover more of our community. I know I am able to offer more to my children by working here. Supporting local small businesses like myself is a number-one priority to keep the community thriving. I strive to offer a welcoming community within our county to all moms of different ages and stages. I give back to my community by volunteering time to offer classes with the Pregnancy Resource Center as well as active participation in groups such as the La Leche League and MOPS. each year our group donates to the emergency Food Bank of Stockton. I also run a free moms group for all moms in Lodi and Stockton. My goal is to run a business that fulfills the needs of mothers of all different stages. I work hard to make our classes and events welcoming for all moms. Being a mother can be so challenging â&#x20AC;&#x201D; I work hard to offer a group that helps other mothers with friendship, guidance and confidence.

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C O N T R I B U T O R S

Contributors

Introducing the people behind this issue of Lifestyles

Lindsay Ortez 30 PHOTO BY MICHAeL BROOKING

www.lindsayophotography.com

my family is here in san joaquin county, home is where they are! i am mommy/ wife first, then photographer superlady. my two beautiful babies, teagan (5) and jagger (19 months) inspire me as a mother and artist every day. For the past ten years, i’ve poured my heart into building my business, it has become so much more personal to me then i ever imagined. i’ve met so many amazing families and business owners, i never take a single bit of the sweet chaos for granted. my heart is full with my family in one arm and my nikon on the other. life-love-art, it’s the beat that fuels me! paying it forward is one of the most rewarding gestures one can do. a few times a year i look forward to giving away free photo sessions. it is usually a letter submission from friends and fans who feel someone is especially deserving. i get letters from families with deployed spouses, families who have sick children etc. a box of tissue is always on hand when i read through these. i have a huge soft spot for cancer fighters/survivors. it is a disease my family has witnessed and lost the fight with twice. the beauty of photography is that it can capture love and light when we often forget it is there. Being in the presence of beautiful people, and capturing their light is such a satisfying feeling as an artist... so to make the time to give my gift right back to them, well, i’d say it’s a win-win for both of us. Words i really try to work and live by: “in order to be, you must do. all great things start from that one adventure, that one dream, that one idea, that one step. to adventure is to find yourself whole. to adventure is to have a story at the end of all of this. the places you see, the things you make, and the people you meet will fuel you forever. choose to see beauty where others see none. and strive for greatness always. i want to inspire you to do more, to be more, to feel good lost and explore always.”

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a sixteen-year-old high school student who aspires to be a lawyer, cort currently attends st. mary’s high school in stockton, california. he was born and raised in lodi, california and loves to write. as a member of student council, the debate league, and the tennis team, cort is an active member in his school and community. he is proud of living in stockton because in doing so he can be a part of a community committed to achieving higher than expected. in a town so rich with cultural diversity, economic versatility, and perpetual perseverance cort feels that success is inevitable if only one chooses to learn from the amazing stories all around them.

Dani 24 Hovatter

i grew up in lodi, went down to l.a., where i got my bachelor’s in english writing and a minor in art, and then moved back up here in early 2012. i’ve worked with many different mission organizations in mexico, nicaragua, honduras, and the dominican republic. locally, i’ve done photography and painting for st. mary’s dining room and st. peter’s church. Words to live by: “it’s good to have an end to journey toward; but it’s the journey that matters, in the end.”

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i have been contributing to lifestyles magazine since 2012. i hold a master’s degree in communication from university of the pacific. my leisure time is spent reading, traveling, wine tasting and offering beauty and wardrobe makeovers.

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rachel has lived the majority of her life in san joaquin county, and the beauty of the landscape fuels her passion for writing. When she isn’t writing, she is usually reading or exploring new bookstores.

Cesar 31 Larios

While growing up in los angeles, california, i learned to find different perspectives to everything around me. i had come to realize that in order to grow, i had to venture out of the nest, which eventually brought me to stockton. With a B.a. in Visual arts concentrating in graphic design, it wasn't too difficult to find opportunities here. i look back at that "glamorous city" i grew up in, but after visiting l.a. for a few days, i want to come back to my new home, where dreams have a chance of becoming a reality, traffic doesn't take a good portion of my day, and time paces at a normal speed.

this is a community that has welcomed us. neither my husband nor i are from san joaquin county – we moved here when we were very young, just out of graduate school. almost 10 years later, this is where we have made our dearest friends, and it’s where we are raising our daughters. i am proud to be part of university of the pacific’s Beyond Our gates initiative. alongside organizations from throughout san joaquin county, we are working to improve early literacy in our community. i believe there is great promise in local kids and families, and making sure children are strong readers by the time they leave third grade is one of the most powerful ways that promise can be realized. also, i write a local parenting blog at www.stocktonmama.com

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as a kid growing up in Benicia, my visits to san joaquin county occurred only when i was on my way to some other place. But after spending eight years of my adult life in stockton i've come to appreciate this region as more than a mere pit stop, thanks largely to the diversity and kindness of its people and -as in the case of cristal harris -- the amazing stories they have to tell.

Ashlee 22 Blackard

my dream is to travel the world, but lodi is my home. i love the country feel, the orchards and vineyards, shopping in downtown, and the friendly people who live here. i am currently pursuing a degree in anthropology, but photography is a passion that i will never give up, along with painting and writing.

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R. David 33 Sowers i ended up here in stockton somewhat by default, i married a girl from here. But i'm not complaining. Being from houston, tX i can say that one of my favorite things about this city is the weather. its great 11 months out of the year and i can bear the one month it’s not so good. there are so many other great things that i love, the delta breeze, the miracle mile, the year round availability of fresh produce and our family. But most of all we love our church, lifesong. it’s such a warm, friendly and inviting place to worship and it’s a big reason we don't have any plans of moving any time soon. i give back to my community by volunteering my talents at the church photographing and shooting video for weekly announcements, web site imagery and photographs for the gallery. i also shoot for the organization, Bread of life. Bread of life provides groceries to needy families once a month at three locations, stockton, lodi and tracy. it’s great to be able to give back to a community that i love.

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currently studying human biology at stanford university, carson won the 2012 award for excellence in journalism for news Writing from the record and took first in news writing from the san joaquin Valley press association. she currently writes for the stanford yearbook and will take over as athletics editor in fall 2013. in addition to writing, she competes for the stanford equestrian team and is involved with several organizations on campus, including intervarsity christian association and the Bridge peer counseling group.

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i graduated summa cum laude with a Ba in journalism and a minor in gender and women's studies in 2011. i currently work for a nonprofit organization and in my free time i enjoy reading, traveling, singing, and spending time with my three rescue dogs.

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hen planning to visit the Amazon River, prepare to be surprised. The Amazon is unique and exciting

and like nothing you have ever seen. The mouth of the Amazon River is over 120 miles wide, and around twenty to twenty-five percent of the earthâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s fresh water flows down the Amazon each year. You can be twenty-five miles out to sea from the mouth of the river and still be in fresh water. I was told that in one day there is enough water flowing into the ocean to supply New York City for a year. Now that, my friends, is a lot of water. â&#x17E;¤

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When you first enter the mouth of the Amazon you will start to see

On my trip to the Amazon I took an evening boat ride out into the

that this is an unusual river. For most of the first 1000 miles I traveled

jungle to view caimans, Amazonian crocodiles, at night. If you shine a

up the Amazon, I saw very few locations where the river was actually

spotlight on the caimans in darkness you can see their eyes glow white.

contained by levees or embankments of any kind. The river chooses its

We actually caught, inspected and released a smaller caiman, but that

own path and travels where it wants to go. The Amazon is so wide that

was not the highlight of the evening. While we were out on the water

in many places you see no land masses at all and you feel like you are still

that night, the guide turned off the motor and we sat still, listening to

in the ocean. Over the first 1000 miles at its narrowest point the Amazon

the sounds of the jungle. It was absolutely incredible! I had no idea

is still a mile wide, but for most of that distance the river is around six

the jungle was so alive at night. The whole jungle was full of “critters”

miles wide. During the rainy season it is even wider as the river rises and

making sounds. This wasn’t just the chirping of an insect; this was a full

engulfs more of the surrounding land.

symphony of sounds such as screaming, croaking and screeching. It was

Another surprise of this region is the fact that in the middle of the

stunning to listen to. So there we sat, motionless in the water, listening

Amazon River Basin is Manaus, a city of over one million people. Who

to the sounds of the jungle, looking up at a southern sky with more

would have ever thought that out in the middle of the tropical rain forest

stars than you can imagine. There were no city lights to spoil the night

there would be a city accessible only by water or air that has a large

sky out there, and this was an experience that most likely will never be

population? Manaus sits at the junction of the Rio Negro and the Amazon

duplicated.

River. This is where the dark, colder waters of the Rio Negro join the

One of the strangest-looking animals I saw while traveling up the

muddy, warmer Amazon at a place called the “Meeting of the Waters.”

river was the Amazon river dolphin. This is a freshwater dolphin that

The waters of each river run side by side, not mixing for many miles, and

looks like most other dolphins, except it is pink. Some of the dolphins are

are distinctly different colors. Because of the difference in temperature

very pink, while some also have grey or black coloring. But the dolphins

and density of the rivers their waters don’t readily mix together. One half

I saw were very pink and almost cartoonish. It is a strange sight to see a

of the river is dark water and the other has a red, muddy look, and they

pink dolphin jump out of the muddy Amazon River. They seem plentiful

both are separate. If you take an excursion out on the river you will see

and are located throughout the Amazon except in areas that have salt

a clear division of colors as the two rivers glide side by side downstream.

water intrusion.

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Of course if you travel up the Amazon you will certainly see and hear about piranhas. On an excursion, we went out to not only look for piranhas, but to catch and eat them. Our guide found a spot on a tributary and gave us a fishing line baited with meat. Soon the piranhas gathered to take the bait. The fish were plentiful and we caught enough for the guide to clean and cook them right there on the boat. They tasted like… “fish.” We were also told that the natives are more worried about venomous jellyfish than they are about the piranhas. They don’t go for a swim without checking for both piranhas and jellyfish. The locals use the Amazon River as their highway. They travel up and down the river just as we would travel on our freeways. There are

pass time and make a long trip relaxing.

very few roads connecting the smaller villages and cities. The river is

The Amazon River Basin offers sights and sounds and experiences

the main form of transportation. When traveling along the river by

unique to the traveler. To see this area up close was spellbinding and

boat, time passes slowly and there is a lot of down time. The locals

forever memorable. There are many ways to visit the Amazon River

bring their own hammocks to sleep or rest on while in transit. The

Basin, so choose the one that seems right for you. I promise that you

decks are shaded and the ceiling is full of hooks to hang hammocks.

will not be disappointed. You will have a travel experience that can’t

When you see a local boat on the river you will see most of the

be matched by any other place on earth. So grab your hammock and

passengers resting on their hammocks. It seems like a great way to

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It is challenging in our fast-paced, stressful lives to make this a priority and to stick to it. So how can we easily make the change to incorporate more and more of these power packed foods into our diets? The answer is in juicing and green smoothies. Juicing is an incredible way to get concentrated nutrients in to

the body quickly. It is such an easy way to consume large quantities of nutritious fruits and vegetables. Green smoothies made in a high-

e’ve been hearing those words, “eat your vegetables”

since we were small children. We know it is important and yet at the end of the day, we often realize that we really haven’t consume the recommended 5, or even 4, 3, 2 or sometimes even one serving. In the past few years there has also been more of an emphasis on eating more raw vegetables. We try to eat a salad every day, but some

give you added fiber. Green smoothies are delicious, require very little prep time, and can introduce long-neglected fruits and vegetables and greens back into our diets. I recommend both juicing and green smoothies for optimum health. You will need a good quality juicer (I recommend the Champion juicer)

days, even that slips by us. For older people, eating raw vegetables can be a challenge because

and a high-powered blender. The two blenders that work very well are

of teeth and dental problems. For busy people, eating raw vegetables

the Vitamix and the Blendtec. They are not inexpensive, but you will go

can seem overwhelming time-wise; all that chewing does take time.

through any of the cheaper blenders by burning out the motors. The

American children seldom eat greens, often limited to the piece of lettuce on a burger, and the one serving of vegetables that they get may

better blenders will last for years. What can you expect from adding juicing and “smoothing” in to your diet? Miracles! You will stay youthful and healthy, lose weight,

be limited to the fries they get with their burger.

powered blender not only give you the boost of nutrients, they also will

The key to good health, in fact, does lie in the green (and other

detoxify, have an increase in energy, boost the immune system, your skin

colored) plants that nature has provided, with all of their life giving

will glow and your hair will regain its life. It helps with heart disease,

nutrients-chlorophyll, enzymes, vitamins, minerals and fiber.

diabetes and even prevents certain cancers. ➤

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Greens in particular are a powerhouse of enzymes, vitamins and minerals. They are ounce-for-ounce the most nutritionally dense foods on the planet; they are low in calories and high in micronutrients. They are also high in fiber, and fiber has been shown to prevent all types of cancer and digestive problems, as well as reducing cholesterol and controlling blood sugar. Do you really want to improve your health? Drink 16 ounces of juice and a quart or more of green smoothies every day. Want to give it a try without making the investment in a juicer and blender? Try a juice bar. Make sure they are using fresh fruits and vegetables, and that they are not adding sugars. Following are some recipes, but it is fun to experiment and make up your own concoctions. Start drinking juices and smoothies and you will notice a reduction in cravings… especially cravings for sweets and processed carbs, and your desire to snack will lessen. every time you have another glass, just shut your eyes and imagine all the cells in your body standing up, clapping and shouting, “hoorah.” That’s truly what they are doing – acknowledging you for feeding them the nutrients to stay healthy and keep your whole body disease-free. ■

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Carrot Medley Juice

Basic Balance Smoothie

5 carrots 2 celery stalks 1 cucumber 1 apple You can add ¼ inch of ginger or a bunch of parsley.

1 mango 1 cup kale 1 cup water

Cantaloupe Parsley

Green Smoothie

3 cups cantaloupe cubes 1 bunch of fresh parsley ½ cup water

¼ fresh pineapple 1 banana 1 cup coconut water 1 cup water large handful of kale or spinach

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Freshman 15 nutrition it needs, and gives it time to break down and burn fat throughout the day. With the early mornings and/or late evenings of college life, skipping meals is common, with breakfast being the meal that’s most commonly neglected. Skipping meals, especially breakfast, can do serious damage to proper nutrition. eating breakfast kick-starts your metabolism, as well as ensures you have needed vitamins and minerals. In turn, eating breakfast will provide energy to make it through classes, and boost

efficiency and focus. But coffee doesn’t count as a breakfast! Missing

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breakfast also makes it more likely to splurge later in the day. And with the cafeteria-style, all-you-can eat dining halls commonly

he first year of college will be one of the most exciting times of

your young adult’s life. It’s a transition towards independence and away

found at universities, avoiding excessive eating is even more difficult. As a general rule, students should try to fill their plate with:

from the structure of high school and life at home. For many, with this

½ fruits and/or vegetables

transition comes the dreaded “Freshman 15,” a term for the condition

¼ grains

that leads to weight gain for students in their first year at college.

¼ protein

The hectic class schedules, studying, and acclimating to a life

If your young scholar is planning on going for seconds (or thirds

away from home can easily distract from proper nutrition and exercise.

or even a fourth serving), try to encourage them to make their first

The first and most basic thing college students need to remember is

serving a salad and try to fill up on fruits and vegetables. This makes it

breakfast, lunch, and dinner. eating three square meals in a relatively

less likely to binge on higher fat or calorie options. If possible, invest in

timely manner ensures that your college student’s body gets the

a mini-fridge to store low-fat yogurt, fruit, and skim milk for mornings

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your young adult hits the snooze button one too many times and has to rush to class. Yogurt and berries is a simple, quick and nutritional option for breakfast on the run. For late-night study sessions, stock your young scholar’s dorm room with healthy snacks such as granola, fruit, and vegetables. It’s easy to grab a bag of chips while preparing for their first round of mid-terms. Make sure they have a piece of fruit or granola bar to keep them going, instead. Soda and energy drinks run rampant at college. They’re tempting during late-night study sessions or early mornings, but are extremely high in sugar and calories. Water works just as well, without all the sugar and crash later on. Invest in a reusable water bottle and try adding fruit such as lemon and berries or cucumber slices. This is a healthier alternative and tastes amazing. Transitioning from high school to college puts a damper on physical activity and exercise with studies and the new, less structured environment. encourage your young scholar to take advantage of their campus gym and to seek out extracurricular activities. Intramural sports are a great way to stay active and a positive environment to meet new friends. encourage your college-bound son or daughter to seek out opportunities to stay physically active at their university – some may even earn them credit. If possible, encourage them to research their college’s athletic and outdoor programs and reach out to students and faculty members to learn more about these opportunities before their first day on campus. It’s important that your young scholar knows how to make healthy choices for themselves before they leave for school. Take your young adult grocery shopping with you and let them pick out food to eat at home, putting this knowledge to use. Let them experience shopping for themselves and choosing healthy food options. And lastly, make sure to keep up your own nutrition. Having a young adult go away to college can be stressful for parents. Spend more time with your future college students by setting your alarm 30 minutes earlier to eat a healthy breakfast together. And when they do go off to college, keep communication channels open. Sending healthy care packages is always an option! To learn more about keeping off weight in college or to make an appointment with Dr. Wong, call 209-475-5500. ■

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uccess comes from hard work,

has success in their life that I have to compete

competing against one another to get our

determination, tenacity, a set of goals, a

and fight for my fair share before it all runs out.

fair share, and instead put more emphasis on

clear plan – and still more hard work and

Think about this: If we live under the idea

supporting each other, then we can be less

determination. Success doesn’t typically fall

that goodness is only available while supplies

into a sleeping person’s lap, but instead

last, then we create for ourselves a frenzied life

I am happy to let my friends and family

belongs to those who bear down and focus up

that leaves little room for joy and contentment.

keep their new cars, houses, vacations, and

on their dreams.

We end up spending our time grabbing from

businesses. I am even happier to CeLeBRATe

one another like we are at an 80-percent-off

their success and blessings – truly celebrate

clearance sale.

them, not compete with them. They didn’t take

I’ve seen successful people earning job promotions, starting businesses, losing 25 pounds, buying homes, taking extravagant

That kind of mentality is not necessary, and

vacations, spending quality time with their

it’s not kind. Most importantly, it’s not kind to

kids, and more.

our own hearts.

anxious and a whole lot more joyful.

anything away from me. There is plenty to go around. By the way, that laundry example above?

I feel inspired by them and I am happy for

In fact, I think life is exactly the opposite.

That’s my real life success for this week. It was

them. But, if I were honest with myself, the

We should openly celebrate the success of

a really big deal. I almost celebrated by baking

success I saw in others also created a feeling

others.

a cake, but then I thought about the dishes it

of anxiety in me. When I heard a friend was

I get a little overwhelmed living with the

moving into a new home, I felt the need to

idea of scarcity in which the pie in the sky

hurry up, do more, push harder, work longer,

is being divvied up and depleted as I type. I

plan better and move into a new home, too. If

opt now to believe that there are plenty of

people around me are receiving the blessings

blessings to go around and that goodness is

of extra money, validation, and other general

not a limited edition. We can actually take a

goodness in their lives, then I had the nagging

moment to give praise to others, and it will not

feeling that if I didn’t hurry it up, there wouldn’t

hinder our own success – not one little bit.

be any goodness left for me and mine. That’s how I used to feel.

And then I ate one more. Feel free to share your thoughts and successes at www.momaboutthetown.com.

Also worth noting, success has a huge range.

Somewhere along the way it hit me like a

For some success may be a new house, for

Mack truck: it’s simply untrue that there is a

others it might be getting the laundry caught

limited amount of goodness in the world. It is

up. Neither is more or less… it is our very own,

simply untrue that blessings are restricted in

praiseworthy success.

quantity. It is untrue that because someone

would create. So instead I ate three cookies.

I believe that if we worry less about

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A word lounge. Stirred. ShAken. StrAight up. tAke A Sip.

Modulating Motherhood ttending two graduations in one week – my youngest from

to take care of themselves and be independent is number one. The

8th grade and my oldest from high school – delivered a one-two punch

benefit of an education will be their vehicle. I asked that they be

of reality that my girls are growing up. One is pretty much grown. The fact

people that others would want to be around by behaving in a kind

that she’s going off to college in a couple of months makes it so. I don’t

and responsible manner. But they’re also not afraid to stand up

know why it hit me like a ton of bricks; it’s not like I didn’t see it coming.

when something’s wrong. I’ve tried to stay focused on the fact that

But there I was sitting in the stadium of my old high school, staring at the

beyond my front door is the real world and hopefully they are/will be

fact that 30 years ago I was on that same field and now my daughter’s

prepared. I suggested that they go to college, find a career to work

high school years were coming to a close. The Denial River is a great

in after graduation and have some time to be on their own before

place to cruise until you can’t any more. I was so together that I didn’t

settling down to a partner and children. I’m aware it’s likely they

even bring Kleenex. But when the graduates stepped onto the field and I

will come up with their own blueprint and that’s okay too. Hopefully

spotted my daughter, the dam broke. In that moment of seeing her in cap

they heard me when I said it’s more important to be beautiful on

and gown with her confident walk and her happy smile, I saw the past

the inside and I hope to reiterate that it’s okay to be self-interested

and future converge. I experienced a flash of her entire childhood go by

vs. self involved. I want them to know the benefits of self-love and

like a bullet train and became acutely aware that she was about to step

care and that they never have to be perfect. Doing their best is good

out into the world of becoming an adult. Within a few hours I became the

enough. And if they haven’t, it’s never too late to start over. One

proud mom of two freshmen. New beginnings for us all. A time to shift

of the best things we’ve shared is the gift of laughter. We’ve never

gears again and modulate motherhood to match the changing needs of

been afraid to tease each other or missed a chance to enjoy a good

growing children.

comedy together. If you can laugh, you’ve got it made.

With this milestone came reflection. Where were my girls in their

I was heartened to hear a graduation speech describe the positive

development and what more did I want them to know? This is where

home Stockton has been and deliver the call that graduates could go

the modulating comes in. Finding my own way to adulthood with little

out and gather the resources that college offers and bring them back

guidance has been interesting for sure and with that came the tendency

to better our community. Whatever path our children choose may

to overcompensate at times and be uber-parental. I found (more like

they never forget our door, if not our wallet, is ALWAYS open.

stumbled and fell upon) adapting to a more flexible parenting style was much needed because what doesn’t bend can break. Luckily my girls are on track to becoming the women I hoped they would be. I’ve encouraged them to be their own girl first. Knowing how

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ANAIYA GABRIELLE 3 YEARS OLD PARENTS: DEANNA PEREZ AND NATHAN HERRERA

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f you are looking for the perfect gift or truly unique home dĂŠcor, a

visit to Regalo Bello is a must. Tucked away in the corner at Stone Creek Village shopping center, this eclectic little boutique is a local gem! Owned and operated by Stephanie Dondero and Shaunna Brandt, Regalo Bello has something for everyone.

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2 013 Child Abuse Prevention Council 8th Annual Golf Classic Dinner A A

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Shylo

Special Needs Adoptable Dog Age: I will be 2 years old in August I am a: neutered male terrier mix and this is my story… I was adopted by a family in 2011 and went to live with them, but my people didn’t treat me very nicely and they made me a very scared little pup. When my human left, her parents just dumped me at a shelter, and even though home was a very scary place, the shelter was terrifying and my little heart was broken to know that my people didn’t want me anymore. Luckily my foster parents are working hard to help me with my fears. Sometimes I get so scared that it makes me growl or even nip, but I don’t want to be this way. When I am not afraid, I am a very happy little guy who wants to be cuddled and petted, and I really want to find special humans who will love me and help me with my fears… I know my perfect family is out there; can you help me find them please? Favorite toys: I love my sock monkey. He and I take our naps together. Ideal home: I would do very well with a retired couple or a stay-at-home mom who has the patience to make sure I feel secure. I am very sweet and loveable, but need to be introduced into new situations slowly so I can feel safe. I get along well with other pets as long as they are not aggressive. Small children are not a good idea, as I tend to nip when I get startled. If you are interested in making Shylo a part of your family, contact Marilyn Williams at Pups Rescue via email at pupsrescue@hotmail.com or call (209) 956-3004 (before 9 p.m. only)

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the family to the World of Wonders Science woRLD oF Bring Museum for some fun in the sun! There will be a variety of interactive solar activities to participate Saturday, August 3 from 10:00 wonDeRs in.to The3:00funp.m.happens For further information, call 209soLAR DAY 368-0969 or visit www.wowsciencemuseum.org.

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Stockton-Con 2.0 is coming August 4. Held at the Stockton Arena, the eventâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s goal is to give attendees the chance to experience popular culture in the form of comics, card games, anime and many more. Tickets are $10 per person and $4 off with a donation of gently used clothing. For more information, contact info@stocktoncon.com.

One free day of Outdoor extravaganza for all ages will be held August 3 from 8:00 to 5:00 p.m. Attraction include trap shooting, pellet guns, food booths and many more. The location is Waterloo Gun & Bocci Club in Stockton. For more information, contact 209-450-1232 or bvalverde@sbcglobal.net.

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2013 stocKton PRIDe FestIVAL

Come and enjoy yourself at Oak Grove Regional Park while we celebrate a day for our LGBT community. The festival takes place August 17 from 11:00 to 7:00 p.m. For more information, call 209-466-7572 or visit stocktonpride.weebly.com.

This event, brought to you by Hospice of San Joaquin, will bring a lovely summer evening to share with friends and neighbors. All the proceeds will benefit Hospice of San Joaquin. The fun begins on Saturday, August 17 from 6:00 to 9:00 p.m. For more information or tickets, call 209-922-0380.

BLUe GRAss At tHe LAKe

Come to the Lodi Lake Park on August 24 for an evening of music. There will be a variety of artists to enjoy; bring lawn chairs and food. The show starts at 2:00 p.m. For more information or tickets, call 209-333-5550 or visit www.hutchinsstreetsquare.com.

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32nD AnnUAL LABoR DAY Pow-wow

University of the Pacific will hold the 32nd Annual PowWow at the Wendell Phillips Center. This fun-filled event will have songs, dances, arts, crafts and more. Have a blast while learning about Native American culture. The PowWow is held from August 30 to September 1. For more information, contact 209-9467707 or multiculturalcenter@ pacific.edu.

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stocKton BLAcK FAMILY DAY Celebrating 45 years. The theme this year is bringing family

home. The event will be held Monday, September 2, 2013 Downtown Stockton. Weber Point Park. For more information call 209-842-0505 or visit www.stocktonblackfamilyday.org.

eLVIs: IF I cAn DReAM

The Bob Hope Theatre will display a show chronicling elvis’ rise to fame. This show promises to be a hit, telling the story of the King. The show starts at 7:30 p.m. on September 6. For more information, contact 209-373-1400 or visit marketing@smgstockton.com.

cLAssIc cARs & cRAFts FUnDRAIseR

The San Joaquin County Historical Museum is staging a Classic Car & Crafts fundraiser. The event will feature classy cars, a poker walk, children’s games and many more attraction. Proceeds will be used to build a facility for youth programs. event takes place September 7 at Micke Grove Park in Lodi from 10:00 to 3:00 p.m. For more information, call 209-331-2055 or visit www.sanjoaquinhistory.org.

FRIenDs oF tHe Fox PResents “tHe GoDFAtHeR PARt II”

On September 15 from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. watch the riveting sequel as Michael, played by Al Pacino, maintains the prestige and power of the Corleone family. Tickets are $4 to $8; additional fees may apply. For more information, contact 209-373-1446 or ticketoffice@stocktonarena.com.

PRo FootBALL AnD tHe AMeRIcAn sPIRIt: tHe nFL AnD U.s. ARMeD FoRces At tHe HAGGIn MUseUM

Don’t miss the chance to enrich your knowledge of the history between Pro Football and our Armed Forces. Check out this exhibit at the Haggin Museum before it closes on September 22. For more information, call 209-940-6300 or visit www.hagginmuseum.org.

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FAMILY DAY At tHe PARK

Check out this family fun event on September 21 from 9:30 to 3:30 p.m. Held at University Park, at Magnolia and California Streets in Stockton, the event is free to the public. There will be many attractions for children, including children’s authors and a mascot parade. For more information, contact info@sasspr.com or 209-957-7277.

VoIces oF oUR AncestoRs 3RD AnnUAL

University of the Pacific will be again hosting its Voices of our Ancestors performance during Latino Heritage Month. The performance will have amazing artists from last year and new ones that are sure to astonish. The performance takes place September 28 at 7:00 p.m. in the Faye Spanos Concert Hall. For more information, visit http://www.pacific.edu/AboutPacific/Newsroom/2012/March-2012/Sharing-Heritagethrough-Dance.html

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2 013 5th Annual Kid’s Art Auction

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