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Just When You Thought You Knew Me By Author Victor Carrington
My journey does not identify any specific group of people, it reaches everyone. It is my hope that my readers will walk away with a clearer understanding of Victor L. Carrington
EXCERPTS: “As a little boy all I wanted was to be loved. Learning what I thought was love from my family, eventually revealed to be years of manipulation and lies. I grew up in the juvenile system, but I managed to find my way. Sadly, any time I thought I was on a path to greatness, my journey was disrupted. During my years in juvenile facilities, I faced loneliness and depression that led to multiple suicide attempts. Willing to do what it took to gain love and affection; I became a person that everyone wanted to be around while it benefited them.
I hope by sharing my journey, it will encourage others to feel comfortable not being “the norm.” In “Just When You Thought You Knew Me” I take you on an emotional rollercoaster that made me the man I am today. But that’s not the stopping point! There is a message of hope for anyone striving to repair damage from their actions, anyone struggling with their sexuality, or anyone experiencing neglect from their family for being who they are.
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Unable to recognize I was manipulated, I ended up in prison two times. It was the second prison sentence when the blinders were removed. At that “ah-ha” moment after the persuasion of another inmate, I was able to see people for who and what they truly were. Not only was it an eye-opening experience, but at that moment, I took control of my life for the very first time. I was 25-years old, and I felt like my life was just beginning. Although angry, hurt and confused, I was able to successfully complete my sentence and come home to another life changing moment that would destroy any hopes of having a healthy relationship with my family.”
How do you define intimacy?
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f the four kinds of intimacy, which one do you feel is most relevant to you and why? When was the last time you recall having an intimate experience that still gives you goose bumps? In Intimacy from His View-What Black Men Have to Say About Intimacy, debut author and certified life coach, Jeremy J. Johnson presents us with an insightful look at how black men perceive this big, little, eight-letter word. After resigning from fourteen years of service as a public educator, Jeremy takes us on a journey beyond the often-restricted classroom setting to explore in depth and in true no-holds barred fashion the subject of intimacy from the perspective of black men. Through research, interviews, commentary and his own brand of humor, he invites everyone interested in discovering what black men have to say about intimacy to pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and sit for a bit. In this book, you will: • Learn about the four different types of intimacy • Grasp the importance of intimacy • Discover what black men truly feel about intimacy. Each and every single one of us desires intimacy in our lives, believe it or not. Some of us just do not know that we do. If you’re holding this book and you just read the previous statement, this book is for you. With forward by Mimi Getachew, Ph.D. Jeremy J. Johnson is an American performing artist and author of the book Intimacy from His View: What Black Men Have to Say about Intimacy. Jeremy has entertained thousands as a multi-genre performing artist on nightclub stages, music festivals, and concerts in the U.S. and internationally. He also landed acting roles in the Atlanta musical presentation of Little Shop of Horrors in 2019, and the film Blood Done Sign My Name in 2010. The lead vocalist for
popular Greensboro bands SolcetFre Project and Soul Brothers Band, the Ultimate James Brown Tribute Band, Jeremy released his first solo album Open: The Release in 2008, which propelled Jeremy’s popularity as a singer and songwriter. Performing under the stage moniker J’Da Prynce, Jeremy landed a gig with El-live Productions as the lead vocalist for the International Band, Heat, which toured popular nightspot from Singapore to Beijing to “Bangkok from 2012 through 2015. Upon returning to the U.S., Jeremy relocated to Atlanta, Georgia, and resumed his work as a youth educator, while developing plans for his second music project, Heart Vs. Head, for American and new Asian fans. Jeremy has been exploring ideas about intimacy in his music for many decades. A graduate of South Carolina State University with a B.A. in English, Jeremy is the perfect man to author Intimacy from His View: What Black Men Have to Say about Intimacy. He is excited to share this book with his many loyal and new fans.
Jeremy lives in Atlanta where he enjoys providing Life Coaching services to members of the LGBTQ + Community and aspiring artists. To learn more about upcoming projects, please visit www.jeremyjjohnson.com
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10Cover & Story 11 Madison “The Blue-Haired Unicorn” Butler
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CONTENTS 02 | Literary Corner Author Victor Carrington Author Jeremy Johnson
06 | Editor’s Letter Gwendolyn D. Clemons
07 | Editor’s Letter Dr. Davin D. Clemons, DMin
15 | Spirituality Section Beth Trouy Dashing Into The New Year
16 | Health & Wellness Kenneth McDuffie Celebrity Chef
17 | Health & Wellness
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Diandra Marie Protecting My Mental Health As a Queer Black Woman
19 | Entertainment
Where The Money Resides
LGBTQ Short Film Danny Boy
Diamond Wallace: Financial Freedom 2021 & Beyond
22 | Political News America After Trump Pastor Jim Rigby
23 | Trans News Defining The Alphabet People. LGBTQIA Renae Taylor
24 | Unleash Your Vision for 2021
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“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit” ARISTOTLE
CHOOSE YOUR HARD! can’t lie: 2020 was hard as hell for me! I survived #Covid19 but I’m still
dealing with the residual effects of the damage the virus did to my physical
and mental health. I watched the world around me change as if I was living in
The Matrix or some other sci-fi movie. I waited to hear, “Welcome to Round 4 of
Jumanji,” to see if I would survive the video game I was trapped in! 2020 was filled
Unicorn” Butler is my SHERO! Madison and I became
comrades on LinkedIn when
we were embroiled in a bitter battle with a group of white
men attacking us on a Black
your-face resurgence of White Supremacy being led by #45, our sitting president.
that Madison was the kind of
This brings me to the title of my article… “CHOOSE YOUR HARD!”
I chose to write about this topic because it was therapy to me. I could not keep the goodness
of this revelation to myself. As you journey through life, you will encounter many trials and
tribulations. The lessons of these trials set before you are to prepare you for your victory or good
rewards. I know this sounds cliché, but it is true. You see, everything in life is inextricably mingled
and overlapping. It’s a melancholy truth that just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t
exist. Life is hard in and of itself, and that is why it’s important to CHOOSE YOUR HARD! How do you “choose your hard”? I’m glad you asked!
In choosing your hard it should become apparent that in life all things are fair game. With every
situation you encounter there is a polar opposite option available for you. Marriage is hard, and yet getting a divorce is hard. Choose your hard. Obesity is hard, and yet being fit is hard. Choose your
hard. Being is debt is hard, and yet being financially disciplined is hard. Choose your hard. Getting to work on time is hard, and yet being fired is hard. Choose your hard. Being broke is hard, and
yet becoming wealthy is hard. Choose your hard. Denying yourself your favorite foods is hard, and yet becoming ill because of your poor food choices will be hard. Either way -- choose your hard! Neither I, nor anyone else, can choose for you!
The Impact Issue is filled with articles to help you understand that by developing
healthy and beneficial habits you can move to Living Above Mediocrity. This topic is
speaking only to that which is within our realm of influence: the life circumstances that we can change, and not the things that are out of our control. Some of our contributing writers are speaking from a place of professional or personal experience. I am speaking from both!
| EDITOR’S LETTER
Madison “The Blue-Haired
with death, illness, violence, spiritual warfare, religious warfare, bigotry, murder and
vile hatred toward the black transgender community, police genocide, and an in-
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Lives Matter post. I knew then social media warrior I wanted to befriend because her
bravado was therapy in social justice language. Madison
notably dubs herself as being Queer AF and undoubtedly
has cemented herself as a Top
100 influential person to follow on LinkedIn. Who is Madison
Butler? Follow her on LinkedIn and you will find out!
As 2021 begins to take us on an unknown journey. It is my
hopes that your bounce back
muscles are strong to help you endure the trip. As always TUV Media will be standing in the gap to fill the void.
Be well. Be strong. Be wise.
Gwendolyn D Clemons, MBA, MSM, Editor-in-Chief
ME n this new year of 2021, with all of the White Privilege, White
Supremacy, Trumpism and Nasty Politics it is more imperative than ever
that you take time to discover “ME”. Do you know how smart ME is? Do you
know how powerful ME is? Do you know about the Gift that ME possesses? There
is surely a “me” you long to be. So ME should be the number one priority on your list of
New Year’s resolutions this year.
Life is not about any particular achievement or experience. The most important task of your life is not what you do, but who you become. In the words of Carter G. Woodson, “If you can
control a man’s thinking you do not have to worry about his action. When you determine what
a man shall think you do not have to concern yourself about what he will do. If you make a man feel that he is inferior,
you do not have to compel him to accept an inferior status, for he will seek it himself. If you make a man think that he
is justly an outcast, you do not have to order him to the back door. He will go without being told; and if there is no back
door, his very nature will demand one.” In other words, if you don’t take the time to figure ME out for yourself, then the
world is going to figure it out for you. And the way things have been going all around us lately, that’s just not a safe bet at all. If you ever are going to become the ME that you want to be, then you will have to start by being honest about the ME you currently are. Each one of us has a ME that we think we should be, which is at odds with the ME that God made us to be. Sometimes letting go of that self may be a relief, or sometimes it will feel like death. But LET that ME GO! Let me bless you really quick… On the other side of death is freedom, and no one is freer than a dead man. Jesus had much to say
about death to self, and on the journey to the ME you want to be, you will have some dying to do. But that kind of death is always death to a lesser self, a false self, so that a better and nobler self can come to life.
In my opinion, God’s plan is not for you to obey her just because you should even though you don’t want to. God’s desire is for you to want her plan for you. God created you to flourish, to receive life from outside yourself, to create vitality within yourself, and to produce blessing beyond yourself. Flourishing is God’s gift and plan. Flourishing is not measured by outward signs such as income, possession, or attractiveness. It means becoming the person he had in mind in
creating you. Flourishing means moving toward God’s best version
of you. When you flourish, you are in harmony with God, creation, other people, and yourself.
ONE FINAL NOTE: Comparison kills
spiritual growth, so stop competing with
other people. Remember that everyone has a
spirit of their own, and everyone’s inner life is being formed, for better or worse.
We flourish when our spirits are rooted in and
shaped by the Spirit of God, and God wants to do that in a way that uniquely fits ME. Now go find “ME” and remember,
“The righteous will flourish like a palm tree and they will flourish in the courts of our Gods,” (Psalm 92:12-13).
Dr. Davin D. Clemons, DMin.
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Find Us Where The Money Resides in 2021! 8
By Diamond Wallace
When determining your financial
communities within Memphis, TN. We
to plan and understand your goals. The
Beyonce when she said, “My great great
strategy for the new year, it is important pandemic and politics have taught us a few things: we have to be prepared financially for the unexpected, our
emergency funds should include six
grand-children already rich...”.
Here is a bit of guidance on what financial plays to consider.
to eight months of living expenses,
Majority of people only know about 3
of income. I’m Diamond Wallace,
them homes: Bank, Stock Market,
and we should have multiple streams owner and Co-Founder of The Fortune Partners, LLC. We started in 2018 and specialize in helping people
grow and save money. Our premier
program focuses on helping our clients understand banking/budgeting, credit, insurance, investments and taxes. We saw a need and an opportunity in the community for financial literacy as
the interest increased in ownership and generational wealth with no
familiar faces to teach the basics left out in our educational system. My
best friend Dae Brackett-Reeves and I created our company with goals of
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strive for our clients to feel just like
places to house their money. Let’s call Real Estate. We can all agree that
there’s a couple of things we would like these homes to provide our
money. Those things include growth, accessibility or liquidity, safety, and tax advantages. Each one of these
homes can provide a combination of
these things however, there’s only one place to house your money that will do all four. Let’s call that one the
fourth home. Many people are not familiar with the fourth place to
house your money. I’ll save that one
for last. We strive to help individuals
understand how to use each home of money to their advantage.
Appointments can be
scheduled virtually
thefortunepartners.com 901.463.9659
The bank which is normally the first
concept to remember with the stock
plan that can provide for present and
safe place and peace of mind to know
higher rate when you access your funds.
but the use of LIRP as a strategy to build
home of money for most people. It is a you can access whenever I please.
However, your checking and savings
only grows when you put money in it,
right? Also, it does not provide any tax
advantages from deposited funds. Great for safety and accessibility but not for growth and any tax breaks.
Reflecting on 2020, a historic year for the stock market with right record-
breaking lows and more people investing than ever. Thinking in reference to
IRA’s, 401k’s, TSP’s, 403b’s and other retirement accounts. When it comes to accessibility, your money is not
accessible until you’re 59 ½ years old without penalty. Investing here is the
most common way people think to grow money. We teach our clients about the diversity in strategies. You will always
have to be aware of any downturns as
well. Your funds will follow market trends which does not guarantee safety. Key
market is that you’ll pay taxes later at a The third home of money is Real Estate which had an amazing 2020. For many real estate investing has become an
extremely appealing career and side
hustle for many reasons. A few things
future benefits. Life insurance is not new wealth is not always considered when
discussing investments. With LIRP, you combine life insurance and investment
strategies to guarantee safety, growth, and tax-free distributions.
to know about real estate is that your
Individuals that are financially free and
since this is a physical dwelling. However,
basket but, have a diverse portfolio
money is not readily accessible and liquid the growth potential in owning a home by renting it out or flipping and selling properties is great. When discussing
real estate with clients we also discuss the tax advantages that come with
home ownership. Lastly, be prepared to
accommodate market trends, therefore, will not guarantee safety of your funds.
The fourth home of money mentioned
that provides accessibility, safety,
growth and tax advantages is called a
Life Insurance Retirement Plan or LIRP.
In the current climate, everyone should consider the advantages of having a
stable don’t put all their eggs in one
across these four homes and you can too. In a pandemic when some are
scrambling to gain a sense of comfort with their finances, create peace of
mind by reaching out to our team to
schedule a free consultation to structure a detailed financial plan to identify your
goals. The opportunity to financially win is now, and you don’t have to navigate
this space alone. You should be proud
of yourself, you survived 2020. Financial freedom can be different to everyone.
Let ’s conquer 2021!
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Who is
Madison “THE BLUE-HAIRED UNICORN”
BUTLER? By TUV Staff
M
adison Butler is a New Englander at heart but moved to Austin in 2017.
Her work is focused around creating
equitable spaces and creating scalable strategies to achieve psychological
safety. She is an outspoken advocate for mental health, destigmatizing trauma,
DEI and the ability to be “human at work”. She is passionate about facilitating hard
conversations through storytelling, data and tough empathy.
Madison is unapologetically Black
and Queer AF. Her goal is to ensure that everyone is given the space
to be unapologetic about their identity and feel like they belong in every room they walk into.
She is deeply committed to
deconstructing the status quo and
rebuilding corporate America, from the ground up, one organization at a time. Her mission is to ensure that no one
ever feels like corporate spaces were not made for them, and they can live, work, and exist out loud.
She is a start-up enthusiast and is
passionate about building inclusive teams from the ground up with
early-stage companies. Madison is
byebyebinary.com
narrative around what it looks like to
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committed to helping change the
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be “human at work” and hoping to help
ByeByeBinary
alleviate unconscious bias in Corporate
America to encourage radical inclusion.
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Q: You were labeled one of the most vociferous presences on Black LinkedIn because of your daily prescrips of #isaidwhatisaid, #thatsthetea, and #blackgirlmagic. What drives you to give such powerful and meaningful messages? It has definitely been a journey to become as loud as I am today. When I was in my
early twenties, I was in an incredibly violent and abusive relationship. This person had
convinced me to hate all of the things about me that make me who I am, my Blackness, my queerness, my intelligence. When
we broke up, our breakup made national
news because of how toxic it was. I quickly realized that no matter who I pretended to
be to fit in, the world was going to make up their own stories about me.
I was around 25 when I made the conscious decision to step into my power, and into
This was the day I decided I was henceforth
As a Black, queer woman, I realized how
needed companies to know that my identity
the rule when it came to basic human rights.
going to be the “Blue Haired Recruiter.” I was non-negotiable.
That is when I started writing about my
experiences as a Black queer woman in corporate America.
Our voices are magic, and they deserve to be heard.
Our struggles are shared, and we should be able to speak about them freely.
Change only comes when we can call out the problem.
Change comes from being uncomfortable. I am here to start the conversation. And “I said, what I said” because our
identities and our lived experiences are not up for debate.
my identity. I realized that the comfort of
Q: What was 2020 like for you in your
I did not want to be that watered down
2020 was a wild year. It was full of growth,
others was not my responsibility. I knew
personal & professional life?
version of myself again. I refused to
love and loss.
pretend to be someone I wasn’t in order to gain the respect of others.
We do not have to tone ourselves down in order to be palatable to society. I originally only thought to take this way of thinking into my personal life.
When I was 27, I went to a job
I took a VP title before 30, I bought my first home.
I co-founded a social impact movement, Rage2
Rainbows (www.
rage2rainbows.com). Rage2Rainbows is a collective
impact centered on making the
interview and
internet a safer
the organization
talked about how much they loved
me and wanted to
offer me a position.
However, they quickly
followed up with the fact
that they would need me to
straighten my hair, change my hair color,
cover my tattoos, take out my nose ring and wear a skirt. My head was spinning. In the
moment, I didn’t have the words because we are trained to think we should feel honored to work for organizations, to be wanted by
space. We believe
established
institutions are
unlikely to change
radically enough or
fast enough to make
everyone feel safe. What is
the best way to create safer, more
inclusive workplaces? Build them from the ground up. So, that is what we are doing. We are taking the energy from bullies
online and putting it into organizations that support the victims.
them. That is not the truth. Organizations
I also lost friends, family and people I cared
not have to change in order to “fit in.”
people liked the idea of me, but not me.
should feel honored to have us. We should
about because I finally realized how many
many people made me the exception not
Those who have never had their rights voted on showed their ignorance in 2020. It was
heartbreaking and freeing all at once to end these relationships.
I came out in 2020 as polyamorous and
introduced my parents to a new partner. I have two partners, Spencer (he/him) and Reese (they/them) and their
support has been life changing during this phase of my career.
I am going into 2021 fully aware of my worth, monetarily and otherwise surrounded by people (and dogs) who love me.
Q: What plans do you have for 2021 I will continue to be loud about Equity and
inclusion, speaking up for those who don’t have a voice and fighting to dismantle white supremacy.
My partners and I are also launching a
community for queer folx by queer folx. The community will be called the Triple B Community, and will include Slack,
Facebook, Patreon and live events. Events will be virtual until it is safe to gather. So
many of us didn’t receive acceptance from our friends, family and coworkers and we
wanted to create spaces online dedicated to acceptance, dialogue and connection.
My goal is for Black, queer and POC folx to know they belong in every room they walk into, and that includes corporate spaces.
We will also have a job board for companies to post roles. All organizations will be
thoroughly vetted to ensure that they value radical inclusivity, authenticity and safety. We are also starting a podcast called
ByeByeBinary (which is where the Triple B came from) launching in January!
Reese and I will be the voices and face,
while Spencer will be the human behind
the camera. Our podcast will be centered
around deconstructing heteronormativity in societal structures and corporate America.
We will talk about Queer love, pain, pleasure and everything in between. There is so
much stigma around gender identity and
queerness, and we are determined to create a safe space and community for queer folx. COVER STORY |
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The Impact of Rising Above Mediocrity
Shannon Whittington is a clinical nurse
educator and certified speaker. She is the author of the forthcoming book LGBTQ+:
ABC’s for Grownups. Shannon
speaks virtually encouraging LGBTQ+
inclusion and Servant Leadership. For bookings contact:
hello@WhittingtonConsulting.com Follow Shannon:
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By Shannon Whittington
H
uman beings are interesting creatures. On the one hand, we are bubbling with
intellectual curiosity and we want to explore the unknown. We venture into places no
human has ever stepped foot before and we dare ourselves to reach for the stars. That
is the metaphorical “angel” on our shoulder, spurring us to walk forward on the neverending treadmill towards perfection.
But on the other shoulder sits the voice of
complacency, singing the same song, “you’ve done enough. You’re comfortable. Why want
Inspiration can come from watching people crush their goals. Our actions (or inactions)
can have an emotional impact on the people around us, whether we intend it or not.
My academic endeavor of going for my
doctorate has inspired two of my friends to pursue higher education. One is pursuing
her master’s degree and the other one will be a fellow Doctor of Nursing scholar in
the near future. My friends’ successs may
undoubtedly inspire other friends as well, and on and on it goes, like a ripple effect.
more?” The temptation to heed these words
The quest for self-betterment may include
it is much easier to settle for mediocrity,
profession. For example, I have written two
has never been greater. In our modern world, especially if moderate success has been
achieved. If we have a decent job and money in the bank, why bother? The question,
“what more do you want?” temptingly whispers in our heads. The answer to that could be,
“I want to be better tomorrow than I am today.” And there is no reason why you can’t be. All it takes is drive and belief.
The best thing about inspiration is that it can come from anywhere. I’m sure many of us, at
some point in our lives, have given ourselves a pep talk and pushed ourselves to go for
something that we believed was out of reach. Many of these times, our daring endeavors have ended successfully. We might look
around and think that we have done enough
to make ourselves stand out from the crowd but comparing ourselves is not the best
mindset. In the quest for self-improvement, we are competing against the previous
version of ourselves; and if the iPhone has
taught us anything, it’s that there can always be a newerand better version.
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things that are not related to your job or
books. This is something I never thought I
would be capable of doing, let alone getting
published! Many of us may have stories and ideas bouncing around in our heads. Ideas that are begging to be immortalized.
So, go ahead! Fire up your idea and move forward! The main thing is to get started no matter what the goal is.
If it turns out that you are good at trying
something new, and this might very well be the case, you may discover a new passion.
Who knows? Maybe you will turn it into a
full-time job. Wouldn’t that be wonderful? Getting paid for doing the thing you love,
being your own boss! In fact, that’s exactly what my best friend did. She started her
own business and now she spends her days
working hard to build her own dream instead of building someone else’s.
In the end, Henry Ford said it best “whether
you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right.” So if the choice is yours, then choose
the “I can!” and don’t worry about the amount of time it will take to get there. Time will pass anyway, so it’s best to spend it going in the
right direction by doing that thing that brings us joy. Wouldn’t you agree?
DASHING INTO THE NEW YEAR
for the success of his company from a
concept he read about in a book (Good to Great by Jim Collins). It was “the
fly-wheel concept” of growth through
momentum. A fly wheel gains speed with each revolution that moves it faster and
smoother. By building his company on the
concept of growth through the momentum of customer buying obsession, he has mastered a fly wheel of revenue that grows with each on-line purchase.
Lastly, be enthusiastic with change and be
By Beth Trouy
open to doubt and making mistakes. It’s
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our human nature to resist error and the
here’s a familiar reflection some preachers
older we get, the more we crave comfort,
like to remind us at funerals about the writing
predictability and stability. These things
on headstones. You see the name, their birth date,
are good, but they can also keep us from
the little dash in the middle and their date of death.
growth and development when it’s time
The real question they say is not about the birth
to move forward. We have to dream more
or the death, because neither did they really have
and fear less. We have to be willing to dare
much control of, but the question is about the dash
tapping into the greatness that dwells
in the middle. That dash. Your life right now. How do
within us and be accepting of the miss
we make that dash count for something?
We’ve all turned the page of 2020 (thankful that
steps along the way. It’s our mistakes
year is in the books) and are looking ahead and
Secondly, listen to your voice and find your
What are we going to do differently with our yearly
love most, you will naturally excel. When
probably making our New Year’s resolutions list. list so we can succeed? Henry Ford once said, “Mediocrity is the worst enemy of prosperity.” How do we rise above the mundane and get
ourselves on a path to more prosperous living? First, decide what stays and what needs to go.
What values and tenets most define and move
you and what obstacles need to be confronted
passion. If you focus on doing what you
you do what you love and love what you
do, your passion shows and your innate joy in your work propels you to excellence.
You will never be great at something you
don’t enjoy doing. You might never be rich doing what you love, but you will most certainly be happy.
and eliminated? Cling tightly to the things that
If you are a person that struggles with
community or social justice issues. Maybe it’s your
environment. Namely, be around people
matter most to you: maybe it’s your faith, family, sense of discipline, of preparedness or healthy
living. Nurture these things that give you the most
energy and enthusiasm for living. Make time each day. As for the obstacles, write them down and
develop a plan for confronting them one at a time. One of the biggest obstacles is attitude. In all
things, framing a positive attitude and repelling negativity is paramount to success. You can’t change history, but you can change what
happens tomorrow. Successful people aren’t
necessarily more talented, gifted or privileged.
motivation, surround yourself in a positive who lift you up, challenge you in good
ways and act as role models to help you think differently. Choose your friends wisely and your teachers even more
better and wiser. Don’t fear error.
Living above mediocrity requires risk,
failure and an enthusiasm for change. It
demands that we listen to both our own
voice and choose wisely with listening to the voices around us. We must embody
a positive attitude in making the most of
our current situations with what we have now. We must pursue those things we
are most passionate about for these are
the things that move us to greatness and true happiness. We can’t change what’s already been, but we can change where
we are going. Someday, you too will have a headstone. What will you do with your dash? On your marks, get set...
carefully. Listen to positive podcasts
that open your mind and stimulate new
ways of thinking. Join groups online that share your passion and learn from them. Sometimes, the best way to find your own voice starts with being a good listener to others.
What they all have in common however is a
Pick one thing. Focus on it and master it
you’ve got, where you are now.
CEO of Amazon says he got his idea
positive attitude. Do what you can, with what
that have the most potential in making us
before you move to another. Jeff Bezos, THE UNLEASHED VOICE |
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Celebrity Chef Kenneth McDuffie TALKS LIFE AFTER THE TV SHOW HELL’S KITCHEN
How has being featured on Hell’s Kitchen changed your life?
Being on television have
changed my life for the better. This isn’t my first time on
television. I had my first tv news segment on a local television station Fox 29 Good Day
Philadelphia a couple of years ago. Being on local television
numerous times I have become a household name through
the Tri-State area (Philly, New
Jersey and Delaware). Landing
the spot on this season of Hell’s Kitchen have opened many
more doors and opportunities. The show is aired all over the world and just from social
media I have gained over 1K
followers, increased business
opportunities and gained new clients. It is truly a blessing. Honestly, I didn’t think I was
going to get picked. Six years ago, I applied for two other
seasons of Hell’s Kitchen and I didn’t get picked or even a
call back. I thought I was ready for national tv, but all things
happen in God’s timing. I was
coached by a few friends and they encouraged me to apply for season 19. The casting
was in 2019, I was dealing with
depression, suicidal tendencies and in the process of being
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evicted out of my apartment.
I was heading into a downward
spiral and my life was spinning
out of control, and I didn’t know
what else to do. I Thank God for
family, friends and being cast on
the show because Hell’s Kitchen saved my life and my career.
When I was going through all the auditions I was open about my
struggles. I credit this mindset
to my great grandmother Esther A. Smith who is my inspiration. In the words of Mary J Blige
“What’s the 411?” Well, I’m in
the process of expanding my catering business “Young &
Hungry Catering” to the South, YES, this Philly boy is going
to South Carolina where the
expansion will be my first full service restaurant, offering
cooking classes, job training
for prospective future chefs,
more television shows and also finishing the last few pages of my first cookbook “From My
Kitchen To Hell’s Kitchen.” 2021 is going to be even greater
definitely for men and women with a dream and a vision. I
encourage everyone to keep
pushing keep grinding and invest in your dreams and use social
media as a platform to promote yourself and your business.
My motto to the readers is “It
started with a knife and a potato and the rest is history.”
experience losses of our cis- and transgender brothers, sisters, and siblings to racist police & hate crimes while also watching
justice being half served, if at all. Simultaneously, some of us had
to face losing income and housing, causing further socioeconomic disparity. The saddest part is, the list of losses goes on, with the majority of us being affected. 2020 proved to break any idea or
notion that it is our divine right as human beings to have control
over anything. To say that our odds are low in having to mentally
survive the prolonged grief of 2020 while also having to physically
survive a pandemic is an under-understatement. Since being Black
& LGBTQAI only increases our likelihood of developing mental health conditions, I’m not surprised that a lot of us lost hope altogether. There were days where I could barely get out of bed.
Like many, I had to watch the world fall into a pit of despair while
navigating my own personal trauma and hardships. I couldn’t shake the feelings of fear and anxiety, which is where the depressive
episodes and suicidal thoughts started to form. There was a point
where I was forced to dig deeper within myself. I had to consistently practice gratitude. With a gratitude journal, I was reminded of my
privilege in having my health, my loved ones, and a steady income while so many others could not say the same. Gratefulness also
Protecting My Mental Health as A Black Queer Woman During A Pandemic
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eset. This word heavily resonated with me as we collectively
entered 2021. There’s something special and refreshing about
revealed the key in coping during prolonged difficult periods:
perspective. Finding and being guided by a new perspective helped me let go of some of my capitalistic ideas of success. Instead
of being hard on myself for taking mental breaks and resting, I
developed more grace toward myself. Instead of cursing myself for
not having achievements compared to others on my Instagram feed, I started honoring that I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be. I am
successful because I am surviving a pandemic while preserving and
developing my authentic self. I am special, not because of how many things I check off my to-do list, but because I’m simply existing. Does this new-found perspective fix all of my mental health
struggles? Absolutely not. While perspective opens our eyes to
turning the page on the old and moving into the future. A future of
a new way of thinking, believing, and living, I still have to do the
as a Black queer woman who is hella creative, I have to cultivate
ways of healing, like journaling, asking for help, and taking herbal
false sense, of liberation has been essential to my survival, being
for me like therapy, creating content, and interacting with my
more than starting anew - it’s knowing that we can manage the
survival. Let’s not forget, mental survival is what our Black and
necessary to stare our burdens in the face without fear. This is what
mental survival is how we’re able to preserve who we are so that
to be constantly at work to take us all out.
mental health was never a priority to us before, 2020 has made it
possibilities, optimism, and hope. Call me a “woo-woo” shorty, but
work to prevent a depressive spiral. I’ve had to be open to different
a sense of liberation at all times. This constant, and sometimes
supplements. I also had to lean into existing practices that work
diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder in 2014. Resetting is
support system. For me, these things are necessary for my mental
burdens placed on us. We can gain the confidence and courage
LGBTQAI ancestors had to cultivate during very dire times. Our
protecting my mental health looked like during a year that seemed
we can continue to harness our power through tumultuous eras. If
Early into the pandemic, I struggled with my mental health bad.
There were so many times where I felt like I was going to snap at any moment. It was hard to adjust to the loss of in-person interactions
with my closest friends and girlfriend, but we were globally tasked to radically adjust to a new normal. We had to cope with the grief
of 300,000+ deaths due to coronavirus complications. We had to
crystal clear that it needs to be one now. The journey isn’t always
easy, as healing and doing the mental work comes with forgiveness and sacrificing our bad habits. At the very least, we can be clear in knowing that we have the resilience to endure and conquer
detrimental times. That perspective can be exactly where our mental liberation begins, which can hopefully lead us to taking better care of our mental health well beyond the end of the pandemic.
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@dannyboymovie_
when I would find out they were straight actors. I was adamant when casting that I wanted LGBTQ
actors as I wanted this to be genuine, realistic and
not the stereotypical characters that we see on TV today” said, Payne.
Film Director & Co Writer Veronica Fearon was born to Jamaican parents in the East End of London.
Fearon has a degree in psychology and has worked as a criminal lawyer for most of her adult life. Her extensive work on criminal law brought her in
contact with some of the most dangerous and
D
anny Boy dives into identity and the social pressures that are profoundly affecting
young LGBTQ people today.
This coming-of-age comedy drama follows
Danny who after one bad decision finds herself in community service with a group of young LGBTQ
offenders. Danny’s life is turned upside down once more when she falls for Lola and whilst Danny is
trying to get her life back on track, she has a battle on her hands with the homophobic abuse she receives in both her work and personal life.
Film Writer & Producer Rochelle Payne decided to write Danny Boy because of her frustration
with the lack of current LGBTQ films and shows
that focused on QPOC that are based in London. “Growing up I always felt different and I could never relate to characters on television.
When I did watch shows that had characters that were gay, I would always feel a bit disheartened
vulnerable people in London. Echoes of this can be seen in characters penned in Veronica’s published books The Girl With The Treasured Chest and The
Thirsty Stranger. Her huge success of both books and attracting multiple literary prize nominations
created a power team to collaborate on Danny Boy. Veronica was brought on as a co-writer and work behind the scenes and on the set.
DANNY
BOY
AN UK BASED LGBTQ+ SHORT FILM BY ROCHELLE PAYNE & VERONICA FEARON
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with Elle’s Elixirs LAUREN WILLIAMS-BATISTE LAUREN’S BACKSTORY. I live by the motto, “Here for others. True to self.” During the past few
months’ family, community and entrepreneurship have been the driving
force of my focus. Me and my husband, Donald Batiste Jr., are first-time parents to our daughter, Ada Elle. Ada Elle is named after my great-
grandmother who rose from sharecropping to a career as civic leader and entrepreneur in the North Memphis neighborhood in Tennessee. Based in my hometown of Memphis, Tennessee, I’m following in my great-grandmother’s footsteps with my own business Elle’s Elixirs. Named after Ada Elle to bring everything full circle, my business
offers CBD and CBD-free herbal blends that can be sipped, soaked and smoked. I earned her B.A. in History from the historically Black
institution, Tennessee State University, after focusing on Africana and Women’s studies. I went on to earn her M.S. in Educational Theory
and Practice from Arkansas State University. I have devoted most of
my professional career to working with advocacy, policy and political
organizations that champion reproductive justice, health and rights and educational equity. In the community, I’m engaged with Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., The Junior League of Memphis, Memphis Tilth, CHOICES, and a proud dance mom with Collage Dance Collective. ELLE’S ELIXIRS BACKSTORY. The same year I was pregnant with my daughter I also developed a Lauren Williams-Batiste 901.233.8505
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wellness concept that helped bring balance and vitality back into my life postpartum. Elle’s Elixirs was created because life
postpartum came at me fast. I spent about 6 months on research and development before I was ready to go full steam ahead.
Elle’s Elixirs officially launched at the Mid-
alternatives by sip, soaking or smoking
have been able to put my products in front
eccentric glam aesthetic, and unique
South Hemp Festival in 2019. Since then, I of my target market. This helped me to
capture key demographics about my target
customer. Since then, I’ve spent hundreds of
our products. My wellness model, tagline, product offerings help to set me apart from my competition.
Q: What are the Highlight of some Elle’s Elixirs products?
There has been a great deal of myths that
unwind, find relief from aches and pains,
I have a lot of customers who are just
years relating to hemp. One myth that I
and stop smoking tobacco, which are all key
and hemp products. I offer non-CBD
hours talking with mostly women ages 21-
45 years old that were seeking ways to relax, increase their nutrient and vitamin intake benefits of Elixir No. 1 and Elixir No. 2.
We are a wellness brand that knows self-
care and wellness look different for different women. We provide creative solutions
making self-care simple and attainable.
We offer our customers three innovative approaches, “sip, soak, smoke,” that
promote relaxation, creativity and fulfillment through sip, soaking or smoking our herbal elixirs. Our elixirs consist of hibiscus,
peppermint, raspberry leaf, rose petals, blue cornflowers and industrial hemp. Hemp is a plant that has a rich nutrition profile and helps relieve pain and anxiety.
Our eccentric glam style gives our brand a signature looks and feel that always
invokes curiosity with potential customers. I know exactly who my customers are and what they are seeking. They are in search of a product that doesn’t take up a lot of
time in their day, allows them to incorporate wellness into their regular activities and
helps them live life with natural wellness
beginning to explore the benefits of CBD products for individuals seeking hemp
free options. Elixir No. 1 is blended with
hibiscus, peppermint, raspberry leaf and roses. Studies have shown Cannabidiol
or better known as CBD to provide relief from anxiety, depression and post-
traumatic stress disorder. Research also supports that it promotes sleep as well. CBD is non-psychoactive which is an
added benefit for many consumers. For
consumers looking to gain health benefits from the plant without the high, CBD or
CBG might be of interest. Elixir No. 2 has
hibiscus, peppermint, raspberry leaf, blue cornflower and hemp, which has 143mg of CBD per serving sizes. Finally, our
Elixir Boxes give our customers a true sip, soak, and smoke experience by providing them with all the tools and accessories to elevate their experience.
Q: Debunk some myths about CBD & CBG products and educate our readers about the benefits of using them.
have been floating around in the last few want to debunk is that no research has
been done on the compound. That is simply not true, there are credible, double-blind
and randomized research studies available for review. Another myth concerning CBD
products is that all CBD products are made equally. This is not true, you should know
exactly where and how the hemp you are consuming is being grown, from seed to
sale. A legal gray area exists right now as
new FDA guidelines are being drawn. Make
sure the hemp you are consuming has been tested and the company can provide a Certificate of Analysis (COA).
Cannabidiol and Cannabigerol are two of more than 100 cannabinoids found
in the hemp. Studies have shown CBD or Cannabidiol as providing relief for
anxiety, depression and post-traumatic
stress disorder. Research supports that it
promotes sleep as well. If you take any kind of medication, it is best to check with your healthcare provider before trying CBG or
CBD. Studies show that cannabinoids work best when they’re all consumed together. THE UNLEASHED VOICE |
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NOW THAT TRUMP IS GONE, WHAT IS NEXT? By Pastor Jim Rigby
If you are anything like me, your first response to Trump leaving office
will be one of profound
relief. I, for one, was not
sure democracy would
survive the Trump years. Actually, I am
still not sure we are safe from his lies and
conspiracy theories, but I will breathe a sigh
of relief when Trump boards that presidential helicopter, hopefully for the last time.
There is nothing wrong with taking time to celebrate the hard work of environmental and human rights activists who will have made that day possible.
But I am also aware, that Trump was not
so much the problem as a symptom of the problem. Trump never would have gotten
close to the presidency were not our nation susceptible to his racism, sexism and
nationalistic narcissism. So, after our sigh
of relief at seeing Trump go, we must then
be honest about the work progressives will need to do under Biden.
The sad history of post-election
disappointments has not been carved by
some external hand of providence. It crawls
like a reptile out of the discrepancy between
who Americans say we are and what we have actually become. But here is the good news: Democracy is not founded on personalities; it is founded on principles. We save the
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For many of the world’s most vulnerable people, the situation does not change
much when the two parties change power. Many People of Color have languished in prison under Democratic as well as Republican administrations.
Many undocumented people were
detained or incarcerated under Obama
as well as Trump. And for many places in the world like Yemen and Palestine
they may be betrayed by Democrats as surely as Republicans. republic, not by changing captains, but by
I had a professor in seminary who used to
matter who sits in the captain’s chair if
Justice, she is always found fleeing the
corrupt system cannot be prophetic,
to mean that people tend to be prophetic
The key will be, when Joe Biden turns out
when they are out of power, but apologists
it drives us to despair, or lifts us to
when in power. So, after resisting the
changing course. In the end it does not
say, “If you are looking for the Goddess of
the ship has lost its rudder. Leaders in a
camp of the victors.” I took those words
but We the People can and must be.
about the injustices of their political foes
to be just another mortal, whether
for the abuses done by their political party
our own duty as citizens.
hateful rhetoric of Donald Trump, we must
So, we can celebrate the defeat of
Trumpism, yet also realize the need to
find the courage to resist the kinder and gentler oppression of Joe Biden.
pressure the new administration to include
We elected Joe Biden, but we weren’t
privilege. Lifelong activists do not vote
Democratic name tags, we were voting for
know there is no such thing as “happy
most. Regardless of who is in office, we
also realize the difference between a
of who is in office, we want a living wage
call us to be world citizens, a politician
is in office, we want LGBTQ equality.
prophet would call us to be a voice for the
women to be treated as persons under
unpopular minority populations in the
have inalienable rights over their own
right wings of vested privilege. A prophet
want wars based on benefiting American
property rights, a president is expected
who is in office we want the votes and the
earth in the invisible and pitiless hand of
used as bargaining chips.
our part in the unending cycle of post-
one of joy in knowing we are living out
those who live outside the bubbles of
voting for candidates because of their
for heroes, but for leverage. Activists
a better world for the people who need It
ever after” when it comes to politics. They
want universal healthcare. Regardless
politician and a prophet. A prophet would
for the working poor. Regardless of who
must put America first to get re-elected. A
Regardless of who is in office, we want
voiceless, a politician is expected to betray
the constitution, which means that they
name of consensus between the left and
bodies. Regardless of who is in office we
would call us to choose human rights over
corporations to cease. Regardless of
to leave the fate of the wretched of the
safety of People of Color to never again be
the market. Somehow, we must recognize
Fortunately, the life of an activist can be
election disappointment. We will not vote
of our highest values. There is a saying
for anyone who does not inspire us to our highest ideals, but after they are elected,
we will not support anyone who does not pander to our basest appetites.
that the life of activism only gives us two things: loving friends and living
dreams. But what life path could be more meaningful than that?
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nce upon a time we only had a binary
system to define people’s experiences.
People were forced to only exist within a rigid
construct of Gender (Male or Female). Now we
are finally beginning to understand that Gender expression is simply a matter of how a person
expresses their gender identity, typically through dress, appearance, or mannerisms. Masculinity and femininity don’t belong to a gender! We all know a vagina doesn’t make a woman, and a
penis doesn’t make a man either. If you say you are a woman, then you are as you say. And vice versa: If you say you are a Man, you are a Man. As more people begin to embrace their
true identities, we should be able to define
ourselves to our friends, family, and society.
Doing this makes our society accepting and
open to different people making their way in the world. We often forget that we don’t get
to define other people’s experiences as they
navigate the world. As I myself have changed and evolved, the terms I use to describe
myself, and my politics, and my knowledge
have also changed and evolved. As we define
ourselves, we must also try hard to not imitate oppressive systems and structures: White Supremacy (Racism), Cis-Supremacy (Cis-
HeteroPatriarchy), Heternormativity, Gender Based Bigotry (Sexism), for example.
I have been on panels where we were so
divided on who deserves to be at the table
presumption all over again that the table would be right to exclude either one of us. How could she say such a thing after I’m sure cisgender
people have invalidated her own experience as
a woman? Isn’t that the indignity we’re all trying to take a seat and discuss? How could either one of us turn around and then assert that
the other has no business pulling up a chair?
Should the Binary Trans Folks be the only ones at the table, or is there room for more than one type of Trans person?
Then we have the (Cisgender) Gays who
sometimes say that Non Binary Trans folks
aren’t Trans because they aren’t transitioning to a new Gender. Even with this newfound
freedom of Identities, even within marginalized groups, we can find ourselves in a tendency
to marginalize other groups. Remember how
white people used race as a way to marginalize black folks for hundreds of years? Sometimes I think people forget about intersectionality
and how these identities intersect with each
other, making a whole ass person. If you know movement history, Sylvia and Marsha used varying terms to describe themselves, and
today they would be considered Gender Non Conforming or Non Binary Trans. I wonder who would dare tell them how to describe
themselves and where they belonged, after they were at Stonewall Inn and started the Modern Gay Rights Movement.
representing trans folks. First, I must point out
I say each to his, or her, or their own. We don’t
the table denotes ownership of the table. For
enemy. Let’s make this world a better place for
that talking about who should be invited to
example, the (Binary Trans Woman) said she felt like (Non Binary) Trans folks aren’t Trans -- and that within itself is oppressive, suggesting the
need to be fighting among ourselves. I ain’t your those who are coming up behind us. Let’s not
forget that LGBTQIA youth are the future. And let’s not forget that the future is only moments away.
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