SUNDAY, JANUARY 5, 2025
THE LOOK OF 2025
TRENDS AND STYLES DEFINING THE YEAR
Society
ARMANI MARE UNVEILED
elcome to 2025, a year that promises to push the boundaries of creativity and redefine how we approach personal style. In this era, fashion is no longer about fitting in but about standing out. It’s about celebrating individuality, championing authenticity, and using clothing as
Armani Beauty unveiled an exquisite daytime fragrance affair, Armani Mare, at the picturesque Mako Lagos, inviting guests into a realm of sophistication and sensory enchantment. This remarkable event showcased immersive encounters with Armani’s legendary fragrances, including My Way, Stronger with You Intensely, Acqua di Gio Profondo, and Si Passione Intense.
to a Fresh Start (Or Not)
We’re officially in 2025, and with a new calendar comes the usual flood of “new year, new me” resolutions — the ones that have us signing up for gym memberships we won’t use by March, or setting wildly ambitious goals we’ll forget by Valentine’s Day. It’s a familiar ritual, isn’t it?
We convince ourselves that a new year will magically erase everything we struggled with in the previous one. But what if we flipped the narrative this year?
In this edition, we’re embracing a more realistic, more forgiving approach to starting the year. Our cover story takes you straight into the heart of fashion’s freshest trends for 2025 — the pieces we’ll all be clamoring to wear (and, let’s be honest, some we’ll roll our eyes at). Think bold florals, statement denim, and, yes, asymmetrical cuts are sticking around. But beyond trends, this is a year where individuality reigns supreme. It’s less about following the crowd and more about making fashion work for you. After all, isn’t that what style should be — an extension of your personality?
There’s also an intriguing article titled “It’s Okay Not to Have a New Year Resolution” — and it’s a reminder we all need. The pressure to achieve, improve, and always work toward something new can be exhausting. So, this year, let’s take a moment to appreciate who we are right now, flaws and all. Maybe your goal doesn’t have to be a dramatic transformation. Maybe it’s simply to be kind to yourself.
Armani Mare Unveiled
Armani Beauty unveiled an exquisite daytime fragrance affair, Armani Mare, at the picturesque Mako Lagos, inviting guests into a realm of sophistication and sensory enchantment. This remarkable event showcased immersive encounters with Armani’s legendary fragrances, including My Way, Stronger with You Intensely, Acqua di Gio Profondo, and Si Passione Intense. Set against the tranquil backdrop of the beach, the gathering united beauty aficionados and influencers to honour the artistry inherent in Armani fragrances. Attendees embarked on a meticulously crafted journey that illuminated the intricate artistry and narratives woven into each scent, all within an ambience of refined elegance.
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And since no New Year edition would be complete without some focus on relationships, our article on relationship resolutions is a must-read. Instead of the usual “text your partner more” and “plan more date nights” tips, it dives deeper into what truly strengthens bonds — mutual respect, patience, and the ability to listen without always jumping to respond. We explore practical, heartfelt resolutions that go beyond surface-level fixes. Whether it’s friendships, family, or romantic relationships, the goal is to cultivate deeper connections that enrich your life.
But let’s pause for a moment. As exciting as a new year can be, it’s important to recognise that for some, the turn of the calendar brings anxiety, not excitement. Maybe last year was rough. Perhaps you’re starting the year feeling stuck, confused, or a little lost. If that’s you, take a deep breath. You don’t have to conquer the world this January. You don’t have to know exactly where you’re going yet. Give yourself grace. This year, progress will look different for everyone. always like to think of a new year as a blank notebook. Some people will go in with a detailed plan, jotting down every goal and milestone they hope to reach. Others will doodle in the margins and take things day by day, page by page. Both approaches are valid. However you choose to fill your pages this year, make sure the story is yours. So, as we step into this year, remember:
* It’s okay to go slow.
* It’s okay to change your mind.
* It’s okay to not know everything right now.
SELF-LOVE:
WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF SETS THE TONE FOR ALL OTHERS
You give to everyone—your partner, friends, family, and colleagues—until there’s nothing left for yourself. Sound familiar? This is the harsh reality for many and is often the silent reason behind strained relationships. The truth is, the relationship you have with yourself is the foundation for every other connection in your life. Neglect it, and cracks begin to show in unexpected ways. Let’s talk about self-love. It’s a buzzword that’s often tossed around but rarely understood. Many mistake it for vanity or self-indulgence, but true self-love is neither. It’s about acceptance, respect, and care for yourself—flaws and all. When you cultivate a healthy relationship with yourself, you set a powerful standard for how others should treat you. Here’s why this concept is non-negotiable if you want to thrive in your personal and social relationships.
1. You Teach Others How to Treat You
Have you ever noticed how confident people naturally command respect? That’s no accident. When you value yourself, you send a clear message to others about how you expect to be treated. If you’re constantly criticising yourself or settling for less than you deserve, people pick up on that energy and may mirror it in their behaviour toward you.
Think of self-love as a blueprint. The way you speak to yourself, prioritise your needs, and set boundaries informs others about what’s acceptable. It’s not about arrogance but knowing your worth and not being afraid to advocate for it.
2. You Create Healthier Boundaries
One of the biggest benefits of self-love is the ability to set and maintain boundaries. Relationships can be tricky terrain, and without boundaries, you risk overextending yourself or being taken advantage of. When you love yourself, saying “no” becomes easier because you understand that your energy is precious. For example, if a friend constantly asks for favours but never reciprocates, self-love helps you recognise that the imbalance is unhealthy. It gives you the courage to have uncomfortable conversations or step away from toxic dynamics when necessary.
that frequency. Conversely, when you’re riddled with self-doubt, you may attract individuals who prey on your insecurities. Self-love helps you break that cycle.
5. It Enhances Your Compassion for Others It might sound counterintuitive, but loving yourself makes you more empathetic toward others. When you treat yourself with kindness and patience, you understand what it feels like to be cared for. This understanding translates into your interactions, making you a better friend, partner, or parent. Self-love also reduces the likelihood of projecting your insecurities onto others. When you’re secure in who you are, you’re less likely to compare yourself or harbour resentment. Instead, you approach relationships with openness and a willingness to support others without jealousy or judgment.
6. It’s a Lifelong Journey Let’s be honest: self-love isn’t a destination you arrive at one day and never leave. It’s a practice, a daily commitment to showing up for yourself even when it’s hard. Some days, it might look like giving yourself grace after a mistake; other days, it’s saying “no” to plans because you need rest.
NEW YEAR, NEW YOU: REINVENTING YOURSELF IN 2025
The start of a new year always feels like the first page of a fresh notebook— crisp, untainted, and brimming with possibilities. But 2025 is not just any new year. It’s the middle of a transformative decade, when the world is embracing rapid change in technology, culture, and how we live our lives. So why not make it the year you reinvent yourself?
Reinvention isn’t about becoming someone else; it’s about evolving into the best version of yourself. It’s a process of growth, discovery, and stepping into your potential. Whether it’s your career, personal life, or mindset, 2025 is the perfect year to redefine your narrative. Here’s how you can begin.
1. Audit Your Life
3. Self-Love Fosters Emotional Independence
Here’s a hard pill to swallow: no one can complete you. Sure, romantic movies may sell you the idea that someone out there is your “missing piece,” but the reality is that you’re already whole. Depending on others for validation or happiness places an unfair burden on your relationships and often leads to disappointment. When you have a solid relationship with yourself, you become emotionally independent. This doesn’t mean you don’t need people; it means you don’t rely on them to fill voids you should address yourself. As a result, your relationships become partnerships rather than dependencies.
4. You Attract the Right People
Have you ever noticed how like attracts? When you prioritise selflove, you naturally gravitate toward people who reflect those values. Toxic relationships lose their appeal because you’re no longer willing to settle for anything less than what aligns with your self-respect. Imagine walking into a room radiating confidence and authenticity. The energy you exude draws in people who appreciate and match
The key is consistency. Just like any relationship, your relationship with yourself requires time, effort, and care. But the payoff? It’s immeasurable. When you love yourself deeply, every other connection in your life improves—romantic, platonic, or otherwise.
Practical Tips for Cultivating Self-Love
If you’re wondering where to start, here are a few actionable steps: Practice Positive Self-Talk: Replace harsh internal criticism with affirming statements. Instead of saying, “I’m so bad at this,” try, “I’m learning and growing.”
Prioritise Self-Care: Whether it’s taking a walk, journaling, or treating yourself to something nice, make time for activities that replenish you. Surround Yourself with Supportive People: Spend time with those who uplift and inspire you.
Seek Professional Help if Needed: Therapy can be a powerful tool for unpacking past wounds and learning how to love yourself fully.
Before you start the reinvention process, take a step back and assess where you are. What aspects of your life make you proud, and what parts feel stagnant or unfulfilling? Think of this as a personal SWOT analysis—identify your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats.
Write it down. Seeing everything in black and white can help you visualise the areas you want to focus on. Are you craving a career shift? Do you want to prioritise your health? Or perhaps it’s time to rekindle a long-lost passion.
2. Set Intentional Goals
Resolutions are great, but they often fizzle out by February. Instead, focus on intentional, specific goals. Use the SMART framework: make your goals Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.
For example, instead of saying, “I want to get fit,” set a goal like, “I will run a 5K by June and exercise three times a week.” The more concrete your goals, the easier they are to track and achieve.
4. Embrace the Power of Learning
In 2025, learning is easier and more accessible than ever. With platforms like Coursera, MasterClass, and YouTube, there’s no excuse not to pick up a new skill.
Want to change careers? Start with an online certification. Want to improve your communication skills? Join a public speaking course. Continuous learning not only boosts your confidence but also expands your opportunities.
5. Redefine Success
What does Success mean to you? For many, the idea of Success is shaped by societal expectations—wealth, status, or material possessions. But true reinvention often begins with redefining Success on your own terms. Perhaps Success for you is having a flexible schedule, spending quality time with family, or feeling fulfilled in your work. Once you define Success, you can tailor your goals and actions to align with your values.
6. Upgrade Your Network
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with,” they say. If you want to reinvent yourself, surround yourself with people who inspire and challenge you. Seek out mentors, join professional groups, or reconnect with old friends who align with your vision. Positive relationships can be a catalyst for personal growth and open doors to new opportunities.
7. Prioritise Self-Care
Reinvention isn’t just about outward change; it’s also about nurturing your inner self. Physical health, mental well-being, and emotional resilience are the foundation of any transformation.
Incorporate self-care practices into your daily routine—meditate, exercise, eat well, and get enough sleep. Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup.
3. Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
Reinvention requires courage. Staying within your comfort zone might feel safe, but it often leads to stagnation. Challenge yourself to take risks—whether it’s starting that business you’ve been dreaming about, signing up for a dance class, or travelling solo for the first time. Growth happens when you push boundaries. Embrace the uncertainty; it’s a sign that you’re moving in the right direction.
8. Leverage Technology for Growth 2025 is set to be a year of technological advancements. From AI-powered personal assistants to apps that track your habits, technology can be your greatest ally in the reinvention process.
Use productivity tools like Notion organise your goals, apps like Headspace for mindfulness, or Duolingo to learn a new language. The possibilities are endless.
9. Celebrate Small Wins
Reinvention is a journey, not an overnight transformation. Celebrate every milestone, no matter how small. Did you finally stick to a morning routine for a week? Reward yourself. Achieved your monthly fitness goal? Treat yourself to a relaxing spa day. Recognising your progress keeps you motivated and reinforces positive behaviour.
10. Keep an Open Mind
Lastly, embrace flexibility. Life is unpredictable, and sometimes the path to reinvention takes unexpected turns. Be open to new experiences, even if they don’t align perfectly with your initial plan. Often, the detours lead to the most rewarding destinations.
WHAT NIGERIAN
MEN ARE WEARING IN 2025
The Nigerian fashion scene in 2025 is an unapologetic celebration of individuality, culture, and style. Men’s fashion, once viewed as a quieter counterpart to the more dynamic women’s market, has become a dazzling spectacle of creativity. Today, Nigerian men are not just dressing— they’re making statements.
Let’s take a closer look at what’s hot, who’s
influencing the trends, and how Nigerian men are rewriting the rules of style this year.
The Resurgence of Native Wears with a Modern Twist
In 2025, the allure of agbada, senator styles, and buba is stronger than ever. However, these aren’t your grandfather’s outfits. Designers are taking these traditional ensembles and reimagining them with slimmer fits, unexpected fabrics, and futuristic embellishments. Brands like Ugo Monye and Mai Atafo have perfected this balance, catering to a generation that’s proud of its heritage but loves global trends.
The Ankara Revolution Ankara has always been central to Nigerian fashion, but in 2025, it’s getting a high-fashion makeover. Men are experimenting with Ankara jackets, tailored shorts, and even sneakers made with Ankara detailing. Designers are mixing Ankara with other fabrics, like denim and leather, for a hybrid look that feels fresh and innovative.
Athleisure as Everyday Wear
Athleisure has gone beyond gym wear—it’s now a wardrobe staple. In 2025, Nigerian men are rocking two-piece sets, hoodies, and track pants in luxurious fabrics like velour and satin. These pieces come in vibrant colours and are styled with highend sneakers, designer shades, and minimalist gold chains.
Jewellery and Accessories
Gone are the days when Nigerian men’s accessories were limited to wristwatches. This year, gold chains, layered beads, and statement rings are dominating. Eyewear is another standout. Oversized aviators, colored lenses, and even bejeweled frames are adding flair to outfits. Watches are bolder, often with colourful straps or larger faces that double as conversation starters. Another major player? Bags. From crossbody satchels to oversized totes, bags are no longer just practical; they’re a statement piece. Louis Vuitton and Dior are leading the charge with collections that redefine what men’s bags can be.
Luxury Tailoring
If there’s one thing Nigerian men are not shying away from, it’s making a bold entrance. Luxury tailoring has seen a major evolution, with a preference for double-breasted suits in daring colours like deep purple and forest green. Fabrics are richer, textures bolder, and cuts sharper. Accessories like pocket watches, lapel pins, and layered necklaces add a touch of vintage glamour to these modern suits.
The Influence of Social Media Of course, much of what Nigerian men are wearing is influenced by what they see on social media. Platforms like Instagram and TikTok have turned everyday men into style icons, with hashtags like #NaijaStyle trending weekly. Influencers like Akin Faminu and Ebuka Obi-Uchendu continue to inspire, while new faces bring fresh energy to the scene.
The streets of Lagos, Abuja, and Port Harcourt are alive with bold graphics, oversized fits, and nods to hip-hop culture. In 2025, Nigerian streetwear is not just about looking cool—it’s a cultural movement.
Think oversized shirts with wide-leg pants or joggers. Streetwear labels like Ash Luxe will continue to dominate, but newer brands like Magnum Man will gain traction with collections that fuse Nigerian proverbs, slogans, and modern typography. Accessories like bucket hats, chunky sneakers, and crossbody bags add the perfect finishing touch to these effortlessly cool looks.
2025 DECOR TRENDS: CREATING SPACES THAT FEEL LIKE HOME
If there’s one overarching theme this year, it’s creating spaces that evoke comfort, warmth, and a deep sense of personal connection. Gone are the days of rigid, overly curated interiors. Instead, the focus has shifted toward a more organic, authentic approach to decorating—a philosophy that makes your home feel truly like home. So, what’s in store for 2025? Let’s take a look at the top decor trends that promise to transform your space into a cosy haven.
1. Earthy Tones with a Twist Neutral colours are back, but not in the stark, sterile way you might remember. Think soft, earthy shades like terracotta, sage green, muted gold, and clay, but paired with unexpected pops of vibrant hues—mustard yellow, deep teal, or even burnt orange. These warm tones create a grounded, calming atmosphere while still allowing for playful accents that reflect your personality.
For those hesitant to commit to bold walls, incorporating these colours through throw pillows, rugs, or artwork can achieve the same effect without feeling overwhelming.
2. Biophilic Design: Nature but Elevated
Biophilic design continues to dominate, and in 2025, it’s all about bringing nature indoors in new and innovative ways. Beyond adding a few plants (although they’re still a must), this year’s trend emphasises natural textures and materials like reclaimed wood, jute, rattan, and stone.
Consider incorporating vertical gardens, large potted trees, or even small water features to introduce a sense of serenity and connection to the outdoors.
3. Multifunctional Spaces for Modern Living
As remote work and hybrid lifestyles remain prevalent, homes must be as flexible as those living in them. Think living rooms that double as home offices, kitchens with builtin homework nooks, or bedrooms featuring cosy reading corners. Furniture is also getting smarter, with modular designs that can be rearranged to suit different needs.
Look for pieces like foldaway desks, extendable dining tables, and sofas that can transform into guest beds. Function meets form in the best way possible.
4. Layers of Texture
In 2025, it’s all about layering textures to create depth and visual interest. Smooth surfaces like marble or glass are juxtaposed with rougher, more tactile materials like boucle, velvet, or woven textiles. This combination creates a balanced yet inviting space.
5. Statement Lighting
Lighting is no longer just a functional element; it’s a design feature in its own right. Oversized pendants, sculptural chandeliers, and quirky floor lamps are stealing the spotlight this year. The goal is to make lighting not only illuminate your space but also spark conversation.
6. Personalisation and Storytelling
Cookie-cutter designs are officially out. In 2025, interiors are all about telling your story. This means incorporating personal touches like heirloom furniture, travel souvenirs, or artwork that resonates with you. Gallery walls featuring family photos or a curated collection of prints are a great way to showcase your unique aesthetic. Personalisation doesn’t stop at decor—custom furniture and bespoke pieces are becoming more accessible, allowing homeowners to create one-of-a-kind items that reflect their taste and lifestyle.
7. The Return of Vintage Vintage and antique decor are
making a huge comeback, and for good reason. These pieces add character, charm, and a sense of history to any space. In 2025, the trend leans toward mixing vintage finds with contemporary furniture for a balanced look.
8. Wellness-Focused Interiors
the focus has shifted toward a more organic, authentic approach to decorating—a philosophy that makes your home feel truly like home. So, what’s in store for 2025? Let’s take a look at the top decor trends that promise to transform your space into a cosy haven.
The focus on mental and physical well-being has extended into our homes. Expect to see spaces designed with mindfulness in mind—meditation corners, spalike bathrooms, and soothing colour palettes that encourage relaxation.
Invest in soft, plush furnishings like oversized cushions and cosy throws. Incorporate calming scents with candles or diffusers, and prioritise areas in your home where you can unwind after a long day.
9. Bold Patterns and Wall Treatments
Statement walls are taking over in 2025, with bold wallpaper patterns, textured finishes, and hand-painted murals becoming popular choices. These add a splash of personality to any room and can serve as a focal point without requiring a complete overhaul.
10. The Heart of the Home: Kitchens and Dining
Kitchens are becoming cosier and more communal. Open shelving, warm wood tones, and farmhousestyle sinks are all the rage, alongside statement backsplashes that double as art pieces. Dining areas are being designed to foster connection, with large, welcoming tables that encourage family meals and gatherings.
THE LOOK OF 2025
TRENDS AND STYLES DEFINING THE YEAR
Fashion has always been a cycle, echoing the trends of the past while offering glimpses of the future. Yet, every once in a while, a year emerges that doesn’t just follow the rules—it rewrites them. Welcome to 2025, a year that promises to push the boundaries of creativity and redefine how we approach personal style. In this era, fashion is no longer about fitting in but about standing out. It’s about celebrating individuality, championing authenticity, and using clothing as a canvas for self-expression.
This year, the focus is on embracing diversity and blurring the lines between the past, present, and future. Sustainability continues to dominate as the heartbeat of the fashion world. Designers are leaning into eco-conscious materials, circular fashion practices, and innovative production techniques that respect the planet. At the same time, gender fluidity is taking centre stage, with collections that transcend traditional binaries. Comfort remains non-negotiable, but it’s being reimagined with a sophisticated twist. Think elevated athleisure that transitions seamlessly from gym to gala or romantic textures that blend softness with strength. Bold, sporty silhouettes meet delicate fabrics, creating a unique fusion that’s both practical and poetic. Meanwhile, nostalgia gets a modern makeover as retro prints and vintage-inspired pieces are updated with contemporary aesthetics, reminding us that the past can still inspire the future.
Whether it’s through striking colours, experimental shapes, or thoughtful craftsmanship, 2025 is the year of fearless innovation. It’s a call to embrace the bold, the unexpected, and the unapologetically you. As we dive into this exciting fashion forecast, one thing is clear: the rules have changed, and the spotlight is on you to make them your own.
Romantic Fabrics and Textures
Romance is making a subtle yet powerful comeback. Think soft elegance rather than overthe-top frills: organza blouses, chiffon maxi dresses, and delicate lace details combined with modern cuts. Fabrics like velvet and silk, with their rich textures, are stepping into everyday wardrobes, adding depth and sophistication. The dreamy vibe of these pieces is grounded by their versatility, making them suitable for evening events or casual daytime outings.
Asymmetrical Cuts
Symmetry is out, and irregularity is in. Asymmetrical cuts are taking over, offering a touch of drama and intrigue to otherwise simple pieces. From one-shoulder tops to skirts with uneven hemlines, these designs cater to individuals looking to stand out. The beauty of this trend lies in its versatility: a minimalist asymmetrical dress paired with understated accessories can transform into a statement outfit.
Roomy Jeans
Skinny jeans may still occupy a corner of the closet, but 2025 is the year of wide-leg, roomy denim. Baggy jeans with a tailored edge take centre stage, paired with fitted tops to balance the silhouette. Think vintage washes, high-waisted cuts, and creative distressing—the kind that adds character without feeling overdone. The layering game has also evolved, with cropped blazers or tucked-in button-downs bringing a polished yet relaxed vibe.
The Mini Bag
The mini bag trend continues its reign, evolving to become smaller and more functional than ever. Designers are treating these pint-sized accessories as wearable art, crafting them with bold shapes, unexpected materials, and vibrant colours. Despite their size, these bags pack a punch with clever compartments for essentials like AirPods and lip gloss.
Shades of Yellow
Yellow emerges as the color of the year, injecting energy and optimism into every outfit. From soft buttercream hues to bold sunflower tones, yellow dominates everything from flowing dresses to tailored suits and statement accessories. Whether paired with neutrals for a subtle touch or worn head-totoe for maximum impact, this sunny shade brings warmth and vibrancy to 2025 wardrobes.
Full-On Florals
In 2025, bold, oversized floral prints will be worn year-round, appearing on everything from tailored suits to maxi dresses. Designers mix florals with stripes or polka dots for a modern twist, proving that this perennial favourite can still surprise and delight.
All-White Everything
Clean, minimalist, and undeniably chic, all-white ensembles continue to reign supreme. Whether it’s a crisp suit, a flowing dress, or layered separates, this trend is about playing with textures and silhouettes. A pop of colour in accessories can add interest, but keeping it monochromatic ensures a sleek, timeless look.
The Strapless Dress
The strapless dress is a standout silhouette for 2025.
Structured bodices and flowing skirts create a flattering and elegant look, perfect for formal events or nights out. This timeless style feels contemporary when paired with bold accessories like chunky necklaces or oversized earrings. It’s a trend that celebrates the grace and confidence of its wearer.
Earth-Inspired
Color Palettes
Earth tones like terracotta, sage green, and clay dominate collections, reflecting a deeper connection to nature. These palettes are versatile, easy to style, and a reminder that fashion can be both beautiful and responsible.
Deep Shades of Red
From oxblood to crimson, deep reds bring drama and sophistication to 2025 fashion. These rich hues appear in evening gowns, jackets, and accessories, offering a bold alternative to classic black. Deep reds are versatile and exude confidence, making them a must-have for any wardrobe.
Mocha Mousse
Soft, creamy browns like mocha mousse offer a neutral yet luxurious option. This versatile hue works well in tailored pieces, flowing dresses, and even accessories. Mocha mousse is understated yet impactful, making it a staple for the year.
Fringe Galore
Fringe is swinging back into style, adding movement and energy to outfits. From jackets to skirts and even bags, fringe in 2025 is about experimenting with different lengths and materials. Leather and suede are popular choices, giving this playful trend a modern twist.
RELATIONSHIP RESOLUTIONS: SMALL HABITS FOR BIG LOVE
When people think of resolutions, their minds often dart to fitness goals, career ambitions, or financial targets. Rarely do we hear anyone say, “This year, I’m going to be a better partner.” Yet, relationships—whether romantic, familial, or platonic—are the bedrock of our lives. A fulfilling relationship requires intentional effort, but the good news is it’s not about grand gestures. Small habits, practised consistently, can nurture big love and deepen your bond with your partner.
If your relationship could use a refresh, here are a few small yet impactful habits to adopt for a stronger, healthier connection.
1. Say “Thank You,” and Mean It
Gratitude is the glue that holds relationships together. It’s easy to take your partner’s daily efforts for granted, especially in long-term relationships. A simple “thank you” for things like making coffee, handling errands, or even just being a great listener can go a long way. It’s not about the size of the act but the acknowledgement. Genuine gratitude shows that you see and appreciate your partner’s presence in your life.
2. Prioritise Physical Touch
Physical intimacy isn’t just about sex—it’s about connection. A hug in the morning, holding hands during a walk, or a gentle touch on the arm during a conversation can foster warmth and security. Research shows that physical touch releases oxytocin, the “love hormone,” which helps reduce stress and strengthen bonds.
3. Practice Active Listening
We’ve all been guilty of half-listening while scrolling through our phones or mentally rehearsing a response before our partner finishes speaking. Active listening means being fully present and engaged. It’s more than just hearing words; it’s about understanding emotions and intentions.
“I feel unheard when I’m sharing my thoughts, and it makes me sad.”
This approach shifts the focus from blame to emotion, making it easier for your partner to understand your perspective without getting defensive.
7. Keep the Playfulness Alive
Remember when you first started dating, and everything felt light and fun? That spark doesn’t have to fade. Injecting playfulness into your relationship can keep things exciting and help you bond. Share inside jokes, try new hobbies together, or plan surprise date nights.
4. Check In Regularly Life moves fast, and getting caught up in routines is easy. Relationship check-ins are a great way to pause and reconnect. Set aside time weekly or monthly to talk about how you both feel in the relationship. Ask each other questions like:
What’s been working well for us?
What can we do better?
How can I support you more?
These conversations might feel awkward at first, but they foster openness and prevent issues from festering.
5. Celebrate Small Wins
Not every day is going to be a grand adventure, but every day does have its little victories. Maybe your partner nailed a big presentation, tried a new recipe that turned out great, or finally fixed that leaky faucet. Celebrate these moments! Cheer them on, and let them know their wins are your wins, too. Small celebrations show that you’re paying attention to their journey and are genuinely rooting for them.
6. Use “I” Statements During Conflicts Disagreements are inevitable, but how you handle them makes all the difference. Instead of pointing fingers with statements like, “You never listen to me!” try reframing with “I” statements:
8. Learn Each Other’s Love Language Dr. Gary Chapman’s The 5 Love Languages highlights how people express and receive love differently: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Understanding your partner’s love language can help you show love in ways that resonate with them. For instance, if your partner’s love language is quality time, setting aside undistracted moments to connect will mean more to them than any material gift.
9. Put the Phone Away Technology is a double-edged sword in relationships. While it keeps us connected, it can also create distance. Scrolling through social media or answering work emails during dinner can send the message that your partner isn’t a priority.
10. Keep Evolving Together
Personal growth is important, but growing together is essential for a thriving relationship. Share your dreams and goals, and find ways to support each other’s aspirations. Whether it’s learning a new skill, travelling to a bucket-list destination, or tackling a fitness challenge, working towards something together strengthens your bond.
When Nigerian designer Florentina Agu launched Hertunba in 2020, she had a simple mission: to craft women’s wear that radiates power, strength, and elegance while honouring traditional Nigerian textiles and sustainable practices. Fast-forward to the end of 2024, and her vision has become a reality. Hertunba is no longer a quiet contender in the fashion space but a cult favorite, adorning the wardrobes of Nigerian it girls and international influencers alike. It’s the brand everyone is talking about—
FROM HIDDEN GEM TO CULT FAVORITE HERTUNBA
With its blend of artistry, sustainability, and community-driven ethos, Hertunba has gone from being a quiet contender to a roaring force in fashion, proving that with the right vision, the world truly is your runway. and wearing. At the heart of Hertunba’s meteoric rise is its timeless yet striking aesthetic. Every piece is designed for the ambitious, confident woman who seeks sophistication without sacrificing femininity. Florentina’s bold use of akwete—a handwoven textile traditionally crafted by women in Abia State—has become a defining feature of the brand. These fabrics, paired with her signature architectural cuts and elegant tailoring, have set Hertunba apart in a sea of trend-chasing labels. “Hertunba represents the future of Nigerian fashion,” says Ozinna Anumudu, a stockist of the brand on Ozinna.com. “Florentina’s designs are
not just beautiful; they tell a story of culture, sustainability, and empowerment.” Florentina’s passion for fashion began at a young age. By 13, she was taking dressmaking classes, perfecting the craft that would later define her career. However, her real lightbulb moment came in her third year of college, where she discovered the transformative power of clothing. As faculty president, she noticed how donning sharp suits gave her an undeniable edge in meetings and debates. It wasn’t just about looking good—it was about feeling good. That realisation inspired her to build a brand that would offer women worldwide the same confidence she had
experienced.
The Hertunba atelier, nestled in the heart of Lagos, is where the magic happens. A visit there is not just about shopping; it’s an experience. Unlike traditional made-to-order practices, clients can walk into the studio and leave with a piece almost instantly, bridging the gap between bespoke fashion and accessibility. This immediacy has been instrumental in converting first-time buyers into loyal advocates.
However, Hertunba’s success story is incomplete without the role of social media.
Florentina has mastered the art of branding, using platforms like Instagram to showcase
behind-the-scenes moments—be it fabric sourcing, styling sessions, or high-energy photoshoots. This transparency has built an emotional connection with her audience, making them feel part of the brand’s journey. Influencers, both local and international, have also played a significant role in amplifying Hertunba’s reach. From high-profile collaborations to organic endorsements, Hertunba’s pieces are consistently popping up on fashion-forward feeds, cementing their status as wardrobe staples.
Sustainability remains a core tenet of the brand.
Florentina is deeply committed to reducing waste, often incorporating recycled and surplus
materials into her designs. This eco-conscious ethos doesn’t just make her brand more responsible—it makes it more creative. Hertunba’s standout pieces often feature unexpected details, blending luxury with a touch of rugged ingenuity. It’s a philosophy that resonates deeply with today’s environmentally aware consumers.
In 2025, the designer plans to expand Hertunba’s global presence, introduce more sustainable fabrics, and continue to honour Nigeria’s rich heritage through forward-thinking collaborations. If this past year is any indication, Hertunba is on track to become a true cult favourite—one that gives women everywhere the confidence to command any room they enter.
SUNSCREEN:
THE UNSUNG HERO OF YOUR BEAUTY REGIMEN
By Funke Babs Kufeji
If you do one thing for your skin in 2025, make it this: commit to sunscreen like it’s your Holy Grail.
As we enter a brand-new year, let’s pledge to put our skin first. Sunscreen isn’t just a vacation essential or a sunny-day backup plan; it’s a year-round guardian of your skin’s health. Whether you’re working from home, braving the winter chill, or basking in the summer sun, sunscreen is your most reliable defence against the damaging effects of UV rays. Think of it as an anti-ageing potion, a shield against skin cancer, and the ultimate glow preserver—all wrapped up in one product.
Why Sunscreen Deserves Top Billing Sunscreen often gets sidelined in favour of trendier skincare products, but it’s the MVP of any regimen. Here’s the thing: those harmful ultraviolet (UV) rays don’t take a day off. Rain, shine, or clouds they’re always lurking. Daily sunscreen application acts as a barrier, protecting your skin from sunburn, premature ageing, and, more importantly, skin cancer. Let’s be real: sun damage doesn’t wait for beach season to strike. UV radiation can penetrate through car windows, office blinds, and, yes, even on overcast days. The smart move? Make sunscreen your daily companion—your skin will thank you for it.
The Double Threat of UV Rays
To truly appreciate sunscreen, you need to understand the enemy it’s battling. There are two main types of UV rays:
• UVA Rays: The sneaky culprits that penetrate deep into the skin, causing wrinkles, dark spots, and sagging.
• UVB Rays: The ones responsible for those painful sunburns.
Both types wreak havoc on your skin’s health and beauty, with long-term exposure increasing the risk of skin cancer. And let’s not forget melanoma—the deadliest type of skin cancer that can be life-altering. Choosing a broad-spectrum sunscreen ensures you’re protected from both UVA and UVB rays, giving you peace of mind every time you step outside (or even stay indoors near a sunny window).
Slow Down Time, One Application at a Time
Ever wonder why some people seem to age gracefully?
Their secret isn’t just good genes—it’s sunscreen. The harsh truth is that UV rays accelerate skin ageing, leading to
fine lines, dark spots, and dullness. Regular sunscreen use works like a time machine, slowing ageing and keeping your complexion radiant and youthful. Want to turn heads in your 50s and beyond? Start applying sunscreen in your 20s (or now—it’s never too late!).
Sunscreen: Your All-Weather Ally Still, think sunscreen is a summer fling? Think again. The benefits of daily sunscreen use stretch far beyond avoiding sunburn at the beach. When you commit to wearing sunscreen year-round, you:
1. Lower Your Risk of Skin Cancer: This one’s a no-brainer. Sunscreen acts as your first line of defence against the potentially life-threatening effects of UV exposure.
2. Protect Against Environmental Damage: Pollution and stressors don’t just harm your lungs—they take a toll on your skin, too. Sunscreen creates a barrier, preserving your skin’s health and luminosity.
3. Keep Your Skin Youthful: By shielding against UV damage, sunscreen ensures you maintain a smooth, even complexion. It’s like a protective cloak for your skin.
Let’s Make Sunscreen a Daily Ritual In 2025, let’s change the narrative. Sunscreen isn’t just a product; it’s a lifestyle. It’s the quiet hero that ensures your skin remains flawless, radiant, and, most importantly, healthy. The best part? Incorporating sunscreen into your daily routine is easy. Apply it as the final step in your skincare regimen, before your makeup, or even on makeup-free days.
So here’s to a year of better skin and smarter choices. Let sunscreen take centre stage—it’s the ultimate act of selfcare. After all, glowing skin is always in season.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO HAVE A NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION
By Funke Babs Kufeji
It’s that time of year again—the glitter of holiday lights fades, the fireworks have long fizzled out, and the world seems to be pressuring you to reinvent yourself overnight. Everywhere you look, people are drawing up lists of ambitious goals, and it feels like if you’re not jotting down a resolution by January 1st, you’ve already failed the imaginary race to become a “new you.” But let’s pause momentarily and ask—who made these rules? Life doesn’t operate on a strict calendar, so why should your personal growth have a deadline?
The truth is that the idea of New Year’s resolutions has been around for thousands of years. Ancient Babylonians started the tradition, promising their gods to return borrowed tools and pay their debts. Even back then, self-improvement was trendy. But here’s the thing: we’re not living in ancient Babylon. Traditions evolve, and maybe it’s time to update this one to fit our modern lives—a time where burnout, comparison, and unrealistic expectations lurk around every corner.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever set a resolution so massive that even a Marvel superhero would struggle to achieve it. “This year, I’ll lose 50 pounds, run a marathon, start a business, and learn Mandarin—by February!” Sound familiar?
Influencers flaunt their “New Year, New Me” transformations, gym rats post their six-pack abs, and detox tea promotions are everywhere. But let’s not forget that behind every glossy Instagram highlight reel lies an unfiltered reality that often involves struggles, setbacks, and less glamorous moments. When we compare ourselves to others, we let the thief of joy sneak into our lives. It’s time to change the narrative: your worth isn’t measured by anyone else’s achievements, and your journey is beautifully yours, unfiltered and real. Here’s the radical idea: what if we started the New Year with self-compassion instead of self-criticism? Self-compassion is the quiet voice that tells you, “It’s okay to be where you are right now.” It’s the understanding that progress isn’t linear, mistakes are part of the process, and you don’t have to strive for perfection to be worthy. Practising mindfulness—being present and fully embracing the moment— can help you reconnect with yourself and uncover what truly matters. Acceptance isn’t about settling; it’s about meeting yourself with kindness, without the harsh judgment that resolutions often invite.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever set a resolution so massive that even a Marvel superhero would struggle to achieve it.
“This year, I’ll lose 50 pounds, run a marathon, start a business, and learn Mandarin—by February!” Sound familiar?
These lofty goals often lead to frustration, guilt, and, let’s be real, a late-night rendezvous with a pint of ice cream. Let’s break the cycle. Instead of setting ourselves up for disappointment, maybe we should focus on smaller, meaningful steps—or ditch the resolutions altogether.
Much of the pressure to make grand resolutions doesn’t even come from within. It’s fueled by the loud hum of societal expectations and a never-ending game of comparison. Social media, with its perfectly curated posts, only makes it worse.
So, as the New Year looms, let’s rewrite the script. You don’t need a laundry list of goals to have a meaningful year. You don’t need to chase after resolutions that feel more like punishments than promises. What you need is a little grace, a bit of humour, and the courage to move at your own pace. Instead of focusing on a checklist, focus on what makes you feel alive, curious, and authentic.
The clock striking midnight doesn’t need to symbolise a race to become someone new. Maybe it’s simply a gentle nudge to keep growing, learning, and showing up as the person you already are—flaws and all. Here’s to a resolution-free New Year filled with small joys, big laughs, and the freedom to just be. Cheers to that!