Tevery time you blink, another star-studded couple has either announced their engagement or tied the knot. These weddings have ranged from intimate gatherings to grandiose celebrations, each one offering its own unique charm and setting new trends in fashion and lifestyle.
A Toast To Tying The Knot
Sure, any wedding is a lovely spectacle, but when you add a dash of celebrity glamour, the whole affair escalates to epic proportions. In the first half of 2024, some of our favourite celebrities really went the extra mile to craft the weddings of their dreams, sending everyone into a frenzy—and yes, we absolutely loved every minute of it, and that’s why we have a cover feature today, celebrating every one of them.
Each ceremony wasn’t just an event; it was THE event, taking the internet by storm and giving us major wedding goals.
With social media capturing every nanosecond, those not lucky enough to make the VIP guest list still got front-row seats to all the action. Whether we were reacting with shock or a bit of awe, one thing was certain: none of us could simply scroll by without feeling something.
You know, sometimes, this digital window into weddings these days makes me wonder about celebrity marriages from days gone by - the ones that occurred just beyond the reach of social media’s pervasive gaze. How did the news travel then? Gossip columns? Exclusive magazine features? Whispered speculations at cocktail parties? It’s intriguing to think about how different the public’s engagement might have been in the era before smartphones and live-streaming. Do you sometimes wonder, too?
Here at Thisday Style, we’re not just toasting to these spectacular weddings; we’re raising our glasses to the marriages they signify—may they be as enchanting and enduring as the festivities that marked their beginnings.
And for those planning to tie the knot in the latter half of 2024, remember: the essence of your day lies in the love you share, though a bit of flair never hurt anybody!
Here’s to love, laughter, and a
Opinion AGE AIN’T NOTHING BUT A NUMBER
By Funke Babs Kufeji
People often believe that age plays a significant role in relationships and that there is a certain acceptable age gap between partners as set by societal norms. However, over the years, the idea that age is just a number when it comes to relationships has become more popular. This position suggests that the success and viability of a relationship should not be decided based on the age differences of the people involved.
Time and time again, we have seen it true that age is nothing but a number as relationships centre mainly on maturity and compatibility, which, to many, are considered the most important factors of age-gap relationships. However, emotional maturity does not depend on people’s ages; similarly, this does not necessarily mean that they will be compatible. Some people may relate better with people who are younger or older than they are, and such arguments challenge the notion of age as the determinant of a successful relationship.
ine compatibility rather than societal expectations if we accept the idea that age is just a number. Age should not be seen as a limiting factor only as long as both partners are happy and fulfilled in their relationship. What matters most are love, respect and understanding shared by partners despite their age difference.
Additionally, when life expectancy increases, and healthier living practices are observed, many partners’ relationships have significant age gaps. Age differences can still exist between couples while they enjoy a fulfilling, loving relationship. If both individuals are adults who freely agree with each other’s values, aspirations, and shared plans, nothing can stop them from having mature, satisfying relations regardless of age.
While age might play a role in relationships, it must not be the only determinant for success. Relationships can be formed based on genu-
It is important to remember that one’s age is just one part of his or her identity; it should not cover other characteristics that make them unique. Real love does not have any limits such as age and can thrive where partners encourage and uplift one another. As long as there is mutual respect, communication, and an agreed-upon future vision, then ages cannot stand between the growth and happiness of a couple. By embracing each individual’s uniqueness regardless of age, it is possible to establish deeper and more meaningful connections across different societal norms and expectations.
When we focus on who a person is as opposed to their age, life can be transformed in ways that make it much richer. Instead of being discouraged from forming meaningful relationships by age, it should be viewed as an asset because the older one gets, the more experiences one accumulates, and the wiser one becomes. In so doing, we will have developed a relationship founded on a common understanding, empathy and growth of each partner’s uniqueness. Love is boundless; therefore, when we do away with stereotypical thoughts about age, our love can become limitless and transformational.
However, emotional maturity does not depend on people’s ages; similarly, this does not necessarily mean that they will be compatible.
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By Dr. Kemi DaSilva-Ibru
Welcome to the WARIF Survivor Stories Series, a monthly feature where stories of survivors of rape and sexual violence are shared to motivate and encourage survivors to speak their truth without the fear of judgment or stigmatisation and to educate the public on the sheer magnitude of this problem in our society. The Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF) is a non-profit organisation set up in response to the extremely high incidence of rape, sexual violence, and human trafficking of young girls and women in our society. WARIF is tackling this issue holistically, covering health, education, and community service initiatives.
WARIF aids survivors of rape and sexual violence through the WARIF Centre - a haven where trained professionals are present full-time, six days a week, including public holidays, to offer immediate medical care, forensic medical examinations, psycho-social counselling, and welfare services, which include shelter, legal aid, and vocational skills training. These services are provided FREE of charge to any survivor who walks into the centre.
Embracing my Journey at 21
My name is Arafat, and I’m a 300-level student studying Architecture at one of Nigeria’s prestigious universities. It all began when my parents acquired a new apartment in a quiet suburb of Lagos state, managed by the estate’s service apartment. We were filled with excitement as we prepared to move into our new home. The prospect of a fresh start in a different neighbourhood brought a mix of anticipation and nerves. For me, it meant balancing my studies with adjusting to a new environment, while for my family, it meant embracing a new chapter in our lives.
As we settled into the apartment, we quickly realised the intricacies of estate living. From getting acquainted with the neighbours to navigating the services provided by the estate management, each day brought its own set of challenges and discoveries. Despite the initial adjustments, we found ourselves growing fond of our new surroundings, appreciating the peace and community spirit that characterised our suburban enclave. Little did we know that our new home would become the backdrop for unexpected adventures and memorable experiences, shaping our lives in ways we hadn’t anticipated.
when he was done. Not long after, I heard footsteps and a knock on my door. I asked who it was, and the handyman said he needed my attention. I told him to go downstairs and that I would join him soon. Unknown to me, he did not leave because as opened the door, he was standing there; was surprised when he showed me a knife that he was going to kill me if shouted, that should cooperate that he was going to have sexual intercourse with me. was so scared that I was shaking and nodding to all his instructions while he asked me to go back into my room, remove my clothes and lie down on my bed, and I did. He removed his trousers and pounced on me while he raped me several times until he was satisfied. I was crying in pain throughout the time; it was a painful experience. When he was down raping me, he further threatened me with the knife, and then he left. was shaken and weak for a while, and then I crawled to the kitchen to get water, so I regained some strength. After taking the water, coordinated a bit and called my mom, who rushed back from work. She alerted the estate management. They joined us at the police station, where my family reported a case of sexual molestation, and the police went after the perpetrator who had absconded. We were immediately referred to the WARIF Centre for medical assessment, treatment and counselling.
We arrived at the centre, and the medical personnel addressed me professionally; I was accessed medically and given treatments and psycho-social counselling for my mental and psychological wellbeing. At the counselling session, the counsellor informed me that what happened to me was not my fault but that of the perpetrator. I was hopeless at that time in my healing journey, but the counsellor gave me the courage to live again. had other counselling sessions, and I also joined the Group therapy session where developed a sense of belonging with other survivors in a confidential and serene environment. I discovered that I was not alone and that WARIF was there to walk the healing journey with me and the other survivors. All these services at the WARIF Centre are rendered free of charge.
A few weeks after our arrival, our water system malfunctioned and urgently needed fixing. I contacted the maintenance officer of the apartment complex, who promptly dispatched a plumber to address the issue. It was mid-morning when the doorbell rang, signalling the plumber’s arrival. I greeted him at the door, a slight feeling of relief washing over me, knowing help had arrived. Upstairs, my mother was preparing for her day, and I was in the kitchen fixing her breakfast before she headed out to work. My elder brother was away on a work trip, and my father was also out of town. remained at home because my university had just concluded for the semester.
As the plumber worked on the water system, my mother hurried downstairs, already dressed for work. She asked me to pack her breakfast quickly, knowing she was running late. Hastily, prepared her food, and she gave me a quick hug of gratitude before rushing out the door. Before leaving, she made it clear to the handyman that he could leave once the repairs were completed, trusting that he would finish promptly. Unbeknown to us, this routine repair would soon reveal unexpected twists in our quiet suburban life. I told the handyman that was going upstairs and would be back
ÒLÒTURÉ:
The Journey highlights the Global Issue of Human Trafficking
After its critically acclaimed prequel of the same title in 2019, Òlòturé is back, but this time as a limited series. The much anticipated sequel was released to Netflix on the 28th of June and maintained its previous director, Kenneth Gyang who did a laudable job on the series. One may want to question why it’s a series, but walk with us briefly, and we’ll let you know if it is worth it.
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The police, with the help of the estate management, caught the perpetrator and arrested him. The police case charged the case to the court, and I am confident that the court jury will sentence him for crimes committed against me at the next hearing, and this will serve as a deterrent to others.
was experiencing feelings of shame, fear, moodiness, loss of concentration, appetite, and flashbacks when this first happened, but gradually, with the help of the counselling session and coping mechanisms taught at the counselling sessions, I have overcome those symptoms, and I am doing well academically. I am grateful to my parents, the police force, and especially the WARIF team for their laudable work in the SGBV space. have joined the volunteer team of WARIF, and am now an advocate for GBV. Thanks to the WARIF team!
*Real name of the survivor changed for confidentiality
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Òlòturé: The Journey picks up where the original left off, diving deeper into the dark, harrowing world of human trafficking, prostitution and now, illegal immigrants.
The sequel follows journalist Òlòturé (Sharon Ooja), who has to continue the journey to Europe with other girls after she was caught trying to run away.
Of the fifteen girls booked to go to Europe, one was beheaded after she was caught with a phone, while the other managed to get away with the help of Òlòturé, leaving thirteen girls to continue the journey.
This becomes a problem for all involved as the client in Italy had paid for fifteen girls. Òlòturé’s book documenting her experience also landed in the wrong hands, never to see the light of day. This further causes a rift between all parties involved in the trafficking, causing them to turn against one another.
Òlòturé on the other hand, finds herself constantly battling to stay alive, enduring one near-death experience after another, all while forging new friendships and acquiring a few more enemies.
Review
Òlòturé: The Journey is definitely not what you’re expecting. It’s not Òlòturé returning to Nigeria and getting awarded for her professionalism and dedication as a journalist. It is so much more expository, unveiling harsh truths of the world we currently live in.
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‘Òlòturé: The Journey’ is a gripping continuation of its predecessor, maintaining the intense, raw narrative that captivated audiences in the first film. However, the sequel deviates slightly from its original to become more of an exposition of illegal migration’s harsh realities and dangers.
Director Kenneth Gyang masterfully weaves a story that is both emotionally wrenching and socially significant, shedding light on the brutality of illegal migration.
The cinematography, locations, VFX and set helped to capture the harrowing experience of illegal migrants perfectly. Each picture and scene does the most to emphasize the tense atmosphere that is present throughout the movie. The sound design and score further amplify the emotional impact, creating an immersive experience that stays with the audience long after the credits roll.
This series is also one of the very few Nigerian films that engaged locations across multiple African countries.
We saw Òlòturé and her companions literally go through
hell and more hell as they journeyed from Nigeria to the Benin Republic to Niger and then Libya. Through deserts and sand storms, oceans and rocky hills, we see in the different characters their desperation, frustrations, fear, uncertainty, doggedness, brutality, a will to survive, hopes and dreams, and so much more. It is fine storytelling from Kenneth Gyang and everyone working on the movie. Sharon Ooja delivers a convincing performance, portraying Òlòturé with a depth that draws viewers into her perilous journey.
The supporting cast, including the cameos, all held their own as well. Cameos because Ebony’s life is no stranger to spending budgets on unlikely yet all-star cameos.
The supporting cast, including Ikechukwu Onunaku, Daniel Etim Effiong, Beverly Osu, Omoni Oboli, as well as newcomers Stan Nze, Anarachukwu Onoh, Bucci Franklin, Bukola Oladipupo, and more, all delivered astounding performances.
These amazing actors, in their various roles, added layers of complexity to the narrative by bringing their individual characters’ struggles and strengths to the forefront.
Òlòturé: The Journey is definitely not what you’re expecting. It’s not Òlòturé returning to Nigeria and getting awarded for her professionalism and dedication as a journalist. It is so much more expository, unveiling harsh truths of the world we currently live in.
There is also the part of trouble looming within the human trafficking syndicates back in Nigeria as they all turn against each other. A flat-out war is definitely brewing, and Kenneth Gyang has us all excited for the next season.
We’re definitely gutted that the season only has three episodes. While we’re rolling our eyes at the fact that we’re likely getting multiple seasons, we’re secretly eagerly waiting for the rest of the series to drop because Kenneth Gyang decided to be an evil genius with the ability to leave the audience in hungry anticipation of where next Òlòturé’s journey takes her.
At this point, it’s probably safe to say that we’re all on this journey with her, so petition to rename it ‘Òlòturé: Our Journey.’
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By Bukola Amoboye
5 Timeless Beauty Secrets That Will Forever Be Useful
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
One of the remarkable things about women is their constant search for beauty secrets, whatever they may be. Derma skin rollers and other beauty tools aside, women are always up for trying new products and procedures that promise eternal youth and beauty. This fascination with beauty has been a constant element in the changing world of beauty technologies. Fashion may come and go, but the following beauty secrets have been passed down from previous generations and are likely to continue for quite some time.
Protecting Your Skin from The Sun
Understanding the cumulative adverse effects of sun exposure over time is imperative, no matter which skin colour or type. Sunburns escalate the use of unstable oxygen and nitrogen chemical molecules, known as free radicals, and antioxidants increase with sun exposure. Too much exposure to these radicals can cause skin cancer, ageing skin, immune suppression, and DNA mutations.
Always Use Heat Protectant
Not only does the skin need heat protection, but the hair does, too. One of the best timeless beauty secrets is the advice to constantly put heat protectant on your hair when using hot styling tools. This secret has been around for many years and, to date, remains the best advice to keep hair damage-free and healthy.
Sleep on Silk Pillowcases
Sleeping on silk pillowcases is another classic beauty tip that benefits both skin and hair. It is a beauty tip that has stood firm and will resonate for many years to come. Sleeping on a silk pillowcase will cause less bedhead and give you softer skin.
Take off Make up Before Bed
This skincare tip remains wise and valid since we know wearing make-up to bed and exposing the skin to free radical damage
causes premature ageing and other skin care concerns. Washing your make-up off before bed should be a strict rule that you should never break if you want to prevent all these problems and wake up with good and glowing skin.
Get a Good Night’s Sleep
A good night’s rest is undoubtedly the most important beauty recommendation you can ever get from any woman who has vibrant, glowing skin. Lack of sleep causes dehydration, reduces barrier functioning, accelerates sebum production, enlarges pores, gives a dull complexion, and causes under-eye bags. For healthy skin, you should sleep at least seven to nine hours uninterrupted every night.
The Clean Girl Aesthetic
The Ultimate Guide to the Clean Girl Aesthetic
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
Welcome to your new obsession: the Clean Girl Aesthetic! Imagine blending the charm of timeless femininity with a sprinkle of modern flair while keeping it refreshingly simple. This isn’t just about looking effortlessly cool; it’s about living it. It’s all about a look that says less is more, and subtle is definitely stunning.
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he Heart of the Clean Girl Aesthetic
This trend is about the “less is more” mantra, embracing “femininity without the frills.” It’s about pulling elegance from the natural, making every day effortlessly chic. The Clean Girl vibe is like your favourite pair of jeans meeting the perfect white tee—it’s simple, classic, you but on your best day, every day. Here’s how.
1. White: Your New Best Friend White isn’t just a colour; it’s a statement of sophistication and purity. While clean girls rock other hues like sage green and light pink, white is the champion—be it a crisp blouse, sleek sneakers, or that chic bag. It’s not about wearing white head-to-toe but letting it pop in just the right spots to keep your style feeling celestial.
2. Timelessly Trendy Threads
Think of clothing that transcends time— tailored blazers, airy midi dresses, and those perfect-fit capris. Clean girls set trends with minimalism that speaks volumes. Accessories? Woven pouches and totes that whisper timeless elegance.
3. The No-Makeup Makeup Look
This is the art of looking made-up without the layers. Opt for subtle enhancements like milkmaid eyeliner and natural concealer. The goal? Look like you’ve woken up this flawless. Overdone makeup? That’s a no-go in the Clean Girl book.
4. Effortless Hair for Days Simplicity reigns supreme even in hair trends. Ponytails, soft bobs, and casual updos mark the pinnacle of no-fuss beauty. It’s about looking polished with minimal effort—because who has time to fuss?
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Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Recognising Your Worth
By Bukola Amoboye
You may have heard of ‘Imposter Syndrome’ before and probably even used the term without knowing it. Let’s help you break it down.
Imposter Syndrome is a psychological issue affecting many individuals, particularly high achievers. It is characterised by persistent feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt despite evident success—basically, a lack of selfworth and confidence in one’s ability, especially when a major feat is achieved.
Individuals with Imposter Syndrome often attribute their achievements to luck rather than skill, fearing they will eventually be exposed as frauds. This phenomenon can be particularly challenging in fields where societal pressures can be intense. This condition can affect anyone, regardless of their job or social status, but it is particularly prevalent among high achievers. Common signs include:
1. Perfectionism: Setting excessively high standards and feeling like a failure when these are not met.
2. Overworking: Putting in more effort than necessary to ensure tasks are completed flawlessly.
3. Fear of Failure: Avoiding challenges due to the fear of not meeting expectations.
4. Undermining Success: Attributing success to external factors like luck or help from others.
HOW TO OVERCOME IMPOSTER SYNDROME
1. Acknowledge Your Feelings: The first step in overcoming Imposter Syndrome is recognising and acknowledging these feelings. Understand that many successful people experience self-doubt, and it doesn’t in any way diminish your achievements.
2. Reframe Your Thoughts: Challenge negative thoughts by focusing on your accomplishments and strengths. Remind yourself that you are competent and deserving of your success. You can also make confidence-boosting quotes and paste them all around you. Speak at least one of them to yourself daily.
3. Set Realistic Goals: Perfectionism can be paralysing. Set achievable goals and celebrate small victories along the way. This helps build confidence and reduces the fear of failure.
4. Seek Support: Talk to friends, family, or a mentor about your feelings. Sharing your experiences can provide reassurance and help you gain perspective.
5. Accept Compliments: Learn to accept praise and positive feedback graciously. Acknowledging compliments can reinforce your self-worth and combat negative self-perceptions.
6. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Understand that making mistakes and facing challenges are part of the growth process. Treat yourself with the compassion you would offer a friend, even in the face of mistakes.
7. Develop a Growth Mindset: Embrace the idea that skills and intelligence can be developed over time. View challenges as opportunities for growth rather than threats to your competence.
8. Limit Comparisons: Constantly comparing yourself to others can undermine your selfesteem. Focus on your unique journey and celebrate your personal progress.
5 WAYS YOU MIGHT BE ACCIDENTALLY WRECKING YOUR HAIR
By Funke Babs Kufeji
Who doesn’t dream of having healthy, lustrous hair? Think of it as the ultimate accessory, always with you. But achieving those perfect locks can be trickier than it seems. From daily habits to the very environment we live in, several stealthy culprits could be sabotaging your hair’s health. Let’s expose these hidden foes and talk about defeating them so you can truly let your hair down.
1. Rethink Your Hair Care Ritual
Are you treating your hair care routine like an afterthought? That’s a no-go. Overwashing, underconditioning, and rough towel-drying can turn your hair from fab to drab. Here’s the fix:
Settle into a routine of washing and conditioning your hair every week or two.
Imagine you’re pampering yourself at a spa—take your time to lather, rinse, and repeat gently. Never skip the conditioner; it’s like the moisturiser for your skin. Your hair will love you for it!
2. Take It Easy with the Heat
It’s great to have your flat iron or curler transform your look, but too much Heat can zap the life out of your strands. Before you style, shield your locks with a heat protectant. Also, keep the heat settings moderate; think of it as protecting something precious— because it is! This small step can ward off frizz and breakage, leaving your hair smooth and shiny.
3. Be a Smart Shopper
It might not be glamorous, but reading the labels on your hair products is a must. Watch out for hair villains like sulfates and parabens that strip moisture and irritate your scalp. Opt for kinder, gentler ingredients that treat your hair with the respect it deserves. This simple switch can make a huge difference in maintaining your hair’s natural balance.
4. Embrace Protective Styles and Accessories
Your environment can be harsh on your hair. Fight back with protective hairstyles like braids, buns, or twists that look chic and shield your strands from the elements. Don’t underestimate the power of a silk scarf or a satin pillowcase either; they reduce friction and help prevent breakage while you sleep or go about your day.
5. Don’t Fear the Scissors: Trim Regularly
Trimming might seem counterintuitive if you’re growing your hair, but regular cuts are crucial. Aim for a light trim every six to eight weeks to keep split ends at bay and maintain the health of your hair. This doesn’t speed up growth, but it does keep your hair looking neat and full—making it appear as if it’s growing faster!
The year kicked off with heartthrob Kunle Remi, whose New Year’s Day engagement announcement had fans swooning and heartbroken in equal measure. He and Tiwi exchanged vows on January 20 in an exquisite fusion of modern chic and Yoruba traditions. The ceremony was a star-studded affair, with Daniel Etim Effiong stepping in as the Best Man. What really got people talking was the striking resemblance between Tiwi and celebrated actress Omowunmi Dada—so much so that the duo now affectionately refers to each other as twins. This wedding set a high bar for elegance and cultural homage, making it a significant trendsetter.
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In February, the wedding of fashion icon Veekee James and her beau Femi turned heads with its lavishness and the bride’s display of sartorial splendour. Known for her exquisite designs, Veekee made sure that the wedding was as much a showcase of her creative prowess as it was a celebration of love. The couple’s wardrobe was personally designed by the bride, dazzling all who attended. Perhaps the most heartwarming moment was the unexpected worship session that Veekee orchestrated, adding a spiritual depth to the festivities.
Marie & Moses ‘’Bliss’’ Enang A Gospel Get-Together
March brought us the intimate yet grand wedding of gospel singer Moses Bliss to his Ghanaian bride, Marie. The couple’s love story, sparked by Marie dancing to one of Moses’ songs, is nothing short of a modern fairy tale. Their special day was marked by a deeply personal touch: a song Moses performed for Marie, highlighting the power of music in their union. This wedding was celebrated as the first of several “kingdom marriages” in the year, blending personal faith with matrimonial joy.
The first half of 2024 has been nothing short of a whirlwind, with celebrity weddings popping up almost every other day. It seems like every time you blink, another starstudded couple has either announced their engagement or tied the knot. These weddings have ranged from intimate gatherings to grandiose celebrations, each one offering its own unique charm and setting new trends in fashion and lifestyle.
They have also captivated the public’s imagination and given social media a lot to talk about. This week, we are spotlighting some of the most talked-about weddings of the year so far.
By Bukola Amoboye
Kunle & Boluwatiwi Remi A Yoruba Romance Reimagined
Veekee James & Femi Atere A Designer’s Dream Day
A Union of Souls
Theophilus Sunday, a renowned gospel artist, surprised many with his marriage to Jamaican beauty Ashlee White. Their March wedding celebrated both in Abuja and later traditionally in April, was filled with exquisite photos, stunning outfits, and elegant decor. Despite initial murmurs about Ashlee’s nationality, her undeniable charm won everyone over, proving love knows no boundaries.
A Long-Awaited Fairytale
June witnessed the grand wedding of superstar Davido and his beautiful wife, Chioma. This long-anticipated event was nothing less than a fairytale, with breathtaking outfits and a galaxy of stars in attendance. The love and happiness that enveloped the celebration were evident, making it a landmark event in the entertainment world.
The union of comedian and actress Wofai Fada with Mr. Cole may have stirred controversy, but the couple’s joy was palpable and infectious. Their wedding was a spectacular display of Efik culture, with Wofai stunning everyone in her traditional attire. The event was not just a
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Elegance Amidst Controversy Sharon & Ugo Nwoke A Showcase of Nollywood Glamour
Sharon Ooja’s June wedding to Ugo in Abuja was a glamorous affair that captured the essence of Nollywood style and elegance. Known for her impeccable fashion sense, Sharon’s multiple outfits were a feast for the eyes, each more stunning than the last. Actress Bisola Aiyeola, as the chief bridesmaid, added an emotional depth to the day with her touching speech, highlighting the beauty of friendship and love.
Ashlee & Theophilus Sunday
David & Chioma Adeleke
Wofai & Taiwo Cole
Failing To Consider Occasion Appropriateness
Don’t forget to consider occasion appropriateness when wearing black. While black is versatile, it’s essential to dress accordingly for different events. Wear structured black pieces for formal occasions and relaxed silhouettes for casual outings. Also, pay attention to dress codes and adapt your black outfit to suit the occasion.
Overlooking Accessories
Accessories can make or break an all-black ensemble. They are the cherry on top, elevating your look from basic to stylish. Don’t underestimate the power of accessories to enhance your black outfit and express your style. Add pops of colour, metallics, or statement pieces to break the monochromatic look.
Neglecting Balance
When wearing black, don’t forget about overall styling! It’s not just about the colour; it’s about creating balanced looks that flatter your body shape and personal style.
Pair black pieces with colours or patterns to add visual interest and dimension.
Common Mistakes People Make Wearing Black
Wearing black is often considered a timeless and versatile choice in fashion, but many individuals make common mistakes when donning this classic hue. From fabric selection to styling decisions, overlooking key elements can impact the overall impact of your outfit. This week, we won’t tell you how to wear black, but we will delve into the common mistakes you might be making and provide insights on how to elevate your black wardrobe game.
Neglecting Textures
Adding different textures to your black ensemble can create depth and visual interest. Mix and match textures like velvet, knit, and satin to elevate your black outfit. Feel free to experiment with textures. A combination of matte and shiny textures can play off each other beautifully.
Date Night Fashion
When it comes to date night, the stakes are high, and the opportunity to make a lasting impression is golden. Whether it’s a first date or the thousandth, what you wear can set the tone for the evening and express yourself without saying a word. Here’s how to master the art of date night fashion and ensure you leave a memorable impression every time.
Understanding the Occasion
First and foremost, consider the setting of your date. A romantic dinner at a fivestar restaurant demands a different outfit than a casual coffee date or a fun day at the movies. Dressing appropriately for the occasion shows that you’ve put thought into the evening and respect the vibe of the venue.
For a Fancy Dinner: Think sophistication and elegance. For women, a classic little black dress never goes out of style. Pair it with statement jewellery and sleek heels to add a touch of glamour. Men can opt for a well-fitted suit or a blazer paired with tailored trousers. Remember, the fit is crucial – it should enhance your silhouette without being overly tight.
Understanding Different Fabrics
Understanding the different types of fabrics can make or break your black outfit. Avoid fabrics that easily attract lint and pet hair, as they can make your sleek black look appear messy. Opt for fabrics like cotton, wool, silk, and polyester blends for black clothing. These fabrics tend to hold colour well and maintain the richness of black without fading quickly.
For a Casual Date: Keep it relaxed yet stylish. Women might choose a cute sundress or a chic blouse paired with jeans and heels. Accessories should be minimal – think a delicate necklace or a pair of stud earrings. Men can go for a smart-casual look with a crisp shirt, well-fitted jeans, and loafers. Layering with a casual jacket can add a polished touch.
Playing with Colours and Fabrics
Colour choice can convey a lot about your personality and mood. Red is often associated with passion and confidence, making it a popular choice for date night. However, don’t shy away from other colours that make you feel good. Soft pastels can evoke a sense of calm and romance, while bold colours like royal blue or emerald green can make a striking impression. Fabrics also play a crucial role in your
overall look. For a touch of luxury, consider silk or satin. These fabrics drape beautifully and add an air of elegance to any outfit. For a more casual feel, cotton or linen can keep you looking fresh and relaxed.
Attention to Detail
The little details can make a big difference. Ensure your clothes are clean, pressed, and free from any signs of wear.
Accessories should complement your outfit without overpowering it. A well-chosen watch, a stylish belt, or elegant earrings can add the perfect finishing touch.
Shoes are another critical element. They should be appropriate for the occasion and comfortable enough to keep you feeling good all night. For women, a pair of classic pumps or strappy sandals can elevate your look. Men should opt for polished loafers or stylish sneakers, depending on the formality of the date.
Confidence is Key
No matter what you wear, the most important accessory is confidence. When you feel good in your outfit, it shows. Stand tall, smile, and let your personality shine through. Remember, the goal is to enjoy the evening and connect with your date.
Personal Touches
Adding a personal touch to your outfit can make it even more special. It could be a piece of jewellery with sentimental value or a scarf that brings out the colour of your eyes. These little touches can serve as
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; TOP TOOLS AND INNOVATIONS OF THE PAST DECADE
By Bukola Amoboye
The last ten years have been nothing short of a revolution in the beauty industry, thanks to a wave of groundbreaking technologies. High-tech skincare gadgets that promise the glow of a goddess and makeup innovations that transform your morning routine into an act of artistry. This isn’t just about looking good—it’s a new era of personalised, accessible, and downright effective beauty regimes. Keep reading to discover the top tools and innovations that aren’t just changing the game but altogether redefining it. Ready to meet the future of beauty? Let’s explore.
1. Facial Cleansing Brushes
Facial cleansing brushes have become a staple in skincare routines worldwide. Brands like Clarisonic and Foreo have led the charge with devices that use sonic technology to provide deep cleansing. These brushes help remove impurities, exfoliate dead skin cells, and enhance the absorption of skincare products. The result is clearer, smoother, and healthier-looking skin.
2. LED Light Therapy Masks
LED light therapy has moved professional spas into our very homes! These masks use different wavelengths of light to target various skin concerns. Red light helps reduce inflammation and promote collagen production, while blue light kills acne-causing bacteria. Brands like Dr. Dennis Gross and Neutrogena have made these devices accessible, offering professional-level treatments at home.
3. Smart Mirrors Smart mirrors have brought a high-tech edge to beauty routines. These mirrors, such as the HiMirror and Simplehuman, come equipped with features like built-in lighting, magnification, and even skin analysis. They can assess your skin condition, track changes, and recommend products or treatments, making your beauty regimen more informed and precise.
4. 3D Makeup Printing
3D printing technology has made its way into the beauty industry, particularly in makeup. From fashion to beauty, this is one innovation we are currently obsessed with. Brands like Mink have developed 3D printers that can create custom makeup shades on demand. This innovation allows for greater personalisation, enabling consumers to print eyeshadows, lipsticks, and foundations that perfectly match their preferences.
6. Virtual Try-On Technology
This is perhaps one of our favourites! Sephora and L’Oréal are two of the most popular brands that effectively use this amazing virtual try-on technology. It basically lets users try on makeup virtually before making a purchase. This technology not only improves the overall shopping experience but also helps consumers make more informed decisions, reducing the risk of buying unsuitable products. This way, you can get your exact shades of foundation or any of your favourite makeup products instead of mixing and matching.
5. Personalised Skincare
AI and machine learning advancements have paved the way for personalised skincare solutions. Companies like Proven and Atolla use AI to analyse individual skin types and concerns, creating customised skincare formulations. These personalised products are tailored to address specific issues, making skincare more effective and targeted.
7. Hydrafacial
The HydraFacial is a noninvasive skincare treatment that combines cleansing, exfoliation, extraction, hydration, and antioxidant protection in one procedure. Using patented Vortex-Fusion technology, the HydraFacial device delivers a series of serums and solutions to the skin by first effectively suctioning out dead skin cells and impurities before infusing the skin with hydrating and nourishing ingredients. The result is immediately noticeable, with improved skin tone, texture, and overall radiance. Suitable for all skin types, the HydraFacial addresses a range of concerns, from fine lines and wrinkles to acne and hyperpigmentation, making it a versatile and much-needed skincare innovation.
THE ULTIMATE SKIRT GUIDE
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The Classic Pencil Skirt
Let’s start with a staple—the pencil skirt. Known for its timeless allure, this skirt has a sleek silhouette that screams sophistication. Ideal for those office days or a fancy evening, pencil skirts pair beautifully with a fitted blouse or a shirt for that perfect balance of elegance and comfort.
The Playful Mini Skirt
Mini skirts bring out the playful side in everyone. From textured tweeds to glossy vinyl, minis are a fabulous way to show off those legs and turn heads. They’re not just for the younger crowd; anyone can rock a mini with the right attitude and accessories.
The Midi Skirt
With their elegant and versatile length, midi skirts offer a fabulous middle ground. They’re perfect for those who love mixing and matching, as they pair well with almost everything—from crop tops to tucked-in button-downs.
The Maxi Skirt: Flowy and Fabulous
The maxi skirt is your go-to for the ultimate comfort and style. It’s
like wearing a cloud-only, more stylish! Maxi skirts look great with a simple tank top and sandals for a relaxed beachy vibe, or they can be dressed up with a chic blouse and statement jewellery for an evening out.
The A-Line Skirt
When it comes to universally flattering styles, the A-line skirt is a champion. Named for the way it mimics the letter “A,” this skirt flares out from the hips, highlighting the waist and skimming over the thighs—perfect for all body types.
The Wrap Skirt
Wrap skirts are the epitome of effortless style. With their adjustable waistline and flowing lines, they are as comfortable as they are chic. The wrap skirt adapts to any body shape, offering a customised fit that’s flattering and uniquely yours.
The Denim Skirt: Casual Cool
Never underestimate the power of a good denim skirt. It’s the laidback sister of the classic jeans and just as versatile. Whether you opt for a distressed mini or a sleek, dark-wash midi, denim skirts can be styled up or down to suit any occasion.
PRACTICAL STEPS TO CURTAIL YOUR SCREEN
TIME
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
It’s time we face the facts: our screen habits might be doing more damage than good, straining our eyes, stealing our sleep, and even encroaching on our social lives. Yes, the digital world is seductive, but it’s crucial we reclaim our space. Keep reading as we share some practical strategies to help you break free from the screen’s shiny clutches and rediscover the joys of a life less plugged-in.
Think of screen time like any diet: moderation is key. Start by sketching a daily schedule that includes specific times for checking emails, scrolling through social media, or catching up on your favourite shows. Establish clear boundaries to prevent digital overload and intersperse your day with screen-free intervals to rest your eyes and stretch your legs.
Fight Tech with Tech
It’s ironic but true: sometimes, the best way to beat technology is with technology itself. Utilise screen-time tracking apps to get a stark look at how much time you’re really spending online. Shocked? Use that motivation to set limits on your device—whether it’s restricting access to addictive apps or activating “do not disturb” during family meals or personal time.
Go Screen-Free
Our screens have a magnetic allure, but the world outside is ripe with opportunities for joy and relaxation. Reacquaint yourself with the pleasures of reading a tangible book, exploring nature, or diving into a hands-on hobby.
Mind Over Screen
In our hyper-connected world, mindfulness is more than a buzzword—it’s a necessary tool for managing digital consumption. Being mindful about screen use can help you make intentional choices about when to engage and step away. Techniques like deep breathing, meditation, or simply pausing can strengthen your resolve to resist the urge to repeatedly check your phone.
Know Thy Triggers
Awareness is the first step toward change. Take time to identify what specifically triggers your screen time binge—boredom? Loneliness? Procrastination? Understanding these triggers empowers you to develop healthier responses and replace aimless screen time with more fulfilling activities. This isn’t just about cutting back—it’s about creating a richer, more vibrant life offline.
