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If you have ever wanted to make a difference in the staggering hunger statistics in our state, but didn’t know where to direct your resources, Second Harvest is an excellent choice—Right now. Second Harvest has an incredible opportunity to receive a $500,000 Challenge Grant. If they can raise a minimum of $500,000 in gifts and pledges by December 31, 2016, Second Harvest will receive a $500,000 grant from the Williams Family Foundation. This will mean so much for our community. Second Harvest will be able to pay off the low interest USDA rural development mortgage on their newest facility here in town. To break it down, when the mortgage is paid off, Executive Director Eliza McCall and company will be able to provide an additional 100,000 meals per year to people in need. They are encouraging people to commit to a 5x5 Gift or $500 per year for 5 years. However, any commitment level or one-time donations are welcome. Second Harvest bridges that silent hunger gap for so many that don’t qualify for assistance and still need help. Chief Marketing Officer Eliza McCall says, “We are not competing with local agencies. We are working with them. The more successful we are, the more successful they are.” Across all four Second Harvest locations there are only 38 staff members responsible for serving 30 counties. Last year alone Second Harvest distributed 14.5 million meals to food insecure individuals across those different counties. This includes nearly 3,000 children that are fed daily in the 43 kid cafe sites and all but one Boys and Girls Club in the service area.
The facility is modest, yet state of the art. The large structure was engineered to withstand high winds and store thousands of pounds of food at a time. Refrigerated trucks back up to a 55-degree cold dock where fresh and frozen goods are unloaded, preliminarily inspected and moved to a large refrigerator or freezer room. The freezer is literally so cold that it requires a special suit and mask to prevent frostbite. The dry storage is impressively organized. The facility has a large-scale commercial kitchen, put together with the same detail for efficiency, where meals are prepared daily to distribute to hungry kids. The kitchen is designed with the ability to produce as many as 10,000 meals a day. There is a designated shopping area for individuals, churches, foster parents and other organizations to come in and choose specific items that they need. Second Harvest even partners with FEMA and is often one of the first to mobilize to distribute supplies for disaster relief. In addition to providing meals, Second Harvest realizes that parents struggling to feed children are also struggling to buy school supplies. Since teachers can only write off $200 per year, Second Harvest started a pop-up shop six years ago in Valdosta, called Teacher’s Harvest. As of September 10, Thomasville will have its very first Teacher’s Harvest pop up store right here in the Thomasville Second Harvest facility. These lucky teachers will get to shop directly for school supplies for students in their classrooms. Depending on donations, teachers could get to choose from basics like crayons and pencils to larger needs like desks, chairs and tablets. Having to choose between paying for a basic need or food is not a choice anyone in America should be faced with. To take the 5x5 Challenge and help make a difference, visit Second Harvest of South Georgia online at http://feedingsga.org/5x5challenge/ — Cherie L.
So.Ho. Opens Its Doors The Wait is Over, Y'All!
The long wait for the opening of So.Ho., downtown’s newest restaurant, only heightened our anticipation for what was going to be cooking behind those impressive glass front doors. You may have snagged a meal over the last week if you grabbed one of those coveted reservations during the restaurant’s dry run, but worry not, Townies, availability will soon be much wider. Beginning September 1, So.Ho.. will be open Monday – Saturday for lunch and Thursday – Saturday for dinner. No reservation needed. Perhaps you’ve already enjoyed Chef Skyler Cadenhead’s pimento dumplings or chicken yakitori, but have you sampled the pork belly with blueberry ginger sticky glaze? Sticky glaze. If lovin’ that is wrong, I don’t wanna be right. “Skyler loves to cook and I love the hospitality,” says Carolyn Cadenhead, owner and wife of Chef Skyler. They met at culinary school, so I’m betting if we got them in the kitchen together, they would cook up some unheard-of goodness. Since So.Ho. dishes up “Southern looking east” cuisine, your curiosity may be piqued if you’ve noticed the touches of art deco styling. I’ll let you in on a bit of interesting trivia about that later on. As delicious as it is, the food is only part of the story behind this dream establishment by the Cadenheads. With a mutual love of food, farm and flavor, the couple traveled a path from culinary school to marriage and kids to opening their very own restaurant. They, like all of us, have a story to tell, and they decided to bring their story to life in the design of their building. The modern-rustic take on the canning-jar light fixtures are a nod to the decorating style used for their wedding. Even during the day, the lights give off just the right glow for a celebratory meal. The weathered bar and matching light fixture above are made of hefty beams and wood salvaged from the Okaloosa Island Pier
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where Skyler spent many hours with his dad while growing up. As you walk past the bar you can’t help but notice the massive barn doors that frame the kitchen. Skyler and Carolyn’s daughter competes in national horse shows with her Arabian, and the doors pay homage to her passion. Locals will remember the building was home for over 20 years to the educational supply and toy store, Shapes and More. Many of us took our children or grandchildren there to play with the trains, push the tiny shopping cart or select a new book or game. To honor that history, there’s a special kids’ area with a chalkboard wall and toys. Skyler and Carolyn have a three-year-old child themselves, so they get it. There’s more! The upstairs restoration has given way to a grand hall for banquets, movie nights and watching Broad Street events from the big windows. What made the owners think of hosting movie nights? It turns out the building was a theater at one time, hence the reason for the art deco touches. You’ll notice the art deco sign lettering, kitchen ceiling and bathrooms. On dinner and movie nights, we can pretend that it’s Hollywood in Thomasville. So.Ho. seems to be just the right compliment to downtown’s impressive and diverse restaurant scene. Not long ago, a Tallahassee resident shared with me that he and his wife love coming to Thomasville several times each month, and they bring along friends or family. Their favorite thing to do is walk to two or three different spots to enjoy drinks, dinner, dessert, coffee and entertainment. That may qualify as a progressive dinner party. Whatever it’s called, we love that others love it. Come often! See you later. I’m off to So.Ho. to grab the peach and praline pie.
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After spending some time in other places, you’re back in South Georgia; essentially, you’re back home. What’s your favorite part about life in the South? My favorite part is just enjoying the place, how deeply connected I am to this place and how happy and settled I feel when I’m here. I feel this place deeply, almost genetically, in my bones. And what’s been the hardest part about coming home? The South I grew up with was a place where you could name people within five miles of you who had these incredible intellectual pursuits: ham radio operators, bird watchers… people who were educated, even if it was self-educated. That’s harder to find now. The rural South is just a harder place to live, and that’s what I grapple with a lot. I’m afraid I’m watching our culture disappear. I’m going to turn the tables a little bit. What books would you recommend for people who love Ecology and want to read more about the South you know and love? My first thought is Zora Neale Hurston and Their Eyes Were Watching God. Cross Creek by Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings is especially beautiful, and The Yearling is wonderful fiction. Sue Cerulean’s Coming to Pass, Illumination in the Flatwoods by Joe Hutto, and of course, Bailey White and Patrick Smith’s A Land Remembered. Janisse will be at Southern Regional Technical College on Thursday, September 22, at 7p. Tickets are $10 and are available online {www.onebookthomascounty.org} or at The Bookshelf and the public library. — Annie J.
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Preservation IS Progress: Landmarks Award Nominations Now Open I am crazy about the movie Muriel’s Wedding. When that ugly little boy runs about screaming “you can’t stop progress!” I just roar. And, he is correct. You can’t stop progress any more than you can stop time or crow’s feet. But, how one interprets and defines progress depends upon the person.
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Landmarks Executive Director Lee Webb and Development Director Mary Lawrence Lang recently announced that the organization is currently accepting nominations for the annual Preservation Honor Awards. The deadline to submit nominations is 5p on September 6. “Preservation Awards are truly about honoring the doers: the folks who’ve rolled up their sleeves and rehabbed old houses,” said Mary Lawrence, “the ones who’ve transformed historic buildings into prosperous businesses, the people who prove every day that preservation makes sense and makes Thomasville the unique and thriving place we all get to enjoy.” Award winners will also be acknowledged at Landmarks’ Annual Membership Picnic held at the absolutely stunning Susina Plantation on October 13—Save the date for that, too. I also spoke to my longtime friend, Lee Webb, via phone. “The beauty of these awards.” he said, “is the recognition of Historic Preservation interest and the interest of complementary and compatible new projects that make living in Thomasville and Thomas County so wonderful.” The keywords from Lee that ring the truest with me are “complementary and compatible new projects.” I have said it before and will say it again here. New construction does not have to be ugly or something to fear.
Nominations are being accepted for both individuals and organizations. Owners may nominate their own historic properties or compatible new construction projects for consideration as well. These awards honor people and organizations whose time, money, sensitivity and creativity have enriched Thomasville’s historic community and helped make the ‘Ville a worthwhile place to call home. Since 1976, these awards have highlighted the accomplishments of those who seek progress by preserving our past and by inspiring others to become involved through education, experience and, most importantly, by example. Probably one of the most apt quotes on preservation I have heard in a while. Landmarks is a non-profit, member-supported organization dedicated to the preservation, protection and promotion of the architecture and heritage of Thomas County. Everyone in the community, property owner or not, is encouraged to join the organization and become a supporter. For more information regarding participation or to download a nomination form, visit thomasvillelandmarks.org or call {229} 226-6016. I urge everyone to get involved. You can’t stop progress but, to me and to the outstanding folks over at Landmarks, Preservation IS progress! —Davey B.
Tutus and Tennis Shoes to Benefit South Georgia Ballet On September 10, South Georgia Ballet {SGB} will host the Tutus and Tennis Shoes 5K + Fun Run. Both adults and children can participate in the run to benefit the new SGB special needs dance program. SGB hopes to raise $5,000 from this event. This will help get this program started with certifications for instructors, transportation costs and instructor’s fees. “We are so excited to start a program where children with various special needs can come and learn the art of movement. It has been proven that dance can be a wonderful outlet for children who have trouble communicating verbally to have the ability to communicate through movement,” said Melissa June, Artistic Director and Outreach Coordinator for SGB. The special needs dance program will have children from Harper and Scott Elementary bused to South Georgia Ballet's studios, housed at the Thomasville Center for the Arts, to have lessons in ballet, contemporary and jazz inspired movement classes. Senior level dancers will be assisting in these classes as well, so there is more of a one on one atmosphere for these learners. “As South Georgia Ballet's Mission is to help reach under-served communities in our area, this helps give this specific group of children's parents another resource to help serve their children's needs,” said June.
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The categories for nomination include: Award of Outstanding Achievement, Award of Merit, Award of Stewardship and Award for Contributing Addition to the Community. A committee will review the nominations and the winners will be notified in October.
Everfan recently added tutus to their product line with the ability to customize or personalize. Everfan recognized the opportunity to partner with Tutus and Tennis Shoes 5K + Fun Run and provide tutus for the event. Everfan is giving 20% of all tutu purchases for
The stylish house In the last issue, I pondered the correct times to approach or involve an interior designer or project manager in a house project. Upon reflecting on my own experiences and a few horror stories from colleagues, I have come to realize, there are both appropriate and inappropriate times to speak with a professional. I cannot tell you the number of eye rolls I have courageously subdued. Certain moments that might not the best time to approach are:
The Cocktail Approach It’s always nice to mix business with pleasure. When it is both of your pleasures, that is. Collaring a professional for ideas and input after a few drinks may seem like a good idea at the time, but in reality, no one wants to talk business at a cocktail party. It is as boring and boorish as a wine boor.
The Poach Approach Never, never, ever admire a friend’s project and then put the bite on the sub-contractors or designer to further your own goals. You may lose said friend and are putting the third parties in an awkward position. Bad form.
The Fat Cat Approach Dangling tales of big budgets and custom plans will generally get you some attention but rarely is a decision to accept a project motivated by the compensation alone. Although, as Scarlett said to Rhett, “Money does help," braggadocio regarding your project only makes you a braggart. So, when is a good time to approach and involve an interior designer or project manager? Suffice to say it is the opposite from above. But…… DO ask for a business card or contact information if you meet someone whom you think could contribute positively to your project. Ask when a good time to reach out would be and then keep the appointment. Be specific with questions and be clear on intentions.
the race back to SGB and will be setting up a table at the event for anyone who needs a last minute tutu. To order a tutu, visit everfan. com or call Everfan at {229} 234-1222. “We thought it would be a great opportunity to work with a great organization {Several of our employees have little dancers in their program, including myself} and start getting the word out about our new tutus,” said Scott Chastain, owner of Everfan. There will be face painting and a dance party for young runners while the veteran runners are kicking dust up doing the 5K. Registered runners will get a t-shirt and a gift bag from sponsors with lots of goodies. “We have been so encouraged with how much support we have received from the community. We want to give a special thank you to our Season Sponsor, Thomas County Federal for always supporting our programming as well as our Presenting Sponsor, Shaw Center for Women's Health and our event sponsor, Archbold. Together, we all strive to better the health and well-being of our communities' families in a fun and family friendly way,” said June. To register for the Tutus and Tennis Shoes 5K + Fun Run, visit runsignup.com/Race/Events/GA/Thomasville/ TutusandTennisShoes. Registration for adults is $25. Registration for children is $15. Visit SGB {@SouthGeorgiaBallet} and Everfan {@Everfan} on Facebook. —Denise P.
DO give credit where credit is due. Asking for a reference regarding a friend’s experience is a classy segue into approaching them for contact information or an introduction upon completion of their project. DO indicate seriousness and commitment to the project up front regardless of budget. A talented, creative designer will find a way of making any budget work sans an act of God, inspectors or termites. If you are not ready, say so. In my experience, most customers really don’t want to be bothered after the initial rush. There are exceptions, of course. But, remember, project managers, interior designers and the sub-contractors who work with them are not there to alleviate boredom or save a marriage. They are not your new best friends. If there is a need for work from skilled laborers, you should probably at least consider a project manager who speaks the lingo and can juggle vendors, crews and appointments. No one wants to become a general contractor, trust me. If your goal only involves a fresh look or new staging, a good, creative interior designer is probably all you need. Shop around. The most expensive isn’t always the best and the least expensive isn’t always the worst. Style knows no budget. — John David Bray, Jr. is a Project Manager/Designer at Landford Thompson Interiors. He sees clients in Thomasville by appointment. www.landfordthompsoninteriors.com
Townie Profile: My Kenpo Master Dad My Dad has always told me that he’s immortal. It was always so believable as a kid, because all ninja warriors are. Now I know that he was truly talking about his faith, but part of me still hasn’t grown out of the mentality that he will live forever.
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Dad is a native to Thomasville, born and raised. He’s been here for the better part of 75 years. This is home. Dad is just as rich in history as those bricks that pave our main streets in our beloved downtown. A lot of people know Ron Morris and affectionately refer him as Mr. Ron or Captain Ron. He’s highly respected in the community, especially among his peers. Whenever I meet someone that knows him the first thing they say is, “Your Daddy is a good man.” Mr. Ron has a reputation for being the best. He is more widely known for his leather crafting and upholstery skills. He has been working for the local plantations reupholstering and restoring classic antiques for more than 50 years. His reputation precedes him because his attention to detail produces exquisite results. He is a true craftsman and the magnitude of his quality makes him one of a kind. There are a lot of things that make him special, but there is something remarkable that is not widely known. My Dad is a legend. No, seriously. He’s humble and he would never utter those words in seriousness about himself, but it is the absolute truth. I would say his two most notable qualities are his integrity and his honor.
When he was in the Marine Corps, he served in Okinawa, Japan, where he learned the art of Okinawan Kenpo. Dad trained from 1961-1963 and received his black belt directly from Shigeru Nakamura, the Grand Master and founder of Okinawan Kenpo. My father was taught privately by Sensei Seijiro Maehara, one of Sensei Nakamura’s top students. Nakamura passed away in 1969 and my father was one of the handful of students through whom he entrusted his art form to be carried on. Ron Morris’ NO QUARTER Dojo is one of the very few places in America that you can receive 100% authentic Okinawan Kenpo training. So much of what is taught in American Karate schools is lacking the authentic details of what is believed to be the true art of Karate-Do, or empty hand self-defense. Many have turned it into a sport and Karate is not meant to be a sport. Martial Arts are a form of lethal protection; the word “martial” literally translates as “war,” thus an art of war. True to Nakamaura’s mentoring, Dad doesn’t take on just any student. In 50 years, he has awarded less than eleven black belts. True to his nature, he demands perfection and excellence. That is the way he was taught and that is what he teaches. I’ve just now come to truly comprehend the magnitude of how priceless his knowledge is. If you’re looking to learn how to protect yourself in a life or death situation, Master Ron's is the place to go. Classes are small and require a commitment.
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Save the Date: Sunday, September 25. First Baptist Church will host a Festival of Congregational Singing to mark organist Margaret Grady’s 50 years as a key figure in the musical part of worship at the church. The event begins at 4p and will be followed by a catered reception. It is free and open to the public.
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Dinner on the Bricks: The Full Scoop The third time is charmed. So, this edition of the annual Dinner on the Bricks event, benefitting the children of the Vashti Center, should be the table setter. And wouldn’t that be lovely? Reserve your tables for up to eight people, each table beginning at $300, any time right up until September 24. {Townie forewarning: They are already one-third sold.} As always, the decorating is limited to the tables and chairs and you do the decorating, focus your creative lens however your mind leads you, however, keep it clean. Event Guidelines and Code{s} of conduct are provided at www.vashti.org if you think it behooves you to be refreshed. With regard to alcohol consumption, it is available but limited within the event area. Cash sales will be set up at a designated station outside Bacchus Wine Bar. Wristbands will be provided—no brown bagging. This year you and your group may grill-out behind Bacchus, but contact Matt Delarber {229} 672-0099 beforehand, as you’ll need to make all such arrangements in advance with him. The unloading and reloading zone will be in the parking lot beside Keep It Tight Haircuts at the intersection of Stevens and West
Jackson Streets—before 6p and then after the event at 10p. Public parking can be found behind Trinity Church and along streets in the area but not at the venue site along West Jackson. DJ’s to Go will be on-hand handling the music. There will be dancing that moves into Bacchus' Event Room after ten. Celebrity judges this year: Tracy Goode: author, director and producer {Levee Studios in Tifton} and Art Meyers: anchorman at WCTV – Channel Six — in Tallahassee, they will award prizes for tables in three categories: Most Original, Most Elegant and Best Overall. The presenting sponsor this year is Flowers Automotive Group. Please note that West Jackson Street will be shut down for Dinner on the Bricks, Saturday, September 24 from 4p until 10p. Come have fun. From Liz Williams at Vashti: “Healthy kids + healthy hearts equal a healthy community.” Register at www.vashti.org.dinneronthebricks/ or call the Vashti Center at {229} 226-4634 {Townie tidbit: A listing of yummy caterers is available on the Vashti website.} — Benjamin G.
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Morris, a Marine Corps veteran and a black belt in Okinawan Kenpo, originally learned this specific martial art when he was stationed in Okinawa, Japan during the 1960s, where the art began. As a native Townie, Morris has been teaching since 1963 and raised his two daughters here as well. Lee comments that the rules her dad has posted in the dojo, mainly “stay alert, stay aware,” have been repeated to her constantly throughout her life. This Save Your Life Self Defense course is open to everyone, though it is specifically geared towards older teen and adult women. Morris says that “everyone has their head in a hole when it comes to defending themselves” and that “once you learn how to defend yourself and you know that you can hurt someone, you’re less likely to.”
During an interview, after hearing more about the job, the applicant will sometimes say he or she wants the job because of the benefits. In those cases it may be hard to spot a spark of interest, much less passion. That's why it's so important to make it as easy as possible for the applicant to describe what he or she would most look forward to if chosen for the position. Another overused interview response is, “I like working with people.” Okay, the majority of us will work with people, so have that potential hire tell you something more. If the applicant cannot convince you that he or she is the best hire in the world for the position, your word of the day is: “Next!” As the employer, you should create interview questions that allow both the interviewer and applicant plenty of opportunity to open up and give you the answers you need to see if each candidate is truly a good fit for your business. If an applicant is unable to express real interest in the job and share experiences that back up that interest, that applicant may not be the right fit. Should you hire out of desperation due to lack of suitable applicants? Please, don’t. Getting the right people in the right places in the company can mean everything. Think of it this way: Imagine you’re searching for a nanny to care for your children. The resume checks out, the
"What was the highlight of your Summer, 2016?" In Fort Knox, Kentucky, I watched my 92-year-old father, a WWII and Korean war veteran, get inducted into the first cohort of the Army ROTC Hall of Fame. — Lisa M.
Here are six ways to nurture your very best friendships: Be a good listener: Sometimes it’s all about you, but when it’s not, accept that and be quiet. Listen, and remember, so you are able to give sound and valuable advice. Be honest and objective: Your friend doesn’t always need a "yes" girl. If you don’t agree, choose your words kindly, let go of judgment, and help her gain perspective by looking at another point of view to gain clarity. Objectivity is really a girl’s best friend. Boundaries are ok: A healthy friendship does not mean a codependent one. Respect for each others' boundaries and time are a must.
Not only does his course promise to teach the necessary self defense skills, it also shows someone how to follow their intuition and to be prepared. He goes on to explain that only when you truly have to defend yourself and cross the line, is when “you put them in the hospital.” What’s more, if someone feels like they need a little extra work, then extra lessons are included because Morris and Lee want to make sure people leave feeling confident in their skills. “This is not taught like a sport, this is taught as an art,” Morris explains, which expands beyond just this course. At No Quarter Dojo, which is an old war term for ‘no mercy’ or ‘no prisoners,’ courses are offered in traditional Okinawan Kenpo for all ages as are ‘bully-proofing’ and personal safety for children. For more info, contact Morris at {229} 221-3015 or Lee at {850} 766-5558 for enrollment. No Quarter Dojo can also be found on Facebook. — Catharine F.
Business Boost: Hiring the Right People It’s no surprise that people are happiest and perform better when they feel engaged and find meaning in their work. Employers crave to hire employees that care about the job, and they want to bring people on board who have true interest, experience and passion for the work and the mission. The question for you, employers, is how do you spot this kind of person when trying to fill a position?
Recently, I have been reminded of the beauty of friendship. I’m talking about those friends you can call at four in the morning who will pick up the phone without hesitation. You may have ups and downs through the years, but these girls are loyal to the bone and honest enough to say..."You looked better as a blonde." In the age of social media, the meaning of friendship has become somewhat diluted and having 500 Facebook friends certainly does not bring fulfillment. But true friends add such richness and beauty to each shared experience that we become better because of them! These relationships, however, cannot be one-sided. In order to have one, we must cultivate a few important traits.
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We adopted a big 17-years-old gelding from a local horse rescue. Chance is lame and unable to be ridden, but he has brought us, and our other rescues, joy as a companion, as a gorgeous “pasture ornament” and as a comedian! It has been our privilege to give Chance a chance. — Julie J.
Be supportive: Revel in your friend’s successes!
‘It’s Not A Sport, It’s An Art’
Starting September 10, Townies will have the chance to sign up and participate in an introductory course for Save Your Life Self Defense. For $350 per person, the six hour course will teach participants how to react in a situation where their life is being threatened. Taught by Ron Morris and his daughter Cherie Lee, the course can be found at his No Quarter Dojo off of West Jackson on Business Circle.
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person appears to meet the criteria set out for the job and you schedule a time to meet Applicant Amy. Amy arrives to the meeting five minutes early. Check. Her appearance is clean and she’s appropriately dressed. Check. Best of all, she enters with a friendly smile and good manners. This is a good start! During the interview, it’s as simple as asking Amy to describe her most recent nanny experience, in detail. Amy shares that although the children were well behaved, caring for them left too little time for her to build a more serious relationship with her boyfriend. She seems puzzled still as to why the parents would not allow her boyfriend to be in the home with her while she worked as a nanny—the reason, it turned out, that she and the parents mutually agreed to end the employment arrangement. Where was this nanny’s focus, interest and, may I say, passion? It was clearly not with her occupation. In his bestseller, Good to Great, author Jim Collins stresses the importance of getting the right people on the right bus and in the right seats on the bus. It’s very good advice. I strongly encourage all of you, employers, to pick up a copy if you’d like to explore this topic even more—especially if you feel like you’re not having much luck when it comes to finding passionate employees. Asking the right questions is often key to finding the person who seems to be the best fit for the job. Consider the ones who demonstrate interest and passion for the work or mission, then give them the best work experience of their lives. —Dara B.
Be okay with the ebb and flow: Life gets busy. Priorities with work and family must be at the top of the list most of the time. It’s okay if you go through a phase of not talking every week. The beauty is that when you do, you’ll pick right back up where you left off. However, don’t hesitate to surprise them with a note in the mail or an “I’m missing you” text. Be loyal and trustworthy: Stay true to your word, keep secrets and don’t gossip {it’s not pretty!}
I met with my best friends from high school for a few fun days at the beach. — Joy D.
Our family reunion in July: the descendants of Henry and Candis Browning Rollins gathered, and I met my oldest cousin, present, Mamie Hardy Hollis. Sharing our family history was awesome. — Perida M.
— Sarah Esra is the Townie’s resident goddess
Get Yer Mitts on Fab Fabrics by Brandon Godwin Studio You probably remember reading about Brandon Godwin when his home remodel was featured on HGTV. Well, now he's producing textiles. And as the title suggests, they're absolutely lovely. You can now purchase his high-quality patterned linens, imported from Europe {mostly from Belgium, he says} in the 'Ville and in Tallahassee. "I work with two printing companies in the United States and the final products are sold here in town at Trolleys, in Tallahassee at Chrysalis and I'm working with interior designers in Atlanta as well," Brandon says. Apparently, a few of the fabrics were also recently featured in a Cashiers, North Carolina, show house, where they received much publicity and praise. They've also been submitted to Garden & Gun's "Made in the South" awards competition. Winners will be announced in mid-September and featured in the December issue of the magazine. Competition winners have a chance to win up to $10,000 in prize money. "Some of my images were featured on HGTV last year when my house remodel was the focus of the show," says Brandon. "We used some of my art images for wallpaper." Although Brandon is widely known as an architect, he's wanted to design textiles for some time. "I'm finally able to work with mills and printing companies to get it done," he says. "Hopefully it will continue to blossom." Brandon's work as an architect has perhaps allowed him to see what textiles are out there in the world of interior design, more than the average Joe. He is exceedingly proud of his work and promises a fresh visual approach. "There is really nothing out there like my images," he says. "I can continually produce new and unique [ones]. I will offer custom options, as well." Brandon will be back at the Plantation Wildlife Arts Festival this year and will have a display booth with lots of options to inspire people.
The highlight of my summer was a Pho noodle dish I had in Asheville, North Carolina. — Rich C.
Estes Park, Co. with my sister, daughter and granddaughters, a fun week of hiking and family time, then, at the retirement of her fiancé from the Navy, I witnessed my daughter’s marriage proposal. — Nancy T.
I began my summer learning I had cancer – first thought – it’s the end. Then all the love and support started pouring in — such blessings. The prayer chain was long and stretched worldwide. I give God all the Glory. It is well with my soul. — Gordy P.
I returned to my violin study after 60 years. — June B.
After 20+ years coaxing veggies and herbs out of my poor soil, for some reason, it exploded this yearand there’s been the canning and collecting pounds of blueberries from neighboring farms. — Alice A.
My wife and I discovered and tried the new restaurant in town, Soho, and found it wonderful. — John A.
Traveling to Phoenix, Arizona, and Detroit, Michigan, to obtain certification and training as a Housing and Rental Counselor, sharing with others from around the country ideas about providing housing services to very low-to-moderate income families. It was a rewarding experience. — Sharon E.
The highlight of my Summer was becoming a new dad and watching my daughter be lovingly welcomed by our family as well as our church family. — Matt B.
In the meantime, check out his website and his pattern design at left {the real-life one is in color!}.
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www.brandongodwinstudio.com —Jennifer W.
Textile pattern by Brandon Godwin Studio
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Dance Card First Friday Concert featuring The Roy Baker Band
Lighthouse Children’s Home Labor Day Gospel Sing Thomasville Municipal Auditorium, 144 E. Jackson St. 7:30p Come enjoy and evening of gospel music featuring Archie Watkins, the Mark Trammel Quartet and Jim Brady Trio. You can purchase tickets by calling the Music Hotline at {850} 562-6060 or at Rayann’s Christian Bookstore, 214 S. Broad St., Thomasville, GA.
Christian Music Karaoke Night 116 Bond St. 7p, free Karaoke Night the 1stFriday of each month. Juice Bar available. No alcohol or tobacco. Christian Karaoke style Praise & Worship. For more info call 229-236-9034 or visit http://on-linechurch.weebly. com/song-list.html.
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Craft Night at The Bookshelf The Bookshelf, 126 S. Broad St. 6p Craft night for you and your friends! It's HOT here in the summertime, which means we need some indoor activities that don't break the bank. Enter these crafting kits by The Makery; make five rosette brooches Zooey Deschanel would be proud of.
September 10 TCA September VIP Painting Class Studio 209, 209 W. Remington Ave. 10a-noon, $50 {materials included} Learn to paint a perfect picture of your pet using fine oil paints on an archival canvas! Hillery will guide you through each step to achieve the best portrait of your furry loved one! Please bring at least one photo to paint from; all other materials provided. Bring your own refreshments for a creative morning. Limited to 12 participants. Register online at www.thomasvillearts.org.
Volunteer Orientation at Birdsong Nature Center Birdsong Nature Center, 2106 Meridian Rd. 9:30a-noon Volunteer orientation will begin with a discussion of Birdsong’s history, mission and legacy, organizational structure and educational and land management philosophies. Expertise-based opportunities include: fundraising, teaching educational programs, marketing, technology support, artwork, photography and community outreach. We particularly need land management volunteers, program specialists/ leaders and those who can help with upcoming events. Please make an appointment for an interview with Director Kathleen Brady at {229} 377-4408. Class limit: 15 people. Continental breakfast included.
September 12 HOPE Meeting Northwoods Church of God, 640 Hall Rd. 6:30p HOPE, a traumatic brain injury support group, meets the second Monday of each month.
September 15 One Book Thomas County: One Word—A Night of Ecology-Inspired Poetry Grassroots Coffee, 118 S. Broad St. 7p, free One Book Thomas County invites you to One Word – A Night of Ecology-Inspired Poetry. This event is free and open to the public. Make plans to attend all the exciting events planned from September 15-22. For more info visit www.onebookthomascounty.org.
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When reading is your hobby, some months and days are better than others. August happened to be a pretty great month, filled with books I really, truly loved. I can’t wait to share them with you.
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September 2-15 Downtown Thomasville 7:30-9:30p, free The Roy Baker Band plays vintage rock and roll including the Beatles, Stones, Chicago, Eagles, Doobie Brothers, Beach Boys, Jimmy Buffett, CCR, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Petty, Clapton, Moody Blues, Cocker, Otis Redding and Rascals. For more information, call Sarah Turner at {229} 228-7977.
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Dept. of Speculation by Jenny Offill. I hit a bit of a reading slump in Julyand I think it’s because I got bogged down by a really thick piece of literature {Swing Time by Zadie Smith, in case you’re wondering}. Somewhere in between its 500 pages, I finally decided to take a break and pick up a smaller book sitting on my nightstand. Dept. of Speculation fit the bill. I bought the book on a friend’s recommendation months agoand I feel gratified now that I’ve finally moved it off my TBR list. The novel itself is brief, but it’s a really beautiful and breathtaking look at the normal ebbs and flows of married life. The book is uniquely narrated by “the wife,” and her observations on life and love are utterly original. Dept. of Speculation should be read in one sitting, so if you’re headed on a vacation or need a book to capture your attention while in flight, this one’s for you. I loved it. The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead. Behold the power of Oprah Winfrey: The Underground Railroad was set to debut in mid-September, but once Oprah chose it as her book club pick for this fall, the publishing company released it a month early. The book released to rave reviews, and I know customers can sometimes be skeptical about books with so much hype. Never fear; The Underground Railroad is deserving of all its attention. Colson Whitehead imagines a world in which the historic Underground Railroad is literal rather than figurativeand the pictures he paints are striking, sometimes upsetting. The Underground Railroad starts in the South and moves both north and west, and I was captured by every moment of the journey. I finished this one in tears. You Will Know Me by Megan Abbott. After the heavy nature of Underground Railroad, I was ready for something quick and compelling. Megan Abbott is one of my favorite suspense novelists; her books always move at a breakneck pace, and You Will Know Me didn’t disappoint. Abbott’s main character is the mother of an aspiring gymnast, and the book chronicles the sacrifices her family makes for their daughter’s ambition. The book was perfect reading during the Summer Olympics, and I’d imagine fans of Reconstructing Amelia and Everything I Never Told You would enjoy this one. The Hopefuls by Jennifer Close. I had such great luck with fiction this month; I read The Hopefuls on a quick trip to Birmingham, and I devoured every page. Jennifer Close has released a couple of decent titles in the last couple of years, but The Hopefuls, which released this summer, is by far my favorite. The novel gets its title from the protagonist and her husband, a former Obama campaign worker who’s ready to jump into politics himself. As they navigate D.C. and the political world, their marriage faces tensions they weren’t expecting. I loved The Hopefuls specifically for reading during this election season; it’s not entirely light-hearted, but it is a fun, insider’s look into Washington, perfect for fans of The West Wing. The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo by Amy Schumer. Comedian Amy Schumer isn’t for everyone, and she knows it. Her new memoir, The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo, is funny and crass; I wouldn’t say I loved it — I always wind up returning to Tina Fey and Mindy Kaling — but I do appreciate Schumer’s sensibilities and how down-to-earth she seems. The chapters about her relationship with her father are touching and bittersweet, and, chances are, if you like Schumer, you’ll enjoy this one. Before the Fall by Noah Hawley. Before the Fall has been one of the “it” books of the summer; it seems like everyone is reading it, and I’ve watched it pop up on lists and reviews all summer long. I finally picked a copy up for my book club selection this month, and although it didn’t quite wind up being a rave for me, I’m glad I read it. Noah Hawley is a writer for the show Fargo, and Before the Fall read a lot like a television show to me. The premise of the novel is actually a lot like Lost: Eleven people get on a plane, and 16 minutes into flight, the plane crashes, leaving only two survivors. The novel weaves together the stories of the travelers in alternating travelers, but to me, the voices of the survivor were the most compelling, and I almost wished the book hadn’t gotten bogged down with the other viewpoints. I have a few other complaints, but mostly, I’d love to know if you picked up Before the Fall this summer. At the very least, it’s a page-turner, and it’ll get you talking. — Annie Butterworth Jones Co-Owner + Managing PartnerT he Bookshelf
When it comes to your business or event, the right creative choices can help you stand out from the crowd. Be brave.
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