THEWILL DOWNTOWN, October 20, 2024 by THEWILL NEWSPAPER

EDITOR’S

This week, our cover story shines a spotlight on the remarkable achievements of Nigerian celebrities born in October. These stars, who have left an indelible mark in the entertainment industry, make October a month of celebration. Their talent and creativity, from award-winning acting to chart-topping music, have inspired millions and shaped Nigeria’s cultural landscape.

These October-born celebrities have not only influenced Nigeria’s cultural landscape but have also captivated audiences worldwide with their enthralling performances and revolutionary music. Their global recognition and the space they have carved in the hearts of fans across the globe make them true household names. This is our chance to honour their achievements and appreciate their contributions to the Nigerian entertainment industry.

Read the stories of October babies Dakore EgbusonAkande, Regina Daniels, Ice Prince, Wande Cole, and Mike Godson on pages 8 through 10.

Bubble skirts are in fashion and are a fun way to add drama to your outfit. Styling a bubble skirt can seem complicated, so we have listed six ways to wear it on our fashion pages. See pages 4 and 5.

They say less is more when it comes to skincare and makeup. A tinted moisturiser, which combines both, can achieve this. Our beauty page explores reasons why a tinted moisturiser should be your go-to beauty product. You can find this on page 12.

Have you ever heard of beige flags in relationships? We tell you all you need to know about this kind of flag in Downtown Confidential this week. Please read about this on page 15.

Until next week, enjoy your read.

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Dorcas Akintoye

Dorcas Akintoye is a dedicated writer with more than 2 years prolific experience in writing articles ranging from food, entertainment, fashion and beauty. She has a National Diploma in Mass Communication from Kwara State Polytechnic, Ilorin. She loves writing, listening to music and playing scrabble. She is a highly-skilled, enthusiastic, selfmotivated professional writer.

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6 Ways to FASHION STYLE A BUBBLE SKIRT

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

Bubble skirts are a fun way to add drama and volume to your outfit and are back in fashion. Although styling their distinctive puffed-out shape can initially seem complicated, you can achieve looks that range from casual to sophisticated with the appropriate advice. This article will explore six easy and stylish ways to rock a bubble skirt.

Wearing a fitted top is the best method to balance your look because a bubble skirt already has a lot of volume. Either a body-hugging turtleneck or a basic fitted T-shirt will work. This combo keeps your entire look professional and sleek while letting the skirt take centre stage. Tuck your top into the bubble skirt to accentuate your waist and produce a beautiful silhouette. This look is ideal for informal get-togethers, lunch dates, or a laid-back workday.

2. PAIR WITH A FITTED TOP

ADD A BELT FOR DEFINITION

Due to their puffiness, bubble skirts might occasionally cause you to lose your natural shape. Put on a belt at the waist to restore that definition. An hourglass form can be achieved by tightening the waist with a statement belt or simply a basic one. Select a high-waisted bubble skirt and use a broad belt. Pair it with a fitting shirt or blouse for dinner dates or formal events to create a stylish and attractive ensemble.

3. 4.

A CROP TOP

Pairing crop tops with bubble skirts is a stylish choice. When the skirt hangs high on your waist, it allows for a modest amount of skin to be seen without being overly revealing. For young fashionistas, this is the ideal look—modern and lively. To bring attention to the vibrant bubble skirt, choose a crop top in a neutral hue and wear it with a striking, colourful skirt. Replace your sneakers or sandals with heels if you want to wear something more formal for an evening out.

6. GO FOR

When styling your bubble skirt, don’t be hesitant to experiment with bright prints and textures. The skirt is a standout piece in and of itself, so for a fun, striking ensemble, wear it with a printed shirt. The smoothness of the skirt is interestingly contrasted with textured tops, such as lace or knit. Choose a top or blouse with a pattern to add visual interest to a solid-coloured bubble skirt. This combo looks fantastic with floral or animal prints. Add some chunky accessories to complete the look for a playful, daring appearance.

LAYER WITH A BLAZER

OR JACKET MIX WITH BOLD PRINTS OR TEXTURES STYLE WITH HEELS OR FLATS

Wear your bubble skirt with a fitting jacket or a tailored blazer for a more put-together and structured appearance. This gives your ensemble a more sophisticated look that fits well for formal occasions and professional situations. The best kind of jacket is a cropped one since it accentuates the volume of the skirt; a longer blazer can look more dramatic. Wear a tailored jacket or blazer if you want to draw attention to the skirt. This ensemble is perfect for a sophisticated work environment or even a nighttime function when worn with heels or ankle boots.

CONCLUSION

Your choice of shoes can significantly alter your bubble skirt ensemble. While flats maintain the look’s easygoing vibe, heels will elevate it to an elegant and refined aesthetic. Use pointedtoe shoes or strappy heels to look more put together. Comfortable ballet flats, sandals, or even sneakers can be ideal for relaxed days. Choose neutral or sheer heels that complement your skin tone if you’re small and want to add height. Sneakers or flats are a great way for taller women to be fashionable and comfortable.

Bubble skirts are multipurpose clothing that look great on a variety of people and bodies. They offer countless styling options, from dressing them up with a blazer and heels to taking them down with a fitted top and sneakers. Try out several combinations to determine what suits your style the best, and don’t forget to have fun.

Vintage And Modern Decorations

Getting The Best of Both Worlds

BY JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE

Oneundeniable fact is that people have different tastes when it comes to decorative styles. Some enjoy vintage styles, some enjoy keeping up with trendy styles, and then there are those who want the best of both worlds and strive to make it work.

Combining modern and vintage is no doubt a stylish way to create a unique and personalised home or office space. Each room offers an opportunity to experiment with different elements of both styles, allowing you to create contemporary and timeless spaces. For our decor editorial this week, here’s how to mix vintage and modern decor in various spaces throughout your home.

LIVING ROOM

It’s only fitting to start with the heart of the home, the living room. The living room is the perfect space to showcase your style. To get that beautiful combination that appeals to everyone who sees it, start with a modern foundation, such as a sleek sofa or modern coffee table, and then layer in vintage adornments. Then, infusing an antique armchair, retro lamps, or a vintage mirror can add warmth and character to the space. You are also free to mix patterns and fabrics.

DINING ROOM

A great place to experiment is the dining room, a space where you mix different furniture styles until you find the right one. For instance, you can pair a modern glass or marble dining table with vintage wooden or upholstered chairs. Top it off with a classic chandelier above a modern dining set, as it adds a striking balance to the entire design and combines vintage china, silverware, or a retro sideboard to enhance the mix of styles.

KITCHEN

In the kitchen, vintage accents can add charm to a modern space. If you have a sleek, contemporary kitchen with stainless steel appliances and minimalist cabinetry, add vintage bar stools, retro cookware, or an antique light fixture to give the room some personality.

Open shelving is a great way to display vintage kitchenware, such as copper pots, old ceramic plates, or rustic glass jars, alongside modern cooking tools.

BEDROOM

In the bedroom, it’s best to create a soothing atmosphere with a mix of vintage and modern furnishings. An ideal design to begin with is a contemporary bed frame paired with a vintage nightstand or an antique chest at the foot of the bed. Vintage textiles, like a handmade duvet or a patterned rug, can soften the clean lines of modern furnishings.

For a home office, start by pairing a modern, ergonomic chair with a vintage desk. Then, infuse vintage bookshelves, artwork, or a retro typewriter as decorative pieces. Also, a modern desk lamp alongside a vintage globe or antique map on the wall can add a professional yet stylish touch to your home office. HOME OFFICE

Mixing the old with the new is a whole new style, and with each style comes an opportunity to personalise it and make a masterpiece out of your living space.

CELEBRATING OCTOBER’S FINEST

October

is a month of celebration for many of Nigeria’s brightest stars who continue to leave their mark on the film, music, sports, and media industries. Nigerian celebrities born in October are known for their immense talent, creativity, and influence at home and on the global stage. From awardwinning actors and chart-topping musicians to trailblazing media personalities and sports legends, these individuals have made outstanding contributions to their respective fields, inspiring millions along the way.

Whether through captivating performances, groundbreaking music, or inspiring achievements, these celebrities have helped shape Nigeria’s cultural landscape. October-born stars have become household names, each carving out a unique space in the hearts of fans across the world. Their birthdays offer an opportunity to reflect on their accomplishments, celebrate their impact, and appreciate the artistry and excellence they bring to Nigerian entertainment. These entertainers have worked their way from the bottom to accomplish so much for themselves, and we celebrate these iconic figures. We acknowledge their dedication, resilience, and the influence they wield, not just as entertainers but as role models and cultural ambassadors. Join us as we highlight the achievements of Nigerian celebrities born in October, honouring their lasting legacy and ongoing contributions to the entertainment industry.

* Wande Coal

Also known as Black Diamond, Wande Coal is one of Nigeria’s most influential and celebrated music icons born in October.

Known for his velvety voice, smooth delivery, and diverse range of sounds, Wande has left a lasting mark on the Afrobeats genre. His career took off with the release of his debut album Mushin 2 Mo’Hits in 2009, which solidified his status as a musical powerhouse in Africa. Songs like Bumper to Bumper and You Bad became instant classics, propelling him to superstardom.

As a trailblazer and versatile vocalist in the Nigerian music industry, Wande Coal has consistently evolved his sound, blending traditional African rhythms with contemporary beats. Over the years, Black Diamond has solidified himself as a vital figure in shaping the Afrobeats movement, both in Nigeria and globally, with hits like Iskaba and Again continuing to top charts and capture the hearts of fans.

Celebrating Wande Coal’s birthday this October is a reminder of his immense contributions to the Nigerian music scene. His ability to reinvent himself while maintaining his unique sound has earned him longevity in an industry that constantly changes. As one of Nigeria’s musical legends, Wande Coal’s influence and legacy continue to inspire new generations of artists and music lovers alike.

* Regina Daniels

Regina Daniels, a vibrant, talented, and beautiful Nigerian actress, is also an October-born celebrity gracing our list. It’s a known fact that Regina captivated audiences with her remarkable acting skills right from a young age. Starting her career as a child star, Regina has grown into one of Nollywood’s most recognisable faces, known for her roles in both family dramas and actionpacked films. Her journey in the Nigerian film industry has been nothing short of inspiring, as she smoothly transitioned from a child actor to a leading lady in Nollywood. Regina’s career has been marked by versatility and resilience. With memorable performances in movies such as Dumebi in School, The Jericho, and The Enemy I Know, she has won the hearts of many with her talent and screen presence. Beyond acting, Regina has also embarked on her journey as a producer and is a passionate advocate for children’s rights, using her platform to raise awareness of important social issues. Regina has extended her influence beyond the entertainment industry as she is also known for her philanthropic efforts, which further endeared her to her fans. As we celebrate Regina Daniels this October, we honour her contributions to Nollywood and acknowledge her as a role model for young actors across Africa.

* Dakore Egbuson-Akande

One of Nigeria’s most respected and versatile actresses, Dakore is an October-born celebrity whose talent and grace have made her a household name. With a career spanning over two decades, Dakore has starred in numerous blockbuster Nollywood films and TV series, earning accolades for her powerful performances and ability to bring depth to a variety of roles. Her journey in the entertainment industry doesn’t just show her dedication but also her ability to evolve with the ever-changing scenery of Nigerian cinema. Born on October 14, 1978, Dakore’s career highlights include her roles in critically acclaimed films such as Fifty, Isoken, and The Set Up. Her impact goes beyond acting, as she has also delved into advocacy, particularly in areas related to health and women’s empowerment, making her a role model for many.

Dakore’s captivating presence on screen, combined with her commitment to social causes, has solidified her position as a leading figure in Nollywood and a positive force for change in Nigeria. With the month of October still upon us, it’s a perfect time to appreciate her contributions to the entertainment industry and her influence as a Nigerian celebrity who continues to inspire audiences both locally and globally.

* Mike Godson

Born on October 10, Mike Godson represents a generation of Nollywood talent who combines a deep passion for acting with a personal approach to his craft, which allows him to evolve within the industry. Known for his roles in romantic dramas and family-centric stories, Mike has skillfully crafted a niche for himself in the Nigerian movie scene. His performances are not just limited to entertainment as his performances are a depiction of the everyday lives and emotions of people, making his characters relatable to audiences across Africa.

Going beyond the screen, Mike is redefining success in Nollywood. While his acting skills have earned him recognition, he also has a growing presence in film production and content creation showing his forward-thinking attitude. He is someone who doesn’t just act but seeks to shape the narratives Nollywood brings to the world.

Celebrating Mike Godson this October is more than just acknowledging his birthday; it’s also about appreciating an actor who has consistently evolved with the times. His charismatic presence, both on and off the screen, is a testament to his dedication to entertainment and his desire to inspire the next generation of actors. With every role, Mike Godson continues to strengthen his legacy as a key player in the future of Nigerian cinema.

* Ice Prince

Born Panshak Henry Zamani, Ice Prince is a celebrated Nigerian rapper, singer, and songwriter who celebrates his birthday on October 30. Ice Prince is recognised as one of the pioneers of Afrobeats and hip-hop fusion in Nigeria. First gaining massive recognition with his chart-topping single Oleku, which became an anthem across Africa, Ice Prince has solidified his position as a major player in the African music scene over the years as he is known for his smooth lyrical delivery, unique sound, and his ability to blend Afrocentric beats with global hip-hop sounds.

Ice Prince has made immense contributions to the Nigerian music industry and earned numerous awards and accolades, including a BET Award for Best International Act in Africa. Beyond music, Ice Prince has also ventured into acting and entrepreneurship, making him a multifaceted talent. His October birthday reminds fans of the incredible journey he has taken from the streets of Jos to the global stage, constantly pushing the boundaries of African music. With each new project, Ice Prince continues to inspire a generation of artists and remains a prominent figure in the entertainment industry.

As we take a moment to celebrate Nigerian celebrities born in October, we’re reminded of the dynamic talent and passion they bring to the entertainment world. These stars, whether actors, musicians, or creators, have continuously pushed boundaries, setting new standards for excellence. Their influence also goes far beyond their industries, as they touch the lives of fans and inspire future generations to pursue their dreams with the same determination. From the silver screen to the global stage, these October-born icons have proven that talent combined with hard work can create a lasting impact. Their birthdays are not just a celebration of another year but a reflection of their incredible journeys, marked by groundbreaking achievements and transformative roles. As we honour these stars, we recognise their contribution to elevating Nigeria’s cultural landscape, making them beacons of hope and success for aspiring talents across the nation.

BEAUTY

Tinted Moisturiser

6 Reasons Why You Need One

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

Less

is more when it comes to skincare and makeup. That’s where a tinted moisturiser comes in. This simple-to-use product is the ideal combination of skincare and cosmetics. There are some fantastic advantages to using a tinted moisturiser in your cosmetic routine that you may be missing out on. This article will explore six key reasons why a tinted moisturiser should be your go-to beauty product.

4. FEELS LIGHTWEIGHT

2. PROVIDES LIGHT COVERAGE

1. HYDRATES YOUR SKIN

Fundamentally, a tinted moisturiser functions as a moisturiser. Its primary function is maintaining your skin’s moisture levels throughout the day. Tinted moisturisers provide moisture to your skin, leaving it feeling smooth and full, in contrast to heavy foundations that can cause dehydration. This is particularly beneficial if you have dry skin or are exposed to inclement weather. Your skin will remain hydrated and look vibrant if you use a tinted moisturiser.

A tinted moisturiser is ideal if you like a more natural look or don’t like wearing a lot of foundation. It provides the right amount of coverage to even out your skin tone without looking cakey or overdone. It lets your natural skin tone come through while concealing slight defects like redness or small blemishes. For individuals who wish to seem put together without the hassle of a complete makeup look, it’s an easy, everyday answer.

3. SAVES TIME

In today’s fast-paced world, not everyone has the luxury of spending hours applying makeup. Your skincare process can be cut in half by using a tinted moisturiser, which does both skincare and cosmetics in one step. One product handles the job of foundation and moisturiser, eliminating the need for separate applications. It’s the ideal choice for hectic mornings, on-the-go situations, or vacations.

Conventional foundation is often criticised for feeling heavy on the skin, which is one of the main complaints against it. Conversely, tinted moisturisers are lightweight and breathable. You won’t feel as if you’re wearing a mask. Your skin will feel revitalised, making it painless for you to go about your day. This lightweight sensation is perfect, particularly in hot weather or when you don’t want your skin to feel heavy.

6.OFFERS SUN PROTECTION

5. GIVES A HEALTHY GLOW

Thanks to the light-reflecting properties of tinted moisturisers, your skin appears healthy and radiant. A tinted moisturiser highlights your skin’s inherent brightness, unlike matte foundations, which can occasionally make skin appear flat or dull. Your appearance will be dewy and freshfaced, giving you a refreshed and radiant appearance from the inside out. It functions similarly to a gentle facial filter in real life.

Added SPF (sun protection factor) is a common feature of tinted moisturisers, providing additional protection against UV radiation. While wearing sunscreen every day is crucial, using an SPFinfused tinted moisturiser gives you extra protection. By doing this, you are shielding your skin from possible sun damage, which can result in dark spots and early ageing, in addition to moisturising it and evening out its tone.

CONCLUSION

Introducing a tinted moisturiser to your cosmetic routine is an easy yet effective addition. In addition to providing sun protection, it moisturises, feels light on the skin, saves time, and gives you a healthy glow. A tinted moisturiser can be the all-in-one product that helps you achieve a natural, everyday look or simplify your skincare and makeup regimen. An essential item for every beauty bag is a tinted moisturiser, a simple-to-use product that leaves your skin feeling and looking its best.

Exercise Routines After Childbirth FITNESS Post-Partum Wellbeing

BY JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE

The period of pregnancy is draining in different ways, physically, mentally, and emotionally. With so many internal and external changes occurring, this whole period takes a toll on a woman.

Many women are eager to regain their prepregnancy fitness levels after giving birth.

However, it’s important to approach postpartum exercise with care and patience. The body undergoes significant changes during pregnancy and childbirth, so a gradual and gentle approach is important. For that reason, this week’s health guide will highlight effective exercises that can help women get back in shape after giving birth.

Consult Your Doctor First

It’s very important that the first thing before starting any exercise program is to get clearance from your healthcare provider. Generally, women can begin with gentle exercises from six to eight weeks postpartum, but considering the fact that every woman isn’t the same and personal differences come into play due to circumstances surrounding their birth process, it is best to consult with your medical practitioner.

Gentle Movements

Beginning with easy body movements such as long walks and kegel exercises is ideal.

Walking is a low-impact exercise that can help improve cardiovascular health and aid in weight loss. Start with short walks around your neighbourhood and gradually increase the duration and pace as your strength improves.

Kegels help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which can be weakened during pregnancy and childbirth. Tighten your pelvic floor muscles as though you are holding in your pee for 5-10 seconds, then relax. Repeat 10-15 times, several times a day.

Flexibility and Relaxation

The cat-cow stretch and child pose are highly recommended to increase flexibility in the spine.

To begin with cat-cow, you start on your hands and knees. Inhale and arch your back, lifting your head and tailbone (Cow pose). Exhale and round your back, tucking your chin and tailbone (Cat pose). Repeat 10-15 times.

Strength Training

Exercises such as bodyweight squats and modified push-ups help strengthen the lower body and improve overall stability.

For bodyweight squats, stand with your feet shoulderwidth apart. Lower your body as though sitting back in a chair, keeping your knees behind your toes. Push through your heels to return to standing. Repeat 10-15 times.

For modified push-ups, start on your knees with hands slightly wider than shoulder-width apart. Lower your chest toward the floor, keeping your body in a straight line from head to knees. Push back up to the starting position. Repeat 10-15 times.

Aerobics

This particular routine has to come after one has built up strength and stamina. Swimming, a low-impact exercise, is ideal as it works the entire body and improves cardiovascular fitness. Begin your swimming lessons with short sessions, as you don’t want to rush into things, and gradually increase the duration as you feel more comfortable.

Getting back in shape after giving birth can help in regaining confidence and making the body healthier, but always remember to start small as the body has already been strained due to childbirth.

TECH TALK

TOP KITCHEN GADGETS

For Smoother Cooking

SMART INSTANT POTS

The Instant Pot has long been a favourite, but the smart version takes it to another level. With app control, you can monitor your cooking, adjust settings remotely, and access a variety of recipes. It also combines multiple appliances such as pressure cookers, slow cookers, rice cookers, and more into one, making it a versatile addition to any kitchen. Smart Instant Pots promote multitasking and are necessary additions to the kitchen.

BY JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE

Technology’s influence and impact on our daily lives are evident in our daily activities. When it comes to chores in the home, tech gadgets have simplified many tasks, including cooking. The rise of smart kitchen gadgets is transforming the way we cook, making meal preparation faster, more efficient, and even tidier. These innovative tools use cutting-edge technology to simplify tasks, reduce mess, and ensure perfect results every time. For our tech piece this week, we will take a look at some top smart kitchen gadgets that are changing home cooking.

WI-FI-ENABLED SOUS VIDE PRECISION COOKER

Sous vide cooking ensures precise temperature control, delivering perfectly cooked food every time. With Wi-Fi-enabled sous vide cookers, you can control the temperature and cooking time from your phone, allowing you to multitask or leave the house while your meal is prepared. The level of convenience a sous vide precision cooker offers is enough reason for this gadget to sell itself.

VOICE-CONTROLLED KITCHEN ASSISTANTS

Voice-controlled kitchen assistants, often integrated into smart home devices, make cooking easier and more enjoyable. They have access to a vast recipe library, customizable meal-planning suggestions, hands-free cooking, and ingredient availability.

These assistants also reduce kitchen operations, allowing users to set timers, convert measurements, and easily control smart appliances, making cooking faster and more convenient.

Smart ovens, like those from brands such as Tovala, automatically adjust the temperature, cooking time, and mode based on the recipe or the food’s weight. Some even come with built-in cameras, allowing you to monitor progress via your phone without opening the door. These smart ovens help users achieve better cooking results by ensuring that their food is cooked to perfection and saves energy by automatically turning off when cooking is complete.

SELF-CLEANING BLENDERS

Blenders, such as Vitamix models, now come with self-cleaning modes. These make the post-cooking clean-up a breeze, reducing the time and effort needed to tidy up after making smoothies, soups, or sauces.

Smart kitchen gadgets are designed to make cooking quicker and more enjoyable. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced home chef, these devices can simplify meal preparation, cut down on mess, and help you achieve consistent, delicious results. Life is becoming simpler, and investing in these smart tools can transform your kitchen into a high-tech cooking hub, making it easier to experiment with new dishes and cooking techniques without much or even any hassle.

Everything You Need to Know About

Beige Flags in Relationships

BY DORCAS AKINTOYE

We frequently watch out for red flags in relationships, which are obvious evidence that something is unhealthy, or green flags, which are indications that a relationship is going well. However, the beige flag is different and isn’t discussed often. The characteristics or behaviours of a partner that are neither very thrilling nor dangerous are known as “beige flags.” They may be a little odd, boring, or confusing, but they don’t always indicate a serious problem in the relationship. Although they shouldn’t stop you in your tracks, these flags may cause you to question whether there may be a more serious issue at hand.

1. UNDERSTAND WHAT A BEIGE FLAG IS

You shouldn’t freak out about a beige flag. This behaviour may be odd or boring, but it doesn’t cause the same level of alarm as a red flag would. These could be beige signals if your partner, for instance, follows an odd daily pattern or constantly replies to your messages with a single word. The important thing is to realise that while these characteristics might not hurt you, they might make you wonder if your partner’s habits or personality match your own.

Communication is one of the most effective strategies for dealing with beige flags. Your partner might not even be aware of how strange or annoying their behaviour is coming across to you. Have a brief, soothing talk to ensure that you both feel heard and understood. Be honest about your feelings about particular acts rather than assuming anything or holding your emotions inside.

Remember that understanding rather than criticism is the aim of communication. Conversation starters such as “I noticed you do this, and I was curious about it” might lead to a fruitful discussion.

3. ASSESS HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THE BEHAVIOUR

6. LOOK AT THE BIG PICTURE 2. COMMUNICATE OPENLY

Not every beige flag is made equally. Certain things could be peculiar and charming, while others could eventually grow tiresome. For example, you might find it sweet at first, but after a while, it might get tiresome if your partner enjoys watching the same show over. It’s critical to stand back and consider the longterm significance of the beige flag. Will you finally lose your mind over it, or is it something you can live with? Determine if it’s a harmless quirk or something that could impact your relationship’s overall happiness.

4. DON’T OVERTHINK IT

Beige flags frequently prompt overthinking. Even though this is not always the case, you might find yourself wondering if this odd behaviour is an indication of something more serious. Individuals are peculiar, and occasionally, those peculiarities are just a part of who we are. It’s crucial to avoid overthinking everything your spouse says or does. Ask yourself, “Is this behaviour harmful or just different from what I’m used to?” If it’s the latter, accepting your partner as they are may be the only necessary step.

CONCLUSION

5. FIND THE BALANCE BETWEEN TOLERANCE AND COMPATIBILITY

Although they don’t always indicate a problem, beige flags might occasionally draw attention to incompatibilities. Everybody has unique tastes, morals, and characteristics. Therefore, it’s critical to determine whether you can live with your partner’s beige flag. Knowing when to confront certain habits and when to tolerate them is essential to finding balance. If it’s only a harmless eccentricity, you may decide to embrace it as what makes your partner special. But if it starts to affect your relationship negatively, it could be worth questioning if you’re compatible.

Evaluating the relationship as a whole is crucial when handling beige flags. Does your partner make you feel your best? Do you feel appreciated, happy, and safe in the relationship? If the response is in the affirmative, then a few mild warning signs here and there might not warrant concern. Beige flags may seem insignificant in the big picture compared to the state of your relationship. Don’t allow the small, quirky things to dominate the many beautiful elements of your relationship; instead, keep your eyes on the bigger picture.

In any relationship, there will be beige flags. Nobody is flawless, and everyone has peculiar habits or characteristics that may not make sense to other people. Maintaining objectivity, engaging in honest communication, and concentrating on the aspects of your relationship that count are critical. Remind yourself that your spouse is just being themselves, so it’s acceptable if they don’t always appear interesting or if they act a little oddly. It’s not hard to navigate between beige flags. Treating these little annoyances patiently and compassionately prevents them from becoming major problems. The essence of a relationship is to love and accept the other person for who they are.

BY BOLUWATIFE ADESINA

WhenI think of the best performances in the horror genre in this century to date, I think of Daniel Kaluuya in Get Out and Toni Collette in Hereditary

In fact, we can delete “horror genre” from the equation. Like the aforementioned performances, Collette’s work in Hereditary is great acting, period.

Nearly 20 years after Collette received a best supporting actress nomination for playing a mother who is stunned when she finally realises her little boy really does see dead people (Sixth Sense), she deserves best actress consideration for playing another mother trapped in another inexplicable, spine-tingling, seriously messed-up situation.

At one point, quite deep in the story, Collette’s Annie Graham is in hysterics as she desperately tries to get her husband Steve (Gabriel Byrne) to believe one of their children is in imminent danger, and she knows her argument makes her sound insane, and yet she keeps going and going and going, because she feels responsible for the fate of her child, and she is desperate for her husband’s help, and who cares if he thinks she’s crazy if it means he’ll just do this one thing that could save their child.

Collette reaches for the rafters in the scene, and were it not for the groundwork she has already laid down and the empathy she has created for her character, were it not for the sheer strength of the performance up to that moment — it might have been too much. It might have come across as over the top. Instead, it pierces us to the core.

Hereditary is one of those rare and treasured horror films that does not rely on music stings, rhythmic knocks on the door in the dead of night, or the cat jumping into frame during a tense moment. The shock moments here (including one that might send one or two viewers running for the exit) are truly stunning, and grotesque, and bizarre — and they will stay with you long after you’ve gone home for the night.

For much of the first hour, writer-director Ari Aster uses a slow build to craft this sinister story, effectively building the foundation for the madhouse we’ll eventually occupy. Annie is a renowned artist who specialises in meticulously crafted, wondrous and sometimes disturbing doll houses, based on the people and the rooms and the events in her own life. (Hmmm, could this be a metaphor for Annie’s desire to control everything around her and perhaps to even play an omniscient role? Hmmmmmm.)

Hereditary begins with a funeral, the memorial service for Annie’s mother, a cold and distant and strange woman who never bonded with Annie but had a special connection with Annie’s daughter Charlie (Milly Shapiro doing staggeringly fine work).

Charlie is a strange child. Very strange. She is constantly scribbling dark sketches in her notebook, she’s unable to connect with others on even a basic social level, and she has morbid interests that extend to carrying around the head of a recently deceased bird.

She even prefers to sleep in the family treehouse, as if she’s a figurine in one of her mother’s miniaturist creations.

After a second death impacts the Graham family, Annie bonds with Joan (the amazing Ann Dowd), a warm and sympathetic mother figure she had met at a grief counselling session. Joan (in deep mourning of her own for a son and grandson killed in an accident) introduces Annie to a portal to the next world, a way for Annie to perhaps connect with the deceased.

Soon, Annie is a believer, much to the consternation of her grounded, passive husband and much to the horror of their teenage son Peter (Alex Wolff), who is dealing with all sorts of freaky baggage on his own. (Let’s just say Peter’s worst nightmares are almost certainly way more disturbing than yours..)

The cinematography by Pawel Pogorzelski is a beautifully frightening blend of the realistic (most of the scenes that take place outside of the home) and the surreal (just about everything that occurs within the confines of the Graham home.) The sets are exquisite, somehow giving off a creepy vibe even when it seems as if we’re just looking at furniture and light fixtures and a dining room table. (Something about this house just doesn’t feel right.)

Even though Annie’s mother is almost never seen onscreen, she is a constant presence in the film. Annie is nearly obsessed with establishing she’s nothing like her mother — even as she confesses certain actions that make us realise she may have inherited much of her mother’s darkness. When Annie becomes convinced her mother is trying to reach out from beyond the grave to destroy her family, she barely pauses to consider how mad that sounds.

She’s a mother. She springs into action.

And where Annie goes, and what she does, and what happens to that family, are the stuff of one great horror story.

The ‘90s are back. From the first notes of the classic theme song, X-Men ‘97 transports its audience to a time of Saturday morning cartoons and syndicated television. Viewers are met with a hit of nostalgia in the classic art style of comic book artist Jim Lee and sounds of many of the same voice actors from X-Men: The Animated Series that aired from 1992-1997. There are subtle updates to the series, in slight character redesigns, some recasting of voice, and a musical score created by The Newton Brothers, but all the changes keep the essence and magic of its predecessor.

X-Men ‘97’s real strength is that it is actually well-written. The directors Chase Conley (Axe Cop, Black Dynamite), Emi Yonemura and Jake Castorena (storyboard artists for Batman: The Killing Joke) showcase each character’s mutant ability with an awareness of their internal struggles and external relationships. The series is not a remake of the old cartoon. While the storylines do pull from content from the X-Men comic books of the 1980s, this is the first time they are being animated. The writing is clever and suspenseful.

The show starts directly following the loss of the X-Men’s charismatic leader Charles Xavier.

People who

have never seen the original cartoon will join this team as it embarks on a new era without their mentor. Viewers will see how every mutant ability is a blessing and a curse. Jean Gray is powerful yet helpless to protect her family; Cyclops is the leader but still can’t seem to manage Wolverine; Rogue loves but cannot be touched. Superpowers are used creatively, and characters

play off each other in battles like a superhero ensemble should.

While the initial hook of the series might be in reminiscing about a golden era of comic books and a time when cartoons were part of shared childhood culture, X-Men ‘97 is a fresh take on Stan Lee’s classic characters. It is a great time to revisit a love of the X-Men or to become a fan for the first time.