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Congratulations
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How exciting, you’re engaged! Congratulations from all the team at The Wedding Guide and welcome to this latest edition which is packed with lots of advice, articles, fabulous recommended suppliers, real wedding features and pages of pretty things to inspire you! The Wedding Guide is designed to help you find everything you need to plan your dream wedding. Our recommended suppliers will assist you every step of the way, making sure your special day is one you’ll cherish forever. Don’t forget to check out our handy Wedding Fayre Diary which you’ll find from page 120 – great for planning your weekends around! We have undergone a makeover since our last edition and we hope you love the new look and layout as much as we do.
Gillian x
Gillian Lane, Editor & Publisher
The Wedding Guide Autumn/Winter 2011 Published and distributed by Stoneycroft Publishing, Stoneycroft, 78A Penkett Road, Wallasey, Merseyside CH45 7QW. Telephone: 0151 638 3008. Email: gillian@theweddingguideuk.com Web: www.theweddingguideuk.com Design & Production: Neil Rees for Sunrisedp Administration: Hannah Lomas and Beth Keating Front cover image: Crash Taylor www.crashtaylor.com © 2011 Bridal Media Limited. No material including images, text and design work, contained in The Wedding Guide may be reproduced in whole or in part without the written consent of Bridal Media Limited.
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In this edition 8-22
A-Z of Wedding Suppliers Arranging the ceremony Civil or Church
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Helping with your arrangements Attendants’ Duties Cars and Carriages Finishing Touches Flowers Photography Stationery Timetable Videography Rings
104 82 78 & 88 86 102 95 132 112 116
His The Groom Speeches
50 52
Hers Health and Beauty Dressing for Your Big Day Fashion Pages
42 26 36
The Reception Choosing the Venue Music and Entertainment Venue Decoration Wedding Fayre Diary Real Weddings
60 96 72 120-124 48, 80 & 100
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ACCESSORIES Boda Bridal see p39 29 Watergate Row, CHESTER CH1 2LE 01244 344 388 Email: wendy@bodabridal.co.uk www.bodabridal.co.uk
Shimmering Reflections see p31 12 Brook Street, Neston WIRRAL 0151 336 7674 / 07900 541728 Email: shimmeringreflections@hotmail.co.uk www.shimmeringreflections.co.uk
BALLOONS Something to Celebrate 62 Seaview Road, Wallasey WIRRAL CH45 4LB 0151 630 5554 Email: STCenquiry@aol.com www.something-to-celebrate.net
BAR SERVICES Big Entertainments see p76 Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
The Complete Group see p73 Unit 4, Willow Court, West Quay Road, Warrington, CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 Email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
BEAUTY – HAIR & MAKE-UP Shimmer and Shine see p43 Covering Wirral, Cheshire and Liverpool 0151 606 8784 / 07745 903493 Email: shimmer.shine@hotmail.co.uk www.shimmerandshine.moonfruit.com
BRIDAL FAVOURS (BOMBONIERE) Boda Bridal see p39 29 Watergate Row CHESTER CH1 2LE 01244 344 388 Email: wendy@bodabridal.co.uk www.bodabridal.co.uk
Funky Sunflower Events see p75 Covering the North West 07850 054793 / 07914 806410 Email: sarah@funkysunflower.com Rebecca@funkysunflower.com www.funkysunflower.com
Wirral Hospice St John’s see p94 Mount Road, Higher Bebington WIRRAL CH63 6JE 0151 334 0348 Email: barbaraw@stjohnshospice.org www.wirralhospice.org
BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY Images by Kayte see p110 Covering Wirral, Cheshire And North West areas 07794 046861 Email: Kayte@imagesbykayte.co.uk www.imagesbykayte.co.uk
Exclusively Yours see p111 Office 27, The Old School 188 Liscard Road, Liscard WALLASEY CH44 5TN 0151 691 4938/07784 140732 Email: info@exclusivelyyours.me.uk www.exclusivelyyours.me.uk
BRIDAL DRESS DESIGNERS Amanda Designs 30 Manorwood Drive, Foxs Meadow, Whiston MERSEYSIDE L35 3UH www.amanda-designs.co.uk
Anna May Couture see p41 Upstairs at 152 Banks Road, West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 0QB 0151 625 1022 Email: help@annamay.co.uk www.annamay.co.uk
Cheshire Brides of Frodsham Pollard Building, 1A Church Street, Frodsham CHESHIRE WA6 7DW 01928 739796 www.cheshirebrides.co.uk
Opulence Bridalwear see p24-25 & 33 Upper Floors, 19-25 The Crescent West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 4HW 0151 625 9933 Email: mail@opulencebride.co.uk www.opulencebride.co.uk THE WEDDING GUIDE 9
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Bellissima Brides see p39
Design Studio Penybryn Corwen, Denbighshire NORTH WALES LL21 0BD 01490 412273 / 07702 668103 www.shelaghmbridalgowndesigner.co.uk
Brimstage Hall, Brimstage Lane, Brimstage WIRRAL CH63 6JA 0151 342 4440 Email: laura@bellissima-brides.co.uk www.bellissima-brides.co.uk
Berketex Bride Shimmering Reflections see p31 12 Brook Street, Neston WIRRAL CH64 9XL 0151 336 7674 / 07900 541728 Email: shimmeringreflections@hotmail.co.uk www.shimmeringreflections.co.uk
63 Houghton Street St John's Precinct LIVERPOOL L1 1LT 0151 709 2025 www.bbride.co.uk
Berketex Bride Yvonne Gillon Couture 20 Hollins Lane, Marple CHESHIRE SK6 6AW 0161 427 1881 www.yvonnegillon.co.uk
116 Foregate Street CHESTER CH1 1HB 01244 321989 www.bbride.co.uk
Bespoke Brides Ltd
BRIDAL WEAR Always & Forever Bridal Boutique 132 Greenfield Road, St Helens MERSEYSIDE WA10 6SH 01744 610222 www.alwaysandforeverbridalboutique.com
Amber Bridal 16 Well Street, Ruthin NORTH WALES LL15 1AH 01824 709580 www.amberbridal.co.uk
Anna May Couture see p41 Upstairs at 152 Banks Road, West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 0QB 0151 625 1022 email: help@annamay.co.uk www.annamay.co.uk
Aristocrats of Chester Ltd 27 St Werburgh Chambers Godstall Lane CHESTER CH1 1LN 01244 317587 www.aristocratsofchesterltd.co.uk
Whitegates, Coalpit Lane Mollington CHESTER CH1 6LJ 0800 619 9348 / 07973 680741 www.bespokebrides.co.uk
Boda Bridal see p39 29 Watergate Row, CHESTER CH1 2LE 01244 344 388 Email: wendy@bodabridal.co.uk www.bodabridal.co.uk
Boutique Brides 158 College Road, Crosby LIVERPOOL L23 3DP 0151 287 2475 www.boutiquebrides.com
Bows & Bells at Casa Pepita 57 Bradley Mills Road, Rawthorpe HUDDERSFIELD HD5 9PL 01484 421567
Bows & Bells at Hancock and Wood 25 Bridge Street, Warrington CHESHIRE WA1 2EZ 01925 245606 www.bowsandbells.com/warrington
Belles Bridal Boutique Suite 20, The Hahnemann Building 42 Hope Street LIVERPOOL L1 9BZ 0151 708 1996 Email: geraldine@bellesbridalboutique.co.uk www.bellesbridalboutique.co.uk 10 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
Brides by Tina Louise 60 Telegraph Road, Heswall WIRRAL CH60 0AG 0151 342 8099 www.bridesbytinalouise.co.uk
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Bridesworld
Corniche Brides
85 Poulton Road, Wallasey MERSEYSIDE CH44 9DE 0151 638 1337 www.bridesworldwallasey.com
528 Stanley Road LIVERPOOL L20 5DW 0151 933 5727 www.cornichebrides.co.uk
Bridesworld
Couture Room Bridal Wear Ltd
238-240 County Road LIVERPOOL L4 5PJ 0151 525 7142 www.bridesworldliverpool.com
60 Mill Lane, West Derby LIVERPOOL L12 7JB 0151 281 4066 www.coutureroom.co.uk
Cambric Gowns
Dream Dresses Chester
43 High Street, Mold, Flintshire NORTH WALES CH7 1BQ 01352 753010 www.cambricgowns.com
2 Park Court, Foregate Street, CHESTER CH1 1JG 0844 567 851 www.weddingdresseschester.com
Cameo Brides
Elegance see p31
The Hayloft Studio, The Plassey, Eyton, Wrexham NORTH WALES LL13 0SP 01978 781160 www.cameo-brides.com
Candystripe Couture 723 Knutsford Road Latchford Village, Warrington CHESHIRE WA4 1JY 01925 631565 www.candystripecouture.co.uk
Cherish the Bride see p29
11 Village Road, Bebington WIRRAL CH63 8PP 0151 609 1161 Email: enquiries@elegance-of-wirral.co.uk www.elegance-of-wirral.co.uk
Emma Bridalwear 497 Prescot Road, Old Swan LIVERPOOL L13 3BU Tel: 0151 228 7807
Fairytales Bridal Wear by Traci-Maria
152 Banks Road, West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 0RB 0151 625 0505 Email: help@cherishthebride.co.uk www.cherishthebride.co.uk
377a Chester Road Little Sutton, Ellesmere Port CHESHIRE CH66 3RQ Tel: 0151 339 4003 www.fairytalesbridalwear.co.uk
Cherry Blossoms Boutique
Firstlady Ltd
Petticoat Lane Building 102 Bold Street, First Floor LIVERPOOL L1 4HY 0151 707 0871 www.cherryblossomsboutique.net
37 Rhosddu Road, Wrexham NORTH WALES LL11 2NS 01978 365006 www.firstladybridal.co.uk
Glitz, Ritz & Tiaras Cheshire Brides of Frodsham Pollard Building, 1A Church Street, Frodsham CHESHIRE WA6 7DW 01928 739796 www.cheshirebrides.co.uk
Cloud 9 The Wedding House, 3-4 Great George Place LIVERPOOL L1 7AG 0151 708 8833 www.cloud9brides.co.uk www.theweddinghouse.co.uk
50-52 Wayfarers Arcade, Lord Street SOUTHPORT PR8 1NT 01704 500155 www.glitzritztiaras.net
Gwens Wedding Specialists 3 St Mary’s Precinct Chirk, Wrexham NORTH WALES LL14 5HX 01691 778727 www.gwensbridalwear.co.uk
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Limited Editions at Opulence see p33
The Bridal Path
Upper Floors, 19-25 The Crescent West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 4HL 0151 625 9933 Email: info@limitededitionsatopulence.co.uk www.limitededitionsatopulence.co.uk
222 Childwall Road LIVERPOOL L15 6UY 0151 722 0006 www.thebridalpath.co.uk
Lucy Briars 7 Bold Street SOUTHPORT PR9 0DD 01704 542176 www.lucy-briars.co.uk
The Bridal Room 24 Birkenhead Road, Hoylake WIRRAL 0151 633 2007 www.thebridalroomhoylake.com
The Brides Room of Birkdale Natalie Ann Brides 17 Childwall Parade, Huyton LIVERPOOL L14 6TT 0151 482 1158 www.natalieannbrides.com
15 Liverpool Road, Birkdale SOUTHPORT PR8 4AR 01704 550991 www.bridesroomofbirkdale.co.uk
Opulence Bridalwear see p24-25 & 33
The Wedding Shop (Cheshire) Ltd
Upper Floors, 19-25 The Crescent, West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 4HW 0151 625 9933 Email: mail@opulencebride.co.uk www.opulencebride.co.uk
38 London Road Alderley Edge CHESHIRE SK9 7DZ 01625 584674 www.the-wedding-shop.co.uk
Orchid Bridal Lounge
Tiffany Couture
2 Church Lane, Culcheth Warrington CHESHIRE WA3 5DJ Tel: 01925 733 899 www.orchidbridallounge.co.uk
122 Mill Lane, Wallasey WIRRAL CH44 3BL 0151 691 1143
Tilly Anna’s Bridal Wear see p35
247 Rake Lane, Wallasey MERSEYSIDE CH45 5DJ Tel: 0151 639 2299 www.princessgownsonline.co.uk
Unit 3, Top Farm Barn Studios High Street, Farndon CHESHIRE CH3 6PT 01829 270274 Email: enquiries@tillyannas.co.uk www.tilly-annas.co.uk
Shimmering Reflections see p31
Yvonne Gillon Couture
12 Brook Street, Neston WIRRAL CH64 9XL 0151 336 7674 / 07900 541728 Email: shimmeringreflections@hotmail.co.uk www.shimmeringreflections.co.uk
20 Hollins Lane, Marple CHESHIRE SK6 6AW 0161 427 1881 www.yvonnegillon.co.uk
Princess Gowns
Wedding Belles Bridal Boutique Special Daze Bridal & Men’s Formal Wear 46 Albert Road, Widnes CHESHIRE WA8 6JT 0151 420 2798 www.specialdaze.com
23a High Street, Frodsham CHESHIRE WA6 7AH 01928 735688 www.frodshamweddingbelles.co.uk
Wife to Be Bridal Boutique The Bridal Lounge 145 Linacre Road, Bootle LIVERPOOL L21 8JP 0151 922 4444 www.thebridallounge.co.uk
12 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
136a Greenway Road, Runcorn CHESHIRE WA7 5BS 01928 563994 www.wifetobe.co.uk
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Winsford Bridal Studio
Opulence Bridalwear see p24-25 & 33
The Coach House 80a Wharton Road, Winsford CHESHIRE CW7 3AE 01606 551967 www.winsfordbridalstudio.co.uk
Upper Floors, 19-25 The Crescent West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 4HW 0151 625 9933 Email: mail@opulencebride.co.uk www.opulencebride.co.uk
Zyra Bridal Wear 43 Delamere Street, Winsford CHESHIRE CW7 2LX 01606 868009 www.zyrabridalwear.co.uk
BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES Amber Bridal 16 Well Street, Ruthin NORTH WALES LL15 1AH 01824 709580 www.amberbridal.co.uk
Shimmering Reflections see p31 12 Brook Street, Neston WIRRAL CH64 9XL 0151 336 7674 / 07900 541728 Email: shimmeringreflections@hotmail.co.uk www.shimmeringreflections.co.uk
Tilly Anna’s Bridal Wear see p35 Unit 3, Top Farm Barn Studios High Street, Farndon CHESHIRE CH3 6PT 01829 270274 Email: enquiries@tillyannas.co.uk www.tilly-annas.co.uk
Anna May Couture see p41 Upstairs at 152 Banks Road, West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 0QB 0151 625 1022 Email: help@annamay.co.uk www.annamay.co.uk
Bellissima Brides see p39 Brimstage Hall, Brimstage Lane Brimstage WIRRAL CH63 6JA 0151 342 4440 Email: laura@bellissima-brides.co.uk www.bellissima-brides.co.uk
Boda Bridal see p39 29 Watergate Row, CHESTER CH1 2LE 01244 344 388 Email: wendy@bodabridal.co.uk www.bodabridal.co.uk
Cherish the Bride see p29 152 Banks Road, West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 0RB 0151 625 0505 Email: help@cherishthebride.co.uk www.cherishthebride.co.uk
CAKES Arty-Cakes see p91 Kenyon House, Mold Road RUTHIN LL15 1SL 01824 704299 / 07876 682665 Email: annie@arty-cakes.co.uk www.arty-cakes.co.uk
Daisy Hill Cake Company see p93 The Turret, Thornton Hough WIRRAL CH63 1JL 0151 353 0111 Email: info@daisyhillcakes.co.uk www.daisyhillcakes.co.uk
Pipedreams Cake Design see p93 99-101 Banks Road, West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 0RB 0151 625 2659 Email: help@pdcd.co.uk www.pdcd.co.uk
CARS & CARRIAGES Beetles About
Elegance see p31 11 Village Road, Bebington WIRRAL CH63 8PP 0151 609 1161 Email: enquiries@elegance-of-wirral.co.uk www.elegance-of-wirral.co.uk
Covering Wirral, Merseyside, Cheshire & North Wales 07585 268613 Email: info@beetlesabout.co.uk www.beetlesabout.co.uk
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Big Entertainments see p76
Heartwood Occasions see p77
Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
Showroom at Mollington Banastre Hotel, Parkgate Road, CHESTER CH1 6NN 07581 583351 Email: heartwoodweddings@live.co.uk www.heartwoodoccasions.co.uk
Caremore Cars see p83 Unit 8 & 9 Brindley Road ST HELENS WA9 4HY 01744 818516 Email: caremoret@btconnect.com www.caremorecars.co.uk
Heavenly Wedding Cars see p85 Ty’dre, Methodist Hill, Froncysyllte LLANGOLLEN LL20 7SN 01691 777942 / 07720 440830 Email: info@heavenly-wedding-cars.co.uk www.heavenly-wedding-cars-co.uk
Rosewood Farm Carriage Company see p85 Cronton, CHESHIRE WA8 4NT 07757 297841 Email: rfcc@hotmail.co.uk www.rosewoodfarmcarriageco.co.uk
CASINOS Big Entertainments see p76 Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
Lavender Blue see p87 Church House Farm, Four Crosses NR OSWESTRY SY22 6QZ 01691 839283 / 07787 534169 Email: aileen@lavenderblueevents.co.uk www.lavenderblueevents.co.uk
Stephanotis Weddings see p77 McKenna’s Building, Dock Road WIRRAL CH41 1DQ 07809 606972 email: info@stephanotis-weddings.co.uk www.stephanotis-weddings.co.uk
The Complete Group see p73 Unit 4, Willow Court West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
CHOCOLATE FOUNTAINS Big Entertainments see p76
The Complete Group see p73 Unit 4, Willow Court West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
CHAIR COVERS Big Entertainments see p76 Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
The Complete Group see p73 Unit 4, Willow Court West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
DISCOS Big Entertainments see p76
Funky Sunflower Events see p75 Covering the North West 07850 054793 / 07914 806410 Email: sarah@funkysunflower.com rebecca@funkysunflower.com www.funkysunflower.com 14 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
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Kev Day Roadshow see p97
Flori Couture see p87
8 Park Avenue, Hawarden, Deeside FLINT CH5 3HZ 01244 535419 / 07903 453111 Email: djkevday@aol.com www.kevdayroadshow.co.uk
Covering the North West 07764 767901 Email: info@floricouture.co.uk www.floricouture.co.uk
Lavender Blue see p87 Matt Johnson see p3 Wedding Singer PO Box 210 DEESIDE CH5 9DJ 07975 999270 Email: info@ukweddingsinger.com www.UkWeddingSinger.com
The Complete Group see p73 Unit 4, Willow Court West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
EXHIBITIONS/WEDDING FAYRES
Church House Farm, Four Crosses NR OSWESTRY SY22 6QZ 01691 839283 / 07787 534169 Email: aileen@lavenderblueevents.co.uk www.lavenderblueevents.co.uk
The Complete Group see p73 Unit 4, Willow Court West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
Wow Flowers By appointment only 0151 639 4717 / 07702 795810 Email: Helen@wowflowersdesign.co.uk www.wowflowersdesign.co.uk
Bliss Wedding Shows see p23 & p126 Celebration Wedding Fayres see p130 Exhibition Diary see p120-124 Flaunt Wedding Events see p124 & 127 Funky Sunflower Events see p129
GIFT REGISTRY/WEDDING GIFTS Debenhams see p115 Unit 15, 42 Lord Street LIVERPOOL L2 1TA 08445 616161 www.debenhams.com/weddings
KeeDays see p129 Precious Moments Bridal Fayres see p125 UK Wedding Shows see p136 WeddingLink see p128
FLOWERS
HEALTH & FITNESS Wirral Boot Camps see p47 Covering Merseyside 07738 388811 Email: wirralbootcamps@gmail.com www.wirralbootcamps.co.uk
Belles Fleurs Florist 9 Oak Street, Llangollen DENBIGHSHIRE LL20 8NR 01978 861100 Email: sales@Bellesfleursflorist.co.uk www.bellesfleursflorist.co.uk
Crystal Flowers see p89 Covering Merseyside, Cheshire And surrounding areas 0151 678 6981 07982 676721 / 07973 753454 Email: info@crystal-flowers.co.uk www.crystal-flowers.co.uk
HEN NIGHTS Lion Quays Waterside Resort see inside back cover
Moreton, Oswestry SHROPSHIRE SY11 3EN 01691 684300 Email: weddings@lionquays.com www.lionquays.com
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HONEYMOONS/HOLIDAYS Thomas Cook 08701 111 111 www.thomascook.com
Smooch PO Box 963, UXBRIDGE UB8 6JJ 01923 862858 www.smoochrings.co.uk
The Ring Workshop Ltd see p7 Travel Bureau 69 High Street, Gosforth Newcastle Upon Tyne NE3 4AT 0191 272 6020 dawn@travelb.co.uk www.travelbureaugosforth.com
4 Smithfield Street, Oswestry SHROPSHIRE SY11 2EG 01691 238297 Email: enquiries@ringworkshop.co.uk www.ringworkshop.co.uk
LICENSED VENUES JEWELLERY Bron Eifion Country House Hotel see p5 Furrer-Jacot see p119 www.furrer-jacot.com Stockists: CH Moody & Son Ltd 14 Pillory Street, Nantwich CHESHIRE CW5 5BD 01270 611 707 Carl Christopher 18 Ormskirk Street, St Helens MERSEYSIDE WA10 1BJ 01744 739 922 Cheshires The Jewellers 12 St Michael’s Row, Grosvenor Arcade CHESTER CH1 1EF 01244 403 930 Cottrills 13 Water Lane, Wilmslow CHESHIRE SK9 5AE 01625 416 330 Fabricius Green Fine Jewels 1 High Street, Shrewsbury SHROPSHIRE SY1 1SP 01743 244 194 Henry D Johnstone 51a London Road, Alderley Edge CHESHIRE SK9 7DY 01625 583565 The Ring Workshop Ltd see p7 4 Smithfield Street, Oswestry SHROPSHIRE SY11 2EG 01691 238297
Kruger Jewellers see p117 34 Seaview Road, Wallasey MERSEYSIDE CH45 4LA Tel: 0151 639 4431 Email: info@krugerjewellers.com www.krugerjewellers.com 16 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
Criccieth, Gwynedd NORTH WALES LL52 0SA 01766 522385 Email: enquiries@broneifion.co.uk www.broneifion.co.uk
Everton Football Club Goodison Park, LIVERPOOL L4 4EL 0151 530 5250 Email: weddings@evertonfc.com www.evertonfc.com
Floral Pavilion Theatre see p61 Marine Promenade, New Brighton WIRRAL CH45 2JS 0151 606 2961 or 0151 606 2992 Email: floralconferences@wirral.gov.uk www.floralpavilion.com
Holiday Inn Ellesmere Port see p65 Lower Mersey Street, Ellesmere Port CHESHIRE CH65 2AL 0151 356 8111 Email: enquiries@hiellesmereport.com www.hiellesmereport.com
Holiday Inn Liverpool City Centre see p65 Lime Street, LIVERPOOL L1 1NQ 0151 709 7090 Email: enquiries@hiliverpool.com www.hiliverpool.com
Lion Quays Waterside Resort see inside back cover
Moreton, Oswestry SHROPSHIRE SY11 3EN 01691 684300 Email: weddings@lionquays.com www.lionquays.com
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Macdonald Craxton Wood Hotel & Spa
MAGICIANS
see p59
Parkgate Road, Ledsham CHESTER CH66 9PB 0151 347 4000 Email: Weddings.craxton@macdonald-hotels.co.uk www.macdonaldhotels.co.uk
Big Entertainments see p76
Ness Botanic Gardens see p57
The Complete Group see p73
Ness, Neston CHESHIRE CH64 4AY 0151 353 0123 Email: jenlemon@liv.ac.uk www.nessgardens.org.uk
Unit 4, Willow Court West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 Email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
Plas Isaf Country Farmhouse and Barn see p1
Corwen, DENBIGHSHIRE LL21 0EW 01490 412486 / 07891 501833 email: enquiries@plas-isaf.co.uk www.plas-isaf.co.uk
Stobart Stadium Halton see p65 Lowerhouse Lane, Widnes CHESHIRE WA8 7DZ 0151 510 6000 Email: stadium@halton.gov.uk www.stobartstadiumhalton.org.uk
The Venue Finder see outside back cover 08452 601106 Email: info@thevenuefinder.co.uk www.thevenuefinder.co.uk
Vale Royal Abbey see p67 Whitegate, Northwich CHESHIRE CW8 2BA 01606 301291 Email: enquiries@vra.co.uk www.vra.co.uk
West Tower Country House Hotel see p63 Mill Lane, Aughton LANCASHIRE L39 7HJ 01695 423328 Email: info@westtower.com www.westtower.com
LINGERIE Debenhams see p115 Unit 15, 42 Lord Street LIVERPOOL L2 1TA 08445 616161 www.debenhams.com
MARQUEE HIRE Big Entertainments see p76 Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
The Complete Group see p73 Unit 4, Willow Court, West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 Email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
MENSWEAR Attire Menswear see p51 73 Mill Lane, Wallasey WIRRAL CH44 5UB 0151 200 7000 email: info@attiremenswear.co.uk www.attiremenswear.co.uk
Attire Menswear see p51 184 Longmoor Lane, Aintree LIVERPOOL L9 0EL 0151 476 7000 email: info@attiremenswear.co.uk www.attiremenswear.co.uk
Groom see p53 1-4 The Courtyard Horsemarket Street WARRINGTON WA1 1XL 01925 658889 Email: warrington@groomhire.co.uk www.groomhire.co.uk
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Groom see p53
Yvonne Gillon Couture
90 Water Lane Wilmslow CHESHIRE SK9 5BB 01625 419777 Email: wilmslow@groomhire.co.uk www.groomhire.co.uk
20 Hollins Lane, Marple CHESHIRE SK6 6AW 0161 427 1881 www.yvonnegillon.co.uk
MUSIC AND ENTERTAINMENT Groom see p53 The Wedding House, 3-4 Great George Place LIVERPOOL L1 7AG 0151 709 8283 Email: liverpool@groomhire.co.uk www.groomhire.co.uk
Big Entertainments see p76
Groom see p53
Kev Day Roadshow see p97
126 Northgate Street CHESTER CH1 2HT 01244 401977 Email: chester@groomhire.co.uk www.groomhire.co.uk
8 Park Avenue, Hawarden, Deeside FLINT CH5 3HZ 01244 535419 / 07903 453111 Email: djkevday@aol.com www.kevdayroadshow.co.uk
Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
Groom see p53 Albert Square, 37 Princess Street MANCHESTER M2 4FN 0161 236 9959 Email: Manchester@groomhire.co.uk www.groomhire.co.uk
Matt Johnson see p3 Wedding Singer PO Box 210, DEESIDE CH5 9DJ 07975 999270 Email: info@ukweddingsinger.com www.UkWeddingSinger.com
Special Daze Bridal & Men’s Formal Wear 46 Albert Road, Widnes CHESHIRE WA8 6JT 0151 420 2798 www.specialdaze.com
MOTHER OF THE BRIDE
The Complete Group see p73 Unit 4, Willow Court, West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 Email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
Amber Bridal 16 Well Street, Ruthin NORTH WALES LL15 1AH 01824 709580 www.amberbridal.co.uk
Opulence Bridalwear see p24-25 & 33 Upper Floors, 19-25 The Crescent West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 4HW 0151 625 9933 Email: mail@opulencebride.co.uk www.opulencebride.co.uk
Shimmering Reflections see p31 12 Brook Street, Neston WIRRAL CH64 9XL 0151 336 7674 / 07900 541728 Email: shimmeringreflections@hotmail.co.uk www.shimmeringreflections.co.uk
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OUTSIDE CATERING Daisy Hill Catering Company see p93 The Turret, Thornton Hough, WIRRAL CH63 1JL 0151 353 0111 Email: info@daisyhillcakes.co.uk www.daisyhillcakes.co.uk
Feast Al Fresco see p69 9 Rock Park, Rock Ferry WIRRAL CH42 1PJ 07940 894120 Email: info@feastalfresco.co.uk www.feastalfresco.co.uk
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PHOTOGRAPHERS Azure Images see p109 North Wales, Cheshire, Manchester 07774 660602/ 07889 918110 Email: info@azureimages.co.uk www.azureimages.co.uk
Cetra Photography see p105 Cetra Gallery and Studio 50 Pensby Road, Heswall WIRRAL CH60 7RE 0151 342 7777 Email: verity@cetra.co.uk or richard@cetra.co.uk www.cetra.co.uk
DJA Photographic 2b Crosender Road, Crosby LIVERPOOL L23 3BB 0151 281 4171 / 07932 035904 Email: djalison@hotmail.co.uk www.djaphotographic.co.uk
Jeff Langhorne Photography see p103 07970 866134 Email: enquiries@jefflanghornephotography.com www.jefflanghorneweddings.com
Jim Whitham Photography 01204 576 366 / 07818 045390 Email: info@jimwhithamphotography.com www.jimwhithamphotography.com
KN Studio Photography 131 Oldham Street Latchford, Warrington CHESHIRE WA4 1EX 07746 308842 Email: info@knstudio.co.uk www.knstudio.co.uk
Keyhole Studios Photography & Videography FACT, 3rd Floor, 88 Wood Street, LIVERPOOL L1 4DQ 0151 708 7077 / 07921 366394 Email@ info@keyholestudios.com www.keyholestudios.com
Exclusively Yours see p111 Boudoir Photography Office 27, The Old School 188 Liscard Road, Liscard WALLASEY CH44 5TN 0151 691 4938/07784 140732 Email: info@exclusivelyyours.me.uk www.exclusivelyyours.me.uk
fotografy by J. Cardoso see p107 36 Graylands Road, Port Sunlight WIRRAL CH62 4SB 0151 645 9829 / 07738 365040 Email: info@fotografy.co.uk www.fotografy.co.uk
Foxfoto see p108 07951 700871 / 07762 138217 Email: info@foxfoto.co.uk www.foxfoto.co.uk
Lightmajestic Wedding Photography 07984 407747 Email: photo@lightmajestic.com www.lightmajestic.com
Marie Lloyd Photography see p108 18 The Beeches, Hope WREXHAM LL12 9NX 07805 207710 Email: marie@marielloydphotography.co.uk www.marielloydphotography.co.uk
Paul Edmond Photography see inside front cover
Port Sunlight, WIRRAL 07784 140732 / 0151 691 4938 Email: info@pauledmondphoto.co.uk www.pauledmondphoto.co.uk
Trev Wilson Photography see p105 Gary Hill Photography 31 Slatey Road, Oxton WIRRAL CH43 4UE 07729 476322 Email: info@garyhillphoto.com www.garyhillphoto.com
0151 638 4679 / 07525 354309 Email: trev.wilson@sky.com www.trevwilsonphotography.com
RECEPTION VENUES
Images by Kayte see p111
ATHENA’S Greek Restaurant
Boudoir Photography Covering Wirral, Cheshire And North West areas 07794 046861 Email: Kayte@imagesbykayte.co.uk www.imagesbykayte.co.uk
47-49 Market Street, Hoylake WIRRAL CH47 2BQ 0151 632 0400 Email: ATHENASHOYLAKE@aol.com www.ATHENASHOYLAKE.com
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Bron Eifion Country House Hotel see p5
Ness Botanic Gardens see p57
Criccieth, Gwynedd NORTH WALES LL52 0SA 01766 522385 Email: enquiries@broneifion.co.uk www.broneifion.co.uk
Ness, Neston CHESHIRE CH64 4AY 0151 353 0123 Email: jenlemon@liv.ac.uk www.nessgardens.org.uk
Everton Football Club
Plas Isaf Country Farmhouse and Barn see p1
Goodison Park LIVERPOOL L4 4EL 0151 530 5250 Email: weddings@evertonfc.com www.evertonfc.com
Corwen, DENBIGHSHIRE LL21 0EW 01490 412486 / 07891 501833 Email: enquiries@plas-isaf.co.uk www.plas-isaf.co.uk
Stobart Stadium Halton see p65 Floral Pavilion Theatre see p61 Marine Promenade, New Brighton WIRRAL CH45 2JS 0151 606 2961 or 0151 606 2992 Email: floralconferences@wirral.gov.uk www.floralpavilion.com
Lowerhouse Lane, Widnes CHESHIRE WA8 7DZ 0151 510 6000 Email: stadium@halton.gov.uk www.stobartstadiumhalton.org.uk
The Venue Finder see outside back cover Holiday Inn Ellesmere Port see p65 Lower Mersey Street Ellesmere Port CHESHIRE CH65 2AL 0151 356 8111 Email: enquiries@hiellesmereport.com www.hiellesmereport.com
Holiday Inn Liverpool City Centre see p65 Lime Street LIVERPOOL L1 1NQ 0151 709 7090 Email: enquiries@hiliverpool.com www.hiliverpool.com
Jurys Inn Liverpool Hotel see p67 31 Keel Wharf LIVERPOOL L3 4FN 0151 244 3833 Email: jurysinnliverpool@jurysinn.com www.jurysinns.com/liverpoolhotels
Lion Quays Waterside Resort see inside back cover
Moreton, Oswestry SHROPSHIRE SY11 3EN 01691 684300 Email: weddings@lionquays.com www.lionquays.com
Macdonald Craxton Wood Hotel & Spa see p59 Parkgate Road, Ledsham CHESTER CH66 9PB 0151 347 4000 Email: Weddings.craxton@macdonald-hotels.co.uk www.macdonaldhotels.co.uk
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08452 601106 Email: info@thevenuefinder.co.uk www.thevenuefinder.co.uk
Vale Royal Abbey see p67 Whitegate, Northwich CHESHIRE CW8 2BA 01606 301291 Email: enquiries@vra.co.uk www.vra.co.uk
West Tower Country House Hotel see p63 Mill Lane, Aughton LANCASHIRE L39 7HJ 01695 423328 Email: info@westtower.com www.westtower.com
RESTAURANTS ATHENA’S Greek Restaurant 47-49 Market Street, Hoylake WIRRAL CH47 2BQ 0151 632 0400 Email: ATHENASHOYLAKE@aol.com www.ATHENASHOYLAKE.com
STATIONERY & INVITATIONS Boda Bridal see p39 29 Watergate Row, CHESTER CH1 2LE 01244 344388 Email: wendy@bodabridal.co.uk www.bodabridal.co.uk
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Heartwood Occasions see p77
Stephanotis Weddings see p77
Showroom at Mollington Banastre Hotel, Parkgate Road, Chester CH1 6NN 07581 583351 Email: heartwoodweddings@live.co.uk www.heartwoodoccasions.co.uk
McKenna’s Building, Dock Road WIRRAL CH41 1DQ 07809 606972 Email: info@stephanotis-weddings.co.uk www.stephanotis-weddings.co.uk
Precious Moments see p95
The Complete Group see p73
First Floor, 152 Banks Road, West Kirby WIRRAL CH48 0QB 0151 625 2562 Email: help@precious-moments.co.uk www.precious-moments.co.uk
Unit 4, Willow Court West Quay Road, Warrington CHESHIRE WA2 8UF 01925 417425 Email: sales@thecompletegroup.org.uk www.thecompletegroup.org.uk
TEETH WHITENING/COSMETIC DENTISTRY
VIDEO KIOSKS
Chester Smiles see p45
Memory Wishes
5 Overleigh Road, Handbridge CHESTER CH4 7HL 01244 677612 Email: enquiries@chestersmiles.com www.chestersmiles.com
The Studio, 2 Cliftonville Road, Woolston, Warrington CHESHIRE WA1 4BD 07889 178487 Email: adrian.battersby@memorywishes.co.uk www.memorywishes.co.uk
VENUE DECORATION
VIDEOGRAPHY
Big Entertainments see p76
Aaron Rose Wedding Videography
Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
0151 286 8383 / 07838 261816 Email: info@aaronrose.co.uk www.aaronroseweddingvideo.co.uk
FormbySoft Films see p113 Funky Sunflower Events see p75 Covering the North West 07850 054793 / 07914 806410 Email: sarah@funkysunflower.com rebecca@funkysunflower.com www.funkysunflower.com
Heartwood Occasions see p77 Showroom at Mollington Banastre Hotel, Parkgate Road, Chester CH1 6NN 07581 583351 Email: heartwoodweddings@live.co.uk www.heartwoodoccasions.co.uk
Perfect Celebrations Hire see p113 Based in Neston, Wirral 07956 539048 Email: perfectcelebrationshire@gmail.com
Something to Celebrate 62 Seaview Road, Wallasey WIRRAL CH45 4LB 0151 630 5554 Email: STCenquiry@aol.com www.something-to-celebrate.net
01704 831356 Email: info@formbysoft.co.uk www.formbysoft.co.uk
GBC Television UK Ltd see p113 63 Oxford Road, Huyton LIVERPOOL L36 1XF 0151 324 0464 / 07879 401920 Email: enquiries@GBCTelevision.com www.UltimateWeddingVideo.co.uk
Keyhole Studios Photography & Videography FACT, 3rd Floor, 88 Wood Street, LIVERPOOL L1 4DQ 0151 708 7077 / 07921 366394 Email@ info@keyholestudios.com www.keyholestudios.com
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WEBSITES The Wedding Guide Email: gillian@theweddingguideuk.com www.theweddingguideuk.com
WEDDING CO-ORDINATORS Big Entertainments see p76 Liverpool, Manchester and Cheshire 08452 601106 Email: info@bigentertainments.com www.bigentertainments.com
Bliss Weddings 07891 175456 Email: enquiries@blissweddingsuk.com www.blissweddingsuk.com
Funky Sunflower Events see p75 Covering the North West 07850 054793 / 07914 806410 Email: sarah@funkysunflower.com rebecca@funkysunflower.com www.funkysunflower.com
WEDDING DANCE Dance Passion see p97 First Wedding Dance PO Box 1324 LIVERPOOL L69 4LZ 07751 240230 Email: info@dance-passion.co.uk www.dance-passion.co.uk
WEDDING INSURANCE Debenhams see p115 Unit 15, 42 Lord Street LIVERPOOL L2 1TA 08445 616161 www.debenhams.com/weddings
WEDDING THRONES Stephanotis Weddings see p77 McKenna’s Building, Dock Road WIRRAL CH41 1DQ 07809 606972 Email: info@stephanotis-weddings.co.uk www.stephanotis-weddings.co.uk If you are a supplier and would like to be listed in the A-Z Directory please contact Gillian Lane on 0151 638 3008, or email gillian@theweddingguideuk.com.
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The Dress Once the initial excitement of your engagement is over, one of the first things you will probably picture when dreaming of your big day is your wedding dress. Your dress is one of the most important wedding items that you will purchase and on the day all eyes will be on you and your gown. Make sure you take enough time to choose one that really suits you and gives you that perfect shape so you look and feel wonderful on your special day. Looking
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Remember that you will be standing, walking and dancing throughout the day and evening so your dress should not only look fabulous but should also feel comfortable. With so many choices for your dress, it can be an overwhelming task but remember that shopping for the dress of your dreams should be fun, easy and painless! Before you start, think about what type of dress you are looking for. Wedding dresses are made in several different silhouettes such as the ball gown, empire line, fishtail and ballerina style to name a few. It is important that you know which type of gown will flatter your figure the best. Look at your body shape and be honest with yourself. Consider the features you want to show off and those you want to hide. Here is a rundown of the different wedding dress silhouettes available. 26 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
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Ball Gowns – One of the most traditional shapes of wedding dress which gives the princess look. The ball gown has a fitted waist with a full, puffed out and layered skirt. This style of dress is best suited to slim brides as it adds curves. For those with a pear shape look, the skirt does wonders to flatter the waist line. It is not ideal for petite women as the fullness of the skirt can be overwhelming to the small frame. A-lines – Usually have a fitted bodice with a skirt that flares gently from the waist to form an "A" shape. They are a terrific choice for someone who would like to hide lower body flaws, but avoid adding too much fussy detailing to your skirt as this will make you look bottom heavy. For those with a slim torso and tiny waist, choose a bodice with detailing on the bust to give more of an even proportion. Ballerina Wedding Dress – The full skirt of the Ballerina dress will give a bride with slim hips and a full bust that fairytale, romantic look. Avoid this style if you are petite as you may look like you are disappearing into this style of dress. The full skirt also makes wide hips appear much bigger. Asymmetrical Wedding Dress – A particularly striking and unusual looking style, the asymmetric design can show off beautiful and toned shoulders to their best and gives that extra help in obtaining that ‘nipped in waist’ look. The asymmetrical dress will divert attention from bigger bottoms to your upper body and if the wearer is on the curvy side the full skirt will balance their shape. To help hide those fuller hips this style of dress can be a godsend. This asymmetric strap design will distract from square shoulders and give them that softer look.
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Dress styles clockwise from far left: A Line, Ballerina, Empress, Halter Neck, and Column
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Sheath Dresses – This style suits those who are slim, have narrow hips and a balanced figure. This gown will not hide any flaws so if you think your thighs or bottom are too big, this is not the dress for you. Whilst there are some stunning dresses available in this style, you don't want to risk being uncomfortable or self conscious on your wedding day so choose wisely. Empire Waist Gowns – This style of dress is usually straighter than the A-lines without being too figure hugging. The waistline starts just underneath the bust with a seam which falls away to the floor, giving the wearer that ultimate romantic poise. For those with smaller breasts this gown works wonders while the long ‘A’ line gives the more petite bride the appearance of added height. Another advantage of this style of dress is it helps to conceal wide hips. Empire waist gowns are usually made of light, flowing fabric. They are also excellent for pregnant brides, because they provide extra room in the waist, making them a comfortable choice. 28 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
Column Wedding Dress – This sleek modern line is very straight and seamed on the waistline. It can be quite figure-hugging and would suit the slim and/or taller bride. It can also be suited to the petite bride because of the unbroken line. Because of the streamlined appearance this style of dress can also be worn well by pregnant brides. This style of dress should be avoided if you have fuller hips as they will be emphasised more. Mermaid Line or Fishtail Gowns – this style is figure hugging, shaping the waist and hips before nipping in at the knees. The mermaid or fishtail comes from the material at the back of the dress that begins at the top of your thighs before flaring out and opening up into the fan shape once it reaches the floor. This dress gives the ultimate sexy look and accentuates a curvaceous, all in-proportion figure. This dress is not suited to a protruding stomach or big hips. Halter Neck Wedding Dress – Athletic shapes can look great in halter-necks and will give added height to the petite shape. If you are curvy with a big bust this style of dress will make you look top heavy and can emphasise your hips. Avoid halternecks if you are pear shaped as it really will make your bottom look bigger. ♥
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There are many different wedding traditions that have been kept alive over the years with the belief that they will bring a lifetime of happiness and good luck to the couple.
The well known rhyme is familiar to brides around the world and it is widely assumed that it originates from the Victorians. It is commonly known that ‘something old’ refers to family and friends of the couple staying close during the marriage. This is usually signified by a garter given to the bride from her mother or close friend who is happily married. The ‘something new’ is usually a garment bought for the bride that signifies the new future for the couple. ‘Something borrowed’ is usually lent to the bride by her family, which is returned the next day to ensure the bride has good luck. Blue is considered to bring consistency to the relationship and it is also thought to represent fidelity.
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leg. Another Old English tradition of ‘flinging the stocking’ is believed to originate from when the wedding guests would sneak into the bridal chamber and throw the discarded stockings at the couple.
The Dress We have all heard that it is deemed unlucky for the groom to see the bride in her dress before the wedding, but did you realise that some believe that it is also unlucky to wear your full outfit before the big day? Interestingly, some brides leave one stitch undone until they dress on the day.
The Bouquet Traditionally, the bride throws her bouquet backwards over her head and whoever catches it is the next to get married. Similarly, in some countries the groom removes the bride’s garter and throws it to the single males. Again the one who catches it is the next to marry. ♥
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All that glitters Depending on your hairstyle and choice of wedding dress, a tiara or hair accessory can turn you into a sophisticated bride or a fairytale princess.
Tiaras or bridal hair accessories can complete your whole wedding look, whether you are after a pearl and diamond vintage look, a stunning oral headpiece for maximum impact or a simple, elegant headband, the options are endless. The type of headpiece that you choose will depend on your personal style and budget. You may wish to go for a unique handmade piece which can be designed to match your wedding
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dress. Or you could browse the readily available pieces in bridal shops or online where you will be totally spoiled for choice! Remember however that you will need to try the pieces on to make sure the one you choose really suits you, will compliment the hairstyle that you have chosen and works well with a veil if you are wearing one. With all the options available, traditionally shaped wire or metal tiaras, decorative hair combs or slides, fascinators and encrusted headbands, you really will be able to add that extra sparkle and glamour on your special day. ♼
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Whether you have two or twenty bridesmaids, their look is an important part of the day and choosing the right dresses will help you all to feel fabulous and ooze confidence.
input into what they will be wearing. If you have young bridesmaids make sure that they will be comfortable in what you have chosen for them as a wedding can be a tiring day for the little ones.
Know your style It may seem obvious, but you should always find your dress before you even start thinking about your bridesmaids. Once you know the style of your dress and the theme of your wedding, it is much easier to start getting ideas of how you want your bridesmaids to look and be confident that their look will fit in on the day.
Know your crowd Ask yourself this: Are my bridesmaids similar to each other? What would they be most comfortable in? You must also consider size, age, shape, style and their colouring. You want to flatter your bridesmaids and keep them happy on the day. It is important to not give them free reign but to let them know that they do have some
Fabulous fabric Another important aspect of the bridesmaids’ dresses is choosing the right sort of fabric for the time of year. If you are having a summer wedding, try and opt for dresses made from lighter fabrics such as silk georgette or crepe. If your wedding is taking place in the winter, bridesmaids can experiment with layering and fabrics such as satin, organza and taffeta.
Accessorise! Don’t leave the accessories as an after thought, as these will either make or break the look. Make sure you have enough time to get the right style of headdress, shoes, earrings, necklaces etc to suit each bridesmaid. ♥
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Brides Be inspired with our Bridal Fashion pages. From simple sophistication to richly embellished silhouettes, these gowns give an elegant and feminine look. Gowns by Impression Bridal www.impressionbridal.co.uk
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Couture? What is
Do you want to be stylish yet different on your wedding day? Then why not visit a Couture Bridal Dress Designer who will design a gown exclusively for you. The possibilities are endless and whatever your fashion taste and personal style, a Couture wedding dress will enable you to choose a design that will match your taste and personality.
A Couture wedding dress will be made from the finest fabrics, sewn with great craftsmanship and with extreme attention to detail. The first step in the Couture process will be to book an appointment for an initial consultation. This will allow you to share your dreams with the designer. Bring to the consultation all your ideas — photographs, magazines, or simply a verbal description of what you envision. Together you will explore various options, including necklines, skirt shapes and fabrics. The designer will then work their magic, translating your ideas into a rough sketch.
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Attention to detail with a couture dress
Once the sketch has been approved and your measurements taken, the proper work begins. The sketch becomes the pattern for the calico toile garment which is made out of a rough cotton fabric. The toile can be cut and pinned allowing all the fitting problems to be ironed out and your personal blueprint emerges. The work done at this stage reaps many benefits later on, reducing the number of alterations done on the actual fabric. Once work on the fabric begins you can expect a number of fittings as the garment evolves. You will be asked at this point to wear your bridal lingerie to ensure the fit is just right. Beautiful linings make sure it feels as good as it looks. And all the little details which make it uniquely yours – embroidery or beading, are gradually added. Remember, when you come to the hem fitting you will need to wear the shoes that you will be wearing on the day. It is also a good idea to take along your tiara and jewellery so you get to see the complete look. Following your final fitting, your truly unique gown will be pressed for collection – this is the last step in the wonderful Couture process before you wow your guests, leaving everyone spellbound on your special day! ♥ T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E 41
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Other than the dress, bridal hair and makeup is one of the most important things to get right on your big day. You want to look the best you possibly can and the right hair style and makeup ďŹ nishes the fabulous look and truly makes you feel amazing. Book your makeup artist and hairdresser early (at least 6 months before) to make sure they have your date free.
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4 months to go Find a skincare regime you can do at home – Four months before is a great time to start to clear up any skin problems and begin a new beauty routine. This would be a great time to seek advice from beauty experts to see which products suit you best.
3 months to go Choose a reputable hairdresser – If you are considering changing the colour of your hair, now is the time to do it. This gives you the chance to either get used to the colour and if you don’t like it you have time to go back to your previous colour. This is also the time to start deciding on styles. With so many to choose from choosing the right style is crucial. A top tip would be to go to the hairdresser wearing a top similar to the style of your dress (you can do this simply by manipulating a top you already have or buying one to chop and change). This will help you visualise your hair as it will be when you are wearing your dress. You may already have a good idea of how you
want your hair to look, but remember how it will look on your photos too, as this will be something you will look at forever.
2 months to go Find a beautician – This is also the best time to book a course of facials. Facials will help to deep cleanse your skin and give you that little bit of extra confidence. This is also a great time to test your fake tan and trial your makeup. A test run tan will enable you to see how the tan develops and if you are happy with the colour. You can also adapt your makeup to suit your newly tanned skin tone. It is a good idea to take a camera along and take pictures of your desired look so that it can be exactly recreated on the day.
1 month to go Now that everything is booked, start to relax – Get plenty of sleep on the weeks leading up to your wedding as well as cutting down on alcohol and drinking plenty of water. This will give you an extra boost on the day and ensure that your skin is beautiful and glowing. ♥
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DazzlingSmiles You may have the beautiful dress and the expensive jewellery but the best thing you can wear on your wedding day is your smile. We would all like to have perfect teeth or at least a beautiful smile especially on your big day. Unfortunately, many of us are cursed with broken, crooked or discoloured teeth. However, with recent developments in cosmetic dentistry, even the most unattractive of smiles can be given a complete makeover. Your wedding photographs should show your happiness for a lifetime and as you start planning your wedding it might be just the right time to consider cosmetic dentistry. From a few fillings to a full smile makeover, the possibilities are endless. A great Cosmetic Dentist will be able to offer you a variety of treatments that will suit your needs, including: Dental implants – if you have any missing teeth and want a replacement that looks and feels natural. Dental veneers – to correct crooked, misshapen, discoloured or chipped teeth. Dental crowns – which cover and encase the entire tooth surface, restoring it to its original shape, size and colour. Invisible braces – to straighten misaligned and crooked teeth. Typically this will take between 6 months and a year and will require regular visits. One treatment that is growing in popularity these days is teeth whitening. Now you can brighten your smile with laser whitening treatments that can lighten discoloured teeth caused by tea coffee, smoking, medication, or ageing. You'll notice the difference immediately... and so will everyone else. In addition to laser whitening there are treatments that you can perform in the comfort of your own home. Custom fitted whitening trays with a professional whitening gel enable you to continue your whitening treatment at home. The combination of the laser and home whitening can give you a dazzling new confident white smile for not only your wedding day, but for years to come. More and more people are opting for some form of cosmetic dentistry because they realise how valuable it is to have a perfect smile. An amazing smile definitely adds to the confidence of a person and there is nothing more stunning than a beautiful, confident bride in a beautiful dress with a beautiful smile. Remember, Cosmetic Dentistry is no longer just for celebrities. You can be the star on your wedding day! ♥ 44 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
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As the wedding day approaches, every bride wants to look her best and feel fabulous when she makes her grand entrance. Just a few changes to your daily routine will help you reach your goal. If you want to have fun at the same time why not consider booking you and your bridesmaids into a bridal boot camp for a few weeks running up to the wedding – that will definitely keep you on track! Don’t forget to consult with your GP if this is your first exercise regime for a while.
Top tips for getting fit: Detox We all know the body doesn’t like toxins. Try to cut down on alcohol, caffeine and processed food that may be causing water retention and excess fat storage. Start eating more raw fruit and vegetables and begin the day with hot water and lemon to flush out those toxins.
Tone those arms Most wedding dress styles will show off your arms so a few toning exercises a week will banish any in-securities you may have. You could incorporate some press-ups into your week and why not try lifting two books of equal weight as dumbbells whenever you have a spare five minutes. This will also help strengthen your upper body and give you a fantastic shape.
Get walking Walking is a great way to burn those extra calories you may have consumed during the day. You can incorporate walking into your daily routine, for example, if you can walk rather than take the bus or car, do it! This will help you retain a more active lifestyle and make you feel better for it. Try to get walking around three times a week for fifteen minutes to start with and build up from there.
... and relax! When you get tired your body starts to shut down and craves high calorie foods such as sugar and sweets. Try to avoid this by getting plenty of sleep and relaxing in a lovely lavender scented bath before bed. ♥
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Emma first met Chris at a local cricket club back in July 2006. Chris proposed on Emma’s 21st birthday with a surprise engagement ring as a present. When Emma opened it, Chris got down on one knee and proposed. The wedding took place at St Catherine’s Church in Hoylake, Wirral during a warm and clear September day last year. “We were very lucky with the weather as it had been raining the previous week”. The reception was held at The Leverhulme Hotel in Port Sunlight which Emma and Chris fell in love with the first time they saw it. The hotel is chic and stylish with lots of character and places for photographs and the staff are fantastic and helpful.
Invitations: Precious Moments p.95 Wedding Rings: Jewellery by Design Photographer: Cetra Photography p.105 Transport: Speedwell Motors
Emma’s Dress: Aristocrats of Chester Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Anna May Couture p.41 Tiara: Brides by Tina Louise Menswear: Larry Adams Menswear Flowers: Ambience Floral Design Hair & Make-Up: Nina Wren Cake: Cake Chester
Honeymoon: “Dubai, very hot and real luxury.”
Memorable Moments: “Getting into the car after the ceremony was a really special moment. It was the first time we could really speak to each other and say “wow we’re married.” Also being introduced into the reception room with all of our guests clapping and cheering was a lovely moment as well. We really got the feeling that everyone was very happy for us and they were definitely enjoying themselves.”
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Top tips for a gorgeous groom It is very important that the outfit chosen by the groom echoes the style or colours of the bridal party. Once the bride has decided on her colour theme, it is time for the groom to decide on his attire. There are lots of different possibilities when it comes to choosing your formalwear, from tailored lounge suits to a traditional morning suit, the classic Prince Edward or the timeless frock coat. Whatever style you decide on, make sure you feel comfortable in it. The traditional morning suit is a formal jacket with long tails in black, navy, grey or brown, teamed with pin striped trousers in the same or complimentary colours. A traditional cravat can look most effective, although some men prefer a traditional formal tie to complete the look. A modern day suit can look sharp and sophisticated and is ideal for a register office wedding or for those grooms who prefer a more informal option. Lightweight summer lounge suits, worn 50 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
with an open neck shirt, offer a comfortable choice for overseas weddings in hot climates. For a modern classic, consider the Prince Edward, a three quarter length jacket with contemporary styling and available in a wider range of colours than the morning suit. ♥
Top tips when it comes to choosing your formal wear: • Specialist companies offer good advice: listen to what they say • Take time to visit them in person • Start to rule in or out certain suit styles, find what you feel comfortable in • Book as early as possible to avoid disappointment, aim for at least three months before the wedding • For those finishing touches, wear a double cuff sleeve with cufflinks and ensure your shoes are shiny.
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Speech! For those who have to make a speech on the big day (traditionally the Father of the Bride, The Best Man and The Groom), it can be a very worrying time. Will people laugh in the right places? Will I be able to get my words out? Will everyone enjoy it? If you don’t take things too seriously and speak from the heart you will be on the right track. Here are a few basic hints and tips to help you on your way... • Remember that your audience understands that the speeches are a big deal, they are warmed to the happiness of the occasion and are on your side. • Try and keep your speech short, if you go on for too long you are likely to lose people. • If you don’t feel confident memorising the speech, you could use prompt cards. Try to look around the room and engage with people rather than just looking down at the cards. • Consider the range of people in your audience as you don’t want to offend Auntie Mary! Keep it light and funny without being rude, crude or sarcastic. • Try and use a funny memory as your opening line to get a laugh – this will help relax you into the rest of the speech and grabs the attention of the guests. • Remember the correct wedding speech etiquette and don’t forget to thank the right people for all their help. • Finally, don’t panic. If the worst happens and you forget the words just start speaking from the heart and your audience will be applauding for more!
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Location! Location! Religious Church of England There is a lot more flexibility than previously for those couples who wish to have a religious ceremony. You can choose any church outside your parish that either you, your parents, or your grandparents have a connection with. Instead of going to the Superintendent Registrar before the ceremony, banns (a notice of the proposed marriage) can be read in the parish church of both of the partners or in the church where it has been agreed the marriage can take place. Banns must be read on three Sundays before the ceremony. www.churchofengland.org
Roman Catholic Arrangements for a wedding in a Catholic Church are always made through the priest in the parish in which you are living. Three months notice must be given to the priest. Both you and your groom must be free to marry, and one of you must have been baptised a Catholic in order to marry in a Catholic church. You will also need to visit your local superintendent registrar at your local council office to give notice of your intention to marry, and obtain your licence.www.catholicchurch.org.uk
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been registered, you can still have a religious ceremony, but you will also need to have a separate civil ceremony for the marriage to be valid under United Kingdom Law. If the building is registered, an authorised person must be present at the ceremony to register the marriage. They will give you a marriage certificate on receipt of the fee. If there is no authorised person, the attendance of a Registrar is necessary and this should be arranged with the Superintendent Registrar. www.adviceguide.org.uk
Civil Register Office In order to marry in a register office, both you and your partner must give notice in person to the superintendent registrar at your local council office. They will then issue you with a certificate of common notice. You will need this certificate to make a booking with the register office to get the date you want. Weddings can be booked no more than 12 months in advance.
Approved Premises Civil ceremonies can take place at any venue that has been approved for the purpose. The venue must be regularly open to the public, and open-air premises will usually need a permanently built structure in order to be approved. Visit www.direct.gov.uk to search for an approved premise in the area you wish to marry. You will need to give notice of your intention to marry to your local superintendent registrar, and contact the local register office
closest to the venue you have chosen to book a registrar to conduct the ceremony. www.direct.gov.uk
Overseas Overseas Weddings Weddings abroad are recognised as legal as long as they do not contravene UK laws. You should contact the country's embassy or consulate for advice to make sure you have the right documents and find out when you will need to provide them. A number of countries require a minimum residency period of between one and seven days before you are free to marry there. It can often be easier to have a civil ceremony in the UK followed by a blessing abroad due to the complications sometimes involved in marrying in a different country. www.fco.gov.uk
Legal Advice • You and your partner must both be at least 16 years of age. (In England and Wales, if either of you is under 18 you will need to have permission from your parents or guardian). • You must both be eligible to marry. • You must not be closely related. • The marriage must take place in legally approved premises. • The marriage must take place in front of an authorised person. • The ceremony must take place between 8am and 6pm. • Two witnesses must be present.
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Civil Ceremonies It is now possible to get married in any Register Office or Approved Premises in England or Wales. Any marriage taking place anywhere other than the Church of England, requires both of you to attend personally at the district register office where you live. If you live in separate districts, you must attend the office of each district. This is called 'giving notice of intention to marry'.
Giving notice of intention to marry: • You must both have lived a minimum of 7 days in a Registration district in England or Wales immediately before giving notice at that office. • You can give the notice a maximum of 12 months in advance of your marriage date. • Both of you must attend to give a notice and this should be done by making an appointment to attend at the same time. • Recent legislation has abolished the Superintendent Registrars Licence which had previously allowed a marriage to take place three days after signing a notice, so make sure you enquire in good time.
Documents you will need: • A current valid passport (or where appropriate, a Home Office Travel Document, a standard acknowledgment letter, or a National Identity Card). • If you cannot provide this then a birth certificate and another document with your full name such as a cheque book, cheque guarantee card, utility bill or driving licence and a document to confirm your current address such as utility bill or driving licence. • For people who have been married or entered into a civil partnership before; decree absolute, death certificate or dissolution of civil partnership. • For people who have legally changed their name; documentary evidence in the form of a deed poll or declaration. • All documents should be certified or sealed photocopies are not acceptable. 56 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
Civil Marriages can take place in Approved Premises licenced by the appropriate local authority. It is therefore possible to have your marriage ceremony and wedding reception in the same building, many of which are available on any day of the week, including Sundays and Bank Holidays. There are now thousands of Approved Premises in England and Wales. The conditions of the premises licence are regulated by local authorities and it is necessary for Registrars to be in attendance at the venue for the ceremony. There will be two registration staff present at your wedding, one to conduct the ceremony and one to register the event in the marriage register. You should discuss the form and content of your ceremony with the Register Office, as you can choose to personalise your ceremony with the addition of your choice of readings, or your own vows. Immediately before the wedding, The Registrar has a legal requirement to see you both privately (and individually if you prefer) to confirm the details to be entered into the marriage register. Remember to ask The Registrar about taking photographs and videos during the ceremony itself, and don't leave this detail until the actual day. ♥
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How your day should flow The Ceremony
The Reception
• The ceremony should start with the processional (entrance of the bride), the introduction, the marriage and optional readings. This is followed by the signing of the register, and the service ends with the recessional (exit of the couple). • At a religious ceremony, the introduction would be followed by a hymn, and prayers and a blessing would follow the marriage. • If your ceremony includes any hymns or songs it is usual to provide an order-of-service so that your guests can join in with the singing. • While the order of the ceremony is similar for both religious and civil ceremonies, you need to remember that no religious references are allowed at a civil ceremony. Check the words and lyrics of your chosen readings and music carefully, before submitting them to your registrar for their approval.
• On arrival, ushers should show guests where to park before directing them into the venue. • Friends and family should be welcomed, either with a traditional receiving line or by circulating the room. • It is normal to serve canapés while friends and family are gathered for the formal photographs. • Photographs are followed by the Wedding Breakfast. Speeches are increasingly taking place before the meal, allowing nervous speakers to get them out of the way and leaving them free to enjoy the meal. • After-dinner speeches are usually followed by the cutting of the cake, which can then be served with the coffee and mints. • The evening reception usually begins with your first dance. • It is traditional for guests to stay until the bride and groom leave.
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Choosing your reception venue You may already have a dream wedding location in mind or you may be starting with a blank page. Either way, choosing your wedding venue is one of the ďŹ rst and most important decisions you will make.
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endless There are likely to be two parts to your wedding and where to organise, the wedding ceremony and the you choose wedding reception. You may have your heart set will help you to on a traditional Church ceremony which is still a dictate the style favourite choice for couples. If this is the case and theme of your wedding. then the reception should be planned around the The venue must be able to accommodate the Church location. You will need to consider ease of number of guests you transport for your are inviting so you guests from the Properly planned, your should have a good idea ceremony to the reception will become one of numbers before you reception venue. The of the most joyous parties start looking around. second option is a civil you will ever host Importantly the cost of wedding where your the venue must suit your ceremony and budget. Castles, country houses and stately homes reception will be held at a licensed venue. are among the locations many dream of for their When you have decided on a Church or Civil big day but consider your budget carefully. Ceremony there are certain factors to consider. Properly planned, your wedding reception will Firstly, the venue must look and feel right to you. become one of the most joyous parties you will You may have a particular style of venue in mind ever host, so remember to savour every minute for example, a Castle, a Manor House or and enjoy it! ♼ somewhere dramatic or chic. The choices are 60 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
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Choosing the right words to say can m ake all the difference to your wedding ceremony an d reception. Find more Suggested Readings on page 11 8.
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Civil Partnerships Following the Civil Partnership Act of 2004, same sex couples can now make a formal, legally recognised commitment to each other by entering into a Civil Partnership.
Civil partners will have equal treatment in a wide range of legal matters like married couples, including: • • • • • • • •
Tax, including inheritance tax Employment benefits Most state and occupational pension benefits; Income related benefits, tax credits and child support Duty to provide reasonable maintenance for your civil partner and any children of the family Ability to apply for parental responsibility for your civil partner’s child Protection from domestic violence Recognition for immigration and nationality purposes
In a similar way to traditional marriages, a couple must give notice of a proposed civil partnership to the local register office, even if they intend to register elsewhere. They can only do this once they have lived in the area for at least seven days. Each of them must give this notice in person. The notice must include where the couple wish the civil partnership registration to take place. Once notices have been given, the register office must keep information relating to the notices on public display for 15 days. This should be in both the area in which the registration is to take place and in the area in which both partners live. The registration cannot proceed until the 15-day waiting period has passed for each of the notices. This is to allow any person to make an objection in a similar way to a marriage. Once the 15-day waiting period has expired, if there are no objections to the registration of the civil partnership and no legal reasons why it 64 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
cannot go ahead, the register office must provide the couple with a legal document called a civil partnership schedule. The couple will need this in order to register a civil partnership. A civil partnership must be registered within 12 months of the first notice being recorded. If registration is not done within this time limit, they cannot register without starting the process again. Two people are regarded as having registered a civil partnership once each of them has signed the schedule or licence in front of two witnesses and the civil partnership registrar. The witnesses and registrar must also sign the document. A Civil Partnership Ceremony is similar to a traditional civil wedding, with opportunities for music and readings that are secular in nature. ♥ For further info visit www.civilpartnerships.org.uk.
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Asian Weddings Asian weddings are a rich tapestry of culture, tradition and religion, often mixed with a western influence. Sikh Weddings Sikh weddings typically have many events spread over many weeks before the actual wedding ceremony (The Anand Karaj). The Anand Karaj ceremony can be performed in any Gurdwara or home where Sri Guru Granth Sahib has been respectfully installed. The religious ceremony cannot be performed in a hotel or banquet hall. There are no restrictions as to what time the ceremony should start or what time it should end although they are usually performed in the morning with the religious ceremony taking no more than a few hours. Over recent years it has become common to have a reception on similar lines to a western wedding, often hosted by the groom's family. Sikh weddings are legal under UK law, as long as the building in which the ceremony is held is registered for the solemnisation of marriages. If not, you will need to arrange a civil ceremony beforehand.
Hindu Weddings Hindu weddings are colourful events with prewedding ceremonies lasting for weeks although, due to time constraints, the actual ceremony might only last for two to three hours. The universal wedding is known as the Vedic marriage, named after the Vedas (holy book). A few days prior to the wedding ceremony family and friends are invited to a celebration of song and dance (Garba and dandia raas). The wedding ceremony itself is conducted under a Mandap. The Hindu wedding ceremony is not recognised by British law. It is therefore also necessary to marry in a civil register office and follow this with a Hindu ceremony. 66 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
Muslim Weddings There is a great emphasis on the religious and social dimensions of the wedding ceremony, which usually lasts about one-and-a-half hours. The ceremony is generally a well-attended affair, though to make it official, only two male witnesses are required. The wedding always retains a spirit of simplicity, in accordance with the tenets of Islam. Once you’ve settled on the ideal date and approximate time you’d like to marry, you need to speak to the Iman of the mosque, or your local cleric. Arrange the Mahar, the gift from husband to wife, which is an important part of the Nikah (wedding ceremony). There is no marriage license in the Muslim wedding (though the witnesses need to sign a ‘proof of Nikah’, which testifies that the marriage has taken place and that the bride has given her full consent). The marriage documents (contract and certificate) are filed at the mosque and the local government office. The ceremony ends with a prayer (Duoa) for the bride and groom, their families, and the Muslim community at large. ♥
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Use our handy checklist to keep track of all the questions you should be asking your wedding suppliers.
Photographer q Do you use digital cameras or shoot on ďŹ lm? q What style of photography do you specialise
in? How many pictures will you take? Will you visit the venue before the day? How long will you stay for? Should I pay for meals and travel expenses? Who will edit the photographs? Will you retain the copyright of the images? Is someone available to take your place if you are ill? q When will I receive my photographs? q How can my family and friends view and order photographs? q q q q q q q
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Venue
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fillings available? q Can I have a cake made up of different
flavoured layers? q Will you come to the venue to assemble the
cake on the day? q Does the price include a cake stand? q When does the balance need to be paid?
Florist q Are you the recommended florist of my
venue/any other venues? q How many weddings will you be doing on the
same day as mine? q Will the florist I have consulted be the person
who actually does the flowers on the day?
Caterer q Can I choose items from different menus
and packages? q Do you have any testimonials I can see? q Do you offer a menu tasting service? Will I
have to pay for it? q What does your service include? Do I need to
source my own waiting staff? q Do you provide alcohol or could I find it
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Dress shop q Is there a fee to try on dresses and do I need
to make an appointment? q Will there be other girls trying on dresses at
the same time? q How long can I have an appointment for? q Is there a maximum number of dresses I
can try on? How many people can I bring with me? How much do alterations cost? How many fittings will I need to have? What do I need to bring with me, e.g. shoes, lingerie, veil etc. q Will I need to collect my dress when it is ready, or can I have it delivered? ♥ q q q q
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When you visit a potential wedding venue there may be certain aspects that you absolutely love and some that you don’t love quite so much! If you are concerned about the decor then there is no need to worry, there are companies that can provide you with services that can transform a typical function room into a breathtaking vision that you and your guests will never forget. If you are after a dreamy, romantic atmosphere why not go for swags of tulle, clusters of white balloons and twinkling fairy lights. You can create a sophisticated, timeless look by using the same items but add in sumptuous floral arrangements and candles. Whatever look you want to create, there will be someone who can create it for you. But be mindful of the canvas you are working with. If your venue is a historic building then you don’t want to cover beautiful plush walls with 12 ft banners. So don’t fight against what you have to work with but consider your surroundings carefully and work with them.
Places you may wish to decorate: • Doorways, entrances and exits (including the driveway leading to the venue) • Walls and windows • The ceiling (particularly in a marquee) • Lighting on the dance floor • Fireplaces • Door handles and staircases • The Top Table • Guests’ tables & chairs Be careful not to clutter the venue with too much decoration though, less is usually more! A good venue decorator will help and guide you make the right choices to create a stunning look so that when your guests arrive, they think WOW. ♥ 72 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
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Making life easier with a
Wedding Co-ordinator The average bride spends 250 hours planning her dream wedding, the equivalent of six weeks full time work, trying to put together the most magical and memorable day of her life. There is real skill involved in turning that fantasy into reality and an experienced wedding co-ordinator will be able to help you realise your dreams, whether on a small or grand scale, traditional or contemporary, in a city or countryside setting. A wedding co-ordinator can save you valuable time searching for the right venue or supplier. They can reduce stress, save you money and help provide professional event co-ordination on the day. Some of the key elements of what a wedding co-ordinator can do for you are: • Help you set a realistic budget and stick to it! • Help you find a venue and secure the booking; • Deal with the suppliers including the florist, caterers, photographers, entertainment etc.; • Develop a schedule and work plan and ensure you keep track of progress; • Send out invitations for you and collate the replies; • Advise on wedding etiquette and help diffuse stressful situations, such as dealing with seating plans without offending relatives; • Deal with the hire of any outfits and ensure they are returned on time; • Advise on any new trends, suggesting creative ways to make your wedding unique; • Manage the invoices from suppliers and advise you of the final costs; • Negotiate preferential rates with suppliers; • Keep you fully informed throughout the whole process; • Supervise the wedding day to ensure everything runs to the timetable and manage the bridal party and ushers, reminding them of their responsibilities. 74 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
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An increasingly popular choice for those brides who have planned their own wedding day is to hire an 'on-the-day' co-ordinator who can take care of the day behind the scenes. They can help with common concerns such as: • What happens on the big day? • Do I have to keep my mobile phone close by in case of an emergency? • What do I do if there are any late minute emergencies, such as the florist hasn't turned up or the venue has been dressed incorrectly? An 'on-the-day' co-ordinator can solve any problems quickly and quietly to ensure everything runs smoothly in exactly the way you want, leaving you free to enjoy your special day. ♥
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Sitting Pretty On Your Wedding Day Chair covers are a fabulous way to transform a room from drab to dreamy and create a welcoming ambience for guests. These days, chair covers are becoming ever more popular and are now seen as a wedding day must-have. Covers are usually provided by independent venue dressers or specialist chair cover companies or the ceremony/reception venue. It is an idea to choose a company who is familiar with the venue, as this will ensure that they are aware of the style and shape of the chairs. Most chair cover companies will arrive in good time to help dress the venue and usually arrange with the hotel to pick them up the next day – one little less worry. Some companies do offer chair covers online, however theses will be delivered to your home and it will be your responsibility to dress the chairs on the day. As you won’t be doing this yourself it will be up to the venue staff to dress the chairs. However, venues may charge extra for this service, so it is advisable to hire instead of buy. ♼
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Why not try a vibrant red and blooming rose theme to set everyone’s heart uttering, creating a truly romantic look? Ideal for a Winter wedding.
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Red Heart Balloon £1.99
Red Metallic Hearts £1.99
Rose Petals £19.99
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Victoria and Stephen met at a friend’s party. They were friends for the next five years before sharing a kiss that changed their lives forever. Stephen proposed during a holiday in Italy. Stephen had bought a pair of brogues and hidden a temporary engagement ring (made from a scrabble piece with the letter V on it) inside them. Stephen gave Victoria her gift and insisted that she try them on. She found the ring box and when she opened it Stephen proposed. “I was stunned, it was so unexpected, perfect really – just the two of us, very personal and completely honest, the way I had hoped it always would be.” On a lovely bright day in July at our Lady’s Bishop Eton, Victoria and Stephen were married. “We had a traditional service, but wanted everyone to relax and enjoy themselves so we asked the priest if it would be possible to have a few tunes of our own. We chose two Beatles tunes All You Need Is Love and Got To Get You Into My Life, which ended up turning into a mass singalong with 130 guests joining in.” Breaking from the tradition of a hotel or manor house, the reception was held at the Static Gallery
in Liverpool City Centre, an art gallery and studio space in an old converted industrial workshop. “The perfect venue for us, it reflected who we are.” Victoria’s Dress: Southport Bridal Gallery Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Jane McNicholl Designs Menswear: Austin Reed Hire Flowers: The Bouquet Factory Cake: Lizzies Larder Wedding Rings: Kraft Jewellers Stationery: J Hughes Wedding Stationery Photographer: fotografy by J. Cardoso p.107 Transport: Silver Lady Wedding Cars Honeymoon: Tuscany, Italy A note from Victoria: “Be true to yourself. It’s a day that celebrates you and your love for each other, so don’t be afraid to break the rules. Follow the traditions that are important to you, but make up your own rules and don’t feel restricted by what other people expect a wedding to be. Make sure the food is good, the wine free flowing and invite guests who enjoy celebrating. Then relax and enjoy the best day of your life.” ♥ T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E 81
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Wedding cars have been getting brides to the church in style for years. It’s one aspect that usually stays true to tradition, with brides opting for vintage or classical cars such as a Rolls Royce, Daimler, Bentley or Limousine for transport. However, for the more adventurous bride there are other alternatives that are sure to make an impression as you pull up to the church. Other options include: Horse drawn carriage, VW Vans, Mustangs, Lamborghinis and even Beetles or Minis.
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The Car It is important to book your transport about 6 months ahead and visit car companies that are local so that they are familiar with the route and have a good idea of traffic conditions. Cars usually have white ribbons running along the front but these can be changed to match the theme of the day if you wish. The price usually includes a complementary bottle of champagne; however there may be extras, such as requested music, for an extra charge. You also need to know how many cars you will need: Which car will take you, which car will take the bridesmaids. As the bridesmaids usually arrive before the bride it is advisable to have separate cars that leave at different times.
The Carriage If you really want to go for the Wow factor on your wedding day, then a horse drawn carriage is for you. The carriages themselves can range from the classic Landau to fairytale replicas. Again, it is very important to visit the carriage company well in advance so you can view the carriages and decide what you want for the day. You must remember that the horses will have to stand still for long periods of time and traffic on the road can prove stressful for them so choose a reputable company that has good experience with horses. Finally, don’t forget that horses move much slower than cars, so make sure you leave enough time to get to the church and that the roads are suitable for the ride. ♥
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If you want your day to have some fun and personality, why not go for a themed wedding? Your theme can be as elaborate or as subtle as you wish but having a theme, even just a colour theme, can help you focus as you plan your wedding day. There are some fabulous wedding theme ideas out there but you should choose something that will reflect your personalities. It’s something you should choose very early on in your planning as everything else will revolve around the theme. You could create a mood board which will help you focus on the colours and styles that you like. Do this by going through wedding magazines and cutting out anything that you think looks pretty and you would like for your wedding day. The end result will help you visualise how your wedding day will look. Here are some ideas for wedding themes. Even if none of them grab you, at least you will know what you don’t want! Vintage – Pretty china, bird cages and bunting can give a romantic feel to your day. Medieval – A sumptuous banquet in a castle and scroll-style invitations, this has the makings of a wedding to remember! Winter Wonderland – A winter wedding can have a dramatic feel with twinkling fairy lights, a velvet-cloaked bride, and white flowers tied with red ribbon. To go all the way, why not hire a snow machine! 1920s – Book an Art Deco-style venue, a jazz band and serve cocktails to help recreate the fun-loving spirit of the 1920s. ♥ 84 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
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Blooming marvellous! An artistic florist will be able to suggest a range of stunning designs for your wedding bouquet and floral arrangements that complement your dress, the theme of your wedding and the ceremony venue. Make sure you are prepared for your consultation. Try to take with you samples of the fabric that will make up your dress, and colour swatches for your gown, the bridesmaids’ dresses and groom's formalwear, as the florist will need this information to help them prepare ideas of beautiful arrangements for you. The traditional colours for a bridal bouquet are ivory and white, but don't be afraid to add a hint of colour for that element of understated sophistication. The groom's buttonhole should be worn on his left lapel, and should echo the bride's bouquet. This is to celebrate the tradition of a Knight wearing his Lady's colours to display his love. The ushers and
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groomsmen should wear a slightly different flower on their lapel, but it should also feature in the main bouquet. Bridesmaids’ flowers will also differ from your bouquet, but should still coordinate with the general floral theme, as should corsages for the mothers and buttonholes for the fathers. Flowers could be selected for personal reasons, or because of what they traditionally represent, i.e. Lilies represent majesty, roses symbolise love, freesias symbolise purity, and baby's breath represents innocence. Silk flowers are becoming more popular too, enabling you to choose exquisite imitators that will last a lifetime. Buying flowers in season can save you money, so pick flowers according to the time of year and be ecofriendly too! It is always a good idea to request that your florist give you an itemised bill in advance, and make sure that you in turn supply the florist with the names, addresses, and times for delivery of your bouquet, buttonholes, corsages and floral arrangements. You'll need a number of other floral pieces for your wedding, including displays for the altar, centrepieces for reception tables, sprays for candelabra, corsages for those who assist with various reception duties, and floral "tokens" for special guests. Ask your florist for guidance. Their artistry, knowledge of wedding protocol and ability to listen to your needs will ensure that you'll get good value for your money, and have the perfect floral accents to enhance your wedding day. ♥
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Be inspired with all things pink! From hot pink to baby pink, these ideas will help you create a truly fabulous look.
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Cerise Foil Chocolate Hearts 500g £14.99 or 3 packs for £39.99
Hot Pink Disposable Camera £2.99
Create your own Carnival Place Tags £2.99 pack of 10 (ribbon available separately)
Emma Personalised Opposite page: Classic Gift Pack Hot Pink Ombre Effect Butterfly Table £19.99 Numbers £6.99 pack of 10 Table Number Holder £4.99 each Butterfly Place Cards for Glasses £4.99 pack of 10 Mini Birdcage Favour/Table Decoration £2.99 each (filling sold separately)
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Yummy Scrummy Cakes Wedding cakes have been a staple of a traditional British wedding since the Tudors’ first creation measuring a whopping 30” x 16”. However it wasn’t until the Victorian era that tiers where first introduced that mirror the cakes we recognise today. It is thought that a London baker took inspiration from the aptly named St Bride’s Church spire to design Queen Victoria’s wedding cake. This started a trend among the Royals who where then challenged to make bigger and better cakes every time.
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Traditionally, fruit cake is preferred for weddings. However nowadays wedding cakes can be any style, shape, flavour and colour you want; from lemon, vanilla sponge, chocolate, fruit or carrot cake, designs and styles can be unique and add a little extra Wow factor to the day. Some brides are even opting for hundreds of cupcakes, meringues, profiteroles in a stack or even going against all tradition and choosing a chocolate fountain. You should visit a cake designer at least 6 months before your wedding so you are aware of the choices on offer and you can gain an idea of how you want your cake to look. Most cake designers will require some details such as the number of guests, the colour of the bride’s and bridesmaids’ dresses and the colour of the flowers. On the day the cake will be delivered and set up by the confectioner, but do check if this service is included in the price. The cake’s first cut should be made by the bride and groom as this signifies their shared future together. Some couples tend to save the top tier of a rich fruit cake until the christening of their first child. Whatever you decide to go for, choosing the cake will be lots of fun! ♥ See over the page for some cake inspiration! 90 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
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Announce your wedding in style Your wedding stationery will give your guests the first hint of the style and colour theme of your wedding. You may be looking for something quite simple and contemporary, elegant and romantic or elaborate and bold – whatever you decide to go for, you won’t be disappointed with the choice available. So what items are you likely to need?
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Save the Date Cards – to make sure all your family and friends keep their diary free on the chosen day. Invitations – Remember that you will only need one per family but it’s always wise to order a few extra just in case. Reply Cards – these can be included with your invitations to encourage a prompt response from your guests. Order of Service – Usually you would give one to each guest at a church wedding but when thinking of numbers consider friends coming to watch who may not be invited to the day time.
Table Plan/Place Cards/Menus – can all be designed to match the colour and theme of your wedding and add that bit of luxury and formality to the event. ♥
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When you start considering what type of music and entertainment you would like at your wedding, you will realise that the choice is endless. Should you go for a DJ, a live singer, a band or a combination – whatever you decide make sure they are going to hit the right note to ensure you have the party of a lifetime. Arranging your wedding music really should be high priority as popular DJs, bands and singers get booked up well in advance. Ideally you should hear the DJ, singer or band before you book them to make sure they will create the right atmosphere for you and your guests. Your DJ or band should discuss with you what type of music you would like for your ďŹ rst dance and a good DJ or bandleader will gather all the guests together to make it a very special time.
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guests on their arrival. Speak to your wedding magician about how long you would like them to stay, some will offer entertainment for a couple of hours, while others will be more flexible and offer a range of different packages designed to best suit your plans.
Why not end the evening with a magnificent fireworks display? Fireworks are becoming an increasingly popular and spectacular finale to the day's events. When deciding whether you wish to pursue this unique spectacle, there are some basic rules to follow. The venue must of course be of a suitable size, and the owner will need to give their permission. The larger the display, the larger the display area required, and a site visit with the company is essential. There are many alternative displays available, ranging from just a firework drawing to a full display and, ideally your firework company should be offering many variables and clearly setting out all the costs involved. Pictures in fireworks can be designed and personalised to the bride and groom, these can be visually stunning, last for about a minute and are a novel way to end the main show. If the noise due to large explosions is an issue, speak to the company as they should be able to offer a reduced noise display that is still colourful and spectacular. Firework displays should provide good value for money. Ask your chosen firework company to show you references from previous clients, meet with them to discuss your requirements and ask for a quote. You should also ask them to provide a copy of their insurance documents Finally, do inform your photographer/ videographer in advance about the display so they can be prepared to capture the spectacle. If they require any specialist knowledge on the filming of fireworks, the firework company should be able to assist. ♥ T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E 97
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Amy first met Mark in February 2006 when she sat next to him at a mutual friend’s wedding. Three years later, Mark surprised Amy with tickets to London and whilst there he took her out to a fancy restaurant. When they arrived Mark got down on one knee with the ring and popped the question and of course Amy said yes. The ceremony was held at the beautiful St Joseph’s church at midday on 12th June. Afterwards the reception was held at Kinmel Manor Hotel in Abergele, North Wales. The hotel is situated in the rural surroundings of Abergele which provides beautiful scenery and it also has extensive gardens which gave perfect photograph opportunities. “We chose this venue because it’s such a lovely place with great food and scenery and the people are fantastic.” Amy’s Dress: Cariad Bride Bridesmaids’ Dresses: BHS Menswear: The Manshop Flowers: First Choice Florist Invitations: Valentine’s Occasions Wedding Rings: Peers Photographer: Azure Images p.109 Transport: Ride in Style Cars Venue Decoration: The Celebration Chair Cover Co. Cake: Carly Cakes Memorable Moments: “The speeches will always be remembered and our first dance. We shocked everyone by choreographing it ourselves. Also, being introduced as Mr and Mrs Rogers at the meal to all our family and friends was a very special moment.” Honeymoon: The Cotswolds A Note From Amy: “Do not panic, everything will be fine. The day goes so fast so enjoy it as much as you can and most of all have fun!” ♥ T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E 101
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Choosing the right wedding photographer can seem daunting. There are a few key things to look out for that will help you make the right choice. You need to feel personally comfortable with your wedding photographer – they’ll be capturing your emotions and working closely with your family and friends on your special day. Some wedding photographers favour a traditional approach with others offering more contemporary images. Some photographers will be able to provide you with a combination of styles. Make sure you see examples of their relevant work to get a good feel whether they are the right choice for you. It’s important that you understand exactly what you’ll be getting from your photographer. Although many now offer straight-forward packages do not be afraid to clarify exactly what your photographer will do on the day itself and provide you with after the event. Do check you know what’s included in the price and what will cost extra. It’s worth arranging your photographer early in your planning as good photographers often get booked well in advance. To form an idea of the types of photographs you want captured take a look at as many examples as you can. Discuss this with your photographer and any friends who have recently got married. Often friends or relatives who are keen amateurs offer their services for free. Whilst it may be tempting to take them up for reasons of politeness or economy, you do not want to take risks with your precious photographs! If you want to guarantee high quality wedding photographs then you’re probably best to leave the task to the professionals. To avoid causing offence to Uncle Bob, maybe you could offer him the important role of capturing candid images of the guests through the day? ♥ 102 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
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Your ‘attendants’ Chief Bridesmaid/Maid of Honour When considering who to choose to be your Chief Bridesmaid remember that you will need somebody you can rely on, who will be your rock and a shoulder to cry on in times of stress but also someone you trust to be completely honest and a good organiser (for hen night purposes!). Whether you choose your sister or a close friend, their role will start long before the wedding day and some of the duties involve: • Helping the Bride choose her dress. • Organise the hen party. • Organise an Emergency Kit for on the day (nail file, safety pins, needle & thread etc). • Attend the wedding rehearsal. • Help the Bride dress on the day and arrange the veil and train before the Bride heads off down the aisle. • Take the bouquet from the Bride during the service. • Be available for anything the Bride might need you for!
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For something different why not try... ...stunning ice sculptures, a yummy chocolate fountain, a candy buffet or for a romantic touch, release white doves? For an alternative to flowers as table centrepieces, why not consider an ice sculpture? Ice sculptures, crystal clear and hand carved, which may include engraved names and dates, are a fantastic and unique way to introduce a real wow at any wedding. Why not include a chocolate fountain at your reception? Your guests are sure to enjoy the indulgence offered as an extra treat. Speak to suppliers about the type of chocolate they use - is it pure Belgian chocolate or is it mixed with oil? Can it be supplied in different colours or flavours? What items for dipping are included? Why not wow your guests with the latest trend in Candy Buffets or Pick ‘n’ Mix display stands. Packed full of delicious sweeties, they not only add fun and colour to the wedding reception but are a wonderful way to take people back to their
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childhood days and are a fantastic talking point. A gorgeous spread of candy will be set up at the reception where guests can browse and indulge their sweet tooths. The sweets will be displayed in elegant glass jars and can be used as part of the dessert or set out as a "make your own" party favour table with decorative bags that guests can take home with them. For that extra romantic touch, what better way is there to celebrate your love than releasing doves? The dove has long been a symbol of Freedom, Love, and Peace, and is viewed worldwide as a messenger of serenity. ♥
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Boudoir originally comes from the French word “Bouder” meaning “to pout or sulk”. It is also used to describe a lady’s bedroom, dressing room or private sitting room which can lead to thoughts of beautiful and elegant things. Boudoir photography involves tasteful, artistic images, in various stages of boudoir attire.
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It is through Boudoir photography that a woman is made to feel good about her body and to feel confident about her appearance. Whilst paintings capture the beauty of a woman according to how the artist sees her, photography captures the woman as she is. There are so many different genres of boudoir photography ranging from vintage, burlesque, pinup and bridal boudoir. A good Boudoir photographer will work on producing intimate images that are beautifully lit, showing elegance and classic sophistication. Take time out to discover the world of Boudoir photography, where you will have fun in relaxed and comfortable surroundings, whilst producing a portfolio of images that make you look gorgeous, seductive, radiant and empowered. Boudoir shoots are a special and unique experience and an album of your shots would make a perfect present for your Groom on your wedding day – we are pretty sure he’d love it! ♥
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Capture the laughter Wedding videos and DVD productions are an excellent way of capturing your special day. Many couples will rank wedding videography much lower on their lists than other wedding day essentials - however, failing to find the cash to fund one may be a decision you regret later.
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the finished video will look like and how many copies you will receive. Make sure you see some of their finished videos and the videographer understands what you want and doesn’t get too bogged down talking about the technology! So if you want to make sure the sights and sounds of your wedding day are captured in a way you'll want to watch over and over again, get a professional to do the job - just like you did with the dress, the photographer, the flowers... ♥
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Your Wedding Gift Wish List! What a great opportunity to create a wish list of all your most favourite things! What shall you ask for? Well the gifts you choose will depend on what stage of your life you are at. If you are a young couple just setting up home together for the first time you will need all the basics: china, pots and pans, bed linen, towels and glassware etc. For couples getting married in their thirties it is more likely that you own a home or have lived together, so you probably already have most of the basic household items. If this is the case you may wish to consider asking for more luxurious items like garden furniture, or state-of-the-art kitchen equipment. You could suggest a group of friends or relatives club together to buy the more expensive gifts between them.
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Gift List Top Tips • Create your gift list at least three months before the wedding day to take account of order and delivery lead times. • You should allow at least a month to compile your list, and it’s unlikely that you will choose all your items in one session. • Cater for all budgets when choosing items for your list. You don’t want anyone to feel pressured into buying a gift they cannot afford. • Include a wide variety of gifts so your guests have plenty to choose from. • Try and think ahead – you may not be interested in a fancy dinner service now but it could come in useful later on. • If you choose to compile a list at a large department store, make sure you sign up as early as possible. • Keep a note of all the people who bought you a gift and what they bought you – this will help with your Thank You notes. • Consider taking out wedding insurance to cover all your gifts.
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The Circle of Love Your wedding ring is a public symbol of your everlasting love and commitment to each other, yet many couples will leave buying them until the very last minute. Start thinking about your wedding rings as soon as you start your planning as there are a few points to consider. Remember, they will be worn for the rest of your lives together.
Choosing the style, metal and colour Your style of wedding ring should reflect your own personal style; it should also compliment your engagement ring and can also be chosen to match your groom's ring if you wish. Wedding rings come in a variety of metals, colours and styles. When choosing rings it’s best to go for a colour or style you’re not likely to get bored with, so it’s best not to follow high fashion. Consider your personality and your engagement ring style – if your engagement ring is classic, vintage, unusual or even bespoke, then your wedding ring will probably need to match. The Ancient Egyptian belief is that a circular ring was a sign of undying, never ending love, a love without a beginning or an end. Whatever you and your groom choose, it’s nice to have rings that match in some way, either in their metal or pattern.
Make sure it fits!
If you are buying your wedding rings from a jewellers then they will measure your fingers instore to size the rings. If you choose to buy your rings online, many companies will now send out a ring measurer before you place your order so you can be sure to order the correct size. When measuring, it’s worth remembering that your fingers will swell up in the heat, shrink in the cold and get bigger as the day goes on. Most jewellers recommend measuring in the afternoon when you are warm for a snug fit and then re-measuring again in the morning when you are cool to ensure the ring size is perfect. Achieving the correct fit is vital, as nothing else you own will compete with the number of hours you will wear your wedding ring. ♥
Choosing your rings It’s best to decide on a design at least two to three months before the big day, although you will need to allow longer for a bespoke design. This should give you plenty of time for choosing, measuring, sizing and resizing if need be. Agree on your budget and then spend some time looking at what is available. Specialist wedding ring makers allow you to design your own rings and have them made – the ultimate in wearing your own individual style. A specialist ring designer and maker will be able to translate your style requirements into a unique wedding ring or rings just for you. An alternative could be personalising your rings with an engraving of the date of your wedding or a personal message. Images courtesy of www.ringworkshop.co.uk
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Wedding Fayre Diary Image courtesy of fotografy.co.uk
Sunday 26th June 2011 Floral Pavilion Theatre Marine Promenade, New Brighton, Wirral CH45 2JS Time: 12 - 4pm % 0151 625 2918
Sunday 4th September 2011 Ramada Encore Wedding Fayre Ramada Encore Crewe, Crewe Business Park, Electra Way, Crewe, Cheshire. CW1 6XB Time: 11am - 4pm % KeeDays on 07738 058 656
Sunday 10th July 2011 Brook Meadow Hotel Heath Lane, Childer Thornton, South Wirral, CH66 7NS Time: 12 - 4pm % 0151 625 2918
Sunday 4th September 2011 The Grange Country Club Liverpool Road, Thornton Hough, Wirral, CH64 7TW Time: 12 - 4pm % 0151 625 2918
Sunday 21st August 2011 Bodidris Hall Wedding Fayre Llandegla, Wrexham, North Wales, LL11 3AL Time: 11am - 4pm % Ruth on 07515 475 667
Sunday 4th September 2011 Capesthorne Hall Wedding Fayre Siddington, Macclesfield, Cheshire, SK11 9JY Time: 12 - 4pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289
Sunday 4th September 2011 Holiday Inn Ellesmere Port Waterways, Lower Mersey Street, Ellesmere Port, Cheshire, CH65 2AL Time: 11am-4pm % Leanne Deponeo on 0151 356 8111
Sunday 4th September 2011 Walton Hall Wedding Fayre Walton Lea Road, Higher Walton, Warrington, WA44 6SN Time: 10am-4pm % Manuela’s Designer Florist on 01928 730006
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Sunday 11th September 2011 Hilton Hotel Liverpool 3 Thomas Steers Way, Liverpool, L1 8LW Time: 11am - 4pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 227 9179
Sunday 18th September 2011 Haslington Hall Holmshaw Lane, Haslington, CW1 5TJ Time: 11am - 4pm % KeeDays on 07738 058 656
Sunday 11th September 2011 Pryors Hayes Golf Club Wedding Fayre Willington Road, Oscroft, Tarvin, Chester, CH3 8NL Time: 11am - 4pm % KeeDays on 07738 058 656
Sunday 18th September 2011 Shrigly Hall Shrigley Park, Pott Shrigley, Nr. Macclesfield, Cheshire, SK10 5SB Time: 11am - 3pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289
Sunday 11th September 2011 Thornton Hall Hotel Neston Road, Thornton Hough, Wirral, CH63 1JF Time: 12- 4pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289
Sunday 25th September 2011 Aintree Racecourse Ormskirk Road, Aintree, Liverpool, L9 5AS Time: 11am – 4pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 227 0179
Sunday 11th September 2011 Village Hotel Wedding Fayre Cheadle Road, Cheadle, Cheshire, SK8 1HW Time: 12- 4pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289 Saturday 17th & Sunday 18th September 2011 St Georges Hall Wedding Show William Brown Street, Liverpool, L1 1JJ Time: 10am - 5pm % UK Wedding Shows on 01704 517979 Saturday 17th & Sunday 18th September 2011 The Triangle Manchester Wedding Show 37 Hanging Ditch, Manchester, Greater Manchester, M4 3TR Time: Sat 10am – 5pm and Sun 11am – 5pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 2279179 Sunday 18th September 2011 The Quay Hotel & Spa Deganwy Quay, Conwy, LL31 9DJ Time: 12 - 4pm % Funky Sunflower Events on 07914 806410 Sunday 18th September2011 Crabwall Manor Parkgate Road, Chester Time: 12 - 4pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117 Sunday 18th September 2011 Mollington Banastre Hotel Parkgate Road, Chester, CH1 6NN Time: 12 - 4pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117
Sunday 25th September 2011 Brook Meadow Hotel Heath Lane, Childer Thornton, South Wirral, CH66 7NS Time: 12 - 4pm % 0151 625 2918 Sunday 25th September 2011 Combermere Abbey Combermere, Whitchurch, Shropshire, SY13 4AJ Time: 11am- 3pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289 Sunday 25th September 2011 The Widnes Wedding Show at The Best Western Everglades Park Hotel Derby Road, Widnes, Cheshire, WA8 3UJ Time: 11am - 4pm % 0151 495 5500 Sunday 25th September 2011 Manchester Airport Marriot Hotel Wedding Fayre Hale Road, Hale Barns, Altrincham, WA15 8XW Time: 11 - 3pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289 Sunday 25th September 2011 The Wild Pheasant Hotel Wedding Fayre Berwyn Road, Llangollen, Denbighshire, North Wales, L20 8AD Time: 11am - 4pm % Ruth on 07515 475 667 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E 121
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Sunday 25th September 2011 Ramada Encore Haydock Galway Crescent, Piele Road, Haydock, WA11 0GR Time: 11am - 4pm % KeeDays on 07738 058 656
Thursday 6th October 2011 The Imperial Hotel Llandudno, Conwy, North Wales, LL30 1AP Time: 5:30pm – 9pm % Celebration Wedding Fayres on 07725 257460
Sunday 2nd October 2011 Hallmark Hotel Stanley Road, Wilmslow, Cheshire, SK9 3LD Time: 11am – 3pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289
Sunday 9th October 2011 Suites Hotel, Knowsley Ribblers Lane, Knowsley, Liverpool, L34 9HA Time: 12:30 – 4pm % UK Wedding Shows on 01704 517979
Sunday 2nd October 2011 Chester Racecourse Wedding Show The Racecourse, Chester, CH1 2LY Time: 10am – 4pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117 Sunday 2nd October 2011 Croxteth Hall & Country Park Croxteth Hall Lane, Liverpool, L12 0HB Time: 11am – 4pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 227 9179 Sunday 2nd October 2011 Inglewood Manor Badgers Rake Lane, Ledsham, South Wirral, Cheshire, CH66 8PF Time: 12 – 4pm % 0151 339 5105 Sunday 2nd October 2011 The Wynnstay Arms Hotel Yorke Street, Wrexham, LL13 8LP Time: 11am - 4pm % Ruth on 07515 475 667 Sunday 2nd October 2011 The Kinmel Manor Hotel St. Georges Road, Abergele, Conwy, LL22 9AS Time: 11am - 4pm % Celebration Wedding Fayres on 07725 257460 Sunday 2nd October 2011 Forest Hills Hotel Open Day Overton Hill, Frodsham, Cheshire, WA6 6HH Time: 12 – 3pm % 01928 735255 Sunday 2nd October 2011 Belle Epoque King Street, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6DT Time: 1pm – 5pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289 122 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E
Sunday 9th October 2011 Willington Hall Willington, Tarporley, Cheshire, CW6 0NB Time: 11-3pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117 Sunday 9th October 2011 Cottons Hotel Manchester Road, Knutsford, Cheshire, WA16 0SU. Time: 12 - 4pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289 Sunday 9th October 2011 Mottram Hall Wilmslow Road, Mottram St Andrew, Cheshire, SK10 4QT. Time: 12 - 4pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289 Sunday 9th October 2011 Carden Park Chester, Cheshire, CH3 9DQ Time: 11am - 4pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 227 9179 Sunday 9th October 2011 The Carreg Mon Hotel Ffordd Caergybi, Llanfairpwllgwyngyll, Gwynedd, LL61 5YH Time: 11am – 4pm % Celebration Wedding Fayres on 07725 257460 Sunday 9th October 2011 Cranage Hall Byley Lane, Holmes Chapel, Cheshire, CW4 8EW Time: 11:30am - 4pm % KeeDays on 07738 058 656
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Sunday 9th October 2011 Holiday Inn Haydock Lodge Lane, Newton Le Willows, Haydock, WA12 0JG Time: 12 – 4pm % Suzanne or Karen on 01942 868330 Sunday 9th October 2011 Wallasey Town Hall Brighton Street, Wallasey, Wirral, CH44 8ED Time: 12 – 4pm % Funky Sunflower Events on 07914 806410 Sunday 16th October 2011 Devonshire House Hotel 293-297 Edge Lane, Fairfield, Liverpool, L7 9LD Time: 12:30 – 4pm % UK Wedding Shows on 01704 882 050
Sunday 23rd October 2011 Liverpool Football Club Anfield Road, Liverpool, L4 0TH Time: 12 - 4pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 227 9179 Sunday 23rd October 2011 The Bryn Howel Hotel Trevor, Llangollen, Denbighshire, LL20 7UW Time: 11am – 4pm % Ruth on 07515 475 667 Sunday 23rd October 2011 Lion Quays Waterside Resort Moreton, Oswestry, Shropshire, SY11 3EN Time: 11am - 3pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117
Sunday 16th October 2011 Craxton Wood Hotel 1 Parkgate Road, Ledsham, Cheshire, CH66 9PB Time: 12-4pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117
Sunday 23rd October 2011 Macdonald Hill Valley Hotel Tarporley Road, Whitchurch, Shropshire, SY13 4JH Time: 11.30am - 4pm % KeeDays on 07738 058 656
Sunday 16th October 2011 Arley Hall Arley Hall & Gardens, Northwich, Cheshire, CW9 6NA Time: 11am – 3pm % Wedding Link on 0161 925 4289
Sunday 30th October 2011 aBode Chester Grosvenor Road, Chester, CH1 2DJ Time: 12 – 4pm % KeeDays on 07738 058 656
Sunday 16th October 2011 Crowne Plaza Liverpool St Nicholas Place, Princes Dock, Pier Head, Liverpool, L3 1QW Time: 11am - 4pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 227 9179
Sunday 30th October 2011 Hard Days Night Hotel Central Buildings, North John St, Liverpool, L2 6RR Time: 12 - 4pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 227 9179
Sunday 16th October 2011 Hartford Golf Club Burrows Hill, Hartford, Northwich, Cheshire, CW8 3AP Time: 11:30am – 4pm % KeeDays on 07738 058 656
Sunday 30th October 2011 Radission Blu Liverpool 107 Old Hall Street, Liverpool, L3 9BD Time: 12 – 4pm % Funky Sunflower Events on 07914 806410
Monday 17th October 2011 Stobart Stadium Wedding Evening Lowerhouse Lane, Widnes, Cheshire, WA8 7DZ Time: 6pm – 9pm % 0151 510 6000
30th October 2011 Ness Gardens Ness Botanic Gardens, Ness, Neston, South Wirral, CH64 4AY Time: 11am – 3pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117
Thursday 20th October 2011 Ramada Chester Whitchurch Road, Christleton, Chester, CH3 5QL Time: 7pm – 9pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117
Saturday 5th November 2011 Bron Eifion Country House Hotel Criccieth, Gwynedd, LL52 0SA Time: 12 – 4pm % Mary on 01766 522385 T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E 123
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Sunday 13th November 2011 Vale Royal Abbey Whitegate, Northwich, Cheshire CW8 2BS Time: 11am – 3pm % 01606 301291 Sunday 13th November 2011 Faenol Fawr Country House Hotel Bodelwyddan, St. Asaph, Denbighshire, North Wales, LL18 5UN Time: 12 – 4pm % Funky Sunflower Events on 07914 806410 Sunday 13th November 2011 The Grosvenor Pulford Hotel & Spa Wrexham Road, Pulford, Chester, CH4 9DG Time: 12 - 4pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117 Sunday 27th November 2011 The Fir Grove Hotel Knutsford Old Road, Warrington, Cheshire, WA4 2LD Time: 12 - 4pm % Flaunt Events on 01244 539117 Sunday 8th January 2012 Floral Pavilion Theatre Marine Promenade, New Brighton, Wirral, CH45 2JS Time: 12 - 4pm % 0151 625 2918 Saturday 14th & Sunday 15th January 2012 The Liverpool Wedding Show The Grand Marquee, Knowsley Safari Park, Prescot, Merseyside, L34 4AN Time: 10am – 5pm % Bliss Wedding Shows on 0151 227 9179 Saturday 21st & Sunday 22nd January 2012 Gordale Nursery & Garden Centre Chester High Road, Burton, South Wirral, CH64 8TF Time: 11am-4pm % Joanne on 0151 336 2116
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Who pays? Talking about the budget won’t be the most romantic conversation you’re going to have when it comes to planning your big day, but overspending isn’t very romantic either. One of the first things you need to do when you start planning your dream wedding is decide who’s paying for what. The most important thing to consider is to plan the type of wedding you can realistically afford. It is not ideal to start married life in debt. Remember, it is how you spend your money that counts, not how much you have to spend.
Traditionally, the father of the bride handled the majority of the expenses, with the groom chipping in for ceremony fees and a suitably fabulous, surprise honeymoon. But, times are changing. Many contemporary couples choose to pay for the bulk of their wedding themselves, or even to split the costs three ways – between them and both sets of parents. The question for who pays for what really comes down to who is willing and able.
A traditional breakdown of the expenses:
The Bride
The Groom
• Wedding gift for groom • Wedding ring for groom • Bridesmaids’ dresses • Gifts for Attendants • Hen Party
• Wedding gift for bride • Bride's rings • Banns, Wedding Licence and Marriage Certificate • Gifts for Best Man and Ushers • Bridal bouquet, buttonholes and corsages • Formalwear • Fees for officiating personnel
The Groom’s Family
The Bride's Family
• • • • • •
• Entire reception • Wedding gift for newlyweds • Bride's wedding outfit • Invitations and announcements • Photographs • Venue fees • Flowers • Wedding cars
Honeymoon Stag Party Wedding clothes Travelling expenses/hotel bills Wedding gift for newlyweds Shipment of wedding gifts to new home
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12 months before:
Don’t panic! There may be a huge amount to do in the run up to your big day, but our handy checklist is designed to help you through the next twelve months.
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Choose a wedding date Decide on a budget Make a list of guests and decide on numbers Book your Church/Ceremony location Book your reception venue/caterers Send out “Save The Date” cards Choose your Bridesmaids, Ushers and Best Man Start looking for The Dress! Choose and book your photographer Choose and book your videographer Take out insurance cover Start thinking about the Honeymoon Confirm bookings in writing
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Choose bridesmaids’ dresses Choose the music, hymns and readings for the ceremony Order wedding stationery Book entertainment Choose and order your wedding cake Make an appointment with your chosen florist Select a Toastmaster
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Give Notice of Marriage Purchase or hire menswear Order venue decoration/chair covers Select your wedding rings Book a make-up artist/hairdresser and arrange a trial
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q Send out your wedding invitations q Check your passport expiry date q Check if you will need visas or vaccinations for your honeymoon destination q Choose attendants’ gifts q Buy shoes, lingerie and accessories q Choose a Gift List q Order favours q Start thinking about a seating plan q Book your wedding night accommodation q Attend initial fitting for your wedding dress q Make arrangements for Hen and Stag parties q Arrange fittings for the menswear q Buy a going away outfit and honeymoon clothes q Organise a rehearsal and let relevant people know
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4 months before:
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Arrange a final fitting of your wedding dress Call guests who have not responded to your invitation Buy a wedding gift for each other Arrange for a final fitting for your bridesmaids, ushers and best man and arrange when to collect the outfits q Confirm timings with the venue and all relevant suppliers q Finalise the seating plan q Enjoy your hen and stag parties!
2 Weeks Before:
q Make a note of wedding gifts as they arrive q Confirm the date and time of the rehearsal to the relevant people q Arrange to change your name if appropriate q Speak to all your suppliers to confirm details
1 week before:
q Arrange to collect your wedding dress, bridesmaids’ dresses and the menswear q Arrange for your order of service to be given to the minister q Pack for your honeymoon q Have all your beauty treatments q Book the groom a hair cut q Organise an emergency kit for on the day q Drink plenty of water and have some early nights Relax and enjoy this time – all your hard work is about to come to fruition! T H E W E D D I N G G U I D E 133
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