Sticks Magazine February 2019 - What's on in Herts, Beds and Bucks by The Sticks

Issue 66 February

2019

In this edition of The Sticks Q & A with Psychic Medium Tony Stockwell Q & A with Ballerina Lilia Orekhova Russell Grant’s February Horoscopes Cheese Column Advice from Consensus HR BBC Radio 2’s Janey Lee Grace – Alcohol Free Life Curwens Legal Column Art Column Big Barn Food Column Wine Column Valentines Cocktails Plus pages of events listings across Herts, Beds & Bucks 1

Welcome to the February edition of The Sticks Magazine! The most talked about magazine in Herts, Beds & Bucks With over 16,000 readers a month

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Q & A with Psychic Medium Tony Stockwell Q & A with Ballerina Lilia Orekhova HR Column from Consensus HR Curwens Column Russell Grant’s February Horoscopes Janey Lee Grace – Alcohol Free Life Art Column Cheese Column Big Barn Food Column Wine Column Valentines Cocktails Listings – Herts, Beds & Bucks

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Q and A with Tony Stockwell, Psychic Medium Remarkably compelling, amazingly detailed and always humorous The popular star of TV’s Street Psychic, Psychic Private Eyes and Psychic Academy, Tony Stockwell has a long established credibility as one of the top Intuitive Mediums and has shared the stage all round the world with international mediums such as Colin Fry, James van Praagh and Lisa Williams. Tony demonstrates his belief that those who have passed can communicate with their loved ones with detailed messages frequently including names, dates and locations and all delivered with emotion, sensitivity and empathy. The evening may include psychometry, photographs readings and psychic prediction. Recent legislative guidelines insist that any Evening of Mediumship should be billed ‘for entertainment purposes’. Tony certainly uses his natural wit, showmanship and Cockney charisma to entertain but more important, Mediumship has the potential to change someone’s life and instil in them a sense of peace, comfort and purpose. We hope that nobody can fail to come away untouched by the experience How did you get your big break? I was approached to do a new series called Street Psychic for Living TV, around 15 years ago. Things just escalated from there, I also filmed Psychic Detective & Street Psychic in San Francisco. This was great as it gave me exposure to a wider audience in the USA, who are still very supportive. When was the first time you knew that you had a gift? Well, I was aware of spirit from a very young age, as long as I can remember really, but never had a name for it or even knew I was that different from everyone else. I can recall seeing Spirit from as young as 4. However, when I was 16 years old and went to my first Spiritualist Church it all became clear and I realised what I was seeing, and that not everyone was the same. What or who inspired you to go into your line of work? It really just happened! I had been a weird kid and started seeing and hearing things from a child. When I first became involved as a teenager I knew very little about it or what I was getting into. In the years since the people who have inspired me are (the late) Gordon Higginson, medium Mavis Pittilla and actress and author Shirley MacLaine. What do you love most about being a Medium? The diversity of the work and the diversity of the characters you meet, in this world and the next. What makes you want to perform to people and families who have lost loved ones? It was never a case of me wanting to perform, and it was certainly never my

need to work in theatres or on television, as I am actually quite shy. I wanted to communicate with Spirit and the rest just took its own path. From the moment I started to develop my gift, it was as natural to me as eating and breathing. When you are able to pass on a message to a person or family that has lost a loved one there really is no going back, as the feeling of what has happened is immense.

In a large demonstration, how do you deal with a very personal message from Spirit? It’s important to be aware of the impact of the information from Spirit to both the Recipient and to the other members of the Audience. Experience teaches you to wrap up the crux of the message in such a way that only the recipient knows what you are referring to. It’s often safer to ask to see the Recipient privately after the demonstration. I am always very conscious not to embarrass people or air their laundry in public, as I wouldn’t like this done to me. As much as a piece of salacious information makes for a colourful demonstration, Mediums must not forget their responsibilities. I am also very aware not to drag out the emotion of the message too much. It’s easy for a medium to harp on with statements like ‘she really, really, really loves you...with all her heart., forever and ever’, and this often touches all of the people in the audience and causes many a tear, but it’s not always fair on the recipient. Passing on terms of endearment can be part of any message, but prolonging on that aspect of the message rather than the evidence is not something I teach my students. Do you find some occasions are easier than others? Do you know why this is? The audiences’ energy? The Venue? Your energy? And what do you do to overcome this? Yes, some demonstrations are exceptional and some are a struggle. Sometimes you know why (my own state of mind, tiredness, the venue and audience) but often there isn’t a reason or thread. It just happens and you have to accept it. All I do for each demonstration is prepare the best I can and strive hard to make the communication clear, but sometimes despite all of this it cannot be 5

my best. I have also done demonstrations feeling totally exhausted for a hard audience and it’s been exceptional. What do you feel recipients and the rest of the audience get from one of our demonstrations of mediumship? Hopefully, closure, healing, upliftment and, for some, a new belief that life goes on and for others a validation of their long held belief. What would you say to anyone who is wondering whether to come to see the show? If people haven’t seen a Medium work before, come along with an open mind, you may be surprised. The phenomenon of Mediumship is a powerful thing and has the ability to change lives, so why not give it the benefit of doubt? Any advice for someone intending to attend an evening of mediumship for the first time? Be relaxed and have no great expectation. Also, do not make your mind up about ‘mediumship’ after one demonstration. What makes you happy in your work? Getting that one ‘golden nugget’ of information and seeing the faces light up upon receiving it. It’s an amazing feeling. What is the best thing about having this ‘gift’? My life is dedicated to something I absolutely love and absolutely believe in. It’s so gratifying when you see the change the work of a Medium can have on some people. It’s a privilege to help them come to terms with their loss. Have you ever been scared by what’s happened in a reading? No never. There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding Mediumship but to me it’s all very natural and safe. It’s just a part of who I am and what I do. Readings are orchestrated by a love connection between the living and those in Spirit, so there is nothing to be scared of. To the contrary it’s a lovely feeling to be part of that reunion. Are you always tuned in to the Spirit World or can you disconnect when you need to? No, I am not always tuned in and dread the thought that I could never switch off. I need to live a physical life with my focus on the here and now the same as anybody. And as for disconnecting, the natural state for living is being switched off; it’s having to switch on to work that is normal. We don’t (and shouldn’t) go around being receptive to the Spirit World at all times. My old Tutor used to say that Mediums should not be like a dripping tap otherwise when you go to use your Gift of Mediumship, the water will have run out. Linking with the Spirit World is a conscious decision you make, to raise your awareness, get into the power and to blend with them. This is actually something that is more difficult than maybe some think, which takes training and development and ability to still the mind and hear 6

the subtle influences of the Spirit World. If only it were that easy that we were naturally open all the time and just had to switch off when we wanted to. What do you say to people who are sceptical? I don’t really say anything, they are as entitled to their opinions and beliefs as am I and those that do believe. It wouldn’t do for us all to be the same now, would it? There is a difference between those that are sceptical and those that are open minded but sitting on the fence, as the latter will enquire and will often come along to a show. Some will go away convinced and some will not, that’s just how it is. For the hardened sceptic no proof will ever be enough and they will always find a way to explain away what they have witnessed. That’s fine with me as that’s their path in life and this is mine, but I have the pleasure in knowing they will one day find out the truth about life after death, but in the meantime them being sceptical is fine with me. What's the best piece of advice you have ever been given? Well, I can remember my old Nan saying to me once never to forget to moisturise you neck and elbows as they are always the first to go, and she was right about that. In regards to my mediumistic work I can remember my old tutor, Joan, saying to me that you can only ever do your best and then you have to let it go. It’s natural to always want that message to be a little clearer, or you want that one last piece of information in any one message, but at the end of day you have to accept some messages are more concise and evidential than others, and that also what is proof for one person is not for another. You can’t always worry about each spirit contact after it’s over, as you end up tying yourself up in knots. What is left for you to achieve both personally and professionally? Professionally I have never had clear goals or major ambitions. I never aimed to do this work full time, the same as I never aimed to work on television or write books. The opportunities I have had on nearly everything I have done came to me and I just went along with it, sometimes reluctantly. I guess I just want to keep on doing what I do for as long as I am able and for as long as I am enjoying it. Personally in the coming years I want to address the work/home balance – as this has been tilted towards work of late and I want to be able to spend more time at home in my own bed. I do feel I have neglected my friends and family a little in the past 3 or 4 years, spending more and more time working away – so it’s is a personal aim to correct that. My children are growing up and I don’t want to miss these wonderful times. Could you sum up your philosophy in two or three sentences? My philosophy would be to treat the spirit world with respect, give them credit for their intelligence and be thankful that they work with me. The love of working with Spirit ALWAYS needs to be the driving motivation; any thoughts of success, ambition or career are irrelevant. Accepting I am eternal plays a major part in how I chose to live my life and the decisions I make. I am ultimately responsible

for all the good and bad things I do and take any consequences that come along with that. For my own life, I always try to live life being truthful to myself and listening to that inner voice. Life is about being kind to yourself and kind to others and this simple truth will help us be a truer expression of the wonderful vibrant spirit that we are. Holding on to negativity from the past and harbouring resentment is only ever self destructive and just holds you back. I always try to look forward whilst appreciating what’s around me

Wednesday 6th February, 7.45pm – Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage Box Office: 01438 363200 www.gordon-craig.co.uk Wednesday 5th June, 8.00pm – The Radlett Centre, Radlett Box Office: 01923 859291 • www.radlettcentre.co.uk Wednesday 12th June, 7.30pm – The Spotlight, Broxbourne Box Office: 01992 441946 • www.broxbourne.gov.uk Wednesday 26th June, 7.30pm – Town Hall, High Wycombe Box Office: 01494 512000 • www.wycombeswan.co.uk www.tonystockwell.com 8

Q & A with Ballerina Lilia Orekhova

Renowned dance company, Moscow City Ballet, returns to the UK in 2019 appearing at Aylesbury Waterside Theatre Thu 28 Feb with Swan Lake, followed by The Nutcracker Fri 1 – Sat 2 Mar, bringing audiences the opportunity to revel in its dramatic traditional story-telling and captivating performances. Moscow City Ballet reaches the UK on the back of another jubilant world-wide tour where it has reaffirmed its popularity with thousands of dance fans. The company’s dazzling repertoire of full scale ballets - Swan Lake, Romeo and Juliet, The Nutcracker and The Sleeping Beauty – reflect the fact that ‘big story ballets’ are the essence of Russian culture - composed, choreographed and premiered in Russia. What better way to see them performed than by a spectacular Russian company? Complete with live orchestra, Moscow City Ballet’s performances combine artistry, technique, narrative and live music, thus providing a true dancing experience. Audiences can not only marvel at the perfection of its corps de ballet but witness the excellent dexterity and grace of principal ballerinas Yulia Zhuravleva and Lilia Orekhova, and the strength and dynamism of Talgat Kozhabaev and Daniil Orlov. The Nutcracker is a delightful tale, and the perfect introduction to Russian classical ballet. The timeless story of Clara, who is whisked away on a fairy tale adventure to the Land of Flowers by her Nutcracker Prince, is set to Tchaikovsky’s glorious score and a treat for the whole family.

Swan Lake is a signature piece of MCB’s repertoire, performed in all its original splendour by some of the world’s finest dancers. The epic story of Prince Siegfried and his doomed love for Odette is magnificently brought to life in all its original splendour by Tchaikovsky’s hauntingly familiar score. Live music is at the heart of Moscow City Ballet’s productions and Tchaikovsky’s masterpiece scores are played expertly by the Moscow City Ballet Orchestra, adding an extra dimension of drama and splendour to these thrilling performances. Tell us a little bit about yourself. How long have you been dancing, and how long have you been a member of Moscow City Ballet? My name is Lilia Orekhova, I am 30 years old. I graduated from the Vladimir Pisarev Choreographic School in Donetsk. From 2005 to 2008 I worked in the Donetsk State Theatre of Opera and Ballet and I’ve been a member of the Moscow City Ballet since 2008. How does it feel to be a member of such a prestigious international ballet company? I am grateful to my fate; that I am working in Moscow City Ballet and that life has given me the opportunity to perform in such magnificent ballets. Swan Lake is such an iconic ballet, known and loved the world over, does that put added pressure on you? For me each performance is a great responsibility. Swan Lake is one of the most well-known ballets and also one of my favourites. As a child I dreamt about performing in Swan Lake. What would you say makes your production stand out from other interpretations of Swan Lake? The Moscow City Ballet’s Swan Lake is first and foremost the fusion of drama, choreography and music. This production includes the 3rd and 4th act staged by Victor Smirnov-Golovanov and Natalia Ryzhenko. Victor Smirnov-Golovanov had a very individual take on Swan Lake; he always tried to keep the traditions of Russian Ballet, but was not afraid to add new elements to the choreography. The production is so dynamic, that it grabs the attention from the very start and keeps it to the very end. Is the production suitable for people who are new to ballet? Would children enjoy it? Of course! Because true love for ballet starts with love for Swan Lake. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Fifteen Fun Facts about Ballet and the Moscow City Ballet 1. Although ballet originated as a form of entertainment in the Italian courts in the 15th century, the first full length ballet was staged in Paris in 1581.

2. Women were not allowed to dance in public until 1681 so, up to that point; female roles in ballets in France were taken by young men. 3. England’s first ballet, The Loves of Mars and Venus, had its premiere at the Drury Lane Theatre in London on 2 March, 1717. 4. Interestingly, the word ‘ballerina’ did not find a place within the English language until 1789. 5. A male ballet dancer may lift the equivalent of one-and-a-half tons of ballerinas in a performance. That's the same as picking up a hippo! 6. Pointe shoes are handmade. Their toe boxes are made of densely packed layers of fabric and cardboard hardened by glue, then baked in ovens to stiffen and strengthen them. 7. Most ballerinas will wear out 2-3 pairs of pointe shoes per week, while some get through that amount in a single performance! 8. Every time a dancer jumps and lands en pointe, three times her body weight is carried on the tip of her big toe. 9. The leotard is named after Jules Leotard, the original ‘daring young man on the flying trapeze’. 10. The first ballerina’s tutu appeared in 1832, designed by Eugene Lami, though the word ‘tutu’ only appeared in English in 1910. 11. Each tutu can take up to 90 hours to make and they are all made by hand, costing up to £1,500. 12. Moscow City Ballet tours with 3 washing machines to clean the costumes that can be washed such as skirts, tights and pants. Those that can’t are hung after each performance and sprayed with freshener. 13. Around 50-60 pairs of men’s tights are used in every performance. 14. One dancer may take 3 or 4 roles in each ballet, which means changing costumes, hair, make-up and shoes each time - approximately 24 transformations per performance week. 15. The amount of energy needed to perform a ballet is about the same as playing two full football matches or running 18 miles.

Proposed Changes to Employment Law Following the suggestions made by Matthew Taylor in his ' Good Work Review' the Government has published a series of changes in its 'Good Work Plan'. These proposals include: •

Changing the rules on continuity of employment, so that a break of up to four weeks (currently one week) between contracts will not interrupt continuity of employment.

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Extending the right to a written statement of terms & conditions to workers (as well as employees) and requiring the employer to give it on the first day of work.

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Legislation to stream line the employment status tests so they are the same for employment and tax purposes and to avoid employers misclassifying employees / workers as self-employed.

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A ban on employers making deductions from staff tips.

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Increasing the penalty for employers aggravating conduct from £5,000 to £20,000.

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Abolishing the Swedish Derogation which currently gives employers the ability to pay agency workers less than their own workers in certain circumstances.

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A report by the Guardian also discusses the changes.

Matthew – Managing Director from Consensus HR comments "It is about time that changes were made to certain areas of Employment Law and the points mentioned are a start, especially with the right to written Terms of Employment on the employees first day of employment."

Matthew Pinto-Chilcott Owner – ACEL, FCIPD, BA (Hons) Tel: 01462 621243 Mob: 0774 7789279 Email: matthew@consensushr.com Web: www.consensushr.com “We take the pain out of employing people whilst preventing people problems”

YOUR LOCAL SOLICITORS Does the New Year mean a time for change? The ringing in of the New Year often brings about the need for change in most of us. Usually that is a new diet and exercise regime after the excesses of Christmas, or the undertaking of a new hobby. However for some of us the “new me” attitude can also signal the end of an ongoing relationship that may have been struggling for some time up to that point. The pressures of Christmas and all that comes with it, teamed with the amount of concentrated time spent in the company of a partner, are often the catalysts needed by couples, or one half of the couple, to seek to end their relationship. January 8th is regularly dubbed “Divorce Day” in the press as it is statistically the day upon which there is a spike in the number of people wishing to bring their marriages to an end after the festive period. Although this year with the advent of online divorces, it is reported that over 400 divorce petitions were submitted to the Family Court online over the supposed “Festive Period” - including on Christmas Day itself. With emotions running high and with a stream of “experts” wishing to give advice (whether that is a friend in the pub or celebrity agony aunts in newspapers and magazines or the internet), it is important for people in this position to take the right advice from the right people from the outset. Such advice could come from a marriage counsellor, a therapist, or, of course, a family solicitor. The end result could be that there are things that can be done to repair the relationship. However, if this is not the case each party ideally needs to seek legal help early on to understand their rights and responsibilities before any final decisions are made. Most family solicitors offer an initial consultation with a prospective client to set out all of their options and to provide some initial advice on their particular circumstances. They should also provide information on the various ways issues can be resolved in an amicable, non-confrontational way - such as using mediation or the collaborative approach. Less acrimony in any divorce or separation should mean less stress to the parties (and any children involved), plus less costs.

For confidential advice on any matters relating to family law our experts offer initial one hour consultations for a fixed fee of £75 + VAT. To book an appointment please call 01992 463727. Curwens have offices in Royston, Hoddesdon and Enfield. www.curwens.co.uk

Russell Grant's Monthly Horoscopes February

ARIES (March21st-April20th) The New Moon on the 4th invites you to expand your social network. Make it your mission to attend as many parties, casual get togethers and professional conferences as possible during the first two weeks of February. Who you know is just as important as what you know this month. If you're having trouble finding a home, job or romantic partner, spread the word among your nearest and dearest. Chances are you will find what you desire through an intermediary. On the 19th, you'll wrap up a job that has required a great deal of care and attention. This will lead to more lucrative work opportunities. Being able to make money from your handiwork is a distinct possibility. You'll gain a loyal following by putting a modern twist on a traditional formula. Working with metals and precious stones may be especially appealing to your creative side. You have the makings of a successful artisan.

CANCER (June22nd-July23rd) On the 4th, the New Moon will attract a handsome windfall. Money from an inheritance, legal settlement or insurance refund will allow you to pay off debts and build savings. If you have a romantic or business partner, there's a good chance your other half will get a big raise or bonus. Their financial fortune will benefit you. Take this opportunity to build a solid financial foundation. You're not the type who is comfortable living from paycheque to paycheque. The Full Moon on the 19th brings fantastic news about work. It's possible a new branch of your company will open close to your home, significantly reducing your commute. Alternatively, you might be able to work from home several days a week, helping you to save on gas money or public transport fares. If you applied for work a long time ago and have given up hope, you'll get a lovely surprise in the form of a job offer.

TAURUS (April21st-May21st) On the 4th, you'll have a chance to land a high-profile job in a cuttingedge field. You have a talent for putting newcomers at ease with your soothing voice and down to earth approach to business. When your employer realises how successful they've become thanks to your skills and talents, you could be put in charge of a new project. You are clearly worth your weight in gold so maybe you should ask for a rise. If you've been thinking of launching your own business, don't try to follow a tired old formula. The more innovative your enterprise, the better. The Full Moon on the 19th is ideal for romance. If you're looking for love, you'll find it with an ardent admirer. It will be good for your ego to be pursued by someone determined to win your heart. Are you already in a relationship? Take this opportunity to enjoy a relaxing vacation with your amour.

LEO (July24th-August23rd) The New Moon on the 4th injects life into a close relationship. Things will be looking up for you and your best friend, romantic partner or even someone you work with. It's possible you'll take a trip or relocate to an exciting part of the world together. Are you single? You won't be for long, especially after posting an intriguing profile on an Internet dating site. Finally, you'll meet someone who is offbeat, intelligent and original. The days surrounding the 19th will be lucrative. A handsome payment will land in your bank account, allowing you to indulge in a few luxuries. If you've been thinking of upgrading your computer or smartphone, this would be a good time to do so. Are you feeling ambitious? Modernising your kitchen or bathroom will greatly increase the value of your home. The key is finding a talented work crew that is known for its painstaking precision.

GEMINI (May22nd-June21st) The opportunity to expand your horizons will arrive on or around the 4th, courtesy of an adventurous New Moon. This is an ideal time to visit a country that has fascinated you since childhood. At times, you will feel like a fish out of water. Don't worry about looking foolish. Locals will be happy to show you the ropes. A helpful guide will show you the best places to shop, eat and sightsee. On the 19th, the Full Moon will bring a domestic matter to its successful conclusion. If you've been trying to buy or sell a house, you'll be able to seal a profitable deal. Are you merging households with your amour? The process will be seamless if carried out during the second half of February. Have you been looking for a good living situation for an elderly relative? You'll find the perfect place at the end of the month.

VIRGO (August24th-September23rd) The New Moon on the 4th is excellent for beginning a health regimen. It's important to attend to your mental and spiritual wellbeing as well as your physical fitness. If you're prone to anxiety, learn some relaxation techniques. Training yourself to cope with stress in a constructive way will be liberating. Never underestimate the mind's impact on the body. You could soon see good results from this practice as soon as the 19th, when the Full Moon has you feeling better than ever. Take this opportunity to treat yourself like royalty. It's time to focus on your own needs, rather than catering to everyone else. When you treat yourself like royalty, others will follow suit. Don't feel guilty about indulging your sensual side. It's an integral part of who you are.

LIBRA (September24th-October23rd)

air travel, broadcasting and medical supplies are also looking good. If you're happy with your current job, this is a good time to ask for a raise. Adopting a logical approach to salary negotiations will be highly effective. The Full Moon on the 19th may find you returning from a trip or concluding a course of study. Use everything you've learned to deepen your appreciation for life. Instead of pouring all your energy into getting ahead and making more money, start doing things for pure pleasure. Developing art projects, communing with nature and spending time with pets will bring happiness that money can't buy. The spiritual world should trump the material realm during the second half of February.

The New Moon on the 4th will be highly romantic. If you're single, you'll meet a rebel who makes your pulse pound. It will be so refreshing to spend time with someone who has unique opinions and unusual tastes. Are you already in a relationship? Take this opportunity to travel off the beaten path with your amour. Visiting a part of the world that is totally different from home will be a joyful experience. On the 19th, the Full Moon will invite you to rest, relax and recharge your batteries. Colleagues will pressure you to do more than your fair share of work. Issue firm but polite refusals. The days of your doing more than one job are over. By reducing your work load, you'll have time for the activities you truly love. Writing, playing music and creating works of art will be a refreshing change from spending every spare moment at the office.

AQUARIUS (Jan 21st-February19th) On the 4th, the New Moon will inspire you to adopt a new look or assume another role. Making a fresh start will put a spring in your step and a sparkle in your eyes. If you've been thinking about changing your hairstyle, revamping your wardrobe or going for a whole new look, this would be a great time to take the plunge. Have you been yearning to take up a weird hobby or venture onto a different career path? Obey your instincts; they won't steer you wrong at the beginning of February. The Full Moon on the 19th cultivates passion on the relationship front. A rendezvous with your amour will be highly enjoyable. Are you single? You could meet someone special in a classroom, book club or political group. The fastest way to your heart is through the brain. Team up with someone who is always making intriguing observations; you'll find their company highly satisfying.

SCORPIO (Oct 24th-Nov 22nd) If you've been thinking of moving, the beginning of February presents an ideal opportunity to do so. You could find a beautiful place in an offbeat neighbourhood on the 4th, courtesy of the New Moon. Being surrounded by eccentrics brings out the best in you. If there's anything that dulls your creative edge, it's mainstream society. Are you happy where you live? It's possible a baby, roommate or elderly relative will join your household. This newcomer will make your abode feel refreshing and lively. The Full Moon on the 19th is ideal for throwing a party. Bringing together your nearest and dearest will remind you of how very lucky you truly are. If you're single, you could meet someone special through this shindig. A guest will bring a friend that makes your pulse pound. You won't have to lift a finger to put this romance into motion. Being pursued by an ardent admirer will be gratifying.

PISCES (February20th-March20th) Solitary pleasures and pastimes are best for you at the beginning of February. The New Moon on the 4th will prompt you to read, write or commune with nature. Don't let demanding loved ones invade your privacy. By sneaking off to a private hideaway, you'll be able to enjoy prolonged silence. Working alone on a creative project could be especially productive. Incredible breakthroughs will occur when you escape the meddling influence of those around you. The Full Moon on the 19th presents an excellent opportunity to help a loved one. Ease the concerns of a best friend, business associate or romantic partner by helping them keep a promise during the second half of the month. This selfless act will draw you closer together. Serving as an intermediary can take the pressure off a strained relationship. If your friend is having difficulty with a customer, relative or neighbour, you can serve as the contact person. A painful conflict could finally be resolved, thanks to your diplomatic approach.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov23rd-Dec 21st) On the 4th, the New Moon presents an intriguing opportunity to communicate on a worldwide scale. Launching a blog, taping a podcast or sharing videos on social media can attract a loyal following. People appreciate your unorthodox views and may even seek your advice on everything from relationships to shopping to cooking to travel. Don't worry about breaking the rules. You always fare best after breaking away from the pack. You'll reach a career milestone on the 19th, thanks to a generous Full Moon. People do appreciate all the time and care you put into your work. Don't be surprised when you're given a raise, promotion or both during the second half of February. If you've been unemployed, you'll be offered a position worthy of your talent at this time. Earning a steady paycheque will give you an opportunity to build a secure foundation. At long last, you'll be able to establish deep roots.

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CAPRICORN (Dec 22nd-Jan 20th) The New Moon on the 4th attracts an unusual moneymaking venture. Moving into a cutting-edge field will be highly profitable. You may decide to join an investment group that specialises in research and development. Any opportunities involving

Janey Lee Grace – Alcohol Free Life Were you one of the many people who tried Dry January? Public Health England said that two thirds of people find it easier to fulfil their resolutions around going to the gym or eating more healthily than quitting the booze. This isn’t surprising, alcohol is everywhere in our culture, and is in fact the only addictive substance you have to justify not taking. I gave up last January and never looked back and now I’m on a mission to share with people just how amazing ‘sober’ life is. One of misconceptions is that a life without alcohol is boring, that you’ll never be able to socialise again. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Catherine Gray author of the brilliantly titled book ‘The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober’, had various ‘rock bottom’ moments including ending up in a prison cell before she finally quit for good, but she has found that without alcohol in her life she is so much happier. Catherine says phrases like ‘stone cold sober’ need a rebrand – ‘Sunshine warm sober’ Dr Richard Piper is the CEO of the charity Alcohol Change (formerly Alcohol Concern) who ran the Dry January campaign. On their site you’ll see some sober (no pun intended) hard facts such as: Alcohol misuse is the biggest risk factor for death, ill-health and disability among 15-49 year-olds in the UK, and the fifth biggest risk factor across all ages If you rocked Dry January or you are just ‘sober curious’ I’d strongly suggest immersing yourself in some of the ‘quit lit’ books on offer and finding some inspiration, there’s lots out there. Some of the pubs and restaurants in Herts Beds and Bucks are now offering great alcohol free alternatives. Lussmanns in St Albans, Harpenden and Tring now offer a mocktail with Seedlip, the ‘gin alternative’

I’ve just launched a podcast where I will be interviewing lots of authors and sober heroes. Listen for free on iTunes, (and please rate!) - it’s called Janey Lee Grace Alcohol Free Life

Courtyard Arts in Hertford Courtyard Arts – a self-funded charity – runs a bustling programme of exhibitions, classes, events and outreach activities. Our small-but-perfectlyformed Centre in Port Vale, Hertford also houses a shop selling cards and unique gifts made by local artists, a small cafe and two private artists’ studios. Courtyard Arts Gallery hosts numerous diverse exhibitions through the year – encompassing all media and including the work of an Artist in Residence – as well as providing a full programme of exhibitions for the Hertford Theatre Gallery. Our members play a vital role at Courtyard, not only through their financial contribution, but also through their involvement in local art events. Members meet up at the Centre on an evening each week, giving the opportunity to work on projects and socialise with fellow artists. Formerly a derelict stables block, the Centre opened its doors in 1996 following the efforts and ambitions of a group of friends who had been meeting to draw together for some years. Courtyard Arts Centre was born, obtaining charitable status and a board of trustees. Our dedicated trustees – alongside a small team of staff and a pool of experienced tutors – are responsible for running Courtyard Arts Centre. However, we would not be able to do the work that we do without the efforts of a dedicated community of volunteers.

For more information follow them on social media or go to https://www.courtyardarts.org.uk/

or visit them at Courtyard Arts Centre, Port Vale, Hertford, SG14 3AA, Tel: 01992 509596 or email them admin@courtyardarts.org.uk

Valentines Day at The Cheese Plate Say it with cheese..... The Cheese Plate in Buntingford is once again hosting their amazing romantic Valentines Fondues just for you. ÂŁ45 per person, which includes a bottle of Fizz. 1st sitting is 6 - 8pm and second sitting from 8.30 - 10.30pm. Limited places available; to book your place please call 01763 271533 or email Toby@thecheeseplate.co.uk

They also offer gift vouchers and hampers for Valentineâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day and other events. Toby can custom make a hamper for you. All the products they offer in the store are handpicked and tested by them to ensure that they offer the best quality products to accompany your cheeses. If you are planning a bigger event their cheese slates are an ingenious alternative to a traditional buffet or dessert at an engagement dinner party. They can be used at any setting whether it be a corporate event or something more personal. With a wide selection of cheese, we can expertly pick outstanding cheeses with complimentary biscuits and accompaniments. Perfect if youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re aiming to impress the in-laws at dinner or to wow your friends and family. Just get in touch, and they can arrange the rest. With over 200 cheeses to choose from you'll be spoilt for choice, so whether you're looking for that one special cheese or want to create the perfect cheeseboard for a dinner party, visit them, where one of the friendly; knowledgeable staff will be able to help you select the right cheese for your requirements.

For further information contact The Cheese Plate toby@thecheeseplate.co.uk or go to their website www.thecheeseplate.co.uk or follow them on social media.

Support VegPower VegPower is all about getting kids to grow cook and eat many more vegetables. As this matches our petition to get Food Growing, Cooking, & Nutrition all through the School Curriculum we will be social networking and helping in any way we can. According to Hugh Fearnley Whittingstall and the team “80% of our children are not eating enough veg and it’s impacting their health. A group of us have come to together to launch VegPower to inspire kids to love veg.”

On 25th January the Veggies started to fight back with: • £2m advertising campaign launching on ITV • Veg Power posters across the UK • A team of celebrities and chefs promoting veg on TV, in the papers and on social media • Eight supermarket chains offering promotions and position in store • Rewards charts and veggie fun packs going into schools To help 1. Spread the word: Simply post/tweet and share news of the campaign though your social media channels @VegPowerUK #PeasPlease #eatmoreveg 2. Inspire with great recipes: Support our veg of the week by creating recipes for a featured veg on your website, in your restaurants, or in press or media work. We can then share these out through our social channels 3. Get kids fired up: If you work with kids then could you support our veg of the week by getting kids to create veg monsters, novel ways to eat veggies or other veg fun content and then post on social with our hashtag? 4. More: There are so many more ways you could help. We need competition prizes, people who can do media work or attend community projects. A Big ‘Well Done’ to the VegPower team. We really hope that the campaign raises awareness to the lack of food knowledge causing so many people to avoid veggies. and that the Government realise that food should be all through the curriculum if we want to reduce the £billions spent on food related disease as shown in our petition.

Pinot Grigio vs Pinot Gris What’s the Difference? Over the years this has to be one of the most common questions we get asked at CAVAVIN. As one of the bestselling grape varieties in Britain lets go into detail on these very different styles in wine making and the results. Well they are both the same grape, but one is the French method and the other is the Italian method, with the rest of the world copying the styles from each of these two countries. Italian Version - Rocca Estate, Pinot Grigio Del Veneto £8.50 This style is harvested/picked early (under ripened) lowering the residual sugar, which in turn gives us a light, fresh and savoury wine, more green pear, crisp, good with seafood. Over 30 years ago it caused quite a stir as this was a very light wine that was very easy drinking, therefore becoming a massive hit in the UK which has only just shown signs of slowing down, mind you it’s still in the top 10 the mighty Sauvignon Blanc trend has made a huge dent in the sales of this grape variety

French Version (Alsace) - Domaine Leon Boesch Le Coq, Pinot 'Biodynamic' £16.50 The French style of Pinot Gris is allowed to ripen fully therefore more residual sugar and alcohol has formed. It’s more viscous and fuller in body, ripe pear and a spiced clove aroma, it’s almost the entire opposite of its Italian neighbour showing far more length and depth, a real foodie grape which many have never tried before. A rounded and glossy Pinot Gris from Domaine Boesch which is excellent with a variety of dishes - most notably paella and risotto. Due to a wonderfully concentration of flavour, it also stands up well to spicier dishes These are two examples of what the wine making technique has done to give very different results, too often we are quick to say we don’t like Chardonnay or Merlot when some of the best wines in the world use these grapes, Chablis/ Montrachet and Pomerol are just a few fine examples. Sometimes keeping a open mind is the answer. CAVAVIN The Wine Shop 22 Maidenhead Street Hertford SG14 1DR Tel: 01992 558 311 Email: sales@cavavin.co.uk

Valentines Cocktails 4 Pink Cocktails to enjoy on Valentine's Day with the Gin or Vodka lover in your life Treat yourself and your loved one to one of these delicious, romantic cocktails. Shades of pink make these drinks look so pretty and your Valentine feel oh so special! Pinktini Cocktail from Pinkster Gin: 50 ml Pinkster Gin, 10 ml Elderflower Cordial. Fill shaker with ice, throw in several raspberries, then add five parts Pinkster to one part cordial. Shake and pour into an ice cold glass. Garnish with a raspberry and a sprig of mint. Pinkster Gin RRP £35.00 for 70 cl bottle. ABV 37.5% Available from www.pinkstergin.com Marks and Spencer and over 140 Majestic stores nationwide as well as 31Dover.com and Ocado

Jawbox Valentine Martini: 35 ml Jawbox Gin, 10 ml Triple Sec, 10 ml lemon juice, 10 ml Ruby Blue Cranberry Juice, 1 Egg white. Dry shake all the ingredients for about 30 seconds. Add ice and shake again until cold. Double strain into a martini glass and garnish with a star anise.

Jawbox Gin RRP £30 for a 70cl bottle. ABV: 43% Available from: Tesco, Marks and Spencer, Sainsbury’s, Asda, Ocado,Amazon, masterofmalt.com thewhiskyexchange.com, 31dover.com, and drinksupermarket.com .

The Pink Gin Fizz from Malfy con Rosa: Mix 1 part Malfy con Rosa with 2 parts prosecco. Serve in a prosecco flute. Garnish with a (Sicilian) grapefruit twist. Malfy con Rosa Gin RRP £28 for a 70 bottle. ABV: 41% Available from Sainsbury's, www.masterofmalt.com

Pink Cow and Tonic from Black Cow Vodka 50 ml Black Cow, Angostura Bitters, Tonic water, squeeze of lemon juice. Pour Black Cow and a good dash of Angostura into an ice filled glass. Top with tonic and a squeeze of lemon juice. Garnish with a slice of lemon or orange Black Cow Vodka RRP from ÂŁ28.00 for 70 cl. ABV: 40% Available from retails stores nationwide including Sainsbury's, Marks and Spencer, Majestic and from www.blackcow.co.uk https://www.blackcow.co.uk/shop/

Mimi and the Mountain Dragon - Sat 2 Feb High up in the snowy mountains of Switzerland the villagers of Dorta bang their drums, blow their horns and make a noisy ruckus to keep the fearsome Mountain Dragon away. But this year is different. One cold winter morning Mimi discovers a baby dragon asleep in the woodshed! The Old Town Hall, High Street, Hemel Hempstead

Herts Listings Colour Snap - til Fri 8 Feb “Colour is a physical phenomenon, not just a visual one”. – James Turrell Colour has a profound effect on us even though we may not be aware of it. Art and Design Gallery, University of Hertfordshire, Hatfield

Stay and Play at Hertford Museum - Sat 2 Feb Drop in and play with some traditional toys and get hands on with a family craft activity. It’s Free! Donations welcome! Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain, Hertford

Let There Be Light! - til 9th March Discover how we seek out and utilize sources of light and why we are afraid of the dark! This exhibition is illustrated by a wealth of collections from around the world – from Ancient Greek oil lamps to 1950s illuminated advertisements! Open Tues – Sat 10am-5pm. Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain, Hertford

Strictly-Style Dance Party! - Sat 2 Feb Get your glad rags on, and join in with a fun Strictly-style Dance Competition, featuring Celebrity Judges and Comperes, a light buffet, raffle, and after show disco! All abilities welcome, or just enjoy the show and boogie on down afterwards! Broadway Hotel, Letchworth

Curious About St Albans - til Tue 5 Feb Have fun discovering St Albans with two selfguided, quirky, heritage walks with an optional treasure hunt. Buy in booklet or instant download format. Are you curious about St Albans? Looking for an unusual and quirky activity which gets you out in the fresh air whatever the weather? St Albans City Centre, Starts at St Peter’s Church, St Albans

Herts Early Dance Session - Sun 3 Feb Guest Tutor Barbara Segal leads us in dances from the Bray Collection of 1699. St Stephen’s Church Hall, St Stephen’s Church, 14 Watling Street, St Albans

Good Dog - til Sat 2 Feb Following its acclaimed premiere in spring 2017, good dog by Arinzé Kene prepares to embark on its second national tour from January 2019. Directed by Tiata Fahodzi’s artistic director Natalie Ibu, Good Dog is a true epic spanning multiple characters, families and years. Watford Palace Theatre, Watford

Potters Bar Antique & Vintage Fair - Sun 3 Feb Over 50 stalls with a huge range of antiques and vintage including silver and enamel, quality jewellery, vintage accessories, costume jewellery, china, glass, ephemera, treen and much, much more. The Wyllyotts Theatre, Darkes Lane, Potters Bar

Churchfitters - Sat 2 Feb A very exciting concert in Kimpton. Bass guitars made out of frying pans and hub caps. Heart-wrenching vocals accompanied by a musical saw. The Memorial Hall, Hall Lane, High Street, Kimpton

The Ware Priory Wedding Fair - Sun 3 Feb Welcome to the wedding fair at Ware Priory, a venue steeped in history. The wedding fair will feature some of the leading companies from East Hertfordshire and beyond covering every aspect of your wedding and some bits you might not have thought about! So it is certainly worth popping along. Ware Priory

Harlem Nights - Vintage Music & Dance - Sat 2 Feb Come and join us for Hertfordshire’s top social dance with dancers from Herts, Essex, Beds, Bucks, Cambs and London and more! Fun Class, Top DJ’s, free Snacks, Live Music on occasions! Come swing out to our fabulous DJ’s, Don’t miss it!! Beechen Grove Baptist Church, Clarendon Rd, Watford

Jayson Gillham: Octagon Music Society - Sun 3 Feb Octagon Music Society (Watford) is looking forward to welcoming the amazing pianist Jayson Gillham to the Clarendon Muse on Sunday 3 February 2019 at 4pm. Lovely concert hall, free parking. Do come and enjoy an afternoon of beautiful music. The Clarendon Muse, Watford Grammar School for Boys, 70 Rickmansworth Road, Watford

Wild Boys UK’s Top 80’s tribute band concert - Sat 2 Feb Ultimate 80’s concert with the UK’s Top 80’s tribute band - Wild Boys. The Drill Hall 17 Amwell End Ware

Singers at the Barn - Sun 3 Feb Happy New Year to you. If you fancy something new,

businesses. Retailers featured in the presentation will include Clements, Trewins, Henry Kingham and Sons Ltd, and Sainsbury’s. Stanborough Centre, 609 St Albans Road, Garston, Watford

come along to Singers at the Barn, Barn Theatre, Handside Lane, WGC, Herts AL8 6ST for a live music variety show full of song on Sunday 6th January. We have 16 individual acts, a brilliant pianist and huge amount of songs to entertain you. Barn Theatre Club Room, Handside Lane, Welwyn Garden City

Colour Burst: Art and Science Talks - Thu 7 Feb Join us to hear from speakers across visual arts and science for the closing event of the Colour Snap exhibition. Each speaker will bring a different perspective to the conversation on colour with several 10-15 minute talks. Art and Design Gallery, University of Hertfordshire, Hatfield

North Herts Association of the National Trust - Wed 6 Feb This month’s meeting is at 7.30 pm for a talk on ‘Inspirational Women’ by author Damien O’Dell. He will talk about some women who shaped and changed our society against the odds and their legacy, including Queen Elizabeth I, Octavia Hill and Odette Churchill. As usual, it will be held at Christchurch, Bedford Road, Hitchin, SG5 1HF. Non- members welcome, £2 on the door. (membership of National Trust not necessary). Tea and coffee served during the evening. Second hand books and homemade preserves are on sale at every meeting. Further information from Secretary Mrs Colette House, 01462 815585

Harpenden Macmillan 2019 February Film Night - Fri 8 Feb Harpenden Macmillan’s annual film at the public halls is a really popular winter event. This year we are showing French film (with subtitles) "L’ArnaCoeur" (Heartbreaker). Harpenden Public Halls, Southdown Road, Harpenden Maggini String Quartet - Fri 8 Feb Programme Includes: Haydn: String Quartet in A major Op 20 No 6 Lennox Berkeley: String Quartet No 2 (1941) Tchaikovsky: String Quartet No 3 in E flat minor Op 30. Benslow Music Trust, Ibberson Way, Hitchin

Curious About St Albans - Wed 6 Feb Have fun discovering St Albans with two selfguided, quirky, heritage walks with an optional treasure hunt. Buy in booklet or instant download format. Are you curious about St Albans? Looking for an unusual and quirky activity which gets you out in the fresh air whatever the weather? St Albans City Centre, Starts: St Peter’s Church St Albans

Pasadena Roof Orchestra - Sat 9 Feb The Pasadena Roof Orchestra was formed 50 years ago and is still going strong. Their show includes famous tunes such as Puttin’ on the Ritz, Sweet Georgia Brown, The Lullaby of Broadway as well as hot numbers from the twenties such as Duke Ellington’s Black and Tan Fantasy. Rhodes Art Complex, 1-3 South Rd, Bishop’s Stortford

The Flora and Fauna of Albania - Wed 6 Feb An illustrated talk by Ann & John Wallington, who are active members in a camera club and have travelled extensively. 8pm at Small Hall, Elm Court Youth and Community Centre, Mutton Lane, Potters Bar

Jumble Sale in aid of Cats Protection - Sat 9 Feb Jumble sales are great fun so come along and bag yourself a bargain! Books, toys and games, clothes of all shapes and sizes (some of them nearly new) from baby to adult, shoes, bric-a-brac, sheets, curtains, cushions and other household items. The Village Hall, Potten End, nr Berkhamsted

BCS Herts: GDPR 9 Months On - Thu 7 Feb Ian Fish, Chair, BCS Information Security Specialist Group In May 2017 the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) was introduced by the UK Government to much hype. Its aim was to protect the public from unauthorised and possibly illegal use of personal data by organisations but was met with wide confusion. Lindop Building, University of Hertfordshire, College Lane, Hatfield

Leoncavallo’s greatest opera - Pagliacci Sun 10 Feb 7pm (approx. 1 hour 10) Based on a real life murder case, this thrilling and gritty opera boasts Ruggero Leoncavallo’s most amazing score, one of the greatest tenor arias of all time, and a story to surpass any modern day soap opera. Park Hall, Leyton Rd, Harpenden

National Trust Watford and District Association - Thu 7 Feb Speaker: Helen George. The presentation focuses on the challenges faced by the retail establishments in Watford during the war and also the opportunities which arose for these

Valentines Day Sale - Sun 10 Feb Jewellery Stall, Ladies Gift Sets, Men’s Gift Sets, Make

Goose Suite Liszt: Hungarian Rhapsody No 2 and works by Mozart, Schubert and Brahms. Benslow Music Trust, Ibberson Way, Hitchin

Up Stall, Perfume Stall, Games Stall With Lucky Heart Lolly Game, Bean Bag Toss, Hook A Heart, Lucky Dip. Food and Refreshments Available. Nash Mills Village Hall, Lower Road, Hemel Hempstead

The 80s Night - Fri 15 Feb 2 DJs- 2 rooms- 1 great night. Downstairs for the best in 80s soul and upstairs for classic 80s pop and party. Bushey Sports Club, Aldenham Rd, Bushey

Strictly Come Hospice - Sun 10 Feb Have you ever fancied learning the Salsa or Rumba? Well this is your opportunity to have seven weeks of professional dance lessons, and perform at our Grande Finale in front of an audience of 500 people and our panel of expert judges! YMCA Watford Charter Place Watford

Boogie Shack - Vintage Dance - Sat 16 Feb This vintage dance night will focus on playing an eclectic range of music from swing and jive to blues and RnB, so there’s something for everyone! This evening will have a slightly more relaxed atmosphere than usual (great for practising those new moves! The Zoo Café, Pioneer Hall, Ware Rd, Hertford

ADFAS Evening Talk: The Roaring Twenties: Art, Design and High Society - Wed 13 Feb Like its name, the Roaring Twenties was a loud and boisterous decade, marked by novelty, modernity and huge social, technological, and economic change. We are pleased to welcome tonight’s speaker Joanna Banham, a freelance curator, lecturer and writer who specialises in this period. The Civic Centre Berkhamsted, High Street, Berkhamsted

That’s Entertainment! - Sat 16 Feb Join local historian Edgar Lake for a lively illustrated talk on Hertford’s entertainment history. Enjoy some delicious tea and cake and discover how Hertford folk spent their free time. £5 per person includes refreshments. Booking essential! Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain, Hertford

Oklahoma! - Wed 13 to Sat 16 Feb Abbots Langley Gilbert & Sullivan Society presents Oklahoma! By Rodgers & Hammerstein Set in Western Indian Territory just after the turn of the 20th Century, the spirited rivalry between the local farmers and cowboys provides the backdrop for the love story between Curly, a handsome cowboy, and Laurey. Watford Palace Theatre

Ware Antique & Collectors Fair - Sun 17 Feb 30+ tables offering antiques and collectables Doors open at 10am to 4pm £1 entry (50p concessions) Free Car Parking Food and drink available. Age Concern Hall, Priory Street, Ware The Premier Knebworth Barns Wedding Fair - Sun 17 Feb The Premier Knebworth Wedding Fair is held in the historic and contemporary Barns set within the deer park at Knebworth House.

Bubbles and Bath Bombs - Wed 13 Feb Booking Essential, £10 per person Maximum 16 spaces Create your own bath bomb, foot scrub and lip balm over a glass of Prosecco. A perfect way to celebrate Valentine’s Day! Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain, Hertford

Ashridge Estate - Half term trail and craft Mon 18 to Fri 22 Feb Head into the visitor centre to complete your craft before following our hedgehog-themed trail around the woods. One of Ashridge’s hedgehogs has accidentally woken up early from hibernation and has sleepily wandered outside of his home. Unfortunately, he is now lost in the woods. Ashridge Estate, Moneybury Hill, Berkhamsted

St Albans Scout and Guide Gang Show - Wed 13 to Sat 16 Feb Theatre show of singing, acting and dance by members of the Scout and Guide movements in St Albans. Alban Arena, Civic Centre, St Albans “Wildlife Down Under” – Chris Ward - Wed 13 Feb Illustrated talk organised by Watford Local RSPB Group. Another popular returnee this time showing us his pictures and telling us stories about the birds he has seen in Australia. Stanborough Centre, 609, St Albans Rd, Watford

Half Term Activities at Hertford Museum Tue 19 to Thu 21 Feb Join us for family friendly crafts during February Half Term. Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain, Hertford Panshanger Park Wildlife - Wed 20 Feb An illustrated talk by John Thurlbourne who is a local author and wildlife photographer. 8pm

Francesca Leonardi with Nigel Clayton - Fri 15 Feb Programme Includes: Ravel: Mother

The Perils of the Beer! - Sun 24 Feb Join Les Middlewood for a historical pub crawl along Victorian Hertford’s golden half mile and discover why Railway Street was no place for gentlefolk. There’s usually time for a refreshing beverage afterwards! £2 per person. Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain, Hertford

at Small Hall, Elm Court Youth and Community Centre, Mutton Lane, Potters Bar Family Practical Day - Thu 21 Feb Bring a responsible adult for this family practical day at Hilfield Park Nature Reserve, finishing with a tasty BBQ! Learn how to use loppers and bow saws in a safe environment while helping to keep the meadows and waterside margins of Hilfield Park Reservoir fantastic places for wildlife. Hilfield Park Nature Reserve, Hilfield Lane, Elstree

Bothered & Bewildered by Gail Young - Wed 27 Feb to Sat 2 Mar Bothered and Bewildered is a comedy drama by Gail Young about one woman’s struggle with Alzheimer’s. Set in 2001, the play follows Irene and her two daughters Louise and Beth as they lose their mum in spirit but not in body, and work out their own relationship. The Pump House Theatre and Arts Centre, Watford

Cabaret Magic Night and Dinner and Magic Show - Fri 22 Feb Join us for an evening of mystical entertainment, with a 2-course meal and cabaret magic show performed by Sylar and Steve Rowe. Ticket includes: Canapés reception and "close-up" magic performance 2-course sit-down meal Magic show performed by popular magicians Sylar and Steve Rowe. Aubrey Park Hotel. Hemel Hempstead Road

Beds Listings Panto in the Wild West - Fri 1 and Sat 2 Feb The Totternhoe Players are performing a unique pantomime with a cowboys and Indians theme. Poor Dusty Hollows is being driven off her land by the evil Sheriff Saddlesore and he will do anything he can to marry her daughter. Totternhoe Lower School, Church Road, Totternhoe

Coull String Quartet - Fri 22 Feb Programme Includes Fanny Mendelssohn (Hensel): String Quartet in E flat major Mozart: String Quartet No 14 in G major K 387 Beethoven: String Quartet No 8 in E minor Op 59 No 2 ‘Rasumovsky’ Benslow Music Trust, Benslow Lane, Hitchin

Winter Bird Walk - Sat 2 Feb A guided walk led by our team of expert Volunteers spotting the winter ducks and thrushes of the Millennium Country Park. Forest Centre, Station Road, Bedford

Fun Quiz by Darcie’s Wish, for Lister Maternity Unit - Sat 23 Feb A fun Quiz is designed to entertain, and perhaps educate, not to find the next "Brain of Britain". Teams are expected to be of 4-6 people, and will be given a warm-up round, several oral and picture rounds and a Marathon round - with scores being based on average per round to ensure all teams are in with a chance of winning. Dominate Fitness, Wedgwood Way, Stevenage

Go Johnny Go - Sat 2 Feb The Bands repertoire is made up from some of the best selling Records of the late 1950’s and early 1960’s From artistes including Elvis Presley, Buddy Holly, Billy Fury Marty Wilde, Cliff Richard, Chuck Berry etc. United Services Club, 160 High Street, South Dunstable

The Hatfield House Wedding Fair - Sun 24 Feb A simply wonderful wedding fair featuring 60 informative exhibitors held in the historic Old Palace and contemporary Riding School. There are two superb fashion shows at 12.30pm and 2.30pm featuring the latest bridal gowns and bridesmaid dresses together with menswear and live entertainment. Hatfield Park

Roxton Arts and Crafts Fair and Preloved Sale - Sat 2 Feb Something for everyone with original art and craft by local artists and a preloved sale. Hot refreshments served all day. Plenty of parking. Free admission. Roxton Village Hall, High Street, Roxton Race for Wildlife at RSPB The Lodge, Sandy - Sun 3 Feb Enjoy a 10k (2 loops) multiterrain route around The Lodge Nature reserve, taking in a couple of short, steep hills. Your entry includes a finisher’s goody bag, with all money raised supporting the work of the RSPB. The event will be marked

Herts Early Dance Session - Sun 24 Feb Members of the club lead a session on 16th century dances, to develop a programme for public performances during the summer. St Stephen’s Church Hall, St Stephen’s Church, 14 Watling Street, St Albans

St Valentine’s Dinner - Thu 14 and Sat 16 Feb Dine with your loved one with a delicious bespoke four-course St. Valentine’s dinner. The Woburn Hotel, Woburn

and marshalled with stop watch times (not chipped). The Lodge, Potton Road, Sandy Craft & Chat group - Mon 4 Feb Come join Kathie and friends at this two hour craft and chat group. You can learn many things such as hand spinning, crochet, knitting and embroidery. It is free so why not pop in and make new friends... Dunstable Downs Chiltern Gateway Centre

Childrens Wristband Fair Thu 14 to Sun 17 Feb Pay £7.99 and you get unlimited use of all our attractions consisting of inflatables, bungee trampolines, train ride, carousel, teacups and much more. We have food and refreshments and toilets facilities. Putnoe Primary School, Bedford

Lambing Is Back - Sat 9 to Sun 24 Feb Don’t miss out – book online to save! This February Half Term meet adorable new-born lambs in the Lamb Nursery, watch our fleecy friends take their first steps and get up close to bottle feed the older lambs. With many lambs expected this February, you might even be lucky enough to see one being born. Mead Open Farm, Stanbridge Road, Billington, Near Leighton Buzzard

Romantic Afternoon Tea - Thu 14 and Sat 16 Feb The perfect way to spend an afternoon. Enjoy a themed afternoon tea created especially for this occasion by The Executive Chef Olivier. The Woburn Hotel, Woburn Family Fun in the Woods - Thu 14 Feb Marston Vale Forest School are hosting special two hour sessions this half term, for anyone who wants to try den/shelter building, fire lighting, scavenger hunting and woodland arts and crafts! All activities are guided but parental supervision is required. Forest Centre, Station Road, Bedford

Illustrated talk Hardy Plant Society - Sat 9 Feb The Hardy Plant Society is a national organisation for keen gardeners, whether beginners or more experienced. Our friendly group has over 90 members and meets on the first Saturday every month from September till April. In the summer we organise both local and residential garden-related visits. Weatherley Centre, Eagle Farm Road, Biggleswade

Psychic Switch - Fri 15 Feb Experience 4 different Psychics, Mediums in 1 amazing psychic night. Book a ticket for yourself or come with friends, family etc for a great social psychic evening. Everyone is guaranteed a message. Bar open, over 18’s only. Park Inn, Bedford

Planetarium 2019 - Tue 12 to Fri 15 Feb The planetarium is back! There will be the fantastic astronomers, Martin and Alan from Dark Sky Wales, to guide you through the galaxies. This year we will be hosting a brand new show and popcorn will be available, so relax sit back and look up at the stars. £4 per person regardless of age. Dunstable Downs Chiltern Gateway Centre

Blunham Giant Book Sale - Sat 16 Feb Come and browse and buy our huge selection of nearly new books. Enjoy refreshments teas/coffee cakes & biscuits, home made soup. All profits to Blunham Church Fabric Fund. St Edmund and St James Parish Church, Blunham

The Devil’s Violin presents Stolen - Wed 13 Feb Spellbinding storytellers perform their kaleidoscopic fairytale. A young prince falls endlessly down through the darkness. In a field of giant poppies, a beautiful old woman is trapped in a cottage nestled in a huge claw. Luton Library Theatre, St George’s Square, Luton

Jumble Sale - Sat 16 Feb Our ever-popular annual WI Jumble Sale which always has high quality goods including clothes for all, shoes, handbags, household linens toys, lots of books, Bric-a-brac, white elephant etcetera. Free parking; refreshments available. This is held by Pavenham WI. The Village Hall, Pavenham, Bedford

Theatre of Widdershins (Kids Show) - Wed 13 Feb ‘Snow White, Rose Red, Bear Brown’ The Theatre of Widdershins presents a show unlike any other - with puppets, storytelling, original music and a treasure hunt! Doors 4.30pm, Show 5 - 6pm (with no interval) £6. Forest Centre, Bedford

Biggleswade Antique & Vintage Fair - Sun 17 Feb If you love antiques, you’ll love this fair. Packed with over 45 stalls with an abundance of every type of antique you can think of including silver, jewellery of all types, books, small furniture, pictures, advertising, china

Cliveden Suite - four pieces of music inspired by the Cliveden women of ‘Misrepresented'’. We’re inviting you hear the next part of Cliveden’s Women and Power; ‘Misrepresented’ programme. Cliveden, Taplow, Maidenhead

and lots of vintage too. The Weatherley Centre, Eagle Farm Road, Biggleswade Wedding Fair - Thu 21 Feb A chance to view the Forest Centre setup for a Ceremony and Wedding Breakfast and meet some fabulous, local suppliers. Brides who pre-register get a free goodie bag on arrival. Parking is free for this event. Forest Centre, Station Road, Bedford

Art and Us - til Wed 6 Feb Art and Us is a new programme of stimulating and enjoyable art activities for families with children aged 5+ with complex needs. These weekly sessions enable families to work directly with an artist to explore their creative interests. MK Gallery, 900 Midsummer Boulevard, Milton Keynes

Embroiderers’ Guild Bedford Branch - Thu 21 Feb Do you enjoy textiles? Would you like to learn some new techniques or just see great work in a friendly setting? Would you love to buy previously loved fabrics, threads, magazines or books at very reasonable prices? St Mark’s Church Hall, Calder Rise, Bedford

Cliveden - Cliveden Critters workshop - Wed 6, Wed 13, Wed 20, Wed 27 Feb These workshops teach little ones the value of nature from a young age. In a small group, they’ll explore Cliveden’s estate and create their own adventure. A weekly workshop for pre-school children aged 2-4.5 years, with hands-on creative crafts, nature-focused activities and story-time. Cliveden, Taplow, Maidenhead

Stables + support - live at Forest Folk and Roots - Fri 22 Feb Their debut album ’Beyond Brushes’ was released to critical acclaim in August 2016, and was championed by the likes of BBC’s Steve Lamacq, Tom Robinson and BBC6 Recommends amongst others, soon establishing them firmly on the live circuit, with a growing fan base. The College Arms Bar, College Road, Cranfield

Winter Weekends - Sat 2, Sun 3, Sat 9, Sun 10, Sat 16, Sun 17, Sat 23, Sun 24 Feb The cold weather bring frosty mornings, scenic snowdrops and winter aconites to the Waddesdon grounds. Enjoy a bracing walk on one of our five mapped routes and take in the superb wintery landscapes, across the Aylesbury Vale. Take the family on a multisensory adventure with a sensory map and backpack. Waddesdon Manor, Waddesdon, Near Aylesbury

Skittles Evening - Sat 23 Feb Fantastic fun Skittles Evening. Come and make your team a winner! The bar will be open and sausage in a roll is included with the ticket. You can have more if you feel sausagey! Shillington Village Hall, High Road, Shillington Baby and Children’s Market Biggleswade Sun 24 Feb Lots of stalls, bursting with top quality LIKE NEW baby & children’s items from birth to 8 yrs plus a small selection of unique businesses in the baby & children’s industry showcasing and selling their products & services all under one roof! The Weatherley Centre, Eagle Farm Road, Biggleswade

Hughenden - Royal Gifts of Hughenden - til Fri 15 Feb From Victoria R: The royal gifts of Hughenden. Benjamin Disraeli, Hughenden’s famous resident, was Queen Victoria’s favourite prime minister. Discover the stories behind the gifts she gave him. Booking Not Needed. N/A. Assistance Dogs only are welcome. Hughenden, High Wycombe

The Story of Guitar Heroes - Wed 27 Feb “If you like music and guitars you will love this show!” Jimi Hendrix, Eric Clapton, Hank Marvin, Brian May and Slash are just some of the outstanding guitar heroes you will have chance to experience in one amazing show! The Grove Theatre, Grove Park, Court Drive, Dunstable

The Cat in the Hat - til Sun 3 Feb From the producers of The Twits and George’s Marvellous Medicine, comes this fantastic production of Dr. Seuss’ classic The Cat in the Hat. When The Cat in the Hat steps onto the mat, Sally and her brother are in for a rollercoaster ride of havoc and mayhem! Aylesbury Waterside Theatre, Exchange Street, Aylesbury

Bucks Listings Cliveden - The Cliveden Suite - til Thu 28 Feb To celebrate the opening of the fully conserved Sounding Chamber, we present The

Cliveden - Snowdrop Walk - Fri 1 Feb to Sun 31 Mar A self-guided walk around the Estate

the story of King Arthur in true pantomime style with some brilliantly original characters and enjoyable songs. Written and directed by Kyrsty Hardy. Winslow Public Hall, Elmfields Gate, Winslow

to see the first signs of snowdrops. Follow the snowdrops around the estate on a self-led walk. The best clusters of snowdrops are expected at Blenheim Lawn, Stable Bank and Ilex Grove (weather depending). Cliveden, Taplow, Maidenhead,

Art and Us - Thu 7 Feb Art and Us is a new programme of stimulating and enjoyable art activities for families with children aged 5+ with complex needs. These weekly sessions enable families to work directly with an artist to explore their creative interests. MK Gallery, 900 Midsummer Boulevard, Milton Keynes

Vicki Swann and Jonny Dyer @The Song Loft - Fri 1 Feb Vicki Swan & Jonny Dyer have developed a strong reputation for a delivering great performances time and time again. Once known mainly for their instrumental skills with Scottish smallpipes, accordion and Swedish nyckelharpa, they are now being accepted as impressive song arrangers and writers. York House Centre, London Road, Stony Stratford

Buckinghamshire Genealogical Society - Sat 9 Feb Hatches, Matches, Despatches. A registrar’s tips and wrinkles on what you can find in those birth marriage and death certificates. Explanations on why they do not seem to be there at all, or even in the right place. Anthony Marr gives expert tips to aid us in our research. Southcourt Community Centre, Prebendal Avenue, Aylesbury.

Glorious Glass! - Sat 2 Feb to Sat 23 Mar An exhibition celebrating 20 years of the Contemporary Glass Society 2 February – 23 March 2019 Experience the magical colours, textures, use of light and techniques of around 40 glass artists that demonstrate the glorious and diverse nature of contemporary glass. Many works will be for sale. Buckinghamshire County Museum and Roald Dahl Children’s Gallery, Church Street, Aylesbury

Claydon - Behind the scenes Tours - Sat 9, Sun 10, Sat 16, Sun 17 Feb Take a sneak peek behind the scenes to see the team at work and have a go at some conservation techniques yourself. Work doesn’t stop over the winter as the collection and the house get a deep clean and a sort. Join a tour and find out what the team get up to behind closed doors. Booking essential. Claydon, Middle Claydon, near Buckingham

Come & Sing - Verdi Requiem - Sat 2 Feb A brilliant day awaits you, singing Verdi’s iconic Requiem. Whether you’ve sung it before or not, now is your chance to join a group of experienced singers and spend the day rehearsing it under the baton of musical director, Tom Hammond-Davies. The Beaconsfield School, Wattleton Road, Beaconsfield

Bachfest in Marlow - Sat 9 Feb The musicians of the Chiltern Camerata follow up the exceptional success of their most recent concert when they visit All Saints’ Parish Church, Marlow SL7 2AA, on Saturday 9th February 2019 at 7.30 p.m. This concert is a celebration of J.S.Bach including his Magnificat in D. All Saints Parish Church, The Causeway, Marlow

Taplow House Hotel Wedding Fair - Sun 3 Feb All the needs of your special day under one roof. Cars, Cakes, Menswear, Bridal wear, Photographers, Entertainment, Jewellery, Hair & Make Up, Stationery and much, much more... Venue show rounds available on request. Berry Hill, Taplow, Nr Maidenhead

An Audience without Jake Thackray - Sat 9 Feb We are delighted to present John Watterson’s new show for 2019, ‘An Audience without Jake Thackray’ The late Jake Thackray is being increasingly acknowledged as one of the greatest English songwriters of the twentieth century, a unique talent, whose songs are full of humour, poetry, wit, irreverence and humanity. York House Centre, London Road, Stony Stratford

Cliveden - Guided Walk with Cliveden’s Head Gardener - Wed 6 Feb Take part in an exclusive guided walk with Cliveden’s Head Gardener Anthony Mason and find out more about these Grade I listed gardens. If you’ve ever asked yourself, ‘What do gardeners do in the winter' this is the perfect ticket for you. Cliveden, Taplow, Maidenhead

Hughenden - Forester Walk - Tue 12 Feb Join a ranger for a two hour woodland walk through Disraeli’s German Forest, followed by

King Arthur: It’s Panto Knight - Thu 7 to Sat 9 Feb Winslow Players’ annual pantomime is

Soup and tea/coffee in the cafe. Booking Essential. Phone: 0344 2491895. Not suitable for children. Dogs on leads welcome. Hughenden, High Wycombe

unusual materials to create your own little ‘budling’ and growing pot. Queens Park Arts Centre, Queens Park, Aylesbury Talk by Barry Oxley on the National Parks of California - Tue 19 Feb BBOWT Chilterns Group welcomes all to this illustrated talk in our winter programme at Great Missenden. Barry has recently visited many of California’s parks and will take us to Death Valley and Yosemite among others, looking at the creatures which inhabit some of the wildest places on earth. Great Missenden Memorial Centre

Paul Carrack - Fri 15 Feb Milton Keynes Theatre, Milton Keynes Cliveden - February half-term trail - Sat 16 to Sun 24 Feb Wrap up warm and get outdoors with our children’s trail. Children will have fun exploring Cliveden estate on this February half-term trail. At the end of the trail little ones will make their own craft to take home. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Booking Not Needed. Cliveden, Taplow, Maidenhead,

Chartridge Lodge Wedding Fair - Sat 23 Feb Brides bring the whole family and relax in this stunning period wedding venue nr Chesham, Bucks, or perhaps take a stroll around the wonderful and tranquil grounds. Meet over 30 local quality exhibitors covering every aspect of your wedding. Enjoy our rare wedding gown trunk and fashion shows at 12. Chartridge Lane

The Eleventh Bletchley Seed Swap - Sat 16 Feb Calling all keen gardeners! Come and select something different to grow this year from our wide range of locally grown, heritage, and commercial varieties of seeds: Fruit, vegetables, herbs and flowers. No seeds of your own to swap? No problem! Seed packets can be taken home for a small donation. Freeman Church Hall, Buckingham Rd, Bletchley, Milton Keynes

RISEX 2019 Model Railway Exhibition - Sat 23 Feb Presented by Risborough & District Model Railway Club The whole of the Community Centre in Princes Risborough is taken over one day in the spring each year. Allowing local modellers to display their layouts and model making. Community Centre, Wades Park, Stratton Road, Princes Risborough

Model Railway Exhibition, Milton Keynes Sat 16 and Sun 17 Feb A special two-day show to celebrate out 50th anniversary! Always popular with families and children as well as experienced modellers, our annual exhibition is one of the biggest and bestattended model railway shows in the region. Stantonbury Leisure Centre, Stantonbury, Milton Keynes

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Death and Memorium: Disraeli and Victorian mortality - Mon 18 Feb to Thu 18 Apr Discover the curious world of Victorian funerary traditions and explore items from Hughenden’s collection relating to the demise of its most famous resident Benjamin Disraeli. Booking Not Needed. Suitable for older children. Assistance Dogs only are welcome. Hughenden, High Wycombe

Listings To get your listings included in the March Issue of The Sticks

Children’s February Half-term Workshops Mon 18 to Fri 22 Feb Carve a Maze with Jeremy Turner Create a pattern then transfer it to MDF and carve your very own marble-run puzzle.: ‘Budlings’ with Pippa North A wonderful opportunity to use a variety of

Email the details, putting listings in the subject line, to thesticks9@gmail.com Deadline: Monday 11th February