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The former ﬁrst couple inside the George W. Bush Presidential Library and Museum, which will be dedicated this Thursday

THE PARADE INTERVIEW

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President and Mrs. Bush On his new presidential library, the state of the Republican Party, and becoming grandparents

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LAURA LINNEY

The actress, 49, brings humor and heartbreak to her role as a cancer patient on The Big C. The series’ final season premieres April 29 on Showtime.

How has working on The Big C affected you? It’s given me time to think about the challenges and sweetness of life, which is why I wanted to do this series in the ﬁrst place. Not that I have any more answers than I did before! I do feel much more peaceful about aging. I consider aging to be a privilege that not everybody gets, and I’m grateful for where I am. What do you want to do now that the series is ending? I just want to go to the country and stick myself in nature for a while. I’m very much a city kid, but I want to watch the ﬂowers come up and be around trees, to see life come roaring back. Do you have a favorite among the characters you’ve played? It’s more the experience than the actual character. And there are people I’ve just loved working with, including Mark Ruffalo, Philip Seymour Hoffman, and Liam Neeson. Actors watch each other negotiate the business, and it’s a very deep and special friendship. What’s your favorite TV show? I’m embarrassed to say it, because I’m associated with the show in the smallest of ways, but I love Downton Abbey [Linney hosts Masterpiece Classic on PBS]. I’m just as much a junkie as anyone else! Send questions to personality@parade.com or P.O. Box 5001, Grand Central Station, New York, N.Y. 10163-5001.

Q: Was Zac Efron interested in NASCAR racing before ﬁlming At Any Price? —Megan P., Denver A: “I was completely new to it,” says Efron, 25, whose character pursues a NASCAR career in the ﬁlm (in theaters April 24).

Zac Efron

Despite his inexperience, Efron did his own driving. “They just put me in a car and said, ‘Go!’ At one point, I got up to 140 miles per hour. It was a rush!” Find out which star he had a childhood crush on at parade.com/efron.

Enter for a chance to win The Impossible on Blu-ray along with a poster signed by the ﬁlm’s stars, including Naomi Watts, at parade.com/win Anthony and Stoudemire

Q: Are New York Knicks superstars Carmelo Anthony and Amar’e Stoudemire friends off the court? —Al T., Miami A: “Without a doubt,” says Anthony, 28. Although he’s a New York native and Stoudemire grew up in Florida, they met years ago at a national high school tournament. Says Stoudemire, 30, “I was the top kid in the country and Carmelo was right behind me.” Adds Anthony, “We’ve been linked ever since, but I never fathomed we’d be on the same NBA team.” Q: Was the character of Jessica Rabbit from Who Framed Roger Rabbit based on a real person? —Stella W., Juneau, Alaska

A: Richard Williams, the director of animation for the 1988 ﬁlm (now on Blu-ray in a 25th anniversary edition), has said that Jessica is “the ultimate male fantasy” and d that he modeled her, in part, after 1940s icon Veronica Lake. ke. Elements of Veronica from Archie Comics Veronica Lake and Jessica Rabbit >

and the femme fatale played by Kim Basinger in L.A. Confidential were also inspired by Lake.

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Q: Tate Stevens was a road construction worker before he won The X Factor. Was it weird for him to leave that job? —Paula R., Leawood, Kan.

A: “It was nice!” says the musician, 38. Stevens tried to become a country star after graduating from high school but never caught on, so he “got a real job.” Now he has a self-titled debut album due April 23. “[My former coworkers] are so supportive,” he says. He reveals his country music hero in our video at parade.com/tate.

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In three recent books, three very different people who say they went to heaven and back describe their experiences

His sister who’d died in utero. “This little girl … wouldn’t stop hugging me.”

INTO THE LIGHT

BOURDAIN’S LATEST DISH On Anthony Bourdain Parts Unknown (CNN, Sundays), the chef takes the road less traveled, whether to volatile places like Libya and the Congo or oftoverlooked sites like L.A.’s Koreatown (above). “We’re telling more about the history and society,” he says. “I don’t have to be shoving food in my face every 10 minutes.” Rest assured, though, there’s plenty of eating as well. Get his top travel tips at parade.com/bourdain.

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“It was … a trillion times whiter than the whitest white you’ve ever seen or could imagine.”

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Eben Alexander, a neurosurgeon given up for adoption as an infant

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“Pitch black as it was, it was also brimming over with light. …”

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A sister he didn’t know existed. “She looked at me with a look that … would make your whole life up to that point worth living.”

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McVea at age 3. “Every time she laughed, my spirit absolutely swelled with love. …”

NEW IN THEATERS Mira Nair’s gripping drama The Reluctant Fundamentalist follows a Pakistani whiz kid (Riz Ahmed, above with Kate Hudson), successful on Wall Street and in love, as his values change post-9/11. Liev Schreiber and Kiefer Sutherland costar.

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“I want to stay engaged with issues that matter to me” As they prepare for the opening of his presidential library, the president and former ﬁrst lady discuss retirement, the state of the Republican Party, and their joy at becoming grandparents By Mark K. Updegrove COVER & INSIDE PORTRAITS BY BEN BAKER

✪ President George W. Bush glances impatiently at his watch as he walks into his spacious, pecan-paneled office at his new presidential center in Dallas. It’s only a minute or so since this interview was set to begin, but the famously punctual president prefers not to wait—even for Laura, his beautiful, blue-eyed wife of 35 years. When Mrs. Bush enters seconds later, the president’s face, a bit more creased than it was when he left Washington, reflexively softens, along with his demeanor. After staying mostly out of sight since 2009, the couple, both 66, are back in the spotlight this week with the opening of the George W. Bush Presidential Library and Museum on the campus of Southern Methodist University, where Mrs. Bush once studied. On April 25, the 43rd president will welcome his successor, President Obama, and his

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“I hope people will [remember me] as an honest guy, who dealt with problems as best he could, put a team together he listened to, had great faith in America, and set an agenda and was willing to make tough calls.” HOW DO YOU REMEMBER THE GEORGE W. BUSH PRESIDENCY TODAY?

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What can the public expect of the George W. Bush Presidential Library and Museum? LB: I think people will think it’s a beautiful

The Bush family on May 10, 2008, the day Jenna (right) got married; father and son greet the crowd before game four of the 2010 World Series at Rangers Ballpark.

building but also be very interested in the museum, which covers the history of the ﬁrst decade of the new century. We lived through very pivotal times in the White House. GB: I hope that we help inspire a sense of service, whether it be running for ofﬁce or helping the

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three living predecessors— Jimmy Carter, Bill Clinton, and his father, George H. W. Bush—to the official dedication ceremony, creating the mother of all photo ops: five presidents side by side. But the building itself is also photogenic. President and Mrs. Bush, who proudly notes she’s the daughter of a contractor, worked closely with famed architect Robert A. M. Stern to create a 21st-century facility, with plenty of Lone Star flavor. (See “A Peek Inside,” page 14.) Historians will be able to study the president’s papers, including many millions of pages of emails that archivists are readying for declassification beginning in 2014; visitors to the museum will tour a real-life model of the Oval The first lady in the library’s soon-to-bloom Texas Rose Garden. Read more of our talk with Mrs. Office and, on a more sobering Bush (including the story behind her husband’s passion for painting) at parade.com/bush note, get a close-up look at a mangled beam from the World Trade PARADE: What was the biggest adjustment That is a big adjustment. GB: It was made easier by the fact we had a place Center’s south tower. A full third of the after leaving the White House? 226,000-square-foot complex houses the GEORGE BUSH: Not to have this sense of respon- we love in Crawford, and Laura had bought a George W. Bush Institute, a public policy sibility that you had when you were president house in Dallas. We knew we were going to initiative focused on the issues the presi- and ﬁrst lady. You know, one day you’re being build the Bush Library in Dallas. And I wanted dent remains passionate about. Here, the briefed on world affairs and asked to make to write books, so I had some goals on the couple reflects on the new library, their decisions, and the next, you’re in Crawford, horizon that I was able to focus on. past accomplishments, and how they’re Texas, you know, and the biggest decision is How would you describe your lives now, a little when do you go mountain bike riding. [laughs] over four years after leaving the White House? engaging in the world’s future. LAURA BUSH: I’d say we have very normal lives in our home in Dallas with our many friends who live here and visits from our children. But, of course, we’ve spent all of our time, really, since we’ve been home working on building the [library] and developing the programming.

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homeless or feeding the hungry or teaching a child to read. Throughout the museum— [which] obviously [deals with] policy matters and historical events—there’s a call to serving something other than yourself as an important part of life. President Obama will be here for the dedication, along with three former presidents. What kinds of interactions have you had with President Obama? GB: We’ve had very pleasant exchanges. He

hosted a lunch for [the dedication of President and Mrs. Bush’s portraits]. He not only invited Laura and me to lunch, he invited our girls and our family, Mom and Dad and others, and it meant a lot to us. Your presidential library is part of a bigger entity, the George W. Bush Presidential Center, which includes the Bush Institute. Can you talk a little bit about that? GB: Well, I wanted to stay engaged in policy,

but I didn’t want to be involved with politics. Fourteen years was enough for me. I don’t want to undermine any president by opining on different subjects, but I do want to stay engaged in issues that matter to me. And the overarching theme of the institute is the importance of freedom—freedom for the sake of peace, freedom for the sake of our economy, freedom from ignorance, freedom from disease. And our understanding that freedoms need to be safeguarded. Mrs. Bush, can you tell us about your work through the institute to support women? LB: We have a terriﬁc Women’s Fellowship

Initiative, which brings Egyptian women to the United States and pairs them with American women who are in the same professions. The idea of bringing women all from one country is the result of research by an SMU professor that shows that your network is your largest indicator of success, more even than your education level. In many societies, women are more isolated. When [our fellows] go home, they have each other, and can introduce each other to their colleagues and expand their network. It’s been nearly 12 years since 9/11. Is the world safer today than it was back then? GB: I think it is, because there’s a recogni-

tion that there are people who are willing to murder the innocent to achieve their objectives. And as a result, our country went on the offense and hardened our defenses. One of the real important messages of the 9/11 exhibit here at the Bush [museum] and at ground zero is that what happens overseas matters to the security of our country. You know, prior to 9/11, it seemed like we predicted that oceans could protect us from harm, but it didn’t work. And so, yes … my administration and President Obama’s administration have gone on the offense against people who would do us harm. The ultimate way for there to be peace, however, is for freedom to take root, democracy to take root, where governments are decided by the will of the people. And that’s beginning to happen as a result of the Arab Spring. It’s going to take a long time for the process to evolve. But I am optimistic and hopeful that the beginnings of true peace are now being laid in a part of the world in which we better hope there is peace. What trouble spot in the world most concerns you today? GB: I would say Iran and its quest for a

nuclear weapon. Their leader has made it clear that they would like to destroy our close ally Israel. And I just can’t imagine any American administration standing by if that were to happen and not retaliating or responding. Are Iraq and Afghanistan where you hoped they would be? GB: First of all, Iraq is a functioning democ-

racy—and it’s going to be very important for not only the United States but other free countries to stay engaged with that young democracy. Afghanistan was always a very difficult country in which to help that young democracy flourish. It’s poor. It’s vast. The infrastructure isn’t very big. I was hopeful in 2001 that Al Qaeda wouldn’t have a safe haven in Afghanistan. And they didn’t. They don’t. That’s not to say they couldn’t find a safe haven there if there was a vacuum. In terms of helping deal with poverty and illiteracy, there’s been progress,

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The GOP seems to be doing some soul-searching. What should the party do to better position itself for the White House in 2016? GB: The party ought to nominate somebody

who can stand by principles and explain why conservative principles are better for the vast majority of the citizens. [P]arties go through soul-searching. I’m not one who believes that the Republican Party is doomed forever. When you lose elections, you ought to soulsearch, but both parties do that. Has the party changed signiﬁcantly since you were the standard-bearer? GB: I don’t think the party’s done a very good

job of explaining why our philosophy works best for most Americans. Your brother Jeb has been talked about as a potential candidate for president— GB: Yeah, he’d be the best candidate. LB: Said the brother. [laughs] So have you counseled him on running? GB: Yeah, I told him he ought to run, and he

didn’t answer me. [laughs] No, he’d be great.

A PEEK INSIDE Some highlights of the George W. Bush Presidential Museum, open to the public in May • The building’s foundation consists of Permian Sea Coral limestone from Midland, Tex., President and Mrs. Bush’s hometown and the place they feel most shaped them. • A large piece of steel from what’s believed to be the 83rd story of the World Trade Center’s south tower, where the second plane struck, provides a stark reminder of the losses on that most tragic day of Bush’s presidency. The 9/11 exhibit also includes news telecasts and a booth where guests can record their memories. • The facility’s sustainable design has earned LEED

He’s got a proven track record. He was a governor of a big state. He’s very articulate. He could deliver a convention speech in Spanish. In my judgment, he’s right on the issues, [but] whether he runs or not, I have no idea. He’s been progressive on certain issues like immigration, as you were. Is he too progressive for the GOP today to adopt as their candidate? GB: No, I don’t think so. I think what you need

is somebody who could lay out a point of view, explain why that point of view will lead to a better tomorrow, and lead—not chase, but lead. Jeb’s a leader. Is the country—I mean this respectfully—ready for another Bush? We’re not a dynastic nation. GB: That’s for Jeb to ﬁgure out, you know what

I mean? [laughs] I would hope that people would judge [him], if Jeb were to run, on his merits and his track record. They may or may not. I used to say when I was running for governor, I inherited half my dad’s friends and all his enemies. And therefore I had to work hard to convince the other half of his friends that I’d be all right and peel off a few enemies. So I hope he will run.

platinum status, the U.S. Green Building Council’s highest certiﬁcation. Its footprint-reducing features include green roofs, solar panels, and 15 acres of re-created native Texas prairie, landscaped with the help of the Lady Bird Johnson Wildﬂower Center to improve drainage and conserve water. • The Texas Rose Garden— reminiscent of the one at

the White House but with native plants—offers space for reﬂection. “They say people get museum fatigue from being in a dark space with a lot of information,” says Mrs. Bush. “If they can step outside, they’ll be refreshed for the next part of the tour.” • In a full-scale replica of the Oval Ofﬁce, visitors can feel what it’s like to stand in front of that famous Resolute Desk.

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How’s your father doing? GB: Good. You know, he has been underesti-

mated all his adult life, particularly in the political arena, and for those who thought he was headed out, he fooled them again. [laughs] He’s a remarkable man. He’s home. He’ll be here at the opening of the Bush Center. What values did you learn from your father that you passed on to your daughters? GB: The most signiﬁcant value I learned is that

if you give a child unconditional love, it’ll inspire the child to live life to the fullest. You’re about to be grandparents. How are you preparing for those new roles? GB: [We got] the “How to Be a Grandparent”

manual. [laughs] LB: We can’t wait. We’re thrilled. Any name pressures? GB: I suggested Georgia, but somehow, they

didn’t want it. No, we don’t know the gender. LB: Jenna and [her husband] Henry are going

to be surprised. Mr. President, you’ve always taken the long view of history. In 50 years, what do you want visitors to the George W. Bush Library to come away thinking of your presidency? GB: I want them to think about the principles

that were the foundation of the decision making that took place. I want them to realize that one of the great things about our country is the fact that there are millions who are willing to serve their fellow men through volunteer work. One of the unique aspects of our country is the fact that private citizens contribute to the welfare of others as opposed to relying upon government to provide that love and compassion. And I want them to realize that this is an important aspect of our national character and it needs to continue to be in the future. I want them to realize that the massive attack that took place on our soil really means that the United States cannot become isolationist, that we’ve gotta stay engaged in the world. And I want them to realize that presidents should set big agendas and take a lead. Sometimes, big agenda items work, and sometimes they don’t. But the job is to lead. Mark K. Updegrove is a presidential historian and the director of the LBJ Presidential Library.

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America’s Favorite Bear Smokey reflects on becoming a “modern” bear, why he’ll never need a yacht, and how a little jar of honey can go a long way.

What is your idea of perfect happiness? A day fishing in the outdoors, followed by a nap under a shady, towering oak tree, hat over my eyes, no wildfires to worry about. What is your greatest fear? I just got a publicist, and he tells me to make sure that my message doesn’t get lost in today’s climate of media oversaturation. And I really don’t like bees.

When and where were you happiest? Funny story – there’s talk of a “Smokey” movie, so I was in Cannes, taking some meetings during the film festival – 60-foot yachts, parties everywhere, fame and fortune beckoning, and all I could think about was getting back to the outdoors. So there you have it. What do you most dislike about your appearance? I come off as this cuddly, sweet, fuzzy bear – but I have sharp teeth, and big claws – not that I would use them, but if people thought about ending up on the wrong side of them, maybe they’d be less careless in the outdoors. Other than that, I guess I could probably use a new pair of jeans.

Which living person do you admire the most? Those who really embrace the cause of preventing wildfires – you’ll find them clutching a “Golden Smokey Award.” What is the trait you most deplore in others? Callous disregard for our forests and wildlands.

If you were to die and come back as one thing, what would it be? There’s no one I would rather be. But Jack Nicholson comes close. That guy can tell some stories.

What is your greatest extravagance? A friend of mine gave me this amazing jar of honey from Paris – I only open it once a year on my birthday.

What is your most treasured possession? I’d be nothing without my hat.

What is your favorite journey? Spending time in any forest or wildland, anytime, anywhere. Give me some grass beneath my feet, trees above my head and I’m in heaven.

If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? I’m doing that even as we speak. Most people think of me as old school – but I’m catching up with the times. Two years ago, I would have thought the Internet was a way to catch salmon–now I’m working on a MySpace page and a daily blog.

On what occasion do you lie? The only lying I do involves hibernation. Which living person do you most despise? Despise is a strong word – but when it comes to anyone who is careless with fire, let’s just say you don’t want to see me angry – I’m a Black Bear, not a teddy bear, remember? What or who is the greatest love of your life? The amazing wilderness that I am so lucky to call home, followed closely by a “special” lady bear in the Yellowstone area.

What is your most marked characteristic? I always say it’s my fur – but then again, how many bears have a motto? What do you most value in your friends? Honesty. Integrity. And a willingness to share food.

What do you consider your greatest achievement? 60+ years of preventing wildfires, but I’m just getting started.

Who are your heroes in real life? The men and women who put their lives on the line to prevent the spread of wildfires.

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fund-raising organization for the disorder, persuaded the Hilﬁgers to join the group’s board. “There are a lot of well-known people with children affected by autism, but most can’t bring themselves to discuss it,” Wright says. “Tommy and Dee have shown a lot of courage in standing up and talking about it.” April is National Autism Awareness Month, and while increased attention to the condition means more children are

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hen fashion designer Tommy Hilfiger and former model Dee Ocleppo married in 2008, they faced the same challenges as any divorced parents trying to manage a blended family. With six kids between them, they navigated everything from bickering siblings to forging new holiday traditions. What made the transition trickier, however, was that two of those children are on the autism spectrum—Tommy’s daughter Kathleen, then 13, and Dee’s son Alex, then 14. “Naively, we thought, ‘They’ll get along great, they’ll be best friends,’ ” says Dee, lounging on a sofa with her husband a few hours before the grand opening of his L.A. flagship store in February. “But in fact …” She looks to him for the words, and he finishes her sentence with a wry chuckle: “They get on each other’s nerves.” “We should have known, since both have a condition that makes social interaction difficult,” says Dee. “They often have zero patience for one another—but then they don’t really have any patience for anything, period,” Tommy adds. “Alex will touch Kathy’s arm, and she’ll draw back and yell, ‘Don’t touch me!’ ” Still, Tommy and Dee knew that bringing together six kids was going to be a challenge no matter what. “I grew up with eight brothers and sisters,” he says, “and nobody got along all the time.” The couple’s children are two of the more than 1 million Americans on the autism spectrum, and each has coped with the disorder in different ways. Alex attends regular school (albeit with an aide) in Italy;

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